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| 17 | LTR jealous of other relationshipsSkittles: they’re not just for Valentines anymore. This is standard-issue bellyaching. Ignore, or tease her if you’ve got frame and game. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2020Don’t say it because you’re feeling Rambo or to elicit a reaction. Say it only when you truly DNGAF whether it makes her laugh, or makes her angry. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2020Agree and Amplify. “Sounds good, where do you want it? Tits, or face?” | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2020Yet you’ve already planned out 6 months of reasons to delay putting yourself first, in order not to affect or disappoint others. Think about this. You also DEERed the hell out of the comments about your weight loss. Crabs in a bucket, man. You were right not to blow things up by revealing “what you know”, but you need a better response. Fog, A&A...this is what Blarg means with the cocky grin. Don’t fucking DEER about “my body, my decision”. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2020Sounds a lot like 'hiding the bad'. What is it about yourself that you're ashamed of, and that you don't want other people to see? I’m honestly not sure. I was a cocky MFer as a kid but something changed when I hit my teens. High school wasn’t exactly fun for me, but nothing out of the ordinary or especially traumatic happened. Do you have close, male friends that you see by yourself? How do you act around them? Is it similar validation seeking, don't rock the boat sort of behaviour or does more… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 20207th OYS Stats: 42, Married 11 years, together 16. 2 kids under 10. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Subtle Art, Unfuck Yourself, SGM, Models. Physical: 5’9”, 160 lbs. Waist 31”, neck 14”. Body fat ~14-15%. Lifts: PPL 6 Days / week. Deadlift: 255x5, Squat 235x5, Bench 155x5. No dedicated cardio, just lots of walking and other outdoor activities. Nutrition: I’ve increased intake as my lifts have stalled and I’ve felt less energy during workouts. Targeting 30/40/30 protein/carb/fat,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 21 | Don’t Be Like JackFunny, my neighbour was checking me out while doing yard work this week too. Except she’s 80 and her husband is dead. Try not to end up like him, either. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020It’s not about the nail. They don’t want you to solve their problem with logic. They want you to listen to them emote. Give her a “That sucks, babe”, pull her in for a hug, and replace bad feelz with good feelz. Then walk away to go do something, leaving her to sit and think about how her guy Just Gets It. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020It’s true, my lifts suck. I didn’t accept the importance of lifting for a long time, which was a mistake. That said, I’m very focused on getting as lean as possible now because there’s a 4 week stretch upcoming that’s going to disrupt most of my routines, and I’ll certainly be eating more over that time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020I had a similar situation on vacation not long ago. We brought dumbbells and bands, and she said “Let’s work out together. Are you going to do (woman centric Beach Body video) with me?” Me, smiling: “No, I think you should do my PPL with me”. We did work out together. She did her thing. I did mine. There was a time she’d whine that we never do things together, and I’d DEER and capitulate to do what she wanted. Those days are gone. It’s good to say no, when it’s authentic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020If only you could have given her the job of navigator. Almost like, you’re the captain, and she’s the first mate. Then you’d be on adventure together. Instead, you’re probably telling her to shut up so you can listen to the instructions on your phone. Also, get Bigger Leaner Stronger and read the nutrition section. He lays out really well how to build a diet plan. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 20206th OYS Stats: 42, Married 11 years, together 16. 2 kids under 10. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Subtle Art, Unfuck Yourself, SGM, Models. Physical: 5’9”, 161 lbs. Waist down another 1⁄2” to 31”, neck at 14”. Body fat I can now confidently say is sub-15%. I grew a spare tire as a teenager and have ranged between 175-190 all of my adult life, so I’ll take a moment to say I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished here. That said, I will not take my foot off the gas. Lifts: Bigger Leaner St… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/20 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 07, 20205th OYS Stats: 42, Married 11 years, together 16. 2 kids under 10. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Subtle Art, Unfuck Yourself, SGM, Models. Physical: 5’9”, 162 lbs. BF% via Navy method estimated at 15%. Measure 31.5” navel (down 0.5”) and 15” neck. Lifts: Bigger Leaner Stronger PPL Deadlift: 235x6, Squat 225x6, Bench 155x5. Was on vacation last week, took dumbbells and continued the PPL, modified the exercises for high reps. Achieved 4 of 5 planned workouts, plus daily walks or hike… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 23, 2020Good reminders here - thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 23, 2020Touché. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 23, 2020Both fair points. I need to get out of my own head. As for cutting, I’m still squeezing out some newbie gains and want to get down closer to 12%. Then I’ll up the calories. Gaining weight has never been a problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 23, 20204th OYS Stats: 42, Married 11 years, together 16. 2 kids under 10. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Subtle Art, Unfuck Yourself, SGM, Models. WOTSM is up next, although I think I would benefit more from a reread of NMMNG. Physical: 5’9”, 162 lbs. BF% via Navy method estimated at 15%. Measure 31.5” navel (down 0.5”) and 15” neck. Lifts: Started Bigger Leaner Stronger PPL Deadlift: 225x6, Squat 225x6, Bench 155x5. Deadlift is ready to go up in weight; the video of my squat showed I need… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 16, 20203rd OYS I posted twice two years ago, but stopped when I ran into a block of having anything new or interesting to write about. I have no doubt that if I’d kept going, plenty would have surfaced over time. I’ve continued to read the sidebar materials and follow the content posted here throughout the time since. I’m starting up again as I start to uncover the mental models contributing to some of my issues, as well as recognizing some recent failed tests of Frame that tell me I haven’t come as fa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Considering living with a plate for a few monthsWhatever happened to the train wreck that knocked up his babysitter? | /r/askMRP | 30/05/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Question for experienced: Wife wants to move abroad for study, I have mixed feelingsDivorce papers as a going away gift. She can finance her own dreams. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Just Found Out My Wife Used To Be A Huge SlutYou need to head over to Married Red Pill. DO NOT post or victim puke. Read all the sidebar, STFU, and once you start doing the work start posting in OYS. You have a lot of work to do to unfuck yourself. Get to it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 5 | What steps should I take before ending a relationship with a woman I am engaged to/cohabitating with?Consult an attorney. Depending on where you live, how long you’ve been living together, and the extent to which you’ve been supporting her, there may still be financial exposure even if you’re not married. Hell hath no fury... | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Who are we measuring ourselves to?Jordan Peterson uses a lot of words to say things of debateable wisdom. One thing he hit on the head though is “Compare yourself only to the person you were yesterday”. | /r/askMRP | 23/12/19 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Hiring Wife?No, you should not hire your wife. Also, you didn’t ask, but carrying 8 ‘ees on $400K of revenue is a problem as well. Merging two businesses, you should be looking for opportunities to drive efficiencies and reduce that headcount. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | 5 year LTR (25F) and I (25M) are trying to reach a compromise on moving to a new cityMove where you want to. Maybe she’ll follow; maybe she won’t. Under age 30, you shouldn’t care. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 11:17 AM |
| 12 | At what point is this chore play?Not cleaning the car because you didn’t get your pecker played with = Butthurt. Cleaning the car and running back inside for Mommy’s approval = Dancing Monkey. Clean the damn car because it needs to be done and you’re a man who handles his business. | /r/askMRP | 12/10/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Teenage Daughter Wants to Spend Time with Friends During my Parenting Time30 min is fuck all, that’s an easy commute in my city. Work around her social schedule, same as you would if she lived with you full time. Be there first thing Saturday to pick her up from her friend’s house, and have an awesome day planned to spend together. | /r/askMRP | 04/10/19 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Finally got a confession of her past, Specifically who she slept with. A real piece of work."If my answers frighten you, Vincent, perhaps you should cease to ask scary questions." -Jules | /r/askMRP | 31/07/18 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Mothers DayI gave her a skil saw and an orgasm this morning. Other than the saw, it's just a regular Sunday. | /r/askMRP | 13/05/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How I fixed my sleep problem.Needs more digeridoo. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/18 02:32 PM |
| 3 | If a husband(25 yrs) ran into some men who used to have kinky sex with his wife and they mocked him in from of public in a party where he finds out his wife did all kinky stuff with then and enjoyed but does'nt even do simple acts with him then, how should he react to the humiliation?Asking for a friend? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Learning About “Handiness”Always make sure you have the right tool for the job. You're making it 10x harder on yourself otherwise. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/18 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Wife’s dream: Obama tagged her while I watchedI am kind of curious how the Fig Newton saga played itself out. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Wife’s dream: Obama tagged her while I watchedBigDickProblems | /r/askMRP | 13/01/18 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Wife Birthday Advice“Her, her, she, she, her”. Do YOU want to give her something nice? Then do it. If you don’t, then don’t. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Anniversary IdeasThis is my go-to for situations such as these. https://youtu.be/8hYQB7a_jno | /r/askMRP | 11/01/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 09, 20182nd OYS – Leadership week Stats: 40, Married 9 years, together nearly 14. 2 children, preschool and primary ages. 5’9”, 176 lbs, BF 21% per InBody machine at the gym. Started 5x5 Oct 21, S = 195 lb, DL = 195 lbs, B = 135 lbs. Read: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Book of Pook, Last week’s Goals and Results: No Alcohol through Sunday Jan 7 – success, except for 1 glass red wine Sunday night. IF from 7 pm to 11 am – success in not eating past 7 pm. Failed in am, having first meal be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill documentary???I watched it and didn’t like it. Should have been called Men’s Rights, or anything other than TRP. Cassie Jaye is a lightweight documentarian, too. Watching her try and articulate her “thoughts” was fucking painful. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 02, 2018Yes, it is excessive. I am fortunate that I don’t usually crave the first drink, nor am I in the habit of drinking daily. The trouble starts after the first drink, then it’s game on until the six pack is gone, the wine bottle is empty, or both. Short term, plan is to make it through the weekend dry. Today is day 4, with no issues so far. I have a friend lined up to call in case I get twitchy. Long term, need to set up strict parameters around which days I drink, and how much I drink when I do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/18 07:37 AM |
| 7 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 02, 2018First OYS I discovered MRP 6 months ago after googling due to dissatisfaction with the sex life. Not a DB, but about once a week, with probably a 75/25 split between duty starfish and some degree of active participation. My stats: 40, Married 9 years, together nearly 14. 2 children, preschool and primary ages. 5’9”, 176 lbs, BF 21% per InBody body comp machine at the gym. Started 5x5 Oct 21, S = 195 lb, DL = 195 lbs, B = 135 lbs. Read: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Book of Pook,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Please give me a hard slapWhat I want to know is, how did Arby's make it through the Christmas rush without you there to steer the ship? | /r/askMRP | 31/12/17 06:42 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Field Report: Santa Clause“Why don’t we start with you telling me about your childhood?” “Well, when I was five, my dad told me there’s no Santa because he couldn’t stand the idea of a fat jolly old man taking credit for one of the presents under the tree.” | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Reading materials openly?Uh oh. Sounds like the boss doesn’t like your new book. Whatcha gonna do? Edit: you also whiffed on an easy A&A. “Nah, that was on backorder, but they promised to get it to me by Jan 1”. | /r/askMRP | 24/12/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Concerned ex wife is planning on stealing my son's car.Ken M-RP | /r/askMRP | 21/12/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Lost my frame/normal state. My wife completely abused it.Haven’t read your OYS but hopefully you have read up on Type 2 Captain with Cluster B passenger. Good luck to you sir. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/17 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Always having the best SMV/Frame is more important for married than single guys because...We had the 3 Rs of the manosphere. Now we have u/buildingbloch. So much winning. | /r/askMRP | 16/12/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Track Your Progress?In defence of the spreadsheet - that which gets measured, gets done. Don’t go crazy though. Pick 2-3 KPIs that are core to what you’re trying to accomplish. For me: Weight and BF % every Sunday morning at the gym. Alcoholic drinks consumed per day. Daily step count (important to me due to a sedentary job). 5X5 results are maintained in the app. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/17 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Decision timeThis one’s easy. Book a non refundable ticket someplace hot and go crush some strange. | /r/askMRP | 12/12/17 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Tip: how to improve yourself by 20%* in one fell swoop...“That’s not a knife. THIS is a knife!” “That’s a spoon...” | /r/askMRP | 28/11/17 10:45 PM |
| 5 | New sub, lose the faggotryFrom coaching little league to going full Angelina Jolie. Seems a tad...aggressive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Lose loseIs this a shit test? No. A shit test would be you finish parking the car, and walk inside to find her on the couch eating bon bons and the dogs waiting by the door with their back teeth floating. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/17 08:58 PM |
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