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1

Here's a curve ball answer - have you checked your testosterone levels? Its either all just in your head.. or you could have low test. Low energy is a classic giveaway.
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:01 PM
1

It's called pre selection
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:41 AM
1

This is the answer OP.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 05:48 AM
1

Nailed it mate
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:20 PM
1

Agree
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:20 PM
2

Despite the other replies saying its always a negative thing, I beg to differ. There's girls I work with that I know are attracting to me that cover up as they don't feel attractive - women can be very insecure creatures. In other words, don't assume it's an issue with you - it can be their issue also.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:58 PM
2

Of course they will. I'm that size too, I'm 43 & trust me, they'll feel you. The key isn't size, it's how you use it. Cliché but true.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:02 AM
3

Elite advise here OP
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:58 AM
1

Sounds like you got played. Was probably trying to make him jealous.. she knew he was coming to collect her. Help yourself & swerve her at all costs. Plenty of others out there.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:15 AM
12

Go no eyebrows mate
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:10 AM
1

Just distance yourself from her. Be aware though, that can make them start to chase you. If you feel like this now, don't have sex with her. It'll only get worse & mess with your head. Others have said don't shit where you eat, but tbh I've slept with loads of women I've worked with, if it's a shit job who cares? There's always 1 mental co worker eventually though.. think hard about whether it's worth the hassle or not..
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:37 PM
2

You're overthinking it. Very unlikely a guy will touch your girl in front of you. Just go & enjoy it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:31 AM
1

Yes & I'm suprised only you have said it..
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:18 AM
7

Yeah they work, used them too. Can make your teeth sensitive though..
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:28 PM
3

Spitting truths here mate, OP this is it
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:26 PM
1

Yep, this is it. At the end of the day we're not meant to be monogamous. You can't beat it.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:06 AM
4

Right, because you've never done it too yeah
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:04 AM
1

Haha, perfect
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:04 AM
0

Agree, at times their behaviour is ridiculous, you just have to laugh sometimes. It definitely helped me once it clicked like that.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:30 PM
1

Denise Van Outen classic
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:03 AM
17

It's a test. Never argue with them, it's a waste of time. They don't think logically like we do.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:54 AM
3

Sex isn't everything. 1 of my best friends is female, so what? I agree though that he should bin this girl off.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:51 AM
1

'Pay attention to her actions NOT her words' ALWAYS remember this. Your answer is there..
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:05 AM
1

You need to understand what a plate is.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:27 AM
1

Don't go chasing mate. She'll be back in touch if still interested.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:08 AM
1

She's shit testing you before you go away for a week. Why does she go through your phone? That's not normal. No offence but she wouldn't do these things if she thought you were alpha. Sounds like she's in charge & you're in her frame.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:25 AM
1

Its not easy but there's plenty of women that are worth it..
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:18 AM
1

Sounds harsh but applying subtle dread when needed is the way. I'm lucky as my partner & I share alot of the same mutual friends - she knows alot of the girls find me attractive so is in competition with them & knows my SMV is pretty high. It's always been the same so isn't a problem per se, it just keeps her on her toes. Keep hitting the gym, keep improving. Do these things & you have a great chance.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:15 AM
1

Everyone has something in the past they don't want people to know about. You do right? It must've been a huge issue to you to bin off a new LTR. Without knowing anymore its hard to know if you're overreacting, but it seems like you did from the info you've given.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:38 AM
7

She wanted confirmation you don't think she's a slut. You did that. It's fine, just forget about it & try & swerve validating again anytime soon.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:10 AM
2

New cock on the scene. You have other plates right?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:05 AM
4

Do you have other plates? Seems like a lack of abundance..
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:32 AM
-1

Karma. Harsh, but true..
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:59 PM
0

You're generalising. Some places are very friendly. & its not super reserved, odd comment.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:40 PM
2

I get my girl flowers but very sporadically so she doesn't expect it..I think it's only beta if it becomes a common theme or doing it not to reward good behaviour. For a birthday.. completely fine mate
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:58 AM
3

If you seem too keen she'll lose interest. Don't take this the wrong way - but you're still very young & clearly insecure. Don't think she is your world.. she isn't & will probably just be a memory you shrug your shoulders about by the time you're 20. May sound harsh but I wish i knew this at your age. GL
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:11 PM
1

You're obviously used to being looked at if you've been in bands before (know that feeling myself), the only thing that's changed is the pandemic. You let your emotions take control. You already know you can control them.. focus on your breathing & get out again ASAP before it becomes a bigger issue. Come on man, you know it's easy, get a grip.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 05:36 AM
3

Good thing is you don't sound emotionally attached to her, so no harm done
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:14 AM
5

Their 'feelings' can change in an instant mate so it's not a suprise. Onto the next..
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:03 AM
1

I buy it decanted mate, only way I can afford it! But its so worth it..
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:40 AM
3

Can guarantee she's regretting her actions now & is staring at her phone wishing you'd text. Leaving her on read keeps you in control. She'll be back in touch, up to you what you do about it..
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:51 AM
2

Sounds like you have a scarcity mindset mate. Start gaming other girls as it sounds like this is going west..
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:44 AM
3

Creed Aventus. Trust.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:38 AM
2

I know the gyms have been closed, but it's only an excuse to a point. Get into a routine..walking, biking, weights.. anything. Routine is key. As for your gf - her telling you is a sign she wants it to work with you. Be grateful she's done that instead of monkey branching behind your back (she may still have that as back up if you don't sort it out though). This is something you can fix - start showing it. GL.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:59 AM
2

You keep improving, that's always the best revenge. You're in control of the energy you have, whether that's negative or positive is completely in YOUR control. Life is too short. Learn from it & move on. I'm talking from experience. You can do it too.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:23 PM
2

Brutal truth here.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:04 AM
3

They're taking advantage of your politeness. Trust me, I've been in a similar situation before. You have to say something. You're overthinking it as you haven't had the balls to say it sooner, so now it's a bigger issue. They probably can't believe you haven't piped up already. Get it done mate ASAP, they're taking the piss.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 05:56 AM
2

Great way to explain, it definitely makes sense
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:49 AM
4

Don't go back to it. Trust me, its satisfying. Read more sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:19 AM
3

100%
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:28 PM
1

Act as if it never happened. Don't worry about it. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:27 PM
1

Caffeinate the hamster, ha I like that
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:55 AM
1

If she lives with him she hasn't shagged him just that one time..
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:51 AM
8

You did the right thing not reacting. You check out hot girls, right? If you've done it around your girl, she's noticed, trust me. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:47 AM
2

Regional accents mate, of which there are many in the UK
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:44 AM
0

You'd be suprised how little they give a shit about gear. You're probably not even the first guy she's been with that does it. They aren't dumb, she's probably already guessed. & you shouldn't care if she knows you smoke weed or drink. Girls have their vices too.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:52 AM
3

Depends on the drugs..
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:48 AM
5

I've personally never blocked. Removed attention, ghosted, not replied, yes. I find that gets the job done so no need to block as well.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:24 AM
5

Why are people still acting like COVID is a death sentence? Reality is the survival rate is insanely stacked in your favour. That aside, he still sounds like a twat for calling you selfish. Sounds like you've already made your mind up, follow your gut.. delete negativity from your life.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:44 PM
2

Move on mate. She'll get back in touch if she wants to again, but for you it's onwards to other girls in the meantime..
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:12 AM
6

This
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:03 AM
1

Most supps are a most of money. Only natural 1 worth taking, in my experience (I'll be honest, I've wasted ALOT of money) is Blacklion Follidrone. I'm not affiliated! But worth looking into. This is assuming you lift..
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:19 PM
3

As said, that's classic love bombing. Personally I wouldn't take on a single mum.. its never straight forward. Theres a reason she's bombing you, as nice as she probably is, it seems a little desperate. Tread carefully mate.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:40 AM
3

You fuck her once a week. Who cares about her orbiters mate.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:31 AM
1

Nailed it. This is exactly what I do & I agree they love doing it. Problem fixed if you follow this advise OP.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:45 AM
2

Dude it literally happens to every guy at some point, don't beat yourself up. It's all in your head. Just literally tell yourself it's normal & don't waste energy hamstring it, otherwise you'll make it an issue that isn't there & it'll happen more frequently.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:32 AM
2

I am literally going through a very similar situ at the moment. I have the chance to cause them problems, as I know they're having issues. You know what though? I've moved on. Until you heard about that gossip, you had too. I've decided they aren't important to me anymore. That I'm leaving it to karma & I'm going to be the better person. The biggest payback you can make is going back to your hometown as a much improved person. They will see this & they will HATE it. Don't waste your energy on th…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:54 AM
1

Wow how had a not realised this. Good call.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:12 PM
1

On the money
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:03 PM
1

Man I wish my gym was even open, been a year! Maybe pretend you're in my shoes, may motivate you to go as you have the option mate!
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:12 PM
3

This 100%. Dread (done in the right way) its absolutely vital
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:37 PM
1

You're falling into her frame. She can smell weakness so is testing you even more.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:48 PM
3

Dude that isn't that short. I'm 5'8 & its never been an issue. It's in your head. Most girls dgaf if the rest of your game is on point.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:17 PM
3

Heavy misconceptions going on here. If your group of friends isn't into clubbing culture, club chick's may SEEM more promiscuous than other girls, but it's a myth. Yes they dress a certain way. But the only difference between them & other girls is they take MDMA. So what? They don't go to clubs & take drugs to shag. For a start, the drugs render your penis useless, so who are all these promiscuous girls shagging? They're there to look good, have an amazing time on drugs, listening & dancing to m…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:32 AM
1

Lol at you getting down votedwhen you're 100% right.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:25 AM
2

101
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:19 PM
4

Probably moved onto another guy. Don't sweat it, just move on. Also your reply wasn't great, 1 sentence along the lines of 'okay, all the best' would've been better.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:54 PM
11

Same. Pre-selection in full effect!
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:23 PM
40

You're an orbiter. You've been too available.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:51 AM
2

Ignore him. As others have said OP, exercise, change your wardrobe. Look into body language & attraction.. you're probably cancelling yourself completely by never approaching AND having weak body language. Get yourself out there, only you can better yourself. Don't overthink it, lifes too short to miss out on things. GL.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:41 AM
4

Any need to be a cunt? Did you not need guidance from the Internet at any point?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:37 AM
2

This. The question is, does he go clubbing with her?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:47 AM
2

Nailed it, this here OP.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:48 PM
8

They just got lucky with their looks, so don't pedestal them. Thinking of it like that helped me.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:46 PM
2

Finish it. Don't explain why, she doesn't deserve an explanation. She already knows why anyway.. but this way she doesn't know you were on her phone for sure. GL
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:52 PM
1

You sir, are a rookie.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:11 AM
2

You'll regret it when you bloat up mate. Id swerve it & focus on the staples, especially at your age. If sleep is the issue there's plenty of options. 5htp worked well for me.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:50 AM
1

Dude, it's 1 girl. You need to raise your SMV, get some confidence. You see guys with girls all the time & think "fuck me, he's punching", don't you? If you never approach or interact with hot women, how do you know she's above your league? It's not just about looks, it about how you make them feel. Don't overthink it & ffs don't dwell on 1 girl. GL
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:46 PM
3

Lol he's on about smoking a couple of times a week, he's hardly Snoop Dogg. It can be lovely working out with a smoke, if you're training we'll you'll be fine. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:07 PM
2

Good work, got your head screwed on. Always leave her second guessing.. its not about making her jealous, it's just a rule of attraction - if she knows (or thinks in this case) that other girls want you it increases your SMV. Resist telling her how much you like her too.. its all about the chase, getting them to hamster about you as much as poss. We all want things we can't quite have, this is a huge part of attraction. Resist validating her, don't become an orbiter, keep doing what you're doing…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:24 PM
4

You're playing it well. She should always be more invested than you are. By not replying promptly or to every text you're letting her know you are busy.. working out, on your mission.. or have options with other girls (that is a huge part of attraction). Also let's them know you're no simp & not needy. Keep doing what you're doing..I wish I knew about RP at your age!
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:42 PM
1

Don't listen to their words.. pay attention to their actions. Sidebar mate.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:27 PM
1

Look into ways to lessen your estrogen. Check out inhibit E Slims my face big time.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:59 PM
3

She sounds a good person. You know how rare that is? If its on your terms why not ltr her? If it doesn't work out that's life. But life is too short to regret things & I suspect you will if you swerve her.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:01 PM
2

You do your repairing & growing whilst you sleep dude, you need to find a better balance.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:47 AM
4

Correct answer here OP
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:11 AM
9

A classic that almost always works.... they don't even need to want you to get jealous..
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:59 AM
2

This guy knows.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 11:10 AM
1

You're taking about these issues as if its impossible to change. Only you can do it. Its not hard once you get into routine.. you'll get more confidence from lifting etc. You just need to get on with it.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:56 PM
2

Agree, I see this at my work place, lots of women sync up cycles..
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:54 PM
2

Mate don't let it get to you, that type of joke is standard amongst young lads. As you get older you'll see less & less of those guys (may seem a strange thing to say, but it's normal) so I wouldn't be worrying about it affecting you going forward.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:37 PM
2

Sidebar bro
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:07 PM
3

You beat me to it..3 months is fuck all, even if plated for 6 months before. Chill OP, there's no rush.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:03 PM
3

Had a similar situ with a co worker. She's probably frustrated because she can see you're moving on. Sounds horrible, but they like to know you're suffering after a break up, that's why they'll randomly get back in touch (sometimes mixed in with validation). Forget seeking the closure you're after. Once this clicked in my head it was so much easier to deal with. As others have said, there's rarely any logic involved, that applies to much older women too, not just in the early 20's. Act indiffere…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:11 AM
2

Yeah Creed Aventus is my go to.. girls always asking what it is. Expensive though, get it decanted unless you're loaded!
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:17 PM
1

What else has she been up to that you don't know about? If my ltr had sucked another guy off I'd get rid. If she did it to my best mate, I'd shag her best mate & her sister, then get rid. Don't be the beta that allows it with no repercussions.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:41 AM
2

🤣🤣 Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 02:13 PM
42

The red pill getting confirmed by female nature is quite the eye opener. Trust me though mate - your life just got a whole lot easier/better. No contact is the way as you say. Keep busy, pump other women, you'll be golden.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:43 PM
5

Yeah this is my go too if my boner needs 'topping up'
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:44 PM
2

Interesting how it gives perspective. Had a similar experience nearly drowning (my mate saved my life). But now nothing really fazes me, it's made life easier. Once you've faced near death, why worry about anything else life can throw at you? Girls certainly can't bother you!
/r/askTRP21/12/20 02:28 PM
-1

Agree. You know what will be next..climate change restrictions. This is just the warm up. Closing down the world for a virus that has a 99.7% survival rate? Are we actually just all allowing this to happen? Anyway OP, skyline is right, you need some perspective. You're young & can be whatever you want.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:53 PM
2

Underrated post. Take this in OP.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:37 PM
2

6 years is a long time mate so only normal it's hard to see her. Guarantee it will keep getting easier though - it's a cliché but time does sort things out. As it passes you'll notice she's in your head less & less. Just be patient. In the meantime keep contact amicable & short. Do not show any signs of wanting her back. You know deep down it won't work. Keep grinding & good luck.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:01 PM
1

That's the spirit, cancel your sex life because of the invisible man in the sky. Each to their own, but we aren't here for long so I'm going to continue pumping as many women as I can get my hands on. Cheers though.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:11 PM
5

Trust me, that attention he's giving, over time at least, wont work in his favour. Unless she's just not attracted to you, just keeping frame & not validating her will work.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:22 PM
1

This. They don't know what they want themselves, so never take their dating advise..
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:45 PM
9

Dude, she probably just wants to smash, not talk about her curricular achievements.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:43 PM
6

Its standard for alot of girls isn't it. 1 girl from work goes absolutely mental if i don't give her attention (I used to till i discovered this sub). & I mean mental.. invading my space, punching me, dancing in front of me, grabbing & rubbing her boobs... the list goes on. Point is, she never did any of that before. Attention/validation = oxygen to them. Amazing how quickly things can change once you take your attention away.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:37 PM
47

It's the him not refusing part that's the issue though right..
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:12 PM
70

Mate you need to bin him off. If he's a musician with high SMV why would he need to do that? He's doing it because he's a cunt & he doesn't give a fuck about you. 3 times bro..
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:28 AM
3

As long as its not a common occurance don't worry about it. Just don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:10 AM
1

I wouldn't overdo the jealousy thing man, it's playing with fire. Your gf knowing you have admirers she can't check is probably enough dread. The fact that you guys are 'honest' with each other does throw a spanner in the works though. I still wouldn't mention it personally.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:41 PM
2

Not full of shit, that is how I read it too..
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:26 PM
2

So refreshing to read that on this sub...LTRS can definitely be successful with this approach. Choose wisely...leave the dumb illogical decisions to them.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:07 AM
10

It will completely change things, even if you stay friends after. Know from experience..
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:14 PM
3

As others have said, you need to cut contact, fully. You're becoming her orbiter I'm afraid...& yes that does mean you could be her back up. When they break up with you they want to know how hurt you are. Don't give her the chance.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:07 AM
8

This right here & you can't go wrong
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:30 AM
1

Interesting. I've had similar feelings since nearly drowning a few years ago. A permanent new perspective is etched on us after facing the worst kind of dread i think. Makes life much easier afterwards.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:26 AM
1

Have this problem myself. Using Arez at the moment as it has ingredients that stop you crashing & feeling like shit afterwards.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:43 PM
3

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:22 PM
5

Mate I've just stopped seeing a girl because of her baggage, so I can see where you're coming from. I was gutted when it clicked she wasn't going to be LTR material after all, but this is why we vet them first. Can't really ignore those red flags dude. Think you can plate her or do you already feel emotionally attached? If attached, I'd stop now. I had to for the same reason.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:20 PM
4

You're going to end up cock blocking yourself by overthinking it. We've all got sexual histories, you can't change the past, so why focus/worry about it? Focus on improving yourself, starting with confidence & being a high value man.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:52 PM
1

Yes definitely. Have to be smart though, as they can smell games from a mile away at that age.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:31 PM
1

Tbh man you can add me to that list! 1st thing i think of is her ass...so big..but firm. Ffs haha.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:15 AM
3

Yeah I validated too much as well. They soon lose attraction if you do it too much, especially if it becomes the norm & isn't as a reward. Unfortunately I found RP too late to realise, but I'm glad I know now.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:45 AM
7

You need to cut out her social media. This is important. Avoid seeing her at all costs. Keep busy, you don't mention your purpose? Lift or exercise everyday. I understand that feeling you have mate, I'm just fixing the same issue, except I made the mistake of getting involved with a co worker so it's incredibly hard. But by doing the above things its working. Trust me, the feeling of freedom, not having her on my mind all the time is AMAZING...& I'm now seeing the beauty of other girls again. Go…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:31 AM
2

They all do this if they like you... women are the worlds best online stalkers.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:16 AM
2

I understand that feeling. I only discovered RP this year so still learning. In retrospect I'm glad I know how things really work. In the long run it will pay off mate, it's better to have the knowledge & spot the red flags that you didn't before. It'll get easier for both of us.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:15 AM
1

They are great at making very bad choices...its down to being emotion driven.
/r/seduction29/10/20 01:54 PM
1

Great advice here. Going through a similar issue right now & this was my approach. Unfortunately I work with her (I know, I know) so it's been extra difficult. But I cut off all attention & validation - & I can tell she's now at the point where she's questioning her actions as I haven't shown her I'm butt hurt at all. She's now going crazy trying to get my attention back. They want to control your emotions even after you split up... don't give her the satisfaction.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:26 PM
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I'm in a very similar situ at the moment too. She's not as direct as your ex but is still trying to get a reaction... as I've completely cut off any validation etc.. this is what you should do too. Just do not react AT ALL in front of her. As you said she's after a reaction & wants to control your emotions as she can tell you've moved on from her. I know its hard, but do not react mate, it will send her crazy. & gives the power back to you. I've learnt the hard way, trust me.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:24 AM
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Go on another date with her, see what happens.. if nothing else it'll be a challenge if you're used to escalating quickly normally. If no success next date, next
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:21 PM
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Don't sweat it but surely there's plenty of other women out there you don't have baggage with.. Look up abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:54 PM
0

Ghost & do it now... you're getting oneitis & it'll only get worse for you...
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:47 PM
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Mate we're not here forever, anything could happen tomorrow. Do what you want when you want. & yes she will start looking elsewhere. So take the initiative with her, girls love that.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:18 PM
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Try going for the kiss during the date instead, it takes the pressure away from both of you done that way. I recently got a kiss refusal... the key is to not in any way appear butthurt. This will show high value. 2 days later she was trying to kiss me. Don't overthink it, there are several reasons she may not want to when you do. It's your reaction that's important.
/r/seduction28/10/20 11:33 AM
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This. I'm currently dealing with the fallout from it. When it goes south it'll be bleak, trust me mate.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:50 PM
1

Bit harsh man. At least he's here trying to fix it (admittedly too late).
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:52 AM
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I've struggled with this in the past. You have to consider yourself high value.. that you're better than any other guy that she's talking to or seeing (& she will be, they all are, sorry). Try not to get attached, remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn. Good luck mate, I know it's hard but I did it & so can you.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:51 AM
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Look into Follidrone & pre workouts that don't make you crash afterwards (Arez is my current choice). I workout @ 6am & these things work for me. If anything I have more energy than I used to.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:01 PM
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