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| 2 | daygame, how do you get in the mode | 5yy | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 11:14 PM |
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| 3 | Persistence, can we discuss it?I learned to try to communicate via text little as possible. Set up your dates and that's about it. You're top busy to be flirting via text | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Persistence, can we discuss it?Heard it in reddit. Live by it now Your replies are always 2/3rds the length of her replies. & take 3 times as long to reply as she does Make you seem busy with more interesting things than her Inadvertently did this to a girl when I truly was busy and she used to remark "I feel like you are batman" and fucked me on date #2. Well actually date #1 was dinner, then date #2 was "hey come over and fuck" Once someone put that practice in words it's always been used | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Persistence, can we discuss it?If she does not text back. You do not text her back. Your only hope to get her is if she becomes interested in you (by seeing you doing something interesting, hearing about your new success, seeing other girls chase you on Facebook, etc.) Being needy and flooding her inbox is the express lane to friend zone 2/3rds rule. Always | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Killer trick once you get the numberOnce I realized I'm calling the wrong number in front of her look at the girl dead in the eye an tell the other person over the phone "hm. You sound hot. What's ur name." and start walking away. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Need quick text game helpSomewhere here I read the 2/3rds rule. It's great Only text her 2/3rds the length and frequency she texts you. And take double the time to text her back as she texts you Makes you see like you are busy with more interesting things than her. I think back to when i actually had things going on and girls would literally text me "you never text me back! I hate it. I feel like you're batman". And she boned me second date. As opposed to actively chasing a girl and eventually texting myself to obscurit… | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 05:05 PM |
| 2 | [Routine] International Student PickupsWay to make an assumption. I'm Asian,... So I would know. I say koreatown because the ESL classes there also have lots of Japanese students. I just never really approached the straight from Japan girls, for reasons unknown & SM because SMC is a magnet for international students. And they love the promenade | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 08:03 PM |
| 3 | [Routine] International Student PickupsWell sir. I envy you. I think I'll have to swing by Santa Monica / koreatown in search of this holy grail I never knew existed! | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 04:18 PM |
| 13 | [Routine] International Student PickupsVery nice. What exactly entails a Japan party? & how do I get to one. Lol | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Looks Don't MatterI'd say looks do matter, up to a point. I read somewhere if given the option a girl will pass up a guy that looks great for a guy that makes them feel great | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 01:09 AM |
| 16 | All I can say is thanks guysI love this man!! Just remember. Name your price early. Know exactly what you're going for and don't get caught up in they "why am I doing this?" mode. You in it for true love at 25. To fuck 25 girls before you're 25. You may find yourself losing "yourself" with a girl of your dreams, but uncertain if you wanna get locked down. State what you want & dont forget to give back to the community. Teach at every opportunity. Fuck "the competition". There is no shortage of fun, beautiful, available wom… | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:01 PM |
| 2 | 26 years old, never had a girlfriend, never been out, never approached, need some help/motivationI'm a sedditor that used to be pretty bad with girls. I enjoy coaching and just chatting with people that would like assistance. PM me if youd like to tell me more about your current goals and receive input iChat or aim though | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Told myself this morning that I would ask out the girl I work with today. Wish me luck, Sedditors!Whoa. Wouldn't wanna scare the guy. He shouldn't have to worry as long as he asks her out ONCE. And if he gets rejected he never bugs her again. It's the guys that don't know when to quit that end up getting fired | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:55 PM |
| 10 | Told myself this morning that I would ask out the girl I work with today. Wish me luck, Sedditors!Two possible outcomes. (1) she rejects you. She says shes "busy". You get over her. Now you know for certain. You move on. Stop thinking about her while you're at home, at dinner, see her at work, etc. And you can chase girls that you actually have a chance with (2) you will start dating her. Win-win scenario. Remember when you go to ask her. Don't think. GO. No 3 second rule, no wait until she's not busy, no let people get out of the room first. Any stalling will give you AA and make you even m… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 03:38 PM |
| 5 | After getting stood up should you say anything to them (on facebook/text)?Yeah. I wouldn't personally try to tell her a story of all the fun stuff you did instead. Still makes you seem like you're trying for her. I'd be dismissive. Shove it off like yeah I did other stuff instead. Vague. Make her wonder why you're not like all the other guys desperate for her attention and approval. But your way or mine I don't think this guy can go wrong. Long as he's not blowing up her phone and fb all mad. Lol | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I make a Facebook?Unless you explicitly told a girl you were dating exclusively who cares if you're dating multiple people. Don't be naive and think girls only date one guy at a time. If anything seeing that you are dating other girls will only make them want to lock you down | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Should I make a Facebook?Really????? In my own experience the more girls chasing you the more they will find you attractive. I would just say only use Facebook if it will add social proof / value. If you don't have many friends (importantly female friends) on Facebook, don't have fun cool pictures of you doing exciting things to post. Then yeah, it'll hurt you. Also. Make your interactions and friend requests with girls sparse. Too much will definitely hurt you | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 04:35 PM |
| 1 | My name is hard to pronounce. How can I use this to my advantage?This could easily backfire. "my name is islapaho, you know, like.." | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 05:23 PM |
| 1 | My name is hard to pronounce. How can I use this to my advantage?"my name is _______" "that's hard to say" "yeah. Imagine being 4 years old trying to learn how to spell it" Then Segway into your next topic | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 05:20 PM |
| 4 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?If you're insecure about your face go online and find out what shape face you have. Then find what current celebrities also have your face shape. Make your hair and facial hair accordingly. Dressing nice with the appropriate colors for your skin tone also helps detract from the face. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.I don't think it's mind games and manipulation. The point is to actually live and be this way. And you will hence be more attractive. If you just try to emulate it without actually feeling the confidence in having conviction with your actions. People, mens and women alike, will see through it. Then you'll just be the guy that's trying too hard | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over my raceLos Angeles. I mean. Go where you find lots of white girls. if you are in an area with lots of white girls of course you'll be more likely to find a white girl willing to date you. But the same goes for any race or girls in general. It's not about being the only Asian guy. It's being the only interesting Asian guy. As most are low self esteem, introverted, and overall unlikely to approach a pretty white girl that would seem to have their "pick of the litter" when it comes to guys. I think it's l… | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Can't get over my raceAah so much advice here to only date Asian girls. I'm Asian and have dated everything. I'm medium height medium build and not the greatest teeth. And all the non-Asian girls I've dated / fucked, I've always been their first Asian. Girls like variety just like guys do. It's about being different. Lots of weird advice here but if you wanna chat with someone asian that was forever friendzoned then became someone successful pm me and I would love to chat with you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.The Monday Wednesday Friday hobby thing is really good. Nothing brings people to want to get to know you and hang out with you is you being incredibly proficient in a common interest. Just try not to make it a hermit-esque hobby. Eg basketball. Not Pokemon. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Those of you who open directly during the day, what is the most common reaction when you say "I thought you were adorable and had to come meet you"?Yeah. Even giving you a ratio is gonna freak you out if you are doing worse than the reply. Just remember the girls reaction is because of her current dating situation, preferences, and overall receptiveness to cold approaches. Almost nothing todo with you. Don't take rejection personally. Smile and press on, grateful that you are not the same little bitch thats scared to talk to girls | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:47 PM |
| 42 | FR: Boyfriends and where to go from here...No where. Sounds like you have an attention whore on your hands. Getting all the self esteem boosting portions of your interaction and none of the physical parts that you are interested in. Of course she will take the endless compliment that you are instant infatuated with her looks and personality, relationship or not. Don't waste your time on this Don't feed into that. You're better off chasing something obtainable. You may get somewhere with her eventually, but the path will be frustrating an… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 02:02 PM |
| 1 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)Misconception I also had about Nordstrom. There is a men's department directed towards younger men that could also be dressed up called the rail. Go there. Buy your denim there as the tailoring is free and the cut of the pants is far superior. As far as professional clothing. Yes the designer brands are expensive. But there is also Nordstrom brand items that are much cheaper Is it more expensive that Walmart and target? Yes. But you won't look like you shop there either. Being fashionable takes … | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 07:05 AM |
| 6 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)I think there is like 5 locations. He only has to visit once. And get a full on intervention from someone. Then he could order online from them and other retailers after that. It's the best way to get professional one on one advice to change his entire outlook and knowledge on men's fashion. Catered to him. Not just a men's magazine with 6' chiseled jaw athletic build examples. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 05:50 AM |
| 3 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)Already made a few comments in the thread but there is one thing I think would help you greatly from becoming the "likable friend" When you meet anyone guys or girls things are awkward. But you have to make your intentions clear from the start. If you try to make them comfortable and become their friend first. You get to that level. Settle. Then try to move forward again. You will screw yourself That is 99% of friendzoned guys problem. You have to keep pushing forward with the awkwardness. Once … | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 05:48 AM |
| 6 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)Don't buy patterns colors prints etc. buy something that fits. It's all about the CUT of the shirt and how it looks on you. Obviously not bright orange. What it looks like a hangar is 100% not what it'll look like when it's on. different brands are for different people. Ie. target = average American. Medium to large build. H&m = European cut. Slim to athletic build. Sorry man. You gotta get in a fitting room and try alotta different stuff As far as a club and going out. Over dress your first vis… | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)I am almost certain there is a Nordstrom somewhere in TX Go there and find a men's salesperson that is dressing well and somewhat like you (age build etc). Tell them what your budget is and you need an outfit or two. If you pick a good sales person (which some are. Some aren't) they should be able to put you together quite perfectly. Especially since tailoring for pants is free. And Nordstrom has shirts that are cut for most anyone A guy there helped me so much that's went from a poor dresser hi… | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Need a little advice/perspective on my situationYou said she's a pretty average girl right? Be alpha and give this girl a push-pull effect and don't give her too much attention and make her want more Be alpha by getting a hotter girl and bring her around to study sessions Be alpha by not getting flustered over ONE girl you classify as "average" Be alpha by showing the guy you pay him no mind and you could get the girl if u wanted. But fighting over one girl in a COLLEGE environment, where beautiful girls run rampant, shows insecurity and a fe… | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 07:02 AM |
| 5 | Is it all worth it?Yes it's not all about sex. But to negate your points. Sex > masturbation You'll likely get an STD from a prostitute over a friendly girl you met in class What you'll learn in seduction will overflow into all aspects of life. You'll get good with your boss. Classmates. Strangers. People will like you more and you'll get more of what you want in life And yes. Incidentally you will get more sex. But why cut out the sole reason your body exists. | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Do women find intelligence attractive?Separate intelligence with opinionated Intelligence is intriguing to them Opinionated attempts to communicate intelligence. But actually portrays closed mindedness | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 05:01 AM |
| 1 | is this able to be fixed, or just wired into my brain?It's not neediness. Low self esteem. Etc It's one thing and one thing only. Oneitis If you have several girls you are interested in at the same time that you are actively talking to and dating, you'll be less reliant on your interactions with the one girl and all that need for attention affection and validation. If one gets weirded out about you you can simply move away. Spend more time on other girls. And the first girl will worry about offending you and eventually have to validate herself to y… | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Need advice, I'm needing an outlet.I'd say the best way to motivate yourself to talk to strangers is do the 0 second rule If you see a girl you find attractive NO hesitation. Just walk up and say hi. And talk about whatever the fuck comes out. No game plan. Just do it. If you start to think about your game plan or lines you'll give yourself more AA and you'll mess yourself up. The best motivation is early results. And in the start both positive and negative results will work wonders for you. Positive. You'll wonder why you didn't… | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:26 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First #-close Followed by Frustrating Sarging SessionShopping malls aren't a bad choice Tons of girls either in small groups or out on a shopping day alone. And if you live in a big city like LA there are different malls with different stores directed towards different types of girls. So whatever type of girl you're into. There should be a mall that'll have tons of that girl | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Traversing through Friendzone FogBecause for this guy it will be. He has feelings for her. Confessed it to her. And she rejected him. I don't know about you, but if I was in love with a girl and I had to hear about all the guys she loves and all the guys treating her less than how I would. That would torture me,.. If he didnt want anything more. A friendship would be fine. But he's here on reddit talking about it. So obviously being just friends isn't something he's interested in | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Traversing through Friendzone FogThen waste ZERO time and get to the point. If you really think you can get her (I dont know the whole story. But I doubt it). Then ask her out. Ask her to come over real late for some drinks. Get to the point. If she spurns your advances then let her know politely it was nice seeing her. But it's time for her to leave Fuck anything she says about not wanting anything with you. If she denies you. It's over man. If she hates you. Thinks you're a sex craved perv. Anything. Doesn't matter. You weren… | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Traversing through Friendzone FogDo you just want a friendship? I'm guessing no. So why are you considering going back to something that you never wanted?...... Girls crawling back to "salvage a friendship" are just seeing if they still can do the bare minimum and get you back in their life. That serves to scale how great she is to herself Stop being her human ego boost. Move on. Feel free again. Find something obtainable and be happy Good luck to you | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places away from alcohol to pick up? As a recovering alcoholic, bars and clubs are a no-go.Kind of cliche, but a shopping mall. You'll find lots of cute girls of all ages shopping alone or maybe with one friend. Peak hours on friday-saturday if you want to just bust out 10-15 approaches in an hour then call it a day. Or a less busy time if you are afraid of having an audience. And yes, at the mall, there will be people eavesdropping. Best part, depending on where you live, larger cities like LA have several malls nearby, divided in the types of stores they have. So whatever type of gi… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:29 AM |
| 1 | (FR) Crashed and burned tonight.Nice, let her know she bored you to death, so you went somewhere else and had some fun. Hit her up later, (if you even feel like it), and tell her she can come with you, as long as she won't fall asleep in the middle. But I don't know, seems like you felt it was a waste of your time. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:08 AM |
| 2 | I Feel Like Seddit Sometimes GIVE Me Social AnxietyI think you need to find a way to better prep yourself. If you are already dreading the simple fact of approaching girls before you even get there you are already starting the snowball effect of what is approach anxiety. I hope that you will try something similar to this next time you are planning on being around girls. First, before you go out, get happy. Maybe watch some cool television that'll make you feel "bau5." For me it is watching a show like Entourage or to a lesser extent Blue Mountai… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:00 AM |
| 6 | Yet another thank you to you guys.Nice. Good to hear this site has caused an actual difference in your life | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 09:30 AM |
| 6 | Things to say when rejected?Do what the English do http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L2IXf0zbMyA&feature=youtube_gdata_player But after you've seen that the answer is simply, nothing. Just walk away and dont waste another second on her. After you've done your game and it hasn't worked. The only "restart" button is approaching a new girl. Don't look saddened or butt hurt. This opens the far fetched chance that you run into her a few weeks later and she wants to chat again. If she seems off put by how you're not effected by her… | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Any tips for talking to a shy girl?Update? | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 06:47 AM |
| 35 | Any tips for talking to a shy girl?I'd say be friendly and disarming. If she's shy any sort of "game" is likely to scare her off. If you see her often no need to rush in getting her # or what not First day. Hi is ancient history an easy class to get my history prerequisite done with? Really. Why do you say that? Wow thanks for the info. Second encounter. Oh wow I never got your name. Cool. I'm ________. Get to know her and once she starts getting to the comfort zone of telling you about herself listen, then tell her you gotta get… | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 03:57 PM |
| -4 | How do you let her know it's a date and not just a friendly outing?id say making certain that you make your intentions CLEAR from the start. ie, if you're like "oh cool, you're into basketball, we should goto a game together!" how about instead, "oh cool, you're into basketball, i am going to take you out to dinner." or "come over and we can study together" as opposed to "come over and we'll watch a movie" sure! its easier to mask our intentions with trying to ease our way into getting to know each other. but you need to make it clear that you are not looking f… | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 08:55 AM |
| 4 | I'm a virgin AFC and I have zero confidence. What is the best kind of place to find easy women?Yeah. I concur. I don't really like how low your self esteem is right now. Work on your inner game to bring yourself up to her level. Not use alcohol to bring her down to yours I'll chat with you want man. 1 on 1. See what makes you tick. Make you just a happier dude. Could be therapeutic. Then maybe your question will be "where can I find girls that share my interests" instead of "where can I find equally desperate girls" | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Day game attempt @ approaching a woman at my local park...went horribly bad, need help!A lot of people here speak on being "outcome indifferent". You should feel that way Yes. She rejected you. But oh well. Feel good that you did something you were previously terrified of and you didn't die you just got a life experience How many days went by last year that you can't name ONE single event that happened? Probably 95% of them. And this day you just made your life interesting and worth living. Could you imagine how fun your life was of everyday had events good and bad stuffed in them… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 09:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach #Close DaygameThanks buddy. have my upvotes :) | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 08:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach #Close DaygameYeh you're 100% right. Changing my life from the monotony should be my motivation. I've been recently keeping score of my "steps" and "regrets" I've made every day. I work at a place where many beautiful women visit everyday. Starting I was doing well approaching strangers with a 3-1 score. Today I had a 1-7 because I was bitching out all day and I don't know why,... | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 11:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach #Close Daygame"feel alive." thank you. I needed an inspirational line like that. Plus the direct approach getting the number. Diggin it | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 10:55 AM |
| 0 | People seems to run away from me.You would think but post in many other boards on reddit and none of them receive ANY amount of criticism for grammar It just comes with the audience of what type of person is on each board. And I understand that | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 08:30 PM |
| 1 | People seems to run away from me.Thank you. It's apparently something r/seduction is more concerned about. Grammar and the ability to put someone down that's doing what they are here to learn about than actual content Thought I'd be able to help those who I could identify with years back but I've been down voted to oblivion in almost every thread (I posted in like 6 last night off my phone) Oh well. Seddit likes what it likes and I hope the best for all of them even though they have such a passionate hatred for my "u" and "b" a… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 08:22 PM |
| -9 | People seems to run away from me.I think u should take a good long look at that comment u just wrote. Think about how someone took time out of their day to try to help u. And see how u reacted Maybe on typing on a crappy smart phone or maybe I'm just retarded And think the irony of u asking for help because people don't like being around u. And see the problem with what that comment just conveyed about ur personality. And possibly you will see some insight why people don't want u around Good luck my friend | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 05:08 PM |
| -5 | [FR] Wait, so it's just that easy? Are you freakin kidding me? #closeThen don't read it. Get off the net and read a book because the Internet is probably glnna bother u | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How does one be a good kisser?I exclusively use the pokemon soundtrack. Haha But no. I use RnB instrumentals. Or maybe a track with a sexy breathy girl voice. I dunno. Something about a group of 4 guys talking and planning and plotting about how they will b quadruple teaming the girl once I'm done is unsettling. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 12:06 PM |
| -3 | People seems to run away from me.What r ur interests? Sports? Music? Xbox? Pokemon? Movies? Don't have one? Try to find something with a social aspect and learn a lot about it. People will want u around if u talk about the things they r also interested in. And if u r really into it and can provide insight and can expand their knowledge (in a non cocky way) u can seem like someone they would want around Ie. If ur thing is pokemon. Automatically talk to people and bring up Pokemon. If they don't share that interest move on to the… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 12:04 PM |
| 0 | How does one be a good kisser?Yes. The most senses u can get in ur interaction the better. The kissing. If u can have a candle going for smell. If u can have music going. Etc etc Obviously u can't do all of it every scenario. But imagine how much more powerful a kiss u could deliver in ur living room with the proper planning as opposed to her generic bar dance floor kiss | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 11:47 AM |
| -5 | [FR] Wait, so it's just that easy? Are you freakin kidding me? #closeYeh because in typing on a small little smart phone trying to do comments. If my comments don't meet ur gold Internet standard just ignore them. Sorry I didn't write my comment with ur in mind | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for people to be flaky, or am I being taken for granted (and if so, how to get people to stop)?If they constantly flake on u they aren't ur friends. Ur not a priority. If u had courtside tickets to ur famous sports team u wouldn't flake. Those tickets and game have value to u. If u had a date with a pretty girl u wouldn't flake. U really wanna date her. If u had a dentist appointment u wouldn't just ditch it. Cleaning ur teeth is important. if u had plans to go buy a book u wanna eventually buy. If something better comes along ull likely flake. The book will still b there later. Doesn't m… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 11:13 AM |
| -1 | Girl never texts me back the hour before we are supposed to hangout, should I text her now?Yeh I'd say dont b needy. If u come at her anytime between now and 2089 ur needy But if she for any reason comes at u. And ur like "who is this?" uve successfully turned the tables She's a 10? Guys chase her all the time. Don't b another chump. Maybe she doesn't text u ever again. But that's the same chances u have if u text her Maybe u text her until she finally gives in,.... But that sounds like a relationship of getting jerked around. On to the next one :) | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 11:00 AM |
| 5 | List of texting openers. What are some of yours?It's from how I met ur mother. As the most awful text opener ever | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:50 AM |
| -4 | [FR] Wait, so it's just that easy? Are you freakin kidding me? #closeI dunno. U said like u were friend zoning urself alrdy and u were. I saw a meme like " if u don't make ur intentions clear from the start. Ull have a bad time " And u masked ur intentions in "I'm too scared to approach u directly" and made up some excuse The better alternative is "ok ok u know ur stuff. Now me and u r gonna go out" Direct. Shows no fear. Doesn't mask ur intentions with bitchness. And if she doesn't wanna date u in the slightest. U know right off the bat and won't waste another s… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Grocery store [FR], with # close!Amazing dude. A 10. And u were nervous?? I love that I read this line somewhere on reddit woulda been perfect. "wow thanks for the discount. So u know what we're doing next week?" "what?" "something fun. Give me ur number" Kinda hard for her to resist right? Alpha male. Didn't ask. Said this is what's going down. If she starts to do the resist speech. Dont interrupt. Let her go on talking until she either gives up the # or tells u flat out no. And that's fine too. But thats playin all ur cards t… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what's your best remedy for getting over someone?No alcohol of drugs. Makes ur sulking much worse Feeling good about urself is the remedy. I heard Carolla say this once and it's truth. Sometimes if u hear about someone like a cross country skier getting caught in an avalanche and almost dying the doctors will often say " well if they weren't in such good shape they never would have survived". So the same with u. If u got a lot going on. Career. Passion. Sports. Hobbies. Friends. U can easily survive &as always. If u even start talking to hotte… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:31 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm losing my game. Any advice?Maybe it's ur motivation. Its all internal. If u arent feeling motivated internally ur not going to project that onto the girls ur approaching. Which will give u much difficulty on gaining interest I suggest u submerge urself into something u love or what u wanna do with ur career. So when u approach someone u have something to share and talk about But just like in a workout slump. U need to make urself some long term and short term goals. Something to keep u honest and on track Whether on a whi… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:23 AM |
| 5 | how do those of you that don't quite have their careers/lives in gear yet deal with it?Irrelevant!! It's all about being comfortable in ur skin. It's about passion. U can live at home and still pull girls. I know a guy who works at the mall. Lives with his mom. And dropped out of college. And his "number" is at or around 100. With some uglies. Some beautiful girls too How? He has passion!!! He talks about his music and his dreams. He meets girls. And in his conversation he mentally transports them to his world of music and gives her the feeling of what it is to walk a day in his s… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:14 AM |
| 19 | How does one be a good kisser?Don't do too much. I'd say if u just mirror how much tongue action, lip sucking, and movement she is doing. She really wont think it a bad kisser if ur equal When ur rdy to stop. Don't jerk back. Just turn the heavy kissing to smaller and smaller pecks then ur done Neck and earlobe are good. But again. Don't go overboard. No hickeys. ProTip! Use ur hands and body. Hold her close. Stroke ur hands through her hair. Massage her scalp (in a sensual way). Run ur hands up and down her back. Don't gott… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 09:58 AM |
| 2 | What are some good truth or dare questions to ask during a date?Err personally I don't know if truth or dare is a good idea. Might come across as ur too scared to make moves and need a "dare" as a reason to push forward. Or u wanna ask things. But r too scared to ask How about alternatively u try to get u guys in a game that involves a lot of touching. Ie. if ur at an arcade. Basketball shoot together bumping and snatching the ball from each other as opposed to air hockey across the table If ur already really good with her. A movie at ur place instead of a m… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Caring level is over 9000Dude I was 100% like u!!!!!!!!! Here's the way to beat that. When u talk to a pretty girl for some reason u think u gotta impress them. Keep talking. Entertain them. Prove ur worth talking to. If u do that. The nerves will get to u and u will fail What it comes down to. Is don't think about "what do they want me to talk about" it has to b "I have these interests. This is what I will talk about." Ie. I remember I would b like "this girl does music. I should bring up music" and then I get so caugh… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 09:42 AM |
| -1 | My girlfriend wants me to teach her to pick up girls.Marry her. Now | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:47 AM |
| 16 | In A Lull? Do Something Daily Outside Of Your Comfort ZoneThat 2nd paragraph hits me hard man | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:31 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Thank you r/seduction. OK Cupid date K-close, with a little help from my friends (you guys!)Loving it man. Sounds like u did a good job and passed all her "tests" with out playing her game. The whole "I was just with another guy" and attention whoring herself as she waiting for u was a pretty garbage move for her. Shows she's got quite the pedastool build for herself I'm glad u can knock her off that to force her to validate herself to u instead of the other way. Diggin it man. Hope to hear of ur many successes in the future | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Sing to herBut 60% of the time. It works every time. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB 9.5 Bartender #-Close !!100% not cheating. It's who u r. If u didn't do that u wouldn't b u. And girls love the creative mind That's like telling her she is cheating the dating game by being beautiful. Not fair to the girls that spend 0 time on their appearance!!! Not fair!!! | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 10:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Read all the guides, internalize the material, but all you need to get started is a "Hi"Love it. Good job man | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Read all the guides, internalize the material, but all you need to get started is a "Hi"Edit. Double post | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:57 AM |
| 2 | A cute girl who works at Verizon put her number in my phone. Is this standard practice or something more?Eh. Honestly I wouldn't second guess and go back and forth on this too much. Maybe she does this to everyone maybe not. If u have a conclusion to this u r reading into everything too much GO BACK. Pay ur bill. Buy a case. A cell phone accessory. Anything. Then b direct and ask her out. There's ur answer that took u about an hour instead of a week of tormenting urself wondering. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:53 AM |
| 3 | The story of the girl that was my first and biggest success, yet my worst loss.Dope story man. I'm glad u got some early success in and now ur confident. But forget her. She's obviously got baggage and u got nothing but potential. Unfortunately as girls age they become less attractive and more jaded. Guys become more and more attractive until they're 35 and become more confident and cultured. Time is on ur side Ur making all the necessary steps now and ull only get better and better girls. I await to hear of ur next great success :] | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Do I know you?Amazing | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 10:57 PM |
| 3 | I finally did it!Aside from all the not putting her on the pedastool. Good job man. Took courage. Now u can do it again. Super easy :] | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 10:53 PM |
| 5 | On being mysteriousOr pierce brosnan. He's the epitome of calm mysterious guy | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Thank You Seddit! I almost feel like a different human being...Amazing job man. Supr happy for u | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 05:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Month of Approaching - Day 18 - Twenty approaches, was brutalgood job man. thats nice that u took a bad day and made it into a positive experience for yourself. upvote | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 07:32 AM |
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