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Looks but honestly this whole post reads as craaaaazy shallow. A guy doesn’t have to be tall or dark to be attractive. Blonde, blue eyed guys are smoking hot if you ask me, and my boyfriend is dark and handsome but not “tall” he’s 5’8 which is taller than my 5’6 and good enough for me. I used to think I’d never date a guy that short but I’ve been crazy attracted to him since I met him and I’ve never noticed the height. That said, I feel this whole post is missing key points. A guy can be 6’5 and…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:35 AM
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My boyfriend is all these except the Buddhism and meditation bit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 11:47 PM
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I spy another Laura Doyle fan! This is amazing advice ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 03:04 PM
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Following for advice because I have the exact same problem.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 03:58 PM
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Oh okay.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 09:36 PM
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That is an amazing point, I never quite thought of it that way
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 09:10 PM
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I’m beyond confused by this response and either I’m hopelessly misreading your comment or you’re hopelessly misreading my post.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 09:10 PM
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I totally agree and this is a really good point.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 05:35 PM
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Thanks for your input! I tend to agree
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 05:34 PM
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This is a total hypothetical so I don’t know regarding having slept with other people. Edit to add: your comment has me a little riled. What constitutes virgin like? One partner? Only ever had sex in the context of commitment? Done it all except actual PIV?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 05:24 PM
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Love you too?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 06:06 AM
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I respect trans women. I respect how they choose to live their lives. I’ll always respect their pronouns and treat them as female. But deep down, well, there’s a reason forms often list transgender as a separate gender to male or female. A trans woman will ultimately not share the same experiences as a cis woman. There are inherent biological things they will never be able to relate to, along with many commonalities in upbringing, experiences with men etc. Again I have full respect for trans wom…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 01:59 AM
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Hey! Off topic but I’ve seen your comments in this sub and I always notice the username. Are you a witch? Because I’d love to chat if you are! I’m one and it feels very lonely sometimes because witchcraft seems to be SO blue pill and I just don’t resonate with that one bit as an RP woman. 😕
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 11:26 PM
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Love this podcast! I listen to it on my work commute. It’s amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 11:10 PM
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My boyfriend has female friends. I don’t mind. He’s in his forties. I trust a man in his forties to be capable of having platonic friendships. I draw the line at solo hangouts. He knows that and has never tried. His friendships are extremely casual and involve occasional texting and group hangouts. He has voluntarily told every one of them about me. So I have no issue. I have male friends. Same thing. No solo hangouts. Occasional texting and group hangouts. All of them know about him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 04:30 AM
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I think I remember that actually. I’ve had a ton of accounts on here and been around for a while (hence the username) and I think I remember that
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:38 AM
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Hey, I’m not so sure tinder is the best for traditional and inexperienced women. It can work for sure. But it will probably feel a bit like being thrown to the wolves. I felt that way and I’m relatively experienced. I would really recommend OKC. I met an ex bf on there. And even though we didn’t work out, he and most of the guys on there seemed a lot more serious. It also has a better format for really getting to know the person. Tinder gives you three sentences tops and a couple pictures.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:33 AM
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That’s wonderful! It sounds like you two are super well matched :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:27 AM
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Hot damn! You two are on fire. I love the passion it sounds like you both have for each other. You say you seduce him to initiate. Any tips? My sex life with my man is amazing but I’m always looking for fun new ways to seduce :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:26 AM
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That is so sweet! I love that!! So happy for you two, maybe you could make a post here on your secrets to long term marriage success? I’m sure a lot of women would love to hear it, myself included!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:24 AM
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You’re welcome, so happy to hear the rest of your relationship is good, it sounds like you have a man who loves you but is fighting a tough battle. I so admire you sticking with him and I hope he continues working on it and you guys get the sex life you deserve ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:12 AM
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Makes total sense!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:10 AM
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Your man is the closest to my man’s age of anyone who has commented so far but your age gap is way less than mine obviously so I’m super curious, what do you think is the reason for the apparent mismatch? Just an age thing? Health issues? How is the rest of your relationship? I’m so sorry if I sound invasive!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:09 AM
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Girl, I totally feel you. I saw that you saw the other commenter’s tips, I’m glad they helped you too! And glad that a lot of us can relate :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:08 AM
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That’s awesome, sounds like your relationship flows very naturally, even with a new baby. You’re obviously doing something right!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:01 AM
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70 Hours a week! Wow! Kudos to you two for finding time to keep each other happy :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:01 AM
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Ah okay, that makes sense, thanks for your reply!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:59 AM
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What is TRT like? I’m not familiar. How does that impact you guys?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:35 AM
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Hey, as long as both of you are satisfied with the frequency that’s what matters :) quality over quantity. I’ve seen people talk about doing it 3 times a day. I’ve NEVER done that, even at 17 with my first bf. Everyone’s comfort level is different.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:35 AM
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That’s awesome! Get it, so happy for you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:02 AM
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I’m so sorry! That sounds seriously devastating and painful. How is the rest of your relationship? Not to pry. It sounds like he has a porn addiction. That’s rough. I hope someone wiser than me can chime in.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 04:01 AM
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Awww thank you!! This made my heart smile. My man is so kind and loving. And this makes me appreciate him extra. Thank you so much for sharing
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:57 AM
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Hey, I’m so sorry to hear that! That sounds beyond miserable. Are you familiar with Laura Doyle’s work at all? I seriously can’t recommend it highly enough. She works with a lot of women who are in miserable marriages and she’s done an AMA here on this sub. I would encourage you to pick up one of her books and see what you think. Note I’m not here to disagree with the other commenter who said you should leave, you’re the expert on your life and if you need to leave by all means leave, but since …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:57 AM
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Well I can’t speak for the other unmarried couples but my bf and I spend the full weekend together. I stay over at his house. So that’s how I get the 3/4 day a week number :) Edit to add: if it makes you feel better, my last ex and I were more like you. We saw each other once or twice a week. I’ve also had a bf who I would spend like six nights a week with. And one I would only see once a week. Every relationship is so different. Quality over quantity. If you love the time you get with your man …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:47 AM
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I think you’re confusing me with this person. I (the OP of the post) am with a 43 year old. He is not on TRT. Idk what that is actually but I’m curious! The OP of this comment thread is with a 33 year old who is on TRT.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:32 AM
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Yes. I blocked his phone number in November before I was even with my BF cause I was tired of his drama. So now two weeks ago he made a Snapchat specifically to message me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 01:48 AM
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Thank you for sharing! I sorta have the same hang up. Do you have any tips?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 01:43 AM
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Technically nothing. But you should know him well enough to know by now if he’s that type. And if he is, and dumps you after he’s got it (which I think is beyond unlikely) then you dodged a bullet and it doesn’t count poorly against you N count wise because you did in fact wait for commitment. At the end of the day, you can only vet and trust. You can vet right up til the point he offers exclusivity (don’t stop vetting after that of course) to determine if you think he’s trustworthy with exclusi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 05:07 PM
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This is the most amusing train wreck of a post and comment thread I’ve ever seen. Thanks for the Friday morning entertainment everyone
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 04:14 PM
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All you can do is communicate YOUR desires. Don’t push him for anything. “I don’t have sex before exclusivity” you’re bringing him your problem, and he can either bring the solution of ending it, or the solution of becoming exclusive. Stick to your guns and if he doesn’t become exclusive fast enough for your liking you have the freedom to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 04:10 PM
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Oh my gosh, I did this too! Hahaha I’ve always exaggerated my number. Never ever have I brought it down so it makes me laugh that guys think women always take it down. My number is single digits as well but my current boyfriend thinks it’s much higher. (I’ve never given him a number, but I’d be embarrassed to admit how low it is, his number is at least well over 50 though he’s never given me one either)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 05:47 PM
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I give him back massages after work! I love to do it, I let him either lie there in silence or (more commonly) he will tell me about his day. We used to work together so I miss the stories. It’s a great way to be a soft place to land and makes him feel relaxed and happy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 09:45 PM
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Thank you sooooo much for this!! (I’m the OP of that other thread) this is so insightful and I saved it to look back on. Congratulations to you!! And best wishes for your life together :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 04:53 PM
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I live in LA so there’s feminine women everywhere. It may feel like a needle in a haystack but they’re out there. Best of luck!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:40 AM
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Thank you. This is super helpful. Nothing beats lived experience.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:39 AM
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Please do, I’d love to hear it :) I’d love to get a ring after a year and a half of dating.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:38 AM
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I love this book! But my experience was the same as the other commenter.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:38 AM
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That’s awesome! I’m at 6 months. I’ll have to check out this one.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:37 AM
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I have! I read it when I was single and in the dating game and found it wonderful for that. But in my relationship I actually get more benefit out of the surrendered wife. Men are men so a lot of the same ways of interacting work with a boyfriend as well, but obviously there are some differences.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:37 AM
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I like Anna. I don’t agree with everything she has to say, and my goals are very different from hers, but at the end of the day, women are SATURATED with blue pill advice, so I’ll take anything remotely RP I can find.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:01 PM
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This is kind of a myth. My mom had me at 34 and I was her FIRST child. She had her youngest at 39 and could have had more. No birth defects of any kind with any of us. I know it’s riskier past thirty (still well under that myself) but the idea that women just shut all the way down after 30 or 35 is a myth.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 04:59 PM
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Thank you so much for these kind words!! I actually started DBT about three weeks ago and I’m loving it :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 03:20 AM
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Great question! A mixture of both. RPW recommends books like these even for women in happy marriages. I SWEAR by that book and I know for a fact I respect my boyfriend (but sometimes I forget when we have a fight and that list helps remind me) for you, you’re in the vetting stage (so am I, I’m not married, but you’re even more in the initial vetting stage than I am) so a list like that would be excellent for you in helping make a decision as to whether this man is worth dating. On the flip side,…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 02:11 AM
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If you don’t know if you respect him, you don’t respect him. Period. If you’re embarrassed of him you don’t respect him. ESPECIALLY if you’re not even dating yet and already feel this way. If you WANT to respect him, I highly recommend the book Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. It has a section with a list of masculine virtues. List all the ones your potential guy has and you’ll have a very hard time not being overcome with respect and admiration if he’s truly a man of value.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 01:42 AM
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26 here and this may be an unpopular answer but frankly, being with a man a lot older kills this anxiety. My boyfriend is 43. I can’t go back to 21 and stay there forever but I’ll always be 17 years younger than him
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 11:15 PM
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Take a class! I do pole dance/chair dance at a studio and I love it. And my man reaps the benefits. In my experiences the studios are very welcoming, friendly, non judgmental, and are usually female only spaces so it’s a fun and comfortable way to get your sexy on and a good workout.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 03:39 PM
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I was 17. It was PAINFUL. Vaginismus for the win. Emotionally I felt fine. He was my first boyfriend. We’d been together for four months before we slept together and had done oral and stuff like that for about two months beforehand. I was “ready” to lose it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 03:12 AM
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Idk. I’ve never tried to ask him to so I don’t know.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 07:32 PM
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Thank you all so much for the helpful and supportive comments! I’ll respond throughout the day because I want to be able to take time to really read and respond insightfully.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 12:43 PM
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Oh I wholeheartedly agree. I actually just started a new job and this was one of the big reasons why! I wanted to be in a place where people were treated with dignity. Wow, thank you so much for sharing your experience. That honestly is so encouraging, especially considering BPD and NPD are so often viewed and treated the same way. I’m so so happy for you that you were able to turn your diagnosis around and make it into a positive self awareness and self improvement experience for you, and so ha…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 12:42 PM
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Thank you for those encouraging words :) I really appreciate hearing that. Good point too. Everyone has to battle SOMETHING.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 12:31 PM
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Makes total sense unfortunately
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 09:35 PM
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I think you may have responded to the wrong person.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 04:51 PM
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Who downvoted this? I swear I love this sub but people are way too downvote heavy. You gave the world’s most innocuous response.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 12:04 AM
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To be fair she’s 15. Most 15 year olds aren’t shining stars of womanhood. I’m sure OP will cringe at this post in 10 years.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 03:32 AM
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This tbh. I send my man nudes too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 06:36 PM
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Oooh girl. Then you really have your answer. I am so sorry. That’s devastating and I PROMISE you can do much better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 03:20 AM
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Sheesh. 3-4 months? First of all does this man not have a job? Second of all, this is the hardest dealbreaker in the world. If it was 3-4 days I’d say it’s fine but either go with them, or have him take said sister or another trustworthy third party. 3-4 months is insane. And the fact that he didn’t even ask your feelings about it? Does this man even realize he HAS a girlfriend? Sorry. I don’t mean to be harsh but wow.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 01:14 PM
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First of all, I love your username. I have one of my college show choir pieces stuck in my head now. I don’t know a specific brand necessarily but when I want to be comfy and feminine, I love maxi dresses now that it’s warmer, or fit and flare or fitted t shirt dresses year round (I live in a warm climate but you could wear them with tights or thigh socks for a colder climate) and when it’s colder I like leggings with soft feminine tunics or cardigans. You can be plenty feminine in jeans as well…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 07:37 PM
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I used to read TRP and askTRP but it just made me angry. As a feminine woman, angry is NOT how I want to live my life. I’ve been actively working on eliminating entertainment and information sources from my life if they would cause me to feel angry, stressed, or argumentative. That said, I do read RPChristians. That’s pretty heavily male I believe. But the attitude is pretty different. Incidentally, I discovered the Red Pill through some of the male websites. The classics, Roosh, ROK, Matt Forne…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:47 PM
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More coded RP I’d say, especially a lot of her dating posts
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 11:11 PM
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I’m beyond blessed to be personal friends with my hairdresser. She’s coming to my house on Monday.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 09:26 PM
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Hahaha I’m so sorry! I should have clarified that I meant takeout! Yeah, I’ve accumulated a list of quick recipes. And I’m even okay with frozen dinners for now. I just want to start small.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 06:09 PM
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Never heard of her! I’ll have to check her out :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 06:09 PM
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Hahaha I’m sooo sorry! I should have clarified! I meant for take away or Uber eats or any of that. No restaurant food :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 05:56 PM
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No going out to eat this month (other than if I’m going out to eat with someone, bf or coworkers) I really need to stop wasting food and get back into cooking. I love cooking! I’m just so tired after work.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 03:24 PM
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Oh gosh I was just thinking about this the other day. There are so many good ones. Books: -The Surrendered Wife -The Surrendered Single -Pretty much anything Laura Doyle honestly -Why Men Love Bitches/Why Men Marry Bitches -Getting to I Do (this one wasn’t my favorite but a lot of women love it and it has some useful tips) -Fascinating Womanhood -Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood (easier read and I actually like it better because it reads more like a novel while still teaching all the important l…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 01:01 PM
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Curious to hear other people’s thoughts about this cause I am definitely not the expert! But, I feel like this is a red flag. 14 months of the dating phase is a looooooong time and my personal gut feeling here is that this guy doesn’t intend to commit to you. If he did, he would. If he won’t commit to someone in a “different stage of life” why date them for over a year? Idk. I could be totally off base but this rings alarm bells.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 03:20 AM
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I wouldn’t worry! Although I totally get it cause I would too. My bf “calls” me dude and man all the time, he’s more just saying it as an expression than trying to address me specifically. We live in LA so everyone says those things. He also calls me babe, baby, honey, you get the picture. If your boyfriend is normally romantic and calls you sweet names but throws that in occasionally without thinking I wouldn’t worry. That said, if it bothers you just say so. “ I feel a little unfeminine when y…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 01:28 PM
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When in doubt, always go with your man’s preferences over this sub’s recommendations. Case in point, I love secrets of fascinating womanhood. The book recommends bows, ribbons, and other hair accessories. My man hates them and thinks they’re juvenile. I love them. I don’t wear them around him but wear them when I won’t be seeing him. Maybe try the same? Rock the dresses at work/school or with your girls. And with him wear what he loves.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 11:20 PM
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Why are you dating a guy who doesn’t work?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 04:46 PM
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I doubt it. Because I feel like by that point we will know each other well enough that if he still didn’t I would understand why. Right now we are still sort of in the learning to communicate phase. Edit: whoever downvoted, why is that bad? Because I SHOULD take it personally? Or because I’m implying I’m taking it personally right now? Feel free to offer constructive criticism. Downvoting doesn’t tell me anything.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 01:46 AM
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Agreed! Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 01:22 AM
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I didn’t ask but I would assume another couple months, so that it looks to the colleagues like we started dating after I left. I’d be fine with six months, a year would be rough but I think I’d be okay if he was really that concerned
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 01:07 AM
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Thank you! This is solidly helpful and objective advice. I really appreciate the perspective and I definitely think you’re right. I just needed to hear it from someone else to calm the hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 01:06 AM
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Correct. Not that they necessarily WOULD fire him but they COULD if they found out we started dating while I worked for him. So I see why he says he needs time. It’s fine for him to date me after I’m gone. We’ve been together only four months but knew each other very well platonically and professionally for a year before that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 12:54 AM
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Not necessarily re. You’ll only find it If you go looking for it. I actually had the same thing with my SO. I found out because the page showed up in my suggested pages because of him following it. Instagram frequently suggests pages my followers follow. It tells me who it is that likes the page. He and I had no issue. He had followed the pages ages ago before we were together and unfollowed them as soon as I said I was uncomfortable. But my point is that you don’t necessarily need to creep to f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 12:33 AM
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Agreed. I get Botox also and while I’ve never had a tat, I’m super needle phobic and the Botox isn’t bad at all. Less painful than a vaccine and WAY less than a piercing, of which I have many.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 03:28 AM
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I thank him for every little thing, not excessively, just a smile and a genuine thank you. I give him back massages on days I see him after work. We work in the same field and it’s a very stressful one so he enjoys that as a way to unwind. I give a lot of genuine heartfelt compliments, and I try to do little things to make his life easier. I surprise him with little gifts from time to time. I try to respect his introversion and need for space by not texting 24/7 even though I easily could.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 08:59 PM
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Not married yet, but I did indeed meet my boyfriend at work. He was my boss. Yes, on paper dating your boss is risky and reckless, I don’t recommend it as a general rule, but every situation is unique, and I wouldn’t trade him for the world. I knew him for a full year before we became anything more than platonic, so we knew each other well and trusted each other to handle things in a mature way. I love him very much.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 03:54 PM
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I’m spiritual but not really religious, although I was raised Christian.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 07:35 PM
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Totally just an idea! You could also just have a justice of the peace come to your house or something.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 02:13 AM
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Elope and invite his mother and grandmother? I’ve had a lot of acquaintances do a courthouse wedding where they just invite essential family. And then maybe do a reception later if it suits you, or don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 01:57 AM
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Leggings and a cute top. Or bootie shorts and a cute top. I usually wear leggings or bootie shorts with a maximum cleavage cami when I’m with my bf. Alone, I need to be way better at staying feminine. I’m currently in an oversized hoodie and messy hair. But still recommend those things even if you’re alone! Or a comfy jersey dress. A long cardigan with the leggings or some knee high socks with the shorts if you’re cold.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 04:20 AM
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He is so kind and patient. I have some major struggles with regulating my emotions due to growing up with parents who’s idea of conflict resolution was to scream and swear and break things. I struggle with severe anxiety and BPD tendencies as a result. I’m NOT always an easy person to be with. But this man forgives me and accepts me where most men would run. He’s genuinely my best friend. We tell each other everything. We were friends even before we got together. He’s seen me at my absolute wors…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 06:26 PM
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Okay so your ex dumped you? Then you’ve had a bf.....
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 12:42 AM
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Nagging/criticizing/passive aggressive behavior
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 02:26 PM
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Fellow second date girl! We were unconventional though, we agreed to be bf/gf on our first date, so I did in fact wait for commitment. We’d known each other platonically for a year already.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 03:55 PM
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Surprised to see you can still get things from the store. I’m originally from WA and my whole family is still there and they said EVERYTHING is gone. It’s pretty crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/20 01:37 PM
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Can’t say enough good things about The Surrendered Wife!! Also..... The Surrendered Single Fascinating Womanhood The Fascinating Girl Why Men Love Bitches Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough For Women Only Not as familiar with ones by/for men but No More Mr. Nice Guy and the Sex God Method are talked about quite a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 06:52 PM
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I don’t think you should doubt your intuition. Just make sure his walk matches his talk. I’m a strong believer in chemistry and the feeling of love and I have heaps of it with my boyfriend. His actions also match his words. He shows his commitment and dedication every day. By contrast, I had the same level of chemistry with my last ex but his actions didn’t match at all, he was flaky, immature, and totally not ready for a relationship. So by all means look for chemistry and that feeling of chill…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 11:38 PM
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I really don’t think so. My boyfriend is extremely kind, emotionally aware, and stable. He’s also the farthest thing from boring and I have that gushy “in love” feeling with him every day even after knowing him over a year. I think the idea that good guys are “boring” comes from girls being soooo used to the roller coaster that comes with the toxic ones. The “highs” feel so good because you never know what to expect. A lot of people on this sub do caution against going by “the tingles” or that “…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 11:31 PM
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Came here to say this! OP this guy is totally into you :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 04:06 PM
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How did she go from 10 to 13 in two months?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 04:22 AM
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My boyfriend did that! About a month before we started dating he started calling me by my last name, and my clueless self took it as bro zoning, now I take it as super sweet :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 11:54 PM
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They let you! One of the top commenters here is a guy. But you aren’t supposed to announce your gender. You can make it obvious from your comment “my wife blah blah blah” but you aren’t supposed to give your personal preferences for what attracts you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 02:44 AM
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Why don’t you just start by reading the sub? You should learn a lot about female submission just from reading. There’s actually a really good post about it just one or two posts down.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 02:05 AM
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Thank you for this information! I’d never heard of this before.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 12:41 AM
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It’s definitely not too late for you. Not all guys will even ask your partner count. My boyfriend never has. He and I have a “don’t ask don’t tell” policy regarding previous sexual partners. We both know we aren’t each other’s firsts but we act as though we are. It works great for us. Every sexual partner (as you know) is so unique anyway in habits and preferences that it’s almost like being a virgin again regardless. You’re learning sexuality with a new person, so it’s still exciting and offers…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 12:39 AM
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I promise I don’t mean this question disrespectfully, I don’t know anything about Haredi fashion, but I’m curious about the shaved head and wig, I’ve heard of head coverings in conjunction with modest fashion but never a shaved head and wig combo.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 10:16 PM
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