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She's trying to push the feminine imperative of getting high value males locked down and controlled within her social circle. She thinks highly enough of you that she wants you stuck in her social network. She probably also hamsters that shes doing you a favour by setting you up with a girl you could keep (as it must be hell for you to be single when you could be in a LTR, that's the dream, right?). Also trying to help her fat friend. Anyway, politely avoid the topic if it comes up, or say that …
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:52 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:38 AM
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Precisely this OP. Even this post was a waste of your time. I would suggest you delete it and focus on learning and self improvement.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:02 AM
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How old are you and what kind of clothes do the people around you where? Context matters a lot.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:15 PM
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Yet there is a correlation between digit ratios and likely hood of homosexual tendencies. Who says promiscuity doesn't follow a similar suit? Not that there's going to be anyone funding a study that might prove this anytime soon.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:24 PM
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Stop trying to solve other peoples problems. You cant fix them. Spend your energy on yourself and people who are accepting of it.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:24 AM
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The same way as anywhere else. Kino, tease, push/pull.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:31 PM
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Alpha alpha alpha! Wtf is your usual character? You say you're shy... That is your character. Engage them in conversation about shit they're interested in, same as any other decent human being.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:27 PM
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Why do you want a legal marriage? If you really want to make a commitment to someone, keep the government out of it.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:26 PM
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Remarkably she doesn't generally bother. Early on in the relationship I didn't really care because I was great at not letting myself get emotionally attached. Now she doesn't usually pursue other partners. To directly answer your question - it doesn't generally bother me, no. She actually set me up with my most recent plate, which is working out pretty well. It's been a weird fucking ride, but we are making it work. My need to fuck a variety of attractive women is getting met, and she's getting …
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:38 AM
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Open relationship male here. Demanded it from day 1, before I even discovered TRP. Started the relationship at a high level of dread. The early years were tough. I wasn't able to pull plates and she had no trouble finding the occasional lover. Dread went down, life got worse. Found TRP. Started lifting. Have plates now - two in the city, two outside of it for when I travel or festival. Life is great. Certainly isn't the most popular lifestyle here on TRP, but it works for me.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:16 PM
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I still smoke too much weed. Way too much. Weekends only is the most I would ever recommend. Regular smoking fucks with your quality of sleep, totally saps discipline and conviction, and really hurts your memory. I sold my gaming computer. Now I only have a work laptop and a phone. That was the only way i could make it work.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:20 PM
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Not all gamer introverts are awkward and weird. Definitely not advocating that.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:32 PM
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By comparison. Men look at a group of women and decide they'd like to fuck all the hot ones. Women look at a group of men and decide they'd like to fuck the hottest one. If your roommate is beta, you will look better in comparison.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:01 PM
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I suggest you find a place that you can afford entirely on your own, but will allow you to sublet. This will allow you entire control over your roommate, and you won't get stuck in a long term lease. By doing this, keep your subletted room on a month to month lease all the time so you can evict your roommate at any point (depending on local bylaws). Here's what I look for in roommates: -Gamers or other tech geeks -Clean and tidy people -Works regular hours My best tenants have all fit those bill…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:50 PM
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My first kiss was at 22. First sex 22 or 23 (hazy 6 years ago, I was also a chronic stoner for a while). Currently an LTR and two ongoing plates in my city. Another 2 out of town I don't see very often. Been on TRP for around 3years. Didnt start lifting until i found it. You're also just about done the shitty brain developing stage of your life and things should look up soon. Avoid dopamine addict behaviours (porn, shitty food, internet, vidéo games). Work on yourself. Save all the income you ca…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:23 PM
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Read Superhuman by habit. Not everyone can change everything at once. But if you focus on replacing one bad habit with one good habit, and do this every few months, you'll succeed. Also water fasting straight from a shitty diet isn't going to work. People who succeed at shit like that already have killer willpower (a finite resource).
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:19 PM
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Thank you. My dancing is on fucking point, but my dance game is lacking. Definitely going to try some of this.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:50 AM
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Yeah. Since upping my # of regular partners I've just about kicked masturbating. This newest partner is definitely a firecracker and burned through all my feel-good hormones. Interestingly when my hormones rebalanced the next day I was particularly aggressive and driven. So that was nice.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:43 AM
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Got an LTR. We've got an open relationship, though I'm usually the only one doing anything extracurricular. You might be right about the victory being tainted. The redpill view of the world definitely imbues a cynicism to everything. It's sad how hard I used to try and fail, and how a little bit of the right knowledge unocks all the doors. I'll have to think about this some more. Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:14 PM
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Started it. I'll finish reading it, but at first glance I already do this. I meditate, I watch my thoughts and maintain positive outlooks and review things im grateful for regularly. I'm on the whole very happy with my day to day life and the progress of my overarching goals. What I'm experiencing is extremely acute. Two to three days after a new partner I'm back to normal and kicking ass again. And it only seems to happen my first time with someone new. After that no big deal.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 03:49 PM
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Not directly applicable to sexual strategy, the core value of TRP.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 08:29 PM
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Something about your approach made her feel unsafe or creeped out. You need to provide a lot more detail about it, including body language and stance, for anyone to analyze this in more depth. In short - you fucked something up or you're unattractive in some way.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:42 AM
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Paragraph formatting. Go to asktrp, not this subreddit. Sounds like she wants you to pay for a fancy dinner. Invite her to your place and cook instead.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 03:42 PM
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Sounds pretty average. It's abnormal for a female, but for the 80% of men not at the top, that's in the normal ballpark.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:50 PM
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breathe in while counting to 4 in your head. Breathe out for the same amount of time.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:11 AM
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Even breaths, do a 4 count in and 4 put. It'll keep you mind occupied and let you fuck longer. Itll prevent your body from tensing up too quickly to orgasm.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:54 PM
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Makes who take care of themselves can still be plenty attractive at 60.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:33 PM
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Focus on your breathing.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:28 PM
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Because as a species, females have subverted the social agenda to what they believe is beneficial for them, and therefore everyone. Unfortunately, they are wrong and its fucking up everything.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:35 PM
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You're assuming HB10s use the same scale as you do. Looks matter infinitely more to guys than women. Look good. Have game. Outcome independence. Approach women. Sleep with women. That's it.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:24 PM
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Up to you where the lines are drawn. Most women aren't LTR worthy.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:33 AM
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Since squatting, my ability to catch a frisbee via high jumping has improved significantly. People have this idea that my image is constantly improving. Even in a rut when I stop lifting and gain 5 pounds, people comment on how I've lost weight when they saw me three weeks ago. Way more attraction from girls. Daily tasks are easier. More energy. Better sex. Just fucking lift
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:31 AM
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Hard next. Shes got issues, and its not on you to fix them.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:58 PM
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That attitude bring you infinitely more failure than your height.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:22 PM
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You're 3 months and she's already agreed. Why do you need to provide her plausible deniability? Just fuck her in the ass already.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:26 PM
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What's your body weight? That's a fuckton of protein. Unless you're lifting HARD every day that's more than you need. .75g per pound of body weight is plenty for regular lifting.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 10:32 PM
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You forgot "stop using porn". If you stop getting off entirely, you better believe your body will perform when there's a woman with you.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 10:30 PM
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The answer is: It doesn't matter. Unless there's something you can seriously do about them, focus on controlling what you can.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:53 AM
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Saving this for review later. This is a very interesting concept that I'll have to explore a little further. Of all Redpill concepts, this is undoubtedly the one I've been attempting to implement for the longest. Coincidentally, that time is when I consider my life to have started.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 04:38 AM
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It's my stance that this isn't worth thinking about. If it bothers you practice to get better with names. If it doesn't don't waste time thinking about it.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 01:39 AM
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Move out? Spend your time away from home. You have zero reason to be there except for food and sleep. Anything else you could achieve elsewhere.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 07:50 PM
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Spend zero time at home. Leave at 630am, come home at 1030pm for sleep.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 02:15 AM
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Make more money and move out.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 01:46 AM
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There's a pattern of people distancing themselves from you. It exists because you're doing something to drive them away. Maybe you've got a huge social awkward faux-pas that you continue to make and nobody has the balls to tell you. Maybe you come across as arrogant. I cant tell without meeting you. In any event, I'd go back to that instructor and ask for a better answer. You should be fine not attending, but whatever you did, you need to find out so the next martial art class you join, the same…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 07:11 PM
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She lied to you? I hope you spanked her and let her know that's not ok. I mean, she's lying to you every time you talk, obviously. Girls with n counts under 5 generally don't fuck on second dates. Or, you know, exist.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:37 PM
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Truth. In my beta days I had a few women really do most of the chasing. Looking back I'm sure they had high n-counts and were total whores. They didn't didn't have any conversation skills worth mentioning.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 06:35 PM
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This. I've yet to encounter anyone who prefers a primarily female dominated space. Such spaces are usually a big shitshow.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:33 PM
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It's more about not wasting any energy on them than erasing them. The issue with men is of course if they think there's even the the tiniest chance of sex, they'll orbit and spend energy.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:32 PM
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Look for used lifting gear. Got a full squat rack with some cable attachments, 2 bars, and 500lbs of metal, $560 on kijiji. It's paid out my gym membership in under a year.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:47 PM
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The best advice is to not try to teach others. Lead, and if they're ready, they'll follow.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:37 AM
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"Like a beta?" That term doesn't apply here. Computer literacy, and indeed, even intelligence, has very little to do with alpha/beta behaviour.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:01 PM
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She's got your tingles going by Snapchat. Yours and 40 other guys. Fine, keep her on SC. Reply once a week, and be doing something really fucking cool. If she tries to communicate, set up a date or sont reply.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:28 PM
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This. It's not about being better than other people. If you base yourself against others as a benchmark you will always come up short. Be better than you were yesterday, every day.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:16 AM
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Im with this guy. Give me a hook or a reason to watch this.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 06:42 PM
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In that city that's too hot you to maintain a healthy exercise regimen.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:21 PM
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Meditate. It'll help you be more aware of yourself and your in-the-moment experience.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:15 PM
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Is anything holding you there? You could always move. If your environment doesn't work for you, change it.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:14 PM
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AWALT. Nexting a girl for a shit test is like spanking a child for throwing a tantrum. It sounds like you deeply entrenched in anger, or maybe bargaining. Anyway, that philosophy is more MGTOW than TRP. Bodyweightfitness can keep you covered without a gym until you can afford a gym. Do you meditate? You should meditate.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 11:46 AM
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Quitting weed will be way better for you in the long term. After a month of no weed you will feel amazing.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 09:52 PM
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Have more sex. Look up sex positions. Literally move the girl into a new position when you want to change. Girls love being manhandled during sex.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 09:49 PM
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If he goes with proof it will be the most effective and efficient way of dealing with the situation. Workplace institutions exist. Why not use them?
/r/askTRP22/06/16 09:48 PM
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Same as anywhere else. A mentor is basically a 1on1 coach who helps you with some or all aspects of life.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:47 PM
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Can you prove anything? If so go to HR. If not... deal with it? If it's that obvious you can be sure everyone else is noticing and thinking less of him
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:44 PM
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Read the sidebar and come back.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 02:58 AM
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Lift Study Lift more Eat well Pursue your hobbies and interests Talk to EVERYONE YOU MEET Exposure to girls is everywhere. Don't think you need to game them at parties or bars. Girls are in your classes, at the grocery store, on public transit... fucking everywhere.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 02:56 AM
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Seek psychiatric help.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 02:53 AM
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Invite her over to your place for a drink late in the evening. She will understand. Escalate quickly. If she tries to talk about relationships, that's not what you're looking for, and say so. Its not up for discussion. Dont attend any events with her. Occasionally make a point of showing up at a social gatherings where you know she will be with another girl.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 11:00 PM
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Each to their own. Personally I love this fucking stuff. Just like everywhere else, the vast majority of women you'll meet there arent LTR quality by TRP standards, but if you're looking for sex there's a smorgasbord available for the Attractive Alpha Male. Other than the rampant drug use, I would say that this community is more focused on physical health and fitness than most. Their pastimes include lots of dancing, and yoga. Very little liquor here too, which is a plus for me. I
/r/askTRP20/06/16 10:54 PM
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I find alcohol significantly more expensive than any other drug. I can have 12 hours of fun for $10 of LSD. $10 of alcohol has almost no effect.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:07 PM
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Honestly just keep at it. It takes a long time to internalize change. We are very bad at seeing change in ourselves without an external benchmark system (see: fitness progress pics). Maybe journal your successes
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:01 AM
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Talk to more people.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:15 PM
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Nice writing. Now start practicing. I'm just starting to effectively spin plates for real, and its fucking thrilling. I get to travel some for work; I find that having a plate in each city I visit is great. Plus since I'm clear from the beginning that I'm just a traveler, they never try to make it into a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 03:58 PM
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I encountered a psychopath at a festival once. He straight up had a lackey that acted like a slave, who ate his scraps when he was feeling generous. Never before have I felt such an imminent danger sense and need to GET THE FUCK OUT. Personally, I would nope the fuck out of there asap. True sociopaths and psychopaths are terrifying. While I endorse adopting dark triad traits, a born one is too much for me to handle.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:55 PM
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Nothing?
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:49 PM
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Don't reply. Invite her over to fuck next time you feel interested.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:17 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:32 PM
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You don't. You tell her when you will be there, you show up, you take your stuff, you leave. Use an app on your phone to record he entire visit.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:31 PM
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I would wait. Given her forewarning lets her come up with real excuses
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:15 AM
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Tell her when you will be there to pick up your stuff. Pick up your stuff. If you've been with her that long you know when she's home.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:37 AM
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WHY are you trying to break them up? Fuck her and move on, she's low quality
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:55 AM
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You're better off not meeting women than trying this approach.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 02:57 PM
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You're over thinking this. She doesn't matter. Girls just like to seek attention nonstop. Dont pay attention to her unless she's ready to leave with you. That's it.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 01:32 AM
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Congrats on attracting your first sub! If you take the lead, you'll have a fantastic plate on your hands right away
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:46 PM
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I've got some serious freakshows at the very edge s of my social network. "Best-of" Tumblr kind of gender queer mentally off-kilter people. I've watched them spiral out of reality and into a world where all their validation comes from people with zero drive or ambition, and the internet at large. My revulsion at what they've become helps push me farther and harder than my normal intrinsic motivation does.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:43 PM
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You don't need to post. The sidebar answers everything you need.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:59 AM
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While ridiculous, this comment is a fantastic example of cocky/funny or amused mastery.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:16 AM
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My LTR asked me if I saw her as an equal the other day. I told her of course not. She knows I'm the prize. She knows I fuck other women. It's possible to have your cake and eat it too
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:19 PM
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Tell her straight up you can't be loyal, bit you will do everything you can to shield her from your other partners. Let her know that she will be #1, and always come first, but you are biologically driven to fuck other women. She will probably stay with you.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:04 AM
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Porn is BAD for you. It's an addiction. If you want to use porn, limit yourself to once a week, and use it as a reward principal. Only use porn to get off -once- a week, and only after you've successfully worked out each day
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 04:27 PM
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This needs another panel where she's fucking Chad while he's at home with a baby.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:38 PM
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Then you need to fix yourself before you can handle maintaining frame in an LTR. This has nothing to do with her and everything to do with tou
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:36 PM
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That's what the sidebar is for. Also the stickies. There's a post structure to adhere to. This post fails to do that.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:56 PM
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Meditation and lifting.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 06:50 PM
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Why should I read this wall of text?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:50 PM
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Just about everyone in western culture is narcissistic to some degree; our culture breeds it en masse. So yes. most women are narcissistic.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 04:14 PM
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Even if you get skinnyfaced, the moment you start bulking that's where fat will appear. First on, last off. That's how fat works. I would say worry about putting on mass first, then cutting.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 12:33 AM
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Go to the fitness subreddit. Pick a beginner's lifting program. Read up on proper nutrition.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 12:31 AM
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No
/r/askTRP23/05/16 12:30 AM
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I've also observed less flaky behaviour if I have a #
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:17 PM
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Spending less than you make is the most important. The only way to get ahead is to make it a habit to get ahead every single pay cheque.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:15 AM
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Because it's really fucking easy to live with the life you've known
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:12 AM
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Not just self deprecation here, pedophile is a loaded word screams creepy. Might as well call yourself a rapist. It's one thing to give zero fucks, it's another to be self sabotaging.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:23 AM
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If you're not interested in sex get your T levels checked. You sound depressed
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:56 PM
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Stop worrying about your image. Part of doing things right is not letting ANYONE else impact how you feel about yourself. It honestly sounds like the girls in your locations have you all wrapped up performing for them. I think the best thing would be to stop engaging in these show-off contests and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 05:43 PM
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On the plus side, girls can see through that sort of behaviour easily. The cutting down others behaviour isn't nearly as effective as AMOGs would like. On the other hand, how you handle it matters. If he says you're just showing off, agree and amplify. Sure I'm showing off! Now looks, they're all paying attention to me, and so are you. Except you're just trying to bring everyone here down, what's up with that?
/r/askTRP21/05/16 05:23 PM
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They're AMOGging. There's a variety of strategies in the seduction and TRP subreddits for dealing with them. Mostly having social skills mastered, knowing when to agree and amplify vs when to call them on being an asshole, and maintaining your frame are important. Where are you encountering all of this? At a bar? I dont meet women in bars, but that's where the majority of AMOG behaviour is found. From my observances anyway.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:29 PM
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Wear a condom Never let your partner handle it When you throw it out, put a drip of hotsauce in it. That'll protect you from spermjacking. Seriously speaking, you probably don't need the last step... but.. Nothing more you can do but get snipped and/or wait for vasalgel
/r/askTRP20/05/16 03:19 PM
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Why no caffeine? If you're careful about your intake and dose times, it's not a bad drug. Just take regular breaks and keep your tolerance down. Coffee is incredibly good for you.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:03 PM
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Something's been VERY wrong for a little while now. And if you're looking for making things right, you're looking in the wrong place. The world is too fucked up for right and wrong - it's all we can do to make sense of our little corner of the world.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:30 PM
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The body question you should ask the fitness subreddit. You can make it work though. The mind requires no different strategies than anyone else. Meditation, discipline, confidence, and social skills.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:39 PM
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This is asktrp. What is your question?
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:36 PM
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Wtf are you asking? If you should go for coffee? You've been on three dates. Get to her place or get her to yours or next.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:35 PM
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Most guys will ghost you or pressure you. That's something you have to deal with. I would suggest looking for something through your religious organization
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:34 PM
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The girls I orbited resisted. Flaked on hangouts. Acted pretty much like they always did, except complained that I wasn't as available as they'd like, warned me I'd burn out, etc. Complaints in general that I was changing and they didn't like the new me. The friends I mostly drifted apart from. They didn't put much effort into the friendships in the first place, and I dropped my involvement to absolutely zero. I have always maintained a pretty high need for personal time and space, so the transi…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:31 PM
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Works great for making very specific kinds of friends and taking girls home. You wouldn't find me, or too many high value people in general, at venues where that sort of socializing is acceptable.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:25 PM
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Most of the "friends" I lost due to my transformation were bluepill losers who I already didn't put effort into, or women that I orbited.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:22 PM
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Can you perform well? If yes, sure. If no, then no
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:18 PM
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Find another girl.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:17 PM
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Haha. I like this rule of thumb.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:17 PM
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How to get women in 3 easy steps: Step 1: Be confident. Can fake it until you make it, but actual accomplishment through self improvement combined with a bit of meditation and some real experience will cause this to flourish. Step 2: Be physically attractive. This will help you be confident as well. Aim for top 20% of all males. Step 3: Learn how to communicate effectively. This is body language, in addition to word choice, eliciting laughter, and both explicit and covert communication. "Game" i…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:32 AM
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Text EVERYONE you want to show up about a week in advance. Life gets busy on weekends, and you want to be top of their mind. Also. You've said parents must not know. 100+ people will leave a trace. If them funding out with seriously negatively impact your life, I would caution against it.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 03:21 AM
0

Dark triad traits in women is a fine sexual strategy individually, just like it is for us men. However, having a dark triad woman as a partner sounds like a pain in the ass. I'm sure there are plenty of happy betas that have dark triad woman who's cheating on them for someone better.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 02:36 AM
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You know, I was perceptive enough to not really believe the bullshit. I lacked social skills to understand what was really going on. I was mostly really confused by people in general until my mid 20s
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:56 PM
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Makes sense. A lot of us here weren't really dating material when we were younger. I certainly fucking wasn't (and wasn't fucking at the time either)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:03 PM
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I don't believe spanking is, in itself, breaking frame. However, never spank your child when you're angry or emotional. Be calm with it. And don't leverage it past a young age. You can't always reason with young children, and pain might be the only way to make them behave. Particularly children prone to acting out.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 05:34 PM
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Drink hard liquors. It'd take between 4 and 5 shots of scotch to reach 300 calories. It won't solve things, but it'll help.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 12:56 AM
2

Pick some personal goals and start working on yourself. Give yourself time to digest what you've read. It won't internalize overnight. Start practicing TRP. Stop overvaluing others, start valuing your own time more.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 04:16 PM
3

Narcissist behaviour is rising - you can be validated by your people online at any time. SJWs and the Tumblrinas are all feeding each other's egos about what's acceptable behaviour. It's how you get things like fat acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 05:02 AM
1

Jack Stone. He was a short, solid, middle aged mormon male from a very mormon community. He walked up to everyone at a wedding and introduced himself with a solid handshake. Other than that I know nothing about him. However, he carried himself with the kind of presence you would expect a king to have.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:28 PM
1

Can you be more specific in your goals? General personal growth and understanding is definitely something I'd suggest LSD over MDMA for, but if learning how to overcome social anxiety, or get over any sort of traumatic past experience is your goal, then MDMA would be much better. RULE 1 Test your fucking drugs. Get a test kit from the internet and make absolutely sure you're getting what was advertised. There's a lot of compounds that can go on blotter paper, or are offwhite powders. Unless you …
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:35 AM
5

You can visit, and always try to escalate. The moment she shuts you down, withdraw. She should feel like stopping you makes you pull away from her. Her brain will interpret it as punishment for stopping you. Shortly after she shuts you down, get ready to leave. Your time is too important to waste sleeping next to someone, getting a shitty sleep when you're way too horny to pass out effectively. Whatever you do, do not sleep at her place without fucking her.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:16 PM
1

Look up the A-Z of dance video advertisement. Pick a style. YouTube that style.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:14 AM
1

Be careful with the "I know" or anything else that can make you sound too cocky. It's good here and there, but I'd you can't use a simple "thank you" once in a while, it can frustrate those you deal with regularly. A playful way to respond to a good compliment is "I like your attitude". It reinforces good behaviour and people like to feel included.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 07:40 AM
4

No more Mr nice guy. Dao te Ching
/r/askTRP01/02/16 01:09 AM
5

Triangle gaze (one eye, other eye, lips, repeat) is oft cited. Personally I find eye contact varies with each person, no hard and fast rules really apply. More is better, to a point
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:30 AM
6

Man the fuck up and break up with her.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:51 PM
0

Stop wasting our time with this. Stop wasting your time watching shit like this. The aisle was clearly really narrow (see the guy on the other side has to move out of the way). She brushed the back of his arm then moved her hand to the chair. Whoop de doo. I do significantly more than this navigating a dense crowd at a bar.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 03:45 PM
1

Usually AMOGging is most effective against someone trying to pickup outside of their well established group. There's not a lot of point to approaching a group of established friends and trying to lower the value of one of them, that's just being a dick.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 03:40 PM
6

So correct. It takes a lot of lifting for a sedentary person to look like they lift.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:14 PM
1

Get people to introduce you to other people. Look up a list of good small talk questions beforehand
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:34 AM
1

Did you set the idea with your LTR that you would be exclusive? If so, then you're being a scumbag. Lying to someone you're LTRing and cheating on them is shitty behaviour - its exactly what we seek to train out of women.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:31 AM
2

Answering any questions will dramatically limit the number of matches you see. Many women don't answer question, and rely on photos (as should you). These women will not show up in your match list if you have answered questions, as they will be 0% matches. Furthermore, women lie about shit all the time. Including in their online dating questions. I recommend just hiding all the fatties, you can do this on okc.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:38 PM
1

One month? If you want to fix it, tell her in no uncertain terms exactly what kind of behaviour you expect. If she doesn't fall in line, next her. Honestly, you should have just texted her already. If you are seeking to fix it after only one month its not going to be worth your time, and you need to value your time better.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:57 PM
1

It's not mate guarding or jealousy. It's simply not having time for washed up alcoholic losers and their pity party. If anyone asks, you're sick of providing for someone who adds zero value to your life but takes constantly.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:20 PM
1

He's clearly trolling. Next time just downvote and move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:41 PM
-3

This isn't a TRP question. Go ask in /r/sex
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:38 PM
3

No karma account trying to host a meetup on a subreddit where doxxing is a real concern. What the fuck did you think was going to happen?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:37 PM
147

The problem with Mystery is he had always, always based his value on women. He's never been able to value himself for himself, and as such breaks the fuck down when women he's pedestalized fuck with him.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 11:25 PM
4

Yes. But you still didn't ask or even tell. You asked about what she was wearing
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:01 PM
18

You can be successful, attractive, and 100% beta male. If he doesn't know how to get what he wants from women and take the initiative, a woman like this will claim him.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:59 PM
1

Using mouthwash daily is bad. It kills all the good bacteria in your mouth along with the bad. It'll actually cause halitosis. Stick to flossing after every food, brushing 2x/day (and after anything sugary, like soda), and tongue scraping as often as you like. Mouthwash is for when you need to quickly clean your mouth and don't have time for proper oral care.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:51 PM
1

I can't claim credit for it, but I spout it often enough.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 03:22 PM
1

Nope, but against an intelligent opponent, its a great mental exercise.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:57 PM
1

Master the art of intentional speaking (slow, measured, with emphasis where you want it, not raising your voice). Be well groomed. Make decisions. This is huge. Don't b indecisive - it takes forever for a group to choose anything. Just decide and say "Lets do this", or "let's order this". Take the lead.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:56 PM
2

zero fucks given
/r/askTRP23/12/15 09:00 PM
1

Yeah, that's a hard next. Feel free to tell her why (she's going to ask), but don't offer ANY discussion. "We're done". "Why?" "I don't date the kind of people that do such and such" End contact forever.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:02 PM
12

Why wait until the new year to make a resolution? Do it now. When in doubt, yield to action.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:31 PM
1

Get a part time retail sales job for 2 months. It will teach you to strike up conversations with strangers. It's hard to learn to talk to attractive women without getting stuck in your head. You need to cultivate an abundance mentality and internalize that hot women are just people like everyone else - right now you're putting them on a pedestal. If you stumble over words, feel free to use a little self deprecating humour. Practice practice practice. Oh, and even a little liquor makes your whole…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:17 PM
5

Build the life you want, not the life you're expected to have.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 02:45 PM
1

Mandarin makes the most sense to me.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:50 AM
1

She's worried about your influence on your friend and is trying to drive you away. Ignore her as much as possible. Don't engage her in conversation. Treat her like she doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:15 AM
3

That's a lot of waxing eloquent without much substance. Dr Seuss said it better. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:59 PM
1

Ignore him entirely. If he confronts you, never ever raise your voice or react in any way other than deadpan. If he makes a stink, tell him you don't value his opinions, thoughts, or his self, and walk away.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:55 PM
1

Exceptionally grandiloquent. I look forward to when you get to the point of it all.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:51 AM
1

Why say men? Everybody cheats. If not physically, then emotionally. Men are hardwired to want variety. We live in a society where variety is plentiful. Women (attractive ones anyway) are bombarded with interest from high SMV males all the fucking time. Combine that with the inability to pairbond effectively from alpha widowing, and I wouldn't expect faithfulness. Monogamous relationships have been dying for decades.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 09:12 PM
19

"Healthy relationship" "Cheated" You fucked up. Apologize, wait, and if she doesn't take you back, move on.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 04:14 PM
8

a) You worry about making her cry, and behave differently. You become less productive because you're constantly second guessing how you should act around her, instead of focusing. b) You don't worry about her emotional state, because you should be concentrating on work. It's not like she's spending any energy worrying about how you feel - it's all about her being sad. Which seems like the right option?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:31 PM
1

Truth. Everyone needs to decompress sometimes. That said, TV and video games are designed to be as addictive as possible. Most people don't just watch a single episode of television or play a video game for half an hour and then stop.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 08:03 PM
0

I recommend starting with the sidebar here. Go read the Misandry Bubble to start, it has some decent figures. Download here: http://puerarchy.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/TheFuturist_TheMisandryBubble.pdf Linked content here: http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:40 PM
2

It's up to you. I recommend against it. Please report on your success/failure after you're done.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:29 PM
5

It's not about what your teacher thinks. The rest of the class will see you as a men's rights activist, and you don't need that label in high school. It'll alienate you from your classmates. Championing men's rights makes you into the enemy of the social norm right now. If you want to learn more, look up the Misandry book series by Paul Nathanson. Just don't talk about it and expect people to react favourably.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:25 PM
6

I wake up around 530am most mornings. If I stay up late, I'm out of bed by 730. Here's what helps me: Daylight lamp / alarm clock. Find a sunlight simulation device and use it to help you get out of bed. The alarm clock can actually simulate a sunrise in your room (start getting light 30 minutes before alarm) and works wonders. Meditation. First thing I do when I get out of bed is meditate 20 minutes. It's a mind reset - prepares me for the day. Some people use cold showers. Any sort of brainhac…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:24 PM
7

Muscles are a sign of strength and power, which females are hardwired (from an evolutionary perspective) to be attracted to. Lifting will increase your testosterone, which has a plethora of benefits. While any fitness is recommend, lifting is the best route from a sexual marketplace perspective. Well, combat sports rank up there as well. If you want to practice krav maga several times a week instead of lifting, that works too. Mental benefits from increased confidence as your body image improves…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 07:24 PM
0

You need to decide what you want. If your religion is a core part of your identity, then fucking follow it authentically and honorably. If it's not, then don't. We aren't here to tell you what you want to do. That's on you. We also aren't here to talk about which religions are right or wrong, or how to follow them. Go find a religious subreddit or go to your local mosque. From most RPers perspective, belief in a major religion or god makes you less than us. But unlike your religious views, we do…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 04:05 PM
3

The moment you turn on a tv, or go on the net, or start playing a video game, your brain stops asking 'what' or 'why' and just focuses on the task. 95% of video content available to you is pure garbage. Always ask "why should I watch this" before starting something.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 03:55 PM
6

Why do you want to stop? Seriously.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:50 PM
3

When it comes to sexual market value, fuck no. They know they're hot. Overall esteem and self worth? Many of them realize they've got nothing to go on but their looks, and they prize their appearance even more. They are often insecure about other aspects of their life.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:46 PM
3

Lift. Go out. Do things. Read TRP in your downtime. Lift more. Keep lifting. Implementing TRP is basically - what does TRP recommend? Then go do it. In other words... Lift. Worm on yourself. Keep pussy off the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 03:43 PM
5

Rock climbing. Fairly safe until you get really hardcore. An amazing Workout.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:41 PM
1

Fap if you need/want to. Just do it without porn.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:35 PM
2

I've got a friend who went from skinnymode gamer who worked at a desk all day to a Crossfit coach & Krav Maga instructor. Impossibly sculpted. So much respect.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 07:54 PM
3

If you can't handle trolls pming you, you shouldn't be on the internet. Yes it sucks, but if it bothers you instead of just being annoying, you're failing at holding frame in your own head, and need to work on your inner monologue.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:04 PM
2

Office jobs mostly. Usually ones that are lower in the hierarchy, rather than higher.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 09:22 AM
1

It implies we're trained monkeys - really good at following a bunch of rules in exchange for a certain lifestyle. Corporate life is very much about presenting a certain image and following a lot of rules, but the rewards are worth it to many. It's honestly some of the easiest money out there.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:51 AM
8

I assume you're in good physical health? Regular exercise + limited (or stopped entirely) masturbation = more, better erections. On that note, I've definitely tried a half dose of viagra recreationally and it was pretty magical. Didn't make me any extra horny, but it did make me harder and larger than I'd ever been. Would recommend.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:39 AM
1

Fellow corporate monkey checking in.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:46 AM
0

Because I thought long and hard about it, and decided I wanted one. And because I'm free to sleep with other women.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:05 PM
5

Is that all you want to do? You should be more interesting and well rounded than that. Pick up a hobby or a martial art.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:13 AM
1

Can confirm. Was set back hard by this.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:44 AM
1

Go out and meet new friends then.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:17 PM
1

Polyamory for me is about actually dating other people, not just fucking. Ideal living situation is me, a close friend, and 3 or 4 girls shared between us. Can't find that without actually dating people to see how compatible they are. I'm not in a relationship for the sex (get that anywhere), I genuinely enjoy the emotional connection, even if I must remain stoic and rarely vulnerable to keep it going. Makes me feel good to be needed, y'know? Gotta just find the balance.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:48 PM
1

Find a woman OK with you fucking other women. I practice polyamory. I know that gets a pretty bad rap in this sub, but in my experience it mostly involves me being free to fuck other women, and my ltr complaining about the men who try too hard chasing her. By displaying preselection outside of the relationship and maintaining frame I keep the LTR and get to have my other fun too. Also, for this to work, you have to be 100% sure you don't have kids coming. Get snipped before you try this, or she'…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:46 PM
15

Came here to say this, but he said it better. Women love romance. They don't love someone who relies on romance to get them and lacks other value.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:06 PM
1

I agree with all of this, but would really appreciate if you linked all of these studies that you mention.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 12:48 AM
1

If you want to get a crash course in some serious meditation, find a Vipassana retreat near you and sign up. It's 10 days of silence and meditation (free / by donation). You'll come out of it with all the experience and practice you need.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:46 AM
2

1) Choose who you want to be 2) Identify which friends have attributes that relate to your ideal self 3) Focus on spending more time with those friends 4) Let the rest fall off the map. If they make efforts to continue spending time with you AND support your new pursuits, then they're your friends. Chances are they'll join you in self improvement. Step 1 is the most important. If you don't know what you want, then you'll never know how to choose what you do or who you do it with. Additionally, d…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 08:52 PM
5

Get an IUD. Pills are a shitty form of birth control.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:49 AM
1

You should keep your text notifications on vibrate or silent. If it's important they'll call. Chances are you're not important enough for her to call.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 11:52 AM
-2

This belongs in /r/sex or some other sub. This is about sexual strategy, not how to be better in bed.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:52 PM
3

Do you fight regularly? If so, fighting. Otherwise, looking like an adonis will get you much farther in life. Ideally do both. Martial training is amazing for self confidence and general well being. It's pretty much the best form of physical training you can engage yourself with. And if you want to learn to fight, pick a martial style that actually revolves around fighting. Go learn from an army vet, or find a reputable krav maga facility.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 12:51 PM
1

I dabbled in self hypnosis MUCH earlier when I started dabbling in self improvement, and it was pretty effective. I'd love to re-add it, but one can only integrate so many new habits at once, so it'll have to wait.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:58 PM
1

I recently attended a meditation retreat. The difference in my inner monologue from before to after was un-fucking-believable. Meditation is every bit as important of a life-hack as working out.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:45 PM
2

If you do this, and continue to work on yourself, female nature becomes clear pretty quickly. Keep trading up and never let yourself stop, and the females who show interest will keep getting better. Be very careful about letting yourself get invested in any of them. Until you're absolutely sure of yourself, you won't be able to keep one.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:42 PM
2

Wow. POF has just the lowest common denominator of female in my area. OKCupid on the other hand is loaded with attactive women, many of whom are joining a recent polyamory movement.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:19 AM
22

It's usually fit pairs off to fit, then someone gets lazy and too secure. Sometimes it's fat pairs off to fat and then someone wakes up and starts taking care of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 01:03 PM
3

You should cut off contact with her now and use the rest of the time you were going to waste on the hamstering slut to better yourself.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:39 PM
1

"Silly woman, why are you planning on when to have sex? Keep yourself trim and tidy at all times and leave the rest to me."
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:35 PM
2

Being new to something makes you new, not beta. You can't be forced into betaness. It's about the choices you make. It sounds like you're just annoyed that this new job is hard and you're not good at it, when you're used to being top dog in the workplace. I suggest you focus on working your ass off until you're top dog again, if that's what important to you. Let you actions speak for you.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:33 PM
1

The more I've integrated TRP into myself, the more my true friends have looked up to me, complimented me on my progress, and wanted to become closer friends. My not-so-true friends have become distant, making it much easier to distinguish between those helpful to my life and those not. I was fortunate enough before I found TRP to specifically expand my social circle in ways that I suspected would be ultimately beneficial for me instead of just fun, and it's paying off.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:26 PM
1

I've lurked various seduction communities, /r/fitness, and various science/health communities forever. TRP is the how I made the leap from "I want to lift" to "I lift". It's dramatically improved my interactions with women. Well, their opinion of me anyway. It's also opened my eyes to the worthlessness of most women. Tinderellas that can't hold a conversation to save their life. I'm more confrontational and assertive/aggressive. I've got a much better picture of who I want to be now that I don't…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:40 PM
1

This. I know a couple of women who lead interesting, productive, lives. They care for themselves, and others, have lots of fun, are more responsible with their body AND mind than most of the people I know. I mean, they're still not marriage material by any stretch, but it's refreshing to actually meet a woman who's fun to fuck and fun to be around.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:36 PM
8

Calmly by clearly end it. "This was a lot of fun, for both of us, but I don't think we can continue this. I recommend you seek some therapy instead of trying to use sex to feel good."
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:15 PM
3

If the woman actually is interesting and fun to talk to (<20% or so) then sure! But most of them aren't, and I have better ways to spend my time with them.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:20 PM
3

I think I need someone who can actually speak Arabic to comment before I'm going to care.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 07:05 PM
3

Realize that you will only be happy if you can be happy on your own. Learn to master your mind while improving your body. Set goals to accomplish, and realize dreams. Only when you figure out how to not need women are you going to be able to get one and keep her
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:03 PM
1

If you want to commit to Stoicism as a lifestyle, eliminating all desire, then you should seek to lead a simple life without distraction. Decisions should be made strictly with reason. If something you pursue would make your life easier, and better, then you should do so, but your decision should be based on the measurable end result rather than the emotions that might arise. A goal can be a good goal objectively, rather than because it's something you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 07:48 PM
7

Fuck you. You don't need love. That's a poor attitude. You can want and desire for days, but saying you need love is admitting that you are too pathetic to be a happy person on your own. Man up
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:12 PM
2

Bargaining is a phase and mindset I find myself in. There's always this checklist of things to do to make sure you get the girl, and sometimes it just feels like I've been assigned a different checklist than I had as a blue pill, but its still a circus. But then results. It doesn't take long to start seeing them. I'm by no means particularly muscular yet, but the attention I'm receiving has grown tons. The behaviour and attitude suggestions all work.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:25 PM
1

MGTOW is always an option if you have goals unrelated to sexual strategy. I'd recommend going monk mode to build up self worth and get started on achieving goals that are still doable despite your newfound truths and depression
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:20 PM
1

Yeah, the epicurean post you saw was probably mine :). I've taken to making these to help formulate my own thoughts as I learn .
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:13 PM
3

The issue here is the focus on 'what I should be'. There is never anything but 'what you are'. Wasting time desiring what you aren't isn't ever going to help you move forward. Furthermore, the whole argument stems from deriving happiness and satisfaction from females. The fairer (hah!) sex can smell neediness miles away. As long as you're convinced you're not worth 8/10s, you'll never have 8/10s. Better to focus on yourself and what needs you can fulfill now than to worry about chasing what you …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:15 AM
3

I suspect you're right. I've definitely got a friend who rails between Anger and Depression, who never really seems to try to bargain. Acceptance will come with time. As you improve yourself, and spend time realizing and internalizing your progress, it'll be much easier to compare to past you. When you can see growth within yourself, it's easier to accept that you can become who you want to be, and stop worrying about who you were.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:00 AM
6

You're angry, that's good. Use that to learn. Learn how everything actually works. Meditate on what you see and the truths behind it. You'll eventually realize that there's no use being angry at the world because of how the world works. Getting angry at the sky for raining is a waste of time, getting angry because females act the way they do is the same. Learn the new rules and master the new playbook.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:57 AM
1

I don't understand why you're bringing up Marriage 1.0 and 2.0 here? The post clearly states that looking for romantic love is already not worth doing. Happiness and truth aren't exclusionary, especially when happiness is something largely driven from within, and not related to what happens in the world at all. It's fine if happiness isn't what you prioritize, but it doesn't mean you can't have it. I guess I don't really understand what you're trying to add here.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:02 PM
2

The random events of the world that you have no control over neither make you happy, not unhappy, it's all your perception and understanding of them. You are a master of your own mind, and can achieve whatever you want from within it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:58 PM
1

I will likely get the eventually, but I'm currently trying to focus on contributing while learning. There's a lot that's been said on Stoicism if you do a quick search of TRP, so I will probably leave it for later.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:27 AM
11

A great exercise for this is the 'hundred times question'. Skip a day at the gym because you're a little tired? Something you'd be ok with one time easily. But if you did it a hundred times you've basically given up. Keeps you making good decisions.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 08:25 PM
3

If you do a lot of research and learn how to safely cycle, you could use gear as a shortcut to build muscle. However, the self discipline and mental focus you get from doing it naturally is worth it. If you really want to use gear, get a solid natty body first, and then see if you want to get bigger.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:03 PM
1

This has nothing to do with sexual strategy. Why are you complaining about immigrants on asktrp?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:43 PM
2

Do you have a really narrow frame? I'm 170, 5'9, and on 5x5 I was squatting 250. I'm not particularly muscular-looking. Honestly I think you could probably put on a lot more muscle before worrying about a serious cut, but if you've got a particularly narrow frame then maybe?
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:19 AM
3

The girl I had oneitis for and her blatantly pre-wall hot girl behaviour. Even beta me could see it. Enter the misandry bubble and the rest is history.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 07:59 AM
8

Be clear about what you want. Set proper expectations. Get treated how you want to in and outside the bedroom. If you're not getting exactly what you want/need, communicate it, and if it doesn't change, find a new partner. Never put pussy on a pedestal. Basically the same as being dominant in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 07:51 AM
8

Bluepill sexual strategy made a lot of sense in a world where adultery could be punished and promiscuity meant pregnancy. Take away penalties for sex and you get today's society.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:47 AM
15

Mormon women can fuck non-mormon alphas and just not tell anyone about it. All the local attractive Mormon ladies went between dating Mormon boys chastely and riding the cock carousel. The Mormon boys were willfully ignorant of this behaviour, as you might expect.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:12 AM
2

Lift and work on yourself, don't put pussy on a pedestal, and get yourself into to top 10% of attractive males. The abundance mentality will follow.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:25 PM
2

Abundance mentality is the solution for oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:07 PM
1

It's really good for helping you define your boundaries and stating intentions and needs, which it sounds like you could use some help in
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:24 PM
2

Have you read no more Mr nice guy
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:58 PM
1

Okcupid is a good place to look. The dating community there is familiar with poly people. Be upfront about polyamory. You sound like you're looking for a relationship, which girls are onboard with, and as long as you're alpha enough, they'll accept it. Poly makes preselection and dread game easy. If you're poly and in even one relationship, girls assume you can have more. Never have a primary partner. Never let any partner know that they're the only one you're seeing (if it happens). The moment …
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:33 PM
3

The story here is that preselection (OP appearing to have another girl, even as an accident) indoors gina tingles. More of an anecdote than an actual FR
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:23 PM
2

Cut her out of your life.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 09:37 PM
1

Communication principles (1) The communication principles are— Principle 1 A digital communication should not disclose sensitive personal facts about another individual. Principle 2 A digital communication should not be threatening, intimidating, or menacing. Principle 3 A digital communication should not be grossly offensive to a reasonable person in the position of the affected individual. Principle 4 A digital communication should not be indecent or obscene. Principle 5 A digital communicatio…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:03 PM
3

Nerdy doesn't mean non-TRP. I'm a huge fucking nerd. The computer programmer with abs of steel who goes skydiving for fun is plenty redpill.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:43 PM
3

He fucked up. He did 800+ worth of damages to your property. A friend should offered to cover the damages, either out of pocket or by insurance. A friend would be willing to pay, even if he could only afford to do a monthly payment plan. This person is not your friend. You may like him, but he owes you money, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:41 PM
4

The anchor word idea is exactly what I need. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:34 PM
1

You're kind of hardwired this way. Biological urge towards variety.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 01:53 AM
17

All the time you're not spending lifting, spend learning and customizing diet. You may not be able to get jacked, but you can still get pretty cut. Read the /r/fitness FAQ for more info therem
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:47 PM
2

Me, and most of my worthwhile male friends, have better things do to than cultivate friendships actively. We appreciate each other all the more when we hang out, but the majority of my quality friends I only see once a month. Chat a little by text other than that.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 10:45 PM
4

It's the relationship to relationship thing. Being your plate is being in an not-exclusive relationship in her mind. Not all women hook up for an ONS, but a fling that lasts weeks or more is easy for them to hamster away.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 01:50 PM
3

This is correct - recognize it. This isn't an LTR. The only thing to worry about is whomever she's spending time with may want to LTR her, and she may stop spinning. But that's ok too, all plates stop spinning eventually. Reflect on things and spin longer next time.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:29 AM
307

Stop trying to be the hot love interest. Betty White never stopped doing film, but there's a point when you don't get to be the hot girl anymore.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:21 PM
8

This. Also, I would guess she's got a BetaBoy who doesn't know about you, and so she's only available certain times.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:55 PM
18

Insist on paternity testing.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 10:29 PM
-1

Nothing to do with making yourself feel better, just an easy way to get laughs out of the girl and make her feel better about choosing you over her neckbeard orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:57 PM
20

Ignore the orbiter. For bonus points, mention the conversation to her and laugh about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:18 PM
1

Upvote for visibility. This book is exactly for people with mommy issues.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:19 PM
1

Its one component of many. Its a very important one as it hugely relates to first impressions.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:21 PM
2

This is more of a /r/getdisciplined topic. I spend time in TRP while in transit between places or on the shitter.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 08:19 PM
15

The anger phase is strong in this one.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:28 PM
1

I'll add that to my reading list, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:46 PM
2

Thanks! I'll check this out later today.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:45 PM
3

Keep it professional, don't interact more than you have to, and when class is over cut off contact. SJWs love to cause trouble, and that's not something that's worth your time.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:35 AM
9

The best way to deal with these people is to not. Spend your time productively improving yourself, not trying to bring others down.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:29 AM
3

Hey. Similar boat here. I was great with everyone until I hit puberty ahead of schedule. Being attracted to girls before all the other guys made me awkward around them, and lo and behold, by late teenagerhood I couldn't talk to a female without turning bright red. It was pathetic. I also didn't show much emotion; I'm still less emotional than most of my friends (but this is a good thing now). Here's some rules that helped me acquire social success and dominance: Rule #1: Always accept invitation…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:45 PM
1

I'm in a similar boat. I can see tangible benefits from occasional use: my writing and dancing get way more creative temporarily, and I have a much easier time entering a flow state that I can use for social dominance. But... More often than not I smoke too much or too often and I'm way less productive and feel a massive inertia when I try to accomplish anything. I own my house, but rent to several friends, all of who are stoners. Budget-wise, its a minor expense. For me what works best (so far)…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 01:01 AM
5

This is up to you. RP is a sexual strategy, and you get to choose how to apply it. You will see your wife daily, and this young hot thing will get bored eventually. She will never be yours; it will only be your turn.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:29 PM
2

Increased testosterone. Also, while there's lots of ways to get fit, lifting specifically improves aethestics quickly. Well defined muscles of a decent size are a huge attractant for females. Running legs, on the other hand, are rarely visible. TRP is a sexual strategy, lifting fits that better than most other fitness forms, and results appear faster.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:25 PM
4

These cuddles are the best cuddles. It's damn near the only way I can actually fall asleep when actually in contact with someone.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 05:11 PM
4

Research, and implement. I would recommend working on developing habits in 3 month stints. It takes approximately 90 days to make something a habit. Focus on turning going to the gym a daily habit for 3 months. During this time, also focus on nutrition. Read, shop, learn to cook, etc. Next 3 months focus on being social. Make sure you get out of the house every day and talk to 5 strangers. Now that you're going to the gym, you've got an excuse to get out anyway. Pick a career that will make you …
/r/askTRP18/03/15 07:07 PM
9

She's a catty bitch. She's trying to curry favour with you by putting down other dudes. Keep doing what you're doing and you'll continue to curry favour with her with minimal effort. Telling her to try OKC is also a great way to demonstrate how little you need her. In other words, keep on keepin' on.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:35 PM
2

Managing people in IT is closer to project management than you'd realize. The IT skillset and the management skillset don't have a lot of overlap, so most IT managers don't know much about IT anyway. It's possible their IT department that they're hoping you'll manage is designed to function like a project team, working in sprints, rather than an ongoing support structure. I strongly recommend doing your best on the phone interview to find out more about the position. How many people under you, i…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:33 PM
1

SQL is easy if youre intelligent and work in the field fell into my lap. I can't believe how even basic SQL usage eludes so many people. I'm in the same boat... I want to work with my hands again. I'm almost knowledgeable enough to go consultant, and I've got other avenues of income if I want to change. Its getting really hard not to.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:41 PM
11

His friend left him. Good riddance. I've lost a variety of friends from my life decisions. If his friend is so disgusted by his behaviour that he doesn't want to be friends anymore, why should he care to try to keep him?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:55 PM
3

This. She's being a child. Tell her you're done talking until she acts like an adult and leave the room.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:08 PM
1

Giving into fear in what is a safe place 99.999% of the time is a pathetic way to live your life. If you don't take risks, you'll be bored, afraid, and unhappy. If a woman thinks that being on the same side of the street as a man is a risk, then she is boring, afraid, and not worth interacting with.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:01 PM
2

Depends on how devout the woman you land is. My lifestyle didn't mesh with my cousins so we more or less drifted apart. He didn't drink much anyway, didn't like coffee, etc. Don't really know the answer to that, I'd suggest researching via interwebs.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:45 AM
6

My cousin (former hard core atheist) married into the church. If you're willing to convert (or live a lie) a Mormon wife is the perfect redpill wife. No joke. My values don't align at all or I might consider it.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:43 PM
3

Own it. Just don't do it again.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:41 PM
1

I'd say it depends on what you're telling them to do. If you are their boss, you're their fucking boss. If its a girl, and she's being childish, then threaten to spank her or something. There's no one answer for all things.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:53 PM
42

1000 calories per day, 35 miles per week? No wonder she wasn't happy when she was thin, she was trying to kill herself with exercise. Lol. All if takes to manage weight is basic nutrition.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:42 AM
2

No, gypsyies are gyspies. If you dress well you won't be mistaken. Gypsies are basically street people there.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 12:02 AM
1

Leave the USA. Go to eastern Europe.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:58 PM
1

There is a correlation between attractiveness of dress and menstrual cycle. Basically girls dress more attractively when they're closer to ovulation (they're also hornier). During this period they are more receptive to approaches from attractive potential mates. (Don't have sources right now, but I'm sure they're available through sidebar)
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:57 PM
3

Let her deal with her shit, invite her over to fuck this weekend, all will return to normal. Repeat after me: "She was never mine, its just my turn."
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:51 PM
1

We need more info before we can give you advice. What are your daily macros like? What's your workout program like? How many tweaks have you tried or different routines? Gear is an option, but it shouldnt be your first option.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:11 PM
4

I recently read a long statistical analysis about Benevolent Sexism and Hostile Sexism and their relationship and perceptions by genders. It was well defined, methodologies explained, etc. In these results, I'd really like to see the same thoroughness. 'Unwanted touching' (44%) is really vague.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:39 PM
4

My LTR cut off all contact with her Narcissistic Mother a while ago. Its made her life infinitely better.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 03:33 PM
1

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy_reversal#Success_rates:_pregnancy
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:25 PM
1

Lead by example. You can't force someone to change who doesn't want to change.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 03:21 AM
1

Keep doing what you're doing. Don't chase girls, but don't ignore them either. If you see someone you'd like to talk to, go talk to them. Keep lifting. Keep studying. Keep working on yourself. Treat girls are an occasional distraction and you'll do great.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:51 PM
4

It is trivial. Do what makes you happy. Just remember to be in charge when it matters (hint: most of the time). Girls like to play at being dominant.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:23 PM
217

Welcome to TRP. Enjoy your stay. Keep an open mind. If/when you go through the anger phase, try not to post too much. Read the sidebar. There's a ton of useful info.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:21 PM
1

Do whatever you like. Make sure she's aware that celebrating valentines day for her implies she celebrates steak and blowjob day (march 14) for you.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 11:21 PM
1

Go read the /r/fitness FAQ. You can't tone or target fat in any area, its all genetic.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 12:08 AM
5

You're probably safe. You had consent in the morning, so even a rape kit would be useless. She could press charges i suppose. Your best bet is probably to plate her, record one screaming awesome consensual session, and keep it just in case. PS. Don't drink so much.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:28 PM
4

You only revealed name and where you're from, and you're not sure if you smiled? Where's the teasing, the playfulness, and the dominance? It sounds like you didn't engage her in any meaningful way. Why should she be interested in you? What did you do to make her interested other than act aloof and volunteer nothing?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 01:27 AM
1

You didn't post the situation
/r/askTRP16/01/15 01:10 AM
6

This doesn't really belong in TRP at all. It has nothing to do with sexual strategy. Its not self improvement either. Its advocating gambling as a way of life, which while some people can do successfully, isn't something inherent to any RP lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:18 PM
-1

If you know firsthand a girl is a squirter, then youve already achieved your primary goal. The knowledge that squirt comes from the bladder and has a composition similar to urine isnt going to have a huge impact on whether someone likes or dislikes a squirter. When I read your post, this is what I see in my head: "Hey, squirting is gross and I don't think redpill men should tolerate it because my personal opinion is right.". I realise that may not be what's intended, but that's what I'm seeing.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:28 PM
9

Why are you posting this here? Its not relevant to sexual strategy or attraction for self improvement. Its not useful information, and it doesn't spark any discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:10 PM
1

Gilded. I don't talk about it much here as TRP generally views drugs in a negative light, but drugs changed my life. Both MDMA and LSD have had dramatic long-term net positive effects on my outlook, my inner monologue, my self confidence, and my social ability. Amongst a variety of other things. Abuse of any drug will lead to negative effects. Proper research and application of many drugs can be incredibly beneficial. For anyone even remotely interested, I highly recommend researching drugs and …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:23 PM
2

If she wants you to be a tutor, charge tutor rates. If she wants you to fix a computer, charge computer repair rates. Alternatively, blowjobs.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:56 PM
2

Ignore it.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:47 PM
-1

Its possible to have google calendar send an SMS to any mobile phone, so this can be done on all systems, not just android. You may have to configure it on a PC though.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 04:45 PM
1

If you think most girls don't have the libido of a man, you're wrong. Most females I know want at least as much sex as the men I know.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:42 PM
1

Except...its entirely legal here. I covered that. As long as I don't end up with any photos or videos, cause THAT would be considered child porn.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 06:14 PM
3

Equality: equal sized bathrooms for all Equity: they can have bigger bathrooms. Oh, and give us back more pay for our backbreaking physical labour, fix divorce laws, and let us have men's spaces again. Among other things. Equality isn't the same as equity. If they want to be treated special because they're women, then treat us special because we are men.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:11 PM
1

Honestly, just be too busy to bother with her. Have more important things to do. She's not a priority in your life. If she asks about the lack of contact, be direct: "I'm focusing on myself, and don't have time to spend with you." She's not going to like it. Girls hate losing orbiters (men who give them attention and possibly more without anything in return)
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:19 AM
5

Cut off contact. No good can come from it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:12 AM
1

And that betabux she's stringing along will just go quietly? Its one thing when the betas are distant, but in my experience betas tend to explode when they feel (such feels) like a woman is 'theirs' and their roommate comes along and fucks her.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 09:08 PM
18

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 06:17 PM
6

Good luck. We shall judge you on your works.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:30 PM
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