I have been divorced from my ex for almost 17 years now (and happily remarried for close to 15). My ex and I were married young and had four kids together before we got divorced. I actually ended up with full custody and for many years my ex was a mess. She is now on her third marriage and there has been infidelity on her part in all three marriages.

So now that you have the background, my ex called me up not too long ago, on a weekend night after a lot of drinking, and told me she wanted us to seek counseling together because she still has "unresolved issues" from our marriage. Of course I refused, the time for us to seek counseling was two decades ago and I have no interest in revisiting that. My wife actually thought it was hilarious too. Even though our kids are grown, I want to maintain some semblance of peace with my ex because I never want our kids to have to worry about there being issues at big events like weddings, graduations, or birth of grandchildren. But seriously...any thoughts on what is going on with the ex?