INTRO : OK I'm 19, Recently moved to a very rural area after living in the suburbs for the past 5 years and don't know many people so i downloaded tinder cause to day game i'd have to drive to the next city. Getting matches, but my text game was weak asf, came to TRP for advice and updated my pics and changed my approach. Now I'm hooking up with randos every so often. Going to community college and working.

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I had an authentic DGAF attitude at the time since i was going to school 12 hours a week and working 40 hours and still tryna squeeze time to work out, i constantly told myself they wanna fuck or they don't. I match this girl and off the bat i initially thought she was weird, but every squirrel needs his nut. Got her number n texted her for a few days and thought it wasn't going anywhere so i retracted, I'm at a buddy's house and she texted to she wanted to get on the phone, and i said sure why not (I don't really like phone calls, other than for meeting up). I'm introducing my self a little and she switches to face-time to see what i look like, was a little surprised cause she looked better than her pics which is usually the reverse. she starts saying how she wants to see me so bad and whens the next time i'm free, i just say next week we'll go to the movies. I broke the rules and was texting her a lot in between then but she seems pretty enthusiastic, a couple days before i go on snapchat and see her story and see her and her friends drinking in the car then at a party, i send a message making fun of her bad lip singing and then she calls me asking what i'm doing and if we are still meeting for the movies, i say yeah and we talk for a bit but hangup to go to bed( i drank nyquill right before).

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First date : Drove to her house to pick her up, some weird shit about me meeting her mom and her weirdly threatening me. we go to the mall first and just talk blah blah blah get food, see the movie, and go back to her house( Made sure i could come over before i even picked her up or else i woulda flaked). We're chilling and her mom leaves, apparently her grandparents live next door. I'm holding frame telling myself "Final quarter". She says do you wanna see my room, fuck yes i did. we end up laying in her bed a bit and i fail her LMR test. we go downstairs and she gives me a blowjob on the couch and i leave to hang out with some friends.

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Second date : Prior to this day we've been texting alot and i had asked her out once but she said she was with a friend and didn't offer another day so i gave up, This day though i already had plans to go to the beach, me and my boy were gonna meet chicks there but i guess he had a date so i invited her to not third wheel. For whatever reason though she was ecstatic to see me and dropped her plans to see me. we drink and hang out and a band came to perform that day so that helped. Red flag : out group expanded since we met random ppl there, and i see her adding some dude on Instagram and I'm trying to leave with her. Knew better than to mate guard and started walking back without her and at this point i just wanted get rid of her. as we are driving back i get hit by another car, and i just lost all my frame and freaked out. had to get a friend to drive us back she comforted me a little (that car meant alot to me). we go back to his house and we are alone and she wants to mess around but all i can think is about my car, i drive alot and my life's been drastically different since tbh. Red flag 2 ?: she is drunk and whispers in my ear "I'm an attention whore".

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I think her comforting me is such a rough moment for me made me feel a little deeper about her and she saw it, and ran. Because we texted for like two more weeks and then it faded out. this happens kinda often, i know girls come and go but it can't be this quickly.

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