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I don’t know if this is something born with or developed, but I don’t see success as ‘a goal’. Success to me is just as important as air and water. I need money more than I need oxygen, for if I don’t have money, I’d rather die. I was born poor, and not rich... yet — but that is the mentality I have. Every single day I work up to 36 hours straight, 7 days a week, happy or sad, whether I feel for working or not. I can count on one hand how many days I did not work in the past 2 years. Every day I…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:04 PM
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I forgot the exact title but read Robert Greene’s art of seduction. It will teach you some different deducted archetypes, one of which is the lover - see which one suits your personality best and you can use it with a lot of success when mixed with TRP
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:28 AM
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The danger with theory of TRP when you lack experience, is of going overboard with being aloof/distant/stoic. You need to remember to be human too, a human with a spine, but a human who knows when to give.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:19 AM
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Just say ‘sure’ Easy going answer, shows her you’d be romantic (which girls do like), and can build in her anticipation of when. Sometimes it’s good to feed the hamster
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:42 AM
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I'll tell you a bit about my marriage since I think I'm one of the not many here who aren't 100% against marriage. First is that I initially told her straight out that I would not stop sleeping with other women, but if she chose to sleep with other men, I would divorce her without even hearing an "explanation". Yes, there is the potential for her to cheat and there is the potential for me to be divorce raped. The relationship though, we are a team. I taught her programming, so that she can take …
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:34 PM
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I see men give up on their passions in order to pursue more lucrative careers. And I wonder: to what end? Why is being a better paid wage slave more important than spending your life doing something you love Well shit... what about when your passion IS money? But great post though. Too many men let others, and specially women, dictate their lives and what they do. What many of us here realised is that when you are a man who follows your passion and doesn't bend over backwards for others, women w…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:30 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/1rdyyyP.png Either way, I'm not going to try and change your mind on what you think. One of my personal beliefs is that a nation should be HEAVILY militarised, but then again, we don't live in 1914 anymore. But you live in the world you live in and it will be much easier to adjust yourself to the world and make it your playground, than to try and change the world to your idea of how it should be.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:15 AM
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Love is natural and hate is natural If we were Polish, speaking of the Nazis invading us, I'd agree with you. But you're speaking about how all women want to somehow destroy everything good in the world. So Ok, I'll give you point by point on what I fundamentally disagree with you on: How can any man on this board given the way women conduct themselves think that they deserve equal rights Everyone deserves equal rights. This is why I'm against the treatment of women in Saudi Arabia, and why I'm …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:25 PM
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You can just give some non-time constrained reason. You were going to buy new pants, or you were actually just about to go get some tea but now she might as well join you. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:11 PM
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Which one are you? 1: A troll 2: An idiot 3: Someone stuck in the anger phase and will calm down in a year or two from now Blind hate is idiotic. It does nothing but cloud your rational judgement of situations. Society is far from perfect for many reasons, but don't delude yourself into thinking that everything was roses and cotton candy before.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:59 PM
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Why would you even set those time constrains in the first place? Instead of digging yourself in a hole, you can just go on the date and see whether it'll be better to stay there or then to say you have other things to do.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:55 PM
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She is clouding your judgment, it's easy to tell this just by how you write. I think you should just realise that the relationship is over and she's not a part of your life anymore. From there, think of what's best for you to do. If it helps, you can spend some hours thinking of the up/down sides of each decision, write it on a paper, and let that be the basis of your decision.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:54 PM
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You are so full of anger and hatred, really. You took the TRP message of self improvement, of not putting women on a pedestal, and of not thinking that all women are angels - and twisted it entirely into something extreme. If I were you, I would find a way to get past this anger/hate, because it does nothing but blind you from a rational line of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:47 PM
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You don't need to be "fair" and follow the rules you set for someone you are with. If one of the conditions of being with you is that she can't go around showing her tits, but you can show off your body as it makes you money - then it's entirely in your right to set this boundary for her. If I were to say this anywhere else on reddit, I'd get downvoted to hell for being unfair and a hypocrite, but I think you may get me that you are the one who set your own rules, whatever they may be - and it's…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:16 PM
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AWALT != All women are succubuses who are incapable of love and will cheat on you at the drop at a hat. It simply means that you should be aware that every woman has the possibility to cheat and stab you in the back. And even though you think you found an unicorn, that you don't let yourself be deluded that she won't give you the boot, or suck off some guy behind your back if you act beta towards her. There are a lot of good women out there, but you shouldn't assume that a woman is "one of the g…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:40 PM
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Dread game: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=dread+game Usually I wouldn't be a dickhead and just tell you to Google it, but it's such an important and interesting topic that I couldn't summarise it to you without it losing its meaning. On improving your game in a LTR, you can still "flirt without flirting" with other girls, simply test RP theory on them and see how they react to you. The fact that you're in a good relationship means you're not going to show neediness as well, which will teach you how big o…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:36 PM
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Maybe you're gay? (not meant as an insult). Or maybe you're just someone who doesn't take pleasure in sex? Perhaps you have low testosterone? I'd have gotten this checked out.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:27 AM
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"Thanks, I appreciate it". Shows respect for their well intentions and is a pretty stoic response.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:27 AM
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Best genes? Probably a 6 feet tall, Aryan man with blue eyes and blond hair, a chiselled face, who was born into the richest family in the Reich? Don't overthink it to this level. I'm a 5 feet 6 Brazilian guy and I don't have issues with women. Women don't cross off a checklist and look into your ancestry before deciding to fuck or have a LTR with you. Of course, genes DO play a HUGE part. If you're not attractive, life will suck hard for you. If you're an idiot, unless you're VERY attractive - …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:31 AM
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I don't think us internet strangers are really qualified to give you advice on such a major life decision which will impact your entire life. But if I were you, I'd suck up living with my parents (if they're Ok to be around) and become an RN. My username should tell you the main reason I think this, but also because if this is truly something you burn for, don't settle for less. 3 years isn't such a long time in the grand scheme of things, and since you only live once, don't waste your life not …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:32 AM
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1: This won't give you a taste of what it's like to be a man. Seducing women gives you that taste 2: Don't take her on a bloody date, this will just warp your perspective of what a date is like. You won't learn anything from a girl that's paid to be there with you 3: If you want to just fuck her, go for it. Even if just to get rid of your 'virgin' label (even though I think this could backfire, as you may start to think that the only girls you can get are escorts).
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:00 AM
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I'm someone whos wife does things with other women (and in return, I get to do the same, or it ends in threesomes/foursomes), so I know that a scenario like this can add a LOT of fun and variety to a relationship. But I'll give you a warning though, it's not uncommon for women to use this 'tactic' as a way to slowly reel you into accepting a threesome with a guy. Also, if she's never been with a girl, I highly advise her first experience to be an all-girl orgy. I even advise against the first ex…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:53 AM
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First, asktrp would be better to ask questions, here your post may just get downvoted and become invisible. To me it sounds like she's just very conservative and/or shy. It could also be that she's just not interested, of course. But, you can't say playing hard to get doesn't work for you after 1 experience. If you had 50 girls act like this towards you, then I'd agree. But with just 1, it's hard for you to know if it's you that messed up or if it's just her personality.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:49 AM
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You're an idiot.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:48 AM
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If you're this concerned about one single relationship with a girl that ignores you, I suggest you read the entire sidebar 2x.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:47 AM
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Ah, after saying something like that I really recommend you to just next her. She's given you a clear sign that she knows she's the one with the power in the relationship and she doesn't take you that seriously. You can also try and shift the power by simply ignoring her when she contacts you, and let her chase you (if she's even willing to, that is).
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:10 AM
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Lesson learned, that's it. Plus, if she ends 2 years because you had a moment where you broke your frame - then she can't really be that serious about the relationship. Either that or everything is fine and you're getting paranoid.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:05 AM
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Not really. For me it just gets my mind back onto my work instead of trying to find a girl at 3AM. I also find that I still want to go after girls as well, but I become a lot more aloof and outcome independent about it.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:02 AM
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My parents were very far from the affectionate types who praised me whenever I went a day without accidentally killing myself or managed some basic accomplishment. The downside is that I don't become very attached to people and even if I show someone a lot of warmth, it doesn't take much for me to turn it off like a switch. So I'm not very close to family, I don't have many close friends, and I generally have a very hard time making new "close" friends. The upside though has been that I learned …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:51 AM
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This seems like a pretty big sign that either she's looking to branch swing or is losing interest in him. Either way, if he was my friend I'd simply tell him to just break things off with her. Don't give her the option to answer that she wants to be in a relationship (which she will of course say) as her actions seem to prove otherwise.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:43 AM
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At first I thought these were things she did before she met you, but now I realise it's things she's did while together with you. The red flags aside (to be these aren't "red flags", they are air-raid sirens) - I hope that you are the kind of man who would not accept such things from a LTR. If she's a plate - then it's none of your business. But if an LTR is going on a retreat with 4 guys for 2 nights, then I would tell her just to stay there and not come back.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:38 AM
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First, if this worked for you - I won't judge. But reading it, you come across as a bit too needy. You definitively don't give me the impression that you're aloof. If I were you, I'd just not bother to text her and see if she texts you back. If she doesn't, she's not interested. If she does, she may be interested. Also, asktrp would have been better to post this. And, good luck!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:06 AM
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The people still frequenting nightlife past the age of 30 are late bloomers that missed out. Yupp. This is me, and this will be me at 30 as well. It is partially because in my very early 20's I used to work non-stop, but also because now at 26 I still work non-stop. So when I go out, it's to let out "steam" built up from working from the moment I wake up until I hit the bed again. I have toned it down quite a bit more now though and learned to not get piss fuck drunk every weekend, and sticking …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:01 AM
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To be fair though, isn't the motivation to sleep around usually: because sex feels fucking great and the thrill of a new partner sweetens it even more? I've never met someone who slept around because it would save starving kids.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:15 PM
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I have a more laissez faire view than you do on this. If someone sleeps around at the drop of a hat, but still wants to be with a partner that's had <X partners - I don't hold it against them. I'll also admit that I'm one of those people, but I'll also admit that I don't back it up with "evolutionary justifications". I freely admit that I'm a hypocrite and I hold those who I want to be a partner with to a different standard than I hold myself. While I don't expect a girlfriend to be a Catholic n…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:47 PM
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Men are free to experiment and so are women. No one is imposing laws on men can have up to 500 partners and women can only have up to 5. It's more that you as the man/woman are allowed to have your own opinion on what constitutes as a partner who has been 'too liberal' when it comes to their sexual past. Just as anyone can have as much sex with as many people as they want, "you" as an individual can choose whether you want to be with someone who has had 30+ sexual partners or not.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:30 PM
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Pretty much, The first few times I used it the comedowns were pretty smooth. It was only after when I was taking a few pills a week that the comedowns were god-awful. It did make me prefer amphetamines though. Not so addictive. Feel energetic when high. I get a lot of work done. Not such a difference of "everything is rainbows and great, and life now sucks" when you come down.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:16 PM
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I was referring to when the effect was wearing off. Then again, I didn't take exactly MDMA, it was just ecstasy pills from a Bulgarian mobster. Maybe MDMA itself is different.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:23 PM
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Charm on the comedown from MDMA? Jesus Christ when I took it, the comedown felt like a hole opened up and was dragging me straight to hell.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:40 PM
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I'm not going to call you a bitch or a coward. Spending $70k on a degree you're not able to complete + being bullied + not the greatest childhood, is a pretty damn good excuse to be suicidal. But, having been suicidal myself, I want to ask you what I asked myself: "If you keep living, and dedicate a huge part of your mental and physical capacity to improving your situation and your life, what's the worse that can happen?" Honestly, if you're dead - you have 0 chance to have a great life. If you …
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:04 PM
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I don't see how Stoicism could be adding to you feeling inadequate. We all could be much better than we are. Maybe if I had done things differently in my life, I could have been a multi-millionaire who fucks models. You likely could have been much better off than you are as well if you had made different decisions. Thing is that first, it's not always easy to see what you can do to drastically improve your life - so even though you feel as if you should have achieved more, it's easier said than …
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:58 PM
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If this is your issue then I can relate to it quite well. One thing which has helped me incredibly much in regards to this has been Stoicism. I don't know if you've ever heard about it but I can give you some book recommendations (or audiobooks, if you don't have the time to sit down and read).
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:40 PM
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You didn't really give us much to go on to answer your question and help you. What are you feeling inadequate about? Around other men? Around women? That you're not "good enough" for attractive women? That your yoga buddies go to yoga 3x a week, not 2?
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:23 PM
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Don't come to them and see if any of them come to you.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:20 PM
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Well no shit there's more to life than what you read on TRP. And of course TRP is not the be-all-end-all of social interaction, we're not a think tank of doctorate researchers - we are just guys on an online forum sharing ideas. And Robert Greene, I've read 4 of his books entirely. The 48 laws of power I've read it 9 times and even have a small booklet to refresh my memory. The things I've learned from him have greatly improved my life and interactions with others - I know from my own experience…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:56 PM
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Feminism, there are those from decades ago who pushed for the right of women to vote. Now there are 'feminists' who tackle the awful societal issues such as manspreading and video game characters with large tits. In TRP there are men who hate all women and are extremely bitter over being tricked by society into believing that all women are precious and then realise that women, are just humans. And there are those who see women as humans, their flaws included. Who see and judge people by their ac…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:34 PM
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I wouldn't treat someone as lesser, equal, or above me just because of what's between their legs. It's their actions which determine how I see them. And this sentiment applies to quite a lot of people here. But that doesn't mean that I am blind to biological differences between men and women though. Men and women are not biologically equal.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:20 PM
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A more precise way of looking at this is to not let your preconceptions and beliefs/beliefs of "how things are" cloud your judgment by dragging emotion into something which should be thought of logically. And this applies to almost everyone. SJWs too blinded by their ideology of the white man is evil and everything white + male = satan himself. Red pillers who think that ALL women are worthless (mainly those in the anger phase. Blue pillers who think all women are wonderful creatures who can do …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:37 AM
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He tried to give them the best he could (it seems). Before when I gave women the best I could, very often it would either push them away or simply change the dynamics of the relationship heavily to their advantage. I learned that most people don't know how to treat someone who's very nice to them (and it's reasonable, someone too nice is a turn-off and can border on suspicious). So practice being aloof every once in a while. Be distant at times. Give less. When you give less, the times you do gi…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:36 AM
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Amen to this. And what I learned is that most people, you can put into 1 of 2 categories: 1: The ones who are not good and will take advantage of you 2: The ones who don't appreciate someone being very nice to them and will be turned away/off by it This doesn't mean to be an asshole, it simply means to reserve the 'warmer' side of yourself to those who deserve it, and even then - don't give too much. Alternate between hot and cold.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:30 AM
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Sometimes it's girls I find on Tinder, date them for a bit (with my wife being aware) and then simply invite them. But we realised that it's much easier when my wife finds the girls, so usually she's on Tinder or she approaches them when we go to bars and clubs. The pre-selection helps, a lot.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 11:34 AM
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Don't wait until X or Y point to look for girls. Remember that trying and even if you fail, that's valuable experience. But don't let looking for girls distract, get in the way, or harm your chances of getting to the point when it'll be much easier to get girls.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 11:28 AM
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Keep in mind, my comments are based on my personality and what I'd have done. Maybe it won't fit for you. 1st one I'd have just sang along with her, even if I didn't know the song and just sang out gibberish. 2nd, you could have gone to her, called out your friend for being an idiot. You had her interested in you already but with your comment + his it likely came on too strong. Girls don't want to know that you plan on fucking them, they just want it to happen. 3rd, become a psychic? Ask sooner …
/r/askTRP15/04/17 11:25 AM
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No-fap feels like bullshit to me. I fap up to 4 times a day, I fuck my wife daily, and we often find girls for threesomes. I'm still "hungry" to find girls, I still have my frame. So to me, all of this 'fapping kills your game' seems like correlation and not causation. Just a coincidence that most guys masturbate quite often and most guys don't get much pussy. When fapping is just an excuse not to improve your game, then it is an issue. But I don't agree that fapping alone will kill your game an…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:19 AM
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Try again, if she rejects you, next.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:06 AM
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IANAL, but you didn't break the law. You spoke to her thinking she was over age. You didn't have sex with her. IF you sent her nude photos or she sent you nude photos, you may be in some trouble though. Absolute best you can do is ignore both of them and if the Police comes to talk to you - admit to NOTHING, don't even admit to something as innocent as the fact you have a computer. Never, ever speak to the Police without a lawyer when there is even a slight chance that you may be charged with a …
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:19 PM
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She's not interested in you. Could be autistic, but statistically it's because she's not interested in you.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:37 AM
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You know your finances better than I do, so if financially it won't set you back too much - then the sooner you do the surgery, the sooner you'll start enjoying the benefits. Just don't think that surgery alone will turn you into a lady-killer. It will just make it easier than it is now.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:37 AM
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If enough money means you'll get the surgery and then have to suck dick to make rent - then don't go for it. If enough money means you'll barely notice the money for surgery being gone - then I absolutely recommend it.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:32 AM
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A snarky comment will make you feel good there and then, but 95% of the time it will bite you back or just make you look butthurt. Even no response is better than this. The best response to someone doing things like this is indifference. It puts you in a higher position, makes you look better, and will get the point across that you're not going to put up with it.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:28 AM
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Maybe it's because you use words like 'fagyousaytions'. But I've had the same issue as you. In Brasil we use our hands a lot when speaking, when I lived in Bulgaria - it really made me come across as gay. So I suggest you control this. Also try to listen to how you speak. Is your voice fast and somewhat high-pitched, or is it calm, deep, and deliberate? This was also one of the main reasons people thought I was gay.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:21 AM
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1: The way you act may make you come across as gay. I've actually had this issue before and fixing it drastically raised my success with women 2: Is this really a group of friends which brings you up in life and which have a positive effect on you? At least from what I've read, it seems like they're all pretty childish and somewhat toxic.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:18 AM
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We can't make sense of it. All we know is what we wrote. We don't know her, we don't know the looks she gave you, we don't know how you were acting, we couldn't see body language. No one here will give you a better answer than what you could speculate for yourself.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:51 PM
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Why couldn't you call? Anxiety about speaking to strangers, or anxiety about taking the next step in regards to bouldering? The "Just do it", how I did it has simply been to setup a plan of what I need to get done. I sat down, thought logically (not emotionally) about what I need to do to just get 1 more step ahead, took notes, and then started working on completing it. What this did was that I simply needed some self-discipline to follow through on my plan. It also meant that I had a simple dir…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:46 PM
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Funny thing about smiling in Eastern Europe. I'm from Brasil where we're always happy and smiling, but when I'm living in Bulgaria (EE) people think I must be gay for always being in such a good mood. 1: Your prime years are not gone. For men, the prime years are around 35 years old when you still have looks, energy - but also have money (and more life experience). 2: Interacting, picking up, and closing women is a skill. Most skills are learned through repeat practice. So keep practicing, keep …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:41 PM
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You're rambling on and one about nothing when the best advice you could be given is: make a move, take it from there. We can't answer if it was your "vibes" or whatever. It could have been. It could be that you remind her of a guy she had a crush on. It could be she was high on drugs. It could be that she hasn't fucked in 8 months. Stop overly-speculating shit.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:25 PM
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Here's your catch-22. I've been through depression, and the best way I found to get rid of it is just to do things. You're making a lot of obstacles for yourself. You want to learn martial arts, but there are no gyms - so, why not learn from YouTube ? It won't be as good as a dojo, but it's better than nothing. You want to start bouldering (I did this while depressed, it was awesome) but you think you'll quit because of depression? So DON'T quit. No job? No hobbies? No interests? Try different t…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:20 PM
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A male without dignity is not a man. And how can one expect others to show him respect when he does not show himself respect?
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:19 PM
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Then find another girl and she can run off to him. She's not LTR material. At least you'll keep your dignity, rather than when you have no choice after she cheats. Regardless of whether she cheats on you with him or not, a girl like that is not worth keeping as an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:01 PM
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When you sit there texting with her, you show that you have nothing better to do than to sit there texting with her. Plus, whatever it is you're texting to her right now is anyways not getting her attention enough to get her to give you good responses.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:58 PM
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Here's a list of audiobooks I recommend for you. These are the books which really helped me with my mental state, specially when it comes to feelings of weakness and negativity. If I'm to write to you everything I know, 60% would have been from what I learned in these books, and the other 40% would mostly be what I learned from simply going through shit and becoming stronger - so it's not really something I can give you in just a Reddit comment. 48 laws of power http://www.audible.com/pd/Busines…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:03 PM
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You don't have oneitis if you're not already in love with her, and you still keep your options open and go after other girls. It's hard to say if she's really interested in you, but if I were in your situation I would just take things as they come but not put much effort. So, when she asks to go out, say yes. Say no sometimes as well, even if you got shit else to do. If she texts you, respond with brief messages, don't engage her (unless it's for logistics). Don't text her for anything other tha…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:20 PM
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You can't build power, wealth, relationships - or anything really significant (unless you're a hermit) without other people involved. My focus now is sales. I have good experience from before but with my skills as I programmer, I see that the main thing I lack to reach my goals is to become an even better salesman. For you, it may be getting better with girls. Being better at networking. Making friends. Hell, even being a better salesman. But improving the way you interact with others to reach y…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:06 PM
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I'd have absolutely gone for it. And if you really feel this is holding you back so much - the sooner you do it, the sooner you can enjoy the benefits.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:50 AM
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You can just reply with a "Yes". It's not bad to show some attachment, most girls who aren't fucked in the head wouldn't be interested in a guy that shows absolutely 0 attachment towards her. As long as 90% of the time you're acting "alpha" towards her, showing your softer side to a LTR at times is a must, if you want to keep her.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:33 PM
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I still see a fine line. I can't stop my wife from thinking other men are attractive. Hell, even I can admit when a guy really is attractive. But fantasising about a friend or co-worker means actively thinking about him putting his dick inside of her. It means in her fantasy she gets over the "barrier" that she's in a relationship and wants to fuck someone else. To me, when it gets to the point when someone is fantasying about something, it means that they'd be willing to do it if the opportunit…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:21 PM
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Ofcourse there is a problem. There's a huge difference between a normal human response to think someone is attractive and to actively fantasise about them. "Neutral attraction" is just human. Fantasising means actively thinking about fucking someone. It's a line I would end a relationship over.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:07 PM
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For me it would be, but dressing in a suit wouldn't be the straw to break the camels back - I would just see it as something silly.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:56 PM
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Just have fun with it. This alone is far from a red flag, specially considering she acts towards you the way you explained. If I were in your situation and drunk enough, I'd probably dress up as a bridesmaid to balance things out.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:49 PM
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Need, no. We're still able to function and live without women, heart still pumps, lungs still breathe. They can make life sweeter though. That is, if you don't end up with a succubus.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:46 PM
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If you see her often, you can start by just getting to know her a bit and give her the chance to see what you're like and to become more intrigued by you.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:45 AM
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Out of curiosity, have you spoken with her much before? Whether you have/have not, and whether you built more attraction will have a big effect on whether she rejects you or not. And as for her being with a friend, go there - talk to both of them, don't ask her out in front of her friend.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:42 AM
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It's nothing you can force. Attractive girls are easy to be interested in because of the obvious. With guys though, you just need to find a guy who you get along with. I can count on 1 hand how many guys I really connected with (while sober) in the past few years. What you can change though is to try and be more open minded when speaking to guys, find common interests and let the conversation flow.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:41 AM
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Your points, 1: Don't think like this. She doesn't have some score in her head that you must reach to match her - she's either into you, or not. What score you think your SMV against hers is, doesn't matter. 2: Not really a big issue 3: I don't understand what you mean by this 4: This hasn't stopped girls before from swinging branches Yes you should ask her. Worst that can happen is she rejects you. Best that can happen is she says yes and dates you.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:38 AM
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I practice TRP No you don't :-) Read the goddamn sidebar, lurk on the main sub, and read TRP oriented books. It's normal to feel how you do, but you need to know how to control and manage it, and how to get her to be the one chasing you. This isn't something any of us here can "knock into you" with just a comment.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:23 AM
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It's biologically ingrained in us. The brain gives us a feel good reward when we engage in sex. The appeal for me is the feel good + also the "conquering" aspect of it.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:21 AM
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... Do you see the irony here? A "man going his own way" not sure if he can go his own way because he was banned from a goddamn subreddit.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:59 AM
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Well then go for it! Just make sure to keep an eye on your asshole in case the husband has a hidden agenda!
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:22 PM
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The "my husband knows, we're in an open relationship" is a pretty common bullshit line. Then again, in today's Western society, it's not unlikely that she's being honest.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:20 PM
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"I just wish the bank would put aside my lack of a steady job and past when I was financially wreckless and wrecked my credit score, and give me a loan of $500k! Last week I became born-again financially responsible!"
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 09:11 PM
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One day, the sun will rise and you will not. This sentence sent a chill down my spine. I like to think of myself as aware that I will die, and to go after the things I want in life so I don't live with many regrets. But just imagining the sun coming up, and you being on the ground is a new and somewhat chilling perspective.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:09 PM
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If you think what the TRP states you should do is to be a clown and woo women, then you haven't really been reading TRP. It's about improving yourself, maintaining frame, having confidence, etc. - things you should know if you've been reading. From this, yes, you are the one who will likely approach women, but you are still the prize. You don't approach them with the mentality of "Oh lord I sure hope she likes me", you approach them with the mentality of "Is this girl cool/cute/funny/interesting…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:52 AM
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You could have gotten to the point with a lot less words. The best way though is not to tell her that you're not exclusive with her, it's best to show with your actions that you're not exclusive and let her catch on herself. You're not really "fucked" though, I doubt anything worse than her not wanting to be "with you" would happen when she puts the pieces together.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:41 AM
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Why on earth would you apologise after she reacted so positively to you? This event is pretty much closed now. My guess on what happened is that she is more interested in you than she thinks you are in her, so she's willing to make a lot more compromises to simply continue being with you. In LTRs though, it's always good to mix in some soft traits, too much alpha will wear down almost any (mentally healthy, normal) woman.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:34 AM
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Interesting tactic, but I wouldn't use it myself. To everyone else it will certainly look like flirting. I don't want to be known as the guy who flirts with every woman at networking events. I'd skip the part about the wife and simply become likeable to the person I want to network with. Come to him with a "message of mutually beneficial friendship" rather than him come to me with a message of "get the fuck away from my wife".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:35 PM
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"Perfect", 99% of us here are far from even "humanly-possible-perfect". What is "perfect" anyways? But "perfect" in a way which most of us have a chance of attaining, I would say: Having good looks (no need for model-tier looks), dressing well, , having a fit body, and being well groomed. Having your finances together, being financially independent. Having an interesting life with interesting hobbies. Having your own place, or renting a nice place which you can easily afford. Knowing how to inte…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:29 PM
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It's admirable that you want to take care of her, really. But it won't be so straight forward to bring girls home when your elderly mom lives there with you. I think the worst things will be that your mom may not feel comfortable, and it could be a very big mood killer for the girls. Is there any way in which she could perhaps live a short <5 minutes walk away from you instead?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:24 PM
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You can usually pick up nuances into their thinking by how they speak and act regarding women in their lives and women in general (about men as well). You can also ask innocent questions and make vague comments somewhat in line with TRP and gauge their line of thinking from their response as well.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:19 AM
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You also come across as more attentive and that you really want to hear what they have to say. So while you are collecting information to use for your own benefit, you come across as the good guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:35 PM
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This concept deserves its own post. From what I've picked up by doing this in negotiations, it does the following: Keeping quiet shows you are confident that you deserve what you asked for. You are not explaining why, your silence shows you are confident in your own request It gives the other person some time to process your request You don't possibly sidetrack the conversation. The ball is on their court and it's up to them to make the next move. When you make a demand, don't derail the convers…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:32 PM
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A lot of times people hide their deep feelings and intentions behind jokes. Regardless, whether she's serious or not - a high quality LTR wouldn't even be joking about these things. I wouldn't have stayed with her.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 05:35 PM
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Stay away from her, but I personally wouldn't tell him. Don't be the bearer of bad news, instead let him see things for himself over time. I don't think I have to mention this, but to see her doing this to other guys, not to you. You have no idea if he'll act reasonable and get rid of her, or if he will somehow turn this on you and that you're trying to get with his "innocent girl".
/r/askTRP16/01/17 08:17 PM
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This is why if you have a LTR, you should take note of the kind of friends she has around her. Entrepreneurs with determination like to hang around people richer than them so they can be inspired and motivated. If a girl likes hanging around girls who cheats and sleeps around, she may well get some "inspiration" as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:30 PM
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I believe you are just a troll and I took the bait.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:26 PM
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If you really helped to jump a woman, my advice is for you to go to a bad part of your town and scream out loud what you did. You are an absolute piece of shit.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 03:48 PM
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I always tend to think from a business/entrepreneurship perspective when reading posts like this on TRP, and it almost always clicks perfectly. This is the case with your post as well. When things are going very good, you start to get lazy about your strategy, you may to get less aggressive, you may start to think that your current success will last on forever. But it's when things are truly tough that you build character, and the mentality (which I feel is needed) to not only survive but to pro…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:57 PM
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You don't want to be with a woman that you care about, and that cares about you when you're sick. That's just the bare minimum. You want to be with a woman who treats you like her king, and when you look at her you can't help but want to rip her clothes off. Also one who either cooks and cleans, or helps to support the 'family unit' financially as well. And these 'adult things' aren't nearly as hard as they seem, really. Hell, if you make good money - you can do as I did before and hire a maid t…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:41 AM
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Because you will feel much better in your 'castle' if it's clean. It will give you a better feeling in general knowing that you don't live like a farm animal.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:34 AM
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Tell her that it bothers you in a straight forward manner, without whining or sounding like it's making your world collapse. It's somewhat absurd to expect a LTR to never do shit that annoys you, specially if you never inform her. For example, my wife eats these sunflower seeds sometimes, while it's something small - I can't stand the smell. So I simply told her to not come near me after eating them. Now she knows, and eats her sunflower seeds away from me, then comes to me after she's done and …
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:32 AM
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What on earth do you think we'll tell you to do? You've already 'tried' to end things 6-8 times. This should be enough for you to know yourself you do want to end things. Second, the fact that she was doing those things while somewhat with you shows some lack of respect. Keep in mind that when someone respects you so little, it's near impossible to get them to respect you to the point where a relationship would be healthy. Aside from all that, if she doesn't offer you anything, why are you wasti…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:25 AM
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I get the whole part of the "male brotherhood", but that guy sounds so fucking blue you'd think he's choking. Not really my brother.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:51 AM
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Best advice I can give you is stop looking for a 'fast way'. Unless if by 'fast' you mean a few (or many) years. Depending on how high you want your SMV to be, it can take 3, 5, 10, 15 years for you to finally reach that level (for example, if you want to look great, have an attractive personality, be red pill as fuck, and have a lot of money - it can take a while to have it all depending on your starting point). But keep in mind that until you reach 'where you want to be', you will still see be…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:55 PM
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Part of being funny is not what you say, but who you say it to. Some people can appreciate a good Hitler joke while others would find you to be unfunny and tasteless, so it could be that the audience he has have a different taste than you do. From there, it's your style. I'm not the very loud and screaming type so my humour is mainly in witty comebacks and observational humour. Sometimes in story telling as well. So you need to see what kind of humour fits you and your personality best. On girls…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:35 PM
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It's a lot of books you can read (lietruth mentioned a few very good ones) and I highly suggest the 10x rule. But let me try to give you an answer as well. It's a very complex thing that has many moving parts - to be a leader, but I'd say these are the most important things I've noticed a leader should require/ask himself: Do you have a vision and a path you want to take to follow it (and can you change course if you see you need to). Are you calm under stress. When everything is going to shit, …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 09:17 PM
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Get a damn good body, very slim and very well trained. Dress in clothes which look extremely good on her body and makes her standout. As long as her face doesn't look like Shrek having a stroke and is at least below average - she'll get a lot better men than when she started. Same ofcourse applies to men, just switching slim for muscles.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:31 AM
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Go straight. Women love a man who goes for what they want, no bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 02:44 AM
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"Hey ____, let's go for [coffee, drinks, whichever is appropriate] sometime". If she replies positively, give her your phone and get her to type it in. Later in the day, suggest a time/place and arrange it with her. Remember to resist the urge to text her about nothing. Texting should only be for logistics (if you've lurked around, you've probably read this quite a few times).
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:27 AM
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Let's break this apart: Hey, I meant to ask you on Monday You're basically saying that you wanted something but didn't have the balls to do it. but you're hella cute If she's cute, you telling her she's cute won't mean shit to her. Plus, 'hella' - please don't say this out loud. I guess I bitched out You're a man, you don't "guess" your past actions, you know them. Second, why admit that you 'bitched out'...? Can I get your number? Be more specific, have a concrete ask. Ask her if she's like to …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:55 AM
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This isn't really the point though, even if we absolve her of all blame - OP still got the short end of the stick by going out of his way to help someone. At best, it happened as it did - he rides away and doesn't give a fuck. At worse, you have some white knights ganging up on you (or in some situations (perhaps not this one) the police).
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:36 AM
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No one has the right to know anything of what you think or the reasons for why you hold the thoughts and beliefs which you have.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:12 PM
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Erectile dysfunction is a nightmare. I'd prefer premature ejaculation. It's easy to control it now as I learned to simply think about other things if I feel it coming. 'Shit, I'm close... I wonder if I should get a steak after. Speaking of steaks, how aware are cows of their surroundings? I heard they have cow-friends.' While still going, and going.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:29 PM
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There's also a difference in how men cry. It's rarely full blown fits of crying, it's either your eyes watering up - or you let it all out for a few minutes, pick yourself back up together and move on. There's no strength in crying, it makes you feel weak and that you don't have control. The last time I cried was 4 years ago, after having a couple of very hard months - I woke up to find that someone hit my car very badly overnight. Seeing my car like that broke me down, so I cried for a few minu…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 11:24 PM
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Why the fuck do you even care? This is some beta revenge fantasy idea, you have nothing to gain from going out of your way to try and "destroy" her and at worse you can have a potentially unstable girl after you. Either way, the best way you can hurt a girl is to be the best man you can be, and leave her - no words. If you fuck her friend, or do something to make her angry - you'll give her a reason to be upset with you. Instead, if you completely cut off contact - and somehow she "finds out" th…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:05 PM
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Entirely dependant on how the stage was set. If the "relationship" was purely sexual and for fun, I can't really hold it against her if she chooses to see other men. If it's one where she wants the emotional aspects of a relationship as well, then it's her choice to not see other men, or to not be with me in the first place. If a LTR, or my wife were to suddenly want to see other men - I would allow them based on the fact that I would end the relationship there and then.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 06:33 PM
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Yes, men cheat as well. But TRP is directed towards sexual strategy of men. There's nothing about demonising women, it's simply what you can do as a man if she cheats. You're more than welcome to convert my post into a woman's perspective and post it on 2x.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 06:30 PM
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It could be that you're better than her current guy, but she's already shown that her morals "permit" cheating. So if you were to get together with her, it's not 100% guaranteed that she will cheat on you - but you already have 1 red flag. I'd stay away from anything serious with a woman that cheated on her guy with me.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:43 AM
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Mainly Sofia, but I spend a lot of time in the southern provinces as my wife is from a small town there. And yes, it's in IT - but I am putting more focus on the sales aspect of it now rather than only tech.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:21 AM
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Because my wife knows about it, and is involved in it. I don't do it behind her back.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:17 AM
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That's correct, but a lot of times those who are specially new to TRP can be bad at judging the character of another person. We see a cute girl with acts feminine and submissive, and assume she's the type with morals never to cheat. So this is a softer version, as a comment wrote - instead of AWALT, it's "all woman can cheat". With experience though, you start becoming better and better at judging someone's character, and your chances of finding a girl that will be loyal increases.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:15 AM
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You be the best you can be for yourself. Less chance of her cheating on you is just a side effect of this.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:06 AM
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I'd have just told her not to worry about it, done with a genuine smile, shook her hand to signify that all is good, then turned to focus on the friends I came with. Nothing more. It would have gotten the point across that you have no hard feelings, and you've moved on but also that she's not deserving of anything further than basic niceties.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:24 AM
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Your post tells me that you are very new to TRP. Answering your questions won't somehow make everything go great because there are so many details that you'd be missing. The interaction as a WHOLE is what matters - not how you shake her hand or paying/not paying for her ticket. So, clear your schedule entirely until Thursday - and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:21 AM
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You sounded kind of butt-hurt, yes. But even your "plan" of plating her shows you're still emotionally invested in her. And the fact that you're here writing this post about one single interaction with her, shows that you're still invested in her.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:17 AM
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You can't just use the stick or you'll either break her, or make her seek something to fulfil her emotional need elsewhere. The "carrot" should be used when she is behaving the way you'd like her to. Not after she does something nice to you, but after some days/weeks of her constantly behaving the way you'd like her to. And the stick should be used immediately after she does something you dislike. I'm not even sure if I'm telling you how to treat a woman or train a pet. Hit her lightly with a ro…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:12 AM
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I've been in a different but similar situation before. My mom was Ok but my stepfather was arrogant, had anger issues, and did nothing to try and build a relationship with me. My mom was Ok, but she was a "mom" as well - a lot of nagging. Between them there was a lot of complaining, nagging, and overall bad atmosphere. She also complained a lot towards me and tried to guilt trip me often. What I learned is that you can't change it. After a certain age, people are who they are. When a relationshi…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:14 AM
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Наздраве! Wonderful country, good climate, beautiful women, and the people there are extremely warm and open. I expect to give up my Brazilian citizenship and finally become a Bulgarian citizen in 2 years! :-)
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:01 PM
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To me, having a woman in my life enriches it. I enjoy having sex with them, and their feminine personality puts me in a good mood. But that's not the be all end all of life. If you are someone with no direction, who doesn't focus on yourself, has no determination - a woman will not somehow make your life perfect. Happiness only comes from within, from being satisfied with where you are now or at least with where you are heading. Then to have a woman to enrich the feelings which you already have …
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:43 PM
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I think that you escalated too abruptly. When you're talking about religion vs evolution, then you simply "listen to music and shit" - you're not building desire in her and you're not slowly escalating things to where she expects (and wants) you to make a move. So when suddenly she has to go, and you try to go in for a kiss - unless she already had a lot of desire in the first place, there's a good chance it won't go well. So, I simply believe you came out too abruptly without setting the stage …
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:30 PM
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I think that you escalated too abruptly. When you're talking about religion vs evolution, then you simply "listen to music and shit" - you're not building desire in her and you're not slowly escalating things to where she expects (and wants) you to make a move. So when suddenly she has to go, and you try to go in for a kiss - unless she already had a lot of desire in the first place, there's a good chance it won't go well. So, I simply believe you came out too abruptly without setting the stage …
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:30 PM
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Imagine if he wasn't gay and was down to fuck. She would for sure have done it. And if she acts like that with you around, imagine when you are not there? There's not so much to say to you and there's not even a point in trying to dissect what happened. Have respect for yourself, and leave her. It doesn't matter if it's an act from him or if he's more gay than a double rainbow 12 men gangbang - the focus is what your girlfriend did, not his sexual orientation. I will personally slap the fuck out…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:20 PM
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You can't assume she will cheat and has done so. If you are to break up with a woman the moment you find out she cheated and the moment you get into a LTR you must assume she has cheated then, taken to the illogical extreme, you should end all relationships the second you enter them, because she has cheated. Even if she's been right there in front of you the whole time, somehow she found a way to suck another dick. If you are against LTRs, the simple solution is to simply not enter LTRs. But if …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 08:54 PM
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Out of curiosity, doesn't it get very one-sided on how many partners you and her get? Even a guy in the top 5% will not even have even half as easy of a time in finding someone to fuck as a girl in the top 50% would.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 07:48 PM
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Unprotected sex I've sometimes had with girls that are a bit "closer" to me. It is dumb, I admit this. But sometimes the brain in my pants overpowers the one in my head. I don't take trips with them, but I do have romantic dinner dates with them - either together with the wife or alone. It depends on the girl though, in Western Europe I don't date them, in Eastern Europe I always do. About jealousy, there will always be jealousy - you need to be her rock and reassure her that you're hers and she…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:56 PM
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Give it a shot, take the initiative and mention someplace to meet and a date. From there, try to analyze what you could have done wrong/better beforehand and change your behaviour. Even sluts have standards though, and if she was willing to kiss you she may at least be physically attracted to you - so it could have all come down to how you acted.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:34 PM
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It's just a "normal" conversation. Sometimes I tell her I'm heading out, sometimes she wants to see a photo of the girl and is curious about her, sometimes she asks that I take the girl home for a threesome.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:33 PM
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I find that girls don't want you to be too direct verbally about sex. Telling them to come over and suck your dick can turn them off and make them feel cheap. Instead, be more vague, "come over and let's do something fun". She will know you want to fuck her, but she won't feel like a slut or as if she's just a sex toy. No one wants to feel as if you are just using them. Really remember, girls really enjoy sex, they will come over purely for sex. But give their hamster some hamster food so she ca…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 04:23 PM
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I just posted regarding this on TRP main sub, so I'll answer here as well. While I'm married with side-girls, I've always been open to my wife about it. Honesty is always the best option, because integrity is one of the most important things in a man. This doesn't mean you should rub it in her face either, be discreet about it - but if you want to have a comfortable relationship without the risk of this "coming out" eventually, be a man and be upfront about it. It's her choice whether to accept …
/r/askTRP28/10/16 04:19 PM
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My bet is that she was partially turned off by your inexperience (girls tend to question why a guy "only" had x partners, rather than xx partners). Do other girls dislike you? Are you bad with girls? It raises questions, so keep this to yourself. Second, it seems that she's not interested. She was looking for sex, and wanted to stop after kissing. You likely did something wrong, or didn't do something right. I wouldn't keep trying with this girl. But if you don't often get girls, I suppose it wo…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:43 PM
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No. The truth would come out when she meets you, so no point to lie. If I was 180cm tall, ofcourse it would be easier, some girls do write you off based on height - but I feel like I've learned to play to my strengths.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:18 PM
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Ofcourse every woman and man can cheat - period. It's ALWAYS a possibility. Doesn't mean you should jack off into a sock for the rest of your life to avoid the risk of it happening. And yes, you can say "keep plating until you're 89". That works for some, but others want a LTR. So, what is your point?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:16 PM
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Morei no Belo Horizonte, no bairro Uniao ;-) Quando eu era menor estudei na Escola Estadual Laudieme Vaz De Melo. Eu mudei do Brasil quando eu era 11 anos entao eu nao lebmro muito do meu Portugues.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 02:14 PM
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Usually I'd agree with you, it's good to be open about everything. But if someone I am with a relationship with expresses that she wants to fuck other men - that goes outside of "being open" and enters the territory of "she wants to fuck other men". Even if you tell her "no", she still expressed that she wants to, your "no" wouldn't change that she desires it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:41 PM
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Not in Brazil anymore, but I'm from Minas Gerais. The way I put it was very upfront "this is the only way I'd stay in a long relationship, so it's up to you". I didn't force her or make her feel guilty. But ofcourse you need to be somewhat soft though and make it clear she is the one you will have that emotional connection with, and you won't be putting any other woman ahead of her. It's a balance between being straight and upfront, but soft enough that she feels secure that even in this arrange…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:20 PM
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One thing to keep in mind, is what you say is 20% of the message that comes across and how you say it is 80% of the message. Telling someone you will throw them off a bridge conveys a very different message when you're angry and holding a baseball bat, than when you're patting your friend on the back and holding a beer. So do talk about her, ask about her - but pay more attention to your frame than the words you're saying. So if you're asking her about herself and you look nervous, she will get …
/r/askTRP28/10/16 11:32 AM
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That's the strange thing, while 95% of comments are positive, there is so much negativity and thought that if a girl is willing to do this, she must be a slut and she will fuck other men. I don't understand what makes this so hard to believe? Like I mentioned, I'm not Brad Pitt or Bill Gates either. But I agree with you that there aren't many places to discuss this. It would be very interesting to share stories and strategies while learning more about the different ways on improving. I'm the sam…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:49 AM
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I can't put her on a leash and keep her locked up in the basement. If she does, she does. From there it's to simply divorce, and move on. How can one ever 100% prevent all likelihood and slight chance that a woman will cheat, that a business partner will fuck you over, that a friend will backstab you? You can't. You simply be prepared if it does happen, cut them off, and move on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:46 AM
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No she doesn't, but if she was to even bring it up I would divorce her. My opinion on this is if a girl even thinks about fucking other guys and asks permission for it, she will eventually do it whether you let her or not, so it's best to just break up than to wait to be cheated on. It's split about 50-50 on her being present or not.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:42 AM
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The tinder profile is just for me, and she has one just for her as well. I found that if you tell girls too early, there's a much bigger chance they won't be interested. So it's best to meet them alone first and build attraction.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:15 AM
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You see all these jokes about how "salty" Reddit is, but you always think it's just an exaggeration. I don't know what on earth has made you so bitter, but I hope you get the help you need.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:19 AM
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Strangely enough, bisexual girls are easy for one night stands, but they tend not to stick around. The ones where we had a kind of "relationship" (going on dates, meeting often, etc) have been straight girls. I have no idea why though, but it is my experience.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:32 AM
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From the TRP point of view, we see that there's no hypocrisy in this. Women want the best one man they can find, and men are hard-wired to seek out multiple partners. Plus, you are the one supporting her - if you can support more women, the more power to you. But to support a woman while other men get to fuck her "for free" is entirely amoral and goes against nature itself. From a "normal person's point of view" it kind of is hypocritical. My answer to people who have "called me out" on this has…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 11:42 PM
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No, 100% Europe, split between Western and Eastern Europe. I'm not wealthy (yet) though, as I focused on starting businesses than getting a job/career, so it takes time. Regarding Brazil though, I don't even want to step foot there. Even if you're poor, you're a target. One thing to note though, even when I had issues paying bills - I still dressed like a millionaire. I put a LOT of focus on the clothes I wear, and I feel more comfortable in a dark blue suit than in anything else.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 11:03 PM
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From there, the goal is to get a 4th girl involved in foursomes.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:51 PM
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I understand completely where you're coming from. It took me some time before I even had sex with another girl but past experience of a 6 years long monogamous relationship taught me that if I don't have the option, I will lose my mind and become extremely frustrated.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:44 PM
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Don't talk to her about past experiences with other men. Not only is it weird, but it'll get her in a frame of mind of thinking about other men and not you. Speak broadly about sexual kinks, things she'd like to try. I also found that a lot of women are curious about other women. Do share some of your previous experiences, things you're curious about. The most important thing though is not so much to talk about sexual topics, but to not judge her on what she says. You can poke fun at her, but no…
/r/seduction27/10/16 10:32 PM
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This is purely what I've experienced, but often I stay away from more "concrete" topics such as history/science/etc. Out of a personal interest in psychology (not professional), I often try to dig and learn about them. I try to learn about what motivates them, what their fears are, and after we're comfortable I start going into more sexual topics such as what kinks they have. It's not so much the topics you discuss though, it's more on how they feel when you are speaking with them. So use your w…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:26 PM
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A lot of it really is being at home with them with a lot of alcohol, good music, and fun conversation. I also found that a lot of girls really enjoy going to the shooting range with me. Guns are a huge passion of mine (sadly it's hard to get a license in Europe). When it comes to conversation, they don't bring so much to the table themselves - but if you are good at leading interesting conversations, it can be quite a lot of fun. Just don't expect them to have the same admiration for Stalin desp…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:01 PM
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You're taller than I am. Social skills you have to work on. Not nescessarily holding doors for people, but knowing how to keep a conversation going, how to keep someone interested, and how to take interest in someone. I used to be quite emotional as well, but reading a lot on stoicism helped me to control it extremely much. This is something which you can work on. It will take time, but if you start right now you will see results within the next 2-3 months. Also the 48 laws of power can help you…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:44 PM
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It's a combination of a lot of things. Usually I don't go for touch but I still get comments on the sexual "vibe" I give off. A bit part is ofcourse how you look, you need to look like someone she actually wants to have sex with. The topics you discuss have a lot to say as well. Not only sexual jokes, but openly discussing sexual topics. Not in the sense of "what you want to do with her" either, but casual conversation. Eye contact is a huge part of it as well. Women can tell that you want to fu…
/r/seduction27/10/16 08:40 PM
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To be honest, most men are also boring as hell. Not only women. When it comes specifically to women though, the way I see it is that if I want to have fun, I should be the one to lead things. Most women are open to have fun, but you need to take charge and initiate whatever it is you think is fun. If they like you, they'll follow. When it comes to being fun in the sense that you can discuss interesting things with them though, I stopped trying for this. Not many women I've met have been interest…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:10 PM
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Mainly Tinder and out in clubs/bars.
/r/seduction27/10/16 06:39 PM
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I would say my first win wasn't the first time i seduced a girl, but rather when i became good enough to consistently get girls for threesomes with my wife and I. I had always been quite bad with women and my 165cm height didnt make it any better, but after reading a lot on stoicism, calming myself down, not worrying much about things - it started to become quite easy to pick up girls. Usually for threesomes but sometimes as girlfriends (that my wife ofcourse knows about. And no, its not an open…
/r/seduction27/10/16 02:18 PM
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I wish you the best of luck! And remember, you will suck for the first year or so. You will cringe at yourself. But the more often you do it, the sooner you'll be able to seduce women, even by accident and without trying :-)
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:39 AM
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I've been caught by a lot of people passing by. Usually they're too embarrassed or "WTF'ed" to do anything about it. So often they just smile or giggle to themselves. My only concern would have been Police, but this has never even come close to happening. I do live in a country where seeing a Police officer outside walking around is extremely rare though.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:34 AM
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No problem, it's 5:00 AM here so with no one emailing me, it's nice to help someone out :-)
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:28 AM
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Then outside seems like your only choice for now. Try it out and see the results you get.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:20 AM
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Usually I've gone to cemeteries, forests, etc. It's a bit strange so I don't do it anymore, but better than nothing. Any secluded place really works, I've even been with girls under the stairs of a parking garage (sometimes with people passing by). All of this was when I was 15-18 years old though, so at this age it's "acceptable". If you're older than 22 though, then I'd not really recommend it.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:17 AM
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A hotel may seem strange to her, specially if she knows you live near. Do you have a car? You can also just do it outside. It's not as comfortable, but I haven't met a girl that had any issues with this.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:24 AM
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This is pretty much it. How you dress, how you look, the aura of confidence you exude, self-assurance. This makes it easy to understand why so few guys are getting so many of the women - if you weren't born a Greek god, it takes a hell of a lot of effort. But it's 100% worth it. I've experienced the same, but not with girls - I've experienced it when getting in confrontations in business. So, very similar to you. What got me over it was to put myself in a situation where there is confrontation o…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:09 AM
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Sex is a good start, but I tend to do it via sexual jokes and innuendoes. Sometimes I do push it as far as talking about sexual kinks and fantasies - but don't talk abut her sexual past. Knowing if she's interested, sorry for the useless advice - but often you can "feel it". Pay attention to how she looks at you, her body language, the tone of voice she's using, and how she's responding to you being closer to her. You'll get better and better with practice, but it's impossible to always be 100% …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:52 AM
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If you have the time, I'd wait longer until the kiss. Build sexual tension first. Initially without touching her, even without being close to her. Use your words, the way you speak, your topics to gauge her interest and get her interested in something more. From there, move to a place where you can sit beside her, even put your arms around her. Then just stay like that, talking for a while. Building more tension. Eye contact is EXTREMELY important. Look at her, let it linger. Show her with your …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:33 AM
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I don't see any point in making enemies. You have no idea which enemies you could be making, for all you know they could be extremely passive agressive or outright vengeful. Why would you want to go around pissing people off when you don't know if they'll try to ruin your reputation, or cause you harm? That doesn't mean you should be nice to everyone no matter what - but if you need to cut people off, or say something negative, do it with some tact. And sometimes you WILL make enemies simply by …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 11:55 PM
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It sounds more like something a doctor could help her with more than TRP could help you with. Depending on her work, that could also be what's making her tired. Doesn't seem to be anything to do with you, any kind of test, or simply trying to avoid spending time with you. TRP isn't an answer to everything.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:03 AM
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Not ALL women would act like this if left to their own devices, the same way not EVERY potential business partner would fuck you over at any chance they got. But how you set the stage in accepting or not accepting things like this is what makes the biggest difference. I'd put it on a scale, 1 being they'd sometimes disrespect you, and 10 being they'd act like the women you mentioned. While everyone has a level in that 1/10 scale which they'd escalate things to, it's a lot to do in you not allowi…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:23 AM
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Yes, as long as it's within a balance and reason. Sometimes I can spend 40 hours straight playing Civ V or playing Fallout 4. But video games are a way to relax, and should not be an escape. They never prevent me from seeing the bigger picture of working on building financial freedom. Just don't make it your life, or a topic of conversation for you. But I do find it works great at letting your head sort itself out, specially after stressful events.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:27 AM
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She was out with friends in a Sofia (Bulgaria) bar, I was out with mine. Started talking to her, met, dated, married. How I introduced it was some months before marriage, I explained that I couldn't be faithful and that either I'm allowed to see other girls (with her always being #1) or it won't work out. She then agreed. We go 100% in, her included. Pretty much everything, including some pretty rough bondage. Do note that about 50% of the times it's me alone with girls though, she's not always …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:23 AM
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I wouldn't tell people precisely that "they're wrong", it puts them on the defensive. But do assert yourself, and stand your ground. I find that being friendly is a good way to disengage them - but there is a VERY fine line between being friendly and acting like a pussy. What I found works, is remaining calm, standing your ground, and slowly try to defuse them. Sometimes I even tell them that a fight is not worth it as we'll likely end up in jail overnight, and invite them for a beer. Show that …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:55 PM
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It's pretty much the best of both worlds. When you have a high-stress job or have your own business, I think it's a "must" to have a LTR. It keeps your head straight and focused when you're not running around like a horny dog 24/7. And ofcourse, a lot of men desire something new every once in a while. We actually found it made the marriage a lot stronger, and a lot more exciting to experiment with different girls. Even having some as 'girlfriends'. But it's far from every woman that would be abl…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:49 PM
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What do you define as 'Capitalist bullshit'?
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:07 PM
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It's really almost a science to it. The most basic is how you dress and act. Dress well, impeccably even. Act confident, self assured, relax. Being confident and relaxed puts her in a relaxed mood as well, which is the precursor to everything. From there, make light hearted jokes, poke fun at her in a friendly way (not negging, don't bring her down - bring her up (without putting her on a pedestral)). Transition into some slightly sexual jokes to gauge her feelings and to start showing you have …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:58 PM
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I suppose a woman being anti-TRP would be a woman who isn't faithful, doesn't want a man who is a leader instead of a follower, and isn't very feminine. I don't think you should spend your time thinking about this.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:41 PM
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Usually at home programming for my clients, so I can keep building my company. This is because I'm living in Scandinavia now and I'm not attracted to the women here. Might as well work. When I'm in Bulgaria though, every weekend I'm doing precisely what you mentioned you want to avoid - I go out to clubs, get drunk, sniff white powder, flirt, and look for new 'female friends' with my wife.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:35 PM
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Telling a girl you like her and want her to be your girlfriend only works in 6th grade. If I was in your situation, I'd either look to take her to some activity where there can be close contact (bouldering, ice skating, mini-gold (if you can teach her)), or simply take her out to a club (I'd personally go for this). In my opinion, lunch doesn't give you many chances to escalate things. You can't just go up to her and kiss her, you need to build tension first. The best way to build tension is in …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:31 PM
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Tell her you'll get some sand, put it in your living room, and she can lie there. This could be a hint that you haven't built enough attraction to escalate to anything sexual though.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:23 PM
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I'll take a jab at guessing why, could it be because you don't have enough confidence to feel as if you 'can' be a sexual person?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:22 PM
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Why waste mental energy trying to 'punish' her now? The best 'revenge' you can have in this scenario is to get out, be cool headed, and not let her get to you. If you were to try to make her have a bad day just for the hell of it, then she will feel even more justified in how she's treating you. Don't give her that satisfaction. Get your revenge by taking the high road. You have better things to spend your mental capacity on.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:35 PM
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Yupp, they do. https://www.amazon.com/Obstacle-Way-Timeless-Turning-Triumph-ebook/dp/B00G3L1B8K/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1469326928&sr=8-1 https://www.amazon.com/Calm-Cool-Collected-Demolish-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B015LF7KJC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1469326934&sr=8-1&keywords=calm+cool+collected https://www.amazon.com/50th-Law-Robert-Greene-Collection-ebook/dp/B002RI9ZQI/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1469326919&sr=8-1
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:22 AM
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Some unsolicited tips for you. Read (listen) these books, as they were the ones which have helped me the most to gain this attitude. A lot of incredible advice for life in general, advice which also translates quite well when it comes to dealing with women (and people in general). http://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/Calm-Cool-Collected-How-to-Demolish-Stress-Master-Anxiety-and-Live-Your-Life-Audiobook/B0176ZW7DE?ref_=audlib-pd-LIBRARY-grid http://www.audible.com/pd/Bios-Memoirs/The-50th-L…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:53 AM
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Well, you're trying to put a lot of logic on a woman's feelings. If she's cheating, you'll find out soon enough, and then be ready to leave. If she's not cheating, all the worrying and overthinking it would have been for nothing, and would only have taken enjoyment away from what you got. Don't bother overthinking/worrying so much, it changes nothing. Enjoy things as they are, and for as long as they last. Live in today, and trust yourself that if shit hits the fan tomorrow, you're fully capable…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:36 AM
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Honestly, I wouldn't have bothered. If you think you have a reason to suspect her cheating, then it might be an idea to simply trust your gut in the first place. Often when a girl is cheating, you can find other signals (being more distant, talking less, being protective of phones/etc). On the other hand, I do live by the Russian proverb "Trust, but verify". So I wouldn't hold it against you if you checked it, but my main point really is that if you believe you have a reason to, then that alone …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:05 AM
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I've listened to the 9 hours version of 48 laws 5 times, and once to the 23 hours version. As well as listened to the '50th law' 4 times, and I can confidently say that it was these books (along with Mastery, Robert Greene) which dragged me out of depression. The main (and only) cause for my depression was anxiety. Fear. The 50th law specially is crucial to understanding that fear used to serve a very useful purpose, but now it mostly manifests itself in the form of anxiety. Worrying about losin…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:39 AM
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I once ran through pu$$y as easy as getting glass of water in college and out with my friends, but I needed to mature and law school certainly did that for me even though I didn't fit in with rest of the d0rks Ironic claiming you needed to 'mature', and you write 'pu$$y', and 'd0rks'. Anyways, what is there to advise you on? She can't turn you into a 'beta bitch', only you can do that to yourself. Thing is, pushing aside the fact that she might not be a 'high quality woman' who'd stick with you …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:31 AM
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So what? You're a guy, you want to fuck attractive women. It's natural.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:48 AM
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How is this a red flag? Woman are insecure creatures, and if you were to find one that wasn't afraid of losing you - it would be likely because she's less invested in the relationship than you are, and you don't want that.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:46 AM
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I see you're not giving any fucks. Is it because you're eating an apple right now?
/r/seduction25/08/15 09:53 PM
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The house may be burning, and you're wondering whether you vacuumed the carpet or not. Who cares if you pet cute little bunny rabbits, so long as you're stoic towards her, don't put up with her bullshit, fuck her like a whore, and you're doing everything right to the point that it's obvious she wants - then you have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 12:28 PM
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Honestly, I personally don't like HB10's. The girls that are 10's for me are the 8's who are very pretty, and have an amazing personality. Either way: No super fun girls to heal my sadness. Don't think like that. Basing your happiness/sadness on some party slut is one of the worst things you could do - I'd say that amphetamines are a more stable source of happiness than party girls. I'm short as well, just 1-2 inches taller than you - and I don't have any issues at all with women. One of the mai…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 02:27 AM
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Absolutely. Being a foreigner here with money raises your SMV by 1-2 points easily. I've met a few unicorns here - but for every unicorn, I've met at least 30 "AWALTs" - so I'll always keep a very, very good eye on her even though so far she seems different.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 08:08 PM
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Could you give an example of what you would say here? Seriously, I'm curious to know. (had to re-write my comment as it got removed since I linked via Reddit) I can link to copy/paste one comment I made here, which is this: It's hard to tell you exactly what to say, but the main thing is to be a pervert with a good sense of humour, who does not take things too far. If you're constantly making overly-sexual comments, you'll turn her off very quickly. If once every hour or so, you say something se…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:08 PM
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I'm very happy to have helped. I also ran across this realization simply by chance when a friend I had newly met pointed this out to me. If I had not changed this, I would have had far less success with girls.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:04 PM
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Honestly, I've never been a nature person, but I will take your advice and see how it goes. Specially since I work with computers non-stop, some fresh air, trees, and being away from technology may be relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:01 PM
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Honestly, I don't go all out. I use a few Nivea masks 1-2x a week, and from there I found out that dead sea mud works VERY nicely once every week or 2 on your skin. The most important thing is to always keep your face clean, get masks to make your face not appear oily/shiny, and keep your pillows clean.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:00 PM
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It's hard to tell you exactly what to say, but the main thing is to be a pervert with a good sense of humour, who does not take things too far. If you're constantly making overly-sexual comments, you'll turn her off very quickly. If once every hour or so, you say something sexual based on some observation you made - it can make her very turned on. Also, sexual actions work as well. Something stupid which worked for me, is when a girl has a jacket and a shirt under, i'll open her jacket "to see h…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:57 PM
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Ah, it's so hard for me to name them, but most of them have been docs. I've found on Netflix or YouTube. The topics which interest me most are history, military/war, microbiology, and nuclear physics (even though most of it goes over my head).
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:54 PM
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Oh yes, it had a lot of breathing room for your pores which will keep them nice, clean, and flawless.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:47 PM
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Virtually everything you have said makes absolute sense and is really among the defining reasons I live here. While the girls here are slutty, I've found and been with quite a few virgins as well - they generally do submit to their man (if he's worthy of it). Being foreign, and earning foreign income while having it taxed at a flat rate of 15% also makes you relatively wealthy even with an income that'd make you middle class, or worse in Northern Europe. Out of curiosity, which country are you i…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:30 AM
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There's always the risk, no matter how loyal you trust your girlfriend/wife to be. How I counter this possibility is simply by being attentive to signals which are red flags to cheating, and I have read up and done a lot of research on reading body language, non-verbal communication, and on how to help myself to spot lies. Trust, but always verify.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:23 AM
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I haven't read much of the sidebar, I suppose I should. But some of the best books I have read (audiobooks) have been these (keep in mind not all are directly related to women): http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/The-Happiness-Advantage-Audiobook/B0041NZRDC http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Covert-Persuasion-Audiobook/B008S0PJBO http://www.audible.com/pd/Business/Go-for-No-Audiobook/B00LMDAPM2 (this one is short, but very amazing) http://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/The-Like-Switch-Audio…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:21 AM
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Ah, eu mudei para o Canada, e depois a Noruega com a mia mae, e dois anos atrais eu vim sozinho para Bulgaria. Eu esqueci muito do meu Portugues.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:54 AM
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50% of how she is, is what I found in her. The other 50% is how I dominated her to be as I want. She was never submissive before to her exes before, so I'm the only one she has been like this towards. Do keep in mind that her exes were pretty betas - as it is actually harder than you'd imagine to find an intelligent, financially succesful Alpha here in Eastern Europe.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:53 AM
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I love them so much, specially dogs. But I'm not interested in learning about them - aside for how to train dogs. Not interested in how they communicate, how their body works, etc.etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:52 AM
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One thing I learned is that motivation is something bad to rely on. You will have days when you will feel as motivated as a plant. Instead, focus on discipline. Do work, go lift, read, eat well - not because you're motivated, but because you rationally know that's the best thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:51 AM
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Well, this is simply the rule I set for her. If she disagrees with me, she's more than welcome to have broken up with me and found someone else. Plus, she's not interested in other guys either.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:50 AM
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Yes, not often but I do make an effort. I made the decision long ago that I wanted to focus on money - as when I had the kids I wasn't ready for a family. A lot of people disagree with this mentality - but I, having grown up poor, see no other way.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:50 AM
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Notice I said just jeans and some nice shoes, because I've found that you don't even need to be wearing a nice button-down shirt. About half the time I go out somewhere, I just wear a tshirt with the blazer. This is such a stupid-simple outfit to put together, but if the blazer is good, it almost always ends up looking amazing. This is also a very quick outfit to put together when you're a rush as well, so aside from being able to afford a blazer - there's almost no excuse not to have them. Also…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:46 AM
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I should have maybe mentioned that I have 2 kids with an ex-girlfriend. One boy, and one girl - 5 years, and 2 years. They're both in Norway with their mom, and her new boyfriend (whom she bought a house with). My wife loves my kids as well, so this works out great. I want more kids, but in the future - when my business is not taking 90% of my time.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:37 AM
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I agree about the ego stroking as this bothers me. We're here to share information, and knowledge - not to have a pissing contest. Having your ego boosted by your hard work, and accomplishments is far more rewarding.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:36 AM
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Congratulations, You are on the path of a successful man, just the lessons you have mentioned will put any man in the top 20%. You seem a like a much better version of yourself. Absolutely - and this is what amazes me so much. 80% of what I learned to make me who I am has had it's roots from something I've read here on TRP. The amount of amazing information to be found here is astounding. And I agree 100% on financials. I stay away from "normal" investments as I focus on my business, but in retu…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:32 AM
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I wrote on a comment below and I agree with you as well as Whisper - I'm going to keep the concept of freeze-out in mind, but adjusting it to give a "nothing bothers me, and I'm still happy regardless of whether I fucked you or not" attitude. What interests me the most about it is the psychology behind it - being nonchalant while not giving her attention seems like an amazing technique as it'll make her want to please you, and the next time you meet - she may be aware that if she puts up LMR, sh…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:13 AM
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About playing on the phone, I doubt I'd do that since I'd rather use my time on other plates or just to work and I do agree it come across as childish. But the overall concept which Whisper presented is something I've done before without being aware of it and it does work when done right. But here - not ALL of what whisper said will always apply, like a lot we read on TRP, you need to adjust techniques for the situation you're in. There is a very fine balance between outcome independence/not-car…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:09 AM
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Wow, I've heard things that add up to this on TRP but I've never seen it so well put, nevertheless the "freezeout" name attached to it. I agree that as you describe it would have been a much better way to handle it. How would a girl normally react to a freezeout?
/r/askTRP17/04/15 11:47 PM
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I'm getting married in a few weeks - and my girlfriend and I have an open relationship where we're both allowed to be with girls (no guys involved for her or I). I had also thought about the wedding ring thing, but I assumed most girls would have either felt bad, or not be interested because they couldn't have you permanently either way? Could you give some examples on how you make best use of the ring?
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:49 AM
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The 3 things I'd have done differently are these: 1: I noticed that I get better responses asking for their "viber" or "whatsapp" instead of their number. 2: I'd have asked directly for her viber, instead of asking if she'd give it to me if I asked. 3: When she "rejected" you the first time - stop trying to force it on her, just drop the subject. What I found works nice for me is if they reject to meet, either change the topic to something different - or ignore her for a while then send an unrel…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:18 PM
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Holding frame and not putting up with bullshit doesn't only apply to women you're sexually attracted to, it applies to ALL women in your life, specially those very close to you such as your mother. Frame, and TRP theory isn't something which you can turn ON/OFF depending on who you're with - it's a state of mind which should become so ingrained into your mentality, that it becomes as natural as speech.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 05:08 PM
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I doubt that they truly see themselves as beautiful - they must know they're full of shit, and not fooling anyone. When it comes to attractiveness, I'll always vote with my dick. And my dick sure as hell is not casting any votes on those lard lickers.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:23 PM
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Ohh, I want to add an entry to that show: http://i.imgur.com/WLpoapO.gif
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:28 PM
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I mean who would fall for this stuff? Really makes you glad to have found TRP, and have the ability to see through this, doesn't it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:50 PM
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I'll add that "Russian roulette" is a pretty good way to describe it as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:10 AM
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I agree completely, it's an awful feeling. Even when I use condoms before, I became extremely paranoid - it's gotten better as time went on and I've seen that I've been fine, but there is still a nagging feeling in my head every time.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:03 AM
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While I agree it would feel good to bareback plates when you're shooting blanks either way - I'd still be very concerned about STDs. Part of the whole idea of a plate is that while you can fuck other girls - she's not chained to you either, and if she's letting you fuck her bareback, there's a good chance you're not the only one she's letting fuck her bareback. Either way, aside from that concern, I like your train of thought. I'm sure you'll have quite a bit of fun using this to your advantage!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:15 AM
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Ahh, that's actually hard to say. Both countries are "just as bad", but Bulgaria is a lot safer than Brazil though. On the other hand, Brazil does have amazing weather, and depending on where you live - world famous beaches. For IT businesses, I'd say Bulgaria is better as the tax rate is low - but on the other hand, Brazil is also an emerging economy. It really depends a lot on what someone wants - because Bulgarian and Brazil have quite a bit in common, and a lot of things which are the polar …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:11 PM
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That's the point of all of this that I'm saying - to avoid high taxes, legally.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:57 AM
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Well, I'm from Brazil - and it's easy to see I'm mixed white/black. The only negative comments I've had are from people who don't know me and are jealous of the lifestyle I have here. Here is pretty Ok, to be honest. Russia (specially St.Petersburg and Moscow) is a place I'd never touch with a 70km pole though.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:29 PM
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Problem is if the company does not have any actual activity, you can still be fucked on that as they will claim that your company has no purpose other than being a tax shelter.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:23 PM
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Ofcourse, the name is Aidos. They have an office in Sofia, they are very competent and they speak very well English. Here is their website: aidosbg.com
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:22 PM
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I agree with your worry and that's precisely why I keep most of my money (after taxes, of course) in my western bank accounts.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:57 PM
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It's not just about the bank account - if you transfer money to a bank account in your own name, instead of an actual functioning company - not only is it highly highly illegal, it's also very easy to track and prosecute you for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:54 PM
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The differences between women is something I noticed between here and in North-Western Europe (Scandinavia). The "sluts" here have a lower partner count that in Scandinavia, the girls (the ones I meet at least) are less stuck-up than Scandinavian girls, and here they're less likely than Scandinavian girls to sleep without any strings attached. The girls here are also a lot more accepting of the role a man, and a woman have in a relationship, and as in Scandinavia, men and women more or less are …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:18 PM
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Depends, because when I came here I had no friends, no knowledge (aside that Sofia was the capital), I only knew the name of another city - and I managed everything perfectly fine. So - if you're someone who learns quick, you'll do just fine. If you're too used to a comfortable life where everything is put into place for you, then it's best to be more prepared. The main things that you need are these: 1: An apartment 2: Foreign income 3: A good accounting company. To get an apartment, I could gi…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:40 AM
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If you live in the European Union - it's very easy to do as I have, and legally funnel your foreign-earned money to a tax-haven like Bulgaria, where wives/exes have no chance in hell of getting it (isn't corruption great?) - and ofcourse, enjoy the flat 15% tax regardless of income. Plus, Bulgarian women blow Western Women out of the water - and no one here would allow the feminism bullshit to spread. It's cheap as hell here, and you need very little to live a very, very good lifestyle. So I don…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:13 AM
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I only heard from someone else that works with him is that he's annoyed, and is trying to find another way to do it without me - but I know he's out of options. He's too damn stubborn to simply apologise for making threats though, and he needs me far more than I need him - so i'll let him be.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 04:39 PM
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I agree with you - and I noticed that after taking the red pill, it has affected the way I do business extremely much. One Point I'd like to add is this: It makes you less prone to, and less accepting of bullshit from clients/partners Taking the pill made it so I don't put up with customers who are difficult, irrational, or if they're trying to play hard to get. I'm a lot quicker to tell a client that I will not be working with him anymore - and this in turn has not only gained me respect from t…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:22 PM
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Where/how doe dark triad love-bombing differentiates itself from the "beta romance"?
/r/askTRP08/03/15 10:08 AM
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Amazing points and thanks for the reply - it's nice to hear that I won't shoot myself in the foot for just being talkative, hah.
/r/seduction07/03/15 12:41 AM
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Agreed - long conversations are fun but it's important to keep in mind that you want a date, and escalate things from there. My theory though, is that the more a girl talks to you (within a certain limit) she becomes more comfortable with you, making it easier for you to get dates, and escalate - what has been your experience in regards to this?
/r/seduction06/03/15 11:51 PM
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I'm curious, do you think this has hurt or helped you? Because I seriously love long text or phone conversations - specially with Viber, and the conversations are ALWAYS very interesting and lively for both parts. But I constantly read to keep text/calls short, so I'm stuck.
/r/seduction06/03/15 11:08 PM
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Thing is, a lot of the people here who have a more or less redpill agree, and keep in mind all of which he said. The problem is with those who still haven't taken control of their lives - they'll come to this post, see what he wrote, become motivated for the next day or two, then back to normal. Those points are extremely important, and I admire his stoicism - but to those of you reading who haven't taken control of your life yet - remember that reading some post on the internet won't do shit fo…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:56 PM
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I hope she doesn't. OP did an amazing job teaching her that beggars can't be choosers.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 02:22 PM
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This is similar to what I do as I get very involved into conversations - but how do you do this without them putting you into "boyfriend-zone"? And I'd love to know any specifics which you do that gives you good results.
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They don't know each other because I find them in very different places - but some of them have boyfriends (and won't talk), and where I'm currently living (Bulgaria) - being a slut is a very bad thing - so things don't spread that fast. Although I do fuck up sometimes forgetting which is which and I message the wrong girl on Viber, hah. I'm really curious as to what they talk about though. My first guess is that the friends of the girls I've been with know the size of my dick?
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That's the thing - it's the women that I DO sleep with that call me a womanizer. Another thing though, I'm actually not that comfortable with kino - I'm really just a good conversationalist and I know when to escalate sexually - so it's not really a "series of steps" that I follow. Men tend to like me really just as quickly as women because of this - just non-sexually. But either way - how can I keep doing what I do without giving them the impression that I am a womanizer then?
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I texted her back and said I wasn’t digging her vibe from that day and that I’m making other plans instead Next time don't bother to tell her you're going to stop seeing her, it makes you sound butthurt. As soon as she starts showing that she's not interested, just cut all contact, and if she's interested, she'll contact you.
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This is the issue though, that you're trying to plan what you should/shouldn't do based on a certain event. My question to you is, do you want to hang out with her? Keep in mind though, that sometimes it is a good idea to ignore someone for some time, but the end goal is always to send a message. By telling her to calm down, then call you - as well as ignoring this event, you've sent your message. Subtly.
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Honestly, I'd ignore it. Not ignore HER, but ignore the event. Show her that when she acts like this, she won't get any reaction out of you, and she won't have anything to gain. It was good that you told her to not call you until she was calm, as this will show that you'll not even acknowledge her when she's hysterical. I don't think there's anything wrong with ignoring her for a day or two, I just don't think this one event is even worth registering in your head as something to 'handle and take…
/r/askTRP
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I've listened to the 'short' version that lasts 11 hours 5 times total. And once to the version which is some 22 hours long. While I have a short 60 pages booklet to remind myself of the laws, there is no substitute for reading the actual book. The examples themselves which Robet Greene uses are extremely useful in drilling into your head the law itself. I highly recommend you use Audible.com and simply get an audiobook, if you are like me and dislike having to spend months reading a book.
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Perhaps i should also be the one to elaborate since I wrote the comment. Usually, when newcomers come here they have this idea that 'negging' is a good thing to do. Example, commenting on how her hairstyle makes her look like your grandmother. It may work, but I personally find it distasteful. What I do instead, is make lighter jokes somewhat at her expense, with a hidden compliment behind it. If she's looking extremely good, make a joke about how the plan for the night is to get drunk and pass …
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