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Don't worry about that. That's actually pretty normal in the modern day. A lot of guys just grow up single without ever having relationships. Just be in the moment, do you what you feel is right. Girls want to be romanced, and you know deep down you want to escalate. If she seems into it go for it, don't wait for permission.
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:08 AM
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She's 24 dawg, she's probably smashing other guys after you took her out to a free dinner. Girls don't really start becoming serious about dating until they're older.
/r/seduction04/03/26 08:20 PM
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So what if she's younger as long as its consensual it doesnt matter
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:10 PM
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You can airbnb all over the world and pick up girls from anywhere, it really opens up your world.
/r/seduction23/02/26 02:09 PM
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The work strategy is to get the girl to ask you out, but yeah I agree, getting involved with a girl from work is like playing with fire
/r/seduction23/02/26 02:05 PM
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A man is what he thinks about all day long, likewise a man becomes what he thinks about all day long. It's true. Affirmations like "I'm so hot" alone won't cut it. You need to take actions to make yourself feel hot - get a haircut, spend money on a nice fit, a facial, work out everyday, skincare, eat clean. The affirmation will then be true and you will feel it, you will know it. It becomes the new you. If one of your insecurities is "I'm not good enough for her", you flip it and say "anyone who…
/r/seduction23/02/26 01:18 AM
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I agree, I already graduated uni but IMO a hot 18-21 american woman is just going to date tons of guys and have fun until she graduates and hits the reality of having to work and the "real world". Only after they graduate they become semi serious, and at 25+ they begin panicking if they haven't met their billionaire 6ft husband, and they lower their standards. Sweet spot for dating women who are more committment focused is like 22-27 age range. But honestly it varies with every woman.
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:11 PM
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College is a shitshow. I estimate that girls date 1-3 guys per semester if they're extroverted and attractive, possible higher if they're very liberal, probably like 4-7 guys per semester. I went out with a girl who was mid and she tried hooking up with me, she ghosted me and a week later and she updated her profile that she was in a relationship with a guy. I checked back her IG a couple months later and she was with a new guy - and this was a girl who was average attractiveness!! Imagine an at…
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:03 PM
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Bro just ask her a personal question and start escalating. Next time she comes in ask her where she's from or what she likes doing outside of work and see if she stays to talk to you. If she responds and quickly tries to remove herself from the convo or says "I have to get back to work" she's not interested. I've flirted before with tons of women at work. If they're interested they'll stay as long as possible and try to extend the conversation. After talking to her for 5 minutes tell her, "you s…
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:52 PM
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What about other cities in netherlands?
/r/seduction04/02/26 07:38 PM
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Their brain receptors got fried from too much reddit
/r/seduction11/01/26 03:28 PM
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If your intention is a long term relationship, don’t use online dating.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:08 PM
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Nothing wrong with “Hey saw you on Hinge. You seem cool, you still open to meeting people?"
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:05 PM
-4

HAHA for what
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:04 PM
-6

Too late.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:01 PM
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Whatever you want to think, but dance definitely improves game. And yeah maybe you’re right, you don’t have to be a good dancer to be good at game but it is a useful skill to have in terms of leading a woman physically, escalation, kino, and handling a woman in general because you gain so much experience handling hundreds of different women. I use dancing as a training ground to improve my confidence with kino and escalation, not necessarily a place for pickup. There’s no better place to improve…
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:30 PM
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You need to try different types of dancing that give you better rhythm identifying skills. Salsa and bachata are better than ballroom. Personally, I became a really good dancer after a year of salsa and bachata, and it improved my game significantly. When I go to clubs I just hit the dance floor, let women notice me and then I look around to see women who are eyeing me, then I just continue dancing and approach them on the dance floor and start dancing with them. I feel really comfortable just g…
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:30 PM
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The goal of dancing isn’t to sleep with women, dancing gives you skills and experience to improve your game. A guy who’s an experienced dancer has superpowers over any regular day gamer or natural. There’s no other skill where you’re able to hold a woman close, touch her, look her in the eyes, talk to her, and learn the dynamics of man to woman like dancing. I’ve danced with over 200 women, and every woman is different. Some are more masculine and like to lead, others are more feminine and passi…
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:26 PM
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It’s the most obvious skill to get into if you’re trying to get better with women, so you’re not really sharing an open secret. Dancing allows you get close to hundreds of different women in one night, look them in the eyes, smell them, touch them, talk to them, and see how you guys vibe and interact. There’s no other skill where you are able to do this. I took Salsa classes for a year when I got into game and danced with probably 200 different women. It teaches you how to lead women and how to …
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:17 PM
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You took what, 7-8 hours of dancing? You need 1,000 hours to master something. It helps improve your confidence for sure.
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:07 PM
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So you pay for all the apps?
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:40 PM
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Reddit doomer gibberish
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:39 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:27 PM
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Dating and job market are correlated haha.
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:23 PM
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What dating apps do you use to meet all these women? Do you pay for them?
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:22 PM
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Take a moment to think about the universe... What is real? What isn't? It is all part of the matrix, you just need to wake up neo.
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:43 AM
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If you were to ask me, and I know you asked for cities in the US, I would tell you to go visit another country. You are automatically interesting to women because you are foreign, they perceive you as adventurous since you are a traveler, and they think you are high status because you have to have money to travel abroad, especially from US to europe because the plane tickets are expensive. Plus, there's a high concentration of attractive women of your taste in specific countries. Spain has a lot…
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:35 AM
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Yeah if you like masculine career women that are trying to live out their sex in the city fantasies banging dozens of guys
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:30 AM
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I can confirm, Florida is not a very intellectual state. Women here live extremely privileged lives and the competition is very high, women really don't even need relationships. They just sleep around like crazy.
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:26 AM
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I did the same thing to a woman I dated, exactly like the guy you describe. She was a good person, I enjoyed her company but I just didn't want to commit to her, I wanted to be friends with her. Eventually she just started avoiding me.
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:27 PM
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LMAO YOU COPIED THAT LINE FROM MY POST. Honestly it's not a good line. The best way to approach women is to make them laugh and be interested in who they are, the line or opening doesn't matter.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:54 AM
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Prostitute, you're on the wrong sub
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:08 AM
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It's not optimal, seems dweebish but I had to try something because she was smoking and I didn't want to regret not approaching
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:57 AM
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She loved it, I haven't seen someone look so overjoyed in a long time. If I waited for a woman to "give me a cue" I would be waiting a long time.
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:55 AM
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I'm sure it made her day because she was thrilled. I hope she goes to sleep next to her husband tonight and fantasizes about getting with a younger man like me. If I see her again next time maybe she even changes her mind.
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:11 AM
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We all go through this stage. You will suck at it at first but you just have to put your reps in and it becomes second nature. When you see an attractive woman you'll find it natural to just walk up to her and express desire. Women love being desired and feeling sexy.
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:07 AM
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Well, I have travelled a lot and I think younger American women are pretty shallow when it comes to height moreso than many other places in the world because people in America consume social media a lot so they are more superficial. I think that social media pushes that narrative that women only tall guys which isnt true. When you hear music, tv shows, the president etc all talking about tall men most women think they have to have a tall guy because every other person views it as something desir…
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:35 AM
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Which state?
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:22 AM
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Buddha type shit is true. You need to capture the universe's synergies. The universe is governed by vibrations and frequencies, the brain is just a manifestation of it. You can alter the universe based on the messages you feed your brain. You are able to fuck any 10 that you want, you just need to know that it's true. If they walk away from you it's their loss but if you keep trying to universe will eventually reward you. You can't try hard and not succeed eventually.
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:22 AM
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Where are you from?
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:17 AM
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I second this. It's very difficult to start going to dance classes especially if you don't have friends to go with, but latin dancing (bachata and salsa) is probably the best way to lose your fear of touching and talking to women because you have to hold hands, dance close to each other and look into each others eyes with tons of partners. Don't go to dance classes to pick up women, but go to learn to be more comfortable in your own body and in the presence of women. It's funny because I bet a m…
/r/seduction25/04/25 02:25 PM
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Cold approach is the optimal path to reducing your approach anxiety and desensitizing yourself to rejection. It's not the optimal path to finding a woman that you're compatible with. But it's a necessary part of the hero's journey. Once you gain approach experience and desensitize yourself to rejection it becomes easier to approach girls at places you have things in common with like group activities, sports clubs, volunteering, work, school, traveling, etc.
/r/seduction03/03/25 11:52 PM
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Act unphased
/r/seduction21/02/25 09:03 PM
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Great! Thanks for the recommendations.
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:48 PM
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What are the best spots to cold approach and date in Australia? I'm from US, but if I go where could I go to meet hot girls, what would be the best way?
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:07 PM
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I think women's standards are like that everywhere now that every girl is addicted to romance / actual porn and has dating apps / instagram to get male attention and be validated. Then they just use their friends for emotional support. Tough times to live in. At least before 2006 (when iphones were introduced) women would actually have to have a boyfriend to get male attention / validation. Now it's so bad, women really have no need for a relationship because when they are loney and want attenti…
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:05 PM
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How are the women? I've read that there's very attractive and wild ladies in australia
/r/seduction19/02/25 11:35 PM
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Is it true that there's a lot of surfer chads that wrestle with crocodiles and box with kangaroos?
/r/seduction14/02/25 02:27 PM
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Dating apps are a waste of time and the laziest medium to get laid, it's better to just cold approach every girl in a bar. At least swiping right in real life has immediate feedback, whereas online you waste hours and hear nothing back because your profile is hidden by some overlord algorithm.
/r/seduction14/02/25 02:26 PM
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Congrats, so did the other 100 guys
/r/seduction14/02/25 06:42 AM
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Where are you from originally? US or Europe?
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:12 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:11 PM
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Where are you from? And yeah you're right, I am biased because of the women that I've talked to - a small sample in a small region. I can't generalize and say all american women are a certain way
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:08 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:04 PM
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I believe you're right, I tend to gravitate towards women who don't seem interested or friendly. I've noticed this recently and I've started thinking that it's more important for me that a woman actually puts in effort into wanting to talk to me and if she's not reciprocating I just let her go. That's even more important than looks. The most attractive / confident women have an incredible sense of entitlement and are spoiled by their options, and I tend to go after these types. What's important …
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:03 PM
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You're right, there are women who are interested in dating but I just haven't met the right person yet. I refuse to believe they're average at best, which country are you from? Paris, Stockholm, Barcelona, Amsterdam, Warsaw, Krakow, Copenhagen? There's an abundance of attractive women in these cities, moreso than I've seen in any American city that I've visited outside of the main hubs like Miami, New York, LA, Austin
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:59 PM
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I think it might be that I continue pursuing women who are taller than me, and the extroverted confident pretty types. Naturally I would assume these women have an abundance of options so I could see why it's difficult to date them
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:54 PM
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You're absolutely right, I think maybe it's just the small sample size of women that I've talked to in my region. US is huge, I shouldn't categorize all women in the same way.
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:47 PM
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I am already lean and have people skills. I work part time as a waiter and I lead some social clubs, it doesn't even have to do with me I just think in the US the dating culture allows women to have to put no effort into dating and still get away with it. It's not until women get older like 25-30 that they realize that they will end up forever alone if they don't give the nice guys a chance after going through a bunch of bunch of bad boys
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:22 AM
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Where was the speed dating event? I am really only interested in european / white women, but American women are just so sexually repressed and afraid of even talking to guys that I think I should just travel somewhere else because literally, any decently attractive woman from the us is flooded by lonely thirsty men. A 10 in the US is a 4 in Western European countries / Scandinavia. America has a weird dichotomy where women are sexually repressed, yet in secret insatiably sexually liberal and the…
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:17 AM
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American tourists are different from the regular american women you encounter in the states. Usually american tourists are wealthier, happier, liberal, and open minded. Naturally people who are like this leads to good interactions. As a guy in america, I feel like the American women I've talked to are just entitled, play hard to get, seem indifferent about dating, and put no effort into dating.
/r/seduction13/02/25 05:38 AM
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If you want to be real direct just tell him he's handsome. If a guy you're talking to doesn't get this, I don't really know.
/r/seduction13/02/25 05:04 AM
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Body language, touch, strong frame, and closeness is all that matters in bars. Also, try not to talk too much and let her talk, ask her a question and then lean in and put your ear close to her so she has to lean in and whisper into it. You are letting her fly right into your trap. Empower the woman to let her choose you and she will feel like she is in control, this is exactly what you want. Many women in the club just want to hook up, some want to flirt with every guy to feel desired, and some…
/r/seduction13/02/25 05:02 AM
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Out of those matches, were you able to get dates?
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:40 PM
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Is it worth it for a week?
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:11 AM
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Is it actually worth it? I'm thinking of trying for a week.
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:10 AM
1

Thinking of getting hingeX for a week to try. I get 2-3 likes a week with free version but the likes are from unattractive women. I suspect hinge hides my profile from compatible women. Should I try for a week?
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:10 AM
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I agree, working part time helps because you interact with all sorts of regular people and some of his coworkers will be more mature non spoiled women that he can befriend
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:04 AM
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I am an older student so I can give you advice: Study and use this time productively. Do not waste your time because it's the most free time you'll ever have in your life, lowest stress time period too. Set an hour daily to practice socializing by doing something social (or get a part time job that requires you to be social). Set an hour daily to gym / swim. Do therapy to heal your inner child, overcome any insecurities, and learn how to rewire the messages in your subconscious mind. You are lay…
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:10 PM
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I agree, but it would also be good to alternate one day 1 hour of gym and one day 1 hour of a social activity (dance, volunteering, leadership activity, student faith group, student interest club, etc). Gym is good to feel good and look good but socializing is what improves your charisma ELO
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:03 PM
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There's women who will be willing to settle and have kids at bars. The same women who go dancing Saturday night with her friends attends church the next Sunday morning. I used to think like you, with the goal to "find my wife" but the truth is you're going to have to experiment, date a lot of women, and fail a lot. The first woman you meet, kiss, or have sex with will not necessarily be your wife, and you can meet that special person anywhere, on the street, on a plane, in a bar, on a dating app…
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:43 PM
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Does hinge even work for you without premium? I have tried free hinge and I'll get 1-3 likes in a couple days from morbidly rotund women and no women I send likes out to return the like, and I am extremely picky.
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:36 AM
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Do you use hingeX and do you consider yourself an attractive guy? I was thinking of trying hingeX
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:55 AM
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Yeah you're right, I'm just going to move on and keep finding new leads.
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:41 PM
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I agree, I'm just going to let her go. The downvoters are jealous basement dwellers
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:36 PM
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What do you want with her then? Seems like you're confused about what you want.
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:26 PM
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Same problem I experience, except girls will normally respond once or twice then ghost, so I'm sure I'm getting real numbers. I'd recommend recording your interactions in a notebook or audio to see where you go wrong. 2 important things I have learned about cold approaches: you need to build a connection with the girl in the moment, if not she may feel attracted to you in the moment but once she has time to process the interaction she won't know anything about you and she won't respond to your t…
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:08 PM
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She's a stranger i cold approached, it makes no sense to text her like a pen pal. That's what the lunch date is for -- to actually get to know her.
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:06 PM
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Congrats
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah, I should not have followed up immediately to build up anticipation of how I would respond to her turning down the offer rather than immediately responded asking her out again. Instead I think I should have said something like "no problem, maybe another time" to show I'm completely indifferent towards her, then tried texting her again the following week
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:55 PM
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Move on, she's playing you like her boy toy. This is about your values. If you want a ONS and she wants a slow burn relationship you are incompatible.
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:42 PM
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I agree that there's a non-zero chance of her being receptive but I would say that it's probably not a good idea to approach someone who has headphones on and is studying on their laptop. Just comes off like you have zero social awareness... aren't there more attractive women around who don't have headphones on and aren't on their laptops?
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:50 AM
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Online dating and social media is a waste of time, just cold approach. Even if you match with a hot girl on tinder and you go on a date with her there's no guarantee she looks like her pictures and the vibe could be a complete incompatibility, so right from the getgo if you cold approached you would know right away if you were both interested in each other. Same with instagram, you just look thirsty and desperate following and DMing girls on instagram. If you cold approach it just seems like you…
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:52 PM
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She wasn't interested if she "recently started seeing someone"...
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:43 PM
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Update: I've been practicing the 3 second rule all month and approached like 12 girls at college. Got a lot of "I have a boyfriend" rejections, 2 numbers but both ghosted me, and 1 unattractive girl was all over me. I usually go 3 2 1 go in my head take a deep breath and just walk up to them and say hi. It's really desensitized me to approaching. It's getting easier but still hard to go up to a hot girl. My heart beats very fast when I get that first hello out if I am talking to 7-10's.
/r/seduction26/11/24 10:42 PM
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Great advice, thank you! That 3 second rule and the social warmup is what I gotta do. What I was thinking of doing is stopping girls I'm not interested in to ask for the time to get warmed up.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:20 AM
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Solid tip, I'll keep this in mind.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:19 AM
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You're absolutely right, if I were selling them a product I wouldn't be so worried but I'm trying to sell myself so my ego gets in the way. Very hard to overcome that though.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:19 AM
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I am not paying her, she is not a tutor. She's my sister's friend. I'm just asking her for homework help.
/r/seduction12/07/24 08:35 PM
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Start flirting with her boyfriend
/r/seduction12/07/24 05:05 PM
1

I'm interested in a relationship though, not hubba hubba swing. I'd rather get to know her so I think asking her if she could help me on my homework is a good way to get to know her...
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:47 PM
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It's not her job, she doesn't tutor. I just wanted to ask her to help me work through some problems since she's good at physics.
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:46 PM
1

You have oneitis for her because you're idealizing her. In what way was she flawed? You probably didn't know her well enough if she wasn't imperfect in any way. Keep reminding yourself of her imperfections instead of idealizing her.
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:53 PM
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No woman is safe from Cepi300's rizz aura
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:50 PM
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Good idea, just go up and be friendly. Keep asking questions to get to know them better. Keep it surface level and see if they bite. "What have you done so far here in bali?" "Do you recommend any places to eat" "Have you gone hiking anywhere?" Things like that related to travel and bali, then get more personal like "why did you choose bali", "do you like where you're from", just get to know them. Also, make sure to share about yourself.
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:48 PM
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You can't change your height, just stand straight and look at her in the eyes. Be confident in yourself.
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:46 PM
1

Are you both attractive? Or would you say your friend is more attractive than you are? Just wait for the right guy to come into your life. I know it's hard to come to terms with, but it can take a year or ten years to meet the right person. In the meantime make yourself into the best possible wife / girlfriend for your future husband / boyfriend. It also helps to be proactive. Think about what sort of man you would want and where he would be. For example, if you want an educated gentleman maybe …
/r/seduction12/07/24 04:35 AM
1

If you have her number, try inviting her to the climbing gym and see if she is interested in hanging out with you one on one. Gauge her interest when hanging out. If she continues accepting to hang out with you one on one she likes you. Try escalating by touching her hand or shoulders playfully.
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:54 AM
1

Wouldn't you want your sibling to be happy though? If you knew your friend and your sibling were a good match and they both liked each other why wouldnt you hook them up if not out of selfishness? It's possible for your sibling to date your friend and still remain friends with you.
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:45 PM
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Yeah that's what I was leaning towards too. I'll just continue trying to pursue other women and if the opportunity with her friend ever comes up, I'll date her.
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:32 PM
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Your height doesn't matter to confident men. Sure, less men are likely to approach you because many are probably more intimidated by you since you're bigger but it doesn't mean you're unattractive.
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:12 PM
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Yes, I've read a lot of romance novels created for women. It helps give you an idea of what they like romantically / erotically. They are slow, very insightful.
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:09 PM
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