Should I next her?

8ofSwords · 2014-12-03T00:22:49+00:00

I've only been digesting the pill for a few short months but I think I can help you with the answer you already know:

You are the prize.

You sought out sexual exclusivity from Day 1, which might be pretty obvious to you or me, but what does that mean for her? Vaginal exclusivity?

You have no obligation to continue beyond your own convenience. There are plenty of other women with LTR qualities that are worth your time.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-03T00:23:34+00:00

Never LTR a party girl; plate don't date.

Goldfulgore · 2014-12-03T07:59:48+00:00

She has good LTR prospects aside from her club exploits.

HAHA That was funny.

and to answer your question...

PLATE her

NeedRPadvice · 2014-12-03T02:33:44+00:00

You sound young, so dont have any LTR's, focus on yourself.

If you question yourself about nexting a girl, the answer is yes

papirojo · 2014-12-03T00:28:10+00:00

Avoid oneitis and make sure you have definite plates before you next. Look at her actions not her words. Hooking up these guys are actions that aren't in congruence with her claim that she loves you. She isn't LTR material at this point personally. I'd see what others have to say as well.

SkorchZang · 2014-12-03T13:16:36+00:00

Whose idea was it to do this "exclusive since day 1", yours or hers?

Did she piss you off enough with the clubbing exploits that you just don't want to see the bitch any more? I'd keep her around as a plate, just have a sweet chat about how the exclusivity thing, it's not working out for either of you... but hey still being fuckbuddies and lovers is cool?

Btw, if she admits to having kissed 4 guys in various clubs, the truth is likely to be more like she kissed them on their dicks, after sucking them. And some of them fucked her, but it was in the ass so it doesn't count. She's a good girl still.

kingofpoplives · 2014-12-03T20:01:24+00:00

he has recently told me she loves me, and has also told me that she has kissed 4 guys in various clubs.

Trickle truth detection alert!!! She may have done more than just kiss these gentlemen!

She hamstered that this was in the "grey area" where we were sexually exclusive but she was not my girlfriend.

Perhaps she also hamstered a few blowjobs / fingerbangs / rim jobs into innocent little kisses?

I am well aware that these are potentially empty words

Extremely empty.

Her club exploits seem to display a lack of respect which is unacceptable, but I have not noticed any lack of respect recently or in other areas, ever.

Women are two-faced and cunning. She acts like a hoe at the club but thinks she has you so wrapped around her finger she can whitewash the whole thing by confessing her "undying wuv". You are probably only hearing about this from her because she realized it was going to get back to you from someone else and she needed to get ahead of it.

Are you enjoying the relationship still? If you are, and the fact she likely cheated on you with 4 or more dudes "before she was your girlfriend" doesn't ruin it for you, then feel free to make the most of it. Just stay alert for when she starts getting bored, don't commit any further, and have an exit strategy in place.

fortyfourmag · 2014-12-03T00:57:02+00:00

Whether you spin plates is up to you but you already know this chick has to go.

Title	Should I next her?
Author	QuantumKiwis
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	December 3, 2014 12:02 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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