How do I approach while in the gym?

54mike · 2018-01-17T23:12:45+00:00

In all honesty, don’t approach IN the gym. Most people are there to workout then dip. If you’re adamant on approaching, then take a risk and create a “happy coincidence.” Leave around when she leaves and approach outside the gym.

Good luck!

jglover82 · 2018-01-18T01:17:48+00:00

I think you have to approace indirectly. Be interested in the exercise or way they are exercising...For example...I was warming up for a crossfit fit class and some girl asked what I was drinking in the water bottle because it looked like beer..."I like your shoes" always works well

Cowboy-Cook · 2018-01-18T05:59:20+00:00

DON'T. girls don't want to be approached in the gym unless they are clearly stating it or coming up to you

Steve_Savage · 2018-01-18T06:16:00+00:00

Don't.

honeynut_beerios · 2018-01-18T17:04:30+00:00

I disagree with the people who say dont.

You can do it. Just be sure to avoid unsolicited physical contact. Also, dont go and do it all the time and be sure to stay reserved with the sexual innuendos and stuff.

I think approaching indirectly is your best bet, rather than the happy coincidence someone mentioned. I wouldnt want to wait for a girl to leave the gym and then go right when she goes. She could be married for all you know and then you just wasted however much time.

So basically. after you approach the girl, you can seek to do the typical work,school,hobbies,goals, convo or you can talk about whatever, but just try and keep the mood fun and lighthearted. bonus points if you can make her laugh.

Even if the interaction is going excellent, be sure to break off early so she is left wanting to speak to you and get to know you more.

You'll still see her around that day and when you make eye contact, just smile at her and dont go talk to her every chance you get that day unless she comes to talk to you (great sign)

You'll see her again another day and you build rapport over a few days of seeing her again and again.

Title	How do I approach while in the gym?
Author	RippedPony
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	January 17, 2018 9:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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