Dread game advice needed - Thanks in advance

Advice needed on dread game

Hi All,

First post here, I started an LTR about 6 months back with my current GF. Things are actually going really well. I gamed her huge initially and had absolutely no intention of LTRing, but shit happens and I fell for her.

I am a 27 year old traditionally attractive guy, 6ft 3, tattoos, dark hair, lift with a good physique. I have no problems attracting female attention and their is a natural element of dread game in my relationship as a result. My GF is super attractive and of course gets hit on a lot but IDGAF as I know I have her on lock.. sex whenever I want and she jumps through hoops for me.

Anyway your thinking what’s this guys issue.. here it go’s from the start of our relationship she has always told me if a guy slides in her dms and she’s the type that insists on complete honesty and the all the other bullshit. Always open with her phone and asks the same of me. Which of course I’m not going to do.

A couple of months back a chick who works in my office block, who is early 30s and while fuckable I have 0 interest in decides to randomly leave a note on my desk with chocolate and beer saying hope this helps with lockdown. I don’t know this girl at all apart from passing conversation and don’t give her any attention to make her feel like I am interested because genuinely I’m not. Anyway I told my GF about this to in-still a slight dread and tease her into knowing I could fuck this other girl at anytime.

She reacts exactly as I expected and gets hyper jealous and it just seems to drive her even more towards wanting to appease me at all times.

Anyway a couple weeks have gone by and I haven’t seen this girl around the office due to Covid. My girl routinely asks if she was around today etc and says things like “the bitch better back off”.

Last night/early morning I get 3 texts off her. I never gave her my number and she admits she went on my LinkedIn to get it as it’s online for business enquiries. She asks me how I’m handling lockdown and that she’s had a bottle of wine and that she wanted to tell me that I always smell amazing & if I get lonely as she doesn’t know if I live alone to give her a call and we can get a coffee.

I’m debating telling my GF about it for two reasons. One is to instill a further bit of dread and get her jealous feels all out and make her want to mark her territory - because she knows other women see it as valuable. Two because it allows me to make her believe I’m open and honest and hopefully gives me a bit of credit in the bank for the inevitable time I need it. I have 0 intention of fucking this girl and the fact she has stalked my LinkedIn I actually find bizarre.

What’s your advice here guys? Thanks in advance.