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531erryday/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:07 AM
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You don't want to come across as butthurt or easily de-railed by a nonsense comment like hers, it'll make you look unattractive as fuck. You are not swayed by the chrips of this girl.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:59 AM
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She has forgotten she's ever mentioned it, and you should too. Learn to watch your thoughts as they form. If it was more direct / intentionally making jabs at you because of your wealth or apparent lack thereof, simple soft next.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:48 AM
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Don't be afraid to pull away attention during the next meet up, and in any subsequent Meetups, the inexperienced ones need to be taught early on what desirable behavior is/isn't, and you'll regulate that with your attention /investment. They usually have no idea of how to truly be feminine/pleasant
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:30 PM
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Drop an example, I've had this happen to me, but it was because she got bitter after I was just "practice flirting", and dropping good game and she caught feelings. She was a 4/10 tops, I obv didn't want anything with that. I pulled back, she got super bitter in an attempt to gain power/protect her ego, we were classmates. If you're noticing it with less attractive girls, this could be why.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:57 AM
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She's continuing to do this because she knows you let it affect you. I'd say just fuck it, polarize and give it one last shot, and then ignore her like we ignore the cleaning crew in shopping malls. If she does any more "game playing", you'll be wasting your time and lowering your value going after her. Also, let her see you with other girls/interacting with hotter women, That may give her a quick wake up call.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:42 AM
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The depths of spirituality, be it through any practice, any religion, any dogma, will all end up at the question of "who am i". The answer to this question is what most eastern spiritual practices are after. The "red pill" ideology, however good it is at getting us laid and temporarily satisfied, is laughable in the face of a true enlightened master, who had none of these desires. I think it is in your best interest to either commit yourself to spiritual growth, or stick to red pill" philosophy"…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:58 AM
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If you're aware enough to see yourself slipping, then you should be able bodied and able minded enough to not let it slide all the way. Most men don't even know when they're slipping, and on the contrary, they might be conjuring up justification for those actions. The things you fear, like her finding someone else, losing interest over you, sleeping with 4 other dudes and coming over to your place to "cuddle", etc. Will only be reinforced if she feels she can get away with it, with respect to yo…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:35 PM
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Muscle memory is a great thing. Start doing body weight stuff at home. High reps, low weight. Get resistance bands. This new style of muscle stress will encourage adaptive tissue growth. Once gyms open up, get back to building up your lifts. A good judge of your overall health is to gauge your morning wood. I'm about your age and my morning wood (when my shit is sorted), could puncture kevlar. As you lose fat, your testosterone will increase as well.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:01 AM
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Hold your frame, enjoy the sex on vaca. It hits different. Keep the dread up, and don't let her possible shitty behavior ruin the 5 days. I've seen it happen. You're going to have fun there and enjoy yourself regardless of any possible tantrums/arguments. Inevitably, the feel good hormones you'll experience while on vaca, and the overall good atmosphere (hopefully), may lead you to think that she's the one etc. She'll use this as an opportunity for her to gain your commitment, or bring up gettin…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:04 AM
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Are you lifting hard enough, is your sleep and diet on point? Is your girl even attractive? Has she been letting herself go? Personally, when I have my shit together in life, it is always met with a nice strong sex drive, and it also tanks when I've been in a rut. Lift heavy, lose the fat, and get your testosterone up. It will be quite unattractive to your LTR if you can't even fuck when she needs/wants it. Also, introduce bondage into the bedroom, don't let this negative feedback loop of thinki…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:59 AM
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It's fine, better than rejection all together. You could sperg out and decline it because" you deserve better" and your ego is too large. But I think the alternative is better. You'll accept a bj because you like them, and your validation is not/should not be tied to sex from her. Keep that frame. Nut in her mouth, pat on the head, kiss on the forehead, and then tell her how good she is at it.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:27 PM
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If you wanna reach out, sure. If ur ego is ok with it, go for it. Don't say anything too lengthy or beta. I would say something along the lines of " lets do something" or something similar, if she doesn't respond well, or blows it off, you have no business continuing to contact her. If she then does come back around later, she better be dtf no questions asked. Any other attempts from your part beyond the first casual text, will lower your value in her eyes. Stop liking her posts, her socials, et…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:53 AM
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Ok, interesting. Good that you have these boxes checked. But it does limit our options. Does she ever give you a logical answer as to why she's being bitchy? Are you sure it isn't something obnoxious you're doing that is being glanced over in your self analysis? My advice overall would be to continue to pull back attention and you prescense as this continues. The rest is up to you, is the value she adds to your life worth this weekly bitching, or is it leaving you with a sour taste. Keep the pri…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:14 PM
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Up the dread, does she know you have options? Are you attractive? Does she get to witness you being hit on? Let her know her replacement can be found in 48 hours, and her behavior should change. Don't go rambo and be faking your way to higher levels of dread. Dominante her during sex, the dominance aspect almost always carries over to normal routine life. Get busy. And don't be afraid to walk, no explanation necessary. Girls are hyper aware.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:38 PM
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The only good response next to no response at all 🙏
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:20 AM
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Lmfaooo rub one out bro. My neighbor's 03 pontiac can probs pull a chick at that party. In all seriousness do you really think any of the people there were analyzing your behavior trying to see if it was a facade, or the real you? Fuck no, None of us matter that much. That is what brings us ultimate freedom
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:21 AM
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Breaking up with her boyfriend, and sleeping with a new guy in a matter of weeks (you being the new guy), after only what I assume to be a few encounters, doesn't fall under LTR category for me. Do as you wish, as long as you can do it with absolute confidence in your decision. My advice though, don't already start saying she's LTR material, every girl in your life/ social circle should be considered a plate/fuck buddy unless she can truly prove otherwise to a great extent.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:46 PM
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Call me non red pilled. Etc. But there's a fundamental truth of human life. The highest point of pleasure and bliss possible is only attained through oneself, and is a solo experience. You enter this earth alone, and will leave it alone. The magnitude of bliss and satisfaction one can experience on their own, towards life, is larger and more vast by a factor of 10100 compared to what the manifested and material world will bring you. The reality is, is that 0.1% of the population will get to expe…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:41 AM
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Solid answer. OP should save this
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:23 PM
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Usually I'm one for putting the ego aside, but in this case. With all things considered. I think you should leave it on read and don't reply. And don't reach out. If she's interested, she'll pursue further and do all the work for you. Most likely she wants that rush of validation from a guy she ghosted (you). I bet she's just feeling worthless, sent that snap to several ppl, and wanted the ego boost. Your reply might validate her, but also kill the mystery.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:14 PM
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Maybe I'm immoral as fuck but I'd say go fuck the coworker. If you're ok with losing the job... She'll want more out if it than you're willing to give, then get bitter, and basically make the job a pain in the ass, if not getting you fired. That said, if you don't want the job. Try this; fuck her, but don't tell your girlfriend. There's a elements of natural dread that will resonate through you knowing you've just fucked/can regularly fuck another girl. The worst thing you can do here is tell th…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:52 AM
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When you're living with a girl, pulling back or "soft nexting" is not easy. It takes a great amount of mental fortitude to stick to your guns about not entertaining her emotions. I think you did well early on when you showed good OI with her decisions. Secondly, get out of the house more. Don't be available. Verbal intercourse is optional . At this point for the sake of not having the next 1.5 months be boring/full of shit tests, just stop trying to achieve anything with her. I mean stop trying …
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:13 PM
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Damn, and her boyfriend is cool with it haha. Send the sidebar link to her boyfriend bro
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:07 PM
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Ok, then either you carry yourself as a complete prick, or you are misreading signals. Not many people have the time in their day to go around trying to "break your frame", if it's light verbal sparring that you are interpreting the wrong way, that's on you. Learn to give quick and sharp comebacks without even needing to take time to think about them. Social,interaction is a game.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:30 PM
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Guys chill the fuck out. He's 17. Literally none of our rationale will override his emotions right now and that's ok. Give it time, if he posts like this again, don't even bother commenting. I GARUNTTEE he wil look back on this behavior in a year and understand why it was wrong. He will cringe at himself so bad. Let the maturing process take care of this. The rate of emotional and mental growth that occurs in these years is naturally profound. There's no better lesson out there than wanting to s…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:26 PM
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If you became abusive, the reality of the situation is that even the most beta unattractive dude looks more appealing to her than you right now. There may not be any respect towards you from her end after that. If: you want power, and want to move the fuck on, Cut contact , but don't block her. Take a literal fucking week to reply or even talk to her. For the most part don't even do it. This is something that most guys can't balance well. I see true OI in a man that can just ignore the fuck out …
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:22 PM
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Its fine to keep, but consider the age group of your closest circles. If they are all young guys, who aren't greying. You don't want this pseudo-peacocking effect going against you. If you're a lone wolf type who has a broad range of age groups you hang with then let it be. Hair dye is cheap, most women over 30 are already using it.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:09 PM
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Watch movies from the 70's. The male roles have a certain amount of poise and masculinity to their speech and choice of words. BUT, calibrate accordingly sice the overarching theme will be quite beta and bluepilled. The movies will usually involve courting some woman, ignore that part as they generally become beta. Watch the original magnum P.I., if you can carry yourself and come across even 3/4 as well. You're doing alright
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:06 PM
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It only gives her "power" or superiority if you let it. Literally ignore the existence of that word in her text/speech. Don't even let your mind think twice about it. Natural appropriate action will follow. She'll pick up the idgaf vibe It's happened to me before, react and calibrate no differently than if she had said dude, or bro, or man. Again, its only an issue if you let it be
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:39 AM
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From the top of my head, no pun intended, I recall he has a lot of content on fin, and he's generally going for most optimal results, not minimum effective results
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:10 AM
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This is solid advice. Also height can be taken care of if you lift, I'm 6'1, and I'm decently big. But there's shorter guys at my gym who look way better than me. And honestly from a distance, you can't really tell the difference between 5'7 and 6. It's a non issue. Know this, all my short friends that lift, have made amazing results, at a quicker rate than I have. It's in your favor.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:07 AM
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Embrace the suck. The world owes you nothing. The more we get attached to what we "used to have" , or what we "ought" to have the more we suffer. If you are able to get any ass rn, its probably better than none. Alternatively, try changing jobs if its not too serious. This may diversify your interaction pool a bit. Keep the grind mentality.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:03 AM
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Also, how did you find out? If she knows you know. Then yes, fully cut contact. Her hamster will take care of the rest
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:58 AM
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Exactly this, id maybe suggest not even blocking. If you have the resolve/grit, just perpetually leave her on "delivered" if she sends you messages. If she's the calling type, then block her
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:57 AM
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Have you seen some of Derek's videos? Derek from mpmd
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:55 AM
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If you guys make eye contact, don't be the first to break it, don't stare her ass down like a crack addict either. Don't go to that coffee shop for the next couple days, arrive back at a low traffic time, if she makes comments about "where were you" "I didn't see you", take that as an opportunity
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:53 AM
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Don't forget its her job to act somewhat inviting/friendly Are you sure you aren't severely misinterpreting the scenario? How are her interactions with other guys? Also it goes without saying, this wouldn't be an issue if you were fucking other girls. Invest in other prospects
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:50 AM
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As in holding frame in the middle of her "story telling" Let's say she's like " yeah so xyz guy was totally hitting on me, he was tall, kinda built, etc etc." She may either consciously be inflating the situation to give her ego a rise over yours, in an attempt to add to her "value", We know it doesn't work that way On the other hand, she may subconsciously be elaborating on her story purely for the sake of conversation or whatever. If you can pick up on the fact that she's trying to do it on pu…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:45 AM
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Make fun of her a bit, tease her, she is a kid. Also how is the dread from your end. This will continue to occur, a couple good responses from you during key moments should deter her long elaborate story of events....which you shouldn't even be giving the time of day.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:26 PM
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