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RandyBumgardner85/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:41 PM
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"She didn't answer my previous 9 messages" Stay away from women. You are a stalker.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:56 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5 is widely regarded as the best lifting program for a beginner.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:50 PM
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Fortunately I've never liked sports but football is a national obsession in the UK. Any time I walk into an office there's almost always a conversation going on about football. It struck me that these guys (who in most cases don't go to matches and are not from the city they support) care more about the success of their team than ANY other aspect of their lives. It's like they never really grew up.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:01 PM
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I've never experienced any homophobic vibe here. RedPill just doesn't apply to homos...their sex lives must be comparatively straightforward. I couldn't get into any of that femdom shit and frankly I'd be embarrassed but if they both get off on it then who cares.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:33 PM
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Every girl I ever broke up with said some variation of "you'll never get a girl better than me" I just laugh and say "ok" Every girlfriend I have had has been better than the previous. Don't date single mums with shitty attitudes. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:28 PM
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If you're attracted to her and the sex is good and regular I'd say stick with her and don't cheat. Good girlfriend material is pretty hard to come by. If you're not attracted to her and the sex isn't good. Let her go and move on. You may be able to plate her later (I'm currently doing this) but it can get messy. The important thing in a relationship is constantly working to increase your SMV so you know you CAN fuck other women. This will improve your relationship no end. If you find yourself in…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:24 PM
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"Ok" Then block.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:16 PM
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You sound a bit messed up. An overweight, 30y/o 3/10 is not preselection. When I see a tall decent looking guy with a fat ugly chick it just screams Beta to me. 1: Lift weights and bulk up 2: Stop trying to take your frustrations out on this chick. 3. Break up with her and game hotter chicks.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:15 AM
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If you want to fuck hookers then fuck hookers. It'll probably improve your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:40 AM
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Direct is not needy. Texting for weeks is needy. She's just a random instathot...what have you got to lose?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:02 AM
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Fuck it. Do it if you want to do it. My first gf was pretty low SMV but she was a nice girl and we had some good years together. Having her emotional support was crucial in helping me set up a business at the age of 22. We grew apart and I stayed with her longer than I should but that girl played a big part in getting me where I am today. I'm going to get shot down for this but having a girlfriend can be good for a guy who's a virgin and never been in a relationship before. Just don't expect it …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:59 PM
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Hitting on girls who are so drunk they can't stand up straight is predatory and a very bad idea. That said, we've all been there. You were young, you didn't force yourself on her and you didn't have intercourse so who cares. She probably won't even remember. Think yourself lucky it didn't come back to bite you and make sure to steer clear in future but you have absolutely no reason to be feeling guilty years later. Sloots gonna sloot. For what it's worth, My mates often refer to me as "Rapey Ran…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:51 PM
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I'm pretty direct. "Your tits look great in that top" "I'm afraid I'm going to have to inspect your arse" "I bet you're a naughty little fucker" "You look like you need a dominant man" "I've got a raging sex drive. It's a nightmare"
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:41 PM
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It's nothing new. I'm watching friends at the moment (aired in '94) and the way it promotes beta behaviour is sickening. Ross is literally the epitome of the needy Beta and yet he manages to bag Rachel who is a solid 9 while Joey, who is the only one with any game, seems to get the least pussy of them all.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:21 PM
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I have always got most of my action from POF (years ago) and Tinder. I live in a small village, work alone and rarely go out so I work with what I've got. I used to pull girls at bars but I tend to drink a lot when I go out and my game gets sloppy so the quality was usually low.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 11:06 PM
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On the age gap...this is the only time in your life where it is socially acceptable to fuck 16 year old girls. Don't waste it. I did and lived to regret it.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:46 PM
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You have no reason to be angry at her. She rejected you because she's not attracted to you. If you've been showering her with free attention/validation that's your problem not hers.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:42 PM
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Do Not Text Girl After Date Ever Some girls will even say to you "text me when you get home" Don't do it! It's a shit test. I had a girl tell me exactly that a few years ago after a great date. When I complied she basically ghosted me. You make tens of thousands of journeys in your life time. Why the fuck would you text a person you hardly know to reassure them that you got home safely. Post first date is the absolute best time to assert some dread and showcase a lack of neediness. If a girl is …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:24 PM
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Crabs
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:08 PM
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If she wronged you enough to not be worth sticking your dick in then how is she worth wasting your time on? Friendship is a higher level of commitment than fucking.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:58 PM
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You don't call out women for being women. Friend zone will never get you sex. Work on new women who haven't already categorised you as "gay best friend".
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:36 PM
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If you were in a friendship with a girl and a gay guy then you're basically just another gay guy to her. She knows exactly why you want to go on a date alone with her. She's playing dumb because she's not interested.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:27 PM
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Your height gives a pretty solid advantage. I've seen a lot of dating profiles and height is by far the most commonly stated physical requirement. Totally agree with the bit about attractive chicks. I have to bang down 2 points if I want regular action from Tinder. I've actually had 3 hot, young LTR's from online dating but it's basically just a fluke when you match one. Having just come out of an LTR with a solid 8 my dick is currently struggling with the prospect of getting excited for a 6 and…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:45 PM
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Ignore this clown. I enjoyed the screenshots and they added validity to your post. My experience with Tinder (I always go for the number within 6-10 messages) is that roughly two thirds will ghost when I go for the number. This is a great way to filter out the validation whores. I've just come out of an LTR. Downloaded Tinder on Friday, had a chick round my house by Sunday with no date required. She was actually in disbelief about how quickly the whole process occurred and how little I texted he…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:31 PM
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There is truth here. RedPill advocates not putting up with a woman who makes you wait to fuck her while simultaneously advocating not LTR'ing a woman who gives up her pussy too quickly. Both approaches are based on solid theory but when combined they don't leave much hope of getting into a decent LTR. I have had similar experience to the OP. The most frustrating thing about RedPill is realising that women are actually intent on the destroying the very thing it is they claim to want (the commitme…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:33 PM
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Chicks in high school have far less access to alpha males than they do in adult life. All the media they are subjected to promotes the beta male. Once they have experienced the needy, vag drying monotony of the beta, their lady parts start to seek to climb the ladder.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:14 PM
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You forgot to add (no homo) Perhaps this was intentional....
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:10 PM
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As soon as you wrote "I told her I was going to leave my gf" I knew exactly where this was going. Women who chase other women's men, want... Other women's men. As soon as you become her man the hunt is over and she will go off looking for new prey. The transition from adultery to monogamy is rarely successful.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:03 PM
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You don't put a girl in the "friend no fuck zone" What the fuck is the point in that?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 01:47 PM
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I'm 32. On Tinder I'm 26. It does open up your options a fair bit but then you find yourself having to adjust timespans for everything that happened in your life when chatting face to face and getting caught lying=instant frame loss. My current train of thought is that once I've banged a chick once, if the subject of my age comes up again I'll just admit my real age and explain that I have no interest in 30 year old women looking for a quick lockdown.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:11 PM
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Loads of guys have this problem. It's something that has effected me at various times in my life. Usually with the first girl I try to bang after ending an LTR. You may need to go down the medication route to help get over the initial anxiety but once you're fucking a girl on the regular you should look to gradually reduce your dosage to nothing otherwise you'll be dependent on it for life. Stay away from porn.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:02 PM
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Completely ignoring all her texts the night before you were planning to fuck is a stupid move. If she's agreed to fuck then you've got to entertain her texting to some extent. Just let the conversation die out naturally. Now on to the important bit.... Extremely insecure girls are absolutely not worth getting involved with in any way. Running regular dread game on them will just send them spiralling into a pit of frantic anger and anxiety. Comfort game will cause them to lose interest/try to con…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:56 PM
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If she wants to suck you off then let her but don't waste time hanging out with her.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:18 PM
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Wanting to fuck other girls is better than having oneitis. At your age your best option is to have one or more FWB's. This way you get the fun of a relationship without the restrictions. Regarding everything you do being for girls....the only cure I can think of for this is to actively avoid getting involved with women completely for a good period of time.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:16 PM
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A 40 year old women isn't going to automatically bang an unemployed, inexperienced 23 with no car just because she accepted a friend request on Facebook. Most women that age who do seek sexual relations with much younger men are severely mentally disturbed. You're dreaming.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:10 PM
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Ex's, even good ones, will do anything they can to fuck with you. Often they will feign attraction to draw you in and then when you reach out they instantly pull away. Your safest bet is always to steer well clear.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:07 PM
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Two flakes in a row = permanent ghost
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:03 PM
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It's probably worth mentioning here that there are quite a few girls on a Tinder who won't put out on the first date simply because they don't want to be pumped and dumped. For this reason if I'm met with LMR more than once on the first date I'll back off and subtly give the impression that I've got things to do. On the second date there really is no reason for her not to put out and I'll ditch the subtlety if it's not going down.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 08:29 PM
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You lost frame the second you reacted. Who cares what she texted your friend?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:41 PM
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This isn't true in most cases. 37 is just the peak number that Rollo randomly chose for men who actually work on self improvement. I know plenty of 33 year olds who used to slay at 27 but can't pull anything now because they didn't self improve.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:39 PM
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I looked like a teenager until I was about 26. Now I'm almost 33 and look 25. I exclusively bang chicks 19-25. It sucks when you're young but will pay dividends later in life. If you want to look older now...lift hard and bulk like crazy. Grow a beard if you can.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:36 PM
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I have one shirtless pic on my tinder (getting out of a pool with a beer) and the smart photos setting seems to have made it my main picture so yes. I wouldn't advise mirror selfies as it gives off the impression that your body is all you've got going for you and that you're a boring loser.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:34 AM
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There's proactive game and there's being a fucking creep. This guy is the latter. He doesn't seem to run any actual game on them, he just pretends to be really interested in their boring lives for an hour a day. I'd be surprised if he's banged anyone from that gym. He looks like shit for someone who spends his life in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:35 PM
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Next time she does it just remove yourself (or her) immediately and go radio silent for 3 days. Do not respond to any attempt she makes at communication during this period. Afterwards carry on as if nothing happened and never mention it. If it happens again. Get shot and ghost her.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:26 PM
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The other day I asked a single mum "what makes you orgasm?" "Knowing a man is about to cum inside me" "Yeah I ain't falling for that shit!" True story
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:26 PM
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I don't know what type of porn you're watching my dude but I ain't never seen no woman orgasm in porn.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:23 PM
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Your upper lifts are shit in comparison to your squat. This is the problem with SL5x5. Too much emphasis on squat. For comparison my 3 rep max squat is 250 and my 3 rep overhead press is 150. This is what I do: It keeps all the lifts from SL (and a few extras) but gives more frequency to the deadlift and upper body stuff. I've seen much better strength and size gains on this than I got from SL. Two workouts, do each twice a week. A: Squat 4x7 Bench 4x7 Weighted dip 4x7 Leg press 3x10 Incline dum…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:03 PM
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Guy with very high sex drive decides to enter a 2 year LDR with girl who won't have sex. Wants to know if he should end it. No, no my son. Keep doing what you are doing. Everything is perfect.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:54 PM
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If you checking who's IG photos she's liking then you're her bitch. I don't even know how to do this. You say "main plate". Sounds to me like she's your only plate and you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:46 PM
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Jesus Christ dude...I don't know where to start with this shit.... Texting for a YEAR and never met?? She's 11 years older than you?? Lives 3 hours away?? She's made no attempt to meet you in all this time and now she wants you to come be her bitch and do chores for her because she's depressed and you're considering it?? The first time you even hint at saying no to her she throws a tantrum and it doesn't occur to you she might be a fucking nutjob?? It sounds like you have zero experience with wo…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:39 PM
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You making your boyfriend read RedPill and hoping it sinks in is not going to create any tingles in your lady parts Im afraid my dear. This one is a lost cause. Find a real man while you still have your looks.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:18 PM
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Do what you want bro. Just don't tell her you love her, don't push for commitment, don't be the needy one and don't let her know she's your only source of front bottom.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:01 PM
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This is a tricky one with a wife. Some women will try this, you don't react so they give up. Others will escalate the bullshit if you don't react. The latter group are not suitable for LTR's.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:55 PM
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Why the fuck would you ever ask a chick if it's ok for you to do something you want to do? Are you 5? Is she your mum? Chicks getting "sad" about shit you do is just their chosen method of controlling you. Regarding taking mind bending drugs in her presence....I do think you have a duty to warn her in advance so she can choose not to come. (It's not much fun for a sober person to be around) But never ask.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:52 PM
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My experience is that "proper" dating sites tend to be where the crazies, desperadoes, single mums, fatties and wall hitters hang out. But yeah, a desperate chick will put out more easily than a high SMV one generally. Tinder is just a validation feed for chicks who don't actually need to go online to get dick.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:46 PM
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1st world problems bro. Attached is good. You're doing everything right. Carry on. Grab your self some 7-9's with your abundance game.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:41 PM
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Someone upvote this man!
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:39 PM
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Bag it up, dump it on her parents drive, text her to tell her it's there then block her number.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:36 PM
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Far too much volume, far too many reps, far too little weight. Here's what I do (I don't want your money) Two workouts, do each twice a week. A: Squat 4x7 Bench 4x7 Weighted dip 4x7 Leg press 3x10 Incline dumbell press 3x8 B: Overhead press 4x7 Deadlift 3x7 Weighted chin 3x7 Pendlay row 3x7 Hammer curl/side raises 3x10 (superset) All barbell exercises + weighted chins: Add weight to every lift, every session! (2.5lb's for upper, 5lb's for lower) Once you fail to hit all 7 reps on every set, swit…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:31 PM
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This sounded good until you went all Craig David on her ass.... Seriously...you let a chick you just met stay with you for 5 nights on the trot? What happened to abundance mentality?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:13 PM
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I've been in this situation except in my case the boss was 29 (same as me) and in good shape. Within the first week of her working there he was talking about the two of them going abroad on "business trips". She would go on about how much she admired him. She also told me he slapped her arse on a work night out. He was married but I saw the writing on the wall and kicked her out of my house within 2 weeks of her joining that company. Never spoke to her again. Now your girl may well not be bangin…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:07 PM
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This sound eerily similar to my first relationship. 5 years, my first lay, she was very loyal, good girl, I turned into a total fucking deadbeat towards the end, sex dried up (no effort from me) she had no choice but to dump me. Here's what happened. I did what you did, sorted myself out very quickly. Stopped smoking weed/playing video games, started lifting, socialising more etc. I did it for me not for her. We ended up getting back together. I figured all the problems were caused by me being a…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:29 PM
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Wednesday: "Hey internet, girl who I'm not attracted to said I'm a jerk but she likes me....what should I do???" Thursday: "Hey internet, my shoelace came undone...please help!!!" Humanity really is in a sorry fucking state.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:56 PM
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"Alright whatever you say boss" "Good girl" No response in this situation could come off as butthurt in my opinion. Better to just pull her into frame.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:52 PM
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I think it's partly evolutionary. As in, men who didn't evolve to protect vulnerable women were more likely to have their offspring die. It's also partly some personal issue you have. I used to be the same. Either way. You need to overcome this urge. It will attract you to emotionally unstable women who will cause you no end of fucking problems. The two most mentally fucked up women I ever dated both sat there on the first date and reeled off their list of woes.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:55 PM
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I read a post almost identical to this one not long ago. Will you kids never learn? The beta is your not you friend! He's a shifty, devious, weak little shit who uses underhanded, dishonest means to get what he wants. Women see this and are repulsed. Trying to reason with one of these fucktards is like trying to push atheism on a bible basher. You have given him, in writing, the opportunity to (in his mind) signal his virtue and loyalty to this hoe and wipe out the competition in one swoop. Obvi…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:13 PM
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I agree. I personally wouldn't recommend going around giving lifting advice to anyone, especially not someone who clearly knows what they are doing. It's a condescending as fuck way to hit on someone. Going back again just to say "bye" to someone who has already shot you down....what the fuck were you thinking? That being said, I enjoyed the OP. It's good to read a (partially) successful field report from someone who's game is clearly clumsy but who has the motivation to press on regardless. If …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:46 PM
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There is a "that guy" at my gym. He's about 50, big, tall and strong but wears such baggy clothes that it's hard to tell if he actually lifts. The second a half decent looking girl aged anywhere between 15 and 30 enters the gym he will dart straight for her and enter a 20 minute conversation, feigning clearly exaggerated enthusiasm for everything she says. He'll often be in the gym for 3 hours every night of the week. When I started taking my (now ex) girlfriend to the gym I warned her "the firs…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:33 PM
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She's trying to manipulate you into become a provider. Fuck her. I have learned this the hard way with several women: When you start paying for stuff with women they will come to expect it whenever they please. The go to line when they want you to pay for something is "I can't, I don't have any money" Then 2 days later they go and blow 200 bucks on a girls night out. The second she starts acting entitled to your money you have to cut her off. Completely. Permanently.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:35 PM
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"I'm not that type of girl" " that's what they all say"
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:12 PM
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I was always of the opinion that plating an LTR is a bad idea but I'm now actually in the process of doing it. Here's how: I dumped her with no intention of ever speaking to her again. "No we're not going to be friends. Yes I am sure this is what I want" Zero emotion displayed. I immediately unfollowed her on social media, deleted all pictures and threw away a canvas of us. When she came to get her shit she asked about the above and I told her. She knew I wasn't fucking about and my ruthlessness…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:45 PM
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A bitch who gets angry at you for spending YOUR money on YOURself is not a bitch you want any kind of a future with. You did well to walk out. Either soft next and use her only as a fucktoy from now on or move on. I don't mind a chick jokingly asking me to spend money on her but the second she starts to act like she's entitled to it is the last time she will ever see a dime out of me.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:23 PM
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Just say "look mum, if you want to go around telling everybody I have Aspergers she there's nothing I can do about it. In the same way that if I want to go around telling everyone you're a whore who allows random men to abuse her children there's nothing you can do about it. Cool?"
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:30 PM
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The texting from ex wouldn't overly bother me unless I had reason to believe she was encouraging it but....validation whore, princess, always moody, sex is meh, always broke, relies on you for money and food.....nah bro! That chick is a plate at best.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:12 PM
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Then you'd be better off seeking advice in a more mainstream forum.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:44 AM
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Just get some real good quality photos, google 'RedPill tinder game' and smash every dating app ever made. Message every chick that's half bangable. Also read "how to get laid like a warlord" on TRP.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:47 PM
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Not every girl will allow you to escalate on the first date. I have second date banged several chicks who pulled away from a kiss on the first date. The key is to play hard to get after the first date. Ignore her Tinder. Go on the date, attempt escalation and if she's cold again just cut the date short and disappear into eternity.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:13 PM
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They are a puzzle but TRP holds all the answers. You need to read more. This girl just wants to get fucked. If you see her again you better fuck her.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:09 PM
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If a girl gets into your bed she wants to get fucked no matter what she says. Her stopping you getting the panties off is very common and basically a shit test. You failed it. She obviously needs to be taken by force in order to get turned on. She has now lost interest because you weren't man enough to overcome her LMR. This is the problem with modern consent laws. I was in a similar situation recently. I was pretty drunk at a party and had a 29y/o overweight single mum (who happens to be my nex…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:07 PM
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You'll get plenty of action in Jail.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:55 PM
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My guess (I may be wrong) is that you're either scared, addicted to pornography or both. If you're fapping to porn more than once a week I suggest you stop. Banging multiple hot women will enrich your life no end.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:54 PM
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You have oneitis. You think you can solve her shitty behaviour but are too scared to talk to her about it. You can't solve her shitty behaviour. The only time it is appropriate to soft next an LTR is when she has a one off loss of control due to emotions/being drunk whatever and causes drama/disrespects you. You initiate the soft next immediately and, trust me, she will fucking know and if she respects you, she won't do it again. If it happens again she's gone. What is happening with you is that…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:51 PM
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"How do you feel about having your shit pushed in?"
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:39 PM
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Make plans with her in a week. Flake and fuck another chick. Make sure she finds out. Then continue as normal.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:37 PM
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This is true zen!
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:36 PM
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Of all the guys I know/come across on a regular basis I only know of ONE who operates the always approach policy. He's a tall guy in the gym around 50 years old. He aggressively approaches any girl that comes within range of him aged between 16 and 30. To be honest his conversations with them sound fucking creepy and I'm pretty sure he's a raging narcissist but I respect his determination.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:34 PM
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Good. It sounds like you are finally becoming a man. I noticed in your post history that you went over to RPW and tried to get them to convert your horrible cunt of a fiancé into a nice, submissive partner. This shows to me that you really did have your head right up your ass. I've been there. You have a long, long way to go and if I were you I would not even consider entering another LTR until you have fucked/plated at least another 30 chicks. Be aware that your fiancé will come back at you. It…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 05:29 PM
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I live in neither Disneyland nor the USA. Out of interest, how would "the rest of the world" get revenge on her?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 05:09 PM
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I and, I'm sure, many others here also have this problem. I can be pretty slick with a chick I've already been acquainted with/met online but I've never been able to get past the barriers I put up in my head for cold approach. There's usually such a short window for daytime cold approach that you have to adopt a mentality of ALWAYS, IMMEDIATELY, approach any hot chick you see as a rule so you don't get into these silly debates in your head while the opportunity slips away.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:06 PM
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It wouldn't ruin either of their lives it would just teach them both a valuable lesson. Why do you give a fuck about her or her family finding out what she's really like? She never gave a fuck about you. To be honest I was only being half serious about telling the boyfriend. It's his problem now so who cares. You really do need to block all contact with this chick though and move on to younger, hotter, more numerous, greener pastures.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:59 PM
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It baffles me that after you nailed her behind her boyfriends back for FIVE YEARS you are surprised that she can be brutal and cold.... What on earth makes you think that after cheating on him literally hundreds of times she is now going to magically spend the next 45 years being loyal to him? When you fuck a guys chick behind his back and then try and take her as your own girlfriend you, quite frankly, deserve everything you get.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:55 PM
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Apparently after the first four were put out of action there was one short fat guy who wanted a go. Chad begged him to walk away, but he wouldn't have it so he took a fist to the jaw and a good kicking from both of them. I try to stay out of fights but part of me wishes I had been there to witness it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:47 PM
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Chad is 6'6 which gives him significant reach. He is strong and knows how to punch. He dropped the first two as they got out of the car on his side, then dealt with the ones coming from the back, then the front. Sam was also helping keep the numbers at bay so after the first two went down it was 3 on 2. Now I wasn't there but this is how the story was relayed to me by Sam. He said he never fully appreciated the lethality of Chads reach and hitting power until he watched it in action.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:41 PM
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When you say "ruin things for too many people" You mean: It would dissuade her boyfriend from going back to get cucked for another five years. It would ruin her strategy of repeatedly branch swinging between/cheating on the same two guys at her leisure. It would ruin your chances of getting back with this branch swinging slut and no doubt cheated on. Now we already know you don't give a fuck about the boyfriend so this implies to me that you still have hopes of a fairytale ending with this chick…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:32 PM
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Make sure the boyfriend knows you were banging her behind his back for 5 years then ghost the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:24 PM
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Do what you need to for now but in the long run you don't want to waste your life playing video games. Trust me. I wasted 4000 hours of my mid twenties playing one series of PC strategy war games. I don't touch games nowadays. If you haven't already you absolutely NEED to join a gym and get properly into full body weight lifting. This is the best lifestyle change I have ever made and I'll never give it up. It does wonders for your physique, strength, energy levels, frame, confidence and self est…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:06 PM
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"Alphas will do a revenge" No. An alpha would just ditch her and move on. An alpha has no need to feed his ego with petty tit for tat shit with dumb sluts. Alphas also do not LTR dumb sluts.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:54 AM
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The thing I noticed when I quit was that I was actually starting to feel emotions and that I now had to deal with them instead of just blasting them with weed. You're doing well. Stay off that shit and stay away from people who smoke it. It sounds like you are suffering PTSD from the relationship with your ex and perhaps the loss of your father. These are things you are going to need to deal with separately. They won't just go away. I've had 5 serious breakups in my life but the breakup with a c…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:38 AM
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Can confirm. I spent years training with no structure and a very inconsistent diet. I always had a visibly muscular upper body but lacked strength and had a poorly developed lower body. My workouts used to go something like this: Chest, Back, Shoulders, Chest, Legs, Chest, Back, Chest, Shoulders, Legs etc training anywhere between two and five days a week. Nowadays, having learned from trial and error what my body responds well to, I have created a routine and progress structure based almost ent…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:21 PM
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I have a mate who is a genuine chad. The dude is 26, 6'6, 230lbs of muscle and so lean his abs are popping. He's never had to read up on any RedPill stuff but his height alone has given him so much access to pussy that he is a natural, cocky, arrogant Alpha. He has also recently spent 6 months training intensively for a charity boxing match. He was out in a rough town far from home one night with his brother in law (Sam) they had gone down there to meet up with Sam's friend (Tom) for a night out…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 07:58 PM
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If you were a dog you'd probably be put down.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:54 AM
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I'd just respond with "?" Can either be interpreted as "what the fuck are you on about" or "There's your fucking question mark you dumb bitch" Then ignore if she continues the drama.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:45 AM
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Yeah those fuckers didn't realise how good they had it getting sent off to be machinegunned in the trenches so the few survivors had more pussy to go round. The idea that you need to be top 10% to get any pussy in your life is nonsense. Probably 95% of guys manage to get some pussy at some point in their lives. Yes we have to deal with a population of females that has a shorter window of physical attractiveness but they have to deal with a population of males that has been heavily feminised, tak…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 01:56 AM
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I don't know about divorce but I'm pretty sure that a man getting the D is frowned upon in Islam.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 01:42 AM
1

Yeah real easy....until you consider that roughly 30% of women are total fucking psychos and you have to marry her before you get a chance to find out if she's one. Yes you can beat her for her indiscretions but psycho chicks thrive on that shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 01:38 AM
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I've been to Thailand, Vietnam and Cambodia and I can tell you that any chick who travels solo will have ridden a LOT of cocks. I stayed in a hostel in Cambodia where a 28yr old chick from LA and a 23 year old British/Indian chick were competing for cock numbers. They tried to initiate a threesome with one guy and then ended up in an orgy in a dorm with 4 British guys. Why the fuck I took my girlfriend on that trip is beyond me. She told me a few weeks after we got back that she wanted to travel…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:28 PM
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Correct. I just automatically assumed I was the best guy that every chick I ever dated had had. Even when I was a blue pill, beta mutherfucker. I've never once concerned myself with exes.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:49 PM
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Because she's not a decent chick and she knows that her games get to you. You really need to be in a place where you don't give any fucks what she is doing. The fact that you are even posting here (applies to 90% of ask TRP) shows that you are way too invested.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:46 PM
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I've seen this in one of my close mates. He used to work as a barman in a party town and slay pussy. He got badly burned by a crazy chick and moved back to live on his grandparents sofa in a sleepy village. He's now completely lost his confidence (and logistics) and gets laid once a year at most. He now claims to 'prefer' older single mums and openly tries to shame me as a pedophile because I target the 18-23 crowd (we're both early 30's)
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:40 AM
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"So I punched her in the face and knocked her out in one blow" I laughed out loud when I read this. Well done to you sir. It looks like maybe you do have some balls down there after all. Weed: I smoked and sold weed all day every day from age 15-19. I was a virgin this entire time so can't really comment on heartbreak but I will tell you this. Weed turned me into a horrible, lazy, cold blooded piece of shit. I did some awful stuff to people back then. I have smoked weed recreationally for period…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:28 AM
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These are the situations where holding frame requires a fair amount of skill because there is an assumption among most people, driven by blue pill indoctrination, that men should immediately shut down all other options as soon as one shows interest in him. It may be worth saying something along the lines of "until we have a conversation stating that we are exclusive, do not just assume we are exclusive" That fact that she is trying to rub in your face that she is seeing other guys is a big red f…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:07 AM
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I really don't see the problem here. The number of previous fucks she had should be far more important than the quality of them and 9 (if true) is actually pretty low for a 25 y/o these days. Personally I'd rather be the hottest guy a girl has fucked than the least hot/average. You really have nothing to worry about here. Now if you think you can do better than this girl, then that is a different issue and if so you should let her go but this shouldn't be guided by the attractiveness of her prev…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:57 AM
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Good post. I love the bit about "can't handle someone his own age" as if it never occurred to her that maybe he DOESN'T WANT TO "handle" some ageing harpy who fucked away all her best years and is now looking for any willing sucker to lock down with the tattered remains of her sexuality. I used to feel pity for the mental slavery that humanity has found itself embraced in but once you see how ruthlessly these people defend their state of slavery you've just got to laugh.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:41 AM
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So when you hit 45 and there's a hot 22 year old trying to get on your dick you say "sorry sweetheart, rules are rules"
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:35 AM
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I think another driving factor behind these older guys claiming they don't like chicks under 30 is ego protection. The reality is that they rely entirely on beta/provider game to attract women and this simply doesn't work on younger women so they hamster that they don't want those women. It's like all the skinny guys that claim that the reason they go for fat chicks is sexual preference. If this was the case, why do you never see a tall, muscular guy with a fat chick? It's ego protection and fea…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:33 AM
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I honestly don't have any regrets as everything I did wrong taught me a valuable lesson that I wouldn't otherwise have learned. But if I could do it all again I'd do the following things different: Don't spend 6 hours a day playing computer games. Work harder on expanding my business. Don't LTR the first hot chick who opens her legs for me. Don't stay in a relationship that doesn't benefit me. Take up an outdoor hobby. Expand my social circle. Go travelling alone for 6 months in my early 20's. B…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:17 AM
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You did not fuck up. You did absolutely the right thing, you just did it in a clumsy manner. The reason this girl is so clingy is that she is a SINGLE MUM! She has had her Alpha seed. She knows her SMV has dropped and she will use any means necessary to lock down a future provider for her and her spawn. Her actions are entirely selfish. You don't have to ghost every chick you break up with but if she starts acting psycho then you really do. The only reason you feel that you fucked up is because …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:49 AM
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The reason you are not getting laid is most likely down to your lack of looks/social circle/people skills than the fact you are horny all the time. Women are attracted to sexual energy. My interactions with women are far more rewarding/sexual when I'm not jerkin the Gherkin twice a day.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:41 PM
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The course of action you take from here depends on what her understanding of your status is at the moment. If there has never been any talk regarding you two being exclusive then just back off from her for a while and ruthlessly seek out other chicks to bang on the regular. If the understanding is that you two are in a relationship/exclusive then you may just need to end it with her and go NC for a while before attempting to plate her. I've just successfully done this with a 2 year LTR. A week a…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:38 PM
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I never quite understood what the term neckbeard meant until I saw your first pic. Quite the transformation. Well done to you sir! Out of interest...what were you doing in a gang initiation at 19? You look like you would have been more at home in front of a computer in your mums basement playing WOW and binge eating cheetos 18 hours a day.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:48 PM
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This is a fucking great post. I explain it to people using the analogy of friendship: "So we've been mates for a few years now. I think it's time we signed this contract that says we pool all our assets and if we ever stop being mates we split everything 50/50. Also if one of us can't be bothered to work the other must support him for life. Now I know you are a hard worker, have a promising career and have saved a shit ton of money and I'm a useless layabout who couldn't be bothered to find a de…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:36 PM
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It looks like a lot of white nights/old hags have followed you from that other forum into here. Ignore them. The advice you get here, particularly from the endorsed guys is going to seem pretty harsh but these guys know their shit. Many have been studying the female psyche for decades. You need to ask yourself a few questions. I'll help you out with the answers. Q. What are the benefits (to you) of marrying this chick? A. She'll let you reproduce with her Q. What are the risks? A. She'll cheat o…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:27 PM
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Best comment: "I am disgusted that he is dating a 20 year old. If I had his money and fame I'd be dating 18 year olds." Word.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:34 PM
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Here's what I say: "Guess my age....whatever age you guess, that's how old I am" "Errrrr 23??" "Clever girl!" "Ooh did I get it right?" "Yep" They fall for it every time (I'm actually 32) My response to "I don't date guys over 27" would be "I don't date girls over 21"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:53 AM
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"I don't want to come off as desperate" That's exactly what you are doing. I don't understand how you can not see that you are being unbelievably needy.... You fucked this one up when you texted her immediately after the first date. Nothing that you've done since has improved the situation. If you're really banging 5 chicks on the regular then there's hope for us all. Your texts look like they were written by a 14 year old girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:08 PM
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This is how most of us got here. Do the following: Delete all photos of her Block her on all social media Block her number Avoid places she goes Read Rational Male, book of pook etc Lift Go nofap Bang as many other chicks as possible. That oneitis should be gone within a couple of months if you do the above. Until then you've just gotta accept the pain.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:55 PM
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So you told your LTR that your sister said that she's not that good looking? Chicks say shit like this all the time....if you passed on the message then you are a bitch.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:43 PM
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I like the bit about them not being allowed to bang hookers abroad! So the government makes it essentially illegal for Swedish men to bang their own wives and then think "oh shit! What if they go to Amsterdam and 'rape' the prostitutes there??" "No problem. We'll ban that too" This one caveat alone proves to me that this legalisation has nothing to do with protecting woman and is all about stripping men of their freedom.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 05:24 AM
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This all makes good sense. A 2bed house for $50k (£30k).....I'd be sitting on 10 of those by now if I lived in the states! I'd need to spend over 10 times that amount for a house around my area (30 miles from London) that would give a similar return in rent and would lose a huge amount in Tax. Even in a very cheap student city I'd be paying 5 times that amount.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 05:02 AM
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"I think I should gain some weight before I start lifting" What the fuck is this shit?? Google stronglifts 5x5. Follow it religiously! Join a gym with several squat racks and book a jacked personal trainer for two sessions to drill you in all the main compound lifts. I wasted years training arms and chest only in a shit gym. Eat as much as you possibly can as often as possible. Make sure you get around 150grams of protein a day. This means eating a lot of meat, 2-3 scoops of whey protein and lot…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:52 PM
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I love how guys here assume that askTRP knows every thought that goes through every woman's head. Who knows what she was playing at....who fucking cares....you smashed her. Stop overthinking shit.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:34 PM
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One of my friends married a friends ex. There was a 5 year gap between the relationships though. Previous boyfriend was best man at the wedding. It's all good. She's one of the most RP women I know. That being said. If one of my bros started banging one of my exes within a year of us splitting up....we wouldn't be friends.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:15 PM
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This. Lauren is very young, naive and does not come across as particularly intellectual. She just happens to be someone who's aware of the quite obvious hypocrisy of feminism and has had the good sense to make a career out of speaking about it. I've got nothing against her but she's nothing special.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:09 PM
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That's crazy. My Dad bought a house for £36k in 1982 when the average salary was £6k. It's now worth 40 times that while the average salary has only gone up 5x. I've made £100k on my small 2 bed house in 9 years and saved another £100k in rent. I paid off the small mortgage within 5 years so only spent around £12k in interest.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:12 PM
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Women like this are rare. I think the guidance to lead your woman is more applicable to the 98% of women who can't tie their own fucking shoelaces. Your girl sounds a bit like my sister. She is wealthy, assertive, financially shrewd and spends most of her free time with horses. She always dates Beta men and is usually frustrated by either their neediness, constant attempts to appease her or their lack of motivation. I think if she had a guy who was in full control of his own life, was masculine,…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 09:05 PM
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This is the inherent problem with high SMV girls. The ones who don't get locked down young are either professional branch swingers or emotionally unstable nightmares. If you haven't already, I'd do some extensive research on BPD and NPD so you can learn all the tell-tale red flags.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:52 PM
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I see your point. I run an electrical contracting business that nails me down anyway. If you do own a place and want to move around you can always let it out through an agency to cover your own rental costs wherever you move to.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:47 PM
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I'm a little confused as to why buying a home is stupid....not sure what country OP is in but here in the U.K. it is a very good investment. If you want to be a landlord here you have to hand over the majority of your profits to the government via the following means: 10% stamp duty on second home (this means if you buy a house that is not your main dwelling you have to pay them 10% of the value) 40% capital gains tax (this means, assuming you have a reasonable income, any increase in value that…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:45 PM
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Buy a house. I live in the south east England. Here, owning a house means: 1. Saving £12k a year on rent 2. Having an asset that increases in value by around 7% a year 3. Having somewhere to hold parties and bang chicks 4. Having a spare room that you can rent out for £500 a month. 5. Having a place you can rent out to others for £12k a year if you go traveling/move elsewhere temporarily. Not sure what the deal is in your country but owning property is never a bad way to go.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:28 PM
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I've been there. It's all about your early frame establishment. Crazy chicks are everywhere, nothing you can do about that but if you play hardball from the beginning with all potential prospects the crazies will out themselves early and usually move on to an easier target. This means not responding in kind to love bombing. Texting only for logistics, not getting into long text convos about bullshit all the time. Saying no a lot early on. Meeting up only on your terms. Not spending more than a f…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:20 PM
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You really need to get on top of this shit because as soon as she thinks it's acceptable to come over and not fuck you, the regularity of this happening will start to increase. I used to cold shoulder my chick a little when this happened and it worked a treat.... until her attraction level dropped so low that she no longer cared and I had to get rid of her. It may be worth actually explaining to her at some point (not immediately following a rejection) that if you are going to limit your entire …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:03 PM
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Spending every day on FaceTime with a chick who lives thousands of miles away is pretty much the most destructive and beta thing a man can do. Just cut her out completely! I've been in this situation myself. The day I cut her off, I felt like a great weight had been lifted from my shoulders.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:57 AM
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Says the virgin who writes long rambling posts about his hatred for women....
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 10:47 AM
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Keep banging her. Bang other chicks. If she pushes for commitment just tell her it's not what you want at this time. Never dump your load in her babymaker. Don't get attached to the kid.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:07 AM
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"The me that will not take her shit anymore" You are still taking her shit. She has told you the same lies over and over, you have believed her, found out the truth and then believed her again, over and over. You've proposed, dumped her, taken her back, over and over. It's pathetic. You have serious issues my friend. You need to get this woman out of your life ASAP. She sounds BPD to me. Understand this: a half decent woman would not stay with a man as weak minded as you currently are for a seco…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 10:05 PM
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Her offering you sex and then handing said sex to another man right under your nose is pretty off in my opinion. I'd put that one on ice for a while.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:56 PM
1

I always used to say this "we're mates" (I'm British) if pushed further "we're mates who mate" The girl loved it.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:04 PM
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You allow a chick one flake. Don't be butthurt, don't lecture her, just acknowledge it and then ease back on the communication for a while, then hit her up again a week later. Two flakes in a row/short period of time and you ghost. It sounds like she has a least some level of investment in you but keep exploring other options.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:01 PM
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Most successful people start their careers around 20. You are only five years behind. Learn a skill that you can sell for a decent price in 5 years time....plumber, electrician, locksmith, accountant, tiler etc. Work for free/peanuts now if you have to in order to get skills and qualifications that will pay later.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 10:39 AM
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I think it's ok as long as you are also fucking other family members so you don't catch oneitis. Do you have any sisters? How hot is your mum?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 10:32 AM
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The only real way to combat flakiness is fight fire with fire. You allow a decent prospect one flake. You act like it never happened, don't get butt hurt, radio silence a few days and then hit her up again. Two flakes, you ghost her straight away. I got to a point, last time I was single that I was lining up more dates than I had time to go on and just flaking the less attractive ones when a better prospect came along. Chicks still flaked me at times but I didn't dwell on it. You say that you di…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:48 PM
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Women these days have the luxury of being flaky as fuck due to a constant stream of attention from online dating, it sucks but you just have to work on as many as possible. Nurses are renowned for being fucked in the head. Trust me on this. No sane person would do a job like that for peanuts. Out of interest...why is this HB8 who eats out of your hand your ex girlfriend. Did you end it or did she? A lot of people here like to advocate downgrading girlfriends to plates but I don't think it's a go…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:26 PM
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Ok, I completely agree with this. I saw the light switch effect happen with my own eyes with my LTR 2 months ago. I continued trying to use the frame that had always worked so well with her in the previous 2 years but it was like banging my head against a brick wall. She has been ice cold since NYE. I let her go last night. Initially she was like "yes I agree we should break up" but after the business was done, for the first time this year, she was saying stuff like "I really love you" "I'm goin…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:46 AM
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I see this statement a lot here and it never makes any sense to me. How does the suggestion that a man with strong frame can dominate a woman somehow imply that ALL men must therefore automatically have strong frame and are able to dominate women without any need to learn from the masters?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:38 PM
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I had two close friends who started businesses at a young age (a plumber and an electrician). They went from having to slave away for peanuts from the master to suddenly being in high demand from scores of clients and handling more money than they'd ever seen. Both of them allowed the illusion of abundance to severely effect their personality and basically turned into arrogant narcissistic arseholes. Both drove their businesses into the ground within 18 months through pure arrogance and incompet…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:18 PM
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I've got a big mouth. I used to always seek out women to talk about my relationship problems with (face palm) primarily my sister, my best mates wife and a chick I used to mountain bike with. The advice was always the same "be nicer" "send her flowers" "apologise" "stop being a dick" I discovered red pill just after getting brutally dumped and basically went around telling everyone my new sexual strategy. My male mates with some Alpha traits listened sceptically, my beta male mates just rolled t…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 08:24 PM
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Bench Over head press Weighted dip Deadlift Squat Pendlay row Weighted chin ups Ditch the dumbells, ditch the isolations. Vary the rep range between 3 and 7. I also find NOT training to failure on my early sets is better for strength. If your first set goes to failure then you will lose reps on the following sets. Ideally you will only hit failure on your last one or two sets for each excercise. Also, train every lift 2-3x per week. This means multiple body parts per day. My current routine look…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:14 AM
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I tell my real mates all that shit. They're my mates, it's not going to (negatively) affect my reputation.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:02 AM
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If a chick doesn't bang by the second date I next her. If she hits me up later I might give her one last chance if I like her. If a decent chick views you as Alpha, she will not risk losing you by withholding sex. If she views you as beta, she will withhold sex in order to teach you that pussy is a reward for your obedience. Do not be this guy.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:55 AM
1

Do anal, then immediately oral, then dump her because only a BPD is this nasty (speaking from experience)
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:48 AM
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Here's where you went wrong. Girls don't take action, men do. She's throwing you a bone, you should ignore her question (don't tell her you're doing nothing) and just respond with an instruction "come over" By saying "wassup" you are throwing the bone back at her and waiting for her to take action.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:44 AM
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Soft next: You completely ignore a girl for 2-7 days, if she contacts you in that period you ignore. After the allotted period is complete you hit her up acting like nothing ever happened. You never mention the soft next or incident that caused it. If she asks why you ignored her you just say you were busy. Beware that if your frame isn't solid a soft next can easily turn into a hard next so you have to be willing to let her walk away when using this tactic. This shows her that you have no fear …
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:38 AM
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I remember about 10 years ago, one of my mates, a real skinny, harmless, nice guy left his $100 dollar sunglasses on a table in a pub. He saw a girl (who we knew) take them and leave. He goes after the girl and asks for them back. Her lump of a boyfriend just battered him right there while she looked on smugly. A week later, four of my other mates caught the boyfriend on the street and gave him a thoroughly good hiding. The girl and her boyfriend were barred from that pub for life and became wid…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 10:31 AM
1

I have a whiteboard in my study. I list all the chores I need to do, sometimes even small things like drink a protein shake, and then put a different number next to each one to identify the order in which I need to do them. If I find myself procrastinating one day, I'll take a cold shower and then immediately hit the list, doing at least 6 chores before I take a break.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:17 AM
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She's either doing something shady or she's acting like she's doing something shady to fuck with you. Either way it's a sign that she's losing respect for you. This behaviour will only get worse. If she's a non-exclusive fuck buddy then by all means she can withhold details of her whereabouts from you but a girlfriend really has no excuse not to give you a straight answer to this question. Plan your exit.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:10 AM
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This "go full beta" advice is bad in my opinion. I really don't see the point. Just tell her she's to young and you don't want to see her again, then block.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:04 AM
1

Just exchange "wants to marry me" with "is trying to force me to sign a contract to give her half my shit in the case she decides to cheat on me" If you and her are of similar means/wealth then you may consider the request somewhat reasonable. I still would not recommend compliance though. If not, you should let her go. Like someone else mentioned when she starts using "do this or else" and you comply, you can be certain she will hold you to ransom on every demand she has in the future. Once you…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:21 AM
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A half decent looking man who has taken care of himself, eaten well, lifted for 20+ years, is truly redpilled, wealthy, interesting, enlightened, unsaddled by kids/ex wife.... will have his pick of the 35-55 crowd of women and, if he plays his cards right, some access to the 20-35 crowd. In my experience, young women are far more likely to favourably point out a man in his 50's with a lean muscular build (rare) than a man in his 20's with a similar build (common)
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:14 AM
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It's nice to see so many guys on this forum have done their homework on BPD. Those creatures are fucking deadly.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:03 AM
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This is very true. My current LTR says she doesn't want to break up and if she did she just tell me cos, you know "I'm not an idiot" She makes zero attempts to see me and when I try to make plans (when I know she's not busy) I get, "maybe" "probably" and "I don't know" without fail. Yeah, yeah, I know, I need to ditch her. I will. Plan is just to leave her stuff outside her house and text "This isn't working, your stuff is by the gate. Take care" Then block.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 09:47 PM
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Great analogy! Oh wait....you walk away from a job after 30 years having been paid, what, $2million+ You don't have to give them the money back when you leave!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 07:55 PM
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If you stay in a relationship with a woman who disrespects you, you have oneitis. Yes, it's a pain to find ONE woman who fits your mentality. This is why TRP advocates fucking multiple women simultaneously and constantly seeking new ones. It's not that men here don't want LTR's, it's just that there are very few women out there worth surrendering your sexual independence for. Also, if she says it's fine for you to cheat on her....she's probably cheating on you.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:21 PM
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If you discover TRP whilst in the middle of a relationship in which you play the needy, doting, beta (which is you to a tee) you HAVE to walk away from that relationship in order to embrace the new knowledge you are learning. She is not going to view any change in your behaviour as you magically becoming Alpha, she'll just (correctly) see you trying to be something you are not. They do attempt to address this situation somewhat over at married RedPill but ultimately it's just mild damage control…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:54 PM
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When I was your age a group of my mates started going clubbing every weekend, sometimes for 24 hours straight, using a lot of ecstasy, coke, ketamine and other shit. I stopped hanging out with them. One developed a drug problem and got into serious financial trouble, one developed a drink problem and got into serious financial trouble, one met a clubber chick, married her in Vegas, divorced a year later, lost his house to her and got in serious financial trouble. You get the picture. 6 years lat…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:31 PM
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5'10
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:34 PM
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Height > muscles. I have seen it in action many times and have read that exact phrase on multiple tinder profiles.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:08 PM
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"I asked a girl out and she said yes...did I fuck up." These type of posts are why askTRP is a such a shitshow. If you have to go on the internet and ask a bunch of strangers if you fucked up EVERY time you text a girl you will never actually be a high value man. How are you going to handle a face to face conversation? You guys really need to start thinking for yourselves.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:07 PM
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She's using the fact her father happened to kill himself on this date to fuck with you. "I'm here if you need me" What does this even mean? When you go no contact with a crazy manipulative bitch it means NO fucking contact! They will always use shit like this to head fuck you. By responding you are demonstrating to her that you can be fucked with if she's willing to play dirty enough. Block the number.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:02 PM
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Your efforts will be far better rewarded if you get in shape. Trying to game chicks as a fatty with no recent experience could have a detrimental effect on your confidence. Forget about women for now. Focus 100% on getting lean and muscular. Stick to a compound based workout with linear progression. SL5x5 is always a good place to start. If you want to train 4 or 5 days a week (which you should) you might like to try this plan I am currently using. I made it up myself, it's an adaptation of stro…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:10 AM
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This is basic shit even for a blue pill! If you text a chick and she doesn't respond you DO NOT text her again until she does. Don't worry about the reason. Chicks are flaky and you should be doing the same to her from time to time as well.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:09 AM
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You never tell a fat chick that you like banging fat chicks. She'll view you as a fat fetishist and be (ironically) disgusted. You just say you don't have a type and enjoy a variety of women. But yeah. Banging fat chicks is all well and good until you shoot your load and the shame and disgust sets in. If hot chicks find out you're a whale hunter then your SMV instantly drops in their eyes. Best to be drunk during the act. The problem with Tinder is if you want to bang a decent number of chicks y…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:55 AM
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Here are some of my current favourites 50 cent: I get money Eminem: Marshall Mathers Immortal technique: Dance with the devil Post Malone: Rockstar Bugzy Malone: Mad The game: Dreams Jay Z & Kanye: Niggaz in Paris G-unit: Too rich for the bitch Jedi Mind tricks: Uncommon valour Rick Ross: Movin Bass The weeknd: Initiation GZA: 4th Chamber Wu Tang: Triumph B.I.G feat Eminem: Dead wrong Tinchy Struder: Catch em Dizzee Rascal: Jezebel 50 cent: P.I.M.P NWA: Dope man Eazy E: Boyz N tha hood This may …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:10 AM
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If she has a boyfriend then you are not her main priority so she should not be yours. Give priority to single chicks. Let this girl contact you.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:55 AM
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I have a mate who is 25, 6'6, good looking, natural Alpha, muscular, ripped to fuck. I'm 33 and 5'10. When we go out together I feel like his kid brother and am pretty much invisible to women. He literally almost stole a woman from my bed on one occasion before I told him to fuck off. We don't go out together anymore. You really cannot compete with this shit. Woman always want the AMOG.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:12 AM
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The problem you'll likely run into is that the kind of guy who wants to blow a quarter million on a car in his 20's is usually the guy who's obsession with perceived wealth constantly sabotages any chance of acquiring actual wealth. My policy is never to spend more than 3% of my total asset wealth on a car. Currently own a good condition 2002 BMW 330 convertible.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:04 AM
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I read both books in the same order as you and I agree that there is some contradiction. In my opinion TRM is very Red Pill, gives a great insight into the workings of female attraction and how to leverage it to your advantage. NMMNG is more a self help book for extremely beta men who have lost all sense of personal agency. I think ideally NMMNG should be read first and should be a basis for how to live a life that primarily benefits the reader. TRM is more advanced level and focuses on optimisi…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:50 AM
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Speaking from personal experience, the risk of catching an STD from bareback sex isn't all that high. 1/30 in my case. The most common STD (STI?) is chlamydia which usually has noticeable but not painful side effects and can be cured with a one week course of antibiotics. Don't stress over it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:36 AM
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Do Not Do This
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:12 PM
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It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:22 PM
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"I could easily phisically put her down to shut up" What is the point of this statement? If an uppity young chick wants to roast you, I find the best response is just stay quiet and look mildly amused.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:58 PM
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He's completely in her frame. She's the one setting up the dates. She's the one explicitly withholding commitment. She's the one openly playing multiple partners. She says to him "I'm not looking for anything serious" His response "I'm not looking for anything serious either" He's literally parroting her words back to her in order to appease her. I actually respect girls like this for being completely open about their hypergamy (assuming she's not a nut job) but only a supreme Alpha can hold the…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:53 PM
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Didn't read it all but sounds like my Dad. He is who he is. A lot of men from that generation are like that. Don't hold it against him or try to change him but your brother sounds like a better role model. Spend more time with him.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 08:37 AM
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You are completely in her frame.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:28 AM
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Reply should be this: "Suits me fine" A word of warning. Go ahead and have fun banging this chick but it sounds like you already have oneitis creeping in. If she is the only chick you are banging and your frame isn't rock solid she will mind fuck you and you will become (one of) her bitch(es) Do not ever, ever, even consider taking this chick as an LTR no matter what she says to you.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:03 AM
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No no no! There's no need to throw this prospect away because of one message. Yes, not offering to reschedule is usually a sign of disinterest but some chicks are literally just retarded and aren't capable of anything other than yes/no. That being said, no, he absolutely should not even consider cancelling his existing plans for a disinterested girl. Just do your thing Saturday, radio silence a few days then hit her up again. If you get same result, then you next. Lastly, no, you do not rearrang…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:24 AM
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Enjoy it while it lasts but don't lose yourself. Keep banging other chicks and seeking out new material. Don't change your life plans in order to be with her after you graduate. You will almost certainly lose her at some point and you have to accept that it will hurt when it happens. That's life.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:13 AM
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"This girl really loves me and would love me forever" I'm afraid you really have absolutely no understanding of women and have failed to grasp the basic concepts of RedPill. "Do you just wait for the one" Please, please go and read the rational male. Your thought process is completely blue pill. Women are not men. They are fickle and irrational. This woman may well love you now but the idea that this means she will automatically love you forever is incredibly naive. Trust me on this. I've had qu…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:03 AM
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Don't worry about the decline of masculinity. Ultimately your success in life and the satisfaction you gain from it is measured against the masses. People who eagerly swallow the lies being peddled by the elite tend to have unsuccessful and unsatisfactory lives in comparison to critical thinkers who question ideologies that don't add up. Enjoy being able to measure your success against weak competition. This, for me is where RedPill stands head and shoulders above Men's rights and MGTOW.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:47 PM
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If 91% of Americans are voting against the masculine imperative could you please explain to me how Trump (the most anti-feminist president in recent history) was elected over Clinton (who would have been the first women president)? This "Its so unfair being male the whole world is against us" rhetoric that often prevails here is starting to sound a little too much like feminism for my liking.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:42 PM
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It depends on what expectations your 'plate' has. I think a lot of the time here when guys refer to a plate, the girl in question may believe she is in the early stages of a relationship. If this is the case, it is a possibility that the chick messaged you as a loyalty test for her friend and the two are in cahoots. This may sound out there but chicks are devious and a hot girl messaging first on Tinder is a rare thing. Especially when her friendship could be on the line. If your plate is in ful…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:35 PM
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Stop fucking taking that shit! It's a big pharma con. In no other country in the developed world are hard drugs handed out to school children by doctors like candy.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:52 PM
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I had real problems with this when I was younger. My first 3 attempts to lose virginity with random chicks all failed. It really messed with my head. I used to only get into bed with a chick when I was blind drunk so I had a pre made excuse for my anticipated failure. Eventually I met a chick at a party with massive tits. She was all over me in an embarrassing way. We went upstairs and managed some partial intercourse but it didn't last. This chick was so into me she continued to pursue me relen…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:47 PM
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Pain is the greatest teacher. Don't worry about fucking up. Once you've done it enough times you'll gradually reduce the destructive behaviour. That said, please don't even consider entering an LTR. If you can't get through the talking phase without going full beta against your better judgement, LTR's will bring you nothing but disappointment .
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:29 PM
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You can get by in SE Asia quite well on around $40 a day if you're savvy. I tend to blow about $500 a week but I have money to burn, drink a lot of expensive drinks and tend to stay in high end hostels. Accommodation: Highly recommend hostels! Stay in dorms for at least half your trip. Dorm bunk $5-$20 per night Basic private bungalow $15-40 per night. Private hostel room $30-$50 per night. Nice hotel room $50-$100 per night. Hotels are full of old couples and Chinese tourists. Waste of money. T…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 09:52 PM
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I had no idea who Jordan Peterson was. Just watched his channel 4 interview. Anyone who wants a lesson in holding frame....watch it!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 09:31 PM
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Good post. I was willing to give 4 of my previous 5 LTR's a good stable relationship, good sex, guidance, friendship, support, love, children, the prospect of a financially stable future. Every single one of them threw it away because they either insisted on creating more pointless drama than I was willing to tolerate or they felt I eventually became so beta they had no choice but to treat me like a bitch. I honestly consider myself more Alpha than 90% of men but that isn't saying much these day…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:01 PM
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I only travel 1 month of each year. Costs around $2000 each year. I run a business and save ten times this amount.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:03 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:29 PM
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You can hang a stretchy band thing from the pull-up bar. You put your feet in it and it assists the lift for you. I see girls in the gym using it. Bent over rows and bicep curls will also help. Maybe try doing an inverted row with the bar higher up so there is more weight on your feet.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:21 PM
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You need to adopt the mindset that all women are cold hearted whores (I'm not actually claiming they are) and adjust your expectations accordingly. If one actually makes an effort and shows interest, great, but remember it is temporary and keep seeking other options. I honestly believe that only a truly cold hearted man can hold a woman's attraction indefinitely. Most of us here are having to exaggerate being cold hearted to some extent and the second the mask drops it's all downhill.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:36 PM
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I have listened to a bit of Patrice's stuff but not sure what you're getting at... Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:23 PM
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If you're going to take a "plate" out with you in public she needs to act like she's your girl in public. If people think she's your girlfriend it's because you treat her like one, which is ok but it means she should act like one. If she's just some random chick you're fucking and she turns up at parties and hooks up with other guys, either just ignore it and hit on other chicks or ditch her if it bothers you. Don't treat her like a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:27 PM
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This is nonsense. I'd rather jack off to porn than bang a realistic sex robot in the same way that I'd rather bang a conscious woman than an unconscious one. There's more to sex than putting your dick in a warm wet hole. If you can't see this you're either a virgin or a psychopath.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 08:21 PM
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Don't use selfies. It makes you look like a loser. Here's a rough guide I posted in another thread: There's plenty info out there about online game but here's a few tips I've picked up. Good photos, one of face, one shirtless, one doing masculine/adventurous activity, one with cool looking friends having fun. None of these can be selfies or posed. You've just gotta be so awesome that people are always taking photos of you. Bio must be very brief. Mine would be something like: Backpacker, gym rat…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:07 PM
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It shouldn't really bother you. Just leave it a few days or a week and hit her up again. If you get the same shit then next her. Also...you need to work on your openers. "Hey, what's up" is meaningless bullshit. It's you asking her to start a conversation. You're the man. You lead the conversation.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:02 PM
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I've been travelling for one month every January for five years. 4 of those trips were either partially or fully responsible for ending 4 relationships. Go easy on the dread. I know this sounds anti TRP but she's going to be worrying about what you're up to enough without you rubbing it in her face. Don't contact her too much but don't ignore her either. She doesn't need to be constantly told about all the partying you're doing and all the hot chicks you're hanging out with. Her imagination will…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:51 PM
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Everything is black or white with a BPD. No middle ground. Everyone from their past (ex's etc) was either an abusive scumbag or the love of their life. They'll swing between worshipping you and despising you. Their moods will go from delirious to black. When a BPD is in a bad state the eyes glaze over and it honestly feels like they have been possessed by the devil. They are bad with money, shit test constantly, fly into violent rages, extremely submissive in bed, loving being fucked in the ass,…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 05:08 PM
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Bro I'm 32. Trust me when I say that the decisions you make at 20 will have a huge affect on the position you are in at 30. The absolute best advice I can give is always seek to increase your wealth. Every month, every year, by as much as you can. I'm wealthier than all my old school friends combined simply because I started saving as a teenager. We all have similar jobs, I just made better decisions. Now many of them are shelling out a quarter of their salary each month in rent while I paid off…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:54 PM
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I've done a fair bit of travelling. Here's my input: South east Asia is cheap and fucking awesome. I would rank the 3 SE Asia countries I've been to in the following order: Vietnam (you yanks might wanna pretend to be Canadian here if the locals ask) Cambodia. Thailand. Danger: A lot of people who don't travel assume the people in these countries are dangerous. They're not. You're far more likely to be murdered in America. The men are mostly about 5'5 and 120lbs so you really won't feel intimida…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:44 PM
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The fact that you ignored his texts should answer his question. It's not really your problem. As stated above, go NC on her for a month and then maybe hit her up afterwards if you feel the juice is worth the squeeze and you don't mind banging a compulsive liar. If you really feel for the guy you could text "she has been lying to both of us. Please don't contact me again" and leave it at that but you may lose the plate.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:08 PM
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Lecturing chicks doesn't get you anywhere. My response would have been "congratulations! Any idea who the father is?" If you really need to reprimand her: "we don't joke about pregnancy" is fine. Don't mention the subject again. Sitting her down to have "a talk" about it is weak as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:58 PM
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I was that kid until 19. It's not really their fault. They have no male role models or sense of direction in a fem-centric world. RedPill gives you both. Enjoy the lack of competition.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:45 PM
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No need to hate on criticism. I'm just pointing out the flaws in your advice for the benefit of you and others. I have a long (pre RP) history of trying to lecture chicks on shitty behaviour. Total waste of breath and loss of frame. Actions>words.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:40 PM
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It sounds like you've successfully applied dread so enjoy it while it lasts. If you get to a place where a girl is losing interest and dread doesn't work, that's when you have to walk away. (My current situation) Before TRP I could never contemplate that something like this could work but bitches are fucked up. A couple of years ago my friend had a gf who was going cold on him, losing interest in sex etc. One night me and him were at a bar and his gf and her friend turned up. It was real awkward…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:21 PM
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Get off social media. Stop bitching about chicks that don't wanna bang you.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:54 PM
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This is a good thing. Don't worry about it. A lot of kids aged around 20 have absolutely no desire to better themselves. Don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:50 PM
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All good advice here. Lifting is the best thing you can do. Get on a compound based program with linear progression. Stronglifts 5x5 is a good place to start. Once you start busting PR's every two days it'll do wonders for your self esteem. Stop watching porn completely. Limit masturbation to once a week or less if you can. This is massive and also does wonders for my self esteem. Spend your downtime reading redpill sidebar material instead of Netflix/video games etc. Rational Male is a good pla…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:38 PM
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There are several bits of bad advice here: •Reschedule immediately Don't do this, it's showing her you'll happily tolerate flaking. Just say "no worries", radio silence for 4-7 days then try again. •Tell her off for not texting to cancel. You don't lecture a chick about shit tests. They know their behaviour is shitty, they want to see if it riles you. This is a shit test fail. •Continue to set up dates after she has flaked multiple times in a row. This is just desperate and retarded.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:44 PM
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You have to expect a certain amount of flaking from young chicks these days. It's all very well taking the high road and punishing the entire female gender for their shortcomings but you'll be missing out on a lot of pussy. My policy: If she flakes once, let it fly "no worries", radio silence for a few days then try again. Twice, ghost. In your situation: Wait two hours, "hey! Busy tonight, another time" Wait 4-7 days and suggest meeting again. This time she shows on time or you ghost.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:36 PM
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I don't particularly like confrontations in the gym so you know what I do? I don't go around the gym "enforcing the rules" and shouting at people for poor etiquette. Wind your neck in.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:24 PM
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Bro....you got ghosted after one date. That's what people do after first dates to avoid having the "I'm not attracted to you" conversation. Let it go for fucks sake! No you have nothing to lose by sending her another text but the fact that you are even considering it reeks of desperation. You need to be working on about 3-5 chicks at once so that when you reach a dead end with one you don't spend days hamstering the shit out of it and trying to convince people on the internet to validate your de…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:10 PM
1

Wanting to have children is the only one I can think of. The sad truth of the matter is that when you give a woman what she wants (commitment) she will eventually set about destroying it. This one really was (even by TRP standards) good quality LTR material at first but as soon as I allowed myself to get too comfortable with her, her attraction started to turn to resentment.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:26 PM
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BPD's have an almost inhuman intuition that enables them to give you exactly what you want from a woman. They gain a sadistic satisfaction from pulling you in deep with the love bombing and then yanking the carpet from under you when you least expect it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 08:10 PM
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Can confirm all of this. Dated a BPD for 7 months. I was either the greatest man on the planet or the most worthless piece of shit. Nothing in between. She always claimed her ex tried to strangle her. Even in the most beta stage of my life I didn't believe this. Two years after we broke up I bumped into her and two friends in a club. One of the friends later came up to me and told me she knew I had tried to strangle my ex. I laughed and told her to fuck off. Nowadays if any woman claims to me an…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 08:06 PM
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This is some of the most deluded shit I've read on this forum in a long time. The bitch was already crazy. If she wanted a consistent, monogamous relationship with the guy all she had to do was control her drama and not break up with him every two months. She also could easily have walked away with her dignity at the beginning of the LTR upon discovering she had not been his only plate. OP's mistake was not nexting her the moment she started displaying red flags but crazy bitch sex is a powerful…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 07:44 PM
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"Somehow the craziest ones are best in bed," This. Always this. As soon as you said she was the most insane sex you'd ever had....I knew this wasn't going to end well. She may be a high functioning borderline, if so there would have been a long stream of red flags that you either missed or just didn't mention in your post. The General consensus on borderlines from virtually anyone, blue or red, who has been involved with one is that the pleasure is never worth the pain. Sounds like you got off l…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 07:35 PM
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If you're more interested in taking care of and being in the company of women (whores in your case) then it shouldn't matter if she views you as beta as that is the role you have willingly assigned to yourself. If you enter an arrangement whereby you exchange money for company then don't expect any outcome other than having to provide more money for further company. I really cannot see how any man would find this arrangement rewarding but if you do, go for it.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:28 PM
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So instead of paying to plow her like a man, you're paying to sit and listen to her shit in the vain hope of being able to pay to plow her in the future? Yes this is as beta as it gets.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:51 AM
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You actually had to get on the interweb and ask strangers on a "how to get more sex" forum what to do when a woman offers you sex on a plate?? Invite her over to make beast with two backs Tell her you're not looking to get serious Repeat 1 at your leisure
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:19 AM
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My (recent) experience is that older single mums, being aware that having children has seriously reduced their value on the relationship market, are more than happy to engage in no strings arrangements with Alphas as their requirements for reproduction and financial support have already been met by baby daddy/the state. Dispensing with the need for commitment opens them up to a pool of far higher value men. Older women (30-40) without children are the ones who seek out betas purely from desperat…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 10:45 PM
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The vast majority of women don't bang a different top shelf man every month for a 14 year period. OP's analogy, whilst flawed, was better.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 10:30 PM
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Yep. Just been through this. It always baffles me to watch a women ruthlessly sabotage a solid relationship (despite claiming not to want to break up) after something as petty as a temporary loss of frame. If you do enter an LTR you either need to constantly focus on being Alpha and holding her at arms length or just accept that the situation is temporary and as soon as you start to relax it's going to collapse.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 08:41 PM
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The whole point of plate theory is to make your abundance mentality stronger than that of the women (who otherwise have the natural advantage) that you are fucking. You shouldn't really care if you see a plate with another dude. If one plate is flaunting superior abundance to you and it bothers you, just drop the plate and move on.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:47 PM
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Most men have been used and abused by at least one woman at some stage in their lives. Critical thinkers will sooner or later see a glitch in the matrix, start to seek answers and hopefully one day end up here. This process could take years but the eventual outcome will usually be positive. Most men are not critical thinkers. The vast majority will shrug their shoulders, think "oh well I probably wasn't worthy of her" or "she just wasn't the one" and blindly keep repeating the process over and o…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 04:35 PM
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I had a Spanish chick move in with me a few years ago, pre RP. I'd only known her two months. Story was exactly the same as OP's. She was wonderful at first but quickly turned into an aggressive, controlling shrew. One day, 6 weeks after she moved in, she started threatening to leave and I gestured "there's the door". She left that night and was completely out of my life within a week. I never looked back. You really have only one option once a women turns nasty if you are living together. If th…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:19 PM
2

Ive researched this plenty and virtually everywhere I look recommends "minimum 1gram protein per pound of body weight" and "eat for the size you want to be, not the size you are" Arnold worked with and recommended the 1g per lb ratio. It's always worked for me. If you weigh 130 then by all means eat 130grams but a bit more won't hurt you and will likely improve your progress.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:10 PM
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She actually had the trip previously booked with a different guy. She dumped him for being needy. He was so butt hurt that he didn't want his money back. I had been banging her (and another chick) for a couple of months. She was worried about having to go on her own. We joked about me going with her, then I said "fuck it...I haven't got much work on at the moment, if you want me to come I will" she jumped at the chance. She never actually pushed me for commitment I just gave it to her because I …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:05 PM
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"Grabs my ass from time to time" She's in the bag. Invite her over and bang her. Keep it casual, don't commit. I'm not sure why you're here asking for advice.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:54 PM
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I agree. I just don't think the constantly peddled advice of "demote her" as opposed to "ditch her" applies to 99% of men.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:45 PM
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A woman will be happier in a secure relationship with a successful Alpha male than an unfaithful relationship with a Beta male. You may argue that Alpha males do not stay in monogamous relationships because they are Alpha. I would argue that they do not stay in monogamous relationships because they do not meet women deserving of such. If a woman is young, attractive and fully internalises redpill then there will be plenty of successful Alphas willing to give her monogamy and some financial suppo…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:42 PM
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I personally think TRM is a far better book than NMMNG. I would only recommend NMMNG as the first step on the ladder for a seriously plugged in beta. It kind of becomes irrelevant if you internalise TRM.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:34 PM
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Take her by all means but do not upgrade her just because you have a good time. I've done this in the past and now regret it.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:31 PM
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I was taken on a fully paid for vacation for a week by a plate and it was also one of the best vacations of my life. When I dropped her home afterwards I said "That was a lot of fun thanks for a great trip" She jokingly responded "what's my reward" I replied "commitment" closed the car door and drove off. That was were I fucked up. We've been on two further vacations as a couple since. The first was average, the second a disaster.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:29 PM
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At that age I'm afraid you are at the bottom of the Heirachy. Girls aged 16-20 will generally be seeking to hook up with men aged 19-27. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 so perhaps I'm not the best person to advise but you need to play the long game. The effort you put in now to self improve will reap you huge rewards later in life. If I had internalised TRP at 17 I would probably have smashed over 100 chicks by now so fear not, you have a bright future ahead of you. Don't worry about b…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:23 PM
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I'll let you in on a secret. I'm in the same situation. Together two years, she was the one doing all the work, pining after me when we were apart, scared of losing me. We went travelling together a month ago, I lost frame several times for various reasons and her attraction switched off like a lightbulb. I haven't ditched her yet because I've been hamstering, procrastinating etc but I KNOW I have to. Once the dynamic is gone, the relationship is dead. You never actually had the required dynamic…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:07 PM
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The only situation in which it is sustainable to continue in an LTR with a girl who is "unsure" about the relationship is if she is vocalising worry about a lack of commitment from you. If this is the case, good! You have her where you want her. You simply tell her that you are as committed as you are willing to be at this time and she can either take it or leave it. You must be rock solid on this and willing to let her walk. You can hint at the prospect of further commitment in the future but n…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:59 PM
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You only have to listen to late nineties gangster rap to realise that black men in general seem to have internalised red pill knowledge long before people were talking about it on the internet. If you listen to the music being peddled by white men around the same era, the vast majority had an incredibly beta theme to it. Perhaps this plays a part in the old theory that "once you go black, you never go back"
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 02:18 PM
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A little communication is ok. Stating what you will and will not tolerate is fine. But once you start attempting to negotiate getting your needs met by her you are in danger territory. There's a good chance that she will sense weakness in you and instantly start to lose attraction. I think one of the hardest parts of TRP to internalise is that in certain situations, the only way to make a woman respect your boundaries is by abandoning her permanently. The more times you use the implied threat of…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 02:07 PM
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I'm not questioning the validity of your post but I'm struggling to comprehend how super liking a girl increases your chances of her meeting you. You're putting her on a pedestal before exchanging a single word with her.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 01:57 PM
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"I'm looking for something serious" "I intend to give you something serious"
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 08:44 PM
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I discovered RP just over two years ago. Had two plates on rotation but one was so hot, laid back and awesome to be around I ditched the other fairly early and not long later ceased to seek out new material. Within 4 months she became an LTR. When she was a plate she was euphorically happy in my company and loved the fact that anytime someone asked if we were a couple I'd respond "no we're just mates". She genuinely felt honoured to be in the company of what she perceived to be an alpha male. Pa…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 07:28 PM
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Those are my 3 favourite bicep exercises. I also find pull-ups are great for my calves.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 07:09 PM
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Good work. Sounds like you've had quite a turn around. I do want to give a word of warning though....once you upgrade a plate to an LTR the quality of the sex and interactions with that woman will almost certainly start to gradually deteriorate. You also won't have any other options to turn to when it does. Never be the one pushing for commitment. I'm not anti LTR but have experienced first hand how a woman's attraction to you is far stronger when you hold her at arms length and keep her in comp…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:57 PM
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In most of my LTR's the sex started off validational but turned transactional within a year. The only one that was validational from start to finish was a BPD who begged to be fucked in the ass 3 times a day. I bumped into her years later and it was immediately evident that I had Alpha Widowed her. She literally cried like a baby into her (extremely beta) boyfriends shoulder outside a bar for half an hour just from having a 2 minute conversation with me (in which she pressed her crotch against m…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:12 PM
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Sorry, you lost me at "America and their infinite intellectual power" Pretty much any non American (which I am) would shit themselves laughing at this claim. While I do wholeheartedly believe that there is a deliberate effort from extremely powerful people to break up the functioning family unit in all Western nations, I do not believe this to be some attack by an outside nation/race/religious group. If that is what you're asserting....
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 09:08 PM
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Please tell me how it is you know what she is thinking? and unless she has actually told you, why give a shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:57 PM
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RedPill: Improve yourself to get women. Side effect: You are now twice the man you used to be. MGTOW: Don't improve yourself to get women, they're not worth the hassle, just avoid them. Side effect: You are still a loser.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:48 PM
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Well put sir. I feel like I took a wrong turn into the MGTOW forum.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:37 PM
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No idea why this was down voted and the post above up voted. Dating is not stressful if you're game is solid and natural and you have genuine abundance mentality. Rejections, flaking and shit tests cost you nothing once you can master your ego. Most of us aren't there yet, but once you are, it's easy.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:32 PM
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I've done this a few times before I took the pill. Usually after a oneitis breakup. I agree it's something every man should go through. The main benefit to me was to break free of my ego's reliance on validation seeking. No matter how Alpha you are, there is always an element of validation seeking in chasing women. That being said, I do not agree with the OP's assertion that the reward is not worth the work. Banging and connecting with hot chicks is the greatest pleasure most men can experience …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:23 PM
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I don't feel any need or desire to live in a society that forces women into marital slavery. There are a lot of Muslims where I live and the women all look miserable and ugly as shit. Women are people and I believe they should have freedom of choice. I think the problem lies in the fact that society has been skewed somewhat to try and force men to pay the price for women's poor decision making. If men were encouraged to be more masculine, women more feminine and divorce/custody laws more fair, m…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:12 AM
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You have the right attitude. I guess the best thing you can convey is that you're aware you're a short ass, you're comfortable with it, you can laugh about it, you don't give a fuck and you won't let it stop you banging chicks. Often having a genetic disadvantage can give a man the added motivation to achieve great things. You see the same thing with dyslexics.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:50 PM
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The true Alphas are banging different chicks every weekend. There are also plenty of dudes out there who are a bit simple. They're easily turned into beta's in relationships but while single they are fairly proficient at banging chicks because they never really bothered computing any of the blue pill crap that was being presented to them. They just follow their natural instincts. You won't see them here because simple guys place no value on collective wisdom. Girls will also often experiment wit…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:44 PM
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"I'm 5'5" Herein lies your problem. Women are heightist cunts. I've known guys who are 5'8 with highly aggressive game to slay a lot of pussy but really anything under 5'10 puts you at a serious disadvantage. I don't mean to shit on your parade but I see evidence of it all over Tinder. Your lifts are good though. I'm 32, lifting 5 years (2 months off to travel each year) and same numbers except my bench is a bit lower. Just keep pumping those weights and you can negate the height disadvantage wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:19 PM
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I rarely drink in my day to day life but I'm British and our entire culture is based around getting legless so when I do go out I tend to drink a lot. I totally agree with you though. Alcohol has caused problems, drama and massive frame loss in every relationship I've ever had. The same thing happened 2 years ago. I was dating a chick for a couple of months. She shit tested the fuck out of me and I failed the lot but the sex was hot and she seemed into me. I then went travelling SE Asia for a mo…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:04 PM
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I've just been through exactly this. In the past if I ignored her for a few days she'd send me a cutesy snapchat bunny video saying "please don't ignore me daddy it's not very nice" or some shit. If she withheld sex one day and asked if I wanted to see her later and I said "not really but I won't stop you coming over" she would turn up and fuck my brains out. Now she doesn't give a shit if I don't contact her for a week. She'll just be cold and despondent when I eventually do. She used to laugh …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:27 PM
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The one thing she asked me to promise before we left was that I wouldn't abandon her which I agreed to (unless she cheated) She had never travelled before and I am a man of my word. I did actually ditch her in town with a group of people we had met one night. I was in an extremely drunken state and was pissed off about something I can't remember. She kept asking if I wanted to go home. I kept saying no but then just slipped off without telling her. Hostel was 10 minute walk away and I made sure …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 06:12 PM
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I was in a similar situation to you 6 months ago. Had a very nice LTR, she was compliant, submissive, low drama and fun to be around. I can come across quite anti-woman in public and she never had a problem with this and often agreed. She has a lower sex drive than most girls I've been with but knew her duties, carried them out on demand and always got into it and orgasmed. I did gradually slide into betahood a little but this didn't initially present a problem and she always knew I was willing …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:34 PM
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I don't profess to be an online pimp but I've plenty of experience. To be honest most of the chicks I hit and quit were 5's and 6's. The hot ones I ended up LTR'ing were either messed up in some way or lost attraction at the first sign of weakness. I used to rely on predominantly beta game (present myself as a well grounded, good long term financial prospect) thinking that was the correct way to treat women and weed out the bad ones. Obviously the wrong approach. There's plenty info out there ab…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:38 PM
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I'd guess you're lack of progress is more due to a lack of calories than a lack of protein. I'm the same height and pushed my weight from 130 to 170 in a few years by just eating large meals and more meat without making any attempt to eat clean. My BF probably never went over 14% and I looked and felt a fuck of a lot better at 170. Dirty bulking may not be the best approach to gain a beach body but it makes weight gain a lot easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 08:10 AM
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I see a lot of this with my mates. One of them used to slay pussy working as a barman in a party town. His game was far superior to mine for many years. Nowadays he is back home, aged 33 living with his grandparents. He's banged one horrendously ugly chick in the past two years. He just spent the last 3 months chatting to a 31 y/o single mum on Match.com who he finally took on a date on Valentine's Day and then never heard from again. When I try give him some advice on online game he just rolls …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 10:05 PM
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The thing I've always found with trust is that people who are automatically untrusting are also usually untrustworthy. Partners who constantly accuse the other of cheating with no grounds are usually cheating themselves. People who constantly worry about acquaintances stealing from them are usually thieves.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/18 11:28 AM
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I'm as sharp as a blade yet curse like a trooper.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 11:59 PM
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The BPD relationship led me to a forum for "men in abusive relations". This was after I had already ditched her but had never heard of BPD until I found this forum. It was actually very helpful at the time but it had a strong MRA slant, was a cesspit of victim puke and basically took the attitude that women are either wonderful angels or evil snakes and it's best to just avoid them all because we good obedient beta males can't be trusted to differentiate between the two. I was quite a respected …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/18 10:46 PM
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This made me realise I was probably best classified as Omega in my first relationship. Before we moved in together I had a mix of Alpha and Beta. I was Blue Pill but we both knew I was better than her so I had plenty of IDGAF, no neediness and fucked her good. After two years I bought a house and let her move in for free. She started refusing sex fairly frequently, so I just thought "fuck this bitch I prefer porn anyway" after that the sex quickly dried up to almost nothing, I started to spend a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/18 07:00 PM
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Dealing with narcissistic men is actually not much different from the RP approach to dealing with women. Rock solid boundaries are extremely important and a willingness to walk away. Avoid any interaction with them unless absolutely necessary, agree and amplify works very well in their inevitable attempts to belittle you. An example I used to use: Narc guy: I thought you were into men? Me: No just boys They will usually be nice as pie in a one on one scenario but attempt to ridicule you in front…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 03:27 PM
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I'm an electrician. Now I think about it I became naturally very good at holding frame with main contractors/clients at quite a young age. It always amused me how I would be the only subcontractor (for various different main contractors) who dictated his own fees, when and how the job would be done and I always give constructive feedback on poor design/planning from above. I also became quite adept at dealing with heavily narcissistic types which requires an entirely different approach than with…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 07:36 PM
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One of the things I love about TRP is having people point out when my ego is distorting reality. No matter how much you drill this shit into yourself it's always so much clearer being on the outside looking into someone else's situation than when you're in the shit yourself. Just got a text from her "I really think I should go travelling! Don't you think that would be a good idea?" She's well aware this is a deal breaker for me. I travel every year for a month. I took her last time (big mistake)…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:04 PM
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There's not much that tickles my emotions these days (beyond listening to Winston Churchill's wartime speeches) but this did. I salute you sir!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 10:32 AM
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"Because his idea of a relationship is 5 minutes alone with that hot alter boy" This cracked me up! I've had five serious girlfriends. Two of them were religious (both Catholics) and of the five these two were by FAR the most difficult! While I've since come to learn that the benefit of rational discussion with any women is somewhat limited, rational discussion with a woman who believes in an invisible man in the sky who guides her every move, allows her to look down her nose at non-believers an…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 10:04 AM
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Having given it some thought I agree with you. There really would be very little point continuing to see her in a non-exclusive arrangement. She has the lowest sex drive of any LTR I've had and I've no doubt the oneitis would linger and she'd make sure to use it against me. A lot of guys here instantly advise "downgrade her" when responding to reports of poor behaviour from LTR but I think the vast majority would benefit more from cutting ties.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 09:27 PM
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I went through something similar 5 years ago and ending it was the best thing I ever did. I'm 10x the man I was back then. Even before finding TRP I've always believed that if either partner is starting to doubt the future of a relationship then it's basically over and you need to get out. Ive had 4 increasingly hot, young girlfriends since then but I still find my judgement clouded by the dreaded oneitis!
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 04:05 PM
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Long story but after a year and a half of her being very compliant and eager to see/fuck me we went travelling for a month together. I did some stupid drunk shit, she started withholding sex and my subsequent attempts at withdrawing attention just came off as butt hurt. That was a month ago and now she has very little time for me and openly admits she's lost the love/respect. Once the damage is done its extremely difficult to undo it. The other day after a bottle of wine she suggested "maybe we …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 03:55 PM
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I've been browsing here for 2 years and this is honestly one of the best posts I've ever read. It has left me seriously considering ditching/demoting my girlfriend (usual story, started off alpha, she worshipped me, gradually slipped into betaland, she now resents me and doesn't know why)
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 01:13 AM
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This concept always reminds me of the opening scene of Apocalypse now "I'm here a week now, waiting for a mission, getting softer. Every minute I stay in this room I get weaker and every minute Charlie squats in the bush he gets stronger" I think it's a valid concept and very much describes my experience of day to day life. If I'm getting up early, grafting hard and training hard I feel invincible. It only takes a few days of lie ins, watching Netflix and jerking off to leave me feeling like a w…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 08:40 AM
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There is no helping men like this. They are worthy of neither pity nor guidance nor vagina.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 08:23 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me how you can have a man and a woman both earning similar money and yet the man is expected to provide 90% of the cost of their living expenses (and agrees to go along with it) You dun goofed but glad to hear you've seen the light. I sincerely hope you can walk away with the majority of your wealth intact and the bitch is left with a pittance that she will inevitably piss up the wall in a matter of months.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 10:49 AM
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Back in my younger, clueless days I used to approach chicks in my local bar and ask "where's the best place to go around here?" as if I wasn't local. When they asked where I was from later on I'd say "Oh I live up the road I'm just lazy with openers" I did have some success with this and it gives them an opening to invite you along but I'm aware it comes across as lame.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 06:18 PM
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This response really hit home for me. I've learned the hard way over the years not to get dragged into DEERing with an irrational woman but have recently found myself relapsing a lot. "Your silent treatment is withholding the validation I use to measure my self worth" Nail on the head!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 08:45 PM
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I don't disagree with your feedback at all. Currently reading NMMNG which I'm so far finding a little basic and obvious but I'll stick with it. I will say this, more as an observation than an excuse for my failure of leadership which I acknowledge: I've done some research on the birth control implant and the vast majority of feedback I've read from both women and the men dealing with them is that it frequently turns the user into a crazy, irrational, cold, moody, argumentative bitch and complete…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/18 03:39 PM
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New system to combat procrastination. 32 years old 5'10 165 lb's, 12% bf Lifting 5 years but taking 1-2 months off to travel each January limits long term linear progress. Currently winding down a 2 year relationship. 5 previous serious girlfriends (3 hot) with a handful of plates and 15-20 ONS in between. One LTR was a BPD and another probably NPD. When I look at the men my age in my environment (UK) I seem to be ahead of the majority in terms of financial stability, independence, understanding…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 10:20 AM
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