528lover Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
81	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼	Progress	528lover	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 09:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Giving boyfriend your card under the table so it looks like he’s the one paying As long as you and him are both secure in your decision, so whatever you want! Don’t care what other people think. Especially if you’re married	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/23 08:57 PM
6	How do you embrace your femininity? Listen to your body! Certain toxic red pill men call women “lazy”. The fact is, because of the power of our cycle, we have different motivations and needs during each phase. Ovulation is best for more “masculine” tasks. Set strong goals and really push yourself (as society pushes us to do anyways). The luteal phase is more resting and looking inward, as is menstruation. Spend that time meditating, connecting with nature, with family, and creating. The feminine energy is that of creation! Check o…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/23 03:37 AM
1	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 So many people have gone through an upbringing like this, including my partner. Im lucky to have stable, loving parents and siblings, but my partner… not so much. I’ve seen the worst of the worst behavior from his parents that I could've never fathomed a mother or father would do to their son. I’m so glad you have been able to distance yourself from them a bit and strive to find more of your “chosen family” as they say -aka the people who DO put in the effort to respect and care about you in thi…	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 12:07 PM
2	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 This was my intention with the post. Just to help some people see the light. I’m so sorry your wife said that. Thank you for sharing. I’m consciously sending you and your wife healing energy today ❤️‍🩹	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 11:46 AM
0	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? That’s a big leap. That’s literally natural selection at play. Those who aren’t fit to reproduce won’t, and females decide that. Men who can’t provide shouldn’t be reproducing anyways. If you can provide, then you have the time and means to gain the skills to woo a woman to marry you and have children with. I’m only saying this harshly as I assume you live in the west and have access to the internet and a means to going up social classes. It’s hard af and I’m doing it as a female — so are so man…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 03:54 AM
-1	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Lol just because you have a right to be an asshole by dismissing the kindness of someone else, doesn’t mean you should. I have the right to call you out for it. I genuinely do NOT understand being so petty and rude. But I think I do now that I think of it… The woman who gets mad when you open the door for her, maybe is struggling with her role as a female in society. Defining that and living up to it. I used to be like that. In the same way, you must be struggling with your role as a male in soc…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 03:28 AM
2	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Totally agree. The whole point of dating/long term partnership is in a way to unite the sexes in love- where each sex sees, acknowledges, and validates the struggles of the other and where they both strive to be better— it’s us against society kinda thing. The lack of understanding/maturity in some of the comments is literally a giveaway to me that like “wow you’re probably either an incel or in an extremely unhealthy relationship”. It’s sad actually.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 03:04 AM
-8	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Wanna see what red pill ideology unchecked leads to? Go to Pakistan and see the fathers and brothers who kill their sisters and daughters for taking a video of themselves fully clothed. Go to Iran and see how women will be jailed for singing together in public. See how women are being killed for standing up for their oppression in many countries worldwide, most currently in the news being Iran. Both extremes are wrong. What’s happening in Argentina is sad. The truth is somewhere in between. Grow…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:52 AM
0	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 And I’m sorry you got downvoted for your suggestion. So many people nowadays are in total victim mode and uses these labels of movements as a crutch imo - be it red pill or feminism. People don’t think for themselves as much and group polarization online is happening so often. These movements that originally started with good intentions become online echo chambers which propagate damaging ideas at times. Anyways. I wish people thought for themselves more.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:46 AM
0	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Your response is no different from the scenario where a gentleman holds a door for a woman and instead of thanking him/recognising his kindness, she gets upset saying “I don’t need any man to hold the door or protect me! I can protect myself!” Your feelings as a man deserve to be validated. EVERYONE’S feelings regardless of gender deserve to be validated. I know society doesn’t validate you, so I hope your friends or family or partner do so in a healthy manner at the very least.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:38 AM
2	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 I appreciate this	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:32 AM
-1	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 I’m a full time student doctor, and my fiancé helps around the house and cooks for me. We’re both around the same age (early twenties). We both plan to have children one day so I can be part-time after I finish training, but at the moment, this is the configuration that’s working for us! After I finish training, I’ll get to be the beloved housewife and mother. Ride or die they say.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:31 AM
-6	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 All men and women do not deserve the traumas they experience. However, it is their duty to heal. If they don’t, they inflict damage and pain onto not only themselves (it hurts!) but also others in society, especially loved ones. If you’ve ever experienced true love in any capacity and had an ounce of self awareness, you’d agree with me. Society traumatises us all the time. Those movements you described are literally a part of society. Society is a broad term and within it are cultures and subcul…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:24 AM
-2	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Thanks friend. Honestly, after this experience, I won’t be posting on this sub anymore. I normally use Reddit to post chill things. I don’t have any other social media. The one time I try to post something like out of the goodness of my heart, this happens. I know this happens a lot and online, but I’m just not used to it, so I haven’t been taking it well. So what you said means a lot. Thank you. Even if a lot of people are just not getting the point/feel the heartfulness behind my post, many ot…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 02:13 AM
-7	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 I never once demanded validation from men. I am engaged to my fiancé, who gives me plenty of validation lol. I just have a heart for all living beings, including both men and women equally. I am not liberal nor conservative. Healing from trauma is extremely important in any relationship. If you aren't on the healing path, you will inadvertently hurt your partner time and time again. This is necessary for both men and women to do - gain self awareness of their traumas and negative patterns and he…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 10:30 PM
4	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 Just to reassure people that it's okay to feel how you're feeling and that your feelings are valid, especially when it feels like society or other people are gaslighting you tbh.	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 10:02 PM
2	Your feelings are valid.... 🙏🏼 No my dear. I'm not Christian at all, but pagan and spiritual. I am also vegan. I'm not even politically conservative. I don't like labels. I have been constantly questioning the status quo since I was an adolescent, as it's difficult being raised in a culture that felt like the complete the opposite of what I grew up with. I worded things like that (saying "modern women") because I'm not sure how polarized this subreddit is 🤷‍♀️. I assumed that they assume the modern day woman to be a more libe…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 09:33 PM
0	Dismissed again I'm sorry you're going through that. Try finding a male therapist, or a female therapist who actually has true empathy and is not biased against men. It sucks that fields have been infiltrated with anti-men propaganda. I'm a female student doctor and I see it too much in my field. I just know that therapy is helpful and beneficial, just don't lose hope in finding the right one for you.	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:45 PM
22	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Both men and women are to blame. Men offer the wealth in a transactional form. Women take it, accepting the transaction, and are societally praised for doing so. As society praises women for it, and given it's an "easy" way to make money, women are more likely to seek out such transactions as an easy way out. We as humans always want an "easy way out" and not everyone activates the intelligence and discipline to realize that choosing paths that are more difficult can ultimately be more fulfillin…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:31 PM
10	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? What you're referring to I think is a general lack of maturity. Someone who has everything handed to them, regardless of gender, will gain entitlement. A pretty woman who seeks out gifts from men or sell pictures of her feet for money - things that don't require any real effort and hard work - will likely lead to her being immature and entitled. Even if she doesn't seek those things out, but knows there's a huge demand for it, it makes her know that she's worth something just by existing regardl…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:27 PM
1	How not to mother my husband? Get a grown man who doesn’t need mothering. Get a man who you don’t feel the need to teach as a mother. Also, do inner work to see why you desire deep down subconsciously a man you want to mother. Did you have to mother previous partners or even maybe your own father or brother in childhood? You may be attracting men like that because of past traumas and reasons	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 06:45 PM
1	How do I get over his wandering eye? A true man is committed to his partner, and provides for her not just physically/financially, but emotionally - he should be creating a safe, masculine container where you feel comfortable expressing your emotions and feelings to him. You need to express your feelings. And notice how he reacts. When a true man and women love each other, when one of them is upset, the other cannot be happy either until the problem is resolved. Does that make sense? A true man will value your emotions when you exp…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/23 12:40 AM
1	I don't know what to believe I really don't understand what you're saying here genuinely but I'm curious to. What are you saying here? Could you reword it?	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/23 02:14 PM
1	I don't know what to believe OP, feel free to message me. I was a female feminist, then a female redpill, and now, neither. The truth is always gray. All the political realm of social media is really toxic because it involves selective empathy and group polarization. Aka, redpill people are empathetic towards young men's struggles (which is good - think of certain things Jordan Peterson says) but then they go off the rails with their conclusions (aka Andrew Tate - yucky misogyny and he's literally a sex trafficker). And the…	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/23 02:09 PM