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1

Porn is damaging to society, which is why most porn is produced by the jewish.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:56 AM
1

Ronald Reagan "Trust, but verify..."
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 05:34 PM
0

Even men respect strength, dude. I'm just saying women are genetically naive, which is why they are programmed to take care of babies, not knock heads with Kim Jong Un.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:44 PM
2

There's always a 3rd and 4th chance
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:36 AM
-6

You look gay to her. Perhaps you manscape just a bit too much
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:35 AM
0

These days if you're not fat you're attractive. Enjoy being thin, when you get older you will have a hard time staying thin.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:29 AM
9

The fun stuff people do when drunk
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:26 AM
-6

Women are nurturing and don't understand how violent and cruel the world really is.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 07:32 AM
141

There's a wave of SoyBoy homosexuality sweeping Europe, so women have to go where the toxic masculinity lies, in the 3rd world. Women lie to themselves daily when they say they hate masculine men. They are fighting 250,000 years of evolutionary processes, they can't fight what is written into their genetic code.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 07:01 AM
9

No way, getting girls in college is EASY but you must do it at the beginning of every semester, which girls are still single and the rest broke up with their boyfriends last semester.
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:45 PM
1

Probably had sex too soon and she's having buyer's remorse, or the other possibility is you're really bad in the sack
/r/seduction27/01/18 04:24 AM
28

A kiss is not a close, how come nobody understands this? Just because you made out with a chick doesn't mean she will hang around later. A girl that wants to see a guy again will only do so if he's special in her mind, the kind of guy that she rushes home later and calls her best friend and says "you won't believe it I met the greatest guy ever!". She doesn't mean sex, she means a guy that inspires her romantic and intellectual instincts. Fingerblasting a woman does not make her feel romantic ab…
/r/seduction27/01/18 04:04 AM
1

Either party can stop any time they want
/r/seduction26/01/18 04:12 AM
2

If you wanna play, you gotta pay
/r/seduction25/01/18 09:19 AM
74

If you're peeling her clothing off slowly and she's offering no resistance, she wants sex.
/r/seduction25/01/18 08:53 AM
4

she's kind of strange if she does that.
/r/seduction25/01/18 08:52 AM
1

Some simple ideas 1) light bondage - handcuffs, rope, blindfolds. 2) Glory hole - take a doorknob assembly off a door and you have a home glory hole 3) Stripping - Buy small multicolor light from walmart, 18" black light, stick a mylar aluminized survival blanket on wall, have her strip for you and you're the customer putting money in her underwear 4) Play acting - She has pigtails, lollipop, shorts and a tied shirt, seducing a professor (you).
/r/seduction25/01/18 08:51 AM
3

Women are no different from men, they are at first attracted to looks, but the only way to seal the deal is to also have some sort of personality.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:10 AM
0

You approached it from a position of weakness. "Coming out" to a female friend is a very bad way of doing it. Because what you are saying to her is that "I have been lying to you forever about my feelings". You should always approach it from a position of confidence, start complimenting her on her looks her sexuality, warming her up to the possibilities. Women are attention whores and they like being seen as sexual objects even if they say they don't.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:40 AM
1

Sometimes when a girl gets nervous, she will blurt out something stupid like that. I once had a girl brag to me she drank a whole 32 ounce soda and didn't need to pee...wha? Girls are human they often say stupid things on dates just like we do.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:24 AM
1

Take GENUINE interest in others, turn off your inner mind monkey and stop performing for people.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:22 AM
8

Always pay, you're the guy. I'm not saying whipping out ones wallet the moment a girl walks up and says "buy me a drink". I'm saying be traditional. Girls lie when they say they want a social justice activist knit cap bearded SoyBoy, but they don't want him, they want a real man.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:21 AM
1

No. You can fake it but then you're just considered an asshole in their eyes.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:19 AM
2

I'm a manlet I still get laid. Girls really like guys who are nice and I'm not talking "niceguy" (aka faker who tries to weasel his way into bed with a girl). You just have to be persistent and if you have a great personality and you LISTEN to women when speaking (many guys do not) it can be very attractive to them. I've dated women up to 6'3".
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:18 AM
1

Most of the success of PUA comes from the fact you actually turned off your X-Box, left mom's basement and talked to girls.
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:16 AM
1

DO IT, DO IT! GO GO NOW GET TO DA CHOPPA
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:34 AM
1

Walk up to her, point out something like your new iphone and cynically say "total bullshit eh?" iphone 7 blows.
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:33 AM
1

At 30 you gain wizard powers.
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:33 AM
2

Talk to girls. They really do want to talk to you.
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:57 AM
1

They're just like any other girls. As a white guy you do have an advantage.
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:38 AM
1

You guys need to quit using so much damn weed its frying your brains.
/r/seduction24/01/18 01:40 AM
4

You know you want to.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:26 AM
1

Just keep doing what you are doing. It takes time for a shy girl to warm to a guy, expect multiple dates before she loosens up
/r/seduction23/01/18 03:47 AM
1

Its not about victimhood, its not about feminism. You are witnessing a 2nd resurgence in Communism in the United States, which has been percolating across college campuses for decades. Don't blame women, blame a bunch of jewish intellecutals who wrote all sorts of bizarre social tomes like "Critical Theory" which became the darling of the 60's hippy set and now its all coming to a head.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:36 AM
2

My ideal is Wonder Woman with the personality of Drew Barrymore. Are my standards too high?
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:31 PM
0

Not on the 1st date.
/r/seduction21/01/18 08:41 AM
6

The grinding rituals mean nothing, don't assume its escalation its just a variant of dancing that has been made popular by the hip hop culture.
/r/seduction21/01/18 08:39 AM
17

The only goal of a mother is to make her son gay
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 11:23 PM
1

Awesome! The young man is white!
/r/MGTOW20/01/18 10:58 PM
1

Pierce Brosnan, his wife is quite average.
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:54 PM
1

Saw that in "The Animal" with Rob Schneider. Hilarious.
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:52 PM
2

ask her if she feels that way about saudi arabia
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:36 PM
1

Want to make her a sex slave? Its easier than you think. Make sure that to keep reminding the girl you are dating that you think of her sexually. Sexy text messages (more subtle than overt), compliment her looks and her body, and suggest sexual roleplaying, handcuffs, little things that aren't too kinky or wierd. She will be more than your sex slave, she can be your sex dominatrix if you wish it. The main problem with men not getting sex from their wives is they stop treating them like sexual be…
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:52 PM
1

Play this game with her, it always works.... Tell her when its time to turn in for the night, you have a game to play. Tell her to take off her shoes ONLY. then have her get into bed with you FULLY CLOTHED, and turn the lights off and darken the room completely. You can have a small radio for music but keep it very low. The rules: 1) No rules. She can talk with you, hold hands, snuggle, spoon, snooze, eat cookies, etc. The goal here is to establish a level of intimacy. Its easy to talk to somebo…
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:07 PM
1

Just walk right up to her at her locker and say "what's up?".
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:01 PM
1

She wants you dude.
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:00 PM
1

Dunno, you should flex a few times for her, give her a treat.
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:55 PM
4

I started the night with my gameless friend, we went to the club and I was like man lets meet some girls and he just wanted to chill. Then when he finally mustered up the courage to talk to a girl, it was this big fat slob and her ugly friend. Completely killed my vibe. You should be happy for him instead of being a douchebag
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:52 PM
1

I see nothing but opportunity with a girl trying to "get over her ex". You may see it differently. If you feel like she's using you, then move on, no big thang. Why would you want her? To prove you are successful? Thats like winning the gold medal in a retard contest. Do you really want it that badly?
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:49 PM
1

Rule #1 of tinder, have a really good photo of yourself. Don't use one shot in a public restroom or one of yourself 10 years ago for example. Also remember tinder is for people who just want sex, its probably not the place to find life partners or long term meaningful relationships. Also Tinder's philosophy is of quantity over quality. A girl can be picky, she goes on 10 dates, picks the top 3 she likes. You lose out in the wash.
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:38 PM
1

You might work with a psychiatrist to get a more structured approach to facing your approach anxiety fears. they seem to be quite severe if you have difficulty even asking a girl for the time.
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:34 PM
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Don't feel bad about needing, its what drives most people to do stuff in life. What you need is to stop overthinking (a huge problem among shy inexperienced folks) and not worry so much if she doesn't respond to you for 4 hours. Life moves fast, people can't be slaves to their phones. Don't keep rejustifying every relationship you have. You are probably more worried about what others might say. That just demonstrates you have self-esteem issues. A person with good self-esteem doesn't care what o…
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:32 PM
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Don't go to a chiropractor, they're frauds and will injure your back even more. The whole idea that you can "fix" any joint problem by hyperextending it is ridiculous. One way I fixed my back pain was changing my mattress. I used to love hard mattesses, but now I can only sleep on a soft one. You get old...
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:28 PM
1

Girls need ego boosts, as unlike guys they almost all have horrible self-esteem issues regardless of how they really look. We guys on the other hand, well we're just all the total shit aren't we, cool as fuck. So instead of ranting or taking advantage of a woman because of her need for approval, why not just accept this and understand that girls will need it so give them what they need. You may be offended by this if you are a liberal snowflake, but women are weak and men are strong. Its our job…
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:24 PM
2

Don't think of a conversation as a series of questions. Think of it as a "dance". You ask a question, she answers, then you listen (carefully!) to her response and expound on that, then a simple question turns into a journey. "So where are you from originally?" "I grew up in Germany" "Oh wow I've never been there I'd love to go" "Well you might try visiting....." "Is it nice there, I would like to take a train to there sometime" "(more talk about germany)" See this is no longer just an interroga…
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:07 PM
2

Walk right up to her give her a big hug and say "well hello internet friend!". You have already talked to her, she is at the very least your friend, so act like it. Wear an interesting baseball cap and then give it to her (put it on her head) when you meet. Its a way of marking your territory so to speak.
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:59 PM
2

David DeAngelo = Eben Pagan. He's a fraud, an israeli with a fake italian name what else is new. His GF looks like an indian tranny. Mystery = borderline aspergers, his infield videos are unintentionally hilarious. Better at picking up guys than girls. Seems to do well with drunk mexican chicks though. Neil Strauss = Short, bald, dresses like a casino manager, has a stutter. I've seen him in "action" and its a hoot, not in a good way. Ross Jeffries = scammer, one of the first. Looks like a rapis…
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:56 PM
1

Girls like a guy who is available but not too available. Remember those cookies in the jar as a kid your mom told you not to eat. They seem to be more delicious because you can't have them. You have to interest, mystify and give a girl a challenge, thats how you can get a girl chasing you. When you make a girl work for your attention, it gets her a bit mad, she begins to question herself and then she gets really mad and then WANTS you attention. The trick is the moment she does chase, then you r…
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:49 PM
2

Don't put the cart before the horse. When you talk to her, try to have her talk about herself, and show genuine interest. Don't hide your intentions, and you can do this by not eyeballing other girls as they walk by only focus on her. Kino, fuck that its for amateur PUA's. The only kino starts with the HANDS, you can convey an amazing amount to her with just hand touching if you know what you're doing. Just remember the 1st date is kind of like a job interview, be on your best behavior, be open,…
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:42 PM
2

No, the gym is mainly for gay guys to hook up. Girls are there to work out so they can be pretty later when they get dressed up, do their hair and makeup and go out.
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:34 PM
4

Don't ever make out in front of her friends, thats just tacky.
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:46 PM
2

Its a good way to save time. There's a TV show about nerd speed dating, its quite entertaining. https://youtu.be/sQ5iwGApwLM
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:50 PM
3

Thankfully my house has no stairs
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:42 PM
1

Get into Tantric sex
/r/seduction19/01/18 03:33 PM
1

Never try to get a girl drunk, because when she's lit she will often do things she regrets later, even holding hands. Keep her sober, you too.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 02:43 PM
3

Anywhere but in bars
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:36 PM
1

Yeah because it pisses any feminists off which is good, I don't want to date feminists. It impresses traditional women and frankly its not a lot of money anyway.
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:57 AM
0

Okay thats just gross.
/r/seduction19/01/18 03:00 AM
1

What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:59 AM
1

Don't even think of it as a loan. i had a GF once who asked for $10, then later I was paying her phone and electricity bills. its just the price of admission really. I won't even get into her car repair bills.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:57 AM
1

I use a lot of innuendo. Women like that, especially if its clever. Like for example I talk about her "appetites" and I don't mean food... stuff like that. Girls really dig a man who knows his words.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:53 AM
2

Men look at consent incorrectly. You aren't trying to convince a woman to like you, you are supposed to create the atmosphere where a woman feels so comfortable that she starts stuff herself because she has great confidence and comfort with you.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:52 AM
1

Not all male models want female models. Look at the wives of some of the hunkiest actors in hollywood...many are quite average.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:46 AM
0

Always pay, you're the man. Establish your dominance and territory. Don't ask for anything in return, its your privilege. Own it, women like that.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:45 AM
1

Shit I ain't clickin on dat!
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:52 AM
1

No you don't punch a girl. You can poke her and tickle her though. Wet willy is an option as well if you really have to break out the big guns.
/r/seduction18/01/18 07:38 AM
1

Sounds like fight club mentality
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:25 AM
1

Personality. Some girls like dad bods too as long as he's a fun guy.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:24 AM
1

Scammer, his "theories" are largely debunked. PUA is a moneymaking scam. The only reason guys tout the success is because they left their bedroom and went out and talked to girls. its inevitable you would succeed, and it wasn't the $3000 bootcamp you attended.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:23 AM
1

Watch a softcore porn movie and emulate the dude.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:21 AM
1

Don't drink at all. The human body has no need for it and frankly there's no social status to a guy holding a beer vs a guy not holding a beer.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:19 AM
1

Who doesn't like taco bell at 2am amirite?
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:19 AM
2

PUA is a scam. You have to put effort in with women. The only thing is you have to be a "natural" at it. You can learn to be a natural (aka relaxed, open, friendly, confident, secure).
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:17 AM
1

Don't tease, just encourage. Shy girls are easily insulted and get depressed and angry if you show them the least bit of disinterest or mean behavior
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:16 AM
1

Don't.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:16 AM
1

Stick to the hands, and let her escalate.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:15 AM
1

Its nice to have one to be sure of, but its not a deal breaker to not have one if the girl likes you anyway.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:15 AM
6

Don't listen to women, they lie.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:12 AM
28

He probably wants to be cucked.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 06:10 AM
7

I am also a heavy drinker Boom there's your problem. I'm a manlet like you without the benefit of muscles or good skin yet I have had girlfriends. I don't drink, smoke, take drugs or even drink caffeine. Having a clear head in life is its own reward.
/r/seduction17/01/18 07:02 AM
6

Women like men who act like males shocker! You mean women don't like weak skinny jean soyboys wearing knit caps and sporting beards while holding their wine coolers and talking about how toxic masculinity has ruined america???
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 05:05 AM
7

A woman that likes guns, beer, and understands that sometimes her husband wants to be alone just so he can watch football with his buddies and is not secretly cheating on her.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:03 AM
4

Invite her to lunch. its commonly done in business circles and its technically not a date but a good way to get to know somebody
/r/seduction16/01/18 05:38 AM
11

Women make tons of money in porn. Meanwhile most male porn actors make 10% of what females make, if they're lucky. Many are just in it for the free sex because thats all they will really get and maybe $100 for their time. The only way a man can make anything other than coffee and cab fare is to go "gay for pay" and do gay porn. Women can earn hundreds of thousands of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 07:03 PM
-2

Running game means you are not being sincere
/r/seduction15/01/18 06:49 PM
-14

Who would blow an indian guy? A girl who has a horrible gag reflex?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 06:39 PM
4

Naw, she's a cynic. I kind of like cynics. Problem is if you are a cynic too you will hate her. Ever see that Seinfeld episode where Jerry goes on a date with Janeane Garafalo, and their cynical personalities are identical. They end up hating each other for that reason.
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:34 AM
1

If you're not exciting and interesting, why should she ever call you back?
/r/seduction14/01/18 05:59 AM
3

Dont blame the muslims, blame the communist politicians for opening the borders in their divine goal of establishing an EUSSR.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 09:18 PM
2

There are plenty of "straight" men who do have sex with gays and trannies, so as a 100% heterosexual man I can sleep with the comfort that those "straight" men are offsetting my sexism.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 06:34 PM
1

Medicare, but he also fought in WWII to save your lazy ass from the Nazis, otherwise you would be goose stepping in college and celebrating Adolf Hitler day at class.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 05:41 AM
28

Sex is everything to a woman. Give her bad sex and I guarantee you later in the relationship she will be getting schtupped by the big dick gardener named Hernandez Ramirez Gonzalez Cruz Avila.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 05:38 AM
1

handcuffs
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:27 AM
7

Seems like a huge generalization to me. Perhaps your game needs improving.
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:22 AM
1

Just cut open a rubber glove and lay it on her snatch then lick away
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:21 AM
1

But they're trying not to be
/r/seduction13/01/18 05:21 AM
1

She likes you, regardless of you trying to shoot yourself in the foot by negging her.
/r/seduction13/01/18 04:24 AM
2

I always make it so she makes the decisions. Women want to feel like they have control of a situation, especially when they're in your "lair" where the perception is they're not in control. COMFORT BUILDING is the most important thing, it encourages her to take the next step herself! Pressuring a girl has two possible outcomes. 1) She sleeps with you and never talks to you again, and disses you forever 2) She leaves because you're creepy.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:49 AM
1

Unless you're deformed, plastic surgery very rarely improves things. In the old days it used to be called reconstructive surgery, fixing people who were in industrial accidents or born with cleft palates. Now its an industry that caters to mentally ill people who stare too much in their mirrors.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:43 AM
3

Blah, don't let her use you like that.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:41 AM
6

Con girls don't get hit on as much as you would think. At conventions its generally a mix of bronies, basement dwellers, married dudes and freaks who have never even talked to a girl. In other words its easy pickins if you even have average game. Just talk to them (not their breasts) and be nice.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:40 AM
1

Give her really mindblowing sex, always. She will hang around you like a puppy dog.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:39 AM
48

Relax dudes she's been hit on 10,000 times before, she probably didn't even notice.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:38 AM
1

Do a fat girl, they feel better in the dark than you would think and they're more appreciative than those demanding hotties.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:33 AM
0

If its a stranger, thats the law of the jungle. If its a friend of yours, then the "bros before hoes" rule is in effect.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:27 AM
1

You don't have to date STEM chicks. The hottest chicks in college I saw were in the humanities classes I had to take as prerequisites.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:26 AM
1

I confronted my friend who would repeatedly cock block me. He just didn't even understand situations when I was with women, he was just not paying attention. He got a little offended but now he's a bit more careful....well kinda.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:25 AM
1

Fat girls can either be extremely shy and quiet or loud with poor self-esteem. They brag to offset their dull boring lives.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:24 AM
5

I just say alright, later. She will interject if she's interested and suggest another time.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:24 AM
1

I am unsure if she was being nice about it
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:22 AM
2

I'm a pussy addict I can't help myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:50 AM
3

She's just telling you she's open for dating, provided you turn out better than her existing BF
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:23 AM
22

Its brash and bold, girls like that.
/r/seduction11/01/18 05:02 AM
39

I think she's just horny.
/r/seduction11/01/18 04:52 AM
1

Computer girls are starving for attention from dudes, all you have to do is talk to them.
/r/seduction11/01/18 04:49 AM
1

Squirting inside one totally rawdogging it without any concern for pregnancy has its advantages.
/r/seduction11/01/18 04:46 AM
1

"I suck" "No you have great skin!" Then you focus the conversation on her, buttering her up with compliments that shy girls eat up
/r/seduction11/01/18 01:24 AM
47

Target department store between 1 and 4 pm. Single MILFs get bored and shop.
/r/seduction11/01/18 01:19 AM
1

Think of yourself as a tiger rather than a kitten.
/r/seduction10/01/18 01:51 AM
2

FITNESS. So many men 40+ are in horrible shape. if you are in great shape at that age, women of nearly every age will crowd around you.
/r/seduction10/01/18 01:51 AM
1

Watch a lot of movies, especially comedies. It will soak in.
/r/seduction10/01/18 01:48 AM
24

Google is insane. White males built the entire IT industry.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 01:46 AM
2

Never lie about age, ever. In the internet era your true age is one google search away.
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:03 AM
1

A kiss is not a close as you have found out, so quit thinking that you have "sealed the deal" with merely a phone number or a kiss. Did you get to know the girl, can you even remember anything of what she said in your convo? Did you even care? It sounds like you're too stuck in your own head and can't come out. A man that can "perform on cue" in the bedroom is a man that can get into "guy mode" on demand and forget about all his insecurities and focus on the serious business of lovemaking.
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:00 AM
-2

Offices. So many hot women, interns, secretaries, temps, executives.
/r/seduction09/01/18 07:57 AM
12

Well she may not be cheating but she's definitely not respecting you.
/r/seduction09/01/18 07:56 AM
2

A lot of guys are on testosterone therapy because they wrecked their bodies with drinking, smoking and drugs. I'm pretty old but still can bang my GF 2-3 times a night because I avoided such things in my youth. I have no need for testosterone, in fact I could use a bit less, I think about sex way too much.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:51 AM
3

The brain doesn't need drugs. I don't even imbibe caffeine, it wrecks my sleep and does terrible things to my skin it seems. I derive no pleasure from liquor and only drink when its a social occasion and at a very minimum because it makes me feel bad for up to 2 days afterwards. I never smoked and only take prescription drugs when I have a prescription for them and should be taking them. Nothing like going through life with a clear head.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:49 AM
2

True. Real gamer girls tend to be as ugly as gamer guys.
/r/seduction08/01/18 11:48 PM
-1

The library. Thats where nerd girls hang out to get their romance novels.
/r/seduction08/01/18 11:42 PM
3

My GF loves both. She loves it when I take my time, and then I switch it up and bang her pussy like it owes me money. You just have to pay attention to what she likes but still be creative.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 11:34 PM
3

I knew a guy who would do these kinds of things if there was silence. He would just be quiet then would just make a funny smile or do an eyebrow raise. It would make her laugh and she would play the face game with him. When it comes to discussions, get out of your own head. Don't hide inside your skull thinking about memorized topics or techniques. You and her both contribute to a conversation and you should treat it like a canoe ride, not an interrogation. let the conversation flow, and try to …
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:16 AM
1

Have a really good picture that emphasizes your physical appearance. Girls do this all the time, guys rarely do. Thats why we do truckstop restroom selfies with a urinal in the back and wonder why we don't get quality matches.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:13 AM
2

You already know her, so talk to her like you already know her. Don't neg, thats just fucking retarded. Take her on a date with the goal of having fun WITH her, and be relaxed. If you truly have gotten out of the friend zone she will be more receptive than normal.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:10 AM
2

She said she wasn't ready for a relationship Thats the universal sign of a girl that wants a relationship, but just not with YOU. Move on.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:09 AM
1

Don't play that stupid "wait before responding" text game. She's being receptive, she wants responses to reassure her, otherwise she will feel foolish and then she will hate you. Ask her out but don't ask, phrase as a statement. "We should go out".
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:08 AM
2

About the time you die.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:07 AM
1

It gets creepy pretty quickly
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:06 AM
1

Make sure you have liquor handy. That is the cue to him you want to get laid. I once went on a 1st date and the chick brought over drinkables in her purse no less. Yep she wanted to get laid, and soon. And we did it.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:05 AM
1

Don't wait too long, you're barrelling fast into the friend zone if you wait.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:04 AM
1

You have to get them interested in you. Play the game of look at them, look away, look at them again, etc. Eventually they will do it too and then after that its easy.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:03 AM
4

Because that concept is plain stupid, so don't think that.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:02 AM
11

Women live for sex. Men at least have other things on their minds like cars, computers, guns and beer.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 08:07 PM
1

I will bet a handsome friend does something the beta guy doesn't. He telegraphs a response to her nonverbal communication, essentially giving her "permission" to approach. Its subtle and not a word is spoken. Beta guys don't have this capability.
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:37 PM
29

You are the proverbial "Dick in a glass box" like comedian Chris Rock talks about. She needed some cock and some self-esteem boost and you were there. She wanted you to sweep her off her feet once she gave the go-ahead but you didn't, so she lost interest and moved on.
/r/seduction07/01/18 07:37 AM
1

Throw parties.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:16 AM
1

You got sauced and made a fool of yourself, so she bailed on you. Quit drinking, its not called loudmouth soup for nothing.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:07 AM
1

A kiss isn't a close, don't even think it is. Don't fall for failed PUA think. Getting close to a girl takes time, and your first real contact with her should be her hands and your hands. PUA's get bad reputations because they are pushy ass grabbers and creepy to most women unless the girl is drunk.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:05 AM
1

I'm just giving you info. Go fuck some paid whores I don't care. I'm sure a future girlfriend won't mind that past of yours.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:03 AM
1

Thats because in Europe they traffick in prostitutes from poorer countries.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:02 AM
6

Just relax, kick back, have fun and don't drink too much.
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:49 AM
6

Girls rarely approach guys. Its been that way for 100,000 years and won't change. Drinking excessively gives you a strong alcohol breath and chicks can smell your drunk breath and steer clear of you. Sounds like you had an interesting time in the club, it wasn't so bad you can't win every night. Remember the lesson of Elliott Rodger...you can stand around with your gucci glasses and your $300 shirts and wait for women and they will never come.
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:47 AM
1

Don't get married goy, its bad for the country.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:34 AM
0

Be good looking. If you aren't, fix the problem. (Clothing, grooming, dental work, hygiene, fitness)
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:21 AM
1

You are probably aspbergers.
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:20 AM
32

Its okay to say it once, but it gets annoying pretty quickly if you keep gushing over her.
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:19 AM
0

No a lot of times they're just dressing like their girlfriends because girls are herd animals.
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:19 AM
24

yeah some do that because they enjoy fawning attention
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:10 AM
0

Good places to go if you want to get shot dead
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:49 PM
1

Most escorts have had one or more Veneral Diseases at some point in their lives, and there are plenty of kinds of VD that are not really curable so they still have it.
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:44 PM
11

She's just using you for an ego boost.
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:43 PM
-11

I don't have casual sex because I don't believe in it.
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:00 PM
64

None of that is alpha, but it is good self-improvement which everybody needs.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 04:36 PM
1

Well first of all, conversations are NOT interrogations. You merely use a question as a way to prime the pump of conversation. Its not where you create some grandiose topic to speak on. For example, say Im on a date, and I just sit down and say hello and introduce myself. I don't go into stuff like "So what is the hardest lesson of life?". I say something simple like "I hear the appetizers are great here...". She tosses in her opinion on the matter or asks which appetizers....and we're off to th…
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:39 AM
1

Bill Clinton is also a rapist and ran the "Arkansas Mafia". He was what you would call a Charisma Faker. Perfect for a politician. True charisma is something that is natural, and thats what makes you really appealing to a woman. She feels great just being around you.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:23 AM
1

she stopped and reminded me to be civil You blew it, horndog.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:18 AM
1

Yes there are bars and clubs for older folk. I went to one once and I saw a lot of elderly gentlemen dressed well not in what you would consider club wear but it didn't matter. The women were aplenty and were dancing, talking and doing all the usual things you see in clubs, just not making out (thats a young people thing to be sucking face in public).
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:17 AM
2

Community college is great! People are more laid back and friendly and its easier to interact.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:15 AM
1

Weird questions, and off-putting
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:13 AM
1

Your fault for not putting the lotion on its skin
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:11 AM
1

Maybe she's just a cynical person.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:10 AM
2

Meet her friends. If you diss her friends she will get mad at you. A cool sexy guy is friendly to a girl and her friends as well. She will decide on her own to ditch her friends when its time to be alone. if you are doing things right you don't need to make any effort to "isolate", she will do it herself.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:01 AM
1

Talk to both! Girls have this way of doing things, they will get together and decide who gets to go home with you.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:58 AM
5

My GF said specifically what makes her like me (other than my huge penis) is I listen. Women are wired differently than us.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:57 AM
2

I like dating professional women because frankly I have a business suit fetish. It helps that you too make a decent amount of money. Women have this strange thing....they really don't like a man who makes less money than they do. It somehow makes them uncomfortable for some reason.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:53 AM
12

Above all you must be a listener. One problem with PUA types is they are so busy firing off lines and stories they aren't listening and people realize this so they distance themselves from them. Have you ever talked with somebody who simply isn't listening to what you are saying? How bad is the urge to leave when that occurs? A charming man is a listener, and he remembers little details and brings them up later in conversation to show a woman that yes he is genuinely interested in her.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:48 AM
-1

Why the kiss obsession. A kiss is not a close, repeat after me. Did you even get to know her? Did you even bother? She made a good effort to at least invite you to enjoy time with her and you were all handsy grabby guy.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:43 AM
1

I don't give a shit what people think, if I want a girl drink I get one. If a girl takes issue with it I just say "I wanted to see what it tastes like". Better to be holding a coconut with an umbrella in it than to be one of the 200 other guys holding a beer and staring around. You get noticed.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:29 AM
7

You are probably acting too feminine, either in your mannerisms or how you talk to them. Also, something as simple as a leather jacket and boots vs wearing a hoodie and a pair of gay ass sneakers can make all the difference.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:28 AM
2

Advertise: Dress alluringly, not trashy but show a little skin (that you can get away with in highschool). Talk to guys, even ones you don't like because you are making yourself look wanted by others. That makes guys think more about you. Go to the mall, walk around, look at guys. Wear tight pants, we do look at butts. If a guy smiles or looks at you, smile back.
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:27 AM
4

Keep a steady GF so you don't have to worry about getting laid. Better than getting genital warts from some hooker.
/r/seduction06/01/18 01:42 AM
1

That's why most men can fuck all the time but most women can't. You have never met my GF then
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:37 AM
10

Some women avoid the kitchen entirely. Just look in her freezer and if you find nothing but TV dinners and hot pockets, don't ever expect anything out of that kitchen resembling home cooked food. I once went out with a girl about 10 years ago, got nosy and peeked into her apartment freezer, it had ice accumulation that looked years old and there was a single shrink wrapped meat thing frozen in the ice like Luke Skywalker, poking out. Sigh...yet another 27 year old that can't cook, or clean, or s…
/r/seduction05/01/18 06:41 AM
4

I was an athletic pretty boy. You get a lot of attention from chicks.
/r/seduction05/01/18 06:35 AM
1

I ain't sayin you should do it, but I understand!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 02:48 AM
6

Motels, save your lunchmoney, starve now so you can feast later
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:15 AM
2

If she lets you do that you are deep in the friend zone you might as well just accept your fate.
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:03 AM
1

You probably need the experience
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:02 AM
2

No girl will dump a guy because he's too fit
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:01 AM
5

Suggest a threesome. girls are kinkier than you think
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:00 AM
0

It mirrors real life. Look at whats going on in the trump white house vs the deep state. The wives of these people are as much at war as their husbands.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:31 AM
0

Well there's one thing shy girls do that give themselves away, they keep looking at you over and over again. Thats the green light.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:29 AM
3

Women like nice guys. Its just weak fake charlatans who pretend to like a girl and use PUA pressure tactics to try and get a girl into bed aren't really "nice".
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:05 AM
1

I just toss some meat on the BBQ grill, never fails.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:48 AM
0

You did something to mess it up. Maybe a bit too eager or too big a setup for the inevitable sex. She may be one of those I like to be in control chicks, where you just respond to her affections and let her "drive" so to speak in the bedroom.
/r/seduction04/01/18 12:59 AM
10

Whats with the man bun and douchey t-shirt. Talking to shy girls is easy really, you just ignore the negative body language they give off they don't mean to do it.
/r/seduction04/01/18 12:54 AM
3

If you give a woman a regular fucking they can't get anywhere else they will do pretty much anything for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:28 AM
2

Ask them if they like their bananas to curve up or down
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:25 AM
0

Watch game of thrones, the most brutal wars are between the women of the show, not the men.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:24 AM
0

He had to apologize for this I have no idea why. VICE did an entire documentary about the Suicide Forest in Japan. Its just what happens when SJW culture spirals out of control.
/r/seduction03/01/18 06:40 AM
30

Talk to chicks on the very first day of class, this is vital.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:20 AM
1

Surfer necklace. Sport watch with thick leather band, and instead of white sneakers (everybody wears that shit) put on dressy looking leather shoes. they look surprisingly good with jeans and a t-shirt.
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:08 AM
4

I don't care, my GF can handle herself without me.
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:03 AM
1

Tell her to do a fetish request you like
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:03 AM
1

next time just wave at her and gesture her over, no big woop
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:49 AM
4

Anywhere! Thats why you as a man should always be ready to interact with a woman in any situation! If you aren't ready for an unexpected friendly encounter with a woman on a moment's notice, you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:47 AM
2

liquor is fun until you turn 21 then its boring.
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:10 AM
5

Sounds like the script from a slasher movie. You might try instead asking for a light (if you have a cigarette), then go into your spiel "So what are you two girls doing tonight?".
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:27 AM
1

Your first touch should not be putting your arm around her, but touching her hand
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:37 AM
1

You are stuck in your own head too much. Think less, make out more.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:36 AM
1

There's a difference between confidence and narcissism. You need confidence, narcissism is a byproduct of lack of confidence.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:35 AM
1

The attic?
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:33 AM
1

Girls are awesome. Socipaths have no empathy so they can't possibly interact properly with a girl.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:31 AM
1

clasping fingers, stroking the back of her hand, even absentmindedly twiddling her fingers, try to not use fingertips, but the palm of the hand for more skin contact. fingertips can feel kinda funny. If she's into you she will respond in kind. I do this with my GF all the time, neither of us even think about it, it just happens because we do it so often. Understanding touch and knowing how to touch a person is a very valuable skill in seduction/romance.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:30 AM
1

Learn how to lick pussy
/r/seduction02/01/18 06:41 AM
1

Other than the horizontal pussy just treat them like any other women.
/r/seduction02/01/18 06:40 AM
2

At least if you screw up skydiving you only regret it for about 2 minutes.
/r/seduction02/01/18 06:39 AM
15

Mom just wants to make you into a faggot so you don't date women and instead stay at home with her until she dies of old age. I've seen this in practice and my mom is trying to do this to me even now.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 06:38 AM
3

HANDS HANDS HANDS. You can do so much with hands if you know what you're doing. You can telegraph to a girl a multitude of intents with just how you hold her hands.
/r/seduction02/01/18 04:48 AM
1

My mother is the worst, she's committed to making me gay.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:59 AM
1

Reminder though that none of this applies if a woman is very shy! Many give off fuck off body language and motions if they do like you, so they can be tough to read.
/r/seduction02/01/18 02:55 AM
7

I will do this! Once I get off reddit...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:10 AM
12

Don't be afraid to be a man
/r/seduction02/01/18 01:59 AM
56

I work in IT so 95% of my co-workers are men, which is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 08:27 PM
0

Its not about feminism its about Communism. Feminism was created by communists. The true goal is to make everybody workers, not men or women. Destroy the family unit, make everybody equal by force and then toss them into the Communist labor machine. The European Union is communist, which is why you are seeing such major changes in EU member nations, pushed by the governments. Eliminate Communism, you eliminate the problem of feminism entirely.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 08:12 PM
1

Don't drink, girls can smell your strong breath and think you're just some boozehound that barely knows where you are. its an insult to them.
/r/seduction01/01/18 06:47 PM
4

You don't necessarily need to have sex on a date. She's not just a dick socket she's a person.
/r/seduction01/01/18 06:43 PM
-2

Give her a piece of jewelry and tell her she's yours now. Don't ask....do.
/r/seduction01/01/18 06:42 PM
-1

Hey fat girls need love too, bub.
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:52 PM
1

Picking up drunk girls in the parking lot at 2am is pretty easy. heck they're like Mexican workers all you have to do is gesture and they will hop in the car.
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:51 PM
4

There's this mostly failed theory pushed by Mystery Method geeks and RSD people that you should "shock" a girl to knock her out of her mindset. Its all bunk, what you are really doing is freaking a girl out with a non-sequitur gabble. Some better openers are (scenario loud disco, you see girl(s) in corner standing by dance floor) - you are doing some dancing, you look at them, point and do the come here gesture. If they refuse you give them the hand push gesture, you never say a thing. Another o…
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:19 PM
5

Those are some really strange openers, where did you learn them from?
/r/seduction31/12/17 12:49 PM
1

Definitely shower, which gives you another opportunity...
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:53 AM
1

She kinda bailed on you early, its indeterminate. Just go for the invite and quit hinting and see what happens.
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:39 AM
4

Just make sure to massage towards the heart when you do limbs (to prevent stripping the valves in the veins). Its better to use oil that doesn't have scent because frankly scented oil can get pretty annoying in large quantities. Massage her on the kitchen island if you worry about your sheets getting soaked, and use towels you don't mind to get covered in oils. The only real danger is slipping if her feet are covered with oil. It could be a huge insurance problem if she falls and hits her head.
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:38 AM
1

Smaller cities as blacks and hispanics tend to live in larger cities. The higher count of white women tend to be in the Central USA and North Central USA.
/r/seduction31/12/17 03:59 AM
2

She might have changed her mind or chad thundercock responded so she decided against meeting with you. In other words, its out of your control, so just wait and see if she responds otherwise move on.
/r/seduction31/12/17 02:56 AM
1

Don't treat any kind of drunk text as legitimate
/r/seduction31/12/17 02:55 AM
13

How to make a woman scream during sex: Wipe your dick on her curtains.
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:22 PM
2

I have it worse I have a GF who thinks she knows how to cook. Blah.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 10:58 PM
30

Have you ever seen ANY woman that will admit to a mistake?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 10:53 PM
1

Then do something bold and stylish in photography with her instead. The more you 2 hang out together the better.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:46 PM
1

Are they just regular photos or are they kind of risque? You might suggest something a bit more sexy and see what she does. A girl that likes you won't mind a bit to show off some of her feminine wiles. Don't do nudes you are underage and so is she.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:36 PM
4

You are probably UNINTENTIONALLY giving off negative body language. Shy people do that a lot. One of the big ones is avoiding eye contact even when talking to somebody. That can be distracting and irritating to girls who are used to being looked at when talking. There are 2 kinds of aloof, the kind where you stand back but still are looking at people, and the other kind where you are standing back and looking into your drink or looking into your phone.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:33 PM
10

Start always with hands, even fingertips. Don't be "that guy" who rubs asses or massages shoulders, it creeps women the fuck out.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:30 PM
2

Frats are masonic institutions you are better off staying away from them. I never joined a frat yet still had no problem dating sorority girls, because all you have to do is talk to them.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:28 PM
0

Bios aren't terribly important but just write it in such a way that it makes them have a mental journey with you. (traveling, etc)
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:28 PM
2

Girls love emojis thats why apple keeps adding more
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:27 PM
5

Not everything is racism ya know, you may want to be but it ain't so.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:26 PM
1

I'm only 6'. Oh wait you meant my height I thought you meant my penis
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:25 PM
1

Well if she's too busy to see you she's too busy to see you. Basically she doesn't really see you and her as serious.
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:23 PM
3

Make sure you are standing next to her 15 seconds before new years.
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:45 PM
-7

Whoo I had sex. So what. Did this guy even get to know this girl.
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:30 PM
3

You can be needy if you're hot. A girl will simply interpret it as cute
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:59 PM
0

Do a fat girl, its not as bad as you would think.
/r/seduction30/12/17 02:00 AM
10

And yes, its everything you have ever dreamed it would be. I was 29 once and was doing 18 year old puss.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:49 AM
4

Fresh fruit, fresh veggies. You can do anything with them. So many girls are "vegetarians" so if they peek in your fridge and see fruits and veggies it scores you points.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:45 AM
1

Go to a sleazy motel with an hourly rate. They tend to cater to hookers so its cheap. The other option is go to a peep show and fuck her in the booth, heck worse things have happened in those booths.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:30 AM
1

Lose weight, work out. More of the penile shaft is exposed with low bodyfat, other than that you are stuck with your penis, blame your parents genetics.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:29 AM
1

This and more can be found in the magazine DUH, the publication that tells the obvious.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:28 AM
1

You seem like an average bro. Dress well, smell nice, keep your hygiene sparkly. Don't be afraid to be a man. That means make decisions, be assertive but not pushy and for gods sake don't be a fucking cheapskate. Its just dinner for chrissakes.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:27 AM
1

Whats next, emojis?
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:25 AM
2

Lay off the liquor and weed
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:23 AM
1

Dress for success
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:22 AM
40

When talking to somebody, the very first thing you need to do is ACTIVE LISTENING. This means focusing on the girl completely and forgetting about yourself, forgetting about what to say and forgetting about pickup techniques or how you look. When you do this you are truly interacting because you are focused on what she has to say. Now I don't mean focus on her body or face visually, though its important to look at her in the eyes and face when talking, but get into the mindset of active listenin…
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:13 AM
6

Your post is really creepy. What girls want is dick, long, hard and a guy that can pound the crap out of her until she comes. Thats how you trigger a neurochemical high in a woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 06:58 AM
1

She has a job, just be happy for that.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:18 AM
1

Generally the idea of dating multiple women for a mere self-esteem boost is immature. A mature individual dates women because he enjoys being with them and isn't interested in how many or wants to show off his prowess to his friends.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:52 AM
1

Your inquiry was a tad passive. You should have talked to her some more before asking her out. You have to develop some comfort before blurting out "let's go out". Generally if a girl wants to be asked out she will start asking unusual questions like what you are doing, or mentioning something like a concert or a movie she wants to go to, that kind of thing.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:48 AM
1

If you're doing it right the fat girl won't cock block you, because you are talking to ALL of the girls. The worst strategy you could ever pursue is the isolation strategy, the debunked one PUA scam artists tell you to use.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:12 AM
1

The less said the better. At the end of the date, take both her hands, pull her closer to 1 foot or less social distance and say "I had a great time tonight" and look her in the eye and smile, if she gets real quiet and offers no resistance then its time to kiss her romantically, then quietly ramp it up and if you're doing it right, you will wake up naked in bed together.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:11 AM
1

Girls like sex more than guys, thats a given.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:08 AM
3

She will not have premarital sex with you. Many mormon girls get around this by anal sex instead so technically its not sex.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:06 AM
23

This is just common sense. A guy needs to learn from this example that you never diss a girl's friends, because you diss her too albeit unintentionally. This is a reverse example, a guy gets dissed by a girl and she unintentionally disses his friends, and thus pays the penalty for it.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:04 AM
1

Give more than you take in a relationship.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:02 AM
1

Your problems are far greater than just virginity issues. See a therapist.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:02 AM
1

Meet up at a coffee place and tell her you will be wearing a purple baseball cap or something, then give it to her as a gift when she arrives
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:01 AM
3

What appeals to a younger girl when you are older is your maturity, your financial stability, your self-assured attitude, and your emotional capacity for affection. They can date little boys all day, there's no shortage of them, but quite a few women like older men because they're simply tired of little boys. A self-assured man can easily create a social circle because he no longer is saddled with those insecurities that keep him from being friendly and open.
/r/seduction29/12/17 05:00 AM
2

Quit thinking about things to say. Get out of your own head and when you have a discussion with her. LISTEN to her. Interact with her, if she brings up a topic, talk with her about it. The less you think about yourself the better. Conversation is not hiding in your skull and periodically tossing out sentences, its like a dance.
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:57 AM
5

Get her a limousine
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:48 AM
1

Well you don't have to take such advice, but it seems what you are doing now isn't working eh?
/r/seduction28/12/17 03:31 AM
2

Party with both of them. The 2 girls will decide when its time for the other to leave....just like how guys have the bro code where one will go so the other can have his fun with his girl. You can't force a girl into sex unless you're harvey weinstein. Also this idea of "isolation" is bunk. When you isolate you ignore her friend and it pisses her and her friend off. No wonder you are there alone with your dick in your hand later. A proper gentleman entertains BOTH ladies equally and doesn't act …
/r/seduction28/12/17 12:44 AM
1

No, not at all. Heck I'm not even good looking, I don't smoke, drink, have tats or piercings, but I do dress pretty masculine. Just today I had a MILF nervously looking me over in the checkout line. I briefly talked to her and smiled, she didn't have the courage to chat me up more (didn't matter I have a steady GF) but she did get my self-assured vibe and my confident voice appealed to her. Its how you present yourself as a person. The problem with being a drunk, a puffer, a tat-boy is you look …
/r/seduction28/12/17 12:41 AM
1

Are you saying you're unsure if you're gay? Because if you think you are, you are.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 12:36 AM
5

At least she didn't demand payment
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 12:35 AM
0

Then don't drink, even if you are at a bar.
/r/seduction27/12/17 11:18 PM
6

Why do you think girls go to the mall? For the free air conditioning?
/r/seduction27/12/17 11:17 PM
15

She did all the work, all he did was not do anything stupid.
/r/seduction27/12/17 11:16 PM
1

Well they are meat eaters in one aspect....
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:21 PM
1

Ya know, you might sit back and just ask why do you think approaching hundreds of women will help you. The world is not keeping count, and your friends will not be impressed anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:19 PM
6

You sound like you suffer from aspergers.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:17 PM
2

Thats a given. Many women have a narcissist streak (aka look how many selfies are generated daily on the planet). Whipping out a camera and taking some pix of her is a nice gesture that you find her attractive. The important thing though is earning her trust and making sure any pictures never see the light of day anywhere else. Revenge porn is for immature little boys, not real men. Not too long ago many men had entire personal collections of nudes of past girlfriends, and there were even photog…
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:34 PM
-2

Dinner dates are fine, just make sure you order something vegetarian in case she's a rabid animal activist. Chomping down on a steak in front of her guarantees no 2nd date. The location of the date isn't terribly important, how you act during the date is important. its like a job interview, be on your best behavior, don't lie but also don't be too honest, and emphasize the good and minimze the bad.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:13 PM
1

schwarzkopf hair glue
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:03 PM
10

You are most likely hiding your true feelings out of a fear of rejection, so you have this "hanging out" type of behavior. The girl senses a lack of romantic interest and you get friend zoned. Its that simple. Its not about telling them your feelings, its that you aren't telegraphing your intent to them. Remember human interaction is 90% nonverbal, 10% verbal. Don't be afraid of your feelings, and don't ever ever be afraid to be a man.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:46 AM
1

Its 100% instinct, the logical brain has nothing to do with it. I've only had it happen twice to me in my life. I once met a girl in a dance class and something happened. I just thought to myself "I'm gonna have sex with that girl". It made no sense to me, she wasn't the prettiest, she wasn't the most interesting, but I wanted her just the same. And I got what I wanted. It was so worth it too.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:44 AM
2

She is testing the waters to see if you still like her. Take charge, tell her that you want to see her again (phrase as statement not question).
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:41 AM
3

CelibatePower, tell me more, I would love to hear your story.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:39 AM
1

Yes, you do have to put some time into a friendship. Thats the whole point. Friendship is about giving not taking. If you are a constant taker you will have few friends. Strangers tend to be inherently friendly, because its not fun to be mean, and they too don't mind having new friends. Occasionally one runs into a grumpy individual but thats life. Join a club (reading, chess, cycling, whatever!). I got to know 3 people just from a guitar class. I still suck at guitar but found out later one of …
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:36 AM
1

Here's my magic formula: I just talk to somebody. Most people are very friendly. For a shy guy like me it can be difficult but its worth the effort.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:28 AM
0

Don't pressure yourself, its self defeating. Thats why the tantric sex and indian sex books are so popular. They emphasize going slowly and getting the body relaxed. Tension and stress are boner killers to the extreme. Don't feel the need to be 100% erect every time a girl is in bed with you. I've been dating a girl for 3 years, I bang her ever weekend multiple times. Even so, she says she comes over just to see me and while the sex is awesome thats not the primary reason why she netflix and chi…
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:32 AM
1

Don't take it, its a strong vasodialator and has numerous side effects. I once nibbled off a tablet and one of my eyes got inflamed badly. My fault for even being curious. If you're in your 20s you should have no trouble getting erections. When I was in my 20s could stay hard forever, almost at will. Tips for young guys: Don't drink, don't smoke, don't take drugs, and lose some weight if you're fat. Fitness and health has sexual benefits that will last forever. Sexual confidence is something you…
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:26 AM
0

The big cities are pretty bad in general in the USA, they attract the welfare types. Best place to go in the USA is the South Central, god's country. There may be a lot of mexicans but latina women can be pretty darn fine, and there's also a good vietnamese community if you are into asian women.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:22 AM
1

Well its not wrong to be romantic and attentive, just ask yourself when you're about to do something "is this creepy?" then don't do it.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:12 AM
0

It sure is but you can either believe Neil Straus, a short balding scam artist with a stutter who dresses like a casino master or you can listen to me, a guy who has dated girls all his life and has had numerous relationships. Pressuring a woman to have sex is not a formula for success, its just pathetic really. Women love sex and offer it readily so if you have to use all sorts of techniques to trick her into bed what does that say about you.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:06 AM
1

I've made friends all my life and I consider myself shy.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:02 AM
1

I'm part asian and have thick black hair too, but through the magic of grooming and hair gel you can make a nice conservative yet attractive hairstyle.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:45 AM
1

First rule, listen to her. I figure most of the guys here are so busy firing off pickup lines or telling "stories" they forget that they're talking to another person who has things to say too. Ever talked to a person that won't stop talking about themselves, or doesn't listen to a word you say? How do you feel, don't you want to just walk away and stay away from them? Thats probably what you are doing.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:44 AM
1

You are probably too touchy feely and go way too fast. When you talk to a girl are you talking with her or to her? Lots of guys are so busy talking about themselves or boasting about their bling and exploits they bore the shit out of a girl and she bails on you. Pushing a girl to make an entire sex decision about you in an hour makes them just want to leave and never contact you again. Girls sometimes take time to like a guy, its not always the 3 second attraction.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:41 AM
1

You both have to want that, not everybody does.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:37 AM
2

"Hey I wanted to know you because..." Bad idea, it makes you look weak and asking for attention. Try being bold, try saying something clever, but never ask permission to be a man. "I don't think you're a real fan of (insert band name here) unless you know by memory the lyrics to (song)" "That is the cutest dog ever, when did you get him?" "That poster on the wall, I've been looking for that where did you get it?" And yes you need a profile pic, nobody will answer a profile that has no picture, b…
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:29 AM
2

Make 1 friend, and he/she has other friends, its pretty straightforward.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:24 AM
4

Try an experiment. Talk to a few girls with absolutely no intent on dating them. Familiarize yourself with the emotional and mental state you are in when just talking to a girl. You may simply be shooting yourself in the foot when you are stuck in a mental frame of "I must date this girl" "I must get her phone number" and you are putting so much pressure on yourself you blow it.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:23 AM
4

Yeah well remember a lot of guys are using these pickup techniques because they're absolutely clueless in dating, so don't be too harsh.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:20 AM
1

She just needs you around for a self-esteem boost.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:19 AM
1

There are usually clubs that cater to older people. Nothing wrong with being a young guy into older women, like older men in clubs trolling for younger women.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:19 AM
1

Well if you're comfortable with a married woman and all the potential risks, I say go for it.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:17 AM
0

If she even says that she's not interested.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:16 AM
3

If you go on a date, act like you're on a date. There's no need to hide your intentions. If you first meet her and she's pretty just exclaim "My, you're a lovely thing!". Don't be afraid to offer your arm if you're walking with her to the movies, be friendly, open, have good eye contact and above all LISTEN to what she's saying. IMHO the #1 problem guys have is they don't listen, then wonder why they get ghosted later or never make it to the 2nd date.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:14 AM
0

Plus asian guys tend to have really bad haircuts and dress strangely. I'm not sure why.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:11 AM
1

Look at the NEW HERE? sidebar on the right.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:11 AM
1

Just put your phone number on it with your first name and maybe a small heart, walk up to him and say "You dropped this..." Then walk away while smiling at him. Don't put anything else on the note.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:09 AM
0

It sounds like you are less interested in making a real romantic connection and more like just going through your rote "method". A connection is what makes woman want to stay with you, not any seduction techniques. It sounds like you are pushing very hard and its likely she has cut you a break so far, but if you keep on she will just end whatever contact altogether.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:07 AM
2

I think you need to stay away from Mystery Method its pretty much debunked methodology. She stated quite clearly she doesn't want some butt grabbing smoocher on the 1st date, you can't change that. On a good note she did mention it at all, so she's setting you a pathway to success if you stick to her rules.
/r/seduction27/12/17 12:53 AM
3

I'm dating a co-worker right now.
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:46 PM
9

You generally don't flirt at work, you talk to girls, yes and you are professional and businesslike, but as with all human interaction the undercurrent will be clear if she likes you and there's no need to be the office romeo. Just say "lets do lunch" and what happens at lunch stays at lunch.
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:32 AM
3

Leave her alone for awhile. Don't be needy it will drive her away. She may come back if she thinks you're down for a totally platonic FWB.
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:30 AM
3

No chicks at work?
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:29 AM
0

She still has feelings for her ex
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:28 AM
3

Move your computer out of your bedroom, redecorate it. No, no vanilla smelly candles, but put some modern art on the wall, add a small IKEA dresser and put down a cool area rug. CLEAN IT, no underwear on the floor, no dust bunnies. Keep a small stereo in your bedroom for mood music. Clean the bathroom, girls hate dirty bathrooms. As for initiating sex, well when the conversation slows and she starts staring at you....its time for you to make the move.
/r/seduction26/12/17 08:26 AM
2

Fight Club is just a movie from an anarchists point of view. Entertaining, but irrelevant.
/r/seduction26/12/17 12:44 AM
1

Netflix and chill is about 100% guarantee of sex. Just don't be terrified of her personal space, get close. I notice the moment she lays her head on your shoulder, its time for some action and less movie.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:22 PM
3

Just pull her close to you if she's touchy-feely and see what she does.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:21 PM
1

Don't worry about it. I seriously doubt she hasn't figured out your height. I've dated 6'+ tall girls and I'm so short I can pick up a penny without bending over. (thats just a joke but I am short)
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:19 PM
20

You already know her, so just relax and reminisce about the good old days in school.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:17 PM
6

1, because thats about as much as I can deal with
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:16 PM
1

Don't dodge it, talk about it and don't be afraid to gild the lilly, because after all she can't prove otherwise.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:15 PM
2

They love to talk about themselves...
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:14 PM
2

silverback gorillas vs the rest. He gets his women and bananas, and the rest have to fight for the scraps and maybe sneak in some sex when the big guy is not looking.
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:53 PM
1

It makes sense to me, thats why a woman is more than willing to throw everything away for some drug dealer that can make them cum 4 times in a row, or lose their job and go to prison because they wanted some 14 year old black higschooler's massive schlong.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 02:55 PM
2

Girls love sex more than men do. I know thats hard to believe.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 08:40 AM
1

Did you do eye contact or the 1000 yard stare?
/r/seduction25/12/17 04:40 AM
66

She seems awfully interested, how can you lose on this one.
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:45 AM
1

I was just joking
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:38 AM
1

There's always travel guitars or 1/2 size guitars, tiny size same sound.
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:31 PM
6

A little gay, just learn guitar, those 2 extra strings won't hurt ya
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:24 PM
2

Watch the movie "Daddy's Home" and you will realize there is a hierarchy even among Alphas.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:56 PM
1

Then you're not communicating or engaging with her. You might as well walk away.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:38 PM
1

Anybody who has had thousands of women definitely is having problems with life's direction.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:08 PM
1

Average girls like average guys
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:08 PM
1

Try beta blockers
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:06 PM
4

Its not about high value, its about making a connection with a girl. Showing off your bling or how cool you are does not make a girl want to stick to you. A girl who is comfortable talking to you and has made her decision she wants to be with you can't be stolen by some douchebag t-shirt guy that interrupts your conversation and offers her a free hard lemonade if she dances with him.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:00 PM
2

Well the hard part is misinterpreting IOI's because remember she is there to sell stuff, and if she has to fake liking you or give you compliments to sell you something she very well may do just that. Sales is one of those kinds of things where you have to be a bit of a fraud because you're pushing product, not making friends.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:58 PM
4

They get hit on a lot, so you better be good looking. The best advice I can give is she will usually give off attention vibes from the start if she likes you, and if you detect them then you're much better off than if you just cold approached them while they were working.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:47 PM
6

How do you learn to ride a bike, you try and fail until suddenly you can stay on the bike, then after that it seems easy and natural.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:41 PM
18

No guy can "steal" your girl. If your relationship with her is very good she is unstealable, and frankly she will think the other guy is at the most a jerk and at the least a joke. If she is stealable, she was never yours in the first place.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:37 PM
4

A week?!? You had sex with her you should have established familiarity and intimacy on a whole new level. You should talk to her and communicate with her like you have known her a long time. wow you kids, unbelievable.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:34 PM
6

1) Inward thinking - avoid it. Lots of guys hide inside their brain and start tossing out sentences frantically trying to avoid lulls. 2) Outward thinking - do it. Engage yourself very deeply in the conversation with the girl, LISTEN, REMEMBER, and you will find your brain will naturally interact and respond because you are actively participating.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:50 PM
1

You just answer "its okay I will contact you, I just need some digits, babe"
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:48 PM
1

Probably will be not single but I wished I could have another GF.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:47 PM
1

Never drink, it inhibits your game. Quit thinking so much and let nature takes its course. When it comes to sex whatever feels good is what you do.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:46 PM
6

There must be another way
/r/seduction24/12/17 03:57 PM
-2

I was a mommas boy. I have no idea how I stayed straight with all the smothering.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:54 PM
7

What's a DM
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:35 AM
5

What he said, and tell your friend to tell her she's cute.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:34 AM
5

What's the worst part about being a biker? You have to line up to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:31 AM
-7

Violent men are betas, even though they seem to exude authority.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:38 AM
2

Yes, but they do it in hopes the future together will eventually be better.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:20 AM
-9

Single guys are wasting their genetics on eventual oblivion. They realize that when they're 65, playing golf alone with a full bank account and realize they never filled their lives with family.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:18 AM
25

He's not an alpha male. Alpha males can get women to follow them around like puppies, even give them stuff for free in exchange for their attention and approval. Everybody knows a true Alpha, he's a natural, comfortable with everybody and he's so nice you can't hate him, which is what pisses you off about him.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 12:09 AM
8

My mom doesn't even drink and she acts like that. Women get really mean when they have emotional issues.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:32 PM
2

Men are feminized by a certain religious class that can't take over a society by force so they do it by social change.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:25 PM
3

Communism is on the rise yet again, and one tactic of Communism is selective war on religions that are a threat. Christianity has always been that threat. Islam? No, not really. Its a religion of the poor, islamic nations are weak, and terrorism frankly is just a nuisance. Communists use islam as a human weapon, because muslims pretty much act like animals and don't really comprehend when they're being manipulated. Thats why the ME has been a basket case for 1000 years. Once the modern Communist…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 10:29 AM
1

Girls don't want money. They want that dreamy guy that excites them so much they hurriedly call up their best friend to tell them.
/r/seduction23/12/17 08:39 AM
1

Nothing good can come out of cannabis since it can make your mood swing wildly and make a perfectly normal person think they suffer from depression. Don't worry about porn, humans are born addicted to sex thats why there are 7 billion people on the planet.
/r/seduction23/12/17 08:31 AM
1

Bad, dangerous men can also be exciting. You can be a nice guy and still be exciting to a woman ya know.
/r/seduction23/12/17 08:21 AM
1

Talk about it first, BDSM is no minor thing. I suggested to my GF some light handcuff play since its pretty innocent but if you're into choking then you may get a rather negative response from her if you try to do that without warning.
/r/seduction23/12/17 08:20 AM
6

Strippers tend to be single moms, drug users and/or hookers on the side. If you're cool with this you probably can date one.
/r/seduction23/12/17 08:09 AM
1

You are not there yet grasshopper
/r/seduction23/12/17 12:32 AM
2

Not all men. Lots of guys look like hammered shit in their 30's because they didn't take care of themselves in their 20's
/r/seduction23/12/17 12:32 AM
-29

Yeah its cool to have one. No woman has ever turned down an 8 incher
/r/seduction22/12/17 08:40 PM
0

You're not necessarily a college girl's first choice, so don't be disappointed when they gravitate more to guys their age. Your only advantage is maturity and stability, and if you have neither then you won't be very appealing to a college girl.
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:28 PM
5

You need the mental confidence game first. without confidence you simply can't flirt because you're sitting there inside your own head deciding which line to use next so you stammer out something awkward. You also have become the classic "nice guy". You're not really nice, you are a liar because you PRETEND to be nice to a girl with the ulterior motive of romance, which is not a good thing. You shoudl always be up front with your intentions and make it known. That guarantees you will never be fr…
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:27 PM
1

If she will break up with a boyfriend for you, she will break up with you for someone else too, do you want that?
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:24 PM
-1

You were just too eager. All you should have texted was something fun and simple and not needy like "Sup baby" Don't do emojis, guys should never do emojis.
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:23 PM
2

Get a glass of OJ and ice and call it a screwdriver
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:21 PM
3

I'm neither I just know how to use my dick
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:47 AM
1

Let me reword that. You have to be comfortable enough in yourself to be open and giving to others. Like if a conversation is struck up you must be genuine in your communication skills. A guy who is a "natural" with women is like that 24/7 with everybody.
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:05 AM
1

People want what they can't have.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:57 AM
8

Your cup runneth over and you're complaining.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:57 AM
1

Before you can be comfortable with others you have to be comfortable with yourself. Work on that.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:56 AM
1

A bit weird, what was the context of the conversation?
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:46 AM
3

I picked up a geek girl at a library. Gave her super sex for 2 years, she even commented she got so used to it her next boyfriend was a disappointment. She could care less about my status or money.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:39 AM
113

I attended lunch with 4 women once and the conversation turned surprisingly fast into talk about dildos, blowjobs and men with large penises.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:04 AM
10

Sounds like my sexual fantasy
/r/seduction22/12/17 04:44 AM
1

Just look for the little black spade tattoo, usually on their leg.
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:55 AM
1

What is your photo look like? Does it have your face clearly in it, are you smiling, are you dressed well, is the background something interesting. Are you going after white girls, well most white girls don't like black guys, its not racism its reality. Most white guys don't like black girls either.
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:12 AM
2

Usually the rule is a guy won't do anything seriously sexual until the 5th date, maybe he's sticking to the rule.
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:08 AM
3

You can't control every situation. You were seduced by a smooth guy who probably has done it to plenty of other girls.
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:08 AM
5

TREADMILL. Fixes 90% of beauty issues. Women know this too but instead go to the plastic surgeon
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:06 AM
1

Do you even remember what they say? Are you firing off mindless chat topics or are you really interacting with women? Do you even remember their names, what their dogs name is, where they go to school, what they dream of doing in the future?
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:23 AM
2

Ok thats creepy. Why not just have her wear a wig so you can call her by your ex's name.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:15 AM
1

Girls see the ring and friend zone you, why would you want that. At my age I'm still single and women see the lack of ring and instantly change their attitude, realizing I have potential for them.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:13 AM
1

Mystery is borderline autist/assburgers. His "infield" videos are kind of hilarious as to how pathetic he really is.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:12 AM
1

Honesty, because herpes is for life and they need to be warned they could possibly catch it.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:10 AM
1

THE MALL. Teen girl central, why do you think THEY are there, looking for teen boys.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:08 AM
1

A woman is not a fortress wall to breach.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:07 AM
2

Hands are always the entry point for any "kino" ( I hate using PUA crap but its what people know here). You did good, son. No need to do boob or ass grabbing, the next thing up is always the kiss.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:04 AM
1

Text her like you chatted with her yesterday. Keep it short and simple, no text novels, those are always kinda freaky.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:02 AM
1

Nobody's keeping count! My GF is in her 40's and before me, her total guy count is 1, ONE. She got married out of highschool and only recently got divorced. I repeat, nobody is keeping count, and you are under no pressure to rack up chick counts in your life. Your main goal is to find somebody you can hang out with and enjoy life together.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:56 AM
1

How do you learn more about your best friend? I will bet you know a LOT about your friend just by hanging out with him and having those kind of mundane conversations about life and stuff you both are doing.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:53 AM
4

Forget about IOI's altogether. Put yourself out there like an open book, women will notice.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:33 AM
1

Tinder makes girls more choosy. They don't give a damn about your profile, only that you look good. You are like most guys, you think they're better looking than you are.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:30 AM
6

All escalation starts with hands. Hand touching is far more important to a woman than getting her ass grabbed.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:28 AM
6

Your friends are probably lying about their exploits (did 2 chicks when they say they did 20). Be a social guy in general, not just one of those PUA's that attacks girls blindsided with opening lines.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:28 AM
0

You have to be friendly to everybody...everybody. Ever notice the guys that have chicks all around them are nice to other dudes, are responsible, generous, helpful to others including their little old neighbor lady? he even puts her trash to the curb. Before you can have lots of girlfriends you need to have lots of guy friends, and make the extra effort to be social in general. How many potheads are social folks? Hardly any.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:26 AM
10

Self-improvement. If you like yourself, others will like you.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:19 AM
1

I'm dating a co-worker, its been fine for years now.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:16 AM
1

Just say "Hey sit next to me, its cool". Be positive. You're torpedoing your chances if you sit far away, it gives the impression you don't even want to be with her.
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:37 PM
0

You may be surprised, lots of people don't drink at clubs, just like how lots of people don't smoke at clubs. Guys who are good with girls aren't usually drinkers.
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:35 PM
1

Have you ever worked in an office?
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:34 PM
1

You're not supposed to hit on customers, didn't you read the employee handbook.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:21 PM
2

Dating skills take time and effort. Tinder is mainly for the short attention span types who want to get quick sex, and they have little time for dating amateurs.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:19 PM
1

Despite all the social engineers trying to tell us that fat is beautiful, it isn't and it will never be. Welcome to evolution, the ancient drives are too strong. Men may be characterized as superficial when it comes to women's bodies, but women are far worse. Fat guys might as well be invisible to most women.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:18 PM
1

When she arrives, have her sit down right next to you, and don't be afraid to touch hips slightly. Sitting across from her is actually a bit creepy. Make sure you have food, drinks. You don't want to look like you're a skinflint. Have a blanket to toss over both of you, it helps for snuggling. https://youtu.be/iTiWC8GpOgM
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:16 PM
5

Just wait. No need to text her.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:11 PM
1

Don't pretend to be her friend, make your intentions known from the beginning, she can handle it.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:11 PM
1

What is it with you kids and drugs, no wonder you're all messed up in relationships.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:08 PM
2

You're in the friend zone. No girl who likes a guy will talk about her BF to him, she would actually want to keep you out of it since she's lining you up for later. You are unfortunately her gay shopping buddy, emotional wet dishrag she can rely on when her romances go sour.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:07 PM
1

Just be nice, don't be afraid to have conversations at the office coffee pot and ask them how things are, express interest in their work. Keep it professional of course, don't be dirty dan the office man.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:05 PM
1

Thats just silly. I've been an office worker for decades and so many people have hooked up and even married later on from office dating. Its so much better to date where you work than to pick up anonymous people in bars who have drinking issues, criminal backgrounds, hide their wedding rings or are serial adulterers.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:04 PM
2

Tips: A full body shot isn't always the best thing. Make sure your face is clearly visible and you are smiling. Girls want to see your face primarily. Wear nice clothing appropriate to where you are, and make the background interesting but not distracting. So many guys think selfie in a public restroom is appropriate, it is not. If you have a hobby maybe have a pic of you doing it (say weightlifting, skiing, fixing clocks, whatever) Use a good digital camera. Never use a potato cam like a 6 year…
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:02 PM
13

Do nothing, she either has a boyfriend or doesn't want to talk to you so she plays the boyfriend card. Nothing is more annoying than a person that won't go away. If you're a man and a girl won't leave you alone after you said you had a girlfriend, how would you feel towards her?
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:38 PM
3

She is just delaying hoping you quit bugging her. Lots of girls hate to say no outright, so they use delaying tactics.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:32 PM
0

Drinking doesn't help things, ever. Even if you are not drunk, the moment a girl gets a whiff of your breath you automatically drop in appeal 90%. No girl wants to date a drunk.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:27 PM
1

Keep teasing and you will shoot yourself in the foot when you say the wrong thing.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:11 PM
32

Not in my experience. What they want is a guy who will constantly reassure them they are a worthy girlfriend since they doubt themselves daily.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:22 AM
1

I explained it. Talking, hanging out with her, getting to know her for who she is and rather than being the ass grabber guy, be the cute nice guy who knows how to talk that she dreams about. You have to invest time, effort and be genuinely interested in more than her pussy. Most girls can smell a mile away a "player" and they joke about said guys to their friends when you're not around.
/r/seduction21/12/17 04:10 AM
112

Find a shy girl and do it like rabbits.
/r/seduction21/12/17 02:04 AM
2

Perhaps your lovemaking skills need polishing.
/r/seduction20/12/17 09:16 PM
2

get her to talk about herself, that always works.
/r/seduction20/12/17 09:16 PM
1

One other thing, 1000 yard stare. Do you stare at women, or do you smile when you get eye contact with one? You really should smile when you get eye contact with strangers, it makes them feel more at ease
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:34 PM
1

Like I said, she wanted a fun fling. British chicks do this all the time in foreign countries, have a mad crazy affair, get drunk as a skunk, then go back home to their job and average life.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:32 PM
1

Be nice to her, she may have given it some thought and realizes she likes you now. Women are not logical creatures. I swear to god this happened to me, I went out on a date with a girl and it was fun but she was uncomfortable (age diff, she was older). We never really made anything out of it, so we drifted off. 14 YEARS LATER she decides that she likes me. I already had a steady GF though so no dice for her, waited too long.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:27 PM
1

1) 1st encounter, they're surprised at your interest, but just not impressed so they reject you. 2) later on they think a bit about it, and feel somewhat validated that somebody is giving them more than the usual attention, they want that feeling again. 3) They come back, checking to see if maybe you are still interested, or at the very least they know you know to some degree and see you as a potential friend.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:26 PM
2

Don't over analyze. Women do not hold all the cards, and they have the same concerns you do when interacting with the opposite sex. The only diff is women have a few years head start on guys (we play with toy cars, girls are already thinking about marriage and babies) so they're a tad smoother, but not all of them.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:23 PM
3

If they try to get you to buy stuff for them or they use you for social events (got 2 tickets to something, but won't even hold your hand)
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:21 PM
2

WHY do you go out and talk to dozens of women. What is your real objective, to impress your friends with hotties, or just to find a really nice, attractive, smart girlfriend so you can relax and have fun in life?
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:19 PM
1

A month?!? Too damn long, you should have already met face to face long before then. Analyze how you talk to girls, are you passive, do you text in a feminine manner (use a lot of emojis). At least she was nice enough to reject you up front, but apparently you didn't get the hint.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:18 PM
1

She's probably found somebody else, or just wanted you as a fun sex fling, and wasn't expecting you to follow her back home.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:16 PM
1

You had sex, the PUA time has ended, no need to tease or be funny or whatever. You established a level of intimacy. Treat her like you have known her for a long time. Be fun be nice be a man.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:14 PM
1

People date co-workers all the time. Its much safer than picking up anonymous bar sluts who can't stay sober in the afternoons.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:13 PM
2

Girls hand out phone numbers all the time, because they know they can block you or just ignore you. How long did you talk with her before you arm-twisted a phone number out of her? Girls want a guy that makes them want to call their friend right afterwards and say "I just met this really cool guy!". If you grab the number and bail, you did nothing. She tossed you into her "dudes I will never call back again" pile.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:12 PM
1

You're thinking too much, just have fun with her.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:10 PM
2

Situational conversation. Conversations are dances, not interrogrations. They flow, they wander, they sometimes take sudden turns. The trick is to ACTUALLY BE INTERESTED otherwise you will be fumbling for things to say, or worse will be attempting to drive the conversation down the road you want, instantly boring her with your rote PUA shit.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:07 PM
1

If you have her number you're 50% there. Just do something simple like "Sup Girl". "Thinking you, me, coffee." It shows confidence and masculinity. Don't do "gee I really like you maybe we could have coffee sometime plzzzz"
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:05 PM
1

"He died, well that sucks..." Be nice about it, its not like she will ever date anybody in the boy band. They're no threat to you anyway, you're the dick she can have, they're the dicks she can't have.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:04 PM
1

Do you like chicks with nasty teeth? Get'em fixed if your dental plan allows you to afford it.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:03 PM
1

You should have been more fun, send back a goofy face.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:02 PM
2

I would have just told her I have a big dick. They want to see confidence, not dodging questions. I have told women that after they have had me they won't want other guys so don't even bother dating other ones. Its a massive brag and they love it.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:01 PM
1

She changed her mind, or found some 9/10 fuccboi on tinder and picked him instead. Its just the nature of internet dating.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:57 PM
1

Tell her that you do the same thing to your friends (talk about her), see what she does.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:56 PM
5

A phone number or a kiss is not a close. You have to gain a real connection to a girl and that takes time. Just coming into a group, dive-bombing them with conversation and then pulling out like retreating Marines gets you nowhere.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:55 PM
7

How do you dress, how do you walk, how is your grooming. People get visual cues of how to deal with you based on these. You could be the nicest guy on the planet but if you dress up like a homeless fellow you will get treated like one.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:53 PM
4

Those are just buttering up complements not really things a girl would say because she likes you.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:52 PM
1

Take her to the park, raid mom & dad's fridge for picnic items. Go have a picnic (weather permitting)
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:34 PM
9

Shes probably just using you for an ego boost. Don't fall for it.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:26 PM
6

She doesn't like you. Any girl who likes a guy will go out with him regardless of how quickly she dumped her last BF.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:25 PM
1

Sounds like you're already in a relationship, why the curious worry about dates with her?
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:23 PM
5

Ditch your gym membership thats a black hole of money, do pushups in the living room and buy a $10 set of dumbbells. Get rid of your smartphone and get something practical for calls and texting. Common sense is all part of growing up
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:21 PM
3

You now know her, so when you see her again treat her like you have known her a long time.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:20 PM
2

Offer her an arm at least, and be confident about it. Don't be touchy feely, only creepy PUAs think brushing parts of a woman's body works. All touch should start with the hands first.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:09 PM
9

It works both ways, nobody wants to date a girl that doesn't listen to you nor cares or remembers what you said.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:06 PM
9

Women aren't always being truthful. They're always looking for mates, but many are using the "just looking for friends" thing to keep the creepsters away who go into fuck talk 30 seconds after initiating text chat. Don't be that creepy fuck chat guy and you will be fine.
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:01 AM
2

Hollywood isn't reality though. Remember actors are desperate people who will do anything to make it big including sleep with nasty executives, or tolerate creepy perverted jewish producers just to get a part. Hotness doesn't mean you are given immunity from your actions, especially these days when guys like Alex Baldwin and George Clooney are getting raked over the coals. Society has kind of gone off the tracks with feminism and its bizarre ideology. Women will always want a traditional man, al…
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:58 AM
6

No, grocery stores can often be great places to pick up chicks
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:45 AM
1

At least you know whats happening.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:42 AM
1

Well it sounds weird. I love my mother too but she's not the only woman I'm close to or care about. You might seek some mental health counseling, its not normal to be uncaring with everybody. Its quite typical for depressed individuals to harbor such feelings.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:37 AM
-1

The best cure for an ex is a new girlfriend.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:35 AM
3

You think too much. I knew a guy in a wheelchair who got a blowjob from a co-worker of his, a rather attractive one. Women aren't logical, don't assume they are. They're emotional beings, so anything can happen.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:34 AM
1

Slept with her, cool. Now you two are at an intimacy level far above a regular dating relationship. So act like it, don't feel nervous around her, treat her like you've known her forever. I slept with a girl I had dated for awhile, and the next date when she opened her apartment door I just grabbed her, pulled her close and planted a massive kiss on her, she loved it. the time for awkwardness is over, the relationship has begun.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:32 AM
1

Don't wear what every other guy wears. Conformity is invisibility. Black is a terrible color in a club because its dark in there. Wear what you like and what emphasizes your personality, because you may very well get called out for it by her. If you wear some motorcycle jacket you will get asked if you own a Harley....and if you say know she will say "oh, okay" and walk off. Shoes, always wear good shoes. Women notice shoes. Don't wear some dorky sneakers just because some black basketballer pro…
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:28 AM
2

Quit trying to control a conversation. Girls will just blurt out things so go with the flow, even if it bores you. Trust me lots of things girls say are boring (do we really care about lipstick and nail covers) but a good conversationalist will keep it flowing by sticking to the topic at hand and encouraging more dialogue.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:24 AM
1

Unfortunately many moms are committed (if unintentionally) to making their sons gay and dependent on them forever. You have to see a woman as an opportunity, another person to interact with and enjoy life with. You probably have issues with friendship with people in general, a coddling overbearing mother can do that to you. Life is riddled with mommas-boys who can't do anything without mommy around.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:12 AM
23

Guys don't care, its bro code. Women take priority.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:10 AM
3

Tinder is rejection without consequences, shes already moved on. You might hit her up with a msg just in case but don't be optimistic
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:09 AM
1

Don't wait so long or hover around her, they can smell that a mile away and instantly regard you as creepy-stalker-guy. Its best to approach quickly and the opener is less important than how you open. I always approach from the side rather than from behind, sneaking up on women is not a good thing. Girls have good peripheral vision and are already evaluating you when they see you out of the corner of their eye. Situational openers work best, say if you're in a country store and she's picked up a…
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:08 AM
4

I love porn, and have a steady GF. The problem isn't porn but not talking to girls. Your X-Box One is more likely the problem.
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:43 AM
6

Target department store at noon on saturdays and sundays. There are bored 30 year old women shopping there all the time.
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:41 AM
1

You've got hulk hair
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:54 PM
0

SUP BABY
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:52 PM
5

Ask their parents permission first unless you want to get beaten by an angry dad
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:52 PM
1

Keep your hands in your pockets and watch out for creepy dudes
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:46 PM
1

Don't assume she wanted to have your babies. I've been asked questions by random women who just wanted information, like the time a 70 year old woman asked me if a certain wooden table would look good with a lamp she picked out.
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:45 PM
1

A tinder girl wants a fun guy and unless you are fun and interesting she will move on to her next date. You only get one chance at it.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:46 PM
1

Women prefer deep voices. Men prefer a higher pitch voice in a woman. Just practice speaking and pacing, just remember that lowering your voice doesn't mean eliminating all your inflections and going monotone.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:45 PM
1

She just felt uncomfortable because you were leading her to the obvious, so she did the boyfriend tactic. I doubt she has a boyfriend really. You should try not doing leading questions and just have a simple conversation.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:43 PM
1

Its probably the weed, which makes your emotional state go into dips and crests. Lay off the leaf.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:41 PM
1

If you think you're in the friend zone, you are.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:40 PM
1

Work on yourself. Chubby guys are treated worse than ugly guys because they are virtually invisible to women. Some women will date uglies just because they're strange looking, no joke. Lose weight, get some good clothes, work on hygiene (women hate filthy men) and the confidence comes out.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:39 PM
1

1 stop drinking. Its the worst crutch of all and leads to more dangerous paths in life.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:37 PM
2

Women don't really change. They will always like a man who makes them feel feminine, sexy, protected and loved.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:37 PM
1

She's either being cynical or weird
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:36 PM
1

If a girl isn't eager to text back or call you she's not eager to meet you either. Lots of girls will hand out phone numbers but they will only respond to the guys they actually like. They can always block others out.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:35 PM
1

A perfect 10 girl is what you think a perfect 10 is, not what others think.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:34 PM
1

Drinking is not even necessary to meet chicks, neither is weed.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:33 PM
1

No because you most likely will freak her out and a shy girl will shut down and think it was her fault. The best thing to do is to get her interested, and then say "I have to talk to some friends" but still make yourself available (aka just be across the room). Then after a short period of time wave her over to meet your friends. this is basic socialization, you are building a connection, leave her wanting just a little bit and give her an easy way to get back into a connection with you and also…
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:31 PM
1

Do you like girls with nasty teeth
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:29 PM
1

Comes right down to confidence. Confidence is sexy to a girl, and when she's ready she will let you know.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:28 PM
1

College is great! Everybody wants to date, the trick is to always talk to girls at the beginning of the semester while they're still single, because during the semester plenty of guys will be competing with you for girls, and by the end of the semester most girls will have already hooked up and/or paired up. The longer you wait the worse off you are. Its just like nature.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:27 PM
1

Talk to everybody, even people you don't want to hook up with. Social skills are learned.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:26 PM
1

Women like men, not little boys. A man is a decisionmaker, a woman wants to follow, not lead her man around like a little boy. A knight in shining armor isn't a boy, he's a soldier, a poet, a man of substance, a defender, a caregiver and a protector.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:25 PM
2

2 months? 2 long. You have maybe 2 weeks before a girl loses interest and puts you in the friend zone and moves on to other more assertive guys.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:23 PM
8

The mind and body are linked.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:22 PM
-2

You should never ask for a number, if you're doing things right she will give you her number because she will be enthusiastic to meet you again.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:20 PM
3

Forget about kino, kiss "closes". The only touching you should start with is hands. Boob, ass, shoulder grabbers are creepy. What gets you a 2nd date is impressing her with your confidence, your dress, your poise, your decisionmaking and of course your looks.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:19 PM
1

Age tends to mellow you out. I'm so glad I'm not a teenager anymore.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:12 PM
1

Other than whacking off 1 hour before, I'd say just get out of your head and focus on her. If you internalize too much you will get quiet and awkward.
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:45 AM
2

EVERYWHERE. Just remember if you pick up a girl in a bar, don't be surprised if she's an alcoholic.
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:44 AM
1

Being playful means being relaxed. Get that down first.
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:43 AM
1

Take the hint?
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:31 AM
1

Even if your dance game is weak at least make an effort. Now I don't mean start doing the lawn sprinkler on the dance floor, just go along with her and do your best.
/r/seduction17/12/17 07:22 AM
2

Its awesome and easy at night school. Girls tend to be older and more mature and far more talkative. Its a different environment from the giggly teens in regular college.
/r/seduction17/12/17 07:11 AM
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