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Applying red pill and SMV knowledge when it comes to race and dating.

Thelaterbloomerstory

February 17, 2015
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Title Applying red pill and SMV knowledge when it comes to race and dating.
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Thelaterbloomerstory

Upvotes 0
Comments 27
Date February 17, 2015 11:05 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]MMABouncer 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Increase your SMV. You'll never see an mma fighter, of any race, with an ugly woman. Or a millionaire, of any race. Raise it.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you say MMA fighter, do you mean pro like UFC or just looking like an MMA fighter and sparring?

[–]JayViceroy4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why do I see this same question about Indian and Asian men every week? I can't date Erin Andrews so now I'm fucking going to cry about it? You really want to date these woman? Stop asking the same stupid fucking question. Go make a few million dollars and fuck all the blonde hoes you want.

This may sound crude, but this male hamster "I'm not good enough, waaaah, I'm Asian, waaaaahh, I'm Indian, waaaaah, I can't pull girls, waaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh" is bullshit. Unless you're like 5'0 and a look like a troll it is possible for you to get beautiful women. One of my best friends is a 5'3" mexican dude and just last weekend hooked up with a 5'9" blonde Scandinavian looking chick. Next morning she was flying back to LA for a shoot.

Growing up, Asian guys and Indian guys I knew had much higher SMV than me. And guess what? It's because they fucking started working out. Stop being a fat, ugly, whiney bitch and start making yourself into the man that attracts these women. Or fucking don't, I don't care. Sometimes I swear you guys are as bad as 2XC subscribers looking for a hand out or an echo chamber. Stop sitting around posting these same questions, and instead use the SEARCH function and man the fuck up.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sorry, a lot of them as of recently have been by me but that is because my threads never get decent advice, just shit like

"leave the white women alone!"

or

"stick to yer own kind!"

This one so far is different and offers advice so I love it.

[–]deathhand1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no scarcity. Go through tons of women. Pick up on hints when women signal that they like you. That is it. It is a god damn numbers game at times.

[–]Onemanwolfpack231 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can you just post a picture so we can help you look better?

[–]Trpbrother0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You play the hand you are dealt.

Yes it's not fair that people with naturally low SMV have to strive harder then Chad Thundercock who plays quarter-back at college.

The sidebar indicates the steps to take for all men to raise their SMV. Namely lifting, dressing better, pursuing a career, becoming better read.

We all want things which we can't have and part of TRP is coming to terms with who we are and what we want and going out and getting it.

[–]tombreck2 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You need to maximize your Demographics:

Demographics: Your SMV in relation to the other men in the room

Let's say there is a blonde girl that you want to approach; which of these options would maximize your demographics?

  • Saturday night at a trendy nightclub downtown

  • Monday morning Crossfit where you are the lead instructor

I spend my gaming nights at neighborhood dives bars where I'm the best looking guy and usually only straight guy at the bar.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I think I remember you as being the guy that lived in the northeast, I also live here, might giving me some pointers about the demographics thing?

One thing here is availability, in my area we have a lot of the swarthy Italian type of women and in some cases the stereotypically Irish looking women (brunettes with pale skin and freckles to go along with it). Not many hot blondes around in my area in the first place but there is stiff competition for those that are.

[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Gay bars are underrated if you want to do night game. Gay men will hit on you and most of them roll with their fruit fly female friends. If you can befriend her gay friends then it's an easy mode to fuck the girl because they will literally tell her to fuck you if you've charmed them

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I have never tried gay bars before, are you being serious here though?

[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This past weekend I was at a bar where I was one the only straight guys. A girl came up to me and said that she showed up with her two (gay) friends but they were a couple and she wanted to be with a man that night.

Slutty girls hang out with gay men because when they blow a guy in the bathroom her gay friends will be like YOU GO GURL

[–]pillomaniac0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Iam sorry but this sounds like a troll i can understand if you were a virgin but if you really fuckin with girls from other races you would quicly forget white girls.

Or they would see you with alot of women and be more open to you( higher SMV) SO STOP TROLLING AND WORK ON YOUR SMV.

PS:i feel sorry for you because white blonde women are really not special lol

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

nah, me personally?

I have been with some legitimately hot latin girls and even had a few asian girls into me but for some reason I can never get it with the hot blonde types. Been with some white women who were more along the lines of Allison Brie (brunette with a geeky side to them) but never the Jenna Jamesons of this world.

To each his own, I actually prefer white women over other races because I have had so much success with girls that were not white.

[–]pillomaniac1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

if you aware of the TRP material knowing that AWALT this pedestalization of blondes doesnt make any sense

[–]ErikTheRedPill 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Leave the USA. Go to eastern Europe.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

aren't ethnic looking people seen as gypsies there?

[–]ErikTheRedPill 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No, gypsyies are gyspies. If you dress well you won't be mistaken. Gypsies are basically street people there.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

any countries in particular you might recommend?

[–]49ered-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I am ethnically Indian and according to what I keep hearing, my race is the last race any hot blonde would ever go for but a lot of women (as of late most) I have been with fit this exact image. Playing football in high school and being in a fraternity in college helped out a lot with this, most Indian guys I know have done neither. So if I can do it then a guy of any race should be able to do it, according to what everyone says. First and foremost, I would max out your looks the best you can. Hit the gym, get the most fashionable haircuts, and do everything to appear stylish. Hot blondes typically go for guys with athletic bodies, at times almost exclusively so do everything to get that athletic body, it won't just benefit you in dating but in many other aspects of your life.

Then, be prepared to play the numbers game. Every time you see one at starbucks, talk to her and cold approach. If you match with a hot blonde on Tinder, run online dating game. You will get rejected most of the times but no two hot blondes are alike, over the years I have found that some really love exotic looking guys. In my state (California), it is common to see decent looking white women with latinos that are as dark as Aaron Hernandez. Some Asian guys I know that have broken into the MMA scene and regularly spar have had success with the hot blonde types as well. One thing I have found is that for some odd reason, Slavic and Russian women tend to have no hangups about going for a guy that look more exotic (not black or white) and at times even love them so if you run into some of these women, your chances might be higher than them as opposed to some WASPy blonde from the suburbs.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Slavic and Russian women tend to have no hangups about going for a guy that look more exotic (not black or white) and at times even love them so if you run into some of these women, your chances might be higher than them as opposed to some WASPy blonde from the suburbs

I notice this as well from my own experience. Back in college when I was bluepilled, I fucked up my chances with two russian girls that were blonde and above average looking. I could so tell they were into me but I lacked the game to get them.

As for the athletic body type, working on getting that right now. In the northeast here so the race thing works differently than it might work in California, I don't see hot blondes with anything but black and white guys.

[–]oneonlydk -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm an ethnic minority that ranks pretty low on SMV scale; in theory. Here is my questions for you:

You have to ask yourself: Why the obsession with blonde, Erin Andrews look alooks?

Are you tall? Are you good-looking? Is race the only way you identify yourself by?

Did you really read and understand TRP?

I've been with a few blonde chicks and they're nothing to write home about. One of them is my current plate, on top of an Indian chick. You are literally putting the pussy (blonde-haired pussy) on the pedestal.

I, myself, being a low smv male worked out, cut my hair, dressed more fashionably and chicks literally flocked to me. It helps that I'm good looking and tall. If you're a low SMV because of race... you have to stand out in other ways. Your game must be rock solid, your personality a 10, you gotta be buff and in shape, and you gotta get this obsession with blonde chicks out of your system.

When you get to that stage you're realized how trivial it is to get blonde white chicks to like you. If your race is a weakness, you gotta be strong in all other areas. Most blonde chicks aren't even natural blondes, they're boring and usually they suck in bed.

tl;dr If your race is a weakness, you must be strong everywhere else. Stop obsessing over chicks (blonde or any kind).

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I am around 6'3 and I do pretty well with other kinds of women so I would say my looks aren't a hindrance, can't say if I am a Henry Cavill though.

[–]oneonlydk 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Still didn't answer my questions.

You're taller than me, and killing it with other women: then why obsess yourself with blonde chicks fetish? You may have read TRP materials but you have not internalized anything.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

because I had issues getting them growing up and want to get the hot ones now, am unable to do so. feel that they are a different kind of women and TBH, I just find them more attractive.

[–]oneonlydk -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, I can tell you simply don't get it. And I'm having a hard time believing your claims of success of women. People who have actual success with all kinds of women don't particularly obsess with a certain types.

I'm going to tell you something depressing: You may NEVER have any success with high SMV blonde chicks no matter how hard you try. They're hard enough to obtain for most men, even white men. Period.

There is no silver bullet; what you should do is uncondition your obsession with Erin Andrews-types. Or get a chick and make her dye her hair blonde.

[–]Thelaterbloomerstory[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I struggle with them, I come on here to ask for advice, that is all. They are my type and I want to do better with them, or get at least one out of 10 to go for me. That is all.

Can't take no for an answer, there has to be a way to get better results with them. Just has to be.

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