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Your timeline was confusing - you said you'd hooked up before on several prior booty calls? Had she blown you all the way and swallowed before, or not? Most likely just late ASD (other commenters said she may be cheating and got hit by a wave of guilt; possible). Unlikely but possible she's a sadistic tease who enjoyed blueballing ya. Her issues are not your circus, not your monkeys, move on. Don't contact her. If she reaches out, maaaybe consider a no effort booty call (i.e. she comes over and …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:00 PM
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Has her behavior changed for the worse already? If not, just pump the brakes on your pedestaling and dial the cocky funny up a notch and things will be fine. If she's already distancing herself from your bluepill-relapsed self, then go into minimal contact mode for awhile and start working on yourself (yeah I know, your gym probably just closed for a few weeks).
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:46 PM
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pics yes and yes!
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:05 PM
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Sometimes, if the gap is wide enough. But they do tend to overestimate their SMV. Our brains evolved for small tribes with no social media. If a cavewoman had 10 orbiters, she was probably the alpha female of the village. Now every woman can easily have 10 orbiters if she wants (thanks to bigger population, social media, pro-slut propaganda, thirstier guys, fat competition, less violent repurcussions for orbiters from fathers/suitors/etc) but she doesn't really calibrate for how that's nothing s…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:23 PM
4

Anti Slut Defense Girls' behavior is often affected by their desire to not appear to 'slutty', and so they will (not) do certain things for this reason
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:26 AM
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If she's really into you. I actually kinda recommend quietly withdrawing it (and attention) in a lukewarm relationship (don't make a show of it "I refuse to have sex with you, HA!"). If she doesn't make any attempt to initiate after a while and doesn't seem to care that you don't want sex, it's a sign that she's semi checked out of the relationship already, so you might consider cutting your losses.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:24 AM
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Anti Slut Defense
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:23 AM
17

It's roughly true. Women do crave sex, quite a lot, as you noted (and will often end up begging you to put it in if you just string them along with foreplay and getting BJs), it just seems to guys like they don't b/c 80/20 rule, it's true to most guys that women don't want sex...with them! The guy is already pushing for sex, so she can extract more out of him (attention, gifts, commitment) by acting blase about it. ASD
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:31 PM
9

There was a father who actually did the third one, he texted his butt crack to his daughter's BF and made it look like cleavage....and the BF said he jerked to it :X it was somewhere on reddit humor
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:25 PM
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Cock Carousel is the heartistian term for this See also alpha fucks, beta bucks, It's openly advocated in women's reading btw - magazines, the Leaning In, book, etc. "Sure, have fun with the bad boys, but then find a nice paypig- errr, I mean a nice dependable guy to settle down with later" It's one of those open secrets that that women will talk about very casually among each other, with the appropriate euphemisms
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:17 PM
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There are 51% of people who know what's up: all of the women and the other 1% is men. Gold.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:16 PM
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Yep. It's a turnoff. And it doesn't necessarily mean you're insecure. It's just as much of a turnoff when you're slumming it and you can tell that the girl (and the guys she's mentioning) are beneath your league. In fact I think I've noticed more of this from 'meh' girls, like they are trying hard to reassure themselves (or me) that they are a catch. Lots of girls 'gender project' and they think that b/c preselection is attractive to them, it will be attractive to guys. (An example of bad gender…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:51 PM
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Be a bro and telling us what shaving cream or aftershave you were using and what that smell was Sounds like you passed a shit test and that got her horny. You didn't tell us how she reacted but I'm assuming you passed and didn't get butthurt/defensive. That, and, she actually did like the smell but used it as a chance to shit test. Sometimes girls will actually shit test you about the things they DO like about you, as a sort of ASD (trying to hamster themselves by 'talking down' their own hornin…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:18 PM
1

If this were long term, you'd need to bluntly explain that he is cockblocking you, and that that is not cool and unacceptable. As it's only five weeks to go, some of which you'll be spending with exams I Imagine (most unis get less socially lively in the week or two leading up to final exams) it may be best to just run out the clock and avoid having a big talk with him where he might the go 'tattle' on you and talk to people about what a womanizer you are or whatever. He is NOT your friend. He k…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:09 PM
1

Meh girls have the worst ego IME. They're trying to convince themselves that they are the shit and can act like a prima donna. It's like the female version of being a tryhard poseur douche. I feel like they actually have worse ASD too, perhaps b/c they are more worried about getting pumped and dumped, whereas the 9s and 10s know that pretty much any why will want a relationship and will be throwing lots of gifts, date offers, etc.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:50 AM
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The important thing is to finish my sentences, I guess
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:32 AM
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Plus even if you win you might get into legal troubles, get banned from that venue forever, or have a black eye / facial scuff that will make you look lower class to coworkers/professors etc. Getting jacked isn't about winning fights, but discouraging them (in addition to the more obvious and important benefits).
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:39 AM
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A favorite line of classic pua was to refer to him as 'your boyfriend' to the girl, which will cause her to protest 'teehee he's just a friend' (and step or turn away from him), which of course will crush his ego and his soybean-nuts. Meanwhile it helps set the right frame with the girl b/c she's establishing that she's likely single. It also works as a false disqualifier / self-disqualifier (as if were assuming she was 'taken' and now she's having to assure you that she's available). The top po…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:36 AM
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If she's afraid to say no to other guys, she's not GF material. The coworker thing should make it even easier. She could have him fired with a snap of her fingers, saying 'no' should be easy.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:08 AM
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Obviously he's a shithead. Don't believe for a second this was a 'misunderstanding', he wants to bone your girlfriend whom he knows is your girlfriend. But speaking of shit, don't start shit at work, closely related to the don't shit where you eat rule. And how the fuck did she not immediately say no? Red flag. She's not GF material. I feel like you're in the denial stage of this, hence you directing all your upset at HIM and saying "I'm not jealous, she cheats, I next"...you clearly are jealous…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:06 AM
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Your story/writing is all over the place, it's hard to tell what's going on. If you speak the way you write, there's a good chance you give people the wrong ideas a lot. Brutal, but true. Do not fucking touch colleagues, not even a shoulder tap. Don't call them 'sweet'. If you're leaving the job in two weeks anyway, none of this matters, unless it might follow you to the new job or you're need references.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:32 PM
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"Some guys are so desperate, they would rather DRINK POISON than risk offending her." - Paraphrasing Patrice
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:10 PM
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Never gotten one, but you should assume girls lie about it. Use condoms Don't go down on hoes (Michael Douglas probably got throat cancer from Catherine Zeta Jones' HPV). There's no point anyway, they don't like it as much as getting the D, and it will not DHV or make her like you more, at least not if she's already getting orgasms from vaginal sex and/or sex toys. I have gotten shockingly few and mild shit tests about not going down on girls who were giving me tons of BJs. Go with your gut if s…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:05 PM
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She's extraordinarily dangerous. You'll want to exit, but not ASAP (or she may rage out and go for revenge). Just quietly dial things back over time and let the relationship atrophy, and remember the JumboTron rule, for your texts especially (don't ever text her anything you wouldn't want other people reading.) If you can, get HER to text you something about her enjoying her recent sex with you. The advice here to deliberately pretend to be beta is actually pretty good. Girls tend not to go reve…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 12:14 AM
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You split bills but don't live together? Eh? Seems clear to me. Ultimatums are unacceptable, AND it sounds like you don't really want to move in together. You have to call her bluff, and if she walks, she walks.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 09:57 PM
4

Throw subs? Like throwing sub sandwiches? Or helpfully finds female sexual submissives for your harem?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:43 PM
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You say 'I just want to fuck' but don't say whether you are currently fucking aka whether she's already a plate. If not: Kino. If she is doing these things but it's asexual, you are a Time Slut / Emotional Slut. If so: Ignore and keep fucking.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:21 PM
2

You absorb all detritus she spews.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:41 PM
18

If you have brothers, do what you can to steer them on the right track.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:38 PM
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It's a shit test to see how you will react - she might be trying to frustrate you like a classic shit test, or she might be dangling three-way bait to keep you interested in her (and that in turn might just be fantasy bait, or she might be genuinely interested in three-ways and girl girl stuff herself). You are correct that she doesn't sound particularly LTR worthy but if you have a We Need To Break Up conversation over this, you are overreacting (that WOULD be called for if she talked about her…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:28 PM
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Bingo. She wants to keep her options open in case OP changes his mind, or she needs to ask for favors in the future, etc Plus just general ASD, she doesn't wanna tell OP about her new dicks then have him gossip it to her social circles
/r/askTRP14/02/20 07:15 PM
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She's over it, she told me last night. At least I think so, was hard to understand her while she was gargling my cum. Nice humblebrag though.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:04 AM
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Nice. Gotta deflate OP's little humblebrag.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:03 AM
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Sentiments like these reek of incelisque moralisms Did that sound fancy in your head?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:43 PM
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"Yes. It's almost as good as mine."
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:39 AM
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This is one of the reasons that an extremely r-selected, slut-celebrating civilization is ultimately weak. When the shit hits the fan, a with invaders, a civilization needs to be able to convince a bunch of young fit men to go risk their lives. Traditionally, part of that deal has been knowing that if they had a woman back home she would be faithful and take good care of any kids, and that even if he was single, his service would raise his status and help him find a wife. It's tough to convince …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:37 AM
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Add this lesson to your list No 5. Long distance relationships DO NOT WORK, and that's what being a deployed soldier is. This is ridiculously common for deployed soldiers, and god knows how many never find out (since they're on another fucking continent).
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:24 AM
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Correct, it's not just a joke, it's a gem from Heartiste (and maybe before) that he seriously advocated....because it seriously works.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 09:21 PM
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Oof. He's spending your inheritance so she can pig out at buffets in Vegas and cruise ships. His alcohol problem is the first step, try to get him to AA and stuff like that. Find some mens' social groups for him to join, gym buddies, church stuff, or something. At his age and condition, he may not have a high sex drive so it may not take another woman's romance and sex to tear him away from your mother, he just needs a sense of belonging elsewhere. You probably wouldn't have much luck trying to …
/r/askTRP29/01/20 09:15 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:52 AM
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Learn from them. Keep hanging out with them and you will (subconsciously) adopt their alpha attitudes. You said you were tall, so unless you have an unusually fugly face, any other looks shortcomings vs them can be overcome by lifting and a good haircut and wardrobe (which is also something that can be learned from them). Keep hanging out with them if you can (without being a tagalong or inviting yourself pathetically). It will lift you up.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:28 PM
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Look on the bright side, if she left when you were poor from bad investment, that's less for her to steal half of via divorce rape. No kids that you mentioned, so that simplifies things. Silver lining from almost any failed LTR: you probably already fucked her hundreds of times, and she's older now than any of those times...what were you really gonna get out of the 501st BJ from her that you didn't get from the first 500? You've been given the gift of time, to experience more new things (girls, …
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:47 AM
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Crab bucket mentality. Blue pill guys often make shitty friends because they have a zero-sum mentality where they can only go up by pushing others down. They are quick to condemn RP behavior and self-improvement because it's too ego-crushing for them to admit their entire life has been a lie, and they've spent decades as cubicle drones and sexless Nice Guys for no reason at all. To go back to the origin of the 'red pill' meme source material: "We never free a mind once it's reached a certain age…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:30 PM
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RP does tell you not to waste a bunch of money on women, so that certainly helps preserve and build personal wealth. 'Fake it til you make it' is a RP tenet and it gets in guy's heads and so they start blowing smoke everywhere. B/c career success is so drilled in to me (BP and RP alike) as the measure of a man's worth and key requirement to sexual success, every chode out there talks up his personal situation to make it sound fancy. 'Has his own business' could mean he mowed lawns for the neighb…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:56 PM
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Going to the gym will make you good-looking, even facially. A lot of the 'hot guy' face is melting fat off the jaw / cheeks / neck so that you get that defined jawbone, planar cheeks, and muscle-corded neck. You may or may not get the 'model lines' on the cheeks, but you will look much better. Also, muscular vs just skinny guy really shows up in the neck and traps. Oh and girls always check out forearms. And for god's sake the guy should get a decent haircut and wardrobe.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:55 PM
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Hilarious! I always wanted to try this for lulz but never did. Sounds like you're already in the clear, did she forget to ask for drugs after the first hookup? If she's syaing she wants to have sex some more ('for no drugs') then just keep going. Wrap it up though dude. Doesn't sound like the cleanest girl, nor one I'd trust to remember her pill. Make another post if this ever blows up...I want to hear her hamster-rationalizing for how her whoring herself for drugs and failing to score her fix m…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:36 PM
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It really is remarkable how many 'authoritative' institutions have been completely captured, isn't it. The APA is pathologizing normal competition and trying to normalize child castration. The Long March Through the Institutions.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 07:44 PM
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Heartiste had the best explanation for this trend. "I fucked a celebrity" is no longer really that special for hot women. There are thousands of male celebrities who each bang hundreds or thousands of groupies. Now they have to up other girls' ante to "this high status male celebrity was so intoxicated with lust for my hotness that he became an animal and..." Also you have things like medieval cases of one girl saying a guy was literally possessing her with Satan..then lo and behold, other girls…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 10:42 PM
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Great job holding frame. You made the right call. Her "We have an open relationship" crossed an unacceptable line. She would NEVER be trustworthy after that, even if she has tried to walk it back, as she would've given herself a mental ticket for cheating (hamstering like "well I Said open relationship and he didn't dump me, and technically we never re-negotiated back to a non-open relationship, I just said 'sorry for saying that'....')
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:11 PM
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Yes. So you better remember the first two rules. The only exception to this is societies where men avoid wifing up women who already banged a bunch other dudes. Spoiler alert: you are not in such a society.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:56 AM
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Veinous forearms are a quick ticket. One of my first proto-RP experiences was when I got firm, veiny forearms from (no obvious 'bating jokes please) working out in early high school and started getting verbal compliments from girls and their excuses to squeeze them. Get your biceps, shoulders and traps to where they look good in a well-fitting shirt. Having defined chiseled abs is not that important unless the beach or other shirtless situations are part of your daygame and dates. Otherwise, by …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:34 PM
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Don't you love how girls will mash out pathetic, barely-literate texts like this... ....and then act shocked and offended when, after a few hookups, they realize that you are more interested in her body than her brain? Your 'what've you got to offer' pressure flip reminds me of a go-to of mine. If a girl does the 'you just want me for sex / my body' line, you can reply 'only if that's all you have to offer (/ have going for you)' or 'what else would I like about you' or similar
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:41 PM
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This whole back and forth really has a 'civilization is doomed' vibe, doesn't it, but the guy played her remedial-vocabulary shit tests well
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:30 PM
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It's simple. She was just putting up ASD and mild shit tests and you passed. M:"what do you have to offer" Decent pressure flip. In some scenarios it'd be too obvious or direct but since this girl sounds like she has a very limited vocabulary on par with Coco the Gorilla, direct is good. M:"oh that's right you have no clothes fine lets do something indoors" This is hilarious. It's an agree and amplify (as if she has 'no clothes' at all), AND it injects a sexual frame in both two different ways (…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:27 PM
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What makes you think the other guy is Canadian? Read up on 'the hypothetical you'. Gonna blow your mind. As it happens I have paid taxes to the Canadian government
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 10:29 PM
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Probably you and I, at gunpoint via taxes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 10:07 PM
1

Do a short term version of your plan, aka a vacation, maybe do it for a summer (or whatever the low season for being a personal trainer is). See if it's what you really imagine. It may suck, or it may be great but then you got your fill after only a month or two. What would your plan for income be while traveling or living in Brazil? If you just plan to live off your savings as you say, are you sure you could get your job back or an equivalent one when you got back? Do you speak Brazilian Portug…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:26 PM
1

Girls lie to each other, but I'll certainly agree that if she said it to a friend it's gonna be much closer to accurate than if she'd said it to you
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:21 PM
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FWIW, she has a “confirmed” n-count of ten. So maybe 30 if we're gonna go with American Pie's rule of 3. But that movie's from the practically quaint and conservative late 90's so adjusting for inflation it's probably Rule of 5 or 6 by now.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:34 PM
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Cold truth time: the mere fact that you've been in an LTR for six months with this girl means you'er probably not the highest SMV guy she's ever fucked. A girl will have a hardest time keeping around the highest-SMV guys, and she can potentially have a lot more ONSs than LTRs in her life b/c ONSs by definition don't take as long. So if you LTR a girl, you just need to realize that, if you're in a Western metro area in 2020, odds are good she's fucked at least one 'alpha that got away'. If you ca…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:29 PM
2

Hot women? Do you mean 'hot women'? Because that's the type you'lll attract. It described the certain traits of women that are attracted to redpilled and masculine guys. This would be 'all heterosexual women'.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:53 PM
1

Interesting. I wonder if gay guys tend to be low key redpilled b/c 1. since they're not attracted to women, they're naturally more DGAF / outcome independent around them, and things like shit tests become much more obvious for what they are 2. women are more willing to gossip frankly with gay guys, the 90s sitcom gay BFF trope has some truth to it (a lot of my own AWALT experience has come via plates with thin cheap apartment walls and roommates I couldn't help but overhear gossipping with each …
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:06 PM
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It only lowers your value if higher-value people find out about it, and/or it becomes a crutch that saps your desire to shoot higher Or you get an STD
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:25 PM
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She wants me for a FWB. Most of the bros said ,"don't do it". She's young which brings drama, clingy behavior and shitty sex in bed. Your bros are jealous. None of those 'reasons' are true. Drama? Clingy? that's women of any age. Shitty in bed? Guide her. Do you really want someone more 'experienced' in bed? =P
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:46 PM
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Logistics for bringing girls home will be 10x better. Therapists are insanely blue pill and you probably don't need or want one. Lift, and find a guys' group like a sports team, martial arts studio, hunting club, etc Gambling addition - maybe join Gamblers' Anonymous or whatever. This is a very serious thing and should be one of your main life priorities right now. Move somewhere there's no gambling if that's what it takes.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:37 PM
2

Great frame by acting DGAF and telling your plate she could bounce, and not trying to 'call her back' when she actually did. Most guys would yell 'no, don't go!!' and she may have been expecting you to (i.e. you passed a shit test). That took iron will on your part, a lot of guys would blink when a girl is bouncing on New Year's Eve since she so easily could be wandering to the next bar to look for a rando dude instead of home, but you held. Power move just showing up to her place afterwards any…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:29 PM
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You also didn't mention taxes. Even when full time employed, the typical woman is more dependent on financial subsidy (often from people who are at gunpoint i.e. paying taxes) via More utilization of social services More utilization of health care, and it's illegal for insurance to charge higher premiums to women (but they can still charge men more for car insurance) More sick days More likely to work government jobs, or jobs that only exist due to regulatory burden (HR, etc.) or diversity quota…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 08:13 PM
2

Nice work. Should do a little field report with your game and logistics leading up to it.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:00 PM
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You handled it amazingly, both in terms of game/frame/mindset and it sounds like you basically had no refractory period (in my experience this is most common with a new girl, nutting and then being ready to go again almost ASAP anyway. Being in shape helps a lot, and there are age and genetic effects no doubt.) The most important thing is to not get self conscious about it, this will be bad for your game and for your wood. Ignore the extremely played-out TV trope of 'loser who cums too quickly L…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:35 AM
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Just in time for NYE to take advantage of a transitional space in a transitional period to creampie a coeds esophagus. Damn fine wordsmithing there
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 11:44 PM
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Don't marry. This is a no-brainer. The only reason you've given for getting married is you think she will help you afford living expenses. This is a pretty shitty reason, especially for a dude, b/c if she doesn't repsect you (which she obviously doesn't), SHE WILL BE A NET DRAIN ON YOUR MONEY. Even if she's rich. And when (not if) you get divorced, she will make out better (even though you are the single dad) b/c the courts will likely favor her. I can tell you don't have the money for a good di…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:24 PM
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Politically, agreed that it should be legal (when non-coercive and between consenting adults and such). Legalizing it would probably cause a massive reduction in other crimes, as well as decimate bullshit 'industries' like divorce lawyers and the diamond cartel. But I can't imagine ever using one myself. STD risk Legal risk Reputation risk Probably would be bad for headspace/game I just don't think it would be enjoyable or satisfying either
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:47 PM
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It sounds like it's just your upbringing hasn't rubbed off yet (years of being scolded by parents for any sexual curiosity). Did you actually hate the sex or are you just upset b/c it was underwhelming and didn't make you feel 'complete' the way you thought you would when you finally cashed in your v-card? You're probably not gay if you visually attracted to women and not men. If you are gay though, hey go do your thing, you don't really need game since dudes are DTF 100x more often and you said…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:59 PM
1

They're drunk, they could just be attention whoring, they were looking for ego boost (which you gave away by straight up saying her boobs were 10/10). Since they're coworkers, ignore.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:22 PM
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You are correct. Shit tests are by no means a phenomenon specific to romantic situations or to women. That teammate or coworker who tries to get under your skin or make petty little power plays? Very similar.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 09:01 PM
1

Citation needed for all your lazy stereotypes.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 08:42 PM
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You know all that crazy dark age folklore about witches and other creatures like Rumpelstiltskin who would steal/switch/sacrifice children, or lock away reproduction-age women in towers, under sleeping spells, etc?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 09:10 PM
135

"The mills of the gods grind slowly, but they grind exceedingly fine."
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 09:05 PM
2

When it comes to their weight, yeah. But seriously, yes, a lot of good game is basically 'less is more'. Be laconc, don't act tryhard, the 2/3rs rule, don't act desperate or clingy or pushy, etc
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:53 PM
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Do a reverse image search on that specific positive pregnancy test picture, she may have just found one online. She'll ask for a few hundred bucks 'for the abortion' in a few days. This is a common scam, and whenever I hear a story with 'sent picture of pregnancy test' it ends up being a scam. The real ones are apparently more likely to just tell you. The travel / int'l nature fo this one probably increases the chance that it's just a scam or that she was fucking multiple guys. There's a chance …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:24 PM
2

If you grew up in a high standard of living country with an English common law legal tradition (or other low corruption countries like post-WWII Japan), you grew up in a bubble. What you experienced is the natural state of the world and always has been and probably will be in the future (possibly coming to your hometown too). Places like the US in Canada are a glaring exception to the norm. If you try to make those places more like the rest of the world (whether by changing their policies or imp…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:26 PM
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lol Germany was half Communist in the 80s, no shit it's better off now And if Merkel fucks Germany's gene pool, that takes thousands of years to unfuck, an economy can be turned around in a generation. Demographics are destiny.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 09:20 PM
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The vast majority of teachers are women. So young men (and young women) get more female influences in school. Women are more likely to get custody, and less likely to die before their kids are grown, and less likely to work long hours or have a long commute that keeps. them away from their kids. So boys and girls also have more female influence at home. So, if someone thinks that young men are shitty...well, guess who mostly raised them.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 09:15 PM
4

He's the most hypocritical possible person to say this, in 2008 (and probably 2012) he could have stepped aside and let Hillary be the nominee.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 09:13 PM
1

Hmmm I might be shadowbanned then. I could have sworn I've posted one or twice there since posting here. Don't recall if I got any replies (but many comments don't so I'd have to look for my own comment while logged out to know if shadowbanned). I guess they don't like diversity.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 06:21 PM
7

Introduce some new sexual elements during each session, virtually every girl is extremely kinky (very curious about kinks even if she doesn't have experience) and she will be eager to try them when 1. she doesn't feel like you're judging her 2. she does feel like you know what you are doing. For example, give her a playful palm pat on the bum, say something funny like 'spank you very much', and then she will 'jokingly' beg you to actually spank her. It's very similar to classic escalation, kino,…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:25 PM
1

If you posted this to a subreddit like twox you'd get a big bang of salty cognitive dissonance (Just kidding, it would get deleted, and fast)
/r/TheRedPill13/12/19 07:48 PM
1

Interesting. Did he find out about her Tinder / similar cheating or was it a coincidence? (Maybe somewhere in between, he sensed something was off and broke it off, or she just found a new branch on Tinder and dumped him)
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:27 PM
6

That's a tough moral dilemma. Might've been worth waiting until right after his last exam, especially if you don't think he'll be seeing her and possibly getting STDs from her during the week.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:05 PM
2

He might be lying (about breaking up a week ago) to protect his ego, but in a weird way it's a good thing. Now that his mouth has written the check, his ass will feel some urge to cash it by breaking up soon.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:05 PM
2

This is pretty smart, OP. By saying "ex" you reduce his (and her) ability to throw it back in your face and punish youf or the good deed. You'll come across like you thought it was just a funny 'small world' coincidence and didn't realize she was his "current" girlfriend. Plus, you help your friend get into the proper frame of mine. She is his 'ex' now, for practical purposes if she's on Tinder, it's just a question of whether he realizes it.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:04 PM
3

on 2), maybe she's hoping OP gives her a pricey Xmas gift before she swings, and/or she likes the idea of having 'a boyfriend' during the holidays and isn't sure about the new guy yet
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:36 PM
6

Listen to this OP, this guy knows his shit. If you bring up the cheating before, it's an admission that she was the higher value partner who thought she could do better (was branch swinging or readying to). If you act dumb to it, she can only conclude that she wasn't hot enough / your time was more valuable / you met someone better etc. This deflates her ego (the closest thing you'll get to 'getting back at her', if you care about that) and gives you the best chance of using her as a footstool o…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:33 PM
2

Go with your gut. And by 'go' I do mean 'go', aka ghost. Do not give her a butthurt exit speech about how betrayed you feel, how could she do this blah blah blah
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:31 PM
3

No contact, obviously. It's over, it's done, she was a shallow fair-weather girl. Do not make any attempt to contact (or even ask mutual friends about her), that's just oneitiis (which you obviously have, and the sol'n is to approach other girls and keep your head clear for your studies). Girls do not like seeing their men as weak or emotional. That's just the hard truth.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:57 PM
1

One of the amusing things about Models by Mark Manson is the cover is relatively benign (subtitle is 'Attract Women Through Honesty', who could object to that- except of course for the fact that a man being seen to consciously try to be more attractive is taboo, meanwhile the grocery checkout aisle is stuffed with magazines for women on the same topic) and less likely to freak out someone who sees it on your shelf than a lot of other RP lit would be.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:19 AM
1

heartiste blog (then 'roissy', and now an archived heartiste org site since he got censored). Friend told me about it and I binged it, then became a regular reader.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:17 AM
2

High N-count could mean the girl is a sexual athlete, it could also just means that she spreads her legs and starfishes for any semi-attractive guy at the club with the guts to invite her home. It means very little. Key/lock analogy. Some girls are also much quicker learners than others when it comes to BJs (but like with a lot of thing, how enthusiastic about you she is will matter more than technical skill). Whereas for a guy you'd expect more association, with the causality going in both dire…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:31 PM
3

Your sample size is too small to make any type of accurate assessment. You're an engineer, you know this. This sub has far, far better zingers than murdered by words or any of those
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:28 PM
7

And the you wrote on his sweater NOW I HAVE THE RED PILL HO HO HO
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 09:22 PM
1

Almost all skills become easier with practice, and there are studies that show the best experts at a skill actually show less brain activity while doing it than medium tier people. These things became more automatic and will not feel like a drain on your focus or energy.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:24 PM
3

Sometimes judges will shred prenups, but, it's still massively safer, and a marriage with a good prenup is probably closer to being unmarried than to being married without one. Some advice for bros considering: You'll want her to be repped by her own lawyer. Makes it harder for her to say later on that she didn't know what she was signing or was under duress. And you should be prepared for her to play good cop bad cop with her lawyer (her lawyer will try to convince her not to 'give up' too much…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:29 PM
2

Ignore, ignore, ignore. She feeds off your anger, or wants to. Anything that shows annoyance will encourage her. And because of the circumstances - same classes at an (I'm going to assume) Western country's university that has ridiculously lopsided disciplinary policies in practice if not in theory (men are always the bad guys, women are always victims) if she gets in your face hurling insults or punches, and you so much mutter 'bitch' back under your breath, you're gonna be the one hauled befor…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:09 AM
3

You look photoshopped and I mean that as a compliment. You look legit, and your posing is pretty good too (twisting your torso to present the wider direction of the upper torso and slimmer direction of the waist, further accenting the V shape.)
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:55 AM
2

No need to break up. You could just explain that you want to stay together but not be married on paper. Up to you what reasons you give (you could explicitly bring up alimony / divorce rape etc., or not), and he can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:18 AM
2

You can get those things, like having kids and raising them under one roof, without marriage, though, reducing your legal / financial risk. And arguably it will make the relationship more stable, as she'll have less financial incentive to run off. (Possibly child support, but that beats child support + alimony).
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:16 AM
7

If you're ugly, women who don't have a BF tell you they do. If you're attractive, women with a BF forget to mention it until the next morning.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:06 AM
2

Ignore, wait for her to text. If you ping again it's just tryhard. She's probably not that into you - if she were, she would suggest alt plans if she legitimately could not make 'coffee tomorrow'. Your odds aren't good here no matter what you do, but the best thing to do is nothing. If she never pings again, so be it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:39 AM
36

Ignore. It's a mild shit test. Most hot girls are 'just out of a relationship', they spend their 20s flitting from one to the text. 'Not looking to date', yet chatting with you? Sounds to me like she's admitting she's just hookup material.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:23 PM
1

You're just in a phase. I never went through it, but it's common, and you WILL pull through if you keep approaching and self-improving.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:01 PM
1

It varies tremendously from woman to woman. I've had some who had a bunch of orgasms every time, even during anal (despite the lack of direct physical stimulation during anal), others who rarely did. Technique matters, but a lot less than all the terrible ego-bait jokes about it would have you believe. More important is how into you she is generally, but even more importantly is just women differ (probably genetic, like how some people are more ticklish than others). btw almost every girl likes …
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:45 PM
2

I think you are right, I don't think it would help. When girls see pics of other girls they are just instinctively competitive, and it's very easy to back out at that step...of course, they are competitive in person too, but in person they can be interacting and get into that warm fuzzy headspace, get touchy feely, etc. and you have more ability to guide the interaction. Basically, I suspect that the aural and tactile sensations of each girl to the other are a benefit, whereas the visual stimuli…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:14 AM
2

Alexander's Ptolemy?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:41 PM
2

Great field report. You held frame and earned an upgrade (who was a new notch) for it. You're probably right that the issue was new girl being hotter (and dressing to show it). The preselection probably helped you with new girl, even though Hb6 was less hot (and, as you said, Hb8 was yours to lose as she was a referral to your dick, so you hardly needed preselection). And yes you should absolutely pursue 3ways with HB8. Since you established that frame from before even meeting her, it will be ea…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:41 PM
3

It's super common for girls to pull a 'no u' as an ego protection mechanism (online you can find lots of text screencap where the guy dumps the girl, and then she acts like she's dumping him). In this case she's just throwing back 'not looking for anything serious' at you. I really doubt you broke her heart or anything, it doesn't sound like she was ever super into you (but nice work on the F closes) and the newness of hooking up with you wore off, and/or she met someone who's a more promising l…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:36 PM
2

Context. If you're at some sort of ballroom dancing event/class/lesson where it's completely normal and unsexual for the guys to go around asking girls for the next dance, then you shouldn't do anything, and it's not a red flag if she accepts. If it's a nightclub or house party where the connotation is more sexual, then look at the girl's reaction. If she's eager to dance, then congrats you learned something now rather than later: red flag and you just got important info and you can demote the L…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:17 PM
2

Outstanding story and lesson. Nice job showing things from both sides, as the guy other guys are worried about, and as the guy in the LTR.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:12 PM
1

If you ghost, and you end up getting some sort of child support notice or court summons anyway, I'd suggest talking to a lawyer in your country of residence (preferably, if you can find one, that specializes in int'l family law) about whether you can safely ignore it or whether that could mean getting extradited to Vietnam (sounds farfetched but you'll sleep better if you talk to a lawyer) and whether you'd need to avoid certain countries for the rest of your life. If you're a Spanish national a…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:48 PM
2

Your story has a lot of holes, just like your condom. Are you originally from US or Vietnam? Where do you have citizenship? Where were you planning to spend your life if not for this? How the heck did you get a pension at age 27 (military medical discharge?)? Are you white or Asian (this matters in case she is actually pregnant and brings the kid to term and it does or doesn't look like you)? Is it possible that she sabotaged your condom - or got knocked up by some other guy, or is lying about b…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:28 PM
3

Ego
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:58 PM
1

She announced almost immediately that she had to leave at 830pm (1 hour) Did she have another date later that night? A girl was telling me about a slutty friend of hers who does this on the reg, lines up multiple guys a few hours apart to which I reply "unless you're shouting Oh god where did you hear this shitty neologism , I asked her "are you a narcissist?". LOL that's not even a shit test, that's just a fight, this sounds like the worst date ever
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:58 PM
1

"Aristocracy" was a time in history? Wtf are you smoking? Also women have almost always had the freedom to be sluts, in Western civilization. Rare to find systematic cases of the cops going around arresting all the sluts (maybe Islamic civilization?) Usually in Western civilization, a woman had freedom so sleep around...it's just that people who found out had their own freedom: men had the freedom to not want to wife her up or pay for her sprogs, and women had the freedom to not want to be her b…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 09:00 PM
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You probably know this now as well, but: her commenting about the girl's name flashing on our phone was the BEST kind of shit test. You got some free, lucky preselection there, and you should relish the moments when a girl gives you a little shit test about that kind of thing. It's a golden opportunity to play it off lightly ("oh that's just my sister. Just kidding, it isn't, but she does like to roleplay stuff like that.") , and proceed with a wetter-pantied girl. I had a similar situation wher…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:21 PM
4

You almost wonder if other guys came up with that pablum like "get their power back!" to help themselves get laid. Kinda like when it turned out that the ringleader of the nudity-protest feminist agitprop FEMEN (which was just about the only instance of political protest nudity with a actual attractive women) was a dude who was banging all his models/puppets.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:44 PM
2

Ironic how? That's one of the core subject matters of study here.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:42 PM
4

You triggered her ASD. If you're gonna be the other guy, don't draw attention to it, in most cases she wants a fantasy where she's not thinking about that stuff when with you (occasionally she's venting anger with the other guy and does want to think of herself as cheating).
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:42 PM
1

Shirt was deliberate. It gives her an excuse in case she wants to come over again (she may not have decided yet). Maybe she's also hoping it will make you think of her more (an anchor, like Mystery's scarf) and/or she's hoping it will bait you into texting her about it (for add'l validation). Girls are super fashion aware, unusual to 'forget' a whole freakin' shirt. Since she already 'used' you, do NOT contact her, but if she hits you up again, free free to go another around. NO feelz or LTR. Th…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:40 PM
2

You can have both. If you have the freedom for thots to be thots, but also the freedom for everyone else to not be coerced to pay for their mistakes, then you reach a healthy equilibrium and these issues take care of themselves (the thots and their sprog just get ignored by the production part of society and don't drag it down with them).
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:37 PM
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2 months to develop feelings is a long time. If a girl is really into you and you are high SMV, it's extremely fast. Everything else is just games. "Girls take longer to warm up / get into someone" is not really true, it just seems like that b/c 1. they are more selective than guys 2. they like to play coy and wait for the sake of doing so, due to ASD and a desire to see how much he's willing to wine'n'dine, put up with, stick around etc. In other words it's a filter, not their actual desire.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:05 AM
1

Being a hot 20something woman is like being a celebrity. Everything, and I mean everything, is just handed to you (even ppl with no interest in fucking her, like her parents and most other girls, treat her for deferentially, queen bee or daddy's princess syndrome). They tend not to develop a lot of other skills, b/c why bother? And they tend not to be very funny, b/c it's hard to hone your own skill at humor when everyone laughs at your 'jokes', funny or not. Likewise they tend to be really bori…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:52 PM
2

Almost always true, but it doesn't mean guys shouldn't make posts like this. The feedback helps them get better. And even if you're asking "There's this one girl that..." (which is always a sign you're on the back foot and in a weak position) you can use the advice for future girls.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:41 AM
2

In my experience you can absolutely get away with one sided exclusivity, and you have to stick to it up front (trying to negotiate for it later is not as easy). A few things that help: rhetorically say something like 'you don't seem like the type of girl who'd want to see multiple guys at once. Am I wrong?' She of course will say no. (ASD). You should also say that you'd like you and her to find suitable 'thirds' for three ways. She will actually enjoy feeling 'involved' in your other stuff and …
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:39 AM
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It's the great irony, the ones you like the most, you have the worst game with. You're not alone, what you're feeling is the norm for almost every guy. The solution really is just practice and doing it over and over. This accomplishes three things. 1. Practice with the nuts and bolts of game 2. Abundance mindset and outcome independence as you get more sexual experience (you tend to remember the good ones and forget the blowouts or bad ones) 3. As you build up more past cases of having actually …
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:01 AM
1

Which is why I told OP not to actually do this. It's a thought experiment: OP's gut instincts will tell him that even if he said this, she would find excuses not to. The words out of her mouth imply 'raped' (fucked while blacked out) but she's not acting like it. So, probably BS.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:09 PM
1

Claims she was blacked out and barely remembers. Tell her you'll believe her when you see the police report. Actually, don't do that, even if she did it you'd just be throwing another guy (who likely didn't even know she had a BF much less know you) under a serious bus, and she ain't worth it. How do I get past this and ever trust another girl. Why do you need to? I'll explain how I think of this - and this goes for guys or girls, in sex or business or whatever: trust is a spectrum. NO ONE is fu…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:39 AM
2

Marriage, not really, unless she's much wealthier and so the usual anti-marriage reasons are reversed. (But even if you think she's wealthy, you'd want to consult a lawyer and find out what happens if for example she quits working and somehow hides all her existing assets.) Exclusive LTRs, sure, if you're enjoying it. It can also save you a lot of time if for example you're trying to get your own business off the ground and want easy regular sex and a partner for events/activities without having…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:49 PM
4

One more reason to get jacked. For some reason (Hollywood?) bald or buzzed buff dudes are kindof a stereotype and it can make a huge difference between looking like a cancer patient vs like a tough hardass. Talk to a doctor and explore solutions. But don't throw down your savings without doing some serious research.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:43 PM
1

Escalate. You'll be positively surprised. Practice practice practice. Women are extremely sexual. When they gossip with each other, it's like half sexual talk. Literally at least half. my god. Their Netflix queues too, their reading material...
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:37 PM
1

An ex-fuck calling her is meaningless (guys call up exes all the time when they get horny and are hoping for an easy re-lay) but yes her lying about it is a pretty bad sign. She's probably not about to fuck him again (just cuz guys call their exes all the fucking time and so each individual time is not meaningful) You probably already had a gut instinct she was a cheating risk, given that you've been going through her phone and have thought a lot about this incident.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:56 PM
1

idk, it hasn't happened to me, but I've come very close to mixing up plates' names myself, or referring to some convo I had with a different plate....so I could see a slut doing something like this accidentally.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:53 PM
1

LOL dude. If it's getting inside your head and it's upsetting to you, you're catching feels, so just ghost her. It doesn't get much clearer than this. 'Disrespect'...yes of course....it doesn't really matter if she couldn't help it / just an accident (obv it was). Even if she's not (still) fucking the other dude, it's clear that's where her heart and tingles are. Now that said, if she really is just a plate to you, and you don't think she's a high STD risk...you might consider still fucking her,…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:48 PM
1

He should hire a Hitch. He's richer than god, he should just hire Mystery as a full time coach (although not a chance it wouldn't leak to the media)
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:34 AM
16

Jeff Bezos too. Richest guy in the world. Settling for a post wall professional gold digger and got exposed as sending her sappy beta texts and a junk pic. Hugh Jackman might be closet gay. Not hatin', just saying.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:03 AM
1

That reply really was art.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:09 AM
6

Giving a damn about women is fine, just don't get hung up on a particular woman. If you go too far to the 'don't care' extreme you may find you lack motivation to approach. And yes, many guys find it very difficult to give a shit about most conversion topics of groups of women if they are not trying to open them. (Think of how often the average man gives a crap what a group of elderly or obese women is talking about....not very often...)
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:02 AM
2

I don't understand why PUA and RP are making such a big deal over LDR. She cheats, hard next. I mean, you've swallowed the red pill; why'd you care. Your attempts to flip the script on PUA/TRP as caring too much are noted, but three things 1. The anti-LDR advice of TRP is usually being given to a guy who does seem to care about the particular girl and I gave my advice prior to your 'no fucks given' assurances 2. you seem very sure you will find out if she cheated 3. you dgaf, that's nice, but yo…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:46 AM
1

OK, so this wasn't your topic question, but you need to read some sidebar material on LDRs. Everyone in the TRP or PUA communities will tell you they do not work, period, and she's a big cheating risk while you are on a whole other continent for months. And are you passing up any chances at local poon over this? It sounds like not, based on your "but hey if no one finds out" comment. But ask yourself...maybe she's thinking the exact same thing...
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:02 AM
3

Oh god bro lol this sounds terrible/hilarious. Sadly if you bring chicks over she will likely cockblock you hard. If you have a good friend in that area, maybe you can get him (you'll owe him a favor unless he's SUPER thirsty) to take the cousin out on evenings when you want to bring a chick home. You can't reject her in overt terms, b/c if you do she sounds like she's the type who's a risk for lying and telling your family the opposite happened (i.e. say you hit on her). You'll have to play dum…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:59 PM
3

On her period Excuses, excuses. You've played right into her frame and you're working overtime to justify her behavior.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:32 AM
2

"Learn your lesson" is some hard edge disrespect. She has zero respect for you (which is the #1 predictor of cheating), likely because you have failed previous, milder shit tests. It sounds like you let her wind you up easily. Ghost her and write her off mentally. If she doesn't come back, that's fine, it's much easier to get a new girl than to 'fix' this (excuse or a) relationship. If she does reenage with the proper frame, you can consider it, but you must maintain hand (assent to booty calls …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:31 AM
1

Look up 'Neil Strauss' (Style) and 'Eric von Markovich' (Mystery), very influential early-2000s puas
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:47 PM
1

She is making you prove your devotion by giving you drama hoops to jump through. Sounds like she's succeeding. 'Distance' as in 'distance relationship'? LOL. Buddy....
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:49 PM
1

Negging is the adult version of when schoolkids who like each other express it by teasing. The people who confuse it with 'just being insulting' are beta chodes (XKCD has a particularly cringey comic about it and the writer has since gone full soyboy). It's the exact opposite of nice guy rage, but jealous betas like to deliberately conflate the two (as a form of projection, since they are the 'nice guys' with pent up rage). Go read the original Mystery / Style stuff on negs
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:42 PM
5

Suggest a three way. An overly attached girl is the best opportunity. Bringing it up as dirty talk during sex is an excellent way to do so (the best way though is to bring it up super early on 1st date and set a frame of one sided monogamy, but it sounds like that ship has sailed.) This is also a good chance to try out BDSM and other stuff that you may not have tried yet. (You HAVE given this chick anal already, right? If not, how sure you are that she is in fact as into you as you think she is?…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:37 PM
3

This is glorious, needs to become new copypasta reply for any sort of humblebrag post
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:14 PM
1

I did now! Thanks for the genuine lol
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:14 PM
1

Text her when you want to and when you are scheduling the next date. If that's your attitude it will be subcommunicated, and if you are overthinking it then that will be subcommunicated. "Don't text her for 3 days" is a very well known and old hat thing since at least Swingers came out in the 90s and girls are very aware of it. If this girl is as into you as you say, she'll agree to that next date and it's a chance to fuck her brains out again and get her further pair bonded.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:12 PM
1

?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:07 PM
2

Promoter acted like a promoter even though you brought her Mexican food? I'm shocked, shocked I say. You saying 'yes I'm her boyfriend' in from of her other meal tickets made you a risk to her keeping the other layabouts in orbit, so she had to distance herself. Her purse was in the car of the 'main promoter guy'? She's snorted coke off his cock, bro. Fucking forget about her.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:51 PM
20

Not your question, but TRP advice always applies. Lift, get fit, and get out. Teenagers don't need to be micromanaged anymore, so you should have time to do your own shit like lift and date. If you get shit test by women about your age, having kids, or divorcee status, don't ever show any sort of defensiveness. Nuclear script-flip with responses like "It's liberating to've secured a genetic legacy." You'll probably attract near-wall women with baby fever, so wrap it up unless you've decided you …
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:47 PM
2

Go with your gut instinct. If you don't want AIDS, don't sleep with her. Ghost her, or do to her what she claims she's doing do the dudes - allow her to spend money on you without her being in your physical presence. Not only would I not sleep with her again, I would not want to be in her presence or allow her into my place again. If she orders you givts on Amazon, fine, but otherwise ghost her. Even if she's telling the truth, she's basically admitted she's a con artist. Do you really wanna cat…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:43 PM
3

Didn't really read your post, the title is self-explanatory and the rest is just you being butthurt over individual flakes. And that's your problem right there. I guarantee the girls can sense you are overly invested. Set a date, if they say stuff like this, say, "Dates are how you get to know someone. See you at X time Y." If they don't want to meet it means your pictures aren't hot enough, texting about your favorite color or how many siblings you have does not matter, they're just seeing if y…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:37 PM
1

OP said "10 minutes later" not that she was complaining for 10 solid minutes. For all we know she talked for 30 seconds then he took 9:30 taking a shit and the rest is after he reemerged from the john.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:14 PM
10

You're golden. Her saying that (but not constantly harping about it) and being sexually eager are signs that you are in the zone.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:13 PM
1

Touch should be a natural part of other activities, not something that has to be an explicit trainstop. Hold hands while walking, put on some music and playfully dance, arm around waist while standing/walking or shoulder while sitting, just ease into it naturally. Taps to emphasize a point while talking.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:42 AM
1

Don't quit your career. $1M isn't 'fuck you / retirement' money for age 34 unless you live in a very low cost of living area, and can be confident it'll stay that way. Plus, just keeping your assets up with inflation requires taking on some risk (keeping some money in the stock market). Even at typical retirement age, a rule of thumb is 'assets should be 25x annual consumption (look up '4% rule') and I'm guessing you want more than a $40K/year life style, plus you've got 3 decades longer to live…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:16 PM
1

Again, I am not saying you shouldn't go through her social media. More information is always better and no one can fully be trusted (AWALT). Just that you should also acknowledge what your gut is telling you.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:06 PM
1

The fact that you feel the need to snoop through her social media means that deep down you know there is an issue and that she is ready to branch swing. I'm not saying you're bad for wanting to or doing so, just that you should recognize that when you get to that point (and find yourself making a post here "there's this one girl...") deep down your gut is telling you you are already on unfavorable ground, and something needs to change. How much longer is the lease? My advice might be to try to t…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:01 PM
1

That makes it less weird, but still a yellow or red flag. Also consider that she may be hiding the extent of her social media activity from you. Girls usually like to advertise they are in LTRs and don't like to be seen as 'single' for years running, so a girl NOT bragging about your LTR is a bad sign. More importantly, I just get a generally beta vibe from your post. It sounds to me like she has the hand in the relationship and she knows it. She explicitly gave you shit about some tepid PDA lik…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:54 PM
2

If she's very active on social media but 'hides' you, then do NOT take her seriously as a LTR. She either views you as an uncool beta or 'backup' option....or sometimes as an alpha fuckbuddy while she's trying to keep some beta provider in the dark. But I doubt you're in that niche based on your story. What's your sex life like with her? IS there one? You LIVE with her and yet she doesn't want people knowing that you two are a couple!? This is nuts. Unless she's waking you up with an A-grade blo…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:42 PM
2

Go pursue other women. Your oneitis KNOWs she is your oneitis, I guarantee it, which means that you have very bad odds in the short term. So you need to pursue other women and endeavors (like the obligatory LIFT) and maybe cross paths with her again with a higher SMV.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:32 PM
1

Think of sexually desperate men as like drug addicts.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:21 PM
4

Do it to random people at stores etc. (inc. dudes, old women etc.) and it will become more natural with girls. Eye contact is also good for professional environments.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:44 AM
5

She even pulled the “I don’t go home with guys I really like on the first date This means "I want to fuck you" but it also means "I HAVE gone home with guys on the first date" Do whatever you want. If you want to keep fucking her, keep fucking her. Don't reason with your ego though - it sounds like you're tempted to go "she wants a LTR so I'm gonna go no contact cuz I'm a cool detached guy like that" which is red pill overkill. Spend as much time with her as you want to, no less no more.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:47 PM
1

Not to turn this into a dick measuring contest....but yeah most can. The secret is not to worry about technique or anything, just build up a lot of attraction beforehand, and then just enjoy fucking her (she'll be aroused by your arousal. If you act like you're trying to 'please' her she'll find it mostly offputting.) Ease of orgasm does very wildly from girl to girl (in part b/c some will be more into you than othrs). I know every guy on the internet claims to be a sex god, so don't take my wor…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:42 PM
7

Girls who are really into you will enjoy sucking your dick more than being eaten out. As a hetero men that is extremely counterintuitive to us cuz 99% of hereto guys prefer getting BJs to going down ourselves. The reasons are that 1. a girl who is extremely attracted to you will naturally gravitate to a more sexually submissive role 2. girls enjoy the D and being fucked WAY more than being eaten out. They almost see being eaten out as a consolation prize vs a good dicking, kinda like how we see …
/r/askTRP14/07/19 10:53 PM
2

If she doesn't like your cum, it just means she doesn't think your SMV is high enough. You should absolutely demote them, b/c it means that you two just aren't a good match (you didn't DHV enough) and demotion is your best way of ratcheting up their interest again, as a form of push pull. I have never, ever, ever had a girl give me all the signs of very interest and be extremely interested in me, and yet then have any issue with swallowing/facials/etc. If she's into you, she'll swallow without e…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 10:51 PM
4

Textbook preselection. Also it probably improved your confidence which bleed through in your posture and demeanor. Almost anything that helps or hurts your game will have a virtuous or vicious cycle multiplier effect.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:57 PM
5

Lift. Approach. Limit sugar, masturbation, porn, and screen time in general.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:06 PM
2

Yes it is, but I can't take credit, as you may know it's a meme that's been going around
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:23 PM
1

k-selection vs r-selection is the idea you seem to be referring to, and those would be terms to look up. There are other societies with relatively low paternal investment.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:22 PM
1

That's kinda the point. These customs arise over time as an aggregate of many small individual choices (like few men willing to wife up some single mom with some other guy's bastard).
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:21 PM
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Ah yes, that is very true and quite important. Due to the omnipresent current 'men oppress, women are victims' trope, people often forget that the anti-promiscuity social mores actually feel hardest on men, and men were much more likely to face direct repercussions like violence from debauching girls (and if the knocked one up, face social pressure to wife her up and provide for the kid(s)). And polygamy is closely related to violence, because it produces a bunch of men with nothing to lose and …
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:26 PM
1

You like her too much and it gives you anxiety. Other plates would help. Also have her start by blowing you (you said you gave her oral already, so, if she's not down for a BJ, major red flag anyway). Lift more and don't watch porn. Don't masturbate much, and don't death grip when you do.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:36 PM
8

Walk away. She's an alcoholic and just gave you a thinly veiled ultimatum of "if you say anything I don't like I might head to the bar and get banged by some outlaw biker, or at least I want to make you upset at the idea that I might". She clearly has less than zero respect for you (negative respect, as in she actively wants to hurt you), and clearly has zero qualms about actual cheating - if she'd threaten to do it, she won't hesitate to actually do it when she sees a guy she'd like to cheat wi…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:31 PM
1

Title: Yes. Question at end of post: No.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:17 PM
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Real talk time. The modern cultural trope, that we project back onto past decides, is that people in the 1950s had arbitrary whims and customs to the effect of "doing certain things (like sex outside marriage) make you a Very Bad Person and we will shun you for no practical reason." The practical reason, though, was that single moms and bastards tend to be a pain in the ass and a drain on resources and sanity on everyone around them. And now we have mountains of data that single mommery leads to…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:03 PM
2

Yes, in every story here about a 'break' suggested by the girl, it turns out she already had a specific guy in mind. There was one where she meets a new guy at a party, then goes into the next room to tell OP that she wants a break, then goes back to new guy's room and fucks him. Same whenever you see a story about the girl suggesting an open relationship, and trying to sell it to beta hubby like he'll have Playboy Bunnies crawling all over him. The girl has a new guy picked out to fuck but she …
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:02 PM
8

Of course. It's called 'day game' and it's a major food group of TRP. Just look up this term in the literature. Book stores are fantastic, lots of conversation fodder and you can use books as props, and elicit her values based on books. You can crack open books to random pages to have joke fodder etc. Sadly physical bookstores are a dying breed, especially ones with a large, interesting inventory (like used bookstores). Small bookstores that just cary the latest Twilight ripoff and pot boilers a…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:04 AM
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Walk away. "Break" is just a way of saying "I want to fuck someone else between now and our next date, and have it not technically be cheating". Especially if the break was her idea. Kissing the other guy might be trickle-truth. Maybe she just kissed him....on the cock for 10 minutes then gargled down his cum. If you take her back and kiss her again, let us know if it's salty.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:26 AM
1

Yeah I had some trouble following the story due to how OP wrote it (I thought I must've missed something else, like a guy being there, to make it a bigger deal). He put himself in a weird, and very beta position with caring so much about the logistical details of her visiting a female friend and making her explain logistical details of the outing. Sounds very annoying, and definitely tells the girl "I have oneitis and mate guard like crazy and I don't think I can do better than you".
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:23 AM
2

"meeting her outside, but there is no need to be so sarcastic and a jerk about it, make your objection known in a more polite way" She sounds like a humorless dick. A healthy relationship with a girl means that when you make a threesome-with-her-friend joke you get a teehee-you-rascal at worst, or a serious attempt for her to wingwoman and help you two hook up with the friend. She obviously has very little respect for you, b/w this and the lie. Also the emotional rambly character of your post te…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:48 PM
1

(Assuming he makes more than her) she actually profits if they divorce, so she doesn't have as much incentive to keep the affair quiet. Go for it if you really want but be prepared for the worst. And remember that being the other guy is a risk factor for FRAs...if she is discovered and confronted, she could always FRA to try to escape blame from her white knight cuck husband. I've fucked a number of married women and never had an issue. (I did almost once leave my wallet and keys in a woman's ma…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:44 PM
0

Yep, never ask. It sounds insecure, you prob won't get an honest answer, and it will discourage future honesty Tyler Durden talks about how you should act super non judgmental and early flirt talk like "so what's your craziest..." a way to encourage her to fess up, and help you elicit values, and calibrate
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:57 PM
1

"One million, one point five, TOPS, I swear" (A&A) or "hey, the past is in the past" (how girls think of their own notch count) or "I don't kiss and tell"
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:55 PM
5

Rich girls are awesome, they are the slowest to bug you about a ring, since marriage is less of a monetary ploy for them (unless ofc you are comparatively richer, which you said you are not)
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:43 PM
2

Yes it is 100% psychological. You have some subconscious instinct...perhaps, as you said, to 'not scare' them, or you feel more deferential or beta around them (if it's like most customer-facing jobs, you have to appease the customer, the customer is always right, maybe you're a sales guy with quarterly numbers to hit, yadda yadda) Poster might have an effect too (due to direct vocal mechanics and/or psychological effects of posture). Try sitting differently or standing while on customer calls. …
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:34 PM
1

You have nothing to worry about, she probably genuinely thought he was creepy (that said, her showing you might have been a jealousy ploy rather than her caring about honesty.) You didn't tell us how you reacted, but hopefully you just casually laughed/smirked along with her and did not act ruffled. Don't bring it up with her again. The right move is probably to do nothing. Getting into a 'war' with a neighbor could go very badly, and you probably couldn't get the guy evicted over it, especially…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:23 AM
1

Approach approach approach. Abundance. Socially lubricate yourself by being outgoing and chatting with people (can be guys, old people, whatever). Get some plates who you find fuckable but aren't so hot that you get oneitis. Whenever I am spinning plates my fav girl to spend time with is the second hottest one cuz I DGAF. Lifting obv. High T will help with the mindset, as will the improved posture and seeing your better self in a mirror (and the feedback loop when you see girls' reactions to ya)…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:25 PM
6

I can't find it but there was some study of men in Papa New Guinea or African bushmen where the men who had killed at least one other men had far more children than the men who hadn't (but were also still alive).
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:21 PM
12

It's not about how assholey you are, it's about the kind of asshole. If you come across as a butthurt ego-defensive assole, that's the kiss of death (for example the 'bitter Nice Guy' thing). If you come across as an asshole cuz you just casually speak your mind without caring about the fallout, that's chick crack.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:20 PM
1

Admitting you have oneitis puts you ahead of 90% of guys who post about "there's this one girl" but deny it. You should go minimum-contact, start lifting a lot and/or join a team sport, and get some other hobby too (like, again, a team sport or spotting buddies). Make her a secondary priority in your life, and she will either start begging for more of your attention or she will just drift away entirely - either way is a much better outcome than your current situation. Strike up conversations wit…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:48 PM
3

I have done 'testing' on this theory with a number of girls, and the only ones who said they could tell a difference were the ones who knew ahead of time that I was or wasn't eating pineapple (aka it wasn't a 'blinded' test). When I tried changing my diet without saying anything, and then mentioned it after the fact, none of them seemed to notice. I've also heard red meat makes it taste worse, but this has also not been borne out by my experiences.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:29 PM
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Let us know if he get's enough pineapple in his diet. Nuked from orbit
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:55 PM
2

If you said "Please go" then you'll look retarded if you get upset at her later for going. It sounds like you recovered hand. But it's possible that all her songs/pictures etc are her compensating for cheating b/c she feels guilty or wants to throw you off the scent. You need to go with your gut instinct here. If you don't think she cheated or wanted to cheat, then I would give her a one-time forgiveness (because you encouraged her to go, and sarcasm doesn't come across well in text). If your gu…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:55 PM
2

In the way that shrinks and media shills and most women mean 'communication', yes, but it doesn't have to be. 'Communication' is often code for things like "If you don't do whatI want, clearly you don't understand me, therefore we aren't communicating well" or "I am going to keep talking about this in a shrill angry voice until you give in b/c you're sick of talking about it" (in other words the debate is not about logic and reason, the debate timesink itself is leverage/blackmail) Also, more co…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:28 PM
1

You need to tell us more about your friend. Is he 6'6" and also really good looking? Or if he one of those tall-awkward guys with shitty posture? What are HIS interactions with women like in the flesh (you'e told us his advice to you, but not what he actually does in the moment to be a 'closer'). He is likely a natural who doesn't know much game at a conscious level but his interactions are naturally alpha without him even realizing (probably due to a nice snowball effect of confidence where he …
/r/askTRP25/05/19 08:43 PM
4

It sounds like "treat them like a lady" to him did NOT mean to act like a beta orbiter or wine'n'dine them, but rather it was what TRP would call self disqualification or aloofness (acting unfazed by the stripper's sexuality).
/r/askTRP25/05/19 12:44 AM
1

I mean...you are disadvantaged (Asian and 5'6" in a white 'market'), there's just no point beating yourself up about it, and the same game advice that allows to everyone applies to you. That, and, focus on girls that are short and/or Asian.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 12:39 AM
2

due to the rise of Kpop in recent years. lol no, few white dudes know what Kpop is, and yellow fever predates it. Male preferences are not very influenced by pop culture, they just like what they like based on visceral visual instinct. It's true there is a bit of the 'grass is greener mentality'. White guys just like Asian girls. But they like white girls better honestly, assuming she's not fat. Might be a toss up between an Asian girl and a brown-eyed black-haired girl. But men of all races wil…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:18 AM
18

Yes. Crab bucket mentality. The best burn on his front was by Ahnuld. Some guys tells him "I wouldn't want to look like that" and Arnold replies "Don't worry, you never will."
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:57 AM
1

Ghost. Ghosting will make her question her own attractiveness (she'll think she wasn't good enough for you), whereas if you confront her, she'll decide that she's too good for you (since you're being territorial while she's still playing the field.) Also if you confront her she will walk away telling herself that she broke up with you, even if it's the other way around. If you ghost, it will zap her ego.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:44 AM
1

With plans to meet.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:12 AM
0

OP's reply is better, yours would come across as slightly butthurt, esp with the exclamation point.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:08 AM
3

Your response is great. You showed outcome independence. She'll either come 'back' to you (and likely not try to stoke jealousy again) or she won't (which is much better than if she did but was seeing/fucking the other guy simultaneously).
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:07 AM
5

Call in an anonymous tip to the cops I'm pro-weed, but anti-asshole
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:32 PM
1

If he still tries to talk to you at the gym, I would just be tactiturn and give him minimal attention (but not vent my anger at him); anyway it's the gym, you're there to work out, not to gossip with mcbroface there. How does he know where you live? I had a vaguely similar situation awhile ago; met up with a 'friend' (I thought) and brought along a girl I was seeing, he susses out enough in conversation to Facebook stalk her and message her. She shows me the messages (but I still considered it a…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:28 PM
3

In that case you should just do the same if he contacts you (but I'm guessing he stopped once he had 'direct access' to her) and it sounds like it won't be an issue. Any hot chick gets hit on all the time, and you wouldn't be present for a lot of the randos who cold open her in public, so the mindset I like to take with these things is that the most important part of the interaction is whether I gain or lose hand/SMV with the girl in how I deal with the other guy (and anyway the best way to redu…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:19 PM
0

Crush his soul. Make him rethink his gym membership. Nice. This was a good laugh (but is serious good advice).
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:12 PM
3

Did she give him her number? Does she reply to his Facebook messages? (100% he is pinging her on FB) If she stonewalls him then this is a nonissue that will go away, but if she's communication with him, big red flag. I'm sure you know this, but the only reason he spun the 'I can help your career' line was 1. to have an excuse to find her FB by being FB friends with you 2. it shows dominance if he's the one claiming he can help you in your career. Also you played into his dominance move by coming…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:10 PM
2

Take him outside. Hiking, fishing, or to the gym to lift. Do manly shit. When he brings up your mother, ask him Socratic / rhetorical questions with no good answer like - "So what are the things you DO like about her? What do you get out of her? What does she do for you? What does she do that proves she loves you?" The answer to all those questions is, of course, 'nothing'. People learn better when they think they came to the answer. Share stories about other men who got out of traps like this -…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:45 PM
2

LMAO great field report. I'm sure you can already tell that you gave preselected vibes, and that's why you closed. Being ambiguous like you were makes for VERY good game. It's better than straight up saying 'yes I am fucking this girl named Jessica b/c' It shows frame when you don't robotically answer her questions like you're on trial. Not answering direct questions is a power move. She can't go into 'feign moral outrage over your cheating/philandering' mode if she's not sure It's less tryhard …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:40 PM
1

Get off social media. Or at least unfollow your exes and don't Instagram-stalk 'em (maybe get a URL blocker for your browser and block her social media pages) Get out into the physical realm, hit the gym. When you have hundreds of pounds of plates on a barbell weighing down on your shoulders as you try to crank out that last squat and you feel like Atlas, other shit stops mattering. P.S. Don't be upset your ex is getting married. It just means some dude is going to end up paying or losing half h…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:07 PM
1

If a hot girl wants to find a lover, she'll find a lover, might as well be you You could always let him know later, esp if you can do so without it leading to you
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:39 PM
5

Unsurprising. It's easier than ever for women to jump into the soft-harems of elite men (thanks to phones/apps/social media, denser urban populations, a lack of cultural mores against being a slut, the ease of contraception or abortion, and the knowledge they can just bill the guy via court ordered child support if they do want to get knocked up). Also, American obesity widens (heh) the SMV distribution. Fat people don't even want to fuck each other, so a lot of these incels are probably super f…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:52 AM
2

Good question, it's a very difficult situation. Sometimes yeah you do just want to walk away (if you sense she is truly attracted to him or untrustworthy..really have to go with your gut). IMO you can take it seriously as long as you keep your cool and say 'no, that's unacceptable, and if you have to ask again there's no salvaging this'. Think of the way a stereotypical 1950s alpha husband (a stereotype every girl splooges for btw, and the more she spews Kool-Aid words like regressive patriarchy…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:01 PM
2

SO REGRESSIVE AND PATRIARCHAL" and left. You were dating someone who had drank Kool-Aid of quasi-religious ideaological justification for (female and female only) cheating. It was only a matter of time before she whored it up. Just be glad you found out now. But just the fact that I will see these guys together on campus everyday for the next 18 months is what will reopen the wound and hurt me. Think of it as all the more reason to get back out there. Snag someone hotter and she WILL hear about …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:02 AM
2

Game recognizes game.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:44 AM
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Glance at your watch.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:57 AM
0

And/or you are seeing what you want to see. They probably think you are needlessly hovering near them. It's very possible they are looking for attention. In some cases it will be 'genuine' (they actually want to be approached and might be down for stuff) and in other cases beta bait (they do want the attention but just for ego, not because they were entertaining the thought of going out with ya). You should be focused on your own workout. Go ahead and approach if you're sure some chick is actual…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:24 AM
2

It means they have had hookups, which means they can and will have future hookups, which might as well be you Sort of like how people who say 'I avoid alcohol' are more likely to've had past issues with it than be genuine lifelnong teetotalers.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:38 AM
0

HS is about social circle game, reputation, and preselection. You don't want to 'cold approach' a lot (even if you technically know her), you want to build a reputation as a cool guy (and be fit/athletic, possibly on a team) and then opportunities will happen in and out of group situations. Talk to lots of people, girls and guys, to build your social circle, and so that you're knowng as an outgoing guy (and thus when you are 'approaching' a girl, it's not as obvious it's just an approach).
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:10 AM
1

It's a continuous function. Higher-n = less suitable. There is no specific cutoff like 'double digits' If so you would have to assume that the girl in question has only been approached by a handful of men with your SMV in her lifetime, less if she's been in relationships. That doesn't seem realistic to me. A girl doesn't sleep with EVERY guy of a certain SMV of better. Think about your own experience...you've probably struck out with girls who were less hot than some of the ones you did bang. BU…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:54 AM
2

Yep. First two rules. When girls like being objectified, they aren't even thinking of if in terms of the word 'objectified'.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:37 AM
2

I'm not sure if you're speaking idiomatically or actually religious, but whether you are or not, I would strongly suggest reading about the ex-psych behind female behavior. I realize that that evolution can be a touchy issue for some people on religious grounds, but trust me it will make all this stuff a lot clearer. (And for the record I am not trying to provoke any sort of religious argument, and I will say that, in modern times, it's the extreme secular political Left that has become more ant…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:36 AM
2

Every girl is in that pool if your value is high enough.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:34 AM
12

If you fail to ONS / same day lay a girl, that doesn't make her a good girl. She might still same day lay other guys...you'll just never know for sure. The sooner you have sex with a girl, the more information you get about her sexual mores. If you wait forever, you can't tell whether she's really your magical unicorn, or you just had poor game / were her backup / friendzoned yourself.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:22 PM
3

Damn. How'd your half-bro turn out?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:20 PM
9

You can still hate the guys. Guys who do that are still shitheads, it's just that you need to also recognize that females often rewards that shithead behavior.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:19 PM
7

It subcommunicates that the guy has higher value, that he easily gets sex from girls at least as hot as her, and treats her accordingly.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:18 PM
1

It exists, but only if you put yourself there and stay there. You are not her friend, you are just her orbiter. The friendzone is a misnomer, yes, but that's different than not existing. Like 'you drive in a parkway but park in a driveway'.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:38 AM
1

"Relationship is not important for sex" Flip that script I have banged a number of religious virgins; if your value is high enough, it's not an issue.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:22 AM
14

Crab bucket mentality. They know 20something white women are the most desired by basically all ages or races of men, so if course they are going to fling shit uphill.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:50 AM
2

and she has dropped them all since she starting hanging with me So she was juggling a bunch of guys when she met you? That doesn't sound terribly promising Keep in mind I’m only her 2nd N count and first was an LTR She says Bottom line advie, don't change her mind, change her mood. DOn'T have some long 'yes dear' conversation where you explicitly nod your head to all her ramblings. Instead, just give her good times and good experiences that make her feel comfort and connection.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:37 AM
3

The ex bf sounds literally crazy, it's foolhardy to try to logically deduce that he wouldn't do X because he's too cowardly.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:43 AM
1

Did you actually SEE this little Satanic ritual, or is all of this coming from her mouth? What information do you have that did not come through her? Anyway, whether it's real or not, the answer is: Ghost. The dude could kill you, and if she's not willing to call the police, there's not much you can do. It's not your job to get stabbed to death by being her knight in shining armor when she could literally dial 3 digits on her phone to call a bunch of professional white knights with badges and un…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:42 AM
2

STDs?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:32 PM
1

"It just happened". It shifts accountability, responsibility, or blame.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:24 PM
14

Thank U Next is a slut anthem, yes, as well as an example of gender projection (and even the ironically feminist idea that women should use traditional male yardsticks for female success): Every women knows (at least subconsciously) that the best desirable men are alphas in a position to say 'thank you, next' with a litany of desirable women. 'Next' is even core TRP/PUA terminology and the song uses it in the same way. The song is attempting to culturally appropriate (heh) this by pretending a w…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:30 PM
1

I bet you're right. If he'd spazzed out "ohhhh noo I'm a nice guy I would never do that" he might be in jail.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:23 PM
1

As soon as you got to the 'phone call in the bathroom' part my spidey sense said 'boyfriend or parents wondering where she is'. And needless to say her behavior is very weird even for that. Thank your fucking lucky stars Sally ultimately told the truth. She had your entire life in her hands at that moment. I'm guessing what happened is Bob is a white knight orbiter and Sally accidentally told him enough that she become worried that her boyfriend/parents would find out, and he asked her leading q…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 08:36 PM
6

Then you need to be uncomfortable and nervous around women much much much more often, and you will start to become comfortable and confident. There is no substitute for practice.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:29 AM
1

Sounds like you just need to walk the walk theb. Get a LTR, maybe pop out some kids who actually get raised with two parents, and do your homework on how to mitigate divorce rape probability
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:17 AM
4

No. You value what you value. Is it wrong to like the taste of blueberries?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:16 AM
1

lol yes you fucked up Ignore the ex shit. Set logistics for next date (or maybe ghost for a bit and let her do so) and play it cool
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:15 AM
2

Those women would score their beta cucks/fucks with or without your alpha dick in their past. And that's true whether or not the time they sent with you would've been replaced with some other alpha dick. Refusing to fuck women will not dampen their prime directives or make them less craft. You will spin plates and waste valuable time on whores when you could be investing that time on more valuable people and relationships, not necessarily of the sexual kind. I think the Red Piller loses. You nee…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:10 AM
1

Well it's not a zero sum game. If you enjoy the fling and so does she, so be it. TRP is not primarily concerned with 'punishing' people for 'bad behavior....it simply ALSO isn't concerned with bailing out or subsidizing crappy decisions either. TRP tends to suggest not giving much commitment in sluts or 'buying' their affection via expensive gifts / dates, and certainly not shit like letting them live with you rent-free. So in that sense it is definitely not rewarding sluts. TRP is about doing w…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:03 AM
3

You don't need a family to not be alone. BUT, fuckbuddies are not close relationships in the same way, and neither are guy friends ...except buddies you've had since your youth, or certain things like war buddies. Anyone you meet after 30 is unlikely to ever be a truly close relationship. Try to stay in touch with your kin (siblings cousins etc.) even if (especially if?) you've become geographically dispersed.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:37 AM
1

Yup. "Meet you...or whomever gets there first"
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:37 PM
1

Damn that's interesting. Usually I've seen 'school shooter' as basically a dog whistle for 'skinny white guy' (like the recent controversial video with the Black Israelite dudes screaming at the Catholic high schoolers in MAGA caps, also I think I saw it a few times on roastme where anything is fair game) Well anyway you gotta go on tone. Guys rib their guy friends all the time so if he said you look like a school shooter in a lighthearted way with no one in earshot, it could just be tough love …
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:29 AM
3

Why bother. 38 and only 'somewhat attrative'? Yeah just go over to her place if she's invited you. Treat it like strict fuckbuddy / bootycall land. You said you're not looking for a relationship, and if she sees an 18 yo college student as a sugar daddy or potential life soulmate she's insane. Also wrap it the fuck up cuz she's at the very tail end of her fertility window and may have desperate babyfever and be looking to get knocked up ASAP. Plus if she's a 38yo single cougar matching 18yo dude…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:21 AM
1

Are you white and your friend nonwhite?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:15 PM
9

it's a dog whistle for 'teenage white guy'
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:15 PM
3

ASD, societal pressure that it's slutty to care about looks/muscles and gold-diggery to care about money (which is true). Every girl DOES find these things attractive so it's like an Emperor's New Clothes prisoner's dilemma - they all feel that way, but no one wants to admit it if everyone else isn't already admitting it. Women hate the idea of a beta faking status and impregnating her with inferior seed, so they have incentive to NOT help men improve their SMV by trying hard, and thus not tell …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:54 PM
23

Learn to make it interesting. Anyway there's no paradox. "Women don't want to run the marathon with you, they just want to meet you at the finish line."
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:37 PM
1

Delete therapist sessions, hit the gym Your shitty therapist will only turn you BP if you let it. Quit going (are you PAYING for this shit?) unless it's some weird court mandated bullshit (in which case go, play along, then GTFO once you are done)
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:14 PM
2

2 and 4 are false. If you are physically attractive enough and/or come with enough preselection / reputation, she will be attracted to you without you gaming her. Girls crush on celebrities they have never even met.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:13 AM
5

Given the aftermath it sounds like you passed the shit test. I have done this (open one-sided monogamy) and it works very well but you do need iron frame for shit tests about it. And it gets tougher over a long-term multi-month/year time frame when she cares more abotu commitment. Girls care more about emotional infidelity, so the #1 thing you can do to preempt the worst of the hysterics and shit tests is to send a vibe that you don't care about the other chick(s) and they are just fuckbuddies. …
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:08 AM
2

Don't say anything in a recordable medium. In fact this might be 'get the fuck off Reddit and have a chat with a lawyer' turf. First of all, you're a moron for indulging her that way the first time you had sex with her, no matter how bad she begs to be spanked you shouldn't be leaving bruises. She's probably worried that another guy or a family member will see the bruises. If she FRAs you, the fact that she literally asked for them is not going to do you much good in the court of public opinion,…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:31 PM
4

You spat weak game, "How's life treating you?" does not generate tingles and is practically 'how about the weather?' tier asexual banter. You should have had more innuendo and kino with someone that DTF and guided her to the exit and home like she just indicated she was prob down for. It's possible that "Hold on, I might go home with this guy." is some sort of running joke that her friends will say sarcastically to each other. But you should assume the sale.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:38 PM
1

Caveman game. Don't try to tap everything into fucking Google Translate, that sounds unromantic as hell Read each other's gestures and body language. Kino. Voulez vous couche avec moi sousoir
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:25 PM
1

This whole situation is a nice little metaphor for the rapefugee and illegal invader situations in Europe and North America lol It's hard to follow the story because your grammar is terrible. Did you fly a coworker out on YOUR dime because of some work project? That's what the company should be paying for: her flight and hotel. You were right to flip out and boot the guy out. It's your place, period. He could be a thief, etc. He could trip and hurt himself on your furniture like an idiot and sue…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:07 PM
6

Fuck that. Or rather, don't fuck them. Lift and approach, my man.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:17 PM
2

Preach
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:40 PM
3

Every woman wants a strong, wild bad boy who becomes a prince for her.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:32 PM
1

Love is an emotional reaction to perceived romantic and sexual scarcity. That doesn't mean it's fake. It's a very real product of millions of years of evolution. But it can be misleading, and cause you to be very irrational. And lots of pop culture conceptions about love are very wrong, deliberately so to try to convince you to be a good little beta provider cog.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:31 PM
32

This is true. And the women can sense this too (and often they are angling for it and doing what they can to socially isolate him). Also the men who let this happen will be the most crushed when dumped (and prob most likely to be dumped too)
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:26 PM
1

dago refers to Spaniard, not Italian, you utter moron. One of these guys def fucked your oneitis eh?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 10:05 PM
2

With 'wit' like this, no wonder you're having trouble with girls. Sounds like we really triggered you. Other guy was right about Pajeet huh?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:57 PM
2

Civilization-level shit test. And envy.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:46 PM
155

LMAO I was expecting a selfie or a reference image to an anatomy book or some shit First of all, bro, you want to become 3D instead of 2D. Those DIMENSION GAINZ are where it's at. Look up fucking postures and get legit athletic or medical advice. You probably have anterior pelvic tilt...I say that not cuz of your shitty image, but because that's the most common modern posture failure mode.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:17 PM
2

That is correct. And consistent with my statement: that girls get upset when a guy is 'cheap', because it makes her question her own hotness. The reason there's no contradiction is that a girl being happy about being bought stuff is NOT the same thing as her being happy with the guy or appreciating the guy. (And yes it's very true that this happiness is a transient dophamine yet and it does NOT make her happy in a long term sense.) Imagine a rich guy went insane one day and wrote you a check for…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:05 PM
1

Yes of course. You could change 'approaching' to 'experience with women' in my last sentence And if women give you IOIs and approach but you always fumble it after that, then your SMV isn't really that high. It means you have looks but low SMV due to other things like weak game or a DLVing life story
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:30 AM
2

Judging by a question like this, username does not check out
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:02 PM
2

roasted
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:02 PM
1

you're on a tear with the roasts
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:02 PM
90

women get constant feedback on their SMV in the form of men hitting on them (and she can judge her SMV by the quality of the men and how expensive the shit they give her is, which btw is why they get so offended when a low value guy thinks he has a chance or a guy is 'cheap'...they get an ego scare, questioning their SMV). Plus female SMV is quick to judge (appearance), and girls have a very keen eye for female hotness. Judging male SMV is trickier, and the true test of your own SMV requires act…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:58 PM
3

Shittily worded, but I assume you're saying "do I have the SMV to have multiple plates who are into BDSM?" Yes, you can, just follow all the usual advice. Most girls are into BDSM it turns out. If you're bald, keep it shaved. Everyone says pure bald is better than baldING.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:01 PM
1

Shit tests. This is basic shit testing. In the two examples you gave, the girls were unusually candid about the fact that they were shit testing you. The best natural defense against it is to be a man with a plan and actually know what you want to do. You should have a workout routine, and you should have thought about whether you want a vasectomy. Advice from a girl is just like advice from a guy...ignore the fact that you want to sleep with the advice giver, and consider the advice on its own …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:29 PM
2

Yes indeed, that is what will happen. It should be genuine, too. My time is valuable, the gym has more value than a tepid evening of hanging around with a chick not-doing-something-interesting. If she doesn't want to have sex, that's 100% fine, but if she can't think of some other interesting activity (why should the guy have to?) I might as well do something useful with my time. As with anything, it should not sound butthurt, and you should leave promptly (don't seem like you're hanging around …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:08 AM
8

"k, I've got some energy, I think I'll hit the gym" And do it. Go jog/drive to your gym (you DO have one right) even if it's the middle of the night. Especially if it's the middle of the night. Working out will improve your head space and physique and rekindle attraction This shows non-neediness It shows you have other outlets for your energy She will wonder if any of those outlets could be other girls
/r/askTRP13/01/19 09:38 PM
13

ASD. Girls like to bait the guy into making the more obvious move, even when they are craving it. Like sexting and sending nudes and in the hopes he will make the explicit 'booty call' text. "Men desire women. Women desire being desired by men."
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:46 PM
4

If she is into you, yes. If she doesn't, she's prob not that into you.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:45 PM
2

Get out ASAP. If possible, with evidence (text etc.) of her saying this. If she'd do this, she might also make false accusations about you to other people, and/or get violent with you.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:18 PM
5

Best one in the thread. It subverts expectations (you're complimenting her hair and not her T&A) but in a pithy, detached way that does not sound like your'e too polite/beta to say 'dat ass'. It shows state control (you can appreciate her beauty but aren't drooling), it's a very gentle neg too Most of this threads' replies are too neggy. When she's doing something good, you want to reward her. 'Nice hair' is a reward, but a humorously underwhelming one, that keeps her going.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 08:51 PM
7

This works, and is one of the best red pill lessons for yourself. You can go BP and see her attraction wither in real time. (The longer the LTR and the more attractive you were, the longer it will take to make it wither.) Tends to result in low drama breakups b/c by that point she doesn't feel like she's losing anything terribly valuable. I've done it a few times. And if you want a real front row seat to the hamster...after that happens, you can tell her what you did and watch her cognitive diss…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:25 PM
2

idk how it is for bi guys, but even if he enjoys being a bottom, but he ALSO enjoys fucking girls, then anything which makes it easier to fuck girls (higher SMV) might shift his preferences towards straight
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:47 PM
2

Number 2 would make sense. Getting laid is surely much easier for gay guys, so a bi guy increasing his SMV could make him more interested in women (because he knows it's more achievable now).
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:28 PM
2

She's no virgin, but she'll make sure you treat her like one. This line is gold
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:43 PM
1

Don't let her use you as an SMS therapist if her texts get longwinded. Replied like your 'okay' are good, if she keeps texting, try to set up another meet, if she professes excuses yet again, just reply 'k' or 'right' or somesuch.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:37 AM
1

Ignore the text If she brings it up in person "this bar has great grub" If she texts to say she refuses to meet up unless you caves to the demands (i.e. she threatens to flake as a shit test / ultimatu), ignore that, don't show up for the date, an radio silence until you get some sort of text apology. If that never happens, fine, it means she wasn't that into you.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:27 PM
1

Your SMV is not maxxed. Your SMV is never maxxed. You aren't a celebrity, for example. Your physique can always be better. Being in school for a master's degree is not really a DHV (grad school is not cool/attractive to most girls) and you have self esteem issues. It's good you can admit it and work on it... Anyway you've basically answered your own question: you need new friends. Keep hitting the gym. Approach. What's your master's in? Is it an actual marketable skill?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:05 PM
1

Addiction. Every addiction is like that. Excessive social media can be a prisoner's dilemma. No one really loves being on it all the time, but they have FOMO because everyone else is on it...so they all keep checking for updates every 90 seconds.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:19 PM
3

Yes that is textbook AF/BB, and sorry about your shitty mother. Ever considered comparing your DNA or your sister'ss to your 'dad's? Or even just testing yourself to your sister (possible but unlikely that a woman like your mom cucked your dad with the SAME guy twice). You've seen the ex con AF in person; whom do you resemble more?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:05 PM
2

You need to be more attractive, it's that simple.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:57 PM
5

Imagine you constantly had 20 women, whom you found attractive enough (some more than others, but you could see yourself having a fling with any or all of them) spamming you with tons of messages, offers to buy you dinners and other shit, do all the driving, they have logistics figured out in case your place stinks, etc. You would adopt very streamlined, mercenary filtering methods for juggling them and time management. This is the life of the modern urban Western attractive woman.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:56 PM
0

Weekends together is normal, but it's also fair for you to tell the roommate that ya'll need to do a 60/40 split on rent/utilities/whatever and double parking your car is always unacceptable
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:18 AM
3

Don't go out seeking commitment. Spin plates, and at some point you may have a gut instinct that one of them is worthy of some commitment. Don't try to force it.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:14 PM
3

Is this through Tinder or other e-dating? If so, yeah you do need to build a bit of rapport via text game, but pics are 90% of Tinder If it's someone you already met in person, there's really no need, you should've built that attraction and comfort during that previous in person meet
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:42 AM
1

IME, they will periodically shit-test the arrangement, yes, but then again, she would be shit-testing something else anyway. It's generally another flavor of 'I want more commitment'. All the usual maxims apply like to any shit test (don't get defensive, don't bother with abstract or scientific appeals, if she gets political about it or tries to make it into a gender or equality thing, don't take the political bait) If the shit test takes the form of a pointed '...but how would you feel if it we…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:27 AM
3

Yes. You're just convincing yourself you enjoy it. Imagine the girl you're chatting to were an 80 year old woman in Siberia or an advanced AI chatbot, so no hope/point of ever meeting in the flesh and you wouldn't want to, but she texted in exactly the same way as a 20 year old hottie in your neighborhood. Would you still spend your time on that? If no, you're not really enjoying it for its own sake, now are you. It's all just a preamble to meeting in the flesh. Which by the way is the best way …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:57 PM
1

If you're considering one, it means you have scarcity mentality. Why the fuck wouldn't you just go find some similar girl who doesn't want to suck off other dudes and then kiss you after? If 'your' girl just asked you about it...she's probably already got a guy in mind and may've already fucked him. Walk away. Only acceptable open relationship is open for you and not for her. I have had girls ENTHUSIASTICALLY go for this arrangement and wingwoman to help me get side pieces or set up three ways. …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:32 PM
7

Conservatives by a long shot. Mostly younger, not-very-religious conservatives. Leftists (the term liberal is antiquated as the political left is mostly for big government, including speech codes, and illiberal) are generally anti-TRP because of Cultural Marxism, and beliefs like 'there are no gender differences' and 'women are always victims and men are responsible for all evil' - which are of course contradictory with each other, but also both contradicted by the evolutionary science which TRP…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:14 PM
4

Bless your little heart
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:00 PM
1

Sounds like you're pretty fucked, mate. Enjoy the upcoming separation and 18 years of child support. ALso, get a DNA test pronto. Of course paternity leave is for the fucking baby. If she has a problem with that, she's going to be a shitty partner and mother.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:29 PM
2

Well I said '45 plate' not '45 bar' in my original post. And even though 'bar' went unstated in my original post, it goes without saying when the listener knows weightlifting, you aren't bench pressing without a bar.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:17 PM
1

You're trying to be rational now and talk actual shop, I'll give you that. But you're still falling for an old blue pill talking point that lust and connection are independent axes. Far from it. A woman being in love with you and forming a 'connection' is VERY closely associated with her being in lust with you and sexually desiring you. Your disagreements are entirely with strawmen in your own head: While you can use the same theory to get sex it doesn't translate into a LTR based on connection.…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:07 PM
3

45 bar + 2x45 plates + 2x25 plattes = 185 When I said "on each side" that referred to both the 45s and 25s. My grammar is perhaps ambiguous BUT it's contextually obvious in weightlifting that the load should be symmetric. Whenever anyone says "I had a 45 and 25 on for my bench" they will mean one on each side.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:23 PM
4

Impressive compared to modern couch potato standards Not that impressive within the weightlifting subculture It's very easy to achieve if you are not fat. Only the tallest or strongest guys have over 185 of lean mass and almost any adult man should be able to reach an 185 bench one 45 plate + one 25 on each side) pretty easily. Let me out it this way - if you can't yet do it, make it your goal, via a combination of gaining the strength and losing any excess fat. Get there, and then worry about w…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:13 PM
3

You: https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/facebook/000/011/869/internet_white_knight_colored_4350.jpg TRP applies to relationships. It's that simple. It's very obvious you've never had a woman who happily cooked or offered sexually favors. If you think these things could only ever happen due to 'games' and it make a woman 'a beta bitch', you have serious mental problems and you have obviously never made a woman genuinely attracted you. (And this is doubly pathetic given that you're obviously much…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:42 AM
3

Go outside and approach. If your game is strong, you WILL get fulfilling relationships. That is the easy part. That will come very naturally and easy if you have gotten a girl very attracted to you. She will get into the shit you are into, she will cook, and offer all sexual favors you can think of, give you time alone when you want, etc. You do not need a bunch of separate theory adn books on maintaining a strong relationship. Just maintain the same TRP principle during the relationship and all…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:00 PM
5

A&A is always the way to go with this shit test "That's not true! I use you for sex AND the good liquor you have" "Well I was planning to just use you for sex, but then we started watching [show] together so I guess I'll stick around to see how it hends"
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:03 AM
3

Women have hidden ovulation so that men couldn't evolve to only be attracted to them during ovulation, so that they can use sex as a bartering chip on any day of the month. At a subconscious level they will fuck different types of guys on different times at the month. Also their promiscuity is mostly with the upper 10% of guys. Also we have removed basically all the natural downsides to promiscuity, via weakening of taboos, easy availability of birth control and abortions, and government mandate…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:05 PM
2

"...ruin her chances of getting laid by the guy she really wants, in a way that maintains some ASD so he might offer commitment later " It should go without saying.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:17 AM
5

Many reasons They crave the best genes. If they admit they like muscles so you work out more....that's not really what they crave; they crave the idea of 'naturally looks like He-Man genetics' (even though you and I know that physique is 90% effort 10% genes) They want you to work harder, buy them shit etc. If they say 'they just like height' that doesn't incentive the guy to work harder, as he can't really change his height. So they might 'hint' how amazing Hawaii would be in the hope he will b…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:26 PM
1

She wants attention/validation. It's possible she's also hoping that she can get power over you by making you afraid of being 'reported' (so that when she bails on work and asks you to cover your shift, you're afraid to say no..shit like that) You handled it well. You should just be like 'nope' and don't act defensive (that'll make them smell blood in the water)
/r/askTRP09/12/18 01:11 AM
1

The bros accidentally helped you with a bit of dread game She has a glass ego. And OF COURSE her friends will say she is cooler If she were asking her friends this without the context of the bros who said you were cooler, it would mean she was thinking of branch swinging. As it is, it's just her glass ego. Ignore. But if you keep seeing similar stuff, consider it a yellow flag
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:42 AM
0

Bill Cosby straight up admitted to drugging the women
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:06 PM
1

It's rarer than you would think from browsing places like this subreddit But it can happen. And if it does, then DON'T TALK TO THE POLICE, lawyer up immediately and listen to your lawyer And you should take preventative measures. Like saving texts where she gushes about how much she enjoyed the sex, and being wary of chicks who might have a motive to lie later on (caught cheating and throwing you under the bus etc)
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:05 PM
1

Have a lot of them
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:19 PM
2

Night and day. Women who happily agree to one sided exclusivity and they even enjoy hearing about my exploits with other girls while seeing them. Cleaning my place, lots of great cooking, begging for hardcore BDSM sessions (honestly a nice energetic BJ does it for me, but girls all really love the intense shit), writing or typing pages and pages of love notes, lots of presents, etc .
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:47 PM
1

It's a red or maybe yellow flag, irrespective of how ripped or good looking you are. Don't let it make you insecure. (But if it helps motivate you to get more gainz, fine.) I'd downgrade her from LTR to plate. A girl who's still jonesing for other guys is not LTR worthy. As everyone else said, you have oneitis / insecurities if you're even checking and caring about some chick's instagram likes.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:50 AM
13

lol why is this a problem? Before Tinder, school age people got most of their hookups via classmates. Now you just have one more reason to catch her after class and ask her out Or, just proceed over Tinder convo, and let her be the one to bring up 'oh hey we already know each other'. In fact that's probably better, since if you act like you didn't even 2+2 recognize her, it makes you seem less invested
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:04 AM
5

If you feel like it was left for you to find, shit test, and you should ignore. (And if it genuinely puts you off too much, ghost here. There is NO point in confronting. You just give her power if you act jealous.) If they were just left there thoughtlessly...well, did you think she was a virgin or what?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:02 AM
1

Multiple. If you get down to one, pickup some more None only for when you need some serious focus for some reason like you're about to take the bar exam
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:45 AM
1

Shit tests. No, don't clear things up. She's making you jump through hoops. If you agree to her frame 'okay we can discuss your Issues before I am allowed to see you again' you have showed her that she controls the terms of engagement and can make you grovel to get another chance with her. If she's actually attracted to you, she'll be willing to meet up without such conditions. You failed a shit test by getting into a serious gender politics discussion on the date. (Not failed as bad as if you a…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:29 PM
2

Relatedly, this is why "did we have sex last night?" is a no-win situation. 'Yes', and he just admitted to something, 'no', and she feels rejected and might do this to save face.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:03 AM
1

You were drunk and interpreting everything as IOIs due to liquid courage.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:48 PM
7

This is 100% what it is. She feels rejected and took an ego hit so now she's telling herself that he DID do something, as that makes her feel desired.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:44 PM
1

Needs a helluva lot more details. Did she lie about being raped by YOU, or some other guy (sounds like she's claiming the guy she cheated with raped her)? Could you prove she lied (yes it's fucked to invert the burden of proof, but it'd still be good to know if you have evidence)? Is she saying this lie to people you know, or not?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:29 PM
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Yes. Virtually all girls are super super into BDSM. For me, getting a nice enthusiastic BJ is as good as anything, time after time, but most girls really get off on elaborate submissive roleplay and mixing in different kinky elements. And yes this has ratcheted (pun intended) up in recent years, likely due to More exposure to these things in media like 50 Shades (ofc it goes both ways, and 50 Shades was so popular b/c women already crave this) Harder to find fit men with a dominant personality i…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:53 PM
0

But with “this one girl” (oneitis), I get jealous knowing she’s seeing someone else. Is she CURRENTLY seeing him? It's not clear here. That sounds like she is. I don't cross swords. Insta-chuck if she's seeing someone else. In any case, you have full blown oneitis. You need to stop giving a shit or seeing her as more than a fling. If you can't do that, you need to cold turkey leave her entirely. Also you said 'favorite plate' but do you actually have other plates?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:37 PM
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Yes, that is the most normal thing in the world, just ask Darwin. Is this normal in woman's nature or what should I do? She is my ex-oneitis's best friend, and by the Iois she is giving me she is pretty intrested. All the more reason to flirt back, might help with that oneitis...which may not be quite so "ex-" given that you went out of your way to mention it and it's apparently still making you hesitate in approaching other girls. I have been lifting for 4months, is such action fine to take or …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:32 PM
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I can believe you were killing it, I'm just saying that, in general, guys overestimate their drunk game and you being on fire last night may not happen every time. (Certainly it's true some of my fastest meet to lays where while I waas drunk) and the usual game advice from very high level PUAs seems to be to learn about DGAF and courage from your drunk self but not to actually use significant alcohol consumption as a long term strategy. (Plus, the calories.)
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:10 PM
5

Your drunk game is not nearly as good as you think it is. EVERY GUY EVER think that he's a happenin' alpha ace when he's drunk. It's called Liquid Courage for a reason. Alcohol makes you perceive yourself as much wittier and more charismatic than you think you are (you tend not to notice your own slurred speech and body language etc.) Think about how other guys seem when they are drunk. That said, the internal part (the courage) is being drunk IS something you should try to emulate while sober. …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:24 PM
3

She's getting ready to branch swing. She's FB friends with some dude that she wants to look more available for. You know this in your heart already. So just calmly break up with her and walk away.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:09 PM
1

If you're going to screw multiple girls who know each other, that should be your frame from the getgo (i.e. tell them that's how it is), cuz they WILL talk. The real reason girls get so upset when you're found out isn't the sex. It's that having to lie shows weakness. I've had LTRs who were down with my having other plates (and even got off on it and/or were down for threeways) but for it to work, it has to be the frame you establish from the very beginning.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:04 PM
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Do you have friends/classmates/etc in common? (Especially, a girl he's pining for?) He's planning to 'use what you say against you' and go gossip about the horrible things you said by quoting them out of context or outright lying about what you said. It's a waste of your time, but if you want to talk to him for the lulz, you could practice your Socratic Method Game by responding to everything he says with a leading question, getting him to bloviate more and more while never revealing anything yo…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:21 PM
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That is very solid and RP advice, yes. Note how it's the opposite of JBU (just be yourself) or 'give up and die' blue pill advice (usually given by beta men with a crab-bucket mentality, or women who want to make sure the betas reveal themselves as such and do not dare to improve their lot).
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:14 AM
1

This is a great anecdote.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:29 PM
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^ This is all excellent advice OP. For BJs and anal it's often useful to begin penetration before you're at full size.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:27 PM
3

Ignore those rumors. Good chance they were started by a rival who just wants to make her sound like a slut anyway. And even if it's true, letting it affect your headspace would matter FAR more than the actual preference she might have.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:26 PM
5

You don't need to know her intentions. Just assume the sale - aka she wants to get back together with you - and proceed to get together physically and kino escalate. If her intentions are some BS like 'I was hoping you would loan me money' the fastest way to find out is to escalate so she tries to LJBF you, states her true motive, and then you can walk way. (And if she doesn't want to meet in person, then that tells you she has little interest and just wanted some ego-stroking or shoulder to cry…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:15 PM
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No, don't ask, it makes you sound emotionally invested, you won't get a a straight answer anyway, it's an anti-flirty vibe. Just flirt, almost like you would with a new chick. Since she broke up with you aka had hand and thought she was better than you last time, you need to be aloof, uninvested, and make her come to you. Set up logistics that are good for you and good for a bang. If, in person, she starts going on about emotional stuff or 'where do you see us/this now' etc. be laconic and use t…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:05 PM
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She probably just broke up with someone (or gave up on some new prospect). Plate/fuck her if you want, sure. Whether you should take her back as a 'gf' depends on how you broke up, which you didn't tell us. (IF she broke it off, you should NEVER take her back as more than a plate.)
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:57 PM
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She wanted you to want her. She was hoping you would stroke her ego (and give her free shit) by being a beta orbiter who would take her out for dinners etc. for the merest whiff of a chance of getting laid. Your 'no thanks' made her question her own attractiveness and ability to drag men into orbit. So she's upset by the blow to her ego and is taking it out on you.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:43 PM
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This is my experience too. If you're slumming it a bit, the girl can smell that she's not a serious LTR prospect for you, and will have lots more ASD and a chip on her shoulder. She'll be more jealous and nosy about what you're doing with your time when not with her.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:16 PM
2

You can work your way up the scale to build confidence and game practice, yes. Caveats: Being seen with a plain jain may be negative preselection to a hotter girl. 1 point lower is probably still positive preselection (albeit much milder that if the girl already on your arm were hotter, obv), 2 lower is neutral or maybe negative, 3+ is very negative. Make sure you're still chasing girls you actually find attractive and physically want to bang. They should pass the boner test and it should be abl…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:14 PM
1

Do not say anything, ever. Don't say anything to him. And don't even talk to her to try to convince her to be quiet. (She won't tell him anyway. You'll see.) If you've read of other FRAs around here, the #1 risk factor for a FRA is when she cheated and uses an FRA to cover for it. Anyway, wtf do you mean they 'have a thing'? Are they fucking or not? Boyfriend girlfriend? Is he just an orbiter who told you he liked her?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:02 PM
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When not in a LTR, tons. Probably a few hundred lifetime cold approaches (which is not even that many, if you're never in LTRs you should do a few hundred a year), a school campus daygame (still a cold approach if you don't know each other), other daygame, parties, and a little in clubs/bars.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 01:15 AM
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That's butthurt omega shit. If she's not interested, she's not interested. Just leave her be. Girls know that if they don't like a guy, they more they 'lead him on' with polite replies, the harder it is to shake him off later. I 100% do not blame a girl for just droping the text convo if she's not into you. It's not very rude unless she's standing you up or something.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:19 AM
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You sound like you're in a pretty good position, all things concerned. It's very difficult to give TRP fatherhood advice, since the usual advice is 'stay the fuck away' (and unfortunately if everyone takes that advice, Western Civilization is gone), but the most important things are 1. physical health is the most important thing (breastfeeding, don't let anyone get obese or diabetic, if it's a son do some research on what helps with height and T levels) 2. leading by example and being manly is w…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:41 AM
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It's really hard to judge from a verbal description whether it's truly weird or just IOIs. Eye contact is generally a good sign, so just start flirting with her. Don't try to spin up some elaborate 'eye contact game' theory where you eyefuck her back day after day but never bust a real move. Yeah maybe she's s a psycho and that's why she has intense eye contact. But that's unlikely (I mean other than the normal amount of psycho for a normal modern thot who got prescribed an antidepressant). And …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:19 PM
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Very good if you make the same income. That gives her less incentive to use courts against you. Breastfeeding is extremely important for for baby health so if she has a crap maternity leave policy and wants to take some time off work, I would consider that acceptable. But don't let her bail out on her career entirely and try to live off you (aka she should go back to work)
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:16 PM
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Congrats. Now go talk to her, and get back to us with the field report. You'll enjoy the blowjob from her much more than humblebragging about eye contact to us here. Don't get into some staring contest with her. Just walk up and talk to her.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:34 PM
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Yes, move in. A nuclear family is the best environment for a child (you are smart not to get married on paper, though, assuming you make more money), and (although you should really ask a local lawyer about this) I don't believe cohabiting would entitle her to more child support down the line. You might want to look up / ask a lawyer about common law marriage rules though. Frankly though, parenthood is I "do or do not there is no try" thing so you should probably cohabit anyway. Will save on ren…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:27 PM
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Ignore (both mentally and in your reply) and proceed. Your text reply should be unrelated (or start with something like "Of course" or "Okay" then) set up logistics. Ideally logistics somewhere she's not worried about being seen by a friend or the guy. (And do not consider her a LTR candidate. Ever). (Also keep some evidence of her enthusiastic consent. Higher FRA probability)
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:22 AM
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Play it cool, don't fuck up your grade. 48 Laws of Power: "Think as you like, but behave like others." This isn't the hill to die on. Set your ego aside, don't overthink alpha/beta shit in this context, and just get a good grade.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 12:52 AM
1

You said yourself they get laid more. If it's stupid but it works, it ain't stupid
/r/askTRP09/10/18 12:11 AM
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Whether to get legally divorced or not is a question you should ask a lawyer. Her reasoning, whatever it is, is likely extremely mercenary (getting more money out of you). I'm guessing that she needs to divorce to collect alimony / child support so that's probably her angle. The phone-guarding is a common red flag for cheating. It's clear from your post that she's a monster. You should never have any feelings or lust for her ever again. Only your wellbeing and your son's are your priorities. If …
/r/askTRP09/10/18 12:08 AM
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GOOD! One of the best things about having a lot of sex young is you stop overvalueing it so much, and it helps you be more DGAF, whcih helps with game and sex itself (non-needy attitude), and focus on other things like career, fitness, hobbies, or finding a LTR. So do all those. What you probably need is a very casual LTR or recurring plate(s). Girls you have some rapport with and you can enjoy not-just-sex but also doing other shit you like to do (like going to be beach or literal Netflix and C…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:57 PM
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Also knew a guy who did the reverse (he lived in Vegas and would hit up the biggest tourist clubs/bars on the Strip to pull girls weekend / bachelorette party thots....I'm guessing a lot of local men in Vegas and other tourist hotspots do shit like this)
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:47 PM
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When I think back, a lot of my same night lays were at college or recent-grad parties where I was like a from-out-of-tow friend of the host, or a friend of a friend, so I wasn't some uninvited rando and I did have some social proof, but, I was a new face to most people there. I've heard of some guys claiming to be from out of town when they go to certain parties (or clubs) to lower ASD
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:34 PM
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I can't imagine myself taking back a 'temp break up' chick as a serious girlfriend. Whether I took her back as a plate/fuck would depend on my gut instinct on whether she had screwed around during the 'break' or it was 'just' something else like having mental issues. And if you take her back as a plate, up to you on whether you tell her she's just a plate now. (But even if you do 'take her back' in some capacity, be more aloof and sexual and treat her like a booty call) A girl like this has ipso…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:07 PM
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never run back to her. And if a girl 'breaks up with you' and then runs back a few days later...ask yourself...is it possible she wanted to cheat on you and decided to 'temporarily break up with you' so it 'wouldn't technically be cheating'? I've heard that story a dozen times.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:32 PM
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Age and weight are too nuclear for negs unless the chick is waaay above you in SMV (or of an age/weight where a neg on those things is obvious sarcasm).
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:48 PM
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That's pretty much it, yeah.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:46 PM
1

Practice practice practice. I know it's easier said than done but you just have to get out there and talk to people. You can even practice with non-prospects like dudes and old ladies. Store clerks and baristas are good for this.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:56 PM
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I find it easier to game at parties where I don't know people. Easier to DGAF about bystanders seeing me flirt Also she'll have lower ASD if she knows yu don't know the people there (if she sleeps with you it's less likely to get around to her friends) The flipside of this is, of course, the lack of social proof.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:52 PM
1

One evolutionary theory is mitochondrial DNA 'hijacking' nuclear DNA. Nuclear DNA is what you think of as 'DNA', with the 23 chromosomes including the sex chromosomes XX or XY. Cell mitochondria also have DNA. You got all of yours from your mother's egg cell's mitochondrial DNA. From the Darwinian point of view of mitochondrial DNA, males are 'dead ends' and useless (except for kinship selection aka helping their sisters). If mitochondrial DNA were sometimes able to hijack the human's behavior f…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:45 PM
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DO NOT say anything in a recorded medium (text, phone etc.) that could be used as evidence that you are probably the father or in a serious relationship with her. Off the record, try to convince her that you are poor (aka getting child support money would be blood from a stone) and have a family history of genetic defects. Maybe she will magically overcome her 'I don't want to have an abortion cuz I once had a miscarriage' BS. You are 100% within your rights to demand a pat test. Watch her face …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:12 AM
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That makes no fucking sense. A miscarriage is not the same as an abortion. Also, listen to the other replier who said she 100% got pregnant on purpose. Isn't it amazingly convenient that she got pregnant on accident yet also has this nonsensical reason that an abortion is off the table?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:09 AM
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Read the 48 Laws of Power or at least a summary. Such as "think as you like, but behave like others." Watch and learn at your workplace. Don't get involved in drama or politics. Document all your work so that if someone tries to steal credit you can prove what you did. Likewise try to have important convos over email, so that's documented. And/or, after in person convos, send an email saying "Here's my understanding of action items etc. from our chat. Reply if you have other thoughts. X Y Z" Don…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:38 PM
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She's a prostitute, by definition. Yes this would be blue-pill. And enjoy your STDs (and potential legal trouble) if you go through with this. Run away.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:17 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:15 AM
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Ask her out, pussy. Some IOIs are fake (to bait you into making a move so she feels validated) but you still gotta take your shot.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:27 AM
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Wow lol. They really tipped their hand here and revealed their true nature. Cavill (a top-tier alpha by every measure - fame, wealth, looks, physique, good character, plays fucking Superman) just said "Okay, feminists, I'll do what you said you want: I'll be extremely reserved in my flirtations, so as not to risk making anyone feel 'assaulted' or getting myself in trouble. (And he didn't have to add 'Even though I am Superman-level alpha and very few girls would be offended by my advances'.)" As…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:49 PM
1

That's one of the differences, but far from the only one, yes
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:42 PM
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If you can't tell the difference between BDSM/roleplay and sexual assault, you need serious help
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:38 PM
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I'm missing the Henry Cavill reference/link here but curious
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:38 PM
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If a high status man not only desires her, but loses control of himself like an animal (and risks everything to physically claim her) it proves how desirable she is. And the act may demonstrate his physical capabilities. I have a theory that women are vocal during sex because it screens for high status and fit men: other tribespeople would hear (primitive environment = very low privacy) and it increases the potential of another male, who's a better fighter or higher status, throwing the first gu…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:37 PM
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It's extremely important, but easier or less important than all the parts of that seduction before that. Best thing you can do to be good in bed is just be in shape generally. It will prove the aesthetics of the experience for her AND you will smell better to her (higher T) and you will be more athletic with the sex. (Also high T is good for erection quality, quantity, duration etc.) I have no idea whether dick size matters that much. I've never encountered the red flag of a chick talking about …
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:30 AM
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They like your smell. It's like a memento or laying claim, like a dog pissing on a fire hydrant. They want an excuse to meet up again 'to return your hoodie' etc. It's a good sign, as long as they're not some sort of klepto or psycho stalker
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:56 PM
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This is several things. Crab bucket mentality, as you have noted. She is afraid you will 'pull too far ahead of her' in SMV. A shit test to probe and deflate your ego. By suggesting you might get 'too skinny' she was trying to make you feel scrawny and she was looking at your face and voice tone to see if she 'got to you'. Even if you get fitter, she wants you to have a lower SMV mindset (body image issues) so you don't feel too good for her and confident enough to trade up. Also to probe how mu…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:50 PM
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The chances are too high. She could absolutely find someone if she were willing to settle considerably.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:34 PM
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I'm just fucking confused. Yes, an LDR isn't a real relationship, but to me everything felt real. My love for her was real. The fact I avoided other girls was real. I feel cheated for real. But then she never explicitly committed to me and we met only once... I don’t know.. Yep, sounds about as thirsty, desperate, and anticlimatic as I expected from reading the first half. Geezus is this the last paragraph of a young adult novel or something Go lift, and get laid in your own zip code. This is a …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:59 PM
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Image search of famous dudes and you'll find shit tons of ugly men with hot wives. Just start thinking of names of famous men (business world, old rockers, whatever)
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:48 PM
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I stopped reading halfway through. Long-ass post about a girl....that you met online and lives 2000 away but you kept chatting for months...then something abut her blowing you off a few times and having sex with other dudes while you were her chatbuddy You're basically her therapist over webcam jeezus you're thirsty. Open Tinder and find a few chicks in your own actual town
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:46 PM
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How recently? If you get BJs and anal without asking, she respects you and you're overall in a good state. (Or she's a total whore for whom the acts are meaningless, I suppose. But historically I've found enthusiastic BJ-giving and anal a very good barometer of relationship health and interest.) If she's actually smart and you like talking about that stuff, fine. But always treat her thoughts the same way you would if a guy friend (and not even a super close guy friend) said them. No 'wow you're…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:36 PM
2

Yes. It's evolution. k-selection (high investment in one chick and raising your kids) It might've made sense in a primitive environment where your small tribe had only a handful of women in your age range anyway, and where they weren't slutting round (due to lack of privacy, optins, and actual consequences for slutting), and where kids without involved fathers tended to die in the winter. In the modern era, with 7 billion people on smartphones and birth control pills, it's not very useful. And i…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:34 PM
1

Lead with body language (including tongue) And or playfully/blamelessly pull back a sec.."hmmm let's try this" optionally followed by a brief, casual explanation of how you'd like to kiss. I've made girls into better-to-kiss kissers with this, some are just awkward at first, clacking teeth or whatever. Works for improving her BJ technique too
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:28 PM
1

Than she said jokingly:-You dont need to do pretend this alpha shit with me.-Pretend? Alpha shit? Than what do you think i am?-You more like a beta. After her first comment, your voice or face was butthurt. If you'd been nonreactive, it would've ended there. omeone who is an equal to me, and dare to challange my views, but at the same time has no problem if i do the same. Yeaaaaaah guys who say this tend to be doormats who are rationalizing 'Challenges your views', huh? How has she made you smar…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:04 PM
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Yeah, the first time he hears through the wall that she's moaning ecstatically "put it in my ass!" while getting railed by some Chad, he's going to get emotionally destroyed. (Or, even worse, develop a cuck fetish.) Wonder if that's the kick he needs tho?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:22 PM
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Talk him into moving out (or kicking her out if he's primary leaseholder). He's in a shitty situation whether he busts a move or not (even if you talk him into not busting a move, it's difficult to talk a person out of oneitis).
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:02 AM
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Ask a doctor. This is a medical question, not really a TRP question. Ask your doctor about physical therapy, and working out, stressing that you want to get/stay strong. In the meantime, the most important thing for your game is just not to let it get to mentally. Even if you do zero lifting for 3 months you can bounce back later...IF you heal properly.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:31 AM
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Girls don't like to make the first move. They sometimes will, but you don't want to live life waiting. Especially in front of their peers during a rushed class change. A lot of schools are brutal with the change times and tardiness penalties and there's no time to chat when they have to piss, go by the locker, and get to the next class. If you're really confident you're getting IOIs, then bust a move, champ.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:58 PM
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NO. Bye bye. Hard next. Conventional wisdom is that girls do this so they can cheat with it being "not cheating cuz we were on a break" at the time. Remember that a girl fucking around can INCREASE her desire to get into a LTR with you...alpha fucks beta bux. Her hindbrain thinks "I might be preggers, better snag a provider".
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:55 PM
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It's possible, but honestly, the best way to clarify your feelings either way is to go with it, and then, during the roleplay, your gut will tell you whether she seems into you or is daydreaming about being somewhere else with someone else. She might've just had a sexual fantasy about you during her massage.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:54 PM
1

You could do that. The upsides are it prevents spermjacking, and you get 'younger' sperm should you ever choose to use them (vs jizzing in the girl at whatever age you are then). Downsides are the IVF doesn't always take, and there isn't good research on whether it leads to an equally healthy baby (there might be adverse affects that more than 'cancel out't he younger sperm effect. We don't really know. It's a tough thing to study since you can't force people into an A/B experiment.) And it cost…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:46 PM
2

I hope OP replied with a deadpan "my body, my choice".
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:43 PM
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Fantastic BJs. #1 reason it can be tough to let a plate go ;-( Especially if she learned on you (or faked being bad at the beginning to seem more virginal, but since there'ss no way to ever know for sure there's no sense fretting about that) rather than being a BJ wonderwoman when you met her.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:06 PM
2

Interesting, what genre and geographical area if you don't mind?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:37 PM
1

Interesting, what genre and geographical area if you don't mind?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:37 PM
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Handicap principle. Art is basically useless except that it just makes us feel good for some reason...a guy who can afford to spend all day and night 'making art' or music appears as a man of leisure, who must have resources (or social leadership to call in favors and resources). Like how the guy in Vicki Christina Barcelona was this man of leisure who just made art and flew around in a private plane. Musicians have very high situational status: a gig is like a cult ritual where he is the center…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:34 PM
2

Female ROTC or military = banged out by lots of physically prime guys with high status (relative/situational at least) and natural alpha personality traits. And she barely sounds into you. Have you banged or are you in GI Jane's friendzone?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:25 PM
1

I hate these non-Field-Reports where the OP doesn't even say whether they've banged yet. It completely changed the dynamic one way or the other, so it's hard to give advice. These pussies will drone on about exactly how many minutes she took to text back and what her hair is like but not even tell us if she's sucked or fucked yet.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:24 PM
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I love this place
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:12 PM
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Props for taking criticism well (or for delivering the most deadpan of sarcasm) I think the best takeaway lesson from this specific FR is that it's good to be aware of when you're not longer really into a plate, and to just let her go (rather than spending a lot of time with her hoping you will regain interest and/or because you don't want a dry spell) ALso, despite what I said about gender projection (which is still true), I suppose that if an experience like this (an annoying clingy girl) help…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 03:18 AM
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Yeah, this FR is a lot of gender projection. The conclusions aren't wrong, but they are just rehashes of basic TRP principles (don't be clingy etc.) and the FR doesn't bring anything to them.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:33 PM
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This FR is kinda all over. You seem to be engaging in some gender projection: showing how a girl being annoygingly clingy proves that GUYS shouldnt' be too clingy. While the latter fact is true (and probably the #1 core tenet of TRP and nothing new), the genders are not interchangeable, and so showing a girl being too clingy is not the best evidence. Also your writing is all over, you should more carefully delineate when you're talking about the girl's behavior and the road trip from when you ar…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:31 PM
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Be honest about it. Just tell her sleep is important, and so she either needs to do something (like look into cures for snoring, btw LOSING WEIGHT is a great one) or sleep in another room or at her place. Do you live together?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:02 PM
2

Learn from him. Including esp. body language / posture. If you learn to mimic a taller guy's body language, it will help you. And I assume you are going place with more than 1 chick. It's not like he'll swoop everyone there.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:06 PM
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File a police report. The guy should pay.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:03 PM
3

Dammit I came here to make the same joke Sad part is it's not just a joke
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:03 PM
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Don't say anything, esp not in text or other mediums like that. This is smelling a little hinky. There's nothing to be said, anyhow. It sounds like she's not into you (and you've said your intuition is the same.) No point trying to turn that around, either, you'd be better off spending that energy on some new random person.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:02 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2017/02/19/feminism-is-the-final-shit-test/
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 10:57 PM
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The feminist traitors do not understand that they must have more children if they are to survive, otherwise they will turn into Islamic Emirate. Or maybe they do understand that. Maybe they understand that very well. If one parent were unable to pay, the wealthier parent would pay for those needs directly rather than writing a check to his or her ex-spouse. The bill’s supporters contend that this would make child support obsolete, but the left-leaning opposition and women’s groups fear that the …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 10:39 PM
3

You're asking cuz you know the answer and just need us to help you with the willpower. The answer is YES. Disqualify her.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:58 PM
1

In that scenario, she's 'won' a little bit by forcing you to NOT totally ignore her texting, so (if you sense this was her plan) so you have to punish her a bit (rather than just say 'no, don't invite her') so she doesn't keep doing similar shit
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:49 PM
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Your anecdote is an example of where it is good to ignore. If you ignore, then she's the only one making a scene in public. She feels like a moron (as she should for acting like a whiny toddler in public). In that scenario I would ignore, I might even shrug and joke to the next person in line "I don't know her" with a wink. When it doesn't work if when ignoring it means she implicitly gets her way. Like, let's say it's the morning after you banged some thot, you have a nice wine rack, and the ch…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:55 AM
11

The welfare state amplifies these things. The CC existed before, sure, but not at the same amplitude in every place and time.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 02:13 AM
1

Holy shit you delivered Knowing who wrote this, it's both disgusting and hilarious
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:50 AM
2

She's not interested. She just wants validation of you sinking your energy into chatting with her
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:20 AM
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Lift heavy weights and act like it doesn't get to you If they treat you like a bitch, it's cuz you act like a bitch; if they don't get a reaction out of you they'll stop
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:46 AM
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Dipshit tests come from women who have no interest in you besides pissing you off because it makes their miserable existence tolerable for that five minutes This is fantastic advice If you work with them, file a sexual harassment complaint. As is this. And not just for the ego satisfaction. They're ticking time bombs if they're coworkers, and if you are the first to file a complaint you are more likely to be believed and less likely to end up on the defensive when they file some BS against you
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:31 AM
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If you respond in an invested manner, you prove their point, at least in their mind . Ignore or quasi-ignore ( 'okay sure') or give a left-field answer like 'I identify as female, you bigot' DO NOT TRY TO RESPOND LOGICALLY First of all, pearls before swine. Secondly, it will stroke their egos if you show any emotional ir intellectual investment in them. You say 'regularly', so you apparently have recurring interaction.You need to give us more context. Coworkers? Classmates? Lesbian aunts? Why th…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:28 AM
1

In case HER better options flaked on her, you were a backup.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:27 AM
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You got negged back lol You probably negged to hard, but treat like a regular shit test Ignore, or A&A ('great news just got cast as the Hunchback in the next Disney movie') or since it's Tinder 'and yet you swiped right'
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:43 AM
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Probably because depressed women have a more appealing outlet of going to other people for help (which includes flimsy suicide attempts that are really cries for help). Whereas depressed men feel like they've just hit a brick wall and have nowhere and noone to turn to.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:03 AM
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All fluffed up and nowhere to go. (Decent-looking) women in first-world countries have spent their entire lives being fluffed up and doted on by everyone: parents playing out the princess fantasy, education-media-complex propaganda that every woman is the next Einstein (and if not only cuz shadowy forces held her back), and an endless parade of orbiters polishing her pedestal. All telling her she's destined for great things... ...but what great things? 'You go girl'...go towards what? None of th…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:59 PM
3

This rings true, especially with more masculine women (more careerist, athletic, taller, etc.) The observation makes it even easier to be unfazed by these (not-)shit tests, as you realize she's not even trying to give shit, she just...well it's just poor social skills really. Attractive women actually tend to have poor social skills b/c they've never had to work on them. If you step back and image a fug or a dude saying/doing/acting the way the hot chick is, it suddenly becomes comical.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 09:37 PM
0

ok spaz
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:49 PM
2

If you terrify her you do it WAY wrong. Be casual and push-pull so if she does decline tis' not awkward. As long as you act cool and chill and like nothing is awkward, she won't either. She wants an emotional leader
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:15 PM
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Close like you would anyone. These logistics are fucking perfect. Sleeping in same room already She's traveling, so ASD is way lower Flirt, kino, invite her into your bunk
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:14 PM
1

lmao savage and true
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:13 PM
1

Long distance? lmao forget it those are worth less than nothing She's a fuckbuddy at most. Casual sex or ghost. No commitment, no l-bombs
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:46 AM
2

Where's your city (or if you want to stay more vague, can you characterize it - how big, gender ratio, etc.)? It's probably a few things On vacation you have a more gung-ho / fun attitude. You feel adventurous, or like you're on the offensive. At home you feel like you're on defense. Bad logistics at your own place / city. Whereas on vacation, your hotel or hers was near the spot you met. The girls were also on vacation. Girls have way lower ASD while traveling. Cultural differences. Hard to say…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:19 PM
0

Awww look I have a homophobic stalker. Who likes to link to himself and his own homophobia as a source! You really are a special kind of stupid
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:38 PM
0

Well you called them friends so maybe part of you isn't aware If they can't handle the truth, don't talk about your personal life with 'em
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:44 PM
1

Crab bucket. Guys be jelly of you, girls be self conscious about their age P.S. These 'friends' are not your friends
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:21 PM
1

"I'm libertarian socialist. That means I believe in freedom above all. And somehow at the same time the government has to micromanage everything to make sure we all have equal outcomes. So that we're free FROM having to make our own choices!" 'libertarian socialist' or 'anarcho-socialist' is basically code for 'I think that one picture if Che is really sexy and I want to sound rebellious and freethinking' or 'I think that legalizing weed is all that libertarian means' Ofc, as far as TRP/game goe…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 06:07 PM
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She shows up to my place, I fuck her in the ass (she loves anal, lucky me), and I send her home. She says she'll kill me if I tell anyone. Yesterday she asked me to fuck her again and I declined; too busy. Boyfriend of 3 years looks like a nice guy on FB. I wonder when they'll get married? lmao savage and I love it. Your 'fake id' line is a great neg, and nice including the 'we're just hanging out' hamster-feed screenshot. Well played all around most guys will be shocked by how much girls like a…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:39 AM
7

Fiction can't be used for evidence, but it is useful for teaching. A fictional character can still serve as a template or a cautionary tale.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 02:24 AM
1

Group openers. Just plunge in and chat. I've gotten #s right in front of friends. Just be nonchalant about it. Don't act nervous, nor entitled, just casual.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:39 AM
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Send it anonymously. You'll need PROOF, ideally a screenshot, and maybe a blurb (send an email from an anonymous account with the screenshot as an attachment) to help explain how, if he's so inclined, he can quickly create a Tinder profile and find her profile himself (i.e. what age/location/etc she put down)
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:34 AM
1

This is sorta my experience. Most girls are meh at the actual sex at first (but you will see lots of affection in the foreplay and afterwards if she likes you) and it's a lot of fun to 'open a girl up' and get her to be more freaky and into it as time goes on BJs are like this too. One of my fav things is experiencing the steep learning curve of a girl who starts off inexperienced at BJs and then lets to hoover like a champ As with everything in social dynamics there is game theory so you never …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 01:04 AM
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You prob smile too much and laugh at your own jokes and antics. Be funny but in a more masculine way, closer to the deadpan style of humor.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:10 AM
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lmao yeah I had a similar experience, a bit of self-started TRP awakening (although I never put it in very clear mental terms and finding Heartiste's blog was what made me consciously aware of all this later on), a real forehead-slapping moment when I looked back and realized some slam dunks I had passed up due to being unaware (acting 'too nice', or missing obvious-in-retrospect IOIs, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 11:03 PM
3

Yes I suspect you felt hollow after, not because YOU didn't feel emotional connection, but b/c SHE didn't (show any signs of it) FYI I've had hook ups that ended very detachedly like this and yet the chick still hit me up later (or I hit her up and she bit and we hooked up some more). It's possible that in the moment she was feeling awkward / guilty / slutty and kinda 'walked of shame away' but she actually wanted some companionship, as you bit it, too. So if this was recent and you got her # or…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 02:15 AM
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By having these thoughts at your age you're way ahead of the curve, so there's that. Oh also as to your original post, the reason you likely felt empty afterwards was the realization that girls could treat sex so flippantly and are not the princesses you were told. So you're starting to realize what sluts they can be. Unfortunately grappling with this is a major part of TRP. The good news is that with game you will be much better at getting (attractive) girls who are emotionally invested in you …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 02:05 AM
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So like all of 15-18? I know that 15-18 feels like forever when you're 15-18, but losing your man-cherry as an 18-19 y o college freshmen is not terrible atypical or late. My advice: Ask yourself...were you really that physically sexually frustrated, or was it just an ego thing ('I should be having sex, I'm a loser if I don't'). Try not to overthink all that crap or apply labels to yourself like incel. Just learn to have fun gaming girls and go with it, and don't worry about your 'number'. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 01:58 AM
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One of the best things about sex is it helps you realize sex is not that big of a deal. Also lol at your title...you had me thinking you were like some 36 yo incel I’m a freshman in college After 18 years of desperate longing and existential despair due to being sexually inexperienced Are you a college freshman in his 30s (possible) or are you saying you've had this despite since you were born? lol
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 12:08 AM
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Well I don't have a scientific source, sorry, but feel free to go around trying to alternately scare people or arouse them, and see which one you can accomplish faster. Do you have a prediction?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:48 PM
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Intimidation reflex acts more quickly than arousal reflex (although the latter can be damn fast.) Maybe you have a scowly face too. I wouldn't sweat it as long as you get IOI body language with the girls you actually approach / talk to / know I bet if you dress nicer (especially a biz-casual style of nicer) that will dial back the intimidation reflex
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:30 PM
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Generic shit test, in the "let's you and him fight" food group. Also gender projection. She thinks it makes her look preselected, and she was lame enough to try to explicitly spell that out with the 'joke' that "she is so good even exes want her back." Your reply is decent (suggesting he's a loser with no options) as long as your phrasing was not butthurt. Don't let her draw it out further than that. And this is a red flag: it shows she plays games, has an ego, and is actively talking to her ex …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:26 PM
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lol perfect reply. Listen to this, OP, this is the real reveal right here. And the ex's 'I want you back' probably came on the heels of some text convo where she made him think that he had a good shot at it...so think about that.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:23 PM
2

Yes and this might be the #1 most effective topic to pressure flip on, because it's an attribute (sleeping around) which is very attractive in me and unattractive for women.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:35 PM
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Throw her out, obviously. Jeezus this is a slowball. btw 'thyroid' is basically code for 'it's not my fault I'm fat', so have fun with that as she gains weight. 'thyroid making me bipolar' is a new one, she probably heard the 'thyroid fat' meme and decided to use it for everything You say she's not fat, but hse sounds like a slob who's about to balloon Throw her out now, dumbass. This one is fucking obvious.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:29 PM
1

The odds that the guy you're speaking to here lives in your zip code and will swope the same girl you would've gamed is quite small. Discussing game improves your game, like a lot of subjects, b/c other people call you out and force you to re-examine your own personal echo chamber. (Ofcs, keyboard jockeying is much less valuable than in the field experience.) Yes, it's in part b/c we do in fact have a biological tendency to help each other, and to form teams. Also many of us believe the TRP abso…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:25 PM
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I have found the perfect response to this. Has always worked, and it tends to keep that girl from EVER bringing this point up again. After she says that, don't act angry or defensive (obv), just pause for a second as if you thought of something. Then glance at her (preferably with disinterested body language, like the rest of your body is turning away from her) and in a very calm, neutral, and slightly curious voice, say "Huh, for some reason I never thought of you as that type of girl. Why, did…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:56 PM
1

Whenever someone says "...but this might scare the real victims out of coming forward" ...they are accidentally admitting that they think the justice system has a lot of false accusations and/or convictions (and why you can't just believe the accuser automatically). A failed accusation does NOT necessarily mean that the accuser gets punished. She would have to be found guilty beyond a reasonable doubt of deliberately making a false police report, or similar malfeasance. So anyone worried about t…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 09:48 PM
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If you lose interest, you lose interest, feel free to let her go. It shouldn't feel like a job. If you're reluctant to let a girl go b/c of 'scarcity mentality' ('what if I hit a dry spell and have no one else/better to fuck for awhile')...gotta spend more time gaming and self-improving 'til that goes away. And/or think of ways to make a plate more interesting. See how much you can get out of the relationship, try different kinky sexual itself and see how deep into BDSM etc. you can go with her.…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:23 AM
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The only thing you did wrong was not dropping her sooner. You were right to make her your ex. This sounds like an orbiter thing, I doubt they were fucking. Ge sounds like a classic emotional tampon (listens to her blab on the phone for an hour at a time, buys her lunch). Nonetheless you made the right call.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 11:24 PM
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Reminds me of the H Clinton quote about the 'true victims of war' being women. 'The true victims of FRAs are other women..."
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 09:14 PM
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Still pussy pass. Way less than the guys would've gotten, in fact arguably their career trajectories have already been fucked up / delayed by 3+ years. Plus she will face less social stigma than they would (and already did) and she wouldn't get put on a special crimes list/registry for the rest of her life.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 09:13 PM
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"Trickle truth" is exactly the right term for this. NEXT “I’m 99% sure nothing happened”. LMAO. That's a preemptive cover for "if you find out I'm lying, I can claim I just didn't remember cuz of that alcohol" Part of trust is trusting someone not to get black out drunk in the first place. Honestly, you should never trust a girl who gets drunk without you around. That alone demotes her from LTR worthiness.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:48 PM
3

Yes and no. Girls are quite malleable, and will adapt to having a good personality around you if you have value, frame, and game. This is why I've decided that looks are, in fact, more important than personality. The latter is actually extremely malleable, especially in women. And very relative. She's not a bitch...she's a bitch TO YOU...so you have to teach her not to be.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:44 PM
2

NEXT absolutely. Your instincts are in the right place. Listen to them.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:00 AM
2

Feminism is one big shit test, most men fail. Ironically most women fail too. This is a really good takeaway quote. Reminds me of a few others: "Feminism is using traditionally male metrics to define female success, and not appreciating the irony and futility of that." "Feminism is the idea that a woman helping her husband or nurturing her kids is enslaving, but a woman working in a cubicle for a corporation is empowering."
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:49 AM
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Yes. And yet another reason that it's absolutely chumpish and retarded to attack the guy (aside from the whole 'jail' thing, possibly getting his own ass beat, etc.)...is if the woman wants to screw around, it isn't like she's gonna have trouble finding some other guy on another night. Or day. Our society is basically designed to ensure a husband cannot mate guard all the time. Women go to work where they are around higher-status men than their husband (like her boss), they get personal trainers…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:56 PM
1

Makes sense. Women would be evolved to step up when (and only when) absolutely needed to avoid self/kin/tribe wipeout. Historically this would have been rare, so womens' psychologies may not be well equipped to be put in a recurring state like this...feeling like there's perpetually a lack of alpha or protector or high status males around to relieve the 'emergency' will have who-knows-what sort of psychological effects.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:52 PM
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I forget the evolutionary term, but there are lots of examples of animal behavior which seem to lack a 'self-dampening' mechanism in one direction or the other. For example certain birds can be 'tricked' into feeding fake chicks by creating an artificial chick with a ridiculously big and bright red yapping mouth. The parent bird will try to feed it to the exclusion of its actual young, even though the fake chick looks like an obvious crappy mock to our eyes. Presumably because in their evolution…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:45 AM
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This rings true in my experience as well. You absolutely can get one sided monogamy early on, and the further you get into the LTR, the finer a line it becomes. The most important part of getting this is establishing it early on, a girl will be able to handle (and get wet and excited from) you having other chicks as long as you portrayed yourself from the getgo as that kind of guy. Then she will make it her mission to win your commitment.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:39 AM
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This is all true and an important (invaluable) component of LTR game. When I think back, boundary pushing has almost always gone hand in hand with good, enjoyable LTRs. If you don't push boundaries, that's how relationships get stale and she gets bored. She needs a fix of excitement and drama and so amping things up from you is the way to do it. Plus you gents will be shocked by how well and how far it will go...pretty much every woman is extremely freaky in bed and you will find they really, re…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:36 AM
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A lot of broad strategy / lifestyle game really does come down to an efficient filter. You can afford to get blown out lots, as long as you respect your own time and are quick to ID and next the maybes rather than investing time/emotion/money/etc. in tepid wastes of time. Don't need to appeal to everyone...just need to REALLY appeal to a decent cohort.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:43 AM
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This is a hilarious field report...not to downplay how well you got her enrapt with you, but she DOES sound a little nutty (not so much the distance - but maybe that too - as the commentary about always cheating) so keep a skeptical eye out. But at this point you're probably clear of the 'waking up in a bathtub of ice with a missing kidney' phase, so godspeed and enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:40 AM
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Agreed. The guy should've recognized a golden opportunity....to go home and pack his shit or her shit (depending on those logistics) and get a head start on move out, divorce paperwork etc. while she was out late (or all night...)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:41 PM
5

In modern Western society, large age differences between adults are mildly taboo (say, 20 year old girl vs 50 year old guy) and there's a stereotype of a creepy older guy and the lame middle age guy (think the sitcom husband stereotype). Women are herd creatures, and so this taboo lowers older mens' SMV in the eyes of young adult women. They don't want their friends making fun of them for dating an old guy etc. This is probably a bigger uphill factor against older guys than the aging effects of …
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:42 PM
2

Sure yeah I guess. But...utopian moral ideals are totally irrelevant to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 02:58 AM
2

Hooboy. Can't tell if this is a bad joke or you have a lot to learn Why wouldn't she? If she gets bored she can leave with half his shit. And the wedding day itself is a giant party where she get to be the center of attention, queen for a day, and other people pay for it. There's no downside for her. Maybe she wasn't planning to get bored, but then she did. Or hubby was a 'safety school' in case something better didn't come along. Surprisingly enough, people are not that accurate at predicting w…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 01:52 AM
2

Remember that a 'nice face' usually means they are not overweight, so that's part of being fit right there. Muscles absolutely do help. Maybe less than face...but you can do more about muscles than face, so get lifting (more). Plus the health and posture benefits.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:30 PM
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Yes. BUT, I suspect that men lose it when they get burned/jaded a lot or otherwise build up bad experiences, NOT from sexual N-count itself the way women do. If anything, a satisfying sexual history might help a man pair bond, a la the conventional wisdom about having to 'sow his wild oats'. Also men are 100% capable of very strongly pair bounding and still getting tail on the side (whether with or without the knowledge or approval of the primary partner.)
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:55 AM
2

A few reasons. Women want the best genes. The idea that a guy has consciously worked at something rather than being 'a natural' is a turn off - especially at seduction itself, but it's true for other things too. "Never let them see you sweat". It's cooler to be naturally smart than to study hard and so forth. The idea that men can 'mask' a natural lack of attractiveness by learning attractiveness is terrifying to women. sort of like men worry about makeup and push up bras and waking up next to a…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:33 AM
1

Yeah I don't really get it either, but Britishguy Confusingname is certainly a good example of how 'looks' as guys understand it don't matter that much. (Appearance does, but he does have that...he's tall, typecast in imposing intellectual roles, and has the celebrity recog.) Also, all bets are off with celebrities, b/c their SMV is so high that being 'ugly' might just make him seem more attainable than, say, his intimidatingly handsome jacked costar Hemsworth
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:14 AM
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Some options Mentally focus on the meta. Enjoy the theory of game itself, and while talking to a chick, be thinking about all the ev psych principles at play rather than the literal banter itself Steer the convo to shit you actually do want to talk about. Do you have cool travel stories? 100% of chicks love cool travel stories and think that international travel is the automatic stamp of enlightenment and culturedness and such BS Don't feel the need to fill the air. That's what low status suppli…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:11 AM
1

I'd drop the 'just sayin' honey' if it's over text (gotta be terse) but that's a good reply Or some basic A&A on the ugly thing like "Yeah I just got cast as the new Freddy Kreuger. Play nice and you can be my red carpet eye candy"
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:01 AM
2

Shit test. Ignore or make a joke. She wants to meet you, this is just a standard shit test to probe for insecurities
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:26 PM
1

180cm OK so you're a bit on the shorter side. That's probably part of it. And abs aren't gonna do much if you aren't going around shirtless at the office. But 90% of this is personality. Like the other repliers here said...just read the sidebar. Your post is a fairly generic "I'm beta and want to be alpha" so we can't give you much more advice than the generic advice of read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:53 AM
1

You've answered your own question. You are nice and polite and demure and seen as a beta by guys and frienzone by girls Anyway, this is the workplace. Don't shit where you eat. Do whatever is best for getting ahead. Which is probably being more alpha and commanding more respect, but not explicitly hitting on women at work. I'm already fit, I'm training since 2010 so the ' go lift ' is not useful this time. Everyone can get bigger and fitter. What are your height, weight, and bf%?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:40 PM
3

If you can't handle the jealousy of seeing girls you talk to at clubs go home with other guys, night game is not for you. Even the legendary PUAs didn't take home every chick they opened. Girls will 'flirt' with bouncers/bartenders etc. for the perks (free cover drinks / preferential treatment in disputes etc.) so as a bouncer you're like a muscular version of the guy that she chatted up so he'd help her with math homework. You can't take their flirtation very seriously as interest. If you do wa…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 01:26 AM
1

When I was in HS living at home, I fucked at the girl's place, or in the car, or 'public' places I knew would work (certain spots in parks etc.). Blowjobs at least are pretty easy to get in a lot of places, you don't need amazing logistics for those. Car anywhere secluded after dark will do a for a BJ. So - figure out other places If you're an adult living at home, that's a DLV so bringing them home wouldn't be great anyway. I wouldn't bother trying to 'sneak' girls in behind your mom's back, sh…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 01:15 AM
1

Receipt paper thing is interesting, do you remember where you saw that or what the supposed issue was (the paper itself, the ink...)?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:35 PM
1

How do you know no one shit talks you behind your back? Honestly, if NO ONE does..it probably just means you're socially invisible. the most successful people get tons of shit talk from jealous people, and the most attractive dudes will have whiney jealous betas (as well as scorned women who got rejected) shittalk them behind their back The fact that you 'don't get into beefs' is nothing surprising. Most people these days are extreme nonconfrontational.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:23 AM
4

Be attractive, and be confident. In the workplace, don't be sexual or flirtatious. If you are those first two things, women will flock to you (and respect you more, making the work itself smoother)
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:42 AM
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If it were a friend, ditch/ghost would be the advice. It's your twin brother, so, no getting rid of him, and a brother is more important than any particular girl. That doesn't mean cave in and let him cockblock you. It means you need to sit him down (ASAP before vacation time window with this chick runs out) and tell him "I'm gonna be doing my own thing during evenings for this trip, you need to be elsewhere" and perhaps explicitly say 'Jessica and I have a thing, you need to let me go do my thi…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:21 PM
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I can confirm the fuck outta this. Both from the horses' mouths to me, and also from overhearing (a ton of women live in apartments where they have roommates and thin cheap walls, so I've can't help but have overheard dozens of juicy girltlk convos in other rooms). "Girls' night out" virtually always involves going to a place that is known for having a high concentration of drunk men who are there just to hit on women and try to get laid. Now whatever might women be going to such a place? Obviou…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:12 PM
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Great post. Experience and observation are the best teachers.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:11 PM
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Oh and don't you dare use plastic straws After all, only 90% of the plastic in the ocean is accounted for by 10 rivers in Africa and Asia https://nypost.com/2017/12/12/10-rivers-are-responsible-for-90-of-the-plastic-in-the-ocean/ Now don't you want to donate to feed some starving kids in Africa, so they can grow up big and produce more starving kids for you to feed?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 01:52 AM
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Thinking of it that way can be good for your frame
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:50 AM
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Def not. It can help big time, but most of my lays (including an equitable share of the hottest) were chicks I pulled solo and didn't 'introduce to my friends' etc. until later (if not at all) Social circle game is most important in high school and college (if you go to a smaller college) where it's everyone-knows-everyone You should prob develop a social circle anyway tho
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:49 AM
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Yup Remember all that "have fewer kids for the environment!" propaganda when you were a kid? Notice how in its place is now 'we have to import people to replace your aging population. They will totally have your values, skills, and same levels of IQ and attractiveness. Don't you dare question that.'
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 01:47 AM
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Do I think people should just have as many children as possible? Fuck no. Absolutely not. I don't care if anyone here has kids. The world doesn't need more people. Now...what if the most productive and intelligent people follow this advice, and no one else does?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 01:34 AM
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If you live with your parents as an adult, taking her to your place is terrible logistics (both b/c of cockblocking and b/c it's a DLV) but if it's better than her place for whatever reason, then I suppose it's your best option.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:29 PM
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If you want some great and brutal advice...if you are able to (practically and legally) film yourself socially interacting...watching footage of yourself publicly speaking or socially interacting can be a very, very sobering experience. It's cringey for almost everyone, but you learn a hell of a lot. Even if it's just audio (phone in your pocket with some recording app on) Also, inner game. The more you can do to just have inner confidence, the more attractive your speech patterns will be. Overt…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:17 AM
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Flirting with other guys = instant next forever She's quite obviously trying to make you jealous. It is still unacceptable behavior, even if she's not genuinely interested in them.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:12 AM
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Talk less prob. IS your voice high pitched? Do you say approval-seeking things? Do you have an uncool accent?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:11 AM
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Dinner's bad for dates anyway. 'ice cream' where the exchange is at, is decent, as is 'drinks', 'coffee' etc. esp if the logistics are good (Very close to her place).
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:04 AM
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OP, great advice above - if she friended him on social media and never unfriended him, that's kinda suspect. Seeing her phone would instantly verify or disprove her story. I recall a situation of my own years ago, where a girl was whining about some guy supposedly harassing her, well guess what, I saw emails (not even snooping, she was dumb enough to bring it up on her device with me right there) where she was being friendly. Not necessarily flirty, and it was a high school guy hundreds of miles…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:59 AM
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"it's over?" That sounds like something people say when breaking up with someone they dated/fucked, not when they are distancing themselves from a stalker/harasser they never had anything to begin with.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:45 AM
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Great advice. TRP is ironically much more about 'female empowerment' than any other philosophy. We recognize that adult women are, well, adults, and need to handle certain shit rather than be treated like damsels in distress all the time.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:44 AM
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This. OP, your story isn't very clear, but it sounds like they work together? ("got a new jobs") If that's true, and you are in a Western country, then a woman getting a sexually harassing male coworker fired is like the easiest thing in the world. If she genuinely dislikes the attention, and if she has ANY respect for you (or herself), she needs to talk to whomever in charge and get him canned. If she doesn't, it calls everything into question. OP, what evidence do you have - other than things …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:42 AM
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First, assuming this is a serious question and not a not-so-humble humblebrag: If the people around you really do whatever you say, as you claim, the solution is simple: you should instruct them to be willing and quick to speak up and question you when their own judgment tells them that you just made a bad call. You could 'make an example of someone' in a good way by, during some meeting, compliment one of your underlings in front of the others by remarking on some recent incident where they had…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:00 AM
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The girl i banged here in Paris is probably gonna ask me to come over tonight again, and im not sure if i want to yet. If i just reject her my conscience tells me she is gonna get sad that i’ve «used her» or something. See what i mean about getting paranoid on this stuff lol? I hate my conscience. Ignore guilt like this. She's not being used any more than you are, and if she wanted to only have sex in the confines of a long term relationship, it would be on her to spell that out. I seem to have …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:10 PM
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This is a rare instance where it may be a good idea to 'be friends' with a girl who sees you as only a friend. She might actually be a good person and you could perhaps use someone to talk to and get stuff off your chest etc. (Normally a terrible idea to show your underbelly to girls, but you've already written off fucking this one, and if she's defending you from bullying she likely won't gossip about your underbelly too much, as that defeats the purpose.) She might just be doing it to make her…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:31 AM
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Hahahaha damn, yeah that's a pretty cliche story (which I mean in a good way, aka "that has happened to a lot of guys, you're not alone"), an alpha widowed (or at least rebound) girl going on a fuck tour. If it's any consolation, traveling turns ASD way down, so any guys she may've met and fucked were not necessarily inherently more attractive than you, but their logistics were favorable. The 'I just got out of ___" is definitely a turn off. It's her basically saying that you're like a safety sc…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:20 AM
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Gaming a lot is the best way to find a girl you actually really like Don't fall for the blue pill idea that there's a separate way to approach 'good girls' and thots. If you want to find a good girl, that's all the more reason to game in the usual way. The fact that you fail to get a girl into bed quickly doesn't mean she wouldn't go to bed quickly with other girls...so 'taking things slow' is just sticking your head in the sand and missing your window to find out her true nature. There IS a dif…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:58 AM
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beta bait. LOL at her crying to her 'other guy' about her distance boyfriend. World's smallest violin. You did well. Understated, perfunctory sympathy. Don't bring it up again, act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:38 PM
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Eat clean, get your vitamins, sleep a lot, avoid too much sun, wash your face
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:25 AM
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Enjoy your police sting and solicitation charges. Oh and the fat dudes catfishing you.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:45 PM
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Shitty text game. All the 'yos' make you sound like a poseur from the '90s, your needless #metoo was a great way to trigger her ASD and put the idea you being a sexual harasser in her mind, and your attempted 'behave' flip-scripting also may have triggered her ASD, and it doesn't really work after SHE shot You down for sex two nights in a row. I'm guessing you've read some classic Mystery-style script flipping lines, where he says stuff like 'hands off the merchandise!' to flip the script into h…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:42 PM
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Amusing FR but needs more context. Where were you, where are you actually from and where did you pretend to be from, what language(s) were involved etc.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:12 PM
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Hilarious. Reminds me of Tucker Max's story where he and his two buddies pretend to be a Jesus Rock group and the girls end up acting like they've heard of their band
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:11 PM
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Ghost her, obv. No contact ever again. The best way to save face in front of your mates is to act like you took it like a man. "Aw, shit happens," with a shrug. Yeah this monumentally sucks but you just have to move past it, like she never existed.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:10 PM
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Well yeah, it will fly in STEM for awhile, in the sense that other people will be there to bail out the underqualified princess who is the face of the project. In practice diversity hiring acts like an income tax on everyone else: you do more work, and some of the output of it (both money and accolades) go to the tokens.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 07:58 PM
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Terrible title, you make it sound like she turned out to not in fact be 22. But I gather she was. So: a BJ is great for a first date. Yeah send a simple text NO FUCKING EMOJIS. Not even a dart emoji Don't say you had a great time, make it simpler and uimpressed. When she replies, text again to set up weekend plans Texting is just for logistics, not emojis
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:51 PM
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female students believe they work harder than their male classmates for similar grades their lack of self awareness is astounding "We have to work harder to get the same results. That proves we are actually better "
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:44 PM
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I like how they inadvertently admit that non-STEM grades are bullshit and based on 'perceived effort' That won't fly in STEM. "Yeah the bridge collapsed and killed people, but we worked really hard on it!!"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:43 PM
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A&A "Oh, did I just rip the front off another pair of jeans" innocently look down at crotch Reframe / back atchya "Ohhh I know what's on someone's mind..." grin/wink at her, waggle a finger at her etc. (contextual as it can ramp up ASD. It has to be very playful) Best part of this one is it's true. Like how when she says 'just so you know we shouldn't have sex tonight' you know she's thinking about sex with you. Neg "Your ___ is/are just too irresistible. It gets me going" where __ is one of her…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:31 PM
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Ah, right. Well "sick" and "family" are two of the most cliche excuses in the world (and using them both together lol...she's sick so she wants to see her family and get them both sick too?) Your posts reads like she suggested 'tomorrow night' while telling you to leave, so it might've been BS to get you to leave (girls know how they direct guys' attention with the carrot of sex, so she gave you the idea that your best chance to get some was to leave like she asked and try tomorrow). I gotta be …
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:37 AM
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A&A. "After the first dozen, who can keep count?" "I'll send you the application form" "Not sure but my Contacts are really hogging my phone's memory" The bitch is married, she wants straight up alpha fucks, so go charming asshole alpha fucks game, no need for availability game. You are correct that you do NOT want to signal a two year single status / dry spell ('single' is okay if you were fucking a bunch of plates / ONS for two year straight)
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:07 AM
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You have to wait for her to message (which she likely won't, IOW this is most likely a lost cause.) You already have a weak and overplayed hand: She asked you to leave You texted after, asked to hang out again, and she shot you down Anything more you do would be digging in deeper. This is a classic case of, you have to mentally write her off and let her go, and maybe she'll come back, maybe not. You'll want to send some oh-so-clever text, but don't.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:04 AM
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One or more possibilities: She just wanted the ego trip of knowing she could 'summon' you again like in the old days. Bootycall-to-blueball cocktease She was hoping you would do free labor unpacking her shit You've gotten less attractive or she had rose tinted memories of how attractive she found you You had weak game after showing up (the cuddle line sounds beta unless you have a very devilish smooth-sarcasm tone of voice)
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:51 AM
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Same. Tell a female coworker that you have a brittle ego when it comes to, I dunno, your educational achievements, and she might use that as ammo later. Some humorously harmless 'weakness' is fine, as vulnerability game ("I was afraid of clowns as a kid lol" or 'wasabi makes me tear up like a baby')
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 06:24 PM
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^ This is the cold hard truth right here. The worst thing you can do with a chick is let them know that some other chick got to you, and how.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 09:06 PM
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Great advice. He should pursue this further. He could probably get Facebook to ban her actual account (and banning a young woman's Facebook is about the best revenge you can imagine) for TOS violations. Maybe contact her parents to let them know etc. He can do this all while being the Nice Guy and doing in the (legitimate) guise of "I can't be sure what lies your daughter has told you about me, so I need to clear the air and get my side out". Or he can do it anonymously / leak it. This revenge s…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 09:05 PM
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+1 and reason #65 to lift
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:25 AM
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You seem alpha and strong now, by demonstrating both imposing physical presence and social leadership / mental discipline for preventing the fight. Go for it. Just don't ever talk about the incident in text, email, public, etc. juuust in case some harpy or white knight gets the wrong idea and thinks you the aggressor (and don't use the word 'manhandling' yourself).
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:25 AM
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And the people who whine the most about supposedly anti-Machiavellian concepts like 'fairness', 'equality', 'cooperation instead of competition', 'socialism instead of capitalism', let's look at whom they tend to idolize: Steve Jobs Hillary Clinton Nelson Mandela (barf typing this but) the fucking Kardashians ...all ruthlessly, utterly, and often violently Machiavellian. Also look at how they actually act themselves, and how they talk about and treat anyone who disagrees with them or whom they e…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:10 AM
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The usual advice for dealing with oneitis orbiting is you have to go cold turkey and cut her out of your life entirely. Pursue other girls, lift, yadda yadda, and then maybe when she sees/notices your higher SMV and preselection through the grapevine / social media / etc. she will chase you.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:01 PM
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Despite the lion/sheep quote and the oak tree metaphor above mine, I don't fee lOP is out of line asking for advice about this. AMOG issues are kinda like girl issues...you don't let a specific one get to you, but asking for general advice to use in future AMOG situations is still a constructive thing to do. AMOG stuff is one of the food groups of TRP/PUA advice (and part of it, as you say, is learning how to deploy the best parts of other lions' behavior yourself).
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:59 PM
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Too general a premise to have a hard yes or no answer. If you're an orbiter who's aware he's an orbiter and decides "okay I'll be Sally's shoulder to cry on for 90 minutes a week but no more!" and you never have anything to show for it... ..then you're still an orbiter. Sort of like how 'admitting you have a problem' is the first step, but not the last.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:05 AM
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It's good that you've realized you need help, and need to deprogram. Most importantly, you need to deprogram for your own long-term benefit. Your current girlfriend's respect for you is of secondary importance; chicks come and go. It's true that you have lost some hand in the relationship by admitting to your new cuck fetish (it's a DLV), but don't sweat that too much. You say you've been dominant otherwise, so if you cut that shit out now, you'll get back to your previous baseline with her. And…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:53 AM
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Or the Tywin Lannister version: "A lion does not concern itself with the opinions of sheep"
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:40 AM
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He's not your friend. "AMOGing" is the relevant term to look up when digging through TRP/PUA lit. The options are basically to ignore or to playfully reframe by calling it out - say to the girls "wow what Joe just said sounds so cool, you should give him a round of applause - tooling him by drawing his attention-seeking behavior into the conscious parts of their minds.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:40 AM
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https://i.redditmedia.com/Pnso1iHDvpaFSdr0fS6mub4wmpyTJInz3250lSlTPdY.jpg?w=1024&s=7d12f4149b888f099bfb227b37643a7c Think of it as a helpful warning that helps you save time Realtalk tho: I've known people with dyed hair who were not crazy extremists (just 'artsy' 'unique' pretensions) but that was before crazy hair colors became associated with being a political cultist.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:52 PM
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You have the attitude of a whiny child. You need to toughen up, and you have a long road ahead of you here at TRP. Also the facts are not on your side. http://www.aei.org/publication/us-gdp-per-capita-by-state-vs-european-countries-and-japan-korea-mexico-and-china-and-some-lessons-for-the-donald/
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:49 PM
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Preach. All very true.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:38 AM
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Wanderlust is a slut tell and red flag, yes. It's a combo of factors: Sex on vacation "doesn't count" and is less likely to affect her reputation 'Grass is always greener on the other side' psychology, esp when she's surrounded by soyboys growing up. US media and advertising, especially chick flicks and chick lit and the fashion industry, build up Western Europe (esp Rome, Paris, London) as fairy tale utopias of romance and culture full of wealthy, intelligent men and fine cuisine. (In reality t…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:29 PM
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A&A. "Yeah, I'm actually the Buddha AND Jesus reincarnated. Gimme your # and we'll go meditate under a lotus tree next week then walk on water" If you want to turn it back on her harshly, just give you an up & down look, and then thoughtfully say "Hmm..I'm guessing you're definitely not though" That could be softened up into a good neg - up and down look (this part is important, she'll hamster wondering what her 'slut tell' was) and then remark (with a neutral, nonnegative tone) "How bout you? M…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:42 AM
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Unlikely that one line in an online video was what actually crashed your self esteem (even if it's a very good one like a lot of Jordan's material). More likely, it had already gone down, and this was just the wakeup call that made you aware of it. IOW it's not the disease, it's step 1 of the cure. You're probably just rusty. Maybe you used to approach a lot, lift heavy, and do challenging stuff, but you got complacent and are living soft? Esteem (especially the sort that overcomes approach anxi…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:40 AM
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lol I've known a few EMT chicks, there is something about 'em that makes 'em freaky and sexual In that case, I'd say proceed and basically ignore the BF stuff, the ball's in HER court to actually put the brakes on you b/c she's a faithful girlfriend And obv you should never LTR a cheater. (Or, if the BF thing turns out to be fiction, it's a different red flag; she's a liar).
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:35 AM
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That doesn't disprove anything I said. Firstly, b/c even if the motivation for the ADHD paranoia is boys, it's not like scaremongers would make sure to not overdiagnose adult men as well Secondly, b/c some parts of society wants to sedate and chemically castrate men as well as boys Thirdly, b/c it's possible that it's wildly overdiagnosed and a legitimate diagnosis in some cases. Sort of like how there are genuine alcoholics (and genetic markets for it) but Prohibition was still bullshit
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 01:32 AM
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BF could be meaningless (half of BFs these days are just orbiters with title inflation, and she might even be making it up), or she could be cockteasing you for ego. Aside from the usual 'don't shit where you eat advice' (could you lose your EMT job if you make a move and she goes crying?) the way to proceed is to ignore / call the bluff, and if she's serious about the BF, let her bring it up when you make a real move.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:39 PM
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Yes, in fact this is pretty much the only good reason. Do remember that she'll have gossiped with her friends to a degree that would make a sailor blush (your performance in bed etc.) and may or may not have been truthful, so use your intuition about whether she'll serve as positive- or negative- preselection. (Was she angry when you guys broke up?) Also some girls will try to keep anyone from hooking up with their ex, even if she is no longer interested in you, so she may be a saboteur. (Maybe …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:27 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I know it’s over diagnosed, You've answered your own question here. It can be overdiagnosed b/c many parents are teachers are lazy and anti-masculinity (and doctors make more $ when they overprescribe), AND it can be a real thing that does exist in some people. The two are not mutually exclusive. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:09 PM
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Markets are beautiful because they separate the lies people say (meaning, most of what people say) from what people actually want. Preach. This is why people who base their lives around lies (like Cultural Marxism) hate markets. They cut through the bullshit. Talk is cheap, but if you gotta lay your own money down... 'Prediction markets' are a great example of this (asking 'how likely something is' by taking bets on it and seeing what the implied odds of teh market payoffs are) but sadly cracked…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:02 PM
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Woosh. 'Lazy' here is referring to the teachers and parents, not to the kid. Your analogy is waaaay off the mark. You mixed up the roles (the kid would be the 'patient'), not to mention that...maybe paralysis and ADHD are not quite the same thing? 'ADHD' could quite credibly be normal male behavior as it arose in our evolutionary environment (boys having a desire to move around, do things, etc.) Harder to make a case for paralysis being evolutionarily adaptive.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:51 PM
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Solid post. FYI you probably don't have ADHD (and most of you who think you do probably don't). ADHD is basically modern society's way of being lazy and cheap in its rearing of boys. We're evolved for curiosity, action, and cognitive and athletic stimulation while growing up....but a lazy and cheap school system (or parents) would prefer to medically sedate you so you sit in a chair and regurgitate trivia onto paper for 8 hours a day. And if you don't like this, declare there's something wrong w…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 06:55 PM
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Apt getting trashed is better than being arrested when the cops show up, they will not take your side. Look up 'Duluth Model'
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:56 PM
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The previous girl regarded you as low value b/c you were willing to travel 1.5h hours to see her. Also, if she actually kicked you out after 10 minutes, I'm guessing you were escalating waaaay too fast and/or did not handle her intital 'i can't kiss' well. Rejection is something you have to learn to deal with. Read the sidebar. Your situation is nothing unique, any guy with a lot of experience also has a lot of experience. Read up on LMR especially Be outcome independent. Don't think about 'maki…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:22 AM
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Pretty much. Welfare state policies gutted the black nuclear family structure around that time (basically, the gov't started paying women to shit out as many kids as possible, and to kick the fathers out of their lives) and in the decades since, the same trends have "caught on" in the rest of the country. White and Asian nuclear families have been slower to break apart (due to more k-selected instincts aka the men being more likely to want to stick around, and being more likely to earn more mone…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:53 PM
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It's common, yes, it could also be that your approach is not that good. Like you look better than your game, basically. You might also be bad at reading IOIs.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:47 AM
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I forget, does Tinder crop the first picture? B/c if you crop it, the height illusion (I believe you are 6'0" given the other pics) would prob disappear. Normally I hear that shirtless pics are good for 'secondary' pictures (if one has the physique, which you do) but not good primary pictures (no matter how ripped you are.) But in this case, your best pictures are all shirtless, maybe even go with the elbows-up one (the douchiest of all, but it DOES set you apart from the Tinder horde since so f…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:36 AM
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(First pic:) You look way shorter than 6'0" here. Was the guy taking the picture taller than you (or the road slopes up there?) Get a pic taken from eye level or slightly below. Your jawline is good, but the visible flesh under the chin is unflattering on anyone and looks double-chin-y (you want to angle your head so that it isn't visible, only jawline edge and neck). The pose and facial expression look very douchey to me...which is probably a good thing for Tinder. The looks that work on chicks…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:38 PM
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LMAO perfect reply Same reaction "ugh what a douche poseur face...wait what am I saying, that's exactly how he SHOULD look, the intended audience here is girls, not me"
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:33 PM
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17? lol you have tons of time dude. All those cheesy quotes about 'the best time to start is NOW' apply here, just get out there, flirt, lift, work on social circle game, etc.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:27 PM
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A partner with status -> more status for themselves (a high-status partner is, itself, a type of status), plus 'status' is strongly correlated with provisioning for offspring (and correlated with genetic fitness).
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:25 PM
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Cheaters gonna cheat, so yeah it's a big red flag. Your story chronology isn't super clear but you're saying that she cheated on her previous boyfriend (with a guy who happens to be your friend). Also, think about this: how confident are you that she's not still in touch with your friend and not still sleeping with him now and then (or wouldn't go sleep with him in the future if you and her "hit a rough patch" or whatever psychobabble term). If she previously cheated AND she's still in touch wit…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:17 PM
1

Humanity has recently become r-selected and will be for the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:09 PM
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Or if she was traveling / on vacation
/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:54 PM
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Great field report. One of the best things about sex (with a particular girl or in general) is it gives you more perspective and you don't overvalue it as much. "Sex is only a big deal if you aren't getting any."
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 11:39 PM
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It's a big shit test. Don't do it, and don't even argue about it, just laconically make jokes about it and/or 'nope' it. You've cheated and she stayed anyway. Unlikely she's gonna NOW break up with you for shit you did awhile ago. Jumping through hoops like this is the best way to make yourself her bitch and make her lose attraction to you.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:47 AM
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If you're even considering 'being exclusive' with a chick like this, you have oneitis yes. You already admitted to her you would tolerate her banging other dudes (you previously proposed an open relationship); you will always be an unrespected cuck in her eyes. The fact that you (theoretically) would've been allowed to bang other chicks does not matter. At all. These things are asymmetric. To the hindbrain, there is no risk of her accidentally thinking some kid by another chick of hers...so she'…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:38 AM
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Attention from guys (whom girls know all have lipstick-lesbian threeway fantasies) Oppression Olympics victim points, being not-straight makes them higher on the Progressive Stack Sour grapes rationalization for why they aren't with a high value male Genuinely has become more common due to societal and environmental factors? (see top comment about plastic and broken homes)
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:03 AM
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Ignore him. He's already making a fool of himself. Is he in good shape? No? Then his 'x-large' joke will clearly be seen as 'I'm fat!' not 'I'm the hulk' Don't get into serious AMOGing in the workplace. And don't try to redpill or 'help' anyone in the workpace.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:58 PM
1

Rules 1 and 2 are never more in effect than at a pool party, so if that 30 lbs is all muscle, you should be good to go. If you are very lean and have an Adonis belt (the diagonal hip lines that point to your dick), wear trunks with a low waistline that show peeks of the Adonis belt. If you're muscular but don't have a great stomach, consider wearing some sort of tank tee / muscle shirt (try not to make it look tooooo douchey) that shows the guns and shoulders, and don't throw off the top til you…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:51 PM
1

Watch a few online makeup tutorials (just skip around from beginning to end, or find before/after pictures). It's pure wizardry.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:48 PM
4

This is my experience as well. All else equal, tall girls are a bit easier to game b/c their options are more limited (due to their self-imposed insistence on only dating guys taller than themselves). However, taller girls may also shit-test you a bit more in specific ways, especially if they are also athletic, to confirm that are you big an strong enough to make her feel feminine/protected/etc. (IME the taller and more athletic a girl is, the keener her interest in your own physical ability). I…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:33 PM
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B/c you're just enjoying the sex and not thinking about impressing the girl or what to do next like you do with the high SMV girl. The good news for you, is girls seem to enjoy sex more when the man is enjoying himself. It's counterproductive to treat it like a sport where orgasms for her are points for you. If you just have fun, your performance will actually be better she'll be aroused and orgasm. It's one of those 'don't think of the pink elephant' paradoxes.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:45 PM
1

Ask what value you are getting out of any friend, male or female. If she's a female friend who wingwomans for you and gets you into parties or sets you up with other chicks...awesome. She might be a real friend. Same if she helps you with homework / projects or spots you while lifting. Ask yourself - if you were told by an oracle 'you will never hook up with this chick' would you still hang out with her? If she were a male version of the same person, would you still hang out with her? If the ans…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:34 PM
3

That's extremely normal. Dunno why (probably a combination of the potential for embarrassing rejection in front of people you know very very well, the fact that family will tend to look down on you acting like a player, and the potential for family to embarrass you in fron of the girl). And yes you should definitely stick to the appropriate wristbands. However if you can find the will to talk to chicks even within earshot of your family, go for it. Compromise would be to find reasons to go to th…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:13 AM
1

The terms you're looking for are disqualifications, negs, teases, or push-pulls
/r/askTRP02/07/18 11:00 PM
1

Aw shucks, you were totally my type too! Never thought I'd see a guy on this subreddit white knighting for a toilet lol
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:58 PM
1

Clogged toilet is cheaper than child support
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:16 PM
4

Thank you. Only an idiot would trust that a girl who says 'sure I'd get an abortion!' would definitely do so once those mommy hormones starting swirling. This girl is just being more honest than most about her beliefs.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:39 PM
4

honestly, be worried about the girl who goes out of her way to assure you that you DON'T have to worry about a pregnancy. Just wear a condom (that you provided, and flush it yourself after). It would be dumb to reply on morning after pill anyway, lots of other chicks wouldn't or wouldn't think to take it. If you don't trust your condom, you would be dumb to use it even when she had pinky-sworn she'd get an abortion if need by. "NEXT!" is overreaction here. You shouldn't trust a girl who says she…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:36 PM
3

If there's useful information / constructive criticism in the comment, you can still treat it like a shit test (A&A or whatever)....and then go take the advice in the same way you would have if you'd thought of it yourself. Ofc, if you rush off to do so ASAP it may look like you're just doing it to appease and not b/c you actually agree. You could also play it straight, "Hmm, not bad advice. I knew there was more to you than your tight ass", i.e. complement the advice will mixing in some style t…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:42 PM
1

Wait, you work with her AND are considering living with her? That's dicey in its own way, depending on how serious the job is (is this like 'pizza joint' summer job, or more like 'your career'). If she's the one on the lease then you are protected financially, yeah
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:00 PM
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"lmao its just pizza what the hell did you think was going to happen??" You came off as too harsh, butthurt, and straightforward. Sounds like it still worked out though. Your post is not clear, but the date is still on yes? Shoulda been more casual like 'it's just pizza, you're a friend' (note the disqualification with 'friend') then maybe send a 2nd text to change the topic And yes, she's thinking something might happen. If she saw you as just an orbiter she probably wouldn't have brought it up…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:37 AM
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You kinda sound like an orbiter. We get along fine, and there was initial attraction when i started working at my restaurant, but dont shit where you eat yada yada. Mhm...sure the feeling's mutual? Is that ego protection, or are you sure she would get with ya if ya wanted? Can work as a roomie (a chance to meet her friends, some preselection if she acts attracted to you in front of them). Make sure she's always paying her half up front tho (don't let her get 'in debt') Also ask yourself - if you…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:20 AM
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You're waaaay overthinking this. First of all, you were at a rave. So who knows what they were on. Or, maybe she's just nasty. Maybe she thought you were staring at her creepily (maybe you were), or maybe you looked a lot like someone who had. Maybe she already knew the other guy. None if it matters. It was one chick who you met for 2 seconds a long time ago who was probably on E. Go lift and lose fat and get more experience interacting with a bunch of chicks and don't worry about the spazzes.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:05 AM
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Learn from him. That's the most valuable thing you can do. AMOGing is the operative term here (Alpha Male Other Guy), look it up on the sidebar / classic lit. You can also try to beat him at his own game, by doing the same shit with a more silvered tongue. You can also AMOG him by calling him out in clever way ("there he goes again with the hyper sugar rush"), come up with a nickname for him, like 'class clown', and never use anything else, etc. Be prepared for it to escalate as you both try to …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:46 PM
2

Haha true, how I'm hearing those comments in his raspy wise voice.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:49 AM
2

"Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself". Your advice was great. Maybe too good. Too much for him to digest too quickly? It's tough in your shoes though, since you probably only had this one chance to talk to him before he "agreed" to shit with his wife. He proceeded to start telling me how I was sounding like one of those incel, alt-right losers who hates women, and how he doesn’t like what I’m saying and implying I proceeded to remind him that he’…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:47 AM
2

You're an orbiter
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:34 PM
6

Savage lmao
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:34 PM
1

That's a shitty line and the smiley makes it worse
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:33 PM
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Needs a helluva lot more context - was this nightgame, daygame, online, what was the line etc. Anyway, the subtext is she didn't find you physically attractive. Ignore it and just say something else.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:33 PM
1

I could see that happening. European countries Islamify (including the white people) -> native European birthrate shoots up due to said Islamification and third-world conditions -> racial civil wars where the Europeans kick the ethnic Africans and Middle Easterners out. That's not a particularly rosy scenario for anyone involved and sounds like a bad dystopian novel, but similar things have happened throughout history. Hell that's sort of what the Yugoslavia conflict was.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:54 PM
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You ever wonder if that is in fact the endgame? Western white men deciding, en masse, "ok we're Muslim now lol" so that they can do what they want and the cultural Left can no longer attack them (b/c anyone on the Left who does will be torn apart by other Lefties for Islamophobia).
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:12 PM
2

You're still young. 29 is young in male SMV terms. Get jacked, work on your career and your game, you've got decades of good years ahead.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:52 PM
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That's just how the human psyche is. First impressions are pretty strong, and our perception of someone else's value/authority tends to be sticky. Like if you met your boss in public, years after you switched jobs, you'd likely be more respectful than if you met a former underling. Most people never really get over their early-life crushes or first loves. Easy solution is not to even bother with your ex-oneitis. SHE most likely will still perceive you as a low-value orbiter (even if you got jack…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:21 PM
1

Raise kids w/o getting married. You could still end up on the hook for child support if it falls through ofc, but that's better than child support + alimony + legal costs of divorce. Consult with an attorney in your geography about whether you might get declared common law married anyway tho. Move to a country which is culturally or legally more favorable. Shack up with someone much wealthier (you might still owe child support if it falls through; look that up) Most importantly, be attractive an…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:59 PM
1

Look up the local law over whether this can get you considered legally married anyway .
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:57 PM
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Outstanding writeup of these issues. In OP's case, the things the girl says while they're out in public are not really an issue. At his place, she said " “Are you going to fuck me already, or what?”" and things proceeded from there. She'd have to flat out lie to accuse him of anything, and if she's going to flat out lie, she'd just make up things she said earlier anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:31 AM
2

Did you notice the part of the FR where she said " “Are you going to fuck me already, or what?" "
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:27 AM
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A+ field report, and almost too well written. (It's written in the style like fiction, but I completely believe it, and it's all in all a pretty typical very-well-executed Vegas lay). The "Ok" response is gold b/c it's very terse, noncommittal, and ambiguous. As is the Han Solo esque "I know" to the third one. The "what are you doing" and the Russell Brand line are both very well deployed. Part of what makes this such a great education field report is it's so damn simple. All the above-mentioned…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:19 AM
1

Correct. 5th Amendment all the way.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:31 PM
1

Well phrased, "I had a great time" is vague (doesn't say 'great sex' etc.) so it would be hard for it to be used against you
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:30 PM
1

If a girl really likes you she may try to 'accidentally' refer to you as boyfriend when introducing you. So watch out for that. 'friend' obv is a kiss of death, if she introduced him that way, beta friendzone all the way' if no descriptor, go with body language. If she kinda leans into you and does that vocal fry drawl "soo...this is Chaaaad" while tapping your upper arm as she introduces you to the thots, she considers you le fuckboi. Very common for girls to try to 'plant a flag' in front of o…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:15 PM
1

Yes, my experience with this has been that it works very well. You get built in preselection and dread game and she works very hard to please you, in and out of bed. Girls also get off on the idea of you being with other chicks, and like to hear the stories, and she'll probably be down for planning threeways. You must establish this frame from the absolute getgo. it's 100x harder to convince a chick to accept this if you were formerly exclusive. Some chicks will walk away That's OK. And eventual…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:59 PM
3

There's aggressive, and then there's....whatever that was. Being aggressive in the wrong way shows a lack of state control. Look up 'caveman game'
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:17 PM
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I even tried holding her arms back and forcing myself on her but at that point she went completely silent and still and I felt as if I was almost raping her, so I stopped. Are you fucking retarded bro!?!!? That's horrible game, and it actually is kinda rapey. Also it shows desperation on your part. It's just terrible game all around even before we get into the ethical and legal issues. You should thank your lucky stars it went no further. Her earlier "what are you looking for? are you just looki…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:54 PM
2

They're not your friends. Just be thankful that they did it in front of you so you know to cast them out. And if she flirts back, obv she needs to be dumped.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:44 PM
2

Watch out for the trucks of peace.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:30 PM
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The last line is super generic. Every motherfucker on every dating site/app says they love 'hiking' and 'traveling' and 'workout out' (ten years ago it was 'climbing'). You don't really need to not-so-humblebrag about how much you love working out and why, cuz, we all know you are only saying that to imply that you are fit...but that's what your photos are for. If you have the photos to back it up, you don't need the line, and if you don't, it seems tryhard. If you're an actual fighterfighter, s…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:46 AM
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It means you had frame and hand in the relationship. If you'd acted jealous, she would've been less attracted to you, and things would've been worse. Basically, she's upset that she couldn't wrap you around her finger, and you maintained dignity. If she thinks you weren't jealous enough, it means she did things to try to make you feel jealous....which is of course a big red flag, and means she could never be trusted, so the 'dodged a bullet' idiom, while overused, applies here.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:50 AM
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Think of her as just for fun, like a hobby, don't stress on big questions or think about "the relationship" Be unexpected with your affections, people place more subconscious value on randomized payoffs Dominant, mutually enjoyable sex Stay in shape / always be getting in better shape Be a man on a mission with more important things than her Have options. She should always know this
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:12 PM
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It's always AF/BB (or AF/AB if she can get it from a rich alpha) but what she perceives as alpha can be situational, and some girls place more emphasis on looks, or money, etc. than others. Social status is the most important alpha trait, but that is very situational, it might be athletic ability in HS and college, but then the music scene in the place she moves to next etc. But you're getting too philosophical in regard to a specific girl not letting you kiss her. As you yourself said, it was p…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:53 PM
1

As I myself already said, everything is situational Bing "Hearstiste Jumbotron rule" only text would you would be comfortable seeing thrown up on the Jumbotron at a sporting event. OP's text passes
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:23 PM
1

This is a question for a lawyer and estate planner (there are lawyers who specialize in estate planning). The answer details depend on your state/country and other family situations, like if there are rival relatives who will try to screw you
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:25 AM
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Depending on your rapport so far it could actually be a good reply, if it would be obvious that you KNEW you were sounding dumb, Basically satire of that kinda thing, while subcommunicating "yes, I do plan to seduce you" It'd be A&A basically, if you've already established yourself as someone who doesn't text like that seriously
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:23 AM
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That's a pretty good reply lol. There's a soft rule in game "never use emojis as a guy" but it probably works there You might be able to reply with some joke about banging pots and pants together...I can't think of one that isn't corny but eh Go over to her place with a bottle of wine and shit; if she's inviting you to her place 'to hang' you're basically in don't fuck up mode: she wants to be bang (and be seduced by you / feel like she wasn't straight up asking for it). You might still get LMR …
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:21 AM
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Bad title. "wanna bang" sounds like she straight up offered, "are you trying to bang" is more of a shit test / ASD. It's the best kind of shit test. It clearly signals she's thinking about sex with you. It's practically an invitation, but it's the kind you don't just say 'yeah' to. You have to avoid the beta bait reply of "oh no princess I want to get to know someone well first!" the thirsty reply of "OMG yeah I'd love sum fuk" Basically she's trying to put you in 'chaser' mode and admit that sh…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:10 AM
6

Monetary standard? HELL NO First of all, girls present a much more ballin' lifestyle on social media that they really need. Surely you must know how carefully curated everyone's social media pages are, choosing the best photos from among 1000s where they look their best and happen to be standing by a Lambo or whatever. The fancy cars and mansions are usually a man's (or paid for by one), which she may or may not be fucking. Are you jealous of some maid or groundskeeper who who works in a mansion…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:30 AM
2

Talk to a lawyer. Even if you don't ever involve a court. This is very serious shit. What state/country are you in? Again, talk to a lawyer about all this, BUT, in the meantime, good advice is likely to be: Avoid doing anything 'fatherly' especially if it's recorded (social media shit etc.) Sometimes judges will declare "a bond has been formed" and shit like that to slap non-dads with child support. In fact the lawyer will probably advise no contact with the mother. Keep track of any evidence of…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:26 AM
1

We pretty much do live in different realities. Being a hot chick is kinda like being a celebrity.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:29 AM
1

Yup. It's social signalling. There's a stereotype (in some subcultureS) that the toughest guys like rap, therefore ever guy tows the one to seem tough. I have the same theory about some other things like "liking New York City". The perception is that the wealthiest or toughest guys will, and the weaker or poorer guys won't, so, everyone claims to like living there (even though when you catch them off guard they are constantly bitching about every facet of day to day life there).
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:38 PM
1

It's true you shouldn't be butthurt by girls ego tripping. It can, in practical terms, make your job a bit harder (ego and bitch shields are higher due to the other male attention) I've heard a theory that some of this can work in your favor...that the other guys act like fluffers (barf but anyway:) by getting into her a sexual frame of mind for you to swoop in with her buying temp already raised by other guys having warmed her up. idk (and it's kinda gross to think about too much....but that do…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:36 PM
2

Yes. It's basically just a big pedestal. It's the closest most women get to that "being a model strutting up and down the catwalk" fantasy that 100% of chicks have. Hell some clubs have literal pedestals / raised platforms and cages for chicks to get up on/in to dance and be ogled.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:03 AM
1

Yup. You are far from alone. Most dudes feel this way, including most dudes who physically tower over other dudes. It's like imposter syndrome...every dude feels intimidated by the mass of dudes, not realizing every OTHER dude feels the same way anyhow. I enjoyed nightclubs for awhile when I was younger (often sneaking in underage), but at a certain point...idk....part of it is it is literally so difficult to hear and talk ("WHAT!?") that my game routines were not as good as in locations where I…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:57 AM
2

I think it's this one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSShNSgOAR0 I forget if he makes this point, but if you've heard the saying "if you're not paying for something, you are the product" it applies to women at nightclubs. They often get in free (and get their drinks bought for them), they are effectively what the nightclub is selling, by being what lures the dudes to pay for cover and drinks and bottle service.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:40 AM
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Working as intended. Most rap isn't meant to entertain, but to intimidate. Same with some pop. It's just a modern, technology-enabled version of males bleating at each other on the savannah to convince each other of dominance. That's why it's loud and jarring and the lyrics and videos are essentially a guy bragging and/or slinging threats. Some metal is like this too, but not to exclusion. There's a great TED talk (a rare thing) oh how the nightclub environment is designed to intimidate men, so …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:40 PM
1

When you feel like it and don't feel like you 'need' to. Or, more tactically...as comfort game after bedding her. Basically it's part of relationship game, NOT seduction.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:56 PM
3

Also BPA and xenoestrogets sapping T levels. Has even been observed in other species. Ironically, the one 'pollution scare' that's nearly been blacked out by legacy media. Weird, isn't it
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 07:21 PM
1

Oh that - ignore. It was 1 comment you made a whole month ago. If you bring it up again, even to 'backtrack' from it, it will be transparent to her that you're trying to play it cool' or whatever now. That would backfire. Don't worry about it - the worry will come out in your attitude with her and be more beta than the original comment. Just forget it. You were drunk, she could tell, a few 'beta' moves can easily be compensated for. The most alpha thing you can do now is not be sweating over one…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:19 PM
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We do get intimate - sex coming soon, currently only handjobs etc. lol terrible sign. One month and HJ only is basically friendzone. Go for the BJ Next time you're making out - "Hey, wanna know a trick for a really good handjob?" Her: "what?" You: "use your mouth"
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:05 PM
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^ Great post, well handled situ. OP, follow this template.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:00 PM
4

Dread game the bird. Grill some chicken within smell range.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:55 PM
2

3 rejections in one night is nothing dude lol. "Make 100 approaches" is standard newb training advice (not in one night, granted), and do you really think those guys are getting 98-100 bangs out of those 100 approaches? You could approach dozens a night.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:54 PM
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If you're doing it b/c she told you to do it, then yes it's very beta. You've let her know that she can get what she wants using BJs or lack thereof as leverage.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:11 AM
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yep. it's even in the name
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:37 AM
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They do enjoy the attention. They just want to ALSO be able to weaponize it as desired
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:37 AM
9

Time to wear a secret body cam with your own face in the field of view, so you can disprove accussions ("this video proves it was 4.6 seconds") build up blackmail of all your coworkers (find a clip where they stared at you for >5 seconds, and trot that out if they ever fuck with you)
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:36 AM
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Great post, deep insight, could really be something to it. Wonder if there's a racial difference here: white sons of single mothers tend to become more pseudo-father and beta-providery, whereas black sons just ditch family responsibilities and join gangs
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:34 AM
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Also note the blatant contradiction between This is one of my best friends in the whole world and favorite people on the planet malcolm mccormick. I respect and adore him endlessly and am grateful to have him in my life in any form, at all times regardless of how our relationship changes or what the universe holds for each of us! Unconditional love is not selfish. It is wanting the best for that person even if at the moment, it’s not you… I can’t wait to know and support you forever and I’m so p…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:55 AM
2

the goldfish line is, well, gold Logistics were what fucked you. If she's cheating(?) on her bf, she wouldn't want her roommates hearing her bed creaks and moans through the wall. It can still be done, but you had an uphill battle. You could've also done something like seen fi she would blow you (in her room or the common room couch), since BJs are much quieter than (rock-her-world-) sex. Ideally you would have already discovered she had roomies (from earlier convo) and gotten her to your place …
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:13 AM
2

THIS. If there were no evidence of the hookup, OP would be unaware of it to this day
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:55 PM
2

Shit tests are a female instinct. Shit tests can happen irrespective of whether the conscious part of her brain knows you can only ever be fuckbuddies or whether she's husband-shopping. This is the food group of shit test where a girl tries to make you jealous by showing you some of other other male attention. She's seeing how easily you get jealous, how emotionally invested you are, and she's trying to use preselection (not realizing it doesn't work in that direction). It's a pretty standard sh…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 09:11 PM
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lmao great reply, A&A'd, shit test passed. She's engaging in gender projection: she thinks it makes her looks preselected. Just like you'd be more attractive to her if she saw other girls hanging off your arms. Most women don't realize that this doesn't work in reverse; it just makes them look like cockteases or sluts. We can evaluate a girl's SMV with our eyes, we don't need to see other guys slobbering. It's a red flag for her character. Keep smashing if you want, but discount as any sort of s…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:25 PM
1

Huh that's surprising if so. That's big topic for one post, but go bing the real classic, millenium era stuff like Mystery's Attraction->Comfort->Seduction phases. Basically, you start by DHVing and being attractive and making her tingle, then you segue into some of the stuff you might think of as more traditionally beta or bluepill or friendzoney (but with the nuance and context to make it work), then the physical seduction. Look up concepts like time dilation, and playing make-believe, and val…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:32 PM
3

A lot of RP is simply 'common sense distilled from observations over time', which in times past was passed from father to son (and via classic literature), it's only quite recently that it has become 'uncommon'. It's one of the primary reasons there is a cultural Marxist all out assault to remove fatherly and adult male influence from young mens' lives.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:28 PM
3

One of my favorite examples was Jodie Foster coming out as gay in, like, 2014, and acting like it was brave. Yeah, in Hollywood in 2014, very brave to be gay. Or least year, Kevin Spacey doing so to deflect his abuse allegations. Also editorialists at NYTimes et. al. treating each new movie heroine (like Wonder Woman, which was actually good, or Ghostbusters, which was a shitstain) like she's the first of her kind...totally forgetting about Ripley from Aliens, Sarah Connor from Terminator, prett…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:26 PM
1

A subpattern: if a post on that subreddit or 'relationships' starts witha woman complaining about a man, and the comments do not support her (rare, but it happens), she will reply to them, and/or edit to her post, to drop the magic a-word "oh, I should have mentioned, he was abusive." It's like an ace in the hole they always have to get bystanders on their side. Never happened to me, but I have seen it happened to other guys in RL. Or stories about some 'creep' or 'stalker', then later I see tex…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:19 PM
1

Comfort game
/r/askTRP14/06/18 01:39 AM
1

All human behavior is statistical, not absolute. Also, remember a woman can 'leave' an asshole for a beta, and still get alpha seed on the sly. Once she realizes the asshole will never commit, she may shift to an AF/BB strat
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:47 AM
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The red flag is she's not very into you. She left you hanging for a week (think about how often young women check their phones) and then makes zero effort to offer a solution for meeting up (like at a place closer to her, or letting you pick her up, or ubering)
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:39 AM
2

Shitty response, very beta If she preemptively says this, it means she was thinking about sleeping with you A&A "Great b/c I just found Jesus, cant' wait to meet up and spread His good word. I picked out a nun's habit for you" OR ignore and just proceed with logistics of the meetup
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:57 PM
2

Do whatever you would if she weren't there. Like go take care of your shit, or swipe on Tinder
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:55 PM
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Needs more context. where were you, who said it, were you objectively yelling
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:54 PM
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I wouldn't care either way a game/movie that has a lesbian love story as a major plot point.....however I consider it a major minus in this case simply b/c I sense that they will politicize it and beat you over the head with patronizing themes. How much you wanna bet the game will be another instance fo the 'diverse good guys, white male bad guys' trope (see also: Disney Star Wars) and the bad guys will be 'redneck militia' types who will yell some meanie-words at Ellie and her lover b/c they ar…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:31 PM
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TLoU2 is going to shit on that though and turn Ellie into Rambo
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:05 PM
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21 yo daughter as a wingwoman...goddamn man lol
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:02 PM
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Your mistake was explicitly bragging. That looks tryhard and may make girls think you are bluffing/lying/compensating
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:02 PM
2

Hilarious field report. Well done. The fact that it was a genuine reflex is probably would sealed it for ya, women are better assessors of body language and she could probably tell it was reflex and not a deliberate dread game stunt But I'd love to know if you're able to consciously replicate this tactic
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:00 PM
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Outstanding advice. Also, OP, keep that wallet of yours tucked deep in the pocket. Don't be beta bux any more than is naturally necessary for a growing child. (Food, clothes, etc. but she doesn't need designer labels or the latest iPhone.) Maybe your daughter can learn what a Strong Independent Woman she is by getting a job for the latter half of high school if she really wants that latest iPhone model.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:42 PM
1

You sound brittle and angry and whiny. Which is not my problem. You clearly have your own issues and are lashing out here (look up 'transference'.) But, for anyone else reading, I'll expound, since this is an interesting topic: There's a theory that the lion's share of male creative and productive energy is all, ultimately, to get laid. Which from a Darwinian point of view is practically a tautology. Naturally that theory leads to speculation that certain celibate geniuses like Tesla and Newton …
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:36 PM
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Shit, I've had it be a few days, weeks, months, even years. Especially when distance is involved (like a hometown honey you'd totally forgotten about hits you up, so next time you're back in town you meet up and hook up) It sounds like you're talking about THEM ghosting YOU. In that case remember to never take them seriously, and be suspicious that she's coming back b/c some branch swing didn't work out
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:26 AM
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Go with your gut. If you sense she did or has it in her, dump. Up to you whether to even give a reason. You might not wish to give your real reason cuz you getting cheated on is a DLV if she goes around saying why you dumped her. Anyway you're in high school, a 5 month LTR is very long for HS and you're missing a lot of other experiences and practice at learning the crimson arts
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:23 AM
1

Oh interesting. Well it probably won't be recurring, then. The alcohol probably played a part (and anyway game is tightest with a LOT less alcohol than you would think)
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:17 AM
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“I can fuck any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted” lol I always wonder, do chicks really not realize that this applies to very decent or better looking woman? Or do they think guys don't know this? Can confirm OP's experiences...have had so many girls over the years completely light up, start screaming at he top of their lungs, try to physically trap me (grabbing, blocking doors or standing in front of cars etc.) become absolutely feral when they realized we were 'done'. The…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:44 AM
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Weightlift, approach chicks, repeat
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:04 AM
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Remember that this data doesn't tell us the attractiveness of the partners....so the skew could be even greater than the numbers suggest: the guys banging the most chicks might ALSO be banging the hottest ones.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 12:52 AM
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A lot of researchers like this are purple-pill. The sort of see the writing on the wall, but they know that to keep their careers and grants, they need to sugar coat the red pill data with blue pill commentary.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 12:51 AM
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Really glad to hear. Yup, it's amazing. Ain't it funny how almost no one tells you this? Instead they're quick to push blue pill (literally) solutions like meds and shrinks. That said, yoru situation is serious enough that you might also consider seeking a doc or therapist. But lifting should def be done on the reg. It improves mood, and when your bad mood is due to game/chicks, there's the double whammy of it improving female interest in you.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:48 AM
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DGAF. That will make you exactly as much of a (funny) asshole as you need to be. Anger makes you too much of one, and is exhausting. Cultivate a love of dark humor.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:06 PM
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Weightlift. Great for the body AND mind. Also, since your case sounds kinda extreme, maybe therapist or doctor. I've heard therapists are mostly bluepill and anti-masculinity, so shop around cafefully.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:59 PM
3

Usually it's in her endtable drawer, or top dresser drawer behind the panties
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:51 PM
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If they don't have kids, probably yes. Men who don't get laid also slowly go crazy. Basically, we all have our Darwinian imperatives, and if you fail/defy it you do so at great peril. Brain plasticity only goes so far.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:50 PM
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LAWYER. No direct contact with her or anyone like her family. if any contact is needed, do it through lawyer You need to consult with a lawyer to make sure you're minimizing your chances of getting saddled with child support, and avoid legal bullshit like her not even needing a pat test
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:35 PM
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Judgmental call based on your perceived risk of the bf murdering you or the girl making a FRA to cover for her cheating. It sounds like the cat's already out of the bag on the latter, so if the boyfriend is distance you're probably OK. Obv never promote her past FB. don't be shocked if she cheats on you in the future.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:33 PM
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Way the bury the lead, should've put that in your original post. TRP advice is very different in the workplace due to Western tyrannical laws about it
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:03 PM
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You're probably right, if she's already being physically violent with the plates etc. OP should get recordings of her being violent (if legal to so in in his area) for ammo in divorce/custody proceeding, then GTFO.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:01 PM
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When a beta 'acts up', people (men and women) will try to put him back in his place. Think of it like a caste society where people who 'get ideas above their station' are punished. This is one of many reasons it's easier to grab new chicks after upping your value than it is to 'fix' existing relationships. you have to hold fast, and weather the storm, and NEVER GIVE AN INCH. She is shit testing you, HARD. You have all the factors for extreme shit testing LTR where you were beta for awhile. The l…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:00 AM
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She's full of shit. You're not attractive enough. A&A, say you're faxing her your background check, and to note in the report how you were acquitted of all drug trafficking charges
/r/askTRP09/06/18 12:09 AM
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Game them. Why are you letting it go to waste?
/r/askTRP09/06/18 12:07 AM
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Terrible idea .She could (and WOULD) still go after you for child support. EVEN IF you got a lawyer to draft up something for ya'll to sign (and she had a lawyer to go over it with her) it might not hold up. Anonymous sperm donation clinics are the only sane way. You might be able to get away doing a regular clinic donation, and then telling her something about your donor profile that would let her 'find' which donor you are at the clinic, but even that that be enough for some judge to snag you.…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:58 PM
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You're an orbiter (she hopes) and she wants a ride to/from the gym (or maybe a cockblock for the guys who hit on her there)
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:52 AM
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Have regular phone calls with her. Tell stories that have implicit RP themes, like girls you know who started happy families, or those you know who are single and slamming into the wall and bitter. If you want to steer her towards certain types of men, remember not to try the other types as dangerous or bad (that makes sense to you, bit might give her tingles), just make jokes at their expense about them being losers. For example don't bitch about the refugee rape and crime waves in Germany, if …
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:29 PM
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If your perception of the incident is accurate, those might be IOIs (but you were drunk so who knows). You should call/text/snapchat/whatever her and set up a 1 on 1. Get a clear answer on whether she is interested or not. Your post line about 'risking the loss of two friends' is like the #1 most common beta orbiter line - "I wouldn't want to risk out friendship!" (make by the orbiter, or by the girl to let the guy down 'gently') You are def acting like an orbiter...but if you are lucky, she doe…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:20 PM
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And it was 4 hours b/c that 4th hour was the hour where they discovered her identity Literally; I remember following that one in real time and it dropped around when the identity came out
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:15 PM
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Her: "Do you have a girlfriend?" You: "It's complicated" Or: come-here finger curl "Let's find out" or "I've been reviewing some applications" (gold if done while adjusting tie or lapels while meeting someone after you got off work) " OP, that girl may be interested in you, but you've set an orbiter frame (meeting up with her ane her gf for cosmos as if you were the taken gay guy BFF in a 90s sitcom) that you'll need to dig out of. Set up 1 on 1 time and quit going on the group cosmo'n'gossip se…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:15 PM
1

'comfort game' is the RP term that encompasses romance. It helps, but must be in tandem with (and preceded by) DHV and attraction Otherwise it's a turn OFF
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:43 PM
3

Fantastic post.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:42 PM
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And import people who are very likely to go on mass shooting sprees.....then censor any discussion about their backgrounds when it happens.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:41 PM
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Guns get girls wet. Your hobby is a DHV to her, whether or not the conscious part of her brain is aware of it.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:40 PM
3

Crab bucket mentality. Many men (esp in Europe) have been thoroughly, thoroughly neutered (there is literally a big drop T levels over the past 50 years, like 30-40% adjusted for age IIRC). Masculinity thus makes them bitter and angry, in a similar fashion to fat chicks hating on hotties. People love to tear other people down (especially those who are more successful/attrative), so these guys are able to manipulate their university's cultural marxist bureaucracy into punishing the gun-loving Cha…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:36 PM
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Your logistics are crap; don't be taking her to her place if her roommates are in the way. If after 3-4 dates she isn't willing to meet at your place, you're likely an orbiter. Other than that, the answer to your question is pretty much 'all of game', your post is sufficiently vague and generic that anything which increases attraction can be an answer (lifting, routines, etc.)
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:11 PM
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It could be a crab-bucket thing; there are some female relatives who absolutely will try to tear a guy down. (In ev psych theory, could be the selfish genes of the mitochondrial DNA - since you, as a male, are a dead end for those.) But maybe they do have a point or are genuinely concerned. If you're not flexing and lifting and swaggering around shirtless in front of your family (which would be weird unless it's a day at the beach) then, with clothes on, you might just look 'fat', not strong. Al…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 09:16 PM
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Just read up on LMR / ASD, the general philosophy about these will apply here, unless you have some specific issue like dick stank
/r/askTRP03/06/18 09:09 PM
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Ah right. Well in that case, she most likely still considers you an orbiter in light of everything else (stood up, denied kiss)...nonetheless, have her come over, maybe tell her what to wear, and once you are there, physically escalate. P.S. Hugs and cheek kisses are worse than nothing. If a girl ever 'gives you the cheek', don't kiss the cheek, just shrug it off and go 'cya around' if it's at the end of the date.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:16 PM
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You're a beta orbiter. Suggest drinks at your place. It's been 3 dates (well 4 with her flaking) If she declines, that proves it.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:08 PM
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Huh, yeah. Maybe she was getting cold feet, or ASD kicked in, or is it possible your friend is more attractive (try to be realistic...every guy on this subreddit rates himself 7/10) or it was some sort of shit test (so see if you were pack alpha enough that he would leave anyway). Tough to see with out being there. In any case, strat from here is the same. Set up another meeting, 1 on 1. She'll either bite or she won't.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:00 PM
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This. OP, you can never be surprised when a girl doesn't want to drag a guy she just met into her bedroom right in front of all her best friends (and your so-called cockblocker friends). You have to isolate.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:18 PM
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When already at her place, her bedroom would be better, if you have an 'organic' way to segue there. But, balcony could work. One of my quickest meet-to-lays was at a party, chatted a chick up, suggested we go out to the balcony; within the hour of meeting her, she was was getting my D bent over the balcony. Too bad I didn't have a lube packet on my person b/c I'm pretty sure she woulda been down for anal there too. In retrospect probably stupid (slight risk of plugning to our deaths) but all's …
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:13 PM
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You fucked up by having a blatant cockblocker 'friend'. That guy 100% knew what he was doing. He was probably jelly and wanted to CB you, or thought he had a shot at her (or he was such a loser he was gunning for some part of a MFM train). Cut him from your life. Or at least do more gaming without these 'friends' around. As for the girl...it's possible her attraction to you waned b/c being CBed like that made you seem like less of a 'pack alpha' than she'd previously pegged you for (imagine you …
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:41 AM
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Cray-cray Hard next
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:37 PM
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She's not that interested. Bye bye. Especially if you haven't researched whether the age diff is legit in your geography. Hard next or go stone cold and make her crawl back - casually say 'meet me at my place at time X date Y - in the event she is interested and is actually, like, narcoleptic or something, she'll show and be eager to please and make it up to you. If not, bye bye. Do not 'meet her anywhere' or exert any iota of effort. Remember that more dates does not automatically mean more int…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:22 PM
1

Oh, now my stalker is upset I wasn't interested in being sent his pics of how tall and sexy he supposedly is <3 lmao man you are a trip, you are unintentionally hilarious
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:16 PM
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I got nothing to prove, you're the one with the fragile ego. Bye bye now stalker
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:09 PM
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<3 Awwww I have an internet stalker, you really took an interest in me huh <3 xoxo catchya later stud Protip: actual tall guys don't even blink when you make a short guy joke. Only short guys spaz out like ya did
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:08 PM
1

Oh, of course you are, everyone on the internet is. Lemme guess, 9 inch wang too and an IQ or 140
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:00 PM
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Wall'o'text ranting and raving. With nothing new to say. Dudes who are pulling hot tail on the reg are never this uptight and whiny. (Hmm I smell Short Man Syndrome from ya) lmao chillax bro
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:58 PM
1

yeah yeah, you would have been a badass champ in his shoes and here's how you woulda done it with a finger-wave of effort, easy peasy. Talk is cheap. "Frame established" lmao, quite regurgitating random lingo. You didn't even read OP..."ask if her friend wanted to come?" the girl is the one who already invited the friend. "Keyboard warrior" means bragging to other dudes on forus, like this. It doesn't refer to using your phone's messaging apps to game girls. Jesus Christ man, learn what words me…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:41 PM
1

Ah, you're one of those "I'm so cool I don't need to do anything ever, zero text game, girls just flock to my magical cock" keyboard warriors. Read what OP actually wrote. A threesome frame was not already established. He is using text game to raising buying temp (for a threeway, and with the friend generally) and get a head start on the in person game.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:34 PM
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First of all, "join our party" IS an example of plausible deniability. Secondly, there is always a need to set a sexual frame. You sound like a bitter party pooper. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:51 PM
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All about establishing the frame ahead of time my friend. It's easier said than done, but when you pull it off, it'll make you believe in god
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 05:49 PM
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This is a very good point. Guys underestimate calves, b/c they are far way from the center mass of the body, and b/c they are not stereotypical 'showoff' muscles like biceps. But they are incredibly strong, they hold up everything else. And remember our ancestors were likely walking/running all the time, not sitting. I've gotten compliments out of nowhere about my calves. They can def be used to pull chicks. Kinda like how in every single Reddit thread about 'unexpectedly attractive body parts',…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:58 AM
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Depends. If it sounds nervous, esp if you laugh at oyur own self-dep joke, yes. It also be a form of handicapping though (which can show higher status or confidence). Like imagine an enormous tough ripped dude 'confessing' / joking about a random phobia or being bad at singing. It would be 'awww cute' to the girl, and good comfort game.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:39 AM
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Obesity Stress Sedentary lifestyle Lack of exercise, team sports, or masculine activities Submissive social conditioning (government schools teaching boys to be passive little drones) Plastics Birth control pills in the water (mostly via women's urine...yep) We're even seeing these effects in other animals, and it's devastating to some amphibian populations. There is def something 'in the water'. Amazingly, it's the one pollution issue that the political Cultural Marxist Left does not seem to ca…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:31 AM
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Do slow or even static-held calf presses. Don't 'machine gun bounce' the calf presses on the leg press machine, that gives you very little time under tension and just wears the ankle joint And make sure you're using enough resistance to actually feel it I like to put the foot on the bottom edge of the panel so I can take the heel past 90 degrees and get more range of motion
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:29 AM
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If she's a regular at the gym you'll probably see her again. Don't mention the last incident - that will show you overthought it and have been thinking about her, which is a DLV - just 'cold' approach her casually.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:10 AM
1

Mid last century, some Italian men would wipe their pocket scarf with rheir ball sweat, then put it in the lapel pocket, the idea being to attract women who liked their natural scent. If anything, the sweat you worked up is a reason TO approach, as it will select/filter for the chicks who are gonna be turned on (or at least not turned off) by what they are gonna smell in the sack with you anyway. Your brain will come up with a million excuses to not approach. Only a small number are legit (like,…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:03 AM
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"I didn't approach b/c I could smell my own dick sweat" I gotta say, I've heard hundreds of approach anxiety excuses in the past, but that's an original one
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:58 AM
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Yeah it can be if she's rebounding, wants to make him jelly, or whatever. Don't bring him up yourself, though, and if she starts to talk about him (if she does so at length, that's a minor bad sign) don't get deep into it (don't be a therapist, except with your dick) just casually segue with casual quips like 'time to revel in your new freedom' or feelgood emotional talk like 'wouldn't it be great to get someone who actually gets you and makes you feel good' blah blah. Esp in tandem with the pos…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:35 AM
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wtf are you talking about. Chatting up someone at the gym is not 'shitting where you eat' like doing it in the workplace. If she was hot, just chat her up. You are over thinking it or post-hoc rationalizing your approach anxiety. And anyway if you had a 100% ironclad rule about never approaching at the gym....then WTF was the point of this post?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:33 AM
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Haha well played, godspeed man Remember girls gossip like crazy - so just assume that everything you've said/texted to each fo them might get relayed to the other. This goes double if they each want to give the other girl the impression that you are into them, to 'lay claim to you'. So I strongly suggest you maintain an iron frame of 'perfectly natural to flirt with and go for both' and work in language that leads in a 3way direction (like the other guy's excellent "party together"). That way, t…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:13 AM
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Great field report, perfect in its simplicity. You held out for the deal you knew you deserved, and you got it. This is how you handle a potential frienzoning - you don't whine or beta orgift-give your way out of it, you just non-butthurtfully softnext her for greener pastures, and let her chase you back. Had a few instances like this - such as when Chick A found out I was going to an event with Chick B, b/c Chick A hadn't earned the invite - and it's some of the best pussy lube there is. I can …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 11:56 PM
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Yes, you're overthinking this. If an attractive chick was talking to you, and you want to talk to her, then fucking talk to her. By time you get home and post this on Reddit, it's too late. If you're not sure if she was talking to her, then assume the sale and talk to her. Let the onus be on her to say 'haha sorry I was just talking on my phone' or whatever.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:50 PM
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Listen to this guy. "join our party" is a very smooth way to plant "threesome to friend GTFO" in her head, simultaneously sexualizes the conversation, establishes the 'this is not a friendsies group hair braiding session' frame, and comes off as cucumber-cool. The girl is semi-cockblocking you by inviting the friend (unless she's so into you that she's already thinking 3way as well) but don't begrudge her for it, just take it as standard ASD or ensuring her own safety. If you're attractive to he…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:47 PM
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Aristophanes - 'Assemblywomen' among others. About 2400 years ago, he predicted the modern link between feminism and Communism, as well as feminism as a weapon for women to tear down hotter women
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:15 PM
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Approach and be around hot chicks more. That's the #1 solution. You'll desensitize yourself to approach anxiety, thanks to the experience, plus the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:28 PM
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Great field report, well done. Less really is more. The unstated 'you gotta show me yours since I showed you mine' move with the shirt is gold (if you have the chest for it)
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 02:35 AM
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Excellent example of the verbiage to use while doing something like this.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:16 AM
2

Because it's true. A few males can impregnate every female, and some males are much more desirable than others. Hypergamy.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:13 AM
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Fuck the sister. If she brings it up, casually talk about threeways Never be defensive, embarrassed, or mad. Know in your bones this is all natural and the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:10 AM
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All depends on the details. If you acted angry while spanking, you failed (and she could potentially use that against you later) If you did it with amused mastery, and you have previously established spanking as part of your dynamic (deep down she's actually into it and has wanted it during sex etc.), then it's fine.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:08 AM
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Classic rationalization hamster. Translation of quote: as women get older and desperate, they settle for nice beta providers.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:55 PM
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You need to learn to write more coherently to catch up with that ego
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:51 PM
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Did you know that you can simultaneously believe that the USA is one of the best countries, AND that it has a lot wrong with it (for example, everything OP said)? Most of the world consists of shitholes, and has-been great powers like the increasingly Orwellian Britain. "Better than other countries" is not good enough.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:37 PM
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Rewards/carrots are fine, you should compliment her on a job well done. The keys are that it should sound understated, sound like you are not surprised when a woman does something nice for you, and it should be intermittent (look up psychology on how randomized rewards are more addictive)
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:03 PM
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That's the 'good enough' fallacy, sure you can still raise a family (well, if the mother doesn't take the kdis away)...but wouldn't it be nice if you could raise your family without being forced at gunpoint to raise a dozen welfare bastards as well?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:01 PM
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Great field report, you reframed away from an arena where she has situational status (social media) with a nice 'let's stick to the real world' dig and showed her how to have a good time on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 07:47 PM
1

agree and amplify and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:04 PM
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You failed the shit test. Badly. You gave the beta sour grapes answer of "I am a gentleman who doesn't like to fuck on first dates anyway". Even if that's true for you, 90% of guys who say it just do so cuz they think girls want to hear it. So, you sound supplicative saying it. You should have A&Aed or reframed
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:34 PM
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A Soviet military parade of red flags, dude. Maybe get an STD test since you kissed her, but you're probably OK. Just walk way. No contact. You might be itching to see her again just cuz the kinky shit you talked about has you turned on, and thinking she might be a unique fuck. So, I've got some good news for you: virtually every chick is kinky like this. One I started fooling around with BDSM, I discovered that basically every chick has had fantasies about spanking, hair pulling, choking etc. T…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:33 PM
3

Upvote for username Are you financially independent and living on your own? Cut your parents off, minimal contact, until they get the hint that they can cut the shit or lose a son. Meanwhile go about seeking chicks in whatever way seems best to you
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:05 PM
1

Kept fucking a few of 'em when I made visits back home in between semesters, until they put on too much weight
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:20 AM
1

Show the Kink in your Bedroom It's chink, dude. Kinks are what you WANT to show the chick, after eliciting hers. (Spoiler warning: chicks are all kinky as shit deep down)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:17 AM
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Well played, but, clickbaity to call this 'ultimate'. It's a common shit test that is discussed in a lot of the classic places (Mystery, Neil Strauss, roissy/heartiste) and one of the most common ways to do it is A&A, as you did. Not to knock you or try to deflate your deserved high. Theory is one thing, executing in the moment, through a natural freeze-up like that, is quite another. So well done.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:14 AM
1

With this stuff you just always have to go with your gut. If you feel like you did the right thing, you probably did. PLUS, you get more info from her reaction. If she's worthy of gf material, and innocent, she will plead to get you back and cut off all contact (note that the converse is not true - a girl might do that, but lie about still seeing him). If she doesn't seem that sad by your dumping her....well, that's just more evidence she was thinking of branch swinging to him. I normally have z…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:34 AM
0

Polygyny = alpha Polygamy or polyandry = beta It's that simple. In 50 Shades, which you cite, the main chick is utterly devoted to one guy (and has a beta orbiter, and a creepy boss, that she's never interested in nor hooks up with, and they get wrecked by the alpha). And anyway why would you take advice from author women one way or the other .
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:04 PM
2

Great observations, true as hell and that last quite as brutally hilarious
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:23 AM
1

But everything points to that. I can't even tell whether you mean towards love being real or not being real. If you mean 'being real', you're gonna need to pony up your own evidence. Love, my friend, IS real, in the same way every emotion is 'real', but it's not unconditional. That's the point you're swirling around. Her love is always conditional on you being the best deal she can get. Not to get too Morpheus, but how do you evrn define real. 'Is it real' is not even an interesting question. As…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:55 AM
1

Remember that when guys say 'I wouldn't want a girl who puts out soon anyway' it's sour grapes correlation-causality fallacy. If she's a girl who puts out quickly for other guys, but YOU wait with her, that doesn't make her any less of a slut. In fact, if you care about fishing out sluts, that's one more reason to go for it quickly. The ONLY chance you ever have to find out how quickly a girl will sleep with you...is to go for exactly that. Girls have millions of years of evolution under their b…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:11 PM
2

Yeah his SMV is almost certainly higher, possible also that her talk was too sexual too soon and (despite him being happy to make the jokes) he suddenly, when faced with the concrete thought of meeting up to fuck, thought 'hmm high STD risk, pass'. He might've also scanned her secondary photo for the first time, after seeing that message, and realized the first one was overly flattering or outdated.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:25 PM
5

Being white is like this as well. Some bad shit just happened in a nonwhite community or country? Somehow, somwhere, a Western white man is to blame.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:24 PM
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Well, you realized all this, which is the most important part. You sound young, so you have a LOT of time ahead of you and you are well ahead of the game. Your realization that girls WANT to give you that window to be a man and bust a move, is quite important. You def have oneitis with this girl, but that's no reason to pull away now. You need to go for it, ASAP, worst case scenario, broken heart and you come out the other end stronger. So, set up something else with this chick. Create a similar…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:20 PM
8

That's why we emphasize both lifting and career around here.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:40 PM
1

The age was a lot younger for me, but, I remember a similar revelation. One of the best things about getting blown and laid at that age was that it helped me prioritize self/career goals (I probably have a better career now for it). It's also possible this chick of yours was a bad lay or gave bad blowies. (Hopefully b/c she had a low notch count, not b/c she didn't care about pleasing you). Nothing better in the world who gives you a bad BJ the first time, but proves to be a quick learner (sugge…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:40 PM
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Tale as old as time. Go with your gut. Plus, consider this: His incentives for actually hitting her are: None. Doing so instantly hands her blackmail material, and his life is ruined if she uses it. Her incentives for lying to say he hit her are: auto-win button in divorce proceeding and among their social circles "Cui bono" aka "Who profits?"
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:19 AM
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Evolution is a sexual alpha fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 09:56 PM
11

The feminist version of this is the version of this story that Jane tells Chadwick at the end. Think about that. Now, what if every other feminist fairy tale you've heard has a similar origin behind it?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 09:56 PM
2

This, men, is the real shit. You have just learned more than you did every history or literature class you ever took, combined, and with no lies or bullshit. This is it. This is all we are.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 09:53 PM
9

Two likely issues Maybe you are not as attractive as you think you are. Shirtless pic guys on your app will be self-selected for the better looking guys. So you need to look good compared to the last shirtless guys she just swiped over. You probably look tryhard. Don't do mirror selfies with the fucking iPhone in your face and the phoen arm at the awkward angle. What you need is shit like you at the beach, looking natural, perhaps with preselection hotties you were there with in frame.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:16 AM
9

First of all, learn how to tell a story, this is very mangled and confusing. Are you still high? This is not really a problem with the Chad. You smoking too much weed sounds like the issue. Yes, it can make dudes pacifistic and beta, it can also make dudes funny and chill and DGAF and more alpha in some ways. Depends on a lot of situational and biological factors. Have you gotten laid while high yet? How was it for your sexual energy? That's a factor obv. If you don't like what it's doing to you…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:14 AM
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I've hooked up and plated a couple Brazilian chicks who had several tattoos and they eventually turned out to be quite the sluts but I'm wondering what's the logic behind everyone who say this? lmao kinda answered your own question dude It's just an empirical observation many dudes like you have had. Tattoos are correlated with sluttery. we don't need to know WHY they are. But if you want some deeper reasons It shows narcissism It shows she's casual with her flesh (apparently didn't mind showing…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:50 AM
2

Laugh it off with teasing, A&A etc. Even if you are 'obsessed with lifting', that's a good thing (but don't let her know how much work you put into it...girls are more attracted to the fantasy of natural automatic Fabio muscle genes than to hard work). Her confession was truthful - that she is worried you're out of her league. But she won't ever leave b/c of that, she'll just be your love slave. All of her BS antics are signs you are on the right track Don't ever let you convince you to be a cou…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:41 PM
1

No, that rule is more for work, due to the insane legal climate of Western workplaces. College is one of the best chick-sourcing pools of your life, so it's be quite a waste to avoid screwing coeds. If you really want to keep seeing her you'll just have to tell her. And the 'going beta' strategy is till a terrible idea if there's any overlap. My advice is soft ghost...one thing that has happened to me a dozen times is, a few weeks or monsters after dumping a girl, I got a jones to bang her a few…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:03 PM
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you said you're in college, so DON'T do this if you have any social circle overlap with her. You don't want her giving you anti-preselection by whining to her friends about how lame you are and how she's gonna dump you. The 'playing beta' thing works fine in a more anonymous situation tho.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:04 PM
5

BDSM and maid roleplay. Seriously. If you have a girl who's more into you than you are into her, you should parlay that into getting what you want out of the relationship, whatever that may be. She can blow you while you read, she can dress up as a French maid and clean your place, then present herself and beg for anal. Whatever you can think of that you might like with this girl, just go for it; worst case scenario she's not down for it and then you have a more concrete reason for breaking thin…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:03 PM
9

Threesome is the only correct answer. We'll be expecting a legendary field report. If confronted, act like it's the most natural thing in the world. Do not ever break character or let this frame slip. If given a '...how would you like if I did this?' from a girl, reframe with a curious '...oh, huh, I didn't peg you for the type to want to date several guys at once. Why, are you?' In a casual, non butthurt voice while you absentmindedly glance at the nearest door/exit. She'll backtrack hard .
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:41 PM
1

She's just one bowling ball - one set of three holes you pick up and play a few rounds with. Your new mission is The gym Whatever your career is Social circle of bros and other hos Every day you something towards these three. That is your road. The sexyfun with girls are just the roses along the road.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:54 PM
1

Elon was naturally blue pill, he made it gigantically big off his business acumen, smarts - most importantly, not engineering talent, but dealmaking smarts at getting massive gov't subsidies. Some guys remain BP even after massive success. It's just so ingrained into them. Zuckerberg wifed up a fat comfort woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 06:19 PM
2

What's the polite way of saying 'go learn your history' ?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 06:16 PM
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What we call 'esoteric and controversial ev psych theories', our ancestors called 'common sense'. And Aristophanes was god-tier prescient, he basically predicted communism (and its crushing level of impracticality and evil) ~2000 years before it was seriously tried... ...and he predicted who would be its main proponents.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:30 PM
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Title just 'just ask for sex', post says 'she initiated'. You got laid, that's nice, but there's no real message or learnings here.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 07:37 PM
2

You did fine. She was absolutely trying to beta provider shit test you and you passed it. Her comparing you to her sex makes it an esp smelly shit test. Def not relationship material. As you already know. Your first mistake was going to a restaurant, at all, when you weren't hungry. Unless your fridge had nothing in it (which would be poor planning on your part), you should've just let her eat at your place. Or made a quick drive-thru or grocery store trip on the way home. If you still wanted se…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:35 PM
15

Are you in Hawaii? This sounds like Hawaii, maybe some 'locals only' bar. Most racist state in the USA by far.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:29 AM
1

This is a question for a doctor and maybe physical therapist, not this subreddit. Good luck tho and sorry to hear.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:29 AM
3

lmao you handled it amazingly bro. Especially that last part...she says she wants to stay, so you just walk over and fuck her. (If she was laying on your bed this whole time, I guarantee you she as hoping, at least subconsciously, that's how the interaction would end.) I literally LOLed. You have lots of hand in this relationship and apparently good instincts. So just keep going with your gut here. I've found BDSM is a shockingly great way to deal with things like this. It makes chicks feel more…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:31 AM
3

If these are truly close friends like childhood friends or army buddies, maybe you are overdoing it. If these are beta whiteknights you barely know, it's probably just crab bucket mentality. Would need a lot more context to make the judgment call here. Like the genders of these 'friends' for one thing .Go with your gut. In any case, thwse are people who knew you when you were a Nice Guy, and Nice Guys get hit hard when they start to act like jerkboys. You will find these are much easier with peo…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:16 AM
2

Congrats. She's really into you. Your first mistake was saying "okay" when she "needed to talk", you should have begun with a jokey A&A mindset and replied with something stupid like "yeah...I been thinkin that too...we do need to talk" her: "oh my god, what?" you: "let's go to Mars!" Then when she starts complaining, you A&A "faking it? You're right: I'm a aget MI6; how did you find it?" And so on. Maybe throw in some comfort game too. Probably via subcommunication and body language rather than…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:11 AM
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Amen. I hadn't really thoughts about the Boy Scouts in years, but they absolutely were an important building block for a lot of boys to develop into men. Which is, of course, the real reason the enemies want to destroy them, or water them down into meaninglessness. Concur with your prognostications: Standards for badges, ranks (including an especially Eagle Scout) will fall to meaninglessness. Scoutmasters will become replaced by beta white knights and shrikes. Girls and beta boys will doing Eag…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:01 AM
2

I felt like I saw some of that, yeah. Chicks having trouble getting a job: the job market for just-graduating college students was TERRIBLE in that recession, including for a lot of over-credentialed chick with useless majors. I felt like there was an uptick in interest in angling for cohabitation (aka chicks feeling out if I'd let them live with me in exchange for being live-in maid/cook/sex-kitten etc.) And-or adult chicks moving back in with parents.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:54 AM
3

He's in the friend zone but with title inflation. Do you have credible info that he's gotten a BJ or sex, or even made it to third base? Sometimes girls have a 'boyfriend' who really isn't. She's on the rebound, this guy is some Safety School ego balm. Or, there's some curious factor, like she had a crush on him back in the day (back when other guys hadn't yet surged ahead in T and height). Sometimes you see a guy who batted waaay of his league b/c of the high school sweetheart thing. Or some fa…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:53 PM
3

Your friend's relationship is doomed anyway. She'll do the same with some other guy (good chance she already has). That's not necessarily a reason to bang her, since that will likely get found out, cost you the friend, and possibly anyone in your mutual social circle. Also remember that FRA chances go way up if the girl is in a position where she can lie her way out of being accused of cheating. How good is the friend? If you're REALLY tight, like childhood friends or army buds who saved each ot…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:17 AM
1

Because they crave the best genes. If a low SMV-man can improve himself, women fear they might accidentally spermjack low quality sperm. For whatever reason, 'drive and ability to improve oneself' are not seen as, themselves, good genes. Perhaps the trait has low heritability. It's prob why women love fairy tale settings where the high-SMV men are high-SMV from birth and have their SMV broadcast in the form of crowns and clothing that distinguish upper/lower class. Btw, did you specifically work…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:58 PM
3

To be fair I contradicted myself (I said if you're fucking 6-7s you're 6-7s and then said 'girls fuck up guys fuck down'), so a guy who can regularly pull multiple 6-7s with little effort could consider himself an 8. Almost ever guy here calls himself an SMV 7 or 8 though (and when you ask people to pick a random number on a 10 point scale they usually pick 7) so self reported SMV should still bet aken with a giant grain of salt.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:28 PM
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It's true that guys fuck down (no shade, I do so myself, it's just the math of soft polygamy) so yeah if you can bag several 7s in a close time frame with very little effort/commitment it's fair to say you are >7. 5.5k isn't that small. So my advice is try to game the lower end of your range only when outside your immediate social circle. A 7 is absolutely is good preselection for an 8, esp if you don't seem like you are mooning over her and an 'off the market' boyfriend, rather that she is just…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:10 PM
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Fucking the 6 is still mild positive preselection as long as it just seems like fuckbuddying and not that the 6 snagged you as her bf. Try to game her outside of the social circle's events. If she's dying to fuck you as you claim, she's probably pinged you on whatever social media you use? Or you can get her # when no one's listening then game her on the side.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:41 PM
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Every guy overrates his own SMV (which is not a bad thing for you to do, irrational confidence etc.). If you're fucking 6-7s and not 9s you are SMV 6-7 for all practical purposes. Anyway girls fuck up, guys fuck down. Fuck whomever you want to fuck and who passes your boner test (modulo caveats about STDs and drama etc.)? I've certainly slummed it with girls I just really enjoyed for some reason and who still got me very aroused and were sexy, but just weren't hot enough to make excellent presel…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:39 PM
3

MUD with Matthew McConaughey. A curious and underlooked movie, with an uncurrent of parallel themes about hypergamy and male disposability that show up in several character realtionships: kid vs the girl he's crushing on, kid's mother divorcing the father, McConaughey's char and his ex, one other I think. The subtle messge is at the very end of the movie....the kid's found out the girl doesn't like him, as well as gone through some other hijinks (like McConaughey's character's issues) that showe…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:07 PM
2

Honestly your reaction was the right one. As soon as you learned enough to know it was 100% over, you realized you didn't need to know more. So many other stories of dudes who see shit like this, then go crying at the girl's feet and begging to 'fix it', or they try to rationalize it away as no biggie. It's clear that your instincts are good (both in terms of knowing something was wrong, and then knowing to ASAP ghost her when you found the dirt) so I'm sure your trajectory and emotional state w…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:50 PM
3

You handled it great. I know you feel like shit right now, but you showed grit and good sense and it's clear that this will 'just make you stronger' down the line (campy but true). Curious - in the brief moment you saw the messages - did you get a sense (from timestamps or message content) of whether they started before you lost your job, or after?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:39 PM
0

Focus on grades and lifting. (You're still growing so do a little research on how to not compress your spine and affect your height too much with lifting. overall it's VERY good for a growing man tho.) Get into a good college or trade school (or start a biz), and never look back. In the meantime, when you focus on these things and get more jacked and project a DGAF attitude about your supposed crushed social status, you will become cooler and more attractive again. Maybe you'll go through a lone…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:15 PM
1

They do if you DHV enough and they really want you. Plans 2-3 weeks ahead are way overkill for a new girl / fling / plate tho. It will smell like you're desperate to 'lock her in' or establish a 'dating' frame.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:39 PM
1

You can reproduce without getting married, that lowers the financial risk and may be worth it if you want kids
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:21 PM
2

Did you reply to the wrong comment? The WarGames quote makes no sense here bro. Since you sound smarmy and didn't answer the question I'm going with "this story didn't happen."
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:36 AM
1

If this is the unvarnished truth, this is fucking gold man. Just walking up after class and saying "I got time, lets go to your car"? If you really did it just like that, that's smooth AF.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:20 AM
7

Yeah this post is kinda fucked. Brock Turner was a bad guy, who fingered a passed out chick. The OP diminishes the message by bringing him into it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:18 AM
1

She's just regretting that she sold a stock right before it went up. If you feel like it, consider having her over again so you can game her and make her beg you to do all the freaky sexual shit you didn't do during your actual LTR. Give her some nice sessions of orgasmic anal and BDSM, then you can walk away again feeling a lot better about all the time you wasted on her.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:15 AM
5

^ Listen to this, men. This is the raw truth here. Should you ever have to lose half or your blood, sweat, and tears, all because some chick you already gave a bunch of shit to is 'bored'?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:13 AM
2

Ooh, good call. Yeah she's definitely playing the part of a church offering plate (heh...plate)....passing herself around to see who coughs up extra dough at the mere hint of a pregnancy. Might be doing the 'I need abortion money' scam. Halfway through OP's post I was SURE that "I'm pregnant" was gonna be the punchline. I've read very, very similar stories around here before; chick dumps beta, sluts around, then come racing back with a vengeance when she suddenly needs a cuck provider for her ge…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:26 PM
3

Pregnant? The way she SUDDENLY wanted to get married ASAP after sleeping with a ton of other dudes makes me think she wants to put you on the hook for alimony+child support ASAP. You know what to do. Go get an STD test ASAP, and ghost her and never look back. If she comes afer you for child support...get a lawyer ASAP and do what your lawyer says, not what Reddit says from that point on. NO contact except through the lawyer. The good news is that the kid is probably not yours.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:18 PM
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You made a lot of sexual talk at work, by your own admission, and you got fired for it. Are you new to Western countries? This is just the reality you live under. Plus, for all we know, you did in fact make the object(s) of your innuendo uncomfortable. If I had a fucking dime for every time guy X swore to me that girl Y was into him, but I knew otherwise... You were a temp worker anyway, so this was hardly 'your career' (at least it better not be You say you have a degree and ambition....this so…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:34 AM
1

Ah. Way to bury the lead...maybe edit the main body of the post so it's clearer.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:44 PM
1

Stupid? Why is that stupid? It's the gift-giving betas that are stupid. She's getting free shit for basically zero work. AND it gives her an ego fluff and taps into her prime directive. AND she gets to play the moral highground ("I'm so virtuous and selective for not letting them kiss me"). As the other poster says they may be lying about the no-contact thing. But either way, these girls are not 'stupid' if they are getting what they want on balance. The word you're looking for, perhaps, is crav…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:41 PM
1

That's taking her too seriously; she'll smell that her comment got to you. It puts you in an 'appeaser' frame and she may start to repeat comments like that, knowing she can push your buttons and put you in appeaser mode. Also, women do NOT want to feel like the leaders, esp when it comes to sex. If you straight up ask her about 'her expectations in sex' you will sound way too virginal. She wants you to just be a rockstar. Besides, the question's pointless. Almost all women enjoy the same things…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:55 PM
1

"Some dude got drunk and died, but the big takeaway here is not to have approach anxiety when some ho uses you to make her bf jealous" The big takeaway is don't get so smashed you kill yourself at a party Maybe the dude died b/c when the chick did this with him, the BF threw him over the railing. OP mighta dodged a major fucking bullet. OP, don't sweat 'missing the signal' from that girl, you seriously mighta dodged a bullet getting into a fight with the other dude, & that ho wouldn't be worth i…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 01:03 AM
1

If your performance is as good as you claim, she meant it as a joke and a compliment - like calling a tall guy 'shorty'. Otherwise it might have been a shit test so see if it would get to your ego. Either way, don't take it seriously. Don't have some Logical Male conversation about how RL is not porn. The worst thing you can do is let her know it gets to you. The other answers here have a bunch of good one-liners for A&A or reframing, go with those.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:42 PM
2

Sounds like stress / tension / anxiety in general, which you are projecting / externalizing / dissociating back onto TRP. You are focusing too much on outer game; the surface 'tricks' like openers and frame. Focus on inner game - improving your true self. That's clearly what you need right now. Look up serious meditation. Sounds like new agey woo, and I never got into it, but there's some science behind it now. Also, exercise, especially heavy lifting, has AMAZING mental benefits, esp for stress…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:56 PM
1

The only way this works is if you are higher DHV and genuinely unconcerned about bedding her. For example if you bed hotter girls on the reg (and she knows it) and you use her as a wingwoman to help you hook up with other girls, or she helps you with homework or something In which case she probably want you .Basically, When Harry Met Sally was right, there are almost no true M/F friendships, someone (usually but not always the M) always wants someone. Otherwise, even if you tell yourself you're …
/r/askTRP21/04/18 12:37 AM
3

She flat out told you she found the guy 'hot' and, despite knowing he 'just wants in her pants', she continues to communicate with him. How much fucking clearer could it be. This girl is NOT girlfriend material. Yeah, it's more likely than not that she hasn't and won't fuck him, and is jut doing it to fuck with you and get hand in the relationship. Nonetheless, I consider this a mortal sin for a girl to pull. Demote to fuckbuddy or ghost entirely. Cancel all relationship game, and just treat her…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:21 AM
1

Classic 'fake it til you make it' here. Even if she's the better catch you have to maintain iron frame and act like you're the catch (easier said than done I know and I won't claim to be a zen master at it myself). It's the reason you see some smoking hot girls with those loser tatted criminal dudes with skinny-but-tatted arms; it's the arrogance they have (thanks to the Dunning-Kruger effect). If she's actually playing jealousy games with specific other guys, then IMO she is never gonna be GF m…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:36 AM
1

Sounds like you did the right thing, a bit of a push-pull or freeze-out. ASD excuses like her friend tend to be designed (subconsciously, as most everything a girl does are) to force you into 'chaser' mode (she wants the ego trip of you trying to climb over the obstacles she throws up) so you flipped it back around on her. A lot of the time these excuses never end up needing to be addressed, they just roll into ditches and she pulls down her britches.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:43 PM
5

Treat it like ASD, yeah. If it comes up, nonchalantly reframe it as "she's your friend, I'm sure she'd want you to be happy" as that's a win/win for you: if she believes and agreed with that sentiment, great, if not, she'll realize her 'friend' doesn't have her best interests at heart. Most female friendships are quite shallow .Or A&A "you should both join a nunnery together, that was this won't ever happen again. Plus you'd look cute in those habits. Did I mention I have a pope hat...now come t…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:14 AM
1

The chick's second PM to the guy "...we both want the same things, so how can we possibly be different?" is itself an extremely female point of view: notice how she talks about the ends, and not the means. A (hot) female has the luxury of deciding what she wants, and sitting pretty in public until the right man comes and offers it. Once she's learned about makeup and push up bras, she doesn't have to think about 'the mean' too much. A man knows the men and women will go about achieving the same …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 11:50 PM
3

A lot of guys swear against stuff like that, as they are wary of it creating either too much clinginess/expectations on her part (accelerating the Am I Your Girlfriend talk etc.) or seeming too domestic/beta... ....there's probably some truth to both those things, but this sort of tactic has usually worked well for me. The latter (domestic/beta) isssue counteredby just having the right attitude, and the former....well, it IS a big issue, but dealt with by trying to parlay her clinginess into get…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:22 PM
5

Whatever you want. That's the point. You can see a plate several nights in a row, as long as your attitude is right, it won't seem needy. Especially if you make her feel that she's 'earned' it, like if she cooks you breakfast on a weekend morning and you hang around for more Netflix'n'fuck or whatever you want. A tactic I always liked was to let a girl tag a long on errands I was gonna do anyway - it establishes a man on a mission / gonna do what I want and need to frame, and it also lets her pl…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:47 PM
0

First two rules. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. TRP/game in general (aka pretty much all the good advice on this sub). Always be escalating. Never be embarrassed of your own sexuality (as long as you have class and know how to take hints and aren't a mentally ill monster etc.) Be aware that almost all girls are actually kinky as shit in the right circumstances and with the right guy. When I started fooling around with BDSM I discovered that basically every girl gets super into it, in the …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:40 PM
3

Jokes, body language, kino
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:45 AM
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Shit test. A&A, or play it off like you don't remember exact count (which frankly should be the truth after a few years in the field) and you don't care. A good opportunity to present a 'nonjudgmental' face so she will let her own history slip and you can demote to plate status accordingly and not pedestalize her. You could use it a chance to pretend like you are trying to remember and start to muse out loud about some past flings that serve as preselection DHVs. Like all preselection DHV it has…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:43 AM
1

It's try-hard, and way too obvious, to the point of being a joke in several American Pie movies. Mention your N-count and chicks will know you are qualifying yourself, trying to use preselection (even if they don't know that term), bragging, and they'll probably assume you're inflating it anyway. And if it is really high and she believes it, she may see you as an STD risk or pump-n-dump risk. Preselection has to seem subtle, subconscious, or at least incidental. Like travel comes up in the convo…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:41 AM
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You're transferring your frustrations (with the girl LJBFing you) onto people here. This is a place for brutal truths. The witty reply above yours is a way of delivering the message that the girl doesn't seem doing for a MF sexual relationship with you.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:26 PM
1

Dude...'friends' is exactly the wrong mindset with the girl. You are literally friendzoning yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:24 PM
2

No is the right response. Maybe "Nah; some other time if you get permission to go out w/o your chaperone" to flip the script. Her bringing the bff is a blatant cockblock / LJBF.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:23 PM
2

Crab in bucket mentality. For the girls, they're testing you. A girl seeing you go from blue to red / weak to strong is not nearly as good as one who meets you red (this is why it's almost always a lost cause to get out of the friendzone). So these girls, they may feel some interest in you now, but will shit test you hard to see if you are the real deal. Much harder than girls who didn't meet you until after you got fit and learned TRP. Maintain iron frame and keep improving that physique. Or th…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:51 PM
12

haha the red light story, I have a similar one. I outright told a plate (who wasn't even misbehaving) I had to go grab some of my shit from an ex-gf. The plate waits for several hours in her car outside my place while I'm at the ex's, banging her brains out. I come back, let the plate in, and she was crazy horny, asking for it in every hole.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:46 PM
7

Well played, you're an ice cold mofo in the right way.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:38 PM
-1

If she reaches out, asking "Can't we be friends," the correct response is to say, "we are," and then don't. Beautiful.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:06 PM
3

Yes and no. There is one and ONLY one way to get past this: Treat it like a firm 'no', and ghost her completely, and/or ONLY keep contact insofar as it is 100% for other reasons (like social circle game / party invites). Act as you would act if Zeus himself told you with oracular certaintly that you will never hook with this girl. Or if she suddenly gained 100 pounds. She might come back at some point (especially if your SMV rockets up, like you get jacked or become the popular guy) but you shou…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:05 PM
6

Remember in Jurassic Park where the raptor is systematically poking along the electric fence, looking for weaknesses? Every girl will do this. It's just Darwinian programming. Look up 'vulnerability game'; you can feed her some non-DLVing 'weaknesses' like a random phobia or funny habits or pet peeves or 'I love campy old 80s movies'. Or you can agree&amplify with shit like "I'm a MI6 spy and if you tell anyone..' or other joke answers like "my only weakness is my excessive modesty".
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Stoners can make for good comic relief, and tend to be chill about shit like hearing your sex noises from the other room, so he may not be a terrible roommate logistics-wise. You're sober (GOOD) but maybe you could buy some weed off him for chicks of yours, as part of your comfort game. (Be careful of legal dangers of doing this obv, and also getting seen by chicks as a beta bucks provider of weed. ) Best way to find roommates is your own social circle, guys you know already. Maybe join some col…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:43 PM
2

Can you pin down the reason she's in your head? Is it sexual desire for her? Pining for whatever connection you had (despite the 'cancerous' relationship)? Or is it that you some sort of hate or need for revenge due to the cancerousness? If it's sexual desire - it's not uncommon to, a while after a thing ends, have recurring sexual fantasies about the chick and think stuff like "damn I could really go for a BJ from her, why didn't I have her blow me more often at the time". To deal with that, ju…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:40 PM
3

Nope. Not worth it. It will not bring you closure, in fact, judging by the kind of person she is, she will just twist the knife to make you feel worse. Right now, you ended the relationship with dignity (you ended it, and you ignored her shallow jealousy play by blocking her). If you go pouring your heart out to her like a woman, you will feel like a bitch. Talk to a good male friend, or your dad, or even a therapist. You obviously aren't over her (here you are, a YEAR after things ended, making…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:49 PM
2

In college it's mostly expected to have to deal with logistics with a roommate. It's not worth on going broke over a few extra lays that you might've gotten with better logistics if you had your own place, especially since a roommate DOES have its advantages. Plus a roommate is a chance to make a long-term male friend (him and-or his friends in time) who could pay decades of dividends as a wingman and such. Later in life, the older you get, the tougher it will get to make solid male friends. Col…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:11 PM
3

If your location is based on your university, just keep renting, don't buy. Buying is only worth it if you plan to live in that place for a long time. Since we're on TRP, and you're in a university town, you should know that living alone is BY FAR the best arrangement for logistics with girls. Even if your roommate is totally cool, it ups girls' ASD to have some other dude in the other room (and it might trigger her sense of entitlement / being in-demand / having the local gender ratio in her fa…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:44 AM
6

The impermanence of all things.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:41 AM
2

It's true if you have the right attitude - enjoy the relationship (I use the term loosely, to include fuckbuddies etc.) for what it is, while it is. If it feels like a sacrifice or an investment where you are hoping for some sort of eventual return, then you are putting too much emotion/time/resources into it. At any time point you should be able to say 'I could just walk away right now with no regrets, cuz I enjoyed myself while it lasted (and didn't fuck myself over with a bunch of money spent…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:40 AM
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She said she didn't think it mattered and never saw a reason to talk about it, but that she felt terrible about me having to deal with that when I was on a night out. A thinly veined way of saying 'I wish you hadn't found out' and that he was still around big red flag if she keeps old fuckbuddies around She teared up a bit and was apologetic, but she said that none of that matters. That we're a team now and that since me, it's just been us going forward and that's what it always will be. Which j…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:01 PM
3

Yes. For some reason April Fool's on Reddit this year is like amateur open mike night with everyone doing their own 'backwards' post
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:15 PM
2

You can red pill other men, including your dad (won't be easy tho).
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 09:00 PM
33

THIS. Women desire alpha genes, so if you practiced at it, it suggests it's not the genes. Sexy sons hypothesis.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 09:00 PM
0

Get more sleep, eat healthy, limit things like TV and video games and cel phone use that might be shortening your attention span, see a doc.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:48 AM
27

Marrying her would be the rash thing to do, you could lose half your shit. NOT marrying someone is never rash. Well maybe if it's a billionaire heiress. You said it yourself - you've lost all attraction to her. There is no point in continuing a relationship, much less a legal entanglement.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:49 AM
3

This. The hater girls want to be with him, the hater betas want to be him.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:42 AM
2

There's an internet meme I can't find again, a picture fo a chick with a toy dog on a leash, and she's looking at this big dog. The meme has captions of the three figures, respectively, 'women', 'male feminists', and 'PUAs' or something like that. Replace the 2nd with 'orbiter' and that's basically the situation. That said, a woman keeping an orbirter around all the time is a red flag as to gf-worthiness. If you smash and she doesn't ditch the orbiter, you'll probably want to ditch her or keep h…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:22 AM
5

Pretend he's not there. That's basically what she does. Think of him like if she had a 5-lb toy dog on a leash.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:45 AM
2

Go no contact, obviously. You'll either call her bluff - she'll start contacting you - or if not, she wasn't into you anyway, and you saved time and ego. From here on out you must obey the 2/3rds rule. She is shit testing you hard so you must have iron frame or just GTFO now.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:00 PM
7

Savage. I love how this place whips out the brutal truths. That's what makes it great and makes its members grow.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:46 PM
2

Not sitting with her friend is pretty clear: she wanted 1 on 1 time with you, to make it more romantically/sexually charged and date-y (as date-y as a school cafeteria can be). Knowing girls, she probably talked about it with her friend beforehand and the friend knew she she was gonna do, and did not feel surprised/snubbed. You wouldn't want to explicitly ask her why she didn't sit with her friend, it'd be better to assume the sale (act like well of course she would want to sit with you and kino…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:58 AM
2

Sitting with her when she asks is fine, it's not jumping through too much of a compliance hoop. She was probably very nervous about 'making the first move' (a time move, but that's what it probably is to her) and it wasn't some compliance shit test. It was genuinely her way of getting some 1 on 1 time with you and making stuff happen. The stuff she said that you took as insults were just her shit-testing, specifically, the grade school version of same which is 'teasing'. Don't get too ruffled ov…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:35 AM
8

Holy titlegore. But yes good post content and realtalk principles.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:32 AM
1

Delivery is everything. You can subcommunicate it but it needs to be in a script-flipping or humorous way like 'miss me?' or, tug her waistline for a second, peek down it and say 'missed your nice ass, and the rest of you too'.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:29 AM
1

Stay away from both. No contact. If you suspect they might run into you / stalk you / cross paths at some public place you both frequent, try to make sure the interaction is recorded a/o has witnesses.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:25 AM
13

She's horny, just not for you. That's just the harsh reality.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:08 AM
2

It's very simple. She's not physically attracted to you. Actually she's not attracted to you at all (but I repeat myself - physical attraction is much more important for women than most men will ever know). The cliche advice of 'set her loose, and hit the gym and tailor to improve your physical attractiveness' is apt here. You should seek to improve yourself generally, not 'for her sake' (it's extremely unlikely you will turn this around), but, if the mental motivation that you can make her attr…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:02 AM
10

This. OP probably thinks he did "freeze-out then re-initiate later" like Mystery et. al. always espoused, but it sounds like he was doing it too frequently / quickly and without doing anything else to build more attraction or comfort (OP clearly failed to build enough of one or both of these earlier in the evening) in the meantime. He was simply pawing at her over and over like some dead bedroom hubby of 20 years. Plus maybe she was genuinely dead tired or on the rag or something. Clearly had in…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 01:01 AM
1

You're overthinking this. Your oneitis is all over your post. She could smell your desperation, I guarantee it. She got creeped out, blocked you etc. You have thoroughly fucked this one up. You just need to find other girls. The only scenario which ends with her is if you are with hotter girls and that piques her interest in you. Unlikely, but if that thought helps you game other girls, then all to the good.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:57 PM
5

Ahh, but it's not about what FB Status actually means, which may be fuck-all......in this case, how OP should interpret it should be based on what the girl thinks it means. The question is about her motives. Which are probably either doesn't want to be seen in public with him aka considers him lower status or uncool keeping her options open both
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:51 PM
7

Logistics: have a place in a great location, even if that location is more expensive. aka easy walking distance from wherever you meet people, and/or shorten your commute so you have more time for other things, and are healthier and less stressed A well furnished place that looks good and sets the right tone and mood. Hugely important. This can be done without requiring a lot of money, and conversely a place full of expensive shit can still look like shit. Consider hiring a pro interior decorato…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:34 AM
2

There are several axes to this difference: Are you also getting what you want out of the interaction (sex or otherwise) What is the nature of the problems she talks about (if it's other guys, past or present, you're probably a tampon and/or cuckold) Does she seem to be seeking your approval and/or does she actually take your good advice Does she act grateful for your ear/shoulder, or entitled to it
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:43 PM
1

Flawless victory.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:58 PM
3

If you're rich and famous enough to be a blackmail/lawsuit target, you should seriously consider this. Plus have her consent to recording everything (people make amateur porn just or kicks anyway...make it sexy, watch 'em together later for kicks...always with offsite backup copies of course)
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:18 AM
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Ah, finally, an academic term for 'feels over reals'. I knew there had to be one! Poe's Law in action yet again
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:17 AM
3

Tax is progressive. The alimony payer tends to be the higher earner, therefore the tax on that $40k is more when it's counted as his income vs when it's counted as her income (which was the case when he could deduct it but she had to pay taxes on it)
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:21 AM
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She probably hasn't pressed the courts on the matter b/c she knows he has almost no money to give Women cut a lot of slack to outlaw deadbeat types with natural game (which I suspect this dude is); it's the 9 to 5 cubicle drones who get chewed up
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:20 AM
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Your joke is deeper than you know....after all, he was fighting against a deeply patriarchal force which rules a society that favors men in divorce And which will treat Western women so, so, so much worse if it ever becomes a voting majority in the West...
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:19 AM
1

Work on your relationship game, and teach chicks to spend less time blabbing and more time on their own self improvement, chores, etc. when they are around you. And/or set up FWB to you can get sex (you still have a sex drive yes?) without someone around all the time
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:58 PM
2

Of course. I'm not saying your thesis is wrong, just that comparing a pro photographer to a terrible selfie doesn't isolate the effects of the subject's physique.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:58 PM
7

Paraphrasing Dave Chapelle, "if a man could get BJs with no effort, he'd be happy living in a cardboard box." A poor man who can pull hotties and is in good health will be much happier than a rich man who is lonely.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:57 PM
8

Terrible comparison. The first pic has a great tan and professional lighting; great use of shadows (and for all we know some digital postprocessing) to accent the musculature. Whereas the second is a classic terrible amateur shot, and the guy looks frikking red. If he got a good (spray?) tan (like many bodybuilders) and had a pro photographer shoot him he'd look much better. It's true he has a very obvious gear body (it's the weird tightness of the skin, whereas the first guy has skin that 'fits…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:38 AM
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Ah yes, the stereotypical Jersey Shore lifestyle That's not uncommon in the bodybuilding world actually. And sometimes they can do stuff like personal training but always take it in cash so it doesn't interfere with their disability claims or gov't gibs. Pretty smart and decent life style all around. The ones with the eating and lifting discipline are no doubt hanging more and better than your average cubicle beta who is wealthier on paper. Also let's be real, that's kinda what most men on welfa…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:30 AM
0

Shit, that's genius, I should do that. do you know the gear and dosage he was using?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:29 AM
1

Yes. Girls talk to other girls about sex A LOT. Actual sex, hypothetic sex, etc. If you are a good lay you can build a reputation that will help you bounce to her friends or set up three ways.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:33 PM
5

She wants it to sting. That is precisely the purpose of a shit test. You simply have to not care. The worst thing you can do is allow the sting to be visible. If it doesn't seem to sting, she will quit doing it. How to deal with it Inner confidence. Learn to be happy with your level of wealth, and other things about yourself like your fitness and game. A&A / witty comebacks / etc. When she jokes about a big house, joke back "shit, think you could keep a bigger house clean? never woulda guessed".…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 09:37 PM
4

Ferris Bueller's Day Off is a great parable for frame. C&C Ferris's attitude with Cameron's. Same w/ Fight Club
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 09:48 PM
4

She didn't say it to the boyfriend tho.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:21 PM
3

It's a meme that doesn't hold up in reality (published online dating stats, marriage stats, or just looking around). The meme is a mix of a few things: Media propaganda. Ever notice how the 'doofus' in virtually every commercial or sitcom is a white male? White males are denigrated in virtually every media or political context, this meme is just one subcase of that. and Wishful thinking by the brothers. Who do you think contributes 99% of the pageviews of the porn of this sort? And can you reall…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 12:10 AM
2

I'll take One and Four, they sound most upbeat I'm starting to wonder if Buddhism (not as misunderstood by modern Western soyboy hippies) was like the original red pill
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 11:18 PM
4

In addition to the FRA prevention, girls love love love love to get talking about their feeling and fantasies and stuff. If you get her to start typing them out they will keep coming, and it's good shit. Lets you calibrate her better, and it makes her feel more bonded and connected to you. In addition to preventing FRAs it also discourages her airing your dirty laundry after a falling out if she's shown you hers. This is part of why OP done goofed; a girl spilling the beans on her darkest fantas…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 02:17 AM
7

Good shit to remember for Thanksgiving.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:12 AM
9

This is actually quite Buddhist or Zen or some shit like that. The impermanence of all things, a realization that makes it all easier to accept.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:12 AM
9

lmao that's hilarious, girls really are the kinkier sex aren't they
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:13 AM
8

You reacted badly. I'm sure you know that now, but, you should basically never get mad. It shows a lack of state control. AND, you basically just guaranteed she will never share any of her kinks with you ever again. Never punish honesty (at least not in a way where the person knows that you are. And if they confess to something like cheating or poking holes in condoms you obv have to leave.) The vast majority of women have rape fantasies. So it doesn't really tell you anything particular about h…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:10 AM
1

You prob feel you can't be yourself around these girls, and that's why you don't enjoy time with them. I find the girls I enjoyed casual time with the most were the ones where I DGAF (the attitude you should always have anyway) if I did 'uncool' stuff around them like video games. If a girl really likes you she will be happy to cook for you and shit when you do stuff like that. Have her blow you while you work on your laptop or play video games or something. And time with her won't be wasted tim…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:26 PM
1

No shit bro. You're just regurgitating the basics. You'll want to learn how to work DHVs naturally into conversation. If you are a good at it you won't necessarily need to learn to want until 'they specifically ask' b/c you'll have learned how to guide the conversation. As for asking questions - read my post. I talk about how you can elicit questions without directly grammatically phrasing them as questions. Which in the context of a very nervous girl is a good way to do it. Getting to know a gi…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:07 PM
2

Sorry, maybe English isn't your first language, but, when someone in this subreddit says to DHV that doesn't mean to tell the girl "hey this is a DHV!" it means to naturally weave them into conversation. It goes without saying since it's the 101 of what you read about a DHV as soon as you learn what the acronym means. The point in reference to OP's question is: if you have a girl who is very nervous and shy, you should try to keep the energy flowing and avoid awkward silences by giving her conve…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 07:57 PM
1

No offense, but, you sound like someone who just read a list of maxims from the sidebar and is just shotgunning them back now in a weak game of gotcha. Yes, DHVs shouldn't be obvious as such, but...no shit, that goes without saying, it would be a waste of time to included that caveat every time anyone mentions DHVs in any comment here. Think about the context of what I said. OP asked 'what do you do around a girl that's nervous'. Well, generally speaking, getting to know and bedding a girl invol…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 07:52 PM
1

You handled it well. Getting into a fight with 6 guys would get your ass beat hard. (And getting into a fight with 1 guy would get you a night in prison.) The sad reality of modern Western society is there's not a lot you can do; once the damage is done of the groping, you don't have a realistic way of getting frontier justice. Your girl bringing up your other plates is evidence she is NOT that traumatized by the incident. She was using it as an excuse to bring up something unrelated. Playing Da…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:36 PM
5

The post chronology is terrible and gave me a headache, but the likely answer is if you're bothering to write a TRP post about one girl, yeah you probably have a little oneitis if you don't enjoy time with other girls, that's also a sign you would enjoy time with other girls if they were hot and fun enough. Basically, you're getting comfortable and being a little lazy and not putting in the work to find fresh leads. What makes you so sure she isn't seeing other guys?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 12:51 AM
6

Speak in a calm but not monotone manner. Say things that aren't direct questions forcing an answer, but that bait her to jump in...don't say "how was summer vacation?" say "I did this [DHV] last summer, hope you had a cool summer too" etc. The former allows a hiccup if she responds "fine" or with nothing, but with the latter, you can keep going either way. Plus the latter is less overtly rapport-seeking from you. Hang the lampshade by making a few jokes about nervousness, implicitly but not over…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:15 PM
1

Good catch. I was just assuming from journalism not usually paying well...guess he had enough to live his lifestyle at least
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:26 PM
2

Night and fucking day. The man's a legend, and his story blows a lot of typical excuses out of the water - he was short, not classically handsome, not rich, and when he started he was already balding and middle aged. He did have some DHV cred and celeb connections as an entertainment industry journalist, but considering almost all his schtick was cold opens and not social circle game, that wouldn't have mattered much (and his Paris Hilton pickup story was totally random and did not depend on pre…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:20 AM
2

The good news is you absolutely can retrain yourself. I've done so. If you have real balls of steel, record yourself (it's incredibly embarrassing to watch yourself speak, if you're like most people) and use that to zap yourself out of bad habits
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:50 PM
3

The best way is the same as the best way to virtually every TRP related problem - build up a stable of other chicks so you don't care too much about getting validation from any specific person (it'll also work for your boss, family, etc. but of course you don't want to be so DGAF at work that you can't hold a job.) For speaking, practice making your voice lower and slower. Do you catch yourself raising the pitch at the end of sentences, as if every sentence is a question? Quit doing that. You ju…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 05:41 PM
4

Good man. Either DGAF about the haters or let it energize you via amusement and the realization of the implicit compliment it is. Catching flak = over the target.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:49 AM
7

Jobs are like girls and like everything else. You can't always make them what you want or really shouldn't even try - you need to be ready willing and able to find a new one when the old one is shitty.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:16 PM
1

What I would do is wait a few weeks and then send, like, 1 more text. Most guys here are saying hard next, and they are not wrong. However it costs so little to do another text, and I have had a few outside successes. Once I had a girl from a dating site where it was three tries/rescheduling to get a date (not ignoring me, just bs like wanting to resched later) but when we finally did meet, she got really into me and became my freaky fuck toy for a few months before I got bored. of course, I nev…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:12 PM
1

Needs more context. If this is a fresh Tinder lead, then next. If this is someone you've seen 20 times and she'd been your sex kitten since date 3 and all over you 'til now with no warning signs lately....maybe the message didn't go through. It happens with phones. Maybe send one more, ignoring the fact that your last one was ignored. But the way you said 'a date' suggests this would be a first date (I'm guessing this is a girl from a recent number close, or Tinder et.) in which case this is a t…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:04 PM
4

Sure, I'm not talking about knocking someone up - but about dudes who have no chicks at all in their lives for a long time (what you were talking about with not dating while working off debt) b/c they get so saddled to work.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:16 AM
25

This shit is the new form of soft polygamy in our society. Instead of killing off or exiling half the young men so that the other men can have 2x the women, we cram them into cubicles in offices that are sterile and asexual (and often 90% male), they spend all their time working or on asexual hobbies like TV, having very little contact with the hot young things whom other men have their pick of.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:47 PM
1

Very well, but no one reading your post about having dinner with two chicks would have guessed you had to go back to the office for some work right after. You basically used a false time constraint, whether deliberately or not, which is its own whole area of game and can be extremely effective (but usually with someone you just met, not with someone giving you the doggy dinner bowl look after dinner). "I will never postpone my work for some pussy" - sounds nice on paper, but only up to a point, …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:40 PM
2

No need to dump her just to make sure you dump her before she dumps you. That's ego talking. And provides zero status if your socail circles don't overlap, which it sounds like they don't. Anyway chicks have a way of telling themselves they dumped you even if you dumped them. Just enjoy the ride. Ignore the ages. Ignore the social media follower counts (every hot chick has those if she wants).
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:37 PM
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This is how it works. You might've aroused her too. In sexual situations you may see LMR melt away by doing masculine things - like you slam a bedroom door closed, or throw crap off the bed onto the floor, suddenly she's all over you. In a work situation, tread a little more carefully, esp if white knights might be in earshot, but women are still women, we're all just apes in suits and dresses in the office, and TRP does still apply.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:54 PM
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The "I'll run for president" line is a great reply, and getting compliments from girls is something, but now it's time to bang her silly, and find out if she's really kinky, unless she's below your looks standards. If she went on and on about how great you were, she was probably hoping you would escalate (physically and-or setting up another, more date-like or sexual get together) so if you did nothing but shoot back a good one-liner, you kinda missed the boat, assuming you would in fact like he…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 02:47 AM
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No, don't ghost for a few weeks over this! Geez. It's an opportunity. Be comforting. Be normal. Don't make neggy jokes about it. You only really need to employ TRP-specific philosophy here if you get the vibe she's using it as a bartering chip. "Can I move in with you? This is just a hard time for me..." etc. In that case don't act emotionally affected by her use of the chip but don't bluntly call her out, just stay cool and say stuff like "It's a very emotional time for making big decisions" an…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:58 AM
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You can have a traditional relationship without getting married. She'll be MORE committed to you that way, since she has less profit in leaving. (Unfortunately, having kids puts legal burdens on you which are also radically titled against men in Western countries, but it's still better than married AND kids.)
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:27 AM
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Nice advice. The 'one idea only' and 'graceful exit' bits are both tangential to the False Time Constraint, where you take the pressure off (off of her to worry you are some moron who won't go away, and off of yourself to keep the convo going for too long) by referencing the fact that you have to go in a few minutes anyway. This has always been one of my favorite components of cold opens. It also helps with approach anxiety, especially if it's true - you care less about blowing out if you're in …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 01:28 AM
2

I've seen screencaps of a bunch of text / messaging / dating app exchanges like this.....dude lets a girl down gently, she fires back with a sour grapes "You know what, I'm not interested / I'm breaking up" to protect her own ego. There are also celebrity version of this where the girl goes on a tweet rampage about what a small-dick loser the guy was (despite hundreds of during-relationship instagram or paparazzi photos where she's hanging all over the hunk). The first time I ever broke up with …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 07:47 PM
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Great example of projection. (Assuming your transcript-from-memory is accurate), you simply said 'watching me', she was the one to brought up 'hitting on you', and 'making this sexual', which of course is what she was doing by saying that. Girls will try to turn it around if they get called out on something like this. Sort of like if you reject them after a date, they will act like they rejected you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 02:07 AM
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Oh, like I said, I believe the story. And I've seen stuff like it happen.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:22 AM
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Internet is certainly full of 'thathapppened', tho, this kind of stuff does happen, and OP has little reason to lie (it's talking up someone else). My comment actually wasn't meant to throw doubt on the story. Could be BS or exaggerated, but the message is true; I've seen chubby dudes with game pull some shockingly hot tail.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 01:53 AM
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Good anecdote about Paul. Paul swiping a 9 from you is like the film trope of the student becoming the master or the Sith apprentice killing his mentor.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 11:56 PM
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TRP comes down pretty hard on girls like this, calling them damaged goods or not your problem to fix or liars or increased risks of false accusations against you.....and there's probably some statistical truth to that, compared to a similar girl WITHOUT that. This girl sounds very reasonable, though, like she is level headed and not looking for you to 'fix' her and not using this for manipulative sympathy. I wouldn't worry or do anything about it, really. Just run comfort on her if or when it co…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:38 AM
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There's some truth to that, and I don't have experience with Tinder specifically (been in LTRs or suing other avenues since it started) but from what I understand it's so ruthlessly visual and getting the first date is the hardest bit, so it's probably still worth using your best photos. Of course you wouldn't want it to be out of date and you've gained a lot fat since then, the only differences should be things you just can't help in person like not having the glamour photo Calvin Klein ad ligh…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:10 PM
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I listened to all the Patrice (RIP) Black Philip radio show recordings, great stuff, and hilariously delivered. I like the way he baits the women guests / co-hosts on his show into revealing their AWALT hand and then he says to the room/audience "see? see?" and uses them as an example of the red pill in action. I've only listened to a few minutes of Jordan Peterson so far, but he's on point on very sharp. Should probably put him in my audio queue for listening during workouts etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:07 PM
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That's the other funny thing - many guys could replicate the 'hot' photo from the profile pretty well: Have a low bodyfat % to get the defined jawline and collarbone. The guy in the photo isn't particularly muscular, he's just cut. Pretty much any guy can get his shoulders and traps though, with eating clean and a bit of lifting. (He does have a genetically lucky jawbone and light colored eyes.) The carefully gelled up 'do The glamour lighting and the black and white. It's the lighting and shado…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:00 AM
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Girls are like water, they take the shape of their container (unless it's not strong enough for their hotness or acidity, then they melt it and flow through to whatever catches them). We likely had similar experiences b/c we approached these girls with very similar frames and expectations and molded the same relationship. That and we might go for the same type (artsy, erotic but ultimately not worth years-long rock solid exclusive commitment, then again who is). The good news is, you said that f…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 11:12 PM
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Great advice. Make a scrum board / task matrix / whatever the buzzspeak is. Successes and failures are on record. Also if OP is able to get her terminated, it's a lot easier to do so when you can show an employee has a history of failure. OP, is your boss being manipulated by the employee cuz he's attracted to her? Or just cuz the boss is a pansy (or a fellow bitch who feels sisterhood with the other one). That makes a big difference. IOW - does your boss actually like/desire the bad apple, or s…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 09:15 PM
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Genuine abundance mentality really helps setting the right frame up front. The girl your post reminded me of most...I was bouncing out of a long LTR and consciously applying red pill principles as I met a bunch of new girls. So I meet this one, and genuinely DGAF and just talk to her about how I'm juggling girls and other things. Convo got very sexual too. She - perhaps seeing this as her way to snag me - acts not only permissive but enthusiastic about me juggling these other girls. The preselec…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 09:00 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/GcGihfg lol I've seen some of the other 'fake male model accounts' but the particular 'criminal history' of that one takes the cake, 'atomic blackpill' is right
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 08:17 PM
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Your bit about the French girl reminded me of a personal experience which could help you a lot: What you need is a one sided open relationship that is casual YET with enough fun, humor, bonding, etc. to be more as well. The key to this is to set the right frame very very early when you meet the girl. I've had past LTRs where the frame was that I could sleep around, and she wouldn't (except she did hook up with a female friend as part of our game plan for a three-way). I didn't have deep feelings…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:46 PM
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Definitely. The earlier you establish a desired frame, the better. Goes for pretty much any aspect of the relationship frame - you not taking BS/nagging, an agreement that you can sleep with other women but she will be faithful to you, an understanding that swallowing and anal are part of being with you (girls are very malleable, and mirror a lot, so if you establish a certain sexual frame early on that will become what genuinely turns her on), etc. It's much much harder to make a girl unlearn b…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:08 PM
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Relatedly, basic game theory suggests that marrying a chick should make her MORE likely to cheat, since it makes the guy easier to cuckold. In many jurisdictions, husband is the 'father' by default for child support obligation purposes, and the burden of proof is against him to get out of it (you've probably seen some news articles where he proved he was not the father and STILL had to pay child support cuz 'a bond had been formed' or 'best interests of the child' or whatever feelz-phrase courts…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:21 PM
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Also there's a stereotype (which makes ev-psych sense) that if she got knocked up by someone else she might renew sex with her LTR (and discourage condom use etc.) to try to later convince him he's the father
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:00 PM
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Sounds like you found some good molly
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 02:09 AM
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The genders are different from each other. If you try to find gender symmetry in every situation, and morally equivocate, you are not going to get very far in understanding TRP.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:01 AM
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Well played. Subtly putting an arm around the LTR's waist is a move I've used before in similar situations and seems to go well, as a bonus it amps up the attraction from the other girl by being hard to get and showing some preselection from your LTR. Also it establishes the right frame from the getgo if you're going to try to angle for a three way or your LTR's implicit acquiescence of you having side pieces
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:58 AM
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The genders are different here. Some random girl hitting on you gives you preselection. Whereas a girl being hit on by a handsy friendzone creep doesn't make you think she's hotter. So girls who play jealousy games like that are projecting and being morons. And in the reverse of the OP's situation - if this other girl was physically all over you and you encouraged or did nothing so disentangle - your LTR girl probably would get pissed at you and consider you less trusthworthy as an LTR. Of cours…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:55 AM
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It's not innocent at all. The guy knows what he's doing. He's just a moron with terrible game, but it's his attempt at game all the same. Alcohol removes inhibitions - it does not create desire ex nihilo. It provides a curious opportunity - if your new LTR allows this to happen, it's a red flag she is not commitment worthy. If she lets some other dude paw all over her and she does not push away, get way from him, and tell you promptly, demote to plate or nothing at all. If she does behave well, …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 12:20 AM
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OP's post is about picking up girls at music festivals. That would be an example of "game"....at a fuckin ballin party. The legal and health risks are there. Small in many cases, but worth being mindful of and making a conscious choice that they are small enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 10:43 PM
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Yes. Let other people do the molly, but you should bounce around and game with a clear head. (Maybe pre-game with a shot or two of alcohol). Plus, the legal and health risks of street drugs.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 07:00 PM
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Exactly. That's what PC is; weaponized language. A system of taboos to witchhunt other people (I use 'witchhunt' not incidentally; the infamous Salem trials were largely driven by jealous women). PC is crybullying. It's is the use of language and victimhood and false cries for help as weapons to socially ostracize. Women are more adept with language, and playing victim for personal gain is almost exclusively female (no one gives a shit if a man plays victim). It's a classic Mean Girls weapon in …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 06:38 PM
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It's over, dude. It's sooo over. Classic branch swing by her - guy loses his job, she jumps to another. She may or may not be branch swinging / interested in the guy / fucked him already that night. (Also, trusting the guy b/c he's a 'real class act'..come on, you can't trust anyone.) Even if not, it's pretty clear she's just not that into you. And she sure as shit does not respect you.You need to hard next her, break up with her, and move on. The ONLY situation in which I would entertain ANY fu…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 08:29 PM
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lmao she wants to be choked and hit but put up LMR for sex? The LMR could be an ASD to compensate for having already showed her kinky hand. You've just got to escalate, sexualize and kink up the mood. Get her to blow you. Make out and tell her to touch herself while you choke her. Stuff like that. She'll get wet and want sex. BDSM already having come up in conversation gives you a lot of ways to verbally and physically escalate. Use time compression (a date where a lot happens) and engaging conv…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:47 PM
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When she said the line about 'two kinds girls, ones who fuck you and ones ho are your friends, and I don't wanna be your friend', that sounds like she wanted to fuck you. Basic process of elimination. Shoulda physically escalated there. If you literally didn't have time cuz work, get a quicky BJ or get her gushing about how she wants to have sex with you soon. However, you did pretty well to not get butthurt or upset or needy with sex on either date. For tonight I would do one of two things Tell…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:40 PM
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You're onto something. The fact that they were 'celebrating an anniversary' made the girl think she had a lot of hand into he relationship (it was a Very Serious and Committed Thing) where the guy would do a lot of traditional LTR stuff.....like putting up with 'I'm tired honey'. OP got punished for a good deed of treating her special.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:36 PM
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Great question. It depends alot on my gut instinct of whether she mentions it in a genuine and non-presumptive way (no attitude of assuming you will do what she asks) or it seems like a shit test. Also how invested you are. Stuff like cologne and favorite shirts I might tailor to a girl I'm seeing on an ongoing basis, during our dates, again assuming it doesn't sound like a shit test like 'hey you should buy this really expense shirt/cologne cuz I said so' where you sense she's seeing if you wil…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:23 PM
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It's never too late to do both. And it's much easier to keep big muscles than get/regain them, so don't just stop leg day outright. If you're worried that thick legs will make your upper body look smaller by comparison, just wear legwear that doesn't draw attention to your leg muscles. Assuming you are northern hemisphere, we're going into the cold months anyway. Maybe set a goal to feel 'caught up' on upper body by next spring.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:16 PM
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Looks fine. Most programs have very similar results at the beginner and intermediate levels. Important things are consistency, good diet, and sleep. Details like rep range, day split, and the exact moves are secondary. Never skip leg day. Being a t-rex is no excuse. Do legs anyway, and if it's true you are a t-rex, your arms will catch up faster than your legs and you will even out. The most important leg day moves (Squat and deadlift) will strengthen your entire posterior chain anyway. They're …
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:13 PM
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Never change FOR a girl. If you become aware of something you genuinely want to change, and it happens to be a girl that made you aware, fine. Even then, don't let her think you are 'doing it for her'. Figure out a way to make the improvement without letting her convince herself she made you. Obv there are common sense exceptions - like if there's a particular cologne she just can't stand the smell of (these things vary genetically), or she's allergic to something in your place, and she nicely t…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:00 PM
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If your mood was genuinely killed, no need to get a score for the sake of getting a score. If she just fell asleep rather than blowing up in rage when you denied her, it should be pretty easy for you to get back to BJ/sex when the mood is better. Maybe a morning BJ when you both wake up, if the hangovers aren't too bad. If she mentions a hangover, joke about a BJ being a hangover cure. The girl was shit testing you, by seeing if her tacky rant about her past sluttiness would rile you up. She als…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:48 PM
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Well played and well written. As a bonus, by encouraging her to reveal her past, you get better information about her that you can use to better place on her on the scale of ONS to plate to LTR.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:44 PM
1

Four months is way too long to escalate, even with the religion excuse.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 10:17 PM
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She's 22, she's a grown woman and ready to fuck, if OP is attractive enough and sets the right frames and such, and they've been hanging out 4 months. OP should not settle for just making out long term with this girl (but if he's done nothing so far, that would obviously be part of escalation before they fuck.) The vast majority of TRPs is in Western countries like the US ('religious girl' is usually rural US Christian etc.) where women are free to fuck. OP could very well be wrong about her bei…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 01:11 AM
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Set the right expectations early. If you start talking on the phone every day (terrible idea with anyone) she will come to expect it and freak out if you dial it back. Maintain some mystery and distance from the beginning. That won't prevent attachment - in fact it will increase it (push pull and scarcity and all), but, a chick will cause less drama about your unavailability if she's already been conditioned to accept it as who you are. If they 'get upset you're not available', treat it like a s…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:57 AM
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Sounds like a good example of The First Two Rules.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:40 AM
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lol obviously. I'm not saying he should bring up sex and BJs as a topic of conversation out of the bue, I'm saying he should escalate. Yes, making out is obviously a typical step in that, but that goes without saying - the details of escalation were not relevant to include in this thread since OP hasn't told us where he is on the physical front (probably nowhere), and there are tons of other threads, sidebar resources, etc. about escalation.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:32 AM
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That would be transparent and tryhard. OP, don't do this, unless the context is that you have a plausible setup for a threeway (showing the chicks pictures of each other to convince them to meet up together with you). But obviously OP should be spinning other plates, and if can be naturally worked into conversation with this chick to show preselection, great.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:25 PM
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Gender projection / myopia. She would find you more attractive if you were hooking up with other girls, so she thinks that telling you about other guys makes her seem like a catch. She's dead wrong of course. The good news is she accidentally waved her red flag and let you know she's a casual sex type of girl and not girlfriend material. You should either hook up soon (wrap it up cuz of STDs with this chick...) or disappear. And you should be pursuing other leads either way. A chick like this wi…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:24 PM
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Doesn't really matter. Even if she is, don't think of her as a unicorn, that will give you oneitis and make you clingy. Your description left out one crucial detail - are you and her in a sexual relationship already. You've been seeing her 4 months, you say, but you didn't mention sex, nor descriptors like bf/gf, so I will assume you are deep in the friendzone unless disproven. "Insists on driving herself" makes it sound like she just meets you in public and neither of you visit the other person…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:17 PM
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You shouldn't thought faster. "Oh, it's cool, I was adopted" or "jk your aunt so-and-so was a friend of my father's they always thought it was funny they had the same last names". If she bothered to text you, it means she might be up for round 2 if you play your cards right. If she was truly disgusted or creeped out she would not have taken initiative to text. You can guaran-fucking-tee she won't be telling anyone about this or future encounters, so there's no awkwardness if you play it cool, an…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:51 AM
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http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ButForMeItWasTuesday I've had conversations like this. Friend or plate: "This friend of my friend dated Celebrity Dude X" Me (if in a RPing mood): "Would Celebrity Dude X refer to it as 'dated' or just banged her a few times? Come to think of it, would be remember her at all?"
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:24 PM
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Sounds like the end of the date went south? You phrase it as if it was you dodging a bullet (which is true, and is the right abundance mentality) but I'm also getting the impression that the date devolved into an argument over your fuck buddies (aka you didn't keep things light and fun amidst her shit tests) and she stomped off. Sounds like you kind of blew it to be honest and are glossing over the details. That said, your attitude of 'her loss' is the right attitude to have, whatever the realit…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 06:20 PM
1

So, there's a theory about male homosexuality that would also explain women doing this. Basically, a woman's epigenetics might be trying to kill off male relatives: DNA is famously half and half from mother and father, but a baby gets some extra stuff from the mother only (mitochondrial DNA, and epigenetic things that influence gene activation in the nuclear DNA). This extra stuff only gets passed on through the female line, so from its PoV, male children are dead ends. So it has evolved to infl…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:24 PM
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This is the one time I've seen an "As a woman/actress/waitress/mother etc." post where that was actually relevant to the story (although she could have dropped the 'I'm an actress' and it would've quickly been obv from context). Plus if we ban every post by a woman, then they'll just submit posts exactly like these but written from the perspective of a fictitious 2nd male intern who saw it all go down. Most women's posts here stink but this one is useul. Good post OP, good example of abundance m…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:56 PM
4

A 'kids fun center' that calls the police every time a tyke screeches? Geezus, what the fuck are you paying them for?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:11 PM
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He should have never given the phone to the cops. Even though he's totally innocent. Never know what they will abuse (like go through the contact info to call everyone he knows about the incident, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:09 PM
2

Spot on. It's easier to gauge the girl's N count after sex than before (clinginess vs nonchalance, etc.), which is one more reason to go for it sooner. Also, if you don't go for the bang earlier, you'll lose out on your one chance to gauge how easy she is to bang early. So: the MORE you care about finding a pristine girl, the MORE you better try to bang her early!
/r/askTRP08/05/15 05:06 PM
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The Joss Whedon fiasco is a nice example (male feminist Avengers 2 director thrown under bus for daring to give Black Widow a soft side). Several front page posts about that, including Mark Ruffalo (Hulk actor) going to bat for him in an AMA. The comments are almost all positive. Heartening given that male comic book fans luv to white knight.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 06:03 PM
2

He trained her to smoke less, reducing her risk of lung cancer.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:37 PM
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They have higher emotional intelligence equals they are better at manipulating others. (Although most of that is dangling the prospect of sex. It's what's between their legs, not what's between their ears.)
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:54 PM
8

Hollywood tells that arranged marriages are always evil (Titanic, Pirates of the Caribbean, Romeo and Juliet film adaptations, Alice in Wonderland Tim Burton version, etc.) and the heroine ALWAYS would prefer the soulful but poor boy (played by Leo or Orlando Bloom or similar). Historically I bet you that 95% of the time, the girl actually agreed with her dad. Girls are horde mentality creatures; if everyone around her agrees she should de with guy X, that's usually how she'll feel too w/o knowi…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:43 PM
1

3rd-world poverty is far worse for men. It basically excludes them from the sex/gene pool. Women can usually marry or fuck themselves out of poverty.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:31 PM
6

"You're right honey, it was all in the past. Just like our marriage, as of this moment."
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:54 PM
5

MEN doing this can strengthen a relationship. WOMEN does it never does.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:54 PM
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At the end the word 'boyfriend' seems ambiguous. Either the mother and daughter had a three-way with the daughter's boyfriend, or the mother ALSO has a boyfriend who had a three-way with mom+daughter on some occasion (and made pr0n images from it). If that's true, mom and any adult boyfriend of hers involved could be facing very steep charges (statutory rape and und3r4g3 1m4ges).
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:17 PM
6

Never let a woman get away with more than a male friend / roommate would.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:24 PM
9

You just described the plot of 50 Shades, seriously. Add some badly done BDSM and a million dollars in credit card charges.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:05 PM
1

It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next day. Wait, wouldn't a guy who did this be a patriarchical oppressor trying to rein in a Womyn's sexual liberty? She was clearly enjoying it at the time. TL;DR every guy anywhere near a girl is supposed to magically predict whether she will regret her own actions or not, and either save her from herself (risking getting beat up by the other 24 guys) or GTFO of her way.…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:20 PM
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This campaign will backfire, just b/c those photos look so patently ridiculous and staged, people will not take groping seriously. It does happen, but not like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:29 PM
6

Yes, world population should go down. Problem is, Idiocracy; the people with the worst morals and intellects are the only ones above replacement level.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:41 PM
13

This is how you do it. Two girls give you more than 2x the benefit, b/c of preselection and competition anxiety. Obv you have to be able to juggle and pass shit tests like a pro.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:29 PM
6

Sometimes the slope really is slippery.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:27 PM
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Make her work and beg for it. Your jizz is her reward.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:09 PM
1

Note how BPers talk about women like they are not responsible for their own actions, have no agency of their own (avoiding or promptly leaving bad relationships etc.), and are purely passive. BPers are the real sexists. We acknowledge women have just as much agency.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:36 PM
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Hysterical title. Love your 'what's going to change later?' retort. Good (rim)job with reframes (ignoring the trust angle etc.) Nice use of orgasm denial/control, which is a thing in BDSMland.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:23 AM
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Amazing how they manage to blame 'patriarchal oppression'. What can't it be blamed for? Hopefully the authors know what's up and are just including that as a necessary shield.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:17 AM
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Hilarious b/c she's saying women are intellectually inferior in one respect, negotiation. I thought women were the superior communicators? Negotiation is a type of communication... The real reason for this is lower salaries. "Not negotiating" is, itself, a form of negotiation.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:13 AM
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Enjoy your False Rape Accusation later. Since you're obviously going to keep seeing her not going to take our advice, AT LEAST please for the love of god record every interaction with her. Especially, you should record her telling you that She lied about rape previously She has rape fantasies she wants you to enact one on her Consult your locale's laws about recordings.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:37 PM
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The difference is Western society acknowledges that men are sex crazed animals, while denying that women are. The fact that we may be horndogs is not a good reason for blinding ourselves to the fact that women are covert sluts. Pointing it out is not hypocrisy, it's lucidity.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:20 PM
2

Ironically, Kevin Smith was banging her and she dumped him right after the film. I'm convinced her 'singing a whole goddamn song in a bar' scene was just her tooling Kevin into trying to launch a music career for her. They included the entire 3 minute song in the movie.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:04 PM
1

'Bluff' tactic is brilliant. You say a very high number so that they admit to something a little bit lower. I LOLed when it turned out even your bluff number was lower than the truth! Gavin Degraw on her Sexy Time playlist is a dealbreaker. She's an alpha widow. You will never change this unless you are more famous. I'm glad you cut her loose. You made the right call. (I would say hatefuck her a few times to feel better first. This is a hard next but not an urgent ASAP hard next).
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:00 PM
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EDIT OUT THE FIRST PART. You do NOT want a written admission of anything like that If she finds your account it could be bad. I'm being very vague in this message for the same reason, but YOU know what I mean. Edit it out NOW.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:48 PM
1

Your female friend is jelly. She's trying to keep you down, either to keep beta-you in your place, or b/c she likes you and doesn't want the competition. You should try to tap your friend, now that you've shown some preselection. If she gets really nasty, calling you a creep, etc. then cut her out of your life. She's not a real friend. Ask yourself -what does she contribute to your life?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:03 PM
1

Don't go out of your way to be a feminist or PC-nazi at the office. Just ignore gender politics completely. If you are literally reporting people to HR for being 'ableist' for using the word 'idiotic', they are going to find ways to get you back. You are not being smart. You shouldn't be making enemies at work, period. And if you do so using PC as your weapon...women will ALWAYS be able to outcompete you in that regard. They can completely make shit up about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:49 PM
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OKCupid found that women rate 80% of men "below average" and men rated women symmetrically above/below average. So if women consider themselves average, they are still on a high horse vs what they think of men.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:47 PM
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You would never have heard of Thatcher and Merkel if they weren't politicians. So they don't really count as 'exceptional scientists as you can name'. They may be exceptional, and scientists, but were not exceptional scientists. You might as well count the actress from Wonder Years b/c she got a Math PhD.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:36 PM
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