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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Side chick doesn’t want it anymoreCut contact, move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Dumped LTR of 6 monthsYou should continue to ignore this person and move on with your life. The fact that you are asking this question in this forum tells us that you are more invested in her than she is in you. . When they say they need space, make them feel like Neil Armstrong. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 16 | Girl HARD rejected me and it’s really hard to deal withShe is not into you. Find another one and leave this one alone. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling shit since I've stopped training, What can i do? (Sports injury).Anything is better than nothing. I find running to be high impact and hard on my joints. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Feeling shit since I've stopped training, What can i do? (Sports injury).Talk to your doctor and find out if you can go to the gym anyway, and work on your legs and torso. And swim. Swimming is not lifting, but it's low-impact, easy on the joints, good for your cardio, and better than just turning into a potato. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 02:18 PM |
| 10 | Ended it with a girl a while back, just want some opinions.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Is meeting up to sell a thing and flirt creepy?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Shemale that I'm working with wants to have sexdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl in a relationship fucks me without my knowledge of a boyfriendYou don't make it clear here if you are the kind of guy who cares if he pissing upstream of where another dude is drinking, or not. From the context, I'm guessing you're not sure. So decide if you care. Going forward, if she's cheating with you, she's disqualified herself for LTR status. The best she's going to get now is FWB status. I'm not sure why you would care about showing value if you decide to ghost. What do you care what she thinks your relative value is if you're dumping her. So - what… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What's the next step? What should I prevent?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 09:27 PM |
| 10 | Threesome problemsdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts? Did my Sister in Law expose herself as a gold digger?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 3 | How to keep a girl interested over long distances?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How to not make them say one word responses?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts? Did my Sister in Law expose herself as a gold digger?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Life absolutely sucks and I feel like I want outdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to be alpha and in love?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:36 PM |
| 16 | Life absolutely sucks and I feel like I want outdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Working on a cruise shipdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Confronted about dreaddeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:18 PM |
| 13 | Asked girl on date, all of a sudden “got class”?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with let’s just be friends shit testdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Ex-GF (cheater) says she wants a couple of her items back from my place. I don't want to meet with her nor see her again. What do I do? So far I haven't replied her message as I ghosted her ever since we broke up.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Need help with loose skindeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 4 | For those of you in LTR's, do you keep a side chick?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Shave/Trim legs?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Girl asks if I'm OK after ignoring her a few days?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Need help with loose skindeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover an LTR after cheating is exposed?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 03:31 AM |
| 12 | LTR never initiates sexdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Is it possible to recover an LTR after cheating is exposed?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Did i mess up somewhere?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:33 PM |
| 0 | How long do you evaluate a potential LTR for?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Roommates or no Roommates?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I Get ghosted often, how do i learn from this one ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Sister is getting laid a lot and brother is clueless... how often does this happen?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Daughter won't stop going to criminaldeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Hard Dread or Hard Next my LTR?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Hard Dread or Hard Next my LTR?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Hard Dread or Hard Next my LTR?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 34 | Girlfriend posted a pic of her shoulder-riding another dude on instagram. How should i confront?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Help Me Brainstorm a Response to Flakey Girldeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | This girl that knows I used to like her wants me to admit I liked herdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Friendzoned?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Need help brothers!deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:42 PM |
| -8 | What is the best response to "Why aren't you paying for my meal? Are you not a gentleman?"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Broke down in front of LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I (18M) deal with an emotional and controlling mother?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Ask both?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Broke down in front of LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Broke down in front of LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Broke down in front of LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:32 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop being an orbiter?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 3 | If I travel with a woman for an extended amount of time do I run the risk of cohabitation/family law issues from accidentally "creating a household?"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:54 PM |
| 21 | A plate I have not spoken to in a week calls and tells me how she tried to give head to some guy?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Ask both?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:48 PM |
| 101 | Broke down in front of LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Is touching always an IOI?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | When I’m drunk, I can fully utilize TRP, is that odd?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 24 | Men here with a succesful LTR? Discuss!deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Playing hard to get vs leading me ondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:59 PM |
| 42 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Isnt it a little hypocritical to criticize women hypergamy while encouraging plating women and discouraging LTRs?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 12:59 AM |
| 11 | Every time I touch a woman im afraid of sexual assault.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Plate doesn’t think that it will go ondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | If there was little escalation but you got her digits, is there a next best move?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Plate doesn’t think that it will go ondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain iron rule of tomassi #8deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Is it toxic to not have abundance and only having one girl you plate?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Do I even bother replying to this text?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Friend here, Friend Here! Shit test or Next?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Cancel her contract?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | What does TRP say about having kids?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:24 PM |
| 21 | Accused of Assaultdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Borderline Personality Disorderdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend immediately stopped texting and snapping me after moving into her dormdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Scared to have sex?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | A let's just friends rejectiondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 03:33 AM |
| 3 | A let's just friends rejectiondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Quick advice: Dating girl for 4 months, she’s already withdrawing.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Quick advice: Dating girl for 4 months, she’s already withdrawing.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Quick advice: Dating girl for 4 months, she’s already withdrawing.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Are these situation “shitting where you eat”?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 02:27 PM |
| 10 | Texting stopped immediately after she left for college.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Opinions on sleeping separately from GF?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:10 PM |
| 3 | A little advice from you guysdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:09 PM |
| 6 | How do i approach this scenario?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up (long distance), suggested no contact, but she is suggesting to fly here to talk. I worry she may self harm. What to do?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Should you ever question and ask "Why?" or for a reason when a woman completely ghosts you?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | It won't happen again, I'm taken.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:00 PM |
| 7 | I can't flirt with a girl when a friend or someone I know is close. Is that normal?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Just broke up (long distance), suggested no contact, but she is suggesting to fly here to talk. I worry she may self harm. What to do?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Should Trpers chase or game women who aren't intresteddeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Things you wish you did in college/things I shouldn’t skimp ondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Need some advicedeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Do you ditch women that seem mentally unstable?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Need some advicedeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:03 AM |
| 3 | [15M] I killed all sexual tension with a girl that was interested in me. How can I get it started again?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Reinitiate contact helpdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Shit Test?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Request for advicedeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Shit Test?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with depression?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:48 PM |
| 18 | Got schooled by an alpha - interesting discoverydeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | I just need someones damn opinion before I take this plunge.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 08:13 PM |
| 0 | What are some common things women do to lock a man into commitment?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 08:11 PM |
| 3 | She wanna be my frienddeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Women with headphonesdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:08 PM |
| 0 | What are some common things women do to lock a man into commitment?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:06 PM |
| 9 | Do you plate older women?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | If AWALT could you explain these long celebrity marriages?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Why you dont talk whats the best answer on this shit test guysdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | me (31m) and my LTR (24F) Guy is flirting with her at work.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I get better than her ex? [Dilemma]deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Reinitiate contact helpdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:09 PM |
| 6 | me (31m) and my LTR (24F) Guy is flirting with her at work.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:05 PM |
| 10 | Taking a break? LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Realistically, how much shit should I be focusing on at once?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:01 PM |
| 5 | FR: My first time at a strip clubdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Why no posts on polygamy?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle STDs?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle STDs?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 02:08 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys handle STDs?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with your LTR's previous sexual experiences?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | "Bad Texter"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:06 PM |
| 3 | How are so many people okay with their partners having such high N counts?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:00 PM |
| 4 | How do you differentiate between the advice from LARPers vs. the guys who actually know their shit?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:58 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with "binary question" traps and other fallacies that people use?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 01:28 PM |
| 8 | Why do old men go full nude in changing rooms?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 03:28 AM |
| 6 | How do I keep Plates as plates and from finding out about one another?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | In an open relationship. Do I tell my girl about other girls?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 01:13 PM |
| 3 | The girl who rejected me last year tries to get my attentiondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How old are you?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 02:00 AM |
| 8 | How old are you?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Move on or hold on, what would you dodeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Do I admit I am a virgin?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Soft next lead to crazy/ego reactiondeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How does the red pill fit into marriage?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Do women ever admit to cheating ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | When is it shitting where you eat?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | When is it shitting where you eat?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Difficult Situation with LTRdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:58 PM |
| 65 | Do many women flirt with the idea of threesomes to lure you in with sexuality then close that door because they wanted a serious relationship the entire time?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Girl says shes not sure if she likes me? Time to ghost? How do i react?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 02:53 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a rude, insulting, entitled feminist woman with a superiority complex?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:21 PM |
| 8 | How to handle a rude, insulting, entitled feminist woman with a superiority complex?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:36 AM |
| 6 | When can allow myself to get pussy?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 08:27 PM |
| 14 | Should I have sex with ex-gf that cheated on me?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Best way to handle when gf is mad at you?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 06:21 PM |
| 3 | being paledeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Having children without being marrieddeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:41 PM |
| 13 | Beta friend believes having more female friends will increase his chances in finding a hookupdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:37 PM |
| 9 | Got my First "Im busy but ill let you know" text.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:07 AM |
| 24 | Ex LTR Begging For My Returndeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Ex LTR Begging For My Returndeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:08 AM |
| 69 | My Gf gets hit on a lot at her waitress job, a lot of dudes are giving her their numbers how do I responddeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | GF of 5 year's cheated and not sure how to handle it .deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | When she asks about the soft next?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 08:20 PM |
| 21 | When she asks about the soft next?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What would you guys do ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 2 | To What Extend "Don't Shit Where You Eat" Applies?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How long do you usually keep your plates before they break?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:24 AM |
| 3 | ex LTR texts me before bed now I can sleepdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:23 AM |
| 6 | ex LTR texts me before bed now I can sleepdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Did I hold frame with ex?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:20 AM |
| 7 | When did reddit become so fucking sensitive?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 08:13 PM |
| 14 | GF of 5 year's cheated and not sure how to handle it .deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do all women have boyfriend who is richer than herself?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:25 PM |
| 175 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I confront my friend? I suspect envy because of high SMVdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Left the friendzone I’ve been in for 2 years, she’s coming over tonight. How to properly seduce her?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Should I show her jealousy?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:22 PM |
| 6 | How did I handle this?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think an acceptable N-count is for a girl at the end of college?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:17 PM |
| 7 | “We can’t make plans because I’m talking to someone” shit testdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Whats's happening in the westdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever a time to verbalize boundaries?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Whats's happening in the westdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 07:41 PM |
| 8 | judgement calldeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 07:26 PM |
| 18 | Been an online beta orbiter with oneitis for 7 years, I want revenge, help?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:41 PM |
| 4 | How big of a fuckup is ED?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Update on last few postsdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Can I get some feedback on a shit test?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Is there ever a time to verbalize boundaries?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How big of a fuckup is ED?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you trust or engage girls with purple or blue hair?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Anesthesiology, cardiology, or nephrology ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Help me understand: married girl hangs out with me and is becoming flirtydeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Anesthesiology, cardiology, or nephrology ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Anesthesiology, cardiology, or nephrology ?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Can you ever trust a girl's number (partner count)?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 4 | What is frame and how to hold it?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Plate blocked me on Instagram for seemingly no reason - can I get some feedback/advice?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do girls send out IOI's on purpose? Or is it just an instinct?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Can you ever trust a girl's number (partner count)?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:35 PM |
| 52 | My ex-wife has gone off the deep end as a result of my transformation. Has this broken her monkey-branching calculations? Are there any resources for this? I can't seem to find any other examples of this question being asked.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 07:06 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys think an acceptable N-count is for a girl at the end of college?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 11:12 PM |
| 2 | If people shit test weakness why do low value men act hostile and shit test higher value men?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Rearrange cancelled date or next?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Reach out or wait for response.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill Virgin Orbiter NEEDS Help - Is she genuinely not ready for sex or what?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Continue on dread game or nextdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | "YOU ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, not like other guys, I don't know what DRAWS ME TO YOU"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | She asked me "Are you angry with me?"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Should you judge your plate based on the guys she's been with before you, or it's a non issue?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:58 PM |
| 3 | "YOU ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, not like other guys, I don't know what DRAWS ME TO YOU"deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test? Girl Postpones Halfway Through Conv.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you are wrong?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you are wrong?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 3 | What to do when you are wrong?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test? Girl Postpones Halfway Through Conv.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 08:59 PM |
| 7 | LTR mad at me for menial action, how long does it take for them to get over it?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 6 | What to do when you are wrong?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | New to TRP, what are your thoughts on this girl?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 05:28 PM |
| 14 | LTR said she wants to "have drinks" with an old friend.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Help with a slut.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Feeling apprehensive about keeping this plate. Need advice.deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to really be friends with your ex plate who ultimately LJBFed youdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:36 PM |
| 7 | How can you tell which bucket (AF/BB) a girl you are starting to date is placing you in?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:29 AM |
| 10 | What do you do /response when a plate starts playing gamesdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How long till second date?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:49 PM |
| 39 | Chick clearly denied we had sexdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Im still pretty blue pill but I’m trying to change. I’m trying to get over my oneitis and the girl reached out to me for the first time in almost two months. Here’s what I said, what could I have done betterdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Question about plate with mental problemsdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:28 PM |
| 10 | What do you do /response when a plate starts playing gamesdeleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:27 PM |
| 5 | How long till second date?deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:27 PM |
| 4 | I don't understand where I went wrong w/ 34yr old HB8deleted What is this? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand where I went wrong w/ 34yr old HB8Large markets like NY, LA, and Chicago have old-people clubs. They're like normal clubs, but the music's oldies, the booze is more expensive, and the drugs offered by the dealers in the bathrooms are retro rather than cutting edge. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Our top news in my country is about the model Mara Martin breastfeeding, What is your guys opinion on breastfeeding at public place.Uh huh. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Is it completely beta to take a girl back if it means going on a really cool trip to Rio De Janiero, Brazil?Oh, she is. She is. Cask yourself if you can go to Rio on a trip with her, have a good time, and then maintain the status quo. She's gonna ply you with her best game, liquor, and sex in an effort to lock you down. Do you have the rock solid game and emotional discipline to remain a player under those circumstances? Maybe you'll get lucky and she's just planning to harvest your organs. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | "Are you asking or telling" Good response?Me? No. But there will be plenty of voices that, even with the emoticon, will say that making an offering to her is supplicative and beta. I think it's adequate, but wouldn't be my go-to. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Is it completely beta to take a girl back if it means going on a really cool trip to Rio De Janiero, Brazil?Have you seen the tickets? Or is she trying to suck you into coming back for the trip so she can turn around and dump you? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone ever take a week off from the Gym?SHORT ones. No longer than a conventional vacation, and no more than twice a year. And stay active during your deload weeks. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Do plates always eventually want a relationship or something more?Well, that's fair, given that if you're plating a girl, you pretty much ARE stringing her along and using her for sex. You can't keep spinning 'em forever. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Do plates always eventually want a relationship or something more?No. Some of them find someone else, and break it off. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:13 PM |
| 3 | "Are you asking or telling" Good response?There are a number of options here without yielding frame. Ignore. Make an irrelevant dumb joke, pun, or link to a funny picture. Make her decide. "What do you think?" Don't respond, and make alternate plans if she doesn't show. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Our top news in my country is about the model Mara Martin breastfeeding, What is your guys opinion on breastfeeding at public place.I think that any exchange of body fluid is intimate, and should be done in relative private. But I also know better than to say that out loud in public. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Body language IOIs?It's not that finely nuanced. Almost all of them are just saying, "notice me," and nothing more specific than that. Repeated eye contact. Touching her hair. Esp if she pulls it away from here eyes, face. Knees facing you. Knees slighty apart. Legs crossed, but at ankles. Arched back. Anything the presents breasts or butt. Moistens lips And the reverse: Denied eye contact. Arms crossed/ puts on sweater or jacket. Legs crossed at knee. Turns away | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:08 PM |
| 16 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?You ARE in control of the situation. What you are NOT in control of is HER. And you never were. You can only control YOURSELF and how you react to what goes on. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I made other plans when a plate took a while to respond - feel bad now - do I need to do any sort of damage control?No. Say nothing at this point. You MIGHT consider waiting until the next day to make other plans. But women LIVE with their phones in their hands. No way she didn't see it quicker than that. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how to handle my weirdly behaving grilfriend anymoreOkay - whenever a woman says she needs "time," I give her until the heat-death of the Universe. Go radio silent until she reaches out. Do not discuss the other guy, what she does, what she's doing, whats she's done, or what she's going to do. Because it won't change any of that, and it will make you look weak. Open other women. Do not ask them out yet, but talk to all the girls you know. The prettier the better. Do you have access to any of her friends? Talk to them. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?She may not be into you. She may just be getting off on the attention/validation you are giving her. Women do this, especially if they can do it without effort. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | My current plate is really into me, I decided I'm moving to another countryBe straight with her: You're leaving at the end of the summer. Do NOT discuss long term at ALL. Just enjoy the summer. Then break up at the end of the summer. "I care for you a LOT. And maybe there's a future for us. But I'm going to be away a long time, and I CANNOT ask you to wait for me. We can stay in touch, and maybe there will be something for us when I return." | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:48 PM |
| 12 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?She's gaming you. She's trying to give you enough interest to get you to chase her. Mind you, she may want you to chase her, not CATCH her. My advice stands. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:46 PM |
| 16 | What Response Should I Give After "I am Sorry, I behaved wrong." type of message?Since you are not in town, you are not in a position to use this leverage really well. I'd go with something slightly conciliatory. "S'ok. I figured." | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:45 PM |
| 16 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?Go radio silent. Game other women until she reaches out, and she may not. If she does, game as usual. Do not "discuss" this incident. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How true is the 'only for logistics' rule?TRP rules are advice and guidance. While All Women Are Like That in that they are driven by the same instinctive imperatives, it is expressed in unique and individual ways. I went to a liberal arts college one year. No football team. But I still met Chad Thundercock. He was about 5' 11" tall, and skinny. Fucker wore a black turtle neck all the time, and a goddamn beret. One of those squashy, floppy french felt hats. And he CLEANED UP on poon. He was a nationally published poet and had won a coup… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate on a boat?Check the weather. Be aggressive about not slipping the dock lines if it looks like a squall is rolling in. Nothing is LESS romantic than trying to manage a party barge in sideways rain or 20-kt winds. Check your fuel level. Do NOT head out without full tanks, or at LEAST a clear understanding of what your range is. Find out if she can swim. If not, be prepared for a water rescue. Make sure your running lights, radio, fire extinguisher, and flares are in order. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Old Plate said we were just friends and doesnt wanna do stuff anymore the other day. Today she asked to have lunch but she clarified it was strictly friends.Go radio silent until she reaches out, then game as usual. If you get the stiff-arm, smile, be polite, and remember that you have to be somewhere in a half-hour. Leave. Go radio silent until she reaches out. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP. Need advice on a situationGo non-contact as much as possible. Game other women. When you must deal with this woman, treat her like your mom's best friend: somebody you need to get along with, but have NO sexual interest in. If you ever had a shot with this one, you've blown it. Find one that's into you. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How long do you wait to invite plate againFor best effect, withhold contact for 3 days, then set up a meet. The meet should be that day or the next one. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Does a chick ever actually lose sexual attraction?Memory is a strong aphrodisiac. But it's not everything. If they though you were hot 30 years ago, they will be disposed to think you're hot. But if you're fat, unemployed, and living in your mother's basement, you will have squandered your high-school hotness. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed after plate discussionIf you stick to messages like, "Meet my at my place at 9PM," you don't have to deal with that. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Ask women subYes. It "doesn't count." It doesn't count because she was drunk, and wouldn't have made that decision sober. It's his fault. It doesn't count because she was on vacation, she'll never see the dude again, and besides, her boyfriend was being a jerk via text that day. It doesn't count because it was "just a blowjob." It doesn't count because anal can't get you pregnant, and that's the important thing. And that's just what I can think of off of the top of my head. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Advice on Long Distance situationLDR's suck. And in 40 years, I've NEVER seen them work except under ONE circumstance: There's already marriage/commitment AND the LDR is for limited duration. Like a military deployment, a circuit on a oil rig at sea, or something like that. Break up amicably, and offer to get back together if she ever moves back to town and you're still available. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed after plate discussionMaintain radio silence until she reaches out. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | "Ask me something else" how tf would you reply?Go radio silent until she reaches out. Game other women in the meantime. Women who are attracted to you do not behave this way. She's giving you JUST enough attention to keep you interested. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I left a girl on read because she wouldn’t reply till after the time of our arranged date. Should I have sais something even if it meant double texting? Or was just NEXT the thing to do?Never double text. Maintain radio silence until she reaches out. In the meantime, game other women. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I have escalated when she wanted to see my room?What they hell are you doing spending THAT much time analyzing your own face? Dude, I dunno what's up with you, but that ain't normal. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | I think I am doing the right thingWhat do you want? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Accused of cheating by LTRGosh, for a girl concerned about YOU cheating, SHE seems to know a LOT of guys. Just, y'know, sayin'. Your best response is to break up. I shit you not. If she doesn't trust you by now, she's not ever going to. This is going to KEEP coming up. "I"m sorry. If you don't trust me by now, there's nothing I can do to change that. I'm calling it quits before you hate me." Then go zero contact and game other women. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says "[she isn't] interested" is it okay to ask for feedback?No. It's a waste of time. She won't have a rational reason that you can "fix" and come back and engage her interest. And she doesn't want you doing that. She wants to go away. The fact is that she doens't know why you don't "do it" for her. She just knows you don't. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks if I like her?Saying what? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Where is the best place to learn to fight?Pistol range. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain Resistance for Oneitis?No, she's not. You've painted an image of her in your head that's ignoring her flaws. You should go zero contact and pursue other women, because this one is going to cause you nothing but pain. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | 23y GF and I (22m) havent has sex in 2 months. What to do?Why? So she'll promise to put out if you'll stay? She'll either break the promise and continue to bury you in excuses, or she'll keep it, and you'll be the "guy who blackmailed her into sex." You can't negotiate attraction. And she's not attracted to you. Next. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience on gaming gang girls?Mom always hated basements. She felt that they were always damp, and were a haven for mold and mildew. Accordingly, she always selected houses with crawlspaces or slab foundations. So I never really had a chance to develop the skill. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | 23y GF and I (22m) havent has sex in 2 months. What to do?Leave her. "I'm sorry. You're great. But I'm just not feeling it any more. It's not fair to either of us." Then ghost. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you convince a girl to stop holding out for an alpha that will never LTR her?What you see as bs, they feel as excitement and emotional stimulation. I remember a movie from mah yoot wherein an attractive, wealthy young man is spurned so that she can shack up with a flat-broke sax player that she KNOWS she has no future with. She is self aware enough to acknowledge this fact and state that "he's exciting." And that's the thing: the alpha they are holding out for gives them the tingles, and that's all there is too it. EVen if you could make them see that, it would be irrele… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you convince a girl to stop holding out for an alpha that will never LTR her?You don't. You can't logic a woman into anything. Move on to a woman who is interested in YOU. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What changes after the young years in a man's life, in terms of work, relationships, friendships?A man becomes an adult when he no longer has to depend on people, but instead has become someone other people can depend upon. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Some tips before starting college.The biggest thing to learn about going off to college at an 18-year-old freshman is that it's now ON YOU. There will be nobody there to dynamite you out of bed and make you go to class. The prof won't really care if you're there or not for the lecture. If you don't show, it's on you. The only person who will tell you to eat right and get enough exercise will be YOU. The only person to tell you not to drink that fifth beer will be YOU. And if you wash out, don't finish, or flunk, it will be ON YO… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | just broke up with my 1st gfStay busy. Physically if you can manage it. Free weights. Pickup basketball. Raquetball. Indoor rock climbing. Whatever your thing is. Avoid video games. They distract, but they don't physically work the body, and that's part of what you need. Spend time with your homeboys, but don't talk about women. Watch "the game." Drink beer. (Not too much.) Work with your hands. Learn to operate power tools. Tune up a car. Whatever is your thing should occupy both your mind AND your hands and challenge you… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Public encounter during freeze outMake eye contact. Smile. Make the absolute minimum of small talk. Then find a reason to go away. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What is your experience on gaming gang girls?I dunno. What's your experience in putting your dick on an anvil and inviting people to hit it with a hammer? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting her to dress betterOh yeah. 26 years so far. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Returning Plates StuffBox it up. Ship it with a tracking number so that you can prove it was delivered. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Plate seeking more attentionNo, do not disagree with her points. Ignore them. You can't logic a woman. What do YOU want? What is your ideal outcome? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?You don't get to date two besties at once. Pick one and game her. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I need help, she has a boyfriend but is showing lots of promise.News flash, little brother: If they're hot, they have a boyfriend. He may be "casual" or just the one that stands tallest out of the pack, but a hot girl will never, every answer the question "do you have a man" with anything other than, at best, a qualified, "yes." Ignore this and game her as usual. But bear in mind that a woman who will cheat WITH you will cheat ON you. She's plate material. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Getting her to dress betterUp your own game. Women hate standing next to a man who has out-dressed them. My wife HATES it when I break out a tailor-made suit. Because "now I have to 'dress up.'" She, too, is all about "comfy." | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How to curb porn when at home?It's your dick. Touch it when you choose to. Or not. But if spanking the bishop is hurting other parts of your life and you need help curbing the habit: avoid situations where you have the time, privacy, and bandwidth. Get out of your room, out of your house, and in the company of other people. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Is liking their Instagram photos, validating them?I . . . You . . . What . . . ? In what universe is "liking" something in ANY context not validating the action and the person who took it? Yes, of COURSE it's validating them. It's giving approval. It's illustrating that they are attractive enough to you for you to spend your time looking at them. Little brother, how is this even a question? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Help understanding the 'unspoken'First, share with me a Red Pill truth that you think you're not supposed to talk about. Pick one. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl blames her parents for not being able to go on dateNext. A girl who wants to be with you will make an effort to be with you, not make excuses. Bonus: At 19 she's been an adult (in all Western jurisdictions) for a least a YEAR. Making this not merely an excuse, but a bullshit excuse. So - next. Block, unfollow, delete, and chase other women. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Ex liked my instagram picI smell troll. But what the hell. First, she's your Ex. Whatever made her your ex has not changed. She is the same person she was then. Even if you rekindle that relationship the way that it was, it woudl be the same and end the same. Second, some men DO have the rock-solid game and iron discipline to "plate an ex." Hint: Guys like this do not need advice on how to handle women from an anonymous internet forum. You are NOT one of those guys. Exes know all your hot buttons, soft spots, and how to… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Advice for maintaining frameIt "looks like" you don't stand up for yourself because you DON'T stand up for yourself. Next time, just go on down the stairs and make breakfast for your son. You don't need to respond unless she's physically blocking the stairs. THen you say, "Excuse me," and slide by her. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Family and friends driving me crazy over EX.Is there a question here? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to LTR trying to make you jealous?"I know. I saw him too, in the mirror." | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | If a girls a flirt, does she shit-test guys for fun even if she's isn't attracted to them?Oh, GOD yes. Women ENJOY the flirting process. They will flirt for practice, for fun, or to try to prove that they are more attractive than whoever is nearby. ALL without ANY interest in you. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Is telling her "I've never been with an older woman before" a good thing to say?And, see, that's one of the MANY things that make it HARD. It's very situational, and why I don't recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Is telling her "I've never been with an older woman before" a good thing to say?Okay, see, phrased that way, it's a different question. This is something of a classic "neg." If you think she's getting a bit above herself, and you WANT to give her a little jab that you can laugh off, this MIGHT be something you would want to say. But proper negging is HARD. Done right, she will be a little less sure of herself, and left wanting to prove herself to you. Most guys just hurt their feelings or piss them off. So I don't generally advise negging. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What is the best foods to eat to gain weight for a skinny person but not have it go to my face and gut?No. Anybody who tells you spot reductions are possible is fooling themselves or trying to fool you. You can only reduce your body fat percentage. Spot reduction takes lipo or similar surgery. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Is telling her "I've never been with an older woman before" a good thing to say?In what universe is telling a woman she's older gonna give a positive outcome? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the best foods to eat to gain weight for a skinny person but not have it go to my face and gut?It doesn't work that way. Exercise builds muscle. Food, especially protein, provides the materials. If you just up your calorie count without the corresponding exercise, it will go to your face and gut. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | question about a girlNo, it is not. It is about right, depending on the circumstances. Not too eager, not too aloof. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | remind me again why roommate is resounding NO?This is a "shit where you eat" question. Are you prepared to walk away from your apartment at a moment's notice if things don't go your way? You do know that in most jurisdictions, she can walk into a family court judge, declare that "you make her feel threatened" and get a court order kicking you out of your home? Right? If you're banging your roommate, where are you going to bring your other girlfriends to bang? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?Think it through carefully, and make sure that it's what you want. Be aware that if she's displaying interest in your friend, she may not be commitment material. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity to me, started avoidingUs hepcats can dig his lingo. Can't you? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Plate declines plansWait at LEAST 20 minutes. Better: until tomorrow. Then, "I'll be around." | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a chance that a girl didnt unintentionally see a phone call?Holding out for an apology just makes you look butthurt. Just go zero contact until she reached out. When she asks why she hasn't heard from you, say, "Just busy with school/work/family/whatever your "thing" is. When she asks if you are mad, say, "Why? Have you done something for I should be mad about?" And, as always, game other women. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?She's a plate, not a girlfriend. Continue spinning her. Do not discuss it with your homeboy. Or, if there are feelings, offer commitment. You don't get to have it both ways. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl is all over me, but resistant to escalation?LDR's suck. She's getting her "boyfriend" fix out of you, but not crossing specific "lines" so she can be "faithful" to her LTR. You're being used, no lie. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Plate declines plans"Have fun. Hit me up when you get back." Then absolute radio silence until she reaches out. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with Ex- GF badmouthing meI want you to stop for a moment and think through what's likely to happen if you "call her out." Really. Not the BEST or most "ideal" outcome, but what's LIKELY. Picture it in your mind. Now - where is the "win" for you in that? Never, ever "call out" a woman on her behavior. Her hamster will make you the bad guy in 2.54 seconds. When you see her, be polite, smile, and be cordial. And stay as far away from her as possible without being rude. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Huge reg flag or I just overeacting?This is a huge red flag, but it's on you. Why are you so invested in a girl you aren't "officially seeing?" However: next. You need her, and she's not there for you. You CLEARLY feel this relationship WAY more than she does. Break it off, go zero contact, and chase other women. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | A lot of TRP boils down to how you go about/present/and word things you say and do. Can someone give me some examples of BP wordings and RP wordings. Like the same situations but handled differently.You give us an example, and maybe we'll try and do that for you. Don't expect us to do all the work. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to reply to this girl (she wants to postpone the date)Better yet, GET five other girls in your rotation, then hit her up when her turn comes around again in about ten days. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | OMG what next?Anybody else smell troll? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | After asking a girl that I've liked for years if she wants to hangout multiple times and finally demanding a real answer said she doesn't "know what to say" because she doesn't "know how she feels about hanging out" with me. How can I stop this from becoming "the one that got away"?She's not into you. Girls who are into you "know what to say," and they ALREADY "know how they feel about hanging out." If she were attracted to you, she would not behave this way. I'm sorry, but this is not going to change. Move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | What should I expect when getting into a fight for the first time?What you should expect from a fight: Best results: Broken knuckles and banned from a venue. Poor results: Broken knuckles, banned from a venue, arrested, assault conviction. Worst results: Dead or charged with aggrivated manslaughter. Fighting's stupid. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Was I too paranoid about the possibility of a false rape accusation here?Nothing wrong with erring on the side of caution. If your instincts are telling you "danger," listen. Given what you've said, I probalby would have gone for the lay. But I wasn't THERE. You were. So who knows. Regret-rape can derail a man's entire life. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Married woman inviting me for massageIt's just a matter of timing. I'm proposing going non-contact if you get stiff-armed again. You're proposing going non-contact now. The only difference is that I would be more prone to take one more shot at it, because: free massage. I really like a good massage. It's a character flaw. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a red pilled man to desire a healthy LTR only?I met my wife in college, in the marching band. We've been married 27 years. It took me nine months to talk my way into her pants. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Is this a broken plate?You are coming off needy. Quit chasing so hard. Do not contact until Friday. Test the waters at the event friday, but have a plan be, and disengage at teh first sign of disinterest. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Closing a lengthy gameOf course. If you think she's still interested, hit her up. And, dude, MAKE. A. MOOOOVE. You CANNOT expect the woman to do all the work. Sweet Jesus, what do you need? Landing lights? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Married woman inviting me for massageYou are affirming that she is attractive. Women like that. You are also making out. Women like that, too. Get the message, because: free massage. Then escalate. Back down a level. Escalate again. Repeat. If you continue to get the stiff arm after, 2 - 3 cycles of this, smile, thank her, kiss her good-bye, then go radio silent for 3 - 7 days or until she reaches out. But I've never yet seen a married woman announce that her husband will not be home, and invite a man over for an "innocent" massage… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you shut down “hey how was your day” texts from plates?Well, for starters, quit referring to women as "it." | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Married woman inviting me for massageA free massage is never a waste of time. Get the massage. Escalate until she objects. Back off and remain at that level for 5 - 10 minutes. Escalate again. Repeat until the ASD stops. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test? What to do?One Man's (Mine) Interpretation: (Disclaimer: I wasn't there. I don't know.) But based on what you have said: You were getting "aloof/hard-to-get." Women do this, too, just like players. She may have been trying to raise her relative perceived SMV with you. I think you were supposed to follow her around the party, trying to get her attention. That's mostly based on the fact that your mutual friend "observed" your behavior when she hadn't gotten to the party yet. Your prospect ASKED your mutual f… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Initial interaction at the bar went very well and she texted me in the morning first but stopped responding when I suggested a date, what to do next?Nothing. if you got silence after you hit her up for a date, she's not interested. ANY further action will look needy and lower your SMV. Move on to the next one, but be open for her to respond. If you MUST, wait 7 - 10 days, and hit her up for a meet again. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Gym game?I smell troll. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What does spinning plates look like from a Christian perspective?It's the same as being a player. You meet girls, charm them, date them, and withhold commitment until you are getting what you want out of them. It's just a mate-selection/vetting process. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Kind of a bait and switch how do I respond?You don't. You have a plan B. You have one or more plates you can call up at a moments notice for Netflix and chill. When you get flaked on like this, you just call your plan B. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to sleep with a good friends old ex?I think so. But some people do lose their shit over it, for reasons I do not comprehend. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | "Why are you on tinder?" How do you respond?To meet people. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation"When you see her be cordial, like you would someone who worked in a different department. Make no reference to your almost-hookup. Do not apologize or explain. Ignore it like it never happened, but do not try to hit her up again. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What financial advice would you give to a 19-year-old?So, which have you seen more often in people under thirty: careful, measured use of unsecured debt to build credit and accumulate rewards, or instant gratification that racks up debt whose interest consumes so much of their income that they can barely live after servicing their debt? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Lads, how do i kick a drug addiction?You get help. Chemical dependency is a REAL, PHYSICAL problem. Like a brain tumor or a broken leg. Good lifestyle choices can help, but addition is NOT something you can lift and positive think your way out of. See your doctor. Get a referral to a therapist. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What financial advice would you give to a 19-year-old?Debt is the life-killer. A man with a year's salary in the bank has options. A man with a year's salary on a credit card is a slave to his job. Punch anyone who offers you a credit card in the mouth. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Plate needs space. How to proceed?"Talk about what? You said you needed space. I'm trying to give you that." | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What is to best response to “Are you mad at me?” Shit test from a flirt.You put her on the defensive and she admitted that she was rude. Then she tried to flip the script and make you the bad guy 'cause you were "too harsh" when you responded to your rudeness. You tried to devalue her attack, and she counter punched, implying that you were so upset it caused you to miss school. You did fairly well here, but I think she won on points. Leave her on read for 1 - 3 days or until she reaches out, then re-engage as usual and don't mention this exchange. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Plates and "the talk"That depends on the context. If you're on a date, "Ok," change the subject, then escalate as usual. If you get the stiff arm, remember something you have to do early tomorrow, kiss her good night, and go radio silent for 1 - 3 days. Then re-engage and game as usual. If via text (why the FUCK are you having a conversation like this via text. It's stupid because it gives all advantage to her) then respond with "Ok" and wait. She'll want and expect more from you. Your response is "I said, 'Ok'. I'm… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What is to best response to “Are you mad at me?” Shit test from a flirt.That's another approach, but it's not one I favor here. As to my own approach being butthurt? Well, that depends on the OP's delivery, confidence, and abundance mentality. Properly done, instead of YOU explaining YOUR behavior, SHE ends up having to justify hers. But you can't just bring up unacceptable behavior. She's very experienced at flipping that script. SHE has to bring it up. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What is to best response to “Are you mad at me?” Shit test from a flirt."Why? Have you done something I should be mad about?" | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Next or not?No. If she was into you, she would have either blown off her dad or suggested an alternate date. This is a convenient excuse to duck you. But you can load test it. Go zero contact for no less than seven days. Then re-open and try to set up a meet. If she reaches out to YOU before the seven days are up, try to set up a meet. If you can set up a meet, game on. If you get another brush-off, next. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you differentiate yourself from other guys to seem more interesting to her?I go find one that's more interested in me. There are more. There are always more. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Plates and "the talk"Start by kicking it down the road. "Woah. We have a lot of fun together, but I feel like you barely know me. It's too soon to talk about that." | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Would you drop her?No. No. Did she have sex with me without telling me she was off the pill? If so then yes. If not, meh, probably not. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Gather Up The Balls To Ask Out A Girl In A Public Place?I always have a hard time answering this one. "I just reached down, and there they were, same place they've always been." I never, ever had trouble asking girls out. If rejected, I just moved on to the next one. If a woman rejects me, it just means that whatever she's looking for ON THAT DAY, at THIS PARTICULAR TIME IN HER LIFE isn't evident in me. It's not personal. It doesn't mean I'm a bad person, or even unattractive. She's just into into me. So I go on to the next one. There are more. There… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women used term “rape culture” wtf does that mean?"Rape Culture" is supposed to be a term that describes western, particularly American culture as a "stacked deck" that allows men to force women to have a sex whether they want to or not. One example might be the statement "because she wore a mini-skirt, lots of makeup, and high heels, he was RIGHT to assume she wanted sex." In practice, however, it is a term used to lump ANY male behavior that a woman doesn't like into the same bucket as rape, and attempt to link the two together. For example, … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Plate lied to me, advice on further actionsGo zero contact. Say nothing to her about it. Just game other women. If SHE contacts you, game as normal. If she asks you if you're mad, the response is: "Have you done something I should be mad about?" If she asks what's wrong, "Nothing, why? Should something be wrong?" And if she asks why she hasn't heard from you, "Just bzy w friends." | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meWhen a woman want's "space," make her feel like Neil Armstrong. When I woman want "time to think," give her a millennium. And when a woman wants a "break," give her a lifetime. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl telling me she's crazyOne of the few times that I will tell you to believe what a woman says: if she says she's crazy, she's crazy. Run. It's a shame. Crazy sex is some of the BEST sex. But it's never, EVER worth it. I've put my dick in crazy three times. All three times the sex was great. All three times, the sex was NOT. WORTH. IT. Run little brother, run. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody here happy they got married in the first place?Yep. Still happy, too. Closing in our thirty years. Now ask me if I'd do it today. Nope. Too dangerous. The law gives ALL power to her, none to me. I've put myself in a position where I could be really screwed over. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding "dreading""K". Nothing else. Now make other plans. And DO them. Open other women. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | "Text me when you get to town and I'll see how I feel""Nvm. Something came up." Then radio silence. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I understand most aspects of no contact, but it also seems like acting butthurt and weak, thoughts?If you are withdrawing attention to "punish" her, you'd be right. If you are, you're doing it wrong. You spending your time, money, and emotional energy on someone (or some things) that YOU want. A plate that doesn't want sex with you is a place to not spend those things. That's all. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I [M19] am trying to game an older chick [F22] that I met at a wedding. Need advice.It's a no. Girls who are into you will give you their number. "Instagram" is saying, "you're good enough to entertain me, but not good enough to date." Unfollow and game other women. This one's not interested. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Age related shit test (URGENT)That's what I would go with. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up, inappropriate comment.Omit the reference to the dare. Don't refer to future innuendo. Keep it simple. "Sorry. I was drunk and cutting the fool." | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Age related shit test (URGENT)Radio silence. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Need advice...First, do not address this over text. Make her be present and look you in the eye when she wants to bring up "The Talk." Doing this over text gives all advantage to her. Continue to deflect until she forces the point. The correct response then is actually what you've written here. "Look, I like you. I really do. And I enjoy our time together. But I also feel like I barely no you, and I am NOT ready for the next step." If she still lays down an ultimatum, tell her. "Ok. You've gotta do what you'v… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | High School Nerd Help PleaseYeah. It is. But fighting back will a) get his ass beat worse, b) get him sent to juvie, c) get him sent to the hospital for kids with bad attitudes that their parents can't handle, or d) all of the above. If he'd asked me what to do about that situation, I'd have given him different advice. But as I know dick all about the country where he lives, I'm working with what I know, and I know that raising his hands to his dad is NOT going to end well for him. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | High School Nerd Help PleaseI recommend against physically fighting your parents under almost all circumstances. Keeping your grades up is NOT a bad goal. To get better looking girls in high school you will need higher social value. What's the most popular sport in your area? Join that team and master it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with PainI am not a doctor, and diagnosis is way outside the scope of what I try to do here. But if you were my son, I would send you to consult with your doctor. Because you may need either therapy or medication. What's going on in your head is beyond what an anonymous advice column can help you address. If you are depressed, it means your brain is floating in the wrong soup. Go see your doctor. Tell him what you have said here. Because suicidal ideation is NOTHING to fuck around with. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with her crazy dad and family?I'm sorry little brother, but you're not going to find such a solution. You cannot control other people. You can only control how you respond to them. There is NOT a win for you here. Run. Failing that, good luck. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Met ExLTR - attempt to orbit me?If my initial assessment is right, she's still trying to complete the objective of the original dump: a relationship with you, but in HER frame. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Met ExLTR - attempt to orbit me?This is a really interesting read. It actually reads kind of like a fantasy of how a TRP-wannabe would WANT a breakup to go. She breaks up, and then acts more-or-less heartbroken because he maintained frame so well. This is SO perfect, I'm catching a wiff of troll. But just a wiff. So I'll bite. Normally I do NOT recommend trying to "plate an ex," but this one seems ripe for at least a couple of bangs. Game her as usual, but every time you get LMR, stop. And then LEAVE. Checks watch. "Just as we… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Married chick ivites me to "netflix and chill"No. You already know the answer. He's prohibited bangs when he's not in the room. She's invited you over when he's not around. Decide if you're willing to break his rules, and respond accordingly. Don't force her to lie to you, or to shoot you down. Go over, escalate like you would on any other days. And for her, it will have "just happened." | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Why would she be telling me this?This is an expression of interest. By telling you "the mum" thinks you would make a cute couple, she gets to gauge your interest without making herself vulnerable to rejection. Which she got anyway. But this way, she can shrug it off, because she was just telling you what someone else thought, rather than expressing her interest directly. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | When a girl isn't interestedJust so you know, those numbers are really, really low in terms of opens, contacts, and first-dates. Nothing wrong with that, but when I was actively in the game, I would open at least 3 - 4 women a WEEK and go on at least 4 dates in a month, with different girls. And I'm a low-volume guy. Your experience is typical for your stage of development. You're interested in girls with a higher SMV than you, and girls with a lower SMV are interesting in dating up. Keep practicing your Game and increasin… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | When a girl isn't interestedPretty much. There are over 2.5 billion women on the planet. If one is not into me, I move on to the next one. How many have you dated? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Ya know what else sucks about marriage?Only to a point. Yeah, sure, Lebron, Clooney, and those guys may be able to continue to date 20-something's into middle age. But time comes when, no matter HOW tight your game is, most young hotties will either be "Oh, granpa is hitting on me, how cute" or "Grandpa is hitting on me, how creepy." Sooner or later, the rest of us will fish in the 30-something pool. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | This NoFap thing is the hardest shit at 16 years of age, Is it really that necessary?If I had tried to go nofap at 16 I would have been humping the furniture by day 3. Porn is the mind-killer. Rubbing one out every other day or so at 16 won't hurt ya. But stay away from porn. I shit you not. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | hb 8 smoking with me seems intrigued, then ghostsUsed you for weed. Go radio silent for three days. Re-open her to set up a meet. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is true love nonexistent?"True love," like in the songs and stories, doesn't exist. By nature, a woman's love is driven by her instincts to get and hold onto the best man that she can get. So long as you remain the best man she feels she can get, she will love you. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Best text to ask girl out this weekend to see a movie?Don't text her. Call her voice, or better yet, see her face-to-face. Pitching woo via text is a loser's game. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl says she has mixed feelings?Pretty much Go radio silent and game other girls until she reaches out. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid answering questions when women push past an evasive answer?If a humorous dodge like yours doesn't satisfy her, I smile sincerely (as opposed to my shit-eating grin) and say, "A gentleman doesn't discuss such things. Seriously. It's private." If she CONTINUES to persist, I, again, with a smile, will say, "I thought that 'no' was supposed to mean 'no.' If you don't have to give up anal without consent, I don't have to give up my count. As to "I gave MY count," I'd respond with, "Did I ask you? That was none of my business." | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m trying to social circle game said something weirdOh,and what would I do? I'd attempt the kiss close, accept the rejection with a grin, and chase other girls. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m trying to social circle game said something weirdThis is REALLY close to "let's just be friends," which is the kiss of death. I'd isolate and escalate and then you'll be sure. But the smart money is on getting the cheek, the duck, or even "what are you doing" when you go in for the kiss-close. Be prepared for the stiff arm. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Are women a complementation to a mans life?Well, mine was my care manager and advocate when I was unconscious and my heart quit beating. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Are women a complementation to a mans life?They can be. They can also be a spirit-depleting, life-sucking resource sink. You have to vet carefully. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Help me optimize this situationYou're pretty young. You're moves are ok, but your playing them way too hard, way too big, and the colors are too bright. Call her up and set up a meet for this weekend. Mention NOTHING about what happened. Next time, don't duck her like that. Just acknowledge her and be on your way. If she tried to talk, go with, "Hey, I'm late to check in with my advisor. We'll talk later." Then don't. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Reacting negatively to flake without being beta - how did I do?"Hey, it's tayowsp. Listen, I managed to get out of that obligation. You still free?" | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Reacting negatively to flake without being beta - how did I do?The correct answer is "k" "Ok" if you're feeling verbose. You should have HAD other plans. ALWAYS have a plan B. Did you have no other plates you could call? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date that went seemingly well. Girl is less responsive now though.if she reaches out, wait 20 minutes, then respond. Try to set up a meet. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date that went seemingly well. Girl is less responsive now though.I recommend at least a 3 day wait before contacting her. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date that went seemingly well. Girl is less responsive now though.Women who are into you do not behave like this. Go radio silent for 3 - 10 days. Set up another meet and go for the kiss-close. If you get the cheek or the duck: next. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the RP community's view on nofap?It's your dong. Touch it if you want to. If you are spending the day or the week with your dong in your hand for hours at a time, you might consider cutting back. In practice, like any other pleasurable past time, it's only a problem when it has a negative impact on the rest of your life. Porn, on the other hand, messes with your brain, and you should quit it. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit testYou're over-thinking. This was an opportunity for cocky-funny and that's all. Also - something going on with the clerk? Dude. Paranoid much? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Completely lost frame?First of all, you care. Own it. Second - she's not interested in you. Women who are interested in you do not behave in this way. Go radio silent. Game other women. See if this one reaches out to you. (She won't.) | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Bumble girl scared to meet in person?She's not interested. Women who are interested in you want to meet you. You failed to get her interest. Go radio silent and game another one. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Cheating on your LTRSpeaking to strictly practical matters: they always find out. They may not choose to make an issue of it, but sooner or later, they know. And it can blow up in your face. If you choose to follow this lifestyle, do it with open eyes. Have a plan for how you are going to react and what you will do if you get busted and she freaks out. It can lose you access to your child. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Still get jealous over ex. Do I remove her from everything?No. Never go back. Always go on. I guarantee: it is a better investment of your time, energy, and other resources to cultivate a relationship with a new woman, than it is to re-connect with a woman who remembers all your flaws and knows where all your weaknesses and hot buttons are. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once th… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Still get jealous over ex. Do I remove her from everything?Go zero contact. Delete her contact info from your phone. Unfollow, unfriend, and block her on all social media. It doesn't matter if she knows she's affecting you. Because you're DONE with her. She can think/feel/assume/know whatever. It, and everything about her are now irrelevant to you. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:01 AM |
| 24 | Girl I’ve been flirting with asks me not too hit on her for three months.Go zero contact; chase other women. Wait for her to reach out. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Im the guy she cheated withThis was a revenge fuck. She's not necessarily even INTO you, she was getting back at her BF for cheating on her. Hit her up again, but I'd bet a paycheck (but not the farm) that you'll get back a variation of "it was fun, but was a one-time thing." | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend "doesn't want to have sex on prom because it's the stereotypical thing people do and it's dumb"I'm prone to tell her she has a point, and that Prom is not only stereotypical, but bourgeois, and ya'll should skip that, too. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Does the “Dont shit where you eat” rule apply to minimum wage jobs?Only date inside your work area if you can afford to walk away from your job at a moment's notice. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is having a female friend bad in this situation?The assumption is "you tried it on, and she friendzoned you. You must be less attractive than I thought." Yes, it's a turn-off. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Men who have their own side hustles. How'd you do it.I did it the old-fashioned way: I inherited it. I run 3 of my Dad's rental properties. It's not a lot of money, but it's literally FED me in lean times. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 03:10 AM |
| 4 | 401k's thing of the past?Think of employer matching this way: is there anywhere else you can put your money and IMMEDIATELY get a 100% return on it? There's not. ALWAYS put at LEAST the employer-matching level into a 401K. It's like FREE MONEY. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | IOI or Not?Yes, these are IOI's. No, you shouldn't react to them. Don't shit where you eat unless you are prepared to walk away from your job at a moment's notice. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Girl turns cold after a kiss during music festivalThis one wasn't interested. You should have ejected MUCH earlier and chased other girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Cancelled dateWait a week. Re-engage and set up another date, this time for a weeknight. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | to have concealed or upfront intentions?Women like to figure things out. They like mystery, especially romantic mystery. Yes, you should express a sexual interest, and you should do it early. But it should be nuanced and escalate slowly. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Are threesomes realistic?Well, that, too. They make better porn than a sexual experience. Mind you, it wasn't bad. It just wasn't all that. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Are threesomes realistic?I've been sexually active since 1979. I've had 3. Your mileage may vary. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 3 | 23M, Kissless virgin, how to go in for the kiss?If you haven't kissed, you haven't escalated. And yes, it sounds like you are dodging rejection. If you never make a move, you can't ever be turned down. https://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16768511-vindicarloescalationladder | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Do liking/following other girls count as dread?"Dread" is about the result, not the technique. And it's a game that has to be played with some nuance. You are NOT trying to "make her jealous." At most, that's a byproduct. You are reminding her of your own high SMV and the fact that you have options other than her. "Dread" is short for "Make her dread losing you." Liking/following other girls shows that you like hot girls. This will NOT come as a shock to her. Now, posting pictures of yourself at a hot party with pretty girls? THAT'S dread ga… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Too soon to ask if she is loyal?You describe a "plate," or "fuck buddies." Her history is not relevant, nor is "commitment" or "loyalty." Those issues are not your business until you are ready to start talking about an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Soft next caused freak outDude. This wasn't a soft next. You deliberately fucked with her head. "We need to talk," and then you become unresponsive? Douche move. Re-initiate contact if you want to keep this one. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:20 PM |
| 13 | FWB initiating non-logistical texting - how to react?For a FWB that you are not looking to promote, never initiate, except for logistics. Always wait at least 20 minutes, sometimes several hours before responding. When you do respond, keep it brief. No emjoii's and do not get sucked into discussing "feelings." This is the beginning of her bucking for the Girlfriend upgrade. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Crazy girlDon't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Ex CoworkerWait three days. Then ask her out. If you know she's socially introverted, pick a quiet venue without lots of people. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend denies sex because she's "tired", I deny cuddling. Later in the night she starts lightly coming onto me and we fuck. Am I doing things right? Also LTR advice needed, first relationship so have no idea if some of these behaviours are acceptable in a relationship.You handle "bitchy and moody" by going someplace else. Head for the garage, the gym, or someplace else that's not bitchy and moodly. When you get unacceptable behavior, you withdraw time/attention. When you are rejected for sex, you don't act butthurt, but at the same time, you withdraw time and attention. Same as the above. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Is not going back to your previous oneitis butthurt?You're asking the wrong question. It doesn't matter if some people perceive it as "butthurt" if it's bad for you. You do what's good for you. "Butthurt" isn't relevant unless it's preventing you from reaching a goal. Now, it seems clear that you are no longer pursing this one. Good call. "Let's just be friends" is the kiss of death. It's woman-speak for "I'm not attracted to you, I've never BEEN attracted to you, and I'm never going to BE attracted to you." When you get LJBF, you're DONE. But yo… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Urgent advice neededYou are too invested in this one. First - say nothing for at least three days, unless she reaches out. If she reaches out, wait 20 minutes before responding. When you respond, be brief and vague. Second - after three days, re-engage her as though nothing had happened. Do not refer to the previous conversation. In the meantime, you need to open at LEAST 3 other women. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a ghost over textNever double text. She didn't miss it. She's just not interested. Do NOTHING. Game other girls. Wait for her to reach out. If she doesn't, fine. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Asked girl out, got rejected but she is in my social group (high school)"Next-ing" when someone is in your social circle is hard. Be polite, but not friendly. Never touch her. Never be alone with her. Make eye contact but don't sustain it. Treat her like the boss's daughter. You don't want her to think you have any interest in her, but you want her to regard you well. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:09 AM |
| 4 | How Did You Learn To Drive?Can't help: fatha teach, long time ago. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Dedicated my life to getting pussy..Are you living your life the way you want to? Are you reaching the goals you set for yourself? Then no. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | 17M Need help immediatlyJust ask for an appointment to see your doctor, and explain exactly what you have explained here. Ask for a referral to a specialist. This is NOTHING to fuck around with. If I'm right, you have a PHYSICAL PROBLEM (brain chemistry) and NO amount of lifting, diet, and positive thinking is going to fix that shit, any more than it would fix a busted jaw or a gunshot wound. You need to confirm that you don't have a physical problem, or that you do. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Question on LTR and Spining PlatesTrue "plate spinning" as it is understood hear presumes you a banging them. If you do not wish to bang multiple women, you simply game them and remain engaged, but do not close. Smile at waitresses. Dance with your friend's wives. Hell, dance with your wife's sister. Make eye contact. Be friendly. Meet for coffee. (Because: It's JUST COFFEE.) I game my wife's friends. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The only way to avoid being cheated on, her branch swinging is higher SMV than her?Yes, in fact, you've got the right idea. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Would it be wrong to respond to an ex-LTR under these circumstances?Sometimes your old Ex might have useful information for you, or you them. If it had been me, and I'd been home and had the meds handy, I might have sent her a pic. After all, I might have a question for her one day. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | 17M Need help immediatlyI am not a doctor and am not in any way qualified to clinically diagnose. Even more: two paragraphs, written by a stranger over the internet is not NEARLY enough information to form a diagnosis, even if I were credentialed. All that said, what you are describing is an aspect of clinical depression. Your brain may be floating in the wrong kind of soup. See your doctor IMMEDIATELY and describe what's going on to him. I shit you not: what you have going on is beyond the scope of what an advice foru… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 08:05 PM |
| 3 | How do u guys respond to plates complaining about you not replying?If they are complaining via text or social media, I ignore it, unless I feel like talking to them. If it's in person, I deflect: just busy. Had to work. etc | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 4 | FwB disrespected me in public, didn't hold frameCancel the holiday. When she asks "why," deflect. Just deflect. You've gotten busy. You have things you need to do at work that you shouldn't postpone. Then soft-next. She KNOWS. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Simple questions on Rules of Tomassi 3, 5 and 83 - Here, I don't think you should take Tomassi too literally. While it's true that you should not "wait for sex," what he's really referring to is a sort of "power gaming" by the woman to establish who is in charge of when sex happens. Tomassi is of the opinion that if your SMV is high enough, a woman will have sex with you on the first date, after crawling across broken class, climbing the outside of your house, and sneaking in through your bedroom window. While true, most of us don't fly at t… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:37 PM |
| 5 | [Serious] Do you guys shower naked in the gym shower?Of course. In my yoot, the "men's showers" was a single room with a dozen nozzles sticking out of the wall. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP theory say about "kiss and tell?"It's a mix. While it's true that a man who is perceived as getting it regularly and from high-quality women is perceived as having a high SMV, it can run afoul of gossip. Women have a STRONG motive to not be perceived as "sluts," and so if you are bragging on banging the head cheerleader, when it gets around that you run your mouth, it can poison the well if you are in a limited dating environment like high school. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What's the most important realisation you've made about women?Try looking backwards at 50, Cochise. I fish in the 30-something pool, these days. It WILL happen to YOU. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 09:16 PM |
| 16 | I cheated, can you please help?Act like nothing happened. If she asks or if somebody tells her, deflect and minimize, but don't lie to her face. "Yeah, we kissed after the song was over, then I danced with someone else." | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What's the most important realisation you've made about women?That there's NOTHING you can get from one of them that you can't get from another one. Spun golden hair, infectious laugh, sparkling personality, butt you can bounce a quarter off of . . . NONE of them are that special. If you don't spark with one, you move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 02:59 AM |
| 4 | How to reject the friendzoneThere's no point. It doesn't gain you anything. Don't acknowledge it at all. Date and bang outside that social circle. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | "How can you be so emotionless?"She stood you up to hang with her actress and their buds? That's well into soft-next territory for me. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | So my ex LTR texted me after 5 days of being broken upThe only thing that's missing from your response is blocking her on all channels and getting on with yoru life. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to reject the friendzoneSay "sure." Then don't. Waste no time or energy on her, but be polite and cordial in social situations. Don't initiate any texts. Ignore her texts when possible and be as brief as you can when not. When she asks for favors, simple "already have other plans, sorry." If she says "I thought we were friends, say "we are." Then don't be. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How long do you guys wait to text a chick after getting her number?Be strong dude. I know you can stand it. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 4 | How long do you guys wait to text a chick after getting her number?3 days. And immediately go for the meet. "It's Papi189, from <name of the club>. I'm going for drinks/coffee at <name of place>. You should come; it'll be fun." | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What do spontaneous nudes mean more often? She's dtf or just fishing for some attention?Next. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What do spontaneous nudes mean more often? She's dtf or just fishing for some attention?She def wants attention. But she may also be DTF. You won't know until you make a move. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | A little update/How do I approach her?Pick your own line. I'm not Cyrano. When I was in high school it was football games, miniature golf, and arcades. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Very difficult career situation I'm facing and don't know what to do. I'd greatly appreciate some advice.So be straight wit your contact. "I want the job, but I also don't want to fuck things up for you. I have this little thing. Minimize it, but don't lie." And dude: your rep is ALWAYS in the hands of another. Your rep is in the hands of EVERYBODY who knows you. Only your conduct is in your own hands. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Will she be down to fuck?/u/lapeparoja is right here. Do not go in expecting the lay. At this stage of your life, a kiss-close is a win. Don't bring up feelings or relationships; that's her job. If she does, be vague, tentative, and communicate that the two of you are going to need time to figure that out. (Not only effective, but true.) Escalate, back off, wait, escalate again. Rinse, repeat. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Very difficult career situation I'm facing and don't know what to do. I'd greatly appreciate some advice.Take the adventure. You will regret not taking the shot for the rest of your life. You're young with no attachments and will NEVER be situated better to have an adventure like this. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 12 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise.."What have learned, Dorothy?" | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Will she be down to fuck?First and foremost, you can never tell in advance that she will be down to fuck. That's not how this works. Men approach. Women select. It's the way of the universe. Next - for the LOVE of GOD, don't straight up TELL her " I'm not really looking for a releationship, I just want to fuck." The only thing worse you could do to mis-handle this is to tell her her ass looks really big in those pants. Third - Wrap it up. Do NOT go bareback. Forth - If you bang, keep your mouth. Shut. Women live in terr… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | PIED really having an effect after going way beyond just porn. Need guidance navigating.First, you need to go 100% porn free and cut way back on choking the chicken. Way, way back. When you do spank the monkey, avoid porn ideation. Think about women you know and focus in the physical sensations you are feeling. See your GP. Explain the problem. Don't mention PIED, some docs don't believe in it. Instead, describe the problem "You can get up and get off masturbating to porn, but your gun won't stand at attention for real women." Ask him for Viagra for confidence. The thing is, Big Ji… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 02:08 PM |
| 5 | I Got Myself In a PickleKeep your mouth shut. Grin. Say "sorry" insincerely, but not sarcastically. And don't bang the bride, for God's sake. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Being thanked for something you were forced to doSeriously? If it works for you, groovy. My take on this is to just say sure, and then ask out a woman friend, the hotter the better. "What? We're just friends." | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:33 PM |
| 5 | What exactly does it mean to let girls chase you?There's a reason a lot of gurus use fishing metaphors. Bait the hook. Put the line in the water. Now wait. Wiggle it a little. Wait. Wiggle it again. Wait. That works. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:31 PM |
| 8 | "Rather friends or booty call?""Let's find out." | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Past tinder date contacts me out of the blueShe sends you pics of her bikini's but not pics of her in them, and says you won't see her in any in them? Attention whore. Block. She's going to waste your time. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever deviate slightly from TRP in order to secure benefits from certain women?Red Pill information and techniques are not Gospel. They are not magic words and rituals to get what you want out of the universe. Tomassi and Heartiste are not prophets. What you learn in the manosphere is nothing more or less than a set of social tools to help you get what you want out of life. And just like you don't use a hammer to thread a needle, you don't use "Agree and Amplify" to persuade a shy introvert into your bed, nor do you try to use "dread game" to get the interest of a woman wh… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Life is hell, got married to a psychotic.Stop fucking, immediately. As bad as you think your life is now, you will not BELIEVE what will happen if you knock her up. I don't care if she's "on the pill" or you "use condoms." STOP. FUCKING. HER. NOW. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:56 PM |
| 3 | do you think theres an ideal time to stop messing around and be serious?"When you want to." | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | She wants a break(abundance made it easier to let go)Always remember: If she want's "space," make her feel like Neil Armstrong. If she was "distance," make her think she's in China. And if she wants "time," give her the millennium. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | She wants a break(abundance made it easier to let go)This was a pretty good exercise. I give it a B-. Instead of "drop the relationship," I would have gone with "break up." If she asked you what that means, "call it quits." If you allow her to set a "time frame," she still gets to think of it as a "break," and it's not. You're done. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it nihilistic to not have kids?While an interesting question in theory, in practice, the ONLY reason to have kids is "you want them." If you do not want them, do not be persuaded to have them. NOTHING sucks worse than being an unwanted kid. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Girls accuse me of not answering their questions when I pass their shit tests"Who's your gynecologist?" "When was your last pap smear?" "How often do you have yeast infections?" "Does breast cancer run in your family?" "That shit is NONE of my business. This is none of yours. Back off." | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:46 PM |
| 9 | My girlfriend has caught my lie and I don't know what to do now.Why the FUCK are you discussion your finances with ANYONE? It's none of her business. It's none of THEIR business. Just shut UP about it and say "I don't discuss finances" if it comes up. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Blocking #1 plate?You don't miss her. How many other plates are you currently fucking. If the answer is less than "one," she's not a plate, she's your girlfriend, and you're doing this wrong. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Confused with this girlAsk her on a DATE. Just the two of you. Find an isolated location and go in for the kiss. Then you'll know. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Do You Tell A Potential Plate About Other Dates?No. It's not really any of her business. "Nothing special." "Just guy stuff." "Keep the hareem adequately serviced, why?" | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Weird invite from plateShe's trying to introduce you to her friends so that they can evaluate you for her. Also gonna test you to see if you actually DO hit on her friends. I'd go with 'Nah, busy." | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Interacting with girlsIf you want to talk to her, do. If you don't want to talk to her, don't. If you continue to avoid her, she will think that you have lost interest and move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this text?Most of the time, I write this crap off as the hamster justifying that she lost interest. But there's a chance that this isn't total bullshit. Wait three days, then response with: "K." Wait seven days. If she has not reached out by then, re-engage her and game like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife an LTR who is willing to do a threesome with you and another girl?Oh, yeah. When my heart quit she totally had my back until I recovered. Stayed at the hospital, monitored my care. Was my total advocate. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 4 | What is crab in a bucket?Not universally, no. But that's what "crab mentality" means. When you demonstrate that it's possible to better yourself, it can make the people around you upset because they're not making the effort to do so. It's easier to try to make you fail than it is to try to improve their lot themselves. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR rules?I don't know of a list of bullet points. But in general, you have to continue to game her, continue to fuck her GOOD, and always remain the BEST male she feels she can get. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Only child of single mom at rock bottom desperately looking for helpA young man is not entirely an adult until he moves out from under his mother's roof and has his own place. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Would you tell an oblivious acquaintance that his cohabitating LTR is a hoe?You fucked his girl, then want to out her as a ho? No, dude. You've pissed in this well. Don't drink from it. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What is crab in a bucket?I grew up a coastal boy, and dealt with buckets of blue crabs a lot growing up. They almost never escape from an open topped bucket, because the crabs on the bottom try to pull them selves up by grabbing the ones on top and pulling them down. The step on each other, pull, on each other, and the higher they climb, the more likely they are to have the ones on the bottom grab hold of them and pull them down. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Baby on the way..An abortion will not harm her fertility unless there are unforeseen complications. Odds of those are small, but it is possible. I'm always skeptical of "oops, I'm pregnant," but it happens. My go - to advice is to sign NO paperwork until you have a confirmed paternity test. Because in most jurisdictions, once your name's on the paper, you're the dad, DNA be damned. Be aware that a baby changes EVERYTHING. Every single aspect of your life is going to change. That's not necessarily bad. But you do… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...Quite likely. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Just got finessed.. (newbie need advice)Dude. She "didn't want to have a relationship because she was grieving for a dead dog." THINK about that for a second. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Hey guys, I really need some quick adviceThere is never, ever a "win" in "calling a woman out." ALL of them will hamster you into the villain in 2.5 seconds. Ghost, and start asking out the hottest girls you can find. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Plate cancelling/flip flopping. What would you do?She is losing/has lost attraction. You should be gaming other women. To stoke her interest, you can consider ghosting her for 7 - 10 days and find out what her reaction is. But be prepared for her to be done. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...She has lost attraction for you. Yes, it's probably because she can never integrate you into her family because you're the wrong religion. But it doesn't matter why. When you get the cheek or the duck, it's done. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What to do when I see girls who rejected me?Be polite but not friendly. Acknowledge them like you would any dude, and then get on about your business. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for a man to have lots of sex but not a woman?"Okay" implies a value judgement. It's "Okay" for women to bang as many dicks as they want. It is also "okay" for men to find this behavior repellent and to not want to LTR-up with them. It's all about what you want. High tier men can demand hot women with a low n-count, and get them. If women want top tier men to commit to them, they need to keep their N count down. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Asked girl out, she proposed something elseAs though nothing had happened. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Help - How to end a soft next?If she has reached out to you, you can now resume game as though nothing happened. Do NOT mention or apologize for the hiatus. She knows what you did and why you did it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Response to this Shit Test?No response at all. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I get a circumcision?I was cut as a child, and I've had a great sex life so far. However, please consider the concept of a "second opinion." See another doctor. Find a urologist - a doc who specializes in dongs and ask him if you need your pencil sharpened. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do I next this girl? what do I do?Soft next for at least 3 - 7 days. Do NOT re-open her unless she reaches out, or 7 days has passed. In the meantime, open at least THREE other women. THIS GIRL isn't that important. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Asked girl out, she proposed something elseWait 3 - 7 days and re-open. Give her more notice (about 3 days) for the hangout, and see what her response is. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Mentions she’s single - shit test or IOI?"I'm single" is an invitation to bring your "A" game. It's not "yes, I will sleep with you," but it IS "Let's see what you've got." | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I make a harem as a high school student?First thing: in an enclosed dating environment like high school, college, or even a circle of friends understand this. Know it without exception: Women talk about EVERYTHING. They will talk about who they are banging, his stamina, refracory period, and dick size. There is no "might find out" about it. She's going to KNOW. They're ALL going to know. Accept that, and make your decisions with your eyes open that that fact. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Failed shit tests with FWB that always pushes my buttons - how to recover?Wait 3 - 7 days, then game as usual. Don't reference this spat. Yeah, you lost frame here. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife an LTR who is willing to do a threesome with you and another girl?I've done a very few. The novelty was entertaining and it cost me very little. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | When a plate tries to go through your phone..But don't EVER try to bluff with that. You have to MEAN it. If you bluff and she calls you on it ,you will COMPLETELY and PERMANENTLY lose frame. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Should i just block her? or just ignore here?Deleted and block her. She's your Ex for a reason. You owe her nothing, and maintaining contact with her is like picking a scab for you: it's not going to heal over if you keep picking at it. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:42 PM |
| 3 | How to answer "I have other plans" when you ask a girl out on a specific day?"I'm booked" with no offer to re-schedule is a CLEAR statement of disinterest. You do not need another response other than, "Maybe another time," followed by a soft next. She's not interested. Go open another one. There are more. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | When a plate tries to go through your phone..Lock your phone. If pressed, say, "A man is entitled to privacy." If pressed, toss her the phone and say, "The pass code is abc123. If you punch it in, we're done." And MEAN it. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife an LTR who is willing to do a threesome with you and another girl?I did. 25 years. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Pondering shit tests"I hadn't noticed. But then, I can climb." | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Quick question: is the plate that is extemely stubborn, to the point of self-harm, "doesn't like to be told what to do", an automatic NEXT?These are rarely worth the effort. Just a hard next and move on. Continue to work on asserting your own frame. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Should I Ask if she is Okay?No. Go radio silent for 7 - 10 days and game other women. Hell, open the friend. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls, explain me this situation..and should I leave it?Go radio silent for 2 - 3 weeks, then hit her up for a meet. Escalate. If you get the stiff arm, smile your way you, go radio silent again. Reconnect after a few weeks. Escalate. Repeat. As long as you are having fun and gaming other women, there's nothing wrong with this, and eventually she will break up with him or cheat with you, and you'll have the bang. However, you need to ask yourself if the bang is worth the effort. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:30 PM |
| 5 | RP stance on being a Wing-Man?Report out to him; there's no more use for a wing here. You can't help; you can only make a mess. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Strong body odeaurSee your doctor. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes several days to initiate text convo, seemingly updated Tinder as wellNEVER "call out" a woman on her bullshit. There's no point. She will deny the bullshit, believe herself, insist that it's not bullshit, believe THAT, and in general get pissed. It's never a win for the guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | RP stance on being a Wing-Man?This is a poor use for a wingman. Listen to what he wants, then do what you think best. When you report back, don't talk about what YOU did, talk about how SHE responded. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to maitain frame and respect with non dating fat female alpha frustrated friend.Your response is too direct. It will challenge the alpha female's frame directly, and she will be forced to answer. Further, if you openly challenge her, she will be able to cast you as the "bad guy" and "unreasonable" to your wife. The best way forward for you is to limit your contact with this woman, but be polite and courteous. You don't need to repel her dominance attempt. You just need to continue to assert your own frame. If she texts you, respond if YOU feel like it. Keep it simple and gi… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | RP stance on being a Wing-Man?There's nothing wrong with having or being a wing. Men help each other out. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What is frame exactly?But you can't bluff that. You have to MEAN it. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What is frame exactly?Frame starts with the rules you live by. Frame is your worldview. How you see the world and your place in it. Frame is about who is in charge. Who decides. Your example has insufficient nuance. Are you yielding up your privacy because she demanded it? Or because you decided to comfort her? Absent more details, my answer would be: "Here's my phone. The passwords is 123abc. If you punch it in, we're done. If you don't trust me at this point, there's no reason to continue." | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with nursing school?Nursing school is a good course of sprouts to eat, no doubt. I haven't been, but my wife did. 14 hours a week of free time is doable. But don't count on much more than that. And whatever you do, DON'T rob yourself of sleep. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 06:31 PM |
| 4 | How to increase social circle?I know there are Jeep interest groups that have ralleys and stuff. Check that out. Also electronics clubs. But I think you will have your most social interactions if you hunt around for French clubs. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to increase social circle?Here's the thing: You have to leave your comfort zone. Absolutely NOTHING is going to change until you get out of the house and interact with other people. Sure, the gym has other people, but everyone there is inwardly focused, or they should be, on their workout. Find something you like to do that involves other people. Line dancing, bowling, salsa, indoor rock-climbing . . .it doesn't matter, as long as YOU enjoy it, and it involved INTERACTING with other people. From there, we can help you. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:19 PM |
| 5 | "My Mum says we can't spend time together right now" Response"K." Then radio silence. If she's into you, she'll reach out. If she's not, she won't. In the meantime, game other women. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you tell an LTR you’re demoting to her plate?If you are in an LTR and you don't want to be in an LTR, you break up. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:16 PM |
| 16 | LTR invites me over then having girl-talk with sister while I'm there...She is asserting her frame. She's doing what SHE wants, and you get to participate or not if you like. Which is pretty much the OPPOSITE of high value male activity. And speaking in a language you don't know is just RUDE. The correct answer is to leave. Don't get sucked into "can we talk privately." Just be pleasant, but firm, "I need to be someplace. We can talk later." | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:00 PM |
| 27 | Is being angry means breaking frame?Yes. It shows a loss of control, and loss of control is a break of frame. You can state your opinions and stick to your values and even do it firmly without yelling. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Is this disrespect?No. If this is her common practice, it's just how she communicates, and indicates that she has poor follow up. Standing you up? Cancelling at the last minute? Those are indicators of a lack of interest. But failure to follow up? Just bad communication habits. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Does screaming put others in your frame?Screaming ALWAYS connotes a loss of control. Lack of control lowers SMV. I don't care if you are doing it on purpose. The perception is that you are out of contort and someone has gotten to you. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to take salsa/tango lessons where she'll have a dedicated partner. Those are very sensual dances, I'm not ok with it. How should I communicate it?Go with her. Be the dedicated partner. A man who can dance Salsa always has opportunities, and a man is not complete as a lover until he can tango. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 4 | What can I do with the numbers i collected last weekend?1) So? 2) You'll never know until you try. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What can I do with the numbers i collected last weekend?Short text: "Hi! Its' rad_dynamic. We met at the club on . Wanna get drinks?" | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Plate seem distant and cold after holiday ? what to do?There's another rooster in the henhouse. Soft next. Radio silence until she reaches out (and she may never do so). Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Does a string of casual hookups inhibit your ability to form pair-bonds as a male in the same way it does with a female?No. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Helping a friendJust tell him that he's never, ever going to get the girl if he doesn't ACT. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls ghost after having a ONS?Not as a matter of policy. You might can plate some of them. Hell, my marriage started as a "spring break" girl. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Think I fucked up derpSon, you missed a bang. She was drunk, lonely, horny, and you wre handy. If they invite you to stay the night, make a move. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:02 AM |
| 10 | Plate admitted one of her fantasies is to dom me. Should I do it?Yes, this will make you seem weak to her. "Dom." It's right there i the name. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls ghost after having a ONS?The same reason guys do: you were attractive enough for sex, but not what she's looking for for long term. Congratulations: you were used for sex. Weird feeling, isn't it. Not Mr. Right, just Mr. Right now. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and she says she want to be friendYou have gotten "Let's just be friends." This is woman-code for "you are interesting enough to not embarrass me in public. You can spend time, money, and other resources on me, but I am not sexually attracted to you, nor am I ever going to BE sexually attracted to you." And it is NOT going to change. I promise you: continuing to pursue this one will just waste your time and energy. "Let's just be friends" is the kiss of death. Ghost and pursue other women. And don't take it personally. 90% of ap… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:52 AM |
| 2 | How to draw a girls attention to a text?Wait at least a week, preferably two, then text again, setting up a new meet. Never double text. If you still don't get a response, she's not interested. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on my date but had a legitimate excuse and gave a vague let's reschedule. Advice?Wait 1 - 3 days of radio silence unless she reached out to you. Then, "I'm cashing that rain-check you gave me. Let's meet at X and do Y." If you get another excuse, "maybe next time," then ghost. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.Suicidal ideation is nothing to fuck around with. Helping with depression this dark is outside the scope of an anonymous advice column. Improve your diet. Get more exercise - the harder the better, but even walking is better than nothing. Get more sunlight. Actual, natural sunlight. But you need to talk to your doctor, because this shit can kill your ass. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 09:21 PM |
| 14 | Hard next, how shall I proceed?This situation calls for a "soft next," but with minimal contact. A "soft next" doesn't mean you have to pretend she's not in the room. That kind of "silent treatment" is a juvenile punishment. You're just withdrawing your time and attention and spending it where it will be more cost effective for you. Stop initiating texting. If she asks why, just say "Just busy with work/school." When she initiates texting, only respond to every third one and keep it short. "K," "Sure," "Maybe." "Soon" Shit li… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | After having trying to fix things with my pregnant ex. I come to the conclusion she doesn’t know who the dad is, tried to put a baby on me. Moving forward?While you may be right in that she doesn't know who the father is, you need to get a DNA test done by hook or crook. You need to KNOW. She may not want money or support from you NOW, but that will change when she's buying diapers. Bonus: If she puts your name on the birth certificate, you ON THE HOOK. If she goes to social services for help, they will pay her, and TAKE the money from YOU. If you end up supporting a child, make sure its' your OWN. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY!"Recommendation: If you want to try to salvage the friendship, "Man, I don't know what else to tell you. I'm tapped." And stop trying to help him. Any time he asks you anything, "Sorry man, I don't know how to help." I don't know if you can walk it back that far, though. You may just have to ghost him. This is why I don't talk about red pill or mentor guys. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Ex texting after 5 months no contacts. What to do ?First - if you want to make her feel like shit, you clearly give a fuck. Second - You're still clearly heavily invested, or you wouldn't care this much. Third - the best revenge is living well. Recommendation: Ignore and get on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY!"I'm SERIOUSLY talking out of my ass here, but it sounds like the dude may be on the autism spectrum, or afraid of success. As long as he clings to "I don't know what to say," and blames YOU, it's not HIS fault that he sucks. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend left me for another guy. Should I do rebound?Step back. What is your goal? What do you want? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else in AA / NA ?In general, it has been my observation that you are right: addicts are bad for each other. While I DO know of a few people who managed to meet at meetings and helped to keep each other sober, most of the time the cosign each other's behavior and are a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Emojiful texting and thoughts on rescheduling a dateReschedule for next week. Looks less needy and you won't have to split her evening with a friend. Open other women in the meantime. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | A little update/How do I approach her?Stop over-thinking. Quit playing with non-verbal communication. Walk up to her after class and say, "Hi, I'm tranquischizo. Let's get coffee/a drink." | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Comfort test or shit test?Pause. Sigh. Raise eyebrows thoughtfully. Shake head. "Honey, you have NO IDEA." Then change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:29 PM |
| 12 | Tried to loose my virginity to a hooker, couldn't get an erection to fuck her.First, 2 days is not a streak. It's a weekend. Second - see your doctor. When I was your age I could hammer a six inch spike through a two inch thick north american oak plank with my dick at a moment's notice. You PROBABLY have porn induced erectile dysfunction, caused by wanking it to porn too much. Quit all port and see your doctor. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to make a poster and shit for asking this girl to prom?God no. Just ask her. Isolate so that she doesn't have an audience to please other than you. Be straightforward. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 08:50 PM |
| 7 | increasing smv, lifting, making more money, becoming more attractive etc etc. it seems like you have to do so many things just to get laid, does it really take that much effort?I'm afraid you've missed the point. You don't DO those things "just to get laid." You do those things to become a better man, and live a longer, more fulfilling life. The side effect of becoming a better man is getting laid more often. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:59 PM |
| 9 | Are there any pre-fuck signs they’re good at sex?This is one of the reasons I stress "Don't stick your dick in crazy" so very, very much. Crazy sex is, tragically, some of the BEST sex. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?I think it's simpler than that. Growing up watching video porn means you train yourself that watching other people bang is erotic. So of course you get off watching it in person. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 6 | How to reinitiate contact after a soft nextYou just re-open as though nothing happened. Do not refer to whatever provoked the soft next. And do not discuss the soft next. If she pressed the point "How come I haven't heard from you lately," keep it vague. "Just busy. You know, guy stuff." | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Are Ex-LTRs still options for fucking years later?I have mixed feelings about this sort of thing. The "old used" knows your hot buttons, weak spots, and handles, and you are far more likely to be run through a grinder by her. But if you can managed to meet up for the bang with minimal effort on your part, it's fine. But always remember that nothing has changed. She's still the same woman, and all the reasons for the breakup are still there. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 5 | An Update on the trainwreck that is my current situation (that you guys correctly predicted)She's not interested. Forget about her unless she reaches out again. Open other girls. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Girl wanted me to text her to make plans, I texted "hey" and she didn't respondSo it's the next day? Send her your plan. "Let's do X at Y time." Then stop. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel bad?Think for just a moment how long SHE would sweat over making you feel bad by rejecting YOU. About FIVE SECONDS. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Potential date with a girl with a bf. Advice?Will you have fun? If so, yes If not, no. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my brotherNothing. Keep lines of communication going. Be sympathetic, but maintain your own boundaries. She's HIS problem, not yours, and you can't solve it for him. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | To drink or not to drink on a college party?Some people are uncomfortable around non-drinkers, as they perceive them to be judging those who DO drink. If you don't want to drink, that's fine. But don't let it become an issue. "None for me, I'm driving" always works. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | 17, don’t know what to do with life after high schoolOkay - first up: This is very common. No matter what you perceive of the other kids around you, VERY few people have their life direction figured out by the middle of high-school. And those that DO, usually end up in a different place than the one they set out for. What you need to do now is read about careers and consider what appeals. If I had sons today, I would encourage them to go into the trades. Electrician, plumber, locksmith - ALL of that stuff will make you a good living, let you run y… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Potential date with a girl with a bf. Advice?First, decide if you're a dude who's willing to piss upstream of where another dude is drinkin'. I'm not saying you shouldn't. I'm sayin' decide BEFORE you go for it, because doubts and second-thoughts will throw off your game. Next up: ignore the boyfriend. Don't bring him up. If she brings him up, change the subject. My assessment: This is "getting coffee as friends," not a date. Be prepared to get shot down. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 05:53 PM |
| 3 | As a morning person should I give up on night game?The First Rule of Approaching is "Find out what you're good at. Then do that thing." Night game isn't working for you, so find another venue. Find co-ed classes, hobbies, and gatherings that you enjoy and meet and open women there, while you're having a good time. Don't force yourself out to bars where your game sucks and you're not having any fun. Second Rule: "If you're not having fun, stop doing it and do something else." | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend Disrespects me.I'd stop talking to her until she reached out, and in the meantime open other women. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Is it IOI’s? Should I escalate? What if she friendzones me?There's a difference between communicating "I'm attracted to you" and "I'm so desperate to be with you I'll make you the center of my world." When they say "don't act needy" they mean "don't act like you'll do ANYTHING for her attention." The don't mean "never express an interest." | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it IOI’s? Should I escalate? What if she friendzones me?1 - Maybe. She might be attracted. She might also just be being polite. You're going to have to make a move to find out. I will tell you this for free: her attitude and body language are NOT saying "Stay away, I'm not into you." So yes, if you're attracted, you should make a move. 2 - Risks have consequences. If you offend her deeply, your remaining two months will be awkward. Now - so the fuck what? There is always a risk when approaching a woman, and if you never take any, you'll never get lai… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:46 PM |
| 4 | What's the first thing to say when approaching a new woman?My cold approach depends on the situation, but the basics are: "Would you like to dance?" "Hi, I saw you across the room and wanted to meet you. I'm fnordsnord. And you are?" | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Are there any reasons why I shouldn't get married if I got a prenup and a vasectomy?Prenups help, but no matter what your lawyer tells you, they are not bullet proof, and a sympathetic judge can set it aside as easy as snapping her fingers. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | For those who have around TRP a decade or more, how did the recession in 2008 effect female mindsets?Given that it was mostly a "man-cession," oddly. Most of the job loss was in construction, manufacturing, and other male-dominated job-areas. Pink collar jobs like nursing, human resources, and other female-dominated fields were hit less hard. This means that they wound up with even more resources. There was a LOT of complaining about the lack of suitable men, meaning it became harder and harder to "marry up." Women became more likely to be willing to "share" high-value men by ignoring the fact … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you let a girl know how many girls you’ve had sex with if she’s sexually interested in you?"Enough to know what I'm doing. Not so many that I've lost interest." | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you let a girl know how many girls you’ve had sex with if she’s sexually interested in you?No. From the Second Iron Rule of Tomassi: "NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover." | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Sexting before first meetupNo. Text is for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What consistitutes "approaching"?In the context of this forum, an "approach" is the initial contact you make with a woman in a given encounter. That's all. In a "cold approach," you have never been introduced and you are probably not at a mixer, bar, or other social event where she is expecting to be approached. This is also referred to as "opening" or "an open," although THAT has the connotation of the actual initial contact. An approach might include eye contact, body language and facial expression, whereas the "opening" is o… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Going to prom with no date... any tips?Hang with high value males and dance with ALL the hot girls at least once. And yeah - I've got a couple of nostalgic memories, but you're about to graduate. You won't BELIEVE how fast none of this shit will matter. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Plate who previously bought me things etc. flaked on meet up, text with an apology - course of action?What he said. You need more plates so that this one is less concern. If you MUST reach out, give it two weeks. But I'd wait on her and game other women. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 02:47 AM |
| 3 | What if i live with my parents?Your primary focus at this point in your life should not be poon, it should be making something of yourself. Train. Educate yourself. Build a career or a business. I used to bang girls under my parent's roof or in my car from 15 - 18. Then I got a couple of roommates and had an apartment. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Ex-LTR Pissed That I Left Dinner 'Abruptly' - Help Me UnderstandYour goals aren't clear to me. You've said "plate," but somewhere in your text I detect a whiff of oneitis. Not a severe case, but I think you are REALLY attracted to this woman, and if you give her the opportunity, she will drag you through a knothole by your dick. I think you did okay. You could have been a little smoother on the dismount, because she clearly saw NOT that she had failed to get your interest, 'cause you were clearly interested. I do not think she's attracted to you. I think she… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl rejects you after escalation?Treat her like any of your bro's sisters: like you want her to like you, but you have zero sexual interest. Keep it up until she reaches out. In the meantime, open other women. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Can't ejaculate during sex?Just bang. You've trained yourself to prefer your hand and porn to a vag and a whole woman. Stay off of porn, permanently. Jerk it less, and when you do, avoid porn ideation. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing went to an event with another dude whilst I'm on vacationGo radio silent until she reaches out. Open other women. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Did I react properly?My best advice would be to take her at her word and delete and block her number. This woman is seriously passive-aggressive. This is a bid for commitment. It's particularly premature, manipulative, and self-centered. If you want to plate her, ignore all communications on this subject. go radio silent for 3 - 10 days and then re-open her and set up a meet. Do not address this conflict in any way. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Ex-LTR Pissed That I Left Dinner 'Abruptly' - Help Me UnderstandWomen value being valued. In my youth I had more than one women who DIDN'T want to sleep with me get pissed when I didn't hit on her. The point of this exercise for her was to get affirmation of your attractiveness from you and possibly assess her chance of getting further resources. Do not mistake her "wanting you to want her" for "wanting you." When you decided she wasn't interested in you and you bailed, she took it personally. You wanted sex, and when you could't get that, you discarded the … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Plate who previously bought me things etc. flaked on meet up, text with an apology - course of action?Wait at least 20 min, then: "K. Np. Another time." Then go radio silent until she reaches out. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:29 PM |
| 11 | how to get over penis insecurityThat's pretty good. Now keep it up. A month is barely getting started. When you get to the point where you've NOT watched porn for as long as you HAVE watched porn, you'll have made real progress. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 5 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?I'm glad I could help. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating a muslim girl?Hardcore Catholic girls have been known to do this as well. It's not a matter of hypocracy, though. It's practical. The emphasis in her social circle on "virginity" CANNOT be over-stated. But she wants a boyfriend. She can't keep a boyfriend if she doesn't put out. He'll look for one that does. So she offers up her rear to hang onto a man until they marry. Lots of Catholic dudes are surprised when access to anal goes away after the wedding. She doesn't particularly LIKE it, but she HAS to bleed … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:18 PM |
| 13 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?Unless it is a STRONG acrid odor, it does not mean that she is particularly unhygenic. It just means that she showered before your date and it's four hours later after sitting in a restaurant/movie/theater/bowling or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Approaching a group of women?Cutting one out of the herd is a skill a young man needs to master. Women, by and large, are very social creatures, and the more attractive, the more social she is. Getting past her posse is a common problem. The approach I have always had best success with is to walk up to the group with confidence. Attempt eye contact with your prospect as you approach, and say "Hi." I know that sounds simplistic, but is the easiest way through. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?Vaginal odor is common by the time sex rolls around because the crotchital region is prone to sweat and jeans, panties, and pantyhose hold that in. If you go down on a woman who is freshly showered, you will find that she has almost no odor at all in most cases, but it is very hard for an aroused woman to not smell musky. So yes, this is normal, and how they smell when they are turned on, although it will vary by woman and by how recently she has bathed. They are aware of it and many of them are… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Psychological Sexual Dysfunction - How do I retrain my brain? (NSFW) (Serious) (24M)Two weeks porn free isn't nearly enough. If you can get morning wood, it's not your body; it's your brain. Remain porn free. See your doctor. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 11:48 AM |
| 2 | I'm not saying NAWALT, butIs there a question here? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Having Problem AA When InsultedWell, for starters, you clearly care too much. You're letting it get to you. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is Jap stuff a hard turn off?Protip: If you ever question whether you can/are pulling off a fashion item, the answer is "no." | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Got labeled a misogynist, what should I do?The man who says little, has little chance of saying something stupid. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:14 PM |
| 10 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My FriendsSnicker and say, "Sometimes it's not 'how big is the pole, it's how loose is the hole." And then next. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:13 PM |
| 10 | Plate tried to hamster herself after I saw her with another guyThe only thing I would add would be to not hit her up for a few days to help her scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Wife receivers Snapchat message from ex boyfriend. How to respond?I would just ask her why she hasn't blocked him already. Snapchat will let you do that. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Got labeled a misogynist, what should I do?Never bring up your own drunken bullshit. If someone else brings it up, apologize in a vague way, and blame the drink. "I'm a dick when I've had too much. I'm sorry I had too much." Then stop. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Getting over ex/oneitisFirst up: Everyone grieves differently. You've lost something and you have to get over that, and it's going to suck. You don't get to skip the sucky parts. On average, it takes about 20% the length of a relationship to get over it. You're going to have to power through to that point. You can, however, make it worse. Here are behaviors to avoid: Any contact with her at all. No texts, no facebook, no snapchat. Remove and block her on your phone and social media. Remove all pictures and mementoes. … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | "Just wanted to be polite"Then just go with, "Just bzy. 4got 2 reply." | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Will fear help my relationship? (Dread/she thinking I may cheat)If your girl things you are cheating/going to cheat, you're doing dread wrong. "Dread" is short for "make her dread losing you." You don't want her to think you are looking for a side-chick. Properly applied, dread makes her concerned that she might be REPLACED. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:28 PM |
| 3 | should a girl ever take back a cheater?Cheaters don't change. If anyone, woman or man, just wants a bang, FWB, or "open relationship," rolling with a cheater is fine. But don't expect them to not bang other people, not matter what they say. Once a cheater, always a cheater. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to know if you were always a “natural alpha”?For one thing, you wouldn't wonder if you were an natural alpha. You wouldn't be reading red pill because you wouldn't need to. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | "Just wanted to be polite"Wait at least 20 mins. Then "Why? Have you done something I should be mad about?" This will make HER justify blowing you off with an excuse, rather than YOU justify being butthurt. She will probably say something about not hearing back from you. "Just busy. Forgot 2 respond." | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:16 PM |
| 13 | Advice needed: banged roommate of best friend (who is jealous)I'd tell him: "Dude, bros before hoes is all well and good, but you're not allowed to hog 'em all. You want this one? Then break up with other one and make a move. You don't get to call 'dibs' and then not do anything." But be prepared to lose that friendship if you do. The dong wants what the dong wants. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Is it TRP's "duty" to "save the west"?No. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | ED problems, solutions?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2220</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl replies to everything, gives me her number but does not want to do on date?She wants you to text back and forth with her and try to text game her. This feeds her ego and costs her nothing. Wait 7 - 10 days, saying NOTHING, even if she reaches out. Then try to set up a date. If you still get the stiff-arm, next. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Took a girl to a baseball game and went for the kiss when I dropped her back home, whole thing went well and I really don't want to fuck it up because she lives close. What do I do next?"She and I" That structure calls for the subjective pronoun, not the objective one. Clue-bat: When they ask you "how to tell if they are in love" they are attempting to communicate that they are attracted to you. Tonight, text her ONCE. "Hey, had a nice time. We should hang out." Then wait 36 hours and hit her up for television watching. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 02:40 AM |
| 7 | What did your dad teach you about women?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3362</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | A couple questions about the girl I lost my virginity todeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9910</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | A couple questions about the girl I lost my virginity toMeet. Don't discuss this. Just say, "I was working out some stuff." Then escalate. Test the waters and see if she's down for another bang. Explaining your feelings to a women is never a good idea. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | A couple questions about the girl I lost my virginity toNever explain yourself. When they ask questions like this, just keep it nice and vague: Just getting my head together. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "how are you" or openers on tinder/ text?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4664</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Which is better?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9694</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 01:20 PM |
| 6 | What to do if she offers no alternative date?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8467</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Case of oneitis?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0363</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women do this?Never ask when they are available. Tell when you are available and invite them along. "It's samuelcollin from the club. We met last Tuesday. I'm going to go to X place at Y time. You should come; it's going to be fun." | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:52 AM |
| 60 | Men of TRP, what prompted you to finally stop giving a fuck?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2029</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Fear regarding reputationWell, first off, you're not wrong. Women share EVERYTHING with their besties, and laughing about men is one of the primary sources of entertainment. I can't tell you HOW, but what you need is to quit giving a fuck what women who don't choose you think and do. Because they don't matter. They've opted out of your life and are now irrelevant to you. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Ltr wanted space, I gave her space, she bitched...There may not be another guy, although it's quite possible. She is, however, bored with you. You were SUPPOSED to slink away, remaining within earshot, hoping she would change her mind, or decide on you. You didn't fulfill your assigned role, so she's pissed. This was well played. However, confronting her and ending it? Why? What do you gain? What's the GOAL? I'm not saying you shouldn't, just that I don't understand what you want. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for quitting pot?I don't know anything particular about weed, but I've ready that cold turkey is the best way off of nicotine. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend found a Selfie a girl sent me a while back, how should i handle this?If she asks, the correct response is: "Her? Oh, yeah. She sent that a while ago. Why?" | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl who ended FWB situation gets back in touch with meWhat you've left out here is a statement of your own goals, even in the short term as regards this girl. What do YOU want? An old-times-sake booty call? A FWB? A girlfriend? A wife? You don't say any of that. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Question on noporndeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2707</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How to accept reality.This is going to be hard to hear, so listen close. Pay attention. Focus. Read my lips and smell my breath. Because I'm going to lay three facts on you, and you're not going to like ANY of them. One: She is not attracted to you. She may "like" you because you are funny, interesting, intelligent, and good with animals and children. She may enjoy spending time with you and having her attractiveness validated by you. She may gain advantage from you sharing your talent, skills, and money. But she doe… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | In text or in persondeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5887</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | In text or in persondeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0914</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What is best TRP principles for messaging (sms)?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6115</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | In text or in personDM her to set up a date. Then shut up. Don't try to "text game" her. Just ask her out, then go out and game her in person. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What is best TRP principles for messaging (sms)?You go straight for a meet-up. 1 - 3 days after you get the number, message: "This is EsteraMC, we met at X-place/time. I'm going to be at Y-place/time. You should come. It's going to be fun." Then stop. Do not get sucked into chatting back and forth. Then, the day of "Y-place/time," say "We're still on for tonight at Y-place/time." Then stop. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Your personal relationships: Questions for you [Repost]deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0083</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it oke to block a girl's (someone you know) number?No, I don't think I did. You block whoever you want. It's YOUR call. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How to handle a girl i once liked texting me randomly and then not continuing textsdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6310</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What is best TRP principles for messaging (sms)?The best TRP principle for text game? Use text only for logistics and game IN PERSON. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:47 PM |
| 6 | Blowjob Shit test?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6585</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it oke to block a girl's (someone you know) number?It's your phone. Why the fuck should you NOT block whoever you chose? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl who flaked on me wants to go outHer SMV has dropped. You weren't good enough to hold her attention before. Now she's no longer pulling the 8's and 9's she used to, so you're worth another shot. Ask yourself if she's worth the herpes risk. Frankly, the idea of a girl that wasn't interested in me thinking I'm worth hitting up now that she's sick, fat, or crazy deciding that I'm allowed to pursue her is a little insulting. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | LDR GF Blocked, I don't know exactly why, what can I do?All true. But I didn't think he'd listen to that. I thought maybe a smack in the face would at least help him let go of this one. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | I feel know I should cut it. But my head won't let medeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8223</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Tell my dad about the red pill?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7141</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | LDR GF Blocked, I don't know exactly why, what can I do?It's over. I smell another rooster in the henhouse. Go zero contact and start opening other women. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Good idea to plate an ex?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8626</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How did I do on this shit test, what would you have saidThat's pretty good, and a recommended response. An alternative would be, "Sex? Kinda sure of yourself, aren't you?" But my go-to would actually be to not address it all. Just go with, "See you there." | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Trying to Fuck but think I am FuckedWhat I perceive here is a fear of rejection. You have invested in this girl. You want the bang. Right now you have the POTENTIAL of the bang. That's nice too. It has value. You have good reason to believe that she wants the D from you. It feels good to be wanted, man. It does. (Chicks REALLY Get off on it. Some of them get off more on being wanted than getting laid, but that's another post.) This feeling of potential bang has value. In order to get the bang, you have to SPEND this potential. And… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How would I know if my soon to be ex is hanging out with her ex?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5857</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are you taking so long to respond to me?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6386</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Subject on, "Dying alone"deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7645</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are you taking so long to respond to me?What? Guy stuff. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Briffault law apply to male friendships as well? Lol.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8384</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Night with female friends, and redpill lessons learned.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3120</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Briffault law apply to male friendships as well? Lol.Guys expect you to have your emotional house in order. Sure, the death of a child, spouse, or dog, or maybe parent, you're entitled to some crying in your beer. But not much. Men don't have the patience to hang with someone who sucks the air out of the room week after week, and will start distancing themselves pretty quick. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Night with female friends, and redpill lessons learned.I miss my motorcycle. But I figure a man only gets to ride out one skull fracture in a lifetime, and I've had mine. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 8 | Should I tell a woman whos "not looking right now" that Im talking to someone else?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8785</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell somebody to put their phone down if they’re looking at it when I talk to them?Not really, no. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What could I have done better?You did fine, your first time out the chute. You just need to again. And again. You need practice. Tinder match other girls and go on more first dates. You'll get it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Interesting situation; need help getting a read about n-count; should I believe her in this instance or AWALT (ignore what she says about sexual history)?I dunno, really. Most guys will tell you that a high n-count makes it harder for a woman to work up loyalty. But do you value loyalty in a plate? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 03:00 PM |
| 3 | (27M) Kissless virgin who never had sex or a girlfriend. Need clarification on something that happened recently.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8967</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Interesting situation; need help getting a read about n-count; should I believe her in this instance or AWALT (ignore what she says about sexual history)?It's a low N. Not as low as she claims, but she's claiming a low one. Remember: Drunk sex doesn't count, vacation sex doesn't count, rebound sex doesn't count, and vacation sex doesn't count. Always take N and multiply by two to get a rational number. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I’m asking your advice. Please!!!deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6640</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell somebody to put their phone down if they’re looking at it when I talk to them?I stop talking in the middle of a sentence and just stare, with raised eyebrows. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Smoking calms the nerves ?Both the physical act of smoking AND nicotine are calming. They are also an appetite suppressant. Those are two of the reasons it's so fucking addictive and why I got to watch my parents both suffocate because at the ripe old age of 73 they'd turned the lungs to mulch. If you're such a fucking pussy that you have to have a crutch to approach, use weed. It's less harmful. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do Tinder girls like leading on and then doing a 180 turn?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0497</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice for establishing independence from parents, specific situation in post. 24yr old male, moved out (11 hours away, 8 months ago)If you are not under their roof, this is no longer any of their business. Make sure you are carrying ID, and then go on your trip. You're 24. 100 years ago, you would have two children waiting for you to get back from the trenches of WWI. If you're old enough to shoot Germans, you're old enough to decide to go a wedding without asking for permission. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How to reject my co-worker without coming off as a dickbag?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6004</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Unsure if I should bed this HB6deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3495</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 01:31 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to this shit testdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3465</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestThat would be my call. That gives her until Thursday to reach out. If you don't hear from her by then, send her a confirming text: "We're still on for X at Y. See you there." | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Shit TestThis calls for no particular responds unles she reaches out. If she does not, wait 1 - 3 days, then reopen. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Slept with female friend - how to proceed and plate her?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9801</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I still can't forgive my exDo you get pissed at the shower, when it scalds you? Or do you get pissed at yourself because you mis-handed the settings? You need to let go of this. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Meeting female friends hot frienddeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3453</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 5 | How to not let "anger phase" destroy my couple ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0283</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to introduce a friend to TRP?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4510</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | FR + My questionsdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8256</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble keeping a straight face.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1031</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | FR + My questionsSeeing what we want to see is a common issue for all humans. Men looking for sex are particularly prone to it, because rejection sucks, and women HATE to communicate directly. (Because telling someone they're not attractive sucks.) So it's easy to do. Just remember: If her answer isn't "Hell yes!" it's really no. Just don't take it personally. It's almost always "no." That's why there are more. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What are your best go-to's to instantly level up your attractiveness?It's a rule of thumb. Depends on your work environment, local humidity, and metabolism. If you're an office worker who points and clicks, probably not. If you work in the trades, almost certainly. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to introduce a friend to TRP?You can't. You just can't. The student is not ready. Any attempt to bring him here would blow up in your face, and possibly get spooge all over us. Please do not. However, ask him RP questions. My favorite for guys like this is: "What has changed about her that you think it will be different in the future?" Don't make statement. Don't blame her or color her in a bad light in any way. Just make him think. But dont' use red pill jargon, and for the love of Cassanova, dont' bring him here. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Starting to game girls at my college, need some advice.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1035</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | "When are you going to ask her out"That depends entirely on your local culture and vocabulary. In the US these days, I think they say "want to make it exclusive?" or words to that effect. You deflect that question with "It's a little soon for that." "Shouldn't we get to know one another better before making that kind of commitment?" | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | "When are you going to ask her out"Pick something you both like to do that doesn't have a big distraction. When I was your age, believe it or not, the go to in winter was miniature golf. In the summer, we went to the beach. But it needs to be something you will both enjoy, but gives you time to talk. Movies and the theater are very BAD for this. Then, you just man up, catch her when she's not surrounded by her posse and say, "Hey, I'm going to . You should come. It's gonna be fun." Be sure to make eye contact and smile. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Starting to game girls at my college, need some advice."Hey! Let's grab some lunch." That's it. It ain't rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Possible Boomerang?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5302</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | FR + My questionsAh, the Let's Just Be Friends kiss of death. This woman is not attracted to you. Smile, wish her well, go zero contact, and game other women. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | "When are you going to ask her out"My question stands: what is your goal here? What do you want with/from her? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Advice needed for girl I am interested in.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6340</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I will break this cycle of bullshit in my family. I'm tired of it.You've started out well, little brother. But here's the thing: you cannot save these people; they can only save themselves. You need to get some distance from this dumpster fire of a family as soon as you can manage it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | "When are you going to ask her out"Little brother, step back. Stop, for a moment, about shoulds, shouldnt's, RP philosophy. and men's issues. Put all of it out of your mind. Now, as yourself this question: what do you want to do? Alternatively, what is your goal? Once you have answered those questions, look at your situation and determine which course of action is most likely to get you what you want. In MY opinion, given what you have said here, I would ask the girl out on a date. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I'm 18, graduating high school at the end of may. I have a couple 16-turning-17/17-turning 18 chicks who want me. Whats the youngest I can fuck?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5289</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Did I fuck it up?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7083</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Opinions of these 2 lines and tactic?I do NOT point out that things aren't working out. She can figure that out for herself. I just grab an exit line: "It's getting late and I have to be at work early tomorrow." Then go radio silent for 3 - 7 days. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Girl i felt like i was vibing with dropped her boyfriend into the conversation....deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4027</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What are your best go-to's to instantly level up your attractiveness?Update your wardrobe. All that takes is money. Get a better haircut. Make sure your hygene is in order. It should be obvious, but bathe at least every other day. More if you are active. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Is this some ED or just anxiety ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6835</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Soft dread in this situation (ltr stopped sex)Just like sometimes dongs are harder than others, pussies get more or less wet. Alcohol, weed, too little sleep, too much sleep, allergies . . . could be anything. Don't read anything into it unless it becomes a recurring issue. Also, invest in a small bottle of lube. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:20 PM |
| 9 | Alcohol impaired memorydeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5143</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:19 PM |
| 51 | Should tell a WILLING friend about TRP?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6326</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is this some ED or just anxiety ?An hour a day, seven days a week, is thirty hours a month, or an ENTIRE DAY spent watching other people fuck, with your dick in your hand. Don't get me wrong - it's your dick. Touch it if you want. But consider if, at the end of the year, you want to have spent TWO ENTIRE WEEKS (added up) having done nothing but jerk off. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this some ED or just anxiety ?I know. It's your best friend since childhood, with whom you have shared innumerable joys. Whenever it changes its behavior, it's cause for concern. But what you are describing is normal for adult men. And it happens to all of us. It's coming a little early for you, and I suspect its from the intensity of your porn use, but it's nothing to worry about. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Plate canceled due to very late hour (said shes in job) and asked to reschedule, i didnt ask when, then I NCed her, Is it ok to ask her again?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9388</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I decided to soft-next this girl and I think she's calling off my bluff. Here's what she said. What should I do?Sure - When a woman violates boundaries, the standard response is to withdraw some level of commitment or resources, usually in the form of time and attention. We all know this. Sometimes we get a little caught up in the jargon around here, but some guys refer to the withdrawal of ALL attention and going zero contact as a "soft next," if the intent is to re-open the girl at a later time. (You probably know this, too, but I'm just making sure we're on the same page.) The purpose of the soft next … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | LTR don't trust me. Looked through my phone, is now angry more than ever.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3216</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Consensus on Spending the Night?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0695</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate canceled due to very late hour (said shes in job) and asked to reschedule, i didnt ask when, then I NCed her, Is it ok to ask her again?First - you should be gaming other women. You're already heavily invested in this one. However - you have not given this one sufficient opportunity to get herself nexted. Not really. Call her. Set up a meet. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Plates do not suckThey don't like giving head. Ok. They don't have to give head. They're plates. They don't have to be plates. Game other women until you find ones that give acceptable, enthusiastic head. In the meantime, enjoy the banging. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I decided to soft-next this girl and I think she's calling off my bluff. Here's what she said. What should I do?Okay, dude. You've missed the point of a "soft next." If you're bluffing, they know. The point of the soft next is to remind her that you've got better things to do, while a the same time, ACTUALLY do better things. The correct response here is: "Huh?" "What are you talking about?" | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 12:59 PM |
| 5 | How should I address a high-ranking person in face to face conversations?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9129</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Fraternity Formaldeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5481</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 04:11 AM |
| 1 | RP men help save my marriage!Huh, 49 an no libido, eh? That's a bit ahead of schedule. I'd try to get him to see his doc and get his T-levels checked. He should also be evaluated for depression. He's ripe for a mid-life crisis. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Fraternity FormalSpecifically, a "formal" is short for a "Formal Dance" or a "Formal Ball." Properly, the women wear full length gowns (dresses) that reach the floor. The men wear black tie (tuxedos). These days, "formal" have been more accepting of a simple suit or clubwear. These would more properly be called "semi-formal," but the name persists. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Lost virginity in a fivesome orgyIf her LTR is into being cucked, normally I would say that you should plate her. Given your recent virgin status, I would advise NOT. At least not until you banged at least two other women. A man always remembers his first, and it's normal to get really attached. And I would NOT under ANY circumstances advice getting attached to this one. It will NOT end well for you. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7743</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Potential Plates housemate met me for a quick drink, I shot down her advances, worried she's going to cause drama. How can I damage control this situation?There are two principles here you may need to consider: Do not stick your dick in crazy. I kid you not, crazy women will FU CK UP YOUR LIFE. The sex is NEVER worth it. If you're getting "crazy chick" vibes, stay away. Then we have "Don't shit where you eat" (Also "bird in the hand") now that' I'm thinking about it. Only top players get to spin two plates that are roommmates. If you are askign questions here, you are not a top player. Pick one and game her. And, finally, you could be being set up… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What are your guys' opinions on drinking?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4440</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this situation with this chick ?Next. She's not into you. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | She called me needy to a friendYou need more practice and reading female body language. In some way you were misinterpreting her interactions with you as IOIs when they were not. This woman is not attracted to you, and that's okay. Try another one. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | FR + My questionsThis woman is not attracted to you. Do not call her again. If you are not sexing her up, she is not a plate. She is merely a prospect. But she is NOT interested in bedding you. Try again. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy?No, it does not. There are many advantages to an LTR, if that's your thing. It does NOT change the basic nature of women, however. And the idea that a woman is someone you can "rely on," is something you will have to handle with care. A woman's love is conditional. You MUST remain the BEST male she feels she can get. If you do that, you can have a happy LTR that can last until you die. Further - you cannot define yourself as a husband and a father. Those are ROLES that you take on and enjoy. But… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Ex-girlfriend, now turned plate, refusing to have sex unless we have MFM threesomedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5991</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl is unsure whether I like her or not, wants me to ask her outdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5331</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up high school—does college offer a fresh start?You are not going to believe how little high school matters or how FAST you find out how little high school matters when you're out. To answer your question, YES, everything change change in college. But it can also change OUTSIDE of college. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girl flaked, at what point should I consider her again?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3983</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I am Going to my first House Party Tomorrow Night - Any Advice?Talk to EVERYBODY. Make sure you say "hello" to EVERY SINGLE PERSON. Open ALL of the hot girls. Flirt at least once with EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. Have no more than one drink an hour, and no more than five drinks the entire night. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Broke Up with Her But Failed Her Shit TestMessing with girls who have crazy relatives is dangerous. You've made the right decision. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl flaked, at what point should I consider her again?It costs almost nothing to send a text. Set up another meet. If you get anything other than "yes," or "that doens't work for me, how about Y," next. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | did i fuck updeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8024</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Tinder: got her #. Should I let her wait or meet her immediately?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2331</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Had a second date scheduled but they canceled - how to handle?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1224</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Asking her outdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8330</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Had a second date scheduled but they canceled - how to handle?It's early to call this "oneitis," but you are working too hard for this one and thinking to hard. Respond: "Ok" Then go radio silent for three days. After three days, message again to set up another meet. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Asking her outTalk to her in person. Make direct eye contact. "I'm gonna go see "X" Saturday night. You should come. It's going to be fun." | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Asking her outNot REALLY, but super-hero movies tend not to have the kind of quiet moments that lends themselves to going in for the kiss. Comedies work better for that. But it's not that important. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Getting her phone numberdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9950</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Asking her outAt 16? Ask her on a date. Take her to the movies. Sit in the back. Put your arm around her when the lights drop. If she leans into you, you're golden. If she leans away, back off and try again in 15 minutes. After you've had your arm around her for about 15 minutes, turn your head to face her. When she turns in, go for the kiss. Don't forget to tilt your head a little to avoid that awkward nose bump. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Bar game. One wingman or all your boys?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6331</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Is it okay to fuck clientsdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7201</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I agree to meet up again?What /u/terdmuffin said. It's not rocket science, and rejection is easier than regret. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have the advantage over text?I think I've been successfully trolled. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have the advantage over text?Tell ya' what. Since it's working so well for you, continue to run your game via text. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Newbie approach problems and general advice?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8346</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | properly practicing discretion without withholding information or being sketchydeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5615</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Old plate text...to respond or not to respond?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3437</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Somebody talk me out of sending this. Or not.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5754</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 06:04 PM |
| 5 | If you could come back to when you were 18, what would you do different?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4616</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Kinodeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9890</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3186</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you let plates or FWBs fuck other people?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7743</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you let plates or FWBs fuck other people?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5393</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between polyamorous relationships and plate spinning?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2732</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | [Fitness] Is it normal that a 16yo is not as strong as an adult?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1367</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are you hated if you're not the guy who "just gets it"?Because they want the REAL alpha. The pack leader who is large and in charge. The man who can make things happen. If you don't "just get it," you're not that guy. And if you have to be taught, you're not REALLY that guy, you're faking it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:17 PM |
| 3 | I need some advicedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4013</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is she nuts or did I !@#$ up?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3846</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | (Theory clarification) I still don't understand how to withdraw attention without totally ignoring a girldeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2983</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Advice before tomorrow?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6010</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks agoDude - You're cutting her out. Why do you care how it seems? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Extreme SportsWhy is this a question? Extreme sports are exciting and interesting. What's not to like? (Honestly. Are these boys retarded?) | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Follow up from last post 2 weeks agoSweet mother of pearl. Do not reply. Block on your phone, on all social media channels, and game other women. Find one that is interested in you. Women who are into you do NOT behave this way. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Dismissed message ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4895</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Somebody talk me out of sending this. Or not.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8223</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Somebody talk me out of sending this. Or not.Okay, little brother, listen up. I'm about to lay a Fact on you. A Fact of Life. A woman who is attracted to you does NOT act this way. You are assuming that she's not going to respond. What is your goal? What do you WANT to happen? (Don't tell me. Just keep it in mind as you consider the next question.) In the cold, steel grey light of dawn, stone cold sober, after an icy shower and two cups of BLACK coffee: what do you think is going to REALLY happen when she reads the above pile of garbage? S… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, can you please explain me, WTF is happening?She's your ex. Why have you not broken all contact? Further, why do you CARE? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Cheap cologne & fragrances?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4072</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:45 AM |
| 4 | A girl might know I'm attracted to herdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1339</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Highschool psych paperdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7615</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I making this too complicated?Yes, it's just as simple as that. Stop texting back and forth. Suggest another meet and see what she says. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Old plate text...to respond or not to respond?First - yes you are over-thinking. Second - sure, why not respond and see what you get out of it. Pitch your best text game in no more than 20 words total, and see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me out with this one part of the First Iron Law of Tomassi?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7553</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when gay guys are checking you outThey can look all the want. I'm not on the menu. If I actually get hit on, "No thanks, I'm straight" usually does the trick. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Are anger and confrontation beta traits?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0352</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I navigate through this?Wait for her to reach out. Game the other two girls and keep swiping right. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | (Theory clarification) I still don't understand how to withdraw attention without totally ignoring a girlThere is zero context when you text. You cannot provide connotative context via kino, tone of voice, body language, or facial expression. (And not, Emoji's do NOT serve the same function.) It also establishes you "always available." A busy man with lots of call on her time is a man with high SMV. A man who can sit around texting all day long is a "girlfriend" that she can text anytime. You expose your game to a critical, hostile, line-by-line analysis by all of her girlfriends, as they chatter a… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Need an advicedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9947</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I’m with a girl and she just told me she’s bi, what I do?Game as usual. One red flag is not a downcheck. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:48 PM |
| 7 | How to ask outdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9295</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me out with this one part of the First Iron Law of Tomassi?The most classic example of controlling frame is when we advise you to ask girls out by telling them what you are doing and inviting them along, rather than asking them if they would like to go out with you. Exerting Frame: "I'm going kayaking this weekend. You should come; it's going to be fun." Giving Up Frame: "Would you like to go kayaking this weekend?" The first one indicates the decisions YOU have made, and provides the opportunity for her to join in your world. The second one asks her to… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:02 PM |
| 20 | Need ASAP advicedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2893</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How to act after getting nexted or ghosted.Make eye contact, give her that "hey bro" half-smile you give a dude whose last name you don't remember, and get on with your day. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Do I Wait for Her To Reach Out or Set the Next Datedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8914</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:36 PM |
| 8 | Girl says it's 'too soon' to come over my place for a 2nd date, not sure how to proceeddeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5345</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Parents bust my balls at 23. Wanna chill the fuck out and game relaxed butIt sounds like you're smoking a bit too much weed. I suspect that it's numbing you and making it easier to cope with your living situation. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Parents bust my balls at 23. Wanna chill the fuck out and game relaxed butYou decide whether your filial obligations are more important than your father not busting your balls. His expectations of you are not going to change. You have two options. Well, maybe three. Move out and pursue other opportunities. Tell your Dad to hire somebody to run the shop while he's dealing with your Mom. Live up to your father's expectations while meeting your filial obligations. Please note that this will NOT actually stop the ball-busting. He will continue to find fault with smaller a… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Going out with a married non-monogamous woman tonight.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7507</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Fear of stds?What is she going to say if you ask? "No, I'm diseased?" If she's willing to raw dog you and not tell you, she's willing to lie about it, so there's no point in asking the question. She's going to say "I'm clean," regardless. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of f---ing other girlsWhat you are experiencing is what psychologists and forensic anthropologists call "being male." The best reproductive strategy for males is to bang every female we can, knock them all up, and run on to the next one. Spread you genes as widely as you can. The more offspring you have, the more likely your genes are to be passed on to subsequent generations. That's what your instincts are trying to get you to do. It's not ethical behavior, but that's why it's coming up for you. It's normal, and it … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Fear of stds?Yes, I do have STD anxiety. Yes, you will always get it after a questionable encounter. (And any encounter is questionable if you don't Wrap It Up.) Always remember, if she will raw dog you, she raw-doged he LAST five guys. And GOD KNOWS where they are willing to put their dicks. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Help! Psycho Ex is Claiming Rape and Trying to Ruin my lifeYour first step is to get a lawyer. All interactions with law enforcement AND her need to go through your lawyer. Second: Avoid ALL interaction with her if possible. Close all social media channels and avoid any place where you know she hangs out. Third: Do NOT be alone with her for ANY reason, even if it means running away. ALWAYS make sure there is a neutral or friendly (to you) witness. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Why I cannot break up?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6007</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Parents bust my balls at 23. Wanna chill the fuck out and game relaxed butWait - you're not only working for your dad, you still live under his roof? Move out. Start applying for work that has a live-in component. Go on an adventure. Do a hitch on the alaska salmon fleet. Get a job on an oil rig. I hear the guys who work in the Dakota oil fields are seriously making bank. Join the army for a single tour, even. Get out from under your parents roof, or live their way. Make your choice and quit bitching. You can't change your father's behavior, only how you respond to it… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:58 PM |
| 3 | How to reheat a cold DM?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7879</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:54 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to a break up text?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1684</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | She is out of my league!Why is she not bloced on yoru phone and social meda? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you set a sexual frame early?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0501</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:51 PM |
| 12 | How do you set a sexual frame early?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8936</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Bring TV to the main area or keep in my room?I'd leave it in the bedroom. Just make sure the bed is made and the room looks set up for entertaining, not just sleep and fucking. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you set a sexual frame early?"And you're getting a simple answer: it's none of your business." Really, answering this is far more likely to hurt you than help you. Really - the kind of woman who thinks she has the "right" to an answer to this question is usually not the kind of woman I want to sleep with anyway, and i find it a useful filter. But YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to date fat women?No. Date who you want. If you don't want to go whale hunting, don't, and don't let anyone tell you you should. If gays "can't help it" that they're attracted to men, YOU can't help it that you're only attracted to 19-year-old hotties, and they need to stop shaming you for your sexual preferences. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you set a sexual frame early?I take that in three steps: "A gentleman does not discuss such things." (Presented lightly and with humor.) "Um, how is that any of your business?" (Presented with exasperation and impatience.) Often followed with "That's personal, and not available for your entertainment." "Who the fuck do you think you are?" (At this point, I present that I'm pissed and rapidly approaching offended.) | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:07 AM |
| 16 | How do you set a sexual frame early?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2923</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | “You don’t do that and not say sorry to me!”If she's already reaching out, a day might be long enough. Don't apologize, and don't explain. If she asks what took so long, tell her you didn't notice your phone. You were busy. If she asks what kept you so busy, it's "you know, guy stuff." Don't be specific. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:59 PM |
| 5 | plate blowing up my phone - shit test or red flags? or nbddeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9277</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I bail?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1258</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 3 | She started hmu after I said I miss herdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3890</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | “You don’t do that and not say sorry to me!”Go radio silent for 3 - 7 days or until she reaches out. After a week, re-open her and game like nothing happened. If she insists on an apology, grin, and go radio silent again, this time for two weeks. See your other plates. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you set a sexual frame early?Never, EVER wave around your N-count. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Am I having one-itis or just hamstering?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1135</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Looking back on One Year of Red Pill: Will I Ever Stop Resenting Women?Resenting women because of the way you were treated in the past is like resenting dogs that bit you when you teased them. You acted in a certain way. They reacted. Because they are women. It's like being mad because water is wet. You have to let go of the hostility. It will only wear YOU down. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl who I might date has flawsFlat Stare I . . . You . . . Okay little brother, ask her out, or don't. It's that simple. Why are you still considering the positives and negatives? Ask her out, or move on to the next one. That's it. There's nothing else. It really is that simple. READ MY LIPS AND SMELL MY BREATH: Now is the time on Schprocketts when we fish or cut bait. Ask her out, or don't. Quit thinking about it. If I were your Dad, I would lock you out of the house until you decided to bet or fold. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I having one-itis or just hamstering?Is there a question here? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I Read Into This More?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1277</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What should i dodeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2697</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 5 | What to do now?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9859</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What should i doWait one week, then try to set up a meet. Go STRAIGHT to setting up the meet. Don't chat any more. If you get ANYTHING other than "yes" or "can I re-schedule," go radio silent and open other women. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Should I Read Into This More?Disregard what she says and look at how she ACTS. Does she behave like a woman who is into you? Who is attracted to you? If so, the label she puts on you is irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Vengeful thoughts.It's normal, but it's not healthy. It's letting a squatter live in your head, rent free. Quit wasting your time and emotional energy on a woman who's not interested in you and develop yourself into someone who can snag higher value women. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Asked girl for drinks, girl wants to bring gay male friendI would respond with "Maybe some other time," go radio silent, and open other women. A woman who is attracted to you does not need a chaperone. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Going to promdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6461</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:00 AM |
| 3 | I need to swallow the red pill. The abuse of my ex!deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4980</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:57 AM |
| 13 | Girl dodged me telling herto come overdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4699</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Is there a question here? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:55 AM |
| 3 | She gave excuses for not having sex. How to take it from here?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6079</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Is lots of casual sex (high n-count) actually a bad thing for men?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8765</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Would you agree that the DiCarlo escalation is way too detailed?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3200</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2705</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to long-silence?If shes' reached out to you, send ONE message to set up the hangout. Make sure you have a plan B. If she responds with ANYTHING other than "yes" or alternative plans, go with "K." And ghost. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out twice for brunch and she flakedShe's not into you. This is where the Brad Pitt rules comes in. Ask yourself if she would oversleep if she had a meet-up with Brad Pitt or if a hangover would stop her from hanging with Brad Pitt. The answer is no. This tells you that she is not into you. Next. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Does sending nudes mean a girl is ready to fuck you?Not any more. Young women today send out nudes the way that girls wore thong bikini's in the 80's and bikini's in the 70's: They want guys to think (and tell them) that they're hot. It makes them feel good about themselves and gives them a sense of power. Let me tell you a Thing I Have Learned About How Women Are Different from Men: This is another one of Fnord's Facts of Life - A woman can want you to want her, without wanting YOU. Your attraction to HER is a measurement of how attractive SHE i… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | She had mixed feelings so I let her walk. Starts to leave then crawls back into bed with me...I'm going to assume a few things: You're good looking enough, make enough money, and are socially savvy enough to turn women on, at least often enough. This makes you a perfectly good boyfriend. She basically broke up with a perfectly good dude for no good (rational)reason that she can see. This makes her feel like a bitch, and look like the bad guy. Nobody wants to be the bad guy in their own story. She turned around and lay back down in hopes that you would either present yourself as "okay wit… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Any chance to get past "let's just be friends" talk?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7573</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with verbal abuse off your gf?No. Yes, she's allowed to get pissed. That's human nature. She's allowed to express that she's pissed. But when it's abusive, replace her with one that's not. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with verbal abuse off your gf?You don't take that shit from a woman. There are 2.53 BILLION of them on the planet. There's GOT to be one who gives blowjobs just as goods as this one but doesn't hurl abuse at you when she doesn't get her way. NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:25 PM |
| 4 | How to leave bruises on a girl?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5044</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Plate and LTR, inbetweenShe DID ask for a relationship. She did it by threatening to cut off the booty supply unless you LTR'd-up. And you did it. She played you using classic girl-game moves and you behaved EXACTLY the way she expected. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I flake on someone to see a plate on her terms?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4946</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Any chance to get past "let's just be friends" talk?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2847</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:50 PM |
| 9 | Any chance to get past "let's just be friends" talk?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9373</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Any chance to get past "let's just be friends" talk?"You smell good." (Ignore the question) "This week? Or did you just mean tonight?" (Agree and amplify) There is no way back from LJBF. It's like asking what a good response to "you're ugly and your mother dresses you funny" or "you've made my panties dry up." Look at it this way. What's the goal? If the goal is to achieve attraction, your question has no meaning. Because it CAN'T. BE. DONE. At least, not at this point. If you're trying to eject with some dignity or courtesy instead of just going… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | STD shitstormdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9870</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:35 PM |
| 7 | What do you guys think of this.? No eex after 2nd date. (A follow up)deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6964</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Any chance to get past "let's just be friends" talk?All right little brother. Listen up as I lay the one of the Facts of Life Upon you. Harken to my voice. Listen up. READ MY LIPS AND SMELL MY BREATH. No. "Let's just be friends" is woman-code for "I am not sexually attracted to you. You are perfectly suited to entertain me, expend resources on me, and be seen in public with me, but I don't want to bone you. I have NEVER wanted to bone you, and I am NOT ever going to want to bone you." A woman generally knows if she is attracted to you within the … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with rejectiondeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6441</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | plate was out of towndeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3120</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Best way to ask for a girl's number?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7910</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | plate was out of townI don't want to get doxxed. To limit that risk, I remove my comments every few days. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | plate was out of townWait no less than one day after she gets back, and no more than three days. Then message her ONCE and wait for her to reach out. This will express an interest without generating an impression of thirstiness or a lack of options on your part. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up with FWB?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0391</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Help maintaining frame for a difficult situation coming upThis is some silly-ass shit. I'm in the same situation with another FnordSnord in a historical re-enactment group. Everytime somebody suggest I be called "Fnordsnord the Elder" I counter with, "No, HE'S Fnordsnord the Lesser." Or "He's Fnordsnord the Newguy." I maintain it as a running joke, never to be resolved. If somebody yell's "Fnordsnord!" we just both answer. This is HARDLY a situation for getting bent over or worrying about frame. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels meeting and doesnt counteroffer/reschedule then its over?Dude, a 10% F-close rate is exceptional. If you're getting nexted at a mere 20%, you're doing FINE. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:34 PM |
| 4 | What to do when they say "maybe next week?" when you try to set up plansdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8402</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels meeting and doesnt counteroffer/reschedule then its over?They're all in the top 1% of alpha. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | ex-LTR wished happy birthday 2 days after birthday.Um, if it's truly the past, then it shouldn't matter how it seems, butthurt or not. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels meeting and doesnt counteroffer/reschedule then its over?EVERYBODY often gets nexted except top-tier alphas like Obama, Clooney, and LeBron. Yeah, we should all be working to improve our SMV wherever it is weak. In your case, maintain your fitness and personality, but focus on becoming not-poor. But the most powerful tool in the RP tool box is truly internalizing abundance mentality. There are more. There are ALWAYS more. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | ex-LTR wished happy birthday 2 days after birthday.Email back "thanks," then route all inbound email from her to the trash can. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Confused about ioisIf they have earphones in, they're trying to keep men from opening them. You can still try to open them, but you're climbing uphill. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels meeting and doesnt counteroffer/reschedule then its over?Pretty much. If you want to pursue this, wait at least 10 days to two weeks of radio silence, then hit her up for another meet. Anything other than a "hell yes" from her at that point would indicate a loss of interest. But I give you a 1/5 chance of interest. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl [19F] I’ve [20M] gone out twice with suddenly goes cold through text?Neither. There's another rooster in the henhouse, and he has a higher SMV than you. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:08 AM |
| 11 | Would you feel emasculated dating a girl a few inches taller than you?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7535</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:33 AM |
| 4 | Isn't silently demoting an LTR to a plate cheating?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8416</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Hi ! Quick questiondeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3996</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | not getting laid!deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8262</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Isn't silently demoting an LTR to a plate cheating?You seem to think that there are rules, points, and some kind of umpire somewhere. You do what is best for YOU and is most likely to generate the outcome YOU want. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:08 AM |
| 0 | does sleeping with a fat girl raise or lower your smv?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4304</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Hi ! Quick questionHave you read ANYTHING on the sidebar? No. Just ask her on a date. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with the “My bad i forgot to respond!” textsdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4592</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:04 AM |
| 4 | No sex relationship?!deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6477</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Fine line between escalate and thirstyMe? Nothing. I'm working out. If she ACTUALLY opens me, I'll engage, name close, and ask her to grab coffee after our workout. But that' will be on HER. Because I'm working out. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | not getting laid!You do realize that the average man only has SIX partners in his lifetime. If you're getting laid three times a year, you're doing bettter than average. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Help with with nexting a girl without being extremely brutal.It's your call, of course. But I've always tried to remember that while I am looking for a good time, SHE may be looking for a life partner. I have until I'm 93 to look for a good time. She's got maybe 13 years to find the father of her children and reproduce. For that reason, I consider keeping a woman around for convenience because we get along okay and the sex is good is an act of cruelty. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 10:08 PM |
| 10 | Bad timing?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1873</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Gym Girls - Good or Bad?I've always viewed the gym as a temple to myself, and my time there is devoted exclusively to me. While I still have a pulse, I will continue to notice hot girls in gym attire. But I would never contaminate my temple by distracting myself with Game there. Not everybody agrees. YMMV | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you count the bar when lifting?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Fine line between escalate and thirstyOh, sure. For that I isolate and go in for the kiss. If I can't manage enough privacy, I go with "I fancy you." | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR looking for insecurities?She's getting bored. She's looking for flaws. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Help with with nexting a girl without being extremely brutal.I want you to think for a moment about all the times you've been rejected. Did "I really like you," "I treasure your friendship," or "It's not you, it's me" ever fucking help? You're rejecting her. You're saying she's not attractive enough for you. NOTHING is going to help with that. The best you can hope for is a quick, clean break. "I'm sorry. This isn't working for me. We should't see each other any more." Then block, unfriend, and unfollow. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Fine line between escalate and thirstyUsually I smile and say "hello." Then I go with "what's your name." I always forget to check for wedding rings, so sometimes I get caught out. Unless you mean sexual interest. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Confused regarding the thread with the guy's financedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3276</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Confused regarding the thread with the guy's financeIn the end, the decision wasn't about what was "fair." It was about his expectations and his desires. He didn't want a fiance/wife with a high N-count. She hid hers from him, admittedly by omission, but she still hid it. And when it turned out that she wasn't what he wanted, he broke up with her. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | LTR issuesdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2716</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Third date, great girl, She’s not putting out. What do?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4220</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Fine line between escalate and thirstyGoogle "pickup artist" and "push pull." You'll never get laid if you don't express an interest, but once you HAVE expressed an interest, you want to give the impression that if this doesn't work out, you've got other options. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Plate didn't reschedule - attempt to get her over to my place again or radio silence?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6743</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Am I a bad person for experimenting with other people?You're not a horrible person, but you're wasting your time. You can't change other people. You can only change yourself. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:58 PM |
| 18 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6518</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.I think you're seeing her true colors. This woman DOES seem to think that she's entitled to your money. Yes, if this behavior is consistent (and I think it will be), it's "next" material. However, there is more sex to be had here if you play this right. I would start laying the emotional and financial groundwork to be single again, but spin her a bit. I'd go radio silent until she reaches out. If you've been in a 10 month LTR, she will reach out within 48 hours. (If I'm wrong, you're better off,… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her by getting shit off chest?No, it's not worth it. The more you stir shit, the more it stinks. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | She Can't Be Fucking Seriousdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4746</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | when she is out of towndeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9038</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:58 PM |
| 2 | How to get better at public speakingdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1780</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been talking to this girl and I think she tries to make me an orbiter.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3731</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:55 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been talking to this girl and I think she tries to make me an orbiter.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6527</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been talking to this girl and I think she tries to make me an orbiter."I want to get to know you better" is femspeak for "I am not attracted to you, but you are interesting enough to provide me with compliments and other forms of validation until something better comes along." Further - I have never seen a woman so "busy" with school/work that she couldn't find time for a man she was attracted to. You are wasting your time with this girl. Go zero contact and chase one that is interested in you. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is scheduling meet ups just one day after meeting in real life and texting ,alright?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7616</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What happens on Prom Night?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6128</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What precautions do you take to minimize STD risks?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7345</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Added my oneitis on Facebook, she accepted. I messaged her, she ghosted me (2 months now). What should I do?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1849</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Ltr read dirty texts with another womanYour first fucking stupid mistake was not password-protecting your phone. Christ-in-a-sidecar, what kind of spycraft is that? You deserved to get caught, skipping a basic, elemental precaution like that. Next up - you apologized. Don't do that. You should have IMMEDIATELY gone on the attack for her theft and violation of your privacy and threatened to leave HER. So - here's your way forward. Go zero contact. Wait for her to reach out. In the meantime, open every single cute girl you know. Especi… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I bring this up or drop it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6855</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | New gf...has only one red flag and thats depression.Run. Depression does not go away. It gets WORSE. The meds don't work forever. Then they need to be changed. Trust me, these women can suck the air out of a room, the music out of the air, and the fun out of your life. For a bang, a summer fling, or even an LTR, maybe. But do NOT marry and do NOT commit to someone diagnosed with depression. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | What precautions do you take to minimize STD risks?I do not bang skanks. Who am I kidding. Of course I do. I do not CHASE skanks, and when one shows up, I wrap it tightly with a condom I control. I have a rotation of plates I stick to; I'm not chasing a new plate ever day, week, or even month. And that's pretty much it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Isolation, Frustration. My Storydeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4752</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my parents are trying to push me back into Bluepill land?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2322</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | GOD SOMEONE PLEASE just fucking tell me what to do with this girlStep back a second. Is the sex really worth the grief you are getting. Because here's the thing: you CANNOT control someone else's behavior. You can only control how you respond to it. Are you getting what you want out of this relationship? Once you have answered that question, the way forward will become clearer. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | LTR issuesdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9256</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | My friend is in a situation where he might get cucked need all advice I can get.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4036</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR issuesShe is asserting frame. Become less available. Open other women. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Did I dodge a bullet or lose out?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7220</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Did I dodge a bullet or lose out?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0610</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Girl is playing with medeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4342</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever hope after rejecting her LJBF?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3893</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Update on the girl I fucked 15 seconds then stopped me. I developed oneitis for herdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1124</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Need big helpIs there a question here? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Why are married women the biggest flirts?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2320</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 05:49 PM |
| 9 | Why is this girl I asked out trying to make me into a bad guy?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0148</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Fwb(/plate) flaked sexual encounterdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1533</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | I feel baddeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6781</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 11:27 PM |
| 8 | Cant help but feel very behind due to poor choices.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2291</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 03:07 AM |
| 8 | How to respond to "what do you do for a living" if you're unemployed?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7597</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do we feel about our plate having plates of their own?"We" don't feel anything. We're an amorphous mob of commentators and respondents who change daily. But I feel like if you're not willing to commit, you don't really have any business asking her to. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1338</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Decided to finalyl speak updeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1597</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Date?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0775</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:08 AM |
| 12 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4919</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Use Texting to set up logistics only or to build attraction?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9966</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Is it okay to fuck a fat girl?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6188</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Simple question about a textWait 1 - 3 days, then message back and say, "I'm gonna be at X place at Y time. You can make it up to me then by buying the first round." | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:12 PM |
| 4 | If a plate teases you by leaning away from a kiss and sort of playing with you before making out, does that mean she's trying to control the frame or is it just her being cheeky?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4561</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Decided to finalyl speak upShe likes you just fine. You are interesting enough to hang out with, witty enough to text back and forth with, and high-status enough to provide validation for her. What you are NOT is attractive. She does NOT want to bang you. You need to go zero contact with this girl. Unfollow, unfriend, and block on all media, including your phone. Quit wasting your time and emotional energy on this girl and find one who is into you. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask her if she feels confortable sharing bed/room with me?If you are paying for it, do it the way YOU want it. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:12 PM |
| 6 | How to answer GF questions that make you vulnerable?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2845</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Cool come back at a shit test?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3179</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How did you beat your Approach Anxiety?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1605</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Would it be fine to ask a plate about her other romantic interests outside of our relationship?Yes, yes it would. This is a power-move. She is trying to make you feel sufficiently threatened such that you'll show for the party and also pony up more commitment. Do not bring it up. If she does, shrug, and go on with whatever you guys are doing. Be aware that this could be prelude to the "what are we/where is this going" conversation. Be prepared. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 01:44 PM |
| 4 | My ex-LTR has 'made friends' with my current open-LTR and wants to ruin it - how to respond?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8131</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 01:41 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] Response to a Shit Testdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5103</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 01:39 PM |
| 4 | What to do when she tells you: "I would never have sex with you because you're a player"deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8327</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Just ended a LTR, looking for some advice.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8570</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Is prom worth it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2516</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Wants to hang out "as friends". Hard next?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7887</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Just found out I'm going to get quite a large amount of money, what's the smartest procedure to do?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6142</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I’m a high school senior wondering about kino and how far I should go on a date?Do not blindly follow this. Stay alert to her feedback. If you get resistance, step back down to the previous level for a while, then escalate again. https://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16768511-vindicarloescalationladder | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to increase SMV?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3030</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to, i think your cheating on me?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6993</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Just found out I'm going to get quite a large amount of money, what's the smartest procedure to do?Real property, however, does nail your foot to the floor. Land and buildings aren't portable. I inherited my Dad's side-hustle and now I own four buildings and a vacant lot. And it's like my feet are nailed to the floor. I like the idea of renting a nice place for a young guy, leaving him free to jet if he takes a mind to. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | was it my fault ? did i do something to her ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9897</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to increase SMV?I'm the WORST adviser for fit and fashion for you. I'm in my mid-50's and I fish in the 30-something pond. I'm at my best in classic tailor-made suits and SERIOUS rock a tuxedo. You need to find somebody nearer your demographic. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Does red pill work for someone only looking for LTR?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6444</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Just found out I'm going to get quite a large amount of money, what's the smartest procedure to do?Pay your debts off first. There are few things more profitable than no longer paying out interest. Then, talk to your banker or attorney and explain your position. Tell them that you need reliable financial advice, and ask them to recommend someone. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | kind of rantdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7127</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl from my class. She's a potential lay but should I do it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2896</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Social Media and my ExPeople rarely look at that stuff unless they decide to change it. Best odds: She hasn't got anybody new to put in there yet and so it hasn't occurred to her to change it. Don't read a lot into it. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Attitude in Text / Frame Testing"Yes, I did." "Because I want to know." "Why you ask why I ask why? Or, my personal favorite: nothing. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | was it my fault ? did i do something to her ?Well, what do you WANT to do? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | was it my fault ? did i do something to her ?It's not just you. The longer I answer questions in this forum, the more amazed I get at how we are all exactly alike. I used to think that everybody was unique, and we all had our own, unique problems. No, no we don't. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to increase SMV?"Best" is a relative term. Some of the QUICKEST ways forward are "good haircut" and "well fitted, up-to-date" wardrobe. Those are just a matter of throwing money at a good consultant. One of the BEST things to do is "not be fat." You'll notice that I don't say "get swole" or "get shredded." Yeah, being a sculpted hot-body is great, but so many Americans are obese that just being "not fat" is a serious advantage. But that's harder that clothes and a haircut. Then there's money. Sure. You don't wa… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m in an open relationship. Should I be straight up with potential plates, leave that info out until asked, or never bring it up at all?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2174</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Bluepill "PTSD"I don't know if you're right about the specifics, but the dude needs to at LEAST see the school councilor, if not actually be in therapy. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:56 PM |
| 14 | Bluepill "PTSD"deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8422</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 3 | No Spark, Shit Test or Genuine?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6916</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill NewbieBe aware that the Red Pill is not a doctrine, religion, or philosophy of life. It's a tool box with a wide variety of tools designed to help you get more of what you want out of life. Use the tools that work for you; don't use the ones that don't. But some things are near universal. Almost all men should pursue some kind of strength training. Almost all men need their own physical space. (Den, study, workshop) | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | 2nd date advicedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0431</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong? I was too distant/uncaring?Well, yes, you did fuck up by being too aloof. If you have opted for an LTR instead of spinning plates, and are willing to commit, she's entitled to expect signs that "you are serious." However, your "road to Damascus moment" is misleading. The response you describe from your breakup is a predictable emotional response to loss. We ALWAYS want something more when we lose it. Other than the standard advice to make a clean break and unfriend, block, and unfollow her on your phone and all social med… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:44 PM |
| 19 | How often should you text a girl you are dating?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2368</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Girls giving lots of attention but not putting out?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2497</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Will i ever get out of the friendzone with this girl?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3522</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Break up after 5 months, how to go about it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9017</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | "Would it be bad if I fucked this guy?"No response. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Break up after 5 months, how to go about it?What's going on here is that she lost attraction for you. If you tell her this, or ask her if it's true, she'll deny it with her dying breath. But you just go the the dump. I don't know if there's another rooster in the henhouse, or if she's just seen one she thinks she can lock down. But a woman who is attracted to you does not behave like this. That entire performance was designed to make YOU the bad guy by manipulating YOU to leave her. It allows her to feel better about herself, when she is,… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Text message after a flake ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5666</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend sending old nudesdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4852</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Oneitis is still lurking what can I do to get rid of it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1182</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:04 PM |
| 3 | LTR an ultimatumdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8109</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Sheet/Duvet recommendations?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9441</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Sheet/Duvet recommendations?Because you're a civilized human being? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What's it like dating a solid HB9?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5770</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Mall with my sister...weirdThis is classic social proof. Because you are with a woman, the presumption is that a woman has found you worthy. (They don't know she's your sister.) | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Possible to recover from first meet up?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9651</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | "What's your greatest fear?" shittestdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.1386</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | "What's your greatest fear?" shittest"Dying a virgin. Will you help me, please?" | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Suspect my plate fucked my roommateIf she's a plate, you don't have a commitment to her. So it shouldn't matter who she bangs. If it DOES matter who she bangs, then clearly you think of her as a girlfriend. Make up your mind where your head is. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Please explain what is going on and talk me out of thisdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.3353</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Breaking updeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9316</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Breaking updeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5528</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I (21m) am dating a (20f) University student with plans to live together. I am having some doubts and would appreciate some advice.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.0820</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I try a third time or no ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9425</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:36 PM |
| 4 | What to make of plate who teases analdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6552</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl seeking validation over snapchat, what should I say?You should quit snapping back and forth and ask her on a date. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | "What's your weakness?" shittestToo much humility. I'm SLOPPING OVER with humility. Why, I gotta be the most humble dude you've ever met. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 09:46 PM |
| 7 | On tinder, 20 years old never had a girl friend. I asked this girl out kind of, did she already kind of reject me? What do I reply with ?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2591</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 03:40 PM |
| 8 | What are the legal pros/cons of having kids without being married?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4457</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 03:38 PM |
| 9 | About to go to thailand for 2 weeks, 33 years old, havent had sex in 6 years. What do I need to know/think about?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.5175</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I meet with her or cancel?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9662</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What would happen if you told a girl you’re done chasing her? Better to let it go unspoken or be direct?Never, ever overtly communicate with a woman unless you are asking her to pass the salt. Just go zero contact and open other women for a couple of weeks and see what happens. If she's still into you, she WILL reach out. If she's not, hey, you've opened other women. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | She wants to live togetherThis is not disrespect. This is a power play to force you into more commitment in order to keep the booty-train arriving at the station regularly. I would go zero contact for 24 hours, then return to game as normal. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Is there any chance that she could like me.No. She has so little attraction to you she's forgotten you are male. She is treating you like her bestie. Tell her you're attracted to her. She will be surprised and tell you that she's very fond of you, but doesn't think of you that way. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:45 PM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong with this divorced girl with two kids?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.8092</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong with this divorced girl with two kids?She's looking for a replacement dad. You are not him. She's out, and you've missed nothing. She was going to hold out until she could lock you down as a provider for her alpha-spawn. You didn't to ANYTHING wrong. You're just not what she's looking for, and it's a good think you found out now. Next. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 08:53 PM |
| 5 | When to call her after the first datedeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7755</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Want to hook up with this girl, but I'm already seeing someone. Complicated situation... looking for adviceCut off all contact with your fellow addict. You will be BAD for each other and you KNOW it. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 08:06 PM |
| 19 | Turned down group “date” for first time meetingdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.6771</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Plate Contact While on Vacationdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.2045</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I meet with her or cancel?Yes, meet her. Express a sexual interest (kiss her). Get the IHAB speech, grin and say "it's cool." Continue to have fun. Kiss her on the cheek goodbye. Go zero contact until after the hols. Open her again. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Cock-blocked by her fat jealous frienddeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.7412</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Clinger won't leaveBlock her. If you don't want her around you, why are you still communicating with her. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Girls dont care about success?Yes, they care about success. But it's not nearly as important as being fun, interesting, and exciting. Find something you like to do. Indoor rock wall climbing, kayaking, knitting - ANYTHING, as long as it's a mixed gender thing. Then DO it, and have fun doing it. But the catch is, you ACTUALLY have to LIKE doing it. Women will know if you're just doing it to meet girls. Become exciting and interesting, and you'll do better. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:49 PM |
| 12 | Rejected by girldeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.9866</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | mLTR, oLTR, Cheating etc.deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4258</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:46 PM |
| 3 | On holiday. HB 8 MILF with mum - should I leave it?deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4025</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | girl flakes because I didn't text herdeleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4370</sup> ^^<sup>What</sup> ^^<sup>is</sup> ^^<sup>this?</sup> | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 01:29 PM |
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