Does sweet talking work? And what does it mean to be called a "womanizer"

fnordsnord · 2015-03-07T23:43:44+00:00

Well, it's been my experience that a "womanizer" is called that (by women who he's not sleeping with) when he gets all the sex he wants from hot women he doesn't have a monogamous commitment to.

James Bond is the ultimate "serial womanizer" in popular culture.

When women use the term it's almost always an insult, and they will spread it around their social circle to "protect" their friends from you.

If you're seriously sleeping with 4 girls now and have two good prospects, yer pretty much a textbook womanzier.

Oh, they find it particularly offensive when you work out a series of moves that work for you and you are able to make multiple women feel "special" with the same patter, kino, and bed-athletics.

5850s · 2015-03-08T01:46:45+00:00

Look at the suffix "ize" and how its used in other words. If you "demonize" someone its to make a demon out of them. If you "patronize" someone, its you're making a patron out of them. So to be a womanizer is someone who makes one into a woman.

Its not a bad thing, like the media would have you believe. Spin those plates, boys. Or Dread game the fuck out of your LTR

SkorchZang · 2015-03-08T04:11:25+00:00

Basically, does sweet talking and "TRP romance" work, and how can I improve it?

Hell yes! TRP is TRP, it's for the man to digest, but women in all times and ages will continue to love sweet talking womanizers.

If women call you a womanizer, that's almost as good as being called a "total asshole", it's a compliment and establishes that you know what you're doing and are imminently fuckable. Good answers include stuff like: "I only do it because you love it too much."

Steady as she goes.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-03-08T09:28:59+00:00

Yes, but if you have strong underlying dark triad traits.

"Love bombing" at the start of a relationship is a common tactic of abusers/sociopaths who are grooming their next potential victim.

nomad-oz · 2015-03-08T09:40:03+00:00

I've been called woman whisperer and smooth. I thought it was my ability to seduce almost any type of woman. From Femi-Nazi, Businesswomen, Housewives, Princesses, Bitches and Bimbos. Like the Stuart Townsend character in the movie About Adam.

I don't sweet talk them as such, I take a genuine interest in them. I want to get to know you better first Get them comfortable. Ask questions about them. Especially about how it makes them feel. Tune in to them. Build an intimate knowledge. you understand their feelings. Work the emotional connection Massage their ego to Dismantle their defensive shield. Allay their fears, Guide them, Gaslight to different mood or amplify.

My mates say I hypnotize them.

aguy01 · 2015-03-08T17:52:40+00:00

'Womanizer' is a great thing that you should want women to spread about you. It's code for 'Alpha Fucks'.

You can be jokingly sweet in a push/pull kind of way and it works great. That's actually what is recommended here. Give your girls a wide range of emotion. Make her think 'Why is he such an asshole when I know he loves me so much?'

Title	Does sweet talking work? And what does it mean to be called a "womanizer"
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Date	March 7, 2015 11:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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