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Don't be dissuaded by any sunk cost fallacy. You can always rebuild. You laid out the ground rules. It's important to remind her and exhibit an attitude that she is free to do as she pleases, get the tattoos she wants, the job she desires, etc. You have standards, not feelings. ...But also remind her that you are free to leave as you please.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:56 PM
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Simple answer is sleep with other women. The only certainty you have is having yourself. Make your happiness come from within rather than some girl and you will truly succeed. Invest in your hobbies and you future and you will find other women looking to swallow your merits and achievements.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:20 PM
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You are measuring yourself against the byproducts of success rather than the actual success.. You are setting yourself up for failure by making issues of the things you can't control (your complexion/appearance, your height). The things that you loathe about yourself (being incel, rejected by women, "wasting your time" with video games and porn) are because you need to learn to fall in love with yourself. As a man, you need to earn your gravestone. You need to have goals and dreams that seem dau…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 06:25 PM
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Yes. Single mothers who have full custody of their kids are looking for other beta providers to con into supporting their pre-children lifestyle. Single fathers have been preselected as being desirable, and you will notice this if you are an involved father. Refer to this: The Curious Case of a Single Father and his SMV
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:04 PM
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Advocate for your kids. Attend their functions. Invest in their lives. You're obviously very excited to start spinning plates, but you will soon discover that you can get a lot more female attention by being an excellent father to your children. Since you have kids (and therefore have pre-selection to your benefit), it will be easier for you to spin plates because you can pursue your own personal goals (alpha) while also being a caregiver.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:07 PM
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You will never have any control over anyone else. You can only control yourself. If she goes to clubs and you don't like it, address it when she gets back. It's not your job to parent your SO. Everything you plan to say in a message just highlights personal insecurities. You are a high value man. You have options. Assume amused mastery. Or just set a few phone reminders to go off during your next skype call.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:05 PM
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It will seem overwhelming at first. You're beginning to recognize what you aren't and you're beginning to see what you are. Here are some good steps to get started: Buy a small notebook to keep a log of your working out. You can use it for just lifting, or you can keep weight on there. Start lurking r/fitness and r/bodyweightfitness (in the time you don't have a gym membership) to start getting motivated to lift. Start reading more, develop interesting skills/hobbies. Being fit is just one axis …
/r/askTRP09/12/14 01:47 AM
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You have a dream. Some parents want you to be the best you can be and want to contribute to your success. Derek Redmond in the 1992 Olympics tried to seize his dreams in the 400m. When he failed, his father was the first one at his side to help him accomplish it. A man poised to take the gold medal didn't even finish. If you really believe in your abilities, how large is this 'blow' compared to what you stand to gain?
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:38 PM
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The money you make is not who you are. The plates you spin are not who you are. The things that make you who you are your goals, your dreams, and your passions. They can never be stolen, repossessed, or settled for in a divorce court. It is better to aim too high and fail than aim too low and succeed.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:00 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's R&B, classic rock, or bluegrass. For a powerful man to be the center of attention and put himself in a position that others would be uncomfortable (playing in front of others, singing from the heart, etc), women perceive that as having strong masculine qualities. In this way, the most successful men are those who continue to hone their craft. It doesn't matter if it's lifting, music, or anything in between. Your goals give you value.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 06:21 PM
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You will gain success if you apply your effort correctly. You will gain experience if you apply your effort incorrectly. You will gain nothing if you apply no effort.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 12:28 AM
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To use a metaphor, you're the captain of your life and your LTR is your first mate, not your co-captain. You know the course you want your life to take and your first mate trusts you to make crucial decisions if need be. The more skilled a sailor you are, the more laid back you will seem. You will always have an agenda. You aren't sailing to nowhere. You have convinced your first mate to support your goals to make the most of your life. It's true that she will never need to bear the burden of de…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:12 PM
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Amused Mastery The top 1% alpha has failed in those situations more times than you or I have ever been IN those situations.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 01:25 PM
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Laconic Phrasing From our successful Spartan ancestors, sometimes the best way to display your wit and understanding is by saying enough. You will notice that most of the seasoned RP'ers on this sub and others already do this out of habit. It has many advantages in that you don't need a completely thorough understanding of the subject, and in talking to women it puts the hamster into overdrive. Work-related example: "Do you know anything about X?" "Not yet." Shit test example: "Do I know you?" "…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:27 PM
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Most of the time, kino initiated by a woman is a good sign of an IOI especially in regards to your first bullet point. It's understandable to be skeptical because she is marketing a drug and could be using this friendliness as a marketing tool. If her boss was sitting right next to her, it's hard to know from that dinner gathering if this wasn't some theatrical act or legitimate IOI. If she only comes by your office once a month, I say shoot her a text. You're the prize, so there's no need to ac…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:24 AM
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Well just think of what a BB looks like. An AF is almost none of these: Gets emotional and starts tearing up Is diplomatic and only does what she says she likes Asks if things 'feel good' after discussing and doing what she says she likes Validates the girl incessantly Is afraid of hurting his partner or making her uncomfortable
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:03 AM
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Be outcome independent. Happy if she goes with you, happy if she doesn't. You are going to grab food because you're hungry. You are inviting her because that will make it more enjoyable, but otherwise she's just another woman. Remember to assume amused mastery. Don't get flustered. If she is critical of some aspect of you over the course of your date, laugh, smile, make a funny comment. Don't be as defensive or justify your behaviors. You are who you are and proud of it. Your indifference now is…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 09:29 PM
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Continue to be yourself. Would you stop seeing a plate who is closing in on the wall? This is, in a lot of ways, similar to a kind of 'wall' Russian Roulette. You don't know if you'll still be attracted to her if she is 'altered,' which is understandable. The best thing you could probably do is listen to her if she wants to talk, but otherwise prioritize your own wants and desires first. Take what you want to take. Don't worry about upsetting or disappointing anyone.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 07:13 PM
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Instead of celebrating the sex you've had with her in the past, work on making her look forward to having sex with you in the future. Keep the text volume low and let your actions speak for your desires. Eventually it will be her that says "it was awesome to have you inside me," only for you to quip hours later "it will be awesome again tonight."
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:43 PM
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Outcome independence. Your personal happiness is determined only by yourself -- whether you're spinning plates, in a LTR, or even in monk mode. As a man who understands his own worth and has cultivated a method of continual self-improvement, how women behave becomes trivial. That being said, maintaining an abundance mentality and avoiding oneitis will make trust issues less important as well.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:17 PM
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You're staring down the obstacles in front of you and making them harder to overcome by going down this self-destructive path. You're already suffering, which is important in monk mode, but instead of channeling this suffering into positive growth by shouldering the burdens of personal failure, you are volunteering to be crushed under its weight. Don't worry about talking to girls at this stage in the game, worry about improving you. Improve your diet. Start lifting (especially legs) and come ba…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:48 PM
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I've only been digesting the pill for a few short months but I think I can help you with the answer you already know: You are the prize. You sought out sexual exclusivity from Day 1, which might be pretty obvious to you or me, but what does that mean for her? Vaginal exclusivity? You have no obligation to continue beyond your own convenience. There are plenty of other women with LTR qualities that are worth your time.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:22 AM
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