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5JS1XBG64A/r/askTRP16/07/16 06:16 PM
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Yep, that was exactly what I was thinking.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:17 PM
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Just walk up and make some witty remark about whatever she's looking at, putting in her cart, or maybe just something interesting you noticed about her, all with a shit eating grin on your face. Try and keep a lighthearted and flirtatious conversation from there. It really doesn't matter much what you say, so much as saying it in a confident and casual way. Don't worry about trying to hide the fact that you're hitting on her, she knows exactly what you're doing and will either be interested or n…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:38 AM
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I assume this is only for LTRs or potential LTRs? Doesn't seem to be much of a need for this as far as plates go, as there is no real expectation of exclusivity.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 02:18 AM
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This is absolute BP garbage and hopefully ban-worthy. Combined with your post history, this post makes it pretty clear that you're just here to bitch and moan instead of actually trying to better yourself. If you want to actually get serious about improving yourself instead of begging internet strangers to tell you you're pretty, give the sidebar an in depth read and go to the god damn gym and lift more.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 09:43 PM
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she doesn't have any other friends That sounds like a major red flag to me. Do you know this to be true, or is she full of shit? And I guarantee there are other guys willing to or already banging her. Either way, she clearly likes you enough to bang you and see you regularly, so sounds good enough to me.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:54 AM
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Sidebar my friend. Read it, then read it again. Lots of good info there.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:51 AM
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GrandmasterHurricane's response was perfect. However, just make sure you think this through. Assuming this doesn't work out, do you really want to be stuck as her lab partner for the rest of the class? If that's not a big deal to you, then go for it.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:50 AM
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If you're just plating, who cares? If you're looking for an LTR, good fucking luck. This is just another qualification on top of the other very strict ones for an LTR. If you're also actively seeking LTRs, you need to be careful. Don't get caught in the oneitis trap, and make sure to screen and vette thoroughly.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:47 AM
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Never take what she says at face value. Remember AWALT. And Iike I said, go for broke and try go bang/plate the one.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:45 AM
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All the circlejerking about not having female friends is fucking retarded. You absolutely can have female friends, and there are some definite benefits to doing so. Mine set me up with their friends, invite me to social events I otherwise wouldn't normally be at, and actively help me with other girls at these events. It's fantastic. The key is that there can be no attraction or desire whatsoever between the two of you. You have to truly be happy being just friends, and not in the slightest way w…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:32 AM
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Eagerly awaiting the beach posts.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:23 PM
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Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. You should be able to find a free pdf link online somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:22 PM
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Not nearly enough information go go off of here Why are you bothering to text her on fucking instagram unless you're setting something up?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 02:46 AM
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Because desperate beta males will send her free money just to try and get her attention. They're literally hookers minus the part where they provide an actual service. It disgusts me, but at the same time it's actually kind of funny. I can't say I blame these women for taking advantage of the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 11:07 PM
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Okay? Do you wanna get laid or not? I'm failing to see what any of your responses have to do with anything.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:18 AM
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So what?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:19 PM
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Keep on escalating with this girl. Sounds like a pretty solid prospect given her reaction.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:40 AM
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You keep spamming this sub with your god damn horseshit, and then outright refuse to take any of the advice anyone here gives you. All you do is bitch and make fucking excuses. Get the fuck out and get some professional help, I'm certain you need it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:36 AM
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If you mean online dating, yes it is. Not getting a response to anything you try is very normal. The answer is very simple. Be more attractive. Eat right, exercise (LIFT), make yourself as attractive as possible.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:21 PM
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You're in no place to even think about focusing on getting laid right now. You seem like you're looking for a shortcut. TRP is the shortcut dude, but guess what, it still involves work and effort on your part. You need to go out and develop basic social skills. Make some friends. Get involved with things in life. Lift and exercise. Work hard and try to improve your career. Improve yourself. It's called Monk Mode here. Focus on getting your ducks in a row and life on track for 6 months. Only afte…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:29 PM
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That clarifies what you're trying to ask a bit. Actions not words my friend, just understand that what she's saying is the reality for most even slightly attractive girls, whether they admit it or not. As for going after girls that play hard to get, well that's up to you. Just remember that she's nothing special, and finding another girl just as attractive and more interested wouldn't be too difficult.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:13 PM
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Agree with MattyAnon, cut this guy out of your life if possible. Consider a roommate change or maybe find a place off campus if it's not too late. He's weighing you down hard, and it sounds like he has some issues that you shouldn't have to deal with.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:06 PM
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Yep, it's pretty basic TRP knowledge. I tried to lay out the logic in my post. It's almost like reading the sidebar would answer most of the stupid questions that get posted here . . .
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:21 PM
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Jesus Christ dude do we have to spoonfeed it to you? Read the sidebar man. So what does that mean for me? Lift. Be an interesting person. Make yourself a 10 to women. Look for others who aren't like this AWALT. There are some girls who are better than others and might be LTR material, but they're few and far between, and even still, AWALT. Read up on this concept. There are plenty of examples. Again, Sidebar. try my luck with her Who the fuck is "her"? You never mentioned any girl in particular …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:17 PM
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You're reading too much into this. This statement actually can be taken at face value. Imagine that you spent your entire life having women from 1s to 10s throw themselves at you. You can have any one you want. You would only bother with the 8s, 9s, and 10s. The others wouldn't even register on your radar, would they? This is how it actually is for women, especially the attractive ones. Most guys, the 1s through 7s, mean nothing to her when she can have the cream of the crop come crawing to her …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 08:20 PM
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Seconded on the plate only. If you're catching too many feels for her to be a plate, hard-next and move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:06 PM
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I got hit with this one a few times last weekend. Surprisingly, that was the first time I've ever had to deal with it. I knew how to pass it, but my delivery wasn't too good. It almost went well with one of the girls, but I think I failed by still being a little to agressive/moving a bit too quickly. All in all it was a learning experience and I'll be better prepared for next time.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:24 PM
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I like to use Tinder as a metric for what kind of girls I can realistically expect success with. For example, if I'm doing well with 6's on Tinder, I can realistically expect to do well with 7's and maybe some 8's when actually going out.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:16 PM
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This is some "that happened" material. It was kinda believable until you tried to start preaching about her being an olympic athlete and only a 7 in your world and all that garbage. Regardless, even if it is true, trying to pickup women on a forum like reddit is a waste of your valuable time. There are much more efficient ways to achieve the same end result. If you're doing it just to see if you can get a girl from reddit, then by all means do it. If you're just trying to lay a hot girl, pretty …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 06:21 AM
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Attraction in general is absolutely subjective. It's just useful for our purposes to try and quantify attractiveness as objectively as we can. A Victoria's Secret model isn't a 10 necessarily because she's so hot (might not be your cup of tea like you said), it's more about her status. That status going to mean she has astronomically high standards, meaning she'll be more difficult than just any other hot girl. I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with all this, just kinda floating the idea.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:41 AM
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Interesting take. Kinda off topic, but I've always struggled defining what a 10 actually is. I think the 10 is in a bit of a different category than the 8s and 9s. The 9 category is made up of the most physically attractive girls you can picture. Any further improvement doesn't come from looks, but from other factors. A 10 is just as physically attractive as a 9, but the 10 has exceptional status. A 9 is a very hot girl with 1,000 followes on IG. A 10 is a very hot girl with 250,000 followers. A…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:05 AM
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Questions belong on asktrp, repost this there.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:25 AM
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I agree completely. I started here about 2 years ago, then took a break for a while. Now I'm back, and I've noticed a severe drop in post quality since then. Posts then were often very insightful, by people who clearly actually understood the content. I'm not sure what the solution is though at this point.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:43 AM
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All the answers you need to start are in the sidebar. Take some time to read it and take it all in.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:30 AM
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As others have said, you more than likely need to work on your game and on your vibe (never stop physically bettering yourself either). Also, trying to set your friend up with a girl he isn't particularly interested likely won't lead to good results for anyone, and it's kind of a dick move. I hope you keep posting weekly reports like this though, because hopefully you'll start having more success and it would be great to track in detail how you progress.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 03:08 AM
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she was a stripper Oh boy, major red flag. No shit she's gonna be crazy. cohabitates with a stripper You're a fucking dumbass on so many levels. cohabitates with psychotic girlfriend AND a stripper I didn't think this could get more fucking stupid, but it did. stopped talking to her entirely This was the first good decision you actually made. This girl is not your problem, stop talking to her entirely. The parents can figure their own shit out, they're adults. If they ask, just show them the cra…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:56 PM
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Just to clarify, this isn't just a high-SMV strategy, it's a strategy that should be applied within your SMV range. Basically, your female friends should have a similar or possibly slightly lower SMV to you (never forget that women date up and men date down). Their friends will likely have similar values to them as well, but of course there's a spectrum, so go for the ones that meet your definition of acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:28 AM
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Exactly. With enough attractiveness and the right vibe, it doesn't matter what the fuck you say. It's all about the how, not the what. This was one of the things I didn't really get until I actually got out and talked to girls. A compliment is a perfectly fine thing to say, but I recommend only doing it if it's genuine.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:13 AM
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This guy doesn't sound like a good friend There is no helping a guy that Bluepilled. Maybe OP could sit down and have a nice heart to heart with him on why he's a moron to try and set him on the right path, but more than likely his friend wouldn't take the advice As for this particular girl, this BP guy already screwed it up beyond repair. He was never getting any, no matter what he tried next. I don't personally condone messing around with your friends' women, but this girl definitely wasn't hi…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 07:15 AM
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Conventional wisdom would be to say stop dealing with her entirely given your history. However, it seems like you've got your shit figured out and in order. Under no circumstances should you even consider taking her back as anything more than a plate. If you wanna plate her fine, but don't go catching the oneitis again.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:06 AM
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Not sure where you're pulling the bitter thing from, it's a simple statement of fact backed up by a multitude of evidence. I do have to agree though, there is no excuse to be fat and out of shape while reading TRP. Lifting is basically the damn golden rule.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:51 PM
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This is idiotic. Unless you're fucking Adonis, you have to do something to stand out. Girls get literally hundreds of matches a month who just send something boring like "hey." You're just another one of the herd of cocks vying for her attention. Say something to create some kind of emotion, because "hey" is the most boring, uninteresting thing it's physically possible to say. Now, if you are an Adonis, then it literally doesn't matter what you say. There have been some good posts on this topic …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:55 PM
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Good on you for the improvement so far. You won the genetic lottery with your height there, so that's pretty cool too. As for dealing with negative emotions like anger, I just kinda learned to set it aside and not care. I see no reason to be all pissed off and angry if there's nothing I can do. If I can do something about a problem I will, but otherwise I just kinda forget about it and take it as it comes.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:38 AM
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You're the same asshat that posted a link to a relationships post about some girl's boyfriend taking creepshots of her sister in the shower, with the exact same 'help me' title. Mods ban pls.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:55 AM
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Yep. I found TRP about two years ago and voraciously read the sidebar material. Then I read a lot of the old top posts. I never really posted comments or questions, as I found that most of my questions could be answered with a little more research and by applying the concepts I had read about. I only really started to actually participate recently, as now I have a few years experience under my belt. I'm by no means a master, but I have some experience I find to be insightful and valuable.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:51 AM
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Bot ate my comment with a direct link. Direct links are no bueno here, but here's the name of the post. Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investment You don't have to do everything it says (like making a million different accounts and all that), but there is some good info to pick out.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 01:46 AM
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Notice how girls aren't lining up to fuck the skinny beta male Ivy League school nerd. Any benefit is marginal at best. It won't matter at all if you're not already physically attractive and have some decent game. If you do have those bases covered, then it probably would help a little bit. Just don't be a pretentious prick about it.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:34 AM
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It seems like most of the posts here lately are just idiots who don't read the sidebar
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:27 AM
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Absolutely, positively this. All those nevative emotions do nothing to solve your problem, and they just irritate everyone else. Stop yourself, examine your problem, determine a course of action to rectify it, and follow through. If you've genuinely done all you can to fix it, then there's just no point in sitting around angry about it. Get over it and do something else.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:06 PM
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No clue. Haven't seen or talked to any of them in years.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:00 PM
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Yeah I agree, copy/paste lines suck. You gotta personalize them somehow.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 10:47 PM
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Great report. I don't necessarily agree with all of your conclusions, but this is well structured, detailed, and highly informative. Very good. The one thing I majorly disagree with is the "no pickup lines" thing. It doesn't have to be a cheesy line, but you have to do something to stand out. Girls get hundreds of matches a month. If a guy gets as many as 30 a month, he's lucky. You absolutely positively have to do everything you can to stand out, and there's only a few ways to do that. Be attra…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:32 PM
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I completely forgot about her. What is she even doing now?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:19 PM
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Those are all stereotypes. Sure there's the flamers that absolutely match those stereotypes, but there's a lot of gay dudes out there who just seem like any other guy. I know a few who I had no fucking clue about until they brought it up one day and we were all just like "wait wtf really?!" Funny enough, they're more masculine than most of your average guys. They're total bros. I've watched them have to turn down some hot ass chicks too, which is always hysterical.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:22 AM
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I'm from the U.S. and I think I've only ever met one Chad in my life. As you might expect his name was a running joke in our friend group, but he was a cool dude so it was all in good fun.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:13 AM
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I would encourage you to go out on a limb and put yourself out there. Make friends, learn to be social, go to parties and try and have fun. Your coursework should absolutely come first, but enjoy your weekends man. College has the potential to be the most fun 4 years of your life. Grab the bull by the horns. Joining clubs and getting involved in them is the best way to make friends. Seriously, do this. Drinking is fine if you do it safely. Learn your limits, because being blackout drunk is never…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:11 AM
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Besides married red pill, reading some Rollo Tomassi might be good. He's happily married, and his work is pretty much considered sacred around here.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:04 AM
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Never planned on having kids, so I never really thought about it. I personally wouldn't go with something like Chad, just something relatively normal.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:02 AM
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Do what everyone else so far has already told you. Definitely have some confidence, because it sounds like you're on the right track and doing very well for yourself. Lift, work hard, and make friends as much as you can. I think you'll do well.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:00 AM
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Seconded, don't read too much into this. It was just an offhand comment from her being sociable.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:53 AM
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The fact that I just wasted 45 seconds of my time reading that horse shit disgusts me. Stop being an abusive asshole. TRP isn't about being a massive cock, it's about playing the game right so that you both get what you want. Just leave this girl alone. Move on. Let her move on. You're too focused on her, and it will be better for both of you if you go your separate ways. Go into monk mode for a few months. Be introspective, focus on improving yourself physically, as a person, and work on your g…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:45 AM
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Tell her to hang out with you. "Hey I'm doing x thing at y time on z day, you should come" or "Hey you should come over and hang out for a bit tomorrow." Can't hurt to try. But as you've figured out, dealing with her snapchat bullshit is a waste of your valuable time haha.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:39 AM
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She wants attention. Plain and simple.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:33 AM
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Work out before you go out. It really pumps you up and gets you in a good mindset. Also, as a few others have mentioned, cleaning. It's a nice way for me to zone out and relax while still being productive, plus girls love it if you keep your place tidy. It doesn't exacty pump you up like a workout, but it's still something good to do.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:31 AM
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Your response, while I like it personally, sounds like it might just create unnecessary drama with your mutual friend. Just tell her you've been pretty busy or some generic vague bullshit like that. She'll take the hint eventually. I'm assuming you've been working on improving yourself over the past 3 months, so alternatively, you could try and invite her over to talk over drinks and escalate like the other commenter said. If you do definitely post a field report.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:24 AM
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Fuck yes dude. Lift, eat a ton of protein, gain muscle. There's a ton of good fitness advice on TRP and elsewhere online. Chicks love big muscular athletic dudes. Like others of have said, there's plenty of posts about how much differently people treat you after you get bigger and more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:56 AM
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You're here asking about how to get witty while texting her, when you shouldn't even bother texting her other than to set up plans. Get flirty and sexual in person, over text is a waste of both of your time.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:52 AM
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Why are you bothering worrying about texting her other than for actually setting up dates?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:33 AM
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I'm not sure what that unintelligible nonsense of a comment was supposed to be, but it's garbage. It's absolutely possible to be just friends with a girl. Granted, you'll never have the same kind of friendship you can with other men, but it's still rewarding. Female friends can set you up with their friends, provide decent advice about things like how you dress, and generally be good company.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:24 AM
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You don't have to be the stereotype to make them think you're gay. Most gay dudes I know you would never have a fuckin clue about. Just casually mention a boyfriend in conversation or something.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:16 AM
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Unironically this
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:10 AM
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Doesn't seem like an RP issue to me. However, since you're interested, there is overwhelming evidence that the way the media reports on these things is a pretty major factor in their frequency. Tl,dr; Due to their grossly negligent and irresponsible coverage of mass shootings in the name of getting views and making money, the media is leading to the deaths of children and other innocent Americans. Sources: https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2016/08/media-contagion-effect.pdf http://journals…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:06 AM
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First of all, you're a motherfucking moron for getting involved with this psycho woman at all. Don't. Shit. Where. You. Eat. Document everything, get as much evidence as you can, and go to the police and HR. Tell HR you went to the police as well, and they'll bend over backwards to make her go away at work. That covers your bases professionally, but HR can't protect you from her slashing your tires and whatever crazy shit she might do.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:39 AM
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Treat Tinder like the joke that it is and you'll do surprisingly well.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:27 AM
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Get creative. Maybe use something from one of her pictures. You could try some obnoxious but funny pickup line. I was always a fan of name puns, which work surprisingly well. Just go browse the Tinder subreddit and you'll get some ideas of how to get in the creative mindset. The most important thing is following rules 1 and 2 though. I don't know if you've ever seen a girl's Tinder matches before, but holy fuck is it eye opening. As a guy, if you get 7 matches a week, you're doing pretty decentl…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:23 AM
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Don't go out of your way to talk to this girl, but be polite if you do have to. You shouldn't be trying to have an LTR with some ho in high school anyways. It more than likely won't be worth your time. Sounds like she might still be dtf though, so you could at least enjoy that. Ultimately though, who gives a fuck it's high school? Use whatever time you have left in high school to get good grades so you can get into a good school (assuming that's the route you plan on taking) and on lifting. High…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:14 AM
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You could try clicking the link and reading what it says. He's an Endorsed Contributor, so pay attention to what he says.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:03 PM
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See if a friend can help you out as far as learning. You're legally an adult, so there's nothing they can do to stop you from getting a license. Try and talk to them about why they won't let you get one though. I feel like there's more to the story here.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:01 PM
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Sounds to me like she's moving on, but I'd still ask to her get together just because you have nothing to lose. Just don't be a dumbass and lose frame or anything like that.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:56 PM
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I don't think linking directly to other posts is kosher. Might get removed. What the fuck is the point of this post?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:51 PM
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it's been a few weeks Man you gotta strike when the iron's hot. The longer you drag this out and play games, the less interested she'll be. She'll find other options, women have plenty. Snapchat doesn't mean shit if you're not seeing her face to face.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:48 PM
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I haven't seen anything quite that bad personally yet, but I've seen some shit that's made me feel physically sick. You can know and truly understand AWALT and all, but not much can prepare you for the visceral gut reaction when you see it in action.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 06:17 AM
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Oh I know what you mean and I agree, just thought I'd share that little story haha. Funny enough, less than 10 minutes later she was trying to hang around some other guys and ignore me. Granted, I probably tried to move things too quickly and may have lost a little frame. I was quite pissed at the time, but we all need reminders of the principles now and then.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:15 AM
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Bonus: Besides getting laid, you learn to recognize cheating behavior even more easily by seeing it from the cheater's perspective.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 05:16 AM
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Rereading the sidebar from time to time is important. Once you do that, if you have specific questions, just try searching the topic and see what comes up. Plenty of good posts to read on most topics.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:34 AM
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Go to the main subreddit, and do the following: Read. The. God. Damn. Sidebar. There are no shortcuts. Put in the effort instead of asking these garbage questions that could be answered if you did what everyone else did.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:19 AM
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. . . Dude it's a TV show. Fiction. Cartoons != reality
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:15 AM
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I had a girl do it to me at a party once. Kinda caught me off guard for a second, but not like I was gonna say no haha.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:49 AM
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Of all the things to be addicted too, exercise is about the best one. I'm not sure if you should feel like puking after every workout, but I'm no exercise scientist either.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:56 AM
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If you actually value this friendship at all, don't even think about doing anything with her. It's just asking for trouble. To screw iver your friend like that makes you barely any better than her. Now if it was some stranger that had a boyfriend, I would say that if it isn't you, it'll be someone else. But this is your good friend's girlfriend. Different story entirely.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:44 AM
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All up to individual preference I guess whether or not the drama is worth it. I generally would agree that it's more than likely not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:34 AM
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You're absolutely correct. What I'm saying is that by sleeping with a married woman or one in a relationship, you're not necessarily inherently doing anything wrong. You're not forcing her to cheat. You're not manipulating her into sleeping with you. She's an adult and can make her own decisions. She chose to cheat. I totally get that a lot of men may not be comfortable with that morally, and that's fine. Stick to your core values. That's the RP thing to do, stick to your core values. As a side …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:28 AM
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Ah. Yeah it can be hard to swallow. Read a lot of field reports, they'll really help reinforce these things as true for you. Take a leap of faith and try to apply these principles yourself as well.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:20 AM
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So while I think that your thinking may be a little flawed (You obviously weren't an alpha as a 5 year old child, that's just silly), there is actually something to be gleaned from this. If you've taken a development psychology class, you'll know that young children are very egocentric. Now I barely paid attention in class, so I don't remember off the top of my head the name of the fellow who characterized this as an entire stage of a child's development. Regardless, it doesn't matter. Look at h…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:17 AM
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Second guessing yourself about what? About being used for validation? If you're new to this I get it, the pill can be hard to swallow. Confidence will come from self improvement and experience, so do your best to get as much as you can. Cut this girl out of your life entirely. Don't get angry with her, don't try to explain or reason, just stop talking to her and move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:04 AM
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If it wasn't him, it would be someone else. Let's not pretend he was some 11/10 SMV superstar who baited her into cheating, she was fully aware and in control of her own actions. Whether or not you personally feel comfortable being a part of that is entirely up to you, but understand that if you do sleep with a girl in a relationship, she's the one who decided to cheat, not you. She is responsible.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:59 AM
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You need to hold yourself to a higher standard. We all do. Otherwise we're no better then the women who cheat and cause us problems. If things were that bad in your LTR, you shouldn't have been in it to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:51 AM
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I get that. It really helps to just sit down, relax, and read through everything in the sidebar. Read top posts from the past few months, even years. It can get pretty interesting going down the rabbit hole, and you'll learn a lot.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:49 AM
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The entire point of TRP is making sure that girls don't see you as Mr. Beta Bucks. There are certain occasions where displaying Beta characteristics can be useful, but ultimately you need to be seen as an alpha. If a girl firmly plants you in the "Friendzone" aka "as a Beta" then it's not worth your time or effort to try and change that. More than likely you'll be unsuccessful, and you definitely will if you keep trying the same Bluepill tactics that put you there in the first place
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:29 AM
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Contrary to what some people believe, it's very important to have female friends. These are women who you genuinely have no sexual interest in, but can get along with well. They actually can be good friends, provide decent advice, set you up with their friends, and provide a myriad of other social opportunities.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:10 AM
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Good God yes you're an orbiter. Unless your SMV took a sudden and massive jump, she's sucking validation out of you like cum out of Chad's cock. There's no reason to be talking to a girl who you wanna bang but "friendzoned" you. I'm starting to feel like a dick repeating this in every damn comment, but read the sidebar man. This should all be obvious if you did.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:06 AM
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This is a good field report. We need more of these from time to time to reinforce the lessons of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:03 AM
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Ahhh that explains it a bit. Here I was thinking you were a college kid in the dorms. Like the other commentor said, escalate until you get resistance. Maybe go a little slower due to your ages. As for keeping this quiet, again, I wouldn't try to go out of your way to hide it. That's just stupid and immature. Don't go screaming it from the roof obviously, but just keep your mouth shut unless it comes up. If you don't have a reason to talk about it, don't. What's your business is your business.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:54 AM
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AWALT. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Remember this. No oneitis. Don't go all beta bucks on her and get desperate, you'll just turn her off. Have an abundance mentality. If you haven't even kissed the girl, let alone slept with her, you can't even begin to seriously consider her for an LTR. She might check all the boxes so far, but that doesn't mean anything until you really get to know her. This weird shit about going out of your way to keep your potential relationship secret is stupid. …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:22 AM
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I'm a STEM major so yes. Maybe where I go it's a little different, but there's a pretty sizable chunk of decent dudes in all my classes. It has been that way consistently. Your description sounds about right for comp sci classes though haha
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:22 PM
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Hell then go for it! I wouldn't expect it to be any easier though. The problem with nerdy/STEM girls is that those fields are a sausage fest. Not everyone in them is a socially retarded skinnyfat basement dweller either. In some cases, these girls might be even tougher than your average ho.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:04 PM
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Just slightly higher quality sluts Maybe intellectually? But that's a small part of the overall picture. They're no different than any other girls out there. But hey, if the brainiac stuff floats your boat, so be it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:43 PM
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She earns more than me Always trying to get me to work harder and save more for holidays, higher rent, better clothes While you absolutely should end things with her based on the other stuff you've told us, she has a damn good point here. Why AREN'T you working harder and saving more? You should be doing these things because they're good for you, not because she's nagging you like your mom would to get you to do them. Move out while she's gone, break up with her face to face when she gets back. …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:22 PM
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I read the other one, and it changes nothing about my advice for you. You don't seem to have confidence, and you definitely don't have abundance mentality. All this talk of settling comes from this incorrect mindset. You talked about your looks and how "there's a real chance of me not being able to find any (other women) because of them." Bullshit. Get your ass in the gym and lift until you look like fucking Hercules. Get on a good diet to shred bodyfat (which helps with facial aesthetics). Get …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:41 PM
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Step back and ask yourself, having read the sidebar and internalized the material, is this girl REALLY LTR material? I'm willing to bet the answer is no if you're questioning her this much. If she isn't break up with her. On the off chance that she actually is, the problem lies with you and your lack of confidence, which you've alluded to. Are you in good shape physically? Happy and confident with your appearance? No matter the answer, go lift more. Are you happy with where you're at in life? Is…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:34 AM
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Good God she's crazy. You dodged a bullet. You probably have nothing to worry about, but save all communication from her on the off chance that she tries to accuse you of something. Sounds like you did everything fine, she's just absolutely mental. You don't wanna fuck with that. If nothing else, at least learn to ALWAYS carry a condom, even on guys' nights. You never know where the night will take you. Even better, carry two in case one breaks, or you want to go again in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 12:14 AM
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If she's willing to do as much as she's done already, that boyfriend doesn't mean jack shit to her. AWALT. Sounds like you had some good game up until you got her in bed. That chest line was gold, I'd use it myself if I had a bigger chest haha. Gotta get lifting more. I would avoid the online option if possible. If you'll be seeing her in person again soon, I'd try to work her in person. Online should be a last resort. Remember not to lose frame and chase her too much, you're the prize. I'm no w…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:04 AM
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You sound like you've been reading a lot of PUA material. A lot of that is valid, but I would read the sidebar on the main subreddit and try and learn more of the RP theory. Apply it to what you already know. I have nothing specific for you other than maybe try to minimize asking the interview type questions. Women are creatures of emotion. Don't ask boring questions like: "Hi what's your name? What school do you go to? Where do you work?" Getting her hame is obviously important, so when she tel…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:33 PM
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You're very right, it is. The solution isn't to keep trying to get out of it and into her pants (meaning you're still entirely within her frame), the solution at this point is to walk away entirely. You'll never be happy being her just friend, and she'll never want to fuck you, so why even bother associating? It's best for both of you. I think if you take our advice, you'll learn from this. You said in one of your other comments that you're working on calibration, which can be difficult at first…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:22 PM
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I don't want to accept the friendzone This. Is. Oneitis. Plain and simple. It seems clear to me that you've already destroyed your chances of a relationship with this woman. If for some reason you absolutely cannot cut her out of your life, do what you need to do to maintain a civil and professional relationship with her, and accept that any kind of relationship will never happen. Otherwise, stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:11 PM
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is this not a bad deal SMV wise? It's absolutely awful. His SMV literally cannot be topped. That being said, it doesn't mean he's not in a Bluepill mindset. Like GLO said, the U.K. is basically ground zero for this kind of nonsense. It shouldn't surprise anyone.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:58 PM
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I definitely like your approach here. My only thought would be wouldn't something like "Damn someone's getting laid tonight lol" be better than what you said? It just comes across as sounding too much like one of her girl best friends. your LTR in general she should know you'll leave in a second if she cheats I have a thought here. It seems to me that it would actually be better if she thought that you might give her another chance, so that she'll go to less lengths to hide it and you're more li…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:16 AM
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Well without specific examples I have no idea. If someone is genuinely just being a cock, why are you even with them?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:52 AM
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Have you read about shit-tests and strategies to pass them? It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:02 AM
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Make eye contact. Smile and wave, maybe motion her over or go talk to her yourself. my friend says to follow her on Instagram and dm her there Your friend is a moron. You should probably do the exact opposite of what he tells you in the future. This kind of behavior is how you come across as a creepy, desperate beta male loser. If you even considered this to be a valid option, you probably are. Read the sidebar, internalize the material, lift, and better yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:55 AM
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it definitely doesn't apply to someone you've been married to for years But it does. That's what you would get if you actually read the sidebar material. Once again, these principles are universal, at least in the context of Western culture and the rest of the first world. Arguably, the western culture and first would qualifiers aren't even needed; they're universal, period.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 01:48 AM
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See, the fact that you're so focused on the "club/tinder date" thing makes me highly skeptical that you did read. If you did read, you need to read again and really think about the material. The core material of the sidebar isn't about "take action 'a' in 'x' situation", it's about basic underlying principles regarding attraction and interaction between the sexes. These principles are applicable across the board, not just in the club.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 01:21 AM
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Reading the material before posting.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 12:52 AM
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Someone hasn't read the sidebar. Edit: Annnnd posting history confirms it. Why are you even here if you're not even going to make an effort to understand?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 12:40 AM
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I really couldn't tell you any good resources, I'd just say look at what people your age and in your area normally wear. See what looks good and what doesn't. If you like something, try it out yourself. Also if you have any female friends, they might be able to help. The biggest thing is finding something that fits you well. Being in good shape really helps with finding clothes that fit. If you're trying to look good, your clothes should be tight enough so as to show off your body, but loose eno…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:25 AM
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Sounds about right to me. Granted, I have no experience in the black dating world cuz I'm about as white as can be, but I see no real reason things should work differently for you than me, at least in regard to plate spinning. Of course there's the whole thing with women who fetishize black men and women who are racist and hate black men, and other stereotypes to deal with, but those don't really seem to apply to this aspect of game.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:06 AM
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Movies are not conducive to any of the things that would get you laid. You both literally just sit there and stare at a screen for two hours, no interaction whatsoever. Maybe 15 minutes before the movie or casual conversation and maybe 5 minutes after. Anything progress you make in the first 15 minutes will be erased by that two hour movie. Women are creatures of emotion, not logic. You can't negotiate your way into her pants or her heart. Tl,dr; Go see the movie with her if you want, but expect…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:03 AM
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It's high school; I'm assuming both of you are graduating soon. A two month relationship in high school means nothing, especially when you'll both probably be going your seperate ways. I can think of way too many instances of hearing "We'll be fine even though we're at different colleges (or not together for whatever reason)" and less than a month into school starting they're broken up. Also for what it's worth, I've never met a girl who was relationship material that had a stud. In my mind, the…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:41 AM
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I did something really fucking stupid I disagree. You had a good time and set yourself up for a good time at and after the wedding. The fact that all the girls are getting pissy about it isn't your problem. They'll get over it soon enough, and your friend seems to have a good attitude about the whole thing.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:29 AM
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What SirKolbath said. You need to be in control and aware enough of your emotions to avoid the oneitis. If you start to feel that way, cut back or stop seeing her altogether. If she is genuine LTR material (and you need to SERIOUSLY and HONESTLY evaluate whether she is or not), maybe consider working your way towards that if you want. Just remember, no oneitis, and AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:25 AM
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Depends. Doing someone a favor like you would any friend here and there is fine (i.e. "watch my purse for a second while I use the restroom"),but something like "So are you gonna buy me a drink" is a shit-test. It's flirting. Engage in some playful banter, maybe something like "Sure, do you like lemon in your icewater or no?" Continue conversation and banter from here.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:21 AM
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Yep, almonds and cashews do it for me.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:31 PM
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Fuck man, almonds are like crack to me. They're just so damn good.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:34 AM
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You should give us a rundown of the conversation where you "maker her an offer." Actual quotes really enhance a field report.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:02 AM
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You should post the archive of the thread (since direct links are forbidden).
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:50 PM
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All the other advice you've been given (i.e. drop her immediately) is good. If you've been reading a lot, you've probably come across this phrase: "You can't negotiate attraction". Internalize this. It's important.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:44 PM
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If you're always going to want something more, neither of you will ever be happy, and it may just be best to cut her off and move on. No anger or resentment, just a logical decision. If you can continue your friendship with her and GENUINELY be happy accepting that any kind of relationship will never happen, you're fine. Having female friends is a very valuable thing. They provide a lot of opportunity, and contrary to what some here might think, they can just be great people to hang around in ge…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:31 PM
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I think you would be good. People link to other TRP posts all the time on here. All the non-TRP posts that get linked are always archived since those are "external"
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:18 AM
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I wonder if expert TRPers find feminism itself to be one giant shit test. Bingo. Fucking B-I-N-G-O. It's funny, as I'm sure you'll learn, once you get underneath that uber-feminist layer of shit test nonsense, those girls are just like every single other normal chick. Just as easy to have a nice time and sleep with. At least, that's been my experience. Pretty sure there are some older posts to this effect. I haven't been around in a year or two, so maybe even more recent.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:11 AM
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I say shit like this on a daily basis. It's all about context. If you say it with a laugh and shit eating grin, it's just a joke. If you said it in a serious context, then it certainly can be offensive. Also might hint at an insecurity she has.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:43 PM
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This isn't the place for politics, and you shouldn't talk politics with friends, unless you know for a fact that they share similar beliefs as you. Politics is actually something I care about deeply, but I know when to just keep my mouth shut, as hard as it is.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 12:00 AM
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Do you have any recommendations for a beginner's lifting program? I'm hoping to put on some weight in muscle (currently 6'0 and 148lbs). Been doing bodyweight for a while, so I'm in decent shape. I'm considering Stronglifts, but I've seen some mixed reviews.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:44 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one who read it that way haha. Great show.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 06:14 PM
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I'm seeing both answers in this thread, and there's a reason for that. People are interpreting this question differently. U/Don_Keydick's response that men have more to offer than women besides looks is correct. Think of it in terms of percentages. 90% of what a man values in a woman is physical attractiveness, but is only 60% of how women value men. That being said, women have higher standards for what they deem acceptable attractiveness. It's a basic RP principle: Men date down, women date up.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 02:55 AM
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Where's he learning it? I hope for his sake and your wallet's that your answer isn't ATA. That was such a waste of time and money.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:22 AM
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Again, proving my point. There's no use in arguing with you, because all you do is resort to childish insults. Let this be a lesson to those who may read this: Do not argue with idiots; you'll never win.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:09 AM
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You're just proving my point. That's the kind of petty response I would expect from a 12 year old. Instead of making some kind of argument, you wrote a silly little passive agressive response. Also, there's no need to make a post; another user already did.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:06 AM
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I've been in a situation like this, although the group was a much more even split. Like another commenter said, if you just make your own plans and do cool shit, the women will follow. It's even easier for you if you really are more attractive than the rest. When I was abroad, I had a friend who just went around and did whatever he wanted to do. I, along with a bunch of other people (men and women) were always tagging along (I wasn't as much of a leader in those days). It was funny watchcing peo…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:09 AM
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Absolutely. You don't have success by sitting around and waiting for people to come crawling to you (because it will almost never happen). You have success by going out and going after what you want. You have to work hard and put out maximum effort.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:58 AM
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I'm amazed at how many upvotes this post got. No shit you should approach hot girls who give you IOIs, but the reality is that those girls are EXTREMELY rare. Of course, you can raise your SMV so that hotter girls will give you IOIs, but it will still be relatively few attractive girls that do. Why deprive yourself of opportunity by ignoring the majority of girls who won't give you an IOI? It's not necessarily because they're not interested, rather they're busy and not specifically out to flirt …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:54 AM
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I assume this is in response to that other idiotic post about "approaching girls who give you IOIs AND are hot." I agree with you completely, and I'm amazed at how many upvotes that post got. No shit you should approach hot girls who give you IOIs, but the reality is that those girls are EXTREMELY rare. Of course, you can raise your SMV so that hotter girls will give you IOIs, but it will still be relatively few attractive girls that do. Why deprive yourself of opportunity by ignoring the majori…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:52 AM
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Go to r/Redpillwomen.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:31 AM
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Not so sure it's a strange habit really. Sounds like a good insurance policy to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 07:51 PM
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I'm in no way qualified to give you advice about your marriage, but I will say this: Document. Everything. Do a damn good job of it too. It will make your life less hellish if you go for the divorce now. If you don't do it now, who knows what may happen in the future? It's like having a weapon for self defense; you hope you never have to use it, but you want to be very well prepared for if you do.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:40 AM
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This is such an idiotic comment. Yes genetics are important, but you use them as an excuse for lack of success. That's one way that we're incredibly fortunate as men: Our attractiveness to women isn't dependent mosty on genetics. We can work out and eat right in order to get ripped. No matter how much effort a woman puts in, her body shape is mostly genetics. The best she can do is not he fat. Women's view of men isn't all about physical attraction either, whereas most of our view of women is ba…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:43 AM
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FBI crime statistics are more than politically motivated theater. In this case, the way in which rape is classified can certainly skew statistics, so I won't argue with that. For the most part though, they're pretty reliable. That study was an interesting read. The numbers (40% to 50%) are frighteningly high, but the truly scary part that also happens to support those numbers is the psychological analysis of these women. It's not viewed as uncommonly extreme for women to do these kinds of things…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 09:43 PM
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Completely lost it at "You can't be a fly nigga if you raise your hand." Seriously though, I'll be damned if these guys aren't among us. The girls using men as emotional hookers is pure Redpill. Emotional beta orbiters are the male equivalent of slutty women.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 09:14 PM
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I think the 8% figure came from some late 90's FBI report, so it's certainly not just made up. That being said, that was 20 years ago, and things have changed. I definitely believe the number could be (and probably is) higher, but I've seen studies that back up what you say, and ones that say the number is far below even 8%. To be fair, I haven't done a ton of in depth research into it, so if you could point me towards some sources, I would appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 08:38 PM
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I was the first comment here, and so far, I've accurately predicted everyone's responses. It's not because I'm some psychic with mystical powers, it's because the answer really is that obvious. Hard next and read the sidebar. EDIT: Second comment, but my point still stands.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 06:54 PM
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There's a reason that a girl having mostly male friends is such a huge red flag. Actually, there's multiple reasons. First and foremost, she NEEDS their constant validation. Anyone who's been part of a group where there's always that one girl who hangs with the guys knows just how specially she is treated. Her need for that level of validation is, in my opinion, indicitave of psychological issues. Combined with the fact that she had a troubled upbringing, I'm certain that this is a can of worms …
/r/askTRP13/08/16 06:51 PM
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Bottle it up in public; be stoic. Find an outlet in private. Maybe close friends/family (without being a whiny bitch), maybe in the gym. As another user suggested, work through your emotions logically. Understand them, accept them, and move on from them. You can't just bottle up everything and let it fester. It's only a temporary fix. Serenity now, insanity later.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 06:33 PM
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Obligatory read the sidebar and learn that shit. No quick fixes here. That being said, I'm willing to bet everyone is going to tell you to hard next this bitch. They're right. She sounds pretty toxic.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 06:27 PM
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OP, this stuff is definitely useful, but be aware of a few things. Don't just go out there and repeat exactly what you hear, especially without understanding why it does/doesn't work. Watch the videos; analyze what they say. This shouldn't necessarily give you canned lines to use, rather than give you an idea of the mindset and attitude you need to have so that you do these things naturally. On another note, seriously listen to what Vasya (the EC) has to say. He's an EC for a reason, and I perso…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 01:25 AM
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Based on a quick Google search, the most accepted number is around 8%, but those are only the ones reported to the police. There are studies that place the percentage higher, but the generally accepted number is 8%. Since this statistic only counts rapes actually reported to the police, I'm willing to bet that the percentage of false rape accusations made, but retracted/not necessarily reported is significantly higher. We all know the kind of damage those accusations can do to a person's life th…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 12:56 AM
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AskTRP is plagued with these kinds of posts. It's infuriating.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 12:45 AM
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Parts of this make sense, but this post is all over the place. You lost me when you started ranting about TKAM. I think you mentioned it in part one of this too, so why do you have such a hate fueled hard on for TKAM? It's been a few years since I've read it, but I don't see how in the hell it has anything to do with some sort of "sexual strategy." I remember that Tom (the black guy) was falsely accused and convicted of raping a white woman, but I don't recall there being anything like you descr…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 11:11 PM
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In my opinion, it's effeminate and just makes you look like an attention seeker. Watches are the only piece of jewelry I like and ever intend to wear, as they actually have a functional purpose. Regardless, do what you want, and ONLY because you want to. It's not about what others think, it's about you being satisfied with yourself.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:49 AM
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I just have to comment on how many people are giving you shit for wanting a low n-count girl. You're perfectly reasonable for wanting that. I'm curious how many of these people have heard of a chemical called oxytocin. It's released during sex, and its purpose is to facilitate bonding and connection between the couple. It's a chemical. A drug. Women who have had lots of sex with lots of different partners likely have a tolerance to it, just as an alcoholic has a high tolerance for alcohol. What …
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:10 AM
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Redditor as of four days ago? This isn't the relationships subreddit. Read the sidebar, and make sure you understand that material completely. Then you can come back if you have questions.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:50 AM
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That list has an interesting mix. A good portion of it is describing Redpill behavior and trying to shame men who act like that. There are also parts where the idealogies actually line up, such as the one about smoking pot and playing video games. Mostly, the list is feminist shaming tactics, but even the bluepill ideology can't justify some behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 03:31 AM
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The only way to win is to quit while you're ahead. Maybe a good way to get through life for those with a desire for LTRs would be to just hop from LTR to LTR, enjoying each for what it is, and ending it once things inevitably start to head South.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:40 PM
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Hey man, I'm the same age as you. I want you to read that stuff because it's helped me immensely. We're lucky to have found this place early in our lives. We need to take full advantage of that and enjoy the hell out of the time we have.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:51 AM
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Why the fuck are you in an "LTR" at 18, especially with a hormone filled 16 year old who is clearly not LTR material? Very, very few people are in a place where they can maintain a healthy LTR at those ages. Anyways, maybe you've read the sidebar, but it's clear that you haven't internalized any of its principles yet. Read it again. Then, read it one more time, and this time, internalize the lessons and concepts it teaches. Stop. Think. Reflect. The answers to all of your questions should be qui…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:38 AM
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A woman's current emotional state is her reality. She may have been having all kinds of fun last night, but the next day she is back to "normal". She realizes that maybe you're nothing special, she has options, whatever the reason is.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:18 PM
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Like others have said, the PUA content does actually have some value, and yes, to some degree, it does work. Here's the thing: PUA is solely focused on game. Game is essentially conveying value and building comfort. If you're not confident and can't convey value, you have to "fake it till you make it." You can only fake so much value. This is one of the fundamental differences in TRP and PUA. TRP focuses on building your own value AND having game to convey that value. You lift to look good and b…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:47 PM
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Excellent post. I enjoy your writing style. Confidence is absolutely key when it comes to teasing. Stuttering some sexual tease in a low mumble while not even making eye contact is a sure fire way to get slapped and labeled a creep. On the other hand, making your comment with an authoritative voice, staring her straight in the eyes, and with a grin that puts Jay from the Trident gum commercials to shame will build attraction like you wouldn't believe. Remember, stick to your guns. I've been guil…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 05:32 AM
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Only had to read up to the part where you're living with her. There is no reason on Earth that you should EVER live with the opposite sex, especially in a housemates scenario. Get out as fast as possible, this is a highly toxic environment. EDIT: I decided to actually read the rest of your post. Woman living with boyfriend + his housemates, flirts with other residents, causes drama and tension, nothing new or special here. Get out of there ASAP.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:35 PM
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A good response like yours, and hooking up with a woman have something in common: plausible deniability. In both situations, it's clear what the true meaning is (you're going to have sex / your cousin was using a lot of data), but there's still that layer of deniability. The woman can say that she "just went over for drinks" or "it just happened" to rationalize / prevent slut-shaming, and you can say that you were serious about the phone company overcharging so that you don't appear as the bad g…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 05:16 AM
3

One of the things that helped me out with approach anxiety was watching some of the RSD videos, particularly some of the Infield Compilation ones on the Hyde Infield YouTube channel. It really shows that you can get away with saying the most ridiculous, asinine shit if you say it with absolute confidence.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:09 PM
1

Another great example of AWALT. One topic I think you forgot to mention is that he has the added bonus to SMV from being foreign/exotic. I can say from personal experience that it really is amazing how far being different like that can get a guy.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:45 PM
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He's another guy, so just be upfront with him about why you can't do it. As a man and long time friend, he should understand that. Also, props to you for running your own business and having the self control to say no to this.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:12 PM
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Exactly. Always ask yourself, "what can a woman provide for me that a guy can't?" Your male friends are capable of giving you all the things you can get from a woman, except for sex. That "connection" a beta and woman feel when he's orbiting her can be replicated in an actually meaningful way among your male friends. The only thing they can't give you is sex, which is where women come in.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:10 PM
1

Document everything, just in case. Screenshots, record calls if possible (although I would avoid contact with her anyways). It might just be nothing, but be prepared anyways.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:02 AM
12

You said you would do something, and then almost immediately went back on your word. I read your whole post, but that's the only part that matters. This isn't her "not getting her way," this is you just being a prick. You're in the wrong here.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 01:54 AM
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Fuck no man. Fuck. No. Seriously, do you pay attention to world events at all?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:37 AM
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http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/11/several-real-life-examples-soft-nexts/
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:35 AM
1

Hell. No. Plenty of other girls who have far less potential to fuck up your career.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:16 AM
2

Sounds like someone isn't familiar with the concept of soft-nexting (a.k.a. hasn't read the sidebar).
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:13 AM
6

You definitely did not fix it, you continued to lose frame by submitting to her. Should have replied to her asking if you wanted her to be nice with something like "Of course not. I'd rather you be more of a horny slut." Go big or go home.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:10 AM
2

I don't understand why people try to stop it at all. Just let it happen, because the sooner it does, the sooner you know to move on. Give her enough rope to hang herself enthusiastically and without hesitation. The ones that might be LTR material will mate guard themselves.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:19 AM
2

If I'm not fucking her she shouldn't cost me money. Truly words to live by.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:13 AM
1

So being an asshole. Alpha =/= Asshole, but Alpha > Asshole > Beta/NiceGuy^TM
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:08 AM
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There's a difference between "asshole" and "alpha", but I think you need to be more specific. Give us an example. Who says and acts what ways towards who?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:29 PM
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Great video; I'm gonna have to listen to Stefan Molyneaux more. On a side note, him name dropping Mike Cernovich and Bill Whittle (both guys I really like and respect) just connected so many dots for me. I suggest checking them out, although their material is not necessarily directly related to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:09 AM
2

Internalize AWALT. Don't be mad at a fish for being a fish.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:32 AM
1

Haha oh, thought that was a typo. I mean I don't know your other options as far as pools go, but I would still next this girl.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:17 AM
1

If you have to tell us that it's not oneitis, it's oneitis. The only reason you're missing her poon is probably because you don't have others to take her place (abundance mentality). And yes, the correct response is to next this girl.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:08 PM
2

You should have broken up with her long ago, but it's good that you're finally doing it. Read up on Hard-Nexting. trickle down truth Haha. Trickle-truth.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 08:03 PM
1

You'd be an idiot not to go. This is a great opportunity for you.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:09 PM
1

This is an interesting question. I don't think the answer has much value from a TRP perspective (what it can do for us), but I wouldn't mind someone who knows something writing up a good FR/Theory post on this.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:43 PM
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This isn't /r/relationships, read the sidebar and internalize that material, or get out. This is a great example of what NOT to post here.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:39 PM
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Hopefully what I showed you makes it clear: Men's and women's brains are wired in totally different ways. They probably do think of past relationships here and there, but not in any way that even remotely resembles anything significant.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:34 AM
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I like to go with the embarrassment/pride metric suggested in this article http://www.returnofkings.com/16258/debating-the-mighty-1-to-10-scale. One downfall of all variations of the 1-10 scale is that, like you said, beauty is subjective. A man who is a 5 might be overly proud to be seen with an HB7, while a man who is a 9 would be highly embarrassed to be seen with a HB7, as he is used to HB8s and HB9s. Regardless, this is the metric that seems most consistently definable while still being fle…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:36 AM
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23:50 to 24:20 should answer your question. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fIaHxQIvy6o
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:25 AM
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I'm not experienced enough to where my opinion carries much weight, but to me, walking away seems like giving up too easily. I definitely understand your logic though. The response you suggested definitely seems like a good one to me. If after you said that things weren't heading in the direction you like, walking away is still a viable option. You have the right mindset of being able to walk away at any moment, just know that you don't necessarily have to at the first sign of difficulty.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:08 AM
1

You're 16, so you should have 2 years of school left, right? If possible, I think you should go back to public schooling. I've had good friends that were homeschooled, and it seems to me that they miss so much because of it. They don't learn how people really behave and how to interact with them. They live in this bubble of protection and typically socialize with other homeschooled kids in that bubble. Don't get me wrong, plenty of them turn out just fine, but you're missing out on a lot of impo…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:32 PM
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Unlike what a lot of comments are saying, you have EVERY right to be a bit shaken over this situation. This just screams false rape accusation all over it. Be prepared for that if it does happen. Like /u/KenMastersMD said, document everything.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:03 AM
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If you're going into your senior year, there's not much you can do, nor is it really worth the time and effort. The best advice I can give you is to talk to new people in your classes, clubs you're involved in, etc. Don't expect miracles, because like I said, groups and friends are already well established. You might be able to make some friends from out of town like the other guy who commented here mentions. Honestly, I think you should dedicate this year to improving yourself. Lift/work out a …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:51 PM
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Most of that stuff just simply doesn't apply in highschool. Notice how the RSD guys only game on complete strangers. They have a completely blank slate with them. In highschool, you've known these people for years, so they already have you labeled and filed away as a certain type of guy. If you're not popular, what you do is automatically labeled creepy, regardless of how good your game is. That being said, make sure your game is confident and you're applying the correct type of game. Cliques ar…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:38 PM
1

This right here. Way too many of these posts straight out of the relationships subreddit made by people who don't have the first clue about RP principles lately.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:25 AM
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I just re-read that, and it's uncanny how correct you are. Sounds an awful lot like projection to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:34 PM
1

Thanks for the replies. Any tips or things I should know before getting into this?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:33 PM
1

This. The RSD guys are all decent looking, but for the most part not top tier models or something. What they do all have in common is a ridiculous amount of cockiness/confidence. Watch their infield videos; you'll learn a lot.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 04:16 PM
2

If you're doing it right, you won't come off as needy or desperate, but as entitled. That entitlement conveys to the woman that you are a man of value, which is a good thing. Regardless, experience has always been and will always be the most effective tool for learning and improvement.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:55 AM
1

Thanks, I will. Out of curiousity, how manufacturing and selling a fake even legal? (Or isn't it)
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:50 AM
4

Well what is it that she knows about you? This seems like something you should have included in the original post. Honestly, even if she does know shit about you, these parents will be far more concerned with their daughter's wellbeing than locking you up for some trivial nonsense.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:18 PM
0

I think in the case of OP's housemate, the initial push for him to lift/get in shape is for women, which is okay. What I experienced myself, and what I think a lot of others experience, is that once he starts getting in shape and making good progress, he'll actially find some fulfillment from it. He'll be proud of the progress he's making, and he'll want to keeep at it. While his initial intentions were based on an external factor, he will discover a new source of validation in himself, where it…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:17 AM
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Starting college in a major city in one month. Glad I read this; if you have any more advice, please make more posts! One particular question I have is about fake ID's, and that's how the hell would I get one?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 02:47 AM
1

For what conceivable reason would you do that? Even if you did, and all you wanted was a conversation, her having a boyfriend should be completely irrelevant. This post is just silly.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:27 AM
2

If you're interested in keeping her as a plate, this may help. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/11/several-real-life-examples-soft-nexts/
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:00 PM
3

I think you're in the wrong sub. The people in the relationship subreddit might give you the answer you want to hear. If you're serious about improving yourself as a man and improving your sexual strategy, read the sidebar. This post reeks of bluepill, beta nonsense. In short: SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP20/07/16 09:16 PM
1

I stopped at LDR. End it.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:08 PM
1

Number three is just solid advice for life in general.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:07 PM
2

Check out some of the other RSD guys too; they all have their own unique style. I've been told their ideas are pretty respected around here.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:48 PM
3

I've recently been watching some videos by Todd Valentine on Youtube, particularly his infield videos. I'm typically not a fan of the PUA type stuff, but he definitely applies and has an understanding of Redpill concepts. I would suggest giving them a watch, as it helps to see how he actually escalates in the field. One thing I've learned from watching them so far is that you can actually get away with a lot more than you think you can, both physically and conversationally. When it comes to conf…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:29 PM
2

Your relationship is already over, you just don't know it yet. Leave her now, or at least downgrade to plate and start seeing other women.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:58 PM
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I don't think he DOES know. This post is pure bluepill nonsense, to a degree that makes me think it's fake.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:37 AM
1

Definitely a good video. Are the rest of his videos as enlightening/in line with TRP philosophy? I watched one where he mentioned shit testing and frame, so my gut reaction is yes.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 08:29 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:55 PM
3

Her words mean nothing. Look at her actions.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:30 PM
2

Thanks for the advice! I definitely plan on going for that idea of competition between them and see where it leads. The initial girl I was talking to has told me that she has gotten drunk (she likes to party) and made out with girls, so I'm keeping that in the back of my mind for if I think I can pull off more than one of them.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:17 AM
2

My game plan was to go for the competition between them. Actually already experimenting with it between the girl I'm less interested in and another one in the room next to me. We have a group chat for our dorm, so I'm working on establishing myself amongst the others, which seems to be going well enough. Thanks for the input!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:13 AM
3

Unfortunately I don't meet them for another month or so, but I definitely will be doing that.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 11:06 PM
5

There any good posts on this? I'm starting college soon, and I'm already friends with one of the girls on my dorm floor. She's already offering to get booze, asking to hangout, blah blah, she's showed cleared IOI's. Not as interested in her as much as in her three hot roommates. Trying to figure out how to play this.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 10:18 PM
2

Thanks for the advice, very helpful!
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:36 AM
2

Take another read throught the sidebar every once in awhile. Always helps keep me focused.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:54 AM
1

Reference to the TV show Seinfeld
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:43 AM
1

I had a feeling when I saw the title that I knew what was coming. I was very correct.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:42 AM
1

Good ideas, thanks.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 07:49 PM
2

And this is a problem in and of itself. You DO NOT need her approval, nor should you try and gain it. She should be begging for your approval, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 06:08 PM
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Good read. The real lesson here is to take ownership not just of your women, but your whole life. Take charge, and be a leader.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 05:02 PM
2

Hey man, give it a shot. My goal as a kid was to actually be a Navy SEAL, but my dream was crushed by my genetics (can't have any form of colorblindness). Despite my minor color vision deficiency being a complete non-issue, this arbitrary rule prevents me from becoming one. When it comes to social dynamics, there are no arbitrary rules. If you improve yourself enough as a person, you CAN get a model. You might have to work harder than others due to your genetics, but you sure as hell can do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 04:22 AM
1

Listen to the Endorsed Contributor. Especially that last bit.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:19 AM
1

Exactly like you said, it's disrespect. I personally have no tolerance for lying. Depending on the nature of your relationship with the woman and the magnitude of the lie, responses should vary from an immediate soft-next, to demotion to plate, to hard-next. If she's willing to lie about one thing, she's willing to lie about anything.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:14 AM
1

Milk is good here and there. It has a lot of good stuff in it, but just remember it does add calories, whereas water doesn't. You drink to stay hyrdated, and hydration comes from a drink's water content.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:08 AM
1

Seriously, drinking nothing but water is one of the easiest and most effective steps you can take toward weight loss.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:01 PM
3

This post begs the question, WHY do you want to humiliate some slut? Sure, it may feel good in the moment, but in the end, this is only going to make you look bad and damage your reputation. There's a difference between doing as you please (what TRP encourages) and being vindictive. This idea of doing something to humiliate someone for some petty instant gratification sounds an awful lot like something "some slut" would do. Hold yourself to a higher standard as a man.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:59 PM
1

Stop sitting around and doing nothing. Get out, do stuff, have fun. And seriously, lifting/getting in good shape will ONLY help you, so go do that. Forcing yourself to do these things will help. Sure, genetics might have screwed you, but you have to make the best of what you have. It's all any of us can do.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:49 PM
1

My interpretation of option 5 is just go with friends and have a good time. Simple and seemingly low risk, while still allowing him to do what he wants (attend this event). Option 4 is very low risk, but seems like a poor mindset to have (allowing women to influence his actions). This option 6 is quite risky, but sure as hell would be entertaining.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:41 PM
0

Option 5 seems like the best thing to do. Remember, do what YOU want to do, regardless of what women want or think. If you want to go to this, go.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:21 PM
4

Well if she's calling you a baby, that seems like more disrespect from her. Minor, but up to you what you think of that. Another note, avoid giving ultimatums. While I think you were in the right, you could have phrased what you said to her more along the lines of "I will not associate with people who are disrespectful towards me or people who support them," and left it at that. As for your actual question, compare her actions to her words. The answer should be clear.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:15 AM
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Going back to your ex AND shitting where you eat? That's a a whole lot of stupid right there.
/r/askTRP
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I wouldn't have the slightest clue where to get a fake. And what exactly do you mean by promotional companies? I'm already networking well with people in my dorm (thank God for co-ed dorms)
/r/askTRP
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Starting college in a major city this August
/r/askTRP
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Sounds good. I don't know our music either. Always been more into older rock and such.
/r/askTRP
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Thanks for the reply. Could you point me towards any good resources for throwing a decent party? Obviously music (what kind?) and alcohol if possible.
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