Hey guys, long time lurker here. I had a question that I felt you gents could help me with. I've been seeing a rather traditional girl for the past few weeks (I'm living in East Asia). She's in her mid 20s and seemingly inexperienced with guys (I know, I know, hear me out). She made me wait a few dates before sex and when it came time it turned out she was a virgin. Fine with me as I'm more of a LTR kinda guy anyway. So we had sex and have gone on another date afterwards. I tried to bring her back home that night and she was not having it. I texted her today to have dinner over my place and she shoots me down at first, finally agreeing that she'll come over but "just for dinner" and that she's leaving afterwards. The question I have is this 1)her losing attraction 2) just basic girltalk of "I'm going to say I won't sleep with you but I will" or is it 3) more of a comfort test from her? I feel if I just go on and caveman her while she's looking more for comfort it will backfire. For reference I'm an attractive white guy in East Asia who speaks the local language, always was quite clueless with the women because of my beta tendencies though. I know the advice of "forget her, fuck ten other girls" and I do have other girls interested but looking for an LTR she objectively marks the boxes (attractive, low partner count (me), thin, intelligent etc.)