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kingofpoplives/r/trpGAME20/06/14 07:04 PM
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"You don't understand me anymore" She's lost attraction to you and this is the excuse she's created to make it your fault and thus acceptable to the hamster.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:00 PM
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Has anyone had any similar experiences and could perhaps provide insight? I know exactly where you're coming from, but it was always through sleeping around that I eventually met the women that I formed deep relationships with. You've got to try on a lot of shoes to find the perfect fit... Just don't give your commitment to any of these women if you aren't feeling it, keep meeting more and eventually you'll find one that you actually connect with.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:10 PM
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Meditation
/r/askTRP03/11/15 06:11 PM
2

Or do guys here just fuck shitty assholes? Yea...seeing some brown on the end of the condom (or your dick) is something that happens. That plus the smell of it are reasons I'm not the biggest fan. Was fun to try though.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 06:32 PM
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The label of "martial arts" contains immensely different things. It comes down to what you want to be able to do with it, what teachers/gyms exist in your local area, and which styles appeal to you on a personal level. Get out there and try some classes. Read and watch videos. Finding the right art is often a multi year process though, and you don't want to feel forced to make a final decision right away.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:35 PM
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Wow...this has gotta be a troll...nice try though.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:15 PM
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High school girls are notorious for eye fucking older men. I dunno...maybe it's hormones, or the excitement of teenage sexuality, but they tend to be a lot more brazen about staring at men. Women get a bit older and learn to hide their attraction better.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:11 PM
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but I was wondering how you guys approach this generally? Don't get your hopes up and don't pin your whole night on something happening with Isabelle. There's a pretty good chance she won't be attracted to you. Personally, I never really liked these set up scenarios because it puts both of you under a lot of scrutiny and most girls are easier to hook up with if it's kept quiet.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:08 PM
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Not true, my current gf and i started off as fuckbuddies. Same. This is true of all my gf's. Good girls will still fuck guys before commitment, they just don't do it often, and they are very smart about choosing to do it with guys they are likely to win over and turn into relationships. They have good taste in men. The major red flag to look out for is sex on the very first date, not pre-commitment sex. On the other hand, girls that make you wait...those never work out well in my experience. If …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:56 PM
1

You need to chill and have some patience. It's the second date. It takes some women a bit longer to get comfortable to do certain things. She was offering to let you fuck so just take the sex. She probably would have blown you the next time if you hadn't flipped out. A lot of the time women are not gonna go all out with the head for a casual fuck buddy. They do that stuff to attract a guy into an LTR and keep him there, so if LTR is clearly off the table it takes away their incentive.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:39 PM
3

This is normal to a certain extent. It is what an LTR is. How little sex are we actually talking about? I recommend you do what you gotta do to keep having sex at least a couple times a week. If it drops to much less than that it could mean trouble.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:57 PM
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You don't need to get anything out of her verbally, you just need to be observant of her behavior surrounding sex. If you see signs she is reluctant and not really enjoying the experience then you know she'll never make a good LTR for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 01:29 PM
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he later found out she used to suck her ex off without even having sex Any woman that isn't doing this (ideally without being asked) is gonna make a shitty LTR. An extremely simple litmus test for whether she is into you or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 01:26 PM
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You see this type of cognitive dissonance all the time. If a woman's profile is screaming about how she hates a certain type of guy (no thugs!) or doesn't want casual hook ups, you can confidently bet that she finds those exact things irresistible. It's sort of like a drug addict that swears they are gonna stay sober forever during the come down, but once they feel decent again they are back out looking for a fix because they just love the high too much to give it up.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:25 PM
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Yea exactly, one more chance. If a woman likes you, she will be willing to get more intimate by that point, or at least do something to prove she isn't just using you for validation.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:10 PM
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She enjoyed the attention and the idea of having a guy flirt with her, but the truth is she's just not that into you bro...
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:59 PM
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Never, and date 3. If this was me I would offer "movie at my place" with obvious sex implied for the next date and next if she doesn't go for that. It's a very bad sign she's still denying you action on date 3.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:56 PM
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If she agreed to "Netflix and chill" she wants the D, but be sure to wrap it up and take a close look for any outbreaks because this one sounds like she gets around.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:53 PM
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The problem isn't necessarily high smv, it's novelty and excitement. Girls who get on the CC crave both these things. You may have her in love with you right now, but when things start to get boring (they always do) it's the low impulse control excitement craving women that are high risk to cuck you.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:50 PM
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Her message is to attend the last 1 hour of the last day. I don't know how art shows work, but that's probably the big finish when she's trying to draw a crowd and sell as many paintings as possible. As others have said, showing up there is an orbiter move. If you want, counter by inviting her over some other time.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:45 PM
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Suggest strategy? Ignore completely. This girl doesn't want you back. She just wants people at her art show. Guaranteed everyone in her phone got the same generic invite.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:27 PM
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Bar, parties, friends of friends, tinder, okcupid, plenty of fish.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 07:57 PM
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Dealing with women on a long term basis is nowhere to be seen. Except in the institution of marriage in every society that accomplished anything ever.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 04:20 PM
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AWALT is real and defined by being intrinsically irrational and broken. That's not what AWALT means. Specifically the broken part. Find unbroken, undamaged women, and many of them are worthy of (conditional) trust. but having one near you consistently only leads to stress and Ruin. You need to overcome your personal issues and build some internal strength because this simply isn't true. We're men -- dealing with women is literally what we evolved to do.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:13 PM
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Attract Women Through Honesty (And Being Good Looking and High Value) Honesty sadly means little if you aren't backing it up with high value.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:54 PM
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Since AWALT stands, I find no women trustworthy. smh i feel sorry for you bro if you really believe this, then that's what you'll find in the world
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:51 PM
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Serial monogamy is what a large number of higher smv women prefer. They lock down a chaddish guy, have fun for a while, turn him beta, get bored, etc. then dump him and sub in a brand new chad. They get the emotional high and validation of the commitment, and all the bf provisioning benefits, plus they get to have sex with numerous chads without being considered whores. It's the mid level smv gals that need to hit the CC to get a share of chad. Also a matter of personal preference.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:59 PM
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What you need to avoid is that intense thirsty stare. There's a certain skill to scoping them out in your peripheral vision while allowing them to look at you, waiting for the right moment to initiate direct eye contact, and naturally leading in to an approach.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 08:58 PM
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But why are some so open to this idea of being a plate or friends with benefits if this truly is the case? This is mostly true of very young women who are in their CC riding prime. They like to keep their options open to bang all the various chads they might meet and go out partying whenever they want without a jealous bf bringing them down. They are also quite far away from the wall, so they feel no rush to lock down a man. Once they hit mid 20s they start wanting serious boyfriends and by late…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 08:54 PM
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The other thing is lifestyle choice, these guys created a lifestyle for themselves that resulted in them being around a lot of hot girls, something which you can control! This is a great point, especially if you want to rack up a lot of notches. Getting a job as a bouncer or bartender at a higher end club will do more to get you laid than any type of of self improvement. That said, improving yourself and developing a positive self image will do a lot for making you attractive to LTR worthy women…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:23 PM
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Mostly genetic...sadly. Squats, lunges, stuff that works the glutes can help a bit though.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 07:59 PM
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This. It may also be that she's realized she is now unhappy in the relationship because she has lost attraction to OP and feels guilty about that. How has the relationship been otherwise? How often are you having sex? Has anything else changed, or seemed weird about her recently? She may say that this sadness is not related to you, but I'd bet that in some capacity it is. Stuff like this is why they say LTR is TRP on hard-mode.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:53 PM
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This girl has some emotional issues -- probably not a fun person to hang out with. If it was me, I'd stop seeing and talking to her.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:46 PM
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For third parties who've read this far, a classic example of the rationalization hamster at work here. Mr abdada rationalizes his bad behavior by dehumanizing and distancing himself from his victims, who he claims "beg to be abused" and belong to a slave class known as "the consumer set". You're a prick. Not because of your business activities, but because of your attitude towards other people. I don't care how many hours you spend talking down to troubled young men to gratify your ego. Now I'm …
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:55 PM
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This: Don't you dare step up as an anonymous coward and tell me that I am taking advantage of anyone. Contradicts this: I WILL take advantage of those who BEG me to take advantage of them. Every day, every moment. Just sayin'...do what thou wilt...
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:28 PM
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One day you'll realize that compassion for those weaker than yourself and a more nuanced world view are beneficial things in life...they might even make you happier than buying a yacht.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:11 PM
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The issue isn't commerce, it's your attitude towards other human beings, who you seem to view as broadly inferior and existing only to augment your standard of living.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:54 PM
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It's not the acknowledgement, it's the exploitation of human weakness to increase the suffering of others for personal gain. Advocating it is even worse than merely doing it. I look for consumer minded individuals because I would rather have a yacht than a Kia. You do harm to yourself with this attitude.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:55 PM
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Basically, I see them as methods to enhance my wealth, not as friends and never as equals. God you sound like an insufferable douche here.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:47 PM
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All drugs negatively affect your brain and your mindset. Lol at the stupidity of a blanket statement like this.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:47 PM
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A woman getting a new job is also a huge risk factor for a relationship. She's surrounded by new men who all instantly become potential "prospects" and sources of validation. She is also likely riding high on the status boost from the job upgrade. Couple that with you tagging along and moving in with her, the picture it paints is that she has fully won you over, and that you are the one making sacrifices and feeling lucky to be with her. The job and living situation combined, it's somewhat likel…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:08 PM
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Yes, the way to proceed certainly isn't the most clear cut. You need to find your inner guide, and live in accordance with that, which will ultimately make you happier than living according some external metric of success. It's a process with not set beginning or end. You just take it day by day, make your best effort, and have faith.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:48 PM
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I feel if i dont find a resolution to this problem I'll convert myself to a man who won't aim for the things that build SMV and just lead myself to do what ever i want as a means to live in the present Do you want to grow spiritually or become a "man with high SMV"? Developing presence will change you, but not in a way that you can necessarily control. But then again, you aren't in control right now anyways so what does it matter.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 08:58 PM
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When the fuck were men EVER psyched about having kids? I think historically, becoming the patriarch of a large family was viewed as a primary male goal. As man it was on you to perpetuate your tribe from one generation to the next. Avoiding that burden was viewed as disgraceful. Of course, at those time men weren't expected to be changing diapers or doing any of the heavy lifting involved with child rearing.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:39 PM
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I guess that patriarchy thing was good for women after all. I agree. The issue is that women, by their nature, are not forward thinking. Their instincts lead them to be attracted to "edgy" dudes with muscles and tatts who use and abuse them with filthy sex, then laugh as they toss them away. Perhaps worse, it incentivizes men to model themselves after certain types of sexually successful degenerates. They types of men always existed, and were successful with women to a certain degree, but it was…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:44 PM
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What is truly stunning is the complete lack of understanding by various "academics" about the source of the current situation. This was the vibe I got from the article as well. It's a fascinating view into a certain type of female perspective. Through the lens of this author, the only men who exist are Chads -- banging endless strings of women at will. There is not a single quote from or about any guys who aren't top 5%. It's all indie rockstars, marketing executives, and ivy league investment b…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:22 PM
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I'm strongly against setting dates at pick up venues like clubs. Either take her on a date some place low key where you can isolate, talk, and have some space to work your game, or go to the club and approach. If you try to do both at the same time, you end up succeeding at neither.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:59 AM
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Yea...I think a lot of these dominance games actually play out at a subconscious level. It's subtle stuff, like you're in a crowded bar, and as an "alpha" guy walks behind you, he gives you a slight shove -- light enough that it's not an overt act of aggression, but clearly more physical contact than necessary. This is a test, to see if you will tolerate the contact, or if you will wheel around and escalate the confrontation. The thing is, I don't even think these guys are doing this with the co…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:53 AM
1

Do you trust her? It sounds like you don't. If that's the case, you shouldn't be in an LTR with her. I've been in that position, and you just end up paranoid all the time. If you're having this argument, it's a sign the relationship is probably on the way out, in my experience.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:42 AM
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Sort of...the craziest ones have what I would call a "demonic gear" that kicks into pure hedonic ecstasy. You know on a rational level that everything about this woman is wrong, and extremely dangerous, but still go back to the well because the rush is like shooting heroin. But those types of woman ALWAYS extract their pound of flesh. They torture you, the same way a drug addict is tortured. If they can't torture you, they'll disappear. Good women, while they don't provide same sort of rush, are…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:39 AM
1

Having a solid father is a very good sign. It's up to you to judge how she sees the world through her behavior and stuff she says. Women are usually very transparent about their world views if you pay attention to that stuff.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:30 AM
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Online is a numbers game, in general it is a numbers game. So in badoo like as fast as you can dont waste time. This is the same with any type of selling online. This. I feel like OP did tinder for a few weeks, didn't do that well, and believes this is proof it can't work for him. Really, he should be putting in the numbers on ALL the apps (Plenty of Fish, Ok Cupid, etc) for a period of months to really see results. In my experience, for whatever reason, this stuff also goes in streaks. I'll go …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:27 PM
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It's spiritual. Men and women exist to compliment each other, in the deepest sense. TRP has a tough time grokking this, as it draws it's strength from stone cold biological reality. This isn't wrong, it just isn't a 100% complete picture. You just need to work through the emotional injury that is blocking you from experiencing natural connection with women.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:14 PM
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Low SMV in general. Reassess your SMV. Yea, I would say that OP is using some decent openers and has pretty good game with these girls, but he just isn't attractive enough. They acknowledge his social acumen and appreciate the attention, but he is not generating tingles.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:09 PM
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Sounds like some daddy issues with a side of alpha widow.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:04 PM
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You'll always be better off with a girl who comes from a solid pedigree -- solid family with good values, education, and male leadership. Same goes for her friends. People internalize the values they are brought up with, so if she's been raised by trashy people with bad values and spends time around these types of people, you can only assume she'll share the same views on life.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:02 PM
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This. The disappearing act is just part of the game. The key is to ask them out within the first few messages, so you figure out if they're legit before wasting any time.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 05:15 PM
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I'm thinking I should just go ahead and set up a date with someone else this weekend. Definitely start building some other options. I was in a very similar situation once. Girl was sending heavy signals that she was all about an LTR with me. I went for it (invited her to a wedding), and she immediately pulled back (backed out of wedding, started acting weird and distant). The whole thing blew up and was completely over within a couple weeks. I think this type of LTR bait and switch is a red flag…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 05:13 PM
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Once people enter a subculture where all types of sexual behavior, fetishes, homosexuality, promiscuity, prostitution, etc are seen as legitimate and ethical they become numb to this type of thing. She says he used to strip himself, so he is clearly that type of guy. Once you take the fear/humiliation of cuckholdry away, there is actually a lot to like about this guy's situation. Bang a hot little 22 year old who pays for your life so you only have to work part time coaching crossfit. There is a…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:48 PM
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You're over-gaming. It's cheesy and annoying. Sometimes a straight genuine answer (like in the case of health issues) is the right thing to say.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:34 PM
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The girlfriend voice isn't an actual vocal problem, it's a submissive affectation that you take on whenever you interact with your gf. So you need to stop entering a submissive frame, and just maintain your regular frame when you talk to her.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:30 PM
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There are plenty of women who love to be in relationships with guys who have higher smv. Just keep dating and spinning plates until you find one whose preferences are a better match with your own. Girls who like to dominate lower smv betas make shitty LTRs for alphas anyways, as they can't stand it when a guy won't submit. Just leads to lot of fighting.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:14 PM
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Trying to meditate and then have thoughts of how last weekend went...maddening Yea...as others have the said, your problem isn't thoughts (that's what brains do) it's the presence of defilements -- the desire that's driving them and the aversion ("maddening") in your reaction.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:45 PM
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me: "Dancing at a Latin club." I think that's too much of a non sequitur. There would be a super awkward moment where she'd think you were talking non-sense. It's also a fail whenever you have to explain a joke. Also, going straight into the "first date" shtick is way too fast and way too overt IMO. You want to be hinting at stuff like that, rather straight up saying it, at least until it's clear attraction is high. I might say something like "That's fascinating. I've been honing this sandwich f…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 08:17 PM
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Maybe something that's specific to the order you just made, so it's hard to give suggestions without more context. That would get you away from the generic response that you gave.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:10 PM
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She likes to be the one with the power in her relationships. She may end up breaking it off because she would rather have a guy who is less hot who she can more easily control. A lot of girls are actually like this with the guys they chose for LTRs.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:52 PM
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does he make his body burn more calories to produce more heat? I'm not certain, but based on the laws of thermodynamics, the explanation has to be something along those lines. The extra heat has to come from somewhere. A lot of the stuff he does though, modern medicine says shouldn't be possible...
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:21 PM
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What I'd be interested in seeing is comparable case studies of successful marriages. It's pretty clear what happened when sexual boredom set in for the females in these cases, but what conditions need to be in place for the marriage to actually be a success? How are those relationships different? Do good wives experience the same loss of attraction, but take responsibility and overcome it, or are good wives some how different qualitatively than bad wives?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:16 PM
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Just because a guy is a leader of men, doesn't mean he can't act beta with women. Napoleon, most powerful man on earth, got wrecked by a wicked bad case of oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:39 PM
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I tend to give girls the benefit of the doubt about not wanting to hook up on the first date. Maybe do something low key next time, like invite her to hang out at your place. If it's not getting hot by the third, then you should next.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:44 PM
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Definitely it her up a few days before to verify the date. Other than that, contact should be sparse, but a little is OK. It's ideal if she initiates this.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:40 PM
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Some girls just won't do one night stands. In their minds, if they make a guy wait a little bit longer, that means they aren't sluts. Get her out on a date and see what happens.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:37 PM
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what did I do wrong in this scenario The problem isn't your texting, although it's not great. The problem is these women aren't interested. You need to start with women that are attracted to you and ditch the ones who aren't attracted without wasting time on shitty dates.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:35 PM
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So what does this girl want?? Hard to say. Might be LMR. Might be a tease. Might be she has bf and links it's "not cheating" to grind and make out with random dudes.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:31 PM
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Clearly Jesus. He is the only one of the three who is an actual god, Buddha and Muhammad are merely humans.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:40 PM
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Working as a doorman/bouncer is more like Grade-A Social Proof Also, these girls probably believe they'll get the benefit of skipping the line and getting into the club whenever they want after fucking OP. So you've got the perfect storm of club girls (already slutty), plus social proof, plus future benefit and social status (being able to get all their friends into the club because of their connection). Good work if you can get it...and another example of how party scene jobs (bartender, bounce…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:37 PM
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Does anyone have the same experience? Haha no. Works quite well for me. But if you don't feel like you want to keep doing it then feel free to stop. It's your life, bro.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:10 PM
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You fucked it up in making her your gf in the first place. They are never happy with the demotion, and even if they claim its OK, will start getting emotional and pushing to be your gf again within a matter of weeks.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:09 PM
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Allowing penetration into your body is a clear form of submission - and this is what is cruel about it. She knows she shouldn't be submitting herself to someone else, even if she feels the urge to do it. The male equivalent would be submitting to a female "friend" by spending time with her and buying her gifts and by talking negatively about his woman. P in V would not necessarily have to happen for a man to have broken trust in a comparable way. This is a solid basis for why men care more about…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:44 PM
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Now this is obviously ridiculous and I try not to laugh too hard. What else do you guys expect? Frequent blow jobs, sex, and meals is a great foundation. If a woman does that stuff and doesn't nag you too bad, you could really do a lot worse. This girl seems a lot cooler than the typical chick looking to marry her best friend male feminist beta.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 07:15 PM
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"It's a free country." The idea is that you wouldn't be mad -- but you wouldn't stick around either. Don't take the beta bait.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 07:03 PM
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She has said a few times that the relationship is one sided and too easy for me, eg all I have to do is arrive and entertain her with my personality. Whereas she is the one who makes it work logistically, she comes to me, I rarely come to where she lives etc. Woman complain about this, but they actually love it. Most women are happier working extra hard to keep a man they feel is "better" than they are, rather than being waited on by a supplicating beta. Just keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 07:01 PM
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The divorce rape is cruel, but the loss of attraction isn't. Attraction isn't a choice, which is why the marriage game is such a wicked catch-22. On the attraction level, it's rigged to blow up, for both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:42 PM
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This is not fully correct. They want to fuck one guy a lot BUT this only lasts for few years. After that they get bored of the guy, stop wanting to fuck him, and badly crave a replacement. This is why serial monogamy is the female ideal. There are so many LTRs where the sex is hot and heavy at first but dries up after roughly 3 years. The reason this happens isn't the dude "stopped being alpha". It's biology...
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:21 PM
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Cruel is the wrong word though, it's biological programming. Unless we are talking about the cruelty of nature...
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:23 PM
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I don't care if you're dating a victoria secret model. after 1000 bang sessions it's fun to bang a new girl who might be slightly less attractive. Women experience very similar sexual boredom and craving for variety, except on top of the craving for a new partner, they are often repulsed by the old guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:40 PM
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7:00 am -- Sir Chad Thundercock Esquire's diamond plated alarm clock blares. Throws 10/10 qt to the floor as he gets out of bed. Steps over 8/10 and 9/10 on his way to the shower. Drinks organic fair trade coffee. None of that Starbucks shit. I could go on but you should really get in the habit of writing TRP fanfic for yourself...
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:20 PM
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Ask where she lives, then arrange the date to be very close to her place. Then logistically it just makes the most sense to go back there.
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:48 PM
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It means you're her "type". Yes, you can leave it in the situation you described. Yes do kino. Just try not to get too weird with the eye contact and slow talk.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:10 PM
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This is all new to me and I am wondering what is good "Attractive Guy Game". Just show up and don't be needy. Neediness will still drive women off, even if you're great looking. I also find myself hesitant to approach. The perceived awkwardness/ "what if she has a boyfriend" always trickles down. If you don't like to approach there is always online dating, which works really well for good looking guys. Otherwise, you're gonna want to get over this approach avoidance, or at least try to find venu…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:59 PM
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The reason they're going mad is because it's part of the SJ propaganda of pretending to love animals Yep...this is why this whole meme pisses me off so much. As much of a douche as this dentist is, watching various liberals proclaiming their holiness through theatrical bloviatings makes me want to puke.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 08:09 PM
3

What is TRP's take on marriage counseling? It's beta af. It slips into the female frame of "talking things out" and the man needing to be a "better communicator". It's a lot of talk that does nothing to resolve the problem of female unhappiness. Going to counseling is appeasement behavior and will reduce a woman's attraction.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:59 PM
1

Nothing. Women look for reasons to filter guys out, so with almost anything you put in there, it's gonna cause more girls to reject you than it will attract. The exception may be some types of high status stuff "i'm a doctor" etc.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:56 PM
1

I'm signed up for the Red Pill, not for hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is a part of life. The powerful exert their hypocrisy over the weak constantly. It's pretty much the entire point of being powerful, to enjoy a different set of standards than those without power. TRP, being amoral, must consider this as a possible course of action, while neither promoting nor condemning it.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:11 PM
5

Also -- hilariously bad at giving blowjobs. Unless she is one of those virgins who just sucks cock to keep guys around. Since clearly, that doesn't count as sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:03 PM
2

Continue as if nothing happened? Do this.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:21 PM
0

With women, my experience has been that eventually the girl will get burnt out. She wants to know where the relationship is going so that she can rationalize the intense levels of desire she feels for you. You both agreed to a non-committed sexual relationship to begin with, but now she's caught the feels; she doesn't know what the heck is happening to her brain-body chemistry and is misinterpreting it, thinking she's in love with you and that she's therefore willing and capable of making a long…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:30 PM
1

You see stats that say some women are not capable of orgasm, that you don't always get her off 'each time'. I think it's bullshit. It's not bullshit. Some women just can't get off.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:10 PM
1

If it bothers you, dye your hair. A lot of people do it.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:08 PM
1

This is a good point. Don't do what they say, but analyze what they say, and how they say it, for better understanding the female perspective.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:54 PM
2

There's always a reason why they don't just pack their bags and leave after an affair to join that new guy. Usually it's because the new guy just wanted some cooz and won't have her for an LTR, so it's not an option. OP needs to start opening up to idea of being single and fucking other women again. He needs to regain his self respect and masculinity if his woman is ever going to respect him again.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:19 PM
24

Trips and drinking with other men. No longer wants to have sex with you. Your LTR sounds pretty fucked.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:28 PM
1

I would talk shit to her about admitting diarrhea. That's just disgusting coming from a woman. You're likely in her friendzone if she's saying something like that.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:11 PM
2

Just DGAF and accept the fact that she will almost certainly leave you for a higher value Chad one day. It's the curse of dating high smv attention seeking women...
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:06 PM
1

How old are you? She's definitely hoping this becomes an LTR, and she's young and inexperienced enough to actually believe it works like that.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:04 PM
1

It's not reliable enough to bank on. Why not just use a couch surfing website? I've you end up banging your host (if she's female) a decent chunk of the time off those sites anyways.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:32 PM
14

He's a shrink. He listens to people say messed up shit all day long, so it's not like this is going to blow his mind. If he's a judgmental prick, just dump him and hire another one. It's likely you have issues related to topics covered by TRP, so if you want to deal with these in therapy, you should probably tell him about your thought process.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:30 PM
1

The only problem I see is that she is moving incredibly quickly, inviting you to travel with her for a week and meet her family, having only known you for two weeks. This is pretty reckless on her part. It's also naive. It signals poor decision making and possible neediness and emotional issues. So, you're effectively jumping into an insta-LTR with a girl who likely has issues. The downside is you could be in line for a shitty, dramatic break up after you get back. All that said, I'd probably go…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:27 PM
1

Gays have more stds because theyre have unprotected sex with (often) hundreds (sometimes thousands) of anonymous men, not because they're gay. Excusing this with "men are horny" or "it's better than being incel" (it's not) does nothing to negate the point.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 05:36 PM
2

It depends on what her photos and the rest of her profile are saying. Some girls will say "no hookups" but their behavior speaks otherwise. Others will actually mean it. Impossible to make a call one way or the other without more info.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:59 PM
1

Seriously. GTFO with the gay stuff.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:56 PM
1

I might as well tell her she's a pussy ass liar, Right? Have some dignity and don't say anything. Flipping out like a needy bitch just validates her decision to flake on you.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:52 PM
1

I'm sure your brother is a nice guy...but one exception doesn't negate well documented findings. I invite you to look up the outcomes for mental health, drug abuse, and STDs among homosexuals vs heterosexuals. I'm not against anything other than anal sex, and I'd discourage it for straights as well. Assholes are ruined every day by overzealous sodomy.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:50 PM
3

I don't think men are all that disgusted by sluts. Hot sluts don't have any problem getting men to fuck them This. It's the deep dread you get in the pit of your stomach when you consider that a woman you've given your commitment to is a whore. If there's no commitment, there's no adverse reaction. People that aren't have sex but who secretly wish they were having sex hating on people that do have sex is another thing.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 09:02 PM
3

Persistence is only attractive to the degree that it correlates with aggressiveness, assertiveness, and not giving a fuck (outcome independence). The are plenty of persistent (thirsty) dudes that are repulsive to women. Generally, you'll be in much better shape if she is the one chasing you.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:32 PM
3

This. Some people just aren't highly sexual. Believe it or not, a lot of people don't actually enjoy sex all that much. It sounds like your girl is one of these types. If she is 28, doesn't give head, and doesn't wanna do anything besides missionary...well you're fighting an extremely up hill to get her to be even average in bed. Try to coach her up I guess, but a woman who doesn't naturally like these things will never be nearly as good as a woman that naturally loves sex. I would look for a wo…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:01 PM
2

From an SMV perspective, all that matters is what you look like. No woman gives a fuck about your 1 RM stats. That said, if you get really strong, you're almost certainly gonna look very good, unless you also get fat. Just don't be one of those guys that bulks himself fat and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 04:05 PM
1

If you think older women are easier, you have a lot to learn. The opposite is actually true. Older women all want boyfriends at the least, and many are actively searching for husbands. These lies will bite you in the ass eventually.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 04:03 PM
1

You should start dating women who don't exhibit this shitty behavior to begin with. You should also never put yourself in the position of becoming exclusive with women that do these types of things in the first place.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 03:59 PM
-1

Male homosexuality feels wrong because it is physically and mentally unhealthy. It's a developmental disorder, and coincides with many other mental health issues and negative life outcomes. It's also far, far riskier than normal sex and goes hand in hand with all manners of degeneracy (drug use, alcoholism, prostitution, etc). The anus isn't meant to be penetrated and anal sex can lea to kidney damage and other very serious health problems. Also, gays are notoriously promiscuous and reckless abo…
/r/askTRP26/07/15 03:50 PM
1

Dude's probably got a huge cock. Sorry OP :(
/r/askTRP25/07/15 03:40 PM
8

She's presenting it as normal and trying to alter public consciousness. She's not saying "Hey men, do this!" because she knows she can't argue it any better than I could argue egg sandwiches with whipped cream. She's just saying, "Hey guys, it's normal". Also how they've gotten the public to accept buggery as "normal" behavior.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:19 PM
2

What are you doing before you get them to agree to the date? My guess is that you maybe be successfully "gaming" girls who aren't actually attracted to you to the point that they agree to the date because the convo is fun for them. Then afterwards, they have some time to think about it, the enjoyment of the convo fades, and they decide that you aren't actually hot enough to go out with.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:23 PM
3

So not only will their lunatic views be forced on the population, but they'll be upheld as unarguable science! AKA Climate Change. The science is settled. Now watch as the lurking progs out themselves...
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:08 PM
3

This. The message she's sending is crystal clear. Just go silent on her and MAYBE, just maybe, she will come crawling back with a better offer. But you need to make it clear you aren't down with this "just friends" thing.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:27 PM
3

Knowledge has its price. If you can develop the capacity to love her back, in spite of what you know, then you're really getting somewhere. Takes time, man.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:16 PM
3

It's possible. The real question is, is it sustainable? In the majority of cases it's not. People get bored and there are so many other options out there, it just falls apart. This is why serial monogamy is so popular. Women get the "commitment" they want, for as long as they want, then they check out as soon as something better comes along or thing become difficult.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:12 PM
2

Alcohol leads girls to do slutty things sometimes. When they wake up the next day, they are filled with deep regret because their social conditioning tells them that having sex is bad. Given this girl is still a virgin, it means her anti-sex social conditioning is extremely strong. It doesn't matter that she sucked your dick that night -- in her mind she isn't like that. Almost the exact same thing happened to me with one girl in college. There is also a power aspect to it. Certain girls like to…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 11:33 PM
3

Once women but a guy in the loser bin, he almost never gets out. The image of your former loser self will always ruin it for her. It's not impossible, but you are always better off starting fresh.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 08:09 PM
1

Nothing in her text indicates she wants anything more than a beta orbiter (friend). You should break all contact. When you go monogamous with a girl, it's almost always 100% over when she eventually dumps you. If you keep her at plate status, they will often come back and fuck you again later.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:59 PM
3

This is a good example of why LTR's often suck -- you get roped into doing stuff you don't wanna do because your gf requires it. I don't know what to tell you. You obviously fucked up by making double plans. You now have a lose-lose choice between staying home and having a shitty time with her lame friends, or going away by yourself and having to come home to an extremely pissed live in gf.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:45 PM
3

I'm wondering if there is something genetic going on here? I think it's somewhat similar to the cuckhold reaction in men, where men become extremely aroused and desperate to fuck when they know their woman was just fucked by another man. It's about getting his sperm in their to compete with the other guy's sperm. In the case of women, they know that if they leave those balls full, their man is going to want to have them emptied by another woman, so they will do whatever it takes to make you cum …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:10 PM
5

Women actually like to see a guy cum. It's very validating for them. This. If you don't cum, they will keep fucking and sucking you like crazy until you finally do. If they can't get you off they feel like an undesirable failure.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:30 PM
1

Ask for dates faster. Don't even bother with numbers.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 02:52 PM
2

Drinks, smokes, parties like crazy, gay best friend. These are all major slut flags. Who knows but...she fits a certain profile.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 12:14 AM
1

Grow some outcome independence. Really, it doesn't matter if you fail or not. Your life is just not that big a deal. So enjoy it.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:55 PM
1

She's freaked out because she's having casual sex with you. Those plates never last long.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:54 PM
1

This is a funny situation of gender reversal, with you playing the part of the plate who can't get her alpha fux to commit. As a man, as long as you're getting laid by this girl without giving up your commitment you're winning. This girl is clearly too slooty to be real LTR material anyways. Trust me, if you cut it off completely, there will be times when you regret leaving some good bangs on the table. Your problem is that you've caught a mean case of oneitis and your ego can't get over her not…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:50 PM
1

It's not that you aren't providing enough support, it's that you are no longer generating enough attraction. Women subconsciously invent fake problems like this when they are no longer feeling attraction. It registers to the hamster as "something feels wrong". Their logical mind won't allow them to admit they are just not attracted anymore, so they create something wrong that the guy is doing to explain their unhappiness. To fix things, you need to stop appeasing her complaints and up your amuse…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:17 PM
1

Instead of seeing her once a week or something like that, we slowly increased the frequency of our meetings. Now I sleep at her place as much as four days a week. You have a girlfriend. No wonder she's expecting exclusivity. Rules are rules for a reason.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:04 PM
3

You don't need to get rid of them, but it's advisable to keep them separated from you conquests of poon. Haters gonna hate.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 01:12 PM
2

I know her fairly well, at least enough to know she is not a major sloot, drug user, or alcoholic. Usually dating for a month or two minimum. I'm pretty sure I am the only guy she is currently banging. I've taken a close look at her pussy and everything looks and smells healthy. Overall she appears to be in good health. That's the bare minimum for consideration, but obviously even if all these conditions are met it's far from risk free. It comes down to your risk/reward preferences.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:32 PM
2

The problem is that I'm already tired of fucking her. For certain personality-type guys, we are always going to run into this. Variety and newness is big part of what makes sex exciting. After a certain period of time, this always come to an end. If you want to keep her around as your public LTR, I would lean towards opening it up so you can get some side action. Although this is really a lot easier to negotiate if you take that position from the beginning and never go 100% exclusive. They hate …
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:16 PM
1

This is prostitution, pure and simple. I seriously doubt that you're her only john. Actually, you probably weren't even the first. She came to you expecting free money from a beta fool, or to enter this type of arrangement. It's up to you if you think this is something you want to do, but I'd be extremely careful given the potential drama coming from a woman who is a whore and a drug addict.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:34 AM
1

I've always found this to be more about finding girls who love to give you head, rather than coaching them into it. BJ queens are born, not made. Keep putting in the numbers until you find one that's a freak.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:28 AM
5

Roosh V has written books about gaming women in these exact countries.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:28 PM
1

My question is: is "plating" somethin that might help me obsess with one person less? Yes, absolutely. Neediness stems from dependence. The more you become 100% dependent on a single woman for sex and emotional validation, the more likely your inner bitch is to freak out at the first sign of abandonment. For this reason, some level of neediness is a virtual certainty in an exclusive LTR. With plate spinning, you are always dividing your needs across multiple women, so your inner bitch has little…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:27 PM
1

Keep your relationships open, and always see multiple women. This completely eliminates the post-breakup pit of despair that guys always hit after an LTR ends.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:15 PM
2

She said that she wants John to grab her, throw her down on the bed, tear her clothes off, and fuck her senseless. Actually, she wants John some other guy to grab her, throw her down on the bed, tear her clothes off, and fuck her senseless. You can't negotiate desire so this feels like a lost cause.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:13 PM
1

2-4 or so. I have a hard time keeping up the week to week consistency with any more than that. It's also nice to have some slack in the rotation for first dates with potential new girls.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:53 PM
2

I don't see what is so wrong with that? There's nothing wrong with what you described. What you want to avoid is getting involved with beta bux chasing women who will target you because you have a good career. For guys who just want commitment free plates, it can actually be better to hide having a good job because that increases the odds she'll categorize you as a "just for sex" guy (alpha fucks) rather than a provider.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:49 PM
1

I find it boring, as well as taxing financially and time wise. For sure. I usually go on a big dating blitz each time I find myself with no plates (just got out of a relationship, or quit dating completely for a while for whatever reason). It's fun and exciting for a while but after a month or two I just want my free time back. So then I just put it on cruise control with the current plate roster.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:42 PM
0

fornication is morally wrong Sure as fuck doesn't feel wrong when you're the one getting it.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:23 PM
2

Once you get past 25 you get to the point where you actually forget girls you've fucked. This. My guess is that I'm somewhere around 70-80 but really I have no clue. Lost track of the exact number around 30 or so. My direction in the next couple of years is to refine plating women and only bang women of a high quality. Yea...solid repeat plates is the way to go. There's nothing better than knowing that you're pretty much guaranteed good sex on a particular night. Once you get a few good regulars…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:08 PM
1

What incentive is there to marry People have a deep biological drive to reproduce. Marriage is about continuing a family and expanding the tribe. It was never about sex.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 06:44 PM
5

it's just a means of pretending to look alpha. No, it's a means of actually looking alpha. Being alpha, well, from a certain perspective, that's irrelevant. Perception is reality. The point is to manufacture the perception of high social status by gaming popularity cues on social media. People, especially women, put a lot of stock in these cues, so there are gains to be had from juicing your likes and comments on Instagram. That's all this post is about, nothing more, nothing less. The garbage f…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 01:31 PM
1

It doesn't matter what it "comes off as" if no one who matters sees it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 12:44 PM
1

Just keep reading Moldbug. Also this: http://www.thedarkenlightenment.com/the-dark-enlightenment-by-nick-land/
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 12:41 PM
3

Read your fucking Moldbug. This is the original red pill. When we think about red and blue pills in the real world, obviously, we are thinking about the Orwellian mind-control state. We are not going to cure your whole brain. After the treatment, for instance, you may still be a Celtics fan. Our chemical interest is solely in the political lobe.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 09:02 PM
8

In other words, they know you're a self conscious loser who is desperate for likes. Whatever happened to the IDGAF mentality? Well theoretically you aren't desperate for likes, you're just gaming a system for your own benefit (increased social status). But I do agree, insta-spamming is bad form and wouldn't want it associate with my real identity.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:58 PM
21

So they'll know you're a dirty spammer...hacking the system has a price. You could also create a fresh account that your friends don't know about yet. Keep that one just for pimpin or switch over once you've gamed your followers and comments.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:17 PM
4

At least that's what they said it was, I'm skeptical my lifelong GP hid the true name of the infection to prevent me from self labeling. I've seen the process. This is the key point that all the pro-disclosure people are missing. Doctors, fucking doctors, frequently discourage their patients from acquiring a positive herpes diagnosis because they've seen first hand that the stigma related fall out is far worse than occasionally itchy genitals. This is also seen in the STD screening practices at …
/r/askTRP12/07/15 03:57 PM
2

What is you guys best ways to turn a new girl into a plate. Bang her twice. Don't commit. You've got a plate.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:59 PM
4

Notice when you're doing Try to stop doing it Repeat until desired result is achieved.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:59 PM
2

This all comes down to the fact that women need two things in their lives - thrill and stability. Once they've got one, they desperately crave the other. Various great points in this comment. Relationships with women are a Catch-22. No matter what you do, they will eventually be driven towards another man (or men) to fulfill whichever side of the thrill/stability dichotomy you do not inhabit. There is no way to change this tendency, all we can do is plan for it, and in a world without patriarchy…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:40 PM
3

This is all anecdotal as hell but I really don't know any men who flip flop on things like this. Men are pretty damn stable. This. Men make their choices and live with them. If some aspect of life is unsatisfying, they suck it up and take solace in other aspects of life that are good. Men accept that decisions in life have consequences. To do something you want (being in a relationship), sacrificing the opportunity to do something else (cruising for random poon) is just part of the deal. Women a…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:31 PM
1

All things being equal, no. That said, things are never equal.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:14 PM
25

The hamster added him on FB. Then the hamster flaked. The hamster can easily reschedule. Hamsters gonna hamst.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:12 PM
24

She was just lazy and prone to complaining. That said, splitting a $21 bill three ways does make you guys look like a bunch of miserable poors.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:34 PM
1

This one I think could use a little more analyzing They think you look hot in your profile pics. No further analysis required. These chicks were already down. You didn't game them into dating you, you just didn't do anything to blow it and moved ahead with the logistics. It's really as simple as that.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:27 PM
28

I wasn't gonna reply to her Do this. Nothing sends the hamster into overdrive faster than silence. She's giving you very mixed signals. Her adding you on FB is huge IOI. Don't respond and wait to see what the hamster comes back with.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:22 PM
1

They can put off all the signals and vibes of a woman who is into you - and she's not. This. There are a lot of women who give virtually every guy they interact with the subtle vibe that they might be down to fuck, for the purpose of receiving preferential treatment and attention. It gets easier to spot with experience, but less savvy guys are always getting pulled into orbit. This is what happened with OP. She can't do a one on one date with him, but she wants him at her party for attention and…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:13 PM
1

Saying otherwise is like saying that a hot women can't be a good housewife, which would be complete bullshit. Except it's not complete bullshit. Take your average smoking hot 23 year old with a typical social life and tell her she is now a housewife. See how good a fit she is for that role... Of course there are exceptions, but they prove the rule. Being a sexpot makes a woman less inclined to domesticity, and domesticity and motherhood, over time, will make a woman less sexy. The same holds tru…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:01 PM
2

I've read a review and the basic gist is that women (all humans actually) are not naturally monogamous, but social programming tells us that they are. There is a consistent pattern where women get married but eventually lose attraction to their husbands (because of the non-monogamous biological programming) and desire sex with new men. These women face internal conflict between the desire for new cock and the social programming that states they are bad people for wanting new cock. In many cases,…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 08:19 PM
3

After the first sex is a very common time to flake actually. You don't really have a plate until you've fucked her 2-3 times. Sometimes she feels like too much of a slut and doesn't want to face you again, sometimes she was cheating, other times, who knows...maybe the sex wasn't great, maybe she's got another guy on the line as well and chose him. I do always text the next day to try and minimize her regret and ASD. Women tend to regret sex MUCH more than men.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:41 PM
1

It's pretty simple, just say you haven't found the right one yet and are looking hard (for that unicorn). This. Although it gets pretty hard to keep a straight face and pretend to be surprised that you haven't met "the right one" yet after racking up countless notches.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:53 PM
35

What do I make of this? You're a good looking guy. Really, that's all.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 05:54 PM
11

Don't fucking marry her but that's worthy of a few months of dating right there...
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:41 PM
2

And also, does her blowjob game live up to all that bragging?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:58 PM
3

Your naturally non-monogamous male sexuality remains completely unfenced, and her biggest weapon against you (obtaining commitment and then cheating) is nullified. By eliminating these negative dynamics, you are allowed to be much more free with your emotions as oppose to having a constantly defensive attitude. I think this is as close as it gets to the optimal male sexual strategy within the current environment.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:40 PM
3

nothing wrong with serial monogamy... It has it's drawbacks though. Namely, that it requires you to drop all your plates and get dependent on a single woman for sex...shitty times if she stops putting out and for that period after the break up when you're building your plate rotation back from scratch. It can be all right, but it's worth dragging the non-exclusive dating period out as long as possible (indefinitely if you can swing it) and only doing if everything is REALLY good.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:36 PM
1

Can't help you with that as I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum. The biggest issue I encounter is busting way too fast.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 02:14 PM
1

So I don't know if you were looking to continue seeing each other? Tell her you'd like to keep seeing her. Don't say shit about exclusivity.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 02:13 PM
1

Yea, but what you gotta consider is that she's measuring you against other dicks. So maybe your job is just OK, that's strike one, you're slightly under 6' tall, that's strike two, then it turns out you suck in bed every 7th time, that could easily be the last straw when she can just hop on her smart phone and dial a new dick for tmrw night.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:47 PM
1

but I guess that could have thrown her off. Yea...taking one of those pills, from what I have heard, is not exactly an enjoyable experience. Maybe she took it, felt like shit, felt shitty emotions, backwards extrapolated those emotions to you, and decided to next you. This is how women logic sometimes...
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:45 PM
1

Online dating. It's perfect for sigma loners that don't like to socialize much. You line up dates from your phone and isolate your target before entering the field.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:51 PM
2

Whatever you get, it's gonna be lackluster. This why loving to suck dick is an important component on my LTR checklist because I need that shit.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:48 PM
2

Expecting your woman to get as stoked on your geeky man hobbies as you do is just a recipe for disappointment in my opinion. That's what you have your hobby bros for, to talk about this stuff. I think it's important to be able to have good conversation with an LTR on general topics, but expecting her to have enough interest to hold her own on your random hobbies is expecting too much...women, and people in general really, just aren't interested in most of that stuff.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:46 PM
5

It's actually pretty common for women to flake after the first fuck. Maybe she copped some bad feels related to your shitty pull out game and her having to swallow an abortion pill. Also throw in your performance issues... I dunno, man, it's women. They flake. It's what they do.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:39 PM
2

It's biology. Eventually the woman becomes physically repulsed by her LTR. See here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/05/25/confessions-of-a-serial-monogamist/
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:34 PM
5

It's AWALT. All women get sexually bored of their LTR eventually. This is pretty much inevitable. Being more alpha and having tight game helps, but you are sledding up hill against biology. A new cock will always give her raging tingles that an old one can't sustain. Read this interview with a such a woman for a better understanding of how this process goes down: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/05/25/confessions-of-a-serial-monogamist/
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:31 PM
-1

doctors often try to discourage you from even testing for it because they think knowing you have it is even more harmful than the actual disease. Truth. The psychological stress caused by the stigma is worse than the disease itself.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 01:12 PM
16

Finally, some people talking sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 01:08 PM
1

I don't understand the purpose for online. You set up one on one dates without leaving home. It doesn't get more convenient than that.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:26 PM
1

Straight from the horse's mouth: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/05/25/confessions-of-a-serial-monogamist/ Let me explain it because it is very, very simple: when you meet a new guy you’re attracted to, you get wet just thinking about him. After a while it takes making out to get you wet. A little while longer and nothing will get you wet except for direct stimulation of your vagina while you think about something else that turns you on. And then a little while after that and you will start …
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:20 PM
3

I was thinking the same thing. Hard to believe OP could go on "hundreds of dates" and not be able to at least pull a butter-face.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 08:07 PM
1

I just call them out on it and laugh and say retarded shit, like how they have cute nostrils This is pretty solid. You're fine as long as you don't comply and start complimenting.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:05 PM
5

What do you think? She's fucking another guy, but enjoys the validation that you provide as an orbiter. How can I overcome my past mistakes and get her? You can't. She ended up sleeping in my bed, but I didn't try to have sex with her This is just a massive facepalm. Being her cuddle bitch is the kiss of death.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:03 PM
8

I usually just say I'm looking to have fun This might be the worst possible response. You might as well say you're hoping to fuck her and never call her again. There are a number of ways you can deal with this question. First, the answers you need to avoid. Above all, do not explicitly state what you truly want -- easy commitment free sex. Also, avoid explicitly stating what she likely wants -- a committed relationship. This way, you aren't lying, but you also aren't throwing all your cards stra…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:59 PM
2

Don't be weak and keep a relationship going longer than it should because you're addicted to the sex. Just end it and get sex from another woman.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:41 PM
7

What is my next move here guys? Hard and permanent next. So much disrespect going on here. This is classic validation junkie behavior. This girl has done nothing that indicates true interest in fucking you. She's just jerking your chain for the lolz. I do not like the idea of her 3rd wheel friend Never go on a date when she is bringing a friend. I've ended up in this situation a few times. Every single time the date was fucking terrible. Now it is an instant next.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:38 PM
6

How, for example? You never try to bargain with her, and you never show any trace of disappointment or emotion when she does something that resists your desired outcome. It all comes back to frame control. If your goal is to build a solid plate rotation, but she wants a committed bf, is she able to shift you into her frame and get you to consider commitment? How do you react when you try to touch her arm but she pulls it away? Or when you invite her back to your place but she says she can't come…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:21 PM
11

How many cute girls have you asked out in the last month? How many dates have you been on? Stop hamstering about your looks and put in the numbers. Get yourself in front of as many cute girls as possible and try to fuck them. Eventually you'll come across one who is buying what you're selling.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 08:53 PM
2

Sort of. I agree, the alpha has higher status in the group, but he does not have the sigma's submission, which is the mark of beta-hood. This is why there is always an uneasy alliance between alpha and sigma. There is mutual respect, because of the sigma's prowess, but both are always a bit on edge because the sigma refuses to acknowledge and participate in group hierarchy, so alpha's instinct is to perpetually categorize him as a potential challenger.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:17 PM
2

As long as you're getting dates, then you're well on the way to success. It just takes a certain amount of experience before you internalize the abundance and your game naturally levels up.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 04:10 PM
11

Fuck, no. It just raises ASD and creates shame related sexual problems. For example, one girl couldn't orgasm because of shame related to her body (she was constantly told she'd become a whole as a young girl). Not looking to marry these girls so the lower partner counts doesn't really benefit me much. Plus most of them slut it up once they do become sexual active, even if that doesn't happen until they're a bit older.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 04:08 PM
6

A Sigma is more or less an anti-social Alpha. He is attractive to women, assertive and aggressive when necessary, but instead of leading the pack like an Alpha, he doesn't give a fuck about the pack and prefers to go it alone, popping in and out of society sporadically to stock up on women and resources.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 03:59 PM
13

I'm stuck on why it's a turn off for so many of us and seemingly a turn on for women. Certainty of parentage. The more your wife has fucked around in the past, the more likely she'll cuck you and you'll end up raising some other dude's kid. Women don't face the same risk with high partner count men, so for them high partner count signals sexual desirability and preselection.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 03:24 PM
18

I've dated a number of Nigerian women, as well as women from several other African countries. 10/10 would recommend, especially if you like curves and oral sex. One thing you should keep in mind though is that the vast majority of blacks are not monogamous. It's true of American blacks as well. Just go look at r/BlackPeopleTwitter for a while. It's openly acknowledged that every high SMV guy has his "side bitches" and that women cheat too. Everyone cheats. It's expected and people just deal with…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:52 PM
1

You need to improve your game and gain experience to the point where you have fucked at least several girls that you liked a lot and thought were really hot. At that point you realize the truth of AWALT and how these girls that you like aren't different from the rest, except maybe they look a bit better. This finally takes them off the pedestal so you can run your game with a clear mind.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:21 PM
2

This. There are also kitchens, common rooms, sketchy hallways and corners, and outdoor sex. Traveler girls are so ready to go that fucking in a back alley doesn't even make them hesitate.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:16 PM
9

She was probably pissed she didn't ask your buddies for the double team. This chick just wanted to be plowed, badly.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:06 PM
2

Wtf am I doing wrong? Fucking only one woman for 3 years. Of course her enthusiasm isn't there anymore. That's just what happens.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:03 PM
3

Am I just being used as a beta friend for her to talk to while she runs off with the new guy, or is this an opportunity to plate an ex who is still interested? If she's telling you about other guys, she sees you as a beta friend.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:56 PM
3

Seriously dude, just get out. You're not happy, neither is she, you don't want the same things in life, and you're only still together because you're afraid of breaking up. Continuing to stick it out only makes things worse. The only choice you have is how much time you will spend being unhappy before finally doing what needs to be done. Most relationships have an expiration date. You need to accept this.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:53 PM
4

This is just female drama. The fact you hooked up with someone else just makes her want you more. Just stick to your guns, keep fucking other women, and she'll probably be back.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:49 PM
1

https://iamlegionnaire.wordpress.com/2015/06/21/powertalk-in-action/
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:29 PM
4

Any outside perspective you guys might have? How do I move forward? Dude...you're just not that special get over it. This type of thing happens all the time in relationships long past their expiration date. You shouldn't feel proud of yourself, but you shouldn't hate yourself either. So if it feels like shit, then learn from it and don't do it again. But don't be a self indulgent drama queen hamstering on and on about what a terrible thing you did.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:13 PM
3

The have been several posts on the main sub that are exactly what you're asking for. Try searching there.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:24 PM
3

do nothing and never now if she swallowd Jizz from another Dude... This is basically your only option if you want to resume the relationship when she gets home.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:23 PM
1

Sort of, but powertalk can take on many more forms than the basic pattern of agree and amplify. That is like powertalk level one. The next level would be something like, agree (but in a way the reveals you don't really agree), deflect, and return a veiled barb of your own.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:15 PM
10

Yea...you need a mission in life that is more important than catering to her happiness. Think back to what your life was like when you initially attracted her. What were your priorities then? That is the man she was attracted to. When a man orients his life around his gf she loses attraction every single time.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:26 PM
7

This. It's an epic sausage fest out there.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:08 PM
19

Now at the beginning of the summer life got a bit stale (mostly my fault in poor date planning) and I bumped up my game and now no problem. Poor date planning wasn't the problem. The problem is that she is getting bored and losing attraction to you because you have become a beta boyfriend. She knows exactly what she is doing and is enjoying the drama and attention of multiple men competing over her and the jealousy it is creating in you. Really, the only thing you can do is turn the tables on he…
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:07 PM
1

She sent me a Facebook message later that night, around 3P.M, saying that it was nice to meet me. This is a very strong IOI. She is definitely interested. She's been with her current bf for a year and she's almost certainly bored as fuck and losing attraction. All you need to do is hang out with her alone and escalate to sex. She'll put up token resistance all along the way, but with solid game you can easily push through this. To an 18 year old girl, cheating on a boyfriend just isn't that big …
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:53 PM
2

You still want to use powertalk in the group scenario. Addressing an insult with straight talk brings you into the attacker's frame and allows the insult to stick. If you're catching blatant insults, it means you're perceived as weak and need to figure out how and where you fucked up.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:43 PM
4

These signals aren't mixed. It's obvious she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:35 PM
2

You went full beta and killed her attraction, so the damage is already done. Start looking for new girls.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:34 PM
4

You were too direct, her ASD is full force. This. "Let me make it up to you and fuck you sometime this week." is a terrible line. I actually lost a woman recently because of a similar mistake. You never want to highlight the fact that fucking is her primary value to you. With most women it can't "just be sex" because their social program says that is not allowed. She feels like she is not getting good return on her pussy-asset.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:08 PM
2

Definitely don't bother getting into the technical details of your job. Women do not give a fuck about that stuff. They would rather be talking about themselves. So just keep it very high level and redirect to questions about her life. The more she talks on the date the more comfortable she'll feel with you.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:01 PM
1

You had a good thing going, but you kept talking with her for too long and eventually the beta came out (after you got drunk) and killed her attraction. Being the thirsty guy adding her on FB was just the nail in the coffin. Guys need to learn the value of cutting an interaction off after it has served it's purpose. When things were still going well, you should have gotten her number and established an intention to hang out. Then after you get the number just stop talking to her. Go socialize wi…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:59 PM
2

So I know spinning plates is uncomfortable to some people It's only uncomfortable for guys with residual Blue Pill guilt. In actuality, this is a non-issue. High smv guys always have multiple women, and women know and accept this. It will rarely dampen their enthusiasm for you, and will often make them want you even more. Say she asks me about my "girlfriend from the other night" It all depends on the specific wording of her question. Just be up front that you are seeing this other girl is a cas…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:33 PM
2

I keep reading to never answer the question directly but after the first initial joke answer, I have a hard time continuing the mysterious angle. Personally, I just tell them, and then immediately redirect back to them with the same question. This seems to work fine and my job is pretty boring too (marketing). I don't really think it's necessary to dodge the question in a date setting. The whole point is to get to know each other, and what you do for a living is one of the most obvious things to…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:57 PM
3

I've gotten pretty good at spotting the signs of crazy while it is still lurking beneath the surface. It's sort of hard to describe though. High levels of anxiety, certain mannerisms, tics, and an overall high level of stress are all part of it. Generally, I've found that the more crazy a woman is, the more being in her presence will stress more out. So if I feel like this is happening I will bail out, even if she's hot.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:52 PM
4

Mental health-wise, I don't think it's really a problem, provided you keep your dating under control and do not become a sex addict. I do agree though, that fucking a shit load of different women is not good for your potential as a monogamous partner. The more sexual variety you experience, the harder it will be for you to be satisfied with only one woman for a very long time. So if you are deadset on a monogamy, you'll be better off practicing that than fucking multiple women. That said though,…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:20 PM
13

Men, once we've experienced a lot, we can then be calm, and commit to one who might be of a higher caliber than the rest, once we have had our conquests and fun. Guys say this, but I really don't believe it's true. Once you've experienced sexual abundance, you see how enjoyable it is and that makes you want to keep experiencing sexual abundance. Needless to say, marriage is the opposite of sexual abundance...
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:18 PM
7

I think I use alcohol to mask my insecurities and to numb my fear of rejection. If you find yourself drinking in order to numb emotional pain, that is a pattern that needs to be broken. You may need to quit completely for an extended period and address the underlying issues to fully break this habit. One thing that was helpful to me was disconnecting dating from alcohol for a while. I quit drinking completely, but still wanted to meet women, so I got into online dating and took women on coffee d…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:12 PM
1

Selfies can be fine, but make it a head shot so it doesn't look like an obvious selfie. Be sure to take a shit load of shots with all different angles and lighting, then sort through them all and pick the very best one. Don't put up any pics where you don't look good. It's better to have only one pic if it's really good, then have one good pic and a few other weak ones.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:40 PM
1

I guess my question is, how can I get out of this mindset? It's normal for guys to be needy as fuck for a period following a break up from a multiyear LTR. So, on the bright, more time and distance from that break up will improve this. It's good that you recognize that it's an issue. Nothing drives women away faster than an emotionally needy man so what you can to avoid it, and above all else do not get into another relationship quickly.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 03:06 PM
2

Expect it to take up to a year for you to re-adjust to being single and be happy with that again. Resist the temptation to jump back into another relationship. There is a lot of emotional shit you'll need to go through to fully recover from an LTR that long, so don't get too discouraged if that fucks up your dating results (frame killer) for a while.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 03:00 PM
2

I think it's all psychological I agree with this, especially given the example where you were hard immediately before and then lost it. It's possible you have weak sexual chemistry with this particular girl. The short first round can be symptom of this as well.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:13 PM
6

Was not taking this beautiful woman to bed in her husbands house too soft? I don't think so. You did the intelligent thing. Cheating wife aside, the fact these two other girls were there to witness means it was 100% certain it would have gotten out and created a shit storm for you at work. Although, the amount of brazenness this woman had, it seems possible her and the husband may have some type of open relationship deal. Or did the fact that I wasn't so desperate to fuck a girl hotter than the …
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:09 PM
1

Women feel that men are somehow to blame for their misfortune and emotional woes. This. Whenever something goes poorly in a woman's life, if there is a man in her life, that fucker is getting the blame. Whatever you do, don't buy into her frame and accept any role in this shift she claims to be perceiving.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:09 PM
2

a really compatible person to spend my life with This is one of the biggest delusions out there, that none of your LTRs worked out because none of them were actually compatible. You just need to meet that rare person who is completely 100% compatible with you and everything will be perfect.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 06:26 PM
1

There are always more. So much this. Now if a woman doesn't comply with any random thing, or if it just doesn't feel right, or if things are starting to get stale, I just next without a second thought. I mean, they always get nexted anyways, sooner or later. Whether they next themselves, or I'm the one doing it, or if it happens now, or several months from now, what is the difference?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 06:22 PM
1

Avoiding lies and cheating on your LTR are not things that fit together easily. What do real players do? Depends on the player. Some lie constantly. Others never become exclusive so they can sleep with whoever they want without need to lie. Depends on what type of man you want to be.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:34 PM
3

If you aren't exclusive, you shouldn't care if she's still on the site. You should be busy with other women, not obsessing over the internet usage of this one.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:30 PM
5

why do womens' instincts seem much sharper without actually having to put in effort to learn the game. I think this is just an illusion. Women have a dual mating strategy, so whether they fuck the alpha or scam the beta it looks like a calculated attempt to get what they want. Male strategy is more single minded, so it's a lot easier to see when it isn't working. If you tell the story a different way, there are plenty of women in the dating game without good strategy getting played by men who do…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:31 PM
7

You only live once. Yes, but you can contract the clap unlimited times.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:17 PM
2

Is it impossible to find love and a loving marriage? It's not impossible, but it was a lot easier when society was set up to promote marriage in way that it isn't anymore. Your parents came from a different era where staying single was not really an acceptable option. It's also important not to idealize successful marriages. There is ton of infidelity, sexual frustration, etc going on behind the scenes of many marriages. People often make it work despite these things. Just because there was a ma…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 06:09 PM
1

Or am I just thinking about this way too much? This. The problem you're imagining is not a real problem. Just don't get too sleazy too close to home, like taking all your dates to the same local bar where everyone knows you.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:57 PM
2

I think this is just what it means to be 30+. People start families and get into serious relationships and there is less time spent with friends. I love spending time alone so this doesn't bother me really. Between the times I do see my friends, my family, and the various women I'm dating, that amounts to more than enough social contact for me.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:56 PM
2

many of them LOVE to fuck the guy who is the exact opposite of what they pretend to want This is so true. You see it all over women's online dating profiles: Doesn't want to play games -- She can't resist guys that play games No liars -- She can't stop fucking liars No thugs -- Loves to fuck thugs No hookups -- She's always getting pump-n-dumped It's like a textbook on psychological projection...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:16 PM
3

I'm not sure what "more into you" and what "more stuff they'll do for you" anybody could expect. Then again, X told me she wants a 3some and wondered if Other Plate would be interested. Imagine that competition. What is the split between women who act this way (buy into your frame and compete) vs women who leave when you tell them you are "ethically non-monogamous" because they are dead set on an exclusive relationship?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:08 PM
10

Ive seen the most ridiculous pleasing and partnering behavior when I was openly fucking other girls. This is true. It seems like the state of no commitment yet, but where she believes there is a solid possibility of commitment if things break right, is what triggers the ideal female behavior.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:33 PM
13

Yea...it also throws the relationship carrot right out front for her to start fantasizing about. Girls have a much easier time rationalizing sex when they think it's stage one in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:39 PM
63

His only mistake is making the girls he is dating think that he is exclusive with only them. Why bother? What does he have to gain? Just to play devil's advocate, you can get women more into you when they think it's exclusive and they'll do more stuff for you and work harder to please you because they're more excited about "the relationship". You can get that with open relationships, it's just less likely because the impermanence of it is right out front with the open status. Most girls will hol…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:09 PM
1

Just put in the numbers. Do a shit load of dating. Go on as many dates with as many women as you possibly can. Once you get the hang of it and put in the legwork, it's almost inevitable you'll get laid a lot.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:59 PM
1

She enjoyed you giving her attention, but she wasn't prepared to cheat -- because then she'd be a "bad person". It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:58 PM
4

Because there are survival advantages to giving vague non-answers. Society isn't set up to optimize for truth.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:56 PM
8

Or should I act like nothing happened? Act like nothing happened, but don't give her any more attention than the bare minimum required to avoid being rude. It looks butthurt if you go out of your way to avoid her.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:47 PM
8

You made your job a lot harder when you got into the exclusive relationship in the first place. It's a lot easier to keep it open if you never close it down, and make it clear that you aren't willing to close it down from the start. If you really want to fuck other women, just tell her you want the relationship be open and start doing it. If she wants to stick around, she'll stick around. Decent chance she leaves though. Even if that happens though, it's not like you'll find it hard to meet new …
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:35 PM
1

How often do you run into any issues with drama from cheating? Generally I prefer to keep things open, only because I would rather not lie or get caught lying to a woman and deal with the resulting drama. I can see how your way would be easier in some ways though. You don't need to negotiate the open relationship, you just do what you want regardless.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:21 PM
3

This. Bang her and sort out the rest later. Your LTR dreams mean nothing if you never get the bang.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 07:18 PM
2

What do you guys think of having an open relationship with an LTR? It can work well, but you have to keep it open from the start and have mastered abundance. Really, this is just plate spinning, the only difference is you give one or two girls top plate privileges to connect with them a bit more and keep them around longer. You absolutely must put in the work to keep fucking multiple women at all times, avoid oneitis, and not give a fuck about her fucking other people.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 07:16 PM
1

Sure, it might. If she still wants to hang out with you why not go for it.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 07:03 PM
-14

Let's be fair though...1 lay per year is reaching incel territory.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:47 PM
0

More specifically, I like the first 6-12 months of a relationship. I'm sure most of us would agree, those early months are the best part of a relationship. The most exciting, the most fun, and the most sex. So that is my target goal: short-term monogamous relationships. The only issue I've found with this strategy is the shitty dry period that often happens after the break up. It's ideal if you can at least keep a little bit going on the side so you don't have to start back up from a dead stop.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:05 PM
8

Meanwhile, in the real world, your friend fucked a 40 year old and had a good time. Plenty of women stay attractive and very fuckable well past 30...but a lot of them fall off a cliff as well. The wall is extremely variable, just like some men look as good as ever at 40, while others are fat and balding.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:57 PM
3

Sorry to hijack top comment, but my question is what did OP do wrong? He gave his commitment and dropped all other plates when he shouldn't have.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:54 PM
1

.. about an hour later Me: Your giggling was highly amusing.. borderline cute Your text has no obvious call to action for her. Also, it's bad form to compliment her appearance pre-bang. Her interest level seems pretty low, so I wouldn't get your hopes up, but you might as well pitch the date with another message before this lead goes totally dead. I recommend anything that isn't stargazing.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:39 PM
1

This girl never liked you. She's just an attention addict. The signs were there from the very beginning of the interaction ("we exchange name but we get blown out", "she can't make it", "she's gonna bring a friend"). Where you fucked up was in not realizing that she had no real interest and continuing to waste your time and attention. Also, when a girl wants to bring a friend on a date (or brings one without asking you) that is a 100% hard stop for me. Every date where there is has happened to m…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:56 PM
3

I think that spinning plates for extended periods is the true way to go. Getting your plate count up and maintaining it can be a LOT of work though, which can turn into a hobby in and of itself and take up quite a bit of your free time. This. Having a great sex life is a ton of work. I tend to go on runs where I'll go on 4-5 dates a week for a month or two to build up the plate stable. Eventually this just gets exhausting to the point that it isn't fun any more. It also becomes boring having the…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:26 PM
1

I was reciprocating her unwillingness for a relationship Even if a girl "doesn't want a relationship" she still doesn't want to be known as the girl run3mast3r banged in the hotel room that one time, which is what she would become among your social circle because your friend saw the whole thing go down... If it was only you and her who would have known, that's a totally different scenario. And there is no retrying with her if we hang out alone?? You could try, but after a fuck up like this where…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:16 PM
1

You should have set it up so your friend just wasn't in the room to begin with. Having to send him out definitely triggered her ASD. Also, having to ask her to fuck is very bad form. You should just start escalating. Never ask in words.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 07:49 PM
1

Surely you have some idea why your posts were downvoted. Each of the things you listed can easily be maintained within my solution. I'd actually like to hear someone with enough experience to have tried what I suggest tell me why it goes wrong, because I've done it and it works, rather than just appeal to theory.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:33 PM
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In short, OP should just make other plans. So then OP doesn't get a date. OP loses out. My solution is optimal, and I know that because I have lived this scenario numerous times. If you ask her what the odds are, that isn't pushy, it is just putting your own needs first and getting some clarity on the situation which she leaves intentionally ambiguous. Just saying "OK" and then bailing on the date later is actually passive aggressive and doesn't settle anything. Really, this is nearly always a s…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 09:07 PM
5

It's an ego and a status boost for a woman to have a committed boyfriend or (much better) husband. If you kept going out on dates with super hot girls, but they kept using you for free dinners and never fucked, eventually you'd give that sweet 6 who is all about you a chance because you want to get laid for once. With women it's the same, except their equivalent of fucking is getting an exclusive relationship. They get tired of being rejected by alphas who won't commit and eventually switch to l…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 08:32 PM
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Because it gives MEN the ability to control impregnation. The guy already has control over whether he pulls out or not. Actually, the existence of female birth control leads to a lot of oops pregnancies because it helps women convince men it's safe to bust inside. The need to worry about condom theft or sabotage goes away. Guys who simply HATE them and ride bareback will be able to do so without knockupage. It will definitely put some minds at ease, but I'd say these are edge cases. I just don't…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 08:18 PM
-1

No idea...but I guess the downvoters can't be troubled to voice their disagreements. The current top comments all recommend bailing on the date immediately or doing nothing, which leaves you without a date, or without a quick answer. If you actually wanted the date this is sub-optimal...
/r/askTRP19/06/15 08:09 PM
0

Well for one thing, it will likely send the STD infection rates even higher... But other than that, no, it won't change that much. We already have condoms and many other methods of birth control. Why would one more change anything all that much?
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:37 PM
2

You'll probably fuck it up based on the anxiety you're exhibiting here, but that's no excuse not to take your shot...good opportunity to get some experience.
/r/seduction19/06/15 07:32 PM
2

You don't unless asked. Just don't do boyfriend things like buy them stuff or setting up dates. This. In my experience, this is actually a non-problem that guys create for themselves. Why would you even assume every girl you meet wants a serious relationship with you? Absolutely no reason to worry about this until several months in, or she starts bringing it up. Just have sex with them and sort it out afterwards.
/r/seduction19/06/15 07:28 PM
3

I agree because of AWALT, but their ability to resist asshole game is what keeps them good girls. It still turns them on, but they run away before they lose control of themselves...
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:43 PM
-1

When I'm an asshole they run and when I'm nice they try to make me their bitch and I know the friendzone is just around the corner. They want a nice guy to be their beta boyfriend. Good girls always LTR betas, or else they wouldn't be good girls. Just suck it up and act beta if an LTR with one of these girls is what you really want.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:57 PM
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The type of thing is so annoying... So how does one handle this, is a simple "OK" a good enough answer to something like this? The only issue with "ok" is that it allows her to leave you hanging for hours, then decide not to come out at the last minute when it's too late for you to figure out something else to do. I would press her to make a decision immediately, that way at least you can do something else with your night if she decides to bail and won't be staring anxiously at your phone waitin…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:49 PM
6

Surely I'm doing something wrong? No...this is just what tinder is. Women who are 8 and above match with literally every guy so they are super selective about who they like and tend not to swipe nearly as much as other users. Just imagine if every single swipe was a match (who would likely message you) how picky you'd be and how many fewer swipes/matches you'd need to get as many dates as you want.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:31 PM
1

You're probably being unskillful in the application of your new found assertiveness. This is to be expected, when you change your personality from doormat, to something more assertive. Just try to be aware of whatever it is you are doing that is bothering people.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:41 PM
1

"Pussy hurts too much after sex"
/r/askTRP18/06/15 08:25 PM
1

Exactly the same because AWALT but avoid anything that makes you look like a player because the ASD is super high with good girls.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 08:24 PM
5

I feel like a lot of the "signals of interest" that articles list on the web are mostly BS - they seem to "general" and I have seen young 20 years old touch 80 year old grandpas on the shoulder and "adjust their hair" while they talk to them. They aren't BS. You just need to learn how to contextualize behavior. When girls want you to open them they will hover around in your vicinity. Once you know what to look for it's pretty obvious. Other common ones are overly laughing at all your jokes, flip…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:29 PM
2

You're expecting a 100% transformation after only one year. Have some fucking patience and keep working... Your problem is that deep down you're still needy. It takes a long time for neediness and societal conditioning to go away.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:01 PM
3

You should tell her (in person) that you don't have time to text every day, so while you appreciate her interest, she should stop texting you so much.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 03:10 PM
6

Get out of an exclusive LTR so you aren't dependent on one woman for all your sex.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 03:00 PM
1

How do I respond back smoothly without fucking it up. Say something funny. Do not enter her frame and confess your romantic interest explicitly.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:58 PM
6

This is really as good as it gets in terms of having a prospect served up to you on a silver platter. Just be relaxed, have fun, and when you see an opportunity to isolate your girl and escalate things jump all over it.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:19 PM
2

I definitely feel there's something underlying sinister about this question & I was curious to see what you red pillers think. This question is bait to test the strength of your frame. If your frame is weak, you'll fall into some shitty frame like "I'm not married because no one wants me" or "I can't maintain a relationship because of emotional issues". If you're strong, the answer will be more like "how could I possibly get married when I'm getting so much pussy as a single man". I usually give…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 01:13 PM
2

Try it and see what happens. Just be sure you make a decisive move and don't waste months hovering around her waiting for the perfect moment because then you'll just be in orbit again.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 01:06 PM
1

How long has this LTR been going on? She may just be no longer attracted to you due to boredom. This can happen pretty quickly, especially if you live together. It's amazing how fast a person's libido can reappear when a new lover enters the scene.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 01:01 PM
1

Do a linear progression with compound lifts for 3-6 months to maximize your newb gains and build a baseline of strength. Then if you want you can do an isolation body builder split. Really though, either way can work if you train really hard and eat well...
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:37 PM
1

I am going to be blatantly honest: As a non-native speaker, I didn't understand what you were trying to tell me It's not you...this posts makes no fucking sense.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:12 PM
2

Friendships are gonna change over time. Nothing wrong with letting this one dwindle down to create space for people who are a better match for the current you. That said, there is no need to burn the bridge here and break contact entirely.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:06 PM
5

I think they are better able to talk themselves out of feeling sympathy. This. Women are more savage than men. They live straight from the lizard brain to a greater degree than we do. When it is amenable to their survival instinct to appear sympathetic, they are overflowing with sympathy, but as soon as it's not, then it's like it was never there.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:02 PM
4

yea the faster to actually make a move, the faster you'll know what the deal is flirting. Heavy flirting and kino are tools girls use to keep their orbiters around, so if there is any possibility of that, it brings their status as an IOI into doubt...
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:45 PM
5

So make a sexually aggressive move, and you'll get your answer.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:37 PM
47

I'm sorry to tell you this, but the timing of this incident on the same day as your special 3-year anniversary dinner is not coincidental. She still loves you (probably), but she's not in love with you. She's lost attraction, so the thought of enduring a sappy dinner and then being obliged to have sex with you afterwards drove her to drink excessively. The fact you were the one making the "special evening" happen while she was out drinking, combined with the co-habitation status, leads me to bel…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:34 PM
7

This is what makes me think she still sees me as beta tampon, what are your thoughts lads? You're probably right. Once a girl labels a guy as "do not fuck" that label tends to stick. For life.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:25 PM
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I would tell her that it's WAY too early to be talking about exclusivity. Refuse to discuss it as a valid option for at least 5-6 months. If she walks, she walk. Do not explicitly tell her you are fucking other girls. Don't lie to her, you can infer it if necessary, but don't say those specific words.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:48 PM
0

Sample size of one? Great study.... That's what I was thinking. I'm sure all these photos get matches occasionally...if they used one of those users for the experiment it would prove the exact opposite result -- SEE LONELY EYES GET MATCHES!!!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:30 PM
2

but now I've got a date with a particularly attractive girl. Just remember that she's not that special and that there are many more out there if it doesn't work out and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:22 PM
1

Send another message or two, then ask for the date. It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:20 PM
3

Well, think about it....aren't all lines that a girl responds to garnering some level of interest? In my opinion, that's really the only significant criteria for a line... I don't disagree. The only thing I'll say is that, when considered from an efficiency and filtering angle, there are certain benefits to a line with a lower response rate. Lines aren't just to generate interest, the also qualify. If every responder is actually interested, you waste much less time in dead end convos. I recommen…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:03 AM
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I'm not surprised it got the highest response rate. That is brilliant. The only problem is that more responses is not equal to more dates / more bangs. I would like to see how well these results pan out all the way through the seduction cycle. The higher response rate may actually just be wasting time by messaging with girls that aren't interested, but replied because of the opener... Interesting experiment though.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:57 PM
3

I would also recommend keeping your first dates shorter, and being the one to end them if you can. Unless I am pretty sure the girl is up for first date sex, I usually leave after an hour or so. Many girls aren't comfortable with fucking on the first date, but are ready to go on the second.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:58 PM
1

If you want to leave the door open to seeing her again, you should at least say something. I'd say I had a good time, tell her I'm leaving, and say that hopefully we can get together again when I get back.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:50 PM
1

What do you think is the better approach: sooner or later? Depends on how well you think she'll remember you. If it's a quick convo and you think she might forget you, better to make it quick. If talked for longer and made a deeper impression, then you can afford to wait longer.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:47 PM
1

Some good, some bad. Seems like you're aware of the mistakes you made and some possible points to improve. With women, you never really know for sure until you hit them up for the second date.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:39 PM
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If you want to avoid too many enemies in life, don't make them feel like SMV losers around you. This is one downside you deal with after finally getting as much pussy as you want...the haters really start to come out, especially people in monogamous relationships that have passed the honeymoon phase. To see you single, having more sex than them, having more fun, not dealing with any miserable LTR bullshit...it really starts the hamsters spinning. With the women, they're terrified your carefree l…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:14 PM
1

isn't this bad already? if she turns away? that's like next most of the time At that point, probably yes. The thing is though, that if you hadn't gone for the kiss, a lot of these girls would still be salvageable. A lot of them might be somewhat attracted by they turn away because they were not expecting the kiss yet, or aren't willing to kiss you in a public place. If you were to set up a second date and get them alone back at your place, the results might be much different.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:49 PM
1

But he does not explain why He explains why in a separate post. The gist is that, unless are planning to have sex with her on the first date, going for the kiss often backfires. If the kiss is awkward, or if she turns away, then you end the date on a shitty note, with her quasi-rejecting you. Obviously this is bad... Even if the kiss goes well, it will often trigger ASD. When a girl has time to think about it afterwards, and realizes how quickly you were able to generate attraction and get her t…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:30 PM
2

What should be my game plan here, lads? How should I proceed? Same thing happened to me once. I was so sure we would fuck on the 3rd date and it really pissed me off when she wouldn't put out. She even gave me a very similar line. So I didn't text her to set up the 4th date. After 4-5 days she finally texted me. I waited like 4 hours and sent her a one word response. Then invited her to my place to watch a movie, and we fucked. We went on one more date after that to see a movie, and she intentio…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:18 PM
3

This. OP, this is your college LTR coming to an end. She doesn't want to have sex because she is already planning for the break up and has begun to detach from you emotionally.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:11 PM
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I'm now sure she resented me for not doing it. Yea...a good friend of mine dated a Russian girl for a few months. He eventually decided to end it because she expected to be taken out for an expensive night on the town every single time they saw each (with him paying 100% of course). It's just the culture. They are more feminine, but they expect the man to provide with cash money.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:54 PM
1

Amen. I've always been drawn to a huge ass since I was a child. Yea...my taste is very similar. Big ass, big breasts, big lips. To me, those are the main traits the just scream sexy woman. Do you date a lot of black and latino women? For me a skinny white girl with no lips just isn't sexy in comparison.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:50 PM
2

I get lots of matches on Tinder; new phone numbers almost daily, and generally just have great/fun conversations with everyone Ask for the date within the first 2-4 messages. If they say no or disappear at that point move on immediately. Otherwise you end up having your time wasted on "conversations"...the only conversations you should be having are in person on dates. I really think it simply comes down to my height. LOL I'm 6'4 and the exact same shit happens to me all the time. This is just w…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:46 PM
2

Nothing screams sex like a huge ass. Personally, I love that shit.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:33 PM
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Yea...gotta be careful about projecting your value system on to women, no matter how similar they might seem.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:28 PM
6

she would just keep dating young women and replace them every year or two Yep...this is the optimal male sexual strategy more or less, if your goal is sexual enjoyment and personal freedom and you don't care so much about kids. The second a man starts to lose his confidence, things get closed down and it's hard to get it back. This is why serial monogamy wrecks men so badly. When the relationship goes sour there is a period where the woman is losing attraction and blaming this issue on the man (…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:26 PM
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When I discovered TRP, I was dating a beautiful girl from Eastern Europe Eastern Europe is the key piece of info here. Women from that part of the world are notorious gold diggers... That 120K a year job was probably the main reason she started dating you in the first place. With that gone, you are not the same guy she was originally attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:12 PM
2

she's not buying it, claims I'm being a hypocrite if I don't let her do the same You are being a hypocrite. Correct me if I'm wrong, but women will generally have no interest in fucking other guys if they see you as a worthy partner You're wrong. Women get tired of fucking the same person exclusively after a while just like men do, often even more so, to the point their LTR partner becomes repulsive to them. is there some way to salvage this? Probably not. You fucked it up when you went monogamo…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:27 PM
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That's not sour, dude. That's just the New Relationship Energy finally bleeding off. And yes. ALL relationships do this. How can you be 29 and not already know this. So much this. IMO it doesn't even qualify as a proper relationship until you survive a solid 3+ months after NRE wears off. Before that point it's just a hormone fueled bang fest.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:19 PM
1

All those pics are pretty weak. Follow the advice here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/07/24/10-steps-on-how-to-create-ultimate-online-dating-photo/
/r/seduction15/06/15 04:03 PM
1

Text immediately after she gives you her number and ask for the date right away. Actually, I find getting the number to be pretty pointless, unless she asks to text. Usually I just set up the date on tinder, then suggest we exchanges numbers at the end of the first date.
/r/seduction15/06/15 04:01 PM
1

I've done a fake POF with a woman that fits the bill for what I like to a T Pic? Voluptuousness certainly has it's appeal...
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:38 PM
3

You are not going to miss out on an 8 tomorrow if you fuck a 6 today, right? This exactly. My policy is if I enjoy the woman's personality and there are at least a few things I find attractive about her, I will go ahead and bang her to see how much fun it is. Sexiness is a lot more than just a visual image, and there are many women who are awesome at sex who are not all that much to look at. It's also nice to be the one with the higher smv in the relationship sometimes. It's a real confidence bu…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:03 PM
6

It's just about enjoying sex with a decently attractive woman and not holding back because she isn't the hottest you could possibly get. If you're not gonna enjoy it don't do it, because in that case it's even worse than not having sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:55 PM
1

It's mainly an attitude held by very attractive young women who want to have fun, which is a lot of them. These girls don't want to be held back from fun by some wet blanket boyfriend who starts to lose his mind every time she goes out partying without him. If you are a guy dating a girl like this, you either get jealous and needy and try to control her (they always break up with this type really fast) or you just decide to not care if she cheats, and cheat yourself whenever you have the opportu…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 09:51 PM
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For an 8 or a 9 guy who's in a negative spiral, 9 times out of 10 all it takes is minor positive feedback to really get him on a snowball effect. I think people don't really understand how debilitating an extended period without sex can be for the game/frame of most men. You go even a few weeks without any pussy, and the thirst starts growing. Things can get especially bad too if this is coming after a break up and you're dealing with the emotional injury from that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:27 PM
1

Things that strengthen your mind and body -- lifting, martial arts, running, biking, meditation, yoga, etc. Obviously there are a vast number of other options I didn't list, but it really all depends on your personality and the things you are naturally passionate about.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 02:39 PM
1

If you want to bang the same woman every day for a while, then maybe serial monogamy is for you. Ultimately that ends though, and if you have dropped all your other girls you end up dealing with the shittiness of the break up and ensuing dry spell. It's also possible to have sex every day with different women on each day.
/r/seduction13/06/15 02:36 PM
1

Justify? I'm not sure I understand the question. It's not my decision what women want so I feel zero need to justify female preferences.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 02:31 PM
1

You're missing the point... The point is that getting additional matches doesn't mean anything unless it gets you more dates and sexual relationships.
/r/seduction13/06/15 02:30 PM
2

That is true, and it has happened to me in the past where I start fucking a smoking hot girl and my game temporarily goes to shit. Some of them have a certain talent for driving men nuts... Fortunately, with more experience that pitfall seems to become more and more avoidable.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:00 PM
1

Yea...small towns suck for dating...there's not much more to it than that. But putting more effort into girls that reject you isn't gonna help in any case. If there are really zero others options you'd be better off working out all the time, developing some interesting hobbies, and planning your escape from the boonies. Those girls might be worth re-approaching at later but you need to make some serious changes to yourself before can expect to see different results. Also anything you might do to…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:57 PM
2

no woman can be trusted no matter how upstanding her man is You're actually right about this. Humans are not biologically designed for monogamy -- it conflicts with our basic programming. The only reason this is a problem for you is that you got into a monogamous LTR. So yea...if you stay together long enough, your woman is going to lose attraction for you and experience extreme desire for new dick. Maybe she'll act on it, maybe she won't. But the potential will always be there for you to worry …
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:52 PM
1

The only time I'm happy, is when a girl is sleeping on my chest and I can bask in the validation of that moment. And even then, I'm anxious that she'll get up and leave. Fuck man, you're needy. You need to get a mission in life that goes beyond women. It isn't the sex you're addicted to, it's the validation. Think, think, despair and get even more anxious about not going anywhere. Driving? Always the thoughts. At the gym? Always the thoughts. Always. Do some fucking meditation.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:47 PM
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Do you have an idea for a text or call? Don't bother, she has you pegged for orbiter status. There is no reversing that. Disengage and acquire new targets. Your text game is mad orbiter-ish. Just keep it simple and ask her to meet up. If the woman says no, or maybe, or stops talking to you, or anything else that isn't a yes, then just move on to the next one. This is how you work the numbers. Wasting time on women with zero sexual interest is what kills guys.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:43 PM
1

He probably nailed her hard and good Haha...in his mind. I feel like truly experienced pipe layers would never go beta like that. But I guess even betas will luck into a quality bang session now and then.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:38 PM
1

He banged her like like he just got out of jail But then proceeds to go full beta with all of his texts. He probably spanked her medium hard a few times and as an uber-beta felt the needs to profusely apologize afterwards.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:09 PM
-1

Get your online dating apps and start swiping.
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:55 PM
-2

It's the part where I wish you well.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 07:35 PM
1

OP is a far past gone beta. The line "we've known each other for a long time and we text every day" reveals everything you need to know about his relationship with this girl. Orbiter friendzone to the max. He even throws in "I've asked her to hang out a couple times and she's always steered the conversation away from doing anything" just to make sure it's completely over the top. Part of me thinks this is a troll post. Alphas don't text a woman every day. They text her once a week to set up the …
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:34 PM
3

You're in the friendzone so hard. She's not interested.
/r/seduction12/06/15 06:33 PM
0

Definitely want your guys' thoughts on this. I think your experimental design is flawed. Also, are you banging these girls yet? Matches mean nothing. We count score with bangs.
/r/seduction12/06/15 06:32 PM
-2

Yea...you've got issues, sir. I pray that God will take the hate out yer heart! Praise Jeebus!!!
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:54 PM
1

You have to adjust that want to talk to that want to listen and extract information. This. Once you can really put your ego aside and focus on getting a woman to open up to you, the better your dates will go. Generally the more she is talking the better.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:38 PM
-1

I definitely feel that If I can ever love again, it will need a progress to a love without ownership I've been working on this myself... My view is that monogamy just does not work for the vast majority of people in the modern world. There is just too much temptation and opportunity to have sex... But that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Once I accepted it and decided I would enjoy having open sexual relationships with multiple women, rather than seeking an ideal "One and Only", it has allowed me…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 03:30 PM
7

Ideally women would be sweet and innocent, although very sexual in a committed relationship. This is not how girls are, and now I'm completely turned off to the idea of anything remotely emotional with a girl. It's a good thing that you've realized this fantasy isn't realistic. It just takes a while for your mind to fully let go of that ideal and be happy with women as they really are. You should try to get past seeing women having sex as a negative thing. You are always going to be internally c…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:47 PM
1

I'm wondering what you guys think about LTRing older? Her baby clock is gonna go off way before yours does...so you've gotta expect that.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:36 PM
2

I get persistently friendzoned by every girl I try to make advances towards. Just drop them and make advances towards new girls. Dating is all about the numbers. You put in the numbers and you'll find plenty who are buying what you're selling. But if they're not buying, never waste your time...
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:34 PM
3

Who cares about when the "average person" peaks? It's a relevant. This also strikes me as an unanswerable question -- too vague and subjective. Just focus on making sure that you yourself are always peaking.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:32 PM
1

i'm constantly staring at my phone waiting for her text, and it seems like I can't wait to go home to her at night after work, at any expense. I don't even sleep at home any more. So you've got some extreme neediness going on here...not ideal. We are both insecure people Dysfunctional co-dependent dynamic is building... As long as you are insecure you are going to find yourself drawn into this type of relationship. Maybe you guys can work through some of your issues together...but things can als…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:31 PM
1

Be fucking man and just meditate...it works better...therapy is for biddies. In all seriousness, it is very helpful for some people, but you gotta be careful that it doesn't turn into hamster masturbation. You also gotta realize these people make money from repeat business, so there is very little incentive for any of their patients to be totally cured.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:24 PM
9

is there anything to study in relation to this? You are right that being too "brutally honest" and expressing controversial opinions will hurt you with women during the very early stages. At that point, women are looking for reasons not to have sex with you, so by saying stuff that is "out there" you come off as socially weird and give them plenty of ammo to reject you. It's better to play it close to the vest...you can usually still express yourself in a way that is less abrasive and extreme if…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:16 PM
-2

You're soooooo betaaaa broooo. Downvote ;) http://imgur.com/gallery/4xPGsTD
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:02 PM
-1

I wish you the best of luck with managing those anger issues...good day. http://imgur.com/gallery/4xPGsTD
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:00 PM
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I responded with "I can't" She ask why. I said "Because I don't want to". She laughed and never heard another word about it. This. Guys do so much better when they just say no when they actually want to say no. Women respect that shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:02 PM
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The amount of shitty women on it is astounding. Every one of them I've met and banged was borderline crazy or narcissistic or both. How does that saying go -- if the first there people you talked to today were assholes, then YOU are actually the asshole...probably applies here.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:58 PM
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Eat the fuck out of that pussy. I love that shit as well. Just make sure she sucks your cock just as much so she doesn't start to get a big ego about not reciprocating.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:54 PM
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"Fine, I'll rate the quality by touch"
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:52 PM
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This is the perfect opportunity for a soft next. Said we should "stop for now". Just tell her "OK good luck out there" or something along those lines. The don't contact her at all for at least a couple months. After a couple months have passed, assuming she hasn't reached out to you yet (a lot of times they will), hit her up with a random feeler text and try to rekindle things. This a great way to bring your old plates back into the fold. A lot girls you'll bang on Tinder and other apps will ten…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:44 PM
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How the hell do I go about this? Just bang her like you would any other girl. Actually...given the circumstances it should be a lot easier since it seems pretty clear she's already made the decision to bang you. What guys have to realize is that "boyfriend" isn't a serious commitment to many women, especially the very young ones. If they feel attracted they're gonna want to cheat and since they aren't actually married they won't even feel guilty about it. The culture is everybody just does it, s…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:36 PM
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I'll take this feeble ad hominem as a signal of your surrender. Good day!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:28 PM
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That line is just a power play / shit test. When a girl says something like that, just back off for a bit, act like it doesn't bother you in the least, and definitely don't insinuate you'd be willing to enter a relationship on those terms. After a few min, restart the hook up again and move things toward sex. Usually after you do this a few times the resistance will disappear and she'll be ready to go through with the sex.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:20 PM
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There is also a pinch of jealousy-baiting. This. Many women love the drama of stirring up male sexual jealousy. They get off on that shit. The dynamic is pretty fucked up and unhealthy in my opinion but a good rage fuck can be pretty hot.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:10 PM
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You called me a feminist merely for using the phrase "emotional abuse". Trust me, buddy, emotional abuse happens all the time...and a lot of the time it is women doing it to men... Try to think a little bit before lobbing out the ad hominem attacks next time...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:07 PM
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This is an important point -- there are lot of guys who meet the high SMV requirements but still don't sleep with a ton of women, even though they theoretically could. So the guy needs to have height, fitness, looks, charisma, status, etc AND an extremely high sex drive with no shame about fulfilling it.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 01:45 PM
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Doesn't that perpetuate a low level of thinking that is ultimately counterproductive? Good, you've noticed something. Shouldn't the community be more focused in sharing of information that is actually viably useful and practical to the daily lives of the community to enrich and promote a higher level of thinking rather than the ragefests that happen? Theoretically, it should be, but like virtually all internet message boards, outrage porn has a very high appeal. All those "low level" posts remai…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 01:36 PM
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High quality contribution here! Keep up the solid work.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:14 PM
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It's not emotional abuse Using "force" to generate "desperation" IS emotional abuse. Those words are right there in his comment. That said, I don't doubt there is a way to have one side open relationship and have it be above board. It was the way he described the situation the leads me to believe it was unhealthy. you must be new here Lol several thousands points of comment karma say otherwise. Women love to share alphas. I never claimed that requiring women to share you is abuse. It's all about…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:13 PM
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This isn't TwoX where we rally together and say "you go bro!" We should be calling people out on this shit because the world won't be so kind to the guys who are unrealistic about their position. I'm with you on this, mainly because of the importance of keeping the language of TRP meaningful. If alpha starts to mean little more than "has OK social skills" we might as well abandon it entirely. It probably has gotten to that point as it is... No guy is alpha unless at bare minimum he is fucking mu…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:25 AM
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This has got to be master level trolling...and if it's not it should be.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:13 AM
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I never did this. I was always loyal to the person I was with. Trading up is a very female mentality (branch swinging). Not saying it's necessarily wrong or bad, but its one of things TRP is constantly hating on women for. It is smart though, since odds are eventually you will be single again. But rather than doing this I've solved the problem by never getting exclusive and always having several women going at once to begin with. Takes all the drama out of it, and you get to fuck whoever you wan…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:12 AM
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the creepy guy hitting on 20-somethings image keeps popping into my head. This is just social shaming. It does not apply to alpha males.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:08 AM
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It is about power. You have it if you force her to be monogamous, especially if you can pull it off while she knows you are not. Nothing like the desperation of someone trying to convince you to One them. That's not power. That's being a petty tyrant. Is it really power to control one woman's pussy? One fucking woman? I would rather skip the emotional abuse and fuck whoever I want with zero drama and pain inflicted on anyone. Because that is an option...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:54 AM
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Because if she gets pregnant, you're on the hook no matter what way you slice it. This is quite true, but it's not something I worry too much about. I think if you're smart about using condoms and pulling out if you don't use a condom, the odds of an accidental pregnancy are not high. Like out of all my friends, I don't know of anyone it's happened to. And even if it does, she is likely willing to get an abortion. I'm inclined to think most accidental pregnancies are not fully accidental -- ther…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:39 AM
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I could be absolutely out there killing it, but my fucked up psychological damage and chronic anxiety prevent from doing shit. Honestly, personality-wise you remind me a lot of myself, or rather myself before I figured some shit out and healed myself. The key thing to keep in mind is that the psychological and emotional issues you suffer from are often quite curable. Not saying it's easy, or guaranteed, but people heal themselves of this stuff every day. I know because I've been through it. For …
/r/seduction11/06/15 02:31 AM
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Would a relationship where she remains loyal to you, while you get to have sex with other women but she does not have sex with other men, sound ideal? If she sleeps with anyone else is up to her. I really don't care either way, although I tend to date highly sexual women that also enjoy variety. That's just who I mesh with personality wise. I guess that's nice if she wants to be loyal to me, but I don't really see any additional benefit. But like I said, I don't really care either way how long a…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:57 PM
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she in fact behaves worse sexually See this is where we differ...I don't think there is anything wrong with having sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:52 PM
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1) Get rid of your one-itis. She isn't special. This is the best advice. Just gotta accept that a famous Chad may steal your girl and take solace in the fact that you can get three more just like her without breaking a sweat.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:45 PM
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I'm curious, which do you prefer more, that your woman sleep with other men and you included, or that she sleep with just you? She's free to do whatever she wants, I just insist that she uses condoms like a sane adult. I have no interest in being included in her sexual interactions with other men, or even knowing about them. Unless for some reason I decide ask, then I'd expect honesty. And why would it not be better to keep her as a plate? Plate relationships are open relationships. The only dif…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:41 PM
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Stories on stories of people having no idea it was going on. Where was their gut? A great deal of social conditioning exists to train people to ignore their gut. Many simply are not sensitive to that stuff, or do not believe it carries weight, so they ignore it. And they're likely deluded. They want to believe lies. Not down with getting an STD Condoms, bro, and avoid alcoholics/drug users/mentally troubled women. You'll avoid 99% of STDs right there. favor traditional gender roles I favor my pe…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:30 PM
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How are the older guys on TRP doing it? Open up tinder on my phone. Start swiping. Match with college girl. Meet for date. Bang. The college girls I've fucked over the past couple years were hands down the easiest same night lays I've had. I never met a guy that didn't go to that university who managed to get with the better looking girls there. You think any of the girls who fucked me advertised that to their social circle? Women understand the value of discretion. All the guys they fuck from o…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:23 PM
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It doesn't help that we're on a board that discusses infidelity daily. So true... This is why I have shifted to pursuing only open relationships. People (both men and women) love sexual variety. Deep down we want to cheat...or at least many of us do. It varies depending on personality. I tend to get bored of fucking the same woman pretty quickly, so how I can blame women for feeling the same way? With open relationships you can have guilt free sexual variety AND make it so that no woman can ever…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:19 PM
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if she calls me the animals name instead of my real name, I'm going to tell her to not call me that name. Is that correct approach or is there a tease I can create out of it? No, don't do that. Comes off as too defensive. Just invent some equally embarrassing nickname for her and start calling her that all the time. She'll get the message. How do i go about in this situation? There is this game adult humans play called dating. The first thing to do is ask her to do something. Get coffee, have a …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:13 PM
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Yea...negging doesn't come off well over text. It needs to be done with a playful smirk or else you just seem like a socially clueless sperg. Don't even try to run game on Tinder. Just set up the fucking date. That's all it's good for.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:00 PM
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Sometimes your gut is right, but if in your mind you're imagining something taking place it can certainly trigger that gut feeling, a false positive. This is a great point. My take is that when the gut starts acting up, it's time to investigate. Carefully observe what's been going on in the relationship and form a fresh opinion. Do some digging. Watch for the little things. The persistence of the gut feelings is also important. One fake gut alarm may just be paranoia, but if it's repeatedly happ…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:55 PM
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but this girl was not worthy of any gentleman behavior. And this attitude is why you attracted a low quality woman into your life... Every human being is worthy of respect, even if they lack the strength to respect themselves. But it takes compassion to live this.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:36 PM
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Wow. A lot of hamstering going on here... Your game was weak so you got rejected. Then you couldn't handle it so you fled scene and ditched on your bar tab like a true douche. A confident man would have asked her to pay for her drinks from the beginning, or accepted his mistake and paid the tab. The mimosa queen texted me saying she was leaving then calling me a loser. She's right. You need to learn how to take an L with dignity. This date was a disaster because of YOU.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:12 PM
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I feel like a freak and my whole lifestyle would be too much these girls. So...you have a very unconventional appearance, especially for a small town. There are pros and cons to this... What I think you should be aware of is that it's likely the bulk of this problem is created by your own beliefs and thought patterns. You assume everyone is judging you. You assume no one wants to talk to you. You assume other people won't like you because of your taste in music and lifestyle. Because of these as…
/r/seduction10/06/15 05:29 PM
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Haha THIS. These girls won't go out again because you are getting them attracted, escalating things, then REJECTING them at the end of the date. Women cannot handle rejection, so of course they don't want to see you again after you created all those bad feels. If you really want to wait for sex, I would keep your dates shorter. I'll bet that you're dragging it out so long that these girls just assume you are going for the same night lay. Get out after an hour so there isn't any expectation for g…
/r/seduction10/06/15 04:17 PM
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I use a different approach : the day after - silence (makes her hamster wonder), then contact her on the 2nd or 3rd day to set up another date I use this approach as well... I think this is better than contacting the day after because it does not display too much interest, while not displaying too little either. It also creates some space for her to display interest by contacting you during the first day, which is a huge IOI. Really though...I have done both and either way can work if your game/…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:00 PM
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Told her to come over to fuck Did you say explicitly "come over to fuck"? It works better to give them some fake reason to come, like "come over to study/look at my rock collection/watch a move" etc. Straight up asking to fuck triggers ASD and leads to resistance like this. No that you've already done that, you're in a weak position because she already said no once. No need avoid buying into her frame ("how do I earn it?"). Ideally you would do something break her frame. Ignoring for a while is …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:54 PM
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Yea...I think a certain amount of this is unavoidable. It's just the result of sex-negative social conditioning. You can try to combat it if you wish. Personally, I prefer to spend my time with more liberated women.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:24 PM
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TRP helps you see that women don't run away from "you" they run away from your weakness, the same way that a negative charge is repulsed by another negative charge. So it's nothing personal. Once you internalize TRP it leads to true outcome independence. Life is just a series of reactions that you're observing -- whether it goes one way or the other, it is what it is, not a big deal really. When you get deep outcome independence going, you can start to relax and let go at a spiritual level, and …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:57 PM
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I've been seeing a rather traditional girl My take is she has gotten a case of buyer's remorse after having sex with you. This tends to happen with girls who have a lot of hang ups around casual sex (traditional values). Basically, this girl realizes she just gave up the farm (fucked you) and got nothing in return (no commitment). This imbalance in power is a blow to her ego and also creates anxiety about the "mistake" she made fucking you too quickly. This happens to me from time to time. I'll …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:49 PM
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what great things there are to enjoy being a high value male at the age of say 30, what is there to look forward to? Well for one, not being such a massive dumb ass. The human brain develops a great deal in the mid to late 20's. College guys are children compared to 30+ year old men. So yea...it is quite enjoyable to fully come into your wisdom and masculine power. You are able to let go of more and more social conditioning and live the life you want as a free and independent man. The satisfacti…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:31 PM
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Within three lines try to set up a date. You only waste time if you choose too. This. I spend a few minutes blind swiping most days until I run out of likes. Then I just let the matches come in, hit up the hotter ones and try to set up a quick date. What kills you are the long convos with girls who fade the second you ask for the date...just don't do that.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:27 PM
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so rather it's a screening process for you? When online dating you need to constantly be screening to separate the women genuinely interested in meeting and (possibly) fucking you from the attention seekers and girls who are merely bored. The best way to do this is to quickly ask for the meet up. You'll do a lot better going on as many dates as possible with girls who are game than you will trying to persuade non-interested girls to become interested.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:10 PM
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I have eyes that I can "turn on" and make piercing What's your intention like when you do this? there's a certain pedigree of girl that can see through my game. I think you may be doing something that isn't genuine with this look, and these higher caliber girls can see what you're doing and it's off putting to them. Like instead of trying to "pierce" with your gaze, try making eye contact with the intention to connect rather than intimidate. Well damn, now I'm doing some deep introspection. It's…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:55 AM
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So are these people envious, or is there something "wrong" about my personality? Certain personality types just don't mix. It's not quite as simple as "good people like other good people and dislike bad people" and vice versa, but something along those lines. People subconsciously gravitate towards others with similar views. If you are going to be an influential person, conflict with other people is always gonna come up as individuals jockey for power and status. It's good to be 100% OK with oth…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:37 AM
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I was abused too. I like the roughness verbally and rough play in the bedroom. So maybe you guys are a good match then. Fuck if I know...
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:28 AM
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she opened up to me about her abusive family This girl has serious issues. I tell her that her eyes are beautiful Complimenting a woman's appearance is one of the worst things you can do on a first date because it's an attraction killer. It's also very bad when a woman is bitching about another guy on a date with you. It signals a lack of interest -- basically she is just dumping her emotional baggage on you and doesn't care if it drives you off because she isn't attracted to you. Still can't fi…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:18 AM
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Now that I want a confident girl with a brain, how can I evolve my game to start landing these girls? Like attracts like, so I would bet that there is some sort of insecurity within you that is making you a match for these insecure women. You'd do well to search for the root there... I don't want her, but I want a woman like her. And my problem is, is my game completely hits a wall when I interact with her. How does your game "hit a wall"? I think it would help us understand what's happening if …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:19 PM
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so what's the appeal of LTRs if the affection just dwindles down. Start a family? From the perspective of sexual enjoyment, there really isn't any imo.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:20 PM
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If you only want to be with her if she's gonna be like she was those first few months, then you're gonna be disappointed... This happens all the time. Girls go all out to get you into the relationship, but once that phase wears off and they aren't idealizing you anymore the level of love and affection drops off a cliff. It's extremely tempting to keep repeating this blissful early relationship period with new women...
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:57 PM
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So how do i talk about nothing guys? You gotta figure out how relax. It's your nervousness and anxiety that is causing these problems.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:47 PM
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If it's been a few months since you talked to her, you can always just lob out a casual feeler text to try and rekindle things.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 01:33 AM
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I matched with a guy on Tinder who really seems to have his shit together, and I'm super attracted to him. You aren't the only one. You will have competition for desirable men. Initially, things were going great, but everytime I try to meet him in person, he has an excuse He's not so attracted to you. Or maybe you're coming off as too needy, or too commitment hungry. This happens... What advice do you guys have for me? Keep dating. You found one guy you liked and it didn't work...that doesn't me…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:53 PM
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On the other hand, since men are the hunters (we all know men aren't getting approached by 7+ girls unless they're in the top 1% of attractiveness) and it's socially unacceptable to pursue other women when you already have one, we're expected to sit back and suppress all our natural desires while our girlfriends have all the fun. You've caught on to the dynamic that makes exclusivity so much more favorable to women. If you agree to be exclusive, she is still receiving offers, she still has optio…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:33 PM
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This would mean that a player could never become a husband. You think a guy goes from banging a multitude of attractive women to being content with occasional duty sex from only one woman? Some men might do it, but I highly doubt they are actually happy about that turn of events.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:20 PM
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My argument is this: verbose texting, over the course of multiple days, is necessary to arrange a date and be reasonably sure she will not flake, IF you have never met each other in person. Maybe...if her interest starts out low and/or your looks aren't that good. I've set up many successful online dates without any verbose texting. Whatever works...
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:36 PM
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This. If they do it for it's own benefit that's great, but many are attention seekers who get off on invading a male space.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:37 PM
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Just simply blow it off with a "I haven't met the perfect woman for marriage, yet" which will force her to compete for you more. This. You always want to avoid saying controversial stuff like "I don't believe in marriage" when you could just as easily get off with a vague answer that doesn't take a stand on marriage one way or the other. Women are always checking boxes in their heads and looking for reasons to reject a guy for sex, and you gave this one a big fat reason to next you. Also remembe…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:33 PM
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You do make yourself vulnerable and you will get hurt from time to time, but the benefits far outweigh the risks for me. The danger naturally is that you let your feelings controle yourself completely and turn into a blabbering beta, which is not good. The feelings that cause oneitis are always gonna happen and they aren't the problem. It's not oneitis until you become delusional and start doing stupid shit -- that's when you actually have oneitis. I've reached a point where I've experienced tho…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:23 PM
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I was in a very elite fraternity at my university which led to a lot of fun experiences with social life and getting laid. You basically had the ideal college experience. So beating that is going to be tough... But for the typical AFC, college actually kinda sucks. You just sit around most of the time bitching about how elite fraternity chads like you get all the pussy. Your life can still get better as you get older, but only if you grow as man and find something worth dedicating yourself to.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 01:23 PM
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First, women will always have a few guys floating around, so whether you say your cool with it or not, it's going to happen. This is why you shouldn't even contemplate giving a woman exclusivity for at least 6 months. No matter what she says, if she's decently attractive and under 27, you're not the only dick in her rotation. Don't be the needy beta dying to be her bf. Be the guy she really wants, the one she has to chase.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 01:02 PM
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PS just because we don't post field reports/analyses doesn't mean we don't exist. It's too bad that this is the case...but yea I could never really see myself putting in the effort to post a detailed FR. At this point, it all feels like more of the same anyways... My guess is it's because the newbs feel their experiences are more meaningful because of the novelty of TRP in their newb minds. There really should be an expert level sub for more experienced seducers.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:52 PM
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Maybe it has to do with the fact I have never read a success story from the the husbands/boyfriends point of view. Check out this blog: http://blackdragonblog.com I would also assume most men are serial monogamist. Most men just go along with this because it's what women push for and what's most socially acceptable. When a guy has a hot girl that wants to be his GF, that is extremely hard to resist the first few times because he just wants the sex so badly. Open relationships with multiple hot w…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:42 PM
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he's courageous for admitting to and discussing a painful, life-long mental illness. I'd be in agreement if it was publicly framed this way. Still waiting on the first major media outlet to mention autogynefilia though...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:38 PM
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Any suggestions on going from here? I obviously need to reframe the relationship of not treating her like a GF, not sure how to go about only getting her to stay 1 night since she's been getting the whole weekend. It is very hard to successfully de-escalate from a pattern like that. Things go a lot better if you stick to the rules right from the start. Make up an excuse for why she can only stay for one night and do that for a few weeks. Then see if she is able to accept the one night a week pat…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:12 PM
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Letting her stay the whole weekend, every weekend, is part of your problem. Try to limit it to one night per week. You can't treat her like an exclusive GF and expect her to remain happy being non-exclusive. Then she snaps "date night" monday with some dude. I laugh it off but then thinking about it, a girl who is ok with posting shit out of spite is not a girl I want, it's pretty fucked up that she's obviously did this out of malice as I'm not giving her enough comfort(commitment is what she's …
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:46 PM
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why do I need to do this? Well for one thing, having other options for sex and romantic connection is the best possible way to cultivate abundance and reduce neediness. Your game and frame will be strongest when you have options and this alone will raise your SMV. Also, women want to compete (and win over) a guy with options. It's just how their brains work. If no other women are fucking you, it must mean you're a loser, so they start to look for reasons why. They would rather share an alpha tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:44 PM
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I'm getting comfort tests out the ass What specifically is she doing? Some women just can't handle open relationships. The social programming is too strong and they work themselves into a panic that they are "being used" or acting like sluts because you won't give them commitment. If that is the case you may just need to soft next and move on to more relaxed girls who can handle it. Personally, I won't stick around to try to fix women who have too much guilt surrounding sex -- it's a lost cause.…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:10 PM
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Tinder girl and I talk over the course of 10 days or so. You should be asking to set up a date within 3 messages or so. Waiting 10 days is just insane. If you had followed this rule, you would have quickly learned that this girl wasn't actually interested in dating you and saved yourself a great deal of time.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:04 PM
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Still don't understand this community's aversion to open relationships I think it's because the majority of TRPers actually have not fully swallowed the pill and completely grasped it's implications. These guys still believe in The Perfect LTR™ if only they could find The Right One™ and the social conditioning that says guys who refuse to settle down and run through an endless string of girlfriends are selfish/bad people/womanizers, etc. one step up from spinning plates IMO Another misconception…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 05:38 PM
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As long as you keep it non-verbal and relaxed you are usually good to go. Something about verbalization leads women to place men into the "thirsty loser" category.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:59 PM
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For example, talking about politics or religion. Any hot button topic that a lot of people have emotional positions on. Women are always looking for reasons to reject, so if you say something she disagrees with in an area like this, that can lead to a rejection.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 03:49 PM
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Probably going to have to pull out all of the stops when we meet for drinks, because I'm sure that she's getting guys laying down in mud for her so she doesn't have to walk in it when it rains. Don't do anything different. The fact she has all these betas kissing her ass just means she will be that much more fascinated by you when you don't do it. Just stay relaxed and outcome independent. Don't compliment her looks or appearance in anyway. Try not to say anything controversial, keep discussion …
/r/askTRP03/06/15 03:44 PM
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Your dick doesnt have all these major growths and rot off. Yea exactly...there is a reason 80% of the people who have herpes don't even know they have it. Symptoms are often minor or non-existent.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:24 PM
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But she had never once taken their side in a breakup. Yea, but I'll bet she was rooting for the marriage. A man can never listen to what his mother says regarding relationships with women. They are true believers in the Female Imperative and really just want grand kids, your actual happiness is a lower priority.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:19 PM
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All's fair in love and war, eh? No herpes diagnosis for me (knock on wood). I have also fucked many women over the years. The odds that none of them had herpes is astronomically low (like 20% of the population is infected). Not a single female has ever disclosed any type of STD before having sex with me. I agree that there is no need to be a white knight and ruin your sexual success because of a minor skin condition that has a ridiculous stigma (a stigma that did not even exist until an anti-her…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:10 PM
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Is there a specific question I can answer for you? I feel like Black Dragon has already covered this stuff extremely well, so you'd be better off just reading there: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/05/25/confessions-of-a-serial-monogamist/ In addition to explaining female compulsion towards serial monogamy (with scientific research to boot) he also goes into great detail about his own system for getting and maintaining open relationships with multiple women.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:34 PM
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But what about the rest of them, the ones who actually make it through day-to-day? The suicide/murderer guys are actually a tiny minority. There are millions upon millions (probably billions) of sexless men who deal with the frustration through some combination of alcohol, marijuana, video games, television, hobbies, careerism, porn, and masturbation. They tell themselves their sexual problems exist because they "haven't met the right one" or "women only go for assholes" to protect their egos an…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:53 PM
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15% Find and marry a bitch I think what OP is seeing is these guys coming out every time LTR is mentioned to talk about how important it is to find a lower partner count / traditional values / church going unicorn. It'd be interesting to see a survey of the actual ratio of these groups on TRP. For my money, I would guess the proportion of guys hoping find a "great LTR" is a lot higher than 15%. A lot of the plate spinners are actually in this category, they are just spinning until they find "the…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:42 PM
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always ends with making out Stop kissing them (and/or banging them) on the first date. That is known to trigger ASD and lead to rejections. Keep the first date short. 1 drink, under an hour. Then go for the bang on the second date. A lot of girls flip out if they fuck on the first date, or if they make out on the first date, because their ASD makes them feel they've acted too slutty so they run away to avoid those bad feels.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:33 PM
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What do you do to avoid/lower your risk of getting STDs? It all starts with the quality of women you're fucking and the setting you find them in. Filter for healthy women only: no drug users, no alcoholics, no serious mental health problems, no trash. The more you avoid finding women on the party scene the better, as that scene is rife with all of these problems. Always scope out how healthy a woman seems overall. The better overall health, the stronger the immune system, the less likely she is …
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:27 PM
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Why the fuck does TRP give a shit about one what mentally deficient person does so strongly? It's not about him doing it. It's about the mass media force feeding the narrative that "Caitlyn is courageous". Chopping your penis off and calling yourself a woman isn't courageous -- it's fucking weird. If Bruce wants to do that privately, we give zero fucks, but if media is going to apply pressure for everyone to conform with the sentiment that "Caitlyn is beautiful" that becomes problematic.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:18 PM
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Behaviorally, through your interactions with her, the goal is to show her that you find her attractive (through your eyes), but that you're also scouting out the social landscape for other options. It's interesting. I've noticed that my game often works better on higher smv women who I'm extremely attracted to. I think subconsciously, a woman can feel how strong your attraction is. If it's only lukewarm, even if you are above her smv wise, she probably won't stick around very long. The subtle sk…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:12 PM
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Left her after 4 years out of pure Coolidge Effect. AMALT. This factor does not get enough play around here. It doesn't matter if you marry a virgin 10/10 at age 17. Within 3-5 years both of you will have extremely little sexual attraction to each other. Women prefer to solve this problem with serial monogamy. The ideal situation for men is multiple open relationships.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:52 PM
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I know she will stop desiring me if I drop in SMV or become lazy and stop improving myself. Over time she will stop desiring you, regardless of self improvement. That's just human biological programming. It's not because the woman is not LTR worthy, and it's not because she's a slut. Women are wired to lose attraction after several years of monogamy, often much less, depending on the woman. This doesn't mean she will stop fucking you completely, but she will stop wanting to fuck you, and the qua…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:27 AM
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How do you know he is red pill? Is this a guy that has a lot of success with women? I'm guessing either he doesn't like you very much, or he's just awkward and doesn't know how to comfortably escalate towards sex.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:57 PM
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does he not like hand holding and is just holding mine in short increments to be nice? This seems likely. Is this happening in public? A lot of guys find public hand holding embarrassing and somewhat emasculating.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:34 PM
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A lot of it is also confrontation avoidance. It's the same reason a lot of woman will just ghost you, rather than saying they are no longer interested.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:29 PM
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You're falling into the trap of thinking "this girl is not like the rest". It's only been 6 months. Give it some more time. Within a few years you will almost certainly see why sexual exclusivity is a bad deal for men.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:03 PM
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Women give their phone numbers out to just about anyone. Yea, it's a lot easier for them to just ignore or block a guy when he texts than to tell him no to his face.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:38 PM
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Fuck more. Seriously, this is only a problem for me when I'm not having sex several times a week. If you can't fuck enough then masturbate a few times a week. 2-3 glasses of wine also helps a lot.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:27 PM
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I've noticed the high quality girls/women I've been with will never talk to me again after we break up. Women are repulsed by their former beta boys, and the relationship usually ends because the guy goes full beta and every last shred of attraction is destroyed. If you stay alpha and never become her monogamous bf, your odds of staying in touch and banging her again over the years are high.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 01:51 PM
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Just be careful. A lot of them will try to convince you to have sex with them. It's a thrill for them to turn a straight guy and they also love that straight guys are usually more masculine. Some of them are very good at seduction and will try it when a guy is intoxicated and doesn't have his wits about him. Gay guys can be cool, as long as you're hanging out in an ordinary context. The gay lifestyle creeps me out though. I have no interest in being in any situation where homosexual lust is at p…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 01:48 PM
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Its more a behavioral pattern than a physical trait. Beta can best be described as a guy who gives more than he takes. I agree with this. Betas are guys that buy into the social conditioning of the female imperative. They believe that doing what's best for women is best for men as well, so they give up their commitment quickly and easily, without thinking of what they can or should get in return, or what their lives could be like if they did not commit, to any woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:30 PM
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some women just like cute, beta guys. A lot of women also prefer guys who will submit to them. They would rather have control over a beta than be an alpha's third string rotation girl. Of course they'll still fuck the alpha when beta boy isn't looking...
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:13 PM
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I would live exactly the same as I live now, I'd just get nicer stuff, take more trips, and go out to more pricey spots where you find the high end poon.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:21 PM
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Betas play an important role in our mating ecosystem. This. Betas fund and do the legwork for the propagation of society.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 08:14 PM
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I'm guessing your fucking young girls right? I'll go as young as 18 if I can, but mostly it's been 23 to early 30s, with the majority being mid to late 20s. This is so they can keep playing their options to fuck other suitors. remember they just walked into this wonderful palace where they have all these options, why take the first couple that com in. Where as the typical process for girls who've already had their fill they want to progress things to a relationship. In my experience, the drive t…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:29 PM
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I had this thing for adidas. So I had superclean shell toes in different colors which would match whichever jeans/tee shirt combo I was going with. Yep. Sneakers can be great as well with a more casual look. I have a thing for Nike's, like the more unique designs you can find on a site like Sneakerhead.com. I match a pair with my shirt and get compliments on them all the time.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:59 PM
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my shoes were always clean and also high quality This. I have a pair of super nice dress shoes from Brooks Brothers that I wear on dates if the venue is somewhat upscale. I call them "the pussy getters".
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:47 PM
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I'm not one to dress to the nines The thing about women loving a sharp dressed man? It is 100% on point. You will get more attention from women if you dress a level above everyone else at the venue. T-shirt and jeans in not gonna get you there. Really nice jeans, button down, and a dope pair of shoes works very well for me. The mindset I currently have is i'm here to relax and have fun with friends. I prefer to keep my social time separate from my pursuit of poon. When I go out to hang with frie…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:51 PM
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she has BPD This is the biggest and reddest of all the red flags a girl can have. I suggest you search the asktrp and main TRP forums to get an idea of what you are getting into with a BPD woman.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:40 PM
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Some women find me very handsome, some (who to me seem to prefer pretty/more feminine/boyish looking types) don't find me attractive off the bat. I'm the inverse -- I have the textbook pretty boy face. Certain women are all about it, while others, and I can often spot these types based on looks alone because of past experience, will not be interested because they prefer guys that look harder/edgier/more rugged etc. Men and women both have "types" they gravitate towards, but this tendency is much…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:37 PM
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As a newb, you should still be able to get stronger even while you're losing weight.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:23 PM
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Which creates a beta a lot of the time. Yep, the moment a man gives up his sexual options (assuming he actually gives them up and doesn't cheat) there is hard ceiling on how alpha he can be.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:16 PM
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But they don't just want to get laid. Every girl I date always says "it can't JUST be sex". They don't want commitment, but they want to hang out, do stuff, and bask in that alpha glow. This is what they want in return for sex. If they don't get that, they just feel like a fuck toy.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:54 PM
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Do any if you guys at any point of your relationships admit the negative aspects of your life? Sometimes I do, but this master-level stuff. It can work well to build rapport extremely quickly IF it is dark stuff that you have fully worked through and are no longer burdened by. If it is a current problem, that you are still struggling with, then drawing attention to that flaw can kill attraction.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 02:41 PM
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However, I have noticed no such signals from women. Women don't stare like men do. Even when they think a guy is attractive, the way they check him out is usually far less blatant than the way a man does it. The male sexual gaze, etc. I've experienced the same thing to some degree. Gay men will just stop whatever they are doing and stare, tell me I'm handsome/beautiful, etc. I realized that women find me very attractive as well, they just aren't entranced by the visual the same way that men are.…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 02:16 PM
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Basically I've come to realize that I have been minimizing all of my accomplishments while amplifying any of my shortcomings or failures. Gotta let go of that inner shame some how. I feel that meditation helped me a lot with this, but it takes time. The more you can get some emotional distance from your own life, and realize every personal loss or shortcoming is really not an epic tragedy, the better.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:45 PM
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I'm a big fan of Black Dragon: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:33 PM
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ASD = Anti-Slut Defense
/r/askTRP31/05/15 08:30 PM
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Seems like you're generating a lot of attraction. The trouble is, you're also triggering strong ASD. Women are afraid of getting pump-and-dumped because of social programming, so if they find themselves feeling strong attraction, but also feel they have little chance of turning you into a "boyfriend" they will put up this type of resistance. I suggest getting more subtle with your kino. Touch them unexpectedly, then back off. If you're in a social setting, avoid anything that would be obvious to…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:48 PM
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Sounds like you're one of her back up guys, for when things go south with the current bf. Women do this all the time. I didn't do any real move on her You want to have sex with her, get aggressive. Guys are always afraid to do this, but women are wired to be extremely aroused by sexual aggression, especially from a man who is not their monogamous partner.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:42 PM
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This happens in every LTR. Women are biologically programmed to lose sexual attraction after a certain period of monogamy. It does not matter how hot she is for you in the beginning. This ALWAYS happens. If you want a woman with strong sexual desire for you, you'll need to get out of this relationship and find a new one.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:37 PM
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You will automatically loose fat and build muscle in the beginning. This. Just eat clean, develop strong technique in the major lifts, progressively add weight, and newb gains will take care of the rest for several months.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:35 PM
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If I were to say something like that, I'd end it with a ;) to make sure she knows it is tongue in cheek.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:47 PM
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she texts back asking is this a date date or a friend thing If this question is coming up, it means there is an issue with your frame. It should be obviously sexual enough that it's clear you are trying to fuck her, not be her friend. How should I respond? You don't want to overtly state that it's a date -- if you do that she'll probably cancel. If you say it's a friend thing, then you've just friendzoned yourself. You want to convey the romantic possibility in a covert way, ideally with a bit o…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:58 PM
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Where to draw the line between optimism (work harder, improve) and a realistic outlook? Charisma is the great hidden variable. Enough charisma can land even the most homely man 10/10s. So really...there is no ceiling on what you can do. But there better material you start with, the better odds of high success. Work with what you've got and build from there.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:41 PM
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Idk if I can pursue this because I feel like I've already showed that I'm beta by not fucking her when it's very obvious she would've been down. Just try to learn something from this. It's the man's job to be sexually aggressive and make a move. A lot of guys face this issue as we are trained as children to be well behaved submissives. You need to break that conditioning and allow your raw sexual power to take over.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 03:21 PM
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This. She's attracted and likes the feeling of arousal that she hasn't felt in such a long time from her sexually boring husband. Her body yearns for new cock. But her "commitment" is causing her to have resistance when it comes fucking you. She's afraid of the transgression. She's torn because she deeply desires something that is wrong. If you keep pursuing her, and with strong game you continue to amp up her arousal to the point where something "just happens" you might get laid. Or her guilt m…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:59 PM
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Seriously. She is openly lining up multiple dates with old fuck buddies. The relationship is already over. Doesn't get more clear cut than that.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:49 PM
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just ignore her for a few days Ignore her for at least a week or two. Then act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:43 PM
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Marriage is declining, but people are generally going for serial monogamy. The masses are followers, they lag behind the trend. Especially in modern cultural centers, more and more people are becoming openly poly. The masses will catch up. Just think of how fast supporting gay marriage became a de facto mainstream opinion. This is on the same track.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:20 PM
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Polyamory unabashedly favors women. No, it favors alpha males AND women. Drop that label. Never said I use the label. Plate spinning is polyamory, whether you use the label or not.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:17 PM
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Marriage is dead. Monogamy is dead. Polyamory is the future. This shit is already happening. It has mainstream backing. The trend will only accelerate. Either you're an unattached alpha, drowning in pussy, or you're a sad sack beta, paying out the ass for occasional duty fucks (in between cuckings), or worse, an incel. We're gonna see a few men fucking like crazy, while more and more drop out of the sexual market entirely.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:13 AM
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They don't send fake messages to you (AFAIK) I am looking at messages in my account right now that were auto-sent as if I was the one sending them. I can only assume similar auto-generated messages are sent from female accounts as well. Of course, the only way to read any of these messages is by paying for membership. I have no way to prove whether you are a shill or not, but I have seen other comments claiming the same thing (super easy sex with young girls without having to give them any money…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:55 AM
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While not guaranteed, sex is generally a pretty common resolution to tinder dates. Yes exactly. Pretty common is a far cry from "almost guaranteed". I've gotten plenty of first date fucks on tinder (and other dating apps as well) but also met a lot of women who weren't ready until the second or sometimes third date. I've also missed out on a number of girls who were obviously very attracted because I pushed for sex on the first date and that triggered their ASD. I guess my point is that all type…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:18 PM
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SA is sketchy as fuck. You can't message at all without paying, and the site sends fake messages to you, and also from your account, trying to entice people to pay. Can't help but think every positive mention of them I see is a shill, because SA clearly has no line it won't cross in order to increase paying users.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 05:05 PM
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how do you maintain an abundance mindset when you truly live in a scarce environment? Well, the handicap is always going to be there, but you work with what you've got. Try to fill up your life with a ton of good stuff so you aren't as dependent on women for enjoyment and happiness. Travel to places where you can get laid occasionally to stave off the thirst.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:06 PM
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She's trying to turn you into her little bitch. This is a bad sign, because it means she's the type of woman who wants her man to a be a little bitch she can boss around and control. Most women with this type of personality will break things off if it becomes clear you will not submit to their frame. So unless you want to be her beta servant, you should stand up to her and make it clear that won't be happening. Then accept the fact the relationship likely isn't going to work out.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:52 PM
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Don't answer. Or wait a long time and send a really short answer. She'll get the message.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:45 PM
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When we moved in together, and then moreso once we got married, she kept chipping away at all the fun stuff I'm interested in that helped attract her to me in the first place. The problem is that I'm a maniac and need to be busy doing interesting things and taking on new hobbies in addition to a main one that uses a tremendous amount of my free time. Women are dream killers. Good on you for choosing your dreams and not letting her whip you into submission.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:40 PM
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With these applications, girls can no longer evaluate self esteem and any other character traits of a guy This isn't true. Women just start evaluating non-looks stuff after the "match" is made. You still need game and frame to get laid, even with tinder. What do you guys think about these new dating paradigms? It's just further accelerating the shift away from monogamy. For guys with looks and game, it's an extremely convenient plate sourcing medium. For women, it's a man super store where they …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:37 PM
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In one way apps like tinder have favored the Guys as a tinder date is almost guaranteed to end in sex. Have you actually been on many tinder dates? Because that statement just isn't true.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:32 PM
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once you truly understand how much more powerful you become the moment you can become your own observer of thoughts that rise from your unconscious and pick which one to use and which not to in the same way you can pick cherries from a tree, you'll truly embrace the concept of "holding frame" Most people don't really understand how powerful thoughts are...everything in your life starts as thoughts, then trickles into actions that manifest your entire reality. Once you can consciously choose whic…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:29 PM
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when you got married it opened the doors to living together/having sex and by doing so locked the man into a long term financial commitment to his spouse. Exactly this. Men only ever got married because they needed to fuck and cultural constraints made marriage the only outlet that wasn't heavily ostracized. That and the extension of clans. I'm convinced most women are so obsessed about marriage because they want to believe that guys are still buying what they're selling so to speak. When you te…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:56 PM
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in marriage you become a better consumer to the market so all the money you think you are saving, you're still spending. Well, the wife certainly becomes a better consumer. Guys seem pretty aware of how expensive divorce is for a man, but it's also worth stating how much freaking money it costs to keep a wife satisfied while you are still married to her, or even a serious gf for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:45 PM
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most guys that aren't super cringeworthy are getting approached at least now and then and don't yet know how to pick up on it I agree, and would say it's an even bigger problem that these types of guys have no idea how to act on it when it happens and usually blow it for themselves.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:40 PM
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They love the end result – men who are actually powerful. Women want to be fucked silly by a man who’s more powerful than they are. If you really want to maximize your sexual power, you should NEVER promise any woman sexual exclusivity. Relationships are fine and dandy, but you fuck who you want, no matter what. Be strong enough to resist the temptation to make the first hot woman you fuck your gf, and before long so will have 5 more on the same level or higher lining up to fuck you every night …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:42 PM
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Protip: Women approach men. Yea...this happens to me pretty frequently. Also, even when they don't approach, they do stuff to make it really fucking obvious that they're attracted to you. Anyone with decent social intelligence can see what's happening.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:29 PM
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LTRs are Red pill on hard mode. Yea...it's hard mode because you are trying to stay alpha while doing a thing that is inherently beta. That's what makes it so hard. But in theory, why shouldn’t you get back together? Some would suggest plate status, at best. Why can't she ever be LTR material again? Do it if you want to. It's just generally more productive to start fresh.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 06:21 PM
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Look at how quickly her looks are changing. How much worse does she look today compared to how she looked 2, 3, 4, 5 years ago. The slower she is aging the better, since odds are that pattern will continue. Some girls you will see the bottom fall out when they hit their early to mid 20s, while some women stay very hot into their 30s, sometimes longer.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:55 PM
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Say your LTR (girl x), has turned you beta because you failed shit tests and you didn’t have your shit together. Merely having an LTR will turn you beta. Having sex with only one woman is beta behavior, by definition. Its an unwritten rule around here that if you get cheated on, then its your fault because you should always be improving, but you weren’t. Humans cheat on each other, both men and women, because our species is wired to crave sexual variety. It's not necessarily anyone's fault. But …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:50 PM
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Yea exactly. At some point you are going to have to be friendly enough to get into a conversation with a woman. What they love is the push-pull of the guy who acts aloof at first, but then becomes friendly and is able to switch back and forth. Acting aloof sets the frame that your attention is valuable. That perception creates positive emotions in a woman when you later show interest in her.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:10 PM
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AWALT just means that every woman has the same hypergamous instincts. There is room for a great deal of personality variation on top of that. I think more importantly than anything is to be confident and a good talker. I agree. Genuinely liking and being able to connect and talk with women is key. Some guys that don't really "get it" become caught up in acting like a "dominant alpha" but just end up acting like spergs with poor social skills.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 03:27 PM
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We ended up talking about it Big mistake. Women are turned off by explicit communication. What's the best way to turn this around? I hate writing this but I honestly am considering talking to her about it one more time and if nothing changes breaking up with her. Don't make the same mistake again by thinking you can talk this through. This situation sounds like a good candidate for a period of no contact. Just don't talk to her or respond to her calls or texts for 3-7 days. After that reach out …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:54 PM
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is it really going to make her perceive me as a beta supplier? No, it won't. The friendly gesture of buying her a coffee actually helps to make the woman feel comfortable with you. You can also be fine letting her buy her own coffee as well. Personally, if we're at the register together I will buy hers. You want to avoid any type of awkward moment, and paying together is usually less awkward in my experience then insisting she pay for herself.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:50 PM
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Sex has become incredibly easy. I go through plates a lot (I get bored and am consequently "king of the soft next"). I've had around ~15 plates in the past year and right now have 3-4 at any given time. These girls range from 20 - 35 years old. My sex life is pretty much identical to this. I'm 31. At a certain point over the past few years my game/looks/frame all came together and relationships with women stopped being frustrating. It became easy and enjoyable to connect with high quality women.…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:43 PM
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But there is also nothing wrong with monogamy. I agree, and some people are more naturally happy being monogamous. But for people that aren't, there is a great deal of social programming, repressed desires, and feelings of shame to work through before it's possible to reach a high level of emotional freedom.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:11 AM
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even rich and powerful men have to make public apologies when caught sleeping around. The key part being that they still constantly do it. It's only public figures that have to apologize to put up a front for the beta masses.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:44 PM
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And like you say it makes a man all the more virtuous to be able to be monogamous after experiencing high # of 8-10's. The idea that monogamy is by definition virtuous is just Blue Pill conditioning that even denizens of the red pill can't seem to shake. Powerful men conquer. Variety, quantity, and quality ARE the apex male sexual strategy. Foregoing this for a life of monogamy will necessarily diminish masculine power.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 06:36 PM
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I get over there, she seems happy to see me, and we sit down, drink, and watch Netflix for a bit. That was your chance to escalate, and you probably would have gotten laid if you knew how to do that. But you didn't do anything, so she had to spell it out for you and that killed all her attraction and brought back the bad feels about the cheating.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:23 PM
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I have yet to meet a casual drinker or drug user who I can look up to. That's a total of zero in my life. You must not come into contact with interesting people, which makes sense given the smug self superiority displayed in this posting.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:23 PM
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You have fallen into the trap of being The Witty Guy. This will keep girls messaging you, but it will not get you laid. You should also asking her if she's up to meet for a date within the first 2-4 messages.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:10 PM
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Not every pot smoker is an addict. The same way not every drinker is an alcoholic. Your sample must be skewed because there a many high functioning people that enjoy occasional marijuana use.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 03:55 PM
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Are you able to continue smoking recreationally and still maintain focus, frame and motivation toward self-improvement? If I smoke every day, eventually it catches up with me and end up in a downward spiral of lethargy. Optimal for me seems to be a 2-3 times a week max, with each of those times being only one or two hits. At that level, I can enjoy the high with minimal "hangover" effects.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 03:53 PM
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you might as well say whatever you want to a girl Saying edgy stuff can work well if it makes her laugh and contributes to your alpha jerkboy frame, but talking too much, especially about touchy subjects can easily cause women to reject. Definitely avoid expressing strong political opinions, red pillian gender views, and any heavy stuff from your past. Generally, the lighter and more casual you can keep it the better. Attractive women have so many options that they'll often reject guys over the …
/r/askTRP26/05/15 03:50 PM
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"she doesn't feel it, doesn't love me anymore - bullshit" When a woman straight up tells you this, the relationship is over, and has been over for some time.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 03:38 PM
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You could end up hospitalized for blowing out your own mind. I actually did this 4 years ago, with a jumpstart from psilocybin mushrooms. The results were transformative but the journey...was not for the faint of heart.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 02:03 PM
1

SF is a tech and homo fueled sausage fest. The male:female ratio is very bad. NYC is literally pussy paradise, among the world's greatest playgrounds for hot babes. One of the few places on earth where you will see multiple 10s in a single day. In terms of sexual prospects, NYC is far superior. In SF you have much more competition for fewer quality women. NYC is the only place where I regularly get stared down on the street and cold approached by legitimately attractive women.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 01:21 PM
3

Is this drastic of a change in your thoughts after cumming normal? Totally normal. Happens to me a lot, but not every time I have sex. Usually strongest the first time you sleep with a girl. Does this mean these girls actually aren't right for me, the post-sex thoughts are completely accurate? I find it happens a lot more with women you aren't super attracted to, who you just fucked because you were horny and they were available. This has never happened to me with a girl I went on to have a rela…
/r/askTRP24/05/15 01:13 PM
4

The Sexual Marketplace isn't being destroyed. It's changing, as it has constantly throughout human history. There is nothing inherently masculine about puritanical sexual beliefs and there is broad range of sexual value systems that have been used by various civilizations, most of which are far more permissive than traditional Western values. So the quality of these values, unless we are measuring something specific, is a matter of opinion. There is arguably a lot to be gained from increased sex…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 12:56 PM
3

Girls get buyers remorse and flake after the first bang all the time. You need to fuck them at least 2-3 times before the relationship becomes stabilized. So I assume I should just leave this chick alone and never text her again until she texts me or what? What you need to do now is employ the soft next. Assuming she doesn't reply to you last text, just break all contact with her for a minimum of 2 months. After that point, if she hasn't reached out to you, you can try to rekindle things by text…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:26 PM
2

Dude they all do that shit. At least she told you. THIS. The stuff this girl did is pretty standard for a party girl. The average girl you meet in the club scene has done 90% of this, and some have done far more. Based on the post title I was expecting some kind of epic gang bang. OP, it seems like you understand it would be crazy to expect monogamy to work with this girl. Like all women, she uses sex to get things that she wants. If a guy is hot enough, a sex for sex trade can be made. If he's …
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:19 PM
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I know it isn't news that online dating is stupid and doomed to destroy The Sexual Marketplace Spoken like a true sexual market loser. For a high value man, it's a pussy paradise out there. Don't be a loser. Let the system work for you. Cultivate your OPTIONS because a man with options has power. The Sexual Marketplace can and will take care of itself. Your job as an individual is to maximize your own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:05 PM
1

if anyone of you have advice on how to strike the right balance You gotta let go of the idea that there is some set formula you can find and use forever. The arrangement of priorities that adds up to perfect balance is something that is constantly shifting as the various factors of your life (inner and outer) change and shift over time. The most important thing is developing a high level of self awareness and the ability to let go and allow change to happen in a smooth manner. Pay attention to w…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:31 PM
1

7 hours average Same for me.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:22 PM
1

Am I pedestalizing her and/or looking at her unrealistically? Probably. She certainly sounds great, but you don't have enough experience to realize what else is out there. People don't like to accept this but both men and women are quite replaceable. Things change, people adapt. What are the chances she will change a lot in the next 7-8 years or so as she matures? She WILL change, but more importantly, her attitude towards you WILL change. She has a fantasy in her mind right now of becoming the …
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:53 PM
1

If a girl you know IRL matches you on Tinder, she's DTF. Could likely skip the first date with them since there is already familiarity and just invite them over. There isn't necessarily a problem messaging after 11, girls message me after 11 all the time. Probably don't wanna go much past 12 though, and definitely don't be that thirsty dude trying to make booty calls late night on girls he hasn't even met yet.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:47 PM
1

If want to bed women, not insulting them is a very good idea.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:35 PM
1

After a solid first date I'll text her 24-48 hours after the date to set up the next meet.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:34 PM
1

Well, there are plenty of reasons to keep a girl around if you like her. I agree 100% There is no fixation in what I'm describing. I'm laying out a model to have healthy relationships that grow over time rather than peak and peter out. And I'm trying to tell you that relationships that "peak and peter out" are the nature of human sexuality. That isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as we take a realistic approach. The only issue I take with your model is the core assumption that the ideal roma…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:32 PM
5

Great theory post, Stinger. Kudos! To keep a woman, I contend you must recognize when her values shift and do your best to meet them, because otherwise it becomes exceedingly easy for competing males to meet them. Since a woman is loyal to her needs and not to you, she will discard you the instant she perceives you are making no effort to meet her shifting needs. To this I would ask "WHY keep a woman?". It is my position that men will be much better served in having their needs met by "women" ra…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 08:54 PM
1

It's looking good. Ask for the date. No need to wait when she's enthusiastic like this.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:42 PM
1

Next time you're in a dry spell and really want some pussy, you may, slightly, regret it.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:41 PM
1

agreed to an exclusive FWB until she leaves for home in July. Why? Just why? Man up and learn to tell women no when they ask for stuff like this.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:40 PM
1

Enjoy the easy pussy, my friend. It does not come around that often.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:27 PM
1

Yea...coffee is my go-to first date. Could also do a quick drink, ice cream, anything fast and casual. Should I pay for their coffee since it's something small or pay my own thing? If we're both standing in line for her, I will pay for her coffee. If I show up first and get my own coffee before her, I'll let her pay for herself. Also wasn't sure if it was better to be more on the serious side. I suppose it is. Keep it light. The more she's laughing the better.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 04:24 PM
1

I send out a very generic opener like "hey how's it going?". This will get you fewer responses overall, but the girls that do respond will be more interested. Then a bit of casual chat. I'll try to be funny/witty if I can but don't force it or go over the top with it. After 2-3 message exchanges I'll say "So would you be up to get together some time?". This will weed out the validation seekers. If they are down to meet, I'll set up the date at that point. Some will want to talk a bit more before…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 04:05 PM
1

But I really want to know how to keep the tenacity and the fire going. Play the long game. Just keep moving the ball forward a bit every day. Over the years it will add up. Don't get discouraged if it feels you are not making progress for a bit. This is going the happen. The key thing is not to stop. Take a break and recover if necessary, but keep plugging away as soon as you can.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:56 PM
1

I am so horny I wanna just ask this girl to meet tonight, but idk if that comes off as desperate. Never ask for the same day meet. Comes off as thirsty. her house or mine? I always do a quick first date (less than 1 hour) just to talk bit, then invite to my place for sex on the second date. A lot of girls will go for that who balk at coming to your place for the first meet. Thirst is the attraction killer so do whatever you need to do to keep that under control so you don't rush things. Women wa…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:49 PM
2

according to her she's only had sex with me and one other dude. The thing is, she's wayyyyy too good at sex to be telling the truth about this. Trust your gut. Women lie about their body count ALL THE TIME. She said she wants to move in with me and be my fuck buddy for life. Haha the shit women say...you'd be a fool to let her move in with you, and the sex would dry up slightly sooner than the end of her natural life. She's a little over generous when it comes to talking about how I fuck her. Ag…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:39 PM
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Am I right? Thoughts? She won't be marrying you. Try to get in on some of those family vacations thoughs...gotta be baller af.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:35 PM
2

The night ends and I text them again a few days later and they never respond. You should text a woman the day next after the first time you have sex. Helps them feel less buyers remorse. I've found that a lot of first date fucks tend to disappear. This is because ASD kicks in after the fact and they feel bad for fucking on the first date. If you want more repeat business, try switching to a quick first date (1 hour or less) where you get in and out and don't try for sex and don't kiss them. Then…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:30 PM
6

The world didn't end when Rome collapsed. It won't end when American hegemony does the same. I'd also say "collapse" and "catastrophic" are overly dramatic terms. What will happen is better described as a cyclical decline. For the people who live through this period, there won't be any apocalypse, it will just feel normal.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:21 PM
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I want to note that while sex is a service, it is not to be traded because once you treat sex as a commidity, you lose control of your own self worth. You are just moralizing here with "it is not to be traded." Sex can be and is traded all the time. "You lose control of your self worth" is just more pedantic moralizing. Plenty of people sell/trade sex and manage to keep on with their lives just fine. Besides, both parties benefit from sex, not just one person. The man benefits significantly more…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:10 PM
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You cognitively understand that, you just haven't fully internalized it. That's part of the process. This. Rejection stings. There is no getting around that. But the more dating you do, especially the more online dating in this scenario, the more you realize that rejecting men is just what women do and you shouldn't take it personally. Women reject men on these apps all day long. Even guys that are very attractive, and very good at online dating, get rejected and flaked on like this all the time…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:42 PM
2

If I go on a date with her, I will usually pay, unless she is enthusiastic about splitting. It's OK, even beneficial to spend on a girl, but only if it's a LITTLE bit of money, like one drink, or one coffee. Asking her to split when she is expecting me to pay to has created some extremely awkward situations and cost me a couple second date opportunities. Many women won't mind, but some will take it as a major insult. For optimal results I don't recommend it.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:37 PM
1

Aren't you just causing damage? The idea that you're a scumbag abuser if you have sex with women but don't commit is just pure Blue Pill bullshit. No one ever says a word about women who dump their monogamous boyfriends with wicked oneitis. Not a single tear is shed for those guys. My two rules are 1) never outright lie. It's cool to dodge questions and give vague answers but telling a direct lie crosses the line. 2) Never intentionally do harm. If I see a girl is catching hard feelings for me, …
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:29 PM
1

You shouldn't be inviting any of these women you just started seeing to a house warming party. That type of stuff is only for legit girlfriends and if you haven't banged yet there's a decent chance it scares them off, or at least quickens the betaization process.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:14 PM
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You'll find out quickly whether or not she's serious or just having fun on a dating app. Based on her behavior pattern this is high likelihood she is just teasing you and has no intention of meeting up.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:12 PM
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I know, mostly comes from experience That's really all there is to it. Once you bang some hot ones, then get them into relationships and bang them enough that you actually start to get bored of them and realize all their personality issues, you realize that there is no magical pussy worth sacrificing your manly independence for. But this takes a lot of time and effort in the game. Most guys never get there, and will always lose their mind around a hot enough woman. One key is to make sure that y…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:29 PM
1

But if a man sleeps around with a bunch of women, he's a scumbag. Yep...any time you find yourself buying into this line of thinking, questioning your own morality for having sex with women and not offering commitment, you are getting sucked back into the social programming again. Those are the type of thoughts you have to kill to get free.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:07 PM
1

Progressivism is the opposite of political individualism. There is a major difference between independence and individualism. Progressives worship individualism but loathe independence.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:32 PM
2

Today, men like that are a bad deal; they are more likely to go to prison, die, beat her up, or all three. They were always a bad deal, but getting beat up is a better deal than getting killed for refusing sex. Makes sense that females would evolve a tendency to make themselves sexually available to violent men for this survival advantage. We have some instincts we need to unlearn. Instincts (pre-programmed behaviors) face the same Darwinian selection process as physical characteristics. All thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 11:22 PM
1

Yep...also makes flakes less likely. And if it turns out she is gonna flake, you know that much sooner and don't get surprised the day of the date.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:28 PM
1

Since we are in askTRP, not askkingofpoplives, perhaps it's better to refrain from stating opinions that run against TRP core theory. I would argue that "never LTR" does not run against "TRP core theory" but is one of many valid sub-strategies encapsulated within it. But yea...I could have been more specific and said "never enter a monogamous LTR" which is a more accurate description of my actual position.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:28 PM
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You talk all stern like you're an authority figure appointed to police TRP...but you're not. Notice I never claimed to represent all of TRP in my comment. I merely stated an opinion. You are the one overstepping your position. But clearly this dialogue will be amount to nothing...sigh.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 08:07 PM
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Wow you sound square af bet you bore the girls to tears smh
/r/askTRP19/05/15 07:42 PM
2

This should work out well then. Never directly state that the two of you will be having sex. This triggers heavy ASD and sends them running away. With this one, I might make a few days and send out a random message as if she never ignored you. I've salvaged a few this way. But in any case. Don't waste time worrying about online dating prospects that drop off. Even if your game is perfect, many will drop off all the time for no reason. It's just what women do. Just keep working the numbers game a…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 06:38 PM
4

The knife cuts both ways. Maladaptive female mating preferences can also cause extinction.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:06 PM
1

I don't disagree. It's doable. It's just not necessarily optimal. By keeping the relationship open you can delay the fizzling and have options already in place when it ends which removes the major downside for the guy.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 05:26 PM
6

we're in some phase of unplugging from the matrix of social programming and outright lies that had long been integrated into our lives. TRP has elements of spiritual awakening -- the release from delusion and the opening up of the ability to perceive the truth of reality. I believe one's progress in understanding and becoming a successful RP man necessarily goes through stages of advancement. There are things you'll read today that won't make a dent in your RP psyche, but in 6 months... it'll be…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:22 PM
2

I need somebody that I can invest some emotion in, mostly because I feel emotionally empty, and a single person would serve easiest. You don't need an LTR to invest emotion -- that belief is just societal programming. A single person might be easiest, but the monogamy factor almost always leads to problems after a number of months, maybe a few years best case scenario. This may be something you need to learn through experience though... Getting girls means leaving your room and socializing, goin…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 04:59 PM
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This all depends on her relationship with the roommate. It's entirely possible two of them could laugh together about that time she invited that cool guy off tinder to cuck betabux. The fact she is inviting OP to her place shows she likely does not care if roomate thinks she's a cheater.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:50 PM
2

Why do you want an LTR? With enough skill you can get everything you want outside of an LTR with none of the downsides.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:45 PM
2

Definitely reschedule. Yea, just tell her you're sick and offer alternate time for the date. If she likes you this shouldn't be a problem.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:38 PM
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Break up with her and start dating many other women. but feel if I break up with her I am going to be distraught This is what happens when you do an LTR. You become emotionally dependent on the woman.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:34 PM
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They most likely met on some dating app if she won't tell you. But really who cares if she doesn't wanna say you sound like a creepy orbiter with this.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:32 PM
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If you "don't wanna lose her" you're already acting beta af.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:30 PM
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Text 2-3 days before to confirm and chat a little to build comfort is my policy when there is a longish gap before the date like this.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:26 PM
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which is why I think going full-on-sexual might not work. Not so. Because she is passive, she NEEDS you to be the initiator. You need to be somewhat tactful about it, but that is what she wants. So get sexual with her. She'll put up some resistance. Back off for a bit so she feels comfortable. Then initiate again, taking it a bit farther. She may put up resistance again. Back off again. Repeat the cycle until sex, or if it gets obvious it isn't gonna happen that night just leave.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:48 PM
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What's wrong with me? How do I stop these beta tendencies. You have limited yourself to one woman to satisfy all your sexual needs. This has made you incredibly dependent on this one woman. Because of this dependency, a sign that she might leave you has triggered your neediness. This is nothing wrong with you. This happens to ALL men who enter monogamous LTRs. How do I stop these beta tendencies. Get out of the LTR. Cultivate a multitude of sexual relationships so you are not dependent on any si…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:42 PM
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Enjoy the fun, but don't LTR. Never LTR! And for the love of god get start seeing some other women in addition to her.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:31 PM
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"Boyfriend" actually means very little. People like to pretend like it's a sacred oath, but if a woman finds another man very attractive, well, you've just seen how much it really means. Generally the younger a woman is, the less the word "boyfriend" will mean to her. What just happened to you isn't uncommon at all. You just had some of your Disney ideas about women destroyed, but that's just your own naivete. Things have always been like this, and this particular girl really isn't any better or…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:25 PM
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She was on tinder with a boyfriend. She's looking to cheat with the right guy. Anything she says is shit test material only. THIS Plus the fact she is letting a random from Tinder come straight over her house for the first meet. As long as you can disarm her token resistance she'll be DTF.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:13 PM
1

Yes, women get jealous and mate guard as well.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 08:34 PM
2

No. It shows neediness. This. Ask them to do obviously romantic stuff with you. If they say yes, they like you. If they say no or maybe, they don't. If you are even thinking about asking this question, it usually means a girl you have fallen for is showing signs she doesn't want you, and that rejection is triggering neediness. When you actually ask "do you like me?" it comes off super needy and puts the "nail in the coffin" for her attraction. But, hey...at least you'll know for sure it's over a…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 07:56 PM
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A man gets a woman wet by being needy and showing his emotional side? No, sorry, didn't happen. It's more complicated than "showing emotional side" equals "turned off" woman. Actually, the exact opposite effect happens all the time. The situation is different because the guy getting emotional is not the provider-mate of the female. She doesn't need Dad to be "her rock" so his emotional vulnerability is less off-putting. In this case, the sheer power of his emotions is transferring over to her, p…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:58 PM
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How do I steer the date so that it works in my favor? You need to keep working on your Outcome Independence. The best thing you can do for this is schedule dates with many different women.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:22 PM
1

"Afraid because I might try, or because you want me to try?
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:20 PM
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My gut says this is a bad idea as it gives off a clingy vibe, but my dick says talk to her now and see what happens When guys forsake the wisdom of TRP because of dick urges, that's when they fuck things up. You should cut the convo short and absolutely do not ask her to hang out before the scheduled time.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:19 PM
2

Yes, exactly. The thing about abundance mentality though, is that it isn't just mental thing -- it's a reflection of your options. If you become monogamous it ALWAYS disappears because you have limited yourself to only one woman.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 02:48 PM
1

If you're only fucking one woman, you will become dependent on her for sex and emotional validation, and that will eventually wreck your frame and turn you into a needy beta. Sexual dependency does this to ALL men.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:11 PM
2

I love her and I want to settle down and drop frame for a minute and try to connect in a different way... is that too much to ask this late in life? Yes, that is too much to ask. Men must perform. ALWAYS. Until we die. Why is she constantly in the position where this guy can spit endless amounts of game on her? Obviously, she likes the attention. I don't know what to tell you. Every guy with a hot LTR is going to be put in this position at some point. This is what fucking sucks about agreeing to…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:09 PM
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is it possible to easily downgrade her? It's nearly impossible to go from being a girl's beta boyfriend back to being her alpha fuck buddy. And yes, almost 100% of boyfriend's are beta, act beta, or eventually become beta as the LTR progresses. The only ones that aren't are the ones that cheat, or who are smart enough to never agree to monogamy. The agreement of monogamy is inherently beta, by definition. If you wanna give it a shot, you need to re-pattern the relationship to be non-exclusive. C…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 11:46 AM
1

I've gone for the first date kiss before and didn't end well. The problem with the first date kiss is that in many cases, it is high risk, low reward. If she is strongly telegraphing she is into you (initiating kino, basically drooling over you) then it's fine. But if things haven't gotten that physical yet, and you go for it and it's awkward, or worse, she turns her head, things end on that shitty note and it becomes very hard to recover from that. Certain girls will even flake after a successf…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:38 PM
1

Once you lose your virginity you'll learn that it has zero significance who you lost it to. This was my experience. Lost my v-card in a drunken one night stand. Never saw the girl again. Don't regret it all. Rarely ever think about it. Do what feels right, OP. But if you do end up going for it, I'd say the downside risk is quite small. Men very rarely regret sex.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:04 AM
0

Is there any satanists in TPR? Never seen it explicitly mentioned, but I agree, the "do whatever you want, sexual strategy is amoral" faction of TRP is a close ethical match for LaVey's brand of satanism. Most likely those types of guys are unconsciously satanist in their actions, although there are likely a few more active and intentional satanists around as well.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:59 AM
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Most importantly -- DO NOT compliment her appearance in any way. Do not try to please or impress her. Just be a cool relaxed guy, confident in his own skin. Getting her number to set up a second date sounds good, but I strongly advise against kissing her on the first date. Unless it is going to lead directly to sex, the first date kiss is not helpful and can actually cause a lot of problems.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:53 AM
1

Is she looking to get dicked? Yes. They have been together for about 5 months now and based on social media the dude is a bit beta. 5 months is plenty of time for this dude's beta game to kill all attraction and have her craving alpha. Scumbag move on her part, but this is not all that uncommon.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:48 AM
1

You have oneitis. Yea...that's what will happen when you get one girl that is significantly hotter than what you're used to. Key thing is to avoid becoming exclusive with her (even though you want to) and combat the oneitis by continuing to pursue other women.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:45 AM
1

Maybe sometimes those unconscious periods are part of the progress too. I agree, they definitely are.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:29 AM
2

let's not fool ourselves into thinking 9/10 guys need much game at all. I don't disagree a 9/10 guy with 5/10 game can probably lay 7-8s quite easily, maybe even a few 9's. But if his game is 1/10, that is still gonna drive off most very attractive women. You're underestimating how much of a detraction shitty game can be. But yea, a guy who is very good looking, and whose game is at least neutral will do quite well. Once you get above 9, those women have so many options they truly expect the com…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:28 AM
2

Just completely ignore that statement and change the subject immediately.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:26 PM
1

Yea...when they try to dump you like this and you act like you couldn't care less it sends the hamster into overdrive. In many cases, she will actually change her mind and start pursuing you again.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:05 PM
1

Don't respond at all then hit her up after a month like she never said anything.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:22 PM
2

On the contrary, when a woman identifies a BB, she can readily behave like her true self around him because she knows she can get away with it. I guess this depends on how we define "true self". Women are far more open and honest around Alphas, who they know are not gonna commit so they don't even try. What they are around betas (ones who they feel are sufficiently locked down) are bitchy, demanding, and otherwise disagreeable. In the same way when a woman identifies a BB, she similarly turns in…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:09 PM
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What you need is a better system for getting these women into bed. There should be no 3rd, 4th, 5th date. By participating in these dates you are jumping straight into their frame. It should be a cheap, short first date, then second date is sex at your place. If a woman balks at second date sex date at your place, then just stop talking to her. Many will change their tune when they realize they've been dropped. I'm generally hitting on women in their late 20s to mid 30s. You'll also do better hi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:01 PM
1

They will pretend it IS what they want, but deep down they are wanting something else, and this anger will come out in various ways. This is a very valid point and in many cases, the only option will be a permanent next. No doubt, you will need to do A LOT of dating to find women compatible with the open relationship lifestyle. The relationships will also have a shorter shelf life because of the issues you described. But the thing is -- you don't care. You have 2-3 other women so if one leaves, …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:18 PM
2

why are men the ones who propose? Shouldn't it be the other way around? Men might do the "proposing" but I think you if you looked at who instigates and demands that proposal, you'd find women initiating in most cases.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:24 PM
3

What are your thoughts on this? As women, they've fully internalize the righteousness of the Feminine Imperative. In staying congruent with that, they believe all men should become good beta provider husbands. Mothers always want grand children as well, which they're more likely to get from a beta provider.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:22 PM
6

This. I have rarely seen a more brazen example of a woman throwing herself at a guy.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:18 PM
9

By a 5? No. By an 8-10? Yes. Also, if your frame is terribly needy that will drive off almost any woman.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:16 PM
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is there an optimal way to approach The Red Pill, taking this into account? With as much self awareness as possible. The Red Pill is like an instruction manual with technical specifications for romantic relationships. It's the way this information is put into practice that will determine if it's liberating of limiting. A lot of TRP guys have issues connected to romantic relationships, and this can easily lead to obsession with TRP and dating and sex in general. But, participating in TRP is also …
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:15 PM
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Girls are playing the field much more than they would have you believe. This. I mean, there's even a saying that "a girl needs to keep her options open." Women are great at playing the field while making men (who they want commitment from) think they aren't. Many will also keep playing the field (eye out for a branch swing) after a monogamous relationship starts, or starting playing the field again as soon as the new relationship energy wears off and things start to get stale. As a man, you can'…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:03 PM
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a lot of guys around here say that polyamory only benefits the woman If this is already a monogamous relationship, and the woman wants to open it up, the guy is almost always miserably beta, and the result is usually her fucking around, but him not being able to get any action. So that scenario is where the negative sentiment comes from on TRP. My experience has been that MANY women will "go along with" an open relationship, but aren't HAPPY about it, and therefore, will be a constant pain in th…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:40 PM
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She keeps trying to send me away but I keep insisting and eventually we go up to her place. First date ASD is super high for MANY girls. She straight up told you this, but you decided to push for it anyways. These same girls will happily fuck you with zero ASD on the second date. A good number of girls will next you for pushing for first date sex even if they're attracted because it raises their "player" red flags. Even if you are able to get through ASD, it usually takes a number of hours to do…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 06:47 PM
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I had a spare hour waiting for a dealer so i picked her up and we drove around. Should've banged her. That was your chance. You didn't make your move so now she thinks you're not her "type".
/r/askTRP14/05/15 06:37 PM
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Women suck off the Alphas they want to keep around and cease giving head to Betas they can do without. I don't disagree, but I wonder to how best to account for woman to woman variation. Does every single woman turn into a blow job queen for the right alpha? Do certain women prefer to date betas who they can keep around without giving blow jobs? Are blow job queens born or made? What is the secret of long time married guys who still get regular BJs? Does hot woman turn an alpha into a beta if sh…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:26 PM
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Do what you want, but to her you're a beta. Most guys are beta at that stage in a relationship though, so it's pretty normal.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:16 PM
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What would you say a good rate is? Every time you have sex as foreplay. At least a couple times a month dedicated bj.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:06 PM
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Each gender has its own power source. Sex for women. Commitment for men. A person can tilt the game in their favor by refusing to surrender their power source and/or only giving it up under a set of very strict conditions that they find favorable. So as a man, the key to winning the dating game is to never give commitment. If you do this, you can have multiple women and always be acting from a position of power and abundance. It is amazing how much beta neediness is triggered by accepting monoga…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:59 PM
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Good luck. The suckiest thing about monogamy is that it actively generates neediness -- you are dependent on that one woman to meet 100% your sexual and emotional needs. Of course you are gonna get worked up over anything that implies you might lose her. Getting some side action can ease this problem, but then you have the inevitable cheating drama to worry about.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:37 PM
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We're in a long distance relationship Facepalm. It's definitely true that she isn't cheating- it's logistically impossible. Maybe...with that one guy. A couple minutes later she drops a bombshell on me, which is that she is pregnant with my kid and she has planned to get an abortion next week. Yea...if she's actually pregnant, there's a good chance that kid isn't yours. My advice is break up with her (after the abortion is secured, doesn't matter if it's yours or not at the moment) and date loca…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:34 PM
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My gay friend yesterday told me it's probably because I'm needy as well and should stop doing that. Your friend is right. A neediness issue matches with the problem of being able to attract women, but always losing them within a month or so. Sure sex is nice and all, but I'd rather have a LTR. Your dilemma is that, in order to get the LTR you want, you need to develop the inner strength to be 100% OK on your own. Once you do that, the relationship will appear.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:58 PM
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Am I a huuuuge sucker? My read is that she sees you as a placeholder guy. She thinks she can do better, and is actively looking to trade up, but wants the benefits of having a bf in the mean time. So she keeps you around, treating you kinda shitty, while simultaneously arranging that branch swing. If you wanna stick with it while it lasts for the sex, then just go along. Personally, I bounce when I start to get this vibe. I can't stand the disrespect. Or better yet, never become monogamous so sh…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:54 PM
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This is just standard monogamy drama. As long as you are in the monogamous relationship, you are gonna be paranoid that she has the eyes for some other dude. Maybe she'll cheat, maybe she won't. Maybe she won't cheat, but just dump you for being too needy. Either accept this and live with it or don't do monogamy. My only advice -- do whatever you need to do to avoid being needy. The thinking behind this post is full of needy.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:48 PM
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A normal human will default to biological instinct and have multiple relationships throughout their lives when living outside the bounds of religion and culture, such as in the free society we live in today. Yes, you've nailed it here. This is an area where I believe standard TRP dogma is off base. Modern culture hasn't "corrupted women". It's permissiveness has merely allowed us to revert back to our natural biological programming. So the bad news is, no matter how "LTR worthy" a woman you find…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:32 PM
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Id say women are worse suited to monogamy and emotional intimacy than men are. It's the hardest part of the pill to swallow. People find this hard to believe because women want monogamy and push hard for it, but they only want it for a limited time, usually 3-4 years max. This is the biologically wired mating timeline. After that they are wired to be repulsed by their monogamous partner.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:02 PM
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there are plenty of good looking girls here. Go after some of those other girls. Maybe things will improve with this one after you are out of her parental home, but as things stand now that entire situation is something you should avoid.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:53 PM
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Women spin plates instinctively. This. This is why agreeing to monogamy is just playing into the woman's frame. She will keep spinning plates (keeping her options open), but since she won't fuck these plates (until the branch swing) it's not technically cheating. Guys take the relationship at face value, stopping spinning plates, become 100% dependent on that one woman, and thus become beta bitches.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:49 PM
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Some women are too fragile to deal with it, and they will hamster other reasons why you aren't fucking them, then sabotage things or self destruct. This. Some women, especially the most attractive ones, will lose their shit if you do or say anything that implies that they are not attractive. Refusing sex falls into this category. Their ego is so tied up in their good looks that it cannot handle any challenges on that front. This also ties into why negs work so well...but only on very hot women.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:47 PM
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why is this It's similar to the reason that a guy won't want a relationship with a girl if she fucks him the first time they meet. If you give up the goods too easily (commit, fall in love, become too available), that triggers the thought that there must be something wrong with you and that she can do better. Yea, it sucks but that's life.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:43 PM
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If we're talking about spinning plates and doing it REALLY well, the hard part isn't getting women to have sex with you (that's just getting in the game). The hard part is having sex with really hot women that you feel emotions for and STILL having the resolve to keep the relationship non-exclusive. When you accomplish this you can then achieve the holy grail of multiple hot non-exclusive girlfriends. Level 1 = getting laid Level 2 = getting laid by hot women, but repeatedly getting roped into m…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:32 PM
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This is the equivalent of a girl letting a guy fuck her, then trying to put him back into the friendzone. Very few people are gonna be amenable to that type of down grade.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:24 PM
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Shes one of my plates now, so I obviously handled it well enough You did well, but that wasn't a shit test. It was ASD triggered by your buddy asking if you'd fucked her yet over the phone. She was just trying to save face by acting like she wasn't planning to give it up all along.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:52 PM
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Get off your high horse and maybe you will learn something about how the world really works.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 02:40 PM
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Sorry for the rant, but it blows my mind that women in the 27-40 range get more demanding of their partners with age. It takes a beautiful woman 10 years to realize how much power she has over men. It takes another 10 for her to realize tingles are ephemeral, decide she wants real status, and learn how to leverage her beauty to get it. The irony is that by the time she knows how to use it, her beauty is already wilting. You see these 35 year old former hotties with epic checklists for the men th…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:58 PM
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My advice on 9's and 10's. Plate them with solid game. Then move on. They make shitty girlfriends. It's really true. Women like this are ALWAYS looking to trade up unless you are truly the complete package -- and if that's the case they become a dime a dozen. Enjoy the pooty but don't be their placeholder guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:43 PM
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...somebody is grumpy today :P
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:25 PM
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everyone is concerned at the right frequency "Right frequency" is relative. Compared to the past, sex takes up far more bandwidth in everyday life today than it did a few generations ago. Same was true for Roman culture towards the end, enjoy the decline and all that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:13 PM
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Both sexes are sex obsessed, period. This. The OP should be removed for concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 03:11 PM
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Meh...I don't think this is true. In this day and age, the vast majority of women will date non-exclusively for an extended period of time, especially if you know how to frame things to sound reasonable. You aren't relegating her to "plate" status, you are taking your time because exclusivity is a very serious step for you. Women will push for commitment quickly, but that's really just a power play. They'll value a man more if he holds out. I've made the mistake of becoming exclusive with women …
/r/askTRP10/05/15 01:14 PM
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Alright, so I moved in with my girlfriend of about 4 months. 4 months? I facepalmed hard. You need to read this: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/ I don't want to be the bunny caregiver, soft bf that she comes home to, while she's secretly wanting to get pounded by someone who isn't so tied down and emasculated. You may not want it, but that is the exact position that you've put yourself in. You've given up your independence and allowed your gf to inject her furry friend directl…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 12:56 PM
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Just hit her up to hang out in a few days. Although don't be surprised if she flakes out and does not become a plate. Some girls will feel bad about giving it up so fast and won't wanna see you again. Or maybe she has a bf, u never know.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 12:48 PM
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It's pretty common. You can also be proactive and text her out of the blue to rekindle things after a period of no contact. As long as you left things opened ended, she'll probably be open to catching up with you again, and you'll back on her radar should she want some dick, especially one that won't raise her N count.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:42 PM
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This girl just licked the asshole of a strange 25 year old after talking to him for like an hour... Is it just me or are young girls getting more kink-obsessed on a daily basis? Seems like ass play is now the bare standard and pretty much all of them are into some type of BDSM.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 05:00 PM
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Seriously...way too much effort to get laid. WAY. What's also missing from OP's date strategy is an epic sense of sexual entitlement. When a guy expects (demands) the full suite of sexual favors for zero effort, she knows she's found a pre-selected alpha. Hence the power of "skittles" and "bring the movies" game.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:55 PM
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The modern wars will be purely cerebral, and TRP is merely the first guys to draft themselves into the "Rebellion." The feminists are the sith lords, jealous of our lightsabers I love this metaphor and think there's a lot of truth to it. A great deal of external and internal success in the modern world stems from one's ability to throw off parasitic mind control (ideologies and meme complexes that take more than they give), recognize the truth of reality, and act on it for personal benefit.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:46 PM
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The funny thing is that most researchers are puzzled that sex partners are down. But Red Pill seems to see what is happening in that you have many Betas who aren't getting sex. Yea, I think what is driving this is sexual market losers (bottom 80%) taking their ball and going home to drown their problems in booze, pot, video games, internet porn, web surfing, and Netflix. There are more ways to stay comfortable and keep yourself distracted from the lack of sexual success than ever before.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:29 PM
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You've got yourself a stonewaller: Stonewalling. In relationships where intense arguments break out suddenly, and where criticism and contempt lead to defensiveness, and where more contempt leads to more defensiveness, eventually one partner tunes out. This is the beginning of stonewalling. The stonewaller acts as if he (research indicates that 85% of stonewallers in marriages are husbands) couldn’t care less about what the partner is saying or doing. He (sometimes she) turns away from conflict …
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:47 PM
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How do you keep frame under a lot of stress? Stress will always make it harder to hold frame. So the key to better frame control is avoidance or negation of stress. You have a couple options: Avoid situations the lead to stress accumulation Learn techniques that allow you to dissipate stress so it can't accumulate -- stuff like yoga, meditation, exercise, breathing techniques, etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:43 PM
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I don't encounter a lot of HB10's, nor is my succes rate 100%. Meeting very few HB10's raises the investment as well (when you finally meet one, ..). Higher quality women are always going to be a much harder test of frame than lesser quality women. That's just how it works. It actually doesn't seem like you have terrible oneitis. If you did, this whole post would have been about getting your ex back. My read is that you're frustrated that you can't to get another LTR with a woman of equal qualit…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:38 PM
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Great stuff. Definitely worthy of standalone post on the main sub. Eventually, some guys come to the realization that once you break into a certain level of girl, it can seem, from a certain perspective, to be....all the same. And the effort or time required to keep all that shit up could be spent on other areas of life. There are various different layers to TRP. The first one is being able to get laid consistently. The next is being able to get laid by girls you find very attractive. The next i…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:24 PM
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So how do I convince my psyche that today wasn't a fail? You're harboring feelings of inadequacy. The truth is, even if you get laid a lot, it won't make those feelings go away (though it does provide temporary distraction). So the problem isn't the lack of sex, it's the presence of negative emotions that are stuck and won't resolve. Healing this type of stuff is one of the main goals of spiritual practice. Meditation, self reflection, digging in and trying to face these emotions (rather than re…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 01:54 PM
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Check out a post I made using some basic bell curve distributions. Are we sure that female beauty follows a bell curve distribution? That would make very unattractive women extremely rare as well. Yet, mainly due to aging and weight issues, there are a fuck ton of very unattractive women out there. I'm not sure the distribution is normal, so then the implied rarity of a 10 may not be as extreme. Also, if we're using a bell curve model, then a perfect 10 would be a great deal more rare than a 9.5…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:29 PM
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Nah, 5 is average. 6 is somewhat cute. 7 is very cute. 8 is hot. 9 is rare level of hot. 10 is extremely rare level of hot.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:23 PM
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At a house party a while ago a girl came up to me and goes "why'd you delete me? As an interesting sidebar, Facebook Deletion Game could be a thing.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:58 PM
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If she doesn't give her number it wasn't gonna work anyways. One thing to watch out for it that a girl like this will often give a guy her number, agree to hang out, but then try wrangle him into orbit by shifting frame into a platonic hang out. You want to make sure your intentions are very clear, but communicated covertly. Ask her to do something that's clearly a date (one on one) and be sure to escalate. If the interaction is non-sexual, you'll just become another orbiter.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:56 PM
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Asked a girl to come over to watch a movie. She didn't directly said no. If you made a clear invitation and she didn't say yes, then she effectively said no. What should I do? Find some new prospects. The interest level on this one is low.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:50 PM
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every time i get into LTR i fall into that trap Biologically, this is what we're wired for. Even the most hardened TRP veteran is going to experience oneitis-type thoughts during the rabid sex phase of a new relationship. Just stay self aware and recognize those thoughts are not rational, are driven by hormones, and will fade as soon as the hormones fade. Do not make any major decisions when you are in that state. I also get jealous as fuck. This is a biology driven mate guarding instinct. What …
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:44 PM
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Problems with your rating system: 10's do exist, or else it's just a 9 point system What you call a 9 is actually a 10. Because of the above error, you have to jam 8's and 9's into what you call an 8. Then there is a huge gap between an 8 (hot) and a 7 (cute)
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:30 PM
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I've never had the girl say she's not interested in hookups and then right away send me dirty pics like that. Plus then she regrets sending them but then really wants to meet me soon? I've experienced similar before. In all likelihood, she has mental health issues. If you do meet up with her, expect a mixture of severe anti-slut defense and rapid escalation. If you can endure this yoyo-ing she will suck and fuck you like a fiend...but then insist she wants a relationship and can't have casual se…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:51 PM
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What do you guys consider high maintenance? Constantly complaining.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:40 PM
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IMHO I don't think anything would go down while she's on vacation if her sisters are that conservative. If they were really that conservative, they would never plan a trip to a place like Cancun. There is a disconnect here between words and action. There are many beaches in the world that are not orgiastic party spots as well.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:38 PM
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Actually engaging with women is how you test your true level of Alpha. The higher SMV of the woman, the harder the test. It's easy to feel perfectly alpha when you remain untested, but it's just an illusion. Dating is the stress test the reveals the weaknesses in your structure. Use the weaknesses that get exposed as feedback to get better.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:33 PM
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This. I've only experienced regret after orgasm when I lowered by standards (physically and personality wise) to break a dry spell.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:28 PM
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Telling your man he gives you the best orgasms ever is standard women behavior. They see it as a white lie that makes the relationship better. A whole lotta truth in this comment. Women are geniuses at dropping statements here and there that flatter the male ego and allow a man to believe what he desperately wants to believe. Besides the "best lover" stuff another common theme is sexual purity. Being a "great lover" and having found a "good girl" are two things every guy wants to believe. It's i…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:22 PM
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I always hard to say whether something is paranoia or a justified suspicion. Given that you spend limited time together, there is definitely space for her to cheat or shop for a branch swing if she wants. I ran into a similar issue in a past relationship. This girl worked in finance, so was surrounded by alpha type guys every day. She also liked to go out. On top of this she was 23, had an insane body, and liked to wear the hottest little dresses to flaunt it. I just couldn't crush the nagging f…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:02 PM
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Really, she wasn't into anything all that crazy. Sexually, she just wanted to be pounded from behind, as hard as possible, all the time. She couldn't get into anything else. She couldn't orgasm, and got very insecure and shut down whenever the topic of her orgasm came up. She had a lot of family and childhood issues. Deep fear of abandonment from her father ditching the family for months at a time to live with mistresses. A brother who she had a violent relationship with. A history of deep emoti…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 08:50 PM
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Are these shit tests, or are they legitimate red flags? I had a girl who like to play this game. She would bring up stuff about sex with past lovers, sexual fantasies about other men, etc. My read is that it's a sort of combination between a shit test and also a type of kink. First, it's a test to see how you reaction emotionally. Second, girls will do this to drive you into a jealous rage because they love to get rage fucked. It goes without saying, this shit comes along with serious issues. It…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:56 PM
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That everything she is saying is a lie to keep me complacent. What's triggering these feelings? Does she spend a lot of time around male co-workers? Go out on a lot of girl's nights? If you are having a gut-level reaction to something, there may be a basis for your concerns. In the past, you might have just been more willing to deny these feelings. If everything above board with her, you just need to come to grips with the risks of a relationship and learn to live with it.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:45 PM
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Women don't understand the importance of this and, resentful of how this hierarchy dampened their career prospects, have created laws dismantling the natural hierarchy that existed within the free-market economic engine - the alleged boys club. I tend to think women are also "useful idiots" in this scenario, with feminism actually serving the needs of the global-corporate structure. You could call this "capitalism" as it's driven by economic interests, but it is far from a free market, and has m…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:36 PM
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I appreciate the high level vocab, and agree that it can lead to more refined and efficient communication. If it goes over the heads of the "unwashed" so what?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 06:38 PM
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Being a traveler or being involved with people who are traveling is one of the most effective ways to de-escalate while still maintaining theoretical sexual access, in my experience. Right. I think the key is that it avoids a "rejection moment." The relationship is coded as temporary from day one, so there is so cause for hard feelings when de-escalation is initiated, therefore there is no negative triggering when the opportunity for re-connection presents itself. When a woman is highly infatuat…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:28 PM
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We are no longer at war. This is a time of peace. The world is not falling apart. And, according to some, we are currently living in the most peaceful era in human history. Externally, I agree. However, I feel we're in the midst of a spiritual war being fought beneath the surface of external reality. While basic survival is laughably easy, avoiding the soul-destroying traps of modernity has become increasingly difficult. Remember, it's all about the feels. And in a society that experiences such …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 01:22 PM
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Alpha widow Yea, you know it was bad if this dude put her into therapy. Serious red flag. Also, now she's now got a taste for hardcore S&M. Odds are she'll go looking for that again some day. Once people go down that rabbit hole, regular sex just doesn't quite hit the spot anymore.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 08:59 PM
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A couple things have worked for me to some degree: If you're a drinker, having a few drinks can help a lot. Like Danedina said, just come as fast as you want. If you don't wait too long before starting round 2, you should be able to last a lot longer. Fuck her really slowly, backing off every time you feel close to coming. Like just wait there with your dick inside her, feeling everything as much as possible. As you do this you want to try to relax the tension in your dick because that is what i…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 03:32 PM
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The real issue here is will you feel you've missed out if you don't end up having kids? A solid guy in his 50s or 60s can always find a woman (often a lot younger) for companionship. The thing you can't do as easily at that age is start a family. TRP theory includes nothing about not having kids, so really, this is not a problem with TRP. It's a problem with the conditions of the modern society making it far more difficult and risky for the average guy to get married and have a family. It guess …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:54 PM
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I'm interested in discussing the details of how this game is best played. A few initial thoughts: GF screening game is definitely the way to go. You want to screen carefully before allowing entrainment to be triggered. It's also not going to be worthwhile if the level of attraction is too low on your end. I only consider going for this if I can see myself wanting to have marathon sex with a woman. If it would just be a once off thing, I don't even bother with that anymore. Most major red flags s…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:32 PM
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If you are able to maintain self-awareness throughout the process (especially during sex; e.g., tantric sex), you can enjoy this wild sex without allowing irrational entrainment to take place. I think the tantric angle, as well the light/dark magic angle you mentioned earlier, are key to this process, and also key to unlocking "jedi level" seduction and sexual skills. There is no doubt that trance is key to all forms of magic and manipulation, and sex, with all the energy inherent in that act, i…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:13 PM
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Doing these things purposely in order to prompt your girl into fucking you wildly - this is a whole new level of game we're discussing here. Exactly. This is what excites me about this line of analysis. It's a new wrinkle in between plate spinning and established LTR game. In a sense it is more "beta" than plate spinning because you are hinting at commitment, but at the same time, you are extracting a sweeter nectar. There is a chasm of quality between plate sex and brand new gf sex. I think the…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:11 AM
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I'm not sure why so many people here appear to be stoked about Pump and Dump sex. It's chemically less rewarding and thus logically less valuable. Pair-bonding sex is much more enjoyable. However, it is also much more dangerous You do a good job answering you own question here. Pair bonding sex is high risk, high reward. Much higher highs, but much more potential emotional wreckage. Thus, my advice: practice having really good sex in a way that is mindfully aware so that you don't become emotion…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 09:46 PM
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Once you get to know that 'attitude' (the 'look' and bullshit comes with it!) you can often tell. Care to elaborate more on this? I'd love to up my game when it comes to spotting these types in the wild.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:14 PM
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How long were you together for? How long ago was the break up? I was in an LTR of 4 years, and after the break up I was more or less an emotional wreck for 8-9 months. Sometimes you just need more time to recover. Emotional wounds take time to heal just like physical ones. Also, don't worry about dating until you feel like you're back to being yourself. The messed up emotional state is just going to screw up anything that comes along anyways. Nothing wrong with forgetting about women for a few m…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:09 PM
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Sex will always be a battle to see who can get the other person to care more. The ravenous sex stage is a neural-network rewiring phase, during which both partners foreplay and fuck like crazy, and in so doing become entrained to empathize with the other’s emotional state. Fascinating post, and thanks for the acknowledgement. You are on to a crucial insight here with the "entrainment" process. Entrainment is a great term to describe this, as I've observed a hypnotic-like effect in my own early s…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 04:55 PM
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I think locking a woman's DESIRE down for a whole lifetime or any extremely large duration is just a pipe dream and we should all accept that every single girl out there can at some point lose desire for us. There is a lot of truth in this statement, and think the reverse is true as well. Desire, at it's very core, requires excitement, newness, novelty, etc. There is just no possibility that the sex you're having several years into a relationship will be on par with the pair bonding sex you expe…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:37 PM
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Even the girls who were intelligent never said more than information they simply parroted from whatever source they knew. I've never met a woman who engages topics from multiple points of view and weighs the arguments and facts. This is my experience as well. Many women are clever enough, which is how they do so well in academia, but their motivations are far different from men. For women, there is always some social angle to the discourse. They're only motivated to collect information when it w…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:27 PM
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should I be happy/elated when getting a girl's number? Not really. Girls often give out fake numbers or ignore when you actually call or text. Better to save the celebration for when they actually agree to the date, or better yet, for when they allow you to penetrate.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 06:14 PM
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It makes sense, seeing as how women aren't as attracted to the physicalas men are, but rather prefer dominance/masculinity. I agree. Dad bod is an indictment of appearance obsessed neurosis. Obsessing over body image and diet often comes off as unmasculine. Actually, thinking ""i'm fat" and counting every calorie is classic female behavior. That said, women will always love a great physique. They just don't necessarily enjoy the weenie metrosexual personality that comes along with abnormally low…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:00 PM
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occasional use of "harder" drugs This is a hard no for me. Maybe very light psychedelic use would be OK. The problem isn't so much the occasional use, but all the sketchy shit that always goes along with it. addiction to legal ones like caffeine or nicotine? Depends on the extremity. No issue with a regular coffee drinker and could probably tolerate a light smoker.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 08:37 PM
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Occasional marijuana is OK. Anything harder, painkiller addict, or anything like that is a no go for me.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 06:55 PM
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Not a raging slut, alcoholic, drug user, mental health case, or otherwise personal disaster Emotional baggage not seeping into every interaction Inspires strong erection Aims to please Generally pleasant to be around This is just for GF status, though. As long as you don't do something stupid like move in with her, the real commitment is actually minimal. Marriage would require much higher standards.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 06:41 PM
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she is nervous like a normal guy is nervous about attractive women Equating male and female attraction experiences is not helping your point, since the genders experience attraction and arousal in very different ways. When you go down this road, you often fall victim to the trap of projection. That said, I do think "fear of being rejected" does carry weight. But it all comes back to power. Women are attracted by a man having power of them. Whether that comes from the power to reject, social powe…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:35 PM
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"There was no nervousness talking to him." This is pretty telling. Women want a man who makes them feel somewhat uncomfortable, like he is potentially dangerous and capable of violence. Or at the very least, a man whose disapproval you want to avoid.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:51 PM
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Those of you in LTRs with career girls beware. The workplace breeds hypergamy. So much truth. If your girl gets a new job, if she works in an industry that employs men of average or above SMV, it is going to put your relationship at extreme risk. She now has literally dozens of new branch options to scope out, which, even if none immediately materialize, will get her into "upgrade mode" and pouring over all your potential shortcomings with a fine tooth comb. Women in the workplace is yet another…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:30 PM
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Don't do it, OP. I made this mistake before: They will gang up against you and turn simple household issues into miserable drama If they aren't directly attacking you, they will constantly be maneuvering to turn you against someone else in a petty dispute They will try to use female privilege to avoid paying their share of the bills, doing housework, and getting you to do random favors that are never reciprocated If they ever perceive you to be lower status, they will be far more cruel to you th…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 08:54 PM
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Yea, there is an extremely strong connection between physical strength and mental and emotional strength. The weaker you are physically, the more likely you'll lose frame. This is why it is a good idea to put off any confrontation or unnecessary contact with a woman until you feel fully rested.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:12 PM
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I'm also an INTP with a very introverted personality. Also tall and good lucking. You need to learn to play to your strengths and build some confidence through experience. Try to get girls on one on one dates instead of trying to game them in group situations where you don't perform well. After you open a girl, ask for her number to set up a date fairly quickly, then end the interaction before it starts going poorly.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:03 PM
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I've discovered for instance that she's cheated on her previous bf with multiple guys. A tremendous red flag. The mental stress of LTRing this type of girl is rarely worth it. I have oneitis. Consider taking action to protect yourself emotionally.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 08:57 PM
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You need to figure out what you want. If you actually want to end it, you need to summon some willpower and just avoid spending time alone with her all together.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 08:50 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I think it's a misuse of the terminology. SMV is more like a power rating that is relatively fixed. John's SMV didn't decrease, but the utility he could provide to Sarah decreased because of the distance. So John's market value was still high, but he was de facto removed from Sarah's market.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:41 PM
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I was at my "peak" physically when I was some out of shape slob, because that's the time I desired six pack abs the most. Correct. That point was your peak desire for six pack abs. If that's the sort of peak we're measuring, that was certainly it. If we're measuring bodyfat % then the result is probably different.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:04 PM
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Agreed. Peak sex drive is not the same as peak fertility.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:02 PM
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Shouldn't she be saying that she wishes her current BF was the one to take her virginity? She would say that -- if she were talking to him. Women play guys all the time by saying flattering stuff like this, or how you're best lover, anything flattering to man's ego. You can't take it seriously. That said, she is probably willing to cheat. She may already be cheating with a handful of other guys.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:55 PM
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Have some pride and never talk to this girl again. She cucked you in the most brazen and humiliating way possible, leaving you standing there in the club panic stricken while she gets railed.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:45 PM
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Yes, but you can't describe your "peak" as your desire to do something. No...you actually can do exactly that.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:42 PM
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"Men hit their sexual peak at 18 while women peak at 30" This quote isn't talking about SMV, it's talking about sex drive. 18 year old guys might have shit smv, but they can bust nuts all day long.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:06 PM
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See also: Briffault's Law Exactly. John McThundercock's problem wasn't a drop in smv. He just simply could not provide the female any present benefit being thousands of miles away. Joseph could provide benefit. Hence Sarah's desire to patronized Joseph's-House-of-Cock while convenient to her. Her biggest regret is probably telling OP's gf. She expected her to cheer lead the cheating but instead she's guilting her over it. What a buzz kill.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:03 PM
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Another consideration which isn't mentioned very often is that women with very high partner counts have had a harder time securing commitment from the men they have and are sleeping with Yea...after a certain point this becomes a behavioral pattern. If jumping from one cock to another is all she knows, this is what she starts to expect. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I really don't think hot sluts really suffer from too much smv de-valuation in the market at large though. They are still …
/r/askTRP24/04/15 03:58 PM
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Everyone knows that 18-24 is their sexual peak. You're approaching this from a male perspective. Of course younger women are the most physically attractive. But the perspective these women are operating from is the female one. 18-24 year old women don't enjoy sex the most, and thus don't benefit as much from the hoe phase. Women in their 30s have done more to shed their sexual inhibitions and have gotten a lot better at getting themselves off -- something that is often quite difficult and that y…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:25 PM
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And what if I hate lifting? Is there an alternative way to raise my SMV?' If you don't wanna lift, don't lift. I don't. You can still get laid without the inflated muscles. It's a trade off though, as women like muscles, so your physical attractiveness won't be fully maxed out.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:57 PM
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What are your guys thoughts? Is having a "career" and being a "professional" necessary to live a fulfilling life for the red pilled man? Or is living by your wits also feasible for a financially savvy man? It's your life, buddy. Live it on your own terms. Not having a high status career will detract from your SMV to a certain degree. You probably won't be able to get the perfect 10's who demand literally everything in a man. But there are still plenty of cute girls who more than happy to bang a …
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:49 PM
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She uses up some of her youth without gaining any permanent commitment. I agree with this, but it all depends on the time length of the relationship. If she stays for a guy for several years and gets dumped that's disastrous, but a few months isn't much. Men also suffer from this loss of youth, but significantly less so. Though men's looks hold up better than women's, very few guys remain "hot" past their mid 40s.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:22 PM
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Even if you aren't the one cheating, you are still directly involved. The stink of it still gets on you.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:19 PM
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Not disagreeing with you. Just saying, these carousel riding girls aren't really losing out. They still have hordes of men willing to fuck, and in many cases, marry them.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:07 AM
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May I ask, what is your plan for finding wife material? I feel like your average high school age girl is already ruined for marriage, not merely because of the sex she's likely had, but because of the value system she's been indoctrinated with. And levels of cultural degeneracy are rapidly increasing. I think to find a girl that's up for a patriarchal marriage (instead of "fun") you would need to find one who was extremely sheltered from mainstream culture.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:06 AM
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Life is full of trade offs like this. Big shoulder and chest muscles will always have a high level of sex appeal. If you choose to cultivate your physicality in other ways, you are missing out on this opportunity and it will, to some degree, effect your sexual success with women. But you can also gain in a lot of other ways from different types of training. A man should train first and foremost for himself, not for validation from women. If you train in a way that self actualizes you more so tha…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:02 AM
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And, I feel that any man who willfully disrespects an other man behind his back is a coward. I'm with you on this. Just knowing your actions could potentially destroy another man's life just ruins the sex appeal for me. Plus the potential nuclear level drama is just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:53 AM
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When I begin to focus on chasing women, all my plans fall down and crash and burn. You need to have some discipline in your whore chasing. Don't obsess over easy bangs that aren't there. If you boot up Tinder and send out some messages and don't get anything going, just stop. Close the app and don't open it for at least a day. Women come and go in streaks. Sometimes you can swipe for a week straight without a decent lead. Other days, half a dozen women will be messaging you out of the blue. Make…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:47 AM
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If it ends, she loses and you win. She has aged, gotten another N and thus lost SMV. You have gained experience and as a red pill man kept increasing your SMV throughout the relationship. You come out best. Meh...nobody loses except the guy stupid enough to marry her. She got to have her fun, enjoy some alpha cock, and will be back on another alpha cock (willing to ignore her n count) in a matter of weeks. High N is not the smv killer you think it is (among the non-Red Pill set), as girls know t…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:40 AM
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Women and men deeply need each other, but are doomed to constantly exploit, betray, and disappoint each other. This is what we were born into, and yea, it kinda sucks compared to the fairy tales you were told as a kid. Knowing the truth is liberating though. It can help you avoid the traps of wicked women and be more understanding of the shortcomings of decent ones. So don't work as much if you don't want your life purpose to be supporting women financially. Find something else to live for.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 08:53 PM
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Yea...but then the women you get will just be using you for your money and will always cuck you on the side.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 08:47 PM
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Why are women ruined by promiscuity? They tend to accumulate emotional baggage more easily as a result of sexual encounters gone wrong. Promiscuity also reduces their capacity for pair bonding. There is also the issue of them being hung up on past lovers.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:21 PM
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No, there is a good reason for it. It's that women are ruined by promiscuity while men are not.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:48 PM
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Not that the girl didn't bring it up, but that their boyfriends never did. This is because guys want to believe they found a good girl so badly that they willfully delude themselves. They cling to the obvious lies she tells ("I've only been with 3-5 guys") while ignoring the parade of red flags and slip ups.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:46 PM
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you have done nothing to explain the clear bias at play Here at TRP, den of male supremacy that it is, we fully embrace double standards for sexual behavior. The view is that promiscuity is more damaging for a woman than a man. This is due to hardwired psychological and behavioral differences between the sexes. You may find this view "disgusting" but you are not going to change anyone's mind here by pointing out that it's biased or unfair. We are fully aware of this and not even slightly discour…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:37 PM
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Fake it until you make it.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:53 PM
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I've tried tindering while visiting cities and ran into this same problem. The issue is that even if a girl is up for something casual, very few are up for a one off thing. Some are though... I would advise you to be upfront about it, so you don't waste time only to have girls bail when they find out your only in town a few days. Put it right in your profile that you're only in town for a day or two, and make sure to mention it within the first few messages.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 01:33 PM
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My notch count is similar to yours and also includes several models/model quality girls. Just sayin... I'm not insecure. I just don't trust women left to their own devices. There's a difference.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:16 PM
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I'm starting to think that the entire concept of SO's/relationships/exclusivity/marriage/etc. is all BS made up through our own civilization. It is, but this "BS" was necessary to acquire the higher level of social organization that lead to the rise of civilization. Without this suppression of our species natural sexual instincts, we probably wouldn't have been able to organize into tribes bigger than 100 or so.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:41 PM
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Once they've secured a solid commitment from their alpha provider (the most alpha of the providers they could find), then their desire for security will be met and their desire to sperm hunt, in secret, will be activated. I think you're on to something with this. Women will meet a man and fuck him like crazy...for a few months. After that it drops off. It always drops off. Generally TRP would say that the guy "stopped being alpha" but that's not always the case. Much of the time the man stays ex…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:32 PM
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It's slow suicide by distraction and fun times. The story of our era. I've thought about this a lot, and really, I don't think anything can be done, other than watch it bottom out and "enjoy the decline."
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:15 PM
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Ahh, so your weak af argument didn't work so it's on the ad hominems now? How many 10s have you bagged, bro? Not to be a dick, but you seem way too insecure to have a penis larger than 3-4 inches.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:13 PM
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Become a muslim and don't let your wife out of the house. Maybe I'll do that when I hit 50. Depends on how successful the muzzies are in that time. In the meantime I'll have a long string of short to medium term relationships with young hotties that ends the minute either of us gets bored.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:02 PM
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Motivation must exist before behavior changes. I agree. It's the modern values system that is the root of the problem. Fertility just isn't appealing to the modern woman, unless she'll be rich enough to hire a few nannies to do the heavy lifting, allowing her fun to continue unimpeded. Maybe once our corporate overlords realize a decreasing consumer population is bad for growth, we'll see some adjustments to the marketing message.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:58 PM
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Trust your girl. Without trust what's the point of even being in a relationship? Women rail on about trust, but really, they just want permission to engage in sexually charged activities that have no place in a committed relationship. They want to "have fun" AKA enjoy the validation they get through strange male attention. They want the benefits of having the committed boyfriend at home while still living the wild life of the single girl. It's just more "have your cake and eat it too" feminine i…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:48 PM
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The point is that you have to stimulate a woman's emotional brain to generate attraction, and not her cognitive centers. This. OP says the fear provoked by dread is calculated, but it actually isn't it. Dread is an instinctual reaction to the fear of mate loss. It's no different from the emotional response that's triggered when you think your girl might be cheating. The main difference is the male response is to mate guard, while the female response is sexual arousal.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:27 PM
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"What might it take to increase motivation in women to produce children?" Well, we could pay them. We already do his and we get the female dregs popping out children so they can live off the welfare. Really, the only thing I see working would be a ban on women having fun and participating independently in the public life. Obviously this is impossible. It's almost as if there was purpose to sexism. Women never wanted to produce children. Society forced them to do it. This is just something that w…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:22 PM
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Slowly women lost interest in their fertility. Yea...you see this in action every day. The reason women don't want to have children is because popping out a baby will destroy their SMV and as result, their opportunities for fun and adventure. Having a kid wrecks her body and is a massive drain to raise. She'd rather spend her youth trading pussy for fun times, social status, sex with hot guys, and other free shit. The behavior we see now is just efficient use a woman's best assets. Predictably, …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:46 PM
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She said they went heavy on the booze and she only remembers a skank friend of her cheating on her boyfriend, and her driving home with a (gay) friend of hers. Three huge red flags in this statement. (heavy drinking, skank friend, gay friend) Hard to say exactly what's going on from a very days of light text behavior, but definitely be on the look out for other warning signs.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:24 PM
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Women are always going to be sketchy about their sexual past. I mean, I wouldn't tell my gf I fucked another girl the same night I met her, even if that was the case. It's just bad relationship management. The truth is, we all say that we want full disclosure but we really don't. We tell each other lies and believe them because we want to believe them. There is also a good chance she is lying about having only the lone one night stand and whatever partner count number she told you about. It shou…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:16 PM
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Actually, it's a myth that everyone loves sex. Some people love it. Some people find it just alright. Some people don't like it at all.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 01:32 PM
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the main reason people try to get back with an ex is that it's easier than the effort required to meet someone new. This is exactly it. You don't have to worry about winning her over, you can just get right back to the sex. And usually there is at least some compatibility there, or else it never would have happened the first time. FWB isn't a bad solution, but women hardly ever accept this demotion. A week or two max and "what are we?" will be in the air. A lot of guys cave and accept the relati…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 01:20 PM
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Does the fact that I could do ceaseless practice through anything mean that this was my calling? Without the talent to match, it probably wouldn't have been enough to become a pro. Sports are very popular. Loving soccer as much as you did actually isn't that rare. Just gotta accept that this was a dream that died.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:56 PM
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when these girls are too cute I struggle to be myself in fear of being too rude or offensive. You gotta figure out some way to get over this fear. It is major turn off for women when they sense you are going out of your way to impress them or avoid offending them. If you act like you don't really care either way, they'll be intrigued. It takes time and experience but you need to internalize that these girls really aren't that special.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:48 PM
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This all comes down to personal preference. If you only feel like 8 and above is arousing enough to make the sex worth the investment, then it's your prerogative to only bother with girls who meet that standard. As others have said, 6-7 can have the benefit of being more eager to please and easier to deal with. Although I find I get bored of fucking this type of girl after a few times.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:56 PM
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Having a girl over to watch a movie in your super impressive home theater is completely different than taking a girl to the local cineplex.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:52 PM
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Oh they most certainly will. Enjoy the "feelings are brand new again" period while it lasts, but definitely don't move back in with her. In a couple months, it will likely revert to the old dynamic that lead to the break up. I had an LTR where we broke up and got back together like 4-5 times. Never again. That shit was pure torture.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:31 PM
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You don't understand why monk mode works. Most of the guys who come to TRP arrive here because they are weak and emotionally wrecked. A man in this state is not strong enough yet to fix his life, and attempting to will only result in more failure, further demoralizing and weakening him. Monk mode is useful because it allows men to withdraw from distraction and focus 100% on rebuilding their health and spirit. True, they are hiding from their problems, but they are also gathering the inner streng…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:17 PM
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Don't bother texting over the summer. if she texts you, that's fine. Otherwise just hit her up again when school starts back up.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:56 PM
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I guess my question is has this happened to any of you before? This is the story of every woman living with a man, ever.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:55 PM
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This. Get some rest and avoid making things worse while you aren't at full strength. Put all your communications with women on hold until you feel good again.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:46 PM
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Give it a try if you'd like, but there is a reason why it's generally advised against. The relationship will always be burdened with baggage from the previous break up. In particular, the fear of abandonment will already be activated.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:41 PM
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did I handle this correctly? I believe you did. It wasn't just once. You gave her multiple second chances. For whatever, reason she clearly lost all motivation to spend time with you and maintain the relationship. This was her way of ending it by forcing you to break up due to disrespect. Assuming she didn't meet another guy, the root of this can likely be traced back to her emotional issues on some level. People with serious emotional problems often suffer from a deep self loathing that leads t…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:35 PM
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This. Women are savy enough to know they should never admit anything above 10-15.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:21 PM
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seems genuine in her desire to commit They all seem genuine. They're amazingly good at believing their own emotion driven fantasies. The problem is the "desire to commit" doesn't last any longer than a burst of emotion. This is why you get so many girls who claim to be monogamous but have a list of boyfriends a mile long. They love the feeling of having a guy commit to them, but then they get bored of the guy after a few months and dump him. we matched on Tinder and had sex the first time we hun…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 01:18 AM
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She’s imagined a life where we have children even though I’ve told her I’ve had a vasectomy. It's common for women delude themselves like this. Actually it's hard for them to maintain enthusiasm in a relationship if the fantasy future is too implausible. I’ve been going along with her idea of a family and settling down knowing full well that I have ZERO intention of doing that. How have you been doing this? I mean, obviously you can't have kids, so have you been lying and telling her you want ki…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 08:29 PM
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She's concerned that these SMV raising activities will soon push you out of her league and lead you to dump her. She isn't wrong to be concerned about this.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 05:26 PM
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Are you studying with a master or practicing techniques from a book? I practice the Xing Yi, Bagua, and the Wu Tai Chi forms that Bruce Frantzis teaches: http://www.energyarts.com/hsing-i-chuan Mainly, I have learned from his DVDs but I train live with him and his senior students as much as I possibly can. Most books/DVDs aren't all that useful, but Bruce's materials are different in my experience because he spends a huge amount of time explaining every detail of the practices, especially the in…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:01 PM
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This. The fact she went to this party after the movie (was there ever a movie?) and chose to conceal that fact is sketchy as hell. Really, it's not possible to feel totally secure in an LTR with a woman that parties. The environment is 100% geared towards cheating an branch swinging. If she wants a part of that, she is not actually committed to being monogamous.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:54 PM
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I've been building up my san ti standing practice but still don't grasp how it's purported to instill total relentlessness My experience has been that this grows out of an increasingly strong unification of the energies of the mind and body. The way that the arms and legs wrap in the san ti posture encourages the chi to condense at a point in front of the body. While the breathing method of staring at the index finger, inhaling from the index finger down to the lower dandien and exhaling back up…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:37 PM
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Don't try to suppress your emotions, but try to work through them in private. If you dump them on her it will just be really uncomfortable to her and humiliating for you.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:00 PM
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I should just ignore her right? Yes, but not in passive aggressive way. Be superficially friendly but don't engage with her.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:52 PM
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I know I should cut my losses and just drop it cold turkey This is what you need to do. Cut this girl out of your life entirely. With time, the thoughts about her will stop. You need to admit that you acted like a fool and just get over it. Anything you do here to try and fix things will just make it worse.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:44 PM
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Get yourself strong, healthy, and on a path of self improvement and the symptoms of mental health problems will be greatly lessened.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:37 PM
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1)openers I put zero effort into openers. If "hey" isn't enough to get a response from her, it's all for the best. The goal isn't to chat with girls on an app, or even to get dates. It's to initiate sexual relationships, and in my experience, if a girl isn't enthusiastic from the first swipe trying to sell yourself to her isn't worth the effort. 2)convo points I just casually shoot the breeze for a handful of messages. Same with openers, if you need to try hard to impress her here, it's not gonn…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:05 PM
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Would there ever be a circumstance when a girl would turn down an AF for a BB? Yes, it happens all the time when a woman wants resources more than sexual thrills. The thing is...if at all possible, the woman will try to get both, AF and the BB. So in many cases this means publicly she has her BB husband but secretly cheats with the AF. Best of both worlds for her. It seems like the culture in your country is still set up to promote traditional marriage structures.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:51 PM
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I think the vast majority of weakness in men is due to them blowing their power out of their dicks constantly This is definitely true of masturbation and sex addicts. That said, I do not believe simply not ejaculating leads to super powers. There are also benefits to having sex and a history of celibates getting prostate cancer. People have gotten extremely powerful through sex-based practices as well. I find that ejaculating once a week is pretty optimal. It allows a lot of energy to build up, …
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:47 PM
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anyone have experience with maintaining drive and social dynamics as a sensitive dude? I'm also somewhat of a match for the sensitive type guy type that you've described. Sensitivity is its own form of power and sensitive guys can do extremely well with women if their softness can quickly shift to hardness and vice versa. What I think you should strive for is making sure that your masculine or yang nature is fully developed and is an active counterbalance to your feminine nature. With more natur…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 01:36 PM
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Yea, I don't disagree. serial dating, FB profile full of club/bar pics and slutty outfits, mentioning all of her guy friends, etc. If any of these signs are present doesn't expect it to last more than a few months.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 01:12 PM
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On the the other hand, it's harder for the guy who's been in LTR mode to go right back into the game and score. This is always much harder for me. It's just harder for men to get the same quality of sex and relationship than it is for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:53 AM
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There's always someone out there that makes more money, looks better, or is just simply more of a man The thing is...this other guy doesn't even need to actually BE better than you in these ways. She merely needs to IMAGINE him to be better than you in these ways. She knows you and tedious reality of your day to day life. She doesn't know all the other dudes of the world, so she is free to fill their lives to pussy moistening details when the hamster gets rolling.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:45 AM
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the best times of the relationship are the first few months. This. The first 2-3 months of a relationship is when you'll have the best and most sex and when she'll be so into you she won't even think about cheating or branch swinging. It's after the new relationship energy wears off that all the boredom, fighting, and bullshit starts. If are a dating a "concubine class" girl this is when it should come to an end. I can understand if it's to have kids, but other than that what's the benefit of a …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:39 AM
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You can avoid that by just establishing hard boundaries from day 1. You're right. This is more or less what I did, and it worked for a few months...but as things got less exciting, fear of missing out ultimately won. Problem is, if you filter out all the women unwilling to accept your hard boundaries AND still have a high attractiveness threshold for an LTR, the size of the remaining dating pool is incredibly small. It's the male equivalent of the "Where Have All the Good Men Gone?" problem wome…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 10:05 PM
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What upset me about the whole deal was that previously my gf was practically obsessed with me and always talked about marriage and how much she loved me. Yet after two weeks away at college none of her previous stated desires seemed to have mattered. Girls do this all the time. With the one I just broke up with, kids and marriage were brought up by her within a couple months of dating. Finding the "perfect husband" is one of their go to fantasies. As a man, you are only valuable as the fantasy f…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:47 PM
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As they say "girls just wanna have fun." They want a boyfriend who will let them go out and do whatever they want. A lot of the time they end up cheating or dumping him for another guy they met out partying. So, as a man trying to hold down a committed relationship, you're pretty much fucked either way. Live and learn I guess. My strategy going forward is gonna be to keep the relationship open. She can do whatever she wants, she just won't be getting a promise of monogamy from me and "having her…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 07:01 PM
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If had it to do over again, I wouldn't bother trying to reign in her sexual options any more than the bare minimum. The fact that I cared she might cheat or branch swing lead to the disputes that drove her away. This was an extremely sexy and quite young girl, so her options were plentiful and her drive for providership rather low. Instead I would just deflect any real commitment and keep pursuing side pussy for myself. Really, I don't care if she fucks someone else if I never form that expectat…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:54 PM
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Even if you approach a woman and your game is amazing, your game will never be as "Alpha" as it would have been in a scenario in which she approached you. If this is your main point, I'm in agreement. The one being chased in a courtship always starts in a position of power. Where you went astray was with the careers metaphor. Starting a company does not make a guy alpha. Working a 9-5 doesn't make him beta. Sexual persona is often totally uncorrelated with career path. Between that and confusing…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:46 PM
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I just get this feeling that it is never going to be this amazing. House parties with my bros, hitting the bar scene, hooking up with that hot sorority girl, spring break In terms of partying and carefree lifestyle, you are probably right. But there are much deeper levels of satisfaction than partying, having sex, and being cool. It's on you to discover and work towards these higher levels of manhood. If don't try to do that, you're adult life will probably be disappointing. It's not uncommon fo…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:33 PM
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if that's a plate fine, if that's a GF, she be getting demoted to plate I'm starting to see less and less distinction between the two. In the past I saw GF as potential "marriage track." But if marriage is off the table, it becomes a fuzzy distinction that depends on how much time you spend together and whether or not you hide the other people you may or may not be juggling. Really, any woman you are fucking can burn you in the same ways, emotions always get created to various degrees, and women…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:22 PM
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While old social constructs worked, they were pretty tyrannical. I don't really see it as being very far away from slavery... It works and it's useful, but is a fucked up way of going about things for results in the easiest way. Not really an option in my eyes no matter how well it works. I wouldn't want to be a slave, so I won't do it to another human. I think slave is over doing it a bit -- subservient, absolutely. It also depends which patriarchal culture we're referring to. The more primitiv…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:58 PM
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This is a great point. A lot of the cheating women do isn't technically consummated. They line up a new guy, then dump the old guy before fucking him. This keeps them morally in the clear. It wasn't technically cheating because she never fucked the new guy while they she was in the first relationship. All she did was plot an exit behind her current lover's back. A man needs to watch out for the moment when a woman stops worshiping him and moves him into the placeholder guy bucket. She will keep …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:32 PM
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How great of a man are you when you've achieved the level of being which can take care and provide for a woman knowing that you meet and possibly even exceed all her needs, wants and desires. Being able to do this is something to be proud of, its a quality which makes you stand apart from other generic men, it is a quality which your woman will surely brag about to every other woman out there if only to make them feel jealous that what she has, is the best man ever. This is a nice goal to shoot …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:22 PM
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What we do know, is what happens when a more appealing branch grows close. You can give her tingles and security, but if someone with more of either comes along you're fucked. I've come to realize that relationship stability grows from ensuring that she rarely comes into contact with appealing branches. In the past, society was set up with customs and incentives for this exact purpose -- women didn't work and weren't encouraged to socialize independently outside the home. Marriage has gone to sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:08 PM
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On the other hand, very hot women tend to be more emotional, irrational, up and down, a total rollercoaster. A couple things at play here: Hot women are more truly women. Not just their bodies, but also their personalities are more quintessentially feminine. It's the equivalent of the rugged masculine guy vs the androgynous beta herb. Plain women are more rational and stable because they are closer to being men. It's also a function of options. A hot woman can put herself back on the market and …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:52 PM
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Men got trust issues with women because women, generally speaking, 99.9% of them are not trustworthy people. Yea...trust issues...they paint it as if you are a damaged human being if you recognize that limitless unearned trust for a woman you're dating is something that could potentially destroy you. Just had a relationship come to an end because I gave a firm no on clubbing and going out drinking with male "friends." She felt this implied I thought negatively of her as a human being and lacked …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:40 PM
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This. MGTOW is a widely dispersed social movement of males decoupling their lives from females because of various social and economic factors. A man can be MGTOW in deed and philosophy without ever becoming aware of the label. So it sounds like many of the guys who hang out on the MGTOW sub may be "omegas who've swallowed the red pill, realised there position in life, and chose to give up" but if you think that's all that MGTOW is, then you haven't yet grasped the nature of MGTOW.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:21 AM
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If they wanna drink, let them do that on their own time. I've dated plenty of early twenties girls without drinking. guess I am just bad at escalating at coffee shops Yea...dating without alcohol is a somewhat different skill set. I never really escalate there above light touching. The key is coming up with a decent pretext and logistics for getting them back to your place.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:06 AM
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they say I look like a player What do you look like? Several girls have asked if I have other girls I'm talking to which I reply no. You shouldn't say no. You should give a vague non-answer. Like "yea i talk to all sorts of people." My guess is the combination of your look and demeanor is coming off as sleazy and this bringing out the anti-slut defense. Girls all want a guy with preselection, but there is something off putting about a guy who is too overt about it. The ideal guy is discreet.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:02 AM
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Is this a shit test? or a comfort test? Sounds like neither. You were the one who canceled on her at the last minute. This is a scheduling conflict. I would propose another alternate time if she can't make the reschedule.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:58 AM
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Are these good enough? Yes, they are good enough. The real attraction is you, so if your game is sharp enough to intrigue her, the date will be good. Spending time thinking up creative date ideas is something blue pillers do. Don't ask a girl what you should do. Most of them find that to be an imposition. Taking action and making plans is the domain of men, so do your job and take care of the plan.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:55 AM
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That oneself understands the importance of it, is what matters. It's inconsequential if literally anyone else than you, gets it... Exactly. This is what it means to be righteous. The mindfuck of it all is you can be an epic boss...and get virtually zero validation. The certainty of purpose to persevere, receiving and expecting zero validation, is the path of the ubermensch.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:04 AM
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How do I reconcile my cognitive dissonance? You don't. You go over, you fuck her, you don't enjoy it, and you realize this fling has run its course.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:52 PM
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But how long will this last? Multiple generations at a minimum. This is the cycle of civilization. A civilization get's rich -> life gets easy -> people turn away from religion and towards hedonism -> people become weak and corrupt -> society crumbles -> life gets hard -> people turn back towards religion -> a new society gets built. There is essentially no point in being a good person, or good father or husband. This isn't true. Virtue is its own reward. Society will not reward you, but your so…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:50 PM
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Yes...getting penetrate by a facsimile big black cock is incredibly emasculating. Nothing is more degrading to man than to give up the ass.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:45 PM
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If your level of education is less than hers, that will probably be a problem at some point because of hypergamy. Unless you make a lot of money or something that compensates.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:41 PM
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I'll treat her the same as I did before I knew Yea, do this. Really, even if she is RP aware it won't change her behavior much because of AWALT. Stuff like hypergamy exists on a such a deep level that a bit of casual reading cannot negate it. If anything, the fact she is open to RP thinking will make her more amenable to red pill decisions that you make. The less you have to fight and argue against feminist programming the better.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:39 PM
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Gay dudes take one look at a guy and make the decision to fuck or not fuck. Women are much less motivated by casual sex and have a much broader range of qualities they evaluate when deciding to fuck or not fuck.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:35 PM
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Lastly anytime I run dread she does this thing where she basically dread games me... Sounds like a relationship winding down. Dread works when it makes her afraid of losing you and that creates motivation for her to perform better. If you dread and she doesn't care about losing you, the relationship just ends.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:33 PM
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Obviously stress is just a state of mind. No, it's not just a state of mind, although mental states are involved. What else could it be? It's a physiological response: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress_hormone OP, if you really want to get rid of your stress, look into meditation.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:53 PM
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These skills, intrinsically, are worth nothing to a woman. They are only valuable to the degree that they provide her with tangible status and resources. So the leadership skills, if they are not expressed in the context of a highly respected and compensated position, might as well not exist at all. Same with the martial prowess. That you have these skills alone means nothing. They are only of value to a woman if they generate status through public display.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:49 PM
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Or is it like being over-qualified for a job? You've put so much work into yourself, looked up from your work, and have found everyone to think you're too good to be true. I think "over qualified" is an apt description, but I seriously doubt women will find you "too good to be true." Instead, the value of your deeper qualities will be ignored and your virtue will remain unperceived. Women will wonder why you've spent so much time developing these vague virtues, instead of putting that effort int…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:24 PM
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What's the male equivalent to shit tests? Females use shit tests to challenge a man's dominance. The equivalent of male dominance is female desirability. You can get under her skin and challenge her in the same way by doing anything that undermines her desirability. You can do this by ignoring her, dismissing her, or making comments that imply she is not "all that." A well executed "neg" is the perfect example of this principle in action.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:10 PM
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Thanks, but what answer would you give if she asks you "why don't you drink?" Say it's for health reasons, or if you don't feel like explaining that, say you just don't enjoy it, or if you want to up your bad boy rating and get her intrigued, tell her you're an alcoholic. You can do perfectly fine with coffee dates and other non-drinking stuff.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:06 PM
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If you've truly absorbed alpha status, marriage should be the last thing on your mind. This. Marriage has devolved into little more than a status booster and financial security blanket for women. For a man it serves no purpose, other than to weaken your position within the relationship after it's consummated.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:26 PM
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I don't cheat and in my brain it is incredibly obvious not to put myself in those situations. So it is...but it can be hard to find a woman who agrees with this. Just broke up with a girl because she felt like my stating the above point was overly jealous and controlling.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:50 PM
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Would girls be put off by the fact that i fucked this girl and that's all they know about me when i end up talking to them at parties? Unfortunately...yes. Fucking a fattie is status lowering and women are status whores. That said, nothing much you can do about it now. Not ideal, but I'm sure can still find girls who don't know about it. Either way, it'll be gone once you finish college, and will probably be largely blown over in a few months.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:35 PM
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It's very common to start harboring Blue Pill sympathies when you hit that new relationship phase where the hormones are going crazy and everything feels amazing. This patriarchal urge kicks in and all of a sudden thoughts are racing through your head that it would be incredibly honorable and rewarding to dedicate your life to providing for this woman you love and your children. I think a pattern of BP relapses is typical. The Red Pill feels bitter and cynical when it's first swallowed, so these…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:40 PM
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I say this up front to every girl I date: in the event of any accidental pregnancy there will be a paternity test. Really, you'd be a fool to take responsibility without taking this precaution.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:20 PM
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Anyone know what the status of the lawsuits is against Rolling Stone? Nothing concrete. Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if there was no lawsuit because of political pressure. I mean, they can't find lawyers willing to challenge gay marriage laws. This is a similar situation.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:00 PM
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This whole episode sends me into a frothing rage every time I think about it. Clearly, the people at Rolling Stone KNEW there was nothing to Jackie's story, but smeared those poor guys anyways. Sabrina Rubin Erdely openly admits that every time she tried asking for facts, lil' Jackie stopped returning calls. But frat rape on broken class was just too juicy to pass up. And we can't blame the victim. Plus frat rape on the campus is a "serious problem" so it's all for a good cause. I'll bet Erdely …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 06:09 PM
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Paranoid? Everything in my comment is well established fact or direct personal observation. Actually, your sentiment is exactly what I mean by "the power of The Narrative." Calling a spade a spade (when that spade contradicts The Narrative) triggers cognitive dissonance and self defensive crimethink (the feeling of dread you mention). It is therefore paranoid to observe factual reality.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 04:06 PM
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What you don't understand is that if they had aggressively stepped in to try and repaint their own painting, they would have been charged with assault. This. Sometimes passive aggression is all you've got when the system is built to firmly deter any actual aggression on the part of the designated bad guy. As we can see, even this passive aggressive compromise was not passive enough, as all it took was a retaliatory accusation of "mean words" for this frat to be destroyed, which is basically what…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:03 PM
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People never change until they have to. When a society gets wealthy, survival pressures decrease. Instead of doing hard stuff that kind of sucks but makes you stronger, people gravitate towards easy pleasurable stuff that ultimately makes you weak. This is the decadence that we're currently experiencing. The thing is, sin and morality are not arbitrary concepts. If you look at traditional moral codes, they all revolve around pro-survival behaviors. Stuff like not eating diseased animals and bury…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 01:47 PM
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My personal conspiracy theory is, that this hate is deliberatly fueled by the elite's mass media propaganda machine. Conspiracy theory? With the hoax rape stories and the endless race baiting (he was a good boy who dindu nuffin) it's incredibly obvious that The Narrative is the primary directive. If it conflicts with facts, so much worse for the facts. With the UVA case, they ran with a 100% fabricated story that was quickly exposed AND YET were still able to further the "sexual assault on campu…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 01:28 PM
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I stopped thinking about top large corporations in the media space as being setup to make a profit. I figure that the media is in place to change societies along the lines of the Zbigniew Brzezinski time periods. So it exists to subvert and steer cultural evolution. So much this. The amount of money a site like Reddit could hope to make is a pittance compared to the fortunes of the global elite. It is vastly more valuable as a propaganda organ to promote the success of other interests.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:45 PM
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So, if you are not an active feminist, you are not allowed to work in reddit. This our future. The leftist singularity accelerates. Shits gonna get cray. Declare your undying love for the party or be purged! Left singularity: http://blog.jim.com/tag/left-singularity/ That Reddit seems to be leading the charge is quite disturbing, given the site's importance as a news and content aggregator.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:42 PM
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She's just promoting the female-centric view that "real men" want relationships. The more quality men they get believing this, the easier it will be for women to find quality husbands and LTRs. It's akin to a man posting "Party girls are the best!" because it will help him get one night stands if women think it's cool to partake in loose sex.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:58 PM
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Anyways how is it best to respond, should I tell her No? I tell all potential LTRs, spending alone time with people of the opposite sex is usually inappropriate. In some cases, I will give her the OK to remain friends with a guy is she has known him a long time and he is a total herb. It is fine if she wants to be acquaintances with other guys and hang out with them in a group setting, but one on one hang outs, excessive texting, anything like that is a no go.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:48 PM
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I am really convinced that alcohol and maybe my behavior towards her may have been a factor in bringing out an underlying disorder maybe? Booze has a way of bringing mental issues to the surface. A lot of people can keep their baggage suppressed pretty well when sober, but when they drink it shoots straight to the surface. Psychological issues can also lead to someone having strong urges to drink to excess once they get started, even if they are not what you would consider an alcoholic. My guess…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:33 PM
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My question is should I have kept pushing the convo? No. Did I do something wrong or were these girls whack? You didn't do anything wrong. They just wanted nothing to with you at that moment. This is something you have little control over. Does this happen to you guys often? Just a straight cold shoulder? Women do this all the time to men they don't consider attractive or high status. With more experience you will get a better feel for when girls have this attitude so you can avoid wasting time …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:27 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles, OP. I just got denied from my dream job. My grandmother is on the verge of dying. Most likely your relationship problems can be traced back to this. You are going through some rough times, and likely showing weakness in front of your girl. This is known to kill attraction. Keep your troubles to yourself and go no contact for a while. Women will often react positively to that.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:12 PM
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If she's at the age of consent and she passes my boner test, it's on like donkey kong. This. Just keep in mind that rolling with younger girls comes with their own set of problems. Yep. Most of these stem from their SMV being much higher and them lacking post-wall commitment desperation. What can I say, if you want to play in the big leagues you need to be able to hit major league pitching.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:07 PM
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Live and learn, bro, not every girl is going to be into you, and sometimes it isn't even your fault. This. There's no need to over-analyze. Sometimes people just don't like each other. Even guys with solid game have occasional bad dates like this. In all likelihood, she was only slightly attracted when you first met. Find another girl and try again.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:52 PM
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In essence, they nail down excellent descriptions of qualia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Qualia) Supernatural stuff = Qualia. Also, the mythic does not lend itself to empirical proof or literal interpretation. That doesn't disprove it's existence.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 06:04 AM
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Cheating's harder than it looks. I agree. Anything ongoing is going to be extremely risky, unless you live in a culture that still accepts the traditional place of mistresses for high status men. If you travel and/or live separately, your odds are better. Ideally, you'd want a ONS that you fuck once and never hear from again. Contact details never exchanged. Interestingly, many women are not particularly upset by this type of once off physical encounter. It's the emotional stuff that gets to the…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:33 PM
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Am I correct in interpreting this as a formal contract for prostitution services in exchange for luxury living accommodations and 500 per month spending money? Did she come to you with this proposal? I know my gringo customers and know how they are taken advantage of by Latins. Yea...this is exactly what she's doing to you. In exchange, she would cook, clean, fuck me three times per day, and be my girlfriend. You can be damn sure she will be trying to weasel out of these obligations within days …
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:22 PM
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I don't think monogamy is right for me. HA! Biologically it's not right for anyone. Long term monogamy is a socially imposed sacrifice of a man and a woman's natural sexual impulses in return for the civilizational benefit of raising children in a stable environment. Feeling sexually deprived doesn't mean "monogamy isn't right for you" -- sexual deprivation is a fundamental aspect of monogamy. If I was given the choice between never having another woman and being with her or having a million wom…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:10 PM
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then there is nothing like Buddhism to make you understand how the human mind works, from the internal perspective of a user You ever stop to think that if they are so on point with this understanding of the mind, they might also be correct in some of their other views? Psychic powers are real...just sayin'
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 01:57 PM
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He's going to need to deceive this guy. at least to some degree, if he wants to plate this girl. If Daddy catches on that OP is just in it for casual sex, he's going to try to drive him off. Fathers and families have always applied pressure tactics to coerce a man into commitment. I think the potential for conflict is pretty obvious. Better to avoid, or at least stop going to her house, if you're not game for the LTR.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 02:28 PM
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When you're partying with girls from the same school on or near campus, this type of slut shaming keeping things in check -- somewhat. Women don't want to be good girls, they only want people to think they are good girls. Nothing brings out the female id like exotic lands, disconnected from her social identity.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 01:59 PM
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Maybe it's just me but I l feel like a casual plate relationship and assertive protective Dad do not mix well. Do you really feel up to having this man in your life, knowing your desire is to fuck his daughter with no commitment goes against his desire to find her a decent husband? He came out for the specific purpose of driving off guys who want what you want. Obviously, if you continue to see her, there will likely be conflict. Be careful with your next move, as getting sucked into an LTR you …
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:43 PM
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It's ok to respond a bit if she's blowing you up, just don't set a pattern of texting all time or become the one doing more of the messaging.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:30 PM
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She's hopped off my dick on frustration at her (lack of) orgasm multiple times. Not a good sign for your relationship. If a girl adores you, she will see the main point of sex as pleasing you. When the attraction fades, the point of sex becomes her orgasm, and you become little more than a human vibrator. This often coincides with a decrease in sexual frequency. She didn't want to have sex with you. She wanted to get off and your cock was available. Has she shown other signs of losing interest? …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:54 AM
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.... MBA programs have some of the least politically-correct courses you can take. It's not entirely about the course content. It's also about the culture of these institutions. People that spend a lot of time in academia tend to go farther and farther left the longer they stay. even my sociology class made it a point to discuss how "in-group diversity" statistically causes more strife and less productivity. I would have loved to observe this.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 09:23 AM
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If we are out having sex with these girls, then aren't we contributing to the problem for their future beta husbands? Beta husbands screw themselves by accepting the Feminine Imperative, which promotes female interests at the expense of male interests. TRP works against female strategy by encouraging male behavior patterns that lead to fewer and lower quality husbands being available post-CC, as TRP-adopting men opt out of that provider role. TRP hurts women who want the optimal hypergamic strat…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:28 AM
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She has an MBA, pursuing a PhD in psychology. Based on these credentials, feminist programming has almost certainly poisoned her mind. The universities are the prime indoctrination centers for this stuff. MBA signals "wants to compete with men in the workplace" while psychology PhD signals "thinks she understands relationships better than you do". It's very hard to have an RP relationship with a woman who feels she knows better and should be the decision maker. Be prepared for her to suggest cou…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:01 AM
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Then I remember reading that going for coffee is a bad idea for a first date False. Coffee is a perfectly good first date. It's great if you can talk well. I'm getting a "good girl" vibe from her, which throws me off because she's on tinder. All women are on tinder. That includes plenty of prudes. Also, don't give her good girl cred up front. It's not uncommon for a girl to not drink or be geeky but still be a bit of a slag. I'm wondering if there are any topics I should steer clear of in conver…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:49 AM
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No, i want to know if it's possible to regain that power or if it's a lost cause. It's possible but difficult because you now have to dig yourself out of a hole. Hopefully you will learn from this experience and react before things degrade to this level. I always seem to be the one that sends her messages, calls her, and she has been sort of quiet recently. You need to watch for this behavior as soon as it starts and lower your messaging rate accordingly. You can't keep her interested by messagi…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:29 AM
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And if you don't want to donate or would rather give directly to charities of your choice you're not a "team player". Exactly. It's a form of in-group signaling and coercion. If you don't enthusiastically show your support, you out yourself as a non-believer and potential traitor.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:07 PM
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If you're looking for a tie breaker, I think it's better for longevity to carry less weight.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:53 PM
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Oh, I meant bodily frame. If you're a naturally thick dude, it makes more sense to get big. If you're more tall and wiry, it makes sense to be lean and mean.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:47 PM
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She basically gave me some big list of why she hates him. Huge red flag. Personally, I just don't even respond to this type of discussion. Past dicks are not a valid topic of conversation and should never be mentioned.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:28 PM
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Don't do it for them. Ignore what they say. You lift for you. This. Also, it depends what kind of frame you're working with.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:26 PM
3

isn't it possible she could become interested in someone else who caters to her and gives her attention all day / jokes around and has fun via random texts? It's always possible a woman will become interested in another man. The reason why sparse texting is recommended is that field experience has shown that killing her attraction through beta over-texting is a greater risk than the scenario you described. You are also projecting your own preferences on to a woman. Most guys like a girl more whe…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:23 PM
1

I'm a doctor (neurologist). In terms of scoring a quick hook up, it works BETTER if I say I'm a bartender than if I say I'm a doctor. I believe it. The second a woman hears "doctor" she starts scheming for the bucks. Bartender signals bad boy fling material with little money, thus removing that incentive.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 08:05 PM
10

This would weird me out. So many ways this would could go bad and destroy the friendship and/or their relationship. It's possible he's bi and wants to hook up with you as well.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 05:35 PM
1

There are many selfish reasons people do seemingly altruistic things like donating to charity. Primarily, to viewed externally as a "good person" and to receive an increase in social status and connections. Nothing signals high status better than giving a fuck load of money to charity. There is also a great deal of slimy stuff that is done by non-profit charities and foundations in the name of the common good. Really, it's the perfect cover for a sociopathic agenda. All morality is internal. I t…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 02:59 PM
6

How should I read this? Branch swing, cheating, orbiter, she's possibly up for any and all of these options. Curious as to how to approach this as I have no intention of fucking her. Avoid her, especially being alone with her.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:42 PM
2

So I've been with an LTR for 4 years now. This is your problem. You need to do something make the sex feel fresh and exciting again. Humans are wired to get bored of fucking the same person over and over after a few years. Either that or trade her in for a new model.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:38 PM
2

Anyways while studying yesterday I noticed her receiving texts from a guy and she wouldn't open them when I was explicitly able to see. Sketchy af. She's cheating, or seriously thinking about it, bro. Do I confront her about this, and if so HOW without looking like a snoop? She's YOUR girl. You have the right (nay, duty) to call her on whatever sketchy shit she does. You have the right to snoop if you feel it's necessary.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:27 PM
4

This. Rational Male is the Red Pill bible.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 11:34 PM
6

Woman are a time sink. The more women you are dating, the less time you have to invest in your mission. There are a lot of guys out there who let juggling women dominate their lives. I recently came out of a relationship with an eight, and I think that's what I'm missing. This is why I prefer to get an 8+ LTR and spend 1 night a week with her, 2 max. Once you have proven to yourself that you can get laid pretty much at will, you don't really need to spin plates anymore. I don't even bother on da…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:48 PM
1

It's weird to describe, but she is not my equal in this aspect. Don't search for a women to be your equal. That's BP idiocy. Additionally, we aren't sexually compatible. This is a more legitimate gripe. I also love her too much to put her through the pain of this impending breakup You aren't doing her any favors by kicking the can down the road so that she's that much closer to hitting the wall when you finally do cut her lose. If the relationship is no longer working for you, if you know you wi…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:42 PM
1

No. All it means is that nothing a man did for a woman in the past can secure her loyalty. Women stick around in a relationship because of current and future benefits. Past benefits rendered mean nothing. If you want to retain some level of control, keep dangling a carrot in that never-quite-arriving future.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:38 PM
25

Catherine Zeta Jones had her fun on the CC Dude, if you think Douglas hasn't banged hundreds of other women besides her you're crazy. I'm sure CZJ rode the CC, but she is only one possible vector of infection.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:11 PM
17

This is all true, but would it not also be an argument against men being promiscuous? It is. If you sleep with a lot of women, you're almost certainly gonna get something. Condoms help but are far from 100% effective.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:06 PM
0

Deep down you know that making money in "morally dubious" ways is not healthy. Ok, I'm done here.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:14 PM
0

No, I'm not. If this was merely nonsense you wouldn't be so heavily triggered right now. Really, I'm just trying to make you aware of the karmic debt that you're incurring.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:08 PM
0

Like I said before. Do whatever you want. The Law of Return gives zero fucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:55 PM
-1

Karma is bullshit and does not exist. lol good luck with that one, buddy. Really it doesn't matter if believe or not. Karma is nothing more than the idea that everything you do eventually comes back to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:22 PM
-1

You prey on people with an addiction. Morally dubious, you said it. Do what you want. It's your karma.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:26 AM
-12

Morally it's kind of dubious, but I would rather be rich and win at the money game than poor and morally intact. So you're a dirty spammer...or similar type of scum. Did you ever think it might be possible to act morally and not be poor? It's easily possible. The desire to make money does not excuse scummy behavior. Your posting here gives the impression that you are a massive douche. I encourage you to reevaluate your life choices.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:01 PM
0

Call me beta but I enjoy talking to her, but I feel like it could very well be a trap and a case of oneitis Yep...you're already in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:21 PM
2

Don't put up any pictures where you look bad. Don't put up any whiny statuses that indicate you are having a bad time or otherwise getting owned by life. Do put up pictures where you look attractive and high status. Taste for luxury, position of power, active lifestyle, that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:34 PM
1

Has anyone made this work, I get the whole abundance mentality thing it's just why not try hitting the refresh button? Don't kid yourself. You want to text these girls because it's easier to text a girl whose number you already have than going out to meet new ones. The problem is they've already labeled you a loser. Nearly impossible to over come that. Sack up and meet some new women.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:10 PM
3

Last weekend I got really drunk and decided to start approaching. You don't want the cornerstone of your strategy to be alcohol abuse. That's not gonna work out for you.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:06 PM
2

The dictionary definition of supplication equates it to begging...so yea, pretty much. That said, there are ways to give a woman what she wants without supplicating, so that may not have been the ideal word choice.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:04 PM
2

Supplication has its place. At work for example, you best know your place and obey your superiors. In certain contexts, supplication is necessary to achieve order and group cohesiveness. Your romantic dealings with women is not one of those places. Supplication is flat out repulsive to women on a sexual level. Nothing dries a pussy faster than an appeasing, groveling man.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:53 PM
1

make out > start feeling over clothes > start feeling under clothes > remove clothes > profit??? This was implied above, but it bears mentioning. Don't forget to pull your dick out, OP.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:50 PM
1

Huge red flag. Probable emotional baggage.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:48 PM
4

The lights go dim in their eyes and they can only be thinking, "you have the temerity and lack of social calibration to think I would have any interest in discussing anything beyond my immediate feelz?" THIS. It isn't that women aren't as intelligent as men (although, at the very high end, they are not) it is that they do not give a fuck about topics of intellectual importance. An intellectual topic is only worthy of their attention when they believe it will lead directly to an increase in statu…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 01:44 PM
-1

With that said, she's so sold on me she would not fuck other guys. ...unless one came along with higher smv than you. And she told me she even got a guy into her room but she could not do it, she found it repulsing just thinking about it. It's nice she's telling you stuff like this, but you have to be aware that women are extremely cunning. They know how male psychology works and will strategically drop little anecdotes like this in conversation to sell themselves. Anything a girl brings up, see…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:39 AM
6

you can somehow surmise that she was trying to get pregnant by many men? A poor woman trying to get impregnated by a relatively wealthy man? Who could imagine such a thing!!! Really, it's irrelevant though. Every man should be paternity testing any baby that is supposedly his, no matter how much he trusts the woman. If you fail to do this, and allow yourself to be listed as the father on the birth certificate, even if you find out down the road that you are not in fact the father, you will still…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 07:32 PM
2

Sounds to me like you're doing pretty good for yourself. Keep chipping away, it's a numbers game - and you're getting laid. This. Stuff like this happens a lot, especially with slags you meet off Tinder who you bang on the first or second date. Most of those girls are gonna be banging other guys before and after they met you, so there are all types of involvements going on that can lead them to flake. Hell, a decent number of them even have bfs. Stuff like that. Try to clear up holes in your gam…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:45 PM
3

WTF is this shit? Women being women. Once you accept their behavior is totally irrational you stop taking that sort of thing personally.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:24 PM
70

She got pregnant and plans on keeping it, probably to stay in the country to live off welfare or some shit Don't assume it's yours. She was likely trying to get pregnant by any number of men in your country. Do not accept the paternity until you've gotten a legitimate paternity test.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:42 PM
1

Not sure if he banged her back then or not. This is your gut telling you they most likely fucked. So the question is: How do I get her to stop that kind of behavior without coming off like a little bitch? Straight up tell her, no spending time alone with members of the opposite sex, and that you will respect the same rule yourself. Not just because of the potential for cheating, but because of how it looks to other people. To have other people think they saw your girl on a date with someone else…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:52 PM
15

If she cheats, you'll be able to tell right away by the change in her behavior. This is a serious underestimation of female lying skills. Many women can lie without any remorse. They are much better at it than men.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:41 PM
2

Has anyone here successfully got laid from hostel? How do you deal with the logistics problem? The key is not giving a fuck and embracing the public/semi-public aspect of the sex. You need to get bold, pull the girl into the most private location you can find, and just go for it. I banged a girl in the hostel kitchen. We got walked in on a couple times. A friend of mine banged a girl while about 6 of us were in the same room. I listened to the whole thing. Listened to another friend get a mornin…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:07 PM
1

Who cares. It's just a hook up. If she's still actively on there after a month of banging, an LTR is not in the cards. Enjoy the fwb while it lasts.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:02 PM
3

I dont know how to respond to this... Please help, thanks. Say nothing. Just wait. You want her to fear that she's lost your attention by asking such a bratty question.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:46 PM
1

Hitting her g-spot for a straight minute will make her cum. No doubt. Haha I wish it was that simple. Something like 20-30% of women have never had an orgasm.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:40 PM
39

Trust me. There are plenty of guys making that much or more who are starved for decent pussy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:24 PM
40

Engaged on 9/11. Got marriage license on Friday the 13th. This fucking guy needs to learn when life is giving him the signal to run for the hills.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:03 PM
51

200k a year will do that to a person. Are you so sure? He was making that same 200k per year when he got dumped by his tubby wife. This is the only thing that changed: I asked him how he was getting these girls and he just said he stopped giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:00 PM
1

Sure, it's possible. But often you'll get better results by starting fresh with a girl who has not become accustomed to treating you like a beta. Decide what you need to get out of the relationship, then use what power you have (the ability to leave) to get it. If that doesn't work then you'll need to move on.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:23 PM
2

You've confused a shit test with a comfort test Often the stuff women say is nearly identical for both a shit test or a comfort test. The real difference is her attitude. Is she acting super needy and insecure (like neglected child), or bold and bratty (like a spoiled child)? In addition to the example you cited, OP says she is "causing problems" so I still think it's a shit test. Comfort tests are less common and generally take place when the woman when feels an acute risk of abandonment. Shit …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:37 PM
2

if that is the exact behavior she is complaining about is there a different option to avoid exacerbating the issue if I am interested in prolonging the relationship, or is it the best choice? Yes, it's the best choice. When women say they "don't feel loved" or, as your girl says "feels that you do not listen or care about her anymore" what is really happening is that they don't feel attracted. Yes, this makes no logical sense, based on the words women use, but this scenario is extremely common. …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:33 PM
-1

She feels that I do not listen or care about her anymore. She feels like she "has you" now, so she's exploring how much control she can exert over you. Stop spending so much time with her. Get distant. Don't engage with her childish antics. Just make it clear that type of bullshit is driving you away and if she keeps it up the relationship will not last long. Your source of power is walking away, so make it clear that's exactly what will happen if she continues to displease you.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:32 PM
15

What can I do? Dump her ass. Seriously, if you're not having sex anymore, the relationship is likely unsalvageable. What happened is that you were way too beta and she lost respect/attraction for you. Now they only pleasure she receives from the relationship is getting a pussywhipped beta to do stuff for her.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:24 PM
13

It's sad, depressing, lonely but in an odd way liberating. Truly, nobody cares if you die. Accepting this removes a lot of artificial pressure created by the delusion that your life is so incredibly important.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:33 PM
1

Yea...especially this early in your relationship. I did it once, and as Rollo said, the sex life went off a cliff almost immediately after move in. Women also tend to think this is just phase one of a plan to get married. Unless you are absolutely willing to go that route, it's much better to hold off.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:26 PM
1

No man actually feels that way. I would tend to agree with you if I hadn't heard multiple guys say this among a close friend group. It's blue pill fully internalized. They were not fronting for anyone's benefit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:23 PM
1

Also any argument against doing it is welcome. Don't do it, buddy. Shacking up sucks balls. Rollo covered this a long time ago: I’m adamantly opposed to the “shacking up” dynamic, it is a trap that far too many men allow themselves to fall into. My fervor against this isn’t based on some moral issue, it is simple pragmatism. If you live with a woman you may as well be married because upon doing so every liability and accountability of marriage is then in effect. You not only lose any freedom of …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:31 AM
2

the doctor me and my mom go to basically tells us its all in our head He might be right. That doesn't mean the illness isn't real, it's just psychosomatic. I would research psychosomatic disorders. But if you can't accept that, why not go to another doctor?
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:24 AM
5

So I guess it turns out I'm in the top 10%. Are you white? I've heard European guys are favored by the Latin American women. Does anyone have any sage advice? A lot of dating is cultural, so try to find info that pertains to dating in the country where you're living. I know Roosh V has written articles and in some cases books about dating women in various latin american countries.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:21 AM
4

Which theory best applies to women? It depends entirely on the context. Woman, being highly social creatures, react based on the social implications of the hook up. It's 100% You Go Girl if she gets some alpha dick on the down low without anyone (except maybe one of her besties, who she brags to) finding out. Good girl reputation in tact, alpha sperm and validation obtained. On the other hand, if she gets spotted leaving the local bar with a shabby loser, with rumors quickly spreading throughout…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:12 AM
32

Four- Ageism. Some guys in their late 20s-30s are ashamed to introduce a woman that much younger because of the flack they'll get from their friends. To them, no one in this age range is suitable girlfriend material. There is actually truth to this one. Just shows you how successful the blue pill conditioning has become. I can't help but facepalm every time I hear a 30ish guy say a girl in her early 20s is too young, but many guys actually feel that way.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:02 AM
5

The same women who tell men they are never, ever "owed sex" for anything are the same women who tell men they'll get more sex for doing dishes. Women will always try to renege on their promises. You've got to be firm with "show me the pussy." All sexual favors must be rendered before any work begins.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:28 PM
0

Can the same thing apply to men? The male equivalent is really bad case of oneitis, where the guy will not stop obsessing over a woman even though the relationship has been over for a long time.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:19 PM
1

It would have been better that way. Exactly. Even if she initiates divorce at that point, he still saves himself a year of getting shamefully cucked and gets to move on with his life that much faster.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:24 PM
1

True, but you can't really base a strategy on exceptions, other than play the numbers game until you find an exception.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 01:22 PM
2

OP specifically posted about wanting to live a crazy party lifestyle. That's the sentiment I was responding to. If he had said "once in a while" or "moderate" that's obviously different...
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:20 PM
3

she says we should do something more low key like just hang at one of our appartments. You've hit the jackpot my friend. She wants to skip the cheesy date and go straight for the bang. Now don't disappoint! Invite her over and fuck her.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 01:30 PM
5

I think the dynamic you're trying to convey is that you don't try to dominate other men all the time. When you are with your male friends, the frame is a group of equals. Men appreciate this because, unlike women, they are repulsed by another man trying to dominate them. Personally, I will not stay friends with a guy for long if I feel like he is always trying to exert control over me. Of course this all depends on the context. At work, you need leaders to fill the dominant role, and employees t…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 01:23 PM
2

Not accepting this is trying to deny reality. This is what really grinds my gears about feminism, and by extension all of leftism. It is based on the egalitarian myth of all people being equal. This is awesomely appealing to the mediocre because it tells them they are just as good as anyone else, and that all their problems are not the result of inferior ability, but the bogey man of oppression. But yet when you look at reality, people are incredibly unequal. We range from awe inspiring super hu…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 01:09 PM
2

I'm not sure what you're getting at. Marriage can and does work for some men. So yea, it's a lot of risk, but not "no reward."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 12:57 PM
14

What steps can they take to make that sort of lifestyle a reality for themselves. Become an alcoholic and fuck alcoholic sluts? You may not understand if you've never been a part of that scene, but it's a fucking curse. The sex is generally shit and you will do nothing but damage yourself chasing that dragon. Learn to spin plates until you find a nice gf and fuck the shit out of her. If what you actually want is good sex with a hot woman, partying is terrible way to go about it. wild hook ups ar…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 12:30 PM
12

Yeh, this kind of talk should never be taken seriously. No matter how sincere she sounds - and sometimes they are being sincere This. A woman's words are often 100% sincere, in that moment, when she truly feels that she needs you and wants to be with you forever and ever. The issue is that, unlike a man, this sincerity does not carry forward into the future. A woman's words aren't binding the way man's are. What women do respect are power and consequences. Betray me and you'll feel my wrath. Dis…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 12:04 PM
1

If you're late 20s then you're good to go, up through mid to late 30s. Age is only a problem for a guys who are really young or really old. Just turn on the cocky jerk boy and game and have fun with it. When I get this question, I will rip off a few one liners. If they keep pressing I will ask them to guess, and usually end up telling them, especially if I see it going anywhere.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:58 PM
18

What comes next? Open hypergamy is sign of female dominance. We live in a matriarchy now. They openly flaunt their power. What comes next is more of the same. Increasingly nihilist values. Further normalization of sexual perversion. Women and other leftists will use the state apparatus to get those white hetero male resources one way or the other. If men opt out of marriage, that will just mean more taxes and more welfare. And also, less white babies and an overall weaker nation as the USA trans…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 06:38 PM
2

-I think I fucked up because I got drunk and was too aggressive (hands down pants, wouldn't normally do that). Does that sound about right? No, it wasn't that. What's more likely is that she was never really attracted to you and just wanted to go to an NBA game. She only fooled around with you because she was drunk. Once she sobered up she realized she did not want things to go any further. This is the problem with taking girls you have yet to bang on awesome and expensive dates. Most will says …
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:20 PM
1

What does it mean? A lot of women (and men) have types. In many cases, "you remind me of" means that you are the same "type" as her ex. Basically, you have a similar look that she finds very attractive. A lot of people who look similar also share personality traits, so you may have other stuff in common with this ex.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:16 PM
3

She comes home late once a week This sounds like trouble. Your rule is pretty passive aggressive. If you let her break it right from the beginning, she's never going to respect any of your rules. If it was me, I would put a firm stop to coming home late on nights when I have to work the next day. How hard is it for an adult to be home by 11? That is plenty of time to meet a friend for a drink or two. Really, the fact she is out late drinking without you on a consistent basis is a big red flag.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:11 PM
3

Invite her over for some of those dope milk cookies your mom serves up.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:49 PM
2

How old are you? Why not just tell them? When they press harder or ask later I take it as they trying to size me up as "younger". They are gonna try to belittle you by calling you a little boy. Where game comes in is hitting them back with comments about their dusty old vagina. They already know that you're young so just own it, rather than trying to dodge the question like it is some weakness you are trying to hide. They'll still fuck you even if you're younger than they are if you are attracti…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:48 PM
1

Something only feels like work when you're bad at it / don't enjoy it. This. If you have high smv you give women tingles just by showing up. How much work is it to send a few text messages and set up a date? But that's just another time sink and liability in my life. Yea...so is literally everything. There is plenty of time. Gotta spend it doing something. Saying you don't have time to meet women and have sex because you needed to stay home and fold your socks is just a lame excuse.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:41 PM
0

In my mind, we, RP men, are the ones who have to take our nation back. This. Get a solid pre-nup and a predetermined parenting plan (in the event of divorce) signed before you marry. Follow OP's other points and you are good to go. The only way we are gonna bring patriarchy back is by re-building marriage and raising our kids RP. If you don't marry and/or reproduce the feminists win -- they successfully destroy marriage/the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:49 PM
1

Idk, I feel unplugged but my desires have not changed. Takes time, man. Those desires will slowly fade as you internalize that they will be forever unfulfilled, and can be nothing more than a source of disappointment. I have friends that are in very loving relationships, the type that I would want. My parents have been happily married for 20 years, and my Dad can be pretty similar to me in his mentalities. There is a great deal about your friends' and parents' relationships that you do not know.…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:58 PM
1

Is it best to ignore and walk away or are there other preferred methods? Ignore and walk away works. If a girl gets disrespectful and squints her nose and rolls her eyes how should one respond to this? You could disrespect back by mocking her or something along those lines ("Is there something in your eye?"), but this is high risk, high reward. If it doesn't work you will just draw more attention to your rejection.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:50 PM
4

"You just seem like a guy who has a lot of girls" is not something girls ever say about a beta bux. He's not coming off as BB at all. He's coming off as a man-whore/cad, so girls who want the LTR (higher smv) are preemptively ditching him to avoid pump and dump or plate status. This happens all the time, where guys can get 5-7's as plates, but the fact they are sleeping around with mediocre women puts off the higher quality ones that expect a relationship.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:35 PM
2

What are some of the inferences I can make from this information about her if any? She likes significantly older men. This is not all that uncommon. Young guys might be strong physically, but are often weak and immature emotionally. Many young women crave the dominant mental frame of 35-50 year old men. My hamster is telling me she was lonely and horny and this guy was very "safe". You're intimidated by this guy so your hamster is trying to make him into a bitch. In all likelihood he was not a b…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:51 PM
1

This. The beard thing is a huge fad and we have already passed the high point. It's only a matter of time before beards become uncool again.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:43 PM
4

You're coming off as a player. A lot of smarter girls will bail if they want a bf and don't want to be another one of your plates.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:41 PM
2

It sickens me but I definitely was ignoring her hoping for a confrontation, I got the confrontation I wanted except I totally fucked it all up. This is where you went wrong. You were passive aggressive to the point she felt she had to say something so you'd stop ruining yoga for her. You shouldn't penalize girls for rejecting you. It's their right if they don't feel attracted. They don't owe you shit. This is taking "don't be an orbiter" too far. Gracefully accepting rejection isn't always easy,…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:36 PM
1

White people are genetically superior? I think the truth is somewhere in between that and Diamond's model. Ultimately models are just stories and no one will ever know for sure why things are the way they are. Narrative fallacy: http://wiki.lesswrong.com/wiki/Narrative_fallacy
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:31 AM
2

I'm trying to address her need for validation more attention while continuing to have fun with her WITHOUT being exclusive. She she keeps saying that's what she requires but she keeps coming back for NSA anyway. It sounds like you want the results of the soft next without the actual break in contact. It just doesn't work like that. It's a "can't have your cake and eat it too" scenario. If you must avoid commitment, soft next is the play. From her perspective, it's not just about more attention/v…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:45 PM
1

whether or not traditionally raised "redpill" women are able to cognitively and emotionally deal with their man having a little bit of a down time? None of them like. It's just not attractive. It's like a women putting on sweats and walking around the house belching and farting all day. This isn't about how a woman was raised. They're hardwired to find displays of weakness repulsive.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:36 PM
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First thing I'd do is lose those moobs.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:32 PM
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The next day I decided to be proactive and say we should hang out again soon. She never responded. This is where you stop thinking about her and go out and find another girl. She told you everything you need to know by not responding. Sending another text the next day was a bad move. Her response is just her trying to keep you in orbit, to keep the attention and validation coming. I mean, she explicitly said you're in the friendzone. You can bet your ass she would be texting back with the quickn…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:31 PM
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She's putting the screws to you for a relationship. You can either give her what she wants, or soft next, hoping she comes back. If you tell her you'll give her the relationship (just to keep her around a bit longer) but then don't, that will come back to bite you. If you soft next, you avoid the drama and negativity, avoid committing when you don't want to, and there is a very solid chance you can get her back at some point down the road.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:13 PM
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I'm going to drop some insider information on you: if you're not in the top 5% of jewish people, meaning that your earning power and social influence are so great as to be beneficial to the rabbis then you're viewed as a useful idiot. That sounds about right. Care to drop any other insider information the 5% are privy to? I find this subject quite fascinating.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:56 PM
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You should have attempted at least twice to initiate sex or touch aggressively if she declined those attempts give her a courteous 10 more minutes of your time then get out of there. This. You gotta make your move. Just bail if it doesn't go well.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:32 PM
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Just say "sorry I can't." If she presses for why, then tell her you don't want to. She is asking for it in that case.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:40 PM
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Ignore it. If she keeps doing it, tell her you don't want to hear about other dicks and that it's disrespectful for her to keep bringing them up.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:37 PM
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Do you think there's still a shot with her? No. She doesn't actually find you that attractive. Or something. Who knows. You'll never see her again.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:34 PM
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Good point, but this is a self correcting problem. If you can't handle a woman, you won't be dating her for long.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:24 PM
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I am not mischaracterizing Diamond. I'm with you, buddy. Diamond weaves a compelling narrative, but that book was written with the express purpose of down playing the important on genetic differences between ethnic groups. He started with an ideological view point and worked backwards from there. Scientifically, it's a crock of shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:08 PM
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The consequence of this is that the M:F proportion in Mensa (top 2%) is 2 to 1. And the disparity gets even greater the higher you go. The top .1% of society is virtually all men.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:02 PM
1

Still not buying this is a wide spread preference, rather than a limited number of exceptions.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:04 PM
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girl's body/feelings trick her into being originally sexually attracted to the BB She's attracted to the BB traits, but it's never sexual, purely economic. This is why it's a red flag if she makes you wait a long time for sex and the sex is lackluster. If she's sticking around despite the lack of tingles, it means she wants you for something else --> BB. I think women are quite aware of the motivation behind their sexual choices in most cases. This is the dual mating strategy in action (date the…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:02 PM
1

This. Her original question without any context is a stupid non-question along the lines of "why are there no good men in the world?" I also disagree with him about men having necessarily bigger egos. Women have huge egos and are constantly fretting about status and trivial slights.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:52 PM
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If we're talking beta bux in it's purest form, I would say it's usually some version of the third scenario. A girl decides she wants are provider above all else, so she finds a man with good provider characteristics, even though she isn't viscerally attracted to him like she was to the "bad boys" of her past.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:44 PM
1

If you'd internalized TRP, you would understand why you are better off moving on. Ironically, that type of mentality is one thing that would greatly improve your chances with her. Although nothing is impossible, continuing to fixate on this girl has a 99.9% probability of only making your raging case of oneitis even worse. You need to be able attract women consistently before you become worthy of the ones you really want to be with.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:31 PM
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what is the best way to get my foot back in the door, re-spark the interest? Don't bother. Once a girl has marked you down as Loser that is nearly impossible to change. I have nothing to lose and lots to gain. You do have something to lose. Wasting your time, and further degrading your confidence by having her reject you again. It is a justified case of oneitis No such thing. We go to school 3 hours away from each other (face palm) You should really read some more sidebar and contemplate that st…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:35 PM
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This likely has nothing to do with TRP. Especially given her past history. Try to get her to start exercising again. Might also want to consider getting back on those meds again temporarily.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:30 PM
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Also, would putting a photo with my gf show too much interest? That's beta af.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:28 PM
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your family and friends will start to develop a 'standard routine' of keeping their distance and being polite to her, but not actually friendly. This. Also, it's embarrassing if you introduce a woman to your inner circle and then break up shortly after.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:09 PM
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How should I act when I'm there? Zero fucks given.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:05 PM
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This. Either stop going, or stick up for yourself. Roast that mofo back and he'll respect you.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:14 PM
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No way, it's real. I've seen girls personalities change completely during PMS then flip right back the moment it's over.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:12 PM
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This is a form of stonewalling, a tactic to avoid engaging in discussion. It's a strong indicator that your relationship is fucked: http://relationshipresourcecenter.com/articles-concerning-relationships/relationship-articles/the-four-horsemen-of-the-apocalypse/
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:10 PM
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"I'm PMSing" is a shit test - to see if you'll let them get away with bad behavior. I never said let her get away with anything. I said stand your ground, but don't hold it against her. If she says something bitchy, your best response is total indifference. When women are in a lot of pain, that makes them more irritable. It would be great if your girl has the self control to avoid lashing out or acting like a bitch, but that's not always gonna be the case. PMS is some powerful shit. It's more ma…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:07 PM
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Secondly, if you're not happy with what I'm offering you you are free to go find it somewhere else... for all I know you already are. This sounds extremely pissy. I also know it comes off as passive aggressive, although it's not. I'm actually serious about that sentiment. You're in denial about being passive aggressive. It doesn't matter what your sentiment is. The tone is passive aggressive. That's all that matters. I know the BEST response to this shit test could possibly be blowing it off wit…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:41 PM
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When a girl is having bad PMS you just want to keep your distance until it blows over. This is the only time when a bad attitude/behavior is semi-acceptable. They really do lose their minds a bit when it gets bad. It seems like you've done pretty well. The only thing I would advise against is blowing her off if she does contact you. That would just show that she's made you upset. If she decides to cancel, just let it go. You are really better off not being around her when she's like that. Don't …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:24 PM
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Invite them to social gatherings I strongly disagree with inviting a woman to social gatherings pre-sex. She hasn't even verified that she likes you enough to fuck you yet. The last thing you should be doing is introducing her to all your friends and family like she's your wife-to-be. She hasn't earned that. I would only use this tactic, if the girl is on the fence (indecisive on whether or not she is attracted to you) and isn't interested in a one-on-one date. You shouldn't be wasting time with…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:04 PM
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FYI black guys out there seem to have a shit ton of success with the hot blonde types. Nah. I'm sure a few do well (pro athletes), but that is not enough to claim the whole demographic is successful.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:52 PM
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Try to be relaxed and casual about it. The more nervous/awkward you are the bigger the risk of coming off creepy.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:51 PM
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Blonds are WhiteWomen+
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:00 AM
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but its a numbers game where the odds that likely aren't in your favor Yes, the best solution is to just keep hitting on every hot blond you see and get used to the rejection.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 08:42 PM
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Alpha seems too loosely defined. Way too many Savages see themselves as Alpha when those top places really are for the Kings. I think this helps clarify males roles far better than labeling every guy who gets laid as alpha. Women have a hard wired attraction to savages. Every man should know how to access the savage within. But to become a King requires a high level of refinement and cultivation. It's winning the long game. Kings have the fierce will to dominate of the Savage, but they've channe…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:10 PM
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Should I just use social media or ask her friends for her number to maker her a possible plate? This is pretty beta. Just talk to her the next time you see her. Ask for her number yourself and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:57 PM
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I should probably just Always Be Approaching in my day to day. This. Maybe mix in some online dating and you're good to go. I truly doubt that many highly successful men block off time for "approaching." That type of thing is mostly for newbs who have to learn how to approach and can't seem to get any prospects without dozens of approaches.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:54 PM
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I haven't lifted/worked out hardly at all, I've been eating terrible food and drinking soda, basically a lot of self-fulfilling awfulness. You gotta try to pull yourself out of this self destructive cycle. The better you are at eating well and exercising, the shorter the shitty feeling lasts. Also, stop smoking weed and drinking. That stuff just makes depression worse.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:50 PM
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Restrict the amount of time that you spend with her This is a good one. I would also recommend avoiding her when you feel weak, depressed, or are just in a shitty mood. Instead of thinking she can help pull you out of these down periods, go into isolation to rebuild your strength. Also, stay vigilant about her attitude and the way she treats you. Correct any problematic behaviors as soon as they start. Look for signs she is getting bored. Above all else, maintain your individual life plan and ke…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:44 PM
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Stop being a minority. I know that's not helpful, but it is your main cause of failure.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:37 PM
1

You need better LMR skills. A lot of girls in the 5-7 range will want to bang you, but will know the end result will be casual sex only, so they put up a lot of LMR, try to get you to promise dates, etc.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:21 PM
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If she was really such a good girlfriend, she would not have made plans with you, she would not have called you, she would not even have responded to your advances. This. If going on dates with other guys is "trying to be a good committed girlfriend" then you're standards for a relationship or remarkably slow. A truly committed girlfriend should have an impenetrable bitch facade to sexually interested men. It's your call. Clearly, she is less than perfectly faithful in relationship, but AWALT. W…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 03:00 PM
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You shouldn't even consider asking until you've had numerous long discussions about what both you want and expect from marriage.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 02:50 PM
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Agreed. We need to bring back benevolent sexism. Feminists have structured the discourse such that sexism = misogyny, when the terms are really quite distinct.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 02:02 PM
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But it is a fact that men tend to be better at STEM than women. Men IQ shows greater variance thus producing more highly intelligent men than women. This. History is misogynist. 99.99% of all human geniuses have been men. A disgusting hatefact yes, but this the reality we're working with.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:43 PM
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I was confident that she wasn't capable of such things, because she appears to be very different from others woman's AWALT, buddy. All women are more than capable of cheating. She's clearly seeking attention from other men. The first two flirting incidents are troubling because they are highly disrespectful. If that's how she acts when you are right next to her, imagine what she's doing when you're not around. The third incident is even worse. Seems pretty obvious she was out on a date with some…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:36 PM
1

She's sketchy. Lying about her age...who knows what else she's lied to you about. You got beta buxxed and now that you realize this, there is some regret. That's understandable, but you should also understand all women are like this. In hindsight, maybe you could have done a bit better, but being beta at the time, that may have been your best option. Your problems were all created by reading those diaries. I generally think it's best to leave well enough alone, and let the past stay in the past,…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:28 PM
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I have no problem with women sitting out the snow shoveling, provided that men get to sit out doing the dishes, mopping the floors, and other house cleaning tasks. There should be an equivalent dick pass when it comes to female work. The problem is women want a pass on masculine chores, but then want equality when it comes to traditionally female chores.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:18 PM
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See each other as much as possible. Keep in contact, but make sure your texting rate is less than hers. 4 months isn't too long, especially when there is a plan to reunite at the end of that. You should be fine, assuming this girl is into you. LDRs mainly go bad because staying committed when you aren't getting sex (because of the distance) puts the guy in an extremely beta position. Women being women, you add that together with the void of the distance, and it's just a matter of time until she'…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:44 PM
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I you only need to keep things afloat for 4 months, that should be doable. If you're gonna cheat in the mean time, at least take precautions to ensure that does not blow up in your face when your gf moves in.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:08 PM
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If you're gonna do it, don't get emotionally involved, don't get an STD, don't get anyone pregnant, and most important of all, don't get caught. In my experience, most women really don't care that much if it is purely physical and is well hidden.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:40 PM
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Stop ejaculating every time you fuck.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:34 PM
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You're gonna want to look into moving out. Regardless of where this incident leads, rooming with a wet blanket who sends passive aggressive emails every time she feels violated is no way to go through life.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:30 PM
2

We also aren't meant to drive cars or use computers.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:15 PM
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maybe a little on the druggie side She's slutty. Girls that do drugs, even a little, are always slutty. this isn't an LTR and I have zero emotional commitment You shouldn't care if she cheats. That said, there's a decent chance she cheats (not necessarily that night), or at least consider it. She knows this thing has a limited shelf life just as much as you do. You did fine, but there's no reason invest much in her fidelity.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:41 PM
3

Tattoos are trashy and low class. But they are also "edgy." They will turn on women in certain ways, and they will turn off women in certain ways. Personally, I would never get one and I would never LTR a woman who has any prominent ones (visible in t-shirt and shorts).
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:32 PM
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She still didn't give you a firm commitment. Her answer: "My aunt asked me over, I could be at her place til 9 or something" I would reply with something like: "Tell the old broad you're leaving at 8."
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:30 PM
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Although I am 43 I look much closer to 30. Not sure if that factors in or not. This is good. It should allow you to date women in their 20s. A lot of women in their 20s date guys in their 40s. I feel super creepy about seeing or pursuing someone who's only 10 years older than her. You're gonna want to get over that. Relationships with younger women are more enjoyable in pretty much every way. This "10 years older than my daughter" thing is just residual blue pill conditioning.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:27 PM
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It dawned on me yesterday just how few attractive women there are out there in daily life. Location is a factor to some degree, but you're right -- highly attractive women are pretty rare. That's why they're so valuable. Not to mention a lot of them aren't single and the ones left are extremely picky. Even in the best parts of NY city, you could still come away from several hours in the field without any great prospects.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:56 PM
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What about agree and amplify, how would that work? In the scenario about the stairs, using agree and amplify, you could make a remark that agrees with her accusation of laziness, but in a way that paints her original accusation as ridiculous. I think you did well with this, it seemed like you shut her down pretty fast, but by explaining your actions it gave some legitimacy to her original question. Her: "What have you been doing all this time?" I might say something like "Searching for pink hand…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:59 PM
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I can sit in my office on a Monday afternoon watching my employees work, and idlely tap my thumbs to wrangle a 26 year old into meeting me for a drink at 8 Exactly. Many bar nights end up as busts because they are few attractive women out and/or they aren't available or interested in you. With online you filter for girls that are motivated to meet a man and have pre-selected you as a candidate. Then you get to skip straight to the isolation stage.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:38 PM
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On the other side, even attractive men must actively work at cheating before they can actually cheat. The barrier to temptation is higher, decreasing the likelihood of cheating and thus divorce. This is a big factor I think. Men need to commit to cheating, put themselves out there, and maybe will get an opportunity to cheat. It's much less of a sure thing. Attractive women just get offers. If a woman decides to stray, all she has to do is say yes.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:25 PM
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I personally think yes. A lot of it is also opportunity. The guys with more sexual partners will generally be more attractive and have stronger game. These guys are gonna have options, and as their wives age, are going to be more tempted to upgrade to a new woman. A guy who only had sex with a few women before he got married because he a is fat shlubby beta is not gonna have this temptation. Of course it is more complex than this, because the attractiveness of the alpha guy can also help keep th…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:18 PM
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Hot "college girls" don't really need Tinder. They've got a campus full of a smorgasbord buffet of cock to choose from only minutes away. They do if they want to fuck an older guy. A lot of them are on there to meet guys in their 30s and 40s.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:05 PM
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if I can get a girl alone for half an hour I can get laid. This. If your date game is strong, online dating is awesome. You cut straight to a one on one date without all the bar scene bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:03 PM
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Stop generalizing to all people based on your own bizarre little personal crusade. Online dating apps deliver a nearly limitless number of options for attractive women who are predisposed to fuck. If they don't work for you maybe you're using them wrong. This. The problem with OP's post are the generalizations. If you aren't doing well with online dating, by all means try something else, but don't blame the technology and don't assume every other guy is failing as hard as you. Online dating is e…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 12:59 PM
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IDK, the hottest girl I've ever had sex with was from tinder. This. Plenty of hotties are on tinder. ALL women looking to meet a man are there at this point. They are just as likely to be on there looking for men as they are to be trolling your local bar or coffee shop.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 12:41 PM
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How do I get back to her place(she lives alone)? Why not just set the next date location right next to her place. Girls aren't stupid, she will see where it's leading. That saves you having to invite yourself over straight away, which if you ask and get denied, is not ideal. A lot of girls will shy away from this because it feels too slutty. If there is some pretext of a date first, that feels better to them.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:52 AM
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but what reason do they use to spin it? Misogyny.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:46 AM
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Does she complain like this every time you want sex or is it only occasionally? If she is saying this stuff, but still doing what you want, it may not be a problem. Sometimes women will say stuff like "I don't feel like sex" but their body language conveys that they are actually up for it, they just want you to dominate them and push through this fake resistance. You seem to be doing pretty well with her shit tests. The only nit to pick is that you're taking them a bit too seriously and arguing …
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:42 AM
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You've 'dated' her a couple times? They haven't fucked. That's the only reason this is even a question for OP. OP, you might as well go if you have nothing else going on. Just understand that in this scenario, having not consummated the relationship within two dates, you are one of those orbiters. You are better off prospecting among her female friends.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:25 AM
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Taking responsibility is about how what you believe affects the way you live. It is no doubt true that a great deal of life is beyond our control. It's good to accept this and ruminate on it occasionally, but the belief that "you can't control anything" or that "it isn't your fault" are very dangerous ones to buy into completely. If you dwell on this constantly, you slip into a victim mentality that leads to unproductive mental habits. You dwell on your weaknesses and inherited deficiencies, you…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:53 PM
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Getting laid isn't a priority Make it a priority. If you're a single man with a normal sex drive it should be a priority. Claiming it's not a priority is just making excuses ahead of time for why it's not gonna happen. Currently I'm planning on just approaching and talking to as many people as possible (male, female, old, young, w/e). Why talk to dudes and old people? Your time is precious, you should spend it approaching young women. They are a lot more fun to talk to than random dudes and old …
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:38 PM
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Girls know why you're inviting them, she can see right through the polite curtain over it. No point putting any real effort into hiding anything. This. If you think you need a "hook" to get a girl interested in spending time with you, you're stuck in a beta frame.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:29 PM
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Was this RP? No, you're pining after some girl who has no love for you. You copped feels for her before she earned it. Try not to invest feels after a single fingering. You didn't do too bad. Rejection is always gonna sting. Just gotta take it like a man and move on. It's not so bad.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:23 PM
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