| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointThank you! Glad I'm not alone in thinking that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:41 AM |
| 14 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"That's the thing I read about him that caused me to really dislike him. Like his first wife wanted marriage counselling, he just wanted someone there to give the illusion that he's not alone. No clue what Grimes sees in him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointI agree, but a lot people here look up to them as the "ultimate" HV couple. So I wanted to see how that worked with such a lazy proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointPrince Harry proposed to Megan Markle while she was in the kitchen cooking chicken or something 😅 curious to know all your thoughts on that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:00 AM |
| 17 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Elon Musk is actually awful, just look at how he treated his ex wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:57 AM |
| 5 | I hope her divorce lawyer has a wonderful time with the public photographic evidence of his cheating.His wife liking the post was a power move 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | I replied to a comment and got a nasty PM. The poster didn't want to be her insecure husband's unpaid therapist. The commentor disagreed. Apparently I deserve to be mistreated for not...allowing myself to be mistreated? My reply is probably harsher than I meant, but I have no regrets. 😂Lmao, girlll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 6 | I replied to a comment and got a nasty PM. The poster didn't want to be her insecure husband's unpaid therapist. The commentor disagreed. Apparently I deserve to be mistreated for not...allowing myself to be mistreated? My reply is probably harsher than I meant, but I have no regrets. 😂Leaving someone you love who suffers with mental illness and leaving someone you love who refused to get help for their mental illness are two completely different things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicAm I literally missing something here?? Did she not pay the full bill the first 2 times? So why now that she expects him to do the same is it a problem? Does he expect her to pay for all of the bills? Then he has a nerve to igno her texts and attempts at contact, because it was his turn to pay the bill??? 😄 Trash. Oh lol I realise I read it wrong, but still trash. He just ghosted her instead of talking to her about it. I guess communication isn't a thing anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "forcing" a new friendship into the direction of a relationship, just because you haven't dated in a long time?Yeah that's what I was thinking along the lines of | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid "forcing" a new friendship into the direction of a relationship, just because you haven't dated in a long time?It's really hard during this pandemic though, with everything closing, so fewer opportunities to be social. Like the current climate is definitely working against me so I don't know what I'm gonna do, but I guess I should put more focus into this. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid "forcing" a new friendship into the direction of a relationship, just because you haven't dated in a long time?Thanks girl, I think I might have to end up doing this. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | ‘If a guy truly loved you he would do xyz’ a phrase that makes me think ‘why not me’. How do we reframe thisJust realise that you don't need to be wanted by that type of person in the first place, like count yourself lucky. That's how I perceive it. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 10:10 AM |
| 4 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Thanks, this is a really good post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:56 AM |
| 15 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Do NOT reply to male PMsUgh, learned this the hard way 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Today I turn 24Thanks! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Today I turn 24Thank you 😊💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Today I turn 24Happy Birthday girl! It's mine tomorrow, and I truly hope that 25 will be a more positive time for me, and you too :) here's to making better choices 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaLol fair enough, same for me and SZA, I love her but.. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 3 | My post FDS level up collage. Focusing on my family, studying, God and healthWow its funny you are all posting vision boards, because this is something I decided to do (5 year plan vision board) a few weeks ago. And now it seems like a hot topic here. It really helps though. Like I actively make decisions now that will bring me in the direction of making my vision board come true. It really helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:53 AM |
| 8 | 'Why don't women just tell us "no"? They complicate it all so much' (found on twitter)Lol at sending messages into the void | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:50 AM |
| 30 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaHer songs contradict her actions. Every man she's been with has been questionable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:30 AM |
| 4 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticBut the gag is that on a scale of 1 to 10, he's a -1. And that's being generous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 7 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleYeah that makes sense, and I love your username BTW 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 13 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleHonestly, is it even worth going through all of this when a guy is going to talk over you anyway? Why try to change their behaviour if they clearly have no manners or respect in the first place. Unless you're really determined to say what you were going to say I guess lol Ah I just realised that this isn't in context of relationships, but with talking to men in general like in the work place or in social situations. In that case this is great advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | We’re retiring the “Seeking Advice” flair and redirecting all personal relationship questions to r/AskFDSHey I'm still waiting for my confirmation on the website, I literally signed up the week the website opened but I'm still waiting for verification? Also, will my flair ever change, because I feel like I've been here for a long tim now, I'm by no means even a newbie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:39 AM |
| 177 | Quinn is often seen as an airhead, but she actually exudes pure FDS energy.My favourite episode of Daria was when Daria and Jane went to this party, where two guys approached them and asked "where have you been all our lives?". To which Daria sarcastically responded "Waiting for you. We were born in this room, we were raised in this room, and now that you're here our lives can finally begin" or something along those lines 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Found out my #1 celebrity crush accidentally released nudes and took 2 seconds to accurately think about what looking them up would mean:I accidentally came across the pic after clicking on "Chris Evans" on twitter because I wondered why he was trending. I don't really think it is actually a nude, because 1 it is barely visible for the quality of the photo, and 2 it could be a pic that someone else sent him because it was literally just a screenshot of his gallery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Why do ex LVM bother you after you’ve blocked them? Like they HAD you and they HAD the opportunity to fix the issues and work it out.Same boat here, I wish I knew? Like just move on. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?I did block him but forgot I had SC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?English isn't his first language lol but I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?Same because I don't use SC much at all. And yeah that's true, he hasn't acknowledged the behaviour that lead to this in the first place. That's why I love this sub, you guys get me to think about things I did even consider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?Lol this shit literally describes every relationship I've ever had. Always giving giving giving, but never getting anything in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 7 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?Honestly, I am not going to take him back. I've had enough bad relationships with shitty men in my life to not want a repeat of my past. Though I've read the handbook, I don't need it since everything that's in it I've unfortunately had to learn for myself. You're right that it's probably a moment of weakness. The last thing I said to him before I blocked him was that actions speak louder than words, and I truly believe that. The only way I'd even consider taking him back would be if his actions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:06 AM |
| -8 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?I would usually agree but he lives in Germany and is attractive enough to get sex in a way that wouldn't require him to buy a plane ticket to come and see me. Also he has another ex who he is still friends with, so if he wanted easy sex he has options that don't involve me which is why I'm confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 6 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?My last post about him is here I don't know how to respond to this, or if I should at all? I forgot to block him on snapchat and he ended up sending me this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, who is your inspiration/role model/ the person you model your life and level up goals around, and why?Those sound pretty inspirational, Marilyn was quite a good person beyond her beauty from what I've read. And yeah, I can imagine that there is a lot to admire from the personal qualities of war heroes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, who is your inspiration/role model/ the person you model your life and level up goals around, and why?That's a good point lol though right now I don't feel like I'm anywhere near my full potential. Thanks for the encouragement :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, who is your inspiration/role model/ the person you model your life and level up goals around, and why?Wow, those women literally sound like unicorns lol I'd like to end up in a career where I have level headed people like that around me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Should I block an ex for the simple fact that hearing from him makes me sad and hinders my self improvement progress?Yeah I ended up actually saying : "So don't take this the wrong way, but I'm going to block you, because I feel sad whenever I hear from you, and it throws my motivation off. Wish you the best ❤️ " I don't feel like I could have explained how I feel any more than that without him saying that I'm being negative, as he always tended to when I brought up problems between us in the past. I really hope it sufficed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 26 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedOmg imagine if Tinder had a review section on profiles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 19 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedHe's probably gaslighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 12 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedlmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 17 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedThe fact you even explained and reaffirmed the fact you were not going to sleep with him after the first "No" was more than he deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Ppppiccckkk meeee. This is disgusting. Who told this woman she needs a man this badly? TRIGGER WARNINGI'm sorry but is this b*tch stupid? I would already be in jail, I can't believe she is even asking this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:02 AM |
| 11 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.That's the part that inspired me to post this here, I just thought... wow. And I kinda feel sad that I have subjected myself to that kind of thinking since I began dating men at 19 - that is thinking that I need to change myself or be a certain way, or that I have to achieve this or that before I am worthy of commitment or love from them. FDS has shown me that in all my years of dating men, there has been a pattern - me jumping through hoops to get commitment or love, all the while they are gett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.Yeah, that's how I feel looking back lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.Thanks girl :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.Thank you for acknowledging that, I was truly bewildered when I came across these messages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.Amen 🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:21 PM |
| 42 | Found an old note that I wrote to my old pickme self back when I was having relationship troubles with my asshole ex who I was with for 1 1/2 years and it's kinda funny seeing the difference in how my attitude to men has changed.Its just amazing to see the shift in my mindset because for the entire time I was with this guy I knew he was treating me badly, and I was basically his toy, but despite that I stayed and when we fought even though he was in the wrong I kept going back and I was the one who apologised because I loved him, and he always knew I'd go back, he'd even wait and time me. Back in September I finally got the courage to cut him off clean, I blocked him and everything. Recently I unblocked him, and he stil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:57 PM |
| 11 | The audacity. Stay at home orders are still in place here.But did you send it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 31 | Whenever a man says something inappropriate and tries to pass it off as a “joke,” I like to ask him to explain the joke to me :)Lol I love how deadpan you said "the joke" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Do HVM even exist?I have been in and out of toxic relationships with lwm consecutively since I was 19. This year I turn 25 and a few months ago I decided to stop rebounding so that I could end that awful cycle. I just stopped looking for someone else to fill the void left by my last relationship, and after taking some time to reflect on the fact that I had been in so many relationships, and nothing had changed, I realised that if I keep going on like that my life won't change and I will always be unhappy. After b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Do HVM even exist?Same girl, every single man I've come across in my life has been lv. I am coming to accept that I may die alone lol but I'm fine with that if the alternative is to spend my life with the type of men I've dated in the past. No thank you 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoHis priorities are football and partying? What a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:15 AM |
| 19 | The moment you show interest in return, they don’t want you. What’s the psychology behind this? I’m so done.They like the chase/challenge. It's a game for them, once you show interest they've won so they get bored of the "game". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:46 AM |
| 25 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorWhen I was younger, my very first relationship was with a man who was 42. I believed that his age would mean he'd be more mature and committed to wanting a relationship. He was the most immature person I've met in my life... Actually second only to my most recent ex, except he's 23 so has an excuse. And actually that has been my experience every time dating older men, they can be just as bad when it comes to commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 3 | “ period stuff freaks me out” Disgusting. This is why you shouldn’t get into a fwb situation with a man, some men really don’t deserve sexVery true. I had a fwb who would still meet me when I was menstruating, to make it seem like our relationship was more than just sex, but in reality when I got there he'd always bring up the fact we could do "other stuff", so he was going to get sexual satisfaction regardless of the state of my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 01:36 PM |
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