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You are overthinking all of this. Is a girl cute? Go up and talk to her. Is she cool? Ask for her number after a bit and leave Wait a few days and set up a date.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:29 PM
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In the future when you're on a date girls will start asking "Are you one of those red-pillers"
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:20 PM
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If she was fat you wouldn't want to fuck her either. It's your job to be attractive; if you had met her for the first time right now in your current shape then she probably wouldn't have been physically attracted to you and she would reject you
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:19 PM
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You can't just spit some PUA bullshit and expect her to be attracted to you. Here's an example: I was talking to a girl I had just met while out at a bar for about 10 miutes and she didn't seem very interested. Suddenly a girl I used to hook up with shouted my name from the other side of the room. So I simply turned and started walking away. The girl I was talking to grabs my arm and pulls me back to keep talking to me. In an instant she was suddenly laughing at my jokes and returning kino. Was …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:57 PM
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Friendship is created by three things: Consistantly voluntarily hanging out on a schedule Common mutual interests Environments that allow everyone to let lose (Not at work and not with girlfriends present) That being said, social sports, MMA/BJJ class, Crossfit and meetup groups are a good place to start.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:40 PM
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This is the threat level checklist: Has she ever dated (fucked) the guy? Red zone Is his SMV higher than yours? Yellow Zone Did they meet after you started dating? Red Zone
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:38 PM
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100% of relationships, especially marriages, eventually die down to the point where sex isn't exciting anymore. People will claim "We've been married 20 years and we have exciting sex every day!" but in reality to them "exciting sex" means 5 minutes of missionary. It's human nature to get bored of a person after a long time; it's called marriage and it's what you signed up for. All that being said, if you got into tip top shape then she will want to fuck you. It's not her fault that you're overw…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:34 PM
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Never listen to dating surveys that are given to women; women don't know what they want. Do they want a guy who is unemployed and lives with his parents? No. But the guy she fucked at a foam party last week was unemployed and lives with his parents.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:30 PM
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Text for logistics only. Ignore whatever she says and say "What day are you free to hang out'
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:28 PM
1

You can form a flowchart to start off and then once you have experience you can start to rely on your instincts. What specific situation did you have in mind
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:24 PM
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You need plates so that when you do feel some lonliness, we all do, then you can hit her up and spend a fun night together
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:14 PM
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This is like going to the doctor once a year for liposuction instead of going on a training/diet program and losing it permaneantly. You are on an unhealthy course and every girl is just another doctor visit while you continue to live an unhealthy life.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:03 PM
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I have always been extremely alpha Alpha means being at the top or being #1 so you can't be 'extremely at the top'. Also, that's like a guy saying "I give the best oral sex to women"; your opinion doesn't matter. Never sleep in bed with a women without having sex with her. If she absolutely will not have sex with you then kick her out because you are a man who has self-respect. Added side bonus is sometimes the girl will have a 180 when she sees that youre serious and will want to fuck you
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:48 PM
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Posts like this make marriage seem like a daily pain in the ass that isn't worth it Best way to intensify a dead bedroom is to hit the gym, buy stylish new clothes and a new cologne.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:41 PM
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Always let her handle it. If she flirts with the other guy then she isn't interested in you or is doing it to make you jealous. In either case you need to go talk to another girl
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:39 PM
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You should always have a happy look on your face. You know what kind of people aren't happy or smiling? Unsuccessful people.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:21 PM
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You will see a lot of posts that say that you shouldn't smile. The fact of the matter is that when you go out you should have fun and you should be having a good time. TRP: "smiling is a supplicating gesture" Reality: If you walk into the room with a smile on your face then everyone will immediately think "Why is he so happy" Every guy that walks into a bar has the same stoic "i'm cool" look on his face When a guy walks in with a look on his face that says "I just $50 million in the lottery" the…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:53 AM
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doesn't mean you should always respond with a stupid smartass answer That's why it's an example Actually smiling would be a serious breach of frame Your post doesn't pass the troll sniff test but I will answer anyway; smiling is frowned upon in TRP but in reality when a man walks into a room like he just sold his company for $1 Bn. he will be noticed by everyone in a positive manner
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:27 PM
4

Status "OMG are you on The Office?"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:43 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many PUA videos on youtube are staged
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:43 PM
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This is why you never LTR a girl who likes to drink. How do most cheating situations occur? When alcohol is involved. Your girl can't meet chad thundercock is she is at home reading a book on Saturday night
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:27 PM
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Here is a good explanation http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:24 PM
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Also sounds like you've got a girl with family issues at home which is never a good thing.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:19 PM
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women cannot determine your SMV from more than your physical attractiveness based upon the context of these approaches If you approach a girl while at a private room hotel party in Channing Tatums hotel room then the girl will immediately assume that you are high SMV. Had you approached her at a coffee shop instead then at best she will immediately assume you are average SMV.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:15 PM
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frame = being in control of the meaning of an interaction. For example, Her (trying to take your frame): Do you masturbate? You (Breaking frame): About once a day. You (Maintaining frame): My hands aren't big enough.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:05 PM
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"falling in love" is the feeling you get when you don't think you can do any better A lot of people in TRP know that as they get older the women that are attracted to them remain in the same younger age range so there never is a pressing need to settle down as long as you work hard on yourself and maximize your potential
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:03 PM
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as she is really having a bit to much pressure Imagine what she will be like after she graduates when she has to find a job, move out, pay bills and deal with actual adult things. Imagine if she had a kid how much she would struggle with a real issue. Is this the kind of woman you want to exclusively commit to?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:52 PM
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so many talk about looking for their unicorn Nobody that is endorsed ever mentions looking for a unicorn; it's called a unicorn because it doesn't exist. Why would you want to marry someone Men marry a girl when they don't think they will be able to find a better one. You think if your unicorn wife was alone at a hotel bar and prince harry invited her up to his room for a drink that she would say no?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:49 PM
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If you want to see how to maintain frame then go on youtube and search for "comedian dominates heckler" to see how a pro does it.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:47 PM
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The first thing you say to her isn't the opener. The opener is when she first sees you and immediately looks at your face, hair, style, posture, height, who are you with, etc. If you don't pass her physical attraction baseline then there is nothing you can say that will make her attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:46 PM
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Always go by her actions; not her words Girls are terrified of putting themselves out there in any sort of dating situation and will wait weeks, months and years without making a move.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:30 PM
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Text only for logistics. which may risk prolonged silence between the two of us What risk? That she will lose attraction to you if you don't talk to her everyday? If that is the case then she isn't interested in you anyway. Going radio silent makes a girl more attracted to you if she is interested in you.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:02 PM
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I jokingly refused to hold her bag and she lost her composure Keep up the good work: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/20/drive-by-teases/
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:58 PM
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Girls want a dominant, confident man to take them and ravage them No woman gets horny thinking about 5 minutes of missionary
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:44 PM
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Read this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:43 PM
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Here you go: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/the-difficulty-of-gaming-women-by-age-bracket/
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:43 PM
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Stop cheating on your gf; people like you are the opposite of what TRP is about
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:42 PM
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There's a difference between a TRP career (freedom), high status career (social standing) and high SMV career (gets you laid). TRP Career: Entrepeneur High Status: Doctor, lawyer, CEO High SMV: Firefighter, lead singer, war photographer, reality tv star, bartender at trendy nightclub, artist Figure out your priorites: life freedom, being a provider for a family or pussy magnet
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:58 PM
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Instead of addressing the symptoms you should address the problem here; you wrote a long post about one girl. Do you think she went online and wrote a long post on reddit about what to do about you? Instead, next time you are in this situation: Talk and build up some rapport Ask for her number Go on a date
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:42 PM
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You: Excuse me? That offends me personally. I'm a pimp.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:07 PM
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Let her say it first. Never say it because of outside forces; say it because you truly love the girl. The longer you wait to say it the more meaningful it will be when you say it. If you wait 10 years before you say it to her then she might start bawling with happiness as opposed to 10 months where you might get a hug in return
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:06 PM
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Befriend high status guys; they are always surrounded by women
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:03 PM
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Before he committed to her he should have said "Do you keep in touch with any of your exes" and if she said yes then he shouldn't have gotten exclusive. But at this point it doesn't matter; asking "did you guys ever date" will immediately show how she thinks about this guy in the way that she answers. She can think it's insecure if she wants but OP has to look out for himself and remember; he is the gatekeeper for committment.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:10 PM
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You do have to trust a girl sometimes because that's part of the risk of an LTR. You should have asked her if they ever dated (fucked) and see what she says. If she says no then he is probably a beta orbiter but if she says yes: How do I get her to stop that kind of behavior without coming off like a little bitch? You: You can visit him if you want but all of your stuff will be on the curb when you get back.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 09:10 PM
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The post was referring to while in college so yes I was referring to student+bartender. Recent graduate or grad student would probably do well too
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:57 PM
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Bartender at a college bar has to have terrible game if he isn't hooking up with the college female customers
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:18 PM
1

Someone once mentioned that "HB" means her self-perceived inflated SMV
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:28 PM
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Getting married will always hold you back from maximum potential. You aren't improving yourself when you are sitting at home watching the bachelor with her on Saturday nights.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 05:27 PM
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3a. Bartender 3b. Bouncer
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:25 PM
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That's what makes a man high value; he turns down opportunities that aren't up to his standards A low value man will fuck anything that he can get.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 05:05 PM
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He didn't put pussy on the pedastal and stood out in that regard compared to the rest of hollywood
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:50 PM
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Women have sex with a man once they form a emotional connection; it's why you don't see male prostitutes on street corners. Every man that she sleeps with means that she can form a weaker bond with every new man. Men have sex with something that gives them an erection and don't care about an emotional connection.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:49 PM
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It's better to say "What day are you free" because you aren't saying that you are free
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:33 PM
2

You want her to think that you live a thrilling life and that you are always doing fun shit on the weekends. Asking a girl out on a weekend shows that you don't have plans on that day and she will not gain the attraction that she would have gained if you said "I'm busy this weekend".
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:24 PM
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I honestly miss the blissfully ignorant days of going on a date and wondering if she's the perfect girl for me that I can eventually marry who will love me unconditionally
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:22 PM
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we were supposed to get tea Saturday Never go on a date with a girl on the weekend before you've slept with her. And is her calling me [it doesn't matter] actually a good thing? A girl can call a guy cute because she wants to fuck him and then the next day she could see a 90 year old man with a bowtie and call him cute. Always go by actions not words.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:18 PM
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Quality girls don't file FRAs. Quality girls don't get drunk. That's the point
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:07 PM
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Never LTR a girl you met on tinder.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:12 AM
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Gay men that hang out with women rarely give them the attention they really wan You ever seen a girl out at brunch with her gay bffs? She sits at the head of the table while they take selfies with her and tell her how awesome she is. the attention they really want A gay guy that I know told me that sometimes he just goes home and fucks his friend anyway: "Sex still feels good I just pretend it's a man"
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:27 AM
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My friend is a 28 yo doctor and he's married to a ~HB9 who has part time secretary jobs while they save up to buy (her) a horse. You would never find a female doctor who was working to save up so her husband could buy a car and spend all day taking care of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:12 AM
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Quality woman: under 25, doesn't drink more than 1-2 drinks, no slutty friends, no drugs, no swearing, good family upbringing, has her own career + hobbies, works out / eats well for pleasure, no gay male friends, few if any straight guy friends, you didn't meet her online or at a bar
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:02 PM
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TRP is about minimizing loss (don't get married) and maximizing potential (lift, read, be selfish, approach)
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:55 PM
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these women are so sad that I sometimes laugh out loud when I am around them I got you beat there; lately when I'm out at bars I see girls in their early 20s surrounded by gay bffs, making out with more than one of them throughout the night and eventually going home to cuddle together.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:53 PM
2

LDR relationships never work out. LTRs are what happens when you find a quality women.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:35 PM
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Your SMV is the SMV of women that you consistently hook up with. You fuck a new HB9 every month? Then you're a 9.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:34 PM
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The Columbia case you are referring to: He says he had consumed two mixed drinks and was “buzzed, but not intoxicated or anything.” (Sulkowicz has previously described him as “drunk” during the incident.) Alcohol was confirmed by both parties
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:06 PM
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Girls can use it that way but if you're a man then you should use it properly It's called "hookup culture" not "Makeout culture"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:59 PM
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Another trend is the gay bff validation task force. Why waste time with straight men when a girl can go out with her 4 gay bffs, get free drinks and validation, have them fend off any men that approach her because she is too hot for them, twerk on her to make her seem like the life of the party, make out with her and then go home at night to watch The Bachelor while eating ice cream and cuddling.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:51 PM
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Women don't hit the wall mentally until their friends start getting married
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:48 PM
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couple of hook ups hookup means sex and nothing else This whole post is a perfect example of how a girl can make a guy completely lose his frame: Am I right to avoid meeting her in person for the 'friends vs sex debate' and stick to a phone call? She is complete control of your interactions and she knows it. Monk mode means removing vices; it doesn't mean you stop approaching women.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:10 PM
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When a girl in in the party phase or riding the cc then she doesn't care about the long term prospects of any of the men. Whoever lays the best pipe will be first on her drunk text priority list. That ROK article is fucking retarded and sounds like a 15 year old wrote it: I like running MTV because there are lots of sexy images Make her cum a couple of times first I’ve spent a week without leaving a hotel room and that girl became 100% my bitch for two years "100% my bitch" sounds like something…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:05 PM
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even consentual sex is dangerous as fuck No it isn't. The only kind of women that have regret rape are the ones that fuck men the first time they meet. Most, if not all, of the encounters involve alcohol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:04 PM
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TRP is based in Westernized nations where Marriage 2.0 exists (it's on the sidebar). how do you have kids? In westernized countries having kids has changed in the last few decades as well. Gone are traditions family values are in are YOLO values. I didn't have a cell phone until I was in college and I had to pay for it with my own money. Nowadays you have 6 year olds snapchatting each other. If you don't give your kid a cell phone then you're a bad parent and the kid will resent you. On top of t…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:13 PM
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If a girl has more than 2 drinks in one sitting then she is not LTR material
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:05 AM
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Volunteering, running club, fitness class, special interest meetups, etc. Not out at a bar doing shots
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 10:40 PM
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Google "pre-nup thrown out" if you think they matter. Divorce attorneys will be ruthless; if you put your house in your moms name then her attorney can file a third party injunction and your mom will lose her house. The only way to protect your assets is to add a "No future earnings" clause in your divorce papers.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:08 PM
2

From the moment you meet a girl there is a ticking timebomb of friendzone that you have to make a move before it explodes. You need to realize that she is just another girl, there will be hundreds more in your life. Is she cute? Then ask her out. She will say yes or no and you can proceed from there.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:50 PM
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"Look... Actually I am seeing somebody in this period and I don't want to create misunderstandigs to him... But thanks for the invitation..." [Fixed] I"m not interested. She just added the 'seeing somebody' because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. The Deangelo line isn't bad and she might meet up with you but you would have to dig yourself deep out of the friend zone. If you want to get her interested in you then meet up with her for coffee but bring a female friend with you; jealousy plot…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:47 PM
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You're not going to find a quality girl at a bar. Quality girls go to bed early Saturday nights because they have to ru a marathon in the morning. Or they have people over and hang out with their friends at their own place.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:44 PM
5

Not even to mention the damage it does to teeth
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:05 PM
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Go volunteer or do habitat for humanity; you'll meet girls who actually do interesting things in their free time
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:37 PM
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There's a difference between opening up and being open. Do you hate your job, get despressed and think that you're ugly? Don't tell that to a LTR unless you want her to lose attraction. When you were a small child were you bitten by a squirrel and now you have a fear of them? Tell that to an LTR and she will gain attraction to your vulnerability as long as you maintain frame: "If you ever got me a stuffed squirrel as a joke I will dump you for a younger woman."
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:36 PM
1

This girl, just like all of the others, shoudl receive logistical texts only. "What day are you free" and "meet at x at 8pm" should be the only things you text a girl.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:05 PM
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What would a cool single guy in his 30s be doing in his free time? Social sports, fitness classes, meetup groups, etc.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 09:56 PM
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Text for logistics only. "What day are you free" and "Come over at 8pm" should be the only things that you text with a girl
/r/askTRP14/03/15 09:55 PM
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It's not about what you say it's about how you say it You made out with my best friend"... "You don't want to kiss me you just want to kiss any girl" Her: You made out with my best friend You(not caring): Yep Her: You don't want to kiss me you just want to kiss any girl You (not biting the beta bait): Insecurity bores me
/r/askTRP14/03/15 09:50 PM
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White girls, cute ones too. If you are self-conscious about who you are then girls will smell it from far away
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 09:47 PM
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It's taken from Models by manson. For example, some billionaires have a constant flow of 21 year olds who fly in to fuck the man for a few months until he wants to find another one. But the girls don't feel slutty; why? Because when they fly in they believe that they are going to 'win' him over and become unforgettable to him. They honestly believe that he really cares for her (why would he buy her a $1000 purse if he didn't) and so they will fuck him without any regrets until they get the call …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:47 PM
1

Don't call a girl before you've had sex with her because she won't pickup and will say "Ew why is this guy I barely know calling me"
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:36 PM
1

One of my good friends is from india; accent, indian name and all that. He is confident, in shape, aggressive and he approaches any girl that he thinks is cute. Most weekends he has a new ONS too.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:57 PM
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If a girl thinks that you are much higher SMV than her then she will bend over backwards to please you. If your girl is about the same SMV as you then you will have to put in a lot of work to keep her wanting to please you. If you LTR a girl much higher SMV than you; god help you.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:31 PM
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TRP should know that AWALT and this shouldn't be a surprise. The guy is a beta schlub and it's his fault that this article was written. Any man with an once of self respect would immediately dump a woman if she says she wants to fuck aroun.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:28 PM
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You need to realize why a girl feels like a slut: A girl can fuck a guy on a first date and not feel slutty while another girl could wait 5 days before sex and feel slutty. Why? A girl will feel slutty if she doesn't think the guy cares about her. As it is obvious with your case she feels slutty because she thinks that you don't care about her. Obviously don't write her a love poem but some comfort game will ease her sluttiness feeling.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:07 PM
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Build up a social network with high status men and hang out with them at invite only parties, bbqs, birthdays, etc. Women will always be around high status guys and when women see you hanging out with them then you will have an advantage when approaching. If you just want to fuck sluts then go to a bar after 2 am and approach the drunkest girls. Most if not all of my plates are met through mutual friends
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:57 PM
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It's like what Robert Greene says; people have their opinion (that they read on other subs without actually going on TRP) and will stick by it despite fact or logic.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 06:55 PM
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(She's whining/nagging/complaining) "Insecurity bores me"
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:41 PM
1

Go get married on a beach, have a bigass bbq, open bar, etc for like $2000
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:40 PM
2

There are some really dumb subs that make TRP look like a bible camp. For example, /coontown.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 06:37 PM
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Other than having kids (and that's debatable) there isn't any incentive for a successful man to get married
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:59 PM
1

Tan skin is very underrated. Why do you think bodybuilders/beauty contestants always put on comical levels of bronzer? Because it instantly makes them look better
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:58 PM
0

Go out someplace that isn't too far away and go out to bars alone to game Every man should go out gamig solo at least once; you will be surprised at how much more rewarding it can be
/r/askTRP13/03/15 08:56 PM
2

Honestly, she doesn't sound excited at all to be going out with you so would you want to go out with someone who doesn't want to be with you Like the others have said; find someone else to go with because going with her is not going to be much fun
/r/askTRP13/03/15 08:54 PM
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"Let's stop talking so we can start communicating"
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:44 PM
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My bad, the wording looked like you meant "Like" as in you went on facebook and hit the like button on one of her pics. Her: Wow you acted quickly You: Cant deprave the masses
/r/askTRP13/03/15 07:29 PM
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me liking her picture This is what beta orbiters do. She gave it to him in response of me liking her picture, she hasn't seen a photo of me She wants you to go into beta orbit to validate her unless she thinks that your SMV is higher than hers at which point she will be attracted to you how the hell do I open without making this an akward conversation? You: This is senderious I got your number from (...) Her: Hey! You: What day are you free this week to hangout Set up a date, isolate, kino and g…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:50 PM
3

Watch a comedian destroy a heckler for specific examples
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 05:34 PM
2

Every NO is one step closer to a Yes Every time I get rejected I smile because I know that I'm one step closer
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:09 PM
1

Don't even have to read the post: daddy issues.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:00 PM
3

You: "What are you talking about, I'm 6 foot" with a straight face
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:00 PM
1

They are only asking you over and over because you are letting them. Setting up a boundary early on, like only texting for logistics, will nip this in the bud. Also "I can tell you, but I would have to kill you" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:59 PM
4

The key here is that you married someone below you in SMV; this is the best formula for the beginning of a successful marriage. Most men don't want to marry a less attractive girl than the ones that they can pick up from bars though
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:19 PM
1

"Guess" and then "Ah Close''. If she keeps asking you simply say "You ask a lot of questions" and "Let's save the job interview questions for a boring conversation later."
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:16 PM
7

When people, especially drunk guys, around you are acting dumb they make you look better (as long as they aren't your friends).
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:15 PM
11

Never LTR a party girl
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:14 PM
1

You should treat everyone the same. Use them as long as they provide value to you and once they stop providing value then stop associating with them.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:04 PM
29

Ever wonder how to handle frame or what it means to maintain frame? Look up when a heckler gets destroyed by a good comedian
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:03 PM
1

Yes you can go up and say "Did you see the fight outside?" or "I bet you two have the same shampoo" and they probably haven't heard that line before but the other 100 things that she is noticing about you will allow her to guess that you said that out of memory
/r/askTRP12/03/15 11:49 PM
3

held hands, hugged her....walk around the streets like 2 crazy homeless people for a good 2 hours LOL, then she goes back to her house and I go back to mine but I didn't kiss her. You are so deep in the friendzone that Robert Ballard couldn't find you. I need to hear some of the lines that I could use to get her to come with me This is where your problem lies; you still are conditioned to the bluepill philosophy that raised you. You know what the best opening line is? "Hey". You know the best wa…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:17 PM
-2

Women see right through PUA shit and only beta chumps pay money for PUA books and classes. Yes you will be able to get into bed with women by spitting out lines and doing routines but the women will quickly see that you are full of bullshit and will lose interest. Instead of chasing pussy you should chase your passions and dreams and let the pussy chase you.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:05 PM
3

LDRs never, ever work. If you have your shit together and work hard then in 10 years you will be able to find a quality 22 year old instead of being in a sexless relationship with a 32 year old woman.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:03 PM
24

Marriage certificates should have a line: By signing these agreement you acknowledge that you are no longer entitled to sex from her.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:30 PM
6

I have to lead and do EVERYTHING The sooner you get used to it the better. Women won't do shit but then complain that you never do anything.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:17 PM
6

Text only for logistics. Do you not want to see her? Then no response. So I want to reply to her text with something that makes me a challenge. To be a challenge means that you don't answer her. Let her get frustrated
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:01 PM
1

Look up "kino escalation ladder" or the abridged version (assuming she is receptive to each): Hug when you first meet Guide her to your seat via hand on lower back Before you ask a question tap her on the arm Escalate to tap on the thigh etc. Text her "what day are you free to hangout". If she's interested then she will give you a day(s). Anything other than a day or if she says "I might be free" then she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:56 PM
4

Women might not even notice; lately the majority groups at bars in DC is 1-2 girls and their 3-4 gay bff cheerleaders. They buy her shots, dance, make out with her and even go home to sleep with her and cuddle.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:31 PM
3

This is why you should only text for logistics; if a girl says "fuck you" you have no idea whether she is pissed, if she says it jokingly, if she says it in a sexual way, etc. After you have gone on a first date and kissed/made out/had sex then you call her to set up the next date. Don't call a girl before you've gotten physical because she will ignore it and say "Ew why is this guy I barely know calling me". After you've hooked up then you are going to be the only guy who calls her to make plan…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:24 PM
14

immediately lower the bargaining price of pussy Why should a man waste time approaching, gaming and dating women with inflated egos to "prove" that he is worthy of her when he can get a similar sexual experience without all the bs. Based on the fact that prostitution isn't legal everywhere there will probably be limited implementations of this in western countries once women realize this.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:20 PM
2

The fact that you wrote a long ass post about one girl shows that you have oneitis and a scarcity mentality; two things that should be fixed.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:01 PM
1

the qualities of selflessness and loyalty Never get married.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:00 PM
1

Saying "I'm a cocky asshole" is like saying "I give women the best oral sex"; your opinion doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:00 PM
4

she was sad (guilty about LTR?) afterwards and doesn't want to meet again She isn't attracted to you and said this instead of saying "I'm not attracted to you". Move on to the next tinder slut
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:37 PM
1

Who cares what it means? Women. A nerd is a nerd if he goes to Harvard or community college. A charming asshole is a charming asshole whether he dropped out of HS or went to Yale. Harvard will make people think that you're either rich If having money meant that you automatically get pussy then shows like Millionaire Matchmaker wouldn't exist. Also, a bunch of those guys went to Harvard and other ivy league schools and can't even get a date.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:19 PM
0

fear of you leaving her no matter how much society skews marriage in her favor That is all true assuming that she has tingles for you. Once you put a ring on it the relationship becomes routine and like a job where eventually the tingles go away. Women don't get turned on watching Netflix with you or watching you cut your toe nails. Once she loses the tingles for you then she doesn't care if you leave for another women because then she gets a payday and can do what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:49 PM
9

Talk to a family attorney instead of strangers on the internet and tell them everything you said here
/r/askTRP12/03/15 02:28 PM
1

You're not thinking from a womans perspective (emotionally: "lacrosse players are hot") because you are thinking from a mans perspective (logically: "I'm smarter than most guys so women should like me"). Going to Harvard just means that you got a high SAT score and have done a lot of extracurricular activities. Do you ever see women waiting backstage at a science fair trying to fuck the guy with the diorama about organic chemistry? The status that you are looking for is not where you go but rath…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 02:12 PM
1

will learn something from my failure last night -Find ranting online post saying all men are idiots -Respond via email Why are you on a computer emailing strangers? Lift/approach/read/build something/meditate/etc, instead
/r/askTRP12/03/15 02:07 PM
13

Google "pre-nup thrown out" and you'll realize how little they matter
/r/askTRP12/03/15 02:05 PM
7

Said that exact same thing in the post yesterday and the married guys downvote to oblivion
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:51 PM
17

Very good post from your perspective; flawless from you top to bottom through the first date. And you added a perfect example of the sex life of a modern women: Sitting around doing nothing until a guy she is interested in texts her to fuck. What a hard life it must be for her
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:50 PM
2

what is the best way to handle it? Don't answer
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:44 PM
1

Look at the stars
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:43 PM
0

Truer words can not be spoken but sadly women go by emotions unlike the logical path that we take
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:23 PM
-1

You're right about that. Before that you lose all leverage once you move in together when cohab laws come into play
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:21 PM
2

She took a bunch of years from the prime of your life; can't put a price on that. Not to mention the times/experiences you could have had with your (probably former) friends
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:19 PM
1

Your other friend is gay and chicks love gay guys so that's not a good reference point Your other friend is 300 pounds; girls use him like a piece of furniture (i.e. not in a sexual way) when they talk to him You could find status by being a communication teacher specializing in PR (probably 90% women in the class) The point is that if you want to be more successful with women then you need to show status to them before you say a word.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:59 PM
2

Read /u/bicepsblastingstud post from earlier today
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:29 PM
3

The #1 way to get a girl interested is for her to see that more attractive women are interested in you. But once you have attractive women interested in you then you won't give two shits about the original girl. And that my friend is the TRP lifestyle.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:28 PM
31

The building I work in added an electronic keycode lock to all womens bathrooms because all men are rapists
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:22 PM
1

People on here incorrectly overemphasize that VIP table at a club = status. VIP table at a club only means that you have at least $500 in your wallet and nothing more. The girls will come over and use you for free drinks until the booze is gone and they will leave. Real status is: Bartender at a trendy nightclub Singer in a band Artist featured at an Art show Book signing for a book you wrote Lead instructor of a CrossFit class Hollywood talent agent What do they all have in common? Getting paid…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:16 PM
8

Great video but that music is killing it for me; sounds like the final scene of a romcom with hugh grant. Roosh had a good quote recently: You didn't fail; you gave up.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:42 PM
2

Status trumps everything. In all of your improvements you haven't mentioned how your status has changed. When you approach girls are you a strange guy hitting them or are you the guy throwing the house party? Big difference
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:34 PM
13

From her point of view, you leaving her is the Apocalypse, there is no life after it Otherwise known as the honeymoon phase The only time it ever changes is if / when her attraction goes down Otherwise known as the seven year itch You can have a captain/first mate dynamic but by human nature people get bored of relationships after awhile. Marriage 1.0 would kill the "What if I divorced him?" voice in the back of her head but Marriage 2.0 allows that voice to stay in her head
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:31 PM
15

The leverage you have in a relationship is that you can leave at any time for another woman. Once you put a ring on it she knows that if you leave then she gets a big payday so she has all the leverage It's like joining the military; you do it voluntarily and society will deservedly respect you. But you're giving up a lot of freedoms to have a 24/7 365 job where you are no longer the boss of your own life and if you try to leave then you're in big trouble
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:15 PM
5

The message is that you are going out and doing something that you enjoy and not letting the argument effect you. Replace 'bar' with working on your car, lifting, going for a run, whatever hobby you have, etc. just getting out of the house. She will probably still weaponize the kids against you even if you go to your toolshed to work on a canoe.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:52 PM
3

You aren't breaking frame by definition but you are giving her little holes in the wall for her to poke through. You could answer all of these questions with something like "insecurity bores me" and show her that her statements accomplish nothing. Me: It's not normal for me and my friends to include girlfriends in our social activities. That's why you're normally not invited to stuff. [Fixed] I have fun with my friends before we met and I will continue to have fun with them whether or not you ar…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:48 PM
0

Pics with attractive women around you shirtless in tip top shape
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:39 PM
47

Props to the TRPers who are gutting it out in marriage but the reality is that once you put a ring on it you've lost all leverage that you have over her no matter what you do
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:38 PM
6

If you're not interacting with someone, then smiling is absolutely unattractive A man who walks into a bar with a smile like he just a $500 million jackpot is going to instantly get the attention of everyone who sees him walk in. "Why is he so happy? Every other guy that walked in had a somber look on his face but this guy is different."
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:22 AM
6

Her: "What makes you stand out? You: Standards.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 06:30 PM
0

Intimacy. For all she knows you are a serial killer looking for his next victim. If you approach girls in a more intimate setting (house party, VIP event, social sports team, office holiday party, etc.) then she will be more receptive because she will think "it just happened" as opposed to "this guy hits on girls at the park".
/r/askTRP10/03/15 06:29 PM
22

If she wants to get married then she will immediately lose all interest in you and the long term prospects with her are dead on the spot She doesn't care about which man it is she just wants to be married so she'll start looking for a new one
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:07 PM
80

Smile and laugh. Girls don't want to hang out with a guy having a serious conversation with his bros in the corner. They want to hang out with the guy making his friends laugh and who walks by them with a look on his face like he's having the most fun out of anyone in the room.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:00 PM
84

The more successful a man is at the life then the less reason he has to get married. Enjoy the betas ladies
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:10 PM
-1

Do you think a woman gets turned on when she says "His sister buys all of his outfits."? Unless you are a teenage then that is unacceptable. she complains that my face gets gaunt when I get lower, and unless she is lying I would make myself less attractive by cutting Are you cutting to impress her or are you doing it because you want to do it? Sounds like you are basing your decisions on her opinion You can say all that you want about how you're a millionaire and have a fitness model physique bu…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 09:31 AM
3

The point is that when a woman is sexually attracted to a man she will want to fuck him whether it's her husband, her yoga teacher, a guy at a bar or her boss. Attraction isn't a choice. Thus, you need to become more attractive in her eyes by hitting at the things that turn women on; physical attractiveness, mystery, having other women chasing after them, etc. Don't even try to say "I'm in the best shape possible" or "I don't have time to workout". Vince Mcmahon is 69 and he's setting personal r…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 11:45 PM
2

the point is that she will learn not to ask you dumb questions anymore (How many women have you slept with?) if she knows that you aren't going to answer it or if you are going to mock her for asking it
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 11:40 PM
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As long as you don't directly answer the question like a beta schlub then you win. The dumber her question the dumber your answer.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 10:36 PM
2

You can read this and a lot of others on CH: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP07/03/15 10:34 PM
11

Sounds like a recipe for some dread game: Start working out ALOT, eating very well and get in noticably better shape Buy new, well fitting clothes. Get a new cologne. Change up little things about your appearence; she will notice. Go out to a bar or to hang out with friends and don't come home until late etc.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 10:31 PM
1

You follow a blueprint: Hug her when she arrives Open the door and guide her in with your hand on her lower back When you are sitting down, before you ask her a question put your hand on her arm and then ask If you/she says something funny then gently push her If she is receptive to the arm then you start touching her thigh and so on
/r/askTRP07/03/15 10:29 PM
2

Keep in mind that there is a difference between arguing and telling someone off when they cross the line. When someone crosses the line and disrespects you then you put a stop to that shit right away; no discussion or argument from them.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 06:50 PM
1

Read models by manson and sex god method
/r/askTRP07/03/15 06:38 PM
1

TRP is about sexual strategy and this is how this relates to your situation: Let's say you walk in to her store and approach the girl. Before even saying a word she will already be judging you: Are you in great shape? + 1 point Body language - are your shoulders slouched? -1 point Do you have quick, short movements and appear nervous? - 1 point Are you dressed well with clothes that fit very well? +1 point Are you accompanied by an attractive girl? +10 points etc.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 06:11 PM
2

Show up to her store with another girl (doesn't matter if it's your sister) and ask her for her number
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:57 PM
1

that I am one of the very few (if not only) AF guys she's had a thing with She has been in two LTRs and "cheated" on both with him You have a bad case of oneitis with this girl and it is clear that you are not accurate with your SMV estimations. Your SMV = SMV of the woman you're fucking Thus, you are a 6. The guy she cheated on you with is a 6 too. lastly, don't do LDRs, don't take a girl back after you break up, never LTR a girl who has cheated and never stay with a girl who cheated on you.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:26 PM
1

get some one night stands If you want one night stands then go to a bar after 2 am and approach the sloppiest girl you see. If you have low SMV then girls won't want to sleep with you but you can still get better: Approach girls and ask them for the time. After you get comfortable with that approach them and ask for time + directions. Then ask for time + directions + her favorite place to eat
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:21 PM
20

However, I lost frame in the midst of the argument You lose frame by arguing. It doesn't matter who you are arguing with either. If you have gotten to the point where you have to argue then you have lost frame by letting someone else affect you.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:09 PM
4

It gets easier if you maximize your social circle. Most of my plates are met through my male friends at VIP events, house parties, bday parties, beach houses, etc. High status men always have women around them and if you are in their social circle then it's game on easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:07 PM
1

No one cares if you limp except for you. Google Sean Stephenson and watch his videos
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:04 PM
1

For all she knows you are a serial killer looking for his next victim. The more intimate the setting, the more receptive women will be to your approach. An oscars after party or a wedding reception is a great place to meet women because they will immediately assume you are not a serial killer and that you have some status. If you approach a girl at a coffee shop she has no idea where you came from (jail?) or if you're some weird guy who spends time hitting on girls in coffee shops. To maximize e…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:09 PM
1

You will have more success when it is an intimate setting. A wedding reception is very intimate A bar is not intimate at all A coffee shop is even less intimate than a bar A fitness class is more intimate than a bar A social sports team is more intimate than a fitness class House parties are intimate because you have to know somebody Day game you can talk to 50 girls and get a couple numbers. At an engagement party with reserved section at a bar you could talk to 10 girls and get a couple number…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:52 PM
2

If you wanna fuck 18 year old girls then get a job at best buy and tell everyone you are working there while you're in law school
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:48 PM
1

The slippery slope you are putting yourself onto is that she thinks that she can do whatever she wants and then you will still take her back. Whether or not you will take her back is irrelevant. As far as LGBT goes you are either straight or you're not. You are committing your exlusivity to someone who is interested in the opposite sex. If you don't think you can do any better then you should stay with her and marry her
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:41 PM
6

Yes but in person. Trying to be sexual over the phone is try hard and validating for her. Let her wonder if you're into her.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:50 PM
1

Whenever you take a girl back after she dumped you she loses all respect for you. You need to realize that she doesn't respect you because you essentially waited around for her while she was deepthroating other guys. she often doesn't feel appreciated enough by me Read this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:46 PM
2

You need to maximize your demographics in two ways: Make yourself the highest SMV in the room If you approach a girl at a club on Saturday night she will reject you because she has her eyes on the tall, good looking guy getting bottle service. However, that same girl will be at a dive bar on Thursday night where you could be the best looking guy there and she will be more receptive to your approach. Maximize the intimacy of the area When you approach a girl on the street for all she knows is tha…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:43 PM
6

You need to realize that the more girls you talk to the more of them are going to flake no matter what you do or say. "What day are you free" and "Meet at bar x at 8pm" are all that you need to say.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:39 PM
2

There already is one; models by manson
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:38 PM
5

Day one you need to approach every girl that you can and introduce yourself so that later on you will have already met. spend as close to 0% of your time in the room or with your parents. WOmen on cruise ships are going to be very open sexually; don't even worry about game just be outgoing and friendly.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:36 PM
1

Any girl you meet at a bar is going to be boring as shit. The quality girls are going to be in bed early because they have a 6am hiking trip or at a foreign language meetup group instead of doing shots at a bar.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:32 PM
3

Unless you are messaging a girl to set up a date or meeting for sex then you are fucking up.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:29 PM
-1

Has your RP knowledge and experiences helped you become a better business leader, and how? Enjoy the journey, not the destination
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:26 PM
2

Everything you said is spot on. It's all just a numbers game; approach more and you'll get more numbers. Approach more after 2 am and you'll get more one night stands.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:23 PM
1

6 months of dating before sex In other words, she held her pussy over your head until she got what she wanted. You need to get your shit together and move on from her; this is a bad relationship.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:04 PM
1

What are you looking for in a girl? You want to find one with similar interests as you. Thus, talk about shit that you like to talk about. Don't ask her what she does for work; ask her about the tallest mountain that she hiked or if she has ever travelled alone to a foreign country. Be selfish. You are there to screen her and see if she is up to your standards.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:02 PM
19

Keep up the good work. Honestly, you should remove beta friends out of your life sooner rather than later. As you approach 30 all of your beta friends will get trapped in LTRs with women hitting the wall and you'll have to make new friends. I've lost NINE friends to this the past few years and I'm only 28.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:00 PM
7

As an addendum to the first statement; purusing a girl after she flakes the first time is not always a waste of time. Girls will flake on you even when they're interested, especially if you haven't met them in person yet. Wait a week and text "whats up flaky mcflakster" and set up another date while forgetting about it. It's worked for me a couple times and it's only a small investment.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:58 PM
1

It was your turn and now it's someone elses turn
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:55 PM
6

Text for logistics only. Ravage her during sex, tell her what to do, be selfish and fuck her good. After sex cuddle with her and talk about happy things. She will love that after you made love to her like an animal that you massaged her back and talked about how she has a special aura about her. Then you leave the next morning and she thinks about you all week, texts you (you don't respond), she talks with her girlfriends, then her heart skips a beat when you text her "what day are you free". Re…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:28 PM
52

On the outside (facebook) they will put up a happy front "My hubby surprised me with a movie date for valentines day!" but the truth is that she is no longer sexually attracted to her husband and she wishes she was 20 again because hot guys don't hit on her anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:43 PM
4

I feel like I am doing something wrong You are paying money and going on a big trip only because you want pussy. You can bang her without going on the trip but you are too thirsty and she can probably smell it on you.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 07:41 PM
3

Women think with emotions while men think with logic. You: This is fake. Her: What if my relationships have failed because the men have all been Taurus?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 06:44 PM
2

More details about her and your relationship would help. Based on what you said it sounds like you came on too strong; she has been unsure if you liked her this whole time and it was driving her crazy but you took away that excitement from her
/r/askTRP05/03/15 06:08 PM
1

Girl gets one second chance if she flakes; text her a week later "whats up flaky mcflakerson" "We need to wait" means she is going to hold her pussy over your head the rest of the relationship. Respond with "I don't have sex before the 20th date" and go for sex after the third date Go to a dive bar and only pay for your own drinks Once you have a girl hooked (she is asking you personal questions) ask for her number and then leave If you trust her (you shouldn't) then go for it. Are you willing t…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:04 PM
13

Before you agree to an LTR: You: Do you still talk to your ex? Her: Yes You: Ok. Let's just leave things the way they are. Never ltr a girl who still talks to her ex
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:56 PM
17

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/26/stealing-bait-from-women-fishing-for-compliments/
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:55 PM
2

A friendship means that each person provides value to the other person. What value does she provide you? If it's nothing then you are an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:54 PM
3

When I left I stripped her down completely and announced I was leaving her while she was naked Sounds like you're getting what you deserve. The sooner you move on the better for both of you.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:53 PM
1

Go to a state school and join a frat. You will be surrounded by high status, cocky guys who will be a good influence on you. Not to mention the ease of gaming girls
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:45 PM
1

You need to set a goal if you're going out gaming and then strive for it. For example, set a goal that you will say "Are you fucking kidding me" to a hot girl that night. Or that you will approach the best looking girl in the bar and tell her that your best friend is a lesbian and "She says that you look like you're good with your hands" Go out and have fun
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:44 PM
2

when I find your number Girls enjoy mystery but they also want to feel that a guy cares about them. A girl will feel slutty and have regret if she has sex with a man who she thinks doesn't emotionally care for her. Telling a girl that you lost her number is essentially saying "I don't care about you" before you've even gone on a date. You should have just said "I was busy" but since you added that line she lost interest. That being said, you should forget about her. One complaint to your manager…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:27 PM
6

Never pay for a girl on a date. If you go on a coffee date then buy your coffee and sit down. If she makes a deal about you paying then she is just gonna be a headache later on so this saves you time. You should always go for a kiss after a first date. A woman will know within 10 minutes whether or not she is attracted to you so waiting a couple dates is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:24 PM
10

Don't shit where you eat Whenever a girl asks what you've been doing say "I've been busy" or "It's complicated" with no explanation Text for logistics only. Assuming that you see her since you work together you need to ask her out in person because texting a girl is a beta move if she is in your vicinity
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:08 PM
2

MM tried to emphasize that you should start off with scripts, fuck up, try new things and once you figure out 'what works' to use that. Eventually you aren't relying on scripts but on themes because of creating the emotional connection can be done different ways
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:05 PM
10

And to dig deeper; her happiness is derived from how others view her
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:58 PM
47

Minimize "I wish I did this" and maximize "I'm glad I did that"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:54 PM
32

she had told me that she hadn't had sex with anyone else for almost a year before meeting me If you believe that then I have some swampland in Georgia I would llke to sell you she told me that he only went down on her and that they didn't have sex due to the fact that he didn't have a condom Where was the lie? Assuming that she lied: A girl either has integrity or she doesn't. Yours doesn't.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:41 PM
3

Re-read the part where I say this is the only sub I view
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:36 PM
11

Attraction is not a choice
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:38 PM
5

Call me when you're ready Women want a man who takes charge and tells them what the date is going to be. You are running full speed into the beta orbiter zone if she is telling you about her classes via text. "what day are you free" and "Meet at x at 8pm" should be the only texts that you are sending
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:41 PM
2

Irrationally confidence teamed with abundance mentality
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:38 PM
3

Hampton's husband was supposed to join her for dinner, but was still full from lunch and decided not to go She sounds like the kind of person who would do this
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:36 PM
1

Status trumps everything; you didn't mention anything about how you have improved your status. Most importantly you need to maximize your demographics (in the room do you have the highest SMV). For example, when I go out downtown to a popular bar there are cute girls everywhere but they are not interested in my approaches because they are usually eyeing the tall guy that looks like a model. However, when I go to a crowded neighborhood hipster bar then I am the only guy in the room who has ever s…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:16 AM
12

This may be the only sub that I view but I have to say that you guys are the best mods I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:31 AM
5

Have you seen american beauty? Very relevant to your question
/r/askTRP04/03/15 05:19 PM
3

The difference is whether you are doing something for yourself or for someone else. When you hold a door open for an elderly person you are doing it because you would have felt bad if you didn't hold the door. When a girl drops a pen and you pick it up to give it to her are you doing that for you? No. Let her pick up her own pen and make fun of her for being nervous around you.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 05:18 PM
5

bitches find it hard to hear/remember in a loud nightclub Then say your name is Mike. Or don't go to loud dancefloors where you can't hear shit. Your name doesn't matter; she cares about your body language, appearance, social proof, charisma, 100 other things and then your name is last.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:58 PM
2

I love putting them on a pedastal; makes it more fun when you knock them down
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:45 PM
6

tl;dr Women don't know what they want
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:42 PM
12

I joined 01/2014; there was a post about 'microrape' that made the front page. Been enjoying life ever since
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:26 PM
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Before we got together I had mentioned that I don't think girls in ltrs should be going out getting smashed in town. She agreed. so drunk she couldn't look at the camera properly OP set up a boundary and then she showed him that she doesn't care about his boundary. That isn't 'bad behavior'; it's pure disrespect to the relationship. If you don't have a backbone then women will continue to walk all over you and you will not have a healthy LTR.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:21 PM
-2

It's like a girl will either never cheat or she will cheat several times Either you have loyalty or you don't. Either you have self-control or you don't.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:58 PM
-3

A girl will either never get blackout drunk or she will do it many times. There is no middle ground
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:37 PM
0

"if you want to get that drunk in town, we aint a good fit" She showed this to her friends and they told her "Why is he being so controlling?" etc. and next time they invite her out what do you think they are going to want to do The sooner you realize to never LTR a girl who gets blackout drunk the better your life will be
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:35 PM
58

It's almost as if TRP tenets make sense
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:03 PM
6

She is using you for her own validation and you should turn the tables on her. As the others will say, go out to a bar with her and even buy her a drink. You will be using her as social proof so that you can bang other girls. When she sees other girls being attracted to you then she will want to bang you but at that point you won't give a shit about her anymore. And that is how you live a TRP lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:00 PM
0

You need to connect with a girls emotions. You can say "My job is a police officer" Or you can say "When I was 5 years old a man came into our house and we had to hide in closet. I will never forget holding my sister as she cried and telling her that things would be ok. But I knew we were in trouble and I was shaking with fear. After what seemed like hours a man opened the door; a police officer. I remember that he picked me up and told me how brave I was for protecting my sister. And that was w…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:57 PM
1

Nothing else needs to be said
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:50 PM
10

The chick that invited me out is HB10 Take the pussy off the pedastal; she is a server at a restaurant not an international virgin supermodel. She is constantly slapping, touching, calling me an asshole, making sexual comments she has a boyfriend that is like 32 In other words you are a beta orbiter for her kino was very hard because it was literally living room, kitchen, bedroom all within 2 feet of each other, therefore no privac kino is EASIER when you are all within 2 feet of each other I wo…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:43 PM
2

I never forgot the first time I went fishing with my dad and catching a big fish. Or a first baseball game
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:39 PM
7

She's not going to change Even if she says that she will change then she will resent you She will say that she "feels bad" and that she "won't do that anymore" but remember the female motto is "girls just want to have fun" Best case of action for you is to eliminate any kind of emotional attachment you have to her now because when it inevitable ends it will be easier on you that way. Treat her as a plate while allowing her to have the 'gf' title.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:37 PM
5

Don't LTR a party girl. You can keep dating her but do you want to have to worry about everytime she goes out if she's gonna get drunk and fuck some guy?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:14 PM
1

It will survive but suddenly the women will refuse to "meet for a drink" and instead will insist on dinners
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:12 PM
20

Today the SJWs weep
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:09 PM
1

If she fucks up the number or I never see her again I just assume that something bad would have happened and it was gods way of saving me the trouble and I move on to the next one
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:37 AM
8

The worst thing you can do with your life is be ordinary
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:53 AM
1

Also, to eliminate time wasted on flakes you can text the girl "Change of plans" the day that you are supposed to meet. If she doesn't text you back "What's the change" before the date then she wasn't going to show up so you know not to go
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:51 AM
66

Your driver should be opening your doors for you
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:48 AM
2

No. If you want slutty girls then do Tinder. If you want quality girls then join a book club.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:48 AM
5

The sooner you learn this the better; text "What day are you free to hangout" and if she is into you she will give you a day. Anything other than a day means she's not interested
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:11 AM
4

Join a frat in college; I really regret all the fun that I missed out on. Start to put money is a fucking 401(k) right now. If you put $10k in a 401(k) with average return of 10% then in 25 years it will be worth $100k. Start reading about bodybuilding and how to properly eat and workout. Get over your approach anxiety by talking to everybody. You only feel anxious because it's a new feeling that you aren't used to. Read Models by manson if you haven't already. Rich dad poor dad will set you up …
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:09 AM
18

If it is obvious that the guy isn't going to look away then just say "How's it going" and keep walking
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:01 AM
68

You left out body language: Chin up always Never put your hands in your pockets Move slowly and with purpose Eye contact with every person that walks by and never break contact first
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:47 PM
1

The reasoning is that people over 30 have higher income and are willing to pay more. If your location is India they charge $3 a month instead of $20 for UK.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:17 PM
2

I go out every weekend to new places but I don't check in or post status updates about it so the app wouldn't know. It seems like you would get matched with people who post dumb shit like "Crossfit + starbucks = heaven! At Starbucks - Downtown"
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:16 PM
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They did the calculations and figured out something like if tinder has 100 million users: a 30 second ad will give them a profit of $5 / year per user = $500 million / year a fee of $10 / month that 5% of users would purchase = $600 million / year
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:06 PM
1

It's too late to change now. But for the next one you know to set your boundaries up from the beginning
/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:01 PM
0

You're right; match.com died right after it went from free to subscription back in 1995.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:59 PM
4

They believe that people in their 30s have higher income and are willing to pay more
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:57 PM
2

Don't. Eventually she'll say things like "You suck at texting!" which is womanese for "I'm attracted to you."
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:56 PM
8

Speaking of inflated egos; on Grindr there's a lot of fluffing
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:54 PM
3

If you want to maximize the likelihood of a happy marriage then you will need to marry someone lower than you in SMV.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:50 PM
1

When you text a girl and she doesn't answer you think she's busy or not interested in you which turns you off. However, girls get turned on when they don't know if a guy likes them or if he is too busy (with other girls?) to text her back like all the beta schlubs do.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:45 PM
1

Avoid all of these by only texting for logistics i.e. "what day are you free" and "meet at x at 8 pm". Nothing else. If she doesn't answer your question or flakes then you flush her number. If she texts you random shit "how are you" then you ignore.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:41 PM
3

Her: under 25, not a drinker and never was, no sorority, no slutty friends, strong conservative family upbringing, educated with a good career, enjoys fitness and eating well and hopefully is a billionaire heiress.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:39 PM
1

Think about it this way; when the other guys see you go up to the women they are going to feel anxious because they didn't have the balls to talk to her.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:35 PM
9

The point is that they aren't killing their business; they don't care if you quit using Tinder because it sucks for you as long as they are in the black.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:29 PM
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Girls will use the app far less if they're only getting validation from guys in their own league That's the point; women will have fewer likes to use so instead of Liking above-average men they will only Like the top guys. Men will still Like average women because they don't care about lesser women seeing as how it's just sex. On top of that, the percentage of people hitting the Like button is going to heavily skew towards the ones that paid for the subscription.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:26 PM
2

Remember that if you are writing more than one post about the same girl who isn't your LTR then you need to get out there and meet more women. In this case, just wait a week or two or three and ask her to hang out.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:16 PM
12

Their market research showed that 5% paying a subscription is more profitable than 100% using it for free
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:14 PM
10

Your post made me think of something that has been happening to me lately that I don't understand: When walking down the street (always eye contact with everyone that walks by) I will see a couple walking side by side and after the girl makes eye contact with me she immediately grabs the hand of her boyfriend. It's happened a few times the past couple weeks and I'm not sure what to think of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:09 PM
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Only hangout with her once a week or twice every ten days to have Sex everytime and no formal dates. Always keep it light and funny with no serious talks; you are already fucking this up by allowing her to talk about other guys and about how she wants a relationship. If you set up proper boundaries then she will stay around for a longer time but so far you have not set any boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 07:04 PM
2

If two girls are sitting at a bar surrounded by men do you know which one they will be most attracted to? The one that confidently approaches them while the others are too scared to say something
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:50 PM
12

1) Women will always want something that they can't have. 2) Women will always want what other women want. People will always want something that they can't have. People will always want what other people want.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:37 PM
5

low partner count, worships me, extremely high sexual availability The thing about a quality LTR woman is that everything that makes her quality has to be established there before you have met her. Many, many men have said "she worships me and we have sex anytime I want" and then after a few months or years it all goes away. Quality has nothing to do with how she treats you; it's how she treats herself before you have an opportunity to meet her. For example, her drinking habits, was she on cock-…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:04 PM
13

Also, 2 months of lost income from not working
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:15 PM
0

You've got it backwards. "What day are you free" isn't saying that you are going to be free that day but saying "you wanna do coffee on tuesday" shows her that you aren't doing anything that night.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:53 AM
3

Advice for everyone; never tell a girl what you do because she has no reason to know.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:29 PM
0

You: It's not that I'm better than you it's that we're just different
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:28 PM
-1

read models by manson
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:27 PM
3

He seems like the kind of guy who doesn't give a fuck about what other people think about you and probably really cares about her
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:26 PM
5

Trey songz can message girls the penis emoji and it will get the same result
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:11 AM
5

Instead of being surrounded by decent looking girls in their physical prime and the same age group as me, You can keep going to same places and getting the same results or you can maximize your demographics. You know that hot blonde that goes to the trendy nightclub on Saturday night? Maybe she goes to a dive bar on Thursdays after work to have a drink. Maybe you happen to be at that bar and approach her while being the highest SMV guy in the room.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:44 PM
3

If you are out at dinner then flirt with the waitress a little. When your girl asks/tells you to stop flirting tell her that you don't know what she was talking about; that's just how you talk to people.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:41 PM
2

They are beta orbiters and the sooner you get rid of them the better off you will be. As you approach 30 they will all start settling down with wall women and won't hang out with you anymore so you might as well get rid of them now.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:40 PM
7

No woman wants to be with a man that other women find repulsive. She could be telling you these things as a reassurance to herself that she is dating a quality man.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:39 PM
3

Get a fleshlight and use that instead of masturbating by hand. Masturbate one time a week using it, slowly and gently while thinking about a girl that you know that you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:35 PM
2

I am naturally alpha Going to stop you right here. That's like saying "I am the best at giving oral sex to women"; your opinion doesn't matter. To answer your question, I have been in hardcore training mode (working out friday and sat nights while everyone is out partying) for the last few months. When I do go out I have girls approaching me and inviting me over for a ONS without me saying anything. It's science; if you look like an underwear model then girls will want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:34 PM
44

It comes down to this: Priorities of a single mom: Her kid Herself Her baby daddy You
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:27 PM
2

After reading sex god method everything changed for me. Stop treating sex as if it's some romantic experience like it is the greatest thing in the world because it's not. Rip her clothes off, throw her down, move her around, stuff her panties in her mouth, choke her, fuck her hard and good, don't go down on her, etc.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:18 PM
12

Understand and maximize your demographics. Girls at a college bar go there to hang out with their friends and try to hookup with guys that they already know from parties, frats, student athletes, etc. College students go to bars because "so and so are at this bar" and are not interested in meeting new people. When a guy she doesn't know approaches her she will not give him a second of her attention because she already has a 'goal' for that night of hooking up with the hot guy that her friend has…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:14 PM
2

She is there to please you; not the other way around. You should be fucking excited because you are about to have whatever desire you want to have fulfilled.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 08:38 PM
0

Nobody here 'hates' anybody or anything. TRPers don't respect white knights.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:08 PM
109

Another reason to not date single moms
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 07:57 PM
6

A girl that doesn't Like your picture on Tinder is the same one that will approach you at a bar on a weekday because she likes your style and body language.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:55 PM
1

The story is shit but the witty one liners are very good and worth watching just so you can say them to girls on dates and watch them become more attracted to you
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:54 PM
7

Read models by manson and learn to enjoy life by pursuing your passions
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:53 PM
4

I never hang out with couples and once my friends get in an LTR I delete their number because they always become pussy whipped. Frat, social sports, meetup groups, etc.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:51 PM
-1

The kid is from the baby daddy which means he will be there forever dead or alive
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:50 PM
1

"yea maybe I could show you a few cool places?" Change that to "I bet I know a cool place that you've never been" "Ok so the first place I want to take you is ______. Meet me there at 7 Friday" Change that to: "hey this is truckyouinthebut. What day are you free to hangout". She will respond: I'm free tue or wed (shes interested) I can maybe do wed (You will be her backup plan) I'm busy or I'll get back to you (She's not interested)
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:50 PM
14

Do you know why no one should take selfies? Because you are looking up at the camera like a dog/slave hoping to please its owner. But in a bar I get more interest for girls hotter than them with minimal effort The sooner you learn that online dating is a waste of your time then the happier you will be. Girls online get flooded with messages by thirsty betas and it inflates their ego through the roof. If you go out to a bar and see an attractive girl then very few men will approach her and she wi…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:29 PM
-1

and she's had sex with only three others in her life. [Fixed] with only three others that she will admit Here is why you don't single moms; you are #4 in her life: Kid Her Baby Daddy You
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:26 PM
91

This is why TRP works as opposed to everything we have been taught. Every beta with a gf will see a girl start dancing with them and will immediately move away because they don't want their gf to see when in fact that is the best possible outcome.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:59 PM
3

I want to fuck this chick badly That is the definition of scarcity mentality. She texts me all the time asking when we aren't talking face to face she basically just ignores all my flirting This is the definition of beta orbiter. Ask her to hangout sometime but at this point there is a very small chance she would say yes because you blew your chance.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:51 PM
1

To be fair it seems like he was just asking for a good movie to watch opposed to saying that a movie is red pill
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:49 PM
1

Californication should be #1
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:48 PM
2

You need to change your mindset here; you aren't looking to get lucky. You are trying to find a fun, interesting girl to talk with. Go up to a girl and immediately start screening her, ask her questions and talk about things that you care about. Don't give a shit about what she thinks about you because it doesn't matter. For your question, always talk to to the ugly girl in the group first and befriend her. Playfully tease the girl you actually want to talk with "Is she always this shy? etc. The…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:48 PM
2

Don't really see how you did anything wrong here. A girl slapped you and you made it clear that you were not going to put up with it.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:45 PM
0

Fighting by itself does not intrigue women. Women are intrigued by jerkboys and assholes so if it's two betas fighting over a girl then no woman would care.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:40 PM
13

This is actually my biggest reason I won't get married.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:39 PM
1

40 is a lot; you need to change up what you're doing after you get the number
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:29 PM
9

You: " When you're done talking to other guys you can give me a call and if i'm still single we can talk"
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:06 PM
1

CH has a lot of good info: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/04/02/the-wig/
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:24 PM
17

Switches to scarcity around the same time her friends start getting married.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:20 PM
2

Once you get the number you have to set it up within 48 hours or she will forget about you. This girl probably gives her number out to 5-10 guys a week on Tinder so she is not going to remember them all. Just "meet for a drink", go to a bar, kino escalate, etc.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:19 PM
2

Just say "WHat day are you free" and then if she gives a day set it up. If she flakes or doesn't give you a day then flush the number
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:18 PM
3

HIIT Run as fast as you can for 60 seconds. Jog back to the starting point. That's one rep. Start out with 3 rep workouts 3 times a week for two weeks. Then two weeks of 3 rep workouts 4 times a week. Keep going up and up until you are where I am; 7 reps 6 times a week.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:17 PM
1

You will feel uncomfortable and it will seem like everyone is looking at you judging you. But that is not the case. If you are fit, dressed well and have good body language then you will be fine. Prepare for "where are your friends?". My go to line is "I'm a clique of one. Very exclusive."
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:15 PM
2

Based on your first post there are two things that you need to realize here: She’s a sweet innocent girl, LTR material A girl that you meet online is not a quality girl. Do you think she signed up, immediately messaged you and then deleted her account? Furthermore, quality girls don't do online dating because they meet high quality men in person and have strong social lives. went for the kiss, she turned her face to the side This means that she isn't interested in you. The bottom line here is th…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 08:51 PM
3

Date = drinks at the bar and she pays for hers
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:46 PM
30

TL:DR Don't go on dates with women over the age of 25
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 07:01 PM
1

You should post in /redpillwomen
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:59 PM
3

You seem like a great guy Chris Anytime a girl says this it means "I'm not sexually attracted to you" The bit about your ex is just what she added on to try to not hurt your feelings about being rejected.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:58 PM
6

This is what I do: (puts hand on her arm) Me: What do you want to be doing 5 years from now and don't say princess. Unless she pulls her arm away then I will continue to kino escalate. If she starts to reciprocate then I know that I am going to go in for the kiss later. But if 30+ min of kino gets nothing in return or a pull away then I bail on the date because she's not interested.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:57 PM
3

Go out to downtown bars with late happy hours during the week and weekend. In big cities you will find a lot of older women who like to party in college type atmospheres
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:55 PM
2

It's like being the only person on earth who knows that an asteroid is going to hit the planet in a month. It doesn't necessarily make you happy and all you realize is the brutal truths of life. Analyzing social interactions now brings up the thought "If only they knew what I knew".
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:08 PM
10

You know the older guy that works the cashier at fast food places? That's what high school bullies become. I'm not joking; I went back for my ten year reunion and I saw a guy that used to pick on me working at taco bell.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:07 PM
46

There's a difference between someone attacking your character at a party and in the office. Fighting back at the office would ruin any lawsuit that he would be able to file and would not be a good decision. In fact, crying only helps his case because it adds onto the "emotional damage' claims that can be made.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:38 PM
1

I live in DC and all the MN people that come here hang out together and they are all big time beta nice guys. The girls still prefer non-beta behavior
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:34 PM
1

I eat 6 times a day and spend $30 a week on groceries. 4lb chicken breast, 30 eggs, 4 lb broccoli, 7 potatoes 10 cans tuna = $30
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:20 PM
4

Never let a woman make the rules. she dared me to talk to random people on the street You: I don't do things in life unless it provides me value
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:18 PM
3

Try meditating
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:15 PM
1

Men don't reach their peak until 40 or later. You've got 10 more years to get your shit together and the best way to do it is to always be busy; lifting, work, reading, out meeting new people and possible friends, etc.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 04:15 PM
1

not leaving the house for a year Probably due to being called Monk Mode. Blinders Mode would be better
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:54 PM
5

What I'd take away is that I didn't actually approach any women, though I definitely should've TL;DR Went to club, gamed as best I could You're saying opposite things here. Next time a girl says that you're short respond with: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/02/19/short-man-game/
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:52 PM
1

Tell her that she is free to hang out with him but when she gets back all her stuff will be on the curb
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:48 PM
5

Don't LTR a party girl
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:48 PM
3

Whenever you break up with a girl and take her back she loses respect for you. Whatever problems existed before the breakup will return because she knows that you will take her back again (and if you don't then you have just wasted time, money and energy on her).
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:39 PM
5

It's Tinder. She was probably bored while pooping so she was messaging you while she squeezed it out
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:07 PM
1

Next time once you get her number text: "This is gengkuido. What day are you free to meet for a drink." She will either give you a day or she won't at which point you can delete the number
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:03 PM
5

Those are only useful in civil suits; crimimal courts will dismiss it as evidence due to Recording laws
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:00 PM
3

She's not being unreasonable here but you should never let her make the rules: Her: If you want to do that again then you have to come here. I drove to you last time You: (no response) Her (somepoint later on): Ok I'll come over.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:09 PM
20

All of her songs are like that ASALT: And to the fella over there with the hella good hair... Won't you come on over baby we could shake, shake
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:07 PM
0

Woman = 1 person Women = more than one Always remember to use consistency when writing numbers. We are trying to clean up this sub and make it easy to read.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:04 PM
2

It's like getting plastic surgery; you're the same exact person as before but with less in your wallet.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:00 PM
0

One time a girl that rejected me online approached me in a bar and I rejected her because she wasn't very attractive. Go out to bars and meet girls in person; you will always find better looking/quality ones that way.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:48 PM
18

I ask her if she wants to fuck You know better that I've been hurt in the past "I'm a slut" I ask: "So, then let's fuck?! That's pretty cringeworthy and surely killed whatever moisture she had accumulated. The point is that you said these things and killed her tingles; next time just don't say anything.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:46 PM
2

Why go out fishing in a river when you can just go to the grocery store and buy a fish
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:29 PM
24

How many false rape accusations involve alcohol? 100% To prevent a FRA: Don't have one night stands with bar sluts Keep track of all communications and try to text with her after you have had sex After sex make sure that you cuddle and talk about happy things; make sure she leaves with good feelings
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:28 PM
1

Every meal should be 8 oz protein (chicken, beef, fish, eggs) 4 oz carb (rice, potato) and 4 oz vegetables (broccoli, asparagus). Stay on a diet/exercise program for 2 months and then look at your results. If something isn't going as well as you think it should then you need to alter some of the program (if you aren't losing weight then lower carbs or do more cardio)
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:25 PM
239

Taylor Swift provides the modern day slut anthem Saw you there and I thought oh my god... Look at that face, you look like my next mistake
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:21 PM
6

Go out to a bar when there is a forest fire warning; girls out will be DTF
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:12 PM
2

I am determined in finding a new girl This is the wrong way to think. You should say to yourself "I'm determined to maximize my potential." I was rarely this lucky Again your mindset is wrong on this one. You aren't the one getting lucky; she is. sometimes put a like to some songs or things about books that she postes This is the definition of a beta orbiter. You need to realize what you are doing. I would like to approach her one of these days So go fucking say hi to her. Is she gonna beat you …
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:54 PM
2

Always set boudaries and never let her make the rule. "It happened a long time ago, I've moved on."
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:50 PM
21

The point isn't about whether she is angry, happy or mad; the point is that you got her hamster so fired up that she started asking your friends about you. Remember that the opposite of love is indifference; if she wasn't interested then she wouldn't have done anything.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:37 PM
2

This. Any politician who actually has real morals, loyalty and integrity would never get elected to a second term
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:35 PM
5

It's when someone says something to you thinking that they are going to embarass you but you smile because you have been in that situation many times before and know how to own them. For example, at a comedy show when a heckler yells out "You suck!" the comedian will smile and spit out: "Thank you sir, I was worried that I was the least funny person here but you just earned yourself that crown."
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:23 PM
4

You might as well masturbate because it's free and accomplishes the same goal
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:20 PM
2

I am not going for a long distance relation (I am having plenty of fun in Europe) but I would like to keep her as an option when I return You can't have your cake and eat it too. Either you stay and can start a relationship or you leave and she will find someone else.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:13 PM
0

Woman have sex with men when there is an emotional connection; it's why you don't see male prostitutes on corners. After every connection (sex partner) that a woman has she becomes less and less emotionally attached to the next one. On the other hand, men have sex with women who pass the boner test and don't really care about whether or not the girl truly cares about them.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:11 PM
2

Monk mode means removing all vices from your life; it doesn't mean avoiding women
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:09 PM
1

Every movie has Red Pill core tenets if you look closely. It's almost as if there is some strange pattern
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:08 PM
1

What's the question
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:50 PM
3

Why are you thinking about this girl; she's gonna fuck 10 guys while youre overseas and forget about you
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:50 PM
1

I have worked a lot with sexual crimes and Sexual predators are one of the rare types (like serial killers) who cannot be rehabilitated. Their sexual fantasies are so intense that would rather act on them than stay out of prison. However, seeing as how there were no criminal charges that you mentioned it is very possible that this is one of those regret rape scenarios. Public rape allegations are never actual from rape; always regret rape.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:20 PM
2

I always call to make plans after we've already had sex but before that girls get scared off too easily "Ew why is this guy I barely know calling me"
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:11 PM
1

It's easier if you learn how to weed out the flakes in the future: You: Hey this is Thoughtful Ant. What day are you free to meet Her: Tuesday You: Ok, let's do tuesday at 5pm at x. No other texting until the date. If you want flake protection then the day of you can text her: You: Change of plans If she doesn't respond then she was going to flake anyway and you save yourself the frustration.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:01 PM
70

My response? "Ok". Hamster will be going to overdrive
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:52 PM
5

From the beginning you fucked this up. Next time text her: "Hey this is realifehater, what day are you free to meet for a drink" You aren't saying when you are free; you are just asking when she is free. This will avoid 'can i let you know" and "i'm not sure" because if she is interested then she will give you a day.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:49 PM
2

The easiest way to have sex with an attractive girl is to be in her social group and allow her to see other women giving you attention
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:47 PM
5

Get in the best possible shape via lifting and dieting Read everything that you see listed here: Models, 48 Laws, etc. Approach men and women; men for building up a social network and women for learning game Once you are in a great shape, with a giant social circle of men/women and are charasmatic with good game then you will be of to a good start. Also, never get married.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:35 PM
1

Neighborhood bar where patrons walk there and live nearby; people will be more friendly, more drunk and it is a more intimate setting than a downtown bar where people are from all over
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:47 PM
1

Inviter her over to watch a movie. Be warned though that you may never see her again; after you make plans she might remember you throwing up and be completely turned off.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:46 PM
5

I'm an Aplha male. That's like saying "I give the best oral sex to women". Your opinion doesn't matter; only the opinion of others does.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:40 PM
1

Get rejected at bars, on tinder all the time That's what every successful player says. First, get off of Tinder because it's a waste of time. A girl who says No to you on Tinder is the same one who would approach you if she saw you in a bar. Game is a science, if you give more details about the rejections then the solution is easier to obtain
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:14 PM
3

You can move out or kick one of them out
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:12 PM
3

No lunch dates; you're in college man just invite her over to watch a movie how do I make the convo sexual and what exactly do I say? "How often do you pervily listen to your roommate having sex"
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:04 PM
3

I was expecting this to be a long, bluepill convo but you did well. You have to ask for her number now. If she doesn't give it to you now then you will know that she was just using you for attention.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:03 PM
11

It's not about what you say but the underlying message that you don't care about what others think about it. Just don't get defensive and you win: "My words are so important that I say them three times" or you can say this in all situations: "Ok Who brought their little sister to the party?"
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:00 PM
2

"I had plans" and if she keeps asking say "Tub of ice cream and watched titanic alone.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:58 PM
5

I love going out in blizzards; if a girl is out at a bar during that weather you know she is gonna be game
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:45 PM
5

Most men will do the exact same Let's say you are out at a bar one night and this supermodel who is a 9.5 / 10 is wasted and you two end up having sex. So for the rest of your life you won't even talk to or go on a date with a woman unless she is above a 9.5 in looks. The issue here is that obviously a supermodel is not going to want to settle down with you so you spend all of your time rejecting 7s and 8s. It's like how a heroin user always chases the rush they got from that first high that is …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:43 PM
3

CH had a good post about the age gap online; put down 28 or whatever as your age and later on when it comes up say something like "I had to lower it because I had older women messaging me, like I want any of that"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:32 AM
5

Funny enough The Rock's personal trainer married his ex-wife
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:17 PM
6

If you look closey enough you will see that every movie has red pill principles. Fight club does stick out more than most
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:03 PM
3

Did you just read them or did you read them and do what they say? You can drink all the protein shakes you want but you won't build any muscle without working out
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:31 PM
18

My 23 year old roommate is fucking a 39 year old guy that she met on couchsurfing Just find a girl with daddy issues
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:30 PM
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But I'm tired of having to search through muck to get through to the gold Go to a bar on a weekday night; any women out at a bar by herself is looking to hookup. Bonus points if it's raining or snowing.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:55 PM
3

You need to get her hooked before you ask for the number. That never happened; the whole conversation was you talking about her.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:54 PM
1

I get this on occasion from men and women. If you wear very well fitting clothes, are in good shape and well groomed then most people will assume you're gay. I usually respond with "Are you?" if it's a girl and continue with the conversation
/r/askTRP25/02/15 06:50 PM
2

If I tell either of them that we're not exclusive they'll leave. Both want a relationship In other words they wear the pants and make the rules
/r/askTRP25/02/15 06:17 PM
10

won't sleep with me unless we're exclusive she's the perfect submissive Those things are opposites. Is there some other strategy I can employ here? Next time you have her in bed and she won't have sex then kick her out. If she is interested in you then she will either come back in 5 minutes or apologize for it later and want to fuck you. If she doesn't come back then she was using you for attention and validation.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 06:15 PM
3

tl;dr always maintain frame
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:14 PM
1

You can call but she probably won't pick up if you haven't fucked her yet and barely know each other
/r/askTRP25/02/15 06:12 PM
4

It's like in the wizard of oz when they finally peeked behind the curtain they were disappointed. In other words, she will spend her free time trying to decipher clues , asking her friends and wondering what kind of job you have and why you can't tell her. If you spill the beans then you are ruining the fun for her.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:59 PM
171

It gets worse after a girl dates/fucks a top 20% man because afterwards she expects every other man to be at his level or higher
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:51 PM
2

By only doing your face you also lower the risk of skin cancer by 90% so it's a good tradeoff
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:16 PM
52

This is why you need to always maximize your demographics. The same girl who wouldn't even Like you on Tinder will be at a dive bar on a Thursday night where there is no male competition.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:10 PM
2

If you're under the age of 45 then don't settle with a woman who is 30. But if you must then here is a good resource: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/the-difficulty-of-gaming-women-by-age-bracket/
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:03 PM
22

She wants to fuck someone and it's your turn
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:01 PM
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Monk mode is about removing vices; not about avoiding approaching women Read: Night game: Mystery method Get your life together: 7 habits of highly effective people Work issues: 48 laws of power Making friends: how to win friends and influence people Day game: bang by roosh Everything MOdels by manson
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:42 PM
11

That means they aren't interested and want validation from you. Move on to the next one. Better yet, go outside and approach girls in person where they can see your body language, voice tonality, non-neediness, etc.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:39 PM
0

I'm talking about times were you brush shoulders with a guy and he pushes you towards a corner and starts coming out you. There is no way out and it's you vs him. Carrying a gun into a place that serves alcohol is a felony where I live
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:27 PM
1

They train bjj, judo, kickboxing because matches have rules. If there was a krav maga tournament then one person who be dead or in a coma at the end of every match
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:24 PM
0

His new chick was on a reality tv show and she's now 30 and has no career other than re-tweeting things The Rock says. His first wife at least provided value to him but this new chick just has a vagina
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:22 PM
14

Just be an asshole; she will either get turned on or won't want to talk to you anymore
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:13 PM
3

Read 7 habits of highly efficient people
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:12 PM
2

BJJ is great for one-on-one and where's a lot of open space My thing is that I will avoid a fight at all costs; I will run away before I do anything because if I get arrested then my security clearance will be revoked and it's career over. But if some guy starts an unavoidable bar fight I would like to be able to quickly finish it
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:10 PM
-1

I'm not trying to shoot somebody who starts a bar fight
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:53 PM
21

Then there is the alpha. He is not often seen in the wild You never see him carrying shopping bags with his gf at the mall
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:52 PM
11

she was busy on the weekend Don't go on a date with a woman on the weekend until after you've fucked her. you're so handsome "Thanks" or "I know" Whatever her reason for complimenting you is it doesn't matter. She rejected you twice and it's best to move on
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:51 PM
3

She has no reason to know other than out of curiosity
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:20 PM
6

You're like the sweetest guy ever. [Translation] You seem like a good candidate for beta bucks
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:14 PM
11

I've been seeing a plate for 12 months and she doesn't know what I do
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:13 PM
1

The Rock is currently dating an 30 year old instagram ho who is "an aspring musician" and he has officially lost his alpha status
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:10 PM
12

Flavio Briatore: grew up as a salesmen, eventually started doing con-games on dumb rich guys, got convicted of fraud, fled to Virgin Islands, got into F1 and cheated his way to the top, became EPL owner Pumped and dumped Heidi Klum in her prime Eventually settled for a 30 year old model (he's 64) "When I go to my local and see the men in there, I think: There but for the grace of God go I. I see men locked to their mortgages, their cars, their jobs. These guys are stamped on, they're caged. The …
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:09 PM
5

Whenever the topic of "what's an alpha hobby to do" most people say woodworking and bjj. I've been curious about which type of classes would be best for actual self defense if anyone has any recommendation: krav maga (went to one class it was awesome), bjj, muay thai, etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:06 PM
3

If she is under 23 then ask to hang out. 23-93 ask her to meet for a drink
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:29 PM
1

He's an example that some men don't look good with tattoos
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:12 PM
1

"let's go back to my place to watch a movie" then you excalate through the LMR If she doesn't want to have sex then kick her out
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:10 PM
-1

Under 25, doesn't drink and never did, non-slutty friends, strong conservative family upbringing, not sorority, educated with a good career and enjoys healthy eating and fitness
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:09 PM
3

What do you do when an even higher smv dude gives your girl the tingles? Tell her that if she thinks there is a better man out there then she can go pursue him and when she gets back her stuff will be on the curb
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:08 PM
7

is it likely they hooked up? No. Don't LTR a party girl
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:06 PM
3

That's the point. You want to plate girls that are out at bars on Saturday nights and LTR the ones that are volunteering or working out.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:48 AM
3

It's almost like they are as rare as a unicorn
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:47 AM
4

This. Everything has changed; I used to be so proud of myself that I had banged a 9 that was way out of my league. But now I know that it was only because she has daddy issues and it was my turn. Just like all my beta friends I was scared of being 30 and still single. Now I can't wait to be 40 and still single.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:46 AM
1

All you need for starters is the face for the bump in attractiveness
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:06 AM
21

Men that support this it's probably 20% with a legitimate fatty fetish while the other 80% is betas who have lowered their standards
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:41 PM
3

Career women are made up of lawyers, doctors, PHDs, etc. that they will not have had time to pursue before the age of 25. However, ff you do meet a female doctor/lawyer under the age of 25 you should knock that up. "Strong career" means pretty much everything above secretary
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:40 PM
12

Once you completely remove online dating / social media to get laid then each experience becomes much more satisfying, challenging and rewarding
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:41 PM
2

The journey is always better than the destination
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:37 PM
8

It's probably a 50 year old guy sending you pics that he found online. Go talk to an actual woman.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:14 PM
59

Female facebook profile pictures are a photographic timeline of the slow decay they all experience
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:13 PM
1

Alphas are men that she desires to provide value to while betas only provide her with values
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:10 PM
10

What do married men and prisoners have in common? They both spend a lot of time wondering how they got in this situation and is there a way out.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:08 PM
2

If you live a TRP lifestyle then by the time you're in your 30s your SMV will be in the 9s opposed to all the other bluepillers
/r/askTRP24/02/15 06:17 PM
1

You can get a tan if it's sunny and 10 degrees outside. You can also get a sunburn if it's overcast outside. You don't have to be at a beach in the summer to get a tan you just need to spend time outside in the sun
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:16 PM
1

I bring it up all the time. A white guy will instantly improve his appearance by 1 or more points by getting a good tan. Don't do the tanning salon route; it's been scientifically proven to worst for your health long term than exposure to mustard gas. Go outside and get some natural sun so that you can get your Vitamin D (which is good for fitness gains).
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:59 PM
9

If you live a TRP lifestyle then you will be able to find a quality woman in her 20s when you are in your 40s. Right now what would a woman offer you other than her having a vagina? I'm 28 and as I'm getting older I am receiving more attention every time I go out as my fitness, career and social skills continue to improve. A quality girl is one under 25 who doesn't drink and never did, has a solid conservative family upbringing, no slutty friends and must be educated with a strong career along w…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:58 PM
1

Although to be fair you made him sound like a pretty big beta schlub and it's better to get rid of those friends from your life
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:23 PM
16

If you were a true friend then you would have shown him the text. Based on the fact that you are actually considering putting a vagina over a friendship I would say that you are not a good friend.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:09 PM
57

Will this woman help or hinder my goals? If all men followed that then not a single man would get married
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:08 PM
26

everything is a gift. Now you can go meet fun women who are into you instead of wasting time arguing with some girl who doesn't deserve your time. Everytime I see a couple arguing it makes me laugh and be glad I'm not in an LTR anymore
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:52 PM
6

Go up and talk to her. Nothing makes a girl more attracted than a man with confidence and balls who doesn't care about what others think about him You need to develop an abundance mentality; you see a girl you think is cute so you go up and talk to her. There will be hundreds or thousands more in the future so no single one matters
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:50 PM
1

I set up to go over to a plate's house tonight No you didn't. You didn't set up a specific time. when're you free tonight? Mistake #2. It was assumed you were going over there so why would you text her in the morning. When you were ready to go over you should have called her to say that you're coming over. If she didn't pick up then you do something else. This is a girl that really responds to a dominant guy every girl responds to a dominant guy. Having a weird day, ok if we get a rain-check? In…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:46 PM
8

Never LTR a party girl
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:42 PM
6

Text only for logistics e.g. "what day are you free" and "meet at x at y pm." Do other shit in the meantime and don't wait around for a girl to text.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:42 PM
6

It depends on the girl. Some of them will be willing to fuck after the first date but others will wait longer. Never wait longer than 3 dates because she will think that you aren't a take charge kind of guy and will slowly lose interest. It's always better to go for it after the third date and get rejected than to not go for it.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:20 PM
11

The alpha thing would have been to receive the coupon, throw it out and then immediately fuck her You're a grown man throw them away
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:17 PM
1

Here are all of the parts where you have fucked up: been messing around with, no sex though, for about a month i find a picture that i thought was funny but its not something you would send a religious person. I completely disregarded the fact and just sent it to her text her aplogozing sent her a text asking if she's gonna stop talking to me over Text for logistics only When you sleep with a girl you have sex or kick her out Grown men don't apologize for things that they choose to do; you made …
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:01 PM
1

Women want to be with a man who is in complete control and dominance turns them on. Think about it this way; no girl wants to brag to her friends about how she fisted her boyfriend. They want to talk about hot steamy sex where they were getting violated like the plane was going down.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:50 PM
2

into a beta bitch when I am around them? Cheateau Heartiste has many great resources for how to earn 'alpha points'. My favorite is: Say "Are you fucking kidding me?" to a hot girl
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:48 PM
60

TL;DR OP is hanging out with a lesbian and she won't have sex with him
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:28 PM
0

You didn't mention anything relevant to your gf: age, partner count, relationship with father, drinking habits, slutiness of friends, was she in a sorority, etc. All of these matter more than whether or not she wants to do the dishes with you.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:23 PM
0

Go out with a buddy and give him $200 cash. Every approach you get earns $20 back. Would you rather be anxious or lose $200?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:20 PM
0

She added me on Facebook Every beta schlub will accept her request. She imagines your facebook wall filled with pics of you doing fun shit and girls writing all over your wall daily. If you accept the request then she will be less attracted to you. so how much is too much? Don't chit chat at all. Ignore everything she says until the date.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:19 PM
7

Never LTR a girl who still talks to her exbfs. Essentially, she wouldn't talk to them anymore if she wasn't interested. I don't wanna be a controlling boyfriend and forbid her to contact this guy, but that's fucking wrong for a girl in an LTR to keep messaging an Ex To resolve this: You: Do you still talk to your ex? Her: Yes You: Ok. When you're done talking to exes you can give me a call and if I'm still single we can try this again
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:15 PM
1

A 30 year old woman has either chosen to be single (career mostly lawyers and doctors) or because she has failed to find a suitable partner. How hard is it for a woman in her 20s to find a decent partner? Not hard at all. Avoid the ones who aren't single by choice. Career women make good plates because they just want to have fun and nothing serious.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:37 AM
9

If you put assets in your mom or someone elses name then she can get her attorney to order a third party injunction and have those assets brought in to the divorce case. Google "pre-nup thrown out" if you think prenups aren't worthless. Don't get married.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:28 AM
0

Remeber thatAlpha is not something that you can define; only other people can call someone else 'alpha'. It's like saying "I give the best oral to women"; your opinion doesn't matter only theirs does.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:25 AM
91

"How did you bang a HB9? What did you do? How did it feel afterwards?" The same as all the others.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:03 AM
2

Escalate is only done in person and you can't build attraction over the phone. Texting should just be for "when are you free" and "meet at x at 8pm".
/r/askTRP22/02/15 01:42 AM
2

We've sent about 20 texts each, never more than two sentences, in 10 days. Text for logistics only. I have a plate that I met last March and our total combined messages is at 120.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:30 PM
3

Ideally you want to spin plates until you can find a plate that has a low partner count. Searching for a virgin means making your mission to find a girl which is not the way to go.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:28 PM
3

Text her whenever you were planning on texting her. If you answer her or change your plan then you are breaking frame
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:27 PM
1

Carnival, flea market, salsa class, museum, free jazz show, etc.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:26 PM
-6

Her: We're not having sex tonight You: I know, I'm gay. (Start fingering her)
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:13 PM
30

I think it was GLO
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:28 PM
10

Do a google image search for "reddit meetup". Anytime that my opinion agrees with non-TRP reddit I know that I should re-consider my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:27 PM
3

The assholes you are referring to get girls because they don't care about what the girl thinks about him. My friend isn't an asshole per se but when we go out to bars he talks to literally every single girl that walks by us. He doesn't really care about what the girl thinks about him because he just wants to get laid. And he has a ONS pretty much every time we go out.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:24 PM
17

You like what you like, who cares about what others think. Just make sure you let her into your place through the backdoor of your building.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:21 PM
1

Ignore her. She will get the message eventually
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:21 PM
98

Which means waddling over to HR and complaining about skirts and tops. Bake them a nice cake or brownies with double butter + sugar. Use gray frosting and make a 50 shades of grey theme cake so that they can't resist. Eventually the force on their ankles will be too much for them to waddle down to HR to complain. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:18 PM
0

Before opening your mouth this is how a girl sees your status: Are you very handsome? Society assumes handsome = successful so you get 1 status point Are you well dressed? Men wearing a tailored suit are assumed to be high status so you get 1 status point Are you tall? Tall people are assumed to be of high status so that's 1 status point Are you indian? Society stereotypes india with poverty, slums, Apu, etc. so that's minus 1- status point Are you hanging out with a bunch of hot women? That's +…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:08 PM
3

The lesson is: You will always regret not approaching a girl then you will if you approach and get rejected.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:04 PM
4

This is like buying a rolex because you think it will make you more attractive to women. If a man ever changes who he is for the sole purpose of attracting women then he is already failing.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:50 PM
2

You didn't fail because you didn't try; you just gave up. Here is a good read: http://www.rooshv.com/giving-up-vs-failure
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:43 PM
0

Status makes up the majority of SMV. Regarding SMV status means "if you to pick one which guy in this room would you want to fuck". You could be a tall, good looking, well dressed millionaire at a VIP concert afterparty but once the lead singer of the band arrives you become invisible to all the women in the room.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 07:42 PM
2

I'm 28 and I have more fun now than I did in college. Don't do something just because it's something to do; go out to gain experience gaming, network with friends, celebrate something, etc.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 07:39 PM
3

You ate dinner and a girl sat next to you and then she sat next to you in a cab. What's the value in this post? You wrote a whole post about this while she probably doesn't even remember who she sat down next to at dinner. Field Reports are about "I made a move, this is what happened" not "I did nothing and nothing happened"
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:36 PM
7

This is what happened to me and dozens of others on this sub: Relationship ends She fucks a bunch of guys None of them want to commit to her so she comes back to you. Have you swallowed the pill or not? You know what to do.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 07:14 PM
2

You can be shy or outgoing and it doesn't matter. What matters is if you still put the pussy on the pedastal.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 07:03 PM
19

It goes up because all of the betas settle down or get fat and the only competition is the guys in their early 20s. A 23 year old mans SMV can not compare to that of a 35 year old who lives a TRP lifestyle; he is 10 years behind.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:01 PM
2

The Bachelor, Scandal
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:52 PM
6

When you take a girl out to a bar/club/concert then drunk guys are going to hit on her even when you are standing there. Avoid this by not taking your girl to places where thirsty betas are getting drunk.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:29 PM
2

You hung out with a girl one time and you're stalking her instagram? C'mon man
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:09 PM
3

Ignore. Do u really care? This is what's known as 'beta bait'. A women says this and every beta schlub will answer her question. Keep texting only for logistics.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:06 PM
2

I refuse to get involved with women that aren't virgins Good luck finding one over the age of 16. men that say "to hell with America, I'll go abroad"? American women make great plates; they want to fuck without committment from either party. If you are going to another country because you don't have success with women currently then you aren't going to have success with them there either. Assuming that you are moving abroad because you want an LTR remember the core tenet of TRP: "never make find…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:05 PM
1

Never go out with a girl from work. One HR complaint and your career is ruined.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:02 PM
3

to alpha women Hard to consider her an 'alpha women' when doesn't have 5 pounds of makeup on: https://pennyjomma.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/methodgetsronda-rousey-09-24-12-12-58-44-6001.jpg
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:37 PM
1

Does your girl have a good relationship with her father? It's never a good idea to LTR a girl with daddy issues.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:34 PM
0

This is a case of extremes; in low socio-economic areas (ghetto) the rate is probably above 25% while in high socio-econmic areas (downtown in major cities) it probably is well below 1%.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:32 PM
2

Girls that approach men at bars are the sluttiest girls you will ever find. Essentially every time that she goes out she fucks a new guy and she keeps doing it because it empowers her to fuck a guy and then dump him afterwards. Use this as a positive thing knowing that an attractive girl picked you out of all the men that were there and keep on doing your thing. Forget about her because the next night she was probably fucking a new guy she met.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:28 PM
7

Ignore it and if someone brings it up then always say "Something like that"
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:24 PM
5

The roethlisberger chick was 18 so if she went to trial her name would have become public and it would have essentially ruined her forever. Can't blame her for taking the payout there
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:19 PM
9

According to the trial it was a fact that he slammed her head against the wall so after that was found to be true the verdict became a moot point Roethlisberger was going to be charged but he paid the chick a few million to drop the charges. it's only going to get worse. We're outnumbered boys. Terrell Suggs threw his baby mama on a pile of clothes and then poured bleach on her before threatening to set her on fire a couple years ago but he paid her off so she dropped the charges
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:59 PM
31

"We're not gonna have sex." I calmly respond "Really? Why?" This is a textbook example of you failing a shit test. Next time: Her: We're not having sex You: I don't have sex until the 20th date. (start taking off her top)
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:55 PM
1

This. 80% alpha (only meet for sex) and 20% beta (cuddle after sex and talk about happy things)
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:41 PM
3

Most celebrity men are giant betas but they have such high status that they can do whatever they want. You would think that Kanye West is an alpha but he also married a 2 time divorcee pornstar that was hitting the wall
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:36 PM
2

/personalfinance is pretty good. TRP is about sexual strategy aka use a condom and probably don't get married
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:35 PM
2

Text for logistics only and you will avoid these kinds of situations
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:33 PM
2

Don't ask because you won't get the truth It depends on her age and background. 18 year olds usually have 2-3 but then after college it will be above 10+, double that if she was in a sorority. Age 23-25 will be +10, double that if she travels a lot.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:32 PM
2

The answer is that women don't date down. There was a guy on millionaire matchmaker who was worth $100 million but hadn't been on a date in years. On the other side of the spectrum the black actress from Reno 911! (net worth a few million) married an electrical engineer.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:00 PM
8

Something we can all agree on
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:49 PM
8

She isn't attracted to you but she knows that you like her so it fluffs up her ego by hanging out with you. A womans definition of 'friend' is someone who provides her value while she does nothing in return. Your value to her would be providing her validation that men are attracted to her.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:36 PM
26

Why would a girl not want you to see something on her phone? Because she is hiding something. she lied to me A girl will either have integrity or not. Yours doesn't. How I confront her about this Confronting her will accomplish nothing because she is a liar. Are your standards so low that you are going to waste your time with a woman who has no loyalty? If you don't think you can do any better then you should stay with her.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:32 PM
14

Someone did an analysis of TRP growth awhile back and found it to be a consistant number of ~1,000 joined the sub every month no matter what. Probably direct correlation to the new users being cheated on/divorced/fed up with their life. Not many men in LTRs stumble upon TRP and stay. No need to recruit people because they have to make the choice for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:29 PM
7

I do like you though! [Translation]: I think of you as a gay bff and if you give me validation and attention then we can hang out
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:24 PM
1

If you're white then get a good tan; it will show off your cheekbones much better. Work heavy weights like squats and look at yourself clenching in the mirror; your neck will start to grow muscles along with veins showing and you will look much more masculine Focus on your traps (muscles behind your neck) via shrugs and upper back workouts; it will make you appear athletic and masculine
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:07 PM
1

there was a request not to play it because some-bogus-reason". I tell him "fine, I didn't know, this man told me it's okay to play it and that's why I thought it's allowed" You: If I was playing it too awesome for the bar you don't have to make up an excuse, I'm used to the praise.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:01 PM
1

Your issue here is that you need to realize that irrational confidence and frame control is always the way to go: Her: Why is your ass so hairy? You: I like my butt to be nice and toasty all winter long.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:57 PM
4

Women only date men that have a higher SMV than them
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:55 PM
3

How to land [any] girl: have a higher smv than her I'm reasonably attractive, fit, and middle class (from upper-middle class stock), make six figures. Walk around manhattan and guys like you are a dime a dozen. The guys who get the high smv girls have something going for them that nobody else has: in a band, throws giant house parties, access to VIP events, etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:53 PM
1

text only for logistics. eventually all plates will either want committment or they will find a higher smv man
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:50 PM
-3

Some men go on dates with girls and only pay for their own drinks, If you are a confident man with a strong frame and a sense of humor then you can fuck girls without spending money on them. Fuck is plural.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:19 AM
-3

An escort has a 0 SMV; she will fuck anything that has a few hundred bucks. When you fuck an escort you are having sex with someone who has lower SMV than a fat chick. OP has 2 legs and 2 arms and instead of spending a few hundred dollars for an hour of fun he should spend a few months in monk mode lifting, eating well and approaching girls that are free.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:17 AM
7

You are completely wrong here: the following options exist for meeting women: #1 is social circle. When a girl graduates and moves to a new city her entire life is based on her social connections at the new environment. If you want to fuck hot girls then befriend high status men. A 23 year old who just moved to NYC is going to want to hang out with the cool 30 year old guy who already knows every trendy bar staff and is always doing fun shit every weekend whether or not she is there. Most of my …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:18 AM
1

The most in shape man at the gym is the guy that goes there on Saturday nights by himself. it's not a social activity and anyone you bring will only slow you down. The best advice I've received is Treat the gym like a spa. Would you go to a spa by yourself? Yes
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:11 AM
1

I have quite a few acquaintances that are so Zombie'd out on various anti depression medications they cant even have a conversation at a decent speed Most guys here are not looking for these kind of women. Yes you can "text all day" with a these kind of girls but keep in mind that most TRPers want higher quality women.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:07 AM
2

but somebody OP sees his future with Cleaning up after yourself is not a rare skill. OP could go to a bar and bring home any floozy and she could clean up after herself. Let's not lower our standards here
/r/askTRP20/02/15 05:21 AM
1

What i'm trying to convey is that a tip jar is forcing her to do it because other wise she will be punished. But by saying "do this or you're gone" she isn't forced to do anything and she gets to make the choice for herself. Thus, she is choosing to clean because she wants to and not because she is going to lose the tip jar
/r/askTRP20/02/15 12:07 AM
3

he had approached 400 women of average looks and was rejected by all four hundred Approaching strangers on the street is the least intimate scenario; for all she knows you are a serial killer looking for a new victim. It is much easier to meet women at intimate events like a wedding reception. This is accomplished by building up a social network of high status men and hanging out with them; they are always surrounded by women. The women will see you a bunch of times and most of the time they wil…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 12:02 AM
-1

Don't worry about days of the week or craft a 7 day schedule. Work out a body part and then rest for 4 days before you do another workout on that body part. i.e. chest day Monday then Saturday then Thursday, etc.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 11:19 PM
11

You can also be a contractor driving trucks in Afghanistan for $150k+ but neither job offers much in a happy long term future. Sounds like a good one year temp job though
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:59 PM
3

Instead of saying yes like every beta schlub you shoudl connect to her emotions: Her: Did you miss me? You: Didn't need to; I thought about the time [some thing you guys did in the past] and it made me smile.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:52 PM
6

Ask her out on a date; gotta isolate her for kino
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:26 PM
3

Change your mindset. She isn't in control of anything; you're the one that is in control. You're only bb if you let her
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:02 PM
4

Why go through all these steps? Tell her if she doesn't clean up then she can't live here. She will choose to be messy and move out or she will choose to start cleaning
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:01 PM
3

My roommate is a 35 year old piece of shit parasite of society who works minimum wage jobs, hires prostitutes, smokes weed every day and has several kids. Even he can do laundry and keep the area clean because he knows that if it isn't clean then we will kick him out. Tell her that if she can't clean stuff up then she can't live with you.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:00 PM
7

It's a temporary solution to a longer term problem You are investing your time/money/effort in something that reaps you no benefits. You say you feel better about yourself but do you really? If you go out and approach 50 women and get rejected by all of them then you will learn a lot about yourself and gain valuable social experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:57 PM
9

It's a giant misconception that we have ingrained in our brains because that's how we think. For example, I was talking to a girl in a bar and she wasn't really being receptive to me or giving IOIs. Suddenly two girls that my friend has hooked up came over and gave me a hug and said a quick hi to me. After that, the girl I was talking to suddenly became much more interested and I eventually got her number. Looks are nothing when compared to status.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:52 PM
3

You have the emotional connection when you two are together alone; not when you're at chuck-e-cheese for her little brothers birthday
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:50 PM
4

Her: Can we be exclusive? You: Do you keep in touch with any of your exes? You (if she says yes): Ok, let's just keep things the way they are. You(if she says no): Ok, give me a week or so to think about it. Then you let her bring it up again later and say yes. Always remember: Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 08:56 PM
-14

Women also consider Mark Cuban below average in looks and he has women lining up to fuck him
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:54 PM
22

Women also consider Mark Cuban below average in looks and he has women lining up to fuck him
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:52 PM
13

Gaming is a science e.g. a man who has a 9 SMV who approaches 100 women will be able to get more than 50 numbers while a man with a 6 SMV will be able to get less than 50 numbers. When you approach a girl are they receptive to you? If no then work on your physique, wardrobe and body language. Do women lose interest in you after talking for 10 minutes? You need to work on voice tone, neediness, humor and frame control. Can you get her number but she ignores your text? You need to work on how you …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:05 PM
1

Exactly. You gain no skills or get better at game by swiping right or pasting the same opener to dozens of girls a day
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:02 PM
1

She will feel more attraction towards you if you don't text her like every other schlub she regretfully gave her number to on tinder. Until you have met a girl in person she has 0 tingles and you cannot build attraction via text (calling is different of course). If you say "What day are you free" and then she doesn't give you a date then flush her number because she's not interested.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:48 PM
1

It's because she feels no remorse about it at all; she has led this poor bastard on his whole life and doesn't even feel an once of guilt
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:45 PM
2

Steve is probably still banging 20 year olds
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:43 PM
2

Clicked on this because I thought it was about being a homosexual. Phrasing!
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:39 PM
3

Travel to exotic locations if you can; there was a story on here about a fat mexican guy whose wife cheated on him so he went on a cruise. 10 years later he is completely shredded, an expert salsa dancer who teaches classes on cruise ships and fucks the best women on the boat every trip.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:38 PM
32

With best friends like that who needs enemies. Referring to: "my wife is my best friend".
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:36 PM
69

Show a pic of a man to a woman and she will give him a 6. Tell her that he is a millionaire and she will give him a 7. Tell her that he is currently dating Jennifer Lawrence and she will give him an 8. Looks don't matter as much to a woman as you would think.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:33 PM
2

I just don't like the "meet at x at y" because it shows that you aren't doing anything that night and if she already has plans she will say "I can't" and you might think she's not interested. "What day are you free" alievates those issues because you aren't saying that you are free that day.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:30 PM
3

This is what I've used lately: Her: Where is this going? Me: I can't commit to anyone right now because I might be moving in the future but I won't know for awhile. (I'm not moving or planning on it but in theory I "might" move "soon") It's a non-committal, obtuse non-answer that has worked for me in maintaining plates. But if that is what you want, how do you direct the conversation to maintain your frame Always let her bring it up first. If you don't have the self control to stop yourself from…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:26 PM
0

haha the guy I'm talking to Anytime a girl says that then it is cause for a swift dismissal which OP rightfully did; he made no mistake there. If she just wanted to say that she was turned on for OP then she should have just said "talking about music turns me on" instead of mentioning the other guy trying to make OP jealous. She is the one who messed this up.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:12 PM
6

Once you get their number text "Hey it's Tom, what day are you free to meet for a drink". Set it up within 48 hours otherwise she will lose interest in meeting with you some girls seem to require us to "get to know each other" via texting This is her way of saying "Give me attention and validation". I go with: Me: The least intimate thing you can do to a person with your fingers is text them. What day are you free to meetup If they don't answer then just next them. "how many girls are you messag…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:45 PM
18

When another man hits on your gf it's her job to say "I have a boyfriend" and not yours. If she tries to incite drama or a fight by having you meet other men or trying to make you jealous then she is going to be a headache over the long run and you should should next her. she said she liked how little fucks I gave about dudes hitting on her This is a tricky slope because eventually you will have to deal with the occasional drunk asshole that puts his arm around her or doesn't take no for an answ…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:32 PM
3

You: Perfect. I don't kiss before the 20th date.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:26 PM
20

Even after knowing everything from this sub reading that still gave me chills; very disturbing and essentially evil
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:46 PM
1

It's not a joke; you have to take the initiative and go for it. Build up the kino before that so that you can smoothly escalate to the kiss
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:03 PM
8

She's going to try to dump her kid on you and make you raise it. Much easier to not stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:57 PM
1

A miracle of nature, when a woman provides you with actual value. If the roles were reversed she would accept the offer in a second.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:54 PM
11

When you date a single mom you will be her 4th priority: Her kid Herself Baby daddy You
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:52 PM
9

Why do men who already have women have an easy time getting more women? Because they are playing with house money when they are out gaming and have outcome independance which is the perfect mindset
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:44 PM
2

I'm curious to hear a good response as well
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:42 PM
15

Never LTR a single mom. Ever.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:40 PM
1

How did he misinerprete the text
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:13 PM
-1

He acted on the information that he was given. He didn't make a mistake because that's what he was told
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:13 PM
1

What was the honest mistake
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:12 PM
2

"Let's make a bet" "If I roll a strike here then you have to kiss me" If she won't kiss you then you should end the date because she's not interested
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:31 PM
1

There could be a line before they open for all you know. The point is that you need 5 minutes of distraction free time with her so you can quickly build up rapport and get her number.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 03:27 PM
2

Let's say you forgot your work ID at home and the guard won't let you in. However, after you confront him saying that you are going to report him for mistreating employees then he lets you in. Next time that you forget your ID card at home are you going to go home and get it or are you just going to do the same thing with the guard? This is like when your gf says that she went out with a guy from work and you say "we're done" but then she convinces you to get back together. The next time a guy a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:13 PM
-1

so I tell her we're done A man takes time and thinks everything through before he makes a decision. And then he sticks to that decision without apology because he spent time making it and it was not an error. She immediately calls with a "wtf" and I realize my error before she even has to explain herself He didn't make an error until he picked up the phone. Then he changed his mind because she gave him a sad voice and made him feel guilty. Her calling him on the phone didn't change what she did …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:08 PM
1

It's not about when you're having sex with the girl to determine whether or not she is LTR material. There are dozens of other factors to consider besides sex
/r/askTRP19/02/15 03:01 PM
2

The more time you spend with a plate the faster that one of you will catch feelings and it will end. I never meet their friends, do anything other than movie+sex or become fb friends
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:58 PM
1

You: is that all the you have to offer? Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:52 PM
2

We have been texting for the past hour You are a beta orbiter. What value does she give to you? Nothing. If you want anything to happen then you need to tell her that you started seeing someone and you think it would be wrong to continue to talk with her
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:51 PM
2

We have been texting for the past hour You are a beta orbiter. What value does she give to you? Nothing. If you want anything to happen then you need to tell her that you started seeing someone and you think it would be wrong to continue to talk with her
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:51 PM
3

Instead of coffee just invite her over to your place to 'watch a movie' another time. It's a tinder girl; there will always be a new one
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:41 PM
1

Go when it's less crowded or right in the morning when they open. Talk for 5 minutes to build up rapport then ask her for her number
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:41 PM
1

Books and failure; Models by manson and approaching any girl i think is cute
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:39 PM
22

You: Insecurity bores me
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:38 PM
2

I have way, way more success in the real world I agree 100% and not many people on here seem to realize that online dating is a waste of time
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:37 PM
1

You can't build attraction via phone; all it does give give her attention and validation
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:36 PM
2

Womens status is over 80% looks while mens status is under 20% solely based on looks
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:35 PM
2

I never have and never will be fb friends with an LTR or her friends. I like my pirvacy and keeping the wizard of oz mantra intact.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:56 AM
2

Power is a type of status. By status I am also trying to relate to Pre-selected status: fairly handsome You ever see handsome homeless? No. Good looking men can easily approach women because a handsome man is assumed by society to be a successful man. and tall tall also goes along with the pre-selection that a tall person is a successful person; not sure where it comes from maybe from "Looking up" to them. If the answer was simply "being dominant" then every neckbeard would simply go up to women…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:52 AM
4

If you keep insulting me and trying to steal my girlfriend, I’m going to hit you. Understand? Good, now fuck off. This can lead to a fight over a girl which can be easily avoided by allowing the man to leave with dignity intact (fuck off will anger him and insults his dignity). Something like: You seem like a nice guy but this girl is taken and there are plenty of women here. Don't sell yourself short man, work up the courage to go talk to one. We will root for you. (turn your back to him) < The…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:30 AM
0

I'm aware of how to act more dark triads after you've got a girl hooked but how do you act like that when you first approach a girl? Girls are more flighty than a squirrel in a dog park and I feel like opening with something like "Hey I saw you from over there and you look funny. What's up" would be a short lived set.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:23 AM
3

These guys have an easier road than the rest of us; they actually are irrationally confident due to upbringing and wealth and there is no mindset for them to acquire. It's essentially built in by the time they graduate HS
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:20 AM
2

Status is always #1 Are you a young wall street broker at a VIP only concert afterparty? You would have the highest SMV out of anyone there. Until the lead singer walks in and suddenly you are invisible to the women.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:10 AM
1

Have you seen Million Dollar matchmaker? One guy was worth $100 million but he hadn't been laid in "a very long time" Status trumps everything.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:08 AM
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I would say men have all of the power in the dating game. Women won't approach men, especially ones of higher value and thus their only options are the men that approach them. Men can approach any woman and have a shot with them but no high status man would ever waste time with a 6. Not even to mention the fact that women have an expiration date of 30 while men get that extra 10-15 years in the game.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:03 AM
1

Anytime that you break up with a girl and later take her back she loses respect for you
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:35 AM
6

This is more of a good example of abundance mentality; if a girl isn't up to your standards then you aren't going to waste time with her. Dread game is more related to her worrying about losing you while in your story you actually said "we're done". To nitpick your story, you said "we're done" but then you let her convince you to change your mind. This shows that you made a decision but then you broke down and went back to her which is not a good precedent for the relationship. Apparently I'm al…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 12:03 AM
3

I see one of my plates about once every two months or about 6 times a year. Not seeing a plate for any amount of time should not be an issue as long as you have been maintaining frame
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:58 PM
2

If you have self-respect then you would move on to a girl who wants to marry you
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:56 PM
13

How do you deal with her calling you a pussy for not saying you love her? This is a textbook "bad boyfriend play" Read this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/ Regarding "I love you" we know that women don't know what they want. They will say that they like to hear "I love you" and want you to say it a lot but after a few times the words just turn into a supplicating behavior that you do so she won't nag you. However, if you say it a coupl…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 11:56 PM
1

When you say "I'm going out with some single friends" she will imagine in her mind that you are out at a VIP table with girls sitting on your laps. But if you say "I'm going out to Cracker Barrel with some single friends" then you ruin all the mystery.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:03 PM
3

When you say "I'm going out with some single friends" she will imagine in her mind that you are out at a VIP table with girls sitting on your laps. But if you say "I'm going out to Cracker Barrel with some single friends" then you ruin all the mystery.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:02 PM
2

Let's say you're a single man living your life to full TRP potential. then you get an LTR but never stray from your lifestyle; she's along for the ride. How can you "improve" or change if you're already doing everything you can
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:52 PM
1

It seems like it was an arranged marriage so it's not really AWALT in a bad way. If I was being forced to marry some beta and had a chance to jump ship I would do it too
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:24 PM
1

Question: How do you run dread game if you are already in top shape, dress well, eat well and live a TRP lifestyle but are in an LTR
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:21 PM
3

Rich dad poor dad cashflow quadrant. Four hour work week
/r/askTRP18/02/15 10:18 PM
2

The underlying theme is that any gift should connect with a girls emotions. Flowers have no emotional special connection with that girl because it's the same thing that you would give your mother, grandmother, female boss, etc. Instead, go take a picture of a significant location and give it to her in a frame that says "Remember this?" Do something related to an inside joke that only you two have. Couples create an entire world that only they belong inside and the best gift is something that onl…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:13 PM
7

Women do not get viscerally turned on by men who buy them things. Buying women stuff to win their approval is a great way to ensure you date only heartless golddiggers A good example here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:03 PM
41

That's because the movies end right when the chick gets the bad boy. Movies don't show the couple a few weeks later in Bed bath and beyond arguing about who does more household chores.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:19 PM
48

"Also, I have to spend a few thousand dollars on a diamond rock before I will be let into prison"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:17 PM
16

text only for logistics.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 06:50 PM
1

nice gentleman - beta stand up gentleman - not beta
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:34 PM
13

we won't fuck just so you know This is good; she has already thought about having sex with you. Agree and amplify: You: Perfect. I don't kiss until the 20th date.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 06:20 PM
0

Exactly. Girls only do things if you let them so it is vital to set up boundaries immediately
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:14 PM
7

Tell her "I'll grab this round, you get the next one?" Even better: You: I'll grab this round, you get the next 100.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:11 PM
2

Your life is an SMV roller coaster: High school you are nothing unless you are on the football team or a senior. College you are nothing unless you are in a frat or a student athlete. After college you are at the very bottom; even a frat boy still in college has a higher SMV than you. This is where the challenge really begins.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:50 PM
6

She's blabbing the whole time only if he lets her: Her: (going on about something) Him: Do you like to talk about yourself?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:43 PM
11

plate: whoever passes the boner test LTR: nothing over 25
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:18 PM
21

This makes sense; look at kids on a playground where the boys are teasing the girls and not giving a fuck about it. But then the culture of being a nice gentleman and treating them like princesses removes the alphaness
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 04:49 PM
2

If she's cute go talk to her via fb or in school. In 10 years you won't see anyone from hs if you are successful
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:44 PM
14

Why would you say you bought the flowers? Buying flowers is for betas The person that actually send her flowers is eventually going to tell her and she will know that you lied Next time: Her: Did you buy me flowers? You: Depends Her: Depends on what You: Depends who this is
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:23 PM
1

Models by manson and mystery method
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:55 PM
1

If you don't want to go then say something came up. If they are really your friends then they won't be mad. When a guy can't get it up then it is much more embarrassing for the woman due to her fragile ego. She goes out clubbing, never LTR a girl who goes out clubbing
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:43 PM
179

What do married men and prisoners have in common? They spend a lot of time thinking about how they got in this situation
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:36 PM
15

At 85 I figure I'll still be gaming; nurses not residents. Dying during sex seems to be the lifetime achievement award for players
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:18 PM
3

A girl needs a strong father figure in her life to instill deep beliefs of self-confidence, self-respect, loyalty and honesty. For the rest of her life before she does things there is a little voice in her head of "Would this disappoint my father?" that prevents her from getting blackout drunk, stripping, cheating on her bf, etc. If she never had a strong father figure then that voice of authority is not inside of her head and she feels no remorse when she does things because she doesn't have th…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:14 PM
3

Next time: Her (sends request) You: Who is this? Her: We went to HS together You: Oh ok. We should meet up for a drink to catch up. When are you free Logistics only
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:08 PM
3

Confidence trumps everything. A short guy who approaches 30 women in a bar will have more success than a tall guy standing in the corner with a beer. You have a great chance to be polarizing to women because they expect you to be shy and sensitive about your height. If you show true confidence and have dominant traits then you can be more attractive to them compared to a taller guy. If a girl doesn't like you simply because of your height then she is not worth your time and would be a headache d…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:06 PM
1

Most girls who didn't have a prominent father figure in their life will need to seek out male attention later on in life because they never properly had it
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:04 PM
1

"moving too fast" is womanese for "I'm not very attracted to you" The correct way to defuse this is agree and amplify: "I agree. I have a strict rule of no kissing until the 18th date" And to escalate with actions and slow with words: "I think we should slow down (as you start taking off her shirt)
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:37 PM
2

Does she get drunk Are her friends slutty Was she in a sorority Does she have bad relationship with father Yes to any and it means no to LTR
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:36 PM
3

Her: Well, I'm not cute. In fact very serious. So, it's not gonna work on me You: Try harder
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:33 PM
0

You know how to give her the best orgasm she will ever have? Be in the top 20% (or make it seem like you are) and fuck her good
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:31 PM
9

Whats the RP plan of action to nail the second date From everything you've said it is very doubtful that she will go on a second date. Your kino escalation seemed very good but it sounded like you broke frame and didn't connect with her emotions enough
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:30 PM
2

Models by manson is a must read
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:29 AM
2

Another common example: Her: What do you do? You: I'm a firefighter. No emotional connection there. But look at this: Her; What do you do? You: Well when I was five years old I was going over to my best friends house to watch a movie. When I got there the house was up in flames and I ran inside to rescue my friend. Eventually I found him and brought him out to the front lawn while we were waiting for help. Later on one of the fireman put his hand on my shoulder and said "Son, today you are a her…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:42 AM
2

This past weekend I was at a bar where I was one the only straight guys. A girl came up to me and said that she showed up with her two (gay) friends but they were a couple and she wanted to be with a man that night. Slutty girls hang out with gay men because when they blow a guy in the bathroom her gay friends will be like YOU GO GURL
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 12:26 AM
2

Gay bars are underrated if you want to do night game. Gay men will hit on you and most of them roll with their fruit fly female friends. If you can befriend her gay friends then it's an easy mode to fuck the girl because they will literally tell her to fuck you if you've charmed them
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:56 PM
1

Join a fraternity if they have the same status where you are as they do in the states. The fraternities on US campuses have automatic high status and a lot of guys in them are douchebags who are great with women. One of my biggest regrets is never rushing a frat.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:32 PM
5

let them know youre only meeting to fuck How come some girls can fuck a guy after a first date and not feel slutty while others will wait 3 dates and still feel like a slut? If a girl thinks that you don't care for her then she will feel like a slut for sleeping with you. The key to avoid this slutty feeling in her is to connect with her emotions. Telling a girl "I am interested in sleeping with you" is logically and does not connect with her emotions. Instead, talk with a girl about how excitin…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:30 PM
1

You need to maximize your Demographics: Demographics: Your SMV in relation to the other men in the room Let's say there is a blonde girl that you want to approach; which of these options would maximize your demographics? Saturday night at a trendy nightclub downtown Monday morning Crossfit where you are the lead instructor I spend my gaming nights at neighborhood dives bars where I'm the best looking guy and usually only straight guy at the bar.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:23 PM
3

The reason I’m posting is that I think I didn’t handle it well. Correct. You broke frame here: she starts a conversation on the basis that she doesn't want to do that because she's afraid it would have taken our ‘friendship’ to another level She said she didn't want to go so you should have just dropped it. Never let a woman affect you or your life. When she said she didn't want to go then the Red Pill thing to do would have been to go with another girl. This is why you always have two women who…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:16 PM
2

Are you sure you read Models? It's all in the book.... Your mindset is that when you talk to her she might think you're weird or reject you and it will make you sad. Instead, have the mindset that she might be cool and you guys might have a lot of fun in the future if she is interesting enough for you to ask her for her number. For example, I approached a girl this weekend who was by herself drinking a beer and looking sad. She was extremely rude saying things like "YOu're not good enough to tal…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:08 PM
3

I'm talking about DC which is full of liberal college girls from the midwest who just moved here. I go out with my friend who's half black and he hears at least once a night a cold approach of "I've never been with a black guy before..." from a 20 something white girl
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:03 PM
1

Sounds like you are trying to rely your game simply on the fact that you are foreign and this is not the way to go: Women are curiously attracted to men of a different color or status. This means a british accent, Brazilian, Spanish and even Australian. In the US the sterotype of germans is that they are weird punk rock kinky people while a Spanish man is stereotyped as a cultured wine drinker who knows how to dance.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:18 PM
1

have you tried the 7 day asking a woman for the time, then 7 day for time and directions, etc.? It's in Models. Go out with a buddy and give him $200 cash. Every woman that you approach earns you back $20.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:15 PM
1

Her: You touched my arm again You: Good your arms work. i assume your legs work too so you should move out of the way.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:14 PM
1

What I am saying, for example, is that if your boss happens to be a bit of a leftoid and he asks you if you are a feminist: "Absolutely yes, I have achieved a lot in my life, but I recognise that is in part due to the opportunities I have been given which others simply were not - I recognise I have a duty to use my privilege to empower those held down by the glass ceiling" A cooler nickname is "a wolf in sheeps clothing"
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:01 PM
3

Textbook Bad boyfriend ploy: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:00 PM
24

Have you ever had a crush on a girl and you've slowly been working up the courage to ask her out so you start talking to her for 30 minutes until some douchebag comes over and steals her away? That's TRP
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:48 PM
3

Look up amused mastery posts; good for girls, friends, family, etc.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:46 PM
2

A woman will almost never do this; you always have to be the one. Wait 5-7 days (text her after work hours monday-thursday only) Yes. "What day are you free" and "Ok meet at x at 8 pm." This will create boundaries that will allow you to avoid future shit tests that come up via text.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:45 PM
3

Snapchatting is for beta orbiters and men in the friend zone. You should be out doing fun shit instead of validating her via phone. Do not respond.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:42 PM
4

girl wants to get to know me better before we see each other again Never let her make the rules: IV. Don’t play by her rules If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:41 PM
1

heres a good post https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:28 PM
6

By text she asked me Text for logistics only and you will avoid these kinds of situations. For all you know her friend grabbed her phone and they are all waiting for you to text back so they can gossip about it. "What are we gonna do though?" You: (Flip the script) Guess You: Go on an adventure through the city like Parisian lovers on the run
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:26 PM
1

There are some good youtube videos
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:23 PM
-1

There's nothing wrong with it but keep in mind that 99.999% of men on earth can do online dating because you are just typing text and messaging. If I were to put the next ten girls you would Like on Tinder in a bar would you actually approach them or would you only do it online like a beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:21 PM
0

money = game To get good at game you have to make yourself vulnerable to rejection (invest) and then learn from your mistakes. You can go high risk high reward (confidently approach a very attractive woman in front of many people), low risk low reward (approach an unnattractive girl), etc. Or you can research stocks, (bars), markets (SMV of men that go there) and then invest there (go to a dive bar on a Thursday night) to maximize your ROI.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:08 PM
0

There have been some good posts from older TRPers who do well with college girls. Hell, my 23 year old roommate brought home a 39 year old guy she met while couchsurfing a few months ago.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:43 PM
-1

You invest in each approach and every failure allows you to analyze and see your mistake to make yourself better
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:40 PM
3

Love = an exceptionally deep connection to person that motivates wanting their physical affection, sacrificing for them and vicariously feeling their pain/happiness. Love is the feeling you get when you don't think you can do any better
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:39 PM
-3

Let's say I give you $10,000. You can buy $10,000 worth of lottery tickets, not learn anything and maybe strike it rich a few times. That's online dating. Or you can read up on the stock market, make some invesments, fail, learn from your mistakes and become a better investor which will lead to bigger gains over the long term. That's approaching.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:31 PM
-6

It's the opposite of a lifehack; it's a waste of your time. If you match with a 7 on Tinder she will have 50+ other guys messaging her at that moment. However, if you were to approach that girl at a bar on a thurday night then you would be the only one who has her attention at that moment.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:18 PM
2

This is advice that a lot of people need to follow. If you have a woman that you are beta orbiting then you should go out to bars with her as social proof. You will be 10x more likely to have a girl being receptive to your approach if you are at a bar with an attractive woman.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:16 PM
5

I came on here and started asking question. A lot of people gave me answers and have made my life much better. Now I want to help others just like they have helped me. This is the only commenting site I've ever done on the internet.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:14 PM
8

has made me in to a beta If you let others dictate your emotions or "make you" into anything then you are correct
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:13 PM
2

All it takes is her getting bored and wanting to have some fun drama; "This guy has been making me use your credit card on him" and you will have an angry man who wants to fight you.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:52 PM
2

online Alpha game Men do online dating because it's easier and a shortcut to talking to women compared to doing approaches. There is nothing alpha about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:47 PM
8

She's fucking other dudes. You think she sits at home alone every weekend?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:45 PM
2

"Great career" in a womans eyes means rock star, artist, firefighter, fitness model, etc. No woman is going to brag to her friends "My boyfriend is a senior accountant." Taken from models by manson: Approach ten women a day and ask for the time. Do this for 7 days for the next 7 days approach ten women and ask for the time and directions somewhere. for the next 7 days ask for the time, directions and her favorite resturant. etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:43 PM
17

ask her out and she said No She was never into you and you should move on; any conversations you have are you in beta orbiter mode
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:40 PM
1

A girl who goes out on the weekend will give her number out to 2 guys a night at the extreme minimum. That's at least 100 guys a year; there is no way that she would remember all of them. However, if you had gotten her number while at a running club or grocery store then she would remember you.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:37 PM
1

By went home I mean "left the bar and went to another strangers home." Just be glad you didn't marry that chick Women will flirt with men simply for attention because they're bored with their husbands. it's a part of the game and nothing to spend time thinking about. The longer you wait the better. I always wait ~7 days until the next Tuesday before I text and the girls respond with "I never thought I would hear from you" "Oh mr popular was busy all week"
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:32 PM
1

If you are an above average looking man in good shape you will get a decent amount of cold approaches at a bar. Girls are interested in men until a better one comes along. Your brothers giant window will get shut once she meets a new man she likes more.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:12 PM
1

She wants to know if you are a loathesome beta that she despises or an alpha type of boyfriend
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:10 PM
1

Despite what a lot of TRPers say, a lot of women are happily (newly) married and won't cheat. The fact that she brought it up again and again hints at this but she also went home with another stranger. Sounds like it was her way of saying "I'm going to say that I'm married and if you have good game then I will fuck you" I'm going to have a drink at x tonight, you should join me This can lead to issues; you're removing a little mystery about yourself because you are telling her that you are going…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:07 PM
1

You're leaving a lot of details out and it's because of your current mindset. "Am I doing things right' should be replaced with "I do things that I want to do but is she a good candidate" How you met, was she in a sorority, does she like to go out drinking, are her friends slutty, relationship with father, has she ever talked about an ex bf yet, etc.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:04 PM
3

Aussie stereotype is kind of like wilderness cowboy rugged outdoors type. Yes if you're outgoing you will do very well
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:26 PM
8

My best friend is overweight, socially awkward and dresses like a 10 year old boy (poor fitting sports t shirt with baggy jeans and sneakers) when we go out. But he looks like chris brown and averages about 3 new ONS a month.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:40 AM
15

Models by manson goes into it in depth; many women have never been with a black guy before and are instantly attracted to the curiosity of fucking a black guy. In pop culture black men are portrayed as having swagger, natural confidence, being cool, etc. so it makes sense
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:38 AM
3

This has been posted on here before and confirmed to be fake
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:08 AM
55

Also, liberal college aged women are fascinated by black guys once they move to a new city
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:04 AM
3

the oppsote; I'd rather my sister be with a beta provider than an alpha kind of guy who will cheat on her
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:11 PM
1

I would know that it isn't going to last so if I didn't like the guy I would just let it play out
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:03 PM
6

The people treat you mostly the same but you have stopped caring about whether or not they like you so in your mind you are always the one in charge
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:02 PM
1

Yeah that's the first thing i always ask the guy One guy answered "because she is in love with me". He cheated on her a few months after and now she's an alpha widow
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:59 PM
1

This is what's known as the bad boyfriend ploy
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:48 PM
2

Elective class in college. Do things that broaden your horizons.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:47 PM
2

3 way online chat Already fucking up here. Communicate with a women via text for logistics and nothing else. Discussing sex This is a textbook example of beta bait Incongruent sex talk. If a girl broaches sexual topics too soon, and with a cocky air of bawdiness, it could be beta bait. A beta male will practically glow with excitement and curiosity when a girl he likes sexually supercharges their conversation. If this is you, DON’T TAKE THE BAIT. A little push-off now goes a long way toward a lo…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:46 PM
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Very good post. There can be dramatic differences when a man is able to harness the power of these sterotypes. Whenever a british guy comes out to a bar in DC he gets positive attention from girls at the bar. Why? British accent = stereotype of elitness, prince harry, downton abbey Whenever an indian guy comes out to a bar in DC he is always getting negative attention from girls at the bar. Why? Indian accent = poverty, slums and apu from the simpsons But if that same indian guy speaks with a br…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:42 PM
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she happily sends me pictures and flirts over text. We flirt with snaps at other times This is what's known as being a beta orbiter. On top of that you're throwing a party for her friends and giving them all free booze. what my game plan should be? If you want her to be attracted to you then she has to see that other women are into you. At the party bring a girl as your date and make her jealous. You need to connect with a womens emotions if you want to fuck them. She is assuming that at the par…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:13 PM
1

Comments from women on reddit should be taken with a grain of salt. Google images of "reddit meetup" and you'll see what I mean
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:08 PM
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In her eyes you are either a top 20% man or you are invisible to her until she approaches the wall
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:06 PM
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See how well he can hold frame: What makes you think you're good enough to date my sister? If he starts trying to prove himself to you then you know he's a beta. If he says something like "Because I'm the best' then you know that he will be able to keep your sister interested.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:02 PM
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Have I handled this situation in the right way? 3 weeks and no sex means that she has you in the "gay bff" role. You only get a few chances to fuck a girl and if you wait too long then she will lose interest because she will think you're a low value man who doesn't go after what he wants.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 04:19 PM
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Girls don't bring up sex unless they are thinking about it. Escalate physically while de-escalating verbally: "I don't kiss until the 20th date" start taking her shirt off
/r/askTRP16/02/15 04:17 PM
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A long-term relationship CANNOT be your end goal. You can only be OPEN to the possibility of having one. The #1 mistake men make is not following this advice and then settling
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:08 PM
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If you go to a bar on a Sautday night then it would be 0%. If you join a running club then it would be above 50%.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:51 PM
2

Also https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/03/13/a-crib-sheet-of-game/
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 08:14 PM
1

work out and remove this excess fat from my body read all of the literature that i don't have time for right now build a house that i am proud of and watch over my kingdom etc.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 06:58 AM
1

models by manson
/r/askTRP14/02/15 06:57 AM
7

Make your own happiness. If you were the only person on earth what would you do with your spare time for fun
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:40 PM
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Sometimes a girl will go out with a guy that she isn't attracted to because she has nothing else to do that night or she just likes knowing that someone is into her. She was upfront to you that she wasn't interested in you. Being mad at her is pointless because she didn't lead you on. Move on to the next
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:24 PM
3

Yes. He's your friend and she is trying to make the rules by guilt tripping you. You guys used to pick up girls before you met your LTR. She has no right to "not like him". If you continue to let her "make the rules" then you might as well subscribe to /deadbedrooms
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:58 PM
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We talk through facebook says she likes it and that she wanted to go there, I ask her if she wants to go with me, she immediately says yes, and we set up a date. You fucked up from the beginning. Get a girls number; never talk through facebook or email You ask her out and you tell her where you are going Never go to a dinner date before you've fucked the girl Never go out on a weekend with a girl before you've fucked her Lastly, text for logistics only but if you must respond then maintain frame…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:46 PM
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because I know it will lead to fights and no sex for a few days XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. Memorize
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:43 PM
2

You are going down a dangerous road if you are making life decisions based on how others will view them
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:33 PM
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Do a hobby because it's something you want to do. Girls don't give a shit if you do bjj if you have no game or status. You could approach a girl at a bar wearing your black belt and holding a pan am trophy and she won't even notice you because she wants to fuck the bouncer.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:19 PM
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Approach women for practice. For example, For 7 days ask 10 women a day "Excuse me do you have the time" After a week, for the next 7 days ask 10 women a day "Do you have the time" and "How do I get to xxxx Street" After those 7 days, ask 10 women a day for the time, directions, and her favorite restaurant. You aren't approaching trying to fuck them; you are gaining experience so that when you are ready to approach sexually you will do well.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:15 PM
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How do I even begin to fix this fucking mess? Lift, eat well, read, dress well and approach men and women. Lift: Look up 5x5 workout Diet: Slow carb diet by tim ferriss Read: Life: Models by Manson Day game Bang by ROosh Night Game Mystery method Career: 48 laws of power Socially: How to win friends and influence people Dress well: Read about fashion on gq and go to /mensfashionadvice Approach women for practice and get numbers without expecting anything
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:59 PM
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She can call a cab. She is using you for validation and not giving you anything in return. You're essentially a gay friend to her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:50 PM
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getting denied, I roll over and go to sleep If a girl isn't going to sleep with you then you need to kick her out; it's about abundance mentality. There have been many, many posts on here where the man has kicked out a girl who refused him sex and the next time they hung out she couldn't wait to fuck him. Do you think Derek jeter lets girls turn him down for sex then sleep in his bed?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:43 PM
1

Girls define their happiness by how much other people like them. A girl who has no friends is a giant red flag because it isn't normal. In other words, Don't let her make the rules
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:35 PM
1

risk losing respect? If anyone loses respect for you when you aren't a beta chump then they aren't a friend or should be in your life. Can someone explain? I have a plate that I met last March and she is great girl. We hang out about once a month on average; watch a movie or meet a drink then have great sex. I don't bring up birthdays, holidays and she hasn't met my friends. I haven't spent a dime on her or committed to her in a year of hanging out and I have a girl that treats me like a king wh…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:32 PM
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ex wife cheating on me the week after I got my dad's ashes back, divorce rape, carrying the casket of my best friend, loss of a child with a gf What's the connecation between all of these things? They are all things that you didn't do on your own. A girl you are talking to doesn't know your ex-wife, your dad, your best friend or you kids and so she has no emotional connection to any of themm. But you are there so if you talk about you then you can create a connection. How is my example different…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:09 AM
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Another good way to screen is after 15 minutes say "Let's go somewhere more quiet so we can talk". If she is not interested she will say no so it will save you a lot of time and filter out the flirty attention seekers.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:37 AM
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I did not fail a shit test. See here: "Low? What the hell?" "What the hell" is you breaking frame here. She said that to get a reaction from you and you supplied exactly what she wanted. That being said: I have read receipts turned on so she knows I've read the first of the last two messages Reading her messages and not replying like you're doing is the alpha move here
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:59 PM
1

There's a difference between making a girl jealous and two girls talking to each other about how you are failing both of their shit tests. The issue here is that they are both using you for their own enjoyment. Try having coffee with girl #1 without talking about girl #2. If you can do that then they aren't using you but don't hold your breath.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:25 PM
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Oz was this great and powerful being that no one knew about and assumed that he was a great wizard. Eventually they peeked behind the curtain and all of whimsical fantasy and wonder was immediately removed and Dorothy discovered that he was just an ordinary man. I can't turn her down when she's the one contacting me wanting to get together You can't turn her down? Is she pointing a gun to your head when she asks you out? "I have plans" and leave it at that. Let the girl miss you a little; abscen…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:18 PM
2

we talked about my history with Girl #2 This is called "letting her completely be in control of your frame". Your entire conversation was basically supplicating to her frame and making her lose interest in you. When a girl asks you about your past with another girl you say "It's complicated" and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:22 PM
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Does anybody have any other ways that they handle shit tests like this or any thoughts on the specifics that I've posted? Text for logistics only; yes even in LTRs. The source of your issue is that you didn't set boundaries early on in the relationship. Snapchatting with a girl sets you up for situations exactly like this. You've already dug yourself deep and the only way to get out is to maintain frame aka never get upset by anything she does. Her: I'm going to sleep You: no response Her: I'm N…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:20 PM
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/personalfinance /mensfashionadvice
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:46 PM
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continues to puzzle me little is how we are able in certain situations to close a women to sex quickly All you need to know is that if her panties are soaking wet then nothing on earth could stop her from fucking you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:20 PM
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whole Valentines day weekend, plus during the week. I don't want to appear too available, but I can't turn her down when she's the one contacting me wanting to get together Remember in wizard of oz when they peeked behind the curtain and were disappointed? That's where you're heading
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:18 PM
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I set up a date on valentines day for dinner You had a ONS with a girl and now you are wining and dining her. Have you ever heard the phrase "you can't turn a ho into a housewife" Go out and meet a new girl. NYE slut can be your backup plan.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:17 PM
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her personality clashes with my personality She says "I don't like you She also has a boyfriend She's not interested in you. You can pursue her with a scarcity mentality and waste your time or you can have an abundance mentality and talk to a new girl
/r/askTRP12/02/15 05:40 PM
2

It's a Saturday go out and meet a new woman in person
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:47 PM
3

hormone-driven state of altered consciousness This is your brain telling you "this is the best you're going to find"
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:15 PM
1

After reading Sex god method I tried stuffing her panties in her mouth. It was kind of awkward and I felt uncomfortable doing it but ever since then she has been more interesting in hooking up
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:14 PM
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What if she's ugly Vegas would put that at 80% odds is this girl just bat shit crazy "I want your smell to stay on my sheets" should answer that question for you. Alphas commonly have stalkers so you are definitely on the right path.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:20 PM
2

Answering or acknowledging the question in any way will only make her ask more dumb questions
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:18 PM
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The underlying theme is to connect with a girls emotions. You can tell a girl you went to the store and bought a rolex. Or you can tell a girl that you saved up money for years, invested it, lost everything and hit rock bottom. After years of hard work you finally earned it all back and you became the strong man that you are today. As a symbol of all of those hardships you bought a rolex as a permanent reminder that nothing is life should be taken for granted.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:08 PM
0

If you don't shut this down then it will only get worse. A simple "Insecurity bores me" will send her a message.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:05 PM
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I feel like some people view this The main issue here is your mindset of caring about what other people think about you. As long as you know that you have your shit together, are maximizing your potential and happily living life to the fullest then it doesn't matter what others think because they aren't doing those things.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:04 PM
3

Love is the feeling you get when you don't think you can do any better. Satisfaction occurs when desire is removed.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:38 PM
1

Work: 48 laws of power Bar game: mystery method Friends: How to win friends and influence people Humor: Comedy writing secrets Mel Helitzer Life: Models by manson
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:36 PM
1

why do I wear [anything] Simple shit test that you will lose if you get defensive. Turn it around on her: You: Interesting. The cute girls I go out with love these bitches.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:35 PM
2

And I am trying to get dates so I can go out in the field You've got it backwards; you need to go out in the field before you start getting dates. I thought you said you read Mystery method ten times. He explicitly says that you should be getting numbers for practice and getting experience.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:34 PM
1

This is game on easy mode, cmon man. Girls are going to approach you saying the same thing so just have a few funny remarks and proceed.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:32 PM
2

covertly communicating my non-exclusivity No beta provider dates. Either you meet at a bar for drinks where she pays for herself or you meet up at someones place to watch a movie. Don't introduce her to your friends or tell her what you do.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:30 PM
1

any advice how I could have solved that problem somehow? The process is approach (which you didn't do), kino, and isolate. If you ask a girl to go "somewhere quieter" and she says no then you know she's just using you for attention. If she had gone with you to another spot then her bf wouldn't have known where she was.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:50 AM
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True but won't help OP very much at this time since people assume he talks quietly due to his frame. If he is the loudest person in the room it would be a helpful contrast that despite his slender frame there is more than meets the eye.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:38 PM
0

yeah thats what I meant; he blogs about pooping and having a shitty life which isn't anything special but people like reading it because of his disease + attitude is surprising and has humor.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:35 PM
1

And approach and get numbers just for practice
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 05:47 PM
3

To avoid these situations you have to set the boundaries from the beginning of the relationship. Once she knows she can make you reveal more then she will keep going until she knows everything aka "if you give a mouse a cookie"
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 05:05 PM
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A guy who walks around the room with a smirk on his face is a person that other people want to be around
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:01 PM
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AWALT; if he suddenly got cured and was completely healthy then she would lose interest in him.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 04:59 PM
0

Monk mode doesn't translate to "avoid talking to girls". There should be more approaching when in monk mode because the whole point is to better yourself without worrying about outside forces.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:52 PM
1

Wait a couple days and text "whats up flaky mcflakster". No punctuation. After she responds say "what day are you free"
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:51 PM
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1.) Body language Chin always up, look everyone in the eye when they walk by until they look away first contrapposto pose Hands never in your pockets, don't put your head down, take up space, slow + deliberate movements with purpose, speak loud and slow 2.) that I am not a romantic option for them due to my small shoulders This is male hamstering. Women want to fuck Verne Troyer because he has status so stop using this as an excuse. Women don't think of you as a romantic option because you easil…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:49 PM
1

Use kino to emphasize points and connect to her physically. If she doesn't return the kino or moves away then you can end the date early because she isn't interested in y ou
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:38 PM
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the best response is always silence
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:20 PM
1

girl desperate for any male attention Whenever I see a girl in a group with only gay men this immediately comes to mind and I avoid them
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 02:59 PM
2

he has very limited options According to his Facebook page he receives dozens of letters every day and has many sites related to "charlesmansonfanclub" and "freecharlesmason". You could say that given each circumstance that he has more options than most men.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:58 PM
2

married man sex life primer
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:40 PM
2

Go on Youtube and look up videos of comedians dealing with hecklers. If you were up there the first time and someone says "You suck!" you wouldn't know what to do and your act (frame) would suffer. However, good comedians love hecklers because they've heard everything there is to hear and they can absolutley embarass any drunken idea that tries to heckle them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:40 PM
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read sex god mathod and MMSL Primer if you're interested Lift, buy new clothes, new cologne Start running some soft dread game via "don't wait up for me" and not coming home on a saturday She also said that she can tell when I "shift" into RP mode and thinks that I'm just putting on a show for her to get her going That's a beta bait known as the bad boyfriend shit test. Read about it here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:57 PM
2

Text for logistics only; no chit chat because then she will start shit testing you over text
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:41 PM
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Amused mastery is looking down your nose at someone with a smirk because you have been in the same situation many times before and it doesn't phase you. For example, Girl: Ew, why are you wearing a pink shirt/ You: Ok, who brought their little sister to the bar?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:30 PM
1

omen want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. From: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:28 PM
2

You need a mindset that you making a move is not a choice; it's what is going to happen no matter what. For example, First date you will kino escalate through the entire date If kino was smoothly you will go in for a kiss no matter what After two-three dates you will invite her to your place to have sex no matter what etc.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:27 PM
2

Don't go out with a girl on a weekend until you've fucked her
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:25 PM
1

You "command" it with a plate by having sex every time you hang out. She should be expecting sex and any sort of resistance means that she isn't as attracted to you as she once was; soft next her.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:23 PM
2

if you want pecs that hang off of your chest focus on flat bench flyes. Bench press uses shoulders, triceps, deltoids and chest while flyes are mostly a pec movement. Bench press is great for developing upper body mass but flyes are great for developing pecs that protrude off of your chest.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:21 PM
2

getting them to commit They should be bringing up committment with you and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:19 PM
1

Let's say Sara is a cute girl who is a solid 7. Sunday night Sara is sitting at home watching the bachelor and goes on Tinder during the commericals. She sees your message along with messages from 20 other guys so she decides to pick the best looking guy. It isn't you. Thursday night Sara is out a bar playing pool with some friends because she feel slike letting lose a little. You confidently approach her and playfully tease her. Sara is intrigued when you ask for her number after only 15 minute…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 02:17 AM
2

Credit goes to Doc Love
/r/askTRP08/02/15 08:40 PM
1

That's one of the best comments I've ever seen on here
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 05:14 PM
0

You aren't giving her any power. You are only asking her when she's free; you aren't saying that you will be free
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:08 PM
3

After you Like a girl it shows you 10 randoms that you can give to a friend so my buddy and I will recommend cute ones or ones we know to each other
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:39 PM
2

Coffee meets bagel is the best online site that I've used
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:27 PM
6

sexual intensity typically goes down once you commit to monogamy I'm still waiting for a study to be released with statistics for blowjob rate before and after marriage. It will end "married couples have more sex" argument once and for all.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:26 PM
3

I ref basketball games; she completely lost her composure as the game went on which in inexplicable seeing how the game was a blowout and the players weren't getting out of hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:23 PM
2

Start with building up a social network with high status guys. This will lead to interest from females as they start to see you in the same places over and over again
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:18 PM
0

Either don't respond or say "What time are you free" if you want to see her
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:11 PM
0

Looks matter but women prioritize status
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:52 PM
2

If a girl is getting into salsa dancing and you are the most experienced dancer. If a girl likes going to a club and you are the main bartender. If a girl is really into bluegrass and you are in a local bluegrass band. If a girl is into Crossfit and you are the top guy at your gym. In greek life if you are the head of the frat that she likes the parties. etc. To put it all together, if you are out at a bar at night and it's a group of attractive women and you then you will be in the top 20% of t…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:48 PM
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These kind of posts are what TRP is about. Physical features are low on a womans priority list. A short guy who is at a bar with two hot blondes is going to get more looks from other women than a tall guy sitting by himself in the corner.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:15 PM
2

(great car, good new house, sweet career etc) If you live in any major city than that is what 80% of the men also can say. The difference between Billy Beta and a top 20% man is: Status in an area that women have an interest Social proof; always hanging out with attractive women If a top 20% man sees a girl he thinks is cute then he will go up and talk to her
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:11 PM
2

Models by manson is a MUST read
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:06 PM
22

I'm starting to get small glimpses of what it's like: I'm only 28 now and as I've gotten older and raised my SMV the girls interested in me have actually gotten younger in age. Why would you marry a 25 year old women when in 10 years you could be with a new 25 year old women
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:05 PM
-2

Men loathe men of low value. That street harassment video was an example of how cringe worthy some men are when it comes to sexual strategy
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:17 PM
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Honestly, it's tough to be a woman in the dating market. Any guy that you want to be with is going to have many other women chasing after him so he isn't going to want to commit to one girl. Years of pump and dumps from alphas weigh down on women so much that they essentially give up and marry guys like the first one in that thread. A girl can either marry a beta or be part of an alphas soft harem.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:15 PM
3

Anytime a girl messages a guy on Tinder it means she wants to fuck him. Don't waste time gaming this girl; just meet up at her place 'to watch a movie' and clean up after you're done.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:54 PM
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1.) Nothing with a girl is "Urgent". Change your mindset to the fact that you are the prize and she is lucky if you choose her 2.) Ignore the text until after the day she proposed; she is putting you into her frame and by waiting until after that date you will show her that you are a man with options. 3.) Text "what day are you free" and she will give you a day if she's interested. ANything other than a day that she is free means she's not interested
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:52 PM
2

Day game is tough and probably the hardest out of night/online/daygame. The fact that you are out there getting numbers is a good sign and even the best players go through prolonger slumps; it's a part of the game. Personally I prefer weekday night game. If a girl is out at a bar by herself on a Tuesday night she is going to be more open and friendly to an approach than she would be out on a weekend with her friends.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:32 PM
4

We are quick to sexual topics. If a girl broaches sexual topics too soon, and with a cocky air of bawdiness, it could be beta bait. A beta male will practically glow with excitement and curiosity when a girl he likes sexually supercharges their conversation. If this is you, DON’T TAKE THE BAIT. A little push-off now goes a long way toward a lot of pull-in later. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/ "Free Saturday? Lets get together and do so…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:28 PM
1

Blow ups are good for a relationship as long as the cause of it isn't the girl. She should never be able to cause you to break frame. Did your neighbor run over your dog after you warned them to slow down? That is deserving of punching a hole in the wall if you want to release some anger. Did you girlfriend criticize you and tell you that you're wrong? That is deserving of amused mastery and no emotions
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:24 PM
5

Relevant quote: "Let's stop talking so we can start communicating"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 05:21 PM
0

http://i4.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article5116702.ece/alternates/s615/Samuel-Forrests-wife-main.jpg That guy could be a mascot for beta bucks; cringe worthy body language
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 05:20 PM
4

Asking a girl out within a minute of meeting her has a high probability of failing because you have done nothing to make her interested. The advice here is good but you have to talk to her for at least a minute or two to build up some sort of rapport.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:12 PM
1

How to maintain a plate: https://archive.today/e54d2
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:11 PM
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1.) Never ask a girl out on the weekend before you've fucked her. It shows her that you have no plans and that isn't going to turn her on 2.) 3 weekday dates of 2-3 hours of meeting for a drink with kino escalation and sex after the third date is the most efficient/effective way to get a new plate 3.) If she is attracted to you after the third date then she will fuck you on a Monday night, sunday night, etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:08 PM
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a technical malfunction with texts That never happens so don't hamster away about it; she got your text and there are a million reasons why she hasn't answered. If you want this to last then you can't be needy; wait a week and text her again
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:05 PM
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It if flies, floats or fucks rent don't buy -some billionaire
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 03:50 PM
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When you swallow the pill you realize that the best odds of a "good" marriage occur when you marry a woman below your SMV Thus, the best advice is to stop worrying about other people and to focus on maxmizing your SMV Women hit their peak before 25 while men hit their peak after 35
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:30 AM
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One of the TRp endorsed guys said it best: When you date online, there is no learning from a rejection. Because you can’t fucking get rejected through a screen. That shit provides no learning curve. In real life there is nothing you can do except put yourself out there, be the best you can be, and stay in the moment. Spending time on the computer won’t help you in those arenas. You hide behind a made up persona, don’t have to look a person in the eye when you type a response, and can go jerk off…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:27 PM
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There is no rejection online because it's text on a screen. Game is about making yourself vulnerable to rejection by approaching a woman. The 'skill' with online dating is messaging as many women as possible in a given setting which 100% of men can do. Few men have the game or confidence to approach many women in a given setting in person. If you want to stand out from the crowd then approach a woman in a grocery store. No woman fantasizes about meeting a man on OkCupid. They fantasize about a s…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:55 PM
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we had really good chemistry on text So you are good at giving her validation on the phone when she is bored. In the future you would be best to use texting only for logistics. For example, to ask her out say "What day are you free next week". She will know that you are asking her out.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:20 PM
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Doesn't matter, sit down and order then give the bartender cash
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:18 PM
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she really put me through something aweful You should have thanked her for cheating on you before you got married or had kids. Remember that everything is a gift. have an "adult" discussion about what happened She lost interest you and fucked another guy. She didn't respect you then and doesn't respect you know. You want to get revenge? Imagine in 10 years you have been lifting, eating well, focusing on yourself and approaching women. You set up a date at a dive bar with a 23 year old you met at…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:16 PM
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While at a bar last week a girl told me "You have a resting bitch face". Never heard that before but I must have been 'trying to look cool' or focusing on not being a beta. Sometimes girls can give good advice
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:09 PM
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She's not interested. You can wait a week or two and text "pft" to see if she bites but don't expect anything
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:08 PM
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Pay as you go with cash. Then at the end of the date you don't have to close or have to fiddle with a bill
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:06 PM
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Stress is a perfectly normal and common response to these types of situations. Was trying to emphasize that when people complain about how hard their life is and all their stress etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:05 PM
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"everything is a gift" If you get banned then maybe it will motivate you to game in person more. Online dating is a waste of your time because you don't get rejected and it doesn't make you stronger or improve your game.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:03 PM
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Well then I had the thought. This would mean slim pickings for the 30 yr old male that has just hit his peak SMV It's the opposite; when you're peaking then you can hook up with girls in their early 20s. Ask any girl under the age of 23 if she's been with an older man and most if not all will say yes. 30 yr old could go to a college campus and start hitting on college girls because of the stigma attached to it I'm 28 and to solve this issue I either go to a college bars near my city, travel to c…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 09:44 PM
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the ones they suggest Always plan the dates yourself. I go to a quiet, dive bar with <$5 beers and pay the bartender with cash everytime I get a drink. When she arrives the bartender will ask her what she wants and when he tells her the bill then I sip my drink. I've never had a girl bring up who paysv or make a big deal out of it. One girl made a face about it and acted bitchy the rest of the night so I obviously never saw her againv.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 09:41 PM
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http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:07 PM
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http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:07 PM
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all three have asked me what I'm doing for V-day "I have plans." and leave it at that. V-day is on a Saturday; go out and meet a new plate
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:26 PM
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Yeah I like you a lot; you get my B game.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:25 PM
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Here is yesterday: Boko Haram 'kill 70' in Cameroon border town of Fotokol: The Islamist militants attacked civilians in their homes and in the town's mosque, local officials said, setting many buildings on fire. http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-31141097
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:18 PM
2

Focus on IV.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:12 PM
2

Watch Californication, Mad Men or House of cards and watch how the main character does things
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:56 PM
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Anytime people write about 'stress' in America it's a joke. People living in slums of India, boko harem targets in Nigeria, any place near Syria, etc. all have actual stress. Americans stress about "how am I going to pay my next private university student loan payment" while people in other countries go to bed not knowing whether they will be alive when they wake up.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:41 PM
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Instead of worrying about her SMV focus on maximizing your SMV so that you won't have to think about it
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:38 PM
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Online dating is all shit because there is no rejection and so it doesn't make you stronger. If you get 'rejected' online it's just words and you don't learn anything from it
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:37 PM
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this. Also, you can get a pair of Dalton Boots and put a lift in them if you want to gain a couple inches
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:36 PM
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Honestly, if a girl at work is being a bitch then keep communications on record and be ready to go to HR. If the roles were reversed she would do the same thing to you.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:28 PM
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https://archive.today/J0Jx0
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:06 PM
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Plates are women that you text a couple times a month when you want to get laid without any emotional investment on your part. Text a plate if you want to fuck her; she will either answer or ignore it and life will go on.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:05 PM
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Here you go: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:01 PM
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Tell girls at work you have a girlfriend and it's serious. Socially tell girls the same things that they tell guys: you're really nice but I want to remain friends.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:01 PM
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To get women you must first be attractive to women. In other words, you must have an established mindset of abundance mentality. how do you actually get them if you want to fuck them The mindset here should be that you are the prize; not them. For example, when I meet a girl I screen her for hobbies, interests and values to see if she is a quality girl. If she's lucky then she will get invited back to my place. If she's a dumb material girl like most women out there then I will end the date earl…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:59 PM
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my gf Will be there as well Very very bad idea. What's she gonna do when you're not there; sit in her room playing Uno? I'm an attractive guy and she knows I know that You have no idea how low your SMV is right now simply due to your age. For example, a guy who she recognizes from Real World XXwhatever has 1000x the SMV that you have. Or she can meet a 30s year old guy who has fucked 100s of women while spending the last 10 years of his life lifting and getting into flawless shape who offers her…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:39 AM
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First day of class after class go up to a cute girl and say: "Hey I don't know anybody in this class. We should exchange contact info so that if one of us misses class we can exchange notes" You then have a girl you can try to fuck, study buddy, social proof, etc. Worked for me 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 10:23 PM
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Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back That's a shit test that you are failing. You think if George Clooney rolled up to a girl and said "this is a one time thing" that she would care? Her: You're just going to hookup and then never talk to me again Me: That offends me a a human being. I have a strict rule of no kissing until the 21st date.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 10:22 PM
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Once you swallow the pill you learn the definition of AF/BB and nobody on here wants to be BB
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:17 PM
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It's not over-simplifying at all if you think about the bottom line. She has probably 20+ new guys messaging her every day and could fuck any one of them if she wanted. Instead, she sees your picture and messages you.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:05 PM
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1.) People (women especially) will judge the people you hang out with as a reflection on you 2.) Once you approach 30 all of your beta friends will get into LTRs with women hitting the wall and you will not hang out with them any more
/r/askTRP04/02/15 05:39 PM
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TL;DR Women send a first message on Tinder only if they want to fuck you
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:16 PM
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You're betting 50% minimum of your assets with a less than 50% of success. On top of those odds, if you "win" the bet your prize is an old, out of shape, nagging, low libido housewife who spends your money. but as long as she signs a prenuptial agreement... what's the problem? Google "pre-nup thrown out" and you'll have many, many answers to your question.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:59 PM
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Oh I skipped over the part (10 years ago); I thought you were like 17. I just liked one of her posts on facebook like 3 weeks ago Surely you are aware of the term "beta orbiter" She just started following me on instagram Girls put their instagram link in Tinder because they just want the validation. This means nothing to you I was hoping to hear a couple responses from different people to get my head in the game Treat her like any other girl and don't mention HS; let her bring it up first. Alway…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 04:25 PM
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1) Take the pussy off the pedastal 2) Approach her like any other girl you think is cute. Don't mention online dating and if she brings it up then say "I get a lot of matches with girls here"
/r/askTRP04/02/15 04:13 PM
1

Women lust for alphas but 'love' betas
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 03:39 PM
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Considering this question is giving her leverage over the situation: she's a plate. You invite the girl over to fuck with no strings attached. Next time you want to fuck her you invite her over again or if you have lost interest then you don't text her.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 03:38 PM
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"annoyed" is a better description
/r/askTRP04/02/15 03:36 PM
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who knows? It's almost like a science; find your weakness and focus on it: Are girls receptive when you approach? If not then work on your appearance Do girls lose interest within 10 minutes of talking to you? Work on your body language, voice tone and frame. Can you get numbers but not dates? Your mid-game and text game need work I would strongly recommend Models by Manson if you want to get laid consistently
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:24 PM
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told me that she no longer wants to hang out Don't answer. Next time you want to hook up with a girl message all your plates and whoever answers first wins.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:07 PM
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Also, the ideal week would have 8-9 days in relation to training and recovery. Thus, Chest day Monday week one becomes Chest day Tuesday week two and so on.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:04 PM
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I don't even joke around with the men and I keep 100% to myself while running george castanza "angry" game. One HR complaint can be a big hurdle for the rest of your career. Always be the best dressed out of your colleagues.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:00 PM
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I think it was david deangelo
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:57 PM
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When I try to google your name/site it's an act of shame
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:57 PM
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Keep verbally cooling down while physically escalating: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/06/20/im-saving-myself-for-an-asshole/
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:46 AM
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Him: (calls you ugly) You: There aren't a lot of mirrors in your house, are there?
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:42 AM
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A better, more fun and free version of speed dating is called day game
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:39 AM
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That's the great thing about TRP; it isn't one single point of gathering because you can always go to Roissy, Rollo, Illumintable man, GLO has twitter, Roosh, etc. If TRP gets banned then people will search the manosphere and find new blogs they didn't know existed
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:36 AM
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If a girl is being a bitch then she's not worth your time or effort
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:41 PM
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What day are you free It will show her interest: "I'm free Mon, tue, and thu" = interested "I should be free wed" = you will be her backup plan "I'm busy" or "Ill get back to you" = not interested
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:46 PM
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It's still not ironclad; she can get a female divorce attorney who has had dozens of prenups thrown out and have that pre-nup thrown out too. Even if you put all of your assets in your parents name, which used to be my plan, the ex-wifes attorney can file a third party junction and claim assets from other people.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:45 PM
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Cheateau Heartiste called it; any girl that draws media attention instead of police attention to her rape is a liar
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:40 PM
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Is there some kind of structured agreement that wraps up an iron-clad pre-nup, a co-parenting agreement, a mortgage, estate planning, income splitting No. The first thing that her divorce attorney will do is either: Claim that she didn't have a lawyer present and it was an unfair agreement Claim that it was signed under duress / coercion and that is is invalid If you want kids then surrogacy is an option for having a kid that is yours with 100% custody. Seems that it can be very expensive initia…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:34 PM
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Read Models by Manson; it will change your life perspective
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:32 PM
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Avoid these situations by saying "What day are you free" instead of "come over at x" You aren't saying that you are free that day; you are asking when she is free
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:31 PM
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You can game solo and not worry about cock blocking wingmen or you can game with a higher status man and possibly lose women to him. Don't game with lesser men because they reflect poorly on you in the eyes of others
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:16 PM
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it’s hard enough being 5’4. At clubs, with girls wearing heels, I’m maybe taller than 5% of girls? You need to work on your demographics (out of every guy in the room what is your SMV) and social networking. When most of us go to a club on a Saturday night we will be in the bottom 80% of men. However, if you go to a hipster dive bar on a Thursday night then you have a good chance of being in the top 20% if you lift, dress well and act confidently. The point is that the same girl will be at both …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 06:35 PM
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how to keep her desire for you It's like a bank account regarding withdrawls and deposits: You gain 10 pounds and she withdrawls 10% attraction She sees you at a party with a younger women flirting with you then she gains 10% attraction If you lose your status (socially, job, etc.) she is going to lose 50 % If one of her friends admits that she finds you attractive then she will add 30% etc.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 06:29 PM
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Models by Manson covers your question
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:50 PM
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Theories and tenets that are described on here are based on patterns that emerge over long periods of times that the founding members have discovered. Until people have swallowed the pill and understand the science behind everything then they believe that things on here were pulled out of someones ass.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:32 PM
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One of my biggest regrets in life is not joining a frat live your life, your 30s are the worst time of your life That's the most bluepill thing I've heard in awhile. I'm only 28 but as time goes on I am getting more successful with hotter, younger women as my SMV rises. Friendship is created by three ingredients: Voluntarily hanging out on a consistent schedule that allows for people to be open and let loose (i.e. not at work, class or with an authority figure present) Similar interests Provide …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:24 PM
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Some tips: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/22/the-reverse-cockblock/ Also: How do you handle the hot girl-ugly girl two-set? The game literature is clear: you open the ugly girl first and drop a neg on the hot girl, building a faux camaraderie with the potential cockblock, thus neutralizing any compulsion she may harbor to menstruate all over your game
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:21 PM
1

~5 meals per day every ~3 hours: 2 servings protein (chicken, eggs, fish) 1 serving carbs (oatmeal, potato, rice) 1 serving vegetable (broccoli, asparagus, etc.). Protein shake one hour after waking and one hour before bed along with before/after workout. and should i game and try plating, or should i go into monkmode? Don't use monkmode as an excuse to not approach women. Do both. You can do 5x5 strong lifts or you can do 6 days a week of: 5-6 exercises of [body part] at [8-10 reps] for [4-5 se…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:27 PM
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Not breaking up with her because you feel bad for her is unfair to you and to her. if the roles were reversed? If she's like any of the other 99.999999% of women on the planet, she'd dump your ass as soon as a better option came along This is your life, and you only get one shot at it. Live life for yourself, not for someone else There is no better way to say it; remove her from your life.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:08 PM
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It seems that lately more people are interested in the villain winning. House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Man Men, Game of Thrones, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 03:59 PM
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A lot of women get sick of being pumped and dumped by guys and eventually just want to have a boyfriend or husband. They come to the point, usually near 30 when their friends are getting married, where they would rather be with a beta male than be alone.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:57 PM
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In your whole post you didn't mention a single goal you have or a plan for success in the future that doesn't relate to women. As many other people on here have said; if you continue to work hard then once you hit 30s you will start to be very successful with women. right now she's giving me all I ever wanted Satisfaction occurs when desire is lost
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:36 PM
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If a girl is going to be slutty she might as well receive attention and validation for it from others
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:21 PM
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Good FR. Her: "I bet its because you have a small dick" That's a bitchy reply and it helps to have a few good one liners: You: Who invited their little sister to the bar? You: You don't get out much do you? You: There aren't a lot of mirrors in your house are there You: Oh careful, your feeding tube just fell out heading to a place to grab food Getting food is a libido killer and it's much better to just go separate ways if she insists on getting food
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:21 PM
2

Californication is 100% red pill lifestyle especially body language, maintaining frame, voice tonality, playful teasing, etc.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:15 PM
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Peruse Cheateau Heartiste for "Bad boyfriend" beta bait. She likes it but she says these things to make sure that you aren't just a fake alpha
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:15 PM
1

She has a lower SMV than you
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:14 PM
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Personally her natural looks don't matter much to me; like if she is kind of ugly. However, if she is in great shape then that reflects very well on her character
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 10:15 PM
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they would talk about sex (cuz they're soo edgy), she would mention how it's an insult to spit after a Bj. Of course for me to hear. All in all, she seemed like The perfect gf That is what's known as beta bait. Let CH explain: Incongruent sex talk. If a girl broaches sexual topics too soon, and with a cocky air of bawdiness, it could be beta bait. A beta male will practically glow with excitement and curiosity when a girl he likes sexually supercharges their conversation. If this is you, DON’T T…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:50 PM
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Best part of this sub is seeing posts and saying to myself "that's what I used to be like" or "that just happened to me too" and "that's where I want to be" and using it to better myself
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:48 PM
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I need a solid GP as to how to approach You're already fucking up and you haven't even talked to the girl yet. She is a woman that has a vagina and she passes the boner test. She is just like the millions of other women out there. But you are using the excuse that you are being gifted a situation to talk to her as a reason to put the pussy back on the pedestal. If you want her to be interested in you then go be the life of the party, flirt with other girls, let her see that other women are attra…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 07:20 PM
1

Before I go out solo I listen to songs to pump me up
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:02 PM
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A guy really just needs to be indifferent about women Truly the best advice to give a man who wants to be successful with women
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:00 PM
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Memorize and apply
/r/askTRP02/02/15 06:56 PM
4

Nothing bitter about it; you can be top 20% and enjoy it or be left with the leftovers
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:29 PM
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It is beyond humiliating for these guys Whenever one of my friends gets a girlfriend I immediately cross them off as my 'friend'. They all become hollow shells of themselves as the girl slowly starts running their life for them. I'd rather have one good friend who doesn't have to 'check in' every hour than 5 friends who are terrified of talking to a girl in case their gf finds out
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:51 PM
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Even in my bluepill days I wasn't that dumb
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:27 PM
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Follow her actions not her words: she told me that she had a boyfriend, but still wanted to hang out In other words, "let's just be friends" When I started doing some more intense kino, she tells me that she has to head out She's not interested if she isn't returning the kino after the date she texted me saying that she had a lot of fun She likes receiving attention from you; you're not an asshole like her boyfriend
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:54 PM
1

80% rapport + 20% comfort seems to be the way to go
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:35 PM
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Look at glee: the dude with the mohawk is 30 while the actresses on the show are around 20
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:22 PM
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The issue here isn't her; it's your mindset: should I just end it all? There is nothing to end; you hung out with her and she didn't feel any tingles for you. You can be her beta orbiter and listen to her complain about her bf or you can move use your time to game a new girl
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:19 PM
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I am VERY alpha Whenever someone says this it shows that they do not know what they are talking about. The term 'alpha' is a reflection on how others view you in a group setting; your words mean nothing. TRP is more a useful heuristic to generalize the world around us rather than a set in stone science TRP is about identifying patterns that emerge over time in similar situations and pointing out the obvious instead of suggesting it's a coincidence. For example, TBP: Suddenly women hit the age of…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 04:15 PM
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2005 you approach a cute girl at a bar, chat and eventually get her number. 2015 you approach a cute girl at a bar, chat and eventually she turns her back to you to continue messaging a professional athlete on Tinder hoping to get his address.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 03:11 PM
1

So, a girl in one of my classes asked me out. She seemed like one of those really innocent and naive girls When a girl asks a guy out it is a red flag that she is a slut. Do you think you're the only/first guy she's asked out He's a manipulative, insecure asshole. He literally makes her drive him around, and he's always texting her (and checking up on her) and making her do shit for him and he's cheated on her before By now you should know that he is the type of guy that chicks love. She probabl…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:41 PM
1

To get hot women all you need is status. You could be socially retarded but if they saw you on the Bachelor they would want to fuck you so that they could brag to their friends
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:40 PM
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I prefer to have them meet outside of my place and then I bring them up "for a minute because I forgot to feed my dog" and they come up and see my room quickly. Makes it much easier to bring them back afterward the date because they have already been in my room so they are more comfortable going back
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:38 PM
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This. Also, always go for the kiss after the first date. It will save you a lot of time screening out girls who aren't interested.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 02:34 PM
1

Remember that women don't care about looks very much when compared to status. A male 5/6 is more like a guy who works in a non-management role in a STEM job. Sound about right? -I have met all my women the past 2 years over Tinder/Online dating A girl that sees you online will deflate your SMV (because she can't judge your body language, personality, presence, etc.) while she overinflates her SMV due to all the betas who give her messages. Gaming in person is much, much more efficient and will g…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 02:30 PM
1

Next time get her number after about 15 min by saying "Hey give me your number so if we get seperated I have your contact" then leave
/r/askTRP02/02/15 02:09 PM
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That commercial is an allegory for how Tinder allows your average women to have access to a top 20% man. However, it doesn't show that she will hold onto that one night in his condo for the rest of her life.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 03:48 AM
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Being the alpha male is based on how everyone else acts around him and whether not they look up to the himas a leader. His words mean nothing compared to the actions and views of the people around him.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 03:16 AM
3

What's the SMV of women you consistently hook up with? That's your SMV
/r/askTRP02/02/15 01:15 AM
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Anytime someone posts "I'm a natural alpha" or "I've always been AMOG" it immediately shows that they are not
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:09 PM
1

Models is about long term life progress and success. The day after graduation all of the high status guys from HS are nothing. The day after graduation from college all of the frat brothers are nothing.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:06 PM
2

Essentially you put yourself into the friend zone here; 7 hours and you didn't make a move. Kino escalation means that within an hour or two you are either making out or the date didn't work out. Think about it from her side: Why would she go out with you again when she coud go out with a guy who actually will make a move
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:02 PM
1

Californication should be #1
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:00 PM
2

So she kissed you while she had a boyfriend. A woman either has loyalty or she doesn't; there are no "it was a one time thing". If you don't next her she will cheat on you once she finds someone better (like in Vegas).
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:54 PM
2

Go there on off-nights and talk with the bartenders. Always tip very well and be a good customer; brings friends and dates there. My ultimate goal is to "act like I own the place" and use that social proof to game some hot 20-something pussy on the weekends. Don't expect that just because you know a couple bartenders and the owner that girls are going to be lining up to fuck you. It helps a little bit but a man who has good game can steal those girls from you.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:37 PM
3

Dancefloor is a trap for game. You can make out with girls and get their number but it's not likely to go anywhere. You have a better shot at a one night stand. Once the alcohol, lights, music and magic of the place is removed then the girl isn't going to want to see you. Much better bet is at a more intimate setting like a house party, invite only-gathering, business conference, etc. The best place to game is at a neighborhood dive bar on a thursday night. People will be friendly, looking forwa…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:36 PM
3

I instantly hear hesitation in their voice... It takes my confidence and fucking trashes it Your thinking is backwards; she is the one that has to win you over. If anything you should be deducting points from a girl that is hesitant to go out with you
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:33 PM
5

Never lie. Evade, change the subject or give a broad answer. For example, when I want to end it with a girl I tell her I might be moving away in the future. I'm not planning to go anywhere but anything is possible so I say "might".
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:32 PM
2

I swiped her from her bf of 5 years Did she cheat on him to get with you? Never LTR a girl who cheats I won't rule out giving her an ultimatum Ultimatums don't accomplish anything because even if you win you still lose. If you want this to last long term you need to say: "You can go with your friends but when you get back all of your stuff will be on the curb."
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:29 PM
2

All of my current plates have added me as a friend on facebook; I never accepted any of them. You need to work on not being so available/needy. When she invited you to the party you should have said "maybe". Never concern yourself with why a girl lost interest in you or flaked. Always move on to the next one and learn from your mistakes
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:46 PM
4

Sounds like they are more turned on by foreign strange than someone who looks like all the guys back home
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:06 PM
3

You can avoid taking your girl to places where men have higher SMV (clubs, rock band party, etc) or you have to always maintain frame that you are the prize
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:04 PM
1

Was this the ideal time to approach a girl? As long as you don't physically startle a girl then it is always a good time to approach.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:02 PM
2

It's almost a science because the more experience you get the more you see the same patterns emerging from every interaction. For example, One girl may say one thing while another girl says something else but both things are shit tests.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:01 PM
2

On top of that, if you think you are drunk and made a bad decision then do not take a breathalyzer. Yes you will lose your license but you can obtain a work driving permit and any decent lawyer will have DUI charges dropped at court.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:01 PM
2

Follow the commandments especially XV
/r/askTRP29/01/15 09:37 PM
8

Being friends with a girl means doing shit for her while she does nothing in return until she gets bored of you
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:46 PM
3

Use the line that girls use all the time: "I forgot I already had plans that day let's hang out another time"
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:28 PM
2

I would be miserable if I lost the freedoms I have being single
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:27 PM
4

Lingerie or skittles
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:26 PM
3

Next time say "You already have plans on Valentines Day" even if you don't and let her hamster do all the work for you. Then don't text her at all and if she ends up asking you out after VD you know that you have her on the hook
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:23 PM
5

A girl isn't a plate until you've fucked her. It's small things like asking me for my opinion on her work and changes that I would make, or 'ambush' errands where lunch turns into sending her laptop for repair with me advising her etc. Normally the next day or so she'd buy me small tokens of appreciation like snacks sometimes with a little note of thanks. What value does she give you? Nothing. A bag of chips is the beta orbiter of the food pyramid
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:49 PM
9

she abruptly asked me out for Valentine's Day She didn't have plans and she knows that she has you on the hook: whenever I want to set up a meet up she ignores it or changes direction of conversation I smell a big dinner date followed by her leaving afterwards when a guy on tinder responds to her message. Don't fall into the bluepill trap; V-Day is on Saturday go out there and meet someone new
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:44 PM
1

You didn't mention any goals. What are you trying to accomplish
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:30 PM
6

I wish I had known about this place when I was in high school. Instead of sitting around playing video games all day I would have been out approaching, eating well, dressing well, lifting and not wasting every day.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:41 PM
3

Not doing these things leads me to believe that she does not want to publicly admit that we are dating, and that is not OK You sound very needy and it is killing her attraction I'm going for is for us to publicly admit we are dating I will not date a girl who doesn't publicly admit we are dating It sounds like you care about letting other people know that you are dating instead of being happy with yourself. You've read all of CH so what's the problem? You know how to act but you're not doing it.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:20 PM
2

What kind of woman do you want to meet? If you want a drunken bar slut then go to a bar after 1 am If you want a nerdy girl go to a comic con If you want an athletic girl then do Crossfit etc.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:56 PM
3

80% Alpha 20% beta For example, on valnetines day give her a gift of lingerie and then on a random monday night take her out to a fancy resturant as a surprise
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:27 PM
2

OP, would you say that by following the exact study that you will have more success on first dates compared to random banter?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:04 AM
0

We can all agree that we would rather be a successful Java developer than a fireman making 20k, lawyer with $200k in debt or a lifetime bartender at a nightclub. However, a women would much rather say "My boyfriend is a firefighter" than "My boyfriend is a computer programmer"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 09:46 PM
0

Firefighter = heroic, selfless, (low pay but women don't think logically) in top physical shape, desired by every woman. Panty wetter.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 09:43 PM
1

There are millions of girls who can't get you fired at work with an HR complaint. Why would you talk to one of them that can? Instead, be Machiavellian and befriend them to use as social proof and to build your social network.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:31 PM
0

Job SMV = "What would a woman think if she saw your job title on an online dating profile"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:20 PM
-5

1811.Previously spent time at an accounting firm, engineering firm and big four doing cases. How about letting people's actions and experiences speak for their person and then maybe try to find a trend regarding occupation? That's why I put "Job SMV" i.e. if a woman reads the job title on a man's online dating profile.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:16 PM
2

I've got a pilot buddy and he says that hooking up with the flight attendants is pretty common. But the first few years of puddle jumping sounded horrible
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:12 PM
-6

Highlighted it because it's a very good job; the culture of the position though is why I added "Job SMV" not mans SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:11 PM
-1

As far as having cool stories to tell...thats what the rest of your life is for That's why I said Job SMV status, not mans SMV
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:09 PM
43

I don’t know the psychology behind it but every girl I’ve met that has done foreign traveling or studied abroad I’ve fucked the first night meeting them They fucked a lot of dudes while overseas. Now it's your turn
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:18 PM
1

a lot of confident, physically active, alpha (or at least alpha-esqu) men in our profession The men might be of high SMV but the job is still typing out lines of code, compiling and fixing bugs. Engineers can talk about building fighter jets, PAs have stories from the ER, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:05 PM
48

If I find out a girl is a redditor I immediately remove her from LTR consideration
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:07 PM
1

I'm stealing that thank you
/r/askTRP28/01/15 04:00 PM
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While the boys are out playing tag and kickball at recess the girls are on the playground gossiping and chatting. While boys are playing video games at sleepovers the girls are sitting around gossiping and chatting. Just like the SMP, women start out with way more social skills than most men and it's up to men to become more socially savvy, cultured and charasmatic through work and experience.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:19 PM
14

Over 6 feet with an Athletic build? Photogenic smile? Angular Jaw-line? Perfectly symmetric face? They dictate your success rate with women above anything else This is one of the common misconceptions that is found on this sub. The truth, as /u/bsutansalt has said, is that status trumps everything. A man who has very good looks is immediately assumed to be high status by women. Fame attracts women; fame is a type of status A billionaire who sits alone in his house playing WoW isn't going to attr…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:15 PM
5

You: "I think you're a really nice person and I don't want to ruin our friendship by being intimate anymore" Or tell her that you are moving away "in the near future" and you can't commit to anyone
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:51 PM
2

I made it blatantly (but implicitly) clear that I was interested in going on a date with her Always use your actions to demonstrate interest and not words I thought she shut me down because we have a mutual friend and didn't want word to get out That is you male hamstering; girls don't care what anyone thinks if their vagina is moist I texted her and I asked her if she was seeing anyone I cringed reading that; why would you ask that? It accomplishes nothing other than killing attraction in her Y…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:24 PM
3

What's going on in Chicago? It's all major cities in the US; girls can act slutty and no one will shame them anymore. You should have continued and gotten them to actually meet in person; that's the hard part of Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:19 PM
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She asked me to wait because that is what she personally is comfortable with.....after class. We cuddled and watched The Godfather It's comical how naive betas can be. I bet she is already cheating on him.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:08 PM
1

I don't do day game personally I think it's a waste of time
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:05 AM
1

Your probabilty of success weighs more on how you say it compared to what you say. "Hey what's up" is fine. She will read your body landuage, voice tonality, confidence, neediness, etc. over the next 10 minutes before she decides whether or not she is feeling you
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:34 AM
2

If you've already been texting with her daily then you can't suddenly stop talking to her because she will freak out For reference for next time http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2k8jbs/how_to_maintain_a_fuck_buddy_in_13_steps/
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:56 AM
1

She was texting me all night I don't even have to read the rest of the post. Text for logistics only and you ill avoid these issues.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:32 AM
5

They don't read the sidebar. They are SJWs that read a feminist post and believe it.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:31 AM
3

If you want to win a war you have to make short term sacrifices for the long term. Cute girl you want to fuck asks you to hang out for V-Day? You say "I have plans" and let her hamster do the work for you
/r/askTRP25/01/15 07:20 PM
3

You didn't mention any value that she provides you besides her having a vagina Sounds like she uses you for attention
/r/askTRP25/01/15 07:18 PM
3

A lot depends on her friends. Are all her friends getting married? She won't want to be a plate
/r/askTRP25/01/15 07:17 PM
5

Likely to be somewhat psychologically damaged not due to her fault. This is the sad truth; there is no way that any woman could have a solid perspective of the world if she grew up being treated like a princess by everyone.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:05 PM
2

Trust your gut before you throw your life away. Do you not think you can do better than her? Then marry her.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:08 PM
1

Don't get a shitty liberal arts degree. Every company needs to have IT staff, accounting, etc. Focus on one of those skills. Not many companies need a history or english major.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:06 PM
0

Only hang out with high quality men or you will be in the place I'm at now: I'm 28 and all of my friends are settling down with post-wall women and I literally only have a couple single friends left. In the past 2 years I've lost 9 men to LTRs with women hitting the wall.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:04 PM
4

I thought she was like 20-24 because that's what young girls do when they have a celebrity crush. She's 30? That's just weird. Sounds like you have an alpha widow; she fell in love with her professor and for whatever fucked up reason she kept a deep hope that he would leave his wife or whatever for her. You aren't being insecure you are being logical and rightfully cautious. From what you have said she doesn't sound like she deserves your exclusivity.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 09:45 PM
2

In the beginning of our relationship he was basically telling me that he loves me and I told him that he needed to slow down, and that when I'm ready it will just come naturally The guy sounds pretty beta
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:42 PM
20

Cheateau Heartiste has a good description of beta bait: The first two beta bait evil schemes are: Incongruent sex talk. If a girl broaches sexual topics too soon, and with a cocky air of bawdiness, it could be beta bait. A beta male will practically glow with excitement and curiosity when a girl he likes sexually supercharges their conversation. If this is you, DON’T TAKE THE BAIT. A little push-off now goes a long way toward a lot of pull-in later.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:41 PM
3

These are red flags for two reasons: If she ever met one of these celebrities she would cheat on you in a second Eventually she will become obsessed with someone that she meets; hot guy at work, hot guy at her gym, hot guy that looks like Jon Hamm, etc. And she will cheat in a second. Don't waste your time being exclusive with her. Plate her
/r/askTRP24/01/15 09:36 PM
9

That guy sounds like a beta; he paid another girl money for nudes
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:33 PM
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despite telling me she's had a number of fwb's and office flings and going into pretty vivid detail Don't miscontrue this as her being interested in you. When a girl is interested in a guy then she isn't going to mention any other guys or in any way make her sound like a slut. If a girl likes you then she will not bring up other men around you.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:30 PM
2

Do you let them start that topic, so as to not appear needy? They will not bring it up unless they are really into you in which case you should go for the fuck close on the first date After you've built up some rapport over around 10 messages just say "We should meet for a drink whats your number" then move on to the next girl
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:54 PM
1

weasels his way into an 8 a few times I agree; that's why I tried to emphasize the word consistently. If a fat guy can bang an 8 every weekend then his SMV is an 8. I've hooked up with women above an 8 but consistently I'm still stuck on 7s
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:16 PM
3

how come you invited me? :) This is what's known as beta bait. Don't answer it. Wait a few days and ask her when she is free to hangout. Further reading: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/23/the-third-beta-bait-type-the-bad-boyfriend-ploy/
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:14 PM
9

Models by manson goes into it for great depth. Porn creates unrealistic interpretations of women in your mind, you will stop being turned on by nature beauty of women because you condition yourself into a mental box where only porn girls turn you on. Masturbation death grip will occur and you won't be able to enjoy sex the way it was meant to do. Think about it; there is nothing more sad and pathetic than a man sitting at home alone masturbating. Get out of the house and meet some women
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:50 PM
2

movie meetup Movie dates are bad dates; you can't talk or kino escalate While this is going on she keeps trying to get me to admit that I like her, and I keep on deflecting the question, quite successfully. Text for logistics only. If you are chit chatting with her then you are falling into the orbiter role. "Meet at 1 pm" should be the only types of things you are texting. just don't see how aloof asshole game turns coffee into a hookup considering the situation Kino escalation. You already spa…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:46 PM
1

Your SMV is the SMV of women that you *consistently hook up with
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:40 PM
4

There's a lot of reasons and a lot of them are psychological too. Ultimately Porn offers 0 benefits to men and should be removed
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:06 PM
5

People grow up being told stories of disney princesses being charmed by the perfect man and living a perfect happy life ever after. TRP goes against everything that we all have been conditioned to believe and rely on. A lot of peoples #1 goal in life is to find their one true love which as we know doesn't exist. Thus, TRP is seen as hating on women.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:59 PM
2

I was hooking up with a girl that went to a predominantly black school. The phrase "hotdog in a hallway" is an accurate description
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:56 PM
15

Read Models by Manson. Try masturbating once per week to a girl you know that you want to bang. Helps out in many ways
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:55 PM
9

I thought being a mother was the hardest job
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:19 PM
1

possible plate? If she passes the boner test then nothing else matters. She's going to be fucking other dudes so honestly you should just think of her as a hole. If you are asking about LTR then you can read this
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:18 PM
1

You should also have her saying she's a slut while she's sucking your cock after the first date. But not everyone is comfortable doing that yet
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:03 PM
6

Bag of skittles
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:25 PM
3

I don't know if it's working or not It's not working and you're wasting your time. You are basing your happiness on someone else and it will only lead to bad things
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:25 PM
7

Control the conversation. When they start talking about dumb shit then change the subject. So, how often do you pervily listen to your roommate having sex?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:57 PM
0

It's not a branch; it's more of a script. Kino escalate slowly, steadily and smoothly. Do it more than you think you should. Always go for the kiss at the end of the first date if it went well.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:56 PM
2

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Especially NEver say you're sorry
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:54 PM
1

I've never gone on a date with a girl online that was more attractive than girls I meet in person If you want quality girls then you're going to have to put in the effort
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:53 PM
1

I think I stuck around for too long. Exactly. By doing that you were going into an all or nothing gambit. Either you would stick around and go home with her that night or she will get turned off and will not want to see you again.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:51 PM
2

You know how many people I still hang out with from high school? 3 people. The successful people will move away and everyone else will live within 10 miles of HS.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 02:46 AM
2

Go by her actions not by her words. Have you made a move on her? She will either reject you or you will fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 02:10 AM
3

Spring break is irrelevant. Any girl on vacation + alcohol + outside of her social circle = She is looking for a good time. I swear that girls consider a vacation a failure if they don't fuck at least 1 new guy per day.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 02:08 AM
1

If you wanted to get rejected by women at a bar, how would you act? When I thought about it, I imagined being an asshole and treating them like shit
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:59 AM
3

I used to try to have female friends but I had to put in so much more work than them that I just stopped trying to be friends with women I will never understand how women can be friends with other women
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:09 PM
43

Nice work. My line is "When you're done hanging out with your exes you can call me and if I'm still single we can hang out"
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:46 PM
24

My brother married a fat girl and she treats him like a king. She probably won't cheat on him either because she's not very attractive and he can let himself go without worrying about her SMV ever overtaking his. Easy way out.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:24 PM
3

Women base their happiness on how others perceive them.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:22 PM
3

Care to post the intial Tinder convo / opener?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:19 PM
19

Marrying a fat girl is like suicide; it's taking the easy way out
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:17 PM
2

You're not giving them tingles during the date that will make them want to see you again. Or you do something after the first date that turns them off. Or you are being too need somehow; texting too soon/much, coming on too strong, scarcity mentality, etc. Mix it up and see what works
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:48 PM
3

Have you read Models by Manson? It'll change your life in a similar way
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 06:01 PM
2

Models by Manson will answer ever question you just asked. It's funny how people in your situation can change and in 10 years you will have a harem of women if you put in the effort.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:00 PM
2

Those examples put you into the girls frame. Her trying to take frame: But don't you have a Wife/Girlfriend? You losing frame: Um no I don't. You keeping frame: Do you? When you don't know how to respond just have a couple one liners in your playbook; I usually go with "Does that work on other guys".
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:00 PM
1

You're not going to be perfect. Every time you fuck up it will make you stronger and better in the future if you learn from your mistakes
/r/askTRP23/01/15 05:57 PM
1

It's like if you want your kid to clean his room. You can say "Clean your room" or you can say "Tomorrow we are going to the amusement park. If your room is clean then you can come too" instead of the kid doing it because you told them to do it they are doing it because they want to do it You aren't even telling them what to do either just outlining what will happen
/r/askTRP23/01/15 05:54 PM
1

Have you asked her
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:31 PM
3

One thing all men who are successful with women have in common is that they get rejected many, many times
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:25 PM
1

Text only for logistics. You will avoid all of these types of situations.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:13 PM
3

Can anyone explain to me how this worked? Needy behavior is a turn off. When she saw that you don't need her then she was turned on. Few months ago I saw my ex at a bar and she started making out with a guy. For whatever reason it made me sad. My friends saw it and went up to another girl and said that my ex was here and she should talk to me. I talked to her for about 2 minutes but my ex happened to walk by while I was talking to her. 30 min later my ex texted me "You wanna come over and do wha…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:11 PM
14

I'm 28 and in the last year of TRP lifesstyle I've been succeeding with women who are fresh out of college. When I was younger I never had a chance with these girls. The SMP chart is an accurate guideline for what to expect if you take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:07 PM
1

what to do you actually talk about once you approach to lead her to better things? Talk about whatever you want to talk about. She is there to win you over. Models by manson is a great read
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:03 PM
4

Her flake could be for a number of reasons. It doesn't matter. She flaked. Move on to the next one
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:37 PM
6

I followed her. Surprisingly she actually followed me back Mistake one. You are putting yourself in the orbiter role already. Unfollow immediately. Next time you see her go up and approach her as if you don't know her. If you get her number then later you guys can discuss mutual friends. You may think that it gives you an advantage that you know similar people but she doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:35 PM
6

I'm not sure how to reply Don't reply. If you answer her then she will continue to text you dumb things like this.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 03:33 PM
2

Also https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/20/drive-by-teases/
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:13 PM
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