Vengeful thoughts.

fnordsnord · 2018-04-09T18:57:27+00:00

It's normal, but it's not healthy. It's letting a squatter live in your head, rent free.

Quit wasting your time and emotional energy on a woman who's not interested in you and develop yourself into someone who can snag higher value women.

RandyBumgardner85 · 2018-04-09T20:42:17+00:00

You have no reason to be angry at her. She rejected you because she's not attracted to you. If you've been showering her with free attention/validation that's your problem not hers.

Thunderfin · 2018-04-09T19:22:00+00:00

By improving your SMV and getting with a girl hotter than her / one that has a higher SMV, that'll already show her everything she needs to see. Don't be immature and reject her, because that shows neediness (ie you need to see her unhappy for you to be satisfied).

AllModsAreLikeThat · 2018-04-09T21:02:10+00:00

It nice for initial motivation. My first three months at the gym were for revenge fantasies. I started getting results and only occasionally have them. It’s still good motivation when I don’t eat clean.

You will stop caring after a certain point.

Rares5555 · 2018-04-09T18:46:50+00:00

Yes, it’s normal. Actually I have a funny story to tell you. All this happened prior to swallowing the pill:

While in high school, I met a girl that, to my standards, I thought was beautiful. Chased like the biggest beta alive and once, while talking to her on the phone, I teased her with a cocky line, to which she replied “I was thinking of getting you out of the friendzone, but since you said that I changed my mind.”

Out of anger, I ghosted her and forgot about the whole thing. Fast forward two years, I was going to the gym, improving with girls (I kinda was reading rp material but didn’t know what it was), and I hit her up again. My revenge was making her confess she wants to be my side hoe while I was with someone else. Man did it feel good.

Bonus: Fast forward a couple of months ago, I was at a party. Full on going to the gym, got past TRP phases, having a damn good time. I see her at the party and she had a boyfriend (Billy boy beta type). He was out of the country, so that night I gamed her and made out with her (she’s a 5 in my books but I did it for my ego, had a nice ass and tits though).

Conclusion: The shit you feel happens, but don’t care much about them, care about your improvement. I did a lot of fucked up shit like that in my life so far, but I’m a different type of fucked up.

Ricklogical · 2018-04-09T18:59:45+00:00

It happens often, but fixating is never a good call.

You will get there.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-04-09T20:45:52+00:00

You still have oneitis. When you're over it the feelings will pass.

Spin

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Title	Vengeful thoughts.
Author	Yousuflol
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	April 9, 2018 6:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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