54mike Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Approached a girl on the street for the first time today! Good shit dude! Keep doing that, all it takes is a single one to respond back.	/r/seduction	28/05/21 07:37 PM
5	How do I get a guys attention when I have to compete with my friends You’re not outcome independent since you must end up with only this guy and it’ll subconsciously show. You say you know how to flirt well then try and flirt with the guy, shoot your best shot, but if he doesn’t want it you gotta move on to the next guy. Only going for 1 person while not in a relationship leads to oneitus and it’ll create a mental block which will probably hurt your chances.	/r/seduction	05/08/20 11:38 PM
2	I JUST GOT INVITED TO A HIGH SCHOOL PARTY. help a fellow BRO out You say you struggle with moving from friendly interaction to sexual. If you feel you talk to much, condense what you want to say in 1 or 2 sentences and use your body language to speak for you sometimes. Read up on push-pull, say less and make her feel more. I too get scared of being accused of harassment but I think that only happens if she tells you verbally or though body language to “stop touching her.” AND you persist. Just read the situation and adjust. Have confidence. The ability to act…	/r/seduction	18/01/18 12:32 AM
2	How do you escalate physically on a coffee date? Try and sit on the same side as her, make up some bullshit excuse to sit next to her or get her to sit next to you. /ah the sun is in my eye/ Follow the escalation ladder but take it veeeryyy slowly since you’re probably in public. Keep kino as a little secret between you both that no one else knows about.	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:45 PM
–	I JUST GOT INVITED TO A HIGH SCHOOL PARTY. help a fellow BRO out Gotchu bro. First off, as long as you’re having fun who cares if you’re on your own. Anyways, if you’re adamant on not being lonely then be a social butterfly. Jump from group to group saying, “Hey you guys look like fun what’s happening here” Just try to establish one solid base where you can later comeback to open arms. Once you have home base, use your reputation to your advantage! If chicks hear you’re a “badboy” or “pussy magnet” then when you approach them, they’ll know wassup. If a girl i…	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:42 PM
1	What’s the best way for me to ask out some girls in my match classes, and how do I be more sexual around them? Talk to her before class to build rapport. After class assume attraction and tell her, “Hey Person, let’s go do X on Friday.” “Girl response” If she accepts, get her number to setup the logistics later. If she declines, move on. If she plays hard to get, approach the situation with humor and/or empathy. Good luck!	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:24 PM
1	Strange for me Agreed. You’ve put your feelings out there and she half asssedly rejected them. Just move on or risk suffering from oneitis.	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:15 PM
7	How do I approach while in the gym? In all honesty, don’t approach IN the gym. Most people are there to workout then dip. If you’re adamant on approaching, then take a risk and create a “happy coincidence.” Leave around when she leaves and approach outside the gym. Good luck!	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:12 PM
–	What’s the best way for me to ask out some girls in my match classes, and how do I be more sexual around them? I’ll answer the first date question. I usually take girls to a park or a smoothie place, both being near my house. /make sure the place is lighthearted/ Build rapport and only do friendly kino. Here I just screen to she if she’s a chick I’d hookup with, or become a potential partner. Once you’ve been at place A for awhile, change location to a place B. /I usually just do smoothie then park/ Once at location B, depending on how you’ve screened her, you can start to kino and flirt lightly, then he…	/r/seduction	17/01/18 10:54 PM
3	Should I wish her happy bday? You’re over thinking this. Just say happy birthday and leave it at that or take a risk and hang with her on her bday.	/r/seduction	17/01/18 10:39 PM
–	Is it best not to say "hit me up to hangout sometime?" You’re supposed to always be the leader. By asking her to “hit you up sometime” you’re making her the leader. While a few may ask you out, the majority won’t. What I do if a girl is very busy but can tell she wants to hangout, is ask for her schedule. Boom. Now you know when she is and isn’t available. Make sure she’s very comfortable with you, since she wouldn’t want some potential stalker knowing her routine. Good luck!	/r/seduction	17/01/18 02:05 AM
7	I made my first baby step today! Right on bro! When you start getting more successes AND FAILURES, the confidence will naturally come. If you still aren’t confident closing, know the kino escalation ladder like the back of your hand.	/r/seduction	10/01/18 04:10 AM