darkstar505 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Three questions regarding my current social status/image		darkstar505	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 01:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex" "You got me." changes subject	/r/askTRP	31/01/16 11:28 AM
0	"Are you cheating on me?" "I can't cheat because I don't play by the rules anyway."	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 03:56 PM
1	"Are you cheating on me?" Someone's been listening Rihanna/Drake...	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 03:55 PM
1	My First Instant Date \| Very Unexpected Good job. Remember that mistakes are never a bad thing and most of the time good opportunities to learn and improve yourself. Please keep us up to date from time to time with a FR, I really like reading your posts so far.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/16 03:51 PM
2	Entering an LTR and N count. Need some input. I'm so fucking put off by this I'm considering ending it. Always trust your gut. She lied to you. Is that LTR-material? I think not. Break up or reduce to plate. And by the way, her low self-esteem is not your problem.	/r/askTRP	09/01/16 02:04 PM
2	Are most people ugly to you? Not necessarily ugly, but a lack of energy. A lack of passion. A lack of spirit. When I go shopping, go out in the club or go to the gym I see people on their phones all the time. When I get into conversation with people I discover this people have no purpose in life, no hobbies and no goals. No nothing. It seems as these people are just maintaining themselves. Only eating, drinking and sleeping keeps these people alive. In fact, this IS their life. Most importantly, I never see them smile. But …	/r/askTRP	09/01/16 02:00 PM
2	Hello, It's Me... Shit, I just deleted all numbers from girls that stopped messaging me back or did not even messaged me at all yesterday. Great post. Sounds like a fun thing to do while being bored on a holiday afternoon, just too see what results I can get.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 10:49 PM
1	Just letting out some feels. Any way I can help the guy? He is a grown man. His problems and shitty situation is 100% his own fault and 100% his own responsibility to solve.	/r/askTRP	05/01/16 03:42 PM
3	Redpill in Europe? How do I approach women and create an abundance of women living in western Europe and living in a rural area? I live in a rural area in Western Europe. All the mechanics TRP describes are EXACTLY the same over here.	/r/askTRP	03/01/16 06:16 PM
57	"Entertain me" Fat or out-of-shape and entitled to be so. A conversation I had with literaly EVERY girl I have dated in recent memory: Girl: I am chubby and I really want to do something about it. Me: If you feel like that, join a gym and exercise. Girl: Noooooo because I am lazy! Me: ...	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/16 06:11 PM
1	How does an early 20's man build a social circle without college The usual advice is "find a hobby". How do you turn that into friends? One of my goals for 2016 is starting a band. I want to get in touch with people to start that band. How? In a big city near my own town there is an awesome rockcafe which holds jam sessions every thursday. So I will just go there, bring my guitar with me, start playing and get in touch with people there. As I become a regular there I will get to know more people, they get to know me and maybe I could do other activities with …	/r/askTRP	30/12/15 02:12 PM
1	What to do about phimosis? Hey man, had the same problem a few months ago when I started to develop an actual sex life. I am pretty much fine now and my penis does not hurt when I get a blowjob or go inside a woman. Just stretch everyday, for example when you are on the toilet or when you are under the shower. Just reserve one to two minutes stretching that shit up. Make sure you put a light pressure on it but not too much, you do not want to tear your foreskin up. You have different techniques do to this. Look up some te…	/r/askTRP	29/12/15 05:48 PM
3	[21M] I have most other areas of my life in check, but feel completely undateable due to my appearance. What is so wrong? Def not your looks since you look perfectly normal to me. Like other people said, it is probably your body language. Try improving your mental and physical state so you get better on that part. You can do that by start reading on body language in general and start lifting. Lifting made a huge difference for me personally. s/o to the OVO beanie btw	/r/seduction	29/12/15 05:40 PM
1	Is liking Video Games beta? If you like it just do it man. But make sure it does not get in the way of truly important things such as work, education or whatever. You already do that so you are just fine.	/r/askTRP	29/12/15 01:09 PM
5	[FR] TRP on easy mode Pt. 2 I did it for the FR. You're welcome. I think it is good that you fucked her. Now there will be a zero chance you will put her on the pedestal ever again. Also, I think you did the boyfriend a favor.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/15 10:34 AM
1	Reminder - don't focus on what you don't have compared to others. Focus on how you improved (or failed to improve, or even degraded) yourself compared to yourself a few X ago. If another guy gets 200 women in a year.... are you sad about getting 2 in a year where you had none before? It's progress! Last year I was a virgin. This year I lost mine and fucked three women. Next year I am damn sure I will top that. As long as there is process, I am happy.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/15 10:27 AM
3	IM's Machiavellian Maxims I love posts like these, just what I needed.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/15 06:53 PM
2	A Red Pill New Year So why did they fail? Because they are losers. Losers are born, winners are made. E: Another note. I think failing does not make someone a winner or a loser but a winner tries to find out why he failed, tries to find ways to solve these obstacles and tries it again. Losers just give up.	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/15 02:43 PM
1	Lone Wolf That last conversation part. Smooth. As. Fuck. Awesome. Most of my friends are on holiday next Saturday, I may just go out alone and see how it goes using some of your stuff. Great post!	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/15 10:08 AM
2	How to improve my speaking? Toastmasters. Joined a group two months ago. Really improved my speaking and it is fun as well.	/r/askTRP	18/12/15 02:29 PM
17	21 ways to take pussy off the pedestal A girl once did this with MY crack while having sex. One of the biggest sexual wtfs I have had so far.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/15 11:21 AM
2	I feel bad for a girl after nexting her - need some perspective That's it. Deleted her number, deleted everything. Thanks buddy.	/r/askTRP	13/12/15 07:02 PM
1	I feel bad for a girl after nexting her - need some perspective It truly was not about the bad sex, just the lack of energy in casual interaction. For the rest, your advice makes sense.	/r/askTRP	13/12/15 06:24 PM
3	Stop doing things you don't want to do Do you sometimes think to yourself “Boy, I’ve been scratching my balls and browsing reddit all weekend. I really need to practice guitar more often!”, fuck practicing guitar, if it doesn’t make you happy to practice every day, don’t do it. An absolute ridiculous statement in my opinion.	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:50 AM
1	I asked a girl out irl and she said yes but haven't heard back from her via text Move on, she is not interested.	/r/seduction	29/11/15 04:29 PM
1	Good way to escelate this date? Reading your post, she is into you. You do not have to worry about that. I would start of with some innocent, small stuff. When you tease her and she is like "Awhhh, you are such a jerk." say something like "I am. A hug to make it up?" Not very sexual but it will break the ice for sure. Also lead her by holding her hand, put your arm around her waist, stuff like that. Also make sure to make eye contact. Then you need to make it sexual. I always like to slap her (not your friend, just girls in ge…	/r/seduction	29/11/15 03:48 PM
2	Pitty Party. There are two options: You stop improving, you give up. For the rest of your life you will intensify the feeling you have now because not only are you bad at women, you actually gave up improving yourself. You keep on improving, no matter what. You will be THAT guy. Others have done it before, so what stops you? Sure your game may be flawed, but there is this wonderful thing called the internet that can help you improving. It will take time, sure, but it will be worth the effort. Which option wi…	/r/seduction	27/11/15 11:32 AM
21	Should I drop my friends and make new ones to attract girls? Your friend is obviously jealous. Real friends are not jealous when one friend actually has the balls to go over to a girl and start a conversation with her. They stand on the sideline, pretending they do not know each other, maybe peek over a few time to see how he is doing. If the girl is laughing, a real friend thinks "Awesome, Tommy is getting his dick wet tonight for sure." If the girl rolls her eyes and walks away, a real friend goes over, puts his hand on his friend's shoulder and says "B…	/r/seduction	27/11/15 11:29 AM
29	Texting 101 – A Guide to Turn Texts into Dates I have about three to four number closes a week but nothing ever comes of it. This is a good guide, will try some of these things from the number closes I will get tonight!	/r/seduction	27/11/15 11:05 AM
0	[deleted by user] Differs every meeting but it is most of the time someone who has been a member of that specific club for a long time. They are not necessarily the best speechers though. If you want more information just PM me.	/r/seduction	24/11/15 03:30 PM
5	[deleted by user] In relation to hobbies: I joined a Toastmasters club, which is basically a competitive speeching club but in a very informal and relaxed way. There are thousands of clubs all around the world and definitely something I would recommend for someone who would like to increase their social skills. Most importantly it is fun and very motivational!	/r/seduction	24/11/15 01:34 PM
1	When I approach girls, I feel it is too obvious that I try to seduce them. How to be more subtle? Good point. I actually did that thing you mentioned recently a couple of times and girls were very receptive. I tend to be mean because when I think of a possible I tend to say them to people even if I like them. I should do that less...	/r/seduction	23/11/15 02:25 PM
3	When I approach girls, I feel it is too obvious that I try to seduce them. How to be more subtle? I do not really try to escalate the conversation, yes. I will try to focus on that more with the example you mentioned next time.	/r/seduction	23/11/15 02:23 PM
2	She has never kissed anyone. "Hard girl" Go on a date with her, sure, but do not waste time on her even if she is good looking.	/r/seduction	11/11/15 10:11 PM
8	Do we have any guys here that have an obvious facial flaw and still succeed with women? It is not necessarily important how you look like but how you present yourself. I have to be honest that this sounds easier than it actually is. I suffer from a chest deformity which I thought was actually an issue when meeting women but it is not. Some have even found it kinky. Accept that your deformity is a part of you. Feeling bad about is is not going to change a thing. It is all about how you present yourself. Even with a skull deformity you can be a confident guy with an awesome life and …	/r/seduction	09/11/15 05:19 PM
9	#NoNothingNovember 2015 Challenge Vices -There will be no more porn and masturbation. Only cumming inside a vagina is allowed. -I will not buy food when going outside and I am hungry. Exceptions include essential meals breakfast, lunch and dinner. I will try to always bring my own food when I go to university and when I go clubbing I will just bring a fucking banana to get those energy levels up again. -I will not visit theredpill for a month. I will merely use reddit to update my thread on nonothingnovember daily. Daily activit…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 06:22 PM
14	[FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women. Every time a girl says to me "You can always talk to me about it if you want to." I think "NOPE!".	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 06:00 PM
1	An Endless Debate for Me: Female Friends are Useless A plate (who I didn't fuck) Pardon me? I cannot believe this is written by someone is who has been on this forum for over two years. As I read it, you got rejected by a woman, you lost your frame (not seeing her again) and then became her emotional tampon.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 04:21 PM
0	Age of consent in Massachusetts is 16. Is there a catch? It sucks because I live in this small town with so many ridiculously hot high school chicks, but only a fraction of them are 18+. Same here, pal. My plan is to move to a college town near my university in a few months. In the meantime I commute when going out to a bigger city and am planning to start using tinder to set up a few dates in the meantime.	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 08:22 PM
0	Girlfriend had MFM threesome with ex bf and some random he found. Should I be as disgusted as I am? She told me about it and it made me feel sick to my stomach. it still makes me uncomfortable. Follow your gut on this one. I was in almost the same exact situation two months ago when a girl I was exclusive with (LTR-light) wanted to have threesome with other guys and girls. Then she told me she slept with 9 guys (at the age of just 18). Then that she fingered a female friend of her a few days before we started dating. I ended things a few days later because I just felt really weird thinking abo…	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 08:14 PM
1	Age of consent in Massachusetts is 16. Is there a catch? I'm over 21 but I look 19 I know a guy who used this line of thought. Do not do that, if girls find out you look like a pedo. Even if it is legal, you will def get frowned upon and is not worth it. People will call you a pedo behind your back for sure. Bad for SMV. Can't you just get girls who are over 18 or over? Problem solved.	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 08:04 PM
0	Age of consent in Massachusetts is 16. Is there a catch? What is your age? If you are between 18 to JUST 20 things are okay I guess but if you are older than that things will def get weird from then on. E: I live in a country where age of consent is 16 so this is from my own experience.	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 07:54 PM
3	How to not be an interviewer? Make statements instead of asking questions. "Are you into modern art?" "You seem like the kind of girl who is into modern art." Even better, when making a compliment make sure to make clear it is YOUR opinion of her. "The dress looks nice." "I think that dress looks nice." Small difference but major impact.	/r/askTRP	22/10/15 07:25 PM
1	She loves me, he lost frame, I banged her after I saw someone go from beta to omega right before my eyes. You did the guy a favor in my opinion. If my girlfriend would pull of something like this I would kick her out of the house the next day. Sure, would feel shit but if your girlfriend does shit like this she is not into you. You have been second place all along and to quote one of my favorite rappers: "Being second is just being the first to lose."	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/15 07:22 PM
3	Coding Academy in NYC makes tuition for women FREE to address gender gap I'm going to go ahead and call bullshit considering I personally know plenty of women (as I'm sure most of you do) who took out a $120,000 loan to get a degree in Lesbian Dance Theory or an equivalent meaningless degree while Grace Hopper Academy's tuition is $15,680. Spit out my fucking drink reading this. Just imagine if they would to do this the other way around: free tuition for men who want to take a psychology education (mostly popular among females). Oh wait that would be gender discrimin…	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/15 07:12 PM
1	Ever since I took the Red Pill, music I used to like sounds really petty and kinda pathetic..Anyone else notice this? "Hotline Bling" by Drake and 'No Role Modelz" by J. Cole got me over oneitis recently pretty quickly.	/r/askTRP	20/10/15 12:25 PM
6	[FR] The first hole's the hardest (or: baby's first plate) Work on and improve yourself, it's the most important thing you can possibly do. When I woke up in the morning before swallowing the pill, I felt I woke up as the same person every day. I knew that today I would look like shit, feel like shit and probably won't do any shit worth. I was exactly the same person the day before and the day before that and probably the same person tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. I went to bed every day thinking "Today was a wasted day." Now, after swallowing the…	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/15 12:07 PM
1	My home situation is keeping me back from moving out – Need some perspective So what would you do if you were in the same situation like my dad? Just leave her?	/r/askTRP	18/10/15 04:34 PM
8	What makes your value higher than the girls? Girls have to suck dick to drive a cabriolet. I will get my dick sucked in my cabriolet.	/r/askTRP	18/10/15 11:28 AM
3	Really need advice it might be the only thing I really look forward to, and one of the only things I really enjoy doing It serves as an escape, because you are not happy with your real life at the moment. Start working on improving your real life. SHOW ME YOUR MOVES!!	/r/askTRP	18/10/15 11:26 AM
1	I'm 20 years old, 180 cm tall. What can I do to squeeze out the last bits of growth? 180 cm tall So....what is the problem here, exactly?	/r/askTRP	15/10/15 05:26 PM
36	Guy is secretly loaded with cash but does not tell his gf, she leaves him then finds out from his friends that he has been hiding his wealth from her (hamestering ensues) Re-Post Laughing my ass off while reading this. This guy really does not give a fuck. Why not spending any money on cool shit though? I have the same mentality like Will to only buy new stuff when they are broken but at least would have gotten myself a nice studio (since he plays guitar).	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/15 03:52 PM
1	How to keep TRP mentality for your whole life ? Experience the rules you made up for yourself. Then it becomes easier to follow them.	/r/askTRP	12/10/15 03:53 PM
1	Fucking a friend of a FWB. Advisable? 100% drama inducing. Last Saturday I kissed with two female friends on the same night when going out without them knowing it from each other. So I asked them both separately if they wanted to chill. One turned me down, the other was really enthousiastic about it. Then all of a sudden she did not want to anymore with some bullshit reason and stopped replying to me. Not that I feel bad about it but just thought it was valuable information for you.	/r/askTRP	12/10/15 03:48 PM
5	Asking a girl out I've never talked to? Do people these days even read the sidebar? Anyway, just go talk to her. Start a conversation on what she studies, try to find a connection, ask if she would like to take a break for studying and get some coffee.	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 01:27 PM
1	Three questions regarding my current social status/image BSc: Human Geography MSc: Geographical Information Systems Problem is that most of the time I explain what I do, they do not even understand what geography is. When I give the definition, they still do not get it.	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 01:25 PM
12	"I have a boyfriend" – my prescription for handling this. "He can watch." Loving this one to be honest. But like /u/bonerdude420 said, "I'm not asking you out, we're just talking." is probably the best option. On the other hand you can ask yourself why you would want to put so much effort in stealing a girl from another guy when there are much easier ways to get a plate. She is 100% no LTR-material if that happens.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/15 01:02 PM
3	Rate my SMV please? Am I in the top 20%? Higher? If you ask yourself this, probably not.	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 12:57 PM
-6	Simple trick to found out if she has a boyfriend Worked for me last night. Twice.	/r/seduction	10/10/15 02:47 PM
4	Fight Club, Deeper Than The Surface ...and yet you are posting on the same forum as them. You are making a point, though.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/15 11:58 AM
2	"You're so full of yourself" Loving the last one. But Yeah, agree and amplify OP.	/r/askTRP	08/10/15 06:46 AM
17	Baby steps in applying TRP. I have no grand, heroic tale of going out and slaying The Vagina, but it was pretty significant for me and I'd like to share. This was perhaps the first time in my life I actually stood up for myself and directly confronted someone about something. I think this points out something important. Most FR's I read here these days are about slaying pussy and how they did it. But to be honest I think the majority of the people on TRP do not slay pussy 5 times a week with as many plates. If you have way…	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/15 02:39 PM
3	[FR] Journal Xcerpt - Inside the mind of a natural RPer Motion causes emotion. I've been uplugged from social media and pointless shit I actually went to a gas station to satiate something as simple as wanting starbursts and ended up hanging out with my buddy for several hours. Moving and doing things re-centers you almost like meditation. These are always the best days. Just randomly walking into people you know when doing your own thing. Just now I came back from the gym where I walked into some buddies from going-out and some good laughs with.	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/15 02:31 PM
-2	Guy goes on date and gets rejected but assumes a "no fucks given" attitude... redditors on the sub (hownottogiveafuck) praise his "chivalry" [Bluepill example + analysis] Not giving a fuck is pointless if you do not know how to let her give you the fuck in the first place.	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/15 09:17 AM
2	For those who get laid, how long did it take after discovering the red pill?? 1 month after fully swallowing it, even though I still had my beta ways. NoFap helps a lot.	/r/askTRP	06/10/15 08:27 AM
9	Anyone know any high school couples (hot wife, popular husband) who married and what happened to them with age? My parents. Met eachother at age 17 and 14 and are still happily together. Of course that is because my father was smart to never marry and pretty much apply every basic rp thing such as dread game to his relationship. It is possible. E: together for almost 40 years now	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/15 09:07 PM
10	Why Avoiding Relationships in Your 20s Might Be the Biggest Mistake You’ll Ever Make This is the best option, yes. At the moment I feel most girls I meet are not girlfriend material, but worth to meet up with. Perfect solution.	/r/seduction	04/10/15 11:40 AM
1	Voice Cracks 21 years here, facing same problem. I think there are two causes in my situation: -Loads of snot/slime in my throat. Not sure where it comes from. -My voice cracks when I talk very enthousiastic or loud. When I am calm and talk with a deep voice I have no problem at all.	/r/askTRP	03/10/15 03:41 PM
1	In one week, two girls said to me they felt "scared" and "threatened" being around me. Shit-test or serious problem? If girls start saying it while running away and screaming, change your attitude. Thanks for your comment, this will be my frame.	/r/askTRP	03/10/15 03:11 PM
1	For those of you who quit porn, how did you do it? Your issue is you have too much free time I agree 100%. Since I started getting more hobbies, work more on school, started lifting etc. I started masturbating WAY less. Maybe once a week. I simply have so much shit to do I have no time thinking about putting my hand around my dick.	/r/askTRP	03/10/15 10:43 AM
10	So I saw my ex with this guy that orbited her. She wouldn't take me back before. Feels weird Her back-up options were probably not that good, so she ended up with that dude.	/r/askTRP	03/10/15 10:42 AM
31	Woman makes an app to rate people: is now not comfortable with people rating her. AHAH. OH WOW. I remember an episode of Community that was EXACTLY this. Fun read, thanks for sharing.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/15 08:50 AM
3	“The leads are not weak, YOU are weak”: On the subject of approaching I don't mind you being harsh, my post is not flawless to be honest. I prefer the approach you point out (talk to women you happen to walk into rather than looking for them 24/7) actually. But sometimes I still need that little push over the edge (wouldn't say I am plugged but def not full RP) to get into a conversation and this does that for me, even though the whole thing is kind of flawed. You got me thinking here to be honest.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/15 06:40 PM
4	“The leads are not weak, YOU are weak”: On the subject of approaching Obviously. Unfortunate mix of terms in between the metaphor and what I was meant to say I guess. What I meant is that you need to present yourself to this woman because you are worth it. That was the whole point.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/15 06:11 PM
5	GayLubeoil's Guide to Taking the Ultimate Shirtless Tinder Selfie Nice guide. But what if I have a slight chest deformity (Pectus excavatum)? Should I even bother?	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/15 03:51 PM
30	[FR] Incel goes to a bar I love field reports like these. Way more enjoyable to read than those "I fucked a girl last night woooooo!". Motivates me way more to get my shit together as well.	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/15 07:07 PM
4	Need advice about a girl? This exactly. Also always add a flair to a post.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/15 05:12 PM
1	About to start secondary next year. And I want to become a pickup god. Did people these days on r/seddit even READ the fucking sidebar?!	/r/seduction	24/09/15 05:28 PM
-4	Sober Seduction I live in Scandinavia, and basically, more or less the ONLY way people socialize here is by drinking... a lot. And so have I been doing so too, and it has worked very well. Bad argument. You don't need to drink because others drink. Why do you give a fuck? I was wondering how it has worked for other people out there? Since I have been into PUA and self-improvement I pretty much stopped drinking and doing drugs. I really dig Licor 43 so sometimes I buy one or two of those but otherwise I mainly d…	/r/seduction	24/09/15 05:25 PM
3	Stuck in neediness/oneitis? get out and live your fucking life The best way to go get over oneitis is to delete all her contact info from everything and meet/date/fuck other women. Shouldn't be a problem if you are into PUA and if you do have problems with it, fix those problems and make sure you become the most awesome version of yourself. Fuck, she is going to be so sorry when she meets the new/better you three months later.	/r/seduction	22/09/15 09:12 AM
7	Rant for my beta friend Three months is a bit extreme, but I think the example visualizes it well. I have this friend who met a girl a month ago, got into a LTR within one week and is already saying stuff like "She is my best buddy in life." When I ask him if they are fucking he says "Stop saying that all the time! It doesn't matter. We are in love!" Then I say to him "If she already becomes your girlfriend within one week, why ain't you fucking yet?" To which he never knows an answer to. You are making good progress b…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 05:40 PM
68	Rant for my beta friend When you say stuff like I want to love them ask yourself what that even means. This. When it comes to women they are attracted to, in the end alpha's and beta's think the same thing: "I want to fuck this woman." However, most beta's create this illusion that they love this woman because they are ashamed that they see this woman as an fuck-object. They are not honest to themselves. Just like people who say when they haven't fucked with their partner yet even though they are already in a 3 month r…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 03:48 PM
4	Chateau Heartiste Maxims (Updated from 17/09/2014 to 19/09/2015) Think of female egos and female vaginas as opposing forces. The more one is stroked, the less the other wants to be stroked. Damn, will def remember this one. This post is gold.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/15 03:20 PM
2	An approach a day, keeps the beta away. Awesome post, feeling exactly the same lately. Not much closes, but hell at least I am approaching and learning every day. And hell, it is just so much fun! Every time I do it I get some kind of rush by just getting out my comfort zone and just fucking doing it. I don't even know why I am scared because 9 out of 10 reactions of girls are positive. Also, lately I have been greeting everyone I see. When I walk into the changing room of the gym, when I go the the bus in the morning and see someone …	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/15 02:03 PM
1	Set requirements for women, don't just go with the wind What is the difference between your requirements for plates and LTRs? Become I don't see any. Reading this post I got the notion you are actually going with the wind, mate.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/15 05:52 PM
5	Progress so far since March of this year. Thanks for mentioning that Toastmasters thing. Never heard of it, but sounds like something I really want to be a part of. For those who might be new. As someone who is still in the honeymoon phase for theredpill, my advice would be to not force yourself to "swallow the pill". Start at a small dosage and make your way up. I discovered TRP around the same time as you and agree with you. My personal experience is that making a lot of small changes can make one huge change in your life from which y…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/15 10:04 AM
2	Hidden Red Pill Habit: Drink Water! I take a bottle of water with me pretty much 24/7. I feel so refreshed and clean from the inside all the time. Also good to digest the food. Healthy poo! And as u/Funk54daba noted in his comment, my dick became a firehose since I have been doing this. Be careful not to drink too much though., you can actually die from drinking too much water.	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/15 06:29 PM
1	Why money does make you happy Never stated that a man should be looking for money, just how it can be a tool in gaining freedom. I am doing this programme because I am passionate about the content, the money is just a nice side-effect.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 06:16 PM
1	Why money does make you happy Haha! When I think of my future I always play this song in the back of my head.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 06:14 PM
10	Why money does make you happy I don't mind you bashing. It makes me reconsider my own views. I realize I am still a rookie, a punk. I like to see it as followed. I am running this marathon and at the finish is the life I would like to live. So far I have ran 12-15 km and things are going really well. Point is, I need to keep focus on my main goal and not get lazy and take my previous achievements for granted. I should stay focused on my breathing, my intake of essential vitamins etc. Will I do that, I wil finish this maratho…	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 06:11 PM
4	Why money does make you happy Hearing a lot of good stories on Japan from fellow students in the programme. Will go there in a few years for sure.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 01:48 PM
1	Why money does make you happy I agree, happiness is a very subjective thing. The examples stated in the post are my personal view on what generates happiness but if buying an exotic car makes you happy, go for it.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/15 12:23 PM
56	Women's feelings are fickle You are the prize. She (probably) cheated, and now she is not worth having the prize anymore. She didn't follow the rules of the game. You acted well and held frame. Being bisexual, stories like these seriously make me consider becoming gay sometimes lol	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 07:05 PM
3	Your Sacrifice Is Disgusting https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbjMEUmwp2o ...and to think this used to be one of my favorite songs in high school. Ain't getting more BP than this. Great post btw. Giving orders and commands to girls/women can be a sour apple to bite through, but in the end it pays off very well. Just like making decisions for them (when they are indecisive). It reflects strong leadership.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 03:53 PM
3	[FR] - Coming of Age at a Muay Thai camp in Thailand Amazing story, seriously. Recently a good friend of mine did the same thing (a bit less extreme) saying "Fuck it, I am walking out of the front door right now with a huge backpack and see where I end up." Hadn't heard shit from him for over 3 months and was actually worried he got murdered or something. Ended up in the south of France meeting tons of women, slept in the most amazing places (from doorsteps up till the main bedrooms of castles) and had, in his own words, the most amazing experienc…	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 10:35 AM
0	I had ONEitis, got friend zoned, told her no thanks, and she texts a couple weeks later after no communication Respond "Let's talk tommorow at your place. I will bring the condoms."	/r/askTRP	29/08/15 12:26 PM
43	My girl is probably as close to the fabled unicorn as you can find, RP still holds true however Nice you feel good about your relationship but consider the following things She's a loving, loyal girl. You are 2 years with this girl now, wouldn't call that loyal yet. If you have 45 year marriage without cheating, THAT is loyal. She was sometimes very bitchy with me. For no reason? Not something a unicorn would do IMO. The sex nowadays? Off the fucking charts. Does that make her a unicorn though? (Rhetoric question) Not trying to get you off your high horse but the "positive" characteristics…	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/15 07:03 PM
3	The approach Once you approach women with the intention of the interaction not turning into anything else, you will see how little they have to offer in terms of conversation. It is then you realize that you are the prize. You are the one offering good conversation to bored people For starters, use as an opener "So, what is going on in your life?". 9 out of 10 will say "Nothing, I got nothing going on." This makes YOU the prize on automation, since you lift, have a job and/or education and actually have hobb…	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/15 08:47 AM
1	Depression at its peak - My Life Chronology Look up famous actors who have the same length as you. You would be surpised. Make it help you realize that height does not matter AT ALL to be succesful in love or life in general. Just be an awesome person doing awesome things.	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/15 12:05 PM
2	Went out and it was a disaster First of all, you opened to several sets. That makes you better than 95% of the guys out there probably. You have guts. You have balls. Good. You are further into talking to girls than most guys out there Secondly, your looks. How you look does not matter at all. Be confident (which, at the moment, you are not 100%). Looks help but do not do the job by itself. From the post I assume you are not tall? Who cares. I have seen tons of short guys get the hottest girls. You are non-white? Who cares. I…	/r/seduction	22/08/15 02:26 PM
1	Going out solo tonight to a bar/club Awesome to hear this, had a very similar experience myself this week when going out alone. To be honest I kind of prefer going out alone now more than going out with friends actually.	/r/seduction	22/08/15 02:19 PM
1	Going out solo tonight to a bar/club This SO much. This week I went out alone two times because my friends are on holiday. I decided to go out to places I like and be like "fuck it, I'll just see how it goes". Had the most awesome time of my life, met lots of new people and even got two phone numbers. Great practice for approaching as well because you will HAVE to approach to have a good time. Also, people will not think you are a loser but actually think you have a big pair of balls if you do it.	/r/seduction	22/08/15 02:16 PM
4	FR - gym girl and where to head Why did you send her a message on FB? You are seeing her anyway at the gym soon enough. Just ask if she wants to hang out some time next time you see her at the gym. Go get a drink with her or something. Be sure to keep flirting and keep things sexual/erotic though, otherwise she is going to become a friend, not a girlfriend.	/r/seduction	19/08/15 05:08 PM
6	Redpillers who have/had bas posture Lifting solved it for me.	/r/askTRP	18/08/15 06:40 PM
7	Feminist journalist decides to lives as a man for 18 months, discovers that men’s lives are just as hard as women’s Wondered about this as well. If I will find one, I will make another thread.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/15 05:26 PM
1	Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly? Thanks for your post. Some very valuable information.	/r/seduction	10/08/15 02:21 PM
7	Problem with goals Isn't this something for r/asktrp ? Anyway, TRP is all about progress and progress doesn't really have an end point. When you achieve a goal you get to a new point in life with new perspectives, you anticipate on that and from there you create new goals, achieve those etcetera etcetera. It is a cycle, and every time you complete the cycle you reached a "next level" in life (I play video games from time to time and like that thought). That "next level" means more happiness in general and more pos…	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/15 10:58 AM
1	Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly? Included some of my interests in the OP.	/r/seduction	10/08/15 09:42 AM
3	Every man can score hot women. Best advice I ever got from this sub Don't listen to tip in game from good looking guys getting good looking girls. Listen to ugly/average guys getting good looking girls.	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/15 09:24 AM
1	Wingman - Amsterdam Brabant here. Still learning but would love to have some wingman buddies. Send me a PM if interested.	/r/seduction	09/08/15 08:44 AM
1	Being the Forbidden Fruit Nice post, but where should I put the line between "shaming" being just a joke or actually being serious? Me and my friends have a habit to make fun of eachother all the time while not being 100% serious.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/15 02:56 PM
2	Get'n Pussy Get'n Gains at the Same Damn Time! "The fact that she gave you her number underscores that you didn't choose her, she chose you." This. I get about 4 numbers a week but only 1 out of 4 actually wants to have a date with me. It feels good that I have no problem with getting numbers anymore but it is time to take the next step. Will try to let her take the initiative in the future instead of me (in regards to getting number).	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/15 02:51 PM
2	I miss my last GF...how do I prevent myself for entering a depression thinking about her and wanting her back? Go do shit. Go lift. Find new hobbies. Filling up your life with things you enjoy prevents that you start thinking about her. Besides, you realise you can have fun without her.	/r/askTRP	25/07/15 12:15 PM
8	Your "Friends". People change / You know but some people never do / You know when people change / They gain a peace but they lose one too From the song "Seasons (Waiting On You)" by Future Islands.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 02:22 PM
1	Empowering Music I always play some hip hop before going out to get hyped and get into a good mood. Most of the time more hardcore stuff like Pusha T, Travis Scott and MOP.	/r/askTRP	21/07/15 10:00 AM
1	Want to give up, seriously getting frustrated Getting laid shouldn't be your main goal. Reading your post, you are making a lot of process which you neglect purely because of the fact you don't get your dick wet. Remember, one of the key points of TRP is not putting women/pussy on a pedestal. Put yourself on the pedestal.	/r/askTRP	21/07/15 09:50 AM
5	LTR's Also, having oneitis does not mean she is LTR-material. Whether a girl is LTR-material is, in the end, based on mental characteristics (hasn't cheated in the past, takes initiative, has hobbies etc.), not necessarily just "how she looks" (good rack, nice ass).	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/15 02:49 PM
4	Date with hot girl was leading to sex at her place. I said "nah- I'm good. Cya" and left. I was Neo to her shit-test bullets. Made me spit out my drink. I feel what you are saying OP. IMO, sex is still interesting because I am pretty new to the game but I think kissing is pretty much the most boring shit ever. When I go out and happen to kiss a girl I generally feel bored and rather go back hanging out with my friends in the club. This is more of a blessing than a burden I think. It helps preventing putting pussy on the pedestal etc.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/15 08:11 AM
1	I'm a 25 year old male, declared healthy, but suffering from severe health anxiety. I don't know how to get out of this hole. I (20) had this after my mom had a cerebral hemorrhage. I was scared to get a heart attack 24/7, every little pain and tintling scared the shit out of me. I was scared of biking, running etc. This was before I discovered TRP btw. I pretty much overcame this now due to a several things I did: Talk with other people you trust about your problem. You don't have to be ashamed that you have these kind of problems. If you don't talk, you get stuck in your own reality. Relativation. What helped me wa…	/r/askTRP	15/07/15 07:25 PM
1	[FR] Pool and a movie. Playing pool is a very effective way for beginners when it comes to game (including myself). Been succesful a couple of times for me myself. The opening line is there ("Hey, wanna play some pool with me?"), easy kino (like you represented in OP and of course the "Let me teach you how to hold that cue..."-line) and the various aspects of the game make it easy to say something and don't make the conversation dull. Basically, all the components for game are already there and you don't have to creat…	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/15 04:01 PM
4	On platitudes, imperatives, and unsolicited advice Maybe this is unrelated, but what's up with all the flairless threads on TRP recently? Very irritating.	/r/TheRedPill	13/07/15 03:48 PM
3	An open letter to men of the Red Pill You can still have a passion and being busy with women. You just need to make sure your passion/goals/whatever always come first and women second (or third, my best friends are second).	/r/TheRedPill	07/07/15 04:55 PM
2	What is really means when she says "I love you" Who said I never had dates with her or had performed erotic acts with her? Because I did. Maybe I should have stated that clearer.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/15 10:20 AM
7	It's not just about getting women. Am I proud of the person I am? This is the most important aspect of TRP for me. This very much. I will be satisfied with my life when I am proud of myself and my achievements, not what others think of me. Also, to me, TRP is about the relativation the importance of (getting) women. What I learned from TRP is that it is not the main goal in life and a man that gets a lot of women is not necessarily a "man". Instead, life should be about making YOUR own choices, achieving YOUR goals and making YOU…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/15 01:10 PM
4	What is really means when she says "I love you" Because then you destroyed their dream, fabricated by unrealistic romantic comedies etc.	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/15 03:40 PM
1	What is really means when she says "I love you" You ended all communication with her and she never replied back. Not one message? She texted me after two weeks saying I forgot her birthday. Then I said "What's my birthday then?" Then she called me an asshole. Anyway, it seems there is little attraction built on your actual character but she only stays with you because you provide. True. I met her when I was BP. I was her emotional tampon. When I swallowed the pill I wasn't anymore, I didn't provide anymore. It is foolish to assume that a woma…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/15 03:38 PM
0	Dirty Sheets That is fucked up. AWALT, I guess.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/15 12:22 PM
53	Dirty Sheets "I don't even like him!" she protested. "It didn't mean anything. I wanted you, but you weren't there!" Why does she say that? It makes things ten times worse for her. Good riddance OP, you did well.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/15 10:14 AM
7	[Field Report] Newbies to TRP: NEVER lose frame Like many newbies, I am a reforming beta. I always bought into the "be yourself" bullshit fed to me by my family and friends. There is nothing wrong with being yourself. Actually, IMO TRP is all about being yourself 100% and living the life YOU want to live. What do you mean by it? And what text did you sent her? I would have send something in the line of "Let's spend some more time soon then".	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/15 09:39 AM
1	Hi guys a simple question where do you guys find your women? The best things to do is to start talking in habitats you are comfortable with. If you feel 100% comfortable in one habitat you may wanna try other habitats. Keep doing this and at some point you will be comfortable everywhere.	/r/askTRP	18/06/15 03:24 PM
0	How do I deal with another guy hitting on my girlfriend? You don't wanna come of as jealous or insecure. You ARE jealous and insecure, because you see him as a threat. Why is that guy a threat? Try to find out and try to fix any flaws. Don't say she cannot see him anymore. Don't be that guy. That way you are saying "I am afraid you are going to fuck any guy that approaches you." to your LTR. Just stay cool, be yourself and see what happens. If she leaves you, so be it. If she stays with you, awesome.	/r/askTRP	16/06/15 03:12 PM
15	Beta temptation All I can fucking think about is how much I don't want this to happen, how I want to spend those 90 days with her, to try to convince her to not go through with this. Why? She stabbed you in the back. Your feelings are making you blind for what she really is. You say you don't want it to happen: it is already happening and there is no turning back. You need to start accepting reality and make sure you get to see your child in the future and she doesn't rip you off financially. Focus on that, not…	/r/askTRP	16/06/15 01:47 PM
2	How do I deal with another guy hitting on my girlfriend? I just recently swallowed the pill but: you don't. You cannot trust a girl (or any person IMO) 100% and you have to live with and accept that. You NEED to live with the fact that there is a chance that your girlfriend might choose the other guy over you. No matter what: don't be the jealous guy. Women fucking hate that and it makes you look vunerable. Like NickCiufi said in a comment below: Laugh, tell her he's cute and she should make the first move. Don't take your LTR too serious and don't le…	/r/askTRP	16/06/15 01:20 PM
2	How do I deal with another guy hitting on my girlfriend? If you are worrying about your girlfriend leaving for another guy you need to seriously overthink how you feel about yourself and if it is even worth keepig her as your girlfriend. You don't seem to trust her and it is killing you. It is not worth it.	/r/askTRP	16/06/15 01:06 PM
1	Thanks Redpill: I've been cheated on and I'm already over it! You did well. Now go fuck her best friend for extra revenge points.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/15 11:11 AM
2	"You know nothing Jon Snow" "You guys have no idea how it feels to walk in the shoes of a bastard." No I don't. But your attitude is an irrational one. Feeling depressed is not going to give you a father and bring you happiness. 0% chance. Instead of focussing on your fatherless live you should focus on the things you want to achieve and go for it. That way you WILL achieve strength and pride and feel good about yourself! Life is too short to think about what could have been. You are not the only one in your position. Look…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/15 10:33 AM
2	Hi guys a simple question where do you guys find your women? Everywhere. The problem is that every person has its own social habitat that he feels most comfortable in. For example, I feel very comfortable at a bar a regulary visit where I can easily start a conversation. On the other hand, I don't feel that comfortable in a club because I have to yell all the time. Try out different habitats and find the one that suits you the best.	/r/askTRP	13/06/15 11:27 AM
2	Machiavellian Bodybuilder/Miscer has faked high status on Facebook and is now reaping the rewards This is truly the most genius and hilarious thing I have come across the last few weeks. Applause	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/15 09:47 AM
2	The Rule of 2's: How to avoid Oneitis Great post. Applied it a couple of months ago and feel way better about being rejected and don't make a fool of myself. Definitely one of the those rules that are perfect to follow when starting to swallow the pill.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/15 01:59 PM
-1	Losing attraction or comfort test? Just ask her what's up with her attitude change. If she does not give a clear answer or just a plain stupid one just say "Go fuck yourself, then." Even if she checks lots of your boxes.	/r/askTRP	10/06/15 11:23 AM
4	My struggles as a middle eastern man. Instead of focusing on the negative reactions, focus on famous people of colour who have been successful and everybody loves (Aziz Ansari is a good example even though he was born in the States). You can be like them. If they can be lived, so can you. Btw get rid of the girl, she's obviously a bitch.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/15 07:03 AM
-7	Fake it until you make it. You need to lie about who you are so you can fuck these girls? That is just plain sad. Why don't you actually go live a interesting life which features all these components you mentioned?	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/15 06:54 AM
1	I came from a childhood spent mostly on video games and porn Great post, really opened my eyes. I pretty much stopped watching porn and masturbating since I took the red pill (maybe once a week) but still play videogames on a regular basis. Currently I have a system not allowing myself to play videogames before doing something for school but sometimes I still feel like it is a waste of time and now I finally know why.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/15 06:48 AM
3	I don't give bitches discounts. Post-wall bitches don't get my discount. No woman should ever receive discount because they have a vagina, not just post-wall "bitches". E: Woops should have read the title.	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/15 04:38 PM
1	How to I tell my FwB/plate I want to pursue other women beside her? She actually dropped before when I told her I was never gonna be her boyfriend but came back after a week. Didn't feel sad within that whole week and I can easily do without her. I will just do what I want then and when I get a reaction from her say "I was never your boyfriend and not looking for commitment".	/r/askTRP	08/06/15 04:34 PM
1	How to I tell my FwB/plate I want to pursue other women beside her? Fuck, thanks for opening my eyes since I found out by accident I have a girlfriend now. I am still learning/swallowing and posts like these help. I have only told her that I flirt with other women, not that I want to have sex with other women. Should I tell her explicitly I am not exclusive or wait for her reaction after she found out I had sex with other women? I am not sure at the moment.	/r/askTRP	08/06/15 04:04 PM
4	What do you do if a girl/woman wanted to fight/attack you? Never EVER hit her back with a power fist. Especially in a crowd, even if it is justified, they will get apeshit crazy on you and you will get known as "the woman beater". You don't want that. It happens very rarely in my own life but my approach is the following: 1) Grab her wirsts firmly and put them in a position which makes it impossible for her to hit you again. I prefer holding them upwards. Since most of you guys exercise and most women don't, this shouldn't be a problem in matters on str…	/r/askTRP	07/06/15 06:11 PM
5	There are no “nice guys” or “assholes”, there are just “boring” men and “interesting” men You're welcome. I have done this a few times and let's just say....I completed the game several times.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/15 06:47 PM
6	There are no “nice guys” or “assholes”, there are just “boring” men and “interesting” men 50% of the girls I know play LoL or play videogames (no, not just the ugly ones), don't underestimate that number! That's a first idea for a date/hookup: invite a girl over to your house to play videogames with you and maybe even let her play with your "joystick". No matter what, you will have a good time.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/15 06:36 PM
0	ULTIMATE force the pill down your throat guide. "Just type in ISIS into Google and you will see people with real life and death problems." This so so so so so much.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 06:16 PM