TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

84throwaway21 Archive

View 43 posts and 102 comments by 84throwaway21 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
65

84throwaway21/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:52 PM
14

84throwaway21/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:49 PM
12

84throwaway21/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:57 PM
11

84throwaway21/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:02 PM
9

84throwaway21/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:18 PM
6

84throwaway21/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:53 PM
6

84throwaway21/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:38 AM
6

84throwaway21/r/seduction13/03/19 08:04 PM
5

84throwaway21/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:54 PM
5

84throwaway21/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:55 PM
5

84throwaway21/r/askTRP30/09/18 12:34 PM
4

84throwaway21/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:21 PM
3

84throwaway21/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:15 PM
3

84throwaway21/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:37 PM
3

84throwaway21/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:01 PM
3

84throwaway21/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:08 PM
3

84throwaway21/r/askTRP13/05/16 11:03 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:56 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:19 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:29 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:51 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:05 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:03 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:15 PM
2

84throwaway21/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:29 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:02 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:20 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:25 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:35 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:10 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:10 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:10 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:41 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:54 PM
1

84throwaway21/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:33 AM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:38 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP20/11/16 01:55 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:17 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:18 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:35 AM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:07 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:42 PM
0

84throwaway21/r/seduction03/11/15 12:00 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

23, started dating just under a year ago, been official for around 6 months
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:17 PM
1

It's not really secret. They've shown their resentment clearly, and ive given it right back to them (albeit from a less angry, immature place).
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:53 PM
1

Good advice. As I say, in each occasion ive tried to clear the air but he starts a new argument. He's blocked me on all social media now (lol). I'll continue as normal with the rest of the group and just ignore him. Might be awkward for the others guys but what can I do? Hopefully he does alienate himself, we'd all be better off without a guy like that.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:04 PM
2

Thanks. As I say, I'm not worried about his behaviour spreading through the group. One of them is literally my brother, another has flat out said he doesn't like the guy in question and the others are at least as close to me, if not closer, than him, and have acknowledged he's in the wrong. I would never make them chose between us but if it came down to it I'm 95% they'd side with me.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:03 PM
2

I did ignore him last night to keep things civil, probably the best thing going forward. I'm not worried about him turning them against me tbh, the rest of the group are great guys and they know what he's like and have even told me they think he's in the wrong. But you're definitely right about him attempting to get them on his sode haha.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 01:13 PM
1

Good point. Out of curiosity, how long had your friend been seeing the girl before he asked her?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:34 PM
1

Thanks. I think I'll frame it that way. I won't rush into asking her like I suggested in the OP but we discussed trying to get a night out with her friends and mine (ive met a couple of hers but she's never met mine). It never materialised last week but when it comes up again I can just ask if she's cool with me introducing her as my gf. Definitely seems a more natural way to approach it. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:33 PM
3

That's fair, appreciate the response. To be fair though, this sub is for asking questions and I've had good advice (and bad haha) from here in the past so wanted some opinions. For what it's worth, despite wanting an LTR, I'd genuinely say I've held frame and been non-needy throughout the relationship so was hoping asking to be bf/gf would be acceptable coming from the right frame.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:57 PM
1

Fair enough. It's nothing to do with Facebook etc, tbh I'd just like to do things like introduce her to my friends as my gf rather than "the girl I'm seeing".
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:30 PM
2

What's the problem? Genuinely curious as to how this question has apparently made you question the state of this sub.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:27 PM
1

Fair enough i get what you're saying. Would you respond to this girl with my original message in the OP or not then, out of curiosity?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:23 PM
1

She's knows im seeing another girl and she's expressed dissapointment/jealousy at that. I think she feels inferior because I'm just fucking her, but actually dating the other girl (not exclusively, obviously). I guess that comes under competition anxiety? You say it's a lost cause but any tips to maximise chances of her coming back in the future? Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:11 PM
1

What about "No worries" instead? Same effort level but comes across less passive aggressive imo
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:59 PM
1

Didn't mention this in the OP but ive known her for years as acquaintances and she still talks to a couple of my buddies (not romantically). I feel like there's enough rapport/comfort there that she's knows im not a serial killer/rapist/physco etc. so going through the motions of a date (especially if i know logistics mean im not getting laid that night) would be pretty pointless for both of us. Think I'll go for broke and try to set up something casual, really can't be bothered with a date haha…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 05:15 PM
1

It's not that she's unpleasant, im just really busy right now and have another girl I'm pursuing dating-wise. Would it be advisable to mention how I'm only looking for something casual (she sorta implied she'd be up for something like that), or would it be better to stick with something like you said e.g. "let's chill at your place for a bit on X day"? Thanks man.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:29 PM
1

Both live with family (I know, working on it). She said she often has a free place during the day but not at night. I can bring girls over very late when my parents are sleeping but don't feel comfortable doing it if they're awake (can't be bothered staying out with her till like 1am). Also have a car so that's a possibility. Ideal scenario would be to go to hers during the day but that's easier said than done. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:15 PM
1

Perhaps should've mentioned this but I've known her for years. We've never been close but more like acquaintances. Does that change things?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:17 PM
1

I'm fairly certain logistics mean we can't fuck again the night of the date
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:16 PM
1

Yeah i absolutely have other stuff going on. Like i said ive got no intention or desire to message her all the time but im literally wondering if I should message her at all
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:22 PM
1

She kinda is. Replied very quickly to my post-date text and reiterated she wants to meet again. The other day she liked and old insta post of mine (might have been accidental but either way she's been on my profile so im in her head). Just wondering if I should say anything between now and next year
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:59 PM
1

Just seen your reply - when you say 4 to 6 months was that a type for 4-6 days?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:25 PM
1

Will do. She's away home for the holidays (she's a student in my hometown) so I won't see her until mid-January but I'll let you know if i remember haha
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:05 PM
1

So basically keep pursuing her for now but if there's no progress after 1 or 2 more dates then stop bothering? Thanks
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:43 PM
1

The logistics are I drive and she doesn't, but her place is more suitable for sex (she lives with roomates but I live with family). I don't think she'd accept me inviting myself to hers initially but I could arrange to pick her up, drive somewhere and hangout and then try and get inside when I take her home. Maybe something fun like minigolf? She's not texting me first, but replies very quickly and responsively when I text her. I've basically only been texting for logistics with the odd comment …
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:42 PM
1

I'm living with family so can't really do my place (technically could but it'd be awkward), so has to be her place. I don't think she'll accept me inviting myself over initially but I could set up a 3rd date (any suggestions? Already done drinks twice) and try to head to hers after. This acceptable given the circumstances? Thanks
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:29 PM
1

She is paying. Don't think she's a virgin but does genuinely SEEM to have a low n-count (haven't explicitly asked about either of these). She isn't religious but I don't see how that's relevant. Any recommendations for a cheap date - already done drinks twice so doing that again would seem boring. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:25 PM
1

So you reckon she's trying to frame a potential LTR with me? Thanks
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:08 PM
1

So you reckon she's trying to frame a potential LTR or is she just on the fence about me? Thanks
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:05 PM
2

I really don't think she's using me for resources. Neither of the dates were expensive - all we bought were drinks and we done rounds so she paid just as much as I did.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:06 PM
1

For more context, this was at the end of date 2 when she asked if a girl putting out on the first date (and first date specifically) would put me off. I kinda feel like this is implying she's after an LTR, no?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:01 PM
1

Neither of the dates were expensive - all we bought were drinks and we done rounds so she paid just as much as I did.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:00 PM
1

So I shouldn't initiate at all until new year when we setup logistics again? I certainly won't be giving her good morning texts etc but considering initiating once possibly twice just to keep the ball rolling. Like I said she's pretty shy/passive so I can't see her initiating, and wouldn't want her to confuse my lack of contact with a lack of interest. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:30 PM
1

Yeah good point actually. I've got 2 other girls (tinder) who I've made soft plans to meet this weekend and am using them as backup but the longer I leave it the more likely they are to flake/make other plans.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:58 PM
1

Yeah I'll wait until tomorrow. Definitely better to come across as more aloof than needy, and 1 day probably won't make a difference either way. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:43 PM
1

Kinda torn. Neither are overweight, just have really plain bodies and none have great tits or ass. Ugly would be really harsh too. I'd give one a 4/10 (slightly below average) and one a 5 (bang average).
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:54 AM
1

Yeah i didn't mean that literally haha. I've got 5 or 6 attractive girls who've agreed to dates but with the flakiness of girls these days I'm well aware some if not all will fall through. If I can't get a firm date sorted within 7-10 days I'll message the more attractive of the two DTF girls.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:44 AM
5

Good post apart from "wrist circumference" lmao wtf
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:18 PM
1

So you're saying i need to find ways of fulfillment outwith sex entirely or by finding girls I actually care about? Regarding the latter, I have slept with girls I care about and still feel the same way (short term gratification). Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:20 PM
1

How do you know she has another guy?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:11 PM
1

No problem, let me know how things turn out
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:12 AM
1

I'm probably the wrong person to ask that tbh man, I don't see any reason to change from texting though if that's what you've done so far.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:32 PM
1

Doesn't have to be 2 weeks, that just seems like a reasonable amount of time to not appear needy but not drop off the face of the earth. Feel free to vary it but I definitely wouldn't initiate contact any earlier than a week.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:33 PM
1

So the last exchange was her pretty much flaking and you saying "sure", right? In that case I'd stick with what I said in the previous comments. You've admitted that texting too much could be why she's gone cold so why would you continue to do that, much less initiate it? Not saying ignore her if she gets in touch, but don't initiate anything for 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:30 PM
1

But you said she's the one who's stopped texting you, no?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:07 PM
1

Nah don't ask what's wrong, just go in with the mindset that nothing is wrong. Idk about a meme but yeah send something lighthearted/funny (maybe a reference to an inside joke or "seen [funny thing] today, reminded me of you haha. How you been anyway?"). When/if she replies don't beat around the bush, ask her out again and you'll know where you stand. Make sure you do wait around 2 weeks though.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:56 AM
1

I don't see the harm in hitting her up again in 2-3 weeks, as long as you do genuinely work on getting other girls and don't slip back into the habit of texting every day. Might as well find out where you stand instead of wondering what if.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:46 AM
2

Point taken. I wrote that comment before she replied so was still feeling frustrated. Overwhelming majority of people in this thread have advised against my original question so I haven't done so and won't do so in the future either. Fully see why calling her out would have been a bad idea and am glad I posted here.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:52 PM
0

Just trying to learn man. Most people in this thread seem to know what they're talking about.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:24 PM
1

Idk, you could be right but "I could message you after? x" could be seen as "I'll go for some drinks and come over and fuck you after", no?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:18 PM
0

Thanks for the reply. She has now responded but I now have a different problem. If you could read my update (in the comments) and let me know what you think that'd be appreciated.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:09 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. She has now responded but I now have a different problem. If you could read my update (in the comments) and let me know what you think that'd be appreciated.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:08 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. She has now responded but I now have a different problem. If you could read my update (in the comments) and let me know what you think that'd be appreciated.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:08 PM
1

Update: She just messaged me that her workmate is having a housewarming party Tuesday (the latest night I proposed to meet) but then said "but I can message you after?". Wtf does that even mean lmao, late night booty call? Continuation of stringing me along? How would you respond to that? Thinking of just offering to hit her up next weekend to organise something for the next again week. Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:51 PM
1

Update: She just messaged me that her workmate is having a housewarming party Tuesday (the latest night I proposed to meet) but then said "but I can message you after?". Wtf does that even mean lmao, late night booty call? Continuation of stringing me along? How would you respond to that? Thinking of just offering to hit her up next weekend to organise something for the next again week. Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:51 PM
1

Thanks man. I'll give it a few days at least. What's the thinking behind hitting her up again though if she doesn't reply to my last message? Just hoping that a bit of a time & space raises the attraction up again?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:58 PM
1

Needed a reality check. Not gonna send that message I outlined in the OP. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:53 PM
1

Thanks. I'll leave it for her to reach out. If it gets to the point where it's abundantly obvious she's just ignoring me (say 5 days), I intend to call her out though. Not to salvage any attraction (im aware attraction is non-negotiable), but to show her I'm not a doormat and don't appreciate my time being wasted.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:53 PM
1

I accept that, and you're certainly not wrong. However, the bottom line is this girl is either 1. Stringing me along and wasting my time, or 2. Still interested but has a unorganised, slow response time. In either scenario, would I be losing anything by sending that message? Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:33 PM
1

Fair enough, an abundant man would not send the message I outlined in the OP. But where do you draw the line? It is genuinely disrespectful to treat somebody elses time like this so when does it get to the point where I can reasonably say something without appearing needy and just acting like any human being would? Thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:11 PM
1

Lol idk or really care if there's other guys in the picture but my thinking behind this is to show her that I don't appreciate her playing with my time like this (would be exactly the same with a girl, colleague or male friend - I just think it's annoying and inconsiderate).
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:00 PM
1

She told me her friend was coming through from a different city for the party on Sat but said she still wants to meet again when im next free. That was fine with me (great, even - meant I didn't have to go the party and drink haha, but still get a 2nd date) so we're going for a meal (nothing fancy/expensive) and then some drinks tomorrow night. I fully intend to escalate to sex tomorrow but the only possible issue is logistics as we both live with family. Edit: She cancelled tonight saying she's…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:50 PM
1

Will do - thanks again for taking the time to help
/r/askTRP13/09/18 09:22 AM
1

I personally don't think it matters too much, she's probably already decided if she wants to see you again. If she texts first it's generally a good sign, but I've had girls text me first before only to go cold when it comes to setting up a 2nd meet. Likewise, there's been plenty times where ive texted first and a 2nd meet goes ahead. If she hasn't texted you within 2 days I'd say send her one.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:31 PM
1

I think I will go on Saturday (or at least let her know I'm willing to), but appreciate your input. Good point about appearing to have a busy schedule - luckily I did tell her I'm out friday night and not saturday (so she knows I have plans/am not cancelling things to suit her).
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:25 PM
1

Thanks for the input. I wouldn't say it isn't my scene, im not exactly extroverted but do just fine at parties. It's more the current circumstances of this specific weekend (already going out friday, know basically nobody at this Saturday party and unsure if i could get any of my mates out). I don't want to invite her at all friday tbh cause it's more a night for the boys. I'm leaning towards going on saturday cause i feel like turning it down and offering next weekend might be too far away don'…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:56 PM
1

Thing is, and maybe I shouldve said in the OP, it wasn't a firm invite in the sense she texted me after the date and she's waiting on a reply. She asked during the date and I basically said maybe. We did agree to meet again (but not necessarily Sat) and after the date she texted me saying she had fun. I replied saying me too and maybe see you sat. So should I wait until she reaches out and gives me a firm invite or just text her myself on friday saying something like "I'm free sat if you're stil…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:48 AM
1

Good point, never occured to me that she might see it as a rejection. Thing is, and maybe I shouldve said in the OP, it wasn't a firm invite in the sense she texted me after the date and she's waiting on a reply. She asked during the date and I basically said maybe. We did agree to meet again (but not necessarily Sat) and after the date she texted me saying she had fun. I replied saying me too and maybe see you sat. So should I wait until she reaches out and gives me a firm invite or just text h…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:39 AM
1

I've got the opposite problem. I do well on tinder, average a new hookup each month but most girls seem to be looking for exactly that - just a hookup. How would you recommend changing my strategy to get girls who want to date too? I've got a topless photo (natural setting) as my profile photo - would you remove it entirely or just not have it as the 1st picture? I'm not against hookups but am kinda sick of it and would like something more long-term, but perhaps my profile is incongruent with th…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 04:54 PM
1

I don't know, I've not been in this situation before - hence why I'm asking you guys.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:59 PM
1

Good advice. I think part of what attracted her in the first place was my nonchalant/laid back attitude (I paid her barely any attention on the night out we slept together) so might be a good idea to play it cool and not rush anything. I'll see what vibes she gives off next time I see her and text her if they're not negative. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:56 PM
1

I've known her long enough to have seen the red flags. She's not LTR material and I'm well aware of that. I've got nothing to gain in lying to strangers on the Internet.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:43 PM
1

Huh? What's BP about wanting to plate a girl? Never slept with a girl from my social circle before so looking to get some advice from TRP cause you guys have helped me in the past. I've not been disrespectful to anyone man lmao
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:12 PM
1

Not my oneitis man haha. Used to be 2yrs ago but can honestly say she isn't anymore.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:42 PM
1

You're probably right. I'm well aware that the vast majority of girls you make out with from clubs and parties lead nowhere but im thinking since we have a mutual friend I can maybe leverage the social proof to my advantage (her friend likes most of my insta photos). About her not hitting me up - isn't that something the majority of girls wouldn't do anyway? Like it's always our job to the lead the interaction and I wouldn't have thought it would be any different here.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:11 PM
1

Not really. She messaged me around 8pm the day after and I replied a couple hours later saying i got home fine and last night was fun. She replied agreeing and I messaged her the morning after that to arrange the next date. So 2 days after and she initiated contact first so I don't think i came off too keen.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:10 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. In terms of sex, I can answer yes to more of those questions regarding the girls that saw me again compared to the ones who didn't - maybe I do need to up my sex game but it'd still surprise me if that's the only thing that's putting them off
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:09 PM
1

It's not the worst problem to have I suppose haha. But it would be nice to have a steady plate who i can hit up whenever rather than having to go through the whole first date process all the time.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:07 PM
1

I think you've got a point with the texting thing. Both girls who saw me again we had sorted a day out beforehand. What do you mean by trying too hard? Like too desperate to get her into bed or something else? Cheers
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:19 PM
1

I dunno, I'm not a sex god or anything but i really don't think im bad. The girl who saw me four times came the first time we fucked and was literally begging me to fuck her at one point. I've no doubt i can improve at sex but i don't think I'm bad enougn that it would make girls who are attracted to me not want to see me again
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:56 AM
1

This is what my gut is telling me too. What would you do from here? I'm thinking chat/flirt with her at work for the next few weeks or so and then ask her out if there's still IOI's.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 11:23 PM
2

I've got her on social media now and there's no evidence of a boyfriend, and was no mention of one from her or her friend (who I interacted with quite a bit throughout the night too) so while it's definitely possible I'd say it's very unlikely. Didn't manage to properly isolate - closest thing to isolating was walking to the club when I went for the kiss but there were coworkers walking ahead of us. I've got a couple of shifts with her next week so could see how things go then I guess.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 11:13 PM
1

I'm almost certain that's not the case. Didn't see her giving any other guys IOI's (though obviously I could be wrong) and she 100% didn't kiss anyone that night and went home with her (female) friend.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 09:59 PM
1

I do genuinely have other options though. Not to the extent that I can hit a girl up and get laid whenever I want, but currently have a plate and don't have any real trouble getting a ONS. Just think it can't hurt to message her again given the context of how things ended.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:11 PM
1

Thanks. We've already discussed it in person as a potential date so I'm sure it's something she'd like - I don't really need to ask if she's up for it. I think you're right about the word 'planned' suggesting I've been thinking about it too much. I suppose if I replace 'what I've got planned' with 'what I've got in mind' it comes accross a bit more nonchalant.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:02 PM
1

Yeah you're right haha. Out of curiosity, how would you recommend i set this date up?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:23 PM
1

I've always set up dates this way and it seems to work. I'm not changing my schedule for her - just seeing if any the days she's free works for me
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:07 PM
1

Yeah man you're right. Thanks.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:04 PM
1

You're right, I need to focus on other prospects too. In fairness though, it would make little sense asking her schedule any earlier (I don't even fully know mine yet).
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:13 AM
1

Glad to hear that (assuming you are indeed being sarcastic haha). I just thought maybe the fact that I'm saying I'd planned something out before we've even agreed a day might seem needy.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:11 AM
8

Whenever a date asks why I'm on tinder I say (quite obviously sarcastically) that I'm looking for my future wife, with a shit-eating grin on my face. Worked successfully. As for the girl, I'd text her saying you'll give her the chance to "make it up to me" and if she replies set up logistics. You've got nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:41 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. She's up for meeting me Sunday and asked what I fancy doing. I just want to go to her place and f-close tbh. You think it would be ok to just say 'I was thinking we could just chill at your place' or will she need some plausible deniability (in which case I could suggest we go for a walk or a drive or something and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:05 PM
1

Yeah I feel pretty much the same way. It can be fun, but not fun enough to justify doing it regularly to the detriment of hobbies, studying, etc.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:47 PM
1

I've been going out to clubs for just under year, 3-4 times per month. Have pulled just over 20 girls, had sex with 5 so I'm no expert but I'd say my numbers are pretty decent given how often i go/how long I've been going. Almost every single girl I pulled I met while on the dance floor (definitely helps if you're genuinely enjoying yourself, preferably with mates). Try and look for IOI's first - eye contact, dancing near you, bumping into you - then I'll offer them my hand. Some will reject you…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 10:18 PM
1

It seems like 'sticking to my guns' would be holding frame but I'm honestly bored of it now and am tempted to just tell her
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:49 PM
1

We haven't met yet, that was poor wording on my part. Everything you said is probably right, but how do you suggest I proceed this girl? Just give her my name and ask again when she's free? Good chancd she'll ghost me but I might as well try.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:47 PM
1

Judging from your comment, you're in the UK. Why not apply for graduate schemes after you complete your degree? The vast majority of them don't specify a certain degree subject, so you're not limited to just computing. There's a pretty large variety of different sectors that have these schemes; banking, retail, armed forces, sales, etc. I'm in an oddly similar position. Currently doing a degree in IT, but really don't like the subject, and my plan is to stick it out, get my degree and enter a no…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:44 PM
1

Assuming you are indeed good looking, it's not too difficult at all. Risk free method is to make eye contact and smile at these girls who are glancing at you on the dance floor, and dancing near you. Worst case scenario is that they don't smile back. If they do, and they probably will, then there's an very high chance they'll want to dance with you. Then you just take it from there.
/r/seduction30/04/16 02:58 PM
2

Trust me, i'm doing it regardless of the effect on my SMV, but would be lying if I said I didn't hope it will make me more attractive to women.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:51 PM
1

I think I've handled them well. Most of the time I just ignore her but have agreed and amplified once or twice. Do you think she's shit testing because she's still attracted, or would this be happening anyway?
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:33 PM
1

I think you're right man. I'll admit that, for egotistical reasons, I'd like to believe she's still attracted (and my gut feeling is that she is), but I do genuinely have no intentions of actively pursuing her at this point in time. I've never been in this situation before so am admittedly a little confused, but see it as a potential learning experience either way.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:30 PM
2

Thanks for replying. Would you say it's better to go back to her place than your own?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 08:47 PM
3

Any tips for escalating past the k-close? I can kiss without much effort but am unsure how to take it further.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 07:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter