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It's definitely a phase. The coldness gradually turns into good humour, as you continue working on yourself and relax into what you know. TRP realizations can trigger a lot of baseline fears to come up, which will sit below conscious awareness and cause you to be cold/unfeeling simply because you're in that emergency mode, trying to deal with what you know. Women don't like the coldness, although it paradoxically is attractive to them on some level in a jerkboy type of way. So while you're in th…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:21 PM
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https://youtu.be/MkH5tBMnU2Y
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 10:16 AM
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Women aren't making and putting out these videos. White-hating marxist globalizers are. This is not a "public service announcement", it's enemy agitprop. Don't lap it up, these talking heads do not speak for women or for mankind. They speak in creepy unison for their big boss, Lucifer. Their talking points of the day do not matter as much as everyone being aware that the media they are tricked into consuming is in the hands of creatures who hate every single one of us, regardless of race/gender/…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 09:34 PM
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You're being held back by your blue pill indoctrination that you got from birth onward. It is not a natural part of who you are as a man. This was imposed upon you to hamstring you and cause you to fail. The failure also causes you to become more docile and controllable (more risk averse, more beta), which is a win for society on average - but at your expense. It's working fine in that sense. Civilization is taming, tame animals are crippled compared to their wild counterparts. Tame animals ofte…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:52 PM
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You could be the biggest loser on the face of the planet, one that checks every single "loser" checkbox and that everybody laughs at, but if at some point you turn off the fucking TV, phone and the chatter in your own head that tells you so, you might get to meet your own self, discover you're still a man & that means that nothing and nobody can stop you from reaching out and touching the ultimate. In each and every way you deem fit for yourself while you're here. Its all boils down to the same …
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:15 AM
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Here's a RP tip. Don't think of dates as some big deal where you gotta peform or else you're out. The best way to think about "dates" is simply that they are convenient excuses for you to be with the girl 1-on-1 in order to allow sexy tension between you to grow naturally. That is all they are, and if you start thinking this way it will blow your mind how many seemingly unrelated things you can successfully turn into awesome dates. It's your job, as a man, to come up with these "excuses to be 1-…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:27 AM
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That's very true, they do have to like what they see. That split second instant when she sizes you up visual is important. If you got the green checkmark, things go a bit smoother, if she hit the NOPE buzzer then it's hard to recover. That said, women are ridiculous. They hit the NOPE buzzer with a pathetic neurotic reflex on just about everyone, especially if you surprised her, or she doesn't know you. So you shouldn't think that if you could suddenly get great face and body aesthetics, that no…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:54 AM
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My advice is to cut it out with the attempts to game random women while you're at work. You're at too much of a disadvantage. They approach you already set in their mind that it's going to be a short, forgettable interaction with a service drone. There's no point trying over and over, and hurting your own feelings when it fails. The failure is predictable in this case, just about any guy would fail if he had to take your place. You'd need to have extraordinary game to overcome those odds (I'm ta…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:37 AM
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Fantastic post. Red pill thinking, in action. And look ma`, not a single PUA buzzword used.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 03:23 AM
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This comes from watching TV, including if you watch mainstream TV snippets online. TV programs are designed as outrage porn, and encourage, cultivate what you're describing constantly, on purpose. If you lose frame and become a petulant child when it comes to poltiics, then that isn't your accomplishment, it just means the TV is doing its job and properly massaging your brain such that you get off on that inner outrage. The sooner you dump all of that from your life as dead ballast, the better.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:29 PM
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I reckon you just dealt with it. Getting it off your chest is good enough, especially since you were fairly honest with yourself. Honesty is good medicine for bruised ego. You should think about these feelings in terms of how girly they are. It's what bitches are constantly like, they obsess about what they cannot have. The guys grovelling at their feet, throwing money and marriage offers at them, they don't generally care about. They want some broke-ass badboy on whom her charms failed to work.…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:21 PM
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Losing your mind when your girl does this type of thing is blue pill behaviour, that's for sure. But it's like a bull being teased by a rag, you enter into a "violent delerium" and have little choice about it once it all starts. Also it sounded like this was your first "serious girl", or one of the main ones so far, hence the nebulous plans and coming up with children's names together - so you fell in with "the program" fully and got owned. You probably blame your own self a lot, but it would al…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:44 PM
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Enthusiasm is an old concept, the word taken literally refers to Entheosis, i.e. the active presence of God in a man. Every man should strive for that enthusiasm, among other things, it is infinitely sexy to the women. Unstoppable virility, prankishness, zero fucks given. The problem is that you're taught to think (in blue pill world) that enthusiasm is that goofy thing Jim Carey does when he plays his characters, or the soyboy wide open yapper. It's none of these things.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 08:44 PM
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Nice trip. Must've been like watching Discovery channel about some wierd parasitic species of mold mind-controlling populations of worker ants.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 08:33 PM
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Can't quite tell why, but this post gives me instinctive aversion vibes. Almost like OP is a woman. And I'm a hopeless romantic myself.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 05:01 PM
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It is very contextual. The texting only for logistics advice is for a beginner trying to get the basics right. Since most blue pill rejects have a bias toward texting way too much, you see where the advice is coming from.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:23 AM
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I would stay away from the oneitis for now. She's going to bat an eyelash and you'll find all your progress has been cancelled. Just how it is. If you still want to risk it, it's going to be hard but hey maybe you can make it work. It's really for when you're a RP ace and nothing a girl can do flusters you any more. At least if you miserably fail doing this, don't start beating yourself up over it and feeling like shit. Try looking at it more calmly: your chances were low, but you chose to take …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:17 AM
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No reason to next yet. You need to come up with some workaround or solution, ideally. Something that makes it easy for her. Maybe you can say you'll give her the full princess ride back home in your car, or failing that "I will personally put you on the bus home before 8pm, I'm a gentleman like that lol". Basically don't let there be a feeling like the slightest obstacle or difficulty can throw you off pursuing what you want with her (big beta male tell, girls know it). You want instead the vibe…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:21 AM
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Degeneracy is our greatest ally, in case you didn't get the memo. Do not watch television, by turning on the tube you consent to be fed pre-programmed bullshit that will gradually make you hate yourself and have the perfectly natural and beautiful urge to cut off your dick and wear a ballerina tutu.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:03 AM
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"I know... it's crazy. But why does it feel so goooood, Amy"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:48 AM
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Obviously it depends on your relationship. If it's a girl you love who can't get enough of you and her eyes light up every time you're around, there's no harm whatsoever getting her that item from a high shelf that she won't be able to reach. But imagine you're with a few giggly bitches at the library at your school or whatever. There's ongoing banter about seemingly nothing, but it's sexually charged because they're all focused on evaluating and teasing you. If you don't understand this game, y…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:54 PM
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I'd shoot back something cocky. Like "I'll get you a kiddie soda" or "your turn, invite me somewhere yourself". It could be she wants to see you and just is informing you that she doesn't drink. Or it could be she drinks with everybody except for you, making this a line of shit similar to "I have a BF" when she doesn't. The appearance of these obstacles usually means she wants to test how you respond, because she's skeptical about you. It doesn't mean that you're necessarily out completely.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:43 PM
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It's best for it to fluctuate, wildly if possible. So you don't want to keep it either high or low all of the time.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:13 PM
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Avoid being blatant about it and stating it outright. Continue doing what you're doing, and just dial it down, be a little bit colder each time that happens. Girl will figure it out very soon. Whenever something along these lines arises, the answer is always to reduce the amount of attention you're giving to the girl. They feel it, and then immediately try to correct the situation to get the attention back, if they want it. If she doesn't want it, then perhaps that's a plate in the process of sl…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:04 PM
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This is all irrelevant. The world already has a slot for you, a place you can occupy. It's associated with a specific role you would play, too. What you want, how you feel about that slot - is pretty irrelevant. You basically occupy it, and then keep on keeping on. TRP isn't going to help you to change the world into what you always wanted it to be, it's information on how it already is (like it or not). Does therapy help you any with your inner issues?
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:33 AM
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Thanks for the laughs dude.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:23 AM
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No such thing as easy, they seem to always come up with some curveball out of nowhere. The only times easy happened, for me, were when I wasn't trying and some ass unexpectedly landed in my lap on its own. Whenever I thought it was going to be relatively easy, frustratingly it never was.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:14 AM
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Emotions are fantastic. Bitches love emotions. They need to be strong emotions. Weak emotions on a man puts everybody off.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:10 AM
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Whenever I’ve tried to date girls, I’ve been told that I’m ‘nice’ and that whichever girl dates me in the future would be the ‘luckiest girl in the world’. Ha ha. Classic. It's like they're all reading from the same secret playbook "just for the girls", isn't it? "And then Susie, you tell the idiot, you tell him, in his next lovestory he's sure to be the prince with the luckiest girl in the world. Lmao, I know what you're thinking little Susie, but YES, they actually fucking eat that bullshit up…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:56 AM
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Don't try to understand why women do things like this. What you thought was some grand mystery always turns out to be something fucking disgusting that you later wish you never looked at to begin with. A little like accidentally going through their bloody tampons in the trash.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:49 AM
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I feel like my mom does not want me to grow up She does not, and the full range of insidious female manipulation tactics can be deployed to that end, against you. Happens unconscious, even if she means well. Be prepared to "hurt everybody's feelings" as you assert independence. The key is to do it by actions taken in the real world, not talks aimed at helping the parents understand your POV better. Those talks are a drain on you and a waste of everybody's time, as you probably know from bitter e…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:29 AM
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It's not beta (or alpha) to love your girl. Just is what it is. You doing great, and it shows in her behaviour. It turned her on because women are all brats deep down. Brats that especially love a man who'll tell them "no". It reminds them of the strong parent they never had, and of the patriarchy they need to be safe and taken care of. Rare thing to find these days when pussies and soyboys is all they normally get.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 03:19 AM
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Yeah this sounds like male pouting. You're on the old ego trip dude, but it's great that you sense it and question. Women are like cats, when they walk away you never chase. Chasing freaks kitty-cat out. Instead you stay put and mind your own business, happy as a clam. Now the kitty will come back herself and curl up in your lap. When she leaves (distances) it's nothing personal, don't get sad. When she comes back it's also nothing personal, don't get happy. It's not about moving any mountains f…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:37 AM
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She then went radio silent and I'm not going to write her until her vacation ends - is this the correct approach? Yes, because it very likely won't last the whole vacation. You don't want to be backpedalling from your charming jerk ways. So if a few days go by, and still nothing random incoming from her, you can just send her a little message like "still pouting sourpuss?"
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:32 AM
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It's basically a ploy to get you feeling exactly what you're feeling, and so rope you in to be her orbiter that provides validation, ego stroking, while she keeps you at arm's length because she doesn't want the goodies to stop. You also won't be the only one she'll use like this. It's pretty normal. The solution to the arm's length bullshit is also very logical: MAKE HER JEALOUS.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:27 AM
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Think about this, if you agree to set yourself aside for a moment, you can realize that most men, i.e. your brothers are in the same exact pickle, the world over. Given that's the situation, would you even wish or pray for the load on your shoulders to be lightened? Fuck no, if that's what we're stuck with, I want my full share together with everyone. Lightening the load in any way or giving it that disney sheen back just for me, while everyone else is suffering, is insulting. So the only thing …
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:34 AM
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There must be something out there that can lower my anxiety to a point where I can function as a human being. Finding the root cause of the anxiety, and then likely facing whatever you do not want to face all your life so far. How's your relationship with mom and dad? I assume not so good. The sooner you start, the better probably. This stuff is aging your body at record speed, if you're that strung out all the time.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:02 AM
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Nuance, my man. Sometimes breaking frame unexpectedly, in a way that sets the girly heart aflame is the wisest move you can play. The more I hear about how your girl acts, the more I think I was right to recommend "breaking frame" and playing right into her ultimatum as a team player, not as a submissive man she forced into something... The nuance is subtle though, I agree with you about that, and it's well worth thinking it over a few times, depending on what you want to do. Certainly wouldn't …
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:56 PM
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Yes exactly. Mentally firing yourself up in this way has physiological and hormonal effects, so a lusty thought is not as ephemeral or without consequence as one might assume at first. Abstaining from it (even in the form of lusty thought) quickly accumulates explosive energy that will express itself in your mental and emotional sphere instead, giving you an unusual glow & literal balls of steel. On the downside, you will probably find yourself constantly balancing like a tightrope walker and th…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:48 PM
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If you're not averse to radical methods, I would recommend for you a very effective way to boost yourself outta the mire. Abstain cold turkey from all masturbation, porno, and even thinking pornographic thoughts for about a season or as long as you can muster. If you fail, shake the pine needles off and start over. It will be fucking hard, you will feel withdrawal and the shakes like an addict at first. Then you get the crazy dreams,but after about two weeks, things normalize themselves and it's…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:25 PM
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It's exhausting because it took a lot out of you to do. You burned a ton of energy doing it. It's not just you, almost every man goes through this, assuming you're not some golden boy natural with women. A significant part of why it's so exhausting has to do with the naive way you're currently approaching this. As you keep at it, try to inject more sarcasm/humour into your routine, more irreverence - i.e. don't be formally thanking a girl for her time or backtracking the moment she says "I havea…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:07 PM
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Consider telling her that you understand, with a grave tone. When she squirms about "so what does that mean?", tell her the magic words: "Thank you for being straight with me, I'm getting rid of her because in that situation I would always choose you". It's not a big deal f you don't show any nervousness or apologetic type vibes, stay in control and willingly accept her terms. This is an apportunity to make a woman's heart flower a little bit with love for you, since she will feel like she means…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:50 PM
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Risk taking is an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:25 PM
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See how you replied to clarify what I meant when I said that? If you were a girl, I would probably not clarify it, at my discretion. Instead I might cultivate more confusion in her head on purpose, so she doesn't quite know where I stand. This is exciting to women. The act of her asking me to clarify, no matter how cunty she phrases it, is inherently submissive on her part. But I would immediately lose ground as soon as I begin actually sperging out and explaining myself to a woman, justifying m…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:05 AM
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Of course cunty feminist women will challenge every dominant act. They're primed to do just that by all their upbringing and the brainwashing they go through, and to some extent, it's also natural for them. Act like you're falling asleep when she starts out with the feminism. Cheeky and effective. The key is to not engage in any debates with her, be above it. Now and then, seemingly out of the blue, throw in a terse nugget for her hamster to chew on, like "Equality is a false god." No explanatio…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:52 AM
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Heartbreaking & sickening. Parents knowingly lying to a little kid about how the world is. Thereby exposing him to a world of hurt through their deliberate disinfo. Their parental wishful thinking driven by brainwashed virtue-signalling apparently takes priority over properly informing the boy about what's expected of him by the outside world. The dad has a brain, he knew deep down exactly what would happen to his boy. He pretended he didn't, because it shouldn't be that way, in his very progres…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 07:28 AM
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Flake on her. Skip the meet. Get busy all of a sudden, away from her. She will probably start raging, tears etc. Hang up on her, and go no contact for a couple of days even. When you feel that she's at her wits end there, visit her possibly with some flowers or whatever your girl likes best. Don't make it like you're buying her affection back apologetically, make it more along the lines of "Daddy loves his little girl no matter what" dominant type of theme. Easy for her to accept and feel loved,…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:59 AM
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That's adorable. You don't want the LTR, but she does. That's the ideal arrangement to be in. She's being sneaky in an adorable way, and trying to advance her girly agenda. She might also poke holes in your condoms if she gets desperate and you lose vigilance. Being introduced as "he's my man" to her friends can be cute if you're standing there with a big smile: "is that what the kids are calling it now, babe?". You can tease her for it, and amplify the fires of her passion for you in that way. …
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:43 AM
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She wants to use you as an emotional tampon. Being friendly with her means she gets what she wants out of you, and you get nothing. You can pull away and shut things off, which solves it. But I would suggest openly being a dick to her, in a charming way. She invites you for that "friendo date" on the town, and you instead of being the eager beta elated to be in the company of A WOMAN, you text her back something like "oh sure thing, lemme drop everything, put my life on hold, and come entertain …
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:34 AM
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The ex-bf thing was hilarious, good thinking there man. I can tell you exactly what this girl's going to do next. Since you showed her some interest and eagerness to meet up, she will now purposefully ignore you, just to see what happpens or what you might be willing to do. How low will he go? Is he gonna come crawling on his kneepads and beg for some coochie? These thoughts puff up a girl's ego, so you can bet she's having them. The problem for her begins when you out-ignore her ignores. Now th…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:08 AM
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Some girls act that way because they like you. "Ew, no. I would never go with Jason because...he's Jason" giggle giggle, flirt flirt. It's fucking what they do, there's no such thing as bad attention with girls. Negative attention is just as good as positive attention. When girls truly dislike you, you will know because you will be as good as invisible - they won't talk about you, won't notice you at all. Like you don't even exist, and they will be genuinely amazed if you try to talk to them - f…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:07 AM
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Your confidence in yourself needs to be completely irrational, to the point of absolute insanity. Ask yourself why a guy like you would give a shit what this bitch thinks about your car. When she climbs into your shitty car, it will be a new experience for her. The question is, what undertone will that new experience have? Being a woman, she will look to your unconscious cues and vibes to guide her in determining that. Show her the slightest hesitation, apologetic, defeatist self-deprecation and…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:54 AM
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I feel like you're missing an important insight: it's not about the guy. You could be the top guy on the planet, every woman wants on your dick, but a bitch will still cheat on you. If it suddenly comes into her empty head that she wants to, she's bound to do it. Why? Because she can. She won't need a reason, she'll make one up later. It's just how she feeeeeels. There is no insurance. You can't protect against it by picking a homely gal, nor by being objectively the top pick in every category, …
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:38 AM
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The truth is, everybody but the absolute naturals go through this kinda thing. Wasn't a fuckup on your part, it was learning the ropes. You might think "I should have known better" given that you had lucky access to a lot of good RP content, but having the info and knowing the ropes aren't quite the same thing with women. Another example of this recurring pattern: guy does everything right, gets into a very RP plate situation with a hot woman, everything is amazing... 2 months later, he's back t…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:13 AM
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She did this because she's a flake. Girls who're not flakes would politely notify you about the family issues and be mortified that she stood you up. Bitch is a flake and if you reschedule you can look forward to more of the same. Not that it's a huge problem, you just have to know this is what you're dealing with and always plan accordingly. Expect her to not show up and have alternative plans, if she does show up you're pleasantly surprised and enjoy yourself like nothing happened. When she st…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:27 AM
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Keep in mind that on a gut level he's reacting to the refrigerator's interest in you, not yours in her. You won't be able to dial it down or ever appease this guy because of this. If you're on good terms, I'd try the frank approach in private with him. Tell him you want to talk about her, and that you're not into her because you're seeing other people but "don't want to hurt her feelings", couldn't help but notice him and the fridge get along so well, so if he can make some kind of move and take…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:17 AM
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Tease her for it openly. Depending on context, you can even use stock teases like "oh congrats, when's the wedding? can my midget friend hold the ring" or "could it be true love?" As you deliver these, have a big cheshire cat grin on. If she gets flustered and is explaining that it "isn't like that lol", you just won the jelly game. Let her explain herself (she's essentially jumping through a hoop for your approval) then change the subject to something ridiculously unrelated.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:29 AM
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I went to the bathroom again and decided I’d get her number or maybe just her Facebook, but by the time I got back her classmate had whisked her away. The reality is that she was looking to run as soon as possible, in my opinion. Initially there may have been some interest and chemistry, but you make the mistake of overstaying one's welcome and blabbing too much on everything and anything (like a girl). By the end of such an experience any girl feels like you're "one of those guys that does NOT …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:33 AM
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You were a little direct about it and set off her slut-radar warning. She doesn't want you thinking she's easy or a slut, even though she wants to come over. So what you need is a message that takes that entire burden away from her shoulders in a pleasant way, something like this: Joker style: her: I can if you want... unsure you: Do it for our love. her: lol ass you: (stating exactly what time she should come over) Pure seduction style: her: I can if you want... unsure you: I want to feel you t…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:56 PM
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You won't be able to buy anything from her using your "relationship" chips at this early stage. They're useless until the girl herself wants it with you, and hints about it... and that will take some time, think 2-4 months of seeing her and fucking her good. So you can completely relax about that relationship thing, it isn't happening. Another thing to disregard is what she's saying to you, like "not looking for X" and "I'm looking for an XYZ guy". Ignore it all with a little knowing smirk. None…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:47 PM
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They write you off because you have this insecurity brewing in you about dropping out and "not knowing where you're heading", the narrative of disoriented helplessness. Bitches can smell it on you if you're insecure about anything significant in your life. In other words, they will want to commit to you more when you are secure about yourself. College is entirely unnecessary for accomplishing this. This isn't a money thing, it's an emotional thing and you control what emotions you allow your gir…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:27 PM
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You can write the original girl something like: "tell your jealous girlfriend to chill, if I didn't know any better I'd think she's flirting it up with me" how dare he say that? how DARE! And how does he know it was my girlfriend? - some hamster fuel or "tell your jelly girlfriend to take a chill pill, we all know this whole thing - with you and I - it's not gonna work out.." wait what? why is it not going to work out, how dare he say that! But what does he mean, it won't work out? Am I not good…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 10:15 AM
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As predicted, one of her friends is already hearing about what "an asshole" you are, and she pasted her all your funny messages. Obviously that's a girl writing you. Look at what she's threatening, "I will post you on FB and instagram", lol. Threats of social shaming, with zero threats of physical violence - it's a girl. My response would be: "Oh I didnt know she had a jealous girlfriend, is it really serious now with you guys?"
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:57 AM
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We have to ask... Is our children learning? Remember that 100% fuck-yes feelings that made you sign up for this bullshit, and how much you'll suffer for it now. That feeling was a traitor, in the end. It's not the particular woman that's wrong for you, since they're all like this, it's the particular 100%fuck-yes feeling that is wrong for you.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:33 AM
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Good flirty exchange. The girl's really trying hard to break your frame, but at the end there, she gave herself up to laughing. That was where you won the entire game. Now you're "that annoying, pitifiul, moronic bastard who only thinks about penis and vagina" in her mind. Which is simply perfect. She'll huff and puff, and tell herself she hates you, while falling more and more for you every second she's spending thinking about this. Never change a single thing about your cocky/funny attitude wi…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:18 AM
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If she's blushing like the beets, this is always good for you. You need to learn how to enjoy making girls squirm (in every which way). The more they're squirming, the more you're shamelessly smiling. The more she's flustered, the more at ease you can be. Blue pill philosophy is about trying to make women comfy, putting them on neutral. Once you throw this bullshit away, a world opens up for you to give zero fucks and enjoy all the charming damage you deal to women's comfort and well-being just …
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:01 AM
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It'll all be very simple as soon as you stop listening to what they're saying to you. It simply doesn't matter what she's saying. Is it true, false, semi-true? You don't care. Watch what she is doing, how she's acting. Preferably without confronting her about it when something doesn't add up - all this does is annoy her and give her opportunities to confuse you. My point is that you will be a lot more relaxed and in control if you realize that the trace you saw of her at some house is a data poi…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 12:24 AM
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Yes they feel it. When it comes to this stuff, women are typically 3-5 steps ahead of the man, at all times. This is why if you look on the relaitonships sub or similar, it's always men who've been "blindsided" by their GF leaving them. In reality, it was already a done deal weeks or months before he ever was told about it.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:08 AM
2

Probably is going to work out better for you in the end, than holding it all in would. If you have a good buddy to talk to, see if you can meet up just so he can hear you out. Thoughts and issues change their actual structure in your brain when you communicate them, can make them manageable or remove the anxiety altogether. In other words, bullshit that bothers you is much stronger when it is left unsaid, pushed down. Next best thing if there is no one to go to, is to write about it in a journal…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:08 AM
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Don't ignore it, but don't confront her on the lie either (seems a bold move, but is absolutely useless). Instead, keep your eyes open and be ready to downgrade her to casual plate or get rid of her if you see more evidence of misbehavior.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:02 AM
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Women instinctively understand and love this game. If you manage to dump her first, often they'll do anyyyything to get back with you - just to dump you herself in a dramatic fashion shortly. Just laugh about it man. Laugh at your own squirming, that's your inner bitch not liking what just happened. Nothing wrong with it, it's just funny to think about.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:59 AM
6

Here's distilled wisdom of the ages for you: never hold on to a woman no matter how much you like her, always allow the woman to glom on for dear life onto to you instead. Similar: never chase after a bitch when she walks on you. She got into a huff and stormed off to the bathroom? Never chase after her, even if you're in the wrong. Kitty will be back herself when she wants to. Similar again: you are the prize Because you already understand TRP, these simple principles will make a lot more sense…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:47 AM
3

"you missed the train, toots"
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:37 AM
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Introspection: being able to "see herself fucking things up" after the fact and laugh with you about it, when you call her out on her shit Kindness: she responds kindly to people because it's her nature, in situations where she really doesn't have to and it doesn't help her to look good in anyone's eyes Loves dad: if her daddy is her hero (not doormat), it will be effortless for her to glom herself onto a RP man that provides her a lot of fulfilling emotion using much the same daddy-princess mec…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:29 AM
1

I think your reply is fine too. Don't say anything, wait for her response however long it takes.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 07:32 PM
2

Don't panic and flush her, see how she's flirting? Trying to "accuse" you of always having bad timing, this is supposed to let you know (with the subtext) that she really wants to see you and is annoyed that she can't. It's a pretty good sign. "lol, so when are you free in the evening in the next week or so?" Let her give you some days that work for her, work with that. Say you look forward to it and call her birthdaygirl. Until the day of your meeting comes, avoid texting with her overmuch, onl…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:59 AM
2

I invite you to read everything on game by Heartiste as soon as you can, especially old posts. Think about what you read and test stuff out for yourself. Not only will you pick up what you need, he has a particular "zeo fucks given" style that meshes well with yours. Yours seems overly nice and on the timid side at the moment, from the notes. Start with the Sixteen Commandments of Poon and keep exploring.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:44 AM
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This guy didn't give a shit about what she wanted. He likely has zero love for her, just likes to tap that ass. Knows he is the prize. Hawt Your roomie would worship the ground she walks on and get her lobster dinners every week if he could, all he wants is a chance to love her, but she won't have any of that. She is the prize. Eww, creepy You can make your conclusion yourself.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:32 AM
2

When she says she doesn't like them, say "Think I've never seen tits like that before? I don't care. All of you is so fucking sexy to me." If you succeed in overpowering this insecurity of hers in a warm masculine way, it will probably make her more attached and attracted to you. Sometimes its too ingrained to be worth the effort though.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:16 PM
5

She mixed up which loser/cripple she was supposed to be with that night so that you wouldn't worry. Mistakes happen, she's human.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:59 PM
13

It won't be a bad thing if you don't neglect Game - acquired, consciously deployed charisma that you can turn on and off at your whim. With a little more experience you will stop worrying about what people may think "at your age". Tell them all you're just looking for that one special lady who really gets you, especially the curious women. Never talk about anything MGTOW or monk-related to women. Paradoxically, the more you quietly increase your solitary happiness, the more worthwhile women will…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:49 PM
3

You know why you're an incel? Because at some point you committed to the process of being an incel. You never set any goal to be one, but you followed the steps necessary to be an incel: read the right forums, think the right self-victimizing thoughts, do the right incel things in your spare time. Just the same, don't now start to think in terms of transforming yourself toward a more Chadly goal. Won't work. Even dreaming up something modestly chadly will not do. If you do so, you'll be the same…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:22 PM
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Send her the date and time when she should come over and what to wear for you. Have an actual present, I suggest one of those stupid little teddybears that are less than the size of her hand and that you can buy for next to no money. Something dumb and tiny, so she knows yes, you thought about her, but not too much and not for that long. Ha.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:54 PM
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Women Are Food Think back about the interest the girls been showing to you and pretend for a moment you're an alien with no actual genitals, so your actions in response to the girls really do not matter. You're putting in the work and they're predictably starting to want you more, because you tick all the right boxes that they may not know they even have themselves. You just do it for them, they wish you would pay attention. Thing to realize is, they need you. You don't need them (you just want …
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:38 PM
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"i forgive you" I know that it does not make sense. That is the point. Make her think you were careless and misread that she forgot yours, or something. It will be funny and cancel out her attempt to get you to suck up to her.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:08 PM
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In my experience it's totally pointless too, yeah. Never goes anywhere, they are only looking to be validated by an interested response from you. I don't mind validating especially if she was a good girl, but I still want to play. If at least you made the girl fidget on the other end and broke her validaiton script a little, it's worth the effort IMHO.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:02 AM
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All of them. All of them do this. The delay was ok (should've waited 24h), but the content of your response was too eager and watery. Better response examples: "peachy, u?" "busy, u?" "hey stranger" "who's this" "ok, u?" The big uniting idea is that it's a short low effort sentence. Definitely not two sentences and definitely not too polite. Not that you lost out on anything by responding "wrongly", it's just one of those games they like to play and is more enjoyable if you play right.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:53 AM
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You don't need comfort. You need excitement and tension. Cutting the BS and moving to phone will have her excited. It's your voice in her ear, a romantic story is actually happening to her, squee.. She prolly won't be able to stop herself from playing along with you after a "ruthless" response like that, it's basically "emojis mean nothing, phone or GTFO" yet you're still charming. Use the phone convo to tell her she sounds cuter than you thought and invite her to do something together on a spec…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:13 AM
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Let yourself enjoy it instead. When they're nervous like that, that's only a tiny step away from vagina tingles. Literally there might be a moment when you will say or do something ordinary that you didn't think twice about, and she'll freak out as the nerves flip into pure lust for her. That nervousness they feel next to high value men is highly enjoyable for women.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:01 AM
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It's because you ignored the princess for a bit, it messes with their ego. Now she's playing a harmless girl game with you. Betas worldwide would take this opportunity to say "no no no" and console her, tell her how special she is. If you do that, she will know you ain't shit, AND her ego gets a boost. Do this instead: "time to send me your sad phone number"
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:56 AM
2

Consider reading and memorizing this: "The Man In The Glass"
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 06:46 AM
2

Don't be open about it like that, to a girl it's like you being open about her sluttiness. Makes her nervous about possible social shaming and want to turn you down just because. Veil it in something cheeky. "come over later for our secret thing" She asks what that is, you reply with stuff like "you'll see" and "it's secret".
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:24 AM
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The better you get at the game, the more you will be able to get away with direct and brutal sexual talk. It comes along with developing a "give zero fucks" attitude and knowing your value as the prize they're all after. This is exciting and women love it. But at the same time, it only works when you've set it up for yourself correctly first. Otherwise women will shut you down so fast, you'll be dizzy. Stuff like "get the fuck away from me asshole" with no sexual excitement at all, and no real w…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:12 AM
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Man, that's tragic. Girl was really hurt by it, and sounds like she was loving her time with you till you ghetto-bombed all her optimism. This type of thing happens to me as well now and then, women being unable to follow the joke and mistaking humourous spices for horrible poison I'm trying to get them to imbibe. What I learned to do is to never shirk from it, do not allow her to just sweep it under the carpet like it didn't happen. Let her try to change the subject, but then stare at her with …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:07 AM
3

Good case study here for you, red_philosopher. Your post didn't contain anything to trigger this much feminine-sounding social shaming, so where's it coming from? As TRP grows more and more, the mod team and EC have been having to swat away those shamin' "Felicias" from our original posters in nearly every thread. Hope you're having a giggle.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 10:36 PM
22

Think about yourself in this minefield, without any RP knowledge. Ffffuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 10:30 PM
6

Droll Judeo-Petersonian trash. All up in the feminine-primary Matrix, LARPing about how we're the "real men" since we're so moral and doing the noble, the difficult, the right thing. Refusing to cheat m'lady out of her "incredible intuitive feminine". Our Red Pill is about stepping outside this Matrix. And it does look like cheating, from the inside. It looks like unearned and inexplicable superpowers with women. It is playful, and fun, which is why we call it Game, while you think it ought to b…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:25 AM
3

I want to be her guardian angel and bullshit She is creating this. Girl-gaming you successfully. Some girls do it out of instinct, some on purpose, and it's not a good thing either way even though it does feel good. Be on your guard man, this is a classic early sign of crazy. Another one is if she never cries when truly bad things happen to her or her family, and you just see this empty look on her face. Take a look at all the horror stories we have from men who were seeing BPD girls, to get an …
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:03 PM
2

Hurts real bad. Mainly because the blue pill mind automatically thinks these people have abandoned you, you're their victim, you need to punish them, etc etc. None of this is true. When bitches do this, it's rarely anything to do with you or your inherent worth as a man. It's hitting you hard because you assume that it was. It's simply a bitch whim that she will act out, I don't care how many years you've been together or what a beautiful doting love you had for one another prior. The cunt rules…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:37 PM
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What if, due to the inherent mathematical structure of the world itself, there was an out. A built-in exit pathway leading out of the matrix, a way to never die? The body withers and is consumed by maggots, but through a special type of awareness, you never die with it. You choose to remember yourself across lives and pick new bodies for yourself deliberately. Expanding holographically toward a certain goal that is completely incomprehensible to an individual human mind, because time is irreleva…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 07:39 PM
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I do. I look at it as "Main Plate" + whatever random stragglers I can get to temporarily latch onto me. Of course, I get shit from "Main Plate" all the time about this arrangement and it's a fine line you walk. You need to be soft enough to prevent her from spiralling off into self-pity ("oh I guess I'm not good enough for him if it's been 2 yrs and he's like that...") and yet hard enough that she knows her place. Helps a lot if you can make her even a little bit proud of being "Main Girl", it's…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:51 PM
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You're always trying. Trying to take the red pill, trying to increase SMV, trying nofap etc. Trying means, you give yourself the easy option to fail out of it at any time, without repercussions. Like a woman. That's just one of the myriad ways the blue pill is fucking with your character as a man. About the weight, it's not very intuitive, but you need to accept it. It will hold you back only as long as the women sense that you're ashamed of it (or of anything else, they have radar for male inse…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:58 AM
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Yup. Everything went very well. The key is how you did it immediately, without thinking. He tried to stick up for himself, you curb his enthusiam with a few words. It's instant tingles, especially if she already likes you. I wouldn't mind paying the homeless to do this for me on purpose, in fact. Watch out for similar-looking situations where women try to use you as an unpaid rent-a-knight, for example if she came to you an hour later and pointed out the homeless guy who slapped her ass earlier …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:57 AM
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It might be bad, but surely it isn't as bad as pedestalizing women. Having a woman on a pedestal above you is a miserable way for a man to be. Worst part is not knowing why you're so miserable, thinking it's your fault or that you should kiss her ass even more to earn a chance at happiness.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:00 AM
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If you know this girl, I would just say "nice". Wait for her to write you something excitable about how that's way less than she was expecting and not enough for her. At this point, go back to your normal teasing and cocky/funny with her, kinda like you always get nudies from everyone and you already forgot.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 12:56 AM
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If someone asked me for a valid reason to ghost a blood relative from my life, it would take some imagination for me to come up with something. Not any more after reading this post. I've been around and read some shit, but this really hits hard. Consider leaving it, newbies need to read & learn.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 12:39 AM
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Think about the intense interest women have in makeup, and how willing they are to chat to each other about all the fine details of that. You surely like seeing them all dolled up, but do you wanna talk about using P6 base applier with the invigorate(tm) brush or some shit like that for 30 minutes? No thanks, we don't wanna know. We just like to see it manifest too, as though by magic, as though she was born like that.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:44 PM
2

It's only confusing on the surface. Directly seeing a man in action, being violent in any context, is "hot". Stories about your training or passion for it are the opposite, women can't appreciate the hard work you put into gaining power or the details of what makes it possible. They just want the power itself to manifest in a sexy way for them, and the less they know about how hard you worked to get where you are, the better.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:35 PM
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Hah, that was cracking me up all the way man. When she said she wouldn't forget about your money, she meant she already forgot about it and it really hurt her feelings and fine sentiment when you reminded her. Bitches! You will be just fine. Right now she's trying to "play your violin" on you, by tugging at your feelings and making you second guess yourself, like you've done something wrong. This helps women a lot, if you fall for it, because it adds to the feeling that you'll never get another …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:24 PM
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Surprisingly, it's complete indifference. About as interesting to a woman as minature railroads or stamp collecting. Keep stories about your training to yourself and male buddies. Wrecking a punching bag when women are around to see you is completely different though, watching anything where you're in violent action gives them the tingles. When they roll up and drop coy questions about what you train in, deliberately downplay it to "nothin worth mentioning", to basically claim you're naturally i…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:02 PM
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That was a well thought-through list of flags. Thanks man. At this point you might find yourself feeling a little hyper to discover everything that went wrong, to learn every lesson there is to learn from this, to know every red flag by heart. After all it was a long damn time that you thought you could trust a bitch, but apparently you were wrong. I think the reality is more like, you weren't wrong to somewhat trust in her at the time, but women are gonna women and it's never a permanent or unc…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 10:22 PM
1

It's normal because she's the HB10. Gets dick thrown her way every single day, and that has been the case since she was age 12 and sprouted some tits. You need to steel yourself and keep looking at her strictly in that "no fucks given" light, strictly as a plaything that comes and goes however she pleases. She will for sure be testing you on this by setting up some situation where she flits off and jumps in some other dude's lap, right in front of your face. You can't let it fluster you even for…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:04 PM
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I think it's because the "social dominance" is the main currency among women when dealing with other women. It's how they joust for posiiton in their own female pecking order, so they understand very well when some passive aggressive or false modesty thing plays out well for you.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 06:42 PM
2

When the other guy hits with his subtle amog in the middle of the banter, there should be only smiling emptiness where he thinks he's hitting you. Let's say he says "yeah, resnine is a major player around these parts" and tries to wink to the girl. It would be a mistake to say "no I'm not! I'm not like that!", you instead need something funny or charming, and easygoing, like his amog never even connected to where he thought you were. Don't allow hostility to rise up, it should be reserved only f…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:57 PM
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The girls might not be consciously testing you on that (too dumb and self centered to plot something scientific like that). But Mother Nature surely is testing your competency in those situations, using the girl. Feats of social dominance are a big turn on for all women in your surroundings, sometimes it even hits the girls watching from the sideline more than the one you're trying to work on. They are more attuned to it than us, often the men you get your "social upper hand" over fail to notice…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:03 PM
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The girls might not be consciously testing you on that (too dumb and self centered to plot something scientific like that). But Mother Nature surely is testing your competency in those situations, using the girl. Feats of social dominance are a big turn on for all women in your surroundings, sometimes it even hits the girls watching from the sideline more than the one you're trying to work on. They ware way more attuned to it than us, often the men you get your "social upper hand" over fail to n…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:02 PM
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It's not a play if they seem to signal some interest toward you, it's an open invitation. Feel free to go for it. Be ready for some extra shit testing if any of these girls actually remember your "beta self", but that's nothing you can't handle with ease since you know exactly what you're doing (and what she's doing) after TRP. You might want to avoid the ones who were your big obsessions and oneitises at the time, though. Not that they're anything special, you can still game them the same but t…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:02 AM
1

You can force her to act right when with you, and she will put on the act like makeup. But she's still going to be a selfish cunt inside. If you want to keep on seeing her, don't have any high expectations for this girl - she doesn't have what it takes, she can only pretend she does if forced to by circumstances. You did fine by reprimanding her a little, and she got the hint. It will all repeat though, and will only get worse. Getting some new girls on the side besides her is the best thing you…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:52 AM
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Yes bro, but you're not going to like this advice much. Go on a diet. It's called the "Zero That-Bitch Intake" diet. You block her on all facebooks and emails, phones and pads, everywhere. You strictly hold yourself to zero "that bitch" in your life going forward. Never check up on her in any way to follow what she's doing, never ask mutual friends anything about her. If she contacts you, you delete her texts without reading them, and don't bother answering. Not out of bitterness or to "show her…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:03 PM
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For what it's worth, consider unloading your doubts here on AskTRP and think about what parts of this fiasco make the least sense to you. You won't need the advice you get back, because the act of unloading it all by itself is pretty helpful even on its own. If however you want me to read it and maybe comment on some things, feel free to PM me a link. Biggest mistake we're all often making in the beginning is, we're not taking proper care of ourselves post partum. She is dead. I know she isn't, …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:39 PM
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A new poster (at least to me) recently explained it better than I could. He calls it the unruly slave situation. He points out how you cannot demand respect from bitches as a beta or recovering beta (won't work), you can only command it as an alpha they recognize as such. When bitches see a former push-over beta male demanding respect due, they don't care if it's justified or not, they see that as an uprising against their power over the males, and you as an unruly slave. That's how you're an as…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:21 PM
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Think of it like a pendulum in space. The blue pilled neutral position is all wrong, it sits off base in the "weak" area. So TRP encourages you to tip the scales to right this problem, and swing the pendulum in the asshole direction. Now you're in the asshole territorial waters, probably a bit too far in. It's normal, now you experiment with finding a new balance, dial the hardassery down by small increments and look for more charming ways to deal with problems, especially when women are involve…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:08 PM
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"if you hurt her I will hurt you" i smirked and said "k" and ignored him. White knight/beta orbiter. Next time drop something that will shrivel his balls, like "oh is that your boyyyyyfriend or your brother?" Why did she kinda blow me off, when shes obviously into me. Most likely from the group pressure and unusual situation around her. She wasn't comfy, but you were sexy. So after giggling about it with her sis, it was decided by them that her highness princess HB9 wants your pleasantly underst…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:54 PM
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It's really strong, don't try to think about it you will break your mind.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:47 PM
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Instant sidebar material in my opinion. Once you start reading, you find yourself sponging up the distilled red pill with every sentence, till the last word of this brilliant piece hits like a gong. OP clearly draws on insight from Patrice, JBP, TRP itself, and yet manages to bring all of it together in a systematic and original way, presenting his own, valid understanding of the problem. My main question was "who is this, and why haven't I been reading posts from him before" even if at certain …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:45 PM
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Yet if musician guy for some reason got weak, and lovebombed her phone professing eternal love and asking her hand in marriage, she would of course gladly accept at first but very soon I forsee our cute alpha widow would be magically cured of her affliction & out she goes looking for "the real deal" again. None of that weak shit that comes crawling to her on its knees. Often women claim to have a broken heart, when all she really has is a sprained ego. Something to think about...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 05:46 AM
3

Red Pill: each individual human being is like a cell living in a larger yet organism that is fundamentally unknowable to a lowly cell, yet holds it all together with immutable law that is knowable. Self isolation and lack of proper communication with surrounding cells is the road to eventual societal necrosis on the whole. Cells that are not doing their job are eventually destroyed and recycled by the super-organism. You feel this way about things because the enemy of the super-organism wanted y…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:16 AM
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Something kinda similar happened to me after I took the red pill few years back. I was not calibrated correctly yet, and it gave me the moodswings where I'd become an asshole and openly ignore girls, neg heavily and for no reason, and so on. I unleashed this on the oneitis at the time and on everyone else. Turns out that was all fine, was just me learning the ropes. I shouldn't have wasted any time feeling bad about doing this. Some girls were more into me because of the ridiculous moodswings. P…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:09 AM
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I appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:18 AM
3

Moving out is high priority. You'll thank everyone that told you this later. The sooner you're out of there, the better, even if they were fully supportive of you. Once you have your own base, you won't feel like she's always in your face and there probably won't be any need to cut her out. You just accept that your parents live in their own adorable bubble, you might even start helping to protect their make-believe life against the incursions of the real world into it. As soon as it stops forci…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:59 AM
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It's possible yeah, and feels sweet. You will be "unlike any other guy" to her and she won't really know why she feels that way. This still isn't foolproof hypergamy insurance because women are gonna women regardless of what you do.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 12:42 AM
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Here's the magic words that makes anything a woman did OK: "But that didn't count because it wasn't even like that"
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:37 AM
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Still treat her as your bratty little sister. Even though she's older than you. She may call you stuff like "kiddo", to shit test you. Or try to talk down to you. Do not react to it defensively, smile in her face if she does it. While you're smiling, look at her lips on purpose and imagine your cock rammed down that cute mouth. If she blushed, you won. That's because displaying a defensive reaction (like you would if a man said it) would be taking her seriously; and that's the last thing you wan…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:29 AM
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Might want to google her pic first bro. Abort mission.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 12:09 AM
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It is very important to understand "Eve's Con Game" as she calls it. The con exists because Nature demands it. You can do two things with it: It's an antidote to feminism It's something you can deliberately cultivate in your girls that you're seeing more long term. Cultivate their con-womanship. They respond very positively after the initial surprise when she'll think to herself - "how the hell do you know this, you're a guy you're not supposed to!". Once she realizes that you know the con, but …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 12:03 AM
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That's a superb find. Thank you for posting!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 11:50 PM
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1 - Keep it informal and invite girls to do fun shit together, but keep them in the dark is it "like that" or "not like that". Don't hand them formal dates out of the blue with the full gentleman experience, a girl needs to earn that first. If you fuck something up, your age should help you get through it with little to no damage since you aren't expected to be Mr.SuperResponsible at 16 by anyone. Gives you room to experiment, would be a shame to let prudence prevent you from having a good time.…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:27 AM
1

There are some very disloyal men for sure. In general though, they are selected against in various ways, and fail to thrive. But women are disloyal to men on average, meaning that they're disloyal in great big numbers, their disloyalty is a feature of the landscape all must contend with - not a random localized fault that may be discovered, marked with a flag, and hence avoided. It can't be avoided, hypergamy does not care what individual men want. It is part of Nature, hypergamy pushes forward …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:50 AM
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When Chad Thundercock negs a random woman, it's easy for blue pill observers to conclude that he's insulting her and he is obviously an asshole, but somehow she loves it? How is that possible, shouldn't you respect women and treat them better to be well-liked by them? What a contradiction, right? You have no idea. That isn't it even 1/10th of it, because the blue pill completely prevents you from seeing what is going on properly. For example, you will never see that Chad's "insults" were actuall…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:44 PM
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Here's the paradox of modern women. They will talk till the cows come home about how they want true love from a man, and it's true, they do - because it's like a certificate of a man's ultimate submission to them. It's good for the girl ego. But at the same time, they all have a ruthless underlying instinct for smelling out weakness in men. This all-consuming love they think they want so much smells extremely weak and puts the woman off (she often won't know why). There's nothing fixable about t…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:03 PM
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I think you can get a pretty good eye for it by arming yourself with some patience and then looking through a lot of before/after pics. Those half faced makeup youtube videos too maybe. It's truly fucking shocking how much a few lines and extra shading messes with us, but you'll get the feel for it and perhaps be able to adjust expectations.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:53 PM
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It's good for men. The more ambient intimidation the better. It's normal for her friends to talk shit about you. Sometimes it's subtle, sometimes not so much. But they (correctly) see you as competition, and so that's the reaction you get. They are not giving you a fair assessment and never will give you one. The amount of shit-talking is inversely proportional to how invested the girl is in you. The more she's invested, the less she will permit her friends to talk shit about you in her earshot,…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:45 PM
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Seems like you're getting in your own way there. An example of over-investing from a TRP point of view would be you texting this girl that you want to go exclusive, because she's the love of your life. It's guaranteed not to work, so if you ever want to get rid of this girl for good, that's what you might want to do - plus laugh your ass off in the process. You inviting her for some fun times again is just fine. Especially if you fuck her again, it's perfect. Keep in mind women are women, they w…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:28 PM
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Sounds good. Keep reminding yourself, the harder a guy holds on to a woman, the more she'll just slip away from that grasp. They feel that stuff in their gut, smelling out the desperation. It's like a fish you caught, you hold it but not too tight, otherwise it's the nature of the fish to slip out of even the tightest grip. Your hand needs to be sure of itself but not tight or desperate/scared. Got to always be confident that you could catch more fish, your life does not depend on this one you'r…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:13 PM
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Ideally you would tease her back every time that happens. "Ohh congratulations baby, when's the wedding, can I hold the rings for you two?", or "oh my god gym guy strikes again? I'm starting to think it's true love, why are you so mean to him all the time huh?". You want to put HER into the defensive crouch whenever she does this, but do it in an enjoyable cheeky way and not mean. Let her enjoy the blushing and the scrambling to explain to you how you're her one and only and shit. (yeah, right) …
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:51 PM
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Pretty much. While useful as a concept to explain how radical you got to be to cut out blue pill influences, monk mode is a silly reddit idea that won't help you much and will hurt you if you get stuck in it for too long. Which is easy to do, since every old blue pill inclination will drag you in that "don't show your face until you're fully ready" direction. This is millenial escapism by postponement, their blue pill philosophy of living. It's not red pill to try and save yourself from grief or…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:04 PM
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Yes. You're a man, it's your birthright and sacred duty to hit on sexy ladies in your vicinity. It's irrelevant if you don't succeed, sometimes they just shoot everybody down. That's just women. There's no problem with not having much success, in fact it'll shape you up quickly. The big mistake is to stop playing the bigger game "while you wait" out of cowardice and want for more safety, do not accept anything that requires you to let go of your birthright as a man. It's a variation on progressi…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:05 AM
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Oh that's beside the point, women flake even when they want to fuck you. Happens all the time, not worth breaking your brain over. As soon as you just relax and enjoy yourself on the beach, so will she. If you start getting those weird "I hope you don't think I'm easy" vibes from her, don't try to reassure her - play along instead. Say something like: "and here I was thinking a girl genuinely liked me for me, for once... well shit, won't be the first time I got my heart broken for trusting the f…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:45 AM
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It was always meaningless. You're unplugging from the blue pill Matrix. First the shallow layers of blue paint go. Then the blue drywall, the insulation, etc. etc. Layer after layer, you unplug deeper and deeper parts of yourself. That incredible rush from "conquering" pussy was rooted in one of the blue pill layers that you already managed to move past. It's gone, you trashed it yourself by taking the red pill earlier. That sense of loss and vague upset will be your constant companion until you…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:30 PM
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The situation is that she was showing you a little interest, but you brushed her off (legit reasons don't matter to her) so she got scared of rejection and started pretending like she didn't care to begin with. Your later offer to hang out on the beach was welcomed. In other words, you're in pretty good shape and there's nothing to worry about. Besides being ready for possible flakey behaviour last moment from her. She might do that just to prove to herself how she is in control, and to be able …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:10 PM
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They're still girls though. Being a foreigner with a sexy british accent will help. Try to balance your game so that it's almost like you're doing the girl a favour by choosing and fucking her, and she isn't doing you any favours because you have a lot to choose from regardless of what she does/says. Even if it's mostly illusion, this helps them get over their thoughtprocess that they can "sell you" the pussy in exchange for exorbitant commitment demands & ultimately visions of how that pussy is…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:55 PM
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You already understand about the push/pull. To some degree the amount of each depends on your personality. It's not like you can change that ratio at will in a snap, so that she'll be happy now. The bigger issue (to me) is that you got stuck with a chronic nagger. That's going to be a huge drag and wear you down, no matter what you do. My advice is to not change anything about how you are with her, and tease her for being a sourpuss when she gets like this. This will make you even more alpha in …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:37 PM
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All of the RP principles should be adopted. Adopted, not adapted. It's important to understand what a relationshit is. It's a pact where a man trades in all his sexual options on the side, effectively all his sexual bargaining chips, for a woman's promise that she'll be exclusively his and take care of all his needs. Sound about right so far? Here's the problem, women's promises are worthless and utterly unenforceable in our present culture/society. It doesn't matter if she's a good egg, a good …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:15 PM
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Adorable. You need to know why girls do this, to be able to pass with flying colors everytime. The reason they do this, is because they're so dumb they couldn't figure out any better way of flirting with you at the moment. Blowing smoke in your face, bumping into you, calling you a fag in front of your friends, it's all one adorably dumb flirt. So when stuff like this happens, put on a big smile - you're dealing with a brat who wants Daddy to set her straight. So, so bad. She's needing for it, a…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:37 PM
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This red flag by itself would be a big deal to me, and I would quietly weigh the situation without letting her know. Here's how I look at it: there's a pretty good chance she's a mess. She would have to be an exceptional human being to surmount this, and the odds of that are naturally very low for a woman. However, if indeed she is exceptional, then I want to know about that, maybe that is part of the value she brings to the table. Her unbendable personality defeats all the odds against her, and…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:20 PM
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Help stop the epidemic
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:54 PM
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Unfortunately yes bro. This is something you will need to work on, because it's a common side effect of blue pill indoctrination you got while growing up. The blue pill constant smiling is intended to render you more non-threatening, goofy and adorable, so that no woman ever feels unsafe around you. The problem is, their sexual excitement circuit is so wired, that everything only turns on for her when she definitely feels unsafe around you (somewhat), but obviously not in immediate mortal danger…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:45 PM
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You have to slow your roll, at the moment you're in the same desperate boat as a guy who wants to make "this one girl" his longterm girlfriend/wife. The problem is, they just met yesterday... This is the source of the needy, when you're needing her to be your girlfriend, or in your case you replaced it with "plate". Problem is, attaching RP language to it doesn't make your attitude RP. The RP change in attitude is what will help you most of all. Read the sidebar with more attention, it's full of…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:35 PM
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Going to need some rest days in there, champ. Schedule the lazy. In some more demanding forms of intellectual activity, you might even need rest weeks or rest months. You're not wasting time by resting. Think of it as swinging with the tides. What use to swim against the current, use up finite will-power energy, and get approximately nowhere? When you can actively swim in the opposite direction (toward effective relaxation), have the tide push you nicely along and gather enough energy for a mass…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:17 PM
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It's mainly the desperate eagerness to please that puts everyone off. That compulsive feeling you get when you're in a boring roomful of people that urges you to do something funny is the enemy of your SMV, more than the clowning itself. That feeling was fed and nurtured in you by long-time blue pill indoctrination, so you feel like that's "your personality" now. Clowning or peacocking is fine, the problem starts when clowns accidentally become dependent on it, desperate for all those laughs and…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:05 PM
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Universal Law of Women: Beautiful, Smart, Sane - pick any two. Beautiful and Sane, but then she's not going to be very smart. Smart and Beautiful, but then she is on haloperidol "a few months each year". Sane and Smart, but then she's not going to turn any heads with a face like that...
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 10:38 PM
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You're onto something sidebar-worthy there. Women have many "rules" about what they think they want and what they think they want from a guy. But the most important rule to know is not on the rule list: she is always looking to make an exception for an exceptional man. Seduction is all about not playing by the woman's default rules. Doesn't mean you win everytime, but just by sidestepping the expectation to play along by their rules you are automatically exceptional.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 08:38 PM
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Socialization for most people is an unconscious activity. They feed on attention from others, without noticing what is going on. Without recognizing the itch that they're compulsively scratching with it. You can turn your autistic misalignment into a distinct advantage socially by being full on conscious about these things. Cultivate it on purpose, by building yourself up as a feeder for other people. Take nothing from them for yourself, since you don't need it nearly as much as they do. Feed yo…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 05:41 PM
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Those thoughts about how she's none of your concern (at least now that you saw her true nature) have a flipside, where they become their opposite and instead of apathy you feel a terrible pain related to the injustice of what was done to you. If you only put focus on the apathy and try to ignore the tear-jerking injustice feels, the ignored side kinda nourishes the anger problem, making it dissipate slower. Here's something that helps. Deliberately face the injustice feelings. Sit where nobody w…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:59 PM
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I think it is important to have that heartbreak rearing its ugly face regularly in life. Can't have the really juicy heartbreak without longer term love-investment. You can take the hits of betrayal, leave them and still love them the same, it's only women. Each time you have a real chance to inch a little closer toward more perfected love, detached from specific objects or people... It's all about learning how to never put her on a pedestal, never let her become an idol. The exact opposite of w…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 11:37 PM
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Does a wealthy man sweat small expenses like an extra car or a new computer? Probably not. You're in that position now for a short time, you're rich in jizz. It's definitely a good idea to not splurge on everything you see even though you're rich, if only for the self-discipline. But if you find you have to have that goddamn car, then just get it and wreck it, never go sourgrapes on yourself for "failing the strict regimen of my NoFap brothers" or some shit like that. Remember you're still rich …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:06 AM
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If you peddle potential meetups to them about once a week, letting the girl take the initiative the rest of the time if she wants (usually they won't do shit, but will appreciate the "space" and respect you more since you weren't on fire to see her again), you will never appear needy. That's how you can be persistent, deal with flakes, yet never needy or butthurt from their soft-glove rejections.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:59 AM
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says she saw something that reminded her of me and was wondering what I was up to. Ha ha. Was it a cloud? Were you in a movie she saw, she could've sworn it was you? That's women, fucking same playbook every single time, predictable like the sun rising. Methinks 3 days is plenty of time to sit on it. Respond with your typical cocky/funny tone, and see what happens. Avoid being too happy to hear from her, but also don't be cold either - you act like you remember the good times and forgot all the …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:49 AM
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Usually it's less about ignoring, more about postponing the response, phrasing it a little on the careless/lazy or cocky/funny side. So she doesn't get to enjoy that insta-gratificaiton of being at the centre of your entire world because (she thinks) she's hot shit. It goes to girls' heads way too much if you allow it. Things change when you get the big picture, that this flashing message from her is not a genuine message, it's a move in a bigger game you and her are both playing and both enjoyi…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:39 AM
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Congrats on progress made. I got some advice on what you can do to increase meaning, friendship, and generally feel better (less of that "hole in my soul, it hurts man"). Without selling out or turning Red principles purple. What you need to do is find and cultivate you natural sweetness. It will be initially a very innocent and stupid thing, something you probably safely left behind at about age 7 or 11 years old. Its in there but undeveloped and forgotten since those days. This stupid, seeming…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:20 AM
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You're very welcome man. Amazing transformation pics, keep up the good work. That theory about supplements might be well and true, but whatever else is in those pills will also be exaggerated, and if something about the supplement is not 100% trustworthy that might've been OK during normal use, but during the ramp out it would be poised to do you some damage. The bottom line is that you'd do best to avoid anything artificial during that short time. Even innocent seeming shit like toothpaste, ins…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:21 AM
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The same as you bro. What they call "intermittent" fasting has been the natural norm for me for a long time, happened by itself. Beyond that I would add a 24h fast weekly on Friday, just for general health and that feeling of inner celebration. I go to 3 or 4 days maybe every 6 months, or whenever life isn't going too well and I want to push the reset button on everything. With these 3-4 days water fasts (plus 3 ramp in, 3 ramp out) I'm still splashing in the safe, baby part of the pool and that…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:37 AM
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Of course you can. You'll do it easy, and laugh after. It is not a big deal. It seems so bad only because all of the discomfort associated with fasting is present no matter what, between when you begin it and when you end; but it's up to you whether you want that discomfort all in one go within 24h or you buffer it over 48h. A 24 hour fast is not much easier than a 3 day one. The same thing becomes stretched out more and the more days you're fasting the less the hunger bothers you in reality day…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:56 AM
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I kept listening without talking so she said: "You didn't say anything, you must think the worst of me" I jokingly agreed. Beautiful! When the hamster is spinning in the right direction, the best thing you can do is let it spin. We stopped under my buildingand I invited her up for another drink but she said she already made plans to meet at her friends house. That sounds like "I dunno what you're thinking suggesting that to a girl, but I'm not a slut" to me. She was probably eyeing you very expe…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:05 PM
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That's the right idea man. But the shorter and more goofy/careless you make it sound the better. Don't write her a book, it should be very low-effort and kinda taking the piss, not serious. Say you want to watch the starwars with her. Instead of saying what you suggested, I'd go with "... so, I got the SW. Hear it's shit. Wanna come over and watch together so it isn't as shit?" When she replies with her "haha maybe", you can be like "I may need my hand held during the difficult parts". That tell…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:44 PM
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I find "the one" every time I'm at the grocery and a hottie walks by. You just got to stop calling it "the one", call it what it is, you wanna dick that shit. Nothing wrong with that, if you accept that it's a reflex, a joyous celebration of being a man in this world. You don't have to give up your whole life and sign the dotted line for it esp. at such a ripe young age, no pussy's worth that much. You don't have to give that much of yourself for it, chill. You see the hottie cutie bun-bun and w…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:34 PM
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On december last year I tried to set up a date with her only and she said she couldnt That was like clockwork, very predictable. 100% of girls would answer the same exact way in the same situation. It's funny if you learn your lesson, so you never do this again. always says "oh invite me and i'll join you ;)" but then doesnt do anything Girls never do anything. That's what being a girl is all about. Your job is to make it all accidentally "just happen" for the two of you. So you don't want to th…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:20 PM
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It's a bunch of feminazi brainwashing setting off danger pings in your mind. Enjoy yourself and make sure you don't telegraph any of this "anxiety" to the girl, she will be insta-grossed out and you don't win ANY points for being "considerate" here.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:09 PM
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It takes some time, but down the road you will see clear as day how this isn't about the ugliness of the world itself, it's about the loss of something beautiful you used to mistakenly believe in. A bit like childhood ending, it's a sad thing if you saw yourself as a child and now that's forcibly gone. At least with childhood, most of us can't wait to be adults already, we look forward to it. Nobody looks forward to finding out how girls instinctively mess with your mind and how pathetic we're a…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:56 PM
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That was a great post. Makes anyone reading it a lil nostalgic for the oldschool TRP, when the sub was smaller this was the exact tone of it 90% of the time, having a laugh together and driving the point home hard. Now that TRP is more upscale and even CNN is scared of it, the tone tends to shift toward serious asperger-burger analyzation of every little thing, which's incompatible with organic life. Here's to more Clint Eastwood x Gomer Pyle all the way.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 01:32 AM
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Here's something you might want to change right away, because it's easy & the payoff profound: permanently quit using the terms "we" and "us" in your speech and thought. Just replace every occurence of that in your thinking with "I". You aren't a part of any "we" or "us" from now on. When you say "we" it should mean a very specific set of individuals, for example you and I. Never a collective, broad-brush "we". "Our "problems" on this Earth are almost universally created by us." becomes "My prob…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:15 PM
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Can they fall in love with beta bucks or clueless guys or generally dumb-ish guys? Yes, and it happens all the time. Love's blind. It's good that you're skeptical. It makes you sexier to her if you are. Just make a small exciting adjustment, be a cheeky, arrogant skeptic about love, instead of the worried skeptic or constipated rationalist. Make the girl feel like you're a skeptic due to having seen it all before 100 times. That's sexy on a man. It's true that women often weaponize "love", or at…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:09 AM
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But since I’ve given porn, my fantasies are more romantic. I think about the excitement of undressing her. The sight of her in her lingerie. I think about kissing her back/stomach/thighs/neck. I think about the natural imperfections (stretch mark/cellulite) that make her look perfect and natural. I think about caressing her hair, her back, her face. I think about the cuddling. The tasting. The light kissing. The forehead kissing. The intimate talking. The overall I intimacy. Think of this as a h…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:39 AM
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Why is she talking about this in these terms to begin with? "okayyyyy I guesssssssssss we can be BF/GF now"? What the fuck. TRP taught you better than this, she should be begging you, cajoling you into agreeing to be exclusive, that is her right place in the power dynamic. Under you, holding on for dear life, and delighted to be there. If she's the one initiating this, don't fall for it. Laugh it off in a cheeky/cocky way, because this girl isn't trying anywhere near hard enough yet to get you.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:27 AM
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Don't take yourself too seriously. Body dysmorphia/?? Don't make the kids laugh man, that's a feminist chick thing. Years ago I used to have fucked up teeth. Full on "dental dysmorphia" was a regular part of my life, soon as I opened my mouth the hotties ran for it. Got it corrected. And it's true, there's some kind of mental residue that makes you obsess about it a little, even though you corrected the issue (or it wasn't as important and deadly as you imagine to begin with). So I get the brace…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:26 AM
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Got a question for you. What would your mission in life be, if you were not in it? If it wasn't yours, wasn't about you, wasn't about what you deserve, wasn't about happiness - then what would it be? What, in your mind, needs to be done by somebody, doesn't matter who - as long as he gets it done? Figure it out, won't be cheap any more.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:05 AM
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It's good. You'll be fine and more effortlessly attractive to women than before after this lull, give it time. That "I don't feel anything for them" feeling is basically normalcy making an unexpected return after years of pussy-agitation and pussy-worship on the blue pill.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:01 AM
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When they get that way, it's time to strategically vanish from her life for a time. It's a true saying that time and distance makes loves grow fonder, too much familiarity and comfort ("he loves me, he's not going anywhere") is the death of romance.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 12:31 AM
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That crisis feeling of not knowing what to do anymore is more precious than the money.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:32 AM
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For what it's worth, here's something you might be missing. Thinking negative about an ex is still thinking about her. Imagine yourself being a buddhist and doing some daily meditation to collect yourself. So you sit down, do what needs to be done, but then a thought like "what is true enlightenment, was Buddha truly there?" comes to you and you start considering it. Supposedly it's a good thought, you're deepening your understanding, but the bottom line is that you're thinking and so you're not…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:14 AM
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It's a very good idea, they love it.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:04 AM
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When tomorrow rolls around, you can pop in and just quickly tease her with stuff like "soo...you still chicken and don't wanna come?" She may change her mind then, and even if she doesn't it'll be a good interaction for your "cool fun guy" piggybank and may turn into something else later. She's right there next door so you'll have plenty of excuses to interact going forward.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:02 AM
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Lucky bastard. Relax into it and own the place. Avoid ever getting laser-beam focused on just one girl you want. Instead picture yourself more like warm sunshine, shining on all of them pretty much equally. That way you get your choice out of the many that respond to the warmth, instead of chasing after one "special" girl with your laser pointer and annoyingly failing. They always run away when chased, it's instinct. And drawn to warmth, male polarity.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:20 AM
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You needed something along the lines of "They won't mind if I'm sweet to you." Then she gets to smile and say something snarky like "If.", and then you extend your hand which she maybe takes. Cheeky and cocky/funny. Teasing her out to play along. Nothing serious or asperger-factual. You can't reality-shame a woman into going along with your seduction, stuff like "well fuck, then why are you standing here all dolled up if you don't want to dance" is always ineffective, it's like an instant beta-t…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:13 AM
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Pretty sure I see what's happening. Here's my attempt explaining what's creeping them out. First, here's a snip from a post I wrote recently for another dude who thought he has a "solid date" with this girl from his past (they mutually ghosted back then due to lack of interest) who's been giving him the eye when they re-met. Don't be too cocksure about that "solid" date you're planning man. This chick, you'll find, will be ultra high-flake. It works like this: as soon as she feels like you think…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:21 PM
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Really need to see you in action bro. There's something crucial you're missing, but not sure what it is. You want to post some of your typical text exchanges with girls you were "working on" but who went cold on you? Might be something in there to talk about that could help you a lot. That's how it goes, even when girls are initially drawn to you, something can easily repell them away when you start talking. And they will NEVER tell you what that was honestly, since they don't want you to improv…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:52 AM
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Hey bro. So you feel like you constantly have this girl at the back of your mind, it's dirivng you crazy. Two things, first it's easy to see why you have her on your mind -since she's in front of your face all the fucking time. It's like dangling raw meat in front of a hungry dog and expecting he's not going to drool on the carpets purely out of the fine RP sentiment of his dog heart. Second thing, you will find that it's not strictly speaking even true that SHE is at the back of your mind. It's…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:43 AM
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The social anxieties go away once you see for yourself, with own eyes the vastness of what is possible. Oldschool PUA game vids and other material might be of great value to you - you will experience the vast untrammeled field of possibilities that an ordinary guy does not consider real. Knowing how many practical degrees of freedom you actually have in those "scary" social situations with women, you will gain for yourself a certain ease and funny experimentalist demeanor, where you're constantl…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:16 AM
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Not normal, that was a hard fucking hit that broke open some old emotional boil in you. But you survived, didn't you? And more than that, took it like a man and then later were able to reflect about what the fuck happened to learn from it. You didn't try to bury it, never to be spoken of again. Take those lacerations with gratitude, the pus leaked out of whatever it was, now it is in the process of healing. Without the hard hits, it'd be festering in you and poisoning everything slow without you…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:32 AM
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Yep. That's an honest description of what it's like, for most of us, after the blue pill indoctrination we go through growing up. You're basically exactly where the enemy wanted you to be at the end of the merciless process of your degradation into a witless, helpless hobgoblin. This is the playing board right now. Your move? That's your life on the blue pill. Potentially even the degradation is good for you, if you take advantage of it to learn how to hate like a man.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:25 AM
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Billy the beta would never get that "he's gone, come fuck me" text that you got. She truly enjoyed your little "pull her by the leg" moment, that was unique. Something to think about and maybe smile a bit when you feel all down on yourself about this shit. Women, it's pure comedy with them. Never worth shedding a single tear over.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 07:41 AM
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Don't be too cocksure about that "solid" date you're planning man. This chick, you'll find, will be ultra high-flake. It works like this: as soon as she feels like you think the two of you have a "solid" date, like you have her in the bag essentially, she will automatically balk and ruin it by flaking out even if she wants to fuck you herself in the first place. They do this just to show to themselves who's boss. Here's my advice, skip the date idea and skip anything where the above pattern of e…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:08 AM
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If you got the hamster spinning by doing that, then it's working for you. If you had no effect on the hamster and she never noticed you didn't say anything, then it's neutral. Depends on the woman and situation. You're definitely not committing any unforgivable sins by not giving too much of a shit about their pics. Steady as she goes!
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:58 AM
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Educate yourself about LMR (last min resistance) on the quick, you might need the knowledge.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:56 PM
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The expensive but direct way is psychotherapy. On the cheap and indirect, you may be able to attack it on your own by being aware of it, reminding yourself about the knowledge you have as to the origins of those feels. A useful way to control the feeling is to sit somewhere quiet where no one will bother you, and bring that shitty feeling up on purpose in yourself. Let it come up and feel it sucking in your gut, hurting in your chest, whatever it is. You focus on the bad feeling, ignoring the si…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:06 PM
2

Go for broke, invite her over and see if she's down. No date, no nothing. Just a vague promise of "fun" and maybe work the fact that she's leaving into it - you had to cook this special blah blah for her to see her off. It depends on what exactly your typical interactions with her were like, the tone you two have with each other etc. Adapt it to that, but same basic idea, lure her to come over with some bullshit she knows is 100% bullshit, but will accept because she wants to fuck you herself in…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 09:06 AM
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Very good! You're an adult now at 19, so you get to be your own father and bring yourself up the way you think you need to be, even if up till now there was no father in your life. The therapists do not give a shit about you, nor will they magically fix anything for you, don't kid yourself. They're guys you pay to listen to your bullshit in hopes that you'll feel better from it.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 09:01 AM
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You should immediately select a nearby martial arts dojo and join. Selecting is easy: email or call a few places, visit each in turn for a free class. They all tend to offer that to beginners. You will be welcomed with open arms and given princess treatments everywhere, everyone loves beginners so no worries about being used as a retard punching bag - nothing even close will happen, instead everyone will dote on you and show you around safe and sound. So have no fear whatsoever about being a dum…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:51 AM
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Don't get your panties in a knot over that too much, big guy. It's a basic guideline for basic recovering blue pilled men. They have a heavy tendency to chase after milady and act like obsessed butlers, like she's his entire world. It's an automatic tendency that the men aren't even aware of, so the cure for them is to curb that enthusiasm. You feel free to skip it, this may not even apply to you. But it might be a good idea to keep it in mind anyhow, even if you're skipping. Then if you run int…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:43 AM
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These are typical little shit-tests that girls who actually like you will throw your way. The correct response to being called a "fuckboy who will cheat on girls" is a big giant grin. Own it with cheeky pride. She just admitted you give her tingles and danger signs. Tease her about it, you make it about her that way instead of crumbling like "oh gosh, maybe she's right and I'm too alpha for my own good?". She doesn't know shit, remember you never listen to what a woman is saying to you, you only…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:26 AM
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Your post is written the way you shoot an emergency flare, a call for help. Sure you're at wit's end there. But what you are feeling/going through is Good. Running out of wit and seeing the sham in everything is good. If things appear a little hopeless, don't fret, stay cheery - it's your vision that is currently limited, not your potential. The ability to see what is happening to you usually lags a bit behind your actual progress made. Hence the panic that may be hitting you here and there. I w…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:00 AM
2

About the convos you use, that's very personal. Pays to experiment and improvise like you're a chef in your own kitchen. There will be certain things that work great for you so you naturally want to share with your bros, but the other dudes you know can't even get that kind of conversation started, much less have it lead organically to a no-bullshit lay down the line. That's a frustrating thing to try to teach to somebody else. If a chick sees your message and she's going "fuck that guy" (very r…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:06 AM
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Don't bother with the common interests. They don't have any interests. The girl is not your buddy or friend, don't try to treat her like that. It's a girl, treat her like she's your bratty little sister that you love to tease, laugh with, and generally love the hell out of her even though she's always crying what a meanie you are. It's catnip for girls, they love this. Do not be nice to them, that is what everyone else is doing and the girls know why (cuz she now has tits), they aren't that stup…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:35 AM
1

Look at their input for what it really is: a gentle sign they're making to you that what you say makes them feel anxiety, makes them uncomfy. The reason why it makes them uncomfy is not relevant. Why are you making people uncomfy, why are you not taking care of your people? Were you intent on ruffling feathers and making people uncomfortable, or are you just talking like that because you don't know any better? Big difference there, the first one is perhaps a sign of situational mastery and proba…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:25 AM
4

Placing immense importance on your precious autist "intelligence" will mess things up for you big time, especially with women. This is one of those things to leave behind forever when you leave high school. Your intelligence is worthless to a girl. It's equally worthless to the world at large. The girl will be more interested if you are capable of dominating other people, using that intelligence. Even better if you can display that dominance in funny and charming ways, so that the people you put…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:05 AM
4

You're not going to overcome it straight away. At first you try and fake it (and fail all the time even at faking). This is fine. Good stuff to harden you up.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:46 AM
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Newage gurus such as DH are in my opinion on a different plane, compared to academics. For instance, Peterson's moral anxieties and posturing would surely only make DH laugh, if the same parasitic needs tried to impose themselves on a man like him. From this we might want to say that DH is red pill, but I'm not so sure about that and reserve my speculations in case he's some other type of fruit altogether. I am not as interested in or familiar with him as a man, haven't read the biography, the f…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:23 AM
0

The only virtue I can see in this cancerously new-age proposition is that it is impossible to follow it, and so it's good for a man to try and do impossible shit just to annoy whoever said it was impossible. I am going to go and take a righteous dump, with a righteously loud trumpetfart of the type that I enjoy, that I truly believe 100% represents my one life I have on this earth, and make it count. I remember what Patrice's concept or righteousness was, and it sure as fuck wasn't this wishy-wa…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:36 PM
9

Good post man. I would go a little further and make it a universal rule: Never Chase After a Bitch. Think of all the times she cried, threw up her hands and stormed off to the bathroom - full of expectation that you'll be running after her to apologize. Or how women throw out an IOI here and there deliberately to make you focus in on her in a social setting, and then just as deliberately yank it away to enjoy your confused disorientation: "but I thought you liked me?" Never chase a bitch, it's e…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:17 PM
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The bottom line: even if she's checking you out and discreetly twaddling her twat under the table while imagining your naked torso, it has absolutely zero significance to you. Because if you want to twaddle her twat yourself, believe me, you will be required to put in the same amount of tedious work chatting with her and face the same amount of rejection risk as any other guy who she wasn't even looking at. The IOI gives a guy the right to hope that at least the roads might be paved and the stre…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:56 PM
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For what it's worth, make mayhem one of the ingredients to your life. You'll like it. A controlled amount of deliberate womanizing brings that emotional mayhem spice, even though you're nowhere near where you know you need to be. Good old "fuck it, here I go anyways" attitude, it beats optimum autistic preparedness any day. It's true that women WANT a man who's already made, but who gives a shit what they want? Really, it's something to tease them with and laugh about together. Meanwhile, they a…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:25 PM
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Don't fret over it, and here's why: it's not you who determines what "it" is, monogamy or plate type situation - it's the woman. Unless she is prodding, manipulating, and begging you for monogamy, it's not even on the table in the first place and it's futile to "ask for it". SHE has to want it, and really fucking badly too. Then something can be worked out. When this happens you'll have a choice, do I try to brainwash her and make her accept that she's now "my main girl" and that's as good as it…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:10 PM
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Lay low, observe her and prepare. Never confront a woman about things like this, it's about as successful as trying to carry water with a sieve. You should not have any trust in any woman. Doesn't matter if you popped her cherry and are her one-and-only king in every way. It's still a woman, and is not to be trusted by any man familiar with the Red Pill understanding of what a woman is. Give her no real trust, exactly like you would not give your trust to a child, but all the love and fondness y…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:54 PM
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That may be the wrong question to be asking yourself OP. If your parents are great people and you despise them, then you're doing them an injustice. If they're terrible and you're a great person, then they are doing YOU an injustice...So which is it...Well, let's spend enormous energies daily to examine your entire life in excruciating detail and make a tally... It is this, this fundamentally blue-pilled justice based thinking that is messing your shit up. Caught in this loop, you will continual…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:36 PM
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The good professor is thoroughly blue-pill. This is not intended to be an insult to him, after all blue-pill thinking is not in itself a shortcoming. Let's think of it as a neutral, one possible state out of many. It continues to be the default state or mode for most of us, it sure as hell was for me growing up. It should not be irksome to simply state the obvious fact that this good man who has your sympathies and earned your gratitude is working for the Matrix. Witness the grand moral superior…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:18 PM
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Cool story. In situations where a woman is setting you up, you can set her up right back. She says "you and him fight", or something along these lines - you immediately ask her if she'll be the victor's take-home prize. Start negotiating what exactly she owes you when you lose miserably, as a "consolation prize", etc. etc. Claim what she offers isn't sexy enough for you, because you could for real die a virgin all because of her. She's laughing, the other dude's laughing, everyone's having a goo…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:45 AM
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Women are all the same, in the sense that there is much less variation among the "female types" compared to "male types" to encounter. This is natural, and it is desirable for women to be the same, more alike. More automatic, like dolls or marionettes. The intelligent independent and fun to be around woman is a blue pill ideal. That's why TRP is having none of it. So tired of that bullshit, that it even has a name: unicorn hunting. After you take the red pill, you will no longer want such a woma…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:37 PM
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Very well said indeed, Sir Knight. If only more of us were as noble as yourself, sadly I constantly succumb to the temptation and allow myself to be abused by these impossibly sweet women who utterly debase themselves just to please.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:36 AM
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Here's a bit of a counter-intuitive thing. You would logically think that you need to be insanely hot/valuable in order to justify a woman to act as sweet as this to you. But this is not exactly true. What you actually need is for her to be dreading to lose you. That is different, because you can generate situations where you might be far from insanely hot or valuable objectively, yet women obsess over you. They obsess because they dread losing you, and they dread the loss of what is most import…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:25 AM
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It is true, I do think that women's bullshit and dealing with it is an essential ingredient. It's educational, at the very least. Even though I don't like that dependency, and would prefer to imagine myself as absolutely self-sufficient, it is what it is. A woman's gonna make parts of you come alive that you may not have known you even had to begin with. It's funny and bittersweet, because the worse the woman, the more bullshit she delivers, the better she does this job.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:41 AM
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Condolences bro. It will hit you a while later, be prepared if that happens to you & don't beat yourself up over "going back on stoic principles".
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:35 AM
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You're missing something important fellas. It's called The Red Pill. Transactional sex with whores will teach you nothing about it. The work you put in into understanding women is not just about the women, it's that same work that goes into understanding yourself. Collectively we call all those trials and tribulations that result in a better stronger man, "Taking The Red Pill".
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:22 AM
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A medical doctor has confirmed that you have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. We are supposed to all fall down to our knees and worship our Inca priest benefactor, he/she has opened our eyes and sorted out what was really wrong with us. I would advise you to never use the coolspeak term "chronic fatigue syndrome", translate it into english and then call it the "alltime tireds thang". This way you will be significantly less tempted to blab about your "condition" to anyone. Alltime tireds thang can come …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:30 PM
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It's very commonplace, your average non-olympian woman is well capable of it. It's the same mechanism in action that makes them 100% convinced that they are themselves certainly not like "those other girls". She's unique in every way, her situation and behavior is simply not comparable to how women generally act. There's all of them, and then there's her, so unique and incomparable. She would never ever do what they always do, and those times when she did do it before, they don't count because r…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:09 PM
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Remember to find a way to pat her head and tell her "good job". You may be aware that it's a disingenuous manipulation she's trying to use on you, as old as time itself, but it's still adorable and deserves that little reward from you. When she says "I love you" you can respond with good work, keep it up,baby.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:03 PM
2

All this suffering is for the greater Good, if it brings a man to know God in his own way. This time out of desperate necessity in the trenches, not because of some high-falutin moral choice or self-serving social pose. Newbies despair because being so mired in the false world of the matrix, their senses do not sense anywhere else they could go, even if they wanted to escape it. But the reality is funny, there is everywhere to go and everything to be, the matrix is a puny external imposition par…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 04:17 PM
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Life is not overrated, my man. You're simply living the wrong life, all up in that shared TV-world that gets pushed on everybody. Thinking that's where everyone lives. The real thing is by no means overrated, but it is never televised, nor is it even accessible to the de-souled, attention deprived brains of ordinary consumers. You can't do advanced math if you've been told that simple counting and reasoning is a nazi thought crime, ever since you were a little kid. Of course you're feeling like …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:55 PM
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Good post man. It's exceptional in that you did not spoon-feed the audience any special advice or know-it-all fix for everything, yet it's still a good knock-knock that could rouse the sleeper. You can't get around these realizations if you've taken the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:47 PM
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I like best a little book called "Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender", by David R. Hawkins. This book is incredibly repetetive, droll, has a gay new age title, and if you are angry with yourself and in a hurry to learn the cure, you will likely be angry at the book for wasting your time all the way. The inner scientific autist will be infuriated with it. But by the time you finish it, you want to read it again, because you realize something VERY important has changed about you forever.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:59 AM
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You're very welcome bro. I don't give a shit what you're good at. There's no need for you to show me you're good. Do you see how what I've been saying about the mandatory "good boy" treadmill is compulsively manifesting itself in you? That treadmill is very important, central for the Blue Pill worldview. It's what makes you a good slave. So good that you even enslave yourself in your own mind, and may on some occasions get incredibly angry with yourself for disobedience or apparent lack of adequ…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:35 PM
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Naw. Flipping that inner polarity makes you the sultan, the king you always wanted to be. It seems completely illogical and impossible because the blue pill system is a treadmill you're supposed to run on, in order to get those pats on the back and "good boy" feelz from the teacher, the hot woman, the boss etc. You can go along for this ride for decades upon decades and never know better. You're bent right over, and the world's fucking you in the ass. No wonder you're angry inside. Flipping it m…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:06 PM
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She told me "you're the guy that every girl wants". Not a good sign, dude. Even worse that you got your big elephant ears unfolded and tuned in like radars to listen to this stuff. Let me ask you a question. What do you typically feel when you see a hungry beggar that wants something from you? Those are the exact same vibes you're currently putting out, because of that deep inner hunger or need - for other people's approval. You're basically a taker, deep down inside, and that's the big reason w…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:46 AM
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Not to worry, that whole episode with your ex-wife was basically a premeditated theatre peformance. She had already made up her mind about you at that point, you were on your way out. All she needed was some drama to expedite the process. Her resentment toward you boiled over when she "felt rejected", and instantly she plunged into victim mode. There's basically nothing you could have done to prevent this man. If you somehow woke up and watched movies while kissing her hand, she would find a way…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:41 PM
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I want to understand what happens after these unicorns confront themselves, how many permutation life choices exist, and how can we understand which state their in? After the cold hard reality hits them in the face, for a time make-believe still happens. She'll be all smiles and take such good care of the fiance that if he has any sense he'll be getting a little suspicious. During this time she basically burns through all the accumulated "relationship capital" with the man, at an amazing rate. W…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 07:48 PM
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The situation even with those abnormal "I will save you, you poor suffering soul" girls is not good. Their thing is not about saving you, it's about hopefully keeping you miserable for a long enough period of time so that she can harvest her Saviour Complex thrills from how selfless and wonderful she thinks she is, as well as the social media attention etc. that may come from that. They basically need you to need them, for sick kicks. They act in a way that's similar to what smothering mothers d…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 07:26 PM
2

Avoid ever making anything awkward after the fact for a girl. If your line of questioning suggests to her that you're worried about rape accusations, that will make it awkward. That will make her "feel like" she may have been raped and didn't notice it at the time. But she has the hickey on her neck or a bruise so that proves it without a doubt... Or you couldn't get your dick up, and the way you handle it makes her feel awkward. In the female mind, that's a very easy jump from "shit, his dick w…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:08 PM
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Keep in mind that it doesn't matter that you're interested in her. She's a cute girl, of course you're interested. So is every other horny dickhead in a 100mile radius. The only thing that matters is how interested is she in you. Another way of thinking about this, is that you are the prize. That's where you should be aiming when you're gaming her, it's unimportant whether or not YOU show your interest, you need to create situations where she shows hers - by having fun good times together, prefe…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:50 PM
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Many reasons. "Sometime" makes it sound like you are always available, at her beck and call, desperately wanting this to happen. That's not how an attractive man acts around women, and they know it, so they correctly assume you're low status, if they hear this from you. "Can I take you out" is a phrase from 1960 when we still had a "dating culture". It's long dead and buried in 2017, however there are many blue pill men who live according to what Rollo calls "The Old Books". They try to play the…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:18 PM
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I'd cut him out of your social circle. It feels bad but sadly that's something a lot of white knight fags will do, they can't help themselves since even imaginary damsels in distress are like red cloth to a bull. They have to rush in there and put their horns in it (they wish, never happens). In a way he did you a small favour because the girl got on your case, you held frame, now she loves you and has contemptuous disdain for the backstabber guy. If you choose to go and get in his face about th…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:53 PM
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Candy's BF is just on his way out. She isn't really betraying him because in her mind he's already her ex-BF. Also it's Samantha's fault because she kept teasing her about all the rich law school students she's going to meet. Jokes aside though, what Candy was doing was quite typical. It's what every Candy does when it's time to get rid of that clingy BF she doesn't want any more, but to do it in a way where he is the bad guy for being "controlling". Samantha is usually in on it of course, they'…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 12:41 PM
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Yep, usually 2-3 times before losing interest. If she's a random contact. Maybe more if she's already in your fun social circle or circumstances dictate it. Whatever they wanna squawk about, it's always the man's job to initiate and start shit. Resistance and ambivalence is the normal thing to expect from a woman, when she doesn't know you and doesn't care. It doesn't mean you're low value in her eyes and you need a new woman, it just means she hasn't had a chance to discover how lucky she was t…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:15 PM
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That's basically her whorish way to flirt. They like hearing exaggerated BS about what you're going to do to her, and fantasizing about it. It's not a promise or anything you need to follow through/deliver on. It's good that you don't give much of a shit and don't listen to her "list of demands". That's only going to turn her on even more. When you hear this stuff from her you should be smiling like the fucking cheshire cat.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:02 PM
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Here's a rule of thumb that rarely if ever goes wrong for me: It's less about what you say, more about when you say it. Your message itself can be "hey" and that's really all you need to get something going, the shorter and dumber and lazier the first text is, the better. The important thing is to put enough time inbetween your attempts to reach out. About one week is the sweet spot. So you send something about once a week on your own initiative and then sit back and don't bother her again. Let …
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:55 AM
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Treat them the same, there should be an easy-going "would fuck" feeling/vibe that she gets from you, even though you might both know rationally that you would never do it. The reason is that women will forgive you just about anything in the right context, except for not treating them as a woman (i.e. fuckable). No matter what good reasons you had for it, such as thinking that you should treat her as an asexual equal, it's always unforgivable.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:44 AM
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It doesn't matter, she should never find out. The little snooping expedition is recommended for the blue pill unbeliever. After you already know what's in there (and in her head), it may become unnecessary to look since it's always the same boring shit: the one guy from work, the orbiter army, the bitchy girlfriends of hers dissing you, etc. Women are not loyal to men, they're loyal to themselves & to their children.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:36 AM
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That's 100% mental illness. Make sure you don't feed the fire, zero contact from now on. Don't take this personal, it wasn't about you. She used you as am interchangable guy prop for her internal victimhood drama theatre (where she complains about being objectified herself, but the irony is completely lost on her). Forget all about it ASAP like it's a bad dream, you scored a rotten apple, that's about all you can learn here. Just think, some poor bastard is actually going to marry that shit some…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:12 AM
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It's kinda a big mindfuck at first, because women will try their utmost to convince you they're not like that, and you can absolutely expect fidelity from HER. Eyes sparkling and all, she really 100% believes it about herself. Of course the very next day she might wake up, feeeeeel different and it's all gone out of the window. The fog lifts when you take the red pill and realize she's just saying what she needs to say in the moment to get what she wants: more commitment. Once she gets it & you'…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:55 AM
1

It's a good pain, all men go through it repeatedly and you come out better on the other side everytime. Less feeling like you're a special snowflake, now instead you feel a bittersweet comraderie with everyone else who lost something dear to them, and that's that, life goes on without asking our permission to do whatever the hell it wants to do to us. The main thing is I needed to get across to you was how you really need to cut off all avenues for your brain's ability to gather new information …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 10:37 PM
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Want your sanity back? Cut her out of your life ASAP. It's not because of spite or that she's such a horrible woman (AWALT), it's simply because you have no idea what powers you're dealing with. She has emotional hooks buried so deep in your unconscious mind right now, that if you continue to hang around, she might eventually tell you to kill your mother, and you'll fucking do it. You won't understand why, but you will do it and feel like you had no choice. This is sick. It's a cruel cruel mindg…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 09:29 PM
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Have a look at this for some laughs, and maybe inspiration here and there: Dark Depressed Musician picks up girls in the park https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujBSaN4hrGU
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:20 PM
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Agreed man. You have a nice terse style of game, if you put on some slightly dark-n-broody airs too, then even coming across as slightly creepy is going to work in your favor this way in a lot of cases. You're not creepy-needy, you're serial killer not-sure-what-his-deal-is kinda creepy, which adds spicey excitement for the girl. If she sticks around, let her find out about your deep love of weird old movies about horses & penchant for sudden, unexpected risktaking. Perfect blend for a lot of gi…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 09:20 AM
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Sometimes making a beeline for the woman that caught your eye can look "creepy" like you said. But ultimately it's a small price to pay. You'll get so much good out of developing a habit to immediately pounce on any woman you want to talk to. You gain an inner freedom, since there's nothing to agonize about, you know exactly what to do and can go for it without thinking. Plus it can also look confident and ballsy, i.e. the exact opposite of creepy. Doesn't depend on you, just on how much the wom…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:05 AM
3

No reason to get rid of her, but you may want to get rid of your blue pill feelings. Watch out for those angry ego-driven "I thought I was special, but looks like this bitch has been feeding me a line of bullshit" feelings. They're blue pill to the core. You want to be perfectly fine with not being special in any way, and not being her one and only, unlike any other guy - even though she will probably tell you all those things in the heat of her feelz. Don't let that shit go to your head and act…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 05:29 PM
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You might be missing that she didn't cry because of love, she cried because of her loss and the perceived injustice. Big difference there. Women can get very hurt by seemingly little things, to the point that you get mutant monsters like the Alpha Widow or BPD Princess. The principle you're referring to was trying to tell you that they're incapable of the self-sacrificing blue pill love that is taught to men. I would add also how that is a very good thing. Women absolutely should not be loving m…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 05:20 PM
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Things get better but not in ways you might be imagining right now. You don't arrive somewhere nice and stay there, that never happens. Instead you will experience your mental fog clearing out, things will get clear to you, and often that will be painful. But it's truly great, because the pain is nothing when you see with your own two eyes that what you're doing is truly making a huge difference in what your day-to-day life is like. It's a feel like you've been spinning your wheels all your life…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:48 PM
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Ha! Yeah I would like it to be in that same spot too. Preferably forever. Damn it's hard to keep it there for any real length of time, though. It's the best and the worst of every relationshit. Dig your heels in and let her drag you kicking and screaming into what she wants, because you know it's going to happen, especially if you already love this girl to bits. Patrice's hilarious take on it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6KzCfIYArmQ
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:32 PM
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Where in the sidebar did it ever say that it was going to be easy or that we'll be sweet to you? The truth continues to burn. Female cheating is truly not preventable, no matter how high your SMV is. There are 1000 year old fairytale stories about oriental harems where the women were kept on chains, and still the fucking bitches found ways to cheat while the sultan was hunting or travelling. When it's that brutal, all you can do is laugh at the whole situation and let it the fuck go.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:28 AM
2

If you're viscerally against the very idea of your women being with other dudes, how are you ever going to spin plates, my man? Having plates exemplifies zero male control over the female's actions. She'll do what she wanna do, you don't get a say because you're not exclusive with her either. If you can't emotionally take that and keep your cool, it's not going to work out so good. In LTR there's an illusion that you have more control over her pussy, but it's ridiculously flimsy, and if you ask …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:23 AM
8

Poetry.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:45 AM
28

If she was trying to get preg by doing this, her chances are not good.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:40 AM
1

Cuckoldry is when you're raising another man's dickspawn. Don't adopt african babies like Madonna, and you should be safe from that. Bitches are going to do what bitches always did. Since we are no longer legally allowed to put them on a chain in the house and use eunuchs for servants, her behavior is really out of your hands as a man. It won't matter whether we think it's OK or NOT OK, she'll do her shit anyways. The important thing becomes, what are the consequences of what she did. I don't wa…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:22 AM
5

You probably won't get to hit it, but definitely go for the kiss no matter what. If you do smash, you're the fucking champ or it's beginner's luck. Ha. Do not make a single peep about dating, relationship, anything like that. That stuff is not your job, it's girl territory. When it's time for that, you'll hear about it. Don't delude yourself, because no matter how much you like a girl, it doesn't matter, you cannot lock her pussy down for yourself by getting her to agree to go exclusive. One day…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 01:54 AM
4

My one weird tip is to not focus on just one girl you like. So important. Don't be like a laserbeam, be like sunshine. If you want to attract a specific girl, you have to be like sunshine shining on all the cute girls around, like you're a natural charming dude and interested in all of them, all the time, equally and in a carefree no-pressure kinda way. That's how you can eventually get yourself on this popular girl's radar, AND be ready to date her because you already have tons of experience.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 01:39 AM
1

Yeah that's a typical thing girls will say. "Ok we can do this, but we're not having sex!" This means you're going to have sex.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 01:36 AM
0

Or should i give her a chance and work on myself to let this go? Yes, and here are the two main reasons why. Reason 1: It's good for you to develop this "let it go" attitude, good for you way beyond this one relationship. You literally need it with every woman you'll ever be with. Reason 2: There is no way to be sure about what happened now, since she probably won't tell even under inquisition torture. So why torture yourself over it? Think about this, you can always leave her if you lose this b…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 01:19 AM
6

When you're 17 around your parents, they are your closest people by default on planet Earth. Here's the problem: they are just random people, you didn't vet them, you didn't pick them yourself. It was plop, there you go, deal with it. So you're dealing with it as best you can, and constantly getting annoyed: wtf, these are supposed to be my closest, they aren't even listening to me, they don't even know who I am, they don't want to know. Constantly getting into little annoying fights about that,…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:48 PM
3

I think the occasional dinner outing is just fine when you're already fucking. She'll be extatic if it's more like "I'm going to dinner, would you like to join me on such and such day?" Tell her what you want her to wear like she's your dolly. It needs to be a gesture of your magnanimous whim. You're going to dinner because you want to, and she came to mind as a delicious accessory. Not a beggy supplication thing, where she is "the one" and you're inviting her out because she's so special to you…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:52 PM
5

Yeah those are only going to be good for plates for right now. But you never know, she may get all emotional on one Thursday and feel like that's it, she can't take any more soul-crushing pump&dump! She needs a proper BOYFRIEND, like Stacy has!! Then you'll see tons of cute smileys and her texting you "good night sweet prince" every day, she'll be acting pretty much exactly like an obsessed beta faggot.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:27 PM
15

my girl is starting to get annoyed with my lack of talking about things that would obviously make me vulnerable. Good. It's good for her to be annoyed about this, it's sexy to them. Of course to you she will show the full princess in distress act: pweeeaaaase open up, I love you long long time naby! Don't be "eh it's nothing" every time, instead try to smile at her, tickle her, encourage her to prod you in those cute ways. Tell her she's a little smartass and you love how she pokes her cute nose…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:16 PM
7

We've all been there bro. It's up to time to heal that up, pretty much. Can be a lot of fun, because the shock those girls from your past life experience easily becomes transferred into unexpected sexual tingles for them. They love unexpectedly falling in love with the new you. So keep in mind that for them it's a positive feeling. Maybe ask yourself why should you feel bad about that for even a moment. Yeah you used to be a blue pill faggot like everyone else, but things change. Women are innat…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:07 PM
6

Happens by itself over time. You sit back and enjoy. Fuck any woman enough and she will come pleading. Oh hey, I've been thinking baby, what are we? I love you but... Didn't you ever want something more? Usually comes up at around 2 or 4-6 months of fucking her good. The big triple underlined bottom line is that it's completely out of your hands. If the woman isn't begging for it, it's pointless to consider an exclusive LTR anyways. Over time it happens by itself with no effort on your part. Ver…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:58 PM
5

You don't want to be certain she won't cheat, no matter what the reasons are man. It's toxic to masculinity to be certain about this. You'll do a lot better if you're cheery either way and always have a small doubting smile when this type of thing comes up between you and your girl. She needs that thing where you don't really take her loyalty that seriously, but she is trying her hardest to be as loyal as she can for you, is proud of herself in doing so, and is deeply engaged. Makes women so hap…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:40 PM
1

The deadfish prude is always the prime candidate for a good rough throatfucking. Just how it goes, I'm not joking in the least. You do need to look her in the eye and let her see that you know exactly what she needs, but thinks she's not allowed to have. That's the RP difference right there, because on the blue pill everyone thinks that the woman has to "let you", in some kind of royal princess act of mercy. There are alternatives, with no princess acts required. On the blue pill it's hard to un…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:26 PM
1

A lot of it is your own head leading you astray. That self-delusion where we think "she's submissive and cute, she needs trainign to be more slutty". No she doesn't, she's already a perfect slut. Often all you need to do is give her your permission to show it off, and the girl's mesmerized by doing all the stuff she thought she never would/could do since she's all shy and so sweet. Yeah, no - she isn't, she is a slut by nature, you bring it out in her by not judging it or being kinda like her pa…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:01 PM
1

Don't do it man. She'd be happy for a minute or two, but it would be interpreted and filed as a betabux gesture by her. It triggers zero gratitude in them, just increases their already sky-high entitlement. Even worse if this was her idea that you should buy this for her.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:54 AM
268

Intense story man. Coming of age as a man, well worth reading and thinking about. See if you can still make some kinda effort meeting new girls though. Because once in a while of samey-same, you will meet a girl that blows you away and seems to add rocket fuel to all the engines in your body. Those times of life in amazing overdrive are worth it, even if it later ends "bad". Because let's face it, anything that ends is "bad" for a guy with a blue pill mindset. It's just not real thinking it woul…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 09:20 AM
2

Shit man, calm the fuck down and get some sleep. Life goes on. Watch that movie though, I recommend it. "They Live" It's funny.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:35 PM
6

So you're basically wanting to pull an Elliot Rodger escapade against some other kids who've been mean to you. And you would like to restrain yourself from doing it, because you worry about your parents. Restraining yourself is easy, just look in the mirror and go "Self, stop with this dramatic, girly bullshit." You're hopefully onboard for the long haul, not a satanic moment of random deluded infamy followed by eternal debts due and payable in hell. Ironically, you'll be just fine even if you s…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:17 PM
1

What's your reasoning for wanting those people dead? Another thing I'd wanna know is what is the crippling loneliness and insecurity you mentioned all about?
/r/askTRP16/10/17 01:59 PM
8

You'll have nothing but trouble from socializing with this chick. Trouble and cuteness have no issue going hand in hand, in women. I'd just stay away, you're not her therapist or Personal Jesus to save her from her misery.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 01:54 PM
-3

Because when it's done then what? When the life mission's done, life is over for a man. That's the essence of it, it has mortality built in. It's a gamble, a race to get it done. There is no infinite mission-carouselle to ride, but in exchange for that "sad reality" you get to be very specific, and to know exactly when you're done. The world will never be the same in some way, because this one driven man lived and acccomplished his thing. It's good to talk it out and understand the real differen…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 11:16 AM
2

That is a vague nerdy ambition, not a mission. The difference with a mission is that you know when it's DONE. You can complete it and then sigh that last sigh of relief and die satisfied, on the spot. I did it, it's done, it really fucking worked and we got it done. If your formula is vague and it can never be completed (open ended), that's not a valid mission for a finite man with a finite amount of time, no matter how great it sounds on paper.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 07:08 AM
1

They would all be crawling through minefields begging for your dick, except they are not all invested in you emotionally. When the girl invests HERSELF into you emotionally, you can basically do no wrong, she thinks you're a demigod, and now she will tell those 100 a day guys to go fuck themselves, because she doesn't have the time - gotta suck that demigod dick more. It's like a switch flips in her head and you go from being "some guy" (dime a dozen) to demigod("sooo not like any other guy!!"),…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:42 AM
1

Did you get rid of her because of this other guy she fucked? That's a harsh feeling for a man, it's instinctual to be seriously disgusted with a disloyal bitch. But that's all of them, they're all like this, and after about the tenth time this shit happens to you, you simply stop caring. It's not some rational thing, it's really instinct from deep down. It doesn't care that rationally speaking, you were never exclusive etc. More an automatic disgust reaction, like you'd get from a bloated dead b…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:11 PM
1

Funny shit. It happens, there's no reason for you to sweat this. She's the one who will be getting all offended and huffed up. Besides saying something ridiculous like "you remind me of my sister too much, I can't get it up" and just playing with it, there isn't much for you to do. Sometimes it's just a complete flop, and the goods are nothing like what the retail package was advertising.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:05 PM
3

It will be a drag at first, you force yourself to be all charming even though you don't even feel a thing. Just takes time man, this is you slowly healing up. Since you're going to be faking it all the way, this is a great opportunity to get more artful with your Game, try things out that you would never do normally, different styles of seduction, etc. Ironically it drives bitches crazy that you're like that and "love" is just a game to you, so that you might notice your results are BETTER this …
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:58 PM
7

My friend said I should have gone and I missed an opportunity. He's wrong in this case, bro. You didn't miss an opportunity, you shut down a cute test she was throwing at you, and pretty well at that. "No" with no explanations is magic, girls innately understand that it may feel bad and all, but it's part and parcel of the deal with every exciting man. They all dare say "no" to girls with no explanations. The situation with this girl is nothing special, nothing to worry about. She's just your ty…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:50 PM
1

Guilt tripping is a big weapon in the girl arsenal. You got to learn how to live with it and even enjoy it. It's a little like the flipside of a girl's natural adorableness. She grips you with the adorable feel, then she flips you on your back with the guilt trip. Aww she's so adorable, how COULD I do that mean thing to her?? You would have zero guilt if she wasn't cute and/or this was a man. The bottom line is that she's fucking with you by pushing this psychological lever, you're being had in …
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:35 PM
2

When you fail, don't beat yourself up about that & be miserable. You're going to fail, it's normal. Supposed to learn from this how to redouble the effort, over and over, like a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 01:26 PM
3

Here's a simple question to ask yourself: Who the fuck appointed you to tell other men what "should" be done, what motivations they "should" have? It isn't a rhetorical question either. There's actually some part of you that is actively demanding a pulpit to preach from, and you're giving in to it. It's pretending to be rational/stoic so you decided to give in. That's furthermore a very blue pill part of you. "If I don't have a woman, that's because they aren't worth much, and no one should both…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 01:07 PM
10

Omg, I'm going to be famous.. Squee!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 04:32 AM
17

Your parents don't have a say in what you do with your life as an adult. Ideally they wouldn't have a say in what you do with your life as a kid either, but hey. You suffer the imprisonment-like situation till the age of majority sets you free of those fetters. The sad thing is how many, many dudes continue living like their parents have a say, or are godly beings whose word cannot be questioned because they're always right and you're always a young know-nothing. It doesn't work like that, paren…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:45 AM
1

If you want to do that, then you want to control the dosage she recieves at all times, like you would with a child, to prevent overwhelm and longterm negative reactions. It's not as simple as letting her go at first sign of "bullshit", remember this is your LTR, you already love this girl for better or for worse, you are invested. That's why I think it reasonably falls to the man, to control the outcome of this situation, it's not a woman-quality problem because they all get overwhelmed the same…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 03:32 AM
14

It's not about being hard 24/7. The RP advice is, as a man you never lean on the woman emotionally. She cannot hold your weight. The confusing shit is, women actively encourage it and even beg for it sometimes. Come on, you can lean on me, just open up a little, it'll be wonderful, I love you baby don't you trust me... They think of themselves as capable, wise and badass, but in reality they are not, and the weight of a man's problems or emotion instantly crushes their beautiful fantasy that you…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 01:56 PM
1

Where is it coming from? It's coming from how you said "I love you" and probably you are now treating her as "your girl". More sweet, more comfy with her around. You are more invested and she knows the signs. Those signs tell any girl that her hands are free now to grab any other branches that are within reach, on the sly. Creating this sweet comfy feeling is devastating for LTRs, it goes to women's head, they immediately get out of line. Your gut's telling you something. I'd listen to that. The…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:33 PM
2

Good stuff. Did the waitress see your hot new date? If so, there's about a 90% chance she will reach out to you now (proving to herself that she's better than your new girl is too delicious to pass up), be ready with the cocky-funny unapologetic "ya I fucked her, and I will fuck you too" attitude.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 09:10 AM
17

It sounds like classic LMR (Last Minute Resistance), dude. In other words she wanted to fuck you, but it was necessary to play the "I'm not that kind of girl" movie out first, so you don't think she's some easy slut. By going "well fuck this" and leaving, you have really insulted the girl. It's like telling her she ain't shit in your mind, and you didn't want to hit it that bad either way. Of course she doesn't want to be friends now. Read up on dealing with LMR, might open your eyes on a lot of…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:48 AM
2

That's all normal for a man. In the old days it would've been the isolation a war vet feels at home, or a surgeon who watches the ladies faint because someone had an impolite nosebleed. In modern day you get the same experience from having first row seats for the entire cultural marxism spectacle. Same type of experience, essential for a man to process and adapt himself to. No one has the right to know what you really think about anything. If you feel bad about that, chances are it's not because…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:31 AM
5

You are not failing, you're getting exactly what you deserve. It's commesurate to the effort and discipline you were able to put in so far. You don't have time to be a depressed downer. Dare to go for more, solid in the knowledge that you get exactly what you put in every time. The universe does not cheat, but your ego might try to cheat a little when it imagines how you'll be getting tons of results for nothing at all, like a girl. There's the source of the bad feels too, which is really funny …
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:24 AM
5

Learned helplessness is a bad habit you can get stuck in. Happens when the thing that makes you suffer appears to be completely beyond your control, and it affects you over a long term with nothing you can do about it. The more you are exposed to it, the more it gets entrenched in you that you can't do anything to help your own situation and that there's no point trying. It IS possible to get yourself out of learned helplessness mode. To do it, you can revive the idea/belief that your actions DO…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:00 AM
16

In your spare time, look into learned helplessness. There's stuff to read straight off of google both in terms of academic papers and layman's language articles explaining the essense of the thing: it breaks you by sustained low-key negative influence that you crucially feel like you can do nothing about. Over time, you get boiled like that proverbial frog, just psychologically. Gets to the point where you could easily step out of the shitty situation, but you will not do it because you now genu…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:50 AM
3

Bobbo, you got this. You really got this, it's objectively a non-issue and non-problem. But you refuse to see it at the moment, because you wanna sit there and think you're fucking special. What a unique situation, blah blah, for others its so easy, not so for Bob, it's digging him deeper into his hole... Fuck you, asshole. You are in no way special. Do the exact same thing as everyone else is doing, which is turning yourself into a man again. Step by step. Torturously squeezing the blue pill sl…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 08:26 AM
3

And does the protagonist, perhaps, turn to TheRedPill and decide to write a great post? Asking for a friend. Jokes aside, here's what I've got for you: In the beginning, you can't trust your instincts for shit, since they're steeped in blue pill. It's a blue pill soup, with nuggets of truth floating here and there like noodles. This includes your feelings, they will be traitorous through and through at first. You work on actively internalizing what you know. You change. As a result, the soup als…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:46 AM
0

You did good. Girl likes you already and wants to see you. You can say something like this, it's a classic line: "ya, we'll see what you wanna do to make it up to me, won't we" Then send her a pic of a cute kitten licking an icecream
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:26 AM
2

It's a good idea, get all the practice you can, will need every bit of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:19 AM
4

I like it. Once met an exact clone of myself as well. It was uncanny, even the way his eyeballs shifted around in their orbits seemed to resemble the way mine do, like it's two dolls animated by the same hand. I was gratified that the dude had the exact same interests as I, plus was doing a heck of a lot better for himself with that, than I was at the time. Kinda makes you think in the middle of all those life struggles, hey maybe I'm just the backup guy, no one expects anything from me and don'…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:16 AM
5

Goofy does not look good on a man. It never did, but blue pill brainwashing is all about instilling maximum goofiness and harmlessness in you. So it's good you're moving yourself strongly away from it. Some amount of mutual playful poking is normal when you're working around other men, it's kinda like a male shit test designed to see if you will get all bent up outta shape and cry for mommy. That would mean you can't be trusted. If you don't however, and laughingly return the "favor" next time y…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:35 AM
1

Saw an ad out of the corner of my eye recently: "Here's a list of 183 women who can speak at your tech conference". Like she's going to get on the speaker list simply because she has some vagina. She really honestly thinks those women OUGHT to get on the list because vagina. Picture it to yourself, 183 teched-up honeys are tapping their foot impatiently, waiting for that invitation email to come talk about vagina at a tech conference. Bitches are hilarious overall, that's why we love them.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 12:11 AM
5

She needs a good mommy. You are a sad and inadequate substitute, no amount of logic and philosophy can fix the absence of female pheromones, color matched curtains, those little girl-soaps and who knows what else in your home. Same as a single mom, who will never replace a real dad for a boy, try as she might. Not what you want to hear at this point in life, for sure, but it's the truth. All you can hope to do is be a good father to her, while hopefully you sort out the mommy situation. They say…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:44 AM
5

It's the worries over shit like this, that kills the vibe for so many dudes. Is she into me or is she being nice? etc. etc. It's very simple. If she's still there and seems to be making some kind of half-assed effort to be there, she's into you on some level. Doesn't mean she's instantly down to fuck, but all the possibilities are there. Open road for the two of you to go wherever you want. When you don't have that and a girl makes ZERO effort, it's because she doesn't care and you are pretty mu…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:19 AM
1

"That's what they all say" "Keep it up princess"
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:13 AM
3

This post illustrates passive aggressive beta behavior with exacting detail. If you think you're in some way original or in control here, you're very much mistaken man. We say women are predictable a lot, but beta males are even more predictable than women. Following the beta playbook all the way, like a robot. It's a great "never do this" lesson. The flair you're looking for is "Blue Pill Example"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:08 AM
3

No, don't worry about that in school bud. Modern day school is no longer a privilege for men, it's basically a form of imprisonment-lite. You don't want to be there and you aren't learning shit, but you have to because reasons. As long as you realize this, you can keep your sanity and go through it OK. Girl wise, go wild, if you know it won't affect "where you eat", i.e the important stuff. Bad reps with girls in school translates into more pussy. The more they think you're the "fuckboi", the mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:04 AM
3

Great post full of spot on advice & nuance,
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:26 AM
5

She wants two things: to still be able to fuck you without anyone knowing about it, and if that fails (like you make it awkward or don't correctly deal with her anti-slut defenses), then to keep you around as her orbiter, so that if something doesn't work out with her borefriend or she gets lonely one day, she can still easily fuck you. Bonus: she doesn't want other girls getting you for themselves, so if you're orbiting around being her "friend" this helps. That's the bottom line, now you get t…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:45 PM
4

She's doing everything she thinks you want, so that she can get what she wants when you least expect it. Can't underestimate women in this, best little actors ever. The reason she's still single is that there's a battalion of men she already scared away with her antics, you're attempt #3729. Understandably she's good, very good. For me, the key is that she won't stick by you for a long-ass time, the way wife material does. This girl would be appalled by the idea that she doesn't get what she wan…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:43 PM
3

The defining quality of wife material is that it's sticky. Wife material sticks to you like it belongs, and sticks around a long, long time. That's it, everything else is just so much pretty paint, the day's makeup.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:34 PM
23

Sounds like a real rape case to me, because if it was the SJW brand rape-lite, you'd hear all about it on your first date. Plus it would be in triumphant tones: "well,my rape this" and "mhmm, but my rape that". My rape as my favorite pet. Not the case with this girl, and the embarassing details about the labia injury just confirm it. The SJW rape-lite "survivors" never have anything real-world or embarassing like that to report. Basically you are forced to accept that she's fucked in the head. C…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:53 PM
10

It's ok. She'll learn. One "trick" that always works spectacular for me is don't tell her to suck your dick. Tell her to cuddle it, then kiss it. For some reason this is "OK" to them, and brings the happy giggly eyes. Then for some other mysterious reason, after kissing it, they all want to suck it BAD. You just nod that you allow it. Your role is looking amused at what a bad girl she's turned out to be, goad her on with that. Little comments like "What're you doing Stacy...huh...? Look at you, …
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:28 PM
11

Yeah, if you ask me, it's still women's logic when men use it. Credit where credit's due, women were always the original trailblazers of this ideology, even if it eventually does take root in very masculine places such as criminal / prison subcultures etc. Defending yourself from the position of "innocence scorned" is the red cloth that enrages the bull. The only acceptable defense is immediate overwhelming offence. Then the marxist bull might think about backing off.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 07:07 PM
25

It doesn't matter if you're a racist, sexist, homophobe nazi bigot dildo and your hair is orange. What matters is that you must submit to having to self-censor and not say what you want to say next time, because someone may be offended or their feelings hurt. That changes your entire mental frame. Sincerity becomes an atavism. Your life is robbed of pleasure and meaning in a big way. Meanwhile, attacking you is easy and cheap, you defending yourself is difficult and annoying, because you'll lose…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 06:52 PM
3

She wanted to reject you. It's her little girly revenge. You'll know I'm right if the next thing you hear from her is vaguely apologetic, she'll say she wasn't feeling well and maybe admit she is emotional about how she's just a fuck hole to you. It's completely likely that after you left all bewildered, this girl had a good ole' cry while tucked into her sofa cushion there. You get the picture? You don't want to punish this, or act stand-offish over it, see if you can project the image that you…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:54 PM
1

Seems like it. And you're very welcome bro. Not familiar with your situation in depth, i.e. what kind of parents you had growing up - but you may find that when you move out on your own, a large part of that "load" crushing you now will simply stop mattering to you in a couple of weeks by itself. Something to look forward to. Your independence is not a convenience, it's an urgent priority issue that affects everything else, similar to the way it is with lifting. In a way, you're not moving out e…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:26 PM
2

You're in some completely thought-up nonexistent world where all of this shit matters. Look at it, it's all self-talk you have going on. You're up in your head, thinking all kinds of shit, while the reality you actually inhabit has nothing to do with any of this. It'll be a huge liberation for you man, when you touch down and realize it's all worry over absolutely nothing. Fake through and through. Study the sidebar more diligent, you should never be telling a girl "you like her". Nobody gives a…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:09 AM
2

Very likely not enough sparks, escalation. Look at it from a girl's POV. You're like a rollercoaster ride to her. After 3 dates she can see it doesn't go anywhere, there isn't much up, or down for that matter. It's just a steady going, sane, nice guy experience - exactly what she doesn't want. The mistake a lot of us make in the beginning is thinking "here I am, she is discovering who I am, and deciding if she likes me". It's not about that, you "as you are" are not part of the picture even. It'…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:58 AM
6

Her daddy needs to read this FR. As an RP man, he would absolutely adopt you as his new foreign soil son, except that would make his little girl sooo sad because incest, and no more golden shower for her. So he'll just have to love you from afar, and think fond thoughts about you every time he runs his hands over his perfectly undamaged Bentley.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 07:04 PM
4

You go gentle, and act a little like you never wanted to let go of her hand (it occurs in a split second, but it's there). Let her be the one to let go, you "appear" to be hungry for her touch and would hold on forever if allowed. You try to express being charmed by her, even if you aren't. The reason for this format is subcommunication. You always want to treat any woman as a woman, i.e. fuckable, even if you would never in a million years touch that with your friend's dick. They pick up on it,…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:51 PM
5

I wouldn't try to go there yet, until you understand everything better. Read the sidebar. This isn't where you start out with a girl, this is where you eventually arrive.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:43 PM
1

Means you're making definite progress. Right on bro!
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:41 PM
43

Omigah, you're such an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 05:27 PM
5

I hear you, but wanted to chime in impetuously to add that being genuinely mad at women for a while is simply good for your soul. A certain amount of innate misogyny is part of the recipe that makes a man complete; you can have a little less in you and be milder, or a little more and be extra spicy. But you'll be on the bland side if you have none in you at all. It's so forbidden to be mad at women, say anything at all negative about them, or fail to instantly fall down and worship them, that fo…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 08:06 PM
11

You know when girls diss you, deliberately shit test, and say stuff that (they think) is supposed to insult your masculinity, but you hold to your unaffected frame of mind and react with amused mastery? Gets the panties wetter near every time, and it becomes easy once learned. It's a little harder, but learning how to hold to that same unaffected/amused state of mind when girls are gushing over you is just as important. Oh you're so amazing, best sex she ever had, you're the perfect man in every…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 04:42 PM
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You do what you want with the stuff she gave you, it's the sending it to her that is a bad, bad idea. Will make you look like you're some bleeding heart weakling, to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 04:35 PM
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When you "go for it", and she rebukes you with something like "No, we're not having sex!" or "No I'm not that kinda girl!", don't freak out and don't get puppy dog sad. Smile at her, a big knowing smile, maybe say "Oh yeah?" and try giving her a big bad bear look. The game is far over when she says that, that's just part of the bigger scenario. Three steps forward, two steps back is how it always goes. You need to be cool with backing off in a charming, lazy indifferent way (no butthurt at all).…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:39 AM
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May want to think about this, it's eye opening how little it takes to knock a guy off that ego rollercoaster. https://archive.fo/kwlJD The awareness of death is depressing for the ego, but it has an RP flipside - ego is humbled, and you experience freedom and being, more and more by degrees.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:42 PM
2

You're very welcome. Bettering yourself every waking moment sounds like a noble goal. It's a type of blue pill onanism,though. Because life, the activity of living, is not about you or how great/efficient you are. Think it over. Self-improvement is a degenerate's religion, with self at the center of the universe. Meanwhile this particular "self" isn't who is actually living, it isn't real, it's some socially formed parasitic appendage that thinks it's running the show, because to let go of that …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:29 PM
2

A vivid sense of sincerity and connection. It's magic the way orgasm is magic. Fuck your rational theories and empires.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:13 AM
12

Palm reading will not fix it. Canned lines will not fix it. Style will not fix it. But 2 minutes of masculine-feminine polarity or an unexpected emotional connection does fix it. I don't mean the random emotional connection, talking about the deliberate/artificial kind that adept PUAs will field. Some of the most wonderful women I met who stuck by me for years, were the same women who completely rejected my "unlikeable" ass when I first approached or expressed interest. I've heard it all, I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 04:07 AM
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leave us alone You're not hated here buddy, only criticized. Always with a lot of love & understanding. After all, men ARE "Going Their Own Way" like big babies all over the place, it's undeniable. The way they're "Going" resembles sleepwalking or the victims of shellshock, so it draws righteous criticism due to the inherent degeneracy of that shambling state. The function of TRP is not really to force you to grudgingly work for pussy again, it's to wake the sleepwalker up. You're already here s…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:01 PM
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Don't worry about it. You let it happen, let it come at you at whatever pace it's happening it. Be charming, try to be equally as "distant" as she is, and act like you never noticed anything odd. For what it's worth, I think it's not a shit test, it's her being busy. Perhaps in not entirely wholesome ways or ways that you would like, but it is what it is. It's very important to take the "fretting" out of your relation toward the Eternal Feminine. You have to be that guy who wouldn't bat a single…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:04 PM
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It's when a woman is using the man, but the man is not using the woman. Hint hint nudge nudge.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:58 PM
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If a man wants sex, he needs to demonstrate usefulness. He needs to be utilitarian. He needs money, a high salary, or influential friends. If you believe this, you're already in a browbeaten submissive position without knowing it. Here's what the core problem is. You think that if you do X, Y, and Z, then women will grace you with the sex you want in exchange. That they're going to see you've done good things for them and for yourself, so you'll be well sexed. Thus, you are OK with the mental pi…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:34 PM
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Very good observations there. Needed to be said. Thanks for the post! It's also got another special virtue: you're bringing out all the "ironic" millenial bile and extra saucy hate from the moralfags for your little phone recon. TRP is working very hard to purge that shit with fire, you're successfully spooking them out so the modteam can rain the ban elixir on it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:49 PM
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Devastating anti-Sadie game. I feel like in your situaiton you would've still gotten laid if you had straight up said "you're a total little whore aren't you", so that's an accomplishment to treasure.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:38 PM
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They're all like that. After "Keith" happens, it's always "sorry, but I'm not sorry". Nothing special, and funnily, you can bet the exact same thing regularly happens to Keith too, so don't think he's in any way exempt from your pain because he's so damn superior or whatever. This aspect of AWALT doesn't change with a woman's quality, not one bit.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:28 PM
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That was a brilliant contribution, JamesSkepp. Bravo! A lot to think about. Many, many things we all felt in vague intuitive ways ("MGTOW is not a solution to anything", "MRA barking up wrong tree", "TRP IS about getting pussy & men manipulating women, so suck it") get tied together here into a comprehensible whole.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:31 AM
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It's 50/50, might work or might not. The more important part is that you're practicing projecting your inner asshole voice on her. That's more important than where and when you finally get to bone this flirt. Later on you might start with the asshole base and add a little charm on top: "oh shit, do your parents want me too?"
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:53 AM
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It was an illusion. The Red Pill takes away the illusions, and the illusory hopes with them too. You'll need to build completely new hopes & understandings. Women are not for respecting, they are for loving.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:48 AM
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Absolutely. It's an interesting exercise. I wouldn't actively burn any bridges you don't need to burn, though. In case you later decide to return to enjoy some of all the people you have left behind.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:46 AM
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Yeah there's something wrong. For example, you're recovering from a lifetime of blue pill indoctrination. It's not a happy place to be, and you just are not that awesome. You're a level 1 faggot just starting out, so yes you will damn well end up having to fake things like this some of the time.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 06:42 AM
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Increase your independence as much as you can. Your own place to live, even if it's with roommates. Your own money. The advice you get from TRP is not that magical. What is magical, is how it's cumulative in nature. Everything builds on everything else in little invisible ways, and then things happen to you that would never have happened if you didn't force yourself to lift when you definitely did not want to, for example. When you're more independent and somewhat established, look around you an…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:52 AM
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Oh maaan. Autists ruin everything. And they do it so beautiful and logical that you can't say shit to them in response.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:13 AM
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They take relationships very seriously, they just don't take men very seriously. If you think it over, in the larger scheme of things, that's exactly the way women need to be, for the good of all humankind. Their concern is not men (who are interchangeable and expendable), it's themselves and their children. Men exist to be conned into enabling the female agenda to flower and bear fruit, at the man's own expense. They come pre-primed by nature and nurture both to be susceptible to oneitis and "l…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 01:52 AM
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When a man turns on a media outlet and consents to be entertained by it, he is simultaneously consenting to be lied to. Consent to be entertained is consent to be deceived. It's the height of naivete to think that media outlets are overall friendly, belong to "us", that they accurately reflect one's community or the state of the world. You're staring right into the enemy's boob tube, designed from the beginning to fuck the viewer over with propaganda for profit & various anti-human inner circle …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 01:31 AM
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Why do you think you are that way? The Red Pill is the bad-tasting antidote to this ingrained oneitis priming that we all receive growing up. Tastes bad all the way but it works.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 11:58 AM
2

The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon | Chateau Heartiste
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:39 AM
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That's what they all do man. Normal stuff for any girl "in love". Keep reminding yourself: just because she wants something doesn't mean you have to ever give it to her. At some point the tears and shamings will transmogrify, and you will face an ultimatum, either commit or goodbye. You help ship her out and that's that, the story of a plate complete. If she thinks the ultimatum will not work for whatever reason, you might get more time with her to enjoy. Good to know so you act right, in ways t…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:33 AM
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Yeah, my favorite evade is to say that an ex has suddenly re-appeared in your life and there's just such a rush of mutual feelings that even though you've been estranged for a while, you two owe it to yourselves to try again at least once. This yarn is usually quietly accepted and the girls are all sparkly eye happy for you about it.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:46 AM
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You're not going to win them with the money (if you do, you won some escorts in disguise). Might work a lot better for you to focus on game and conceal that you have money. Make things happen in "surprise reveals" that hint to her you have money, but never unequivocally, needs to be some doubt there, to keep curiosity alive. Keep in mind that the moment you start subconsciously trying to buy any girl, even the sweetest, you will instantly be used for the sucker you are. Effortlessly, so smooth y…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:23 AM
1

You're inherently not satisfied with those run-of-the-mill answers, no matter how much you try to fit yourself into them, it's not going to work out. Though that brings you some suffering because you may feel like a reject, that is a touch of fortune, meaning you're destined for greater things.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:10 AM
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Spot on analysis. The clarity that comes with the red pill is mindblowing.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:07 AM
2

There comes a point when you simply won't be able to stand all this bullshit any longer for a single second. Hitting it brings great courage, you stop giving a shit. It'll be a beautiful time. Think of this as your ripening. You better try out "having a responsible adult life" before the funny choice to burn it all down to the ground naturally occurs to you, because fuck this so-called life. I think at core it has to do with sincerity, a craving to live in sincerity, surrounded by sincerity, bat…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:12 AM
4

Everything is harder for me now And?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:06 AM
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It's not that important, let her say and shout whatever she wants. And here's the romantic RP reason why - because fuck what she wants. This isn't about her. She's the fuck-ee, you're the fuck-er. She takes dick passively, you make the magic happen. It is entirely your show, she's just there for the ride. So when she begs for deeper, or teases with shit like "is it in yet", get a big smile on your shameless face and slap her ass good for being a bad, bad girl. Talk dirty to her back, teasing abo…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:59 AM
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That's what the blue pill is like. You will never truly get rid of it from your bloodstream, the sabotage is always there, you just keep it under control using your own reserve of discipline. It helps in a big way when girls break your heart. You learn a heck of a lot faster when you see just how ineffective in the real world what you've been doing is. It's the difference between being told and being whacked with a stick, we understand the latter 10X faster and deeper. Keep doing what you're doi…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:33 AM
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I think one of the best ways to pull a redpilling off is by dressing it up as "some kind of secret knowledge". Tell him what he's talking about "sounds like the fucken Red Pill", which is some secret reddit forum where they have decoded all the secrets of women. Your goal is to keep yourself and your ego well out of it, you act like you couldn't care less if he hates it or loves it, got no dogs in that fight. You're just mentioning it off-handed, it probably catches his curiousity because "secre…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:26 AM
3

There's this one girl I see occasionally in the social circle who is lightly orbiting around, she's 16. Every time she's around, my going joke is "Are you 18 yet?" and when she says no, pretend to be devastated sad: "Daaaamnn". This delights her. Nothing abnormal or evil about what happened here man. You made a bunch of mistakes, I think, the biggest of which was letting your "failure" affect your day/mental frame. And you know it, you read the sidebar. Aside from that, you might be missing how …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 12:35 AM
3

Discovering your girl's lying is nasty. Hits you straight in the vulnerable ego: how dare anybody lie to ME? And especially someone who professes to love me? Is that all a lie too and I'm a complete fool? The blue pill way to deal with it involves deciding that "Nah, I'm not a fool, she's just a bad, bad woman." On TRP you can learn a better, reality based way to deal with this, where you force yourself to realize you're nothing special, it's OK. People will lie to you, and make you a fool. You …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:53 PM
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They work good. Compliments fail when they are "coming from below", i.e. you approach and praise a woman so much that she feels herself superior to you. You shouldn't be a peasant offering tribute to amazing princesses, but rather a king riding by who notices a pretty flower roadside. May be hard to believe but many blue pill dudes fall right into this trap, and feel intense self-deprecating man-tingles as they fuck themselves over by dissembling in front of a woman, helpfully praising her at th…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:14 AM
1

Yeah but what does that get you? A few paragraphs of blabber. She won't be more attracted to you after she tells you everything about her nurse career and love for tiger shrimp.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:12 PM
1

You know the saying that a wise man learns from the mistakes of others? That may well be true, but the problem is that we're all deliberately brainwashed to the point where we do not dare think for ourselves at all. Everything, to us, has to have a ready-made, effective answer confirmed by science and handed out by Mrs. Crabapple in class. The whole idea of "I'll fucking try it, and see what happens" has been eradicated ON PURPOSE to make you and me weaker. So it may be wise and all, to learn fr…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:54 AM
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I think I'd wait till the last possible moment. Just enjoy things until then like nothing's wrong. You want to flip the script and have the girl wondering. Isn't he a little too eager there to put the exclusivity on hold, doesn't he love me? And what other bitches are behind the scenes here trying to get my man while I'm in Italy?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:34 AM
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I would try to enjoy the 6months you still have, like it's nothing bad. Because really it isn't bad. She isn't your girl, we don't have that "girl ownership" social structure any more, it got destroyed. Sometimes we men get nostalgia and pretend like it's still around. Nope. It's gone, gone, gone. She's a free bird no matter what now, even if you marry her ass. Here's my perspective on the entire thing, if you're interested. Let's say we're in some ideal parallel universe, where she's your girl.…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:23 AM
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Same for me. It would knock me out for a day or two, and then I'd wonder what benefit did anybody gain from that? I just lost two days, for fucking what, some little nostalgia?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:08 AM
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It's no wonder, the struggle is real. Blue pill brainwashing makes sure you're incapable of independent thought by the time you graduate. The big journey back to how you were before they castrated your mind begins when one recognizes this weakness. You will be that guy who slightly winces to himself whilst everybody else keeps up the prattle about how independent they are, while acting like absolutely helpless lemmings. The good news is that just a little independent thought goes a long way, and…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:53 AM
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Don't beat yourself up too much over it. Pretty sure we've all been there man. Your conclusion's spot on. It's pointless and the sooner you put yourself on a "zero-that-bitch diet", the sooner you feel better. It's not even about punishing her, just about feeling better sooner and being able to move on.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:39 AM
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The main thing is to not get mad. There's nothing to get mad about. Just inform her that you're withdrawing from your exclusivity pact, till she's back from vacay. Tell her you're not saying something has to happen, but if she does meet someone, then you think it wouldn't be fair to her as an independent strong woman to have you holding her back. You can dress it up like you're doing this for her sake, out of deeply held feminist sentiment. Of course it's implied that you're fucking whoever you …
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:32 AM
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There's a bright side to that. You don't have to be Mr. Perfect or Mr. ObjectivelyBetterThanEverybodyEver, you can instead aim for being Mr. FunRightNow. Win Mr. Perfect's girl almost everytime that way, simply because you're right there, she's horny, and you're cool.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:23 AM
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You'd be waiting forever. It's always your job to get things started. You see the hottie, you go for it, didn't even wait for the IOIs. That's really good and can make an impression on its own: "wow so confident!".
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:11 PM
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OP is not talking about those exceptional women of brilliance. Ironically, while they're good at demonstrating a woman can be just as capable as a man in job X, they're typically terrible at being feminine and being women. They might as well be men, you can treat girls like that as you would a man, and they function fine under real world pressure. The only problem is that no one wants to protect, nurture, or fuck them, since they're basically men.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:12 AM
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Chillax, Jim Carey. You're a fuckin inflateable clown to this girl, but you still thinking you're going for the Oscar Award here. As in, thinking your texts or shit you say actually matters and is funny. It really does not matter, at least not in the way you'd assume from the movies. You don't need to be a suave smartass with the perfect line for everything, it can even hurt you if you're too smart. Sure it's adorable but you're shooting at flies with your orbital canon, and a girl cannot fail t…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:46 AM
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Don't have to lie, but be prepared. Girls love to ask very bluntly, because it's a sexual challenge that has connotations of her being a choosy powerful female being, while you ain't shit unless a girl says you're ok for a fuck. It's a shit test to give you. Will you become all deflated and down on yourself over this, as you tell her you're a kissless virgin? That would be really funny for her to see, and then you will never get laid. The key thing to realize about the stuff girls ask you, is th…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:25 AM
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Here's my advice for what it's worth. You need to learn from her, learn how to treat her in the exact same aloof way that she treats you. The current "Oh hey so sorry" state of things is directly caused by your obvious eagerness and adoration of her. Even though you dodged full blown oneitis, she still feels the power of her cuteness working on you. Stop that shit dead in its tracks, and now she will be the one who's a little insecure and running after you, because you become the coveted prize. …
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:55 AM
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That's not the end of the line, sit tight, gets even better after that.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:45 AM
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It's a good question man. How do you answer questions, when you really need a fucking answer that works, and there's no one to help you?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:39 AM
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Yeah, I see it as a form of adorable manipulation that is deliberately deployed. In other words, the swooning comes only when she wants something, and this helps her to get it. It is rare for it to "arise organic" out of a man's looks alone. A woman doesn't care how he looks (within reasonable limits of course), it's about what can he do for her, and about the social context - i.e. how desirable is that man currently to other women she knows? That's way more important to her than how proud he is…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:03 AM
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Don't be creepy, daddo. Your thoughts on it don't matter. She's a woman hear her roar.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:22 PM
1

They don't give a shit. This is not an accomplishment, it's who you're expected to be from the get-go, from square one, simply to register as "a man" on their radar. If you think it through, you'll see the wisdom of it. You'll get swooning and all that when a particular specific girl is with you in person and she wants you under her thumb. There's no reason for them to swoon on FB over your looks, they're there to gather validation for the pretty one (her) not give it out to you. RP bottom line:…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:08 PM
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This was a very important post. The included short snippet doesn't do it justice, those interested should follow the link, read the full thing. Because it's the story of Mitch, guy in his 50ies who found a very special Ukranian unicorn who packed his lunch and sucked his dick so much that he was absolutely sure she is The One, and that TRP is too radical & what Rollo told him is just hardcore negativity. The amazing part is that Mitch figuratively flips his online "detractors" the finger and goe…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 09:34 PM
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You're a little lost bro, missing the forest for all the trees you see around you. You're sadly missing what is really going on because it's not nearly as neat or nice as the logical theory your brain came up with. Through a red pill lens it's easy to discern what's really going on though: the girl's ex is her unfaithful, alpha Chad, while the unlucky boyfriend that wants LTR (but isn't going to get shit) is Billy-beta-bucks, her secondary mating choice. Female dualistic mating strategy, the sto…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:51 PM
1

The Red Pill is extreme. Always has been. It's a ritual clean break with the world of women as we know it, an initiation into a completely different and forbidden mental space. An extreme clarity. Many people find useful nuggets of info here and think that's good enough for them, as they don't wanna "get too extreme". Making the assumption that their default state is somehow moderate or balanced. It's not, in 2017 just about everybody's default state is extreme pussy worhip and gynocentrism. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:28 PM
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Right on, you're in exactly the correct RP mindset to navigate it.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:39 PM
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You're on askTRP, of course you should buy condoms in bulk. Treat her as if she's your bratty little sister. So of course you tease and poke fun at her, but it's done with love too, it's your sis. Girls love that hand on the small of her back thing that you described. In general the sexy tension is an automatic thing, it builds when you're 1:1 with your girl and having fun, all by itself. That's why group dates are not recommended, if she tries to drag "a friend" along, tell her no, she cannot. …
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:29 PM
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No lunches, that's for women you're already fucking (and only if she's been especially good). Here's what you do: Skip the wait game, because it's 2017 everything is instant gratification in a sexy girl's life. Ideally, you'd wanna wait a couple days - but these days, it's a solid possibility that she'll forget who you even were in a couple days. At your earliest convenience, text her "hey" Make her giggle with your cocky & funny self (couple of minutes convo, don't let this drag out!) Making pl…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:09 AM
1

Brother, she does not care how much you suffer. It's a woman. The last place you'll get mercy, closure or understanding is a woman who no longer has a use for you. They are all like this, it's not that she's a bad apple. What happened to you happens to millions of men all day every day, and if it's your fault, then it's not a fault of your character as such - rather of how nobody educated you about basic female nature. So you fell for every ruse, every trap, and now found yourself here in this d…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:49 AM
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Very good that you never showed your displeasure. You can feel however you want about it, but show it to your girl and you will instantly be a sore loser in her eyes. One good way to react is "agree and amplify", something like "Yeah he's hot, I think I'm attracted to him myself. Might have to challenge you to a fight to the death over the mating rights." Another way is to crush those emotions (they're natural, primal male instinct) entirely within yourself, so that you become the girl's shepher…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:38 AM
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None of my plates are strangers. The best of them turn into long term plates. There's always some kind of connection going on, some kind of mutual recognition if you know what I'm talking about. Plate theory says nothing about mandatory fucking only strangers. It's about not falling for the outdated blue pill "lock a girl down" narrative (no matter what she promises, you can't lock a girl down, that whole possibility is gone because the social shaming for unfaithful women is gone, extinct). It's…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 07:21 AM
1

There's always a way, but don't go there man. It's way too easy to "over text" yourself into a loss before the game even starts. Anything that makes you seem eager kills their attraction for you. Nothing bad will happen if you let her drop off the radar for a week, then invite her out when you're free as usual. In the meantime try to only talk to her when it's her initiating. Maybe send her a funny kitten pic randomly once.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:07 PM
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It comes with age. The older a woman, the more entitled she is, not less. Go figure. I call it panic-titlement. That play to get you out with her bluepill family may lead to pressure being applied to you, so you "get serious about her". More entitlement. The bottom line is, are you willing to put up with more of the same type of stuff, and be deft enough to dodge every ball she throws your way? Because no matter what you do, she will keep on throwing. Next man after you, she will be the exact sa…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:00 PM
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Perhaps you already know everything, and the Red Pill is unnecessary BS for you. You are invited to try out your healthy principles and beliefs and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 10:54 PM
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Also had fucked up teeth at 19. Thought no woman would ever look my way as soon as I open that gnarly-mouth. Which was true enough, women had that instant "NOPE" reaction that you can't do anything with. One particular case stuck in my mind, I was at an event and noticed a very attractive bubbly chick was eyeing me. She approached me HERSELF, with the classic smiley "don't I know you from somewhere?". As soon as I said something back she was gone like the wind, NOPEed the fuck out because teeth,…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:19 PM
2

Talk to her about how sexy she looks when she's pouting. The most important thing is to not take the pouty seriously. You have to be enjoying it all the way.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:08 PM
1

You can't. It's impossible because there's a lot of deception going on. You will be taken in for a ride if you're "looking", because the girl knows how to be exactly what you want her to be, to get what she wants from you. If she sticks around for a long time and is sweet to you, then you're forced to admit it's a LTR. Don't actively go looking for trouble, because trouble will find you on its own.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:02 PM
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LMR is when she says "no" to test you and test her own power over your frame of mind. Girl wants to see if you're going to be deflated, discouraged by it. If you are, then this is a sure sign you were never "worth it" in the first place, just faking your way into her pants, so naturally she will be put off. You have to be cool about it and act like you've seen it all a million times before. She says no? All you should hear is "not yet". Fine, get something from the kitchen or whatever, slow-danc…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:23 PM
3

She's a good girl. Got your emotions all wrapped like a pretzel, and she knows she has you. The more she torments you, the more she has you. You need to comprehend this, on your own, without begging her for mercy or explanations or closure. AWALT, this dynamic is something every man goes through and has to understand that giving up your power to a woman "because love" is always going to be the ruin of you. What better way to understand, than experiencing it yourself first-hand, the confusion, th…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 08:30 AM
2

And you realize that the enemy didn't just teach him everything wrong, they also taught the man to actively hate and fear the very truth of things that he needs to be free, he was hit from every angle including being physically poisoned by carefully selected chemicals in a broad, systematic way... and so many other things besides, so that he never had a chance, never got a shot - like that hapless bull in Jack London's corrida tales who steals the show and becomes the dying hero of the whole thi…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 06:39 PM
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It's not gonna work out. Save yourself the trouble and cut her off now, but you can do it gentle: "Look you're a great girl and I want the best for you, it's just that right now it wouldn't be fair to either of us to stay exclusive now that we're in different colleges. But for sure when you get back here and we're both single, we could pick up where we left off?" There'll be some bittersweet tears and a slightly amazed/worshipful look in her eyes, because it's guaranteed she is thinking the same…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:21 AM
7

Think about how much easier this guy's whole life would be, if he knew just the bare essentials, the ABCs of women, for example as TRP explains it, or even as his own grand-grandfather knew it. He wouldn't need any feminist advice, and he wouldn't be laser-focused on just one girl obsessing about how perfect in every way she is & setting himself up for the inevitable fall when this doesn't pan out in reality.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:06 AM
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Ascertain she isn't lying to you about her age. Usually this is a phase they go through in 9th grade.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 01:30 AM
1

Quite serious. What belief system inside you is forbidding it to you? I've had YEARS post-redpill where women were my main goal and focus. I was extremely deficient, so a lot of catch up to do. TRP never said "it should never" about any topic, that's not up to us to decide. If you want to make women your main goal in life, fine go for it, TRP provides the tools to do it effectively.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 01:20 AM
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Of course it feels different with her BB. Women can't stand it, it's like she's being forced to do him, out of sheer guilt and she doesn't want to. Then another month or two goes by, and this asshole has the audacity to come begging again?? Don't try to imagine it, it's gross what girls have to go through.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:44 AM
7

My advice, as you slim yourself down, adjust your look toward more and more austerity. No zigzag or eyesore plaid, no tshirts with logos and slogans. Wear basic single-color shirts (especially in black), decent trousers of your choice with a very nice, pricey belt that you enjoy the look of. If you can go for some nice shoes without too much inconvenience, do it. If your hair is so-so or has a faggoty look to it, shave it down to zero and own it. It will give you a sharp casual look, like you're…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:37 AM
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You're wrong to automatically see a good mother in her just because she's cute and worships you, it's blue pill wishful thinking. Making castles out of hopes'n'wishes never ends well, you get disappointed, she gets disappointed, everybody is disappointed at everybody and miserable. Just see her for who she is and see if it's possible to love it for what it is.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:30 AM
1

Nothing will feel natural or good at first. It'll be forced, and leave you drained by the end almost every time. That's fine, that's just how it goes while you're making changes. Don't expect the sociability to improve on its own or with ease. It takes some grinding before you feel like you're making some appreciable progress. No worries about your background being stunting, these days almost everybody starts out socially retarded (heavy blue pill brainwashing from school, parents, and movies) a…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:25 AM
1

Sounds like PUA standards have gone down a lot in 2017. I learned a lot of useful game tactics from the oldschool (Ross Jeffries etc). Far, far cry from cute canned lines.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 01:53 AM
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This is great, you're hitting all the goals by just listening to what the body is demanding and when. It's guiding you superbly. Here're some more golden ideas for you: Food can be divided into 3 rough groups: salad greenery, protein, and carb. Avoid mixing carb and protein in a single meal. You need about 3 hours in between. Salad goes with anything. So you either go for salad+protein, or salad+carbs. Improves digestion efficiency dramatically. You'll feel a big difference in only a few days, a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 10:38 PM
1

Why "should it never"? It's worth focusing on one thing at a time. Identified problem, found a range of solutions (including PUA knowledge), tried them all. All good.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 10:19 PM
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You've got to stop seeing it as "all the bad this girl did". It's not actually bad, it's just what they all do. All women do this, they are all adorable liars just like this girl was to you. It's really fine, that's who they are, there is no problem with them; the problem is that you're never told about how inherently false they actually are. If you know this truth in your bones, there's no need to for wishful thinking, convincing yourself they're these wonderful angel creatures (to be able to l…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 11:28 AM
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Have you seen those videos where bitches smack their lips, crumple napkins and lick icecreams for 2 hours straight? ANYTHING is a tool for bitches who KNOW they look good, to attention-whore even more. If you were crumplong napkins on youtube, nobody would give a shit, but because she has the fake eyelashes, that'll be 1 mil views easy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 10:59 AM
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What do you mean, no reason. She was away for a long time and you were lonely.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:27 PM
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She'll go on her tour. It's pointless trying to forbid it. You kiss her and tell her to have lots of fun. While she's gone, make a point to meet other women so you don't feel like a cuckold. When she's back, you won't be suspicious, just happy and a little guilty (in secret) about what you did while she was away.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:07 AM
1

Our enemy has a thing for stating or showing exactly what they're doing to you or going to do, in plain sight. You see this time and time again. It's some kind spiritual principle with them, almost as if they're covering their ass for the inevitable: God: "You scum. Mess with my people? Want to get annihilated or what? Because that's how you get annihilated." Satan: "Nooo, man, look - I'm telling them exactly what I'll do and I do it. Fair and square. It's their own choice not to see it, honest!…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 01:50 AM
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The sadness is intense, but it's necessary. If you think about it, all of that sadness is the direct result of "wanting things" from your girl that she was never designed to provide you. The blue pill delusions fill a man with blue pill wants, and then blue pill sadness when those wants are not fulfilled. The sadness is helping in your TRP awakening, because you're going to realize just how much you might be still keeping women on a pedestal. They are not worthy, or virtuous, or wonderful, nor d…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:13 AM
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You'll be fine man, look how much ancient buried shit and weakness this little experience has stirred up in you. It's all coming up with a happy, urgent gurgle now, like a toilet backing up. Your ego is in damage control, self-placation mode. This is a fantastic opportunity to grow, if you use it right. Pay attention to everything in you that is trying to justify, explain, and reassure you that you're the best hombre to ever live, at the very least far better than anyone on internet forums. Your…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 09:06 AM
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You'll see her. The big thing now is to not chase. You don't send her anything, get comfy and see other girls in the meantime. Let her send you a random text when she feels like it, It may be a few days, but women have a special telepathic radar, as soon as you stop thinking about her, this radar goes off and she has to reassure herself that she's still the princess of your whole universe.... by telling you she saw a dream with you in it, or there's a movie and there's a guy in it who's an assho…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:25 PM
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Why the fuck do I care who thinks I'm a pussy? Doesn't matter whether you care or not. The social dynamics are ruthless, the situation was instantly reconfigured in everybody's mind and you became the submissive party, regardless of how highly you still esteem yourself in yours. Witness how your own family members were disappointed by your reaction, not by this bonehead who you like to criticize. We already know what's up with him, and frankly it isn't much, he's no enigma, nor was he ever a rea…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:05 PM
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Your bro was pissed for a good reason. You lost the plot when you looked down and away like a submissive goody-twoshoes. A challenge like that from another man doesn't mean you give him any "rises" or get angry, but you have to meet it head on somehow, or else you're a pussy. Even though his threats were empty, you were "concerned" and looked away = he wins, it was exactly what he wanted from you. example non-escalation but head-on response: "Ya come bash it in, never liked this ugly face I got …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:27 PM
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You know what's actually at the root of it? You're not used to pushing yourself, you're not pushing hard enough. You're not busy enough in your life in general, you're not driving it - it's just coasting along. You think it's OK for you to be in the second and third row of the battle line, and hopefully the enemy spears don't even reach that far. An Alpha would be deeply OFFENDED by such a prospect of being in the back or just coasting along. Your attitude is the essence of being a beta. You are…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:58 AM
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You're up against decades of brainwashing. People can overcome brainwashing sometimes. But first they have to want it, an intense "fuck it all, I'll fucking try anything at this point" desire. If you're not seeing anything like that from these buddies of yours, it's a waste of time to preach to them about the secret knowledge. What you can do for them though, is keep planting those seeds and lovingly guiding them toward that "fuck it all" prerequisite feeling. Try to involve more demonstration v…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:45 AM
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Approach 3 crochety old ladies, ask how is their day and exchange pleasantries. Imagine how fuckin hot they were when younger. Then switch it up a little and approach attractive women of fuckable age. Same deal, but imagine how wrinkly and saggy they will look in a few years time. Nothing special will happen, you won't be a success nor will you be a failure. No one is judging you, it's just a blue pill taboo you gotta break for yourself and then get addicted to breaking the blue pill rules in ge…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:28 AM
1

"Iron John: A Book About Men" by Robert Bly This is for you to actually understand him. Once you're there, it will be up to you what you want to do.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 11:13 AM
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Let the girl deal with it while you're smirking and enjoying it. The burns those little cuties hand out when push comes to shove are often epic. It comes with the territory, since she's been rejecting boys since about age 10, she's an absolute expert at it. There's also a nice slight dread that comes from it. You want your girl to be afraid/slightly paniced that she'll look bad in your eyes because some random guy hit on her, that it might ruin the sweet thing she has going on with you. You're n…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 02:13 AM
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Simply assume they're ALL interested. You won't be far wrong. The daddy angle beats anything else (this goes even if you're younger than her!). Don't make any efforts to stoop down to her level or try to be "cool with the newschool". Really emphasize your own mental space/lifestyle, which is by definition better than hers in every way, something for her to meekly look up to with vague hopes as to how her pussy is magically gonna get her all of this too. Rest assured you've got what she's looking…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 02:00 AM
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That's news to me, thanks. I would have any number of questions about that like "was it with or without water", and "what other medications were involved", "was the heart attack somehow triggered by the fast", "had he fasted before" and so on, but I get what you're saying. It's definitely a serious thing not to be played with any way you cut it, and up to everyone's personal decision.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:50 PM
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This is the protocol I've been using myself with great success. I like how simple it is. To me it has that ring of "everything you need, nothing you don't" which I always appreciate because of my limited will power. Comes by way of a little known guy from the Ukraine, Vladimir Vuxta. He's a little like their local Jacques Cousteau, an expert traveller into extreme survival & soviet sports medicine. Just one example of what him and his team like doing, they crossed the Atlantic ocean "along the p…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:07 PM
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it is very possible that she secretly despises you and keeps you around for her own personal benefit I find this is always true. Even the best of the best are the same way. They're not always stupidly malicious about it, but that secret contempt for a sucker is what she's always thinking in the background of all her cute feminine dissembling whilst she's with you. With her GFs she's completely different, rest assured. You're being had. It doesn't matter how alpha you are. Your ego will block you…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:52 PM
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Ha, spot on. For most of us, the demineralizing "wash out" effect of distilled water is a desirable part of fasting with it. But if someone's that scared of "acidosis and organ failure", no problem go for spring water, knock yourself out. Just do the rest of it right, it'll still do everyone a world of good. Doctors and modern medicine in general were always terrified by fasting, it's anyone's guess why they stubbornly think a human will die after 20 days with no food or 3 days with no water, wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 03:56 AM
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It won't over 3 days. It won't do that even over 40 days of water-only fasting. If scared of acidosis, spring water is just fine too.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 02:49 AM
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Avoid drinking juice when fasting, unless you're the one who just juiced it fresh from fruits and veg. Juice from packets and all that other shit is juice in name only, and it's better for a fasting person to have nothing but water, than to have those "juices". The body becomes extremely sensitive/stingy in response to hunger and everything you put in will be spread around & utilized to the max, regardless of its possibly toxic qualities. Avoid any caffeine-containing drinks when fasting. Only i…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 01:54 AM
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The "friendly Marxism with a human face" agitprop undertones couldn't be more obvious. It is afraid.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:36 PM
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He's speaking for himself, as a man should. Note that Dr. Peterson is not a Red Pill guy. He's a smart blue pill guy who sees a lot of cracks and bugs in the code around him, but he never went red like a lot of people here have. Which is a tremendously freeing experience. It's why even younger less experienced red pill bros can easily run circles around someone like Peterson where it comes to seeing through the bullshit and enabling effective relations with women. They are not shy, he is. They k…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:16 AM
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It's always very negative for women. Very positive for most men.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:01 AM
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It's a bad idea to call it "Polyamory". Don't use that word, don't explain your "lifestyle choice" to well meaning psychiatrists and people in general, UNLESS you're a girl - then you can do no wrong and everyone supports your lifestyle choice 100%. You go grrrrl. You're a man so you don't get to go. You get a cheeky smile on about it: "oh ya, I'm just looking for that one special girl who'd be right for me, but am seeing a few girls right now". Now your psychiatrist is smiling too, "well done, …
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:07 AM
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You know that motivation that feels like fire inside, and for a time it's almost as if you can do no wrong? There's two things to notice about it that will put you right back in control: It comes at a price. The price you pay for that much motivation is being forced to do a lot of thinking about yourself, reflecting about things like your own death and what you want, what you think you might be able to do while you're still alive and kicking. Painful things to think about a lot of the time, whic…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:49 AM
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You got the red pill. If you adopt even 10% of what you learn here and really internalize it, you'll be way ahead. Don't spare yourself. It's real easy to become obsessed with optimal, rational solutions, which from another angle are just ways to spare yourself from bad experiences. Don't fall for that, it's a typical trap. Live it up with an open heart, be big enough that you can take a few stabs in the back, even from your closest friends and still keep on trucking like nothing happened. It ha…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:28 AM
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For things like what she should wear, knock yourself out, be her drill sergeant. Very direct, shamelessly order her to do what you want her to do. She'll only love you more for it. It's other things, like how she should be acting and what you expect her to not do with her GFs, for example, that are more troublesome. If you just lay it out, it won't do much good. Requirements that are set in stone are easy for a woman to avoid or hamster around. If you want it a little more effective, try express…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:41 PM
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The psychology boffins back in the good old days (when there were no "animal abuse" laws to stop them) did a bunch of interesting experiments on dogs. They'd take a normal dog, put it into an electrified cage and randomly shock it. They then set up a different cage in parallel, with a different dog, and shock that one too, but only when it would go close to the cage's door. They made sure the amount of shock both dogs got was roughly the same. After a while of this (few weeks), they would open t…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:25 PM
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You don't have a relationship with her, you have a relationship with a sperm-caked hallucination you're keeping alive in your own mind. The fact "you feel something so special" is the whole reason you can't get this girl. Otherwise you wouldn't have any issues and would probably bang her. Other men are doing that right now for you, so maybe it's time to consider those high-minded blue pill special-feelings in a new light. Is the special feeling your best friend or your worst enemy? You decide. A…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:12 PM
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It's about getting pussy. Unleash the inner rudeboy, no apologies for being a man.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:07 PM
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When you're fucking a woman it feels good and you satisfyingly think you're fucking her over by taking the pussy like such an unstoppable brute. Actually it's the other way around, yes she's getting fucked, but she's fucking you back way more than you're fucking her. You are, in her mind, always the chump if your dick is inside her. Some idiot who thinks he's having her, while she is actually having him. Your observations about energy vampirism are spot on.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:01 PM
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When a guy simply understands that it's "when it explodes, not if", everything falls right into place. And this "when" may not happen in years and years especially with good "bitch management", so why not enjoy it to the fullest. All the best man!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:07 PM
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The social media experience shows you a distorted picture of other people's (supposedly amazing) lives. That part's not real and nothing to worry about. But there's something else here, note how it's also showing you a chink in your armor, a weakness for feeling not good enough. Easily becoming de-valued and lost. Angrily rebellious against this fate, "it's not fairrrrrr!" like some little kid. The resentment and jealousy almost. Note how feminine all of that is. This inner thing is very real an…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:30 AM
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Read up about how girl LMR works (last min resistance). You may see some of that, and your response should be a big condescending smile, definitely not deflation and panic. It doesn't mean she doesn't want you, maybe she just doesn't want you to think she's too easy, or another one of 100 reasons that LMR happens. You're already equipped for the sex part, basically just enjoy. If it fucking sucks, don't fret. Laugh at it, and at her, and at yourself. You get a few "free ones" before you start to…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:36 AM
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Interesting situation. How do you think she's doing it? If it was just one son for example, that could be written off as something to do with his dependent character. But it's, as you say, everybody in the family that is now dependent on her. How's she doing it??
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:02 AM
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I'd avoid that. Because with her friends around it's a complete waste of time, nothing will ever happen between you and her. Making her getting all used to you as a chaste brother of hers. Tell her to have fun and you'll "join another time".
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:55 PM
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couldn't seem to find the type of guy I need. Using masculine strategies & perhaps even reading TRP is likely to mess you up. By this I mean less sexually attractive, you will start putting men off without knowing it. I once read an interesting historical vignette, claiming that in ancient India, there were certain "man management" arts that were women only, including how to make your man do anything you want by changing what he eats, using certain perfumes, dancing, singing, and of course sexua…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:26 PM
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Compared to the average man, what women are capable of might as well be called supernatural. It's way more advanced than the man is even able to imagine. Of course it's not really supernatural, since it's very natural for a woman to have such capabilities. On the flipside, men have their own superpowers, such as opening pickle jars, or operating heavy machinery like logic, far beyond anything a woman might imagine as possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:11 PM
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These problems with "emotional connections" are a normal part of being poisoned all your life, by the blue pill. You're not a choosy emotional human being with a full range of ability, as you may flatter yourself, you're in reality more like a stunted, gnarled up form of who you were meant to be, for now. Like a kid who won't play with others because he's holding a meaningless grudge. Your heart's blocked, closed off from the world, and that's tragic for a man. Again, not through any fault of yo…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:56 PM
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It's fine to be clueless, almost everyone starts out like that. You just need to decide for yourself that you're fairly dedicated from now on to learning the masculine skillset that is colloquially known as "Game".
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:46 PM
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Sometimes you just luck out. Maybe her daddy had a gut just like you. No worries about being an orbiter - it's her trying to get with you, not vice versa. Enjoy it to the fullest man. Go forth and conquer, with due care of course - it could be she wants to dangle the carrot and then use you for something she needs/wants. If you're aware of this, it's easier to cut it off with a firm "No" and cause major tingles, since NOBODY says no to 19yr old hottie her.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:41 PM
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A lot of men think that if a girl wants relationship, she's going to tell you "I want a relationship" straight up. Or if she's into the random hookup scene, she'll just tell you so. That's very wrong headed. It's part of women's innate sexual strategy to keep these things confused and amorphous. It's easy from your POV,but hellishly complicated from hers. You aren't doing shit, she's the one who's responsible for finding, seducing, and locking down the best men she can. Even after she locks down…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:34 PM
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When girls tell me they're feminists, I make a face like she just told me that she has an adorable bunny costume. Then follow up with the following phrase: "No you're not, you're a good person." This causes momentary stupor. The programming is broken and messed up, even if it's just for a single instant. If it hit home (doesn't matter if she agreed or disagreed), she will never look at you same now. No longer are you "some guy", you are now an exciting foreigner from outside the social matrix sh…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:16 PM
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In general you're correct. But there's more nuance to work with in each specific situation, once you got the general understanding down. If Mozart always followed music theory rules rigidly, then he wouldn't be Mozart. He followed them when it made powerful sense, and he broke them when it made powerful sense.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:59 PM
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Being pissed off is a good place if you are the one who's in control of the feeling, not it of you. Girls pick up on this. If you're just pissed and feeling sorry for yourself - then you're a low value man. If you're pissed and dangerous,angry, ready to defend your territory - that's hot to them. But you must stay in control of it, almost like carefully play-acting the anger. her: why are you so distant you: because I'm angry as shit with you her: what?? why! you: guess etc. etc. It's very disar…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 04:07 AM
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little sister and when she grows up and whoever she marries I sure as fuck hope he's not RPilled. It's a strange thing, if you love her you really should be hoping for the opposite. That her man is as RP as they get. Here's why: that's the only thing that will give her the female emotion rollercoaster she needs to be truly happy as a woman. The Golden Rule doesn't apply because you are not a woman, so naturally you would not like to be treated like a woman.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:57 AM
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they're just walking pieces of flesh but instead of a dick down there, it's a vagina. I don't think you believe this in earnest. In day to day, you treat women different compared to men, and completely not in line with this "chunks of meat" premise. It's feminazi equalist propaganda, trying to speak through you. It even expresses itself as a tv-inspired "newsflash".
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:53 AM
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What the fuck's happened to this thread? Just read it again after a couple days and it's now full of blue pill invaders with their "cringes" and "respect women,hypocrite" scripts. In my opinion OP's original was good, and true red pill material. I cannot believe the numbers of upvotes on white knight posts in his thread, it's a shit tsunami.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 08:06 AM
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That's how it always works in the blue pill movies. So the movie will unfortnately constantly run in your head, that this is what you need to do too. Train hard, but when someone's armed it's no longer about looking good for the movie in your head. It's now about you and yours all with terrifying wounds, permanent scars if you survive and quite possibly life-long incapcitation/aches n' pains. Give the guy your wallet, it's fine. Training? What training, I'm just a small man, compliant little bet…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 05:09 PM
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It's all good, we all need some good hazing when 19. Look at OP's response, perfect cool, perfect example of thick skin amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:53 PM
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I liked the post a lot, thanks man. Even though you got some slight hazing for being 19, this was absolutely worthwhile. Great insights in there, and it's generally invigorating to read the thoughts of a man who's really THINKING, noticing and reflecting at every step.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:03 PM
3

There's more about people than they let on. Heck, there's more about people than they themselves know... Don't be too-too discouraged by the boredom. It's normal, that feel is something you carry with you through your entire life as an RP man. It often takes being with someone in some type of extreme or high pressure situation - you may find out things about them and about yourself that let you connect on a whole new non-boring level. Flashes, glimpses of real life nicely framed by everybody's d…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 03:23 PM
2

Is it just me or is this issue getting more and more common? For me it definitely is. I deal with it by dumping the associated girls. Just not worth the headaches, the schitzo ex will be in your life so much one way or another, that you'll feel like you're dating him instead of her. The worst is that girls think this is normal and should be accepted. Some come with SEVERAL schitzo ex's attached to them.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:59 PM
7

You want to have a cocky-funny easy going lazy vibe. What exactly you say doesn't matter as much as that vibe. It's important not to seem like she's the center of your whole world. I'd probably send something like "oh hey, you're THAT girl huh?" Another classic would be just "hey", and try to keep going with short single-worders as much as you can. Example: you: hey her: who's this? you: the super charming guy you met at that bus stop her: haha what etc. etc. After you made her giggle a little b…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:32 PM
6

In my experience they are less "bubblesome" and not as chatterboxy. I like it. You get a sweet introspective vibe from them and might think it's a sign of her amazing depth and wisdom. Actually it's just a kind of dim sullen-ness (no matter how smart she is at her job etc.) and a form of giving up, accepting that non-negotiable background role that typically is alotted to these girls in the west. The pleasant illusion creates itself for her simply because she's keeping her mouth shut. It's ridic…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:21 AM
15

Purely Biological = The Gods Made it That Way = a Priest's Certitude (wether of the scientific method or of "the gods") that The Priest Alone Knows Factual Answers. The good Emperor, by posing the question, was inviting you and I to think, and it is at the very least discourteous to refuse this helpful entreaty with "Biology. We already know this." No we don't, because this "factual knowledge" is not qualitatively the same as the self-knowledge gained through introspection and concerted thought …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:13 AM
4

Women are for loving, not for trusting. Open up your Bible man, it's literally right there in Chapter 1. Trusting women is the root of all evil. Women get their best ideas directly from the Devil. You need to be a man, and stand above the women as their shepherd, their protector and owner. The instant any woman steps out of line, you are ready with a 1000 ways to put her back in her place, verbally, emotionally, physically. Then you can love them, they can love you, and your family overall can b…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:57 PM
1

The way out of depression often lies through anger. You might be trying to skip it since you're so enlightened. Causes stuckness. My suggestion is stop trying to skip it, and give yourself full permission to get fucking angry. It won't last forever either, but you can harvest it for all its worth, and pop out like a cork on the other side.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:43 PM
2

What you should do is study TRP material. Your blue pill upbringing/brainwashing is killing your chances for love and happiness, all over the place in your story. Small RP changes to how you conduct things will have huge results for you. At the moment, you're this girl's helpless orbiter. Need to learn what that is and how to stop that vicious cycle for good. That spontaneous kiss you're planning to drop at the party is a bad idea dude. You'll scare any girl away with that shit. Stand back, and …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:37 PM
2

I've successfully teased girls into learning to cook properly. Teasing her for being a spoiled brat works. Think of it as...inspiring her to be better, in a really mean, condescending, yet charming masculine way. Serious, respectful sit-down talks do not work, as you discovered. Just makes the woman resent you, no results in the end anyhow.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:31 PM
6

She'll be super mad, expect it whenever you demote a girl. They cannot stand it when instead of more commitment she gets less, it's against their nature. Makes girls want to ragequit on you. But if you can get over that by being extra nimble and sweet, then you might be able to turn it into a nice FWB / plate situation.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:25 PM
4

He didn't say almost anything to me all night. Bad bad sign, man. But you knew that. My advice, in order of significance: no need to ragequit on her, but softly let her go in your own heart regardless show nothing negative about new guy. Any sign of displeasure or concern about this, and it's going to look like a weakness you have, to her. As if you're intimidated. Act like he doesn't exist and nothing ever happened, for now. don't buy your own hamstering about how "she doesn't have time". Take …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:13 PM
2

Ask me how did I know that? It's because I almost took an $1200 course about crystals and astrology when I was dating this one vegan chick. Sadly, she was a Saggitarius in some parts of her and that is antinomy to my ruby aura. Jokes aside, this is not even a shit-test, it's a joke she's teasing you with. Big mistake taking it so serious. Here's what you say to her: "No."
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:41 PM
3

or even continue fucking unless I sign up for a $1,200 self improvement course Ha ha ha - good one. Let me guess, the course is about how you need to be more in touch with your better half, your feminine side, and how to kiss her ass better?
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:32 PM
1

That's very cute. She has your angry emotions wrapped round her little finger, indirectly thanks to TRP. You got played, but it was by an expert. No shame in that. Next time someone claims you're a beta, a better answer would be "a what?" or "look who's talking" or "I'm not into pokemon"
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:29 PM
5

"you're too young for me" That's your typical "you're too X for me" shit-test. Don't take it seriously when you've only just met. It's to be expected. Smile at the attempt, say to yourself "nice try". Then to her: "I know, it's sick, you're cradle robbing here so hard. But don't worry I get older every year."
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:25 PM
16

My advice is to just fuck her. Because fuck her. Don't let what women say mess with your head. It's not supposed to make any sense, it has no truth in it, it's simply stuff women say... It's adorable, wiggly, wobbly and is like purple stage fog. It does not mean anything for you. You smile and go "sure sugarpuffs", and she'll love you for it too. Remember, that you are the rare sought-after sexual prize, not her. Fucking you is how girls gain admittance. Forget about accomodating their ridiculou…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:00 PM
26

They're not innocent. They look innocent/aww cute. There's a big difference man.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:52 PM
15

She will never initiate anything. The timing is perfect for you to suggest something, even though last time she was lukewarm about it. No big deal, no reason why you can't try again, now that it's a week or so later. After some basic smalltalk you can go: "Hey I'm going ice skating Thursday, you wanna come keep me adorable company?" It's not always a mistake "to ask", just something that is sometimes recommended when you want to sound more assertive. Look at my example above, that can work perfe…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:48 AM
1

Lawyer up ASAP. It's not about this bitch or the events that night any more, you're about to enter into the System's mouth opening, and its teeth will grind you up like it's nothing, unless you have good representation. It's you vs. the state now, prepare accordingly to fight for your life. The truth doesn't matter, no one cares about your story. They will never listen to you and say "oh so that's what happened? what a ridiculous bitch, you're free to go sir." Not how it works. They will work th…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:20 AM
1

Under all the denial, fat rolls and mendacious jewish ideologies meant to cause her own self-destruction, that's a deeply unhappy and confused little girl. She, and untold millions like her, were all abandoned by their men to fend for themselves. The men just surrendered them to feminism, to immigration and to all the rest. They who should have known she has no capacity to fend for herself, abandoned this child because of their own confusion & self destructive programming. It's a painful sight, …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:53 AM
30

That's adorable. The famous female trickle-truth in action. The best way to respond to this is with no answers whatsoever. Act like you never got her messages, let her go crazy for 2 days. When she's back, be sweet. Thank her for being truthful with you, then you say you wanna be truthful too, and in fact while she was gone you met someone. And it's not that you're abandoning her, you just don't think exclusivity would be right, or fair to either of you right now, so why don't the two of you try…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 12:14 PM
6

It's like when your girl gets too comfortable,thinks you aren't going anywhere and stops respecting you altogether. This friend has gotten too comfy and has forgotten how to censor himself and "fear you" in a reasonable sort of way. He thinks you aren't going anywhere, and sees easy prey in you for his various manipulations that he might not even be aware of. You're being too nice and too available/willing. Even the way you wrote your question betrays that you're not willing to walk away from th…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:50 AM
4

Don't invest anything into sinking ships, esp. since you know they're sinking. Other than that, sounds like a great girl, why not enjoy your time together to the max? Just lay off those "she's the one" toxic monogamous fumes and you'll be fine. She can be one of your girls for as long as she lasts/stays sane/acts reasonably loyal. A girl, not The Girl.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:43 AM
5

You should come up with any random excuse to hang out with the target girl 1:1 and do something fun together. One thing leads to another... Pretend like you never planned it, even though it's your job to plan the logistics out, she won't be helping.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:39 AM
3

Women don't care. They do dislike that "balding, but delusional, and trying to hide it" look with a passion though. It reveals an insecurity, which to women means instant disqualification for the man. Plus the guy's ineptitude at hiding his hair problems must be funny to women who are unsung heroic experts at hiding, retouching, covering up such things in far more artful ways. The bottom line is, if you buzz it all off and give no fucks, it won't even register as a negative with the girls you me…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:34 AM
4

Agreed. Looks over-dramatic to me to get pissed at a good friend over such a non-malicious "betrayal". Sometimes you just have to watch the trainwreck unfold in slo mo, and even let some of the wreckage hit you if need be. He's going through something like a case of the mumps, it's a nasty stripper cooties disease. Hopefully he'll make it without too many complications and be alright again, with some immunity now. Although that's easy to say from the sidelines, not so easy when you're OP and fee…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:36 AM
1

Test them constantly. Never put all your chips on a bet that depends on somebody being loyal to you. Especially not in some big emotional way. Assume they won't be and plan both ways, to be pleasantly surprised and love your true friends even more. It's natural to get fucked over from time to time, everybody gets got. But it's unmasculine to get fucked over by people's natural disloyalty and then cry about it, like a victim. You want to be in a position where you can afford the occasional stab i…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:03 AM
7

You really don't see it man? It was your own cocky bastard behaviour that made her 180. By their nature, women will want you most intensely when they see you don't want them.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:53 AM
5

Temporary stage. Have fun with the rage and the amazing focus it brings.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:49 AM
1

The only thing I asked them is to not tell anybody where they got this from, especially any women in their life. I told them I didnt want any angry wives rolling up on me at the christmas party with fire in their eyes looking to tear a piece out my ass for showing their men this evil shit. That's a very clever move. Instead of you being the evil misogynist (even in the men's eyes), now it's strictly they themselves who are looking into something forbidden, because they're interested in masculini…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 03:26 AM
2

One look at the fox's plastered face is enough to know who wears the pants in that house.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:10 AM
5

Don't forget she also HAS TO outdo Stacy, Becky and Lucy. All of these need to learn their place by the shitter, and who the prettiest one is (thanks to a freak accident where she fell onto a plastic surgeon table, it's not going to be Stacy or Becky or even Lucy).
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:22 AM
64

I have lying bitch dysmorphia which means that lying bitches gotta go.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:19 AM
3

Doing pretty good for yourself. Good IDGAF attitude in the texts. The only thing you might want to adjust is, get conscious of how long your texts are VS hers. You want to always stay under 2/3s of hers, so that it's visually easy to see you're putting in 2/3s of the effort that she is putting in. The mistake to avoid is when a girl says "ABC" and you say "ABCDEFG. ABC ABC. ABCEDEFGEFEFEGE. ABC?" Correct way, she says "ABC" you reply "AB". It gets tough but also is fun to become that laconic & m…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:54 AM
6

They have visceral and uncontrollable reactions to alpha types, lots of gushing and daydreaming. It usually burns bright and burns out fast. With betas you'll find them much more deliberate, rational. It's a pre-planned package of things she wants to get, and makes damn sure she gets it. No daydreaming or gushing. When the hens get together, Beta Billys get talked about with contempt and giggles at his expense. But in both of those situations, women don't love the man, they probably love what he…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:34 AM
6

Had one of those in my wacky lifestory too. Her, a perfect little doll, quick wits, fierce independence. Had such a connection with her it was almost telepathy on a good day. Nope, every relationshit has an expiry date. Even uncanny awesome ones like that. You learn to smile about it because it actually happened, like an accomplishment of yours... as in "I did actually graduate from that class with pretty good honours"...rather than being sad that it's over all now. That's being sad from hidden …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:00 AM
2

I just go for it when that happens (that delicious obsession). Still making a bare bones effort to keep other plates spinning while going after the latest obsession with whatever I've got. A little TRP knowledge goes a long way to keep you from accidentally overdoing it. It's a flavour of love. Collect them all.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 07:49 AM
4

That's very important to notice about yourself. How just about any girl becomes amazing and wonderful, simply because you are presently fucking her. She could be a 6 or a 10, won't matter. It's some kind of ego trip, since I'm with her, she can't possibly be anything but the very best. I always make the wisest choice, and I am impossible to ever fool. I think we have the best antidote to this, secretly hidden in religious doctrine. When a man is full of straight up genuine reverence for somethin…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 07:43 AM
2

they never suggest it or seem to want it unless I explicitly tell them That's just how women are, bro! That never changes, making up excuses to get with them 1:1 and have fun is always the man's job. That's all a date is, an excuse to get together 1:1 with a woman and have fun together. If you think about it this way, your "dates" become a lot less formal, you'll be less worried about how much shit you have to plan, and more just enjoying different girls by putting them in different fun situatio…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 03:32 PM
2

Definitely worth it. You get to see your entire Game from a different more dispassionate angle. You get a devoted side chick who can't get enough of you, since you're so "distant" and "mysterious". Great abundance-fostering insurance against other plates falling off and breaking on you.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 03:25 PM
1

It's not about spite, but given the situation, forget her man - she left of her own accord and took your kid hostage. All you can do in your position (while pushing down the simmering murderous rage) is murmor "Goodbye honey". Don't worry you will never loose touch, you have a kid with the woman so you're attached at the hip anyhow. The bottom line is that you don't want this woman back in the first place, because you're nothing but a convenience, a utility to her. And she's brazen about it, zer…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:40 PM
1

True enough, you see that happening a lot. Badboy alpha decides to relationship up with some girl, in the process she slowly turns him into a beta supplicant. Then she becomes disgusted with new-him, leaves or brazenly cheats on him. It comes natural to women to do this. They're not thinking about how to preserve the relationshit, they're thinking mainly about "am I getting the best deal I could be getting with what I got looks-wise??". Their love is really not personal, it's not about your inne…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:19 PM
3

It is inappropriate for her to go without you. That's the bottom line, it doesn't matter if she fucks 0 guys or 3 guys while she's there having fun. Not about that, and don't let a woman reframe it as a trust issue you're having. It's inappropriate for her to go. A good girl would have herself suggested that oh well, she doesn't want to go without you anyway. But it's been 4yrs man, maybe you two are a little past the "good girl" phase, and now it's like "no I'm going no matter what you say beca…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:18 AM
1

Good attitude. May want to think about this too: at every stage in your red pill process you will probably need a new attitude. It will form under the pressures you feel at whatever stage you find yourself in. So it isn't that big of a deal if your current attitude (when you analyze it) doesn't seem too-too enlightened and is a little angry. That'll be just fine for now. Women are attracted to alpha cues, and rain is wet. But they're fine having relationships with betas, I don't know what you we…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:22 AM
3

For sure, that's a great thing to start things out. "didn't your daddy teach you not to be rude to strangers?"
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:16 AM
3

They say it for two reasons. Could be she's manipulating you. Or could be she really feels that way and missed you. There's no difference between the two for you to spot. The manipulation comes as naturally to a girl as the actual thing itself. So that's why you don't want to take the bait either way. Instead tease her back in a sweet way. Something like "oh really, prove it".
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:13 AM
7

You're gonna miss the sex a little, but the thing you miss most is yourself "as you were back when the two of you were together". Now that's completely gone and it's disorienting. That takes a long time to put together again. Give it time, no rush, no fuss. As the body of a man rebuilds itself after an extensive fast, so too your emotions will actively rebuild and the more you're there to provide optimal conditions for this semi-automatic process, the better it goes. The more surprising the end …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:10 AM
21

Before TRP I was with a woman who cheated on me with one of those "little man" quote unquote "friends" of hers. It hurt like a bitch for a long time because it hit me right in the ego, I was like you and suspected nothing. She called him "the little dummy" and enjoyed underlining how intellectually superior I am compared to his simpleton peasant ways. This puffed me up with more confidence that "nothing is going on". I fell for it (who's the little dummy now), and then I had to pay for this stup…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 09:06 PM
3

The weed. It needs to fucking end yesterday. Look how mellowed out it made you, you're a cannabis-brained slug.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:34 PM
2

Your job is to come up with whatever BS excuses you two need to be together 1:1 and doing fun things (also known as "a date", that's really all it is). As a man, that's the only thing you need to worry about. She or maybe Mother Nature will do all the rest, not your job not your worry. She's already expressing interest in seeing you, which makes everything easier and smoother. Probably intrigued by your irreverent comments about how disgusting she is. Your aim isn't exactly escalating, it's to g…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:31 PM
3

She's an AWALT, but that doesn't mean she's a bad woman. It's a pot, but that doesn't mean it's full of piss. Might be full of milk and honey, or delicious cool water. Excellent catch. Why no mention of any children?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:36 AM
7

If you said "disgusting" with a giant knowing smirk, that would've been an excellent panty-moistener. I think she likes you. It's your move now, Mr. Beta. Invite the girl along. Do not invite her out, invite her ALONG, for something fun you're going to be doing with or without her. Helps a lot against the inevitable flaking. Preferably go for something physical, where it gets your heart racing and lots of laughter.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:32 AM
3

Amen. LordThunderbolt(tm), bitter medicines delivered in bulk.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:26 AM
1

Why do you think that? That escape from Mother is not as easy as it seems. There will always be new Mothers. Say you apply yourself to a work project. You work hard. Within a short time, work is your new Mother. You dance like a puppet for a little validation from work.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:15 AM
1

Of course you were bullied, and your ass richly deserved it too. Bullying is the herd's healthy reaction to broken freakazoids such as yourself. Sometimes all the rejection and disrespect you get flips a switch and you recover, inspite of Mother dearest trying her best to keep you chained. Think about it without self-pity, as if it's somebody else's kid and not you: of course they'd get bullied, the herd senses you're an outsider, you do not belong to it. You're mamma's boy. Let's hit that faggo…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:35 AM
1

No need to add oil to the fire with the "life is suffering, we die" spiel. You can take that whole issue on later, when you're loving your life and have a huge boner. This is the important thing you are never taught in the blue pill system, that depending on your state/frame, your capacities as a man drastically change too. It resembles characters in videogames, who gain completely new abilities outta nowhere as they "level up". It'd be wise to plan for those unknown/unexplored abilities, but th…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:04 PM
8

Exactly bro, you got it.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:10 AM
11

I think you got taken in by two separate things. The first thing fucking with your mind is her "good girl" act. No skepticism, no sly smile for you, you're just going to buy all of it, as presented. The second thing fucking with you is the supposed high significance of her n-count as TRP teaches. Two ways you're being had, without knowing it. The reality: she isn't a good girl (no really she isn't), she's just a girl like every other girl. And the n-count thing is all important only in your head…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:49 AM
3

I'd let her cool it for a week, then you're back in the saddle with something like "yeah it was a bet, and we won. Forget those losers. so when are you coming to pick up your share?"
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:42 AM
1

Absolutely man, flirt up a storm with her in person if you feel like it. Make her giggle. At the very least, you wanna be polite and friendly. Never bring up that date yourself, don't ask if she changed her mind etc. Act exactly like a guy who forgot about the whole date thing 5min after offering it, it's not a big deal to you. You probably offered the same thing to 6 other girls since then, in the span of 2 days, you incorrigible bastard. You're just your usual charming self, not treating her s…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:41 AM
5

If it's hard to quit, that's probably because you're very good at the MMO. If you're very good at it, you really should be getting paid for it. And not in elvish guldens either. That's your priceless time going into a black hole, so thinking "fuck that noise!" to yourself is fully justified. Once you realize that, quit cold turkey.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:33 AM
1

Yep, wait it out with a big smile. You're looking for a proper message from her. It's ok if it's about a movie, some music she wants you to hear, or she had a funny dream and you were in it. All of those excuses mean the same thing: "pls pls understand and ask me out, I'm dying here". When the girl reaches out, it doesn't matter what she's saying, the important thing is that it's her now, reaching out to you. That's your green light to offer a nice get-together almost immediately, after a couple…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:22 AM
1

Funny. Yeah don't fall for it, man. Nothing changes for you, sit tight and be happy. What's happening is, she's wondering why you aren't chasing. Did you meet a better girl? What? Makes her anxious, but she's not going to send you "hiiii" right away. First, you will be tentatively poked and enticed from a distance, where she has plausible deniability, as if she wasn't even thinking about you and just did that because reasons.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:12 AM
1

That's an interesting connection, but if you ask me the alpha widow thing women experience is cut from different cloth entirely. It's not about her trying to prove anything, it's a whole bundle of primal sexual directives each pulling her in a different direction, making things very confusing and most of the time turning those women into numb actors. It may be more rare but women do sometimes get oneitis too! They're not immune to things hitting them in the girl ego almost the same way as breaku…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:49 PM
1

Interesting perspective, and in retrospect what you described seems far more likely compared to what I imagined happened.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:27 PM
10

it makes me want to go after her and try again... That's the sick nature of most oneitis situations. It's not true love. It's not about the girl herself. It's all fucking about the ole' ego, and trying to prove yourself "with a rematch" after what you think is a big and damning failure. I really miss being loved like she loved me; and I miss loving someone like I loved her. Fortunately this is high grade bullshit, see above. You're not in any danger of blaspheming against love by squashing this …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:07 AM
3

I thought she would think I respected her, wasn't just trying to use her for sex and we would end up in a relationship. That's hilarious man. If you can say that with a straight face, you're going to be killing it if we ever start a TRP standup comedy subreddit. Everything you described is absolutely normal, you're the typical deeply confused dude involuntarily stuck in blue pill la-la seas. You get some glimpses of where you need to go from books and posts you read here, and that will have to d…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:24 AM
8

It's possible she's actually escaping from your teenage daughter, who naturally hates her guts (she can see a ton of stuff you cannot) and feels encroached upon. If that's the case, then your daughter, with amazing skill and girl-game, just did you a massive favour by shipping this woman out. Now the escaped would-be-resident should become a lot sweeter to you and your relationship should feel the rejuvenating breezes of that famous absence that makes lovers fonder. A plate would be one of your …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:14 AM
1

There's that old proverb: the tavern keeper loves the drunk, but not for a son-in-law... I'd try to wear my best hazmat gloves in velvet, for handling this situation. Avoid investigating too much or taking anyone's side or trying to punish women for being women, not going to work anyway and just annoys the women.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:07 AM
8

We're both loyal as fuck to each other. Based on your description of the girl, the reality may be more like this: you're loyal to your babe, but she is loyal to herself only. Which means you're being trawled along, to be discarded as soon as a better morsel shows up in her life. It's very annoying to her that the better morsel still hasn't shown up, as she's fucking tired of you. Of course she will make it so that it's all your fault, when she dumps you. Your fights are in essence initiated by h…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:50 AM
6

Usually that's a plus, not a minus. If you're getting good results, no one can say shit to you. But if you're seeing troubling tendencies, shooting yourself in the foot a lot over this, check out The Book of Pook. It's a good overall introduction to the lay of the land, where women are psychologically, where you need to be as a man to be effective.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:19 AM
3

She wants to see if you will break down in tears of happiness and welcome a chance to interact with her. It's an ego booster girls use from time to time when life isn't going so good for her. It is absolutely your lil' victory, but only if you never respond. Deny her the ego booster by smiling and deleting/blocking her messages.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:13 AM
5

This angle to things is surprising for me. She brings a friend and instead of "fuuuuuuck" you actually enjoy the friend more than tinder girl herself, that's gotta be some kind of twist of fate in action. I think tinder girl (so far) isn't jealous or any of those things you listed, but she is stating what her eyes are seeing. If I were you, I'd reply with something like: "were we that obvious? fuck, I wish got her number.." That's her cue to help "true love Bminuscplus" out and tell a lot of exc…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:08 AM
7

You put a pirate grin on your face and wrestle/throw her around like your rag doll. Bitches also love hands on their necks. Don't even have to choke her if you're accident-prone and don't feel like accidentally killing the love of your life yet. Just putting those hands there like you own her, and staring her down does the trick. Above all, make it about you having fun, not about her. Treat her like a fucking doll, that's what they all secretly want. Being a virgin is only a minor impediment to …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:41 AM
3

Adorable, incels gonna incel.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:37 AM
9

No. Don't initiate anything whatsoever until she's back. It's a different story if SHE messages you herself, then you can shoot the shit and make her giggle a bit.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:36 AM
2

It's something to be expected. When your progress gets too real, everybody except for your 1-2 true friends in life will be subtly against it. Same when you start making serious money too, for example. Anything where you soar above the average will trigger it. Nothing personal, they're reacting that way automatically. Because your obvious progress is making them look bad. Try to hold to a cocky/teasy frame even with parents, where you can. "Mom, don't make me fry my eggs at Stacy's house, you kn…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:30 AM
19

It wasn't porn that broke you. The blue pill turned you into a pussy. Plus you had low SMV / potential to begin with due to poor health. Naturally, in the end you end up broken. Now you're a broken pussy, listening to girls lecture you on how "porn is staged", and mendaciously pretending it's a huge lifesaving revelation for you.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 01:59 AM
2

Looked up the exact title for you: "Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction 3.0 Deluxe", that's the classic start-here indepth intro you want.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 03:06 AM
2

If you agree we can divide the women in your life into two basic groups, first one will be the random girls in class etc. who you want to potentially fuck, and second group is girls you're talking to on a fairly regular or more 1:1 basis - dates included. The Game techniques I'm going to mention are all for this second group, and either don't apply or don't work so good on the first group at all. With the first group, it's pretty much a numbers game. You cast your nets far and wide, no sweat no …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:32 AM
10

What's the mess-up dude? Sounds perfectly well done to me.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:19 AM
10

The fruits of red-pill freedom are beautiful. Its wisdom is gleeful, adventurous wisdom - not something an anemic academic or autist would ever accept as true, or often even notice. I personally endorse every theme OP has explained in this rule-breaking post. Definitely worth your attention, especially if you know yourself to be overly logical or overly timid at times. The women in your life will thank you in their own unique way for being unlike any other guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 02:02 AM
8

Every relationshit comes with a shelf life & expiry date. Just a fact of life. It sounds like yours is approaching that point. It happens VERY OFTEN around the 2 year mark, so you're about 1 year overdue. I would dump the ballast if I were you. Before it dumps you, because even though its balast, it will still sting bad when it hits you in the ego.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:43 AM
3

For sure man. Your response was perfectly fine too. Now all you do is go radio silence for a week or two. Again letting her initiate, but you don't initiate anything yourself. Around the two weeks mark, if there's still no sign of anything from her, it would be quite appropriate to casually invite her to something else again. At no time let it get to you, this isn't personal at all, just typical bitch business. And the matching typical beginner mistake would be to think "fuck her, I won't be dic…
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:30 AM
10

You can text her "k hit me up when you know you're free", and simply leave it like that with zero worries. Shift focus to your other girls immediately, this one is "already in the slow cooker". This isn't a soft rejection from her side, it's more like a little shit test to see what you'll do when semi-rejected. After your reply there will probably be a long wait before she responds, that's normal torture chicks like to apply to your dick in this situation. Make sure to send her absolutely nothin…
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:16 AM
2

Means that bastard is cockblocking you. An appropriate response would be to make an unexpectedly poignant remark about the fatness of his overbearing mother in a random future convo, while grinning in his face.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:07 AM
2

You lost frame when you got pissed, a little bit. But that's not necessarily a bad thing man, let her see that her BF is not a compliant sweetie. He can get pissed off and unpredictable. She has things to worry about: where'd he go, what did he do, did I mess up a good thing by helping this fucking charger guy, does he still love me? Sounds like it's a "good girl" overall, and nothing you'd worry about. They always have a hard time saying no to any non-orbiter asking her for help. So you know th…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:36 PM
2

And I'm not really into women my age, more like 30's. Good for you. By 42 they have almost no sexy shine left, and carrying massive amounts of bitter baggage, rarely even worth the trouble unless you're getting paid to be her therapist. I'm finding online to be a waste of time. It's a toy for women to harvest men's attention. Hundreds of messages a day for any remotely fuckable girl. Don't worry about it, it's not just you. women flake all the fucking time The online dating princesses flake hard…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:16 PM
2

Get a sweet second girl in the picture. Withdraw from your exclusivity pact gently, so you can keep on fucking your current LTR, just without any bullshit worries about her whore nature getting the best of her on your dime. You're still fucking, and yet she isn't your problem. Plus you have other, new girls sucking your dick on the side too. It's beautiful. You might think to yourself "well I like the exclusivity and don't wanna withdraw from it", but you don't have much of a choice - your girl …
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:57 PM
1

Nah, for what it's worth, we're a force poised against all this. Nietzscheanism is very educational and sophisticated, but it's tainted. It's a poisoned way of thinking from the start. One that our enemy loves to coddle, grow, and promote everywhere as much as possible. Why do you think half of any Nietzsche book you happen to buy these days is full of introductions, explanatory articles, and prefaces by hardcore "liberal" professors with names like Kaufman. Fully dedicated to sucking Nietzsche …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 10:21 PM
1

What a let-down. I expected far worse dude, you're in pretty good shape overall still. Enemy number one in your life right now isn't Stacy or the normies, as you seem to think. It's the apathy. This shit will kill you slowly, if nothing is done or it can't spontaneously resolve. Apathy is all about that feeling "I can't do anything about anything", and "I'm isolated forever", and "what's the use anyway?". One more step down, and you're physically dead. I suggest instead taking the step up. Getti…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:25 PM
2

It's a shameful disease called Millenialism. The following words are the bitter cure: just because you feel something, doesn't mean it's true. Just because something makes you feel bad, does not mean it is bad.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:11 PM
2

Don't worry they're not all like that. Your girl was very naive. Some of the new women you're going to meet going forward will be far more sophisticated about how they manipulate you to get what they want. They will sneak behind your back and get it, instead of announcing anything or breaking up with you. Your ex-GF done goofed: she thought you're going to agree to anything she says like a good beta male. Now it really hurts her that you instead told her to GTFO. It's like, she has no pussy powe…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:05 PM
1

Talking about girl behaviour in general. It's not very unique, they all do the same things in the same guy-situations.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 07:56 PM
3

It's because it's only unique the first few times around. All girls follow the same exact playbook. They just act the same way in the same "guy" situations and cannot help it. One thing they always do is, if the girl is interested in you, she will want to "figure you out". This sounds real deep, but isn't. It means she's trying to understand where your place in the pecking order is, roughly. What kind of a guy are you, are you more the alpha fucks type, or the beta bucks type? She needs to know …
/r/askTRP23/06/17 05:05 AM
2

You're very welcome bro. You'll be considerably more effective at this after digesting more sidebar material seriously. Something to look forward to.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:13 PM
2

Couldn't have done it better. Enjoy getting that cream in her face.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:07 PM
3

Guy meets girl. Girl not sure about guy. Sometime later... Girl: Let me see your phone bitch. Guy: Sure here you go. I have nothing to hide. Guy: Sweetie what's wrong? Baby did I do something wrong? Cupcake, talk to me!!! Girl: I'm not good enough for you. sob Guy: Look I'm already overworked, depressed, and beset by mysterious physical ailments. I don't need this shit from you. I'm a tough guy like that. Baby? Are you there?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:02 PM
2

Biggest bit of advice I have you're not going to like. She isn't doing this "to you" because she is some kind of broken, evil, or especially crazy bitch. She's simply doing it because it's a bitch thing, the thing they all do. Not even doing it "to you", you're not on the radar in that vindictive or evil sense. It's just what they all do, it's like menstruating. It's not talked about much, since it's pretty fuckin' ugly, granted. But nothing is wrong with her. Only your grand expectations that s…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:44 PM
15

Bad idea dude. Don't feel bad because we've all been there. I drew girls "funny maps" about how she could find my heart, that I thought were adorable. The famous Patrice O'Neal wrote them ridiculous fucking poems.... It's all way too much effort. Way too early. Way too supplicationary. I'm a big harmless doofus, please, please like me. Fuck that man. That's not what girls like in us. They like: balls of brass, courage, and glory. And they like if you don't seem to like her that much. She needs t…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:08 PM
5

The most important thing is to never get all flustered about it. Never let a woman put you on the defensive, it will automatically infuriate her no matter how logical your response is. You want to be on the cocky funny side, and your spontaneous reply was good if you ask me. Next time up the ante even more and try to tease her back with something in a charming kinda way. her: "So, What's her name?" you: "Destiny, baby." Then you snuggle your wife, ignoring her protests till they grow weak and gi…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:53 PM
1

Ok, ilikemychickenfried.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:44 PM
1

The first big tell is how the Red Pill men don't like women of size much. That's how you know they are internet misogynists - they have no love at all for the adorable reddit denizens with food-themed names. -missycupcake -chocobunny -peanutbuttersammy83 All are ruthlessly shunned and told to go back to the end of the line.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:37 PM
2

"why, are you just trying to fuck ME?" It's on, you want tons of hot pepper in your response.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:27 PM
2

She's obviously into you. That's really all that is. There's nothing to stop, crush, smash or take any action on. Everything's going exactly to plan. You should be smiling like that Cheshire Cat, and she should be turning 18 next fucking month, otherwise this is torture and illegal under the Geneva Convention for Human Rights.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:14 PM
5

My preference is definitely the fondness approach. She's a fantastic girl, we had the best of times while it lasted. It just wasn't meant to be, in the end it didn't work out. If you reveal any info beyond that, you might find yourself in the ridiculous position of defending your ex from a bunch of angry new-girls who want to rip her to shreds. So don't.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:10 PM
2

If you want the easy way, keep it light and funny and avoid the question. When you're more confident of yourself, you can completely steamroll over her "political differences" in full knowledge that what's coming out of her mouth has not been thought through and does not matter. It's a wonderful form of entertainment in itself to watch a woman blossoming from little libtardy Susie into a fearsome full-on shitlord Susanne. All for you.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:05 PM
7

I'd have fucked her without a doubt as well. Some people see it as "giving in" or rewarding the woman, but I don't think that's right, it ignores the context. You were being rock solid, driving her crazy. There comes that point when the tension is just too strong, and you both want it, so you have your way with each other. Afterwards she'll be like "soo, you fucked me, what do I win?" and you smile and respond "nothing, peach". It's beautiful what self awareness can do to a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 01:54 AM
15

When being a Millionaire isnt enough will you then try to be a Billionaire just to get pussy? When having a good Body is not enough will you then try to get a godly Body? (while at the same time getting to be a Billionaire?) When being smart and intelligent is not enough will you then try to be brilliant and genius? (while at the same time getting a godly body and being a Billionaire) It's the classic blue pill framing of the whole situation: do what women seem to want, and they will choose you.…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:25 PM
4

It's important to know too that more shit-testing is attached like an umbilical even to the most genuine giving of gifts to women. If our guy is going to patronize and be royal, then he better be ready to ace what comes after: the woman's unconscious and ungrateful attempts to take advantage of him. Those are a double edged sword. If you crush the shit tests, they boost attraction and your status in her eyes. If you never see it coming, it's the opposite, plus you'll be milked for increasing amo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:47 PM
19

In general yeah. But then again, if the girl suggested to OP that he spend the 300 on her, he would likely have laughed in her face. "No." The subtle difference is that it's his magnanimous, unexpected gift that she can't control. It's on his terms entirely. He isn't gifting her to get anything back, he is doing it to enjoy the giving, "the extatic look on her face". He is being royal and patronizing, she feels like a little girl in the candy store, everyone's happy. Good arrangement! The reason…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:25 PM
2

The answer's "no". You should absolutely not help her with this, though understandably you want to, don't fuckin' do it. No good will come of it. "No" is good. It boosts your esteem in her eyes, and if she's used to every guy caving instantly, it will be infuriating to her that she doesn't have that power over you yet. She'll work double as hard at pleasing you, and you get to keep your cash. It may be minor, but it's a matter of principle. Do not be in the dumbass "mark" position willingly for …
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:13 AM
7

It's good that you're feeling it. That's how it always feels, we're wired to expect the word to get around and ruin everything. No woman will ever let you fuck her, ever. It's over, you're finished. No diapers, no screaming brats for you till the end of time. Fortunately nope, it doesn't get around, and even when it does get around, the other women don't care. If anything they automatically take a stance against your ex, and claim she is a dumbass, for letting a brilliant morsel of a man like yo…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:02 AM
2

That's the normal thing that happens. She's not the one doing this to you. It's not unique true love or anything like that. Nothing you need to take action on. You can take some downtime, sit, relax, and let yourself feel all those shitty feelings. They seem infinite, but are not. If you feel them out without trying to protect yourself from the badness, they actually run out. Feels like a muscle cramp finally letting go, and you're free. Might come back in a few days, just means there's more of …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:08 PM
2

Think about taking on more personal responsibility. For something or for somebody. That feeling of brutal drive in men can't really be awakened with selfish-type motives limited inside your own head. Yet it responds when you willingly take on personal responsibility to make something or someone "happen", you start feeling yourself a part of the world, a functioning organ in the bigger body, and not an isolated island.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:20 PM
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She's working on fucking him. It may be technically true that they never fucked and she was perfectly faithful the entire time on the surface of it, but your GF is working on fucking him. What you wanna do with this info is up to you. It's definitely not meant to be a personal insult against you. It's something bitches do, they work on BabyPansy#1, #2, #3, and #4 at all times to have some insurance and also, ego-boosting fun. If I were in your shoes, I'd be withdrawing the exclusivity gently fro…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:26 AM
3

Picture in your mind that you two are already fucking. Been at it for months, the shine has worn off for both. That's what should be in your smile when you're teasing and not-kissing her. When you touch her, let her feel the entitlement from your hands, like you own that body of hers and it's one of your more boring but functional possessions, like a toilet seat. So when you touch, it never feels like you want her to feel all special and amazing from it, or to "reply" and touch you back. You don…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:29 AM
2

The blue pill delusion is that she should be loyal to YOU. The red pill reality is that she is going to be loyal to herself, and her children. That is way more important than being loyal to you, or to any particular man. Once you really see this, an epiphany hits and you stop trying to change women or looking for "the one life partner", or what we here call a unicorn. If you find a loyal woman like that, something is seriously wrong with her, you better stay the hell away and raise your children…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:17 AM
2

Dude, you are rejecting her. Of course she will be all over you. This is Game 101. If you want her gone from your life, text her every day and talk about your emotions together. Tell her all your insecurities and all about your past GFs screwing you over. Tell her how work sucks and people are mean, and the world's unfair to you. Reveal that she's your ideal girl, and you would like to be in a serious and mature relationship with her, and you will be waiting for marriage before having sex becaus…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:02 AM
2

The most important thing you can do is stop being an all-round Nice Guy, and learn to appreciate and wield Game. What you do in the gym is strictly between you and the iron. Don't allow filthy low level ambitions like "I want to get in Becky's pants" defile your temple. You're growing as a man. It's a sacred thing.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:48 AM
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I'm glad you went for the date instead of backpedalling instantly when the "I have a BF" bitch-shield came up. That was 110% the right move, and you saw how she responded to it, and to your company. But it kinda went downhill from there, simply because you're not on top of your game yet, you couldn't keep up the right amount of sexy pressure going, there was no escalation, no sparkles. She came to your place to fuck. Of course, she wll put up LMR and rebuke you like a "good girl" the moment you …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:26 AM
3

Got a few things to share, man. Number one, it really helps if you realize that she is not the one doing this to you. She isn't the General in charge of those thoughts attacking you. Heck she doesn't even know it's going on, and best you keep it that way forever. Second thing. If you start watching a bit more carefully what exactly those thoughts are, when you're thinking about her during the day-to-day... you might notice interesting things. For example, you might notice that 90% of them aren't…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:15 AM
0

"only if I can watch"
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:07 AM
11

Be ready for some pain and disorientation, have no special resentment toward pain. You're about to give birth to yourself. It's that fundamental and lifechanging, what you're doing right now, just sitting there thinking shit over.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:04 AM
12

Opening your heart causes everybody to fall in love with you. What you've been doing by being overly nice to people (you know what i'm talking about) is not actually an open heart, it's an open and very lame manipulation attempt. You have no idea what you're missing dude. Fuck the relationships, fuck the 1-2 friends you wanted. You're missing something that makes YOU alive, as opposed to a being mostly a puppet. Hope that makes sense, because you have it all in you, it's just buried or forbidden…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:53 AM
28

The key to all your problems is feeling like you're always not good enough, missing out, falling behind, regretting things in the past, being sad about medical conditions you have, not being ghetto enough, not being white enough, etc. etc. It's all the same thing at its root. You can deal with one of those areas, but it's just going to pop up in 5 others, and you'll be thinking it's because you're so unfortunate, blind to how it's the exact same thing, killing your sunshine again. When you don't…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:29 AM
2

Main thing is try and stay cheery. Show no signs of feeling rejected or down about it. Tease her, but in a sweet kinda way, nothing too evil. Basically you want to be that goodnatured fun guy, who isn't anxious at all and isn't about to ask her for any "explanations for her rude behaviour". Treat her just as you would any other cute woman, nothing much more.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:27 AM
2

You wait about a week, then you initiate. No problem looking needy this way, a week's just long enough that it feels to girls like you have other things going in your life, besides her. If she reaches out to you herself in that week, that's fine then, when it's her idea it's different. You can talk a little more, flirt on text, and ask her out right there. That's why she's texting, not because of the movie or whatever she supposedly wanted to ask you about.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:42 AM
5

When girls tell me straight up they are not interested I have more respect for them. You're a man. You're not meant to have any "respect" for girls. You might like them, love them, even adore them, but respect? That's laughably out of the question, it's a girl. It's a girl, that's why she's dicking you around like this, with the silent treatment. It's a girl, that's why her instincts are finely honed to test your emotional mettle by giving you a lot of unnecessary shit to deal with. It's a girl,…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:22 AM
5

Nothing wrong with this girl, in my opinion. Provided there won't be problems at work and you're sure of that. I'd let her get better and make some new plans then. Send her a cute animal pic with chicken soup or some shit. Maybe Birthday Cat or something pharmaceutical grade like this one.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 04:34 AM
18

Here's the best way to understand it. You're not her love interest. She doesn't have one. She has a whole stable of men on whom she is working simultaneously, at all times. And she thinks you're a good enough prospect. That's it, there's no big excitement, no sparkles no romances, in it for her. It's very different from how you see her, because naturally you feel like her pussy is valuable to you. By comparison, your dick is less than nothing to her. It's got a negative value, almost. What she v…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 04:08 AM
3

"There's something to be said, for sayin' nothing at all..." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0fS6fDEK1k
/r/askTRP10/06/17 01:27 AM
7

Change up your day. Every day, right after you wake up, go out for a walk. You won't make it far at first, no one cares. It's not a race. Don't bust ass or kill yourself going extreme distances, just a moderate walk is all you want, but ruthlessly regular. Go a little further every day compared to how far "yesterday's you" made it. Don't skip the walk, no matter what. Rain, shine, blizzard, your fat ass is out there, walking. You need to maintain this perfect regularity by forcing yourself, for …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 09:36 PM
2

No. Act like it never happened, like you forgot about it because you don't care. You're the adult, she's the prank calling child.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 09:19 PM
1

"Look at you, little Ms. Popular. Got so many clowns you could start a circus." "Hey you don't have to try so hard, you know I already like you Susie" "Goodness gracious Stacy, that's a lotta guys who have noooo idea what Stacy-level trouble they about to get themselves into"
/r/askTRP09/06/17 09:08 PM
1

You're very welcome man!
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:41 PM
4

she "had to see" Which in my opinion is not a good sign. It's not much of a sign either way. It has no significance for you, it's just part of the dance like saying "how are you?" politely to a client of yours. I'm trying to steer you a little bit away from looking for good and bad signs altogether. When you just met, they seriously mean nothing whatsoever. She doesn't know you, you don't know her. She's saying what she thinks she's supposed to say, to look good in your eyes and society's eyes, …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:52 AM
10

They get together. Put on some Mazzy Star or David Bowie, get some milk and oreos, dance, throw pillows around, then talk about guys till the twinkies run out. At this point they get bored, so they have the same genius idea together at the same time, and start prank calling guys. What to do about it? Laugh is a good one. You're considered studly and are a hotly debatable topic.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:14 AM
13

Confronted, she said that what they were thinking was "religious compatibility", I shit you not. I'm dying, man. Lord have mercy! Yes it's deception, and ingratitude. But just how fucking adorable is it? This is straight from those youtubes where some 4yr old princess with a face full of chocolate tells her dad "the bunny did it, daddy". "so you didn't do it, honey?" "noope, the bunny ate it" I know that hatred you feel, it's like a blowtorch. You get past it though, past expecting gratitude and…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:04 AM
6

everything I know tells me when a girl isn't into sex - it's over. You're right. At least the exclusivity she was enjoying with you should now be over, unless you're willing to go sexless like some self-sacrificing cuck moron. It doesn't work. You've got to understand something super clear: just because your girl "loves you" and really-really wants you in her life, does not mean she still wants to fuck you. There are all kinds of reasons why her body can flip a switch and now her clit is numb an…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:24 AM
4

It's not a personality issue, she's just a cute little attention whore. Think of it as an adorable quirk. If you go full asperger and rule out all attention whores from your dating pool, you won't have any cute girls to date. Just how it is!
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:10 AM
1

The real danger is not that you will be miserable, it's that you're already miserable, as a result of the ongoing passive pussification that is taking place. It doesn't matter how much you love your wife, or how much she loves you, and wishes you only the best. She is passively going to have this effect, any woman that you let that close to you will have it. The strength of the pussification influence will constantly increase. That's probably a big part of where the unconscious rebellion/unease …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:42 AM
3

It's more related to types of temperament, and how they interact, if you ask me. Not so much the simpler categories such as current job/level of accomplishment.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:33 AM
6

4) She really wants to be waylaid ASAP by him, but noticed he is somewhat timid in the brutish daylight, after the fashion of some vampire-like creatures that she enjoys fantasizing about.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:30 AM
20

Dude, 2 months? You got off easy and don't know it. It's peanut change, 2 months. Try sinking 12 years into the same exact thing, and then finding out the same exact thing. Some men on the sub had that wonderful experience and enjoyed it so much they took a lot of red pills after, greatly improving their entire outlook on life & success with much sweeter, much saner women.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:06 AM
2

Sounds like the rape wasn't "kinda", "sorta" rape, it was the real deal rape. This is how girls who really had bad shit go down with them will typically break the news to you. It's always understated-like, "sorta kinda something bad". When tumblerinas talk about "their rape", it's the opposite, they can't help but blow it out of all proportion in the other direction: oh it was so horrific, oh I was crushed, muh emotions, oh oh oh. Yeah sure thing, you were. Meet OP's girl, and shut your fat face…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:21 AM
7

Textbook handling of a cute textbook shit-test. Next time you can even be the charmer gruff and tease her about how she can't live without her friend, cuz they're attached at the hip and all siamese together. It sends a jolt of irreverent rule-breaker energy into it, makes the girl laugh at her own schemes and enjoy you all the more. Savour completely ignoring her for about a week till its time to ask her out again, she'll be roasting in doubts and confusion: "I had him pegged as compliant and b…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:09 AM
10

Give an inch, she'll take a mile. Important stuff to know for any man. The bigger problem in your situation with the GF is how she thinks she is entitled to certain things from you, and entitled to demand what she thinks she's owed. You're in the kind of politician position, who is hit from all sides by loudmouth SJW's demanding this and that (all of it ridiculous), but the politician doesn't give a shit that it's ridiculous, he wants the SJWs to go away more. They make him fear for his reputati…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 06:06 AM
6

Women only really like one type of man. Some people say women only really like Chad. But that's so wrong and sexist. There's another type of man all women like. Rich.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:55 AM
1

It's astonishing, but it's a fact - being TRP Endorsed actually gets you female groupies. Some of whom (judging from nudies sent) are not bad looking at all, with exciting empowered woman careers like "stripper". It's a knuckle-dragging men-only internet musclehead misogynist hategroup, and yet they're right here. Pilfering away. They may not be allowed to say much due to not having much to say, but the attraction is impossible to resist - they're still trawling for the top stuff to be had as us…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:18 AM
12

The charismatic star of the show is often secretly disliked for unconsciously making it all about themselves too conspicuously (i.e emotionally leeching), people recognize it - especially women, since they do this professionally. Yet the same exact person is loved by near everybody when they channel that loud charisma to facilitate, bring others out of the shell and give them all some of that sunshine, not hoarding it for themselves. It looks like the same exact funny-guy behaviour from the outs…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:37 AM
27

That was textbook! she enjoyed herself being naughty, but now I just sound like her dad. That's hilarious man. Might want to save that one, it's like a medal. I don't know where the frame is to even hold it. Here's an outside perspective that might clear it up for you. You've been working on Game, and probably giving yourself a pat on the back here and there when you saw certain successes... But those successes you saw pale in comparison with the cumulative, synergistic improvements you've made.…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:38 AM
2

Well that's a perfect example of how a post that started out as something adorably cute ("Love me!", "hold me!") has taken the downward spiral ride down into a totally unenviable and uncute situation for the man. In just a few sentences it unfortunately screeched down into a total trainwreck. The problem is that your GF has the reigns of the relationshit. She knows you need her more than she needs you. A woman who feels above you for any reason, will always have troubles being aroused by you. Ev…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:12 AM
16

I'm delighted we have terse words like "cucked" which explain everything instantly, and that you have brought back "namby-pamby".
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:56 AM
2

That's understandable, but let's also take women's side into account here. The "goodguys" of your example are formed almost exclusively by conformance to their particular environment, their one tribe, one suburb even - you get my point. Sure, they may fancy themselves conquerors of the universe and great builders of civilizations (sometimes they are), but deep down all this is accomplished at great psychological cost, an early sacrifice & painful amputation of their natural independence. Somethi…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:32 AM
2

Ooh, delicious. I have a long term plate who said the same frequently. If you ask me, it's the same basic story, same difference, except that now after six months that may actually mean "I'm so aching to be promoted to First Wife". If you know what I mean. She understands you have several, but wants that promotion bad. So in that situation I'm going to deliberately play stupid, with a huge grin, and say things like "oh really, what are you saying, exactly baby?" and "huh? is it just me or are we…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 11:01 PM
5

Gotta get yourself out of her orbit, neptune. Try not to make any dramatic exits, make it soft and gradual-like. Get more busy on her over a couple weeks. See her less and less. Answer her texts with more delay, and eventually only answer once a day, if that. When you do, reply to her walls of text with hurried,careless caveman-speak, phrases like "haha" (and nothing else for the whole day), "k" and "lel" are your friends. In general act like you found a better girl, and it's not that you don't …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:22 PM
9

almost had sex at a park (long story, involves the police etc). Oh come on then, let's hear it. Don't leave us out like that... Sex stories involving police are the best. should I remind her that it's Monday? Absolutely fucking not. Don't send her a single peep, poke, or Like for the entire week until Ms. Bubblesome reaches out herself. When it happens, be cheery, showing no sign you were undergoing the dick torture from her ignoring you. I get that you are, I'd feel same. But she cannot be allo…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:05 PM
4

Of course she likes you. You're her good friend. She just won't fuck you. You stepped into a trap there, the whole subconscious idea that you can friend yourself into a woman's pants is killing your game, masculinity, and making your actual goal impossible with this particular woman. Always remember, you can't turn a ho into a housewife. You can't friend yourself into a woman's panties. You can't say "sorry" to a woman and not look weak & useless. You can't do things for women for free, it will …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:53 PM
2

Not enough information for specific advice, man. What did you say, what did she reply etc? Play by play is needed. But overall you're in an excellent position! Hold your frame, you're supposed to be irreverent and "gross" and surprise her because you're the man, she's supposed to get fake-mad because she's a woman. It's all good, so long as you do not cave in and start to backpedal from what you said, she's bringing over everything you ordered.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:50 PM
2

he definitely wants a LTR with her and theyve had multiple 'fights' about that That's the problem right there. Cart before horse. Nobody cares what the guy wants, or how hard he wants it. The only thing that matters is does the girl want it? Has she been cutely hinting, trying to steer that way, and doing her very best to impress and lock this down for herself? If she hasn't really been doing that yet, it's a moot point, he can want it all he wants, nobody cares. His whole opinion and eagerness …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:43 PM
34

Sounds like a wonderful compliment, but really that's their insecurity speaking. There's a lot to be insecure about: Am I giving up the pussy too easily? Am I a typical tinder slut to him? Will he probably be gone if I didn't give it up? Also I kinda want to give it up myself. Guy has what seems like unbreakable frame. What's the catch? Where's the normal blue pill bullshit I am used to manipulating men with? Is he actually married with 6 kids? Spinning me a yarn here, and will just abandon me a…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:17 PM
3

As the old joke goes, it's either you two break up, or worse, you get married. Personal preference of mine is a friendly breakup, the true kind - not the fake wishful thinking type, where you might wish it was friendly but it really isn't. The true kind is typically where the woman still very much wants you, and makes sure her leaving in no way hurts your ego. But both parties recognize that she wants one thing, you want another, and it's not going to work out. She has to leave for her own good,…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:49 PM
1

Even being a big fan of TLDR's myself, it has to be said that these kinds of things cannot be TL;DR'ed. The singsong semantic repetitions are deliberately lulling and hypnotic. This annoying longwinded format represents a type of didactic genius in itself. They are making sure it REALLY sinks in, by distracting the mind with what it thinks it already knows, already just read a sentence ago...
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:54 PM
5

It is no secret our collective masculine superiority complex is destroying us. O rly? Ok babe. Thesis x Antithesis = Synthesis Oh Ok, Marx & Engels. I may need my feng-shui aligned tonight, because I'm feeling a certain wu-chi in my tai-tai and, I think, Western Civilization may be in peril, at least the part of it residing in my pants. There's just so much toxic masculine rage in me after reading, that I don't know what the fuck I just read.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 02:01 AM
33

I think about her pretty much every second of every day. Make sure you don't let yourself feel like you're Patient Zero in the deadliest outbreak of woman problems since Eve fucked up Adam's sweet free rent deal with God, over an apple, and got them both kicked out of paradise. This is the normal feeling to feel in the situation, every part of it is yours to feel and own as a man. The feeling gets to be overwhelming only if you forget that it is simply a feeling in the body, it isn't you. It's a…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:09 AM
6

Here's a simple mental shift that may help you a lot. Instead of constantly conducting nonstop limited observation on yourself in social situations, go unlimited. Have your mind and energy pop your skull like an egg, and pour on out like the blast wave of a nuke. Completely ignore yourself, afford yourself about as much attention as you would to a puppet that you're using to tell some kids a story. Focus on the other kids, laser sharp. You will start noticing things about them that they don't ev…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 01:08 PM
4

First thing I did was feel like shit for a while. The world made more sense, but it was brutal man. It got a brutal ruthless tinge, with a hopelessness that drove you to despair. After another while you realize what utter laughable bullshit that way of thinking is. Fact is, that despair is just another extreme of the Blue Pill ideology. You make the transition, you go from believing the Blue Pill, to not believing it any longer. Great, except you're still associated with the Blue Pill, you're st…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:49 PM
1

She might throw a tantrum and declare she doesn't want to ever see you again. The other possible reaction is, she starts thinking she loves you even more and can't live without. Might go either way, depending how obsessed she is about you already and her temperament. But both results are fine for your bottom line. You're not exclusive any more, 99 problems but a bitch ain't one... And my hunch says she'll balk at your brazen mention of FWB, then surrender to it and love you more for the brazen-n…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:56 PM
1

Here's what you do. Ignore the mall message completely, instead text her this out of the blue: "Look Nina, I think you're a great girl, but things have been moving so fast and I have a hectic life right now, I don't think it would be fair to either of us to be in a committed relationship right now... Don't worry, I still like your quirky ass so much, and want to keep seeing you, just...let's take it slow, let's be sure about everything and not rush into it. Friends w/ delicious benefits?" Someth…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:46 PM
2

Nothing to do with your physical. It's because you're badly lacking proper game. After you read up and think things through, you'll be kicking yourself wondering how you could ever be such a dumbass. Asking the girl why she rejected you is a dead giveaway that the man has no game. Best thing to do is to own the fuckup, learn from it. Leave the girl completely out of it, it's not about her. Just about any girl in her shoes would've reacted same exact way. So she doesn't need any notices that you …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:57 PM
3

her: "Give me your past GF info. Now, bitch." "That's for me to know, for you to wonder about." "I would never kiss and tell, I am a gentleman" "I have a GF right now and she would be PISSED if she knew I'm talking to you" "Should I lie" is the wrong way to think about it. You don't wanna lie, but you refuse to give women any correct information that they want about you. You don't owe them. Frustrate them, watch them enjoying how mysterious and ambiguous you are (she has to guess and make up her…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:33 PM
3

I wouldn't hold off, just give it a week and make new plans like nothing happened. The fact she offered you some concrete alternative is a good sign. One thing you might wanna stop doing is always being agreeable with women. All the "no problem, no sweat, no worries", it's not helping you. You could look a lot sexier if you instead were saying "huh, suit yourself young lady" or similar. You want it charming yet judgemental and kinda challenging her to justify herself to you.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:29 PM
15

Thanks for the laughs, great post. Socrates PM'ed me from 400BC and he says you're wayy wrong about him sitting around reading books. He hated books. Claims he could barely read, spent his youth fighting in one war after another as a hoplite, had a face like a hammerfish, cut stone for a living, had a wife who famously hated his guts (but he DGAF) and was famous in Athens for calling the pampered sons of the rich "faggots" to their faces.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:04 PM
9

Women always have a list of why you're not good enough: you're too white, too black, too indian, too asian, too poor, too dumb, too smart, too assertive, too timid, too this, too that. She doesn't like this, she doesn't like that... You can silently think to yourself "Bitch, yeah, but you've never met me" and smile, then agree & amplify. Who gives a shit what she thinks she likes or wants in a man, it's all subject to immediate reconsideration as soon as she feels the tingles for you. The way th…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:00 PM
10

Always liked Patrice O'Neal's response to that: You are a narcissist, misogynist, angry man! "And?"
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:50 PM
1

my favorite: "come back? I might, we'll just have to see what you wanna do to make it up to me won't we"
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:07 PM
3

Look into taking responsibility for something. Could be a project you want to see through, or a person you want to see succeed. The fulfillment feel for men depends on taking personal responsibility for something. That's how you can have many hobbies but still little fulfillment.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:03 PM
4

My read on that: it was a cute test from the cutie. She basically told you (in a clever pussy dominance move) that she's bringing her fat friend to your "date". This is unacceptable, and she full well knows it. She wanted to see if you will shut it down, and how will you do it. That tells her a lot about what kind of man you are. No-BS-Allowed Grunt (just like daddy!!1) would simply tell her: "No." Funnyguy charmer would ask: "... is she cute?" Thirsty beta-male says: "ok whatever you say! I'm s…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:51 PM
17

Never forget who worked day and night to point you in the exact opposite direction, starting in the US from around 1960. Our enemy preaches from the television screen, as from a pulpit, and loves to deliberately sabotage whole generations of the naive and defenseless. "Go children, run in that minefield, be FREE! Forget what your religion and your evil, controlling fore-fathers said!"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:39 AM
1

Why so either/or? Watch yourself. You're spinning your wheels hard making up excuses why you're doomed to fail and so there's no point trying. This produces low quality pet theories (that are wrong), based on no life experience, just intellectual wanking. Think about it, the smart part of you should get it, even though it's upleasant as fuck. Then it can tell the rest of that male hamster mechanism to STFU and keep on grinding.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:25 AM
8

That's a brilliant observation.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:13 AM
3

Possible plot twist - the author is actually not all that successful. And he doesn't care about the zebra's ass he's showing off since it isn't his ass to begin with. Just wants the lioness secretly salivating...
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 06:50 AM
1

You're welcome, found that post for you: https://archive.fo/qBS0o In the second part "meditative methods" part of this post I described a good way to take it on.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 01:17 PM
30

Yes she will. This is one of those things in life where you recognize it's "zero sum". Her game is getting you to commit. If she wins, you lose. And vice versa. Moving herself in is the classic, classic way this plays out and you're resisting it for good reason. Women do this without even considering the consequences, they're practically dooming the relationship to die, but they don't care. The sarcastic way to look at it is: she gotta get that ring. But if you ask me, it's even more sinister, i…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:56 PM
2

I got some good news. There's no need to create that inner positivity. It is already there, it is complete, perfect and immutable. Sure, maybe you can't really access it right now, but that's because of many, many, buried, suppressed bad feelings that you're trying to resist, and not feel. Picture the Sun, shining in space. It's always there, but maybe you're having a cloudy night where you are. You might be asking yourself, "how do I create that sunshine some people seem to have?" but that is a…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:40 PM
3

One thing to keep in mind for your future adventures - when you're calibrating the things you do/try to make your date good, you're calibrating using the woman you're with. Not TRP's opinions or vague pride-related desires to be a "proper alpha". It's easy to miss this point in the beginning especially as you get successful, it goes to your head a bit. Don't lose touch with the girl, don't go all in your head second guessing everything. It can be pretty chill, unlike most guys you consciously kn…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 05:30 AM
6

Strong response and unbroken frame there. You going to go get Chichi's earthly remains to take care of it? You know the hysterical ex is gonna botch it, no matter how good her intentions.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:20 AM
8

The benefit is supposedly somewhat proportional to the amount of physiological shock from the cold. I've been at it for years, perfectly used to it & throughly enjoy every second, but somedays it just hits you harder for whatever reason, and I (if you pardon the french) can literally piss myself a little in the shower. You'll know exactly what I mean if you do it long enough, it's delicious. It's a small subdued version of what happens to all animals when the body thinks they're about to fucking…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:56 AM
8

Ha, definitely didn't mean it literally man. If you try that, it will be interpreted by her as a cheap-ass gesture to get back in her pants, every single time. If you ask me, it would be better go nonverbal. Set up a cute little altar for her somewhere & light a candle in grateful appreciation. Drink some rounds to her, sing a karaoke to her (without her present of course). There's no need to communicate those thanks to HER at all, but there's definitely an inner need to express the gratitude to…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:48 AM
3

I suppose it's because the body expends resources for the high fever to accomplish a highly urgent goal (killing the infection faster). Shocking it with thermal jumps at this point must be counterproductive, like kicking a kitten who's already starving to death. Don't know for sure, but it's served me well for years. The more important thing is why you never skip. The overall benefit of the practice is all in the purifying shock, that happens right after waking up (and before going to sleep). It…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:34 AM
26

The main thing is, don't keep on thinking you're a unique snowflake, it's a unique situation, and you're at your wit's end on the edge of the universe having lost the most beautiful thing ever to exist, your true love. How unfair! Bull fucking shit. All of it, man. Billions of untold billions of men have gone and are going through the exact same as you. Not only that, but most of them come out just fine and even better on the other side. Sweetly thanking their ex GF for destroying their false dr…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:32 AM
8

It's convenient to think it was because of a technical reason - bad at kissing. It's a way to pass the buck, not taking the responsibility. The true reason you crash'n'burned was the fear itself. That fear that you're not good at kissing, same fear that made you try to make the kiss more subdued, the same fear that made you overthink it etc. etc. Forget the self pity, "wow 2 hours being her clown, and she couldn't give me the benefit of the doubt?". No she couldn't. Women have a fantastic nose f…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:21 AM
19

Douse yourself with cold water (the coldest you can possibly get it, no "working up to it") first thing in the morning after waking and maybe taking a piss. Fill some kind of bucket or container up, and douse yourself repeatedly. After your cold water ritual's done, feel free to take a normal hot shower, a scented bubble bath with some playboy playmate bunnies, do sauna with your fav Calvin & Hobbes floaties, try OP's genius routine etc. - whatever you need to start your day. Very important to n…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:10 AM
1

I had the same shit happening for a while after TRP. Worked through it, am fine now. I even share stories about my past mind-blowing stupidity with plates now and we laugh together (stories suitably altered to my advantage of course). But it still helps to be in that attitude that you're such a cheery bastard with zero fucks given, that you don't care about laughing about yourself, your own stupidity. Typically the girl instantly understands exactly what was going on and giggles (let's say it's …
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:53 AM
0

Yes I would like fries with that.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 08:35 AM
1

I don't know about all that... In theory I see what you're attempting to lay out the same way, but it's the practice with its nuance that doesn't match up. Alpha males are often not oriented toward the "real", in your sense. We can't say they're not "real alphas" just because they don't fit in our own very inventive category correctly. They're alphas, they'll still be alphas even if rejected from the category on important realz-before-feelz grounds. Everything of value that I've learned, I learn…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:53 AM
-4

Reads like something penned by a woman or a hippopotamus xir. With gems like, ... maintain your alpha frame. You aren’t stimulating her because you want to “please your queen”, you’re stimulating her because you’re hacking her neurochemistry. it's a wonderful invitation to add more goofy mental illness into one's already mentally ill blue-pill overdosed life. The author is very encouraging: go full aspergerburger, science that bitch good.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:31 AM
2

The basic idea: you should look like you're the King of whatever area/context you're in, in the photo. Think about where you already feel like the king, see if you can work out the shoot around a place like that. The second important part is have some photos with women in the shot, even better if they're smiling at you. Doesn't matter what your relation is to the woman, she could be your sister or a bartender you paid to pose for the cute shot with you. It hits on a primal level to see you're "a…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:09 AM
1

this is fucking killing me It's brutal, I know that feeling too bro. We all know it. It's because the whole situation is as old as the world. May help you a lot if you reframe it that way for yourself: accept that you're going through what millions of men have gone through before. It's meant to be happening, it's one of the unique experiences in life. Because unique doesn't necessarily mean it's pleasant, if you think about it. It also creates a kind of "unrequited love" vibe which is actually s…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 04:10 AM
1

Girls hate "going back" in the direction of less commitment. They glom on to you, and slowly try to cook you with their loving care, all the way to full beta provider. Any sign of you going back toward more freedom and less dependency on her will often hit the girl right in the ole' ego. That's why you don't want to "put your foot down" too hard on her in response, try and be gentler about it since you understand exactly what's up. It's not that she's controlling and manipulative (she is, but yo…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:40 AM
2

Besides knowing the theory you have to practice to internalize it. You'll have to do many "fearful" things, such as being seen as an ass in social situations, facing disapproval or displeasure from girls. Usually it's like a pendulum that you didn't know was even there. Now you know it's there, so you can push it in the opposite direction (less submissive) on purpose, to observe and feel out the results. The result will invariably be that you will heavily overdo it, swinging hard toward the oppo…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:13 AM
3

She won't be supportive. Kitty kats kompete. It's your own (wrong) expectation that's setting you up for the fall, not even the girl. Not that it's some big deal, nothing you have to rush out and fix. If you act like you find it charming she's "all jelly now" you can spin it into something good too. She will try her best to shame you, but if you never take any of that serious and insist that she's "stuck in the saltmines" and "let me know if you need help getting out, I'm sure we can figure some…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:59 AM
14

Right on. Socrates quipped that a man who hasn't put his body through rigors of training to discover what it is capable of is a fool, no matter how intellectual he might make himself out to be. It's not "get the body right, and then you will be good enough, and THEN real life will start", instead the action of getting the body right (as it unfolds day by day) is itself one of those genuine and UNMISSABLE experiences you most surely do want to hit.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 10:19 AM
54

Money doesn't experience you much of anything. It's paper. You can buy services and luxuries, but those don't experience you anything groundbreaking either. If you can shift your anger like a wrestler shifting his weight, you can pin the issue down a lot better. Think about the exact things you (as in the you, on the inside, that it seems like nobody normally knows), wants to experience. It will take some basic money here and there, but doesn't take what you think it takes. You can be very happy…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:37 AM
1

That's that same disease as when Richardson from work got a sweet Porsche but you're too good for that, Porsche is logically for losers who have something to prove. His dick is probably tiny so he needs a Porsche- loser. Drive that degenerate shit out of your head with fire, and cauterize the wound man. You almost entered the anger phase (good, and way better than depression/apathy phase), but unfortunately slipped into the Porsche disease side ditch. Good for you Richardson, you lucky bastard.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:05 AM
3

Don't sweat it man. Unimportant statistics are unimportant. You already have that practiced skill of zoning out - use it, a man's love-life is the perfect place for an accomplished meditator to play around. Cause things to happen like you aren't even there, just observing. Cold approach when you feel like it, and when you don't feel like it, always zoned out and meditative, almost like it occured to you by accident to say hello. If she's unimpressed or playing unimpressed, you can take it up a n…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:02 AM
2

Sounds like you're on the right track. Don't take the girls out on fancy proper dates, ESPECIALLY if they demand it. Go for a shitload of short coffee dates, treat it like a numbers game. You're not attached to any particular girl or outcome, there's no rush to impress or to fuck her. If it happens it happens, fine. But you don't have any blindingly moronic fantasies about how perfect she would be for you, you plain don't care. Try to ease into it with the expectation to enjoy the (looong and bo…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:47 AM
4

Yep, she still wants you. No two ways about it. She can't just text "I still want your dick", so if you can translate in real-time from womanese, there's no reason not to smile to yourself at the cinema after those kinds of texts. Extra points if your other plate sees that sordid smirk gracing your movie-goer face after a mystery text. But as usual, don't expect texty-girl to actually do anything. It's a signal "I want you, plz plz understand and make something smooth, charming and adventurous j…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:37 AM
2

Yeah we missed out, a lot of us, but so what. How's that the end of the world or a reason to have a big nerd sulk? Think about it, this wasn't a TV show, it was real life. Nothing was guaranteed to you going in (if you naively thought something was, you got sold a bill of goods). It's only in the American fantasy of "high school" and "college" that things are guaranteed, you almost know exactly what's supposed to happen to you in which grade. You don't know exactly how or why you know this, but …
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:05 AM
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You don't ever want to backpedal, even if you 100% know you're in the wrong. Just annoys the woman to see you so weak. Helps to understand a little about her world when you're in this situation. It's emotions all over the place, everybody is kissing her ass, and dick is thrown in her face daily. It's cheap, almost worthless, unless it's attached to a glorious man. Then it's still cheap, but now it's a valuable tool to ensnare that man for herself. So what you're seeing is just a girl who put up …
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:48 AM
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Deep down there's no difference. That type of girl sometimes comes up in TRP posts and cautionary tales for anime nerds. The anime tomboy chicks hit them especially hard, and they start worshipping, forgetting that deep down there's no difference. If you just remember that there's zero reason to worship her for it, you can enjoy a good time.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:36 AM
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It's a curse. The partnership thing. First thing you do after you get an idea for a business is start a random partnership with some asshole you know. Basic shit. Why, goodness, why! But nope, I did the same exact thing years ago starting out. Everybody does it, until they learn the hard way. Partnership in business is like commitment with girls - you only do it grudgingly, if you have no choice and, thanks to the girl's dedicated hard work sucking your dick, no better option...
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:10 PM
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For the big fix, you'll need to reach into the gory core. Going to take some pain and some work to do it, so only pick up the following book recommendation if you're thoroughly tired of paying for this bullshit in lost opportunities and happiness, and are ready to get rid of it: "Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender" (D. R. Hawkins, successful clinical psychotherapist) What fucking pathway of surrender, is this still the Red Pill, you may ask? Never you mind that, that's the guy's personal termi…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 09:37 PM
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I think you're doing great for yourself man. You know what draws her to your dick now, the most? It's that disinhibited concert feel, but extrapolated into everything you do. On TRP it's called the "don't give a fuck" attitude. It's as old as time, look at women's romance books - that's every badboy hero they love. If you slide back into rational and "proper" functioning, she'll slowly get more and more put off. Same for every woman. You might want to get comfy in that disinhibited state, learn …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:30 AM
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But she seemed so sincere, so cute. That's the smile of a dolphin, man. We look at the dolphin and its physiology makes us think it's smiling, but that dolphin may as well be pissed as hell, plotting how to kill you. It'll still look like it's sincere and smiling to our compromised brains.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:56 AM
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Agreed in general. Yet this particular PDF's packed with eye openers, making it worth swallowing one's pride for.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:23 PM
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Women live for fake dramas. That's what they're all about. If she isn't feeling (dramas), then she might as well not be living. Of course they will never admit it. Blowing up with righteous rage and leaving her cowering might be good once in a long while. But if you find this happening a lot, this will quickly emasculate you. The first time, she's terrified and it gives her sexual tingles. But the 15th time? - She thinks you're a pussy, no impulse control, a jerk, and you wont' do anything to he…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:51 AM
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It's kinda funny - this is what always happens to the side that got broken up with. Their ego gets surprisingly hurt. The active breaker-upper is always in a much better place, emotionally, and can even be smug about it; you'd think it should be equal - after all you wanted this yourself just a week back...But it isn't equal at all. This is the big reason why girls HATE being broken up with, and will do anything to break up with you first before that happens. Or, con you with tales of eternal lo…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:34 AM
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Always hold 10% -20% of yourself back, as a kind of mobile reserve. You will be there and take care of her, of course. But it's never your 100% and she should semi-unconsciously feel that. There's always that pesky 10% that you hold back, that allows you to be cheeky with her. To tease her about silly shit she does, in a devil-may-care way that a compliant beta never could. It should feel like you're there with her and the kid, but you also have a secret, deeper life somewhere just outside of he…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:16 AM
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You're a good man. Life kicks you in the face, and you get up every time. It obviously taught you a lot, there's that distinct fragrance of longsuffering and ego-death in everything you wrote. When the last of your kind goes, it's all over for planet earth. You can just imagine it, some outer space mega-overlord coming over and fumigating the whole place with nuclear fire so the planet of epic fail can be re-seeded from zero. The girl you're with isn't "the one", but she is "a one" and will do p…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 06:46 AM
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Moms do a lot of stupid shit, even when they mean well. You still on the pills? The persistent suicide thoughts are something associated with the pills, might not even be coming from you. People speculate it's like a rebound response of a human mind/soul that is chemically forced to be "OK, happy" when it really isn't. Sort of a rebellion against the unjust force being applied to it. If that's the case, you're not doing it. The pills or their aftereffects are doing it. Got a question for you. If…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 06:28 AM
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Just need to be extra careful to not let it turn into a platonic rendezvous. It's lots of teasing, touchy-feely and dominance o'clock.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 06:21 AM
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Find the "Sex God Method" PDF. It will explain a lot about what you're seeing, and give you that "knows exactly what he's doing" confidence to really blow girls' minds (without having to lap up lube from their pussy nearly as much).
/r/askTRP10/05/17 06:17 AM
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Here's my take- this can happen if you find yourself more focused on yourself in social interaction than on the girls you're with. It can be very subtle and they still pick it up. DGAF attitude is great, but it's better when backed up by a little cocky charm that makes a girl feel special. Teasing is great, but you do better if you tease them like they're your bratty little sister, instead of in a more cruel and DGAF way. I think they're picking up on the vibe that you emit, which is too warlike…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:59 AM
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I just feel sad and empty for letting this relationship sink. That's normal dude. The feelings, they go wild. But they're just feelings for you to feel, they aren't you or your essence or your truth. You can take your sweet time, sit with all your squirming feelings in your lap, and just feel them all through. No need to think up theories, or fantasies. It's good to just focus on the feelings one by one and feel them without fear. Normally you try to barrier yourself on autopilot from strong fee…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:21 AM
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Easy way to get rid of that fear of touching people is to take some BJJ, sambo, judo, or good old wrestling. Pick a martial art of your choice - doesn't matter much what it is - and go enjoy yourself. Nothing crazy to start, not trying to become Bruce Lee. Be a slacker if you want, go once a week just for the hell of it. Getting it rolling: You can phone or email the place, and politely ask about coming over to try a class. All martial arts places love newbies and the first class is usually free…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:42 AM
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It's particularly comical because of his onetime status as the ultra-alpha. You remember that line, "would she flake like that on Brad Pitt?"
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 12:53 AM
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Keep all your cards close to your chest and don't listen to women. "Oh what a nice girl, why not LTR her?" Because. When she gets what she wants, the nice girl will end. The shit tests will increase. So will the headaches. I think it's not about what she "deserves". It's about her demonstrated preserverence over time: how long has she stuck around and stuck by me through thick & thin? That has real weight, her niceness is pleasant and worth every encouragement but it doesn't have much decision-m…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 10:12 PM
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Don't sweat the number collecting part too much. It used to be of huge social importance, and PUA people rightly obsessed about it. For a time, it was almost like a "sure sign" she's into you. Then the asperger-burgers moved in fast into the PUA scene. They made a lot of that their territory, so now it was as though getting the number meant you're a man, not getting it meant you're a pussy. Like some obsessive-compulsive ritual. That part was always pure aspergerberger bullshit, plus on top of t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:58 PM
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Spot on. Try not to frame it as a shortcoming though, because really this is women's special quality. The same exact "selfishness" or superficiality (whatever we want to call it) is what makes them adorable, loveable and childlike in other contexts... They need this quality, it's a matter of her survival. It's a woman. TRP teaches how to stop yourself from expecting it to be a saint, a profound thinker, a tree with deep roots down to your very core, a cure for loneliness, your mom, or a heavenly…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:14 AM
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It just plain doesn't matter what she says. Why? Because women are incredibly fickle, always changing their mind according to how they "feel" that day. There's never any consequences, she can change her mind constantly and no one calls her out for it. And rightly so, what idiot would demand consistency from WOMEN? That means when she says "I don't do relationships" that doesn't matter. When she says "you are the love of my life forever", that doesn't matter either. It's something for you to smir…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:08 AM
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Let's say you took everything you know from TRP, condensed it into the most heart-rending verse that would rouse a skeleton from the dead and make it see the light. In other words, you do everything 110%. It probably still won't be enough, because it's damn tough for any man's ego to be reduced to taking advice from some 17yr old kid, and especially from his own kid. The blinkers kick in, you will be tuned out, even if what you had to say is vitally important for him to hear. You end up actually…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 08:12 PM
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Fantastic post. If you ask me, if you go for coffee with a chick and she unexpectedly brought her fat friend or even her boyfriend (???), it's time to throw your biggest wrench into the social gearworks. Have zero fear and sink that shit all the way to the bottom. You want to do/say things that are unusual and jarring, and make a funny (for you) scene of some kind, at her expense. Something as simple as getting up and wordlessly starting to leave might be nice. If she asks where you're going, yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:19 AM
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Long term but non-exclusive Long term exclusive but one way only (woman agrees to be exclusive with man, man is still free to pursue other women) Those are good red pill options that help keep even "horrible" women on their best behaviour for longer.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 08:24 AM
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Your friend has game, but he wasn't born with it tucked into his diaper. He kinda grew it from humble beginnings, by accretion. The ancient nobility believed that "whatever another man does, I can do." It's not simply "positive thinking", this is their deep-hitting response to the existential question "what am I, really?". Their answer: "a perfect, self-creating, self-maintaining universal machine brought into existence by divine forces unseen and imbued with essentially unlimited capacity for s…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:43 AM
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There's a lot you don't know yet. There's some stuff you know you don't know. And then there's Unknown Unknowns, and those are a good reason to keep on paddling as hard as you can. You can think of yourself as Neo in the first Matrix movie. They woke you up and now it's fucking sloppy gruel, all day every day. That's all you get to eat, and you are angry at the tasty dreams of steak you abandoned by waking up, and at the lies they were built of.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:22 AM
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I think it's good you're being super careful about this. Because that's how it all starts. Some GFs have that uncanny ability to slowly cut you off from every social circle you used to have, and you won't even be aware of it as it's happening. Just wake up one day, and realize you only got one social circle and she's it. Not good. Only you know if you value those gambling dudes and enjoy their company enough to leave the GF knitting at home and go bet on some games with them. They are sure to ap…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:17 AM
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That's because you keep explaining yourself to her. The fact that you're explaining, trying to reassure her, can mean only one thing (in a girl's brain) - you're lying, blowing sunshine up her ass. Because that's exactly what she would be doing, if it were HER explaining and reassuring you. Try experimenting a little with the opposite approach man. Next time she brings it up, you snuggle her, grin and say "what ex-GF, there's only one Ex in my life and that is my future ex-wife right here". Tick…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:07 AM
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if I don't do that I'm not a "real" friend but an asshole for not wanting to be there. See what they did there? Very effective emotional manipulation tactic to pull on the unaware. Doesn't work so good on a red pilled man. It's hard to argue with a brutal, no-explanations-given "No", especially when you're depressed, going through a rough time, and wanted an easy mark...
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:00 AM
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I have noticed that in the presence of children, I lack patience completely You're gonna also notice that when those children are your children, you will feel completely different in their presence. Chillax, nature will take care of nature. makes me sad to think that I have to prove myself as not being someone that is only good for sex Girl, you think men don't have to prove themselves? It's all about you, you, you? Feels so sad to be you? -- If you want to compete with men, you should be ready …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:36 AM
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The craptastic loneliness you got now is not here to stay, it won't be forever. Just a stage. When you're in the middle of it with no end in sight, it sure feels permanent though. It's all yours to enjoy, knock yourself out. I think a more realistic picture would look more like: it's a brain re-calibration you go through. At first you will instinctively overdo it and be very guarded with any woman, to the point that it detracts from your enjoyment and even hers. Then, you will discover how to sl…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:20 AM
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Not a psychologist, but if your financial shit is lined up, finding an excellent, expensive, male therapist with longstanding hypnosis experience could be a wise investment for your situation. Not a replacement for the dojo or boxing basement, but something to go along with it. If you're determined to eradicate this shortcoming, hit it from all angles you can think of at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:05 AM
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You don't want to view women positively or negatively, you want enough knowledge to be able to look at what they are in fact doing all around you, more objectively. Just take off the artificial pre-installed male blinders successfully (takes work), and you will be fine. It's an epiphany moment. You're suddenly making good decisions for yourself and are not second guessing yourself any more, even if your new ways seem strange or reprehensible to other nice-guys in your social circle. Read Deida's…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 12:25 AM
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This struck me as a pretty crappy foundation for a relationship, and I suppose I missed the chance to ask her then and there why she's even together with him if that is the case. Good thing you kept your mouth shut man. That stuff is like putting out a big fat rainbow blimp that says "I'M A BETA, HERE TO SAVE YA". That's not what she wants or needs. She doesn't want you to save her, she hopes you might be a cool, fun, zero fucks given dude, who will fuck her on the side and make her life better,…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:46 PM
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Chances are, she'll be a perfectly adorable self-centered brat no matter what you do or say. Which happily coincides with what men expect and want from her. That's a lot of effort wasted trying to turn a horse into a dog by scolding it in the name of dubious "progressive ideas".
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:15 PM
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It's very true that women are heavily over-represented in medicine and generally in all care-taking professions. This is problematic. We urgently need more men in medicine, nursing, and child care professions.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:13 PM
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The counter-example to prove how powerful women scientists are seems to always be a random Rosa Jewburg. Not enough diversity, no proportional representation for women of colour or of other races, very sad. Let's see a fuming femi-apologist try that same trick, but without unduly invoking Rosa's ethnically manjawed accomplishments. Without disingenuous over-representation for the freakish Rosas of the world, there isn't that much to talk about altogether, in the realm of "woman scientists". And …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 06:50 PM
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You turned the whole story around, big time. Much more than you realize dude! I'm happy for the girl, thought she'd end up with no sex and no fun, all because of high blue pill dosages in Europe.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 12:31 AM
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It's important to ace this shit test by demonstrating no fear about her potentially leaving, even affect sighs of comical relief that finally someone's gonna take her off your hands! Aww, you think it's true wuv? When's the wedding, baby? Feels like I'm a ballerina sometimes, when the shit tests come on strong you have to really be on your toes and balance on a dime to prevent the appearance of having been upset in any way by her new other guy adventure. Any sign of displeasure or sullen-ness, a…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:52 PM
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To the ancients, in many ways our betters, it was simple logic: whyever should you, or your property, or your wishes be respected if you are a perfectly harmless, unarmed peasant? Being armed was the single thing that instantly, visibly distinguished the free man from the slave/serf. In time the arms became more and more ornamental, and the true origin of this tradition for a free man to "carry a sabre" for example as a matter of good taste, were hurriedly forgotten. So, why should you be given …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:13 PM
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I'd skip "The Game", and instead see if something clicks for you after you skim Deida's "Way of The Superior Man". It's hard to tell what the problem is without watching you in action, but like you already figured out, it's probably something small yet crucial that you will be able to easily iron out once you know what the hell it is. Women are no help in this, they want it ready-made for them and have no clue how to help a man improve himself, it makes them cringe just thinking about it. Don't …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:07 PM
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Great post, and great little vignettes to ruffle know-it-all internet alpha feathers. PS: A man without a weapon is more of a toothless, helpless serf than a man. Dr.Warlock's tender sentimentality toward his underpillow friend (perhaps far exceeding his apparent sentiments toward "target girl") is richly justified & historically sound.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:46 PM
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No, you're (sadly) spot on. You cannot allow this woman to swoop in when you're weak and take you. She will not respect you going forward if you allow it. It may seem complicated, emotional and hard, but it really isn't. You want to first put some distance between you and everything that is going on, and then you can make your decisions, from a position of strength. On your terms, not on hers. See if you can be cordial still, thank her for caring politely, tell her you will think about what she …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:24 AM
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Just in case you have a hard time finding that trustworthy decent girl fresh from the wild, keep in mind that you can also train her to be that way, yourself. So don't feel like you must outright reject all suboptimal-seeming girls everytime - some of them might do great as raw material to work with, you never know. Pays to keep your eyes open. There's a thing after "the big breakup" that gives you a feeling everyone you meet is very suboptimal, for a little while. You can't help yourself and af…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 06:56 PM
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On the one hand, it's all true what they say about that. But on the other hand, you're missing one thing: Women don't make rational choices. Especially not in their love life. This is how those dudes you may have met before (who are short, bald, fat, broke and ugly, yet are banging prime pussy) are able to do their sly thing. This single fact about women makes them both adorable & infuriating, and in your case can put a big smile on your indian shitlord face instead of that constipated look of w…
/r/askTRP29/04/17 12:44 AM
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Never had any problems arise from that. Do you feel like she'll think less of you as a negotiator, if you fail to honestly inquire about the mileage on the front hole, backhole and face hole?
/r/askTRP29/04/17 12:28 AM
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Put effort toward being less harmless. Chances are, all your life you've been hammered on your dick by torture instruments and propaganda, made to render you as harmless and unassuming as possible. You will project a fake smiley exterior and eager bubbly attitude of a 12yr old girl as a consequence of that. It plain fucking doesn't fit for a grown man, at some point. Steer toward being less agreeable. Be contrary, ruffle people's feathers (especially girls), and revel in not giving a single shit…
/r/askTRP29/04/17 12:13 AM
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I never ask. In the short term, we don't care anyways. In the long term though, you might want to cultivate the illusion that you're one of those guys who "doesn't judge". Tell her some fake semi-embarassing stories about your own man-slutting in the distant and terrible past, long before you met her. Tell her about your imaginary friend Stacy and her adventures. Eventually women can't resist the opportunity, and start spilling the beans about all their past BFs on their own. You'll be begging f…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:58 PM
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Agreed, it was a great post man. Awkward dorkster emotionally sensitive guy game(actually brutal psychological manipulator, but how would she know the difference), for the win. It absolutely ruffles men's feathers the wrong way, who have an instinctive aversion to that type of flippy floppy fliff-fluff. But women loves it (but only when it's about her, of course)!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 11:37 PM
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Hey bud, it's very simple what's going on. You should have found a way and fucked it on the same night, when she was all over you. She expected it to happen. In her mind you absolutely blew it, or were "too timid to go for it". Attraction took a big nosedive there, hence you see many days with no replies. That was no accident, she deliberately did that to make you squirm, to see if you will start chasing after her. In your texts you're too agreeable, too many smileys, too much ha-ha and supplica…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:57 PM
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You're still thinking you need to be forthright and clear in your communication. That's blue pill indoctrination, you don't need any such thing. Feel free to be ambiguous and mysterious. Let her wonder if it's a date-date, or a date-date-date. You put on a big smirk and enjoy it, all her squirming. As a man, the only thing you care about is that she's with you, 1:1, and you're having fun together. In the evening is good. That's it, that's all you need to worry about creating. Let her figure out …
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:41 PM
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You don't need an article. Women hate TRP because it ruthlessly exposes their scam operation. All scammers dislike exposure, but especially women since they often got nothing else going for them in this world except for their powerful sexual scam. You'll hear it from women all the time "well ya that's true, we do that thing you described a lot buttttt...you're not supposed to know this, you men!!"
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:31 PM
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That precious camaraderie you've spoken about used to be commonly available to men just 50 or so years ago. Now you must cower in the shadows and feel it's verboten, except for an anon internet forum where people write under imaginary names like SkorchZang and Warpig99. Think about who, what stooped grinch, deliberately robbed you and your children, and their children's children of it - using little more than an addictive TV box and simultaneous "slight" changes in education curricula, to fit wh…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:19 PM
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Excellent observation chief. I once counted myself a devoted student of his philosophies. What attracted me the most was that Nietzsche is a forbidden peephole glimpse into that Freemason / old time mystery religion world, where feel-good bullshit is not allowed. It's not just the Nietzscheans who are obsessed and haunted by this eternal distinction. Yet without having to verbalize it or read clever books full of allusions, any two men who have internalized it will meet in the world as Brothers,…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:58 PM
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It'd be good to distinguish starkly between the altruism of the weak VS the altruism of the strong. The altruism of the weak is itself very weak, it barely aspires to be anything beyond a strap-on. It's a sort of goodness good people put on to look good. Their plastic ruse of goodness falls apart instantly the moment adversity hits or they fail to recieve the expected praise for being goody two-shoes. Pining about how great things would be if we all would just get along and work together also be…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:36 PM
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The bottom line is: getting your balls back is much easier than losing them (to the blue pill) was in the first place. That means you can skip that phase of hanging around feeling sorry for yourself "not being able to do what others do". You can go directly for the good stuff, and get those balls back.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:13 PM
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Patrice had the best way of putting it: if she has a cool hobby, she had it fucked into her at some point by a guy she was worshipping at the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:04 PM
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Missing your balls or something? It probably took a lot of concerted effort & propaganda over many formative years to shrivel them to the point they almost disappear on you. Almost disrespectful, how it takes only a moment's insight and a red pill to undo all of it. That's because it was never natural or good for a man to not have his balls, your whole body silently aches to snap out of Equalistan's feminist death cult so you can be you again. It settles easily into the new.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:21 PM
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Nah, it won't be all that long before you get over it and have a new perspective, especially on a steady red pill diet. The "wounds till dying day" thing reveals itself to you as childish, self-centered nonsense and you actually begin to enjoy its comical emotional tugs. Perhaps a little like a masochist at first, but you grow way beyond that in time. It's about identity, the way you think about your own self as so special is what suffers painful changes, polishings, and improvements. That rolle…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:06 AM
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You have to strive and become something, because you're a man. She doesn't need to become anything, she's already the best thing she could be, without effort, without much becoming. A beloved woman. Be careful judging that disparity as frivolous, unfair, or thinking that women are somehow cheating at life because they "don't have to work for it". That would only be true if they were the same as men, and they are decidedly not the same. Women's nature will blow you away with its contrasts, how it…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:08 AM
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Thanks for the laughs. "I am tired" is like when everyone's sitting around just taking it easy, and then she goes "I am cold". So? So what, bitch? "I am cold, make it better for me, men."
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:30 AM
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Yeah, it's not reliable, taken separately means nothing. If you want to get into reading body language & physiognomy, it's fascinating and quite reliable, but you have to understand hundreds of "tells" and be adept at intuitively decyphering their probable underlying meaning. Gotta take it in "as a whole". So this is something you can give your friend plenty of shit for, I would have a field day. "Bud, look ... that old lady right there..both feet are pointing at you" Big RP reminder & a dose of…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:37 PM
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Put yourself in her shoes man. When you're an attractive girl, random cock throws itself in your face 100 times a day or more. You have about 20 ex's that all wanna get with you, and some of them actually alpha-widowed you, so you want to get with them, but can't. They're dicking you around, staying in your life, but you can't cut them off because you're a girl, no capacity for decisiveness. Overall, not only can you have your pick of dick, you're fucking tired of picking. This is why as the man…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:19 PM
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What the fuck? Check the holier-than-thou morals in at the door. Initiating Aggression and taking crazy daring unnecessary risks is the definition of the alpha animal, what makes him different from the more timid and risk-averse beta herd. The betas have a much safer life, compared to the alpha. We can observe that there's no problem in the West of too many males being too aggressive, there's the opposite problem instead. Yet posts like this are created, in a desperate attempt to re-write the re…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:41 PM
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It's very true. The naturals are in a way the most vulnerable demographic. Eventually women have their way with them, and the naturals have to learn about the Matrix the unnatural way or turn into stuck, miserable curmudgeons. And it's damn tough on the ego to have to learn basic shit like a toddler after being "the shit" for so long, without having to think twice about anything. Doesn't matter how alpha a natural is in the beginning, a woman's sharp instincts WILL wear him down, it's just a mat…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:58 PM
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Take comfort in knowing you'll be just fine, so long as you stay away. Yeah there are the ridiculous butterflies sometimes, but they're just that. The key is to not start gathering info about her, no trying to "accidentally" open her FB or overhear something about her - that's the real downward spiral, not the momentary butterflies.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:29 AM
5

Sidestep and ignore the cock carousel. With the help of parents, secure a good man as soon as possible before youth fades, pop out many beautiful kids for him. It's not rocket science, although finding "a good man" is agonizingly hard for girls nowadays. It didn't say "a good beta" (which would be easy), it said a good MAN.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 02:56 AM
4

It's like this because in your heart of hearts you've allowed this woman to become your mother-figure at some point. When that blue pill unholy attachment forms, it's pretty permanent. Trying to reclaim your balls and be more alpha does not help in that situation, since that's taking the battle to a completely different field where the actual enemy is absent. That's also the reason why you have no issue with other girls; these are just bitches to you, they are not your mommy (like her). You're f…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 02:34 AM
7

Sounds to me like your love train with the girlfriend is slowing down, about to pull into the station so you can hop off and catch yourself another train. Girls who are head over heels for a man not only don't give a shit about his poltiical opinions, but will actively change their own to fit yours as much as possible. It's pure instinct. Forget politics, they will even completely change their taste in music, food, movies, clothes. The fact that she's thinking that your opinions are "unacceptabl…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:54 AM
4

Great post. Wanted to point something out to you - you spoke about your dad deliberately getting the other man "rattled" at the restaurant. Well, that was the exact moment he won. As soon as the guy was rattled, it's over, the woman can sense it and she is disgusted. Just picture it. If your father walked over, picked a fight and punched the guy's lights out in "true alpha" fashion, the woman would be disgusted with him now, and all over her brave date who took one on the chin for her. Your fath…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:31 AM
19

It's the powerlessness, too. Always turns women on. She's trying to grab that leash she's used to having round your neck, any way she can. Don't make the big blue mistake thinking this is because you or your dick are so damn special in some way. What's actually special is that she used to have you easy before, but now you're a challenge and she wants to prove to herself that she's "got it", that she can have you if she wanted. The fun will be over as soon as you submit, and give her all the powe…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 12:23 AM
2

Canadian girls, they have a thing for hugging you to death.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:34 AM
4

Let's venture a guess and, with your permission, say a thing or two about your mother. She is, of course, a very loving woman. So loving is she, that all through your childhood, she doted upon you, worried about you killing yourself by falling over whilst running too fast, or dying from a mysterious African disease that comes from household surfaces that haven't been sprayed with antiseptic. She always, deep deep down, saw you as her son, her precious item, and could never genuinely relate to yo…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:13 AM
7

Look for the "The Book of Pook" (it's in the sidebar/ free via google). The changes you gotta make are not easy ones, they go deep. That's why this book is so good, it's nicely digestible chapters showing you examples of wrong blue pill thinking vs correct, accurate thinking. You'll probably be susprised how quickly your transformation starts happening. It's that way because as soon as you start really thinking about these things in some depth, it becomes 100% obvious that everything you know is…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:58 AM
8

Is it a great achievement that he progressed from the friend zone? I bet he thinks so. Actually, it shows how miserable your ex was after your breakup. When girls start fucking their pathetic orbiters of years and years, that's like her eating from her last emergency ration store. The poor girl, she was THAT desperate. Wonder what they would be doing in bed. He'll be trying to make sweet Romeo love to the bored starfish-shaped woman. He'll be eating her pussy for hours. He'll be making sure she …
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:50 AM
2

I get the same urges too when this kind of thing goes down. It's blue pill bullshit. Confronting women about their winking and flirting is the worst, most pointless fucking idea ever. She will hand your ass to you and not even bat an eyelash if you try this. You will be the bad guy, too, and she'll make you feel miserable for trying. Meanwhile her attraction to you takes a great big nosedive, because she just saw how weak your frame / belief in yourself is. If you don't believe in yourself, then…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:35 AM
12

You can really sit back and relax, you already did the all the hard work, girl's into you. The less you worry and plan shit now, the better you'll do for yourself. It cannot be overstated: you already got this ball rolling. There's nothing special to do now. The whole point of "going out" with a girl is to be with her 1:1 and let natural sexy tension build up between the two of you. It does that by itself, you just sit back and let it happen, enjoying yourself. Mostly letting her talk, while you…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:16 AM
9

You put on a huge warm smile. Very important, your face and body language should say "BABY YES, I FUCKING MISSED YOU". But don't say it in words. With your words, tease her: "Wait, who are you again?" and all that type of funny stuff. This is one way to get your girl to both be happy that you obviously love her, yet laughing with you at the silliness of her own question and your cocky answer. It's always this type thing with women, a sneaky subtextual, apparently self-contradicting approach work…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:59 AM
6

she wanted to finish her last year of highschool having strong academic grades rather than have feelings for someone and maybe drag them down Rationalization Hamster. Translated from womanese, this just means she was not attracted to how you were acting back then, and you were putting her on the spot demanding "relationship" (like an idiot), and all girls respond the same way to this - they get disgusted and find any excuse to back off. Now she likes you better than before (nothing to do with sc…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:44 AM
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You're the cool, no fuss dude, who doesn't give a damn. If she throws herself at you, fine. If she doesn't, that's fine too. Your big enemy is that blue pill "fidgeting", being way too excited to be there. If you can control that shit, you're good. Try to put on different airs like you've been there done that, seen it all before. Calibrate yourself till it feels natural.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:37 AM
9

Money on a man is like makeup on a woman. You're always going to look pretty ugly to a woman without it. Just add money, and now you're a stud. This is not professional gold digging either, this is how regular women actually feel. Powerful = hot, weak = ugly.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 05:04 AM
2

involuntarily and unconsciously reverting back to BP ways with her That's exactly what happens if you try that. And it's not because this girl is somehow special objectively, or even special for you personally. She's only such a big deal because back in the day you formed a nasty, dependent, mother-child type blue pill attachment to her. No matter how much progress you make, that blue pill attachment is still sitting there, waiting to spring itself on you if you give it a trigger. You can be com…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:25 AM
3

Agreed, every little bit helps. The more drama and wonderment, the better.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:52 AM
4

It's unfortunately the norm. Not that you should put up with a shitty norm like that. Men form their lasting friendships by co-participation in some (perhaps dangerous) activity. So it's not so much the talking, as the act of doing shit, relying on each other, working as some kind of unit together. It works the same, no matter whether you're in a volunteer bakery together or a SEAL team. If you think about this more, it may give you plenty of actionable ideas about where you could go and "harves…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:15 AM
3

You're creating some excellent social proof/dread there ("was I not good enough for him, look at him grinding with that new whore"), great great tension there, which can be turned into passion. But then it backfires in your face, when you approach the original girl in a (from her POV) beggy or doltish fashion. Rejection is guaranteed in this situation - it plain feels good for her to reject you, as a kind of revenge, and you're enabling her to do just that. You just gotta be aware of the dynamic…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:06 AM
3

Girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. Don't sweat it, keep up the beautiful lie for everyone's sake.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 10:56 PM
3

Game's definitely not over yet. If you'd like a little bit of advice, next time you're around this girl, make her a lazy but overt kinda proposition. Something like (in the middle of a bs convo with her): "hey listen...no listen, stop giggling... ever since I saw you on day one here, I can't help myself thinkin you're kinda cute...and we should grab coffee together to see if you're as fun as you look...what say you" It's this kind of "shocking" approach you need now, something that injects overt…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 12:25 AM
4

Of course you can give input, it's just that he'll have a very limited capacity to take any inputs in. If you don't know about this, it can even piss you off since you start thinking he's some kind of self absorbed pussy. It's probably not the case, he's just going through a lot of choked-up silent suffering at the moment. Be a little like a detective or a monk in a confessional. Your job is to egg him on and make him talk, talk, talk. He'll be repeating the things that bother him the most over …
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:05 AM
6

There's that huge wash of blue pill emotion when things go to shit with the first GF. It's a big disillusionment, a big abandonment feeling, and you know how you can't really talk to anybody about it, since they give you "aw, you'll find someone right for you" or even attack you because they think it must've been your fault for being inadequate if your girl left. A whole bouquet of suffering. You can tell your bro some basic RP truths, but it's going over his head, he's probably hurting too much…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:55 PM
5

The beta males are trained to be too eager. As soon as something like this happens, they fall all over themselves to show what amazing people they are, offer every support, listen to hours of the girl's upset diatribes about this, and in the end just end up emasculated. They end up making it all about themselves, how wonderful and helpful they are; the girls feel it on some level, and are incredibly irked by this - it was supposed to be about HER! You're in good shape if instead of going that ro…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:08 AM
9

The worst thing to tell a woman is that she's not special. Please don't make us tell you that you're not special! Contentment does not cure hypergamy. Hypergamy is a good thing for every female to have.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:50 AM
6

Give yourself time man. If the breakup was fairly recent and it was a LTR, you can expect to feel a certain apathy toward these new girls. I know I felt it plenty of times after big breakups; it's not exactly something dysfunctional, but a kind of tragic boredom. Look a little deeper into yourself and I bet you'll see in there that you're like the loyal puppy whose master has left, and the new owners throw every treat at you, but you won't eat - even things that were your absolute favorite befor…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:44 AM
3

You won't feel it right away or in 2 weeks time, but those moments when you're simply sitting there meditating are rare moments of being fully human. People in the know say this is what you're meant to do, be. Even though technically you are doing nothing at all. You could say, it does nothing for your life and be right... Waste of time...Yet what does that even mean, if that moment, quietly sitting, IS your real life?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:22 AM
5

When I was your age, every convo I had with girls was so smooth, so on point, and so sexy that they still to this day tell stories about me to their GFs in hushed tone with blushed cheeks over martinis. Then the GF says "no way! he said that to you too??", and they swoon about what an asshole I am. Just joking man, did more than my fair share of crash-and-burning, chickening out, forgetting what the fuck I was going to say, and having such sweaty hands from nerves that I couldn't even shake the …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:15 AM
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Yeah, happens all the time. Never confirm. Some women will tell you "but confirm with me the day before" and you must actually stop them. A good line might be "naw. we made a date, I'm a man of my word princess. See you then 7pm sharp" "Confirming" is like giving her some ammo for her flake cannon and saying "wanna shoot me?". And of course she does, it's amusing as hell for a girl. Plus they sense that wavering, the hesitation that goes into "confirming" - does she still want to see me? Am I st…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:06 AM
2

You can get a lot of practice and valuable experience out of it, even if you never get laid. Boyfriends are the girl's problem, not yours. You never promised to love him forever and ever, she did. You don't know this dude from Adam, use your asperger tendencies to do yourself some good for once and ignore his existence. The big temptation is to start trying to compare yourself to him ("am I better than him"). To cut the long story short, it simply doesn't matter whether you're better or worse, w…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:54 AM
6

That's a beautiful thing, crazed oneitis triggered by rejection. My own strongest oneitises were also triggered by rejections or when the girl went for a different man instead of me. Such delicious suffering. You can enjoy the suffering, or as the poets call it "the bitter sorrows of love". Those epic feelings may be shitty and dizzying right now, but this is the beginning of the unwinding of many coiled-up blue pill snakes that you have in your psyche, all of which are primed to bite you in the…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:11 AM
11

That's just a little flirt. You can blow her a fake kiss if you ever see her, she'll love it.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:05 AM
6

Here are a couple to give you the flavor, you can make up infinite ones yourself once you get it: Her: Let's just be friends I have enough friends. Thought you were special. Well, shit. Let's not. (pat her arm fakesmiling, and walk away) Ooh, I felt that. Right in the heart there. You lil heartbreaker, you. Nah. But hey let me know if you change your mind, you're a great girl my door's always open if we're both single. Accepting this "proposition" in any form emasculates you and transfers all th…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:59 AM
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If you're thinking you can lock this down for yourself (as long as no red flags are found), that's the typical blue pill delusion a lot of men had at some point, including yours truly. You don't lock down shit, anymore. Those days are long gone. She can nowadays go back on her word (to be exclusive with you) with zero consequences, so her promise or her agreement doesn't mean much. You're looking to create a desperate hunger in her to be exclusive with you, subtly equate it with her winning (aga…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:20 AM
2

So if I hit on a hot girl with everything I got, even if I'm slightly overweight, it can end well. Right? Oh man, for sure. Read the "Book of Pook" yet from the sidebar? He makes it real easy for you: if you're approaching, you're winning. Each particular woman you do this with really doesn't matter that much. Her response (positive or negative) doesn't matter. You don't get all excited if she said yes or sad if she said no. There's nothing to get your panties in a knot over. If you made excuses…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:57 AM
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This is a lot like "How are you", you gotta be a hopeless autist to start telling people how you actually are, the aches and pains, the indigestion, the great struggle to stay awake without coffee etc. Play with it ruthlessly, smash the expectation that you're gonna play along and be boring. her: so tell me about yourself? you: can't her: whyyyy you: I'm too shy. (while your eyes are devouring her with a big grin) her: Bulllll-shit!!! ha ha you: ha ha
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:23 AM
2

It's a big fucking paradigm shift when you figure out it's not even about you in the first place. It's more about what the girls are feeling when around you. Fucking them is not a matter of being the best, it's a matter of how deft you are in the art of giving girls many different addictive feelings. And it's ridiculous too, the fatties are rarely much easier than the HB9's. Might as well go for the HB9.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:01 AM
2

Nah, you really don't need all that. All you need is to be more-or-less passable, be approximately good enough. Your worries at the moment have more to do with the hidden fear of rejection. You feel like you'll make yourself invincible and then never be rejected, never lose. It never works out like that, and it's just fine. There's no need to sweat it that much. And the worst thing you can do for yourself is keep on waiting "until I'm ready" and not doing anything for fear of being laughably ina…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:46 AM
7

It's a good thing. An intimidating man is like a woman with longer legs than everyone else. A standout. You can just laugh it off jovially when they say that, smack their shoulder paternally and move on.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:36 AM
5

Great rundown of how it goes. I like to make a distinction between my "BP ex's" and "RP ex's". The BP ones OP described very well. Old trash with weird-ass, emotonal blue pill expectations attached, expectations that never match the reality. The RP ex's are usually past short term plates, who drifted away, found a different guy etc. Sometimes they come back all by themselves and throw themselves at you. Never had any problems with taking those RP ex's back even if it's only for a short fling. Th…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:21 AM
2

You can do what girls do so well. Pretend you conveniently never got it in the first place, and never bring it up. You only need to acknowledge it if your friend brings it up, something like "hey didn't you get that message I sent about X?". This is where you go "oh ya my bad! X was good, we had a ton of fun."
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:49 AM
3

Here's the bottom line man: you're not on this planet to please your father. You are a completely separate autonomous and self-sufficient biological unit. You make your own decisions, throw your own dice. Parents very often have deep subconscious conflicts with this simple fact. They will admit it, if forced, but then they continue to act like they own you, you are always wrong they are always right, etc etc. It is always dressed up as "for your own good". The truth is, even if you get super unl…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:19 AM
3

No need to prostrate and apologize. "Been a long fuckin time man!" will do fine
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:06 AM
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I'd leave too. The fewer braincells you let this occupy in your head, the sooner she'll come around and reach out. When she texts you something seemingly random (but no longer belligerent), be warm back to her. If she sends bitchy texts arguing, then ignore them entirely let them pile up, until it feels like she's run out of things to say and now is helpless and lost. That's where you step in with your sweet and welcoming warmth again. The main thing is not let a woman focus you on trying to man…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:00 AM
13

It's a typical shit test. Let her fume, and be charming back instead of ever apologizing. Your goal is for her ot say "you...are horrible" and punch your arm playful, not "I forgive you".
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:34 AM
7

I've recently enjoyed the following epochal podcast with Joe Rogan and his friend, a humble water filter salesman from Texas, which I'd recommend to you highly- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UZPCp8SPfOM Times are a-changing...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 01:10 AM
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She says this, she says that, she has good grades, she has a clit ring, none of it fucking matters man. Watch what she does. That's all. The actions tell you everything you need to know about this bitch, there's nothing further to figure out about her, even for the sake of pure science. Your job can really be that simple and clear cut - just watch what she's doing, and make your conclusions from that while pretending to listen to what she says (don't really listen to it, it's all BS. If her lips…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:34 AM
1

When she asks you about X or wants you to do Y, tell her "Maybe I'll tell you, if you're a good girl." When she asks a personal Q about you, instead of giving her the info she wants, you can go ".. it's complicated", and give her the delicious mystery instead. You want to talk down to them, like they're your own cute kids. But at the same time, keep it charming/playful too, don't go autistic with this. Condescend to her with big bear love for small bear - you are better than her. After you get t…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:14 AM
1

As risky as it ever was - foolishly risky.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:07 AM
11

We're pro-pink. No matter what color she is, we're all after the same pink.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:05 AM
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Poor girl. In some "big picture" sense, that's your little sister. That's your future daughter. She bought everything the blue pill TV and class has been telling her verbatim... And now she's fucking miserable, her brain is stuck on a loop because of the profound cognitive dissonance, she probably wants to kill herself regularly but can't even do that properly. Can you believe that there's some specific think-tank Cultural Marxism fucker somewhere who thought up all this, and prescribed this exa…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 03:55 AM
3

Then you'll find the answer to your social confusion in the near future.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:50 AM
4

I let her convince me I am wrong in finding that insensitive. She's right. You're the insensitive one in a sense, because expecting "sensitivity" from women is senseless. she didn't mean it and loves me her to you: "ha-ha, you're my bitch. But don't leave, I got uses for you yet" FUCK LONG DISTANCE. You don't even want short-distance with this girl, you just want distance. I was putting effort into the long distance Ha ha... Dude, forget about shared accomodations with this bitch. Reach down and…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:19 AM
5

Classic way to go for those situations is leave her a perfumed note. "it's been great, wishing you all the best. L"
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:04 AM
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This is where you immediately take back your hospitality/offer: "k, maybe we do it some other time" Watch her backpedalling the hamster-mobile for you and enjoy. In response, tell her "naw, Lucy you don't seem in the right place right now emotionally to be meeting me anyways". Ohhhh what does he meannnn emotionally... sweet hamster pellets, right in her lap. A good way to think about ex's is like trash you already took out of the house. Sure some of that shit may still be technically edible in a…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:55 AM
2

Do you lift?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:51 AM
4

just using this date as a way to get free food/drinks Yep. You would be too, if chicks "gallantly" offered to buy you expensive dinners all the time. You're getting the "bitch out" from her, so you're definitely not going to see any action,no matter how many sushis you buy for her. "Ok" was the perfect answer, you just move right on. At this point she ruined it for herself with her own bitchiness. A good rule of thumb: never spend your time with people who are ungrateful to have you there. You c…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:37 AM
2

It will be just fine. You're currently projecting some blue pill expectations on her, which will only hurt any girl. She's not supposed to be aggressively career minded, ambitious, or intellectually superior. Don't be making your girl "evolve" into a man, let her be a girl.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:28 AM
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White knighting is a great built-in survival instinct. Males protect their females, or the lot of them die out. Our enemy has many different minions, blue hair harpies and nu-males shouting "you're a fucking white male!" are just a couple of them. The enemy always uses the same basic method to take us down: abusing any available built-in automatic instincts that used to help us survive, and turning them against us. You can think of hundreds of examples of this strategem in action. Here're just a…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:42 PM
8

Here's one thing that's easy to miss - this is all stuff that you were innately supposed to know already, from a girl's perspective. You were not born yesterday, you're supposed to know the world and how it works, you're supposed to see through the shit women say to look good and to understand what they want, what they respond to. You would never be asking your girl this stuff, if you weren't deliberately hit with a ton of blue pill brainwashing growing up. The brainwashing tried to teach you th…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:37 PM
2

Your hole in the mattress theory is incorrect. Don't worry about it, that is not what she's saying. She loves being in poundtown and being your helpless doll. All of this is hugely appealing to any woman. You're doing great, the overthinking is dangerous because you might jinx yourself. I think the initial rejections she keeps putting up are either meant to test your mettle, or it's actually part of the sexy game for her. She wants the rapey stuff, the exciting rapey feel. She wants to say "nooo…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:20 PM
4

Nobody has courage in the beginning. It's miserable at first. Courage is often thought of as something related to a man's character or moral fibre. This is kinda off the mark, it gives you a wrongheaded view on it, so you feel inadequate for not having courage, since you think "I guess I just wasn't born with it then". No one was born with it. Courage in reality is like a drug high, or that state african warriors go into when they do their war-dance. In other words, it's always fake. It's always…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:59 PM
2

You got it, and if you want some other insight about that, it's something you get better and better at over time. The more you're forced to do it by girls, the more you can't be bothered giving a fuck about it. Been there done that, type of feel. You build up a nice immunity. Because now you don't get all happy/full of yourself just because some girl is all over you, nor do you get sad when she flakes or walks away from you. You basically stop seeing girls as some big important accomplishment of…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:46 PM
17

Bottom line is, it doesn't matter. Women do a lot of disrespectful things. At this early stage you kinda just soak it up, write it off, if it's real bad - maybe return the favour. The bar is real fucking low, when it's just some girl you've been "seeing for a while", she probably doesn't even know how to respect her man and you'd need a year or two to properly teach her.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:40 PM
2

More theory is not needed, especially if it repeats something you already read on TRP before I would skip the effort - unless you're fairly sure your unique insight is going to help other men figure something new out for themselves too, then it's definitely needed.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:36 PM
10

Yes. Never lift a finger to help bitches pre-reject you for any reason, no matter how valid it is. Maybe you're a fat fuck, don't have any money, and your dick's all shrivelled up diseased. Doesn't matter, it's always her job to find a reason to reject you. Do not help in any way, actively confuse matters to get yourself laid instead. Women don't make rational choices on these things anyway. They go with how she's feeling at the moment, and that is almost always in your control.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:43 AM
2

She's flirting with you, playing cute kitty games and you're her mouse. Don't take the "no" literally here, that was a "no" meant to see how you'll take it, not to completely reject you. You took it like a man too, that "well, shit. where's the fucking handle" reaction is funny and adorable from a woman's perspective. And if you think back you can very clearly see with just how much interest she was observing "how you'll squirm". A girl who doesn't care doesn't observe this way, doesn't play thi…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:16 AM
3

It's like a green light. You can have her, all you need to do is show that you're the kind of man she can fuck without worrying that you'll get too attached to her, start demanding relationship and making trouble for her. So you need to be easy come, easy go. Charming, sexy, one thing leads to another kind of guy. The opposite of the guy who's trying to win her over, lock her down for himself, and put her up on some weird emotional pedestal. Don't wait for her permission to do anything either, s…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:46 PM
1

Jack London, "Martin Eden" Epic BP->RP story about a self-made man tracing him from zero to hero, and then from delusional commie to focused fascist. Author pulls no punches exposing a lot of things, including how women love. I also want to be able to move in circles where people quote classics at some point in my life but that is very far away. The above mentioned novel is unmissable for you, its protagonist desperately wanted the exact same thing as you. I think you will be thrilled, infected …
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:51 PM
7

Definitely, especially that scenario with a different girl who was seen with you, and then word got to this one on the grapevine. Guess we can agree it's a lot like "dread" working against you instead of helping, and the main reason it backfires in this situation is that these girls are not invested enough to consider you "theirs" and start obsessing about this, yet it still irks them because of course she's the center of the universe and you should be "hers" by default simply because she exists…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:41 PM
9

It's a bit of a fine line for sure. I know I've lost plenty of female "friends" to that same exact thing. They get "sadface", and then they get haughty on you, and you don't even know why. Then it comes out that you didn't hang out with her and she heard you were with some other girl and she was all over you, and so this girl got jelly and decided to pre-reject you, etc. Happens even when she's in a happy relationship and was never actually going to fuck you herself. I think to them, it's a feel…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:27 PM
2

You can let her "sorry" texts pile for a bit, then you can text her "well we'll see what you wanna do to make it up to me, won't we". Being kinda teasey/cute, not affected by the drama,more interested in bringing her sexual side out than drama. The main thing is never let her whirlwind of drama and emotions/pressure actually get to you or affect you. Btw, I don't think you're losing this one any time soon, a lot of steam still in this boat if you want it.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:21 PM
9

You learn to love the girly bullshit. Its stupidity is refreshing after dealing with men in business or day-to-day, no sarcasm. It's restful, unless you let your girl overdose you on it. A girl's blabbering contains her very essence man, a lot like the way she grooms, does up her hair, or gets dressed, etc. You learn to watch all these things and derive immense pleasure out of them, because you see your girl shining through in all kinds of subtle ways. It's adorable, and I kid you not, it's more…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:15 PM
2

"Woah, woah - slow your roll thar, captain wedding bells" She wants it. You can make any conditions you want, have her jump through your hoops, then give her nothing in the end anyway ("I never promised it would work out"). Good spot to be.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:05 PM
11

Depends on context big time. Sometimes a good cry is wonderful for a girl in the middle of strong emotions toward you and uncertainty about where you stand. This is totally to be encouraged, nurtured, and she deserves your best affection after she's done with the water works. She will love you forever for it. In other situations, it might just be her way of manipulating you (not wonderful for her at all, doesn't do shit to her emotionally) to get her way. Then it's like a shit test, you can agre…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:02 PM
2

I think that's the hens colluding together (at your girl's actual behest, because she's friends or frenemies with all of them) to get you to prostrate yourself and declare undying love for her. It's a great opportunity to show all of them what a cheeky, unflappable shitlord you really are. Meanwhile you can look at your girl appreciatively and say to yourself "nice try".
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:47 PM
4

I always catch feelings for almost all of them. Women are adorable. It's just feelings. You catch them when it's time, you let go when it's time, it's like volleyball. You can teach yourself how to love a woman without the blue pill idea that she's "the one" and what you and her have is forever, etc. etc. These ideas are insidiously false, and hamstring you. Women meanwhile, are perfectly fine with exploiting the existence of these fake ideas among males, with an absolutely stunning amount of ca…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:31 PM
5

Maybe, but the bottom line is you don't need their IOIs. If you like the way the girl looks, you're the one who is supposed to start shit, always. It's the exact opposite of what the blue pill tries to poison your mind with, where you're supposed to wait for some magical IOI and then it's "OK" to approach. Fuck that, it's always approach season for you, it's your birthright as a man. It's super exciting in the beginning to get even little IOIs from girls, but then you realize it's absolutely wor…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:22 PM
3

That's the normal flakey shit Jessicas always do. A Jessica's only basic technique to get you to obsess about her is to lead you on and then reject you (somehow). This is one of those ways, she gets your message, giggles, but then "doesn't feel like" responding because you sounded pretty beta. So she naturally decides "let me play with him, like a cat with a mouse", and gives you the silence. She's hoping this will get you all worked up and you'll send her 4 bazillion messages. That would be del…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:05 PM
2

Don't talk about it. People don't give a shit what you're drinking/not drinking, but they WILL feel offended and exclude you if you start advertising your puritan leanings - simply because it makes them feel like pigs and not worthy of being around a saint like yourself. They are not going to just accept that, so as a result you get a lot of shit and teasing for your stance. Keep it to yourself and blend in, it's going to be just fine.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:58 PM
7

She's deliberately holding you hostage. Do what I want or I kill myself. Think about that. That's a hell of a lot more dark than sending nudes to Mr. Thundercock on a crazy whim. Girl has serious head problems, but you already knew that. Immutable Law of Women: Smart, Beautiful, Sane. Pick any two.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:53 PM
2

are these signs of attraction? Definitely. If she wasn't attracted to you, you would be all but invisible to this girl. When they get all Larry King on you and giggly, you know that's a good sign. You did well for yourself by cutting the bullshit and asking for her number, and even though you were rejected the fact that you had the balls to go for it will have a positive impact on her anyways. How exactly did she say "no", what were her exact words man?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:47 PM
2

I'd keep her. Just as a non-exclusive plate, and enjoy it for all it's worth. Btw that suicide threat was a far worse indiscretion than sharing those nudes with Chads, if you ask me. Hope you're thinking long and hard about that aspect too.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:45 PM
6

It's cool, look on the bright side. You fell in love with a hottie, fucked her plenty, saw a bit about what girls are really made of (it's not sugar and spice & everything nice), made notes, learned how to be better. Every relationshit with a woman comes with a built-in expiry date. Fact of life, and no one actually admits to thinking the opposite ("our love will be forever"). Although it still nags subconsciously in the blue pill guy's brain. He thinks he WANTS that love to be forever and shit,…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:32 AM
5

I'm not handsome for most but attractive enough. That's more than enough "appearance capital" to completely forget about it for a long-ass time, be able to focus on Game more. The fewer worries you have, the better you perform too. About the approach... You know that first moment where they realize you're "actually" talking to her, and "actually" focused in on her, and something is about to go down demanding her response? When women go through that moment, their reaction is almost never genuine.…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:32 AM
3

Why though? You're not being disrespected. It's just a bitch doing what bitches always did. Nothing to do with you, your kingdom's boundaries are as safe as ever. Best way to deal with it is go to Chad's party and act like you're very happy for her, give her cheeky smirks like you're two criminals in on the same heist, and generally be that easy-going sexy guy they all love. Let Chad be the worried one, because to him it sure looks like you either fucked her, or are fucking her right now. You ac…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:04 AM
3

As a man, you never say "sorry". Sometimes if you know you objectively fucked up, you can say "my bad". Then follow up with a sentence describing what you plan to do going forward to rectify this situation. "Sorry" is infuriating to women, sorry does nothing for her, and seeing you down on your knees begging for forgiveness annoys the hell out of her because she can tell she obviously chose the wrong man. Good way to defuse those situations besides "my bad", is to make the faux attempt to "buy" …
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:54 AM
2

What can ya do? Women's logic.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:47 AM
3

I'd enjoy it while it lasts, but watch the fuck out. This is how completely crazy BPD she-snakes always act. It's always "so poetic" to start, woah you are the king of kings, a lion among men, and truly I am your humble, indeed dicksucking queen. Also am very modest, here's a poem I wrote about your abs because it was fate that I write this for you. This isn't because you're so unique, she does that with every fucking man, and can't help herself. This is the only way the she-snake understands ho…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:37 AM
2

If it's men giving you shit, laugh. Friendly dicking around is to be expected, welcomed. If it's women, laugh even more. Jealousy is expected, welcomed.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:31 AM
3

Her boyfriend, her problems. The best way to be in this type of situation is turn your asshole-mode on full blast, tease her (in cute ways) about the whole boyfriend thing. When it's time, of course - you don't want to be the one bringing it up obviously. Don't make it easy for her or let her con you into making any kind of "high noble promises" about how you'll keep it strictly as friends only. Fuck that. The faster you make her rationalization hamsters run, the more excitement, the more laid y…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:26 AM
4

Of course she's wearing headphones and has a resting bitchface. Gotta keep up those appearances/plausible deniability even if she would be extatic to meet you. They always do this cute shit. When they tell you about the boyfriend, make a cute puppy face and go "awww, is it really serious?" Like he's an adorable sexually transmitted disease.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:22 AM
3

Of course you can love your girl. The problem is that it's pretty difficult to calibrate yourself in the beginning. You accidentally keep on doing too much, because it's ultimately the fake, falsely puffed up blue pill urge still in charge of your emotions. That strong urge to to mentally turn her into something she never was nor will be, and then to worship at her feet. It's extrernally imposed, the result of non-stop blue pill conditioning. Women hate it, since it's all about you instead of ab…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:06 AM
7

Oneitis is ridiculously easy to get re-infected with, would leave that alone.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:52 AM
3

The pain's real and is debilitating. But fortunately that doesn't make it "real" in the sense of life importance. As you know, it's here to teach you how completely unimportant it is that some bitch made you really feel bad. I'm not talking about me or "people in general" here either, I'm talking about you man. It hurts and makes you moody (for now), but yet it is not important, not real. It's not "the one true love", it's not the "vile vicious betrayal", it's not "your best friend" and definite…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:28 AM
1

Yes and yes it only makes them more eager. When you really don't care, the sky is really the limit.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:12 AM
2

Here're a few things which will not be easy, but with serious fucking payoffs if you follow them: Do not watch any television or shit hollywood movies, or beat your dick to porno of any kind. Including cute (fully dressed) babes on magazines and books in provocative whorish poses, they all are soft-porn. Play addictive video games or champion chess, or read the classics that intrigue you, for all your distraction needs instead. It may change in future years, but for the moment, vidya-games will …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:05 AM
5

You did perfect, if you ask me. Nothing to add, nothing to take away. Maybe her mention of "passive agressive" got to you a little, but that's basically because she was implying you're being a bitch. Without any reason too, so it's just some cute barb a girl threw without any thought, and can simply be smirked at.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:52 AM
3

There's no need to do investigative science on it, as it's all happening by design. An enemy within is actively trying to destroy you, your kind, and your future - it's that simple.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:43 AM
1

If you're talking about how to help a girl who's "reluctant" or "never does this" suck your dick, then here's a good way I'm having success with: have her play with your dick, touch it, look at it - and then tell her to give it a "little kiss". That's all you need a lot of the time. Somehow a little kiss throws a switch and before you know it, she's all over you herself.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:35 AM
3

She's nobody to you in the beginning. A complete stranger. Gotta learn how to stop yourself from investing all these hopes and fears into random women you meet. She isn't here to rescue you from your problems, it's just some girl you can meet if you want. I'd meet her first, and see what she's like. Maybe you don't even like this bitch, for example, she has an annoying voice that drives you crazy to begin with. You never know. Now imagine how much crap over-thinking you can save yourself from if…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:27 AM
5

It'll pass and get a lot better, but that requires actively crawling in the correct direction while gritting your teeth and absolutely hating everything. You know the old saying: If you can run, then run. If you can't run, then walk. If you can't walk, then crawl. If you can't even crawl, then at least fucking look wistfully everyday in the right direction...
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:19 AM
6

Good question about "being discovered", and especially saucy coming from a woman. A lot of newer members probably have this weird anxiety about "being found out" to some extent in the beginning. I did too. Then I had this exact situation happpen a few times to me and saw it for what it was, nothing to worry about. Almost exact same situation, I got "found out" - except that instead of mentioning TRP the girl said something like "oh nice neg, asshole, does that actually work on the other girls" o…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:06 AM
2

When she comes at you with all that "thought it was a joke" stuff, respond "pffft" and send her 8========D Basically you want to make her feel like you're cheery, and think nothing of just shelving her till next week or wherever she wants the D. The fun bus keeps on rolling, it does not matter whether she hops on it or not. Let her guess whether someone else jumped on it in her place, chicks love that, so be extra vague about that & like you're hiding something.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:52 AM
1

It can be a very dominant-looking style. Fighters and soldiers don't have flowy long hair or emo earrings. They're taking your look in, probably automatically filing it under "brutal back to basics skinhead". Not a bad place to be, with the women. Besides, it's such an easy and common style that you'd need some kind of badly misshapen head to ever go wrong with it. One tip if you like - because it's so damn common, I get the feeling like it really becomes a blur for the women after they see guy …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:42 AM
9

Sure they're checking out your face & baldness too of course, but only in passing. It's not the same with women, they are not the same as us. You look at a chick with an ugly face & body, and it's probably game over for her, there's pretty much nothing she can offer besides extra-easy sex that would make you interested in her. But women looking at you are not really looking for a pretty face or a sixpack. They are looking for a Man. They're involuntarily excited about overall signs of manliness,…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:30 AM
1

What a bunch of fucking safe-space unique snowflake inclusive bullshit. They actually convinced you they know what "the whole purpose of existing" is. Think about the sheer bottomless shitlib arrogance you were dropped into headfirst as a baby.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 01:26 AM
16

Future shitlord, I can tell. Well done
/r/askTRP20/01/17 01:06 AM
2

Had almost the same exact thing come up with a couple of women. Another variation is, "next time I want to be the one to tie you up, that's soooo hawwwt". If you take what women will say at face value, you'll definitely shoot yourself in the foot. Just keep on doing the standard, hit her up around once a week and set up your get-togethers. Other than that don't text her any "good morning sunshine"'s, or even anything at all. If she's the one who starts texting you, then you get more leeway, make…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 11:02 AM
15

I'm grateful for the reminders. LTR has the natural slow effect of eroding the man, the woman instinctively increases and solidifies her power constantly. Like a slow unstoppable creep of a choking vine, they slowly turn anybody into a beta. "Could easily be me" is often very true, but it can also be "ha ha, shit. that could easily be me someday, hopefully I'll have the balls to take it like a man." It's not the end of the world, a man is a resilient thing, you can take a few stabs in the back a…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 10:46 AM
9

Dig in, prepare for some rough times. 16-18yr old girls are THE SHIT, simply due to biology. They're at their cutest and most fuckable, depending on rules in your jurisdiction. Everyone wants them, including older men with a lot more resources and Game than you. The worst part is that the girls know it. They tend to princess it up, hard. By comparison, a man at 16 isn't shit. You're no one and your name is nobody. You're like that dinky green stalk thing that first comes out when a plant is abou…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 10:23 AM
2

Ha ha, I know it would've completely blown my mind ~2yrs ago too, but now I don't bat an eyelash saying stuff like this. Think about it, if it crashes and burns (she goes with hard NO), you come across as a no-bullshit, cocky man who tried to fuck her, but was sternly rebuked by French morals. You won't have to back down, you just accept it with a big happy grin - "hey, then it's your turn to ask me on a date. I tried." She will think better of you for trying it. She will think better of you for…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:16 AM
3

It is hilarious. Gets even funnier when you laugh at it as you're being rejected by the girl, together with her. to a complete stranger you just stopped in the street, who's trying to shake you off: "No! Please, you're gonna just break my heart like that?" "So that's it? I meet the most perfect woman in the street, I get the guts to talk to her, and she just absolutely... destroys ...me. Goodbye, Icicle. You cold." "If you look up heartbreak, there's a picture of me next to that right now. Well,…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 08:05 AM
4

Don't sweat the great big RP/BP divide when you're in action, forget it all and do your best with what you got. So far it's pretty cute, you're expressing strong interest, the frenchie is flirting back, everything's great. I think all her "I dunno when I'll be free..." is just typical female indecision, it's not rejection. Frenchie actually likes you herself. If I were in your shoes, my next move would be a cocky short circuit attempt: "Ahh, money.. it makes the world go round. Why don't you jus…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:51 AM
22

It only seems hard/harsh to give less fucks. Actually is super easy. All you need to realize is, this is how bitches act. This is how they always acted, even 1500 years ago. The exact same strategy, wiggle her ass at the big bad sir knight, then run away/vanish. Realize the reason they do it - it gives her power over you, if you fall for it. You get mad and male-hamster it, saying stuff like "no decent person would do that to another, how dare she treat me like that!" or if you're a blue-pill wo…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:18 AM
3

What I would do is, text her out of the blue "do any of your GFs want to be in my private army to help convince those frat bozos to let me in? we want the ones that're so cute they can't say no " She'll probably text you back laughing and saying something like "oh really? what do I get out of it" So you immediately push romance button, say "might take you out on a date, if you ask nicely" etc. etc. Making the request "not serious" and so that she isn't completely sure what you were after in the …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:49 AM
1

Usually means she's full of shit. You smile big, show her you know she's full of shit. Then repeat, "so, you giving me those digits or are we gonna keep wasting our time?"
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:41 AM
2

Of course. Just not with women! With them, the cockier you are, the better. They couldn't care less about the reality behind the cockiness, because it's not about you, it's all about how your cockiness makes HER feel (really, really good and turned on).
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:38 AM
2

Completely depends on the individual woman. Most don't have any lasting-power to begin with, so it's a moot point worrying about it. They'll fly away either way and all you can do is wave your hankerchief adios. The ones that do stick around and stick by you are the ones you cuddle and kiss goodmorning if you want. It becomes so easy, just give each woman exactly what she has so far deserved with her own behavior toward you.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:37 AM
3

Make it effective by having 2-3 other girls you're also texting/trying to fuck at any given time. Keep a nice rotation going at all times, never be stuck laser-focused on just one woman. Texting them quickly becomes a bit of a retarded blur and so you don't put much effort into any one response, which is exactly the vibe you want and women appreciate.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:31 AM
1

My advice: only pursue that line ("do you think it is acceptable...") if you're 100% sure you don't want to be exclusive with her any more. In fact, do it by notifying her - "I've decided I don't want to be exclusive any more. You're a great girl, I adore your silly ass. But MY GIRLFRIEND would never sleep in the same room with another man in a foreign country". You'll get eyes the size of plates, tears, the works. Show will be totally worth it. If you hold your ground and she can't make you bud…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 11:33 PM
2

Sounds fishy to me. Either she's a dumbass who talks way too much about her cunt-health with her prospective lovers, or it's some kind of scheme like you already figured. Wrap up the johnson no matter what pills she claims to be on!
/r/askTRP17/01/17 11:17 PM
5

The reality is that you're not the best thing that happened to her, no-gooder Chad is. The one she can't say no to, and who is bad for her mentally. He's an absolutely crazy rollercoaster to her. You're just the coaster. You treat her great, she cares about you, you're stable and good for her mental. Gotta understand, she needs you two. If you got angry and left her, she will actually look for another version of you, not for a second Chad Thundercock. She needs both you and Chad, ideally. That's…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:49 AM
2

It's hard at first after being on the blue pill since birth. Keep reminding yourself that fucking a woman is not a socially acceptable or nice thing, yet she wants you to do it. Puts it in the right perspective. The initiative has to always come from you. You're always the crazy one who breaks the rules "because she made you so crazy you couldn't stop yourself". That's basically what women swoon over in a man, EVEN when she spreads her legs, it's all about her ego feeling "ohh I'm so irresistibl…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:24 AM
3

I'm 21, she's 26 The big trouble starts when a woman hits "the wall" and her attractiveness takes an objective nosedive, which she will not fail to notice and freak out over. That's when you get the most baby-trapping, nastiest man-shaming tantrums, and the craziest behavior overall. Often around 29-30, but depends on the girl. If she's a nice attractive girl who doesn't show any obvious signs of being batshit crazy yet, you're completely in the green with this, enjoy her! She could turn you int…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:56 AM
1

I think she's correctly feeling the "negative" vibe coming from you, which she interprets as you being angry with her, displeased. What she doesn't know is that thing she's feeling is you wanting to end it with her completely, not just being displeased about minor things.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:50 AM
33

Sometimes the bridge burns so satisfyingly bright that it's worth burning. One man's celebration of no longer giving a damn or feeling bad about it burning.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:46 AM
136

You were lied to. Respecting women in the modern way is fundamentally unmanly. On top of that it's a fool's errand because women will never appreciate it, it puzzles them and makes them morbidly anxious, because it's not a woman's place to be "respected" in this sense. She is to be respected as a wife, as a mother, as a daughter. Not as a woman. Women are to be loved, protected, and guided. Just like children. Only a completely blind imbecile respects women and 3 yr olds. A very big switcheroo w…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:34 AM
10

Ha ha. We don't like any complaining, but it's undeniable that they're trying to overwhelm the castle. Pour the righteous burning tar on them every chance you get, even if you're not an EC as yet. It's good to show the aspergerbergers their place without mercy, so they know exactly where they are, and which way "up" is. That's a form of tough love. If their tendie glands flare up from this treatment, then feel free to report the post and have the mod team help the particular sufferer STFU. One t…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:16 AM
3

It's only in the blue pill world that "dates" are super important. You're supposed to show off, wine and dine, entertain her like her clown, pay for her drinks etc., and then she will see what a great guy you are. Not! Don't sweat the dates whatsoever, with women you're already fucking. They are a completely optional fun-time for the two of you. So if YOU want to hit the bars, then she gets a bar date. If YOU want to do karaoke & laugh your ass off next weekend, then she gets a karaoke date. If …
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:46 PM
2

After school, just when I'm about the go home and escape from her, she took my glasses and ran to my house first, so I found her waiting for me That is absolutely adorable. A lot of dudes on the main sub ask "are women even worth it, if they're this horrible under the surface" - and here's an exemplary answer to that. Of course they're worth it, who else would do goofy adorable shit like this for you in your life? The basic situation right now is that your ex-GF is adorably manipulating you, and…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:24 PM
1

I think that's very good. Strong, terse, "in control" vibe.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:47 AM
1

5 hours a day on the road That is brutal man. Enormous waste. You're a rat caught in someone else's cruel maze. Relax, there is no humane exit in the design. If you think you can keep running like this and wing it, do it with a fuck-you-world smile. If you break down and can't sustain it long enough to graduate, then hey, you tried. Your parents will have to support you and get you some therapy, maybe a vacation in the alps with healing salts and asian massagie girls. A man can dream. Fuck this …
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:29 AM
2

An advanced RP tactic you can try is thinking up rigged "traps", then laying them around for her to fall into. These things are passively laid, you set it up and wait for it to trigger, but other than that can pretty much forget about it day-to-day. If you're "serious about this girl" this is something you should absolutely be doing. Set up tempting situations and opportunities for her to lie to you and perjure herself, because she doesn't know what you know, that you set it up to begin with. If…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:15 AM
2

It's not clear from your message how you ended up exclusive after a week with this girl. Did you ask her for it? Did she ask for it? It's way too early to relationship after only one week, even if that was her that wanted it. Don't bother wracking your brains trying to figure out "why now", this was a spike of estrogen in the wrong vein in her body or she fucked too many Chads and felt bad about you because she's been on the sauce non-stop & it makes her sentimental. Maybe she's a psychopath and…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:05 AM
5

You can distance yourself until she cools down and comes back apologetically. Until then, act like she never existed, don't fall for baits, texts, etc. Only when you see that "remorseful cute doggy" act do you respond and pet behind her ear a little.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:58 AM
1

On the other hand, no one here was signing up to be your daddy. Tried to share the information with you. It is a lot like that shed. If you find nothing there that looks like the tool you need, then you shit yourself and cry, that's going to be your own personal tragedy. Nothing to do with the drill or the jackhammer you were advised to be looking for. If you ask me, you've been victimizing yourself and listening to "health professionals" overmuch, man. So you had a rough time growing up. Does t…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:17 AM
2

Ha ha, brilliant analogy/mental picture here. Very exact.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 10:23 PM
1

Yeah, these are all meant to be your entertainment. If you never take any woman seriously (except possibly Mom), but see them as your recreation funtimes distractions, you will not have half the aversion to their antics. Some of it is actually adorable. First it's baffling, then it angers you, then it's annoying, and finally after you seen it all 100 times before, it becomes adorable.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:34 AM
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This is exactly like a child telling you "you never get me candy", then pouting. The same response-styles apply too: "Someone needs a spanking."
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:30 AM
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I think that's simply some of the attrition you can statistically expect on your journey. I.e. it doesn't ever get to a point where you're a 100% success with every woman, no matter how rock solid your game is. Also sounds like you could improve much, by focusing in on manipulating and nurturing women's feelings. They are such fickle creatures that you can literally give them any type of exciting feelings you want, simply by talking about it with her, using some flowery language and the tone of …
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:24 AM
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I would not bring it up. Emotionally I'd want to, but you learn to see things for the powerplay that they really are under the surface. If you bring it up, you're the helplessly waiting lapdog wondering does princess still love him or has she found somebody new? The "disrespect" angle is kinda even worse, since now it's like you're backtracking on your earlier indecision (didn't forbid her), so she will feel very justified in telling you that she thought you were OK with it! And then it's the st…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 04:09 AM
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cheerfully replied to her that it was totally fine if she didn't want us to see each other anymore, that I had fun dating her for awhile, and wished her good luck. Can't trust your instincts when you're in this stage. That response is blue pill as fuck. Next time don't say anything like this bro. Your answer should have been not just one word, but one letter: "k" Followed by giving her hardly any attention whatsoever. Let her messages pile up for a day or two before you read them. Why was that s…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 03:30 AM
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See if you can project a lot more of that "easy come, easy go" no strings attached fun sexy guy vibe than you usually might have. A playful mood that totally feeds on and thrives off of all her "lol eww"'s. Don't appear too hungry, be comfy in your own skin instead and try to almost taunt her into fucking you, instead of appearing to want something to happen. This night especially, pay for nothing, do not hold the door or pull out the chair, anything like that. Do not try to be a nice guy in any…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:28 PM
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I feel that a lot of the relationship side of TRP is best applied AFTER you initially get the girl. Definitely man... the initial seduction phase tends to be a little more wild, less coherent and less cogruent. A lot of clowning about. Both parties are testing/teasing each other hard. Both are actively putting up a fake facade to look better than they really are. Usually you can't apply the LTR advice to the initial phase. Since the girl is not yet especially invested in you, it would never quit…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:16 PM
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Post your pics of your awesome life without her for sure if you have them. Keep up that plausible deniability though "what, it's just an innocent pic, I thought you'd laugh" This thing where she's travelling with "Dan" is not looking good. You gotta understand something very clear in your head, the only reason you're having the problems and the squirming is that you're exclusive with this girl. The only reason you're exclusive is because she wanted/needed it, and you agreed out of love for her g…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 10:53 PM
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It can be very hard to leave, since we get conditioned that being with a woman (any woman) means you "got lucky". She is in your life, what an incredible gift. The truth is that women are adorable little parasites. You are the actual gift, and every second she is allowed to be in your life and in your thoughts, she is invisibly sucking surplus energy from you to live and grow as a woman. This vampirism can be subtle or pronounced, depends on the woman - and it correspondingly can drain your surp…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 08:50 PM
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That's the spirit. I didn't come here to be a "Red Piller" either. Nor did any of the original posters, you can tell from the terse way they'd write. Sharing the info, comparing some notes - men naturally want to know what works and don't give much of a damn who likes it or who doesn't. Being a feminist means something to feminists, it's important to them and to their identity. Being a Republican is important to Republicans. Fortunately, being a "Red Piller" means nothing here and nothing in the…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:37 AM
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This is where you whip out your dick, wave it around like the coveted prize that it is, and then tell her that you don't want sex either. Sex is gross. But this dick here seems to want a litttttttle kiss. Cmon lisa, you don't have to suck it or anything...just a little kiss. She is teasing you with the pussy you want, tease her right back with the dick she wants. Oh my, Lisa...what are you...doing, you naughty naughty woman! Act cheekily like she is the one raping innocent you. Don't settle by d…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:58 AM
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That's going to be a little painful. After you unplug yourself and "suddenly" you see how dirty the world is, and that Matrix robots are all up your ass to extract energy every day, it's natural and logical to think that the world is no good. All our blue pill dreams and hopes have crashed, there is nothing to hold on to. Then you slowly start realizing, hey wait a minute... wait just a minute, my hopes may have crashed, but this world is STILL THE EXACT SAME, as it was when I believed the false…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:01 AM
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In the beginning, you can't trust your instincts for shit, since they're steeped in blue pill. It's a blue pill soup, with nuggets of truth floating here and there like noodles. You work on actively internalizing what you know. You change. As a result, the soup also changes and now the new instincts are far more trustworthy. The emptiness, rage and feeling of being disconnected will probably last for a long time: the Anger Phase. All you need to know is that those feelings are also caused by the…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 11:30 AM
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That's why it's such a good "law" to keep in mind. It stops you from having this futile thought-process, by pointing out that it is often wise to not be entirely sincere, and to pay the closest attention to your surroundings instead of only considering your own self as you wear that adorably reckless heart on your sleeve. It's valuable as the art of mimicry, controlled ability to blend in anywhere, with different people from different walks of life. Nevertheless, there have already been some asp…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 10:01 AM
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The core problem is that we're all force-fed the dogma about treating women the same as men, yet also treating them real special, yet also being the perfect gentleman, yet also being self-sacrificing and not selfish, yet being charming, yet never overtly sexual with women... The contradictions pile on and on, and there are so many layers that it's a wonder when any given man sometimes acts coherently around attractive women at all. You can't treat them the same. They are not a man's equal. You c…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:43 AM
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We live in interesting times. The ambient hatred of men is at all time artificial high. Here is my attitude about this: deep down I know that I AM a predator, and I DO hunt so-called innocent prey. So all the hostility can just bring a taunting smile to your wolfy face, instead of being "a big concern" of yours. You're making some of those women uncomfy? GOOD. You can even look good socially, being this "predator", since that's exactly what women secretly love and want. Sadly you still need to w…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:04 AM
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I'm hesitant to approach women on campus for fear of 'shitting where I eat' Don't be, it's a free for all. College doesn't give you paychecks or hold any swords over your head. You can "shit wherever you want" on campus with hardly any repercussions from it. The excuses that form reasons "why I'm not approaching girls" will never end. They form naturally with no effort, and when you brush the latest batch away with the power of Pure Reason, the only thing you accomplish is inviting the next batc…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:53 AM
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Teaching the women you love, even training them to be better is absolutely the man's sacred duty in every LTR. It's very good that she's so receptive (right now). Older women near "the wall" tend to be much more wiley, watch out she may be simply wrapping you around her finger. The female's eagerness that goes to the man's head so much is just another strategy in their arsenal. That said, just be gentle, you can teach her gently and with much love. You always want your "lessons" to be more love …
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:39 AM
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If you're wise, you use the echo chamber as best you can to get better. It's an opportunity, not a debate club.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:31 AM
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The thing is, having some sexy women in your life that you love and knowing how it all works so you can get them are not mutually exclusive. If you had no blue pill brainwashing in you, you would have no problems with the way things really are. It's only because of that very brainwashing that you get super extra puppydog sad when you see women for what they are, and decide "nah, they're just not worth it". Big mistake! Since here it's the negative emotions from all the past brainwashing you took…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 07:19 AM
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One of the most insidious bits of blue programming we all get injected with nowadays is the aspiration to be "a good boy". You've got a gaping untreated wound in this aspect of your ego, and you might be unaware it's right there. Wanting to be "a good boy" has gotta go. Do whatever it takes, even deliberately be a very bad boy for a time, if you need to. Whatever it takes to shake it off, is well worth it. Until it's gone it's always going to be confusing: people are so mean to each other, if on…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:50 AM
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Treat her no different than your other girls and don't sweat it. You can really relax about that and just enjoy what you'd normally do. She's there for the "KAMIKAZEOVERCOMMAS Experience" and you don't cater to her, you give it to her as it is, if she's surprised or it's not what she'd usually do on a date, that is actually good. Women are all the exact same at every age. Except maybe for the extreme baby-rabies at 29 or whenever she realizes she's hitting The Wall hard, extra careful with those…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:01 AM
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Originally honor was a form of pride. It is basically a special form machismo. "I am so glorious and powerful, that I can afford to be fair with my equals, and I will keep my word against all odds." To the ancients it was perfectly obvious that women and slaves have no honor, and shouldn't be expected to have any, and if they do have it, then they are very suspicious. Why is that girl full of such machismo? What the hell is wrong with her ovaries? Slowly but surely, honor was mutated. By the tim…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 10:21 AM
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Great post with many lessons, thanks for the FR. The issue is that when a man is taken out of his power structure or sphere of influence (whatever we wanna call it, it's a great martial arts concept), he is no longer the man he was, just a do-anything-you-want-to-me rag doll now. Women love to tempt you to give up power, and "do it for our love!". A very similar situation occurs when a blue pill guy moves across the country to a different city to "be with his love". Invariably, the story ends wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 09:49 AM
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Put it in some perspective for yourself: you'll be even more miserable and lonely with a wife who hates you, than alone chopping that wood. Hundred percent guaranteed. Your feelings are the result of the conditioning we all get to get with the program. In some important sense those are not really your feelings, they have been injected in there. "Must get wife. Will be lonely without wife. I'm special, I'll make it work" - every blue pill guy A woman is not the solution to a man's loneliness to b…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 09:31 AM
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I wouldn't bother with the number then, or even finding out her last name. None of that shit matters if she's already into you and wants it. Your job is to work out the logistics, where can you two go so that it can smoothly end up "just happening" and you fuck her. It's nearly always something you pre-plan, but needs to look like it was sooo spontaneous of you. As you guide her toward the ultimate consummation of your fucklationship, try to avoid being too obvious about anything. Always coy, al…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 09:06 AM
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Someone told me their cheesy trick, which is to close eyes and imagine orgasm. Not a sexy situation with some specific woman or a porn scene, not even sex itself, just go straight to the grand finale as an abstract thing, and mentally "go through the motions" of how orgasm normally feels. Seems to actually help some of the time to take the edge off since I've been doing it, give it a try.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:57 AM
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Part of me just doesn't trust her. Good! You can be perfectly certain there's shady shit going on when you're not around her. But it's not a big deal. Same shit with any woman, take your best pick, still same exact shit. Just enjoy the ride with her, while it lasts (it won't be long before it's over). When she's around, fuck her like you hate that cheating bitch. She will love it, the intensity, and think you're great. Smirk at her when she tells you that, then smack her dirty cheating ass. The …
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:47 AM
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This is such a typical girly test. You will see it over and over. A completely different woman in your arms each time, yet the same exact playbook. It's always "I don't want you to think I'm that kind of girl, we shouldn't do this". Then she's looking at you, watching what you'll do. This is way, way different to the way you would've acted in her shoes: if you said this, it would be final. "here's my decision, we shouldn't do this, I'm out". Not so for her, not even close. She's throwing this ou…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:27 AM
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That's the norm for how girls act. Some are DTF immediately, some keep you at arms length. You've done your job just right as a man when you treat them all the same, and try to escalate the same exact way toward what you want from them. If they shut it down, no big deal - just means she isn't down RIGHT NOW. Later on she's fair game again, you can be perfectly non-chalant unphased about this.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:43 AM
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No problem man, bang her in your car, in any little shed or nook you can find, or even the sleazy filthy bathroom of whatever venue. Bringing her home to Mom is for girls you're already fucking AND LIKE anyway, so that's absolutely off the table for her. Frame it like this is you and her, being exciting and adventurous. Breaking the rules together, etc. etc. Girls love this anyway, even if she already met your mom and impressed her with her cooking & polite dinner manner, fucking her in the back…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:38 AM
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Keep it cocky/funny and minimal. She'll appreciate you more that way. Later on in your wonderful romance you can bust out the full sentences and picture perfect grammar. For now you're just too busy and too uncommital to go that deep with her. Some girls associate all decent writing with high social status, i.e. "think he's probably loaded, I lucked out". But as you know that's kinda a double edged sword: she is more attracted, but she is also more likely to go into "make him wait" mode and try …
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:30 AM
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You can think of this kind of like losing your virgnity. This comes from your upbringing, it will be proportionately harder to lose. The basic idea is to test yourself. Fail a lot. Rush headfirst into every fray and see if you can avoid sinking, on pure inspiration and random courage. Wild it up and scare yourself shitless by the demands you place on yourself. A careful reading of TRP material sometimes sets a guy up with a (false) frame of being very protective about his own self. That's where …
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:16 AM
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You rub one out like man if need be, stay away from porno if you can.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 07:06 AM
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This isn't your blog, Bukowski.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:02 AM
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The education system is infected, so it produces copious amounts of pus - the typical "evolved" thinking of the progressive, who conflates all passage of time with progress. To these people's minds, just because it's 2016, we must automatically have enormously progressed from 1916, by a whole 100 years. That's the power of the brainwashing being handed out now. Meanwhile those 100 years could easily have been nothing but sordid regress... Degeneration and rot. Nothing about history is linear or …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:07 PM
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Good for you, you don't want to aim for Chad Thundercock, he's a comical figure, mainly gets to be the butt of TRP jokes about women's true nature. Where were you reading that advice about hobbies? You need to forget about talking hobbies to women, they don't have any themselves and don't give a shit about yours. It doesn't matter that your interests don't match hers exactly, that's blue pill thought in a nutshell. They're always trying way too hard to find that one girl who is into tentacle ani…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:39 PM
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You probably had it many times. Feels like your "self" disappears or fades into the background, so a certain lucidity can come to the fore and rule. It's peaceful yet exciting because being you becomes easy, transparent, like breathing when you don't think about it. By comparison, the blue pill way a guy usually acts in social situations is like breathing on purpose with some form or rhythm that he thinks looks good. The cart's before the horse... Huge weight off your shoulders when you shrug th…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 08:13 PM
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How much do you/chicks like that hair? The parents really don't like it, bossing you around big time. If you decide fuck it, I'll just cut it, then consider buzzing it all off to zero just as a last minute rebel move. At least your father will secretly smirk and respect that about you.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:24 AM
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If you invite her to your place for netflix and chill, it might work and would really be ideal, but good luck with that. My money's on she won't come, will get defensive and "I don't want to feel like a slut". You might want to get in touch and propose to go with her someplace moderately fun, maybe a park or to ride the escalators in the mall and lick each other's icecream, or something similar. THEN you pitch your place as somewhere you two could go right now, because you have a really interest…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:10 AM
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There you go, I knew it man. You're being girly, making this all about you. Take a deep breath, it really ain't. Your father is also fighting an uphill battle, and we just saw how he has it shittier than you. Of course every kid raised on our modern bullshit thinks they're the centre of the universe and they are terrified that everyone else is getting theirs, but they are missing out on something. Those are effeminate vices, called selfishness and greed. Need to NEXT them from your soul yesterda…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:56 AM
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It's just a turn of phrase, way of talking. In reality the "frame" is always flexi, but the point about "holding frame" is that you dominate the interpretation of the situation that other people then take for granted (because that's the easiest), and you of course juggle things for your own advantage in the process. When I face those situations you described where someone else is dominant, I like reminding myself that I'm nothing special. Just some guy. I don't need the spotlight all the time, o…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:46 AM
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He may be a dickhead but he's still your father. Hold on to that with your fucking teeth and never let it go. People who don't have one at all are the most miserable creatures imaginable. They have to try and be their own father to themselves. So much wasted time, and so much needless pain.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:37 AM
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It comes up with plates all the time too. "Why don't you want to marry meeee, just give up , it will be great!" Be mysterious and evasive, and plaster some kind of knowing look on your face. You don't actually want to give them any real answer, give them even more to wonder about instead.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:32 AM
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That's not BP thinking, it's just good fun.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:27 AM
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It's a wise thing to not be too wise when you're 20 years old. Rasputin the mystic insisted that there is no real atonement without real sinning. That really rings true, even though a lot of establishment "religious" people at the time thought it insane and heretical. You know what, it probably is insane and heretical, but that doesn't make it less true. Following your religion, follow it as a young man first. The last thing you want to do is to abandon it and drown yourself in pussy. Then find …
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:48 AM
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"I miss youuu" means you give her the tingles. She liked last time. This is basically a green light for you to do your thing, but the road ahead is still treacherous and long. "I miss youuu" = I hope you do something and come up with an excuse for us to hang out and cozy up together!
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:36 AM
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The main thing is to stay put when she storms off. If you chase after her, everything is lost. Never back down, never apologize or even imply regret/apology in this kind of situation. The more you're obstinate, the more she will get mad, YET the more she will feel you're an exciting man... Women often have these contradictions going on in their head, and it's so good if you understand that and lovingly nurture them, instead of demanding logic/reason which isn't there in the first place. It might…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:11 AM
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Bad idea if you want results. If you're bored and got nothing else to do, you can try it anyways, the world wont end for sure. She might be like "oh that's so sweet", you never know. But the bigger lesson here has to do with a universal law of women: it doesn't matter what the man wants, it's all about what she wants. For example the man wants a relationship. Doesn't fucking matter. I don't even read that part in his post/question. I want to read about what the girl is signalling she wants - tha…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:02 AM
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She said it's been her friend for a year and she doesn't look at him like that. You know, when women say this type shit, they fully expect you to swallow the natural rage it induces, bend over backwards and be nice to her - to spoil her and let her have whatever she wants with no consequences or costs. It's what society has been doing lately, that's why she expects to win without any resistance. When you put up serious resistance, you become a man unlike 90% of men out there, a valuable man. Rem…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:41 PM
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I wouldn't break up either, if I was happy with this girl. Love you Mom, but I'm dating her, you're not dating her. Your dealbreakers are not mine. If you just keep in mind that this is in no way a "forever and ever" relationship, you'll be just fine. Meanwhile treat what your Mom is doing as a shit test from her. They're testing your frame. Moms have been like this since the dawn of all time, they always hate the GF, and with good reason - they know exactly what that girl's up to, wrapping you …
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:16 PM
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what matters is that you go to bed together just as the fun winds down
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:29 PM
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I think uncountably many ex's is somewhat better than just one especially slimey annoying one. Ideally you'd want to bring it up when she originally asked for exclusivity. That "what are we" talk... tease her that "nahh, you wouldn't want that, you'd have to give up talking to all your ex's baby". I love the big eyes when that condition is rolled out. They usually say they will do it and give up the ex's. What actually happens later is a crapshoot, because the instant she feeeeeeels like she sho…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 04:17 AM
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Your job as the man is simple as shit. You have to arrange excuses for you and her to hang out 1:1, preferably around evening time. What those excuses are really doesn't matter. Whatever you come up with is fine. Could be a date, could be let's smoke some weed, could be come play mario carts with me. It really does not matter, what matters is that you are with her 1:1 and the sexy tension is building between you and her. It will build all by itself. But you can help it, by being cocky-funny, tre…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 04:03 AM
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I'd be grinding my teeth to a fine dust from all the unpleasant contemplation stemming from the unavoidable fact that I am paying thousands every year for this bullshit. To be followed by paying thousands for the dental work to replace those ground teeth and the therapy so I don't wake up in the middle of the night screaming because I'm surrounded by mutant commies. The biggest fuck you is yet to come, it's when a lot of people who put up with it all for years because they thought they would get…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:41 AM
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You'll get to laugh about this a lot later, because you may have no idea how exciting what you did was to the average excitement-deprived woman surrounded by men who are perfectly predictable and nice at all times. Especially that part where you go "we don't have to have a relationship, but I can't be just friends with you. Give me a kiss." It's genius. You said "you need to fuck me" without ever saying it, but she knows exactly what you said. Her: but, but! You: don't care, cmere and kiss me. T…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:17 AM
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I held my frame and told her that it looked like we just wanted different things, at which point she told me she’d think about it. I told her to “give me a kiss” and she said she didn’t feel right about it with her dad inside, I said “you know he’s glued to the TV” and we kissed. Was that beta? Probably, but I didn’t give a fuck at that point and figured why not, I might as well get something from the last three months. Actually that was fucking beautiful. When you stop caring, you start deliver…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:32 AM
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It's incredible isn't it? How cunningly it's all wired up upstairs. I remember having this girl in my class back in Highschool. Never gave her any mind at all, never said a word between us in years, she was always just some girl in class. Completely average looks. Then one night, completely out of the blue I get this shockingly hot dream about this girl, wake up covered in sweats and reeling from the experience. Wow,that was cool. Well it wasn't just cool, after this happened I couldn't take my …
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:59 PM
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It's one of those things. This is why women should never tell the truth about the N-count or what they do. Most men will feel the same instinctive aversion you feel. Can tell yourself the story about how it's normal, that's what women do, you weren't "even dating" back then, etc. etc. But the feeling still stays. In a way, it's good for you. It's good for your red pill evolution. Looking at your adorable GF and knowing those same lips sucked some asshole's dick not too long back, and loved it to…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:38 PM
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There's nothing I can say that will magically make you not be a pussy around her. Read TRP sidebar, lightbulbs will go off in your head. You will suddenly remind yourself that you're a man, and not to be fucked with. It will be your victory, but we'll all be there with you. Including your newly sweet and behaved girlfriend.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:27 PM
1

Get ready. Bitch is pregnant.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 09:48 PM
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If you give an inch, she'll always take a mile. That's what women do. So you give only tiny morsels, and make sure she treasures every single one. Can be a little tough in the beginning, since everyone else will be worshipping at their girlfriend's feet, you're the only one who is "mean". The pay off is in how much she loves you for it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 08:15 PM
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Sexist! Racist! Homophobe! Ableist! Ageist! Anti-trans! Not My Classmate! Not My Classmate! Shame! Shame! Shame! Shame! Where is grandpa's trophy MG42 when you're surrounded by commies and need it bad.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:57 PM
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No fucking way man. You did the right thing on instinct, it would have been ridiculous for you to just take the injury and pretend to laugh it off. Guy lays his hands on you for any reason, he's open game. The social civilities are over and forgotten about the instant that happens, doesn't matter who disapproves of it, you should absolutely get your revenge then and there. Hopefully nobody was seriously injured and it was a bloody nose richly deserved. Maybe he'll even come around to offer frien…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:49 AM
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As I understand it, anime's portrayal of women is blue pill times x100. Extra strong blue pills imported direct from Japan, land of the herbivore otaku man. No wonder that people who are into this end up a little isolated: no one outside the anime club really gets how much "anime women" need to be idolized and worshipped. Their blue pill is too weak and western. Funny thing, because being around real women (even "anime women") will very quickly set you straight about what "angels" they really ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 09:23 AM
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Great post. I remember when I first started to read TRP all the emphasis on how there is blue pill brainwashing seemed like they had to be exaggerating. Surely they're pointing out a trend maybe, but nothing so drastic could possibly be true verbatim. Nope, there literally is dualistic brainwashing being constantly disseminated on purpose. It is insidious, it is decieving people who would otherwise be able to sit back, observe and figure a lot of things out by themselves if they were just left a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:42 AM
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You can skip a lot of books if you memorize the following poem word-for-word, and inwardly recite it when it seems relevant in your life. Which will be fucking often. "IF", by Kipling. http://www.kiplingsociety.co.uk/poems_if.htm Memorization is a powerful mind-altering art. Things that are one thing when read, can show another color entirely when memorized.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:16 AM
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She wasn't too good to be true. Here's a better way: it WAS good, really good while it lasted. Now it's fucken over. It's always the same: go to sleep, have a nice dream, wake up and it's back to work. But in the end, let's look at it a little more philosophical... who fucked her first with his mangy leprosy-infested, non-soccer-playing, sideways bendy, ugly micropenisy underclassman dick? You did man. Who initially gamed her into spreading those gorgeous thighs for it? You did. He just got your…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 03:48 AM
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Something else about this red pill is still hard to swallow for many: this is not a random process, our plantation owners are killing marriage by design. So it's not that MARRIAGE in itself is awful, it is that they have deliberately mutated it by small poisonous injections and cuts over a long time, until it looked nothing like its former self and was completely unfit to live. Losing our good friend Marriage to the cancer of "liberalism" is a tragedy for western civilization. The miserable rami…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 02:41 AM
2

You're very welcome man. I can tell you another thing which, if you implment it, will probably have massive effects for you. In this day and age when everyone is addicted, reject porno completely. Next it from your life like a nasty stealing bitch. You can still beat your meat when you really want to that bad and are desperate, but do not fantasize about pornos or watch any of it. Not even soft porn like most modern movies, mag covers, and "art". Protect yourself from it like you're a mendicant …
/r/askTRP18/12/16 01:05 AM
1

Getting some pussy will help. There's a temporary elation that comes from it that can be real helpful. Feels like you can no no wrong, all your jokes are the funniest, and you're best looking dude in any room you walk into. All because this girl you fucked last night was hot. You may mentally say "what a bunch of bullshit", but it doesn't matter. This is how it feels. It changes how you breathe, how you move. You are perhaps the driver of this vehicle (or may think you are) but it's also true we…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 12:49 AM
4

You thought wrong, as usual it's just not that simple. The red pill and practice gives you an understanding of women, knowing exactly what makes her tick, knowing what she is hiding, knowing her needs better than she ever knew them herself. This is what creates deep emotional investment in women, and even a kind of female loyalty can temporarily appear, if you're lucky & pretty good at your pimp game. I've posted before many times telling guys "never apologize, never backtrack on what you said" …
/r/askTRP18/12/16 12:12 AM
2

I invite you to try it out. Fall in true love with a girl and have her absolutely break your heart. They're experts at it, so don't worry you're in good hands. All the soul-search and personal growth that follows can be really incredible. I thought of another way to explain it to you. Think of yourself as a vehicle on the road of life. As a man, you have natural built in blindspots, things you're just not aware of about your own self. A woman has blindspots too, but they really complement the on…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 11:53 PM
4

You probably already figured out, when girls say you're "mean" that means you give her the vaginal tingles with what a charming badass you are. Simple as that. There is no second meaning to "mean", this is the only one. I have to break it to you, she probably follows all the AWALT principles. You're just in a situation currently where everything is stacked against your being able to see it more clearly in her. But just because AWALT, doesn't mean she can't be a wonderful girl to know, it's actua…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:35 PM
6

Sure it's possible. Listen to a good man and do exactly what he teaches her to do. Often it'll go against her nature so much she'll hate doing it, but if done, it'll save her from many a sorry fate like this. A hoe without instruction is headed for self-destruction.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 11:51 AM
36

You're being a caveman. Zero charm, what the fuck were you thinking bro? It's difficult to overstate just how important talking to "daddy" about random bullshit that is on her mind, is to every woman. It's probably more pleasurable to them than sex. Watch how they act when they get a good talk out, it's like the girl's ...spiritually renewed and happiness sparkles all around her. What the fuck.. The fact of the matter is that you're probably right, and she is fucking boring. So what, though. Wha…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 11:20 AM
1

I've been with her for more than 2 years. Respectable amount of time, nice going. You can't laze away and skimp out. What I like to do is get girls FUNNY cards, even better if it's a little ridiculous or implies a love-hate relationship, tongue in cheek assault against the sanctity of the solemn occasion like "Our Anniversary". It's not the wishy-washy words they want, don't have to agonize about writing that (hate that shit too) they just want to feel like you value her. You bring her little gi…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:45 AM
9

It comes down to skill. Women are a skill. If you don't have the skill, you're always disadvantaged at any and every age. If you do have the skill right now, then it really doesn't matter that you never had a girlfriend till 50 or that everyone picked on you in the schoolyard. Nobody gives a shit. You notice, it's a little sad maybe, but then you really relax. Nobody gives a shit! What a blessing. Of course, how could you not see it? How's the woman you're with now supposed to know that stuff ab…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:21 AM
12

Bro, what's happened? I'm worried about you - you're talking like a man condemned. Where was the breaking point and who's condemned you?
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:12 AM
1

You already know. You just keep on working on bettering your skill with women, and keep on looking. It's absolutely a numbers game. You need to go through dozens maybe hundreds of women in your life, to see which 2-3 actually stick around for years at your side, and make an effort to be good girls, the kind you'd want as the mother of your children. Don't write off American, you are the "weird indian guy" for now but you could also be the "royally successful indian guy", or "that indian guy who …
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:05 AM
6

Why get myself into the maze they built while I can be patient, work hard and make money and then pay for hookers and gold diggers for sex and relationships? Mainly because the "genuine article" women are more of a challenge. Put another way, they fuck you up a lot more effectively, the heartbreak and all of that is so very necessary for a man. It fucking destroys you. Then you might realize that she did you a favour, that thing she destroyed was similar to a parasite in your very mental/spiritu…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 09:35 AM
2

This is something women love doing, it's a cute test for you. You really wanted to go to this event? Guess WHAT? She has a stomach aaaache. Not going! How about that? Huh? HUH??? It's like dangling a carrot in front of you, then taking it away. All to see how you react to life's small disappointments. You'll see the same exact thing from many, many future women. Can't ever be upset by their princessy flaking. One way to INCREASE the flake is to offer "calls to confirm", it seems like a common co…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 09:15 AM
8

Instead of the unrealistic 16 hours a day, I want to be God plan, a better idea would be to work on yourself for 20 minutes/day, like a regular nothing-special lazy asshole like the rest of us. But every day for 30 days straight. You'll get tons of results seemingly out of nowhere, way out of all proportion to the small time investment. And it takes the old ego down a notch, so it gets somewhat out of your way, you can breathe a little without accidentally destroying half of the universe. The on…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:50 AM
15

I think this female is mentally ill, but in all the best ways. You learn to spot this vibe... Completely different woman, but the vibe's always the exact same. It's a kind of grand and almost magical-seeming self centeredness, everything is always about her, in relation to her, and happens with or for her. It sucks you right in, you want to be part of the magic, very intoxicating. All women are self centered to a degree, but this type takes it to a whole new level. Now someone with experience w/…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:18 AM
3

Just peachy man, good to see you too!
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:05 AM
8

What you need to do is go on a diet. I call it "The Zero-That-Bitch Mental Diet". Get rid of things she bought for you, clean up your gMail so you don't ever see her old messages, erase her from your facebook etc. You don't have to pile all you mementos up and burn them, but I would suggest sticking them into some boxes, and then pushing those boxes somewhere far enough out of your way so that you feel kinda lazy about having to bring them out. This type of diet is the beginning of your recovery…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:52 AM
1

It's part of a long list of things women think they want. They are wrong. Those are not the things they actually want and respond to. In the end it just doesn't matter for shit. Doesn't matter what's written in her profile when she's constantly changing her mind about everything & going against what she said before, being a woman.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:39 AM
11

my fav: "I don't see you complaining"
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:37 AM
5

A good way to deal with this is act exactly like a girl would. After she said "I'll be there 7" drop the issue completely, and don't text her anything, like you forgot about her/lost interest because of your busy life. Let HER be the one to text you "Well?" or whatever. You're cool either way, she's the one hanging onto you. She was using this opportunity to test you a little bit by being disagreeable. Don't hold their hand, when girls do that. Don't go out of your way. Don't be clear and forthc…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:22 AM
3

I think you don't have much of a choice. This bitch will probably never initiate anything for you. A good rule of thumb is to make some kind of initiation attempt once per week. If she doesn't play along, leave it be. Try again in roughly a week. If she's still not responding, safely forget about it - you did your part.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:24 PM
4

If you always wait for girls to bring anything up or start anything for you, it might be a long fucking wait.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:19 PM
15

That's very good. It's how a man's body is supposed to work. Building a royal overabundance and then giving it as a magnanimous orgasmic gift to a woman, when you got so much your reservoir's overflowing. Same thing with fun emotions. Same thing with money. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:45 PM
5

I do it only when I know she doesn't expect it. That way a compliment is like lightning in the middle of a blue-blue sky, flashing out the words "NICE ASS".
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:29 PM
1

The original GLO badassery, it's alllll back. And you thought you've seen it all, Samantha Bee.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:11 PM
2

I get what you're saying man, but here's the bottom line. You simply cannot turn a horse into a dog by scolding it. A girl hooking up with her ex behind your back, she's going to keep doing that, no matter what man she's with. You could be picture perfect and she'd still do it. It's a quality that she has. Now you have options, do you want to tolerate/deal with it, or do you want to walk away... The only option you don't have is changing her to suit you. She might be able to pretend it for a whi…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:41 PM
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The post states the truth. Many commenters are unfortunately stuck in their feminine-primary world view, so they're trying to make things easier for women, protect the poor innocent women from awkwards, snarking away with the self-conscious "but isn't that rapey" jokes etc. etc. This is the behaviour of dogs who've been beaten since they were puppies, so now they habitually imagine nasty sticks everywhere coming at them, and whine anxiously amongst themselves. Why would I make anything easier fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:38 AM
6

Agree and amplify, tell her it's a great idea, and in fact you should both see other people for this month too, while growing emotionally as individuals together, and feeling your love really blossom.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:30 AM
1

Went through a long shellshocked anger-phase and now am always cheery. I'd compare it to maybe owning a small convenience store. Some assholes in "Teh Matrix" tshirts come in and knock all your items off your shelves. You are angry and shell-shocked, then you start picking up the pieces and setting them down where stuff belongs. As you near completion, you realize this new way of arranging your store is way more profitable and it's more beautiful than you ever rememebr it being before. Cheery.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:22 AM
5

It's all your newfound wisdom, pushing the hair follicles out. If it's all falling out like crazy in huge bunches, might want to see a doctor, that could be caused by a lot of shit. But if it's a relatively small and gradual amount, then you can look forward to when you buzz it all off and rock what my one plate calls "the CEO look".
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:19 AM
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Why do you think it shouldn't stand? Double standards are great when you're talking about two different things, like apples n' oranges, or men and women. It's the only way to get any justice. Can't you see she's flirting? This is not about guys, this is about her, and how she's much in demand. Her giraffee picture is adorable! She's so badass, rejects men left and right. Like, oh my god. She can't even. Wow. Do you see it now? She's begging & bragging, and wants attention from men, especially so…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:41 PM
5

Thanks for the great laughs, we all need to partake in this kind of truly cathartic articles, and WApo richly delivers.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:34 PM
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You're a grown fucking man. Cut out the itchy-bitchy. Life has no meeeeeaning, my feeeeeelz! Fuck you. That's what you should be saying while looking in the mirror at that pussy you think you're allowed to be. Fuck you. If you wanna off yourself because of a woman, go right ahead be our guest. Stupidest shit I've ever heard, but it's your life man. Hopefully when you're just about to drop off that bridge and make an ugly splat that no one cares about, you'll stop for a moment and realize what a …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:12 PM
1

Quite a powerful technique isn't it? You can also use it when you're talking to the woman, even with no mirrors anywhere in sight, you ask her to imagine looking at herself in the mirror, or seeing herself "as in a dream" or whatever bullshit you want to come up with. The pacing is important, after suggesting it there should be enough pause-time for her to actually follow through and do it. And you're right there with her, curious about what she "feels now" or what that was like when she imagine…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 08:39 PM
5

As soon as you lay a hand of her, that's like pasting an invitation for nearby fuckfaces A,B, and C to simultaneously launch a flying kick at the back of your head. They don't care that you're in the right and she's in the wrong. In a more private situation, often a simple slap will not only subdue but actually turn women on quite a lot....
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:28 PM
1

I can't shake the feeling the girls all sensed my "fuck this all I just don't care anymore" mood I was in and possibly liked it? Of course they like it. Girls are irresistibly drawn to evil. If you know how to brood like a sexy "let it all fucking burn" metal band member, you won't have many pussy shortages in your life. It's not the negative pissed off state you wanna tap into, it's the evil. They are not drawn to weakness or men that give up on themselves, but are very drawn to brooding and te…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:22 PM
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