Why/how do Dominant Women exist?

AsianWater · 2018-08-22T02:36:12+00:00

Inflated SMV. Therefore has a stronger personality to root out the "weaker" men and aim for the top 1%. However we all know that's not possible for her.

Zanford · 2018-08-22T02:45:29+00:00

I forget the evolutionary term, but there are lots of examples of animal behavior which seem to lack a 'self-dampening' mechanism in one direction or the other. For example certain birds can be 'tricked' into feeding fake chicks by creating an artificial chick with a ridiculously big and bright red yapping mouth. The parent bird will try to feed it to the exclusion of its actual young, even though the fake chick looks like an obvious crappy mock to our eyes.

Presumably because in their evolutionary environment, 'too big and bright red yapping chick mouth' didn't happen. So their programming is monotone.

Women are programmed to shit test. In the ancestral environment, maybe there was no thing as a woman going 'too far' with shit tests, b/c cavemen would always keep that shit in check.

In the modern environment, men have dropped the ball. So now women's programming is diverging to one extreme that makes no evolutionary sense, b/c they are in an unnatural situation.

Also their T may have gone up due to factors like pollutants and higher average age of their mothers at birth (I read that gives daughters higher T and sons lower T). Also media programming that they are not evolved to filter out as harmful and stupid.

Gruss_p · 2018-08-22T03:01:05+00:00

Issues from childhood.

TRPKiddo · 2018-08-22T02:28:53+00:00

I wish I could answer your question, but I’m too busy vomiting. Give me thirty minutes. OK?

AmazonAlphaMale · 2018-08-22T03:28:24+00:00

This is probably only for some girls, but it could be related to hormones. When you see a dominant chick they’re most likely pretty buff and don’t have that high pitch voice.

DownyGall · 2018-08-22T04:46:39+00:00

Interesting question because though modern women have obviously gone way off the reservation, it does seem like there are just women who naturally (not because of society or anything) are more like men in dominance. The best example to come to mind is Ann Coulter. She is doing her best in the world just the way she is and I would never say she should’ve become a mother.

Evolutionary arguments always fall short because like why do people have poor eyesight. That should’ve been taken care of quite a while ago. But those ancestors must have had something else to keep them alive. It’s not like all ancient women were all providing mothers. There were some kickass ancient women and those genes must have survived through the generations. Plus, I think most of those kickass women use their femininity in a soft power way. The manly women you see in movies and tv shows don’t exist in the real world because a woman trying to be like a man is just a shitty man.

Ricardo2991 · 2018-08-22T05:18:20+00:00

From my experience, many women who are overly dominant don't have a strong relationship with a father that they respect.

Fielder57 · 2018-08-22T11:11:07+00:00

I know of a handful of women like this, They all fit in the same category, Not pretty enough to gain male attention the normal way so had to find a new niche. That Niche being a dominant and loud person.

Almost all of it is made up bravado and a front. (except one who went into the military and she genuinely is a badass). I dated one of these girls for a few weeks and it slowly crumbled away.

downvotesanimals · 2018-08-22T11:39:42+00:00

Womanhood is a domain of endeavor in which the population can benefit from having a more (or less) dominant personality.

Lambdal7 · 2018-08-22T12:59:57+00:00

Evolution.

While most women are rather submissive, dominant women also exist. That's what evolution does, you always have a spectrum and this is the only reason why we as humans have suvived.

There is not always a good male around to lead the tribe, maybe only 8 out of 10 times.

That's where dominant women came in and lead the tribe successfully. There is a place and a need for women like this. Most males are weak betas. Without them many teibes would have died/starved. Can't always rely on them.

DarlingMissLee · 2018-08-22T06:27:11+00:00

Weak men allowed Marxism and feminism to become mainstream which made succeeding generations of men weak as well. This leads to masculinized women. The more masculine men are in a woman’s life, the more feminine she is. The less masculine the men in a woman’s life, the less feminine she is. Although men can make women feminine, women cannot make men masculine because while masculinity is an active force- femininity is a reactive force.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-08-23T00:23:02+00:00

Powerful women don't use dominance, they use obligation, notoriety, shame, guilt, and uncertainty. The things that make beta men orbit them.

Remember that what most people think power and dominance for men is largely driven by sexual selection pressure. It's about gaining access to the greatest number of women while denying others access to them.

Whereas, social success for women is oriented towards getting the most resources, security, attention, and social favors. Women don't generally need to compete for That is, maximizing the survival chances of their kids and grandkids.

Note that women control the majority of the money in society and make the majority of spending decisions.

Being a dominant figurehead leader is risky.

randarrow · 2018-08-22T12:29:53+00:00

Codependence, among other issues, is basically when someone is dependent on others depending on them. Aka, mommy or nurse syndrome. Evolved because some women have to have a take charge attitude in order to take care of children or sick relatives, they even enjoy it and get a thrill out of it, so they are useful to the gene pool. Some people have it stronger than others. Problem is, they will go as far as resenting independent people, sabotaging their ability to take care of themselves or be independent. An independent three year old will get hurt and should be controlled, but please don't harass your independent 30 year old child....

Shrinks are torn on whether to classify codependence as a personality disorder, especially in our fem centric society. A little codependence is healthy, natural, and necessary (like other personality traits like narcissism, dependence). But, like any trait it can turn into something extremely destructive.

Related personality disorders are of course narcissism, dependent personality disorder, avoidant personality disorder, and a few unofficial like contradependence (when you are not avoiding social situations and family relationships but strongly fight against any dependence)

Reading about personality disorders and what they do is worth while, gets you onto a more scientific basis and out of red pill jargon. Just remember everyone has these traits on occasion, only a professional can diagnose (no armchair psychiatry for yourself or others, and DO NOT ACCUSE SOMEONE OF HAVING THESE), and a disorder really only applies in one situation when their life falls apart. If someone is functional, with no breakdowns or dissociation, they have traits not have a disorder.

Most of the "hurr duur AWALT" attitudes here or in other manosphere sites are describing women with personality disorders rather than some universal rule. All peoole might have a variant trait of a personality disorder, but they most definitely do not all have the SAME personality disorder.

juju515 · 2018-08-22T06:09:48+00:00

that sub is hilarious...

Title	Why/how do Dominant Women exist?
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