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| 17 | Girlfriend wants to bring over guy friend to sleep at our's place | Greek-God-Brody | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 12:27 PM | |
| 7 | Girls flake after the 1st date | Greek-God-Brody | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 07:29 AM | |
| 7 | Experiment suggestions - Gymmaxxed normie bring direct and sexual | Greek-God-Brody | /r/Chadfish | 18/06/19 12:25 PM | |
| 1 | Strong initial attraction killed by my neediness | Greek-God-Brody | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 11:05 AM |
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| 1 | Is it a Double-Standard to Sleep with Other Girls, While Wanting a Monogamous Girlfriend?You’d be surprised. I’ve heard stories of quality women who are down with such an arrangement. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/21 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Is it a Double-Standard to Sleep with Other Girls, While Wanting a Monogamous Girlfriend?Be so high value that a woman agrees to commit to you and let you fuck other girls on the side. This is the apex of Game. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Just lost a plate to erectile dysfunctionYou can hold frame all you want, but at the end of the day, if you can’t perform it bed, you can’t expect a woman to be impressed. It’s one of the essential competence you need to have as a man. To be able to fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Psychology of women almost never rejecting a guy outrightOn top of what others have said, there is another reason - women are generally not confrontative at all and very careful about their social image. Her outright rejecting you would open the possibility that you are going to talk bad about her ,say that she is a bad bitch to other people, who might be in her circles of friends. Or you maybe getting super pissed off and being aggressive / creep with her in some way. So she always has to play it safe for this reason, it's the smart thing to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | texting game in generation ZI never used to have girls come straight over until I changed my texting strategy & style | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 27 | texting game in generation ZI've brought girls from Tinder straight over to my home for fuck-dates solely through the power of texting. If you tell me that texting is only for logistics, then you have no idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/21 09:06 PM |
| 19 | On Women and Their N-CountsIf she got over 500 followers on IG, you best bet her lay count is 10+. Any guy that she follows is a guy that she potentially fucked, wants to fuck, or will fuck at some point. Most girls will have a laycount greater than 8 at age 23. Unless she is super conservative / religious, and very rarely went to clubs & parties. If she subscribes to liberal & feminist ideologies, that number will likely be even higher. Even the so-called good girls, who don't show their asses and tits on social media mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesTurns out bodybuilders know a thing or two about building muscle. Who knew. Most ectomorphs will do better on a bodybuilding routine. Most guys will not grow big arms from just doing chin-ups and need dedicated Arm training. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 10:33 AM |
| 29 | Modern dating is fucked for both men and womenGenerally, men age better than women, assuming both take care of their health and looks. Even if a 32 years old woman has good genes, is fit and slim, eats healthy, the collagen in her skin and face is not the same as the one of a 23 years old. That's a bitter biological redpill that women are very much aware. Her fertility inevitably drops. The Wall is real in that once she hits it, the calibre of alpha men she can attract drops. But she will be able to attract orbiters and betabux material wel… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | You Cannot Control HerWomen are much more capable of loyalty that we give them credit for.they rarely do, because rarely does the right man come in her life. Listen to some of Andrew Tate's interview with Rollo. You have to be territorial to a degree and establish firm boundaries and never make exceptions to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 165 | I highly recommend getting some platonic female friends.In real life, there is no lone wolf alpha without female friends (social circle). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?One thing you don't want to do is hide things about yourself. I've done this too and the girls just sense something is off with you and makes them not trust you. So many dates have gotten nowhere because of this. I thought I was being mysterious, but you have to reveal a bit about yourself, share a bit about your story. You have to fully assume / own who you are | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | No such thing as a Female SimpThey're being simped by men their age bracket | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 45 | No such thing as a Female SimpHuge cope. Women simp so hard for Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 10:53 AM |
| 12 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledI am suffering from oneitis 10 months after she broke up with me. It could be worse. Imagine some guys have oneitis after girls who they haven't even fucked | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 22 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledIn my situation the girl kept telling me she wanted a “nice guy” That's code for Ï am emotionally hurt by my alpha ex and need time to heal before I can chase alpha fux again. That's why you often see women dating a nice guy after ending it with a bad boy. She takes the time to "heal", but at some point she gets bored and craves the excitement of an alpha again in her life. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledIsn't the point of a relationship to become co-dependent with her, to emotionally bond? And don't you think that by keeping her uncertain, you gain nothing, because she won't fully commit to you, and all of the time she will be open to a way out with other man? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 06:34 AM |
| 5 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.A woman who is into you will constantly check her phone hoping to see message from you. You have no idea how thirsty women are when they are interested | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Never ask for confirmation that you are 'still on' with her | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:17 AM |
| -4 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!LMFAO at falling for Rona | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 19 | Upped my picture game and the amount of effort I need to put in has drastically went downYeah, of cours it pays of. It's you basically marketing yourself in a much better way. You are THE PRODUCT in the sexual marketplace. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | OUCH.His first mistake was to LTR someone as damaged as her. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/20 10:48 AM |
| 11 | To any guy here suffering from confidence issues, a much needed read.This post started out good, but then it just ended abruptly | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Finally got a kiss after 7 yearsThe guy initiates and the girl reciprocates, that's how it is most of the time. Women never want to put themselves in a position to be rejected, so she leaves openings for the guy to make his moves / escalate. But once there is a confirmed mutual attraction, that's when my statement applies mostly. Especially after sex, a women will start chasing hard. | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 09:47 AM |
| 38 | Finally got a kiss after 7 yearsNo woman wants to take things slow when she is very attracted, get that straight. Desire is rooted in urgency, in wanting it now. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social Mediaparties day at the pool playing some sport with the guys hiking / nature time Post stories that show an attractive lifestyle | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/20 09:14 AM |
| 24 | Fuck a cuckI know a couple. She is a model, posts bikini pics often. She also posts pics with him and he seems alpha. But I would still be skeptical in LTRing in such conditions. Generally, a girl happy in a relationship will not have the need to post often on social media and get validation from other men. This is actually how you can tell when a girl is single or has broken up. She starts posting more often, and more revealing pictures. It is her way to put herself on the Sexual Marketplace again and sig… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Honesty when looking for ONS?I've personally known guys that are objectively good looking, but still lack that sexual fire, that seduction power that some guys have. That ability to spike a woman's emotions, to play with her mind | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Honesty when looking for ONS?Are you talking about physical / facial attractiveness as in looks, or in more broader terms? If the first option, I would say the answer is no, it's much more of an attitude, but ofc good looks gives you the confidence and entitlement to act that way | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 40 | Honesty when looking for ONS?It will rarely work when overtly said like that, unless you are an extremely attractive man. It's all about the vibe that you give off. Certain guys give off a fuck boy vibe, light & fun, being sexual through their behavior. Those are the guys who score ONS. The girls can easily know if you're the guy who gets laid easily or not. You're not going to have success if you give off a serios, boyfriend vibe, and if you play it safe. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop getting attracted to every girl I see or meet?Imagine her getting a facial from your highschool bully. She's nothing special | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move?There are guys out there smashing on the first date and youcan't even go for a kiss, ffs. | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 08:01 AM |
| 14 | Why I am trying to be more "ugly" to attract the women I really wantYou have to ideally be masculine and handsome, not masculine and ogre. Big difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Why I am trying to be more "ugly" to attract the women I really wantWhen the cope is too strong. Gif | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 08:24 AM |
| 2 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooNot that, but the fact that they withold sex with guys who probably care a out them and would like an LTR with them, and they give their bodies easily to fuck boys, who don't care about them. That's what bugs me. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 0 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooIt's so sad women think this way | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Does height matter?6ft is a small advantage. 6ft2 is life on easy mode | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Does height matter?subliminals, basketball, yoga/ stretching,sprinting, HGH, maximize posture. Get on it now. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Focusing Purely On Lifting Or Game Is Meaningless If You Lack Social CalibrationsGuys who already have smooth social skills, and learn game, are better than guys who game, but lack social skills. I've seen it time and time again. The guys I'm going out with to game, they were already smooth talkers before | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/20 10:18 AM |
| -5 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.So do the guys who are clueless with women | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Would have given an upvote if not for the paragraph on Feminism. But you do have a point anyway. If your social skills are not top notch, then learning Game should be the least of your priorities. It's backwards. Game skills are an add-on built on top of a solid foundation of good social skills. Build yourself into a cool guy, live a cool lifestyle. You'll have women. At that point, Game skills are a high level optimization. It is crucial to have a healthy social life in early adolescence, to go… | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 08:39 AM |
| -1 | Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected.Stop stuttering in the first place. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Do NOT waste time getting girls on social mediaNever gonna have success with girls if your social skills are not sharp. | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Do NOT waste time getting girls on social mediaBest is to approach in person, exchange Insta, then she sees your cool lifestyle and wants to be a part of it. Your profile builds passive attraction. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 08:12 AM |
| 5 | High body fat is a killer for male attractiveness. Get your body fat down to a decent level.Nobody gets to see your abs till you're shirtless. Unless you run Tinder game. Having a lean and chiseled face will do the job. I don't think anyone with under 3 years of serious lifting will look like he lifts if he stays that low bodyfat (10%. You should worry about getting lean AFTER you've build a lot of muscle mass. 6ft 170 lbs 15% BF vs 6f 160 lbs 10% BF The first one will look bigger in clothes. The 2nd one will look DYEL in clothes, but better shirtless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Doubt sidebar, pay the price.Could you expand more on how did you "opened up about your feelings and thoughts"? Did you show a more sensitive / weak side of you, did you confess your feelings for her, and thus, you were no longer a challenge to be won for her? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Doubt sidebar, pay the price.He did wrong before, that's why she ended up kissing the other guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yoursYes. But don't fake being high value. Actually be. | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Can you guys clarify what you mean when you say don’t chase women?Your social life needs to be on point, you must make yourself a popular guy. That is being open to opportunities. If you sit on your ass, women are not going to fall into your lap. This whole mindset works in conjunction with being high-value and living high-value. An attractive lifestyle is what's gonna get women chasing you. Hard to do that if you work a 9-5. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 07:21 AM |
| -1 | How long until you look jacked?Limiting belief. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | How long until you look jacked?For the average guy, 2 years of continuous lifting, no injuries or break periods, to look like you lift. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How long until you look jacked?That only if you have zero serious injuries during all this time, any kind of shoulder / elbow / spine injuries can hold you down big time. Avoiding injuries is crucial. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 16 | How how to handle insults from other menYou must lack social awareness / intelligence / be aspie, or hang around low status people and you yourself are low status. If someone is being mocked, it's because he is perceived to be low status, is a weirdo, something in behavior betrays him. I was mocked in high school, due to being shy and timid. I was an easy target. Do not react. Be unphased. Only low status people are reactive in such situations. Think of it as them testing your frame. Don't fall into it. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 65 | She'll never tell you what she really means.That's a low quality women out there. When things get tough, she jumps on another dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 53 | As a man you should be totally freeEvery RP man should seek out financial freedom | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Making my move makes me feel cringe/awkwardMan, if she's coming over to your place and you don't even kiss her..you got a lot to learn. That was an easy lay. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Rejected, and it hurts like anything, I need helpA woman occupying your attention / mental space for such a long period of time, with whom you haven't even been intimate with. No Bueno. | /r/seduction | 26/04/20 11:38 AM |
| 0 | Rejected, and it hurts like anything, I need helpDid you fuck her? | /r/seduction | 26/04/20 11:30 AM |
| 9 | Don’t Be A Sucker - Go Straight To The SourceVery valid point. Investing money into something makes it much more likely that you're gonna commit to it. You are also paying for your time. Finding out something on your own through reading, research is going to take a lot of your time, time better spent elsewhere. Getting mentors, coaches is the right thing to do if you value your time | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop feeling terrible about wasting my youth?Get bitter or get better. 2 roads. Ain't going back to the past | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Miss the gym so muchYou want variety? diamon push-ups handstand push-ups elevated pike push-ups controlled 30sec push-ups fly push-ups | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How I fucked up my plate/FWB during the quarantineWhy would you invest at all in someone who's not exclusive to you (FWB), and also fucking other guys? This is what I don't get about the strategy of having FWB that turns into an LTR. All that time spent with her before being exclusive is time she fucked other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Depressed during quarantineRecently I was listening to something, and it resonated deeply. It said this: depression comes from not meeting your needs and desires. So ask yourself: what is it that you need, that you desire in your life? And take action towards that. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Does TRP have a theory that explains bums/losers w/ hot chicks that support them?. It's just the fact you can hammer into a hoes head that you're truly the prize. I experienced this myself. It's mind-boggling how far being super entitled and having a strong frame can take you. You can have delusional confidence, and girls will buy into it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP have a theory that explains bums/losers w/ hot chicks that support them?You're getting close. It's about having value and/or being alpha of a group, however small that group may be. Value is relative. For an artsy girl, a guy who's a guitarist in a band has value. That same guy, for a corporate basic girl, has less value. For that girl, being a doctor or lawyer has value. For basic college girls, status within that demographic matters the most. Bartender, DJs, they got the value here. And I'd say it's not about having great game, but having value + a strong frame. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | My fashion game is weakThere is a benefit to being dressed (very) well, it can give you a sense of style, individuality, high class, as long as it's within an overall masculine image / look. But what I mentioned above will get you 80% of results. I am not American, but there is this stereotype of men in the US having terrible sense of fashion. In contrast to let's say, European men (Google 'Mariano Di Vaio') | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 10:49 AM |
| 24 | My fashion game is weakJust be muscular and wear fitting man clothes. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Do girlfriends get comfortable on LTRs and reduce the amount of communication, in general?Trust your gut feelings on this one. I wouldn't have a GF who's in communication with her ex. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How old are most guys in this sub?Late 20s | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 08:51 AM |
| 5 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.More like some real US world. A 9 to 5 leaves you with so little free time. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Good texting can set you apart a lot from other guys. You can demonstrate a lot of social intelligence through texting, She senses it, and you become the guy who "just gets it" in her eyes. Keep an air of mystery at all times. Give her peaks about you, let her always wonder. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding pitfalls of texting a girl during coronavirus?No, that's just a RP bullshit rule about selfies. If you look good / handsome in the pic, then strategically sending one or two (rarely) builds connection with her. Assuming she is already physically attracted to you. Selfies are only a turn off when you're not attractive. Ever seen those Instagram male model profiles with thousands of likes on a selfie? It's the looks that make everything work. And about " unless she has sent you one of her in the past. ".I've often been the first one to send, … | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding pitfalls of texting a girl during coronavirus?Start using voice messages, send her pics of you every once in a while. She will reciprocate if interested | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Do people actually see the red pill as an ideology?It is not the absolute truth, but it's an honest truth. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:09 AM |
| 28 | Trick Your Mind and Become Whoever You WantPower of Your Subconscious Mind, by J. Murphy. For anyone looking for the truth. | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Left on readIf you are interested in her and she is highly attractive, I find it best to not respond until you have FULLY THOUGHT OUT YOUR RESPONSE This is bullshit. It shows over-investment and too much caring and puts her at higher value than you. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Social media deleters under 25 years old, what was the main reason you deleted?I’d post a shirtless pic and scroll through all 500 people who liked the picture You must be high-status / top 20% with that amount of likes. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep someone interested in you?It's women who shoud should chase for relationship, not men. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Anyones daily routine becoming completely shit because they haven't been to the gym?It's the opposite for me. This quarantine is a blessing in disguise for me, I'm taking advantage of this the best way I can. I'm back on Nofap, started doing a morning light stretching routine, got back on meditation / inner work / visualizations. Excited to to bodyweight training and gain more awareness of my body. Look up Chris Heria on Youtube. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?The quality of men a woman can get at 30 years old is (much) lesser than the quality of men that she could get when she was 22-23. Of course, every women realizes this around the age of 30. In theory, the best sexual strategy a woman can have is to go into an LTR from a young age with a high-status, good looking (alpha) masculine, man. That may develop into a successful marriage where both parties get benefits. The guys gets her in her prime years, the woman gets to be with a physically attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 5 | How can I maintain my gains during the quarantine?If one is in a caloric deficit, Cardio and HIIT are not a smart option, I'd cut them down. They require extra calories and nutrition. They also don't help in retaining muscle. Best thing to do is keep a high protein intake (crucial in a deficit) and continue training (even sub-maximal) to retain the muscle. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 45 | Went on first date without any alcohol involved in long time. Looking for advice going forward.If you are not good at this without alcohol, I doubt you were with alcohol. It's what most guys want to believe. When your frame, inner game, masculine core is on point, you always have it with you and it shows. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?Tbh, in this day and age. Anything under 5'10 is short | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?I'm still working on them. Self-hypnosis and subliminals. Meditation. Look up 'Absolute Self Confidence' on Google. I found traditional psychotherapy methods to be very slow and ineffective in hard cases. Outer level approaches (like doing cold approaching, Game) only gave me the illusion of change, the external will not fix the internal. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 06:56 AM |
| 11 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?If you have things like anxiety, excessive fear of approach, low self-worth, that is like below ground zero. It's not even about instilling positive beliefs, but undoing the negative ones. That alone makes a huge difference. The guys who get the girls and are popular, they literally no idea whats it like to live with anxiety. The can't fathom it. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 54 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?True. You rack up a few positive experiences one after another when you're young, it creates a powerful upward positive spiral in your life / mind. I found out that subconscious beliefs matter a lot too. Just not having a fucked up childhood makes a big difference. Like some guys will have irrational deep negative beliefs (I'm not worthy, not good enough), while others will assume the best for them. The guys I was thinking when I wrote the post literally are so full of themselves, in a good way.… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 191 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?I know a few guys who get sex regularly, maybe not always super easy, but still, they're racking numbers. Talking about early 20s age bracket. They are either: tall and handsome face short and handsome face. They get mostly with short girls, true that. What all these guys have in common: IDGAF mentality Great charisma & social skill. They are popular. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person.no such thing as an LDR | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Got Stood UpChecking with her in the morning shows insecurity. That was your mistake. (Correy Wayne) | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I just hire a prostitute to lose my virginity?Do 3 months of hardcore nightgame and daygame cold approaches instead. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Why does nexting/ignoring girls work?Theyre programmed to go apeshit over a guy who does. Only if she's super attracted / interested in that guy. Else they care little | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 14 | Whenever my sleeping pattern goes to shit, I start losing grip of being on my missionIt’s hard but limit all electronics 3 hours before bed I have always wondered something. If you're working a 9-5 and aim for something greater for yourself, following this rule clashes with your ambitions. You basically can't do any extra work on the evenings, except on weekends. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Does therapy work? If anyone been to therapist, did it really help you?Subliminals | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | For men who work 9 to 5 jobs, what do you do in the evenings after work?u/slipdown Do you not have a social life? Waking up at 5 means you go to bed at 9 - 10? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you?My experience is strikingly similar. It's not your looks. I have friends who are shorter than me and not more facially attractive who 'clean up' on dates, with a high rate of pulling. They are just more socially savvier than me. I stutter and have trouble expressing my ideas sometimes. You may lack game, you may lack entitlement. If you're not kissing them, of course they will ghost. Do whatever you can to physically escalate, but also pay attention to how receptive she is. A kiss early on makes… | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Better to hit the gym tired than not at all?You will not gain muscle with little sleep, that's a guarantee. When I was bulking, I did not gain much muscle on solid 8hrs / night and sufficient caloric intake. I just maintained my weight. Upped my sleep to 8:30 - 9hrs/night, immediately started gaining weight. If you're not pushing yourself to have the best possible physique, that's another story. What you want in periods with little sleep is to maintain the muscle mass that you have. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?Aware him on Looksmaxing. Make sure he develops physically to the maximum in his puberty years. That he gets plenty of calories, and protein. Make sure he eats meat He should do a sport: swimming, basketball, volleyball, sprinting. He should start lifting weights too. Pull-ups and hanging often. Teach him mewing and height sublimals. Make sure he has the optimal hormonal / Testosterone profile for proper development. He should engage in at least one social activity. Make sure he doesn't get into… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 12 | How you being swole/ripped has changed your SMV?I went from 6ft 170lbs, lost weight, now I'm at 155. I'm 11% BF now, but abs don't count until you're shirtless. Man, I need to seriously start bulking again. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 4 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?Only with players. So if your game is tight, she will sleep with you on the first date. She will not be able to resist it. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 14 | I'm the nice guy. Where did I fuck up?I believe you are very much right. Also, it's not that he is a nice guy, it's probably that he is not thrilling / exciting enough for her. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 06:21 PM |
| 2 | So basically women will fuck the most attractive guys they can and will only settle down when they've hit The Wall?TRP is about increasing the n-count because the game is rigged, and if it's rigged, might as well play along and profit. Also, for a guy , having a lot of experience with women, will give him a lot of advantages with a potential LTR. Your dream woman will thank you / benefit from you learning game. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:18 AM |
| 3 | So basically women will fuck the most attractive guys they can and will only settle down when they've hit The Wall?They hook up with them in ONS, but they don't enter into LTRs with them. Girls have higher standards when it comes to LTR's, especially when they're younger, under 25. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | « I don’t like muscles »Try high reps, bodybuilding training if your joints hurt with low reps | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?F u | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 57 | Are women aware of the wall, do they deny it, does it catch them off guard?They're aware when it happens, but not when they're 22 | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Conquered the shit test, now to conquer pillow talkdon't go beta and admit all your faults/weaknesses vomitus style I did something similar last time. Shared to her a story of something I went through. Instead of displaying drive for success and self-confidence, I indirectly expressed my doubts and failures.She seemed disappointed after I was done telling her. It didn't click to me that moment, now I get it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Conquered the shit test, now to conquer pillow talkWhat if it's a girl who you want a deeper connection with, possibly dating her. How do you approach pillow talk in that case? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 08:05 AM |
| 6 | Machiavelli says get attention at all costs. How?That's an inaccurate statement, you're never gonna have access to 3 billion girls. The only girls out there are the ones in his city | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:18 AM |
| 4 | How to get over a fear of breaking women's heartsShe will forget about you fast. Only way to really break her heart is to alpha-widow her | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How many here put money before women?Don't be a rich chode with no game either. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:31 AM |
| 10 | If a girl isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest?Read 'The Medium is the Message' by Rollo. High-interest girls will make it easy for you. Also, it's possible for her to go from hot to cold, for her interest to drop from sky-high levels of attraction to gone in a fast timespan. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsSo what do you suggest someone to do? Put his life in order, whatever that means, nobody has it every time, and wait until that happens to date? Hell no, that's a trap. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Girl played me pretty impressivelyI've had this happen recently. On the contrary, he did not give hookup vibes. But I think I messed up by providing a bit too much validation (told her I liked hanging with her and wanted to keep seeing her). I though softening up a bit would prolong things but it backfired. This is where he screwed it big time. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 45 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?If she doesn't instantly shut down the guy or accepts, it's a hard next. Reason for a non-instant rejection is because it means she'll 9/10 times accept the offer if you're not there. This is a great point to have in mind. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Do NOT Compensate your Lack of Game with Good Looks (or why avoid Monk Mode if You Lack Purpose)Monk mode is one of the worst thing someone without sharp social skills can do | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/19 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?You don't have to be in this hypothetical "top 20%" to have sex. What if you want to have sex with top 20% (in looks) women as a just-above average guy? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Last girl and the hottest I have been with was slim, pretty-face, above average body. A 7.5 - 8 let's say. But she is an exception, usually girls of lower calibre are interested in me | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?If you’re hot, fun, and interesting enough, you don’t have to commit to women to have sex with them So what if you're not in the top 20% of looks and / or SMV, and you are just a bit above average, and want to spin plates and play the game? Most women will not make it easy, they'll make rules for you, give you the 'not looking for hookups' line. So you'll have to hustle to get to a point where you have a few plates going for you. You'll get some easy lays from 6's here and there, but most of the… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Being a handsome, tall, masculine Chad in college really is the highest peak in life, isn't it? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Why is validating/complimenting women working so well for me?If they perceive you as a high-value guy, validating them will work wonders. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Shot my shot and got rejectedKnowing about TheRedPill at 16..you'll be a God by 26. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Strong initial attraction killed by my needinessOh, I did analyze every part of it. This is one cascade of mistakes I'll never forget. It's just hard to realize how fickle attraction is, even considering our first night together, I did everything right that night, escalated smoothly all the way, leading and confident vibe. On our 2nd date, she said she didn't like player guys, but that first night when we hooked and got very intimate, I was as player as I've ever was. If she will contact me, it's gonna be for 2 reasons: either she wants the a… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Strong initial attraction killed by my needinessShe's by far the hottest girl I've ever been with, and what made me get oneitis for her was the fact that she was also very affectionate to me. I've never felt something like that night with her before. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Strong initial attraction killed by my needinessetha? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Cant forget LTRfound out she was starting to see other dude while I was on a trip I too tend to get emotionally attached to a certain girl, however if something like this happens, then it's done for me, any ounce of oneitis I'd have for her. Don't get emotionally attached to teachers. It's be another thing if you 2 had 3 dream years together. There is no way I can ever get attached to a cheater. It's the ultimate turn-off | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:38 PM |
| 55 | UPDATE: Asking about how to handle LTR hanging out with orbiter.He's not an orbiter if he dicked her down, though. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 10:15 AM |
| 6 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?You have no idea. Girls generally reflect, act and behave based on how a guy is and treats the girl I think this is the key point response to this post. You want to be the guy she breaks her rules for. The 'good girl' will break the rules for you if you got game, the same girl will make another guy wait. The girl is the same, your behavior is the only thing that changed. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 34 | She is rooting for youchoose the belief that serves you best. if you choose to go with your belief, you'll manifest those types of women more often. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I asked out my oneitis and got rejected. Personal growthOneitis girls tend to know how much you like them. If they feel they might lose your attention, they’ll sometimes do underhanded shit, like offer to finally “date you, but take things slowly.” The purpose of that is to remove other females in your life that DO have your attention AND to NOT fuck you (“slow”). Wow, this is painful to read, those were exactly the words my oneitis used: 'take things slowly' | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?If you don't get much sunlight in your daily life (this is key for good mental health), calisthenics would actually be the better option, since it's an outdoor activity. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Testosterone boosters you’ve had success with?Search on Google for 'haidut testosterone'. This is a guy who took his T levels over to 1500 ng/dL with high-dose supplements (Taurine, Zinc, Aspirin, Vitamin E..) | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | The weakened signal hits home. "A new study is making the rounds that found a mismatch between the imaginary men unmarried women are planning on marrying, and the real life unmarried men available..." "They found that a woman’s made-up hubby makes 58 percent more money than [available] bachelors."Only way around this is to find a unicorn, 5 - 10 years younger than you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 06:19 PM |
| 26 | The weakened signal hits home. "A new study is making the rounds that found a mismatch between the imaginary men unmarried women are planning on marrying, and the real life unmarried men available..." "They found that a woman’s made-up hubby makes 58 percent more money than [available] bachelors."The peer pressure is big., especially from her close female friends. Currently seeing a 22 year old hottie, delicate, feminine, great relationship with her father. Doesn't show her cleavage in social media pics. I can easily tell she is a good LTR prospect. Her friends though, do have an influence. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 06:14 PM |
| 4 | The weakened signal hits home. "A new study is making the rounds that found a mismatch between the imaginary men unmarried women are planning on marrying, and the real life unmarried men available..." "They found that a woman’s made-up hubby makes 58 percent more money than [available] bachelors."Getting a 21 year old as a 35 year old. Wouldn't that be more difficult, cause of the 10+ age difference? Even if you're high-value and in top shape. I'm 28 and seeing a girl who's 22, she might be a solid LTR investment for the future | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 06:08 PM |
| 5 | My 9 month LTR is doomed isn't it?she gonn' get dicked down | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 12:57 PM |
| 16 | 10 ways to fail in turning your LTR redIt gets easier once you fully internalize it, once you 'live it out' at least once. I remember learning about all the steps to pull a girl home, and thought 'damn, I must go through a lot of hoops', and once I finally did it, it was more effortless that I thought. I'd imagine the same happens in the early stages of LTR. The dread part is so, so critical. Displaying social skill, charisma. She needs confirmation from the world / other women that you are indeed the high-value guy she is imagining … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?america is happening | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else had an LTR who progressively looked worse the longer you dated?You're doing something wrong. Keep lifting and be in great physical shape yourself to set an example. Don't overtly communicate that you'd like her to be more fit or dress nicer. Instead, 'plant seeds' inside her head. Tell her how your friend's girl has been really physically active and how the sex between them is great. If she doesn't makes efforts anymore to look good for you, she is not invested enough in you anymore. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 07:11 AM |
| 3 | What do I do in university?Say Yes to most social events. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Seeing a girl who said I Love You. Will saying it back make her run away?Nah. She's 25 I am 29. Only chiming in to say that LTR-ing a woman a few years younger than you sounds like a good investment. Also, she might be a keeper if she wants something serious at 25. Most of them keep riding the CC till they hit 30. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | The amount of attraction you think you need to pull is much less than you thinkYou don't just do that. You do kino' baby-stepping', testing her level of compliance (she is comfortable with holding hands, next she is comfortable with you touching her waist..), and if she gives you positive feedback (reciprocates or does not back away), you're good to go to escalate even more physically. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 11:07 AM |
| 2 | The amount of attraction you think you need to pull is much less than you thinkOvergaming. Also: so basically once you hook the set, chill out and conversate then amp it up whenever it's kind of burning out, rinse and repeat till you pull on a high note. Good to remember. You want to chill out the interaction, but not completely, still give her spikes every now and then. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 11:01 AM |
| 17 | The amount of attraction you think you need to pull is much less than you thinkYou'd have to realize than an infield footage is showing you the highlights, the 20% of the interaction | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 11:00 AM |
| 6 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsTFW already low BF & athletic physique and still zero attention from women You guys must be good looking :| | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 11:46 AM |
| 5 | Study of n=738 psychiatric hospital outpatients, finds those high in Cluster-B personality traits(i.e Borderline, Narcissism, Antisocial personality disorders) report 3.5x more sexual partners and 39% more offspring then those low in such traits. (Gutiérrez et al. 2013)Good looking men are more likely to have these traits maybe. You can't be a bad boy as an incel | /r/BlackPillScience | 02/08/19 03:45 PM |
| 4 | So I lost a bunch of weight and started using tinder againYou have that fuckboy face | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceBefore I got into lifting, I was probably eating under 1800-2000 cal on average. So getting to a consistent intake of 2500 was just enough in the first phase | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:56 PM |
| 10 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceI was the same weight and height as him when I started 2 years ago. Hardgainer genetics. Ate 2500 cal at the start, then 2700 after a few months. And put on a lot of weight. 5000 is way too high. I'm currently eating 3500 cal | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder, Incels, and "ChadFish".Cal Newport has a saying on how people use social media networks because they believe it has some positives, while at the same time ignoring the negatives. And how it's not worth it if the net positive isn't sky high. Likewise, your mentality on Tinder is: It can't hurt, more options to choose from. You are right in that there are high-quality women on Tinder. Unfortunately, Tinder is becoming real life, every woman uses it The only self-improvement a man needs is a chiseled jawline. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Any short guys want to share their red pill success stories?The difference between a tall guy and the short version of the exact same guy (hypothetical scenario) is striking. The first one is playing the game on easy mode (although facial attractiveness plays a big role, too), the second one is playing on hard mode. Doesn't mean that not being tall means you will be unhappy or unsuccessful. You just gotta put in more work, generally. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Go to BED BroFiction is best before bed | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/19 05:04 AM |
| 9 | This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lolr/seduction getting blackpilled, what a time to be alive. Truly the end stage of PUA | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:20 PM |
| 8 | I keep getting jealous when I hear about other people having sex?not helping at all, it's like a rich guy telling a poor guy that money don't do much | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting jealous when I hear about other people having sex?> I'm not an incel > . I'm young (21 year old). lay count is low though. only 2. You're an incel, actually. No sex in the last 6 months? For sure, an incel | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?Running is good for mental health, yeah. However, it's not the most social type of activity | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 06:49 AM |
| 24 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?Totally agree, I walked into a gym 2 years ago and it changed almost everything for me. However, it didn't made me more social, it had no effect on my social life. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Haha "Dont want sex right away"Imagine what her count will be when she reaches 30 and finds a STEM betabuxx to settle with, thinking how hucky he is | /r/Chadfish | 21/06/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | White chad == GOD!!Getting 200% of my daily dose of ropefuel | /r/Chadfish | 20/06/19 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Kiss CloseYou’ve likely been kissing people left and right since kindergarten Kissless virgin till 25 here, only kissed 2 girls till 27. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | LMAOO bro i can’t with this shit. The way you can change their emotions in a second.The equivalent to 'I like short guys, but I'm dating a tall one | /r/Chadfish | 19/06/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Experiment suggestions - Gymmaxxed normie bring direct and sexualNah, I just pick my very best pics nad know how to angle-fraud. Some girls unmatch after they see my Insta | /r/Chadfish | 18/06/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Experiment suggestions - Gymmaxxed normie bring direct and sexualI kind of fit this description too. Got 100 matches in 7 weeks. I wasn't direct and sexual, though except a few times | /r/Chadfish | 18/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Literally can say anything you want.Just have a lower third theory, overall decent facial harmony and no major flaws. That's all that takes. | /r/Chadfish | 17/06/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | What should put in the Bio of my Chadfish??6'2, surfing & football | /r/Chadfish | 15/06/19 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.May happen. But a handsome guy can use Tinder on tutorial mode, can easily pull girls directly to his place, without a date | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.LMFAO, you think male models have game? And I'm sure they don't struggle with pussy | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:40 AM |
| 1 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...Blue pill conditioning. Screwing you on 2 ends: you're not good enough for a beautiful woman just be nice to women, and someone will love you for who you are | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 07:16 AM |
| -11 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factorsLol, of you're not insecure about your height, why the need to 'carry yourself like you're taller'? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/19 08:46 PM |
| -27 | Depressed and feeling like an incelJesus fuck, you guys with nobody owning you anything.. the blue pill indoctrination is strong | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 07:42 PM |
| 84 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubAsking an 18 year old girl not to go to clubs is like asking her to become a man. She's not gonna do it. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?the game is rigged (hypergamy, women's slutiness..), might as well go along for the ride and play the game, once that you know the inner mechanisms. dropping out the game doesn't mean the game stops, it goes on with or without you | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?nah, they'll still be longing for female affection / intimacy /validation | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from taking no action for 2 years after I found The Red Pill.Sorry, might have missed, but how exactly did taking action brought you more success with women? By approaching more, by meeting more women? Also, Chads are born, they're not created. You don't become Chad by lifting. There is no gym for your face. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | If you haven't been laid in 7 years, should you lie to women when you start dating again?Just fuckin' lol telling that to a guy who hasn't gotten laid in 7 years | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 11:24 AM |
| 39 | RP guys NOT from the WESTERN part of the world. Are you here?Globalism makes it all the same. I'm from Eastern EU(developing country) and the younger generation is heavily influenced on a cultural level by western culture | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 5 | I spun 180 degrees and strolled away from my date in public. Too fast of an ejection?lmao, you aspie retard redpiller lacking socal awareness. don't kino escalate if she is not receptive to basic kino, didn't RSD-Max teach you? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 03:42 PM |
| -1 | Fat old woman being extremely picky on TinderTop 20% men are mostly born , your face (and height) makes up 80%+ of your SMV | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Joining an INCEL Group is Fucking Retarded. There is no Black Pill.lol, fuck no. I started lifting 20 months ago consistently and still a cut away from abs | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Tips on dirty talkTip no.1: Do not dirty bulk | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 12:46 PM |
| 3 | No Nut 2019You have it the other way around. All the Nofap benefits from Nofap are from the semen retention part. You give up that, you cancel the benefits | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Get over being unattractive.agree, good point | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Get over being unattractive.Unless you have half a head and 3 arms any man can become atleast an 8 - get aesthetic and you're good to go Lol, you have no idea what makes a man attractive. You can change very little about your height, chin projection, jawline, cheekbones, eye area, frame (shoulder to shoulder width), or whether you have a recessed / melted maxilla vs a forward one. You're not gonna become Chad if you weren't born Chad. A realisting increase in your Looks rating / PSL rating is like 1 - 1.5 points at most. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Get over being unattractive.Because dating on tinder is a rigged game Dating is a rigged game. Stop separating Tinder from 'real life'. That's a fallacy many have by saying 'just cold approach, only shallow girls are on Tinder', by not realizing that Tinder (and Instagram, to a degree) are literally re-shaping the real life dating game. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Italian women seem like a nightmare to date/meet. Is this common or I'm in the wrong place?I remember a guy telling me Italy's one of the hardest place to do cold approach | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Be honest. Should i get a chin implant?Recessed chin is a death sentence. You'll be a betabuxx at most. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 10:56 AM |
| 2 | 5 Tragic Reasons Why The Average Guy Doesn't Get GirlsThe average man believes you need good looks and/or money to attract women Meanwhile, Chad attracts women based on his looks alone. You can't honestly believe that an average guy vs the same average guy, but just better looking has it the same. The 2nd one will experience a richer sexual / romantic life, have more women attracted pasively to him, just because of his better looks. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 07:35 AM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenThe way to abundance with women: be born good-looking. The end. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 11:14 AM |
| 8 | My first time alone at a barDo not drink when you go out. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 07:28 AM |
| 4 | I want to bulk and train strongman again, but I can't snap out of the mindset of "abs=girls". I know this is gay as fuck. But can I have advice pls.gymcel | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | How am I supposed to date a girl after knowing that she’s probably spent her life sleeping with guys like you all?Why would you lose attraction to a girl because of her past? roast beef vagina + inability of a woman to bond with you if she's had a lot of guys before you | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Tinder is the ultimate legal pimpRedPill: Holding frame, having unshakable confidence, perfect posture and a muscular body will not propulse you into the top 20% if you aren't in the top 20% already (face-wise). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Never experienced the eyeball fucking thingBased. Also, don't post pictures online with more good looking males alongside you. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Never experienced the eyeball fucking thingnd doing some exercises with the tongue now and then Every now and then does not cut it. You have to do it close to 24/7, permanently, even during sleeping | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | My ATTRACTION MANIFESTO : What I've learned in 7 years. From an introvert CEREBRAL guy who went deep down the rabbit whole.What made you change your beliefs about looks? Looks are everything unfortunately, Your face is your personality | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?@linkschide had the best answer. Most guys are average looking. Some are below that (ugly), some are above average looking some are exceptionally good looking (think Male Models). Average guys rarely get approached, either in the club or during daytime. Above average (Chadlites) will get a much higher interest from women, especially in the clubs and on Tinder. Very handsome guys (MM/ Chad tier) are living life on easy mode: hundreds or thousands of Tinder matches, many girls initiating first and… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Getting messages from girls are always the same --> :) OR " seen " OR replying 1,5 - 2 days later onlyOr she is busy. People like the OP seem to think women are constantly on their phone just waiting for the guy to reply back. Women have lives and that jobs. Are you kidding me, most young women nowadays (men too) are hooked on to their phone almost 24/7. If she's answering you after a few hours once or every now and then, that's plausible. If she always does it, she's not that interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 12:31 PM |
| 16 | 21 Simple Things To Do If You're Overwhelmed By Clubs (nightgame AA solved)God, that high-fiving advice everyong gives is so cringe. Sorry, not buying it. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 11:25 AM |
| 6 | Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates?Just don't follow them, but DM them. If they want, they can follow you. PIMP mode. | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, tooThis is one of the best posts I've read on TRP this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 10:01 AM |
| 4 | Upper vs Middle vs Lower thirdsI have an above average upper upper & middle third, but my lower third is subhuman unfortunately. It has hindered me in every possible way. Lower third is everything. | /r/BlackPillScience | 15/11/18 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How can I avoid slipping into total blackpill - specifically looks theory?Similarly, women's arousal doesn't place as high a priority on looks as does that of men. Cope level: 9000. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN.I stopped reading at "Lost virginity at 20". (the redpill version of "Hey guys, Chad here, you just gotta be confident, girls love confidence") | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How To 10x Your Confidence With Women By Entering A Flow StateHow to open when you're not in state: Go to the girl and introduce yourself. There. I just solved approach anxiety and getting unstuck for y'all. | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 07:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m 26 and no woman has ever been interested in or attracted to me, is it because of my looks? (Pics included)Real talk here: You're below average in looks, and in today's Sexual MarketPlace, it's a tough place to be. You can make up for that, to a degree, with massively improving your social skillls / charisma.. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 07:08 AM |
| 20 | Girls say I’m nice looking but slow and without initiativeThey say that even though I’m not ugly and some even say I’m good looking Sorry to break it to you.Don't ask a woman what she thinks of your physical appearance You won't get an accurate answer, she'll just virtue signal and be nice not to hurt you. Unless it's coming from her mouth without you asking, something along "Damn boy, you look fine, why don't you have a girfriend", she won't give you her sincere option. If women don't ask you if you have a girlfriend or not, or don't tease you for bei… | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 07:40 AM |
| 4 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.Thing is, if you only go for the women that are obviously interested in you, you're leaving a lot of opportunities on the table. Most guys don't have many, if any, women of this kind in thier life, so going after the ones that give mixed signal is their only way. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's better to embrace looking more "intimidating", or trying to go more "pretty boy"?You have to be good looking to pull off short hair. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Instagram early on.Pro's of Insta: makes it more easy to create comfort and make her that you're not a creep / weirdo Cons of phone number: makes it more likely to turn into a flake, she has no emotional attachment to a phone number. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 08:04 AM |
| 1 | I realized tonight that I’m an incel. I really need some advice.Nope, you're still an Incel if you do that. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 06:01 AM |
| -3 | I realized tonight that I’m an incel. I really need some advice.LMFAO, yeah, spend almost half your life without having fucked a woman and still not realizing it's because of your looks (or your utter lack of social skills). If you're over 18 and not getting laid at least once a few months, despite your hormones screaming to you to go and procreate, you're an Incel. (it's not a subjective etiquette, Involuntary celibate, the definition is crystal clear). 19 is pretty young, if he starts learning Game now, he's setting up his 20s to be a success. I lost my v-… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Using average girls to start having abundance?There is no such thing as Game, that's just PUA bullshit. Your looks are your game. A girl fucks you for your looks. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:48 PM |
| 8 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Haven't looked into it, honestly. My ex confirmed this rule. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:36 PM |
| 26 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Don't LTR a girl with a rich sexual past if it bothers you. Don't LTR a girl raised without a father around. If she ticks a lot of the green flags, then consider LTRing her. I'd rather accept a girl who's had a few stable relationships than one who's been riding the CC year after year and only having had 1-2 LTR's. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:07 PM |
| 18 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Mindfulness will not change her N-count, though. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:01 PM |
| 2 | When you hear "Not Ready For A Relationship” - PLEASE Learn from my mistakesIt's not 'gaming' what should make her stay, it's YOU, and who you are. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?https://www.paulaschoice.com/skin-perfecting-2pct-bha-liquid/201.html | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get HugeHe's never gonna be 190 lbs with abs at 5'9''. You'd have to be at least 6'1 in height to achieve that. At 5'9'', the most you can go for is probably 170 lbs. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get HugeWhat about HGH when you're gonna be over 50 years old? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Why You Need To Get HugeMan, I see plenty of buff guys in the club waiting to be approached or something and getting no action. Meanwhile, the guy who takes action and actually approaches, will get results. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get HugeI've put on about 23-25 pounds of weight in my 1st year of lifting(with a good muscle to fat ratio). Went from skinny (140 lbs at 6 ft height) to having an athletic physique (163 lbs, 13% BF). It has definitely given me more female attention, but honestly not by a lot. Funny thing, my ex used to say, when we were together and I was skinny: "Don't need to put on muscle, Greek-God-Brody. You look good already and I just love you the way you are" When we broke up, I hit the gym hard, and got slight… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 06:41 AM |
| 2 | I can't sleep properly with my girlfriend next to me.Don't get a girlfriend who snores :). For me, it's an attraction killer. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?The product I use is 100% natural ingredients, though. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 06:25 AM |
| 9 | Turn off those damn screen. Go to fucking sleep.If you're getting in the sleep hours (8 on average), you're probably good, as far as gains go. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?That's interesting to hear. I have a BHA exfoliant (chemical) and its directions state: Apply once or twice daily. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?Depends on the cleanser. For some, once is enough, for others twice is needed. A good, gentle,hydrating cleanser will not dry out your face | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 11:02 AM |
| 4 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?Cleanser Exfoliant Moisturizer Sunscreen That's it. And hygiene: don't touch your face much, change bed-sheets and pillow-sheets often. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?True, chronic stress really does a number on you. May even cause greater damage that drinking, for example. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Improve your face10% BF is not that hard to maintain. 7-8% may be, but maintaining 10% ain' that hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 07:28 AM |
| 14 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleHe has a great height. But if he rates himself as a 7/8, his face is probably a 6 at best, by PSL standards. We all over-rate how we look. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?Anything a woman agrees she does so because she believes that at that moment. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | 10mins into the date, she said "we're going to be friends...i just know it"2 explanations: it's a shit test she doesn't perceive you as a masculine / sexual being, that is you're not masculine enough. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:57 AM |
| 13 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)What is you want to have a son, leave your mark on the world (reproduce)? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 06:34 PM |
| 15 | Deleted Tinder a while back.. much happier now!His mind is rationalising his lack of success on this app and re-interprets all the facts and arguments to favor his acceptable belief. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 01:45 PM |
| 13 | How did I turn into a 23 year old incel?You didn't mention your social life. Lack of a social life is a big cause of inceldom for normal-looking guys. How are you gonna get laid if you don't put yourself in situations to meet women and could lead to an affair? I was an incel in college, spent all weekends in my dorm room and I was complaining I'm not getting any pussy. Unless you have God-tier aesthetics (aka are handsome to very handsome), you'll remain an incel if you're not proactive about it. You don't get to be passive. An aspie … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Here's the Top 20%Blackpill no.1: Most of you who believe you are in the top 20%, are not Blackpill no.2: Your looks (face + SMV) make up 80% of your SMV Blackpill no.3: 5'11 is barely above manlet-tier in 2018. The younger generation is getting taller and taller. I'm 27, 6 ft and routinely bump into girls that are 5'10 and above. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Here's the Top 20%Tom Cruise gets any woman he wants because of status and pretty face. A random guy with his height will absolutely not get any woman he wants. It's a huge difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Back by popular demand: The 30 Day Challenge3 times of weightlifting sessions per week will suffice. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Are women really turned off seeing emotion in menOnly if it shows weakness. Women despise weakness in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/18 08:33 AM |
| 5 | Girls say I’m good looking but what I say ruins everything. Need advice.Girls will fuck you if they consider you physically attractive. You'll get a free pass. All you have to do is properly escalate and she will comply, just because she is turned on by you. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?Read Peterson's book 12 Rules for Life. Negotiate with your lazy self, give him small rewards every time he is willing to delay instant gratification. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 09:39 AM |
| 6 | Earning Indicators of Interest (IOIs): A practical guide to getting sexual attention from women without saying a word.Chad always 'gets it', and when he doesn't, she will escalate on him. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 05:43 AM |
| 8 | She flaked I cut all forms contactBoy..if you didn't smash on 3 dates, you ain't gonna smash on the 4th, I'm telling you. Sheet..guys who don't even know about Game and sexual dynamics manage to smash by the 3rd date, let alone a RP-aware guy. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Machiavellian Tinder - How To Play Tinder: The Pussy Slayer, The VideogameIf your SMV is high enough, you wouldn't need to do all this in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 07:28 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type?Just run asshole game, bro. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 05:30 AM |
| 3 | She confirmed so much of the advice repeated here.Left with her number LMFAO, I was expecting the story ending up with you pulling her. A number is nothing. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)That's what TKD and CKD are for. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 08:34 AM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)Look up JRE podcasts episodes with Robb Wolf, Mark Sisson, Rhonda Patrick, Dominic D'Agostino. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 08:32 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?I can relate to you. Thing is, you're in deep scarcity right now and cling on to external validation so bad (you need it like oxygen). It's a vicious cycle, very hard to get out of. You haven't mentioned about your social circles. Lack of social circles will dramaticaly lower your chances of getting laid as a weirdo. I'm that guy. Some ideas: Socializing and meeting new people is essential. Any new person might be the string that helps you meed a woman. Maximize your looks as much as you can. In… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 10:05 AM |
| 16 | Have Proof Before And After SexThank God I don't live in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 06:17 AM |
| 0 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short Man6 ft here and got shit tested by girls telling me that I'm short. You just can't let it get to you. Let go of external validation and seek validation from within, auto-validate yourself. That's the only way. Shoe lifts is just masking your insecurity and letting it live. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 12:33 PM |
| 25 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManThis is why lifting / getting jacked is the no.1 way to looksmax. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 12:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s...This guy gets it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:39 PM |
| 0 | IncelsAs an unattractive (overweight) male I get my share of shitty comments from women. If you're on TRP for at least a year, and you're still overweight or haven't progressed towards being less overweight, you have no excuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | IncelsYou're probably right. A low-testosterone environment added with cultural conditioning of rejecting masculinity are the causes. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | IncelsYou're an incel if you desired to have sex in the last 6 months and you didn't because no woman showed interest or those that you expressed interest in, rejected you before sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 11:14 AM |
| 5 | The ultimate proof you need on lifting - The 59 year old man I met at the gym.He looks more like 40-45 tbh, but still. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 09:14 AM |
| 7 | How to really succeed at Tinder (not just another Tinder guide, this is a detailed Tinder roadmap)Yeah. You should do them as part of your identity. Dress well by default, not just for Tinder photos. Take the pictures for your social media presence first, and Tinder second. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/18 07:55 AM |
| 8 | Do You Even Lift?I remember one of my workouts a few weeks back. Had depressing / suicidal thoughts that day in my head. No way I would skip my workout. And I didn't. Had one of my best workouts ever. Left it all out there. Pure focus. Achieved a triple PR that day (Flat Bench Press, DB Military Press, Barbell Curls). Walked out of the gym feeling the world is mine. The gym is my safe haven. Truly a powerful antidepressant. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:56 AM |
| 3 | How to pass the "you're a nice boy, but I like men" shit test?Every guy in the comment is missing the point most likely. She called you a boy because she perceived you as a boy. Nothing personal, but you are probably more of a boy than a man.. It's not a shit test. It's just a woman overtly saying you're not man enough. Lesson in there. Women just don't say this to masculine guys. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram ModelPut your profile as public if you're not doing it already and start using hashtags. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram ModelThis. Insta makes it easier to pull directly to your place a girl that you cold approached some day. I very rarely waste time browsing other people's stories. I just post mines and let it do its thing. Briefly checking the chicks that are checking me out. That's about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 06:00 AM |
| 4 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceIf you're gonna compliment them, at least don't do it based on their phisical appearance, but on other unique thing about them. Much more effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayYou're going to get a lot more dats and pulls as you get better. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayHaven't you heard of sarging? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 10:26 AM |
| 18 | To everyone here, sex is great, but PLEASE have standards. I hope none of these men were you.This. 10 times this. Guys like this fuck up the dating market. And the whole Social Media / dating phenomenon. It makes not-so-hot women's entitlement to grow artificially. HB's [3-6] think they're entitled to a guy who's a 7. HB's [7-8] won't look below guys that are at least a 9 And the HB 8+, you already know. In this age, being an average guy is the worse you can do. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Fix your depression firstLatest research regarding depression shows that it's heavily influenced by your diet, micro nutrients intake & gut health. Fix your diet to fix your depression Plenty of veggies to cover micro nutrient needs. Take probiotics & drink fermented foods to fix your gut. Your gut microbiome has a direct influence on your brain! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Lifting 101 : Basics of Hypertrophy ProgrammingThe important thing is to not be dogmatic about it. Hypertrophy training style has its worth power style training also. Both give you results but depends on the individual. Some are suited towards one style or another. I choose to mix the 2, so I'm doing a program PHAT by Layne Norton. 2 days of Power training (Upper Lower) and 3 days of Hypertrophy / Bodybuilding style). Absolutely loving it | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone still ‘sarge’ anymore?One strong point of this is that instead of number close-ing a girl from Daygame, you now Social media-close her (Instagram or FB). This gives you lots of leverage. She's more likely to go on a date with you once she's seeing your profile, photos, stories. You basically create a connection with her this way, it makes her feel more comfortable meeting with you. As opposed to the old school way, where all she has your number and a vague memory ("Oh, he's a guy who approached me") | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Lifting aside, what activities/hobbies do you do to raise your SMVRead good books. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)Why do we keep having this debate of direct vs indirect? It's and old school debate . It's not about direct vs indirect getting or not getting results, it's the vibe you put off: body language, tonality (breaking rapport), eye contact (don't flinch), gestures, masculinity, all those subtle nuances. That's all that matters. You get better at Game to the measure with wich your vibe becomes more awesome. You can have the best direct approach, the best direct lines, if you have a creepy vibe, the gi… | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 05:41 AM |
| 9 | Mark Manson is great, but we need to be honest about the success of his approach.The Game is played in the field. Direct reference experience will teach you far more than intellectual understanding on concepts. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerLook for an RSD Inner Circle in your city and make a post (either on the FB groups or the RSD forum) saying that you're looking for a wingman. Also: there is no such thing as 'not into nightclubs'. If you believe in expanding your personality / charisma, stop having such limiting beliefs. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 10:55 AM |
| 6 | Frame is EVERYTHINGFrame is built as you go up on your self-improvement journey. Lifting and looking good will build up your frame. Learning Game, practicing cold approach will build you frame, getting reference experiences under your belt, learning a skill will build you frame. Watching your normie ex-friends and how far you've come from when you were at their level, will build you frame. Leading other men and people will build you frame. Some guys can fake a strong frame, others can only hold a strong frame once… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Just Fucking LiftBeen lifting for 10 months consistently and greatly improved my physique. While it didn't gave me more confidence in approaching women (but this is due to some deeper Inner issues I have), and I still see my wingman being skinny and running Game and getting laid cause he just has confidence in himself, it's one of the best decisions of my life. That feeling of getting stronger, of achieving mastery over yourself, over your body, and feeling just great day in and out, is everything I ever dreamed… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you set a sexual frame early?True. It's something that she has to pick out from your behavior (the fact that you are a sought-after guy), not something you overtly express. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 05:16 AM |
| 24 | 2 Cold Approaches Back to BackIt's the modern-day version of number close. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:13 AM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsDude, just go out and socialize. It's not something you will just magically become good at. So go out there and suck up the akwward conversation and approaches. There will be a point where it won't be awkward anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing?You did wrong. Next time: treat it as a shit test, and keep gaming her. You don't have to logically explain to her that you want to fuck her. Just keep escalating and go for the close. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 07:22 AM |
| 4 | 7 Science-Backed Ways To Increase TestosteroneIf you work out and doing keto, you're better with strategically consuming some carbs. Either pre/post workout (TKD) or by doing a refeed day (CKD). Physically active and insulin sensitive people can get away with maintaining ketosis while consuming a bit more carbs than sedentary people. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | My dating experience as a short guyYeah, it matters much less than guys think. However, whilst it's easier to get women to hook up with your or be FWB with you without them caring for your height, when it comes to a relationship, they have higher standards. Most girls won't want to be seen with a guy much shorter than them. I think that this is explained by the fact that when deciding to enter a relationship, women think it through on a more rational / pragmatic level. And suddenly education, social status and other aspects matte… | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 06:20 AM |
| 2 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaLay count: 2 Internalized RP concepts, but still acting like a nice guy. Getting more IOI's from women. Yep, I'm stuck between Phase 2 and 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is.effortless hook ups. I was like in an instant I saw it all so clearly. I watched it unfold daily, I fucked as many girls in relationships as single girls. I truthfully did not give a fuck, not as a strategy but because I was such a mess I didn't have a choice. It was so god damn easy. I would get dragged out to a club with an old t-shirt, swimming trunks and flip flops and take a girl home. I'm not saying this to flaunt, I'm saying that truthful, genuine DGAF energy is a hell of a thing I mean, … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 10:14 AM |
| 4 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameOP, I think you are being drawn back into social conditioning instead of Game/pickup conditioning. You also suffer from Menvy (Male on male envy), which is one of the lowest places you can be coming from as a man. Social conditioning, to this extent, is the belief that to act entitled and confident around women, you have to be extremely handsome. WINS(credit to RSD-Tyler): Work out (get lean & muscular, lift weights) Image (maximize your image, wear chlotes that fit you & make you look your best… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Why there's not much focus on MONEY in TRP? It's the pilar to value and abundance right?Every girl will be into a ONS with a guy who pushes all the 'right buttons' (tingles her emotions). True, some girls may be less open to the idea of hook-ups and be more socially conditioned, thus less likely to get themselves in situations that they meet a guy who seduces her and beds her over the course of one night. But most of the same girls you see in the clubs are the girls you see on the streets. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Why there's not much focus on MONEY in TRP? It's the pilar to value and abundance right?As RSD-Tyler puts it, you're stuck in the 'Having' mentality, thinking that the more money (and material possesions) you have, the more women will come to you. It matters much less than you think. You don't want your financial power to be your main quality. You want your charisma / personality / power (other forms of power). That way you'll attract women who are genuinely drawn into you and not golddiggers. The more money / wealth you display when you approach a girl in the club, the more likely… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Sexual Market Value. A Red-pill term, it's basically your value as a man (status, looks, power) | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 10:32 AM |
| 13 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Yes, if you play the Game right and been working on improving yourself in your 20's, took care of your body, it will pay off in your 30s. As a man, you'll experience your SMV peak between the ages of 33-39 (again, only if you worked on yourself). | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 07:43 AM |
| 6 | How do I improve my voice?Read it and don't remember anything about that in it. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl got pissed that I didn't pay for her bar tab on first meeting.I split the tab tab almost always when on dates. I also almost always don't get a 2nd date. Lesson in there too, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Notes from the book 'Deep Work' ( My fav on productivity). 1. Remove all distractions before commencing any deep work, hide in a cave if you must 2. Be consistent with your work 3. Don't Multi-task (it doesn't work) 4. It's not meant to be easy but do it anyway.This book's on my short reading list. Been battling distractions for a while. Some measures I've implemented: Use the Pomodoro technique (25-5) Make a rule to only check my emails twice per day (11am & 7PM). This helped me a lot since I was a compulsive email junkie checker. Make a rule to only scroll through Social Media (Fb, Insta) 2 times per day (during my lunch break, and some time during evening; also toilet breaks are accepted). Quit watching / reading the News completely. Read weekly edi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetNext time, number/Fb-close her (aka grab her number/Fb). | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 02:08 PM |
| 19 | How to escalate if she's already at your place?Slowly and progressively touch her more, escalate on kino and gauge her reaction. For every positive reaction, escalate more. For every neutral or negative reaction, either cool down or keep doing the same. Transition from fistbumping, touching her hands to hugging, touching her by the waist, sitting closer to her. Transition from hugging to kissing. And from kissing to foreplay. Tip: Welcome her in your house, make her feel comfortable, show her the place. Then tell her you just gotta take a qu… | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | FR: My Worst FuckupsI wouldn't say it's a frame attack. More like her rationalizing to herself that she's not a slut and taking the responsability off her. So the next morning, the story she'll tell herself is that it just happened. One great response is: "Don't worry, we won't do anything that's uncomfortable or unpleasurable to any of us". Which is actually the truth. Cause she'll enjoy the sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:11 AM |
| 4 | FR: My Worst FuckupsThis is a concept I've seen mentioned on here before, "The Accidental Alpha". When a guy is so aspergic with his social interactions that he actually comes across as cool, collected and masculine. He's not actually, but to women on the outside, they see these simulated attractive qualities and fall for it. Can relate. That's how I got my first girlfriend at 25. I was unphased by her shit tests and didn't react to them. Passed them one by one, not due to self-confidence, but by responding briefly… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a girl is being friendly or if she is attracted to you?A lot of the times, she doesn't know yet if she is attracted to you! Your best bet is to err on the side of too much boldness. If you hesitate in escalating, she will lose any attraction she had up to that point. Keep in mind that attraction either goes up or down, it rarely stays at the same level. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 10:56 AM |
| 1 | A step-by-step guide on becoming a charming,funny,confident man!There is a video by Julien from RSD in which he says that being the 'James Bond' type of guy, doesn't get you the most pussy. In turn, being the fun guy does it. But there's a clear distinction here too. He's reffering to the fun guy not as the 'class clown', but the 'fun, high-SMV, masculine guy.' | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishCold approach = Daygame or NightGame. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Story time: What I learned from meeting a Tinder CatfishPay attention to the cheeks. They never lie. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | To maximize your aesthetic potential, low bodyfat percentage is more important than sizeStaying lean long-term is easy if you get the fundamentals right: Calories in - calories out & Macros Tracking 80% of your diet should consist of whole, nutritionally-dense, unprocessed foods Emphasize your training on heavy, compound exercises in the 4-6 rep range and add isolations on top of that Lean bulk instead of dirty bulk. Maximize muscle to fat ratio gained every month. Keep your bulk and cut cycles in the 10-15% BF range to always keep your hormones in optimal state. Bulk until you rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | First Night Lay Tinder GuideYour profile is jack shit, no offense. I'm willing to bet you only get the 6s and 7s. Here's what's wrong: Mirror Selfies are low-value indicators. No matter how ripped you may be. Compare that to a shirtless photo in Cancun (or some nice location) done by a friend. It's a in indicator of high-value. It shows you have friends, you're not a creep, and you like adventures. Plus, it's socially acceptable. And you won't scare away the socially conditioned (hot) women Your bio. So wrong in many ways.… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 09:24 AM |
| 2 | While you are talking to her, she is observing youThis is such a valuable post. I've been going on a lot of dates recently and reached the same conclusions as those articulated in this post. This explains why many women didn't want to see me after the 1st date, even though logically the interaction went well, we connected verbally and such. It was all about what my body language was transmitting. Anxiety, nervousness, weird gestures, fearful voice tonality all these were proof of not being masculine enough. It's amazing once you realize how les… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 08:59 AM |
| 1 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationWhat's your opinion on guided meditation (using apps such as Headspace, Aware)? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 12:34 PM |
| 2 | To those nervous about going to a gym: once you step foot in the door, nobody gives a fuck about you.This goes way beyond the gym. When you truly realize this, you are free. And think about it, if they do give a fuck about you, they must not have much going on with their lives anyway. You can't live your life being affected by other peoples point of view. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/17 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Girls flake after the 1st dateGuess I'll ask the ones who haven't blocked me. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Girls flake after the 1st dateThis is not the case. I've responded to Triadis3. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Girls flake after the 1st dateThanks for the answer. I definitely don't look different from my profile pics. All my photos are very recent(1 - 4 months). I've even gotten fitter and muscular since. It's gotta be my personality. I'm a recovering socially anxious and awkward guy who's got a long way till freedom. I've gotten decent at holding a conversation, spiking her emotions every once in a while. I do fail at being Polarizing and man to woman. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 10:32 AM |
| 3 | A List of Approach InvitationsAmazing list, especially the Approach Invitations! I will print this out and look into it daily. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 05:52 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread October 18Don't focus too much on this technical detail. Any opener can be direct or indirect, depending on the vibe you're projecting. What you want is always to be polarizing / convey masculine polarity. Masculinity is attraction. Masculinity is Direct. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/17 09:45 AM |
| 11 | Fucking on the first tinder date.Get some decent semi-professional photos with a camera or a good phone. Have a friend do them, or look for an aspiring photographer and pay him a few bucks. Have photos in interesting locations, make sure the lighting is good, and your face looks at its best. Convey different emotions in your photos. Be in the center of the photo always. No selfies and sunglasses. Wear clothes that fit you. Have a sense of style. If you're still not getting any after doing this, then complain. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Body language is insanely underutilized during the social interactions. The easiest place to start is by fixing your posture. This is how you do it + ExercisesStretching the hip flexors (by doing lunges everyday) really improved my posture & APT. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 12:43 PM |
| 3 | In response to "Looks really are everything" PostLet me tell you guys a short story. By the way, I consider myself to be above average in looks and medium to high-ish in height. Back in college, when I was 100% beta / chode, I would complain that no girl ever looks at me. I've been an incel all throught college Extremely shy, insecure, antisocial. I literally could not understand why no girl would like me even though I looked good. I was expecting girls to approach me. How fool I was. Fast forward a few years to the present days, after working… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | I don't get why guys get marriedSo you're not alone when you get old. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.A harsh, bitter truth you may not be ready to accept: women cheat on you when you aren't man enough. It's your fault she cheated. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 01:29 PM |
| 0 | The Great Banning of 2017You don't need to be (very) muscular to look good. You need to be fit and athletic. 20/80 principle applies here too. A fit & athletic guy with strong Game will have way more success with women than a very muscular guy with not so strong Game. Most guys don't even look good with a lot of muscle on them because of their bone structure. You can only put so much muscle on you and look good aesthetically. I, for example, am just under 6 ft. My bones and wrists are not the biggest and manliest. No ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it really possible to have a solid LTR with a really hot girl?Worrying of the attention a hot girl gets when she's your girlfriend is needy and screams insecurity. It means you still view her as being above you. Funny thing, it's the 9s and 10s that have more trouble finding a man for an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/17 01:41 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 17HumanSockPuppet put it very well. What happens is that, with girls you presume to be below your level, you are able to be authentic and real, and charming. When you're with a hottie, you're putting a front. You're not able to be real & authentic anymore. It's because you perceive her to be above your level. Subconsciously, you believe that you don't deserve her. The solution to this is to raise your entitlement level so high, so that you subconsciously believe you are a high-value man that can a… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 08:54 AM |
| 7 | Brutal redpill that no one here ever talks about, how physically attractive you REALLY are, as judged by science and womenI'd argue that the main reason Chad doesn't come as creepy is the place it's coming from. He's coming from abundance, and to him, approaching her is not creepy. As the other guy, he's being creepy exactly because he believes what he does is creepy, and so his whole body language / tonality screems 'creepy'. He's basically 'socially inept'. It's only creepy if you make it creepy. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 08:12 AM |
| 3 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.All forms of relationships are an exchange. As a man, you're also using her: for her body, her cooking skills.. She also uses the alpha guy: for good sex, adventure, gina tingles.. She's using the beta guy: for money, provider qualities. The problems is not that she's using you. It's what she's getting from you compared to what you're getting from her. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad sign when the girl you're dating doesn't initiate dates, intimacy, etc?She's not supposed to initiate either of those. Maybe just sex. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 06:57 AM |
| 2 | LTR broke up with me, immediately wants me backShe broke up with you because she believed she can get a better guy than you. Now she wants to get back with you because you'll do for the moment. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 10:32 AM |
| 10 | Girlfriend wants to bring over guy friend to sleep at our's placeWe haven't had proper sex in a week. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend wants to bring over guy friend to sleep at our's placeShe also told me that there will be times when she will want to go out alone, at night, to party or whatever (she only has male friends), which is very hard for me to accept. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 01:41 PM |
| 3 | How to stop putting someone on a pedestal?GFTOW. Really. No, really. This is the way. You'll switch from a scarcity-based mindset to abundance mindset. You'll stop seeing her as way out of your league and start wondering if she is the one who's good enough for you. You'll start seeing her as a human being with flaws and qualities. | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 09:14 AM |
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