How do you set a sexual frame early?

fnordsnord · 2018-04-10T01:03:16+00:00

Never, EVER wave around your N-count.

Iwannachokekatie · 2018-04-09T20:50:37+00:00

All you need to do is escalate physically.

AnotherDisposableMan · 2018-04-10T00:29:07+00:00

DiCarlo Ladder Concise and Emphasized

-Eye contact is key at outset

-Under each class first points are incidental, second are overt

Class 1

Shaking hands, tapping on shoulder, touching to emphasize points, high five
Holding hands, arm in arm escorting

Class 2
Legs touching while standing and sitting, brushing abdomen while talking, touching back with palm while pulling in
Hugging, escorting with hand on back, putting her legs over yours while sitting, holding her tummy on the side while sitting and talking, placing her hand on your thigh

Class 3
Brushing something off her face, talking while touching her face to yours because loud etc, touching necklace, pinching cheeks
Placing head on your shoulder, smelling her neck, stroking face with finger looking in her eyes, running fingers through hair looking in eyes, holding side of her neck looking in eyes

Brief points to remember:

Touch to emphasize points, brush abdomen while talking, touch back while walking, brush something off face, pinch cheeks. When seated: put her legs over yours, hold her tummy on the side, place her hand on your thigh. Place head on shoulder, smell neck, stroke face, run fingers through hair, hold side of neck.

Ramp, to be done in an isolated location:

Kissing from close, move in as to kiss then pull away to say something else, builds tension. Place finger under her chin and pull mouth towards.
Kiss neck gently while holding her close, possible biting.
After kissing mouth & neck, move hands under her shirt on her back.
Move hand to front under shirt, lift her shirt, lift your shirt as well and touch abdomens.
Start kissing abdomen with shirt exposed, along sides and move up. Gauge if can move toward breasts.
If kissing body position in-between legs so midsection rubs against vagina. If kissing mouth position thigh to stimulate vagina. Can also plant hand on bed below her, using forearm to stimulate vagina.
Slip hand inside panties and touch naked ass. Move hand all the way down and reach vagina. Start touching area around it. Finger from behind.
Undo front of pants with other hand. Move to the front, use “come-hither” motion pulling forward on front wall.
Keep fingering while removing pants. Can say “do you want me inside you?” or directly tell her to take off her pants.

Notes: Higher rungs unlock lower rungs of classes. Do not start ramp with intention to finish later.

DadOnDabs · 2018-04-09T21:36:03+00:00

Others have said it but I'll explain a little deeper. Sexual frame is actually made up of two things.

1) Physical (Kino)

2) Non-physical (game, tone, etc.)

So tips for physical would be to start getting physical right away. Greet with a hug, kiss, etc. If it's a daytime approach do a handshake or highfive.

So the second part is the Non-physical. This matters equally to physical. Your tone and deliverance matters. The phrase, "I want to fuck you" can be delivered many different ways. Do you want to be the guy sounding like he's begging for sex or the guy barely holding himself back from wrecking this girl six ways from sunday.

Moreofmore · 2018-04-09T23:28:26+00:00

You don’t bring up sex, you create sexual tension. There’s a sidebar item on just that.

liberty1127 · 2018-04-10T02:03:02+00:00

Just dominate her physically man. Throw her around a little. Play fight. Show her you are in control and could kill her with your bare hands in 1 second. They love a strong and dominant man.

Personally, if I get a good vibe I'll tease them and push their shoulder a little harder over time. Eventually they push back and you grab their wrists and throw them on the bed, up against a wall etc.

Edit: don't tell them your n-count. Be playful, yet dominant. Maintain frame.

roadmaptonowhere · 2018-04-10T01:34:57+00:00

Sexual frame early on = proximity + eye contact

Zanford · 2018-04-10T01:45:31+00:00

Jokes, body language, kino

kolluminko · 2018-04-10T07:05:17+00:00

eyecontact. just look into her eyes a few seconds longer, that's literally it. bitches know. they all know, they are born for this shit.

zboo1h · 2018-04-10T16:12:24+00:00

Keep it vague and never answer this question directly, as others have said. If she presses it, just change the subject. If she refuses to relent, then it's time to soft next. If she never comes around, then ghost.

Ricklogical · 2018-04-09T21:07:59+00:00

I talk about other dates I've recently been on and how into BDSM chicks seem to be.

"Man, you wont believe how many women want to be spanked and choked, are you into that stuff?"

RandyBumgardner85 · 2018-04-09T23:41:11+00:00

I'm pretty direct. "Your tits look great in that top" "I'm afraid I'm going to have to inspect your arse" "I bet you're a naughty little fucker" "You look like you need a dominant man" "I've got a raging sex drive. It's a nightmare"

Title	How do you set a sexual frame early?
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Date	April 9, 2018 8:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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