How to communicate something is a date

SkorchZang · 2017-04-28T19:41:39+00:00

You're still thinking you need to be forthright and clear in your communication. That's blue pill indoctrination, you don't need any such thing. Feel free to be ambiguous and mysterious. Let her wonder if it's a date-date, or a date-date-date. You put on a big smirk and enjoy it, all her squirming.

As a man, the only thing you care about is that she's with you, 1:1, and you're having fun together. In the evening is good. That's it, that's all you need to worry about creating. Let her figure out if what "it" is or isn't. Because it really doesn't matter if she says it's not a date-date, just a friendly visit, as long as you end up balls deep at the end of a fun night.

Sometimes the hamster needs to feed itself those plausible deniability pellets, like it was just a friendly visit and it "just happened", it wasn't her fault at all, etc. You can relax, let her feed it whatever she wants. As long as she's there with you 1:1, having lots of fun and building that sexy tension in the background, it simply doesn't matter what the hell your get-together was supposed to be called.

MattyAnon · 2017-04-28T19:18:22+00:00

Be so attractive that she hopes it's a date.

You don't need to be overt about it. Drinks for just you and her is obvious enough.

If she says "is this a date" you say "maybe... if you play your cards right".

Otherwise.... just take the risk on her misunderstanding.

281threethreeoh8004 · 2017-04-28T19:18:44+00:00

Walk up to her locker so you're standing behind the open door. She can't see you're there, but notices you when she closes it.

"SNEAK ATTACK!!" You proclaim as you start tickling her mercilessly.

You finally bring an end to your 10-fingered underarm assault and she catches her breath, cursing you for your silly games. You've been doing that for years.

You say, "My mom said I could take the Santa Fe tonight, I'll pick you up at 8 to get some froyo."

She giggles, and says that sounds nice. She needs a study break from the AP American History test coming up in Mr. Hatcher's class.

"Cool ... Then it's a date." You say as you simultaneously wink and do a snap gun with your hand.

The End.

RPShitlord · 2017-04-28T19:19:23+00:00

Don't offer dinners, movies or anything else.

Drinks only at night. There's no confusing that.

ppzhao · 2017-04-28T20:06:07+00:00

Wear your pretty underwear for me

This line may risk your date canceled, but will definitely communicate it's a date:

DotishGuy · 2017-04-30T13:43:12+00:00

Inception her.

Get to talking about calenders n shit. Highlight that americans have a silly system of writing the DATE , the day should be first, not the month.

Just keep putting emphasis on the word "date" lmao idk Talk about your get together, then be like "on a related note, what's the deal with calenders huh?"

Title	How to communicate something is a date
Author	onlinerocker
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	April 28, 2017 7:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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