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Different women cum at different rates. I was with one that came multiple times from very little stimulation. Only a small number I've seen have been able to cum from PIV and that really had to do with what effort they put in. It's been my experience that when your ons/plate doesn't come, you're not setting yourself up for repeat business. They might come back for one more round but the best way to ensure the come back or remain open is to make sure they cum. I make it a point to find out what m…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:55 PM
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Mommy is proud of you for being such a good boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 09:36 AM
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THIS! ​ Go talk with someone. Find a professional that can help. I had something similar and got my ass into therapy. It's fucking helps. You're not the only person that has dealt with this and there a tried and true methods that work.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:55 PM
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Talk to her about what you want. If you want other women, tell her that. If you want a threesome, tell her. If you want to jack off in a parking lot while a group of old men watch you, tell her. Get her involved. ​ Cheating is avoiding reality. Deal with the problem. Face it. Find a solution, Try that solution. If it doesn't work, try another. ​ I'm guessing you're boring as fuck.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:54 PM
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Jesus dude...get off the internet and go speak to a therapist that specializes in family counseling. You’re not the only family that’s been through this and they’ll have lots of useful, practical advice. I know a dad who even had sessions with his 13 years old daughter because the ex wife was poisoning the relationship. Red Pill is a great framework for somethings but it’s not magic. I think the red pill lesson here is to be proactive and lead you’re family to better emotional health. Some of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 12:15 PM
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You're and out of control, emotional mess of cowardly man child with no integrity. First and foremost, you lack integrity and you're amazingly selfish. You've abdicated responsibility of your family to your wife because it was difficult. Things got rough and you're weren't getting your candy so instead of standing up and doing the work required, you bailed. Not only that but, you bailed on your wife and you didn't even have the guts to tell her. You did this all behind her back. You feel shitty …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 08:36 PM
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If you're not in need of that kind of external validation, it's pretty understandable that you wouldn't need to seek it out. ​ I've gone through the same thing in my red pill journey. A lot of my gaming other women was really just trying to get attention from someone. Once things changed with the wife and we started forming a cohesive bond, I found I just didn't care about other women. Sure, I still love a rocking set of boobs but I have no need to see if I get her vag to tingle. ​ I also notice…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 07:42 PM
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The more genuine you be with your wife, the more genuine she can be with you. Show her all of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 02:43 AM
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I would suggest lowering that body fat first. You don't say how old you are but I'm 55 and most guys my age a giant fucking balls of fat who look like overstuffed babies. Getting my BMI down from 28 to 20 (6' tall went from 207lbs to 153lbs) had a dramatic impact on how people, not just women, interacted with me. ​ Once you're at a normal weight, your face won't look so distorted and you'll be able to wear normal sized human clothes. You'll look better and you'll be able to dress better. People …
/r/askMRP14/01/19 06:18 PM
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Oh please... If you think she's angry about moving to a new city with you, talk to her about it. Why are so afraid of her? There isn't anything she can say or do to hurt you. If she's being passive aggressive, don't just stand there and take it. Say, in a curious non-judgemental tone, hmm... "Seems like you're angry with me. Is there something you want to talk about?" Then let her vent. She blame everything on you and paint herself the victim. Fine. Stand up for yourself in a calm manner. Rememb…
/r/askMRP07/01/19 09:59 PM
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It should be noted that just because the act DTF, doesn't mean they actually are. Sometimes they just want the attention. On top of that, even if they would, having kids makes the actual transaction mode difficult to pull off. Not saying it's not possible, just not always easy.
/r/askMRP02/01/19 01:51 PM
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Welcome to Married Red Pill. You've come to the right place to learn how to get yourself sorted out however the correct place to ask this sort of questions is Ask Married Red Pill r/askMRP/ ​ In order to respectful of this sub, I won't go into details of your question except to say read all the information in the sidebar and this situation is entirely your fault and, as such, entirely in your power to correct. Good luck! ​ ​
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 01:06 AM
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Bullshit. It's not working with Turkish girls because you're not attractive enough to Turkish girls. Whatever your ranking is where you come from is probably taking a big cultural hit.
/r/seduction25/12/18 04:56 PM
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Fuck that. Stop rooting through the garbage. It's over with her. Block her and move on. Stop wasting time. You'll be dead soon.
/r/seduction25/12/18 04:55 PM
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> I'm currently sleeping to "Natural Confidence" ​ Turn that shit off and get a decent night's sleep. ​ NLP has it's uses but don't let anything get in the way of your sleep. You're not learning enough in your sleep to make up for the detraction. Sleep is one of the most overlooked, but important, activities in self care. Continue with your work outs, eat right and sleep. Set aside time in the morning to read or listen to NLP.
/r/seduction25/12/18 04:52 PM
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Sounds like you're so bitter about your career and unmotivated to work that other people pick up on that. Getting let go a few times should be some kind of indicator. I'm having a hard time believing that they are so jealous of your Red Pill Freedom that they fire you. I work in a professional setting with 50% and there is no kneeling to women required. Stop playing the victim card here. You're responsible for where you are in life. If you've been let go a few times, that's on you for not puttin…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:15 PM
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Way to show those ungrateful fucks what a piece of shit you are. A real tree is fun. You're not.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 08:02 PM
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I doubt she's some evil harpy that tricked you into this relationship. After reading this, I get why she doesn't want to have sex with you. You sound like kind of a dick. Staying for the kids is a cope out. Fleshlights and brothels are for beta boys who live timid, shitty lives of repression and shame. Fix yourself. Next, figure out what's wrong with the relationship. For fucks sake, talk to her about it if you have to. All the shit you wrote about sounds like it came from fantasies inside your …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/18 08:08 PM
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Dude... if she didn't want to blow you, she wouldn't. A woman who doesn't want your cock in her mouth will find a way for that not to happen. She may not act like the cock hungry whore you see in porn but, on some level, she either enjoys it for herself and/or enjoys doing it for you. You're a mess emotionally. Sounds like you a big baby. Calm down. Stop reacting to every little thing with an emotional meltdown. When you get shot down, control yourself. It happens. Remember, you're awesome if sh…
/r/askMRP19/10/18 02:00 PM
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If your goal is to decrease the amount sex you have with her, sure go ahead do that. Most likely, you're mad at her and looking for a way to punish her or make her feel like you do. See how she likes if she doesn't get sex from me. That's not going to do anything positive. The only time I've withheld it is when it was going to be duty sex. Normally, she would allow me to climb on top once a month. She referred to it as paying her rent. Once I started turning down her duty sex, things changed.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 06:04 PM
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Have the balls to end the relationship as soon as the sex isn't good.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:17 PM
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Meh... sounds like you're insecure when she mentions someone else. I once had a plate that would talk about other guys a little. Since I didn't really want anything from her but sex, I wasn't bothered by it and was able to be non-judgemental. I let her talk and I would ask her questions about her past and I could talk about mine. It was just jaw dropping to here her unfiltered story. She started having sex at 15 and was doing it just about any chance she could get. At one point, she was having s…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:54 PM
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They post shit like this on the internet.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:31 PM
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Anything other than yes is no. Game other girls. If she contacts you, set something otherwise forget her. There isn't anything there for you.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:24 PM
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Einstein did a lot of work based on relativistic pussy attraction. Most of the original work is in German but you can find some transcripts on porn hub.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:21 PM
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She already told you. Stop making shit up.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:49 PM
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It’s a fitness test that you don’t pass.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:25 AM
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Cucky McCuckster...
/r/askTRP09/10/18 08:59 PM
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Jesus... why don't you challenge him to a ski race down the K2? Seriously, enough with the revenge fantasies. Talk to you friends and have a plan in place in case things go bad but don't plot shit. Go to the party. Have fun. Have a plan with your friends. Leave his girl out of it.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:35 PM
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The age difference is authority. Why can’t you get chicks nearer your own age?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:51 PM
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Seems predatory.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:26 PM
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Fuck you way up the ladder.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:24 PM
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Yea... let's roll around in our own garbage and see how that works out...
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:23 PM
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Anything other than yes means no. She's not interested. I don't see anything wrong with not being a dick about returning her stuff. Put it in a bag outside your door and tell her she can come get it as you're leaving. Move on.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:03 PM
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Every man has his price. Yours involved whoring out your girlfriend. You own that.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:20 PM
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YES. This is no real upside to posting that sort of video.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:10 PM
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They can control it but they can't hide it very well.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 06:45 PM
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Yea... I get this. I used to pride myself on my ability to blend in with any group and also not make waves. What I discovered was that I was willing to bend for just about any situation and that I rarely got what I wanted while allowing others to do so. Maybe that's not what you're doing but I found, for me, that it made me angry and resentful. Now, I stand up for myself, in a non-aggressive way, and I say what I want. Guess what? I find that I end up getting what I want more often. Go figure.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:50 PM
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You confuse people and they don't think you have any integrity.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:49 PM
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Rich and high status won't get you laid but it will get you married. ​ Look at all the old, fat rich white guys that have to do shitting, underhanded things to try and get a little pussy. Money and status alone don't get you laid.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:48 PM
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>I feel insulted ​ Oh, poor fucking you... the world has done you wrong so you're just going to throw your toys on the floor. ​ Look, the world doesn't owe you shit and neither does this secret group. Wipe you fucking tears and get back to work on your mission. You're lucky enough to go to an ivy league but doesn't sound like your deserve it. You get over this by ignoring it. Is it really that important? Really? Get back on track and work your ass off. ​ If it matters to you that much, start you…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:17 PM
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That's an invitation. Text back when to meet.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:07 PM
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Always wear a common. Do not trust your health to someone that benefits from keeping this information from you.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:07 PM
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>I just mope around Well, there's your problem right there. Stop it. Today... right now... ​ You continue to do it because YOU LIKE IT. You feel like a victim and that things won't ever change. What's that get you? Nothing... Stop being a baby. You're not special. If you have no value, why would ANYONE want to be around you? That just doesn't make sense. ​ You improve yourself for you because you only have a short time on this earth and you want to live the best life you can. Don't let TRP fool …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:05 PM
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Nope. It’s put the inappropriate thought in her head in the same was as if I say purple giraffe forces you to think of a purple giraffe. I would say something like I’m going to be at x at 8:00. Stop by if you want.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:30 PM
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I had braces at 30 and it took 4 years. I have nice teeth but they were so crowded in my mouth it was a total mess. Do it and don’t look back. It will increase your confidence, your SMV and will be better for the life of your teeth. It’s money well spent. Some women may not like it but most people will cut you slack for fixing your shit. Think of how you feel about seeing the fat guy at the gym. At least he’s not home on the couch. Seriously, don’t hesitate. Take care of yourself. Your medical n…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:27 PM
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Why are you digging through her past?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:19 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:17 AM
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Some girls have giant pussies. Some don’t. I’ve been with girls that couldn’t tell if I was in and I’ve been with girls that thought I had a Monster cock. Find one that fits you. You should feel great full that these women let you know what they really need without wasting your time. I often find bigger women have bigger pussies and that petite girls have little tiny yummy pussies. Not always the case. I’ve met a big girl with a little tiny one and met a tiny girl that could take my entire hand.…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:10 AM
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If you want to, do it.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:04 AM
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Agreed. Money doesn't get you laid. It does make it easier to get married but that's totally not the same thing. Money is just one factor in being attractive.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:31 PM
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Meh... money and status can skew that pretty easily. I live near a couple of up scale towns where the wealthiest folks in my state live. Think 10 bed room houses on the ocean front with 3 bedroom/4 bath room guest houses. It's the exception that the wife is the same age as the husband. They are often much, much younger. I'm sure most of those are 2nd wives but still. There is a guide around here somewhere that talks about younger women and older men. Basically, some girls never would, some might…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:22 PM
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>being beaten doesn't mean your broken Yea... those are red flags right there. ​ Honestly, any time a product has to tell you what it isn't, you can be damn sure it is. ​ "NOW, LESS CHALKY TASTE" means the only thing this taste less chalky than is actual chalk. ​ ​
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:15 PM
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There isn't one tiny bit of evidence for the existence of god. Just like TRP tells you to use your eyes when it comes to women, you also have to use your eyes when it comes to bullshit fairy stories. ​ You have to find your mission in life. It's up to each of us to find theirs.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:52 PM
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Not for me... but then again... I'm 54. ​ That sort of thing suggests something in her childhood makes her pine for her dad or that she had sex at a young age with an older man or wanted to at least. If you give her what she needs, she'll open up and let you do what you want with her.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:29 PM
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She's dreading you and it's working.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:44 PM
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I'd say you've done a good job at 3 years. That's long enough. Don't stay with someone because you're afraid to be alone. Go get more options. Remember, time you waste with her is time you could be working on yourself and options.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:49 PM
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>that I should have deleted them etc HUH? Why? ​ No ultimatum. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:18 PM
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Somehow, for whatever reason, you and her aren't compatible for sex. That sucks but it's a reality. You can hang in there and get counseling and read books and stay up late and hold hands and talk about her childhood and what sex means to her and what sex means to you and how you both like the sex you have but if only there was a better way and maybe if we work hard enough that someday we'll have sex that's fun for both of use and we just have to hang in there because we love each other just so,…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:14 PM
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Everytime she calls you that, you tell her you're her fuck bunny then you fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:09 PM
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Get your teeth fixed. Don’t wait.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:25 PM
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They hide them from low values males. High value makes are encouraged to look.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:56 PM
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True. Your body is far more important than a car.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:43 PM
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Meh... part of your job is keeping your body in good shape. That includes repairing things that break. If your car was dented, you’d fix it.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:41 PM
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I totally get that it's pretty common but it smells like a total setup. He hasn't verified who he's really talking to. The instructions say not to use a safe word. You have to agree that this sketchy.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:26 PM
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A s
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:51 PM
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Yea... well now it's story time... We're going to need details. I'm not saying stuff like this doesn't happen but I bet OP has not proof this is a real female. I'm sure he hasn't spoken on the phone to her or met her in public or anything. I'm sure if he puts the texts up, it will be clear he's being set up to rape someone for real.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:07 PM
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You mean "he", right?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:06 PM
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Google it. It's a scam. Some shitty ex-husband or boy friend catfishes some poor loser to rape his ex and said loser goes to jail for life. I'll be money that OP doesn't have any proof this is a real women.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:05 PM
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OK. Hang on here before you do something that's going to cost you a lot of money, and possibly, jail time. First off, the only thing you can do is not spend a dime and report it to the employer and bank ASAP. That money isn't yours. Whatever it is, a bank error, an error on your employers part or something else, eventually someone is going come back to you about it. The bank can reverse the transaction AND file a police report. Once the police show up, they are going to start asking the usual qu…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:04 PM
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She wanted to fuck, got on tinder, found someone attractive and available, fucked them and went home. The next time she's horny, she'll do the same. She may or may not try you again depending on her options. She has tons of options. I wouldn't wait around. ​ Even if you somehow didn't get an STD this time, that behavior is the exact fastest way for to get one. Stop it. You're not a child. Use a condom not matter what the partner says. ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:13 PM
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"Yea, well look how that turned out." ​ Tell her no and still to it. You've tried it. It changes the relationship and you're not doing it. ​
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:05 PM
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Put the turd on the table. "Why do you come out of your room to judge me and say shit to my face every time I come over?" She'll get angry. Let her. Laugh.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:49 PM
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Welcome to the club, chump. Girls over 200lb love me. I'm man candy to the big girls. Just keep improving and fucking your way up the ladder. ​ Remember, choosy beggars starve.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:45 PM
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It's not a red flag. She's into you. Girls like guys. It happens.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:44 PM
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Because it's not a girl... it's a dude setting you up to rape someone.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:42 PM
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Dude, that's a setup. Run.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:40 PM
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Dumbest post of year candidate right here, folks! I just doesn't get much dumber.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:40 PM
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Here, let me write an entire post about someone I'm not even talking to at the moment...
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:23 PM
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Connection, state, command is some old stuff from the early days of seduction. I think it comes from Ross Jeffereis and NLP. Some of that is useful and some of it is horse shit. I do, however, like connection, state, command. ​ Make the connection. Talk to her. Establish that you are interested in her in a romantic, sexual way and not as a friend. Here you mirror her a bit then get her to mirror you. Ideally, she will end up qualifying herself to you. ​ State. Get her into a compliant state wher…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:21 PM
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Of course, it's possible to give girls tingles without talking to them. I have no idea if you're capable of that. Do you look like Dwayne Jonhson? You escalate the exact same was as with others. Kino, push pull... connection, state, command ​
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:36 PM
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Secret relationships are often shamed based. If you do fuck her, your going to have to hide it and hope that she does as well. I'm not saying don't do it just that it's possible it's going to create stress and drama that you may or may not want. If the husband finds out and the family breaks up are you going to be OK knowing you helped cause that? Some guys wouldn't mine a bit. Others might. I've done the whole lying/cheating thing myself and came to the conclusion that it wasn't good for my ove…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:31 PM
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Showers are awesome for sex or to get the party started. Most people don't smell fresh after a long day. ​ I also like the smell of alcohol and tobacco on a woman during sex. That means she's probably going to be much better in bed than normal.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:14 PM
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Sure. Learn a skill so you can be a better dancing monkey. That's the worst motivation to do something. Maybe cover yourself in $100 dollar bills when you go out so people will like you. You do things because you want to do them not for external validation. Learning and instrument like lifting is about you developing yourself for you.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:22 AM
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Nope. She's not interested. There isn't any magic word sequence you could have used to change this outcome. She wasn't interested and was letting you know. ​ Maybe Sunday means maybe never. At least you know not to waste one more second on her, right?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:18 PM
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What goods does beating yourself up do? Stop looking backwards and get busy so you can get out of your head and look forward.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:48 PM
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She's trying to redefine the relationship with you. ​ "While we may have fucked in the past, now he's just going to be my weed supplier and emotion tampon. "
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:43 PM
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It's one thing to be busy when you are but she'll hop on a new cock when you start playing games.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:42 PM
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>All I thought was why the fuck would you contact a lawyer to leave and want info on long term home improvement stuff. ​ Dude... those aren't long term home improvement stuff. She's getting the house ready to sell. ​
/r/askMRP20/09/18 06:38 PM
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Why do you need to ask anyone's permission to do anything? Plate if you want but expect drama. If you're fine with drama then whatever. Avoid drama.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:08 PM
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Yea... I'm sure that's what you feel but it probably came across to her as you wanting to put her head in a box.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:30 PM
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First, approaching was a success so don't beat yourself up. ​ Secondly, Mister Needy McCreepy, dial is down a bit. You're don't know this girl and suddenly you want her to do shit with you. Way to come off as RapeMaster Funk. ​ Maybe try to have a conversation with her like a human before you sneak up on her on an escalator and ask her to be your girlfriend. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:47 PM
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Give up. Sit around in your underwear. Collect welfare. Beat off to hentai until you die alone. ​ Stop it with the "Wha.... I'm too old to do what I want" shit. You're not a victim and it's not too late. Make your plan then work the fuck out it. ​ It sounds like you care what other people will think of you? Fuck them. Do what you want and smile doing it. Most likely they will not care one little fucking bit about you no matter your age. ​ I knew a guy that went from being a building maintenance …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:42 PM
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If you're ready to have get married and have kids now, go right ahead. She honestly sounds like a good option if that's what you want. Of course, it sounds like you don't know anything about what it's like to be married or have kids. It's not your fault. That's what happens where she hit the wall (and she already has) then looked around for the best beta provider within easy reach (you). There is a reason your HB8 is with you, an HB6, and it's not because of all your lifting and dynamic chadlyne…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:20 PM
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I think he's asking for an online autism test?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 11:23 PM
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Just don't be creepy. If you're creepy, even once it too much and you'll find your face on wanted posters all over campus. ​ You need to develop conversation skills with people in public long before you can "cold approach" to smash. Work on talking to anybody and everybody about what's going on. Don't try to make a connection with people that don't want one. Say what's in your head and let people respond if they want. Practice...
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:47 PM
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Sounds like are being straight with you. Whatever you normal resting face is is telling others that you don't want to be approached so people. Once you speak to them and they realize that that's not the case, they seem to open up to you. ​ So we've identified the problem, right? You trust those people to tell you the truth, right? They gave you the solution which you just said you "can't do". Well, what the fuck are we supposed to do for you? You know what to do. Do it. Smile. Learn how to make …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:17 PM
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Lift.. work on your mission... learn to recognize women that are in to you.. don't chase anyone... Do what you want to do, always.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:22 PM
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How could it not? It's not attractive. Yes, it's a thing that most people have to deal with and lots of people are understanding but it still doesn't look great. Look... anything that makes you look unhealthy or like you don't know how to take care of yourself if an indicator to others that you're not an ideal mating candidate. ​ I get that it's possible to overlook a bit of acne but you know darn well that it's a turn off to others. ​ I had terrible acne in high school all the way through colle…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:19 PM
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Seriously, after he tipped his fedora, she should have allowed him to cum in her hair... at least!
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:11 PM
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Nursing homes... lots of unattached women who are starving for attention.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:10 PM
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How dare that bitch not drop to her knees and blow you after you took all that time to be nice to her! What a bitch! ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:08 PM
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Get yourself to a doctor then physical therapy if needed. Little hurts become big pains if left untreated.Your ankle is telling you something. Listen to it. ​ Part of being an athlete, is managing injuries. You have an injury that you haven't paid attention to. Fuck your teammates and your couch for telling you to play when you're not comfortable. Where the fuck are those guys going to be in 4 years when your ankle flairs up? They are thinking about themselves and they don't care one bit about y…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:07 PM
1

Honestly, the problem I would have with #2 is not really the number of guys but that suggestion that she seems unable to negotiate a long term relationship. If you're considering someone for an LTR, you look back at her track record for an LTR. That history suggests that she, for some reason, can't get close to a guy or choices guys that only dump her. She may not be terribly comfortable with sex and has used hooks ups to relieve the pressure when it becomes to much. Of course, she could still b…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:49 PM
2

Buy her flowers and beg her. Dude, move on.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:23 PM
2

You don't fuck fatties if you can pull something better. If you can't pull something better, that means your SMV isn't what you think it is. In my personal experience (and I've fucked plenty of fatties), my body won't actually LET me fuck women that are 4's. If she's not attractive to you with her clothes on, it's not going to get better once she's naked. That being said, fatties can be lots of fun. They are will, often give great head and have no boundaries because they are just happy for the a…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:43 PM
1

She expects things to be exactly like they were last time. Instead of playing games like running to some other room with her luggage just assert yourself and tell her what you want and stick to it.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:13 PM
1

You can't know WHY she isn't into you but you sure as hell can tell that she isn't. What do we do when a woman isn't interested in us? Right, we move along. Good answer. Ghost. Game other girls. Be awesome.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:10 PM
1

Yes. Right now, all you can pull is this fatty. Get in there and fuck her. Then start improving your game and fuck your way up the ladder. Don't wait around until you think you can pull a 9. You have to learn and a willing fatty is good place to start. Chunky girls love to swallow. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:41 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:37 PM
6

You are if you think you are. You need to get out and make connections. No one is knocking on your door to blow you.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:48 PM
3

Totally agree. Natives Ameircans are pissed about all these fucking imigrints3.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:39 PM
8

Sounds like you weren't any fun, honestly.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:44 PM
2

Great write up. Thanks. Just bought Beckam from Amazon and the other 3 on Fragrance.net
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 07:26 PM
1

Who cares? Fuck her. How many girls have you kissed? Does it matter? Fuck her.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:08 PM
1

"K. Get back to me when you're ready. Gotta go. Busy." Move on.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:37 PM
4

They aren't. You're not attractive enough for them to want to appeal to so they use you as an emotional tampon. After all, if they are the least bit hot, they are used to guys just hanging off of every word and comforting over any little hurt. Don't get women, or anyone for that matter, your time freely. If the studliest hollywood actor showed up and started talk with these girls, you can bet your ass they wouldn't be complaining about life, school or friends. They'd be bending over backwards tr…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:01 PM
3

Stop thinking you want a red pill therapist. Red pill is some shit people made up on the internet which may or may not work. No therapist is going to hang a shingle with red pill on it. Find a good, male therapist. Look for terms like CBT, MST, MATCH and Post Modern Structural Family Therapy. Use google to find someone near you. Call them up. Talk to them. If you like them, schedule an appointment. Sit there and tell them everything. It's your dime. The longer you hold the weird shit in, the lon…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:40 PM
2

I feel for you. I really do. I also suffer from anxiety and, until recently, was total emotional cripple which manifested as being a total beta push over to everything in life. ​ The good news is that you don't have continue living how you have. I got myself into therapy. I started reading MRP books. I worked hard. I stopped with all the victim talk which is what you're doing. I let go of the past and learned how to enjoy the present. ​ These are all things that people LEARN to do. You just need…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:03 PM
4

incel like typing detected... ​ Jesus, could you overthing this anymore?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:15 PM
15

It's in the sidebar. It's anti slut defense. She needs some plausible deniability so she's not acting like a slut. If you respond directly and say some thing like you're going to dominate her then cum in her hair, you'll scare her away. ​ You tried the coy approach and she's not going to fall for that. Remember, it's a very real possibility to her that you will lock the door behind her then rape her until she's dead. I'm not saying you're actually do something like that but she lives in a world …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:03 PM
2

Either it's all in your head or you're repulsive to them. From your post and your responses, you do sound angry at women.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:10 PM
3

hum·ble·brag ˈhəmbəlbraɡ /noun 1. an ostensibly modest or self-deprecating statement whose actual purpose is to draw attention to something of which one is proud. My guess is that the plate that knows will try to be top dog while the plate that doesn't isn't going to handle this well at all. Sure, you've told her how you're beyond monogamy and all that but hearing something isn't the same as staring another pussy in the face. This is going to rip the lid off some internal insecurities for both o…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:54 PM
1

Just do it if you want to. You'll never be 26 again. ​ ​
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:41 PM
3

Give the HB3 the lets just friends speech. ​ ​
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:24 PM
3

"Oh, so now we're throwing things?" Smile...
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:28 PM
1

I just got divorced after a 15 year relationship literally last week, JESUS FUCKING CHRIST... have you learned nothing! I wouldn't see the old plate behind the your girlfriend's (because that's what she is) back if you've told the gf you're exclusive. I know TRP is amoral but that's just not a life I want to live. When people do shit like that they create multiple realities for themselves which can lead to real problems. All you have is your exclusivity. Why are you in such a hurry to give that …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:26 PM
9

If it doesn't bug you that much, accept her apology and let her make it up like a non butthurt gentleman. Take her in your arms and tease her about it in a fun way and turn it sexual. Let her earn yourctrist back.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:42 AM
2

First, ask yourself if there is any truth to what they say. Be honest. If they are right, figure out why and cut it out. If they aren't, smile and carry on being awesome.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:39 AM
1

YOU ARE THE WHORE MASTER! Seriously... just don't... I can't encourage you to take advantage of someone like this. I get prostitution is legal where you live but she's not a prostitute.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:14 PM
2

The trick is simply practice. When I was a kid, I was similar to you. At some point, I made friends with a guy who could talk to anyone. He wasn't good looking. He didn't dress well. He had long hair and hardly shaved. He did, however, act like is was the most perfectly natural thing in the world to talk to whoever was around him. I mimicked his style and had success and then, over the years, found and perfected my own. I haven't seen him in years but went out with him a few months back and it w…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:53 PM
16

'When all candles be out, all cats be grey.' Get in there, champ and pound away! Be sure to read the sidebar and make sure you don't get pulled into a relationship you don't want but, other than that, fucking your way up the ladder is how it's done if you're not a natural.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:11 PM
2

No, you're not. I bet you haven't been tested and you're just telling yourself that. Go get tested. Start using condoms.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:01 PM
-6

Sidebar... sidebar... sidebar... This entire sub is devoted to this. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:45 PM
2

Sure. Play games. See how that works out.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:44 AM
10

If that's what you can pull, then that's what you pull. If you think you're a 7 and only fuck fatties, guess what? You're not really a 7. When I was totally worthless, the only thing I could pull was fatties. As I improved, I moved up the scale. Not knocking fatties. I love big tits and some of those fatties are really horny. First one I really fucked a lot had a really big pussy and I really couldn't fill her up. Just thought I had a little dick. As the girls I fucked got closer and closer to n…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:14 PM
2

NOT YOUR CIRCUS. NOT YOUR MONKEYS. You don't OWE him shit. She's freaked out but that's her problem. Your job is to take care of you. If he says boo to you, you tell him to fuck off and move along. If he causes drama with her, you or she call the cops. They broke up. It's not his turn anymore and he doesn't like it then tough.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:07 PM
7

Fuck what you can and work your way up.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:01 PM
0

Why are you even considering LTR'ing someone you haven't had sex with. That's great that you haven't seen any red flags but 5 week isn't nearly long enough to notice anything. The closer you get to someone, the closer you get to their dysfunction. Most people with issues can keep their shit together when their need to be liked overrides whatever it is their hiding. Those first initial waves of attraction can mask lots of real issues. It's great that she has a low body count but, depending on her…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:45 PM
43

Honestly, if you like and she's a good LTR to you, it sounds like you could give her some comfort. It's not your job to help her build her life but you are some important in her life. You can listen. Remind her that she's not a victim and that the past is the past. She's lucky to be where she is and talk with her about making a plan to improve the things in her life she doesn't like. As far hating to leave you, you can tell reassure her that time apart is good for couples and that you're an inde…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:33 PM
2

She's not going to change. Tell her your uncomfortable with them and you won't spwnd your time with one.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:46 PM
1

YES.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:44 PM
73

You are being used as their sex toy. That's fine as long as you're OK with that. EDIT: Oh yea... get tested.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:00 PM
13

If she's an adult, it's up to her to handle the situation. The only time I would "mate guard" is if she specifically asks for help. Guys can be needy, thirsty, violent dickheads when rejected and she might like some help.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:54 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 03:01 PM
0

I'm with you brother. I've been there. We are steel. It will be ok. Breathe deep. It happened. Let it go on the river of time. You are stronger than this.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:29 PM
1

The thing you have to remember about Mode One is that the dude is black. Before you get all tingly about me being a racist, you should know, I'm not. Black culture isn't white culture. What worked for him will not work for you. You dThe really important take away from more one is that the dude did exactly what he wanted when he wanted.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:14 PM
1

I did this shit when I was desperate. I has now other options and thought I was worthless so I chased low value pussy. Boys... Get to the gym... You are the prize... Don't settle for low quality femames...
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:59 PM
5

I used to walk up to girls and say "Sleep with me". Some girls ran. Other girls laughed and stuck around to talk. Some did.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:00 PM
1

Fractionation is a hypnosis technique to get betas to think there is a short cut and to part with their money.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:53 PM
23

LOOK... HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES DO WE HAVE TO KEEP SAYING THIS? DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. You're done with her. If it comes up, you laugh it off. LJBF is a great idea. Get out of the office and game other chicks. Fucking people you work with created DRAMA!
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:50 PM
4

Fractionation is a separation process in which a certain quantity of a mixture (gas, solid, liquid, enzymes, suspension, or isotope) is divided during a phase transition, into a number of smaller quantities (fractions) in which the composition varies according to a gradient.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:40 PM
4

Jesus, dude... Not a fucking Friday! That's what Tuesdays are for. You might be overthinking.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:11 PM
2

You program your brain by what you watch. You either go cold turkey or replace it with something else. BTW, fuck anyone that says there is anything wrong with tranny porn. Dude, if that's your thing, dig in and go for it. You're an adult. You make your life what you want.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:22 PM
1

Friends don't fuck. She feels bad that she upset you so she's slowly making the transition so it's comfortable FOR HER. Cut all contact. Get to the gym. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:34 PM
1

The same way you pass all shit tests. You don't let it get to you. You laugh, pressure flip or ignore it. I'm 54 and when some 27 year old says something about age, I tell her she's a little old for me.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:32 PM
9

If it was before her, it's none of her business. Stay calm. Let her vent. Shell come to accept it. Set boundaries for snooping.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 11:07 AM
7

The measure of a man is how he responds to adversity. Some guys crack at the slightest pressure. Some guys wipe the blood from those lip and figure why something happened and make a plan so that it doesn't happen again. Nurse your wounds. Make your plan. Work your plan.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:00 AM
7

It made wet and she was embarrassed. Ignore.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:16 AM
1

This is EXACTLY how dudes do stuff they go to jail for. Everyone pay attention. You are responsible for your actions so don't get as drunk as this dude. He has no idea what happened.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:52 PM
16

https://psychcentral.com/quizzes/autism-quiz/
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:49 PM
2

I often shove a small objects up my ass when I need to stay serious. I suggest you look around for salt shakers, marbles or even USB thumb drives.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:39 PM
6

The best reply is no reply or simply "K". She's saying she's not looking for anything serious means she's not looking for YOU. She's not trying to negotiate the relationship down to only sex. There isn't anything you can do or say to change her mind. You're not attractive enough to her. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:00 PM
2

Negotiating for sex doesn't work. Besides, it's just words. She'll just ignore what he says and throw her own back to him to fog the situation. She's not going to quietly listen, think deeply, then make changes based his feedback. In a blue pill world, that would solve everything. In this case, this drop in sex drive may be related to her implant. In that case, OP could simply state something like "Hey, it seems like your implant has lowered you sex drive. Maybe you should consider something els…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:50 PM
1

Soft next... do not give her your time in return for nothing.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:04 PM
21

Get busy with a mission. If the only thing that excites you is your own dice, that's what you'll focus on in your free time.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:38 AM
6

When incels whack off, this is what they are thinking.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:20 PM
1

Great sex until you move in then none.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:39 PM
5

All cats are gray at night.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:36 PM
1

Sidebar you lazy count. No shortcuts.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:33 PM
0

I think by stayo.g silent you're not standing up for yourself. Always is the time to stand up for yourself. Don't take shitbfrpm anyone... Ever. Start saying something. Try amused frame then just say what you want.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:25 PM
6

Ha! How are you not fucking tap dancing right now? You should be so happy to be free of her that you should be shouting from the rooftops. You know what to do. Make a plan to better your life and get busy doing it. Get out. Meet with friends. Get lots of sleep. Do all the shot she hated. Clean your apartment. Dress better. Live well. Game all females. Cut contact and move on.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:38 PM
1

I guess your only hope now is to start blowing dudes. Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:34 PM
1

Maybe if you tell her how special she is and how your not like all the other guys that just want her for sex, she'll see what a wonderful guy you really are. Uhm... You need to break free from orbit and game other women. She's never go I'm going to change.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:32 PM
11

Headphones are universal sign for leave me alone. I would only approach if some IOI's are displayed. If she looks bored and isn't showing interest somehiw, if leave them be.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:29 PM
3

Doeant matter. If the ex come back and leaves with him then great. You dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:52 PM
16

They don't need to have game. They have pussies.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:46 PM
1

If you can only pull hb4 and 5's, that's your SMV right there. Forget all that bullshit about all th 9's and 10's you banged. Where those chicks now? Fuvkimg hotter guys then you. I personally ducked my way up the ladder. I was soon worthless I couldn't get anuthimg but fatties. As I improved, I ditched those girls and fucked hotter girls.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:18 AM
5

Girls care. They care more that it gets the job done and isn't too massive. Basically as long as its in the range that feels good they are fine. I've spoken with lots of girls that run from small ducks or ones that hurt. If you have a small duck get a small vagina. I dated a girl once where I could only get 2 fingers in with lots of work. To her, I had a giant monster cock.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:22 PM
2

How do you display your cooking skills when you walk into a roomful of hot teens? Its nice that you enjoy cooking but its not helping to get you laid.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:18 PM
7

I've done this. I have a experience in improv and stand up. Soumdsike you were a Dancing monkey. Did you isolate and escalte or tap dance all night?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:03 AM
1

You weren't fucking her. You are in orbit. Ghost and game other women. Ignore if she comes back.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:41 PM
1

We can't be sure WHY she's not responding but that doesn't matter. If you don't get the results you want, you move on.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:20 PM
7

He's also blaming someone else for his behavior.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:05 PM
27

So you have no control over yourself? You're just her victim? Poor little you...
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:58 PM
4

Meh...you're one of her options when she's bored but not attractive enough further to go out your way. Forget her unless she puts herself within easy reach. Your time is more valuable than chasing this one special snowflake.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:56 PM
1

Stalky McNeedy - why aren't these bitches leaving their friends and boyfriends to fawn all over me? You'd have to be celebrity attractive for that to happen. You sound like you can't read social situations.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:04 PM
10

Don't shot where you eat and she has a boyfriend AND she's not interested. Control your emotions. You're not a child. Move on. Forget her. Game other women. How the lifting going?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:44 PM
1

Great post
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:17 PM
1

Sounds like you don't known at shot and comfort tests are.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:06 PM
9

The difference is that with hot girls you are getting emotional and that's fucking up your game. You care if they reject and you want their attention because they are so pretty and special. They are not special. Get over that.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 12:40 PM
1

You sound fun.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:13 PM
1

Great! She's emotional and trying to define how you behave in the relationship. Be amused and nice and fun but do what you want. Shell either come along or not. If she doesn't, you wouldn't want her anyway.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:02 PM
2

Holding a wife is harder because she has so many options. So? If she finds something better, let her go. There are millions more women out there if you're a good option.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:59 AM
2

So when she came over which showed interest, you didn't fuck her but talked about how hot you are and how all these other girls want you? I think she just realized what a knob you are and how maybe you're not the love of her life. Sou s like you have trouble reading people and you're really insecure.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:49 AM
1

Your plate broke but you don't know it.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:44 AM
2

You're wasting your time looking backwards. When you do that, you're missing now. Stop it. Face forward and move on. Been there. Doesn't help. You're stuck in the part if your story that you focus on. You're not a victim. You choice what you want to feel.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:25 AM
1

Lasic
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:22 AM
8

Meh... what's so hard about saying "I wasn't invited"? Act like it's not big deal. My guess is it was an oversight and not an actual dis. Nothing to be ashamed off. These things happen. Don't let a little thing break you.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:41 PM
6

She's going to break up with you. Dint argue. Let her. Respond like its over. Shell grovel to get back together... Or not.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:36 PM
1

Stop with the autistic NLP manipulation shit. Its tricks to get people to do what you want. It may or may not work but its deceitful and cowardly. Decide what you want then do it. Live with the consequences. People aren't toys for your amusement.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:08 PM
1

Tell her how you feel. Buy her roses. Oh wait... Game others girls... Yea that's it...
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:17 AM
1

Jesus dude... Stand up for yourself. When she says shit just tell her that she needs to mind her own business. If she has a problem she can speak to her supervisor.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:11 AM
1

Do you often let people use you? She's bad news from the past. Let her be. "Don't think its a good idea. I like my space and don't loan money."
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:06 AM
1

I don't think they help your SMV. If you're attractive, you can over come them. I wore glasses starting at age 12 and just had surgery this year at age 54. I found that not having lenses and frames in the war allowed much better eye contact with females. In short, if you want to look you best, ditch the lemses. I agree with the other poster. Corrective eye surgery was best money I ever spent.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:42 AM
1

No short cuts. Just focus on what is important. Do your retraining and focus on that the best you can. If you have some free time, work out when you can otherwise just know that the break will be short lived. Watch your food. Eat clean. Yes, you'll lose muscle. Yes, it will take time to get back. No, it won't be all that much. Tren blast is your call. I wouldn't bother but then I'm not that big. Just reestablish your work out schedule afterwards.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:37 PM
1

Rev her up and while you're having sex, tell her what you want her to do.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:47 PM
19

Sound to me like was interested just busy. Probably Monday doesn't sound like reject but working out logistics.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:41 PM
7

s.ss.sss... sidebar --> I've been where you are. You've come to the right place. The first thing you have to know is that dealing in absolutes is no good. Your life is full of possibilities and it's time for you to take charge and make it the life you want it to be. I'm so much different now than I used to be. Read the sidebar. Learn all you can. Lift. Get attractive. Find your mission. Girls will come or not. They are never they answer to happiness.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:04 PM
1

Open an idea at ally.com Invest in stocks
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:39 PM
2

I don't think 18 year old female virgins are that uncommon despite what everyone here on TRP says. I've talked to a large number of college girls who are 20+ and haven't had a boyfriend or girlfriend. Of course, most of those are STEM majors so that's sort of to be expected. That being said, any hot girl that's been double teamed repeatedly isn't going to tell you shit.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:46 PM
1

I get that.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:39 PM
1

12%
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:15 PM
1

https://www.additudemag.com/screener-autism-spectrum-disorder-symptoms-test-adults/
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:09 PM
1

https://www.additudemag.com/screener-autism-spectrum-disorder-symptoms-test-adults/
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:59 PM
2

Don't tell her. You should marry her and have some kids, a big house and a job you hate. In about 10 years, maybe you'll have nuts to suck on a hand gun. Seriously, it's your life. DO WANT YOU WANT TO DO. She's going to get upset and scream and cry AND THEN SHE GETS OUT OF YOUR LIFE. It's a storm. Put on your rain coat and fucking weather it. THEN IT'S DONE AND YOU GET TO LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE YOU WANT.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:48 PM
2

You to use a bit of common sense. Leave the young ones to ripen.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:38 PM
5

. I hear you. I've done stupid stuff in my life but I didn't have anyone to tell me any differently. If you're on here and you're reading this, hopefully getting the same message from all these guys make sink in for some so it's still worth it to try. I've had lots of pregnancy scares with gf's that I've used protection with. That feeling sucks. At 21, I got a 16 year old pregnant. My plan was oral but at some point she just wanted me in her. She had an abortion without any help from me. I regre…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:35 PM
5

Next early and often... Don't work on a relationship because you want to SAVE it. Good relationships aren't work. Bad ones are. Learn to realize that sometimes people just don't get along that well. Find girls you do get along with and don't hang out with difficult ones no matter how good the pussy is. 18 year old girls are fucking 20-29 year old guys. Guys mature later than females. Girls in your class know you from grade school. You're not mysterious or attractive to them. If you're a senior i…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:27 PM
5

She wants your baby. Get ready to be a Dad, idiot. I feel sorry for your children.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:41 PM
104

Lift lift lift Don't be fat. Vet for ltr. Wrap it every fucking time. Next early and often Never be afraid of who you are. Get on your own asap. Never worry what your parents think. Game girls a year or two younger than you.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:32 PM
1

Once the sex stops...
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:29 PM
1

He's only going to get worse. Ditch him and team up with the new investor to start your own business.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:13 PM
7

suicidal and depressed for last 6months but now I have a girl in my range Stop it. Stop thinking a girl will fix you. Read the sidebar. Lift. Fix yourself before even thinking about being with someone else.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:52 PM
1

You could just ghost. If you feel like you have to talk to her, do it on the phone or by text. "Hi, I'm not happy with this relationship. It's over. Best of luck." Then what ever happens just ignore it. Don't get emotional. You have the right to not be in any relationship you want. Doesn't matter what she wants. Doesn't matter what her friends want. It's your call. You don't owe anyone any explanation. You don't even need one for yourself. "Why did you break up with me/here?" I WANTED TO. That's…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 12:15 PM
2

Glad to hear TRP is helping you. Its helped me in similar situations. My wife has had trouble controlling her emotions and that's been a problem over the years. Once I was able to calm myself down and handle my life, she began to follow my lead. My entire household is now so much more peaceful.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:01 AM
4

Plan B and don't do it again.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:02 PM
1

I didn't move the goalpost. Being attractive is more than being good looking. You were attractive even though you are fat because you were American in a place that prized being American.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:03 PM
2

It's possible the tantrums are her feeling afraid or uncertain and not because she hates you or anything. On some level, we are all children and the world can be a scary place. Be the guy that can handle the world.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:36 PM
1

OK, champ... have a seat... Sometimes when two people get together, things don't work out. This is one of those times. You're not a victim. You have options. Sure, you're afraid of using them but you have them. While you may or may not love her, it's time for you to move on from her. Stop with all the weeping emotions. She's NOT A GOOD MATCH FOR YOU. Stop trying to fix her. It won't work. Stop putting up with her shit. Stand up for yourself and end it. Tell her in person or over the phone. It's …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:29 PM
1

Wait... you said it's a load of crap then go on to make my case for me. I said you'd have to be insanely attractive, didn't I? She clearly thought that your being an American was attractive enough to overlook the fact that you were a fat slob. In OP's case, he wasn't attractive enough. I'd also guess that you had some game while OP is clueless.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:15 PM
18

The problem is you, not her. You're taken no responsibility here and made yourself the victim to your "horrible, crazy" wife. She's not horrible or crazy. She was mad because she was afraid. It was clear to her that you didn't have a plan and she doesn't trust that you can handle it on the fly. Probably because you've fucked things up in the past. By getting angry with her, you demonstrated that she was right. You're a shitty leader who doesn't know what you're doing so that means that SHE has t…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:11 PM
1

Who knows? She was bored and for one moment you were the shiniest thing in the room to look at. That doesn't mean she knows how or wants to navigate the delicate social situation that would be involved for 2 people to hook up WHO DON'T SPEAK THE SAME FUCKING LANGUAGE. Look, it's hard enough for 2 people that do speak the same language to figure the dance required. How hard is for you to understand that while she might have thought you looked attractive, she was never going leap the fences requir…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:52 PM
14

Excessive use of porn could be a red flag. Does she forget to eat? Do small, household objects go missing? Honestly, I'd watch it with her and point out stuff I liked and get her to do the same. I love chicks that like porn. I'd bend her over the desk while she browsed youporn.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:34 PM
12

They both have already talked about fucking you and are OK with it. Carry on.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:30 PM
5

You'd have to be insanely attractive for a girl to leap the language barrier. That's just not going to happen for a normal dude. If Chris Pratt walked in, she's suddenly remember every remotely English like word she's ever heard and work on other non verbal ways to show her attraction.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:29 PM
2

spectrum I think you're also on some other spectrum.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:15 PM
8

My wife is a valuable resource in the household. She often has different, valid viewpoints on things. I don't see anything wrong with talking to her about it. She also understands that what I do for work is up to me and trusts my decisions.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 08:42 PM
1

I want to jack off in all 50 states.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:40 PM
12

JESUS CHRIST... SOME GUYS ARE SO RETARDED. THOSE ARE INDICATORS OF INTEREST AND SHE'S INVITING YOU TO ESCALATE. Ignoring it and showing her your stupid poker face and showing no interest tells her that you are not interested or too stupid to respond. Don't be surprised if she moves on quickly.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:32 PM
2

I want a fucking pony.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:49 PM
1

Hypergamy is rarely about one attribute except in extreme cases. If the female is out on streets starving, the first guy to provide a meal wins. If she can feed herself, she doesn't need anyone else to do that. A better lifestyle can mean lots of things to different women. If she comes from a chaotic home, she may want a calm man. She'll look to the guy to provide whatever it is she can't.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:26 PM
26

You don't own her or him. Not your problem. Ask him to look for the watch you lost.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:32 PM
2

Who cares? Is she with you? Is she fucking you? That's what matters right now. Don't be so fragile that one little thing makes you crumble. She's a girl. Guys have been hitting on her for years. Desperate dude did a desperate beta thing. So what? Don't let this one little thing make you thing she's some dangerous whore. That's stupid. It was before you. What exactly did you want her to do?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:26 PM
3

You're only creepy because you're not attractive. You need to get attractive. We're all in somewhat of the same boat so you're in the right place. Start reading the sidebar and learn it. Read the required books. Seriously, they are worth your time. Girls are not going to approach you. It don't work that way, son, unless you're super attractive which we've already established you're not. If girls find you attractive they will put themselves within reach for you to approach. It's up to you to noti…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:04 PM
1

Indian?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:46 PM
9

Meh.. her body and she's smart enough to take responsibility for it. Like someone else said, she's doing you favor. She's paranoid about because she knows what happens if she gets pregnant. She'll have to deal with it, not you. Smart girl.. I don't see this as a red flag. If you ready need to get your dick wet, next her and find someone else.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:44 PM
3

You have asburgers. Your brain in lying to you. Get a therapist.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:25 AM
2

It's hard to type when you mouth is full of cock.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:44 PM
12

Your best bet was to leave and never to speak to her again. She'll away remember you as the heart break that got away. You totally over thought that. Not giving her attention worked for a bit but, at some point, you're going to have to TALK to her. I'd down this before by talking to the friend and slowly letting the hot girl in on the conversation. There is not fucking scenario where you escalate ignoring her the she drops to her knees. You ignored her and stirred her interested. Continuing to i…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:43 PM
1

First off... you need to include what country you're from. Different parts of the world handle things differently. I'm guessing you're Indian. Second, stop with the beta revenge fantasies. Those are self destructive. You're only going to be hurting yourself. You'll get caught and have to pay the price. The police see this shit night and day and they can spot a liar a mile away. You won't get away with anything. Get on with your life. Learn from what happened and be sure not to let it happen agai…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:35 PM
2

Why would you get in her way of trying to attract the most successful male she can? Do you want her to settle for some worth beta boy?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:32 PM
-3

The quickest way to get accused to rape is to rape someone. Don't do that. Don't do other needy shit that is close to rape but it's. Don't try to pressure girls into sleeping with you because you're a needy, worthless slug of a man. Sleep with girls that WANT to sleep with you.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:29 PM
3

Its clear from your replies that you've learned nothing and are just a think skinned child. Enjoy your shirty life. That being said, read the sidebar and come back when you start understand ing it. Ykure ready once to can admit that this is all your fault and you're ready to do something about it.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:40 PM
3

Why are you so desperate to get a girl? That's your first problem.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:12 PM
2

We see complaints like yours daily. Its all just victim talk and internal hamstering about how the world is unfair and these white whores should fuck/love me because I'm such a nice guy. The reality is that you have low value and you'll do anything to not admit that and work on building real value. The problem is you refusing to admit how the world works and letting your emotions run your life.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:05 PM
8

Indian pissed hot white girls won't sleep with him.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:21 AM
4

The downward dog thing sounds like she just might have been talking. Doesn't sound like she was inviting you turn the conversation sexual. She was testing you see how comfortable with her fake tits. You failed. You turned autistic and didn't say a thing. I think "like what" makes you sound clueless. You and she both know those titties are fake. I think the thing to do here would have been to agree and amplify according to what you actually think about her breasts. Yea.. no lie. Those things are …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:00 PM
3

You need to establish a culture of honestly about safety. Talk to them directly. You're counting on them to catch you when you fuck up. It's going to happen. Nobody's perfect. You help each other and you don't bullshit each other. Give them direct orders to question your conclusions and look for supporting facts. Tell them they have to leave emotion and personalities out of it.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:47 PM
1

Gotta start talking to her about it... No other way.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:44 PM
0

Bye
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:34 PM
1

Attractive includes physical and mental. I didn't say good looking
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:56 AM
1

They built their lives. What's wrong with you? You can make close friends at any age but they are going to be in similar situations to yours.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:09 PM
1

Only works if your'e attractive.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:39 PM
14

FUCK THEM ALL.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:39 PM
1

I'm not trying to complain because I know one day these tables will turn very heavily in my favour; Yet here you are complaining... No, those tables aren't going to turn unless you turn them. Those hoooot women are selecting the best mates. That's life and that's fine and you wouldn't want it to be any other way. Why should a female be with you when she has better options? The only thing that's going to work here is if you become that better options. I know that's hard to hear but it's the truth…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:31 PM
2

All those other drones started just like you. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:51 AM
1

Conservatism and religious anti intelectualism are promoting a facist cooporate agenda.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:49 AM
9

No. Not plate nessesarily just give up on ltr and replace her w new pussy.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:11 AM
1

Not what I meant but good advise. People need to understand that adults get to make their own choices. If I want to fuck a dude and chick then I'm damn well going to.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:09 AM
11

A week... Wait for her to connect you and find kut you're seeing someone else. Not kidding...
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:03 PM
6

THERE WE GO. PUA is tricks to make you a better validation seeking, dancing monkey. While it had gotten me laid a few times over the years, it doesn't address the real problems in your life and WILL NOT MAKE YOU ANY HAPPIER THAN YOU ARE NOW.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:44 PM
8

Nope. She's broken and will NEVER be comfortable with sex. That sucks and I'm sorry for her but do not sign up for that. Not everyone that was abused will be like this but it takes someone who can work on themselves to overcome these things. You've given no indication that she is working on this at all. You need to realize that you and she just are not compatible sexually. You may like her. Heck, you may love her but she's never going to fulfill your sexual needs. If you want to give up sex, con…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:53 PM
3

Be self amused. Humor is your best approach. You're not funny because you're too uptight.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:19 PM
6

The flag isn't coworker, it's crazy. Speaking as someone that has been very close to very crazy, don't. Find someone else.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:56 PM
3

You should keep trying. Maybe text her every morning to tell her how special she is.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:55 PM
5

She's bored. You're a shiny thing because you're almost the only guy in the office. You're not special. Those are possible signs. Adults will tell you not to shit where you eat. I say escalate and see what happens. It will give you some time to work on your resume.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:20 PM
3

First off... Read the entire sidebar... Second... the marriage is already over. You just don't know it. That dude who called your house has already railed your wife and so have lots of other dudes. She wants you to know that she's already opened the marriage. Stop being a doormat to someone else. She's done. So should you be. There is no saving this. The longer you hold on, the longer this train wreck will drag you on the ground.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 03:28 PM
46

Oh please... you suggested porn and she liked it.. so what? You're feeling "cucked" because you're insecure. You're afraid that since she liked 2 black dudes reaming a chick that you're not good enough now? She's only human. Come on. This is all your ego. Let that go. It's good you could talk with her without being judgmental but don't let the shit get in her head. She's a girl. Of course she liked seeing 2 dudes do a chick. You like when 2 chicks do a guy, right? Remember this shit is all fanta…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:19 PM
12

"Look baby... you're clearly tired. You get some sleep. I'm going to go for a run. I'll see you soon. <kiss, butt slap>" Have you read the "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" book? Some of her questions could have been handled better. "Why would I WANT to see you when your tired? I don't understand." "Is there something wrong with me wanting sex?" "What would you like to do when I visit you when you're tired. Should I watch you sleep?" Let her be offended. Don't rush in and try to calm her down.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:59 PM
3

I will never be gone forever. It's there. You can't help random thoughts popping into your head. You CAN decide how you're going to react to them. They are only thoughts and having them doesn't have to mean anything. You can calm yourself down and manage those thoughts. When you have those thoughts? Point them out. "Huh, there I go again..." As others have said, build habits. Habits keep you on track when you don't know what to do or you get tired or out of sorts.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:53 PM
3

I'm sorry to hear you lost your legs in the train accident and that you'll never walk again.... oh, wait... Look, there isn't any easy way around this. What she did sucks. Some people do shitty things for who knows what reasons. She wanted a dick and she got one. People do what their options allow. She fucked your close friend because she could. Be thankful she broke up with your quickly. The longer you live, the more you'll realize that people can be real fucktards. While you're on this planet,…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:36 PM
1

It's possible of you're a chad but otherwise stick to women slightly younger.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:08 PM
1

No. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:06 PM
1

The only way to get this out of your mind is to act like a man and take responsibility. You didn't do this. She did. Leave her. Be done with it. Sell the house. Make your own life. Get the best lawyer you can and raise your children. She is nothing to you now. Nothing... You are done with your wife. There is nothing there for you. She should not be your wife anymore. Get to a lawyer and get the paperwork done and serve her. There is no saving this marriage. Stop it. It's over. Don't take one sec…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:32 PM
1

You have to be strong enough to cut shitty people out of your life if that's what you need to do. Whatever her situation is, she's probably just trying to make the best of what she's got for a life. Most people do the best they can. You need to examine why you hate her so much and then you need to decide if that hate is doing YOU any good. Is that hate hurting her or just you? It might be a good idea to let go of all of it and just say yea it sucks that bad things happened but it's over now and …
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:14 PM
4

The rule exists for a reason. If you break it, there WILL be uncomfortable consequences. You could get fired. You could get friends fired. You could end up in legal trouble. You could do something that impacts your future career and life. It's a rule because guys here have broken it and suffered the consequences. Some girls will be nice to you and you'll think they are DTF but they recoil when you try. Those relationships will fucked up. That info could get around and everyone will think you're …
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:08 PM
14

Remove those pictures. Stop with the victim talk. This is your fault and, as such, there are things you can do about. You're in the right place. Read the side bar. Do the work and make your life better and more awesome than you ever thought it could be.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:28 PM
15

Get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:49 PM
1

That's a lie Vegas has to push.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:05 AM
1

Wow... Does the head shape actually turn off women? Do they give you shot for it?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:25 PM
1

Amused mastery and just be fun. Pass shit tests and give comfort when needed.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:59 PM
1

Go to a good male barber. Around me, we have a couple of high end shop for guys exclusively. Its a bit expensive and there is along wait nbut a good hair cut really stands out. Also, you have said anything about your weight or lifting. Get ripped. Really, really ripped... Also, you look better than most guys. I suspect this is mostly in your head and its fuclimg up your game. I'm old and bald but I keep my hair and bread neat, dress well and I look like I lift and I'm not fat. In a room full of …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:58 PM
7

That daddy is a plea for you to turn it sexual. Do it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:10 PM
5

No. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:40 PM
13

Look... most of the dudes on here for all their bluster are pretty vanilla... If you like fucked up situations, do it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:12 PM
1

He wants to use you like a sex toy. He wants to watch you have sex while he enjoys it. If that's ok with then slam away. Personally, I might try it just for the fuck of it if I didn't work with him. Also, wrap your dick.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:44 PM
10

Talk to her about but don't be beta about it. Baby, you feel so good you just make me cum so fast. Own it. Slam her hard. Nut. Play with her. Recover. Baby you're making me hard again. Slam. You'll last longer. Pussy is awesome and it's job is to make you nut as fast as you can. It works.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:31 PM
3

im an aspie Yea... OK... there it is...
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:52 PM
4

I'm afraid I think I see your problem.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:50 PM
2

OK. I see your problem. You have a BMI of 25 which means you're overweight, or more probably, obese. I doubt you're reporting your BMI accurately. That means you're fat which explains why your face is ugly. You're no where near a 6 or a 7 which explains the disconnect you're having. You can't understand why you, a 6 or 7, can only bang 5s or 6s females. You're SMV isn't nearly as high as you think it is. Also, girls on craigslist are going to be the worst of the worst in terms of looks and emoti…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:45 PM
1

Jacking off that much is what it means to be 16. Go buy some Astro Glide lube and stop using lotion.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:56 PM
8

Whoa whoa whoa... mister I'm such an incel victim.... oh, those poor feminazis won't touch your pee pee because they are so mean... I don't have a problem with you or anyone else paying for sex but let's not pretend that it's your only option and there is nothing you can do about it. Firstly, you're only getting fat bitches because that's what your SMV can land from craigslist and tinder. How are you even meeting girls from craigslist? They shut that section down. The real issue is that your SMV…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:54 PM
1

Yes, you can help it. You're in control of your emotions. You're not a child. I'll be honest. I like the attention I get now from women when I see they notice my arms. It's part of the reason I lift but not the whole story. I lift to deal with depression and to start fit. I used to be heavy and I'm never going back. Decide what you want and do it. If you really can't lift without showing off then just fucking own it. Otherwise, get in there even when it's quiet and lift. Bring headphones and do …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:34 PM
2

I like to rest my scrotum on her face when she talks. That seems to do the trick.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:26 PM
1

The confused party is always the one being played THAT'S FUCKING GOLD.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:23 PM
2

Stop looking for outside validation from anyone especially girls. Do the gym for you and no one else. Figure out what you need to do to concentrate then do it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:13 PM
3

"I think it's time we go our separate ways." You can't control how she responds so that's not your problem. If she does freak out, you're gone in a matter of weeks. If she says "Why?" you just say "That's how I feel." That's it. You don't owe her shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:07 PM
2

You can tell her directly. "Hey babe, you're getting a little puffy. I don't find that sexually attractive. You need to take care of yourself if you want to continue this relationship." You have have balls of iron and be willing to deal with the shit storm that that will stir up. If you stay calm and are able to let her exhaust herself emotionally, she may or may not come to the conclusion that she needs to do something and then actually do it. Few guys have the frame to do this. I certainly don…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:04 PM
5

That's a comfort test. Shit tests are about you. Comfort tests are about her. The proper response is something fun without pressure that shows her you've got her and that her fear, that's she'll look stupid, won't happen around you because you're smooth guy that knows how to handle situations. @Store_Front_Door has a nice response.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:18 PM
1

Stats refers to how much you can lift in the gym. Do you even lift?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:34 PM
105

It's a dude.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:04 PM
1

She has a high SMV compared to yours. The exchanges with her are awkward because you make them awkward. You want her so bad you're afraid to say the wrong thing and you can't get out of your head. That's oneitis and you lack options. Stop obsessing over her and get more options. Learn to recognize when other chicks are into you and game those. She's giving you shit because she's teasing you. So what? Give it right back and have fun with her. You sound so uptight I can't believe she's want to spe…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:03 PM
6

I don't get what's so hard? "Hey, I have go back to school. I'll hit you up when I'm back." Don't expect the hole to go unfilled while you're away.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:52 PM
2

You haven't given us any information so we can't tell you much. What country are you in? Stats?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:51 PM
1

Spend more time with your other plates. Isolate... escalate... You don't know her and you haven't slept with her. Far too soon to be thinking LTR.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:32 PM
6

Start doing some reading about it and how to cope with it. Do not sleep with people without telling them first. It's not fair to expose them to it without their knowledge. Join a herpes dating site and smash away.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:30 PM
1

My opinion is that you haven't read any side bar.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:37 PM
9

Side bar
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:22 PM
4

paragraphs
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:20 PM
1

Welcome, from your post it's clear you haven't read any sidebar. Read that.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:19 PM
6

That could be the response for most of the posts on this sub reddit.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:16 PM
7

GET THE FUCK OUT OF HER WAY. SHE'S WORKING. Waitstaff have to deal with people all day long and some of them are idiots. Don't be one. She did it because you were in her way and your were autistic when she asked you to move. Who the fuck cares if you friend was closer? Are you 5? She was talking to you. Have enough confidence to examine what she said and look for a bit of truth in it. If she was right in anyway, acknowledge that and deal with it like an adult. You should have apologized nicely a…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:16 PM
1

Look... sometimes you just gotta bust a nut. Do it. Don't worry about. The problem was fapping is when it replaces contact with real people and becomes addictive. Don't jack so much you just want to hide in your room and beat it to stranger and stranger porn.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:05 PM
1

Duck her and make it simple. Don't accept any drama and don't start any.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:13 PM
3

Hmmm... I think you may be right. I want to duck other women but just assumed it was because I hate my wife.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:17 PM
1

I guess. I just know that when I'm getting enough at home I do r look at other girls much.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:56 PM
1

Do your research. Not uncommon for married japanese couples to have sex once or twice a year.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:30 AM
1

Look, she'll be sad but that's her thing to deal with. Be nice. Be honest. Tell her and move on. She's going to be upset but she'll live. Don't be afraid of uncomfortable emotional situations. Yes, they suck but they don't last forever. Tell her. Move on. Don't hang around for her to abuse you. Don't negotiate anything.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:47 PM
0

I don't agree at all. If he ghosts her, she'll know why. Whatever he does, it's still on her what she does in the future. I think her getting a rational, respectful response would be more honest and direct.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:43 PM
2

Plates while married required sneaking around and lying. I was in no position to make it happen otherwise.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:30 PM
3

You do you. I'm my own judge.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:29 PM
6

Not sure I have too much to add. The mom was someone I saw around campus from time to time. In those days, my line was "sleep with me." It didn't normally get women to sleep with me but it would filter out women with no sense of humor. One night, I went to the local bar and this red head says "You always ask me friend to sleep with her but you never ask me." so I took her home. Interesting note that she railed me all night long. Fucked her good once then feel asleep. Two or three times that nigh…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:53 PM
10

I do see her now. She's 29 now. She takes care of herself.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:39 PM
6

Meh... we all make mistakes. Come back here when you're my age and let's see how you do.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:26 PM
6

The mom married and had two kids by the dude. My daughter was 12 or so by the time he came on the scene so she does see him somewhat as a father but doesn't call him dad or anything.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:21 PM
3

Look... almost any guy is going to wonder what other pussy feels like. That's pretty normal. You're were hard wired to fuck everything you could. You can't fight that. You have to weigh the cost. If you're LTR is so good that you don't need anything else then fine. Otherwise, do what you got to do. I, personally, did plates for awhile and found it was hard on my self image to be sneaking around and lying. I don't do that shit anymore.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:20 PM
5

Oh please... Tell her to send them to me. And while she's at it... send me the pics from the gangbang. I like the expression on her face when she's airtight.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:18 PM
2

That's fine but sounds like that means you'll be alone. I'd start with what you can pull and work your way up the ladder. You've got to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:42 PM
4

Fuck yea! Cry when you need to. Nothing to be afraid of. Time and place for everything. If you can't cry, something is wrong with you. That being said, start reading up on stoicism. Your emotions will ruin you if you don't learn how to control them.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:16 PM
14

When my LTR and I were leaving college and moving in together, the LTR was really freaking about moving in with me because she didn't know how she could build a future with me if this kid could come out of the wood work later. Beta Billy me ran to a lawyer and paid him to send the girl I got pregnant a letter explaining that I didn't want anything to do with her or the kid. In hindsight, I should have told the LTR that she can do what she likes but I wanted to be in my kid's life. Basically, I d…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:07 PM
18

I found out before the kid was born but didn't know if was mine or not and didn't really care about finding out more. I told me LTR at the time who I then married. She knew about it before she even dated me and just figured it wouldn't come up. Yea, I never had to pay anything.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:33 PM
1

LTR NARCISSIT? Are fucking stupid? Hey, Guys! HOW DO I FUCK AN ANGRY WOMBAT?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:26 PM
33

You want other chicks because you're not getting what you need from your LTR. This is a giant red flag. If you're want to set yourself up for a life of misery continue what you're doing. End your LTR. Find other chicks until you find one that keeps your balls dry.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:59 PM
1

(this happened to a friend). No it didn't.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:49 PM
2

I'll ultimately feel responsible. So really the thing you're afraid of is "feeling". Gotta let that go. These are adults and, as adults, they are free to fuck up THEIR OWN LIVES anyway they see fit. You've done your part. Don't let them drag you down with them. There is literally no amount of help you could give them that would be enough. They will take everything and keep on asking. You need to move on. Build your life and let them live the lives they have built. You don't owe them anything and…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:48 PM
2

Sounds perfect... :) carry on
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:43 PM
3

Do I take advantage of this or just let go? That's a YOU question. Do what you want. Personally, I would use this opportunity to shape the relationship into exactly what you want it to be. Be nice about it but explore who you want to be. Have sex with her when you want and then have sex with other girls when you want. Fuck, have her find you new pussy to fuck. See how far you can take her. It's her job to enforce her boundaries. Remember to reward the fuck out of her every time you make progress…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:39 PM
157

This is a great question. Remember, your fucking job in life is to look after yourself. No body else is going to do that and your mom can't follow you around all day and tell you not to put your dick in things that will hurt you. Throughout life, you're going to offered shit that will fuck you up in various ways. Your job is have an awesome life while avoid shit that will fuck up your life and make it difficult. You don't owe anyone anything and you don't light yourself on fire to keep someone e…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:36 PM
4

http://www.autism-society.org/living-with-autism/
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:35 PM
5

Amused Mastery... tease her about it and move on. Make it sexual... Do not freak out. That's the absolutely most unattractive thing you can do.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:34 PM
4

Yes
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:49 PM
7

Go. Have fun. So what... make connections.. isolate.. escalate... leave if it's not going your way...
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:49 PM
1

Fuck that hole if you want. Don't if don't. Don't let her pussy make you do anything you don't. Otherwise, game on and wreck that 'gina!
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:48 PM
1

No contact. Let her come to you. Prepare for her to try and scream at you for something... not sure what but just stay calm and pertend you don't understand exactly why shes' upset. WHY DID YOU GO OUT WITHOUT? I don't get it. Shouldn't I be able to go out when I want to? Is there something wrong with me going out when I want? Let her hampster her way into apologizing for being upset.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:03 PM
4

Anal
/r/askTRP26/07/18 06:14 PM
2

You do what guys do. You isolate and escalate. If she's already fucking isolating herself FOR you then the ONLY thing left to do is ESCALATE. If she lays on the bed, you lay on the bed with her like it's normal everyday thing and pull her in. I don't know what the fuck that 3rd date shit is but it sounds like you accidentally used a little pull here. Enough of that. More of that isn't going to work. Now you push then let up a little let her come to you then push some more. She lays on the bed. Y…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:59 PM
1

WOW... could you have posted LESS information? If you're cheating on her, it's normally for you think she's cheating on you. It's called "projection" and it's a bitch. No idea what you're talking about when she says stuff she shouldn't. Like what? What are you doubts about her faithfulness? If you're cheating on her, it probably means you're not getting what you want from her on some level. If that's the case, end it and go get what you want.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:07 PM
7

You have no idea how much this guy makes a month. I would gladly pay $2300 a month and not even notice it. I don't think there is a max number here in the US. It's based of what you make and what she makes. If she hasn't had a job and isn't going to be getting one, you're on the hook for the entire thing. On the other had, if she has a job or is capable of getting one, the judge may take that into account.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:59 PM
3

She cant help that thirsty beta bombard her. I bet most are ugly shitty nerds. I would not let it bother me. I married a hot women and she gets hit in all the fucking time. Used to bug me until I realized she really didn't like it and was good at shutting these guys down. If she wanted to cheat she would.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:58 AM
2

Is consider taking her back but bowvis a great time to renegotiate anything you'd like changed. If you want more sex or wilder sex or the ability to keep other girls. Think of the wildest thing that would make you happy and try for that.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:55 AM
4

As tough as it can be at times, don't fuck girls at work. I've done it 4 times and been lucky that I didn't get in real fucking trouble. No matter how good you think you are at hiding it, someone will know. Once got busted by IT for having porn on my computer so the referred me to the HR person. Didn't get in trouble because I'd been fucking her the previous year. I had a closed door meeting with her and all she did was shake her head at me and laugh. In that case, I think it was lucky that I ha…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:28 PM
13

That app exists to make money of thirsty, desperate betas. It's purpose is to get into your wallet not to get you laid. You're not attractive enough for teh hot ones to fall on your dick. You're looking for a shortcut. There are not shortcuts. Get attractive, save your money and game women in real life.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:46 PM
2

JESUS... how many times are you going to ask her out? SHE'S NOT INTERESTED IN YOU ENOUGH TO DO ANYTHING BUT CHAT ONCE IN AWHILE. STOP ASKING HER OUT. MOVE ON.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:44 PM
2

Hey, one thing that is worth mention is that both times my wife was pregnant she was down to fuck ALL the time. Plus, her body changed shape and her boobs got even bigger than normal. As she got further and further along, she got big so she couldn't really get to wild and I ended up doing a lot of work but it was fucking awesome to nut just about any time I wanted. She was always in the mood and would come on to me. It was like being molested by a bear sometimes. Granted, it was a nice smelling …
/r/askMRP25/07/18 12:38 PM
2

It really all depends on your attractiveness. If you're hideous, they'll will keep their distance. If you're slightly attractive and they are bored, they may put you within distance to approach. If you're really attractive to them they'll rub your crotch the moment they think no one is looking. BTW, the crotch rub move is awesome. When a girl does that, it's fucking game on.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:35 PM
7

Why the fuck isn't this highest voted response? Chicks are chicks and sometimes they play around. Yes, I understand she could have been bobbing on his cock but this just doesn't sound like that. Everyone here sounds a little young and it might take her a little while to figure out the rules of a relationship. You don't fucking throw her overboard the first second your fragile little ego freaks out. I bet Amused Mastery with a playful punishment of spanking could turn into some really hot sex. Te…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:30 PM
8

We can't tell you because we can't see you. First, don't let it get to you. It's a bit of a shit test. What about asking a trusted guy friend or one of these women? "Hmmm... that's interesting. Why would say that about? What makes you think I'm gay?" I used to get this sort of thing when I was younger because I was skinny and a bit of an intellectual. In hindsight, I was deathly afraid of showing that I was a sexual person for fear that someone would call me a creep.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:26 PM
2

Yes. Be awesome.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:59 AM
5

I get interest all the time 22 on up. I'm not fat. I lift and I'm awesome to talk to. I'm married and don't do plates these days.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:58 AM
13

I'm bald, 54 and it doesn't unless you let yourself go.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:00 AM
6

Let someone else do it. Move on. You're not sexually compatible. End of story.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:38 AM
0

Oh please... Dude you have admit and embrace who you are. If that's your thing run with it and enjoy.life's too short to not do what you want.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:34 AM
9

Sounds fine. Get another that ducks.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:26 AM
5

This.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:25 AM
1

That's really a skill and it will make your life so much better if you can learn to do that. I'm not talking about pretending things are good when they are not. I'm saying learn to turn everything into an opportunity.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:10 AM
2

Nah.. She's done with him. Plates are more attracted to you than you to them.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:08 AM
1

Stop worrying about that shit. It's not high school. Not everyone is on the same path and their are so many people it doesn't matter who's there and who's not. Learn to make friends and get the fuck in there. Oh yea... did I mention you should use the gym and lift like a mad man and be so fucking ripped that girls melt when they see you. Do that.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:21 AM
8

FUUCCCKKKKED NO! You're in for an awesome time. I went to college right out of high school and did 3 fairly bland years. I worked for a couple of years and went back at 23/24 and the world is your fucking oyster. Girls don't really give a shit about guys their own age unless they are insanely attractive. There are a fair amount of girls that are going to be attracted to an older guy that has his shit together. Remember, it's not just 18 year olds but 18, 19, 20, 21, 22 year olds. Some of them ar…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:19 AM
4

Uhhmmm... you're in the wrong fucking place if you want it gentle. We don't do that here. I assume you're young so this is as gentle as I get. What part of what she's written do you not understand? She just fucking met you and doesn't feel safe going out somewhere alone with just you. Why is that odd? Perhaps she doesn't want to get raped and murdered? Girls are funny about that sometimes. Roll with it. Suggest something awesome that includes friends and go and be awesome and have fun no matter …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:14 AM
9

Who cares? She may never or it might be in 7 minutes.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:10 AM
1

It means you get her emotions going unless, of course, you're an actual fucking psycho... you're not, right? Do you have any friends you can ask just to be sure? If you don't think you're psycho and you're friends agree then it's just something a girl said to another girl one time. People say fucked up shit to their friends all the time.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:10 AM
9

I can't know this for sure and, keep in mind, I'm just some asshole on the internet... While you were away she probably realized that she liked life without you. When you didn't listen to her, she used that as an excuse to blow up at you. She wouldn't have yelled at Chris Pratt if he didn't listen to her instructions. Of course, I do have to wonder why you didn't turn like she asked? Would you turned if a guy friend suggested it? Were you pulling some kind of power move? She accepted your soft n…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:07 AM
3

Meh... you were doing her a favor and it went wrong. She's out of money so she's trying any option she can think of. She's somehow talked herself into that she's the victim here. You don't have to agree with her. You do what you want to. Remember, don't light yourself on fire to keep other people warm. "Hey, I was doing you a favor. I don't owe you anything and I'm not taking the hit. That's enough of your shit. Leave me alone." Make up your mind that you're not paying and stick to it. Just brok…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:58 PM
3

I get that. My only point really was that if you're going act like a slut you shouldn't be surprised to meet other sluts. "I keep hanging out in shitty bars and all I meet is drunks! What's up with that?"
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:06 PM
2

Who knows? After 4 years, she would have fucked you if that's what she'd wanted. Try being direct with her one last time then move on if she doesn't respond how you want. There is nothing to be gained by chasing her.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:51 PM
0

It's also becoming jaded or damaged by sex with strangers.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:48 PM
4

Is the limit different for girls and guys? He's fucking his way through tinder and is complaining the all the girls he meets on tinder are sluts. Do you not see the problem with that?
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:48 PM
2

That's a great example of something to stop doing.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:01 PM
2

This! Learn to recognize guilt trips and manipulation and do not stand for them.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:01 PM
48

Are you kidding? SHE GAVE YOU A FUCKING GIFT. DO NOT WASTE IT. First of all, get your emotions under control. It sucks but it's simply just not that bad. You still have all your fingers and both your feet right? You didn't kill someone and you're not looking a 60 years in jail. You're not strung out on a street corner hiding from the cops while you bleed out. She wasn't a very good girlfriend anyway. You worked like a dog for her. That's on you. You set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:24 PM
1

Yes, send her a text that is clearly sexual and be prepared to move on when she responds negatively.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:46 PM
6

Wait... so you're fucking up a storm on tinder and you're upset girls are doing the same thing? Really?
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:27 PM
18

She obviously enjoyed your touch during an emotional moment which gave vag tingles. Act like it's totally normal for you to touch her now and escalate. If she responds positively then ramp it up a little. If she responds negatively, you back off a little an let her come to you. Do this in a cycle and rev her up. At some point, isolate. "Hey baby... let's get out of here." There is a possibility she likes it rough and may not even know it yet.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:20 PM
4

Whoa... whoa... whoa... you're totally coming across as needy and aggressive. There is very little chance what you've written above will play out like you hope it will. Look, if she shows up and isn't wearing pants, I'd say go with your A plan otherwise you're going to freak her out hard. You haven't given much info except you were in the friendzone but somehow now you're not. Does she know you're not in the friendzone now or is all that just you? She's coming over at 11pm but what's the context…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:00 PM
1

Sucks. Holding on to it will only hurt you. Yes, that happened. It sucks hard. Look forward. Don't make the same mistakes.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:07 PM
13

Stop with the incel shit. Welcome to the fucking club. Read the entire sidebar and lift.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:07 PM
1

Boundaries are about what you will and won't do or put up with,
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:06 PM
1

Pornhub
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:33 PM
1

To be fair, everybody can set boundaries. A common one for females is "You don't get no more pussy until we are dating, married... etc...". Lots of guys fall for that one. The real challenge is to set your own boundaries and know when to walk away from other people when they enforce their boundaries.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:00 PM
4

Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform? Nothing in what you wrote makes it sound like you're anything other than an orbiter. Move on. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:50 PM
6

Never, ever be afraid to tell someone what is on your mind. If she doesn't like it she get get the fuck out. I get the RP wants girls to figure shit out just by ghosting but life doesn't always work that way. I think not telling her the truth directly when she asks is pretty fucking weak. Do it calmly without emotion. Say it once. Wait for her reaction. If she responds how you want (i.e. some kind of apology or something positive) great. Take it in. Tell her it's great that she understands and y…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:36 PM
8

It's involuntary and the intensity of the IOI is directly related to how attacked they are to the guy. A little attraction will get a finger to twirl some hair, a lot of attraction will have hair flips, arms together to squeeze boobs forward and big wide eyes ready to take a hot load to the face. Your job is to learn to recognize IOI's. Avoid women that don't give them and close on those that do.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:31 PM
1

wish to dump this bitch, but feel like I’m way too invested You need to act on that feeling now. This only gets worse.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:21 PM
1

Do it and report back.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:34 AM
3

Its a ducking cartoon. Dint base your life on it.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:13 AM
2

Lots of dudes like to paint females as evil and men are innocents will no control. That's not reality. Men need to learn they have options and that no women is worth their dream. There will be other women and even if there are not so what? A man can be perfectly happy without a woman.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:11 AM
6

Men let women ruin their dreams.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:27 AM
2

A threatened nd would respond like that.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:15 PM
3

Its costs them nothing and they want you to do the same in return. Get off the internet and game girls in real life.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:04 PM
1

Ignore. Game other girls. Let her be upset. Move on. Unless, of course, you're were wrong... then apologize then move on. Only a weak man can't apologize when he is wrong.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:54 PM
1

YOU HAVE NO VALUE TO THEM. What exactly do you want them to do? If you were Chris Pratt, they're be all over your Instatinder, suggesting times to meet and offering head and free weed. You're nothing to them. You are simply not attractive enough for them to bother contacting you.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:51 PM
0

So how do you know each other?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:42 PM
1

It's her problem to deal with. She needs to tell him to stop then go to HR. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:41 PM
4

There is a bit of confusion around here about being an alpha and a "nice guy". You don't have to be an asshole to be alpha and you don't have to be alpha all the time. The thing is to be true to yourself, don't let anyone talk you into shit you don't want to do and make sure you don't put other people's needs in front of yours. There is absolutely no reason you can't be considerate and polite and friendly and still be an alpha. You don't always have to power move people. No one is all alpha or a…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:22 PM
12

Your smv probably isn't a high as you think it is. You opened the fattie and you were not attractive enough for the hottie to clam jam her friend. You get what you settle for. Don't settle for fatties if that's not what you want.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:14 PM
1

Couldn't tell because all the incel victim talk. State your question without all the emotion and internet speak. Talk like an adult.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:57 AM
16

Wow... that's all victim talk. You need to get out of the incel world and into the real. Start by lifting and reading the sidebar. Next, get professional help. I'm not kidding or trying to insult you. I mean it. Nothing wrong with therapy. I've been and it's been life changing. Find a therapist that you feel comfortable with and go. Judging by your post history and your incel language you've got you head so spun around that you're given up. Start by lifting. Really. It's not for the Sarahs. It's…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:09 PM
20

Fucking no Mr Rapey McRaper... Don't force your way into anywhere you're not invited to. The time to make a move isn't at the end it the night. Escalate while you're with her and make her want to ask you up. Also, don't be so fucking needy. Go hang out with and have fun. If she's not fun, take her home. If she doesn't ask you up then ghost and move on.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:01 PM
2

I just have a lot of passion for things in my life and like talking with passionate women.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:54 PM
-1

You won't know that true until you come clean. Come clean and don't do it again.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:53 PM
1

Sure. Text her one more time and beg her to touch your winky. If she were interested she would have texted or given you something more. Game more girls.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:46 PM
2

Sure. Text her one more time and beg her to touch your winky. If she were interested she would have texted or given you something more. Game more girls.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:45 PM
5

Sure. Text her one more time and beg her to touch your winky. If she were interested she would have texted or given you something more. Game more girls.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:45 PM
2

Do her a favor and encourage her to go.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:25 PM
-1

Come clean. They already know but don't want to hurt you. Stop lying.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:24 PM
1

No but 7 is a bitch...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:14 PM
2

Oh Christ... Who cares? Let them talk. Fuck her if you want.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Dude...have fun with. Role play as a stranger picking her up. Find out what gets her tingly and do it.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:48 PM
2

I don't think I'd continue a conversation with a female that acted that. I might respond that I make eounght to have to worry about gold dihmggers and move on.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:33 PM
1

In in property management then start talking about your passion and your mission.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:29 PM
11

You're not going to get anything from her. Move on.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:08 PM
2

She wants to meet so she can negotiate the relationship. While she may have enjoyed what you both did she may feel bad about it and want to make clear what she wants. That's all fine and you want people to communicate thier needs. She's probably going to tell you her boundaries and expect to educate when and where there is sex. She has a right to do that. You also need to communicate your boundaries and needs. Be sure to be honest with her. If she doesn't want sex with you, that's fine. However,…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:04 PM
3

It's a choice. You choose to continue thinking about her. Get busy. Get out there. You're not a victim.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:27 PM
4

Seriously? That's the dumbest reason I've ever heard-
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:21 AM
3

That is a fitting reply to most of the posts on here lately.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:34 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Brogress/comments/8yd0gd/m3058185lbs_to_160lbs_5_months/
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:58 PM
3

Those videos are bullshit. Lift and get cut and your jaw will improve. Go on over to r/brogress or r/progresspics Look what happens to a fat neckbeard after he gets ripped and shaves the shit off his face. You're looking for a shortcut to putting in the work. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:55 PM
1

Hey baby... probably time we have the ole' birth control conversation...
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:42 PM
4

Movies dates are for women you're fucking.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:35 PM
8

If you're found something that works for you better than the gym and you're ripped and not a fatty, who are we to say anything? Can you take your shirt off in front of a group of 17 year hotties in bikinis and not feel uncomfortable? Honestly, most of the guys asking for help on here are fat slobs so the gym makes a big difference. Women have an uncontrollable physical response to guys who lift. Look at the faces of these females when the fit guy takes off his shirt? They have no control and lit…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:34 PM
5

muzzies? Have a little respect for people. Here's a clue. There is no magic anywhere unless you BRING it. If you don't speak the language, and you're not going to learn in a few weeks, exactly how are supposed to communicate with anyone? What do you expect? Look around you and figure out YOU can do interesting things by yourself and go do them. Nobody owes you shit. Social media isn't going to do a thing for you but waste your time. Get out. Not sure if you're really autistic or not from your co…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:28 PM
3

You fucking taught how to behave. You didn't dread her. You ghosted. Exactly how long do you think someone will wait for your ass?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:16 PM
1

There are no short cuts. Two weeks isn't enough time to change. Use your time there to work on being outcome independent. Go places. Hang out. Talk to everyone. Be awesome. Enjoy life. Don't expect slay pussy.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:14 PM
1

intravenous drug users
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:21 PM
2

Soft next... game other women
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:01 PM
5

No, women want to be ignored by trolls. No troll ever got laid by ignoring a chick. Give direct eye contact to show interest and get their wheels spinning. The only time I ignore is when I have to open a group. I talk to everyone else BUT her. If she starts talking, I look somewhere else. If she addresses that directly, I smile and point and tease her. "Is she always like this?" Some girls just can't stand not to get attention. Similarly, I've shown attention to the less attractive of two female…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:51 PM
6

You're fine. You're taking her on an emotional roller coaster and you've got her feelz engaged. Just continue to be awesome and do what you want. If she adds to your life, invite her along. Use that need for comfort and validation to get her act like you want. Good responses here could be... "Come on over and I'll show another way I'm not like anybody else. Don't wear panties."
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:45 PM
3

This is an excellent time to decide what kind of person you want to be and become that. Find the gym and go to it regularly. Get as fucking ripped as you possibly can. You're never going to have this kind of opportunity with easy access to fantastic gym equipment and tons of good quality food. If you haven't already, learn how to eat. Let the other sad fucks gain weight on the unlimited ice cream get fit and lean. Focus on yourself. Find groups of friends. Be selective. Don't hang out with loser…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:26 PM
5

Depends... if she's a plate you need to be aware of her past to screen for things like needle users and such... After that, it all depend on her performance. I had a side thing with a girl that could deep throat to my balls and milk the seaman right out of me even if I tried not to nut. I wasn't invested in her at all and loved to get her to tell me all her dirty stories. If I was considering her for a LTR, I certainly wouldn't have wanted to hear all that. As it was, it just gave me more ideas …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 12:50 PM
2

Neckbeard navel gazing
/r/askTRP19/07/18 12:43 PM
5

Its an agree and amplify
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:36 AM
24

Who can look away from a train wreck?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 12:22 AM
1

HB10's forget who fingered them 3 days ago. No surprise here.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:39 PM
40

Welcome Sorry that happened to you. It's over. Consider yourself lucky. Calm down. Really. Seriously. Calm down right now. You're not a child and you're not going to let emotions get the best of you. That's all this is. No one is holding a gun to head. No one is killing your mother. She decided not to let you use her pussy anymore and you're upset she's doing something you don't want her to do. You can't make anyone do anything. Stop trying. Cut contact. She's proved her worth. No prove yours. G…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:26 PM
1

You should fuck anyone you want to. Isolate then escalate. She gets one chance then move on to someone else.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:55 PM
7

Wait... so a bratty little sister is acting like a bratty little sister?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:34 PM
14

It's not a dumb post. You have to spend some time figuring out why you have trouble speaking. Is it emotional or physical? Get help. Go to a doctor or therapy. Use the internet to do your own research. Find ways to practice. There is no quick way out of this. Make a plan. Find out what the problem is and come up with a solution and work it until it's crushed. I used to have a hard time speaking to people I didn't know. I made a friend in high school that could literally talk to anyone. He was du…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:28 PM
8

That's not true. Lots of dude will pay young boys for sex. Don't limit OP's dreams.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:02 PM
5

If she was interested, she'd make herself available.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:52 PM
2

She's not dreading you. She's gone. Move on.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:02 PM
1

Carry on like nothing happened. Don't care. Be fun. Be awesome. Get on with your life. Isolate. Escalate.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:59 PM
4

You already know the answer. Why? Are those the only girls left alive? Don't bother. Move on. Game new women without connections to you ex.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:09 PM
8

Agree with her and escalate. The only response should be "You have excellent taste in men. Let's get a drink."
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:07 PM
1

You did her a great favor by breaking up with her.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:44 PM
1

So what? Even if their aren't, you don't need a woman to be happy.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:25 PM
16

Depends if it's a friend or not... If it's someone I don't want to hear from, I tell them "Wow, that sounds like a 'YOU' problem." If it's someone I care about, I listen and let them vent. If it's a female, I don't offer advice but let them burn out on emotions and let them realize that whatever they are complaining about is the way it is. If it's a guy, I might offer advice. One critical thing I do is look for and point out victim talk. I call it out when I see it. So much of that bitching is j…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:00 PM
1

. You also have to NOT REALLY CARE. If you're faking it, it will show.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:21 PM
1

Test it and if you're fuck them then keep doing it. Otherwise, try one fucking time and move on. Honestly, you're time is better spent looking for new women then trying to reengage old ones. Some may be attracted if you're improved enough but don't chase them. Let them come to you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:11 PM
1

Women don't fuck children. Take care of your own shit and she'll have more time to fuck you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:09 PM
1

I'd just tease her about when she does it and tell her that she really doesn't have to do that on my account. Have fun with her and turn it sexual. Why are you on your phone looking for more dick when you can have this in your face right now?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:05 PM
7

Meh... seriously, I'm fucking done in my life pretending to anyone that I am other than what I am. I don't have time for shame in my life. You are who you are. Accept that and move on. If she doesn't like, there's the fucking door. There will be another girl that thinks you're just fine. Well... you have to be attractive and have options... I was a loser who spent all his time in front of computer and whacking off. At some point, I got tired of that and tried different things. Honestly, if I had…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:02 PM
1

Get to a doctor. Sounds like you're rationalizing something you don't want to believe. I know a guy that tested high 5 times in a row but had a similar excuse each time.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:38 AM
3

You sound like the asshole here.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:47 PM
7

Jesus... how fucking insecure and stupid can you be? Don't be so defensive about your dick. Use anything at hand to get her off but have fun. The further you rev her up, the further you can take her. Get her a toy and use it on her till she cums over and over again.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:17 PM
3

Nope. She's got the pussy and there is an endless supply of Billy Betas who will do anything to touch it. The ONLY thing to do is be her most attractive option. If you're not, move on.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:33 PM
12

Not savage at all. You have no value to her. Why should she act like you do?
/r/askTRP14/07/18 11:34 AM
4

You still don't fucking get it. No, you don't make shit up to tell her. You just don't fucking tell her or any other woman at work about your personal life and you don't pry into theirs. Keep it to your fucking self and do you fucking job. Work is not a dating site. Not shitting where you eat is the 2nd rule of TRP after lifting for a reason. You're not fooling anyone with the "just trying to be friends" routine except maybe yourself. Women can smell Billy Beta trying to friend their way into th…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 11:33 AM
3

Those feelings are hers. They are not yours and you are not responsible for how she feels nor can you do anything about it. You need to just let things go. Yea, it sucked in the past but right now, right here, everything is great. Doesn't matter what you did in the past. Doesn't matter. Smile and move on. That's good advice for you and for her as well. Just let it go. That bad times are over. All you both should care about is now. Block her, move on, game new chicks. See how easy that was. You'r…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:30 PM
15

Just friends means that you give her all your benefits for free. Never do that.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:04 AM
2

Maybe = no. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:23 PM
7

Stop watching porn. Stop whacking off. It's not bad or evil. It just gets in the way of the mission of getting really, human contact. Whack off if you have to. Sometimes a dick won't let you sleep so you have to beat it. Other times, you just need to get busy and do something. The girls in your grade don't give a fuck about you. Stop worrying about that. We don't WHY that is. It just IS. The girls a year or two behind you think you're a fucking god. We don't care WHY that is. It just IS. Game TH…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 06:56 PM
16

Some do, some don't. I like the ones that do.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 06:48 PM
4

Rail that 6 then dress her up like a 10. Fucking austist... let her prove her love with her throat...
/r/askTRP12/07/18 06:18 PM
3

Jesus dude... hard next her immediately... she's not a friend to you. She's milking you hard and YOU'RE LETTING HER.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:43 PM
4

Advanced aged virgins have often physiological problems with sex. Don't expect one to want to have it with you very often. They've made it this far without and are in no hurry to get it on.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:27 PM
1

Sounds like projection.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:32 PM
24

You have absolutely no idea what's going on in someone else's head no matter how much you wish that to be true. Stop fantasizing that you can tell what other people are thinking without asking.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:06 PM
2

Depends if you want to live your life hiding who you are. Before you get married, you damn well better show her exactly who you are and insist she do the same. This is not the time for games. BTW, don't get married.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:09 PM
2

Realize that emotions are not real things and well in your control and that anger doesn’t help you at all. Stop let your emotions get out of control. You’re an adult not a child. Oh and lift... and take care of your business.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:54 AM
1

Not too worry babe. Just keep sucking my dick as good as you do and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:52 AM
1

Dude. Talk to her
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:32 AM
9

Sluts are girls that will fuck other guys but not me
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:25 AM
2

Sure, that’s entirely possible. Early sexual expense often influences preferences. That’s why I have a kink for curvy bad girl brunettes who smoke and like to swallow. For a time, that was all I chased until I realized what I was doing and decided to see how it was with other girls. Turns out that other types of girls are not too. Just realize where it comes from and do t let it define you
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:23 AM
3

I can't think of any reason she would do that And yet your first line is "I heavily invested myself in this girl, she was cooking for me, taking care of my place, helping me with money when I was in need." You're a childish man baby and she's done wiping your ass. The first thing you should do is congratulate her for having the stones to dump you whiny ass. The break up didn't come from nowhere. It's been building for a long time in her mind and she's finally had the courage to do it because she…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:22 PM
1

Girls want guys that are nice and can take care of them and make them feel safe. Girls have an almost uncontrollable emotional reaction to guys they physically desire. What they want and what they are attracted to are two different things.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:02 PM
2

I can recognize it because I've felt the same way. The thing you have to understand is females can do things you can't and you can do things they never could. That's the way it is. Accept it and move on. Let go of your anger.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:55 PM
2

"Look, I'm here to exercise not to talk, I don't dislike you but I really do want to focus on my workout more." THAT'S IT. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT TO SAY. It's what you want. It's direct, honest and true. Stop fucking around trying to come up with something that won't hurt this guy's feelings. That's just not your problem. You're trying to do something you want to do and someone is getting in the way of that. Be assertive and stand up for yourself and don't let anyone get in your way.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:23 PM
18

Someone is upset that a tree is a tree.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:19 PM
6

Fucker just hamstered himself into an LTR. Just took him a little time top cave.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:13 PM
2

Throw it on the table the next time she asks. Just say, "You know it's creepy the way you keep asking about my girlfriend."
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:42 PM
4

Dude! Find a way to enjoy it! Stop worrying about taking help. Families do theses type of things for each other. Someday, maybe, you’ll get to pay for the wedding of someone you love. You’re not some fucking lone wolf alpha. You’re part of a family. Embrace it. I had an awesome, huge wedding that I could never have done myself and it brings us and our families great joy to remember it. Her Dad recommended we get a live band and offered to pay for it on top of all the other things they were payin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 11:35 AM
1

Have fun... isolate... escalate... leave if you're not getting what you want
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:36 PM
3

While you're at it, why don't you see if you two can make another go of it? I'm sure it will be better this time. Seriously, no... She's gets closure and what do you get? Nothing. Why would you take a bad deal?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:34 PM
1

Nexting her without telling her why is childish. Leading by example might have results but it might not. Basically, you have a boundary but you're afraid to tell her about because you're afraid of her reaction. Don't get me wrong. It's not an easy thing to say but you owe it to yourself AND her to be direct about it. Sit down for a few minutes and figure out some adult, non-blaming words to tell her what's going on with you. Pick a decent time to talk with her and bring it. She's going to cry, s…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:56 PM
3

Power flip... why are YOU ignoring me?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:19 PM
6

Hot girls know they are hot and get told it by every creepy Billy Beta they meet. The scenario in Billy's head is that once he says how beautiful m'lady is the only correct response from her is to drop to her knees and profess undying love. Shit don't work like that. It might get a positive respond from some chicks with really low self esteem but it's a shitty way to start any conversation. Hot girls have to learn to defend themselves from horny, needy creeps. Announcing how beautiful she is goi…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:37 PM
1

The purpose of guilt is to help you not do something you don't like to do. You feel guilty because you don't want to have with her. Either get over the guilt and keep pounding or stop have sex with her. Easy fix...
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:57 PM
2

You're doing this guy a disservice if you do send him money. He got himself in this situation and he needs to figure out how to get himself out of it.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:51 PM
5

"Hi. It's me. I guess you don't have time for me because you're a whore who doesn't like a nice guy that will respect and care for you. Bitch."
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:30 PM
1

WHAT? That's just mind numbing. I'd find something else to with that employment rate. I'm in the US and IT jobs couldn't be hotter at the moment. My company just had two open positions and we could hardly find applicants and we are a great company that pays far above market average. We ended up hiring one guy from another state and rehiring a retired employee as a part time contractor. I get contacted almost daily on my linked in for good jobs locally and nationally.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:36 PM
10

If she's on Tinder she can swipe and get a new dick. She swiped.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:31 PM
2

The important thing here is that your discovery of her texting another guy. She "let slip" that she was talking to him because you're weren't moving fast enough to marry her. That's a branch swing attempt. Your interest in someone else is directly related to not getting your needs met by current GF. For both of you, it's time for this relationship to end. You're not married and you don't have kids together. There is nothing to save here and it's not worth the effort. It was great for awhile but …
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:47 PM
2

Hey baby... does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:07 PM
4

She gave you the chance to fuck her and YOU declined. She's written you off as a pussy. There was sexual tension and you broke it. Also, when she did offer, it was probably at the height of her cycle and she was horny for you right that moment. Once that moment passed, she doesn't have any need for you.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:48 PM
4

I have one strike rule. You asked and she didn't respond. Strike one. Move on. Unless she tries to set something specific up with you the next time you see her, do not try again.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:45 PM
17

Chicks get approached by unattractive, thirsty betas constantly who shower them in compliments then expect sex in return. "Oh, you're so pretty now have sex with me." Imagine you walk through a world filled with women that are old, smelly, repugnant, ignorant ham planets that fawn at your feet and beg you to marry them the first time they lay eyes on you. Every time you turn around, they smile at you with with uneven rows of yellow, coffee stained teeth. They take any chance they can get to touc…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:43 PM
1

That's a really good idea... if you want to fuck up your life! NO. NO. NO. Stand your fucking ground and tell her no.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:53 PM
7

Easy there bucko... Doesn't sound like a huge slut at all... just a normal girl looking for validation... Don't let your insecurities eat at you. Sounds like she likes you. Enjoy it. Play with her. Have some fun. Doesn't matter what she did or didn't do before you. 3 bf's isn't a lot for a 16 year old girl that is hot. She's had dick offered since she was 12. So what? She's into you now. Enjoy it while you can.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:39 PM
2

Don't micro manage her. Way to be totally autistic when she brought it up. "I'll think about it" is pretty fucking tone deaf. A captain can recognize a good idea when he hears one. Jesus... how hard would it have been to say "Thanks for pointing that out. You're right. You've got so many things under control. I'm glad you brought me your concerns."?
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:53 PM
1

She was turning me in to her bitch. Oh you poor little baby... did the mean ole' vagina hurt you? She didn't do shit to you. You did it to yourself. I don't really know if it's possible. Just be who you really are and if she's OK with that she'll turn herself around. If she doesn't, you move on. Don't try to hang on to something that isn't working. Her resistance is directly related to the speed at which you're making changes. If you suddenly turn her shower from hot to ice cold, she's going to …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:53 PM
1

Hi and welcome. Red Pill attracts all kinds of people and some of them are pretty angry at women for their own shortcomings. I don't really subscribe to the "train" idea. RP for me is about setting expectations and to do that, a person has to communicate those expectations. My wife is free to not have sex with me. However, she has to understand that if she doesn't, I'm going to leave the relationship and find someone who will. Sex is an expectation of the relationship. I've told her directly and…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:49 PM
1

You can't have a clue what other people are really thinking unless you ask them. Even then, you'll probably not get the whole story. You sound autistic and seem to crave external validation. I pity your wife.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 08:48 PM
1

Good for her. I'd do the same if I could.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:45 PM
1

Try it. Leave her alone for two days then next her after.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:11 PM
15

Run to a fucking lawyer today! That inheritance isn't part of the martial asset unless you fuck up and make it so. The ONLY people that are going to be able to advise you properly are local lawyers. Get one, now.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 01:00 PM
2

Offer to let her use you skin flute.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:39 PM
6

I think it's pretty common for a girl to seek exclusivity pretty early on. I don't see it as a terrible thing. She's just not eager to open up to someone that's going to pump and dump her. That's not a terrible thing. Now, you need to be very careful here and not give in to that but continue to rev her up. Do it in steps and you should be fine. DO NOT LTR her until you've vetted her for at least 6 months. Vetting includes serious fucking.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:03 PM
2

Perfect plate opportunity...
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:00 PM
20

Totally fucking believable. She has a life and, maybe just maybe, sucking your dick isn't at the top of her list. Let her do her thing. She'll come find you when she's free if she wants to. Don't be so desperate. Get busy. Do your own. Game other girls. If she comes back, great. If she doesn't, great.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:00 PM
12

Guess what? You're GF is this chick's "hoe friend" too.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:57 PM
1

Oh, please... alimony won't destroy you. Sure, it would be a burden but life ain't easy, kids. You do what you a have to. If you haven't been married long, it won't be that much. I know guys to get taken from time to time but you're probably far from that. If you're really worried about it, go see a lawyer and get the real info instead of asking anonymous people on the internet. Of course, you're not really serious. You're just whining out loud looking for sympathy. Oh, those bad, bad females wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 03:49 PM
7

Compliments are an invitation for you to escalate.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:32 PM
5

I've tried going out solo once Well, you can't expect to be an expect if you've only done something once. They key is to continue to do it and find what works for you. I go to bars with no expectation of what will happen. I don't scout for girls and I don't feel disappointed if nothing happens. Sometimes, I go during lunch with a notebook to write in. I order food and a whiskey and write. I talk to the waitstaff or any other people near bye ONLY if they look like they want to talk. I never intru…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:05 PM
2

The only response it to MOVE ON.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:57 PM
1

Ha... she was going though her old options and she wanted to see if you'd made anything of yourself... and you haven't. "WE" don't have to do shit. And we don't certainly have to do shit to impress a female. That's the wrong reason to do anything. You do things because you want to.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:10 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8cuhxw/get_to_average_first/
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:09 PM
1

Make a video describing your behavior, in detail, then post it to Youtube.
/r/askMRP30/05/18 04:21 PM
7

Her: -Guilt trip, reasons why she deserves the food, bad mood if she doesn't get it. Is any of that your problem? Go read "No More Mr Nice Guy" (NMMNG) then "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" WISNIFG. My wife does not have a submissive streak like many of the guys here describe in their wives. She certainly doesn't want to be dominated in bed. I pulled her hair once and it triggered her so badly, it took a year for her to get over. What she will do, however, is relax when she sees that I have things…
/r/askMRP30/05/18 04:20 PM
10

I've tried female and male. Couldn't bring myself to talk candidly about the shit that was REALLY going in my head with a female. One was just a nice lady and I couldn't really talk openly about how I didn't get enough sex from my wife and I was having anonymous sex to make up for it. I kind of wanted to fuck her, too so that sort of got in the way. The other was a lesbian who suggested that I should focus my "love energy" somewhere else when I told her I didn't get enough sex from the wife. She…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:38 PM
10

They aren't IOI's at all. He's a freak show they can't look away from.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:31 PM
2

First off... are you fat? I dropped 50lbs and got an extra inch to work with.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:30 PM
31

Are you getting professional help? That's step one.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Probably talking about what losers they are married to. Headphones are the universal sign of "leave me the fuck alone". Why do you think you're so special that you deserve their attention?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:21 PM
9

Attention whore
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:53 PM
1

Don't LTR starter girls!
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:14 PM
1

Oh, please... Well guess you’re only hope is MGOW.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:22 PM
20

You should next her then send me her e-mail.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:47 PM
2

If you can't make the women you're with expressly beg for your dick, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:46 PM
2

Seriously? Just exactly how much sex are you having NOW without verbal consent? Use the law as something to tease and game women with. Make her give you nasty, nasty verbal consent.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:52 PM
1

Then what's the problem?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:25 PM
3

She wants you enough to click on something. Nothing more.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:55 PM
5

Jesus... she clicked on a link... she wants me.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:47 PM
6

Male doctors often have the same response.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:46 PM
2

Good move to cut all contact.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:45 PM
1

From the sound of things, getting your dick wet here isn't going to happen. The logistics and culture seem like they are much more difficult than the normal case you read on here. Be careful trying to apply what happens in other countries to your situation. Some things just don't translate.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:40 PM
3

Nope. Only hope is jacking off to hentai porn, fatty.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:29 PM
5

Those women aren't below your SMV. They are your SMV. The ones with higher SMV are slumming.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:25 PM
3

Post your story and questions here. That's what it's for. No one has time to hold your hand.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:24 PM
5

Sounds like you're not fucking her. Are you expecting to friend your way into her pants? What ever the issue is it all boils down to you not being attractive enough.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:20 PM
66

Nope. You can't stop anyone from doing anything. All you can do is enjoy your time with them and accept when they move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:18 PM
4

Move on. Forget her. That's to your benefit.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:59 PM
19

https://psychcentral.com/quizzes/autism-quiz/
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:31 PM
4

Have you not read ANYTHING in the sidebar? You're firmly in her orbit. She talks to you about the guy she's fucking. She's taking your attention without providing sex. You're her emotional tampon. Nothing indicates that you're worthy of a branch swing attempt. You're just a plaything to amuse her between sessions with her fuck toy.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:03 PM
1

That’s only legal in California and NH. California requires a filming permit and that performers use condoms.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:41 PM
5

A person with a healthy attachment style wouldn’t come across as needy. If she had a decent home life and stable parents, she can be pretty secure in herself. That’s a good thing.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:30 PM
2

I feel like you’re underestimating the amount of work that guy has to do to be in that shape. I wouldn’t recommend getting more ripped than that guy. That should be enough.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:23 PM
1

You hang on to those standards, pal. Let’s see how long it takes for those standard to start sucking your cock.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:01 PM
3

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vOvwTWhVT24 It’s not what they say but how they act. Girls can say they don’t want a muscle dude all day but when the shirt comes off and the guns come out, the become involuntarily wet. Sounds like you’re trying to hamster not working out.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:49 PM
1

I would make the bar staff aware of this. They'll remove him if he acts out and call police if needed.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:45 PM
10

Only thing to do now is fuck the bride.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:37 PM
1

But I want to end this self-inflicting non-sense that goes on in my mind. Then end it. It's a choice to feel this way. There isn't anything you can do about so why waste your time with it. Wear nice shoes but don't bother going overboard with lifts and crap. Just be you.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:07 PM
3

Honestly, I don't really see the problem. Congrats for getting over that. It's an interesting story and I've never met anyone that's been through this. About 10 years ago, I got sick and went deaf in one ear and had face paralyses. The face recovered but the hearing didn't. I don't make a point of bring it up but often times, in public, I have to explain that I can't hear and need to be on a certain side of a person. Most times, that's all I say. Other times people will ask and I'll tell them th…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:56 PM
20

Not my whore house. Not my whores.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:23 PM
2

THIS GUY!
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:42 PM
3

I don't bother finding a lady to sit next to. That's sort of like picking a target. You're not up to that yet. Go in. Find a comfortable place to sit at the bar and sit. Last Friday, I went into a bar and brought a notebook. I ordered food, had a few drinks and wrote the plot of my next video game. At some point, a nice blond sat one seat away. See said something to the bar tender and I noticed that she wasn't a local because of the way she pronounced her vowels. I just said that out load and th…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:44 PM
2

I love going to bars alone. It's a great way to meet people. I don't use any lines or anything. I just say whatever is in my head. If someone wants to talk with me, I talk to them. I'm really sensitive to people that aren't interested in chatting with me. I have no idea who they are or how their day has gone. I don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:55 PM
3

This only way though something like this is to do it. Go out... a lot. Go out tonight and do it to get to know how it goes. Don't go thinking you pull anything. Just go and find a bar and sit. I usually sit near the wait station at the bar. It's a good way to talk to the bar staff or people coming up for drinks. Don't be a fucking pest. Those people are working. They are not entertainment for you. Go out over and over and over again and become a bar master.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:51 PM
4

It's total overall SMV which consists of lots of thing besides lifting but lifting is important.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:48 PM
3

God damn... these shorts guys will not stop
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:47 PM
3

Do the same shit as if she were there. Gym, clean house, own your shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 08:38 PM
1

What exactly do you need from her while she's so sick? She's having someone drive her to ER. Jesus... back off and find something to do. As far as the rude behavior goes, RP says to never apologize, but you kind of owe her one. I say ignore it and, hopefully, she'll act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:43 PM
6

Easy there, Ricky Retardo... why would you even consider marrying someone if the sex has been awful for a year or two AND you want to keep chasing plates? Can you see how you're setting yourself up for a life of misery?
/r/askMRP14/05/18 02:59 PM
5

So you're point is... WEAR A CONDOM!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:53 PM
-2

HEY GUYS! FAT BETA NECKBEARD SEEKS HOTTIE ASIAN FOR THE SEXY! There is no country on this planet that has girls that want you.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:37 PM
15

HIV/AIDS In 2014, the estimated diagnosis rate for HIV cases in the United States was 13.8 per 100,000 population and 49.4 among blacks/African Americans. Of 222,185 estimated diagnoses of HIV infection in the United States and six dependent areas from 2010 to 2014, African Americans accounted for the following: 45% of the total 62% of women 64% of infections attributed to heterosexual contact 64% of children, ages < 13 https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/healthdisparities/africanamericans.html Fuck...
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:35 PM
280

Shit tests are about you. Comfort tests are about her.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:26 PM
1

You sound pretty worked up about all this. It's possible she's cheating whore than it conning you and you should hard next her today. I don't think that's the case here. You're both getting into some pretty advanced stuff that's new to both of you. It's pretty natural that she's want more info. While I don't think I'd be crazy about she's done, I might suggest using it to game her with and have fun. Be an oak and let her open up to you about all her inner most kinky stuff and you'll be able to t…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:52 PM
1

RP rules work in most cases. If you're better at gaming over text than most guys, great. Write it down for the rest of us chumps.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:12 PM
2

You don't set up a date until it's clear that you'd interested romantically. Beta's like to provide cover and try to friend their way into a girl's pants. That doesn't work and sucks for the girl. You have to be strong enough to be honest and state your actual intentions from the first moment you speak to her.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:38 PM
1

I have the same problem sometimes if I just put it in and bash away. The trick I found is that when I feel like coming quickly, I stop and let it cool down. Often times, after I do this, I can get back up to speed and pound away.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:41 PM
15

Nobody makes you angry. You make yourself angry. Why would you give control over your emotional state to someone else? Getting angry and shouting is losing control of your emotions so that's breaking frame. Something happened that turned you into a child and you couldn't keep it together.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:51 PM
2

Seriously... how fucking stupid can a guy be. DEAR INTERET! GURL WOULDN"T LET ME BRING HER TO DARK WOODED AREA FOR SEXY. Also, you wasted your time. She's not attracted enough to consider you for anything but an orbiter. You offered yourself up as an orbiter by going hiking without making you intentions clear first.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:09 PM
2

That's your mommy's voice scolding you. You're afraid of the social condemnation if you pound younger pussy. That rules served you well when you were younger to keep you from banging underage girls. No one wants to go to jail. This situation isn't like that. She's legal and showed interest. You missed a chance because you were probably afraid of what other people might say. I'm 54 and I enjoy training girls that age.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:03 PM
1

Sleep with me.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:02 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:50 PM
3

Plate the ones you have now. Find more.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:02 PM
4

PUT THE TURD ON THE TABLE. Talk to her directly. In a calm voice, call her out for doing it and let her know that she can tell you anything she needs and doesn't have to resort to indirect communication. Remember, you're an oak and Captain of the ship. You're going to be in trouble if a crew member is afraid to bring you bad news or ask help.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:29 PM
2

Many times for sex but not for a relationship. You're not even in the same country. You're not having sex with her. You're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:53 PM
3

Get off the internet and meet women in real life. She's not real.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:17 PM
5

She wants to go to the gym to increase her attractiveness and can see that it has worked for you. She now wants your time and attention to help her learn how because she's not confident in doing it herself. In short, she wants you to give you her time and train her for free... just because. She has no intention of offering you anything in return except for the privilege to be around her as an orbiter. Your plan to kino her while you train her is exaclty what a beta would do. You'll come across n…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:16 PM
1

You aren't close enough to her to discover her damage yet.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 12:04 PM
4

While you think you're a 7.5 (.5 really?), your wife is bored with you. How could she not be? Marriage is mating in captivity. The money you make doesn't mean shit. For a couple of years, I was pulling in huge money from my side hustle. Wife liked the money just fine but that didn't result in any more fucking. I bought trips to Europe, fancy weekends away, anything she ever wanted for the house and kids... I mean anything. Just because you make money, doesn't mean she owes you sex. I think you'r…
/r/askMRP09/05/18 12:03 PM
1

It can't change bone structure but it will improve your face. Head on over to https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/ and look at how much better people look when they get to a normal weight.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:02 PM
7

Dude's right. She's "letting" you bone her because she's afraid you'll leave not because she's turned on by you. That doesn't make for good sex. You're 2 months in. Work on yourself. You didn't put up any information about how attractive you are and if you're leading your house. By leading, I do not meaning stomping around like your the alpha in the house who makes everyone crazy with his needy little power plays and childish pouting either.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 01:42 PM
73

Only if you’re attractive...
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:39 PM
2

She was at the point in her cycle where she wanted dick but you missed your window.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:47 PM
-1

Jesus... don’t get caught up in other people’s numbers.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:43 PM
2

All words. No action. Nothing gets better unless you make it happen. Stop talking and file.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 05:34 PM
6

Edgelord
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:32 PM
1

Your judgement is clouded. This is the end of the relationship. Stand up for yourself. Cut her off immediately.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:04 PM
53

This, right here, is how good men turn into betas.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:32 PM
3

Only thing you can do now is fuck your friend.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:37 AM
0

Get the fuck out of here with your dancing monkey bullshit. I’m fun and interesting at parties and everywhere else because I have fun and interesting life that I built through hard fucking work. I studied old school speed seduction and put in tons of time learning coin and money tricks so I could open chicks. While that did result in some lays, it’s a hollow existence that I gave up.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:44 PM
1

Nothing is going to work for all girls. Do what you have fun that gets results.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:55 AM
1

I struggle with the same thing but I’m making progress. The past can’t hurt you anymore. Yes, that happened and it sucks. If you accept it don’t fight it, you get let it go. Yes, other people had it better in some ways. Noting you can do about the past. But learn from it. You can shape your future. You have the ultimate power over how your life will go. Focus on the future and making it everything you wAnt it to be. I’m older than you and and can tell you, if you’re strong and willing to radical…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:45 AM
10

Even it didn’t turn into a threesome, op acted like a nanny a missed a chance to have fun with 2 women. I’m captain fun wherever I go. If plans changes, I roll with it and still have fun.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:22 AM
66

You did her a favor. I didn’t have to read all that to see that the you’re the fucking problem here. You tried to setup plans and she got her friend to come from another city. When you fail to follow through, she’s left to keep the commitment. The rest of this is just you flailing around trying and failing to get other people to do exactly what you want. I hope she meets someone nice when she’s out with her friend.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:58 PM
2

You can to the right place. Let go of the anger. It will hold you back. Search for the Getting to Average post. Then commit to lifting like your life depended on it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:51 PM
10

You absolutely can live without a women. You shouldn’t need anyone else to be happy.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:10 PM
1

Welcome to the fucking club. Ive been through it and it suck. Believe it or not, there is a way out and it does get so much better. Work with your therapist. Read sidebar. Exercise. Easy right. Set goals. Move on. You’re not a victim.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:53 AM
1

Desperate and low value...
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:36 PM
4

I only picked up because I heard it had some good tips on anal.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:49 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:57 PM
1

That’s exactly the attitude they’ll expect from an ignorant American.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:53 PM
1

Ok. That’s all sucks but but but... there is hope you. You’ve had it rough. No denying that. That upside to that you have lots of improvement you can do. Things are about to get a whole lot better for you so hang in there. Read the sidebar and keep posting. I’m n mobile and can’t type more right now but don’t give up.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:28 PM
6

Nope. She's not playing any games. She doesn't get much attention from you so she's found somewhere else to get that attention front. It probably has a dick attached to it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:19 PM
1

You got emotional and acted like child and ended up hurting someone else. This may have negative consequences to you as well. It could turn into a legal matter, get you fired, kicked out of school or worse. While you may have felt some relief from acting out, what you did can cause you more harm then good. You need to learn to control your emotions. It might have helped to be more assertive and just tell him that you're not interested and to just remove yourself from the situation. Was alcohol i…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:29 PM
9

She shows you her anger by cutting off access to herself. She needs to learn that if she continues to do that then you're out the door. You realize that the closer you get to her, the more she's going to use this trick on you BECAUSE IT WORKS. You can sit her down and tell her directly but she probably won't be able to digest that. She'll turn it back on you and make it your fault. You can show her that her lack of attention doesn't bother you. Keep on being you and don't let anything she does b…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:43 PM
2

This is a good answer. It's time for you to step up. Also, he advise about sleep is spot on. What you're going through now is only the beginning of what happens when you have kids. The pregnancy is only that start. You're going to need to be the Oak now but soon you're going to have to learn to be an Iron Oak. Good luck.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:36 PM
1

Only chance is with girls in hostels. British people think of us as retarded cousins. They like us but not that much. To most British chicks, you’re going to look like a fat, ignorant man baby. The ones that like you will weigh more than you. Good luck trying to keep an erection while looking at those teeth.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:57 AM
2

The most important thing to do is get them out of your head and talk about them like you’re doing here. You haven’t built a life apart from your mom so she’s the only one you lean on. At this point, that’s unhealthy for both of you. Now that you’re an adult, it’s not her job to take care of you. It’s yours. Starting today you’re going to make sure she doesn’t do anything for you if you can help it. Clean your room. Clean the house. Make sure anything that needs fixing gets fixed. If you don’t kn…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:53 AM
1

How the fuck could we know without asking her?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:40 AM
-2

This guy!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:38 AM
2

Nothing you can do about the past but learn from it. Don’t worry. There will be tons of girls with little experience who you’ll vibe with. I know RP tends to say that all girls take tons of dick but that’s not really the case. About 20% of the girls are taking about 80% of the dick. Stay away from those. Date girls just a bit younger than you and you’ll be fine. Breathe deep. Learn to let things go. Practice that. It’s a skill you’re going to need.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:35 AM
4

They have pussies. They don’t need game.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:19 AM
5

Not really. I regret every minute of it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:18 AM
6

Look... you know that you shouldn't have met with her. You hamster it away with "plate if I could" and "an experiment". So you're at fault for subjecting yourself to her shitty behavior. She's acting like that because SHE didn't get what SHE wanted. She wanted you to go back in your box and fawn over her. When you didn't, she was upset and blamed you. There is no possible way she's going to take any responsibility for the night going sideways so it HAS to be someone else's fault, right? Well, yo…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:56 PM
6

That's not true. I've LTR'd one night stands. Yes, it was stupid and no I'll never do that again.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:20 PM
2

THIS RIGHT HERE. When you ignore red flags, you have only yourself to blame. Don't just bury your head in the sand. Do something about it and stand up for yourself. I would withdraw attention and see if she responds. Otherwise, just most on to better things. Do not settle for a girl that does not fit.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:19 PM
4

Your brother's friend did a needy thing. He posted that video specifically to get some external validation from being around hot women. That was stupid.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:50 PM
2

Hmmm... they do have oders.. some more than others. I find that the smells are different by hair type. Blonds don't smell like brunettes or red heads. Some are more ripe than others. Have you tried after they have been freshly showered? A good pussy should taste like sweet butter.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:44 PM
3

She's not making you feel anything you are. You're probably feeling guilt over what you did. The purpose of guilt is to keep us from making the same mistakes. You need to come to terms with why you cheated, accept that it was wrong and that you're only human. Humans fuck up. It's part of growing up and learning. I think once you understand why you cheated on her and figure out if that's who you want to be in life or if it was a blip, you'll be able to be more comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:25 PM
3

Start talking with guys in the group. Don't focus on her at all. Ignore her. Don't make eye contact. When she speaks to you, say "Is she always like this?" and keep talking. Get acceptance from the guys and group before approaching the girls otherwise you're threat. I do something I call work the room. When I first come in, I be sure to greet everyone that is in my vicinity. I say hi to the bar tender. I ask the dude if this stool is taken. I tell the girls on the other side that this place sure…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:16 PM
1

I like older women sounds needy. That's the thing losers who can't get pussy their own age say. Ignore and carry on gaming her.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:36 PM
1

Then what's the fucking point of your post? Look. Wear exactly what you want to wear and fuck anyone that doesn't like it. That being said, wearing that weeb shit screams fat, child-like, man baby.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:01 PM
3

I'm going against the grain here. I don't think all women think they have been abused because their definition is different. I think there are shitty, blue pill needed fuckers that do abuse women in all kinds of ways when the can. I also think there are women who have been abused who learn to act like victims and seek out shitty partners who will abuse them to carry on the cycle. For whatever reason, there are guys that hunt for broken women and are attracted to damage. Ask yourself... Do you ha…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:14 PM
7

Gack... I feel for you. I've had sex before with females where I wasn't enjoying the smell and it's not fun. Lead her to the shower. Don't have sex with her until she's washed. Don't have call her out directly but say things like "only like it when things are fresh". Stench can mean a number of things including infections or she's hosting other dudes before you visits.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:07 PM
4

I got a phone call one Sunday from a 24 year old daughter I hadn't met. Sure... it was awkward but so what? Can him right the fuck up and talk to him.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:04 PM
1

https://psychcentral.com/quizzes/autism-test/
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:01 PM
1

but marriage and the following makes that tough. Pump out a couple of kids and buy a house then see how tough it gets then... Besides, you're a man. We do tough stuff every fucking day. Stand up for yourself like you never could before. You're the only only that's going to protect yourself. She's isn't fit for an LTR with you and you're setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery. You're pussyfooting around but you know you need to leave. Do that. Dig the fuck and stand up for yourself and insi…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 02:07 PM
1

Please take this as constructive criticism and not abuse. You appear to have a problem with reality. It sounds like you’re more comfortable making up stories in your head about the way the world work instead of relying on facts and logic. Are you able to get yourself into therapy? Find someone you trust and spill your inner thoughts to them.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:33 PM
6

The contacts are just a way to peacock which give the females a reason to talk to you. If you were a fat man baby with contacts, you wouldn’t be getting attention. Peacocking can be fun but it’s kind of an attention seeking behavior.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:27 PM
7

You have to ask him what he really wants. We're not mind readers and neither are you. It sounds like he wants you fuck his friend in front of him and probably use you at the same time. Can't really say why he likes the idea. Some guys get off on being cucked. Some like the ability to order you and use you. Some just want to see how horny you get. You do need to be a little careful here. While he may think he wants this, it's a very real possibility that once it happens, he may crack.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:58 PM
3

Jesus... it's just a question. How can such a little break you guys? Answer her whatever you want to answer and don't be afraid of what it is. Do what the fuck you want to do and if she wants to join, then fine. If not, so what? Never do shit for pussy. You WILL be sorry.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:53 PM
1

Make sense. Be careful you don't sign up for a lifetime of this shit.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:43 PM
7

Fucking go. Don't worry about hooking up with anyone. Be awesome. Have some fucking fun. Show them a good time. Make them glad they are around you. Use them to game other girls.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:19 PM
1

The term for this is "hatfishing".
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:17 PM
1

See if you can friend your way into her pants. Just kidding. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:17 PM
2

Congratulations. You're about to learn a valuable lesson. She likes you. You like her. BUT SHE'S NOT AN APPROPRIATE PARTNER FOR YOU! It's not your fault. It's not hers. It just is. Be nice but move on and learn from it. It sounds like she's being totally honest. Just accept it and protect yourself from broken people.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:15 PM
4

14-21? Are you kidding? She's been offer so many dicks in those days that she doesn't recall yours.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:49 PM
7

Ditch the hat. Shave your head. Lift.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:10 PM
10

“I’ll have to get back to you in that” What about that requires any response? That's a big, giant NO. Why would you continue to interact with her for any reason?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:14 PM
2

She's giving him attention because you're not committing to her. What do you expect? She's not dreading you. She doesn't give a fuck what you think. She's lining up another dick because she can see that you're not hooked.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 05:29 PM
1

You are your own moral center. It's OK if it's OK with YOU. Be sure to use protection! Of course, that won't help you with herpes.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:18 PM
2

I see your point but the really, really important thing is that he stood up for himself, and like you said, he learned something from this. That really should give him great comfort because that's going to make his life easier from now on.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:16 PM
2

I don't think you're done anything wrong here. While it might have been better to not respond, you did. So what? Your response about her cheating was spot on. It sounds like it was exactly like how you felt. She was contacting you to make her self feel better and not out of any real concern for you. If she had cared about you, she wouldn't have cheated. You did fine. Next time, just ignore but no need to worry about what you did. You're fine, kid. Actually, you stood up for yourself and I'm prou…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:47 PM
2

Cheating isn't the answer. It's an accommodation for her dysfunction. That's no way to go through life. As tough as this is to hear, BirdManBrrrr is exactly right. You fucked up now you have to fix it.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 02:45 PM
1

The closer you get to someone, the closer you get to their dysfunction. Unless, you have a frame of iron, get the fuck outnow.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:57 PM
2

Cognitive Behavior Therapy is a highly effective form of therapy for panic and usually requires between 10 and 20 sessions. A concept from Zen Buddhism called Radical Acceptance is one of the most helpful skills that client may learns as part of the treatment. Marsha Linehan developed a type of CBT called Dialectical Behavior Therapy. One of the skills she developed is called Radical Acceptance. Many other cognitive therapists have also talked about acceptance as a skill. https://cbtdenver.com/u…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:16 PM
2

Enjoy having sex twice a year.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:14 PM
5

Yes and you know it does. Whack off without porn if you need relief well deprogramming your brain.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:13 PM
2

Sorry about that. I fixed it so it. Yea, I've struggled with emotions all my life and let them get the better of me. No, I'm practicing something called Radical Acceptance and that's been helping me. These things happen and we move on. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:06 PM
6

It's crushing me. No, it's not. You're not being crushed. You're emotional and emotions ARE NOT REAL. You have the ability to control your emotions. Look, this is the game you're playing. If you're going to treat them like plates, they are going to act like plates. You're already asking if you want to continue this way. That's a good question to ask yourself.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:41 PM
3

Respond with details on when to meet.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:37 PM
2

Everywhere you are. RP isn’t a license to be a prick. It just means that you are true to yourself and do what you actually want to do.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:36 PM
7

A little trip isn’t going to fix what’s wrong with you.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:35 PM
1

Why is water wet?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:35 PM
0

She’s got to feel like she can trust you with her pussy, right? Introverted makes me think she’s cautious with it now. As far as her past, don’t get hung up on it. You don’t know what happened and you might have done the same thing given the chance. If her past bothers you, don’t engage.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Give them comfort. Fuck them. Promote them or not based on behavior. Don't shame her about her past. Let her tell you what she likes and use that to open her up and bring out her slut.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 08:09 PM
1

Honestly, who's dumber here, the female or the sugar daddy?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:59 PM
3

True. I guess I should have said something like start by leaning how to bang any women then figure out how to narrow your search. OP doesn't seem ready to close with any women, much less older ones that are going to have specific issues he'll have to overcome.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:57 PM
2

------->sidebar. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. There are not short cuts.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:55 PM
8

Start by banging women your age then move up.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:50 PM
1

I won't say anything if you don't.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:22 PM
0

You move on by moving on. Find other things to do. You can't change the past but you can learn from it. Think about what you might have done differently then drop it. Game other women. Get on with your life. It's a choice to get hung up on something that could have been.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:00 PM
2

Bingo. Shits tests are about you. Comfort tests are about her.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:34 AM
1

Never tried it but was once offered it by a smoking blonde. At the time, it sounded pretty fucking attractive.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 11:27 PM
14

Figure it the fuck out. We can't do everything. She obviously got drunk somewhere with her friends. DO THAT!
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:26 PM
1

https://www.nationalreview.com/2018/02/nancy-maclean-libertarians-seem-autism-spectrum/
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:31 PM
0

Child
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:10 PM
3

You sound jealous.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 12:08 PM
1

Start fucking fat girls. The tend to have huge pussies.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:07 PM
2

Did a little more googling and seems you're right. Bell's Palsy is related to that kind of herpes. I had Ramsey Hunt Syndrome and that's related to chicken pox not genital herpes.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:55 PM
2

OK. Let's see if we can clear up a few things about Herpes... Someone correct me, if I'm wrong. There are 9 types of herpes with about 5 of those being widespread. 2 of those HSV-1 and HSV-2. Those are the ones that cause cold sores and genital herpes. As far as I know, those don't result in facial paralysis. The type that causes facial paralysis is Herpes Zoster or shingles which is related to chicken pox.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:01 PM
2

I hear you about the butt stuff. My wife always maintained that her butt was an exit only. While I was curious about anal, I didn't push it at all. We joked about it for a year and eventually, in what I like to call "The Great Southern Advance of New Years 2007", the time was right and things fell into place. Now, anal is a naughty treat that we reserve for special occasions. I'm sure if I had been pushy about it, it would have never happened. I think it's safe to say that neither sex wants some…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:42 PM
2

I have to agree with you. She probably blew the ex but it was a bad experience for her and doesn't want to repeat it. As people grow older they learn to enforce their boundaries better. She might have blown the previous boyfriend even though she didn't like because she might have felt she didn't have any other choice. Now that's she's a bit older and wiser, she doesn't want to blow OP because he's being needy, childish and demanding. Seriously, trying to force someone to do something they don't …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:26 PM
17

SHE DOESN'T LIKE GIVING BLOW JOBS AND SHE NEVER WILL. Either you get comfortable with that or you move on.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:32 PM
7

Sounds like she knows that would hurt you. Agree and amplify or ignore.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 10:18 AM
10

You keep saying you don’t care but clearly you do because you’re on here whining about sending hearts.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:59 PM
1

Have to admit and be comfortable with who you are.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 02:31 PM
10

You’re in her orbit. You have no chance of turning this into a relationship. Move on. Find others.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:48 AM
5

Lift eat right
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:12 AM
1

You’re making up stories. Girls need some to get drugs from. That’s going to be a dude. Beta drug dealer dudes give girls free drugs in hope of free pussy.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:12 AM
3

Seriously... you actually posted on the Internet for that...
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:39 PM
5

Girls stare when they like something or they see a freak show
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:37 PM
4

If you blow him, he’ll stop being mean to you.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:36 PM
2

You’re working too much about it. Act like it didn’t happen and carry on being awesome. Don’t play games with her. If she comes back she comes back. If not, move on. No reason to get emotional.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:27 PM
13

Too young for you. Don’t.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:18 PM
1

It only changes if you make it change. You're not a child or victim. You're already said you've made some progress but now you're whining that it's too hard. It is too hard... for some people. Are you one of those people? I don't think so. If your changes are working then double down and make what you what to happen happen.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:24 PM
2

One thing I learned to do is stay calm no matter what. That's not an easy thing and it's taken my fucking years to get there but, once I was able to hold myself together emotionally when things got rough, the more my wife mimicked my behavior. Granted, my wife isn't really crazy, just can get emotional overwhelmed at times where she either shuts down entirely or snaps into an emotional frenzy. I've somewhat dating someone that was really and honestly and truly crazy and that... that... is a horr…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:01 PM
57

"It makes me feel like shit" "It's hard to think that I'll never be good enough for you" "Today I feel shit and unwanted" The rule is when she talks about you... "You fucked up" "You shouldn't do X", "You're a pussy"... Those are shit tests. If she talks about herself... "It makes me feel like shit" "It's hard to think that I'll never be good enough for you" "Today I feel shit and unwanted" Those are comfort tests. Those are comfort tests and you failed them. Just like you want to be able to pas…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:54 PM
5

She sought you out for attention. When she didn't get what she wanted, she started a scene until she got what she wanted. She got called out by white night guy and felt like guilty so turned on the water works. At that point, her initial mission was compromised and she couldn't figure out how to navigate both you and the friend. Text her. Set up a private meeting at your place and bone her. Nothing else. Don't let her put you in orbit.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:21 PM
1

What exactly are you worried about? She already fucked and she's traveling to fuck you again. What's the problem?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:57 PM
2

You don't. Don't fucking dig. Let her tell you what she wants. If she tells you something, don't freak out. Just show her that you can shoulder it and that it's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:44 PM
7

That means there is shit in her past that she feels you would reject her for... and she's probably right.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:01 PM
16

wont reveal anything about her past That is the biggest red flag you could ever have.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:01 PM
1

Ask him.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:59 PM
10

She's not trying to make you jealous. She doesn't give a fuck if you do get jealous because she'll drop you fast and just promote an orbiter in you place so fast you won't know what hit you. She's telling you this to see if you're strong enough to take it. If you're not, she'll find another the same fucking day. She has the kind of abundance that most men will never know. Either you get comfortable with that or you move on. The inability to be friends with women is a big red flag.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:57 PM
0

I'm sure your words will comfort him while he serves his time.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:22 PM
7

5 days? Ha.. Well, I guess your problems are over, Captain Alpha.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 05:12 PM
12

Oh jesus... You're really overthinking this. Don't ever fucking use the word "normie" again. You just listed all the ways things could go wrong. Stop that. Talk to the girls. Just fucking talk... doesn't matter if they are with ugly friends. Talk to them to. Game them all. You sounds like you're planning some sort of attack. Use the time you do have with them to have fun with them. Suggest meeting outside of school even if it means the ugly one comes to. "Hey, you're funny. We should do somethin…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:43 PM
37

It's school. Don't worry about the "Don't shit where you eat" rule. You have dick problems. You need to own up to those and face them. Stop with the alcohol. Stop with the porn. Forget what the first GF said. Maybe you were a bad kisser or maybe just a bad kisser for her or maybe she was just being mean. Doesn't matter. Let it go. Don't worry about what they think about your sexual experience. You're a kid. You're fine. Game them all. Isolate and escalate. Have fun with them. Don't be a fucking …
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:07 PM
12

You're 240 pounds. You're fat. There is no good kind of chubby. You were getting IOI's and you bailed because you didn't know what to do. Sidebar. Lift. Lose that weight. Spacing works for everybody else on reddit but you.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:40 PM
2

Actually, if you were looking for a way to create a "feminazis", you'd do this shit. Could you fucking blame a girl who's been through this for being upset about it?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:31 PM
1

I would give here some kind of choice... A) If you really don't want me to see you naked, I'll come back later or allow you to put on clothes. B) I always enjoy seeing naked females and if you're interested then please go ahead and show me more of your naked body. Now, the trick is to convey A & B above without using all those words. A gives her the option so she feels safe and B gives her an option to go wild and show you her titties if that's what she really wants. I will warn you that I serio…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:45 PM
6

This, right here, is a perfect example of sexual assault and what not to do, ever. He's going to delete it soon but, luckily, reddit remembers. I know RP is supposed to amoral but fuck... RP does not advocate crime.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:41 PM
11

Exhibit A in an upcoming rape trial
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:36 PM
6

Make fun of her for it and stop talking to her until she puts it down.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:34 PM
1

Don't forget to give her an invitation to show you more as well.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:33 PM
12

GUYS! Pay attention. This is gold right here. This post should be added to the sidebar. All you fuckers that scoff at the #Metoo movement and try to say that females make all this shit up, should pay attention to this. Here is a prime example of how some autistic spurgelord can read RP then use it as justification to abuse someone and have the nerve to think he's done an admirable thing. Do not be this guy! You are now the very real, legal definition of an abuser. I hope your LTR has the fucking…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:31 PM
2

While it's great that this guy cared enough about his image to put some effort into his clothing you have to remember that guys that are ripped look good in rags. The best shirt in the world won't make up for being a fat slob.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 12:40 PM
2

Holy shit... I couldn't read all that but I skimmed. NO, the daughter dentist wasn't screening you. You're not anywhere close to her SMV and she has zero interest in you besides you being a patient. You're basically in an untouchable class at the moment and you have no clue how to get out of that.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:29 PM
5

Really can't say here. She might just be comfortable in t-shirt and panties. She may be letting you in because she feels like she has no option but to allow for the inspection. While this might have happened before and she didn't have clothes handy, she might be someone that doesn't plan. From just what you've written here, I wouldn't in anyway think it was an invitation for sex. I don't think it was a shit test. Nothing here suggests to me she was trying to gauge your fitness as a mate. It's po…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:21 PM
3

If it bugs you, it bugs you. Unless you think you can get past it, I would consider it a red flag for you not her. DO NOT LTR A FEMALE WITH SOMETHING THAT BUGS YOU.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:17 AM
8

Sorry, babe... I don't date whores.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:38 PM
2

As my doctor said when he saw me after I unexpectedly went deaf... you, my friend, have a problem. Get to a therapist. Stop making excuses. Make an appointment and keep it. When you're there, spill your fucking guts. Get it all out of your head. If you can't get one through school, get one through your parents health insurance. Figure out something. You're not helpless and you're not a victim here. This is yours to fix. OK. I'm going to try and help you out because I have suffered from the very …
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:34 PM
1

Read some guides. Have her read up on it. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6676/anal-sex-beginners-guide/ https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/anal-sex-101 http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1055901/tips-tricks-enjoy-anal-sex https://sluttygirlproblems.com/guide/the-slutty-girls-guide-to-pleasurable-anal-sex/ https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7bk9az/guide-anal-sex-102-guides https://www.teenvogue.com/story/anal-sex-what-you-need-to-know
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:04 PM
14

It's defense mechanism. When a female feels threatened, her vagina will dry up and the blood rushing to her head will cause her scalp to tingle. Running a hand over her scalp can help relieve some of the muscle tension and possibly prevent the oncoming, uncontrolled vomiting.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:59 PM
4

"I've just hoped off the Cock Carousel and realize I need to lock down a provider before it's too late. Don't you dare think you're getting any of this pussy without demonstrating commitment." Pretty sure my response would have been either "Good luck!" or "k".
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:20 PM
2

They paid well and gave me lots of responsibility. I worked with a lot of smart people and enjoyed the prestige that comes from working for a company that everyone on the planet knows and most use. They had a great organization. Managers were actually trained. Benefits were great. Bonuses all the time. You could move up if you did more work. Pay bands were based on jobs. You knew pretty much what everyone was making and what you could make. Advancement was based on your ability and skin color or…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:12 PM
2

Been there... done that... I'm in my second year of therapy and getting so, so much better. Is there any possibility for you to speak to a therapist?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:05 PM
2

I used to have this thing where I would look for any sort of bad response from people and fucking fret over it until I was emotionally crippled. I totally get what you're saying and from what you've written, it sounds to me like you're inventing and inviting a lot of this "disrespect". You need to calm yourself down and tell yourself you're going to be OK. Unless someone is swinging their firsts within 3 feet of you, you're OK! Calm yourself. If someone says shit to you, it doesn't mean it's tru…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:21 PM
1

I've worked in start ups and one Fortune 500. Go with offer 2 unless there some huge downside.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:16 PM
4

Dude! It's going to be OK. You'll recover and get to lifting soon. Don't be in a rush to lift and hurt yourself worse. Now, the trick is to not beat yourself up over this conversation with her. If she's been decent to you, and it sounds like she has, then don't let it get to you. You brought up a subject and it went somewhere you weren't comfortable with. Big deal. It didn't ruin anything with her. I will suggest that the more comfortable you get with talking with her about sex, the better sex y…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:05 PM
27

Jesus... could you be more sensitive? You brought it up and she told you it would hurt her feelings. She suggested a dude because that's what she likes. That's not a fucking crime. You didn't like it because it would hurt your feelings. Why couldn't you just say that? You're all proud of dancing around it using "AMUSED MASTERY"TM but that's just another way of saying you were too much of pussy to say what you were actually thinking. I don't see that as any reason not to promote her. She's not cu…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:19 PM
13

Tell her to come over then take your shirt off and show her your fucking tattoo. How hard is that?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:57 PM
5

+1 for autismo
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:55 PM
2

Send text or leave voice mail. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:08 AM
5

Isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:04 PM
1

First of all, son... it's too not to. Have a little respect for your readers. Wait... how did she cry wolf if you were actually getting aggressive and handsy? She sounds like she had good reason to be afraid for her safety. Don't think for a moment, you can minimize it with "It wasn't that bad". It was. You were a thirsty, needy little shit and you made someone afraid for their own safety. Fuck you for trying to make it seem like it's her fault. Stop drinking until you get your shit together wit…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:56 PM
1

I just bought some of these. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015322NR2/ref=od_aui_detailpages00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Of course, you have to have the right kind of shoes for these things but I've always wanted to buy cowboy boots. I'll let you know how a 6'5 guy makes out in the bars.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:45 PM
1

HA! That's exactly what I did too!
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:42 PM
1

Here's a good article. https://www.esquire.com/style/mens-accessories/a22397/shoe-lifts-for-men-043013/ Don't forget to read some of the reviews. It's going to be like walking high heels. I guess if you use these lifts in a pair of cowboy boots that add another 2", you'll be 6 feet tall. You going to look like you're walking around in Kiss boots.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:35 PM
2

Meh... try it and see what happens. Of course, you realize you'll just start an arms war. If 6' guys like me start losing out to you little guys with you fancy lifts, we'll just start wearing the SAME LIFTS WITH COWBOY BOOTS! I'm going to order some of these. https://www.amazon.com/Undercover-Fox-Height-Lifting-Inserts/dp/B003N2SJFK/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&m=A1B7M9EQGNCLQA&qid=1367005533&s=generic&sr=1-1
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:30 PM
3

Wear what is comfortable and what you feel good in. Those extra inches in your shoes won't fool anyone. The problem is in your mind.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:52 PM
5

All the really bad trouble I've ever gotten into in my life has been because of my weakness for large boobs.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:44 PM
1

Sounds like she's letting you know she's available. It's pretty rare that a female will outright proposition you. The thing to watch out for is when they make themselves available for you to initiate something. My guess here is that directly asking her for sex isn't going to fly at all. "Hey, you should suck my dick now." is going to set off her alarm. All you have to do is throw out the idea of doing something together. If she wants to, she'll bite. If she doesn't want to, she'll act like she d…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:13 PM
2

Look... we all have our challenges. It sounds like height is yours. You can either crawl under a rock and cry about it or you can find a way to adapt. Make sure you're in great shape and be insanely confident about what you really are. I know many women that simply will not entertain the idea of hooking up with a short man. That's life. Look for women your size. They exist. Game them.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:04 PM
2

We can't tell you everything because we don't have a clue about your particular. The #1 rule is be attractive whatever that means in you case. I'm guessing being ripped works pretty damn well in any of those countries. Women will be more comfortable talking to someone they don't know before hand if that person is attractive then if he's fat, unconfident beta. Use RP as a starting point and take what works for you and modify it based on your situation. You need to try things, evaluate how success…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:00 PM
8

I'm sure that made you feel studly but just remember, she's just soaking up your attention and has no intention of giving you anything back. She's using you for the validation and as something to dread her BF. You're not actually going to get to fuck her.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:54 PM
3

Move over chump. I'll fill that hole. Seriously, figure out what you want to do then do it. I try really hard no to do things I don't want to. If you're attracted to her and the sex will be fun then do it. If you're not attracted and having sex would be work, skip it. I've had sex with really unattractive women just to get my dick wet. It's not a good thing. If you're not attracted, have some self respect and skip it. That being said, there is something to be said to just fucking an easy one to …
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:31 PM
6

Those thoughts are holding you back but the only way to stop them is for you to come to terms with them. That stuff happened. You had some good times. You had some bad times. That's what happens when you play the love game. That's fucking life. You were good before and you're good after her. She's a blip in your life. She isn't your concern anymore. The only one you're hurting is yourself. The past can't hurt. The only reason to look back at it is to learn from it. Otherwise, move on. You have y…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:47 PM
2

Sad to say, he's probably right. When I was cheating, I was absolutely insane that my partner was even there was absolutely no signs whatsoever. Projection is very real. Sucks but call her on it. Just say, "Hmm... this seems like you're projecting. Is there anything you want to tell me?" and watch her fucking melt.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:48 PM
1

I went back to college when I was 23 for another degree. It was fucking wonderful. When I first went at 17, I was so fucking clueless. At 23, I knew pretty much what was going on. You’ll have a leg up on all the other younger kids. Most people won’t notice that you’re older all that much. Fuck them if they give you shit. I made a point to get all my shit down by 5PM everyday if I could. I worked like a monster on my studies. Once the work was done, I could play. I got more out of college courses…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:58 PM
1

Your friendship with this dude is over the moment you both fuck her. She’ll use that pussy to drive a wedge between you two. No pussy is worth that. Tell her to get out.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:41 PM
5

The last problem you’ll have in the US is dealing with women. You’ll be invisible.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:20 PM
9

Not your circus. Not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:46 PM
0

YES! Let it be the start of a new you. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:23 AM
1

I don’t understand why.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:21 AM
3

All girls in bars are sluts if you’re chad enough.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:16 PM
1

Convict
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:30 PM
-3

Look... hot girls get a lot of attention. That's fucking life. You need to not be a pussy about. Take those compliments and turn them in your favor. That guy who said hi? Were you wearing your pink skirt? No wonder he said hi. When you were that skirt it really accents you wonderful ass. Show me that ass girl.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:42 PM
2

"hey how are you" "Good. Busy. O'Mally's Wednesday at 5. I need my bullet whisky."
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:39 PM
1

This one hurt to read. I think I have it bad... Jesus... Look... brother... it's going to be OK. Do what you need to do. Let her go. I know that hurts but do it for you. You're the only one that can take care of you now. You're kids will be fine. Yes, they will have issues because of the divorce. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. But when those issues come up... talk to them about it. Don't shit on your wife to the kids. That only hurts them. Be the best dad you can be and save yourself. Get …
/r/askMRP13/04/18 05:27 PM
1

THIS FUCKING GUY!
/r/askMRP13/04/18 05:24 PM
1

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say you could have offered some comfort... BABY... Of course, you don't have that kind of time. No one does. I don't know how you find the strength to be such a good mother to these wonderful kids we have together and still look so damn hot. You're an impressive person and I'm glad we're together creating a life we both want. My wife needs encouragement sometimes when she's feeling rough...
/r/askMRP13/04/18 05:22 PM
3

Make it look like an accident then marry a 23 year old. Seriously... fucker... if drinking causes her physical problems, why the fuck do you want her to continue to do that? Would you ask you mom to do the same thing? Fuck you. You need to figure out how to create the same emotional state in her without alcohol. Yes, that's a tall order but you're a fucking man, right? Figure out how to do it then DO IT.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 05:14 PM
3

Older women do this because they can and their husbands let them. You need to read the Red Pill and Married Red Pill sidebar for more information. It's all there.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:35 PM
3

Lift. Do exactly what I want to do. Break up with girls as soon as I notice that it's not working. There is always another girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:52 PM
5

I don't see what the problem is. Tell her exactly what you've told us. You're not interested in more and you totally understand how she feels. You're second response works. My objective here is to cause her the least amount of pain. You can't control how she feels. That's not your problem. Be honest with her. Move on and let her do her thing.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:45 PM
1

Does lying about who you really are seem like a fun way to live your life?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:42 PM
2

You just need to be realistic. It was fun while it lasted but it's over. Move on and get busy in your life or stayed trapped in what was. Either that or figure out what it takes to be with and go do it.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:41 PM
16

First... you haven't fucked up anything... even if you have, so what? Be fun. Be playful. Do what you want. If you want to text her, do it.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:21 PM
20

Both. She let you know she has a boyfriend to clue you in that meeting you again might be logistically complicated. She gave you her number which means she's interested. Without knowing anything about the situation, the one with BF would be easier to setup a private meeting to bone. The one without a BF might be interested but willing to take her time.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:40 PM
1

You the fucking answer. Staying in a job you don't like for the money is soul crushing. Find what you love and find a way to do it. Keep in mind, leaving a job that pays the bills and doing stupid shit like not having a safety net and becoming a problem for someone else isn't he way to go either. Figure out what you want to and make the move. I've stayed in horrible jobs just for the money and I won't do it again. You're not a victim. Get out there and find what you love.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:06 PM
3

Once she has a line on new, readily available dick, she's gone.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:24 PM
1

Isolate and escalate. If she is female, there will be drama at some point. Do it and see how it works out. Remember, she could be looking for attention. If she's really interested, she'll jump at the chance to get with you. If she doesn't bite or acts insulted but wants to keep talking to you, she's just looking for the free attention.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:10 PM
1

Did you clean it to get the threesome?
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:41 PM
9

I once had a threesome because I cleaned up this girl's car... said no man ever.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 08:50 PM
28

You either fuck the hell out of her or you send me her number so I can pound that pussy all night long.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:33 PM
5

It's a way to touch you.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:06 PM
1

"I love when you unzip my fly with your teeth."
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:56 PM
7

"K"
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:56 PM
1

Why isn't she blocked?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:54 PM
3

Nobody gives a fuck what you think.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:57 PM
4

As fnordsnord says, quit "gaming" by text. It's bullshit. Set up meets or cold approach and game in person. Game her friend and, if that doens't work. move on and game other one. They aren't special.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:17 PM
1

OK. You might want to sit down for this big guy. You're a fucking moron. You knowledge of STD's seems limited and you seem to be actively ignoring the safe practices you do know. You're playing with fire and you need to be an adult and take care of yourself. N-count doesn't matter AT all. All it takes is for a female partner to have one bad dick/vj and you're infected. You that long relationships don't mean shit. She could have cheated. Her previous partner could have cheated. She could be infec…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:13 PM
1

No. So what? Do your thing. Stop caring about what other people think about you.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:05 PM
4

Fire thrusters to enter your decent phase. You need to escape her orbit. Ghost. Move on. If she were interested, she would have found a way. Anything less and you're just feeding her validation monster.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:03 PM
2

"I plan on having fun. You seem like someone who would like that."
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:01 PM
1

Months?! You asked. She declined. She'll let you orbit but nothing else. Move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:00 PM
1

I'm 54 years old and bald but in shape. When I go out, I make shit happen.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:09 PM
2

That's great and all but don't use other people for validation. You were a man when she kissed and you were that same fucking man before she did.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:54 PM
3

Who cares why she didn't follow though? There could be a million reasons that have nothing to do with you. Forgot her. Move on. Put on a tight t-shirt and go for a fucking walk. Slay girls that run up to you.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:53 PM
9

Bingo. OP is wasting time in fantasy land instead of accepting what is. She doesn't want you. So what? Some other women will. Move on. Work on yourself. Live your life. Don't let something so trivial crush you. You're stronger than that.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:57 PM
4

You admit your weakness and move on. That's what we do. We're men and we are fucking stronger than anyone when you test us. It's over. That's the reality. It sucks but you're going to be OK. You know why? Because you're a guy and you're fucking tough, that's why. When other people crumble, you fucking dust yourself off and you get up and you get busy and do your shit. That's why. You're not weak and you're not a victim. You had a thing with a crazy girl. It was fun and great and all that an now …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:43 PM
10

I'm going to go against the grain here... Hang on... I fucking love quiz night. Being a baby isn't attractive. I would have gone to quiz night and rocked it. If she were busy hanging with her friend, I would have made friends with anyone else that was there. I fucking rock wherever I go and some people can see that. I just be myself and people want to join me. Gay friend doesn't faze me. I've had some absolutely wonderful friends in my life who were gay. SO? You missed out on fun because baby wa…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:33 PM
2

You're afraid to look foolish in front of attractive women. It's hard to be yourself when you're afraid. Are redhawkes said, you need to be outcome independent. Practice this all the time and you'll get better at it.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:22 PM
2

Isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 07:45 PM
3

Guys turn themselves into orbiters by hoping to friendship their way into pussy.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 07:33 PM
5

You’re using it a as a crutch and lying about it is hiding who you are. Weed makes everything ok even things that shouldn’t be.
/r/askMRP08/04/18 07:32 PM
0

Such a poor little victim you are...
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:20 PM
11

You’re paying for her one way another. No way around that now. You can stay and pay for her and live in absolute misery or you can reclaim your life, send her packing and still pay. I know it’s hard to wrap your head around this but you got fucked. Don’t roll over and let it continue.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:55 AM
1

Desperate Dancing monkey tactic
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:43 AM
26

He’s not your problem. You’re using him to avoid what you really need to do. He didn’t marry you. He fucked your wife because she let him. Your beef is with your wife. You need to get over your fear of what divorce will do to you and your children. Your wife ducked that up already. There is no way for you to stay in this relationship. What does that teach your kids? Go see a lawyer. Run the numbers and face up to what you have to do for you and your kids. Divorce her.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:37 AM
1

Well, since they aren't perfect, should they do nothing?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:39 PM
7

You still seem like you're having trouble forming a basic question. I'm guessing home schooled with side slice of autism. You probably never learned to socialize as a group. Let's see if you can figure out what the fuck you're trying to say through all your I'm such a good boy why am I a victim talk. You don't like to socialize but you have to. The real fucking answer is no you don't have to. Stop doing it. Don't do shit you don't want to do. Do as little as you can and go home and be by yoursel…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:38 PM
4

Nah... the UN has all kinds of bullshit events where people drone on and on about shit no one cares about. Don't take that as a total knock against the UN. The do lots of good work. It's just they also do a fair amount of community and outreach work and some of that ends up being participation trophy level stuff.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:26 PM
9

You haven’t said anything about what you want.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 11:29 AM
1

Your plates are not below your SMV. There reflect your SMV accurately. Somethings come easily to girls because of having a pussy. Some things come ever easier to attractive women with a pussy. That's life. Get over it.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:18 PM
1

Jesus dude... she's in a boring job and talking with the only other person there. She's talking about it because that's all the happened in her day. You just sound really insecure.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:05 PM
1

Honestly, it might click for him in time or it may never. That's not your problem. When you realize he's lost cause, I'd be more than willing to call you on your bratty behavior and put you in your place. I'm pretty skeptical that you give the "best" head but I'm willing see what you can do.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:10 PM
1

I thought this was going to be about how two plates of yours were starting to fall in love with each other. I'm disappointed.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:49 PM
3

Agreed. I actually used to read alt.speed.seduction back in the day and even bought a full course of Ross Jeffries tapes. Even actually had a little success using some of the techniques. I found that I used it to turn myself into a dancing monkey so it wasn't ultimately satisfying.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:12 PM
7

I believe alt.seduction.fast might be regarded at the beginning of the PUA movement and such the beginning of RP. PUA was really focused on tricks and routines and such and didn't really concern itself with truly improving yourself. http://www.pualingo.com/altseductionfast-asf/
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:08 PM
1

I'm guessing it won't make a difference.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:52 PM
1

The first thing to do is lean on friends and family for support. They'll help if you ask. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about this. The next thing to do is get yourself educated about you condition and figure how best to cope and mitigate it. If partying is making it worse, cut it out. I'm not exactly sure I'd be worried about my SMV right now. Figure out how to best live your life first.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:07 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:46 PM
2

My life is too short to lie and sneak around. If I want to fuck strange, I cut my wife loose.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 02:41 PM
1

Every second you waste thinking about her is a second you could be using to move on. Do that. Don't look back. Learn from it.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:04 PM
2

Knock that shot right off. Unless you have evidence to believe she’s seeing someone else don’t start inventing ghosts. Her pussy size has nothing to do with having sex previously or with bigger guys. Nada nothing zilch... Let go of the virgin thing. You’re stronger than that.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:37 PM
1

Has nothing to do with if she was new to sex or not. Sometimes pussies are just fucking huge. If it bothers you, move on and fine one the right size. Otherwise, you can change her size. Learn to enjoy it and fill it with fun things. How is doggy style?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:46 PM
1

Lost weight, added muscle, grew beard and got lasik. All the other stuff you mentioned besides lifting is just fantasy.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:43 PM
2

Yup. Pussies and butts come in all kinds of sizes. Some girls can only take a finger. Some can take a hand. I think it’s related to overall size but I have seen the case where a big woman had a tiny vejay and a petit girl could take 4 fingers and a thumb once turned on. My college gf had a big pussy. I thought I was just tiny until I slept with other girls.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:34 PM
1

You need to let go of the idea that there is some magic short cut. You need to get your diet in order and hit the gym. That’s the only way.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:17 AM
10

Weed... waste of time Also, wished I had eaten right and gotten ripped and learned how to next a female once they become difficult.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:09 PM
21

I can’t get laid right now. I have a nonexistent SMV. What do I do? You go into monk mode, eat and lift like your life depended on it.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:36 PM
9

Ripped
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:25 PM
26

You're not dating ugly girls. You're dating girls with SMV similar to yours. Get experience and improve yourself and once your SMV increases, you'll start pulling girls with higher SMV. It's a process. You can't start at the top. The whole idea of using someone as a pawn is a bit fucked up. Work on having an awesome life. If that attracts females that don't conflict with it, so be it.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:30 PM
1

Oh, please... You fucked a HB3 because that's where your SMV is. Think of each girl as practice. Start at the lowest you can pull and work your wait up. I've had some real fun with fat girls because they are eager to please. I've been with attractive girls that think all they have to do it lay there. You made progress. You got out of your fucking basement. Now get to the gym.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:51 PM
-1

Broken people attract broken people. You're doing this to yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:39 PM
2

Flight attendant Those are ONLY good for short term plating, ever. Do not promote or wife up a flight attendant. At work, their SMV is 10+ and they are literally offered dick every few seconds. When you combine the outgoing nature required for the job, it's a perfect storm for the CC. The only upside here is that she could be a perfect plate as long as you don't mind 2-5 other guys nutting her every week. Get tested.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:35 PM
3

even though i'm right most of the time and about most things I think I see the problem.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:22 PM
3

Tell her you know and fuck the hell out of her.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 01:21 PM
14

NO! Don't fap. Save it up. Blow it in her mouth first. Wait a few minutes then fuck her. Make sure she cums last otherwise she'll lose interest quickly.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:50 PM
2

I would consider being her friend if she agreed to wing for me. Hot girls have hot friends.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:49 PM
1

Do you worry about STD's at all?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:29 PM
28

Wait... so you have real problems and all you're worried about is your LTR leaves you? You should be so lucky. You were fine before she showed up and you'll be fine when she moves on.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:21 PM
6

You need to know what kind of "infection".
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:17 PM
1

Look at facial aesthetics You can't. Looks are a package. They don't start at your neck. Yes, one face can be more attractive than another but your face looks like the rest of you. Do everything you can to make the most of what you have. If you're fat man baby at 25% body fat, you face looks exactly like a fat man baby. Now, if fat man baby puts the actual work in at the gym and build muscle and gets down to 12% body fat, his body AND his face is going to look a whole lot better and girls will n…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:32 PM
1

I’m terrible with is ending things though. Never have gotten good at it I suck at ending things. Getting out of anything going on longer than a month is a shit storm for me to deal with. It sounds like you're afraid of emotional situations. You know what you want to do but dread having to tell her because of how uncomfortable it will make you feel. You say you're not good at it but the only way to get good at anything is to practice it over and over again until you get it right. Emotions are jus…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:06 PM
2

THIS RIGHT HERE.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:46 PM
2

No. No one is going to hold your hand. Read the side bar. Make changes in your life and see how those work for you. Post questions here when you have them. Do the work for yourself and figure out how you want to live your life then figure out how to to do that. Doing anything to show "that bitch" anything is more of you still being a "beta bitch". All that anger you have for her is misdirected. The problem was, and still is, you.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:14 PM
3

If you have any doubts at all about condoms, GET NEW ONES YOU TRUST!
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:56 AM
12

Pee on him.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:42 PM
8

Excessive flapping when used as a coping mechanism or an unchecked addiction can really limit your success in life. Not fapping won't give you super powers but it will help you engage with your REAL life as apposed to your fantasy life.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:11 PM
2

Do it. Report back. Get tested.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:09 PM
2

rather cut my balls off than someone think of me... That's your problem right there. You are your own moral compass. Do what you want to do and stop caring what other people think.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:42 PM
3

Not your circus.Not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:50 PM
13

https://www.additudemag.com/screener-autism-spectrum-disorder-symptoms-test-adults/
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:49 PM
2

Green flag for me
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:14 AM
1

Yes. Use punctuation.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:05 PM
52

Do NOT live like you're rich. I've seen people piss away great sums of money so fast, it's hard to believe. I saw a 26 year old female waste $600K inheritance in about a year and a half. I've personally blasted a $250K in about 2 years before I got wise. It's easy to see each little purchase as no big deal but they add up fast. Get educated about investing. Head over to r/personalfinance/. Be careful about hiring personal finance people. Those fucks will rip you off blind. A place like Morgan St…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:04 PM
5

Cheating girls can be lots of fun if you have the frame for it.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:30 PM
13

Yea, I've read it. Some stuff makes sense. Some stuff is stupid. I read a lot of things. I'll read what I like.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:28 PM
5

If a girl flirts and don't reciprocate when you escalates, she probably is just an attention whore. She has no intention of getting with you but likes the attention. Once you determine that's the case, stop giving her attention.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:30 PM
13

Hot women dress provocatively. Who wants to be with a girl that dresses like a frump? Sure guys will look but she's with you. Watch her actions.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:56 PM
3

Bullshit... I used to be bald and fat. I'm still bald but lost 50lbs, eat right, run and lift. I look a whole lot better than I did. I used to walk around and smile at girls trying to get their attention. That didn't really work well because I was sad, weak, confident loser. At some point after reading RP, I stopped looking for external validation and didn't keep doing that. Once I took care of myself by working out and dressing better, I noticed that women smile at me now even before I even not…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:20 PM
6

coworker What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 06:55 PM
2

Yes, come over to x on y so we can fuck.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:20 PM
1

Sounds like she allows it to keep you in her orbit. Isolate, escalate and next if unsuccessful.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:23 PM
2

3 unique dicks per hole per semester is the U.S. standard.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:15 PM
25

First step is to stop the victim talk and realize you let all that shit happen you. You’re not a victim. Stop acting like one.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:20 PM
1

She just wants your attention. Just keep being you and stick to your rule about not shitting where you eat. Who knows what she wants and who care. Just do you.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:25 PM
1

SHORT SEXY DRESS WITH NO PANTIES.... She's dressing for you. Let her.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:59 PM
9

Women will be attracted to their best option at the moment. You don't have to be much except better than the other males around you.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:53 PM
1

Yea... petite women rock!
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:34 PM
2

9 Solid progress. Nice work on not being needy and knowing to take it forward but slowly. Congrats on the facial! Remember to keep that sort of thing up now that you've established it.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:32 PM
6

You know she can be a carrier without symptoms, right? I would suggest not having any sexual contact with her before you get to your G.P. and get tested. You need to be dealing with facts. I understand you've studied this so you probably have a good idea what's going on but you also have to understand that it's easy for you to get emotional and lose perspective on this. Get medical attention. As far as nexting her, that's your call. Is it possible you caught it from somewhere else besides her an…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:43 PM
3

Get tested.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:18 AM
3

Do it today. You can order it online anonymously and have blood draw at a local walk in clinic. It will cost about $200 but you'll have results in a few days. You probably have herpes at least.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:26 PM
4

Get tested.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:17 PM
21

If you're interested in him, you should isolate and escalate. Otherwise... who fucking cares about him? Doesn't matter. It's your turn now. Enjoy. You can't do anything about the past so why even bother to think about it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:06 PM
3

Hard next
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:37 PM
7

Why in the fuck isn't she blocked? She's a waste of time. Block her and move on. Sticking your dick in her is a bad move.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:42 PM
1

I understand that but one of the steps of MRP is getting the wife used to talking about sex.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:55 PM
3

I would carry on like nothing is wrong. She blew you which means she's fine.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:36 PM
2

Find another word if slut doesn't work for her. Try "Sex Kitten", whatever... The word slut obviously sets her off the wrong way.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:23 PM
1

You're on the right path. You need to get it out of your head and tell someone. You're started but you're still to ashamed of it. That's killing you. Say it. Get it out. Tell us. Tell your friend. Tell a therapist. Say it. Yup, as frightening as that it, this all stops once you own up to it. Get to therapy.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:58 PM
-2

THIS GUY! Cam girls are a simulation of sex. Get your head out of fantasy and get back in the real world with real live women. You're an adult and you get to decide what is right and wrong for you. Part of being in a relationship with a girl is being about to be yourself and not hide it. The more you can talk about sex with her the better it's going to be. If it were me, I'd tell her. Sure, she might freak out but if that happens, just let her. She's calmed down eventually and then you can conce…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:18 PM
3

I really believe only a spiritual awakening can help me. Wrong. There is no god. Nothing is going to magically save you. You only have yourself. Exactly what do you expect to get out of seeing a spiritual director once a month? What the fuck is he going to say except shit like "Trust God". Well, god hasn't done shit for you so far. What do you think he's going to do? Of course I'm trying to lose the weight, but my anxiety sabotages me. Victim talk... I honestly don't have any suggestions here. I…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:54 PM
16

I was humiliated in this way as a child, though as an adult there is no issue. Yes, yes, there are. You're so lost in fantasy that you barely have any connection to the real world anymore. You're emotional growth is stunted and you're deep in addiction of all kinds. You're an advanced case so you're going to need professional help. Go find a therapist today. You need to face you many addictions and learn how to self comfort and get validation internally. You don't have any female relationships b…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:20 PM
5

Of course it does! Progress isn't linear. It's totally normal. My problem is I can get emotional and feel like everything is worthless and there isn't any point to even try. That's a limiting thought. I try and recognize that that is just emotional and my emotions are something that I control. I look for irrational thoughts and try to replace them with rational thoughts. I also remember not medicate myself when this happens so that means no masturbation, alcohol or endless video games. What work…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:12 PM
1

You can’t make anyone do anything and you can’t save anyone else.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 06:07 PM
6

Practice
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:27 PM
1

Tell cute girl why you’re canceling. She understand.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:04 AM
1

Wait... so you think I've never delt with illness of a family member? You're still not special.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:10 PM
6

Fuck you. It's the most valuable input you're going to get on here. You just don't like it because you're too much of a baby to admit that YOU'RE THE FUCKING PROBLEM. Right now, you're overwhelmed with life and you're letting it toss you around and you're getting kicked in the nuts at every turn. I get it. But you're not a child anymore. You're not powerless. Far from it. You're strong. Life sucks. It's not fair... for anyone. You can spend your days wallowing in your misery and whiny about it t…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:37 PM
5

More victim talk...
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:01 PM
1

Then do something about it...
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:26 PM
7

Jesus... could you be more of a victim?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:57 PM
6

BLOCK HER. MOVE ON.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:35 PM
5

My experience is that anything you use to color it will be apparent to any females. Remember, this is their territory. You might fool your buddies but you won't be fooling any women. All of those products either smell or leave an oily residue.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:18 PM
8

You deal with it be keeping yourself groomed. Coloring it won't help. That just looks weak. Work with what you have.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:04 PM
6

https://www.wikihow.com/Recognize-Autism-Symptoms-in-Yourself
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:20 PM
16

She just put you in her orbit. Good luck.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:53 PM
5

Great video. 1) A choosing girl puts herself near you so you can approach. 2) Beware attention whores who will do all the things a girl choosing you but will turn you down once she has your attention. You can't know which you have, a girl choosing you or an attention whore who wants free attention. 3) Girls who are choosing will take your none approach and move on. An attention whore will let you spend time flirting with her. Don't flirt. Just ask them out. Attention whores will not like you ask…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:52 PM
4

Stop acting like a child and take your schooling seriously. You should be studying you ass off. You should be getting A's and better. My rule when for my last 2 years of college is that I would work my ass off to be done everyday by 5. It didn't always work that way and I made damn sure the work was really done. Get up early, bust ass all day long like I mean and then when 5 hit, I could then asses if I could unwind. Only when things were rock solid, could I then socialize.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:41 PM
1

Broken attack broken.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:39 PM
1

I used to be afraid to say anything and anytime a female told me anything related to another guy, I would freak out. I don't roll that way anymore. I lay it all out in the very beginning and get them to do the same. I act like anything they tell me is no big deal. You be shocked by what you learn about women.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:38 PM
1

Calling females sluts like you do makes you sound like a loser neckbeard autist. Just saying...
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:50 PM
3

It depends who you are. I could do it. I don't think you could. Go and find out.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:29 PM
1

Stop with that. Look at your success!
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:27 PM
0

Tease her about how much she wants to fuck him then pull her panties down and fuck her. Stop mate guarding.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:20 PM
6

WAIT... You got your first success with a woman and you're freaking out because you didn't get all you wanted in the first go? You don't learn to walk the first time you try. You crawl first, trying standing up, then fall. THEN YOU DO IT AGAIN AND UNTIL YOU CAN RUN! The first thing to do with your emotions is to get them under control. They are yours and you have the ability to calm yourself, deal with what is bothering you and look at it rationally. Do that. You're not a child. You're ready for…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:17 PM
1

Remember to be true to yourself. Don't do shit you don't want to do just because you want access to sex. Be yourself and, if she likes that, she'll stick around. If not, she'll bolt. As far as romance goes, show are much as you want to. Personally, I like romance along with my sex. I also really like emotional intimacy along with physical intimacy. I've tried just having purely sexual relationships and that's not really satisfying to me.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:13 PM
0

No. Go away.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:47 AM
3

OVERTHINKING It is safe to operate a car while having or being a vagina. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:44 PM
1

BLOCKANDMOVEON
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:41 PM
1

Every second you spend with her is another second of your love wasted. Don't let your dick ruin your life. STOP FUCKING HER AND GET TESTED. You don't have upper hand here. You're nothing more than a toy.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:41 PM
6

I'd tell her straight up the next time you see her that you don't think you're sexually compatible. It's not her fault. It's not your fault. Wish her luck.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:03 PM
16

I was with a girl for the first time and she was stroking my cock and she told me she didn't swallow. I told her that was a deal breaker for me. She stopped and thought for a moment, then blew my and swallowed. She never complained again. You're problem is that you've already established that you're willing to have sex without her giving you head.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:47 PM
4

1) No 2) No 3) No MOVE ON. MOVE ON. MOVE ON. Tell her it's a deal break and MOVE ON then MOVE ON. Don't say I didn't fucking warning you when you're back here in 3 months.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:45 PM
3

9 & 10's get attention from everyone, day and night, male and female. They have to put up a protective shield just to get through the day. Also, many never have had to develop personalities because their looks open doors for them in ways normal or unattractive people can't even fathom. I don't think direct negging is going to get you very far but some level of showing that you're not in awe of their beauty will help. The only thing that I've ever used the worked before is to be totally indiffere…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:28 PM
24

Go with the flow. Enjoy it. Offer some comfort. DON'T FORGET TO REWARD THE BEHAVIOR IF YOU WANT HER TO DO IT AGAIN. Keep you mouth shut and don't tell the whole world. Smash again... and again... Remember, you need to set the tone at the start on how you want this to go. Lead her to somewhere fun with it.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:15 PM
8

Nope. Ugly chicks aren't really ugly. They are a reflection of your SMV. If that's what you can pull, then that's what your SMV is. My advise is pull what you can. As you get more and more practice and increase your SMV, you will be able to pull better females.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:48 PM
25

They are easier because your total SMV is much higher than theirs. They still shit test the hell out of guys with equal or lower SMV. The downsides that I see are those women tend not to be as polished and intelligent. Keep in mind they will also have some lower class habits you may not like. Also, you have to understand the impact her family will have on the relationship if you're considering LTR. She was be hot and all but her extended family can really mess up your life, if you let them.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:57 PM
1

Such a little victim, you are. All the mean people make you want to kill them all. Look what they've done to you. Oh, you poor little boy. You are in control of your emotional attachment. Don't let your emotions let you do something you don't want to. If her behavior bothers you, turn around and walk away. Protect yourself. No one else will. Here's my advice to you. Stop with the self harm talk. If you kill yourself, you take away your chance for things to get better, which they will. Also, once…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:16 PM
3

insecure pussy A girl said something nice about someone else and suddenly you fall apart. You need to dig into that jealous type of person thing, find it and fix it. It took me a year and half of therapy to fix mine. I was so weak that anything would set me off.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:55 PM
1

Look, mommy...I’m a big boy now. Don’t say shit about red pill.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:10 PM
1

Your SMV isn’t very high and they are the only ting you can get. You just tell yourself it’s the alcohol.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 11:13 AM
2

Do some work for yourself and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 11:10 AM
3

In his head, he’s fucking her.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:48 AM
3

Jealousy? Duck that. Pity the chump that signs up for that ride.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:47 AM
22

SHE’S NOT A PLATE IF YOU’RE NOT FUCKING HER.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 09:59 PM
1

I think this bitch is lying to me and I'm going get something out of her if it's the truth or not, bitch. It's clear you've been reading Married Red Pill because you have some of the terms down. It's also clear that this post is missing so much information it's worthless. I get that you're afraid to write it out because it will be a wall of text. You've already written a wall of text without saying anything meaningful. Write it out, in detail, then edit the fuck out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 04:29 PM
11

She fell asleep at the kitchen table because she was horrified to come to bed with you.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 11:44 AM
2

Yea... this one is a hard for me. I have a great job in IT for a company that treats me well. The only downside is there is a bit of isolation due to the nature of the work. Like you, I like being able to connect with people. I've found that I have to work extra hard outside of work to get those connections. Even if you did come into contact with lots of people at work, you shouldn't be using them to enhance your social life anyway.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:50 PM
2

DOE! I must have responded to the wrong thread. This doesn't apply to you at all.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:55 PM
2

She fucking TOLD you she didn’t want anything heavy and yet, here you are, begging for bf status hiding behind Valentines Day. She just got out of an LTR, she needs to cleanse her pallet with lots of strange dick to see if she EVER wants to commit to a needy shit of a man. Let her go. You’re trying to get her to do something she doesn’t want to do. That’s a recipe for misery all around. Soft next and work on your abundance.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:04 AM
3

You’re not throwing away the relationship . He already did that.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:43 AM
1

Ha... that’s one of my goals to. I did a stand up class 28 years ago and always swore I’d get back into it someday. I’m writing this sitting in a hidden speakeasy in Portland, Maine waiting for the stand up comedy night to start. I don’t have an act yet but I came to watch. My first step was to come here. Next step is to write 3 minutes worth of stuff. Good luck on your mission.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 12:21 AM
1

Be the best option...
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:17 AM
3

Best of luck. I just got tested a few weeks back and it’s crazy waiting for results. I checked out ok. I just got lucky. No more risky stuff for me.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:16 AM
5

Tell anyone you had any kind of sex with, not just with condom breaks. They need to know.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 10:06 PM
0

Fuck you. You’re in charge of your own emotions unless you’re a child. That shop has sailed. No amount of crying will fix it. Move on and get busy with making your life awesome or wallow in your Cheeto stained misery for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:40 PM
9

How is this just not asking for sex? Ummm would you please maybe fuck me please
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:33 PM
21

I actually like it. Be playful. Be self amused. Be confident in yourself. You’re just you. Revel in it. If she’s doesn’t like it, some other girl will.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:32 PM
2

I initially used my therapist then started sharing with a few friends then finally my brother.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 11:30 AM
2

Forget tinder. Get out in the real world.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:57 PM
24

You're going to miss the companionship and such. Don't fool yourself. However, any mistakes you make now will be amplified as time goes by. Her family hates you? Yea, good luck with that. That only gets worse. She's lazy and isn't working toward her future? That doesn't change. Look, you're 22. This is the time in life where you have relationships to learn what does and doesn't work for you. At this point, you don't know how and when to get in a relationship. This one probably showed up on your …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:28 PM
1

Have you not read the sidebar at all?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:51 PM
14

I would go a step further and say that masturbating can be used as a stress relief for all kinds of issues and, as such, is often used to avoid doing something about a problem. Note that the problem doesn't actually have to be related to sex. If Billy Beta hates his job, instead of looking for a better one, he might spend all his free time sucking down Mountain Due, playing video games and jacking it to incest porn. If he spent less time whacking it and ignoring he real emotions, he might discov…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:29 PM
4

Maybe they are uncomfortable around autistic people?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:22 PM
4

Yikes... I was up all night because I just realized that the rope may never pull taut. The wonderful part about it was that while I was a little upset with the realization, I found myself somewhat calm at the same time. Didn't shed any tears and didn't feel guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:12 PM
5

Then tell her that.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:49 AM
3

Read the entire sidebar. You're not special.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:17 PM
1

I think in my time, I've only ever not liked one tastes. There was one that looked wrong so I used my hand on her and never put my face near it. Other than that, all the girls I've been with have had some awesome cookies. I love the taste, texture and smell. Have to admit that I don't think I've done that much when they were not freshly showered. I'm raking my brain now and most, if not almost all, were straight from a nice shower. The actually fluid feels and tastes great to me. I could do it a…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:00 PM
2

Practice, practice, practice... Seriously, if you don't want to stop drinking, just keep trying to work on the experience. Would you be willing go a little easier just to see how that works out for you?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:53 PM
2

You gotta do what you gotta do. Never do anything in bed you're not comfortable with. That being said... I love eating pussy and have only run into a few rank vajingles. Most have been awesome. 69 is one of my favorite things on the planet. I don't want to live in a world where that doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:50 PM
2

Now less than 2 years no more than 4. Change jobs until you get to the top of the market then change careers.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:47 PM
6

She's going through her list of orbiter and it looks like she's getting to the bottom. She didn't continue to fuck you because you're she either had other options or you weren't attractive enough. I can't see any reason for you to mad at her for that.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:02 PM
2

It's a pretty fucking horrible thing to gas light someone like this much less someone you care about. Dude, you got caught. Own it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:13 PM
0

And how's that going for ya, sport? It's not fixing your problem, is it? Otherwise, you wouldn't be here. Look, therapy isn't for everyone. It's done wonders for me. Maybe it would work for you. Maybe not. I just offered it as one possible solution. It's up to you if you think it would help or not. I'm not going to argue with you about it. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:37 PM
0

Which means you haven't conquered it at all. That's going to be with you forever and only get worse. Stop ignoring it and deal with it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:15 PM
2

I think the real trick to being alpha is not to be always stoic and hard but to always be yourself not matter what the consequences. Not sure why you fell apart. Give that some thought and see why that is.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:41 PM
4

Do the sidebar. You're not unique. I know you feel like the ugliest dude on the planet but, guess what you're not. Do the entire sidebar for a year.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:26 PM
5

Yea... you're going to have trouble even with ugly girls. If you're a 4, your only hope is 1-3's. Female 4's are going to be hooking up with male 5+. Once you go that low, you're in the mentally challenged zone and,honestly, at that point, I'm not sure 1-3 can legally consent to sex. What is the problem with your looks? Are you ripped? Have you even stated lifting? Do you really need plastic surgery or are you just being a whiny little bitch who hasn't done any work? Otherwise, lifting is the fi…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:38 PM
1

I was going to post a snarky response but mabden is right. In addition, it sounds like, you haven't really come to terms with some past trauma. You need to dig in on that and resolve it. Get into short term therapy.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:31 PM
31

Wait... you gave her the all clear to go ahead and fuck other people and you're somehow surprised that a female didn't have any trouble filling a hole? Of course she was fine with it. She's had 10 dicks on hold ready to jump on. Nice move.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:12 PM
93

Not your circus. Not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:43 PM
6

Women that put out easily soon learn that guys treat them badly. They either experience this first hand or they hear stories from their friends. While a women may want to get fucked hard, she has to make sure that she doesn't get fucked hard by a low quality male and that male won't do damage to her reputation as well as physically and emotionally. She'll put up resistance because she doesn't trust you and you're not attractive enough. That doesn't mean she isn't interested, just that she's not …
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:41 PM
7

What did I do wrong? Brewing for 6 months? Sounds like orbiter got a little play when she was weak and is begging for more. Coming out directly and saying you like FWB thing makes her feel like a slut. She probably doesn't mind doing it but doesn't want anyone to think she's easy. Perhaps some sort of invitation with plausible deniability would have allowed her to visit you which would have allowed you to isolate and escalate?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:29 PM
1

See send orbit bait.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:25 AM
2

That’s what she was thinking right at that moment. Who knows if she’ll feel that way days later. She was drunk and at a certain point in her cycle and you were standing there. She could have said the same thing to any other guy. Whatever you do, use protection.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:24 AM
1

Meh... own it. What are you afraid of, that she’ll be upset? Let her be.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:22 AM
1

Amazon has some interesting looking books in the topic. Not having read those, I think it’s really about admitting that you have a dark side and getting comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:15 AM
2

You’re possibly going to have attachment and trust issues. Be aware that everyone has there own challenges to face and concur. This is yours. I would suggest counseling.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:13 AM
1

This isn’t any different than most of the other issues here. You’re having trouble doing what you want to do because you’re afraid of what someone else might say and you’re so afraid of making them angry that you’re will Ming to live a lie. The sooner you tell them the better. Mom , Dad I have something to tell you. I swapped schools 2 semesters ago. I know it’s s shock. I wish I would have told you sooner but I was afraid. I know you may not agree with my choice but it’s my choice and I think i…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:56 AM
1

Virgin at 24 is a red flag. She’s very used to not having sex. Expect that to continue for the rest of her life.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:51 AM
1

You’re in orbit.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:06 AM
1

Broken attracts broken. I have a feeling you’re not telling us something.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:57 AM
7

Be nice. Be fun. Tease her. Tell her you two are family.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:30 PM
-6

This is most fucked up post I think I have ever read. If you carry out this plan, I hope it haunts you the rest of your life. She doesn’t deserve this just because you’re afraid. First, stop blaming her for unprotected sex. You were there too and you had the choice. You should have known better but you didn’t. Second, stop trying to control someone else. You’re only in control of yourself. Let her do what she wants. Your both ashamed of this and you’re going to make it so much worse because if t…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:21 AM
13

It's not too far gone. Keep talking to her. Keep the connection alive. Do stuff with her. Support her in a non-judgemental way. Tell her straight out what you told us. You might have fucked up as an older brother but you'd live to have a stronger relationship with her. Life is all about connections with other people. Keep working on that connection with her. Don't try and tell her anything. Let her talk. Help her to reflect on what she's thinking about. Look for irrational thoughts and help her …
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:48 PM
26

Once you break up with your LTR, you won't have that issue anymore. Honestly, if you feel like you need to cheat on her, that means you're not getting what you need from her. Ditch her. Replace her with someone that can meet your needs.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:43 PM
17

You changed the rules without telling her. No wonder she’s pissed. Anyone would be. No idea if it can be saved until you try. I’d be blunt about it a tell her directly what your issue is. She’ll blow up and cry and shout. That’s your opportunity to renegotiate the relationship. If she walks away, she walks away.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:38 PM
15

Wait... you gave her exclusivity but withdrew it without telling her because she didn’t perform?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:32 PM
16

Messaging ex’s is the first step in getting accidental sex. It’s a boundary for me.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 04:31 PM
2

As the song goes “Ain’t my job to fuck you in your birthday, anymore.”
/r/askMRP17/02/18 03:55 PM
6

Dude... I’m sure this sucks but just focus on how grateful you are that you’re running your own life now.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 02:17 PM
7

That is fucking awesome. What a stroke of luck that you’re not tied to her through some giant financial transaction.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:23 PM
5

I very rarely use the term but... hang in there brother. You’ve been through some real shit and it’s going to be real work to unfuck this. The good news is that it is unfuckable and you sound like you’re in a good place to start doing that. Have you done any of the reading on the MRP sidebar? If not, dig in heavy. As for continuing to snoop, let it go. You know what’s going on. Don’t beat yourself up with more info. You know what she’s up to and what you need to do for yourself. Shut up about an…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:24 PM
1

You can blackmail her. Force her to give you sex or you'll tell on them. You'll probably get 3-5 years for that. Once you get out, you'll struggle to find work and then end up killing yourself. Enjoy! Seriously, you don't know shit. You think you can tell what's going on but unless you have video of them showing full penetration, you've got shit. NOT YOUR CIRCUS! NOT YOUR MONKEYS! This has nothing to do with you. Walk away and go build your own fucking life.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:46 PM
2

You don't "keep" a girl. She's person and she's not anyone's. You can't prevent a woman for leaving you for someone better. All you can do is be the best you you can be. If that works for her, she'll stay and be faithful. If it doesn't work for her, she'll hopefully leave and you'll be free to find someone else in an infinite sea of women.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:03 PM
1

Your autistic, needy attempt to greet everyone I doubt you're smiling at people out of the goodness of your heart. You want something back from those people. You smiled at them and you wanted them to smile back at you an acknowledge what a wonderful human being you are for smiling at them. You were pissed or confused when someone called you on it. Sounds like you're seeking validation from others.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:54 PM
3

No More Mr. Nice Guy If you haven't already read it, read it or listen to it.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:56 PM
3

No doubt her exes were very good at this. You don't know that and even if they did, who fucking cares. It's your turn. You do you. Those beta might have kissed her feet but they didn't give her enough tingles for her to stick around. They aren't worth another thought from you. Honestly, it almost sounds like a case where you could do a little constructive problem solving so you can both get what you need. Give her a little of that emotional lovey, dovey talk but do it in bed with her mouth full.…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:55 PM
-1

Women have to be a bit suspect of men they don't know for their own safety. You're autistic, needy attempt to greet everyone set off a red flag with her. In her eyes, you looked threatening. Cut that out. Learn to read people better.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:31 PM
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