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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Anyone ever experience this?	Dealing with the Ex / STBX	639248	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/26 08:30 AM

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2	Wife is letting friends know she is considering divorce Agreed. My ex-cheated on me. I forgave, and she did it again. She got re-married, cheated on him, he forgave, she cheated again. Got re-married a third time, cheated on him, he forgave, and she is currently having a long term affair. Once a cheater, always a cheater.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/26 06:30 AM
1	Wife is letting friends know she is considering divorce Don’t forgive her. Forgiving her just makes her view you as a doormat and gives her license to do it again. But since you have crossed that bridge already, don’t say anything, see a lawyer, and file for divorce. Take the power and decision away from her. It will be hard, but you will feel so much better on the other side. Take it from someone who has been through it, including forgiving her for cheating.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/26 06:26 AM
7	Wife forcing vasectomy I happily got a vasectomy after my ex and I had kids. Obviously we ended up getting divorced, but I never wanted to have more. My second wife and I have been together for 15 years now. She had two kids from her first marriage that I ended up adopting. I have known them since they were four and two respectively, and they have zero relationship with their birth father (hence why I was able to adopt them), so I ended up getting two more amazing daughters anyway. But honestly, I have never regretted…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 10:41 AM
3	Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check. My ex ran out on our kids, started dating an 18 year old drug dealer, and got in to legal issues herself. She is now on her third marriage and has cheated on both her second and third husbands multiple time. But by your logic, she would have been a good and trustworthy source of information about me. Nice…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/26 12:19 PM
2	Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check. If she is reaching out to your ex after two dates, she is definitely not the one for you. It sucks, but that sort of behavior is a red flag.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/26 12:14 PM
3	Has anyone improved finances through divorce? Significantly better for me, and relatively quickly too, despite losing my job three months after filing for divorce, and ending up with full custody of the kids. Things can improve pretty quickly when your parter isn't secretly paying legal bills and living expenses for her secret, ex-con boyfriend, behind your back.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/26 09:22 AM

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