Hey,

So, my game is good and I don't let women know this, but, I can't look at a female and not instantly begin to think about sex with her. Now, there are exceptions, like my grandma and mother, but, I'd say that easily 95% of all the women I see invoke this. For example, I'll meet a girl, and it's very hard to not flirt because I'm thinking about their tits and ass.

Now, I have two questions. 1.) Am I programmed this way or is this the result of watching porn regularly since the age of 13? Did people before porn think this way? Note: I tried a 6 month stint of not watching porn, but, this experiment left my objectification goggles perfectly intact.

2.) How can I stop? I mean, I don't necessarily like doing it and sometimes I feel like a slave to my sex drive. I can really only enjoy conversations with my male friends because my conversations with female friends are always so puffed up and quick-witted and flirty and always have this underlying driving motive, even if I know I'm not going to do anything with them.

Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.