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Ricardo2991/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:59 AM
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She’s not that into you
/r/askTRP06/09/20 10:54 AM
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Set the example. Encourage failure, growth, experience, moving on from the past, action, etc.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:10 AM
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You should contact your employer on Monday if you want to keep your clearance. Own up to your mistake and do all the proactive steps. AA, counseling, etc. your worry shouldn’t be dates.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:12 PM
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FACTS
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:13 AM
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"Gotta wait to see that in person, if you're lucky" ​ From experience, it's always better to not send D pics to randoms, even when they ask for it.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:04 AM
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I have this, but it wasn't natural. Some of it is but going through childhood trauma made me resilient. Through knowledge I gained the power of peace of mind and focusing on the present which made me charismatic. Leading people into war while in the military gave me the confidence and lack of self doubt. If I know I'm operating on principles and properly prepared... Why should I have doubt?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:53 PM
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What are you personality traits that make you valuable? You posted 0 about your personality. I get laid because I am confident, charismatic, aloof and charming. I'm also tall, attractive and mysterious. I make average income but have abundance mentality. You should read this book: How to Win Friends & Influence People - Dale Carnegie And last, you need to seek failure. Failure is how you grow. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFf6rhcYkXw
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:26 AM
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I'm the prize is a proper mindset. It kinda means don't be needy, don't take BS. It takes a high level of confidence and self worth. It's nothing like described op's post above. OP described being needy and attention seeking.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:37 PM
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Don't sleep with girls who are that drunk... Unless you want problems bro. All kinds of things wrong with that. Guy may be bb to her, but nothing makes him sound bad. Some guys can stay without being aggressive... I've been approached by 9s before... You just have to put yourself in position or be blessed...which takes a lot more work than gaming drunk chicks.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 04:56 AM
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About learning another language, you can go to a language school in a different country for 3 months during the summer... Or right after you graduate college for even longer! :)
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:30 PM
0

U ok?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:55 AM
0

I'd just break up with her
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:38 AM
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Being bald doesn't drop smv of a 9 or 10. Maybe you overrated yourself or people notice your lack of confidence.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:19 PM
2

I go to night clubs and bars to dance and socialize. Not to meet women.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:24 AM
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Become unavailable to girls 1 + 2 until they show more interest and meet a girl 3
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:21 AM
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Sleeping with someone who has a bf is not a red flag. It's a "never consdier anything serious with this person ever" type of thing. Red flags are things like: often gets drunk, makes poor decisions while drunk, often talks to / hangs out with exes.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:39 PM
2

Just buy him a beer and apologize. Don't over think it. If he doesn't want to talk about it, then move on.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:51 PM
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Enjoy the vacation without him...meaning don't let him stop you from enjoying vacation. Let him stay in the room on reddit and WhatsApp while you go do stuff.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:50 AM
2

From my experience, many women who are overly dominant don't have a strong relationship with a father that they respect.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:18 AM
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Some of it is better than this subreddit. Some of it (the good stuff) is more healthy based, based on growing as a man rather than attacking or blaming women.
/r/MGTOW06/08/18 06:17 AM
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Thia book is about obtaining power. It's a deeper level of truth, focused on long term power and influence, and leads into leveraging these things to get what you want. Being a socially popular person falls in line with the laws of power. Smiling is not blue pill. Don't confront people because it's a waste of time. You can still confront your problems. Showing discontent is also a waste of time. It just makes people thing less of you. This book is about long term gains, not taking the action tod…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:31 AM
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Other people told you not to overthink. Your friend needing to leave is an easy way to close. "We gotta go, but let's play cards again sometime. What's your number/snap/etc"...Literally that simple.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:52 AM
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I'd lift 2-3 days a week and do full body routines. Play and lift through the soreness.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:02 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about. If you like fat girls more then go for it. TRP isn't here to tell you who to like.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:33 PM
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Assuming your SMV is a 7, the 4 and 5s who treat you badly wonder why you are bothering with them, while the 8s know you want to use them. Btw, I don't trust your ratings so I modified the numbers for you.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:07 PM
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1) Stop focusing on the end result so much 2) Don't go out for girls 3) Keep working on your SMV 4) And work on your game if your SMV is good enough already.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:44 AM
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How old are you? This guy sounds like a douchebag who just happens to be more alpha than the rest of the guys in your group.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:42 AM
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I'd say just doing a program is a great start. High volume programs are easier for beginners IMO. A great chance to focus form, lay a solid foundation and learn how to work out with focus and intensity.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:59 AM
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Everytime a woman has called me a fuckboy, I fuck them. I'm 32 so I just laugh it off. Like "kids and their new words".
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:20 AM
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No contact is about moving on. You don't break it. You let them break it. They either want you, your attention or something from you. You'll remember why you went NC and do it again.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:39 AM
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I've gone through numerous break ups, countless fuck ups and rejections and I'm divorced. You will not heal. You can grow and develop and become wise. You can become resilient, experienced, and develop a natural forsight of a person's next move or reaction.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:09 AM
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First Red Flag is that she is 31 and single. It doesn't mean she's bad, but hey, you have your eyes wide shut right now.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:42 AM
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So, you identify a few things you need to work on. -Seek confrontation -Money management -Stand up to you dad -Admit when you fuck up -Take what you want -spend less time with LTR If you're attractive as you say you are, ditch the LTR and go monk mode to fix your life.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:04 AM
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All the things you have to go through? Do you have anxiety or are you asexual? Something is wrong with you. You don't have any guy friends. Unless you are ok being a lone wolf, and I can tell you aren't...you need to make some bros.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 06:55 AM
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Nice girl who has a bf meeting up with an "old acquaintance" for drinks. I saw enough right there. Cmon bruh. Use your brain.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 02:36 PM
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It's not the easiest way. Easiest way is having abundant value, building an environment lacking inhibition and encouraging them to have a good time.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:35 AM
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I've been going bald for the last 7 years. I just don't give a fuck about it. Shave my head and carry on.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:53 PM
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If you have to ask, probably not much if any. If you've worked out for years, you'd probably lose some.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:52 PM
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Would you stay in a relationship with a girl who held you back?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:43 PM
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You sound like a fucking rock who doesn't understand basic social concepts.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:46 PM
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Various ways. 1) I know a lot about a lot of different things. Easier to find things in common with people (normie values). 2) I'm very straightforward, which comes across as mysterious and makes me interesting. 3) I'm very aware of my surroundings, can pick up on small details. Using acquired social skills, I can put this into an assumptive statement that is an ice breaker and leads to convo. 4) being unaware of if someone doesnt like you, makes it easier to be aggressive where a normal person …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:23 AM
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Asbergers doesn't stop me from getting girls. It actually helps me get girls... But also, obviously, relationships are a bit more difficult to me.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:01 AM
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Is the type of girl who abruptly leaves and blocks you on everything a quality girl. Would you consider a guy friend who did this a stand up guy? Exactly. She isn't. You don't know her as well as you thought you did. She has some shit going on (or that went on) that is affecting her. Be happy she left and did turn you into a beta cuck. She likely ghosted you out of respect so you don't have to deal with her petty problems. Be happy she is gone. Take this as a lesson that not all things are as th…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:06 PM
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Added about 10 girls from Bios in the past. I've had 2 turn into real life stuff. The 2 that turned into something, viewed my story and decided to msg me.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:13 PM
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But luckily, talking to strangers and socializing is not complicated or difficult.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:37 PM
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If you don't face your fear, it will continue to control you. Also know, that if you don't work on your mental well-being, you could end up in the same type of mind-fuck scenario again. Your next train of thought could be "I can only get sex by paying for it." I'd say, do whatever you want, but work on your mental well-being also.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:52 PM
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How old are you? I saw some in high school, and knew some in the military.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:16 PM
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I wasn't around TRP in this form a decade ago, but I have been an active dater for the last 14 years, and being in the military, I was around a lot of chads and alphas. Hypergamy is stronger than ever, mainly because the access is at your finger tips with Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook. We can see what everyone else has, and people who don't have strong morals and values will get caught up in the Joneses. What's this mean for dating? It's more difficult than before to find woman who appear to…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:49 AM
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The worst part is that she actively tried to prevent him from having a high SMV. She wanted him to quit his good job, wouldn't have sex with him, and tried to make him boring. He likely was higher SMV from the start, and due to deep rooted issues and insecurities she has, she couldn't just accept that he was a good man with good values who loved her and his son. It's actually really sad, because she hit the jackpot and threw it all away because of insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:27 AM
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Ignore her.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:17 AM
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Stop worry about everyone else mate. In every aspect of life, people will get things easily that were or are hard for you to get. It shouldn't have any affect on you.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:33 PM
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Delete Tinder. Stop thinking about women. Build your social network. Go out alone and meet people, become a regular and know the staff at your gym, your bar, your club, your hobby centers. Get a 2nd job as a bartender or somewhere that forces you to be social.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:36 AM
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Get rejected. A lot. Talk to the hottest girls and most popular guys. Seek rejection. Anxiety has another name, pussy disorder. Stop being a pussy. Stop thinking and start doing.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:00 PM
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Tell her you want to go running with her.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:39 AM
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If you don't know what to say or don't want to say anything, Ignoring it is the best idea. If they are that stubborn to assault me about an issue, I just next them.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:23 AM
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As a big, tall man, clean shaven gives you more options than a beard. But do what you want...and rock the look well. Clean shaved or facial hair... Own your look.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 10:08 AM
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6'3", 220 happens to me all the time.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:34 PM
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Hard next here. Unless you like games.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:28 AM
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In a sense, this move pays for itself, as you found new talent (very expensive), that you otherwise wouldn't have.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:51 PM
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It's more tailored for business and productivity, but it's a great book. Explains the trust system we have with ourselves. Getting Things Done by David Allen.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:34 PM
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Just ignore them until you get back. Enjoy the adventure and forget about everything at home... Including girls.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:55 PM
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Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:36 AM
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Go to the doctor. Get some Viagra.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:08 AM
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Last line tells me you should cut all contact immediately. She isn't worth ruining your life or reputation over....is she?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:51 AM
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I didn't read your texts, but work on being an exciting person and do some fun things! It'll take your mind off her and help you unwind from med school. Plus it'll give you something interesting to text her about.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 02:41 AM
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It's a good habit to support your "Friends" in public situations.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 02:34 AM
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I am an outlier, and you can be too, if you want to. Being an outlier isn't about what people think of you, it's about how you think and what you do differently.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 03:35 AM
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First, it's not the most important part of the red pill, maybe it is if you're a fresh faced 18 year old with no life keeping you busy. Second, your FRAME, is the most important tool in your box.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:09 AM
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This is one way in which women usually communicate better than guys.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 02:25 AM
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Your Coworker did the work for you. Your story is an example of holding frame at all times. You got given an alley-oop. Lessons: always hold frame, be attractive, don't fuck up easy lays
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 01:24 AM
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Hard next and stop thinking about her. Do you want to date a girl who breaks up with you over text?
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:37 AM
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Honestly it sounds like you just have a lack of game. Sounds like you want your SMV to do all the work for you.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:11 PM
1

Just forget about it, learn your lesson, and get a job.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:04 AM
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True.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:44 AM
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Sounds like too much stress. Try working out 1 less day a week. Stop using IG/Snap/FB/Reddit. Focus on your priorities. Also go to the doctor and get blood work done. See if it helps.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:41 AM
1

After basic, Your value is about to go up immensely. Enjoy being single.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:40 AM
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This, expect you should flip the way you say. People only care about themselves and their own interests. No one gives a shit about you, except for how it affects them.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 01:02 PM
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Is that Tom from MySpace?
/r/MGTOW08/12/16 04:50 AM
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You should hire a lawyer and sue!
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:49 AM
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This isn't good...at all. Sounds likes she moved into your apartment, and now she is ready to move out. Let her.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:18 AM
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If you talk to everyone the same, no one feels special. You have to build these bonds with effort and time. You have to offer some people more than what you offer everyone else. My wording is shitty, but hopefully my point gets across.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:01 PM
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And she thinks she can get away with it. (She doesn't think. She knows.)
/r/askTRP07/10/16 09:51 PM
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If you stop paying on dates would she still be with you?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:34 PM
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You can't be beta bucks if you aren't spending money on her bro.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:21 PM
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One of the "friends" is her mom. Runs in the family.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 04:22 AM
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It was an investment for her. Spend Money she doesn't have to ride the CC and find a provider. Mission Accomplished.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:57 AM
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TLDR, but you hit the insane part right on the nail, and if you do this enough, you'll find more than one insane one, especially through Tinder/Online Dating.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:36 AM
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Is he the only broken one? He's actively working to make himself better with counseling and medication, what are you doing to improve yourself? A female from the age of 20 to 24 who doesn't take care of her body will become extremely less attractive. TL;DR: He probably doesn't like the person you've become either.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:50 PM
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I just enjoy younger women. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 06:57 PM
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Sounds like you are scared of confrontation.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:56 PM
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Don't be phased. You can't kiss close everyone. You can't sleep with everyone not he first date.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:48 PM
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You can also read The Speed of Trust, if you think it's a trust issue. Anyways, women are not men. They don't value commitment like we do.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:40 AM
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Getting flaked on is one of the best things that can happen to you... It teaches you to not care so much and is great practice for maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:36 PM
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I've matched 9-10s on Tinder, but they never converse me... In real life, I meet 9-10s and can go all the way... I guess I'm about a 7 with extreme confidence and a good personality.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:34 PM
1

PUA overall can be hit or miss, but the PUA seduction tactics and seduction tactics in general work quite well.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:33 PM
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Hotel... In Japan meeting at the hotel is common. In America, we have cheap motels everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:32 PM
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You're also treating her...like a child!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:31 PM
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I'm only 30, about to be 31. but I'd say.. Focus on yourself. Follow your dreams. Cut the deadweight. Friends, Family, Girlfriends, anyone who is unlucky and makes your life worse. Be a fucking man. My dad died when I was 5, so it took a while for me to learn this on my own. But men are consistent, fix problems, and don't cry in front of people.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:01 AM
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Create space horizontally... Learn to talk with your hands... Use big body language... Make sure to be in front of your friends.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:34 PM
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I hate the title, but the article is ok... So, don't literally be toxic, just be toxic in the eyes of extreme liberals...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 05:31 AM
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You can do what she did- suddenly become not available for a week.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:23 AM
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Everyone has a story. Her reaction to abuse was to become emancipated and make her own life. She's an outlier. It's a good thing that she doesn't use the victim mentality on you. That being said, make sure you understand her expectations in regards possible kids in the future, should you choose to go down that path. You need to know if she has any triggers that she knows about, and her expectations on what a healthy fatherly relationship will be like for you. Should you decide to continue the re…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 07:25 AM
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Knowing more information saved this man from marrying her. How did he lose?
/r/askTRP17/04/16 05:29 AM
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You messed up a few times. The further you get away from kino escalation, the easier it is to lose the girl. With texting, you should have built the conversation. She said she is at a birthday. Instead of texting like a guy who is interested in her, you texted her like you were her dad. "Have fun. Had fun with you. Message me later." Then you followed it up 24 hrs later with a vague invite to hang out. You've put the pressure on her to make moves... Keep the control in your hands.
/r/seduction06/04/16 02:54 AM
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You can have mutual friend introduce you... "Primacy Effect" Have your mutual friend give you a warm introduction... Then she will already have good thoughts about you when you do talk to her in person.
/r/seduction06/04/16 02:47 AM
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No 3-date closes? Are you failing shit tests? Seeking validation?
/r/askTRP04/04/16 09:15 AM
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I'm not recommending you bother "telling" your professor anything... Your personal opinion is likely unimportant to him or her. That said, your argument is nonexistent and uses a weak analogy. I'd recommend using Kant's Categorical Imperative to argue your point. Although if you view sex as an end, you may find yourself labeling people as sex objects, which won't go over so well.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 11:29 PM
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She loves to travel. Alone. What did you think she was doing while she traveled?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:24 AM
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I don't keep it a secret, but I don't advertise it either... Like I don't advertise which Football Forum I post on either... ???
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:18 PM
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There are people, possibly me included, that have been through much more drama and done many more "bad" things... You can be alpha no matter your sexuality. It is good to peel back the onion with professional help to try and solve your life mysteries, but it's better to take ACTION and change your life. If you don't like something about your life, take action to change it.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:16 PM
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Hire an accountant. Send them all your receipts. Give yourself a salary. Re-invest in your business. Create a business plan and a budget.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:19 AM
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It reads as if she is worried that you don't like her body or sex with her. Do you give her validation and comfort? Do you communicate your needs - and that they are being satisfied?
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:17 AM
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Work on being more attractive and less creepy.
/r/seduction29/03/16 03:27 AM
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Your Response: "Yeah, for me."
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:52 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:42 AM
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First: Don't believe everything she tells you. Second: Don't worry about fun dates. IF possible, just invite her to your place.
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:40 AM
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She wants to feel tingles.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 12:49 PM
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I've met HB7-9s with no outside Tinder interaction.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 11:47 AM
1

What's your favorite non-work/science related hobby?? If you don't have one, get one and invest in it.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:20 AM
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Go no contact with her. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:16 AM
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uh... bro...
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:45 AM
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You can have sex.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:28 AM
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I'm here for pics, to judge you honestly.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 11:57 AM
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She is doing a power play.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:52 AM
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SMV takes work to improve. No get-SMV-quick available.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:47 AM
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This is a little extreme.... But assuming the pretense is that you want Sex or a relationship and she only wants a friendship, you're totally right. If you can garner something else from the woman, than you can work it to your benefit. If you are still thinking you are gonna hit it and quit it, well boy I got some beach front property in Kansas to sell to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:33 AM
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You went full beta. Never go full beta. You have no frame. Read sidebar and go no contact with your ex.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:50 AM
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On top of what everyone else said, if you don't want to reply, then don't. You're a man.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 02:03 AM
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You are overthinking this. You just met her, you don't genuinely like her. Just text her and invite her with specifics. If she comes be happy, if not, move on.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:25 AM
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Don't blame TRP for the world we live in.
/r/MGTOW16/03/16 07:18 AM
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You got what you deserved, bro.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 08:34 AM
1

Go early. Talk to everyone. Just break the ice and see how each interaction goes. "Hey I'm new here, what time does the party usually start?" "You guys new too?" "Do you come here a lot?" "Is it normally busy?"
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:44 AM
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"Call me, maybe"
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:12 AM
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It was over 2 years ago. I don't remember. We met at a motel 6. I closed. I snapchatted it to my friends. I did not get catfished.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:11 AM
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Once you get the major... Ask them open ended question. Example... What made you choose Psychology?
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:04 AM
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If you are at a school, you can just say. "Hey, I'm tryhardblackguy, are you new here? I haven't seen you before."
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:03 AM
1

My advice. Don't focus on women. You have a natural line to talk to anyone. Make friends. The key to going out alone is to be confident.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:02 AM
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You sound boring and judgmental. That said, if the club isn't for you, then find activities that you enjoy.
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:00 AM
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This. She took you home OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:57 AM
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You're 6'1" and living in Vietnam... You already made it bro. What are you complaining for? You seem to have a lack of perspective. You implemented TRP knowledge and used it to your advantage. Be yourself. Fulfill your needs. Work on self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 05:01 AM
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If you are in professional school, then you are well on your way. All your time spent improving yourself through education, physical and mental well-being is good. After looking at your post history, spinning plates is the way to go for you. Besides allowing preselection to take place, it also allows you to become more experienced and better at dealing with women.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:56 AM
2

I'm not sure of your age, but please realize that in the grande scheme of life, 6 months isn't a long amount of time. Are you working on your SMV? You should lower your standard some, to allow preselection and natural abundance mentality to work in your favor.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 11:37 PM
3

This. If your wingman tells you that you are being creepy, listen to him. If a woman tells you... move on.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:38 AM
3

Make a joke.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:54 AM
2

Ignore questions or texts you don't want to answer. Ignore her until she meets up with you. Don't reply when she talks about her ex.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:42 PM
1

Do you have any examples?
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:41 AM
1

Cancel the date. Find new girls. You have your ex on a pedestal. She is not a unicorn. If she doesn't sleep with you, find someone else.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:40 AM
5

Be friendly with all the management. Ignore anyone who treats you poorly. Don't let it get to you. Play the game.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:39 AM
5

Yes. Go. Be friendly and don't let it get you that people think badly of you. You should work to become a regular and fix your reputation at the bar if you want to meet people there.
/r/seduction07/03/16 11:08 PM
2

Abundance Mentality. IDGAF. Confidence. Don't take rejection personally. Ignore or A&A. For "The look" you can playfully make fun of how stupid they look. I usually make a "Are you serious? What's wrong with this girls face" look... ;) You're just getting your feet wet. I've been rejected by whales before, when I thought I was just being nice... lol
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:06 PM
2

There are some good comments already. I'll add that weather is the easiest small talk to engage in. You can talk about past/current/future... Start practicing small talk with everyone. Old, young, male, female. Small talk is a transitive skill.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:00 PM
1

You're only 19. You're overthinking everything. Example: If you want to learn piano, call a music store and sign up for lessons.
/r/seduction07/03/16 09:55 PM
3

Weight is dependent on gravity. Mass and Body Composition are more important to attractiveness... It is not more important than confidence by the way.
/r/seduction07/03/16 09:52 PM
1

You have to be a man of action.
/r/seduction07/03/16 09:48 PM
2

Just become unavailable.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:06 PM
0

Don't tell her you like her next time. Don't put yourself out there.
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:47 AM
0

The Mall. Outside. College. School.
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:46 AM
2

Why do you need her number? You can already slide into the DMs.
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:45 AM
1

You're doing something wrong. Increase your SMV. Build your social status. College is a good place to start building a social status for when you aren't in college anymore. In real life, status matters too.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:44 AM
4

Become friends with guy 1... and focus on what you control. Become more involved in anyway possible. Work ethic isn't what will get you the job... Oh, and start looking for a new job now.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:42 AM
2

Be a man of action.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:40 AM
1

Conceal your intentions. Go by her actions, not her words. Text her less and focus on meeting her again.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:32 AM
5

Angry is a secondary emotion. Source: http://www.creducation.org/resources/anger_management/iceberg.gif Deal with the underlying problem that you have, by manning up and getting over it. Live a life worth living, and focus on yourself. You don't need that "female" in your life.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 12:26 AM
1

Do you have more details?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 12:23 AM
1

You're very insecure in how you compare to others. Not an insult, but it's important that you recognize your weakness. That said, focus on improving your social circle. Make friends with more guys and more girls. Join clubs, be a leader in the community, volunteer. Make yourself powerful in the social domain and the attention will come. If you want to lose your virginity, I recommend getting that out of the way ASAP.
/r/seduction06/03/16 11:45 PM
1

You told her your feelings bro. Good job. /s I don't know what you learned, but keep learning. You need to.
/r/seduction06/03/16 11:41 PM
1

"Nobody got strong or got in shape by thinking about it. They did it." (Meme from Facebook, Author unknown) Until you do it, potential means nothing.
/r/seduction06/03/16 11:38 PM
-2

LIE.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:21 AM
6

They don't contradict. If possible, hide the mistake. If impossible, take responsibility for the mistake, and move on.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:44 AM
3

Get more details before you do anything... In the mean time, focus on yourself until she contacts you.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 03:05 AM
5

Hard next or demotion to plate status. From my experience, if a woman is lying about contact with a guy, she is hiding a lot more than something "mundane".
/r/askTRP04/03/16 12:58 AM
1

Lesson Learned: Protect your reputation at all costs.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:55 AM
4

tl;dr AWALT. Honestly, don't let it bother you that she was married.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:47 AM
9

You need to control your emotions better. You need to be able to walk away at any moment. You entered her frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:42 AM
2

What's wrong with women having an abundance mentality?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:36 AM
1

Either no reply or late reply, "cool". Either way, game other girls.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:57 AM
2

1) Always have a good time 2) You don't have to dance that much, if she likes you she will put up with it. 3) Be confident with body language 4) Sleep, Karaoke, Ramen <--- use one of these 3 excuses. "I'm tired. Let's go sleep" "I'm hungry. Let's go eat" "Tell your friends we will be back. I need to go to the combini." "Is your friend leaving with that guy?"
/r/seduction01/03/16 05:28 AM
3

It's not so much that it gets easier, but you get better at it. You have less inhibition and nervousness. You know what to say and what to do. You become less mechanical and more natural. That said... embrace the abundance mentality. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:37 AM
2

Your next text should be a firm invitation. Your chances are up in the air, just see how she replies. Game other women.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 01:32 AM
5

I say start with self-improvement. I don't recommend throwing him into TRP until you know he is serious about changing. Some people like the life they live more than they want to change.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:58 AM
7

Encourage him to go to the gym with you.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:54 AM
40

1) Red flags all over. 2) She just wants to be validated. Ignore. Run. As fast as you can.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:52 AM
1

As soon as possible! Early bird gets the worm ;)
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:41 AM
3

Once the kino starts - go for the close within an hour. Especially with Japanese. Want any other tips?
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:27 AM
2

You just talk to her like she isn't on her phone.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:22 AM
3

Key to texting: Start with the end in mind... Thanks Mr. Covey.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:21 AM
1

I do it randomly when the mood feels right. It is often subtle and always goes well.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:20 AM
3

And then you took her virginity?
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:18 AM
1

I mean, like starting being a leader/organizing a going-out group as soon as you get there. Talk to people when you check in. Hey you here for xxx?? You can literally say that to break the ice with everyone. Be like "I heard xxx is great, me and some friends are going" or start with dinner plans... I know my advice is kind of loose, but if you can establish yourself as a leader in a group of co-eds, your chances of success sky-rocket.
/r/seduction29/02/16 03:07 AM
1

Sounds like you should be happy that Chad is your best friend. He doesn't need you. His SMV is higher than yours. Step your game up son.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:55 AM
3

Me and my male counterparts just communicate about it. She's a plate. She's not yours. It's just your turn. Focus on your SMV while he is focused on her.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:52 AM
2

Throw a party. Be Social. Make a clique or group.
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:48 AM
2

If you are wondering if you should stop contact... then you should stop contact.
/r/seduction27/02/16 08:03 AM
1

I don't see much for you to brag about?? Are you spinning multiple plates? And It sound like you need new friends. Friends should be neutral/helping you with your goals, not hating.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 04:01 AM
10

One big thing guys can learn is having the attitude of "Not expecting to get any". Especially when guys are just starting to get lots of attention. Being able to have fun without women feeling like you are "trying to get laid" is huge... If you can have a good time and embrace the IDAGF attitude (without being a douche), then you will make your time worthwhile, sex or no sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:23 PM
11

Just remember, Trump is a brand... He is not doing this alone. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:05 PM
3

Just don't catch feelings my dude. She's not a unicorn, and she got you a job... She is an alpha chick, and she may provide some use to you.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:04 PM
3

Sounds like you're pulling an ultimatum trying to force him to get married and have a kid on your terms. He has stood firm so far, so maybe he isn't as beta as you think.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:53 AM
2

I'd only think of blaming my wife. You could blame me for lack of SMV, but I would end the relationship with her and move on.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:13 AM
1

Sleeping with married women doesn't fall under the Categorical Imperative (not a Natural Law) and doesn't go against utilitarianism... Who are you to judge a wife or husband for cheating? Maybe they have an open relationship, or maybe they are cheating to keep the relationship together. On the contrary, why should I respect a marriage that the wife herself doesn't respect? Not my problem bro. Save the Christian talk for another sub.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:52 AM
2

you can just say you don't want to talk about it... People do that all the time with health issues.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 02:37 PM
1

Like others have said, your confidence is suffering. "Walk around like you have a big cock and are showing it to everyone" ... I use this body language...and it exudes confidence. Finally, focus on self-improvement, and go for better quality women. They'll probably treat you better than these whales anyway.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 11:08 AM
1

It won't ruin anything if you hit on her. Go for it...
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:52 AM
-4

Assuming she is younger than 23, text her the next time you are out partying or doing something fun and interesting without inviting her. "Wow, I'm at the most awesome party ever. I've never seen anything like this!!!"
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:35 AM
1

Zen has its place. It's useful to use, and meditating and letting-go of problems is definitely a plus. It will help you understand the mindset of Japanese and other Asian cultures. You can use Zen to increase your critical thinking and understand how to think steps ahead before doing an action...
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:33 AM
5

I'd say it's yellow... Don't take anything written in online profiles too seriously. It could just mean she has daddy issues, or bad previous relationships... ;) Seriously, don't worry about what it says. I just tease her about that line when ever she acts needy or needs help.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:23 AM
2

When I was younger, I was more cut throat. Sure, take an abundance mentality, but who cares if she says no? By not taking it personally, I've scored more than a few homeruns on mass texts going through my phone. Sure at a certain point, you have to let it go, but the situation may not be solely based around you. She may have a higher SMV target, that may disappear, or that you have to rise above... Keep calm and charge on. Don't fixate on one girl.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:19 AM
1

Focus on your grades bro. Get your grades up and graduate, before bringing up your GF or your mom problems. You have a learning disability, and that sucks, but bro, you are 22... This is real life. You will be judged on your actions. Read the sidebar. Pass your classes. Take action and stop thinking so much.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:07 AM
1

Invite Sarah and Ashley over to your place for a party? You have one foot in the door, thanks to Sarah. She's not a unicorn. Don't overthink this.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:04 AM
2

Play it cool. Decide if you want to see her tomorrow or not.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:06 AM
0

What's the context? When in doubt, just ignore.
/r/seduction17/02/16 05:33 AM
3

It's social media... Agree and Amplify, Ignore, or Block.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 04:27 AM
2

That girl is not an 8. lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:04 AM
5

Some girls are like this... I live in Japan, and it's pretty normal to NOT do PDA here.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 04:34 AM
2

Text something more interesting then "Hey, it's Bob."
/r/askTRP12/02/16 04:33 AM
1

As long as you play it off as nonchalant.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:25 AM
0

Bro - work on yourself, get to the gym, read the sidebar, and start looking for new plates.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:21 AM
1

Confidence.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:13 AM
1

-Coffee -Drinks -Netflix -Dinner
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:23 AM
1

Ignore her or agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:43 AM
7

I thought you were going to say she admitted to having a threesome. Why else would she stay with 2 dudes? Anyways, run as fast as you can and don't look back. Protip: Focus on the fact that she is responsible for her own feelings, not you.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:13 AM
1

You can use compliments to disarm your opponents, but be wise.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:29 AM
1

I've failed so many shit tests in my time... If it is after sex, then it is much easier to recover, but getting better at shit tests is a better long term strategy.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:28 AM
1

Uh? Have you offered to work out with them or tried to leave the gym with them to go drink coffee?
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:27 AM
1

Why? He should bring a friend...
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:22 AM
1

Send her a text on Monday, talking about your amazing weekend, including details of all the cool stuff you did... and then invite her to this brand new restauraunt at a certain time on a certain day.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:12 AM
0

Your wingman failed you.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:03 AM
1

Are you mad?
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:01 AM
2

Become friends with their parents...
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:29 AM
7

He should take money from the school and get free tuition somewhere else for being a hero.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 10:53 AM
2

Yesterday, I met a girl who gave me huge IOIs and started doing my thing with her in the club. She was with 2 friends, one of which was up for whatever and the other who didn't have a man and wasn't trying to let her friends leave either. After the friend stopped us from politely leaving once or twice... I literally picked a 19 year old up and carried her out of the club 2 blocks, and got her to walk to my car, where things got steamy in the back seat. I think took her back to the club 20 minute…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 10:47 AM
2

She turned it into a shit test---.... Especially when first meeting people, DON'T ARGUE. Actively listen to her dissenting opinion, make her feel emotionally satisfied cause you listened, and change the topic. Women just want to talk...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 10:39 AM
1

I'll look into that. I want to transfer information into Google Docs + Calendar, as I want to be able to access it on the go. Good tip about mensuration cycles. Although, I broke the blood barrier with 3 girls last month. I try to keep track mentally...
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:07 AM
0

After reading redpill - I'd say because I have high SMV. I'm decent at passing shit tests. If you live in the Tokyo area, we can meet up - it'd be easier for you to tell me. My job is a good one - 100k salary, but I don't spend much on girls... I tried and it ended up with the girl not wanting an LTR with me - part of the reason I'm on the pill now.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:05 AM
1

"Chad there has commitment issues" = "Chad is only good for sex" You need to learn girl language. lol
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:22 AM
1

Thanks... I made an Excel spreadsheet, so I can track when I last saw a plate, and set a goal for frequency for each plate. Looking at logical data, makes women seem more disposable.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:18 AM
2

high SMV = more shit tests. lol, the struggle is real yall.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:42 AM
3

Invest, Read, Travel. Advice for any 20 year old.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:40 AM
1

Think of her like a dog... She is going to keep growling until you make her stop. Think of her like a little kid... She is going to keep punching you in the leg until you flex on her. I live in Japan, and I have a similar situation with a Chinese girl. I blocked her on LINE, Facebook, iMessage, and she showed up to my house... 3 different times... Only by being friendly and keeping open ended promises have I got her to stop showing up. Sometimes she still texts me 20-30 times in a row.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:28 AM
0

I had over 100 Tinder matches in one day... Good luck in Taiwan... It's a dangerous world. Seriously, be friendly with her... I feel like you are leaving details out - of things you said to her in person or text... Is she bigger and stronger than you??? You shouldn't be so scared.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:18 AM
4

Second paragraph is a little extreme... Remember, AWALT... Even if you are redpill, your girl is still prone to cheat...
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:53 AM
2

Well since you are going NC, can you message me her Facebook info? I'll help her settle in.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:28 AM
1

You have to change your way of thinking... and understand that women are not logical... If a (normal) man says 'I don't want to have sex', that is what he means. If a woman says it... well... she wants you to make her feel like she wants sex with you... NC = No Contact.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:00 AM
1

go NC, meet new girls and profit. Law 29: Plan all the way to the End -Have condoms -Be prepared to have BC talk or master the pull out method -Be prepared for Shit Tests Edit: Formatting
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:30 AM
0

I haven't read anything in RP that refers to randomly insulting people as a technique. When in doubt, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:18 AM
2

I can confirm, that as a 30 year old, I have much more success with the 19-24 age group of women... Then I came close to having from 18-25. I just started Red Pilling this month, and you guys are lucky to have found this at such a young age... I have more of the following: * Money * Power * Confidence * Charisma * Experience Which have helped my get lots and lots of success with women... But I'm hoping TRP is going to take me to the next level of life success.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:12 AM
1

You can run dread game... "Actually I am busy the whole weekend. See you on x at y at z." (The next week, when it is convenient for you)
/r/askTRP03/02/16 12:02 AM
1

Meditate. Do you have ADHD? You may have a stimulation problem. Like others have said, using airplane mode, or not constantly checking your phone is a healthy habit that can combat this activity. Consider playing more sports, engaging in male activities without phones, and lifting more weights.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:11 AM
1

I actually have Asberger's, but I can tell you that as a 19-year old, you still have plenty of time to master the art of communication. I recommend reading "How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie as a starting point. You can practice communication skills with anyone, anywhere. Not just on girls you feel nervous with. Also, look to put yourself around people who communicate well.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:09 AM
7

Even if you handled it differently, being with her wouldn't make you happy. You have to take women off the pedestal and realize that a woman can not love you how you want to be loved. Whenever you find yourself being like jello so she can meet you - it's time to go NC. She should meet you on your terms, and you should punish any bad behavior by ignoring her. Keep your head up, I'm learning too...
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:03 AM
1

Make an excuse or semi-legit reason to meet her... She'll understand the context of a date.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:07 PM
3

Hard for most men? I don't have this problem... nor do I regret sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:22 PM
10

Your situation sounds like you could work on improving your seduction techniques. You're over-thinking the whole thing. If Brad Pitt didn't recognize the plate was upset and didn't do anything to turn her on, then yes Brad Pitt would also get turned down. Brad Pitt wouldn't be passive aggressive about the situation either. If you didn't need the sex, why did you make her sleep on the couch? Law 32 Play to people's fantasies may have been useful here. You have to make her think you don't just wan…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:20 AM
1

I still abide by the ladder theory. Works well for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:20 AM
0

I've slept with 6 girls so far in 2015. No e-brag.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 06:22 AM
17

Not looking for anything serious I have a BB who I don't respect and I just am looking for attention and money. Just looking for friends I am looking for people to pay for my activities. I'm pretty open to who I hang out with, and the more you can pay for, the better. If you're Alpha, you can probably sleep with me easily.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:43 AM
1

I have same problem... I'm working on only talking to dudes about my ish... or considering starting a journal... It makes me lose a lot of plates... Stupid PTSD.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 03:33 AM
31

Never chase. You're the prize, not her.
/r/seduction15/01/16 05:02 AM
1

Sounds like you don't know how to talk to/disarm men. I'd practice cold approaching men and groups of coeds if I were you.
/r/seduction15/01/16 05:01 AM
1

I'm new to TRP, but I've implemented alpha/RP philosophies over the last 6 years since my divorce. I'm naturally a blue pill, but I'm extremely intelligent and gifted in non-linear thinking patterns. Since reading TRP, I'm able to identify some weak behaviors I have. If I didn't actively play the game or learn I would be labeled an interesting artistic social outcast. I've use my ability to be different to make myself stand out among peers. I naturally draw attention wherever I go, and I'm aggre…
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:30 AM
1

I have way more in common with everyone as I've gotten older... Each year, more girls, hotter girls.... I have no idea what you mean. If you like college girls, go to the places where you will meet them.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:15 AM
1

Cocky/Funny and Push/Pull = Good guideline for dealing with people and building attraction along with wanted behavior.
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:59 AM
1

Anger is not just another emotion. Anger is a secondary emotion felt after/with another feeling.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:34 AM
0

"You can just tell me I'm ugly. You didn't need to lie to me." "Boyfriend? Cool story bro. Tell it again." "I remember when I had one of those..." "I'm sorry." "Did you say something?" "Tell him I said hi."
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:24 AM
0

You aren't as confident or good-looking as you say/think you are... Your co-worker said: "You look like my dream guy" or AKA "I want you to be my alpha king and f*** my brains out". Instead you were nervous, hesitant, indecisive and beta, and now you no longer look like her dream guy. Your co-worker is getting plowed by someone shorter and less muscular than you, who had balls and went for the p.
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:20 AM
1

She's refusing to be kissed because she isn't attracted to you.
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:59 AM
2

What time is best for you and fits your schedule?
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:49 AM
1

Conversation is supposed to be superficial when you first meet someone and are getting to know them. Work on your conversation skills and listening skills. Once the conversation is going well, do time constraint/number close.
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:47 AM
1

You act different, because you choose to act different. Take control of how you act.
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:42 AM
3

"her ex treated her like shit" She wants you to stop being so nice. She is not worth pursuing for a relationship. Go NC and move on.
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:39 AM
3

Blacks can have success in Tokyo/Japan, but it's much more difficult than for a white guy. In essence, black traits are seen as negative and white traits are seen as positive. The positive for blacks is that, that chubby Japanese girls are easier to score, since Japanese guys like skinny girls.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 03:04 AM
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