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609Hendo/r/seduction04/06/19 02:27 AM
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Re-read your answers lmao. You started off with a good argument and now you're just twisting my words and letting your emotions dictate your words. I'm done wasting my time, later
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:43 PM
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I am honest and authentic. The difference is that I am interested in girls for more than just sex lol. You do you, I'll do me. Simple as that.
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:17 PM
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You do you man
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:08 PM
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You do you man
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:00 PM
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So by your logic, you just need to go up to every girl and say "Do you want to fuck?". That's not authenticity, that's just called being horny and having no interest in women other than their appearance. ​ I see what you mean, but in reality only talking about sex will get you nowhere. He discusses making it known that you're a sexual being and how to build attraction which greatly speeds up the process depending on how good you are with his advice. ​ To be fair you do make a good point which ha…
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:49 PM
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Thank you my man!
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:26 PM
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Thanks, I'll check out the book of pook
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:25 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out!
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:22 PM
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You clearly misunderstood the book. You are so far off the mark, I can't even be bothered to explain why and how you're wrong. ​ I like you're pokemon reference though lol.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:21 PM
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It sounds like you are off to a great start when it comes to improving yourself, but are you putting in the practice with girls? Don't think that a six pack will magically transform your love life (although it will help a bit as well as building self esteem). ​ Seriously though, don't be too hard on yourself and keep putting in the effort little by little. I believe in you my man, keep going.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:17 PM
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I think you are being mislead. It's only contradictory if you make it so. ​ He teaches cold reads to build conversation skills which is a vital part of life in general. He isn't telling you to use a certain line or a move, but to use cold reads as a way of improving your conversation. Cold reads can be used by men of any personality type and the cold reads change based on that personality type; it's still authentic. ​ It's like saying becoming more fashionable is a "BS put tactic". It's a way to…
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:14 PM
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Awesome. I have a friend in a similar situation and it's really sad, especially since a lot of it is in their own head. You're a great friend for helping him out, best wishes to you both.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:50 PM
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The three fundamentals that Manson discusses are lifestyle, action, and communication. - My lifestyle was very good already so I didn't need much work there. - Action is the hardest for me, especially with cold approach. I've been learning to become less invested in what others think of me so I am handling rejection and approach anxiety a lot better. This is also helping me express my personality more and less shamelessly which is a great positive side effect. - Communication was okay. I have go…
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:55 AM
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The three fundamentals that Manson discusses are lifestyle, action, and communication. - My lifestyle was very good already so I didn't need much work there. - Action is the hardest for me, especially with cold approach. I've been learning to become less invested in what others think of me so I am handling rejection and approach anxiety a lot better. This is also helping me express my personality more and less shamelessly which is a great positive side effect. - Communication was okay. I have go…
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:54 AM
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This one is great and gives you the main points. There isn't much explanation so I recommend reading the free PDF online of the whole book if you can find the time. https://www.nateliason.com/notes/models-mark-manson
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:29 AM
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but also maybe don't threaten her
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:19 AM
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You showed her you have boundaries. You are more invested in yourself than in what she thinks. Don't take it the wrong way and challenge everything she says, but if she says something you don't agree with, make your own opinion heard. ​ Good shit man, keep going
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:19 AM
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Why do you place all value in money? Money isn't necessarily a measure of success. The most successful real estate investor will make much more money than say the most successful poet, but they have both mastered their individual crafts. ​ You will definitely learn something from reading a book by someone who created a billion dollar enterprise, but it comes down to your priorities. Why are you on this sub reddit? Presumably to learn seduction. Will you learn seduction from reading a book about …
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:08 AM
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Don't let your past hold you back. In order to succeed, you have to be okay with failure. There is no way to succeed without taking some sort of risk of failure. If you avoid risk, you can avoid failure, but you will also avoid success. Failure and rejection will always be there, but if you don't have the courage to potentially encounter these, you will never encounter success. ​ Also I highly recommend reading "Models" by Mark Manson sometime before you begin CC in the fall. There's a free PDF …
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:57 AM
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No problem, sounds like you take rejection well which is something not many are good at. There are worse positions to be in and it sounds like you are willing to put in the effort to improve. I hope everything works out for you man!
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:51 AM
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You judge a woman by the way she looks. You judge a man by the beauty of his wife. You judge a book before even reading it. ​ I am not sure what you're playing at, but I think reading it would benefit you. I'm not trying to be an asshole, just give it a try and challenge your own ideas and beliefs.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:45 AM
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"Hey, do you want to go on a date sometime?" "I'm not looking to date rn" "Ah it's cool, no worries" ​ That's all that needed to be said. You state your desire clearly and confidently, putting yourself in a vulnerable position (a good thing). She said no. As much as you may like her, she is uninterested and it's almost impossible to change that. Accept the rejection, but don't give her anything else. The texts you sent after showed how needy and invested in her opinion you are. Why would you wan…
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:41 AM
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No worries, different things work for different people, but I do encourage another read if you do need that boost. Good luck my man!
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:19 AM
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No worries, good luck seducing! ​ Also here's a great thread that overviews the book: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2r725u/a_book_in_review_models_by_mark_manson/
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:16 AM
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You are right, but there are some negatives to that approach too-- My reasons are stated in a previous answer to a similar comment.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:05 AM
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I honestly wouldn't know which paragraph to pick, there are so many great ones. Maybe read a summary or review of the book? ​ I think what is great about this book is that it incorporates everything on how to approach to how to convey yourself as a sexual being hence making seduction natural and much easier. If his teaching is implemented correctly, the whole process of attracting women (from the initial encounter to having amazing, meaningful sex) will become easier. ​ The beginning might be a …
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:00 AM
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I think what sets this apart from most seduction/pick up advice is that he is realistic. Rather than working around things like fear, rejection, anxiety, he admits that some of these things will forever be present. You can't work around them, they are part of the seduction game. If you want to succeed, you have to be ready to fail. I find a lot of advice is given in a way that tries to avoid these things entirely, but they will always be there. This means that when they are encountered, you aren…
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:54 AM
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Yep, he's an expert with women in general. His teachings also spill over and benefit your everyday life too. I really encourage you to read Models! ​ I've heard good things about Neil Strauss and Mystery, but never read their works. Will check them out for myself :)
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:28 AM
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I encourage you to! Why are you hesitant, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:24 AM
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True, i'm being a bit radical by saying Models is all you need. There are definitely other gurus and advice that can be useful. It's tough because there is so much bullshit out there that it can be tough to find these people who actually give great advice. (I'll be sure to check out Mystery though!) ​ While you are right that gaining a wide array of knowledge is useful, this can create a few issues- People get caught up in obtaining knowledge and use it as an excuse to procrastinate taking actio…
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:23 AM
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He has no self worth or self esteem. This causes him to seek validation from others, follow the status quo (doing what is "acceptable" which is a way of avoiding even the smallest of rejections), and invest more in other people's opinions than in his own. This makes him act needy, especially around women. Neediness is one of the most unattractive traits to a woman. ​ How does he become less needy? ​ Develop values and boundaries. He needs to invest more in his opinion of himself and validate him…
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:03 AM
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LOL who would buy this when "Models" by Mark Manson has everything you need in a free PDF online?
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:49 AM
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Have you read "Models" by Mark Manson? Might take a couple days to read, but works wonders if implemented. Good luck my man!
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:48 AM
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If you’re in class with a girl that you like but can’t seem to talk to, then talk to as many other people in the class. If she sees you talking to other people, she will see you as friendly and sociable. If you have a final exam in the class, get a study group together and invite her. “Hey I noticed you’re really good at science. I’m studying with John, Bob, and Sarah, you should join us.” If the end of school comes and nothing has worked, then just go up to her and tell her how you feel. It wor…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:45 PM
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And don’t fall victim to Oneitis!!
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:37 PM
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Sounds like you are doing well, but be careful you don’t put her on a pedestal. You have to have the mindset that she’s equal to you. Make sure she knows you have a life outside of her and keep hanging out as friends. Don’t be available too much though. Text her something like “hey I’m doing xyz with a few friends, you should come.” If she says yes, great. If she says no/excuse, play it cool and keep doing your thing. As toxic as social media is these days, throw stuff up on Instagram/Snapchat t…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:36 PM
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Do something that is confident as fuck. This will make most men feel very wanted and sexy. lingerie, dressing gown (robe). Pour out a couple shots, bring them over and hand it to him. “Drink this and meet me in the bedroom so I can fuck the shit out of u” (or something more sexy lol) Have a nice home cooked meal and at the end, play some footsie. Then get a lil more touchy if he’s into it. Escalate from there. Send him some nasty texts/pics during the day. When he comes home he knows he’s in for…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:29 PM
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Lol I can see why she hopped on that plane. To get as far away as possible from you 😂 keep watching cartoons kiddo
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:21 PM
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This is a pretty vague post but hopefully this helps: Great that you’re working on yourself first. When you are comfortable with who you are and have things going on in your life, you have a solid base to compliment your game. Set some personal goals. Once you reach them, begin using your game. These can be simple (eat three meals a day, get 8 hours sleep every night, etc.) or more significant (lift weights for two weeks consistently, read xyz number of books, master a new hobby) Make sure these…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:18 PM
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Congrats my guy! Glad you got this confidence boost and appreciate you spreading the good vibes. Keep it up!
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:05 PM
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I’m sorry this happened, but I have to say it sounds like there is more to the story than what you’ve given here. I don’t think a 34 year old man should have that much hatred for a woman just because she asked you a question. When questions like these come up and she doesn’t seem to like your answer, make a joke out of it. Hold your ground. You could’ve also just lied. Regardless, you will never see her again so use this as a learning experience. Also insulting women when something doesn’t go yo…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:03 PM
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