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Maybe she just wants to hang out with her friend(s) who also happen to be women. You can't mate guard. It's only going to increase her desire to go and do the things you're insecure about, and at some point she will just leave you because you're holding her back. My LTR told me she wanted to plan a trip - just like I did for later this year. She called me one afternoon and said she booked a trip to Spain for like an entire week. Just with her sister and their lifelong friend. "That's great, I'm …
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:44 PM
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I honestly laugh at everyone likening literally any trip abroad to a full on fuck-fest with cocks galore. Call me a sheep, beta, whatever you'd like. I just don't subscribe to the idea of all girls plan international trips to guzzle strange cock 24/7.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:19 PM
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Yes, but not as much as I'd like to. The majority of what I do is just on my iPhone. I usually take a few photos whenever I'm out doing things (sporting events, cool places, golfing, etc.) and edit them later. They go on Instagram, sometimes I share to FB, and my LTR even took some of my work and framed it as a gift. I have a DSLR and a few lenses. I really like shooting landscapes, cityscapes and things like that, but sometimes I lack the motivation to get up extremely early and drive to where …
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:05 PM
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What a lovely family you have. Like you said, at least you can admit you're an asshat - which sounds completely true. You complain about your sister free-loading off her ex (who cheated on her and has left her with two children). You complain about her not having a job, yet you're a high school drop out working a shitty part-time job and contributing zero to the household. You sound like a real winner.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:17 AM
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Bye Felicia.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 02:54 PM
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Kind of late to the party, but I would've taken the opportunity to go out for drinks. It could be harmless, and she may have exhausted trying to get other friends to join her so she reached out to a close friend of her fiancé. It could be harmless, and she might want to talk to you about a concern with her fiancé or she's trying to make special plans for him and didn't want the conversation to be over the phone. She could be trying to go behind his back, and this would've been your opportunity t…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:57 PM
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My immediate response would be to leave her, based on what you've told us. If you two weren't exclusive when this happened then that's a different story. But if you are under the impression that your relationship was monogamous, she clearly deceived you. Sounds like she didn't feel bad about it at first, but after your visible improvements she wants to have a clean slate and doesn't want to lose you. Easier to ask for forgiveness by telling the person outright, rather than having to explain ones…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:32 PM
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Sleep when you're dead - or hungover. Basically, don't be the guy who goes to bed early. You get to choose what your reasons are for getting too little sleep. Whether it be out with friends, building a thriving business, or something else important to you - all that matters is that you can look back and be happy with your choices. Live with no regrets. It's seriously that simple, but at the age of 29 I can say my perspective has completely changed from when I was 15, 17, 18, or even 21. Prioriti…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:47 AM
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I have personal and professional goals, a LTR that I'm enjoying (she is also super driven, and it helps motivate me more), and a dog to care for and enjoy spending time with. I can't say I have much of a greater purpose - I've yet to truly discover what that is for me - but I do have other things which motivate me on a daily basis. The first think that will help you is getting back a normal sleep pattern, followed by some physical activity. Get out in the sun, too. You probably feel zapped going…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:04 PM
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Submit a noise complaint. Jesus is this seriously a question on this sub?
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:41 PM
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You need to do some introspection. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? What is something that brings you wholeness? Focus on these things, and really think about why they make you feel good.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:30 PM
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Depending on what you do for work, consider dressing up a little more. I always find that when I wear a suit, or event just add a tie to business casual, I end up sitting up straighter and generally have better posture. Look nice and inadvertently have better posture. Two birds, one stone.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:53 PM
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when you guys were waiting for her and she didn't have the common decency to flick her 3rd cigarette early so people weren't waiting on her This. After she said "I don't hurry up for anyone" I would've followed with "I don't wait on anyone" and just shut the door and driven off.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:48 PM
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Go online to Warby Parker. They have a lot of information about which frames look best depending on your face shape. As far as the color goes, I think you're usually safe with a gray, blue or brown color. They will normally go with everything you'll wear. If you can't decide then buy two pairs - one gray and then one blue/brown.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:31 PM
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Am I the only one who picked up on her comment "You didn't even ask first"? Could've turned her poop chute into a slip n' slide if only you'd have asked her nicely.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:15 PM
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Tell them. I'd want to know if I were in their shoes. And if they ask for proof, you have your source as a close friend of their girlfriends and her texts imploring you to not say anything about it. Speaking up would be the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:08 PM
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Regardless of who is giving you shit for not pursuing her, at the end of the day she could still bring about a sexual harassment claim or something else against you - or the company - and the guy talk will mean nothing. Just don't do it.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:06 PM
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A vasectomy is reversible. There are other options for birth control outside of pills/patches/injections. Read up on IUDs. With this said, be prepared to have the conversation with your LTR on it being her body, her decision. All you can do is provide suggestions, ultimately she will make the choice to either do something or not.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:03 PM
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I think it would help to legitimately visualize what you're saying. Don't focus so much on who you're speaking to - disengage the setting. Think solely about your words, your argument and the retort.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:39 PM
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She broke up via text. Your reply trumped however she phrased it. She expected you to be upset but you weren't, so this is probably an attempt to one up you. If I were you, no response is warranted. Let her wall text you whatever she has to say, wondering if you've ever acknowledged it or not.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:53 PM
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Go through the carrier to get call/text logs. Even if you can't get actual text transcripts, you can compare phone numbers vs what is in her contacts. Any call not showing in the call log on her phone, save that name/number. Create a contact in your own phone with the number, and open the Facebook app. Go to find new friends and search the tab by contacts. It will show you a list of people you aren't friends with yet, based on the phone numbers in your contact list. It's dependent upon their num…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:04 PM
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I literally lived this situation towards the end of last year. I broke up with her at the beginning of September, we started hooking up again around October/November but I made it clear I was seeing others, she tried to reel me back in around Christmas saying "I don't want to lose you again", and by mid January I told her this would have to stop as I could tell it was holding me back with other women.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:48 PM
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Plating an ex will only lead to comfort in revisiting previous feelings. Over time she will try to reel you back in, you will start to be OK with it and spend more time with her and ultimately reducing your abundance mentality. It's a cycle. Once you're back together the affection will wear off and you'll be in the same position again.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:32 PM
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Kudos man. No reason to put up with trivial lies. If she can't tell you the truth about something small, what's next?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:25 PM
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My LTR could stand to lose a few lbs, but so could I. To me it's like that song with Lil Dicky - she ain't fat bruh, just a lil thick. And that's the truth. I'm ok with where she's at. If you're not in the same position as I, is this something that will continue to weigh you down? (No pun intended but damn that was fire). Sounds like she's done some great things for you, but then again I would come to expect a lot of those. My standards. How old are the two of you? Why is she broke? These are so…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 01:59 PM
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I think she would understand that if your physical attributes are greater than hers you can best her through applying yourself in training like she has. There is something to be said for agility, quickness and anticipation of your opponent's moves. The last of which can bring upon the first two, if you're naturally a little cumbersome in comparison. And that's the essence of TRP - anticipation. Being two steps ahead.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 01:30 PM
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A cheeky response would definitely be best. Like you said "wouldn't you like to know?" Or even better, "keep it up and you might find out for yourself".
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:24 PM
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So because she's hot and you're led to believe she has a low N-count, she's worth putting up with when you take her out? I'd prefer a lady who doesn't make me look stupid in front of my friends.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 07:36 PM
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I basically do the following: Jeans - Levi's Shoes - Cole Haan everything Shirts - polos from the PGA store; tees from wherever just as I find them but I haven't purchased a tee in quite a while Button Downs - custom, tailored shirts based on my measurements; for something more casual I usually look at Buckle Nothing screen printed unless I'm going to a baseball game, day drinking and it would be a somewhat acceptable shirt, etc. Otherwise always a collar.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:36 PM
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"Thanks. Filing this with the other compliments I've received this week."
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:00 PM
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If you were already planning on being together that night, you're absolutely in the right to comment on the inconvenience of her change of plans. Then, make your own plans and have a great night.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:20 PM
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100% this. Whether he has a degree or not, he's got time on his side and that's his greatest advantage.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:18 PM
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I've always thought highly of businesses who responded to online remarks and reviews in a very professional manner. Whether they're BS or not, you're showing that you care about your reputation - both at the brick and mortar and in the digital space. I'm more likely to do business with someone who conducts operations that way, as opposed to just ignoring whatever is said on sites like that.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:15 PM
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Or at the very least, if you believe in getting a college degree start somewhere less expensive and transfer once you know what you want to do.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:03 PM
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What are you even? You first say LTR, then you say her ex has an idea she is fooling around with me Hard next
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:58 PM
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Good luck to you! Definitely consider all possibilities. Essentially audit your daily life. What's adding value and helping you reach your goal? What's not? What could be, but you need to improve on?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 06:19 PM
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It's really legit* *Has no evidence to support claim
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:20 PM
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You sound like a woman with this fantasy that cosmetic surgery is going to make you happy. No, I would never do any of these things unless I was in some horrific accident and it left my face deformed.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:51 PM
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You should really think about removing stuff so that your employer in general doesn't see it. It's not a matter of being fake vs authentic, it's just being smart. Would suck to not get a job because they found some stupid drunk pictures from 7 years prior. I cleaned up my FB/Twitter and straight up put the info on my resume. My now boss was super impressed that not only was I not hiding anything, but I just gave it to them to peruse as they saw fit.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:21 AM
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Just delete whatever you don't want to be seen any longer. I don't think anyone will question your motives. No one will be alerted to the fact you're deleting things. Facebook is used by something like 73% of people age 20-29, and is far and away the most commonly used social media platform in that age group and beyond. So I find value in it solely because that's the most common, but it's not often I post something that wasn't originally an Instagram post that I decided to share to FB through th…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:46 PM
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Negotiate the ability to work from home or remotely 1-2 days per week to negate the traffic, if you can. WFH on Monday/Tuesday and then go in the office the rest of the week. I would also consider the long-term outlooks. There's got to be more than just money/commute that differentiates the two companies. Benefits, education/certifications/learning, travel or other opportunities. Look at the bigger picture too - where do you see the most potential in 5 years?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:46 PM
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Don't inquire about her past more than is necessary and you won't have to worry about anything other than your own imagination of what she got into when she was younger.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:40 PM
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I'm going to be 30 this year (holy shit) and I'm actually excited about it. Every birthday since I turned 25 was just kind of another day to me, but it's different now. Probably has something to do with putting in tons of work to have a solid life path, stronger friendships and things like that. My mindset is that this next decade is going to be the best yet.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:54 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:44 PM
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I think it's kind of short sighted to say that she is definitely going to cheat on him. That's like saying a girl you're seeing can't go to dinner with her friends because she is absolutely getting dicked down out back of Steak & Shake, solely because she is a female and you're not there. Again - If you're a high SMV male, the chances of this happening are less likely.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 07:21 PM
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I mean, good for you for literally being the only thing between this boy and a foster home. You won't find many people here who would do the same thing you're doing - myself included - but if knowing you're literally saving this child from a horrible upbringing brings you all the happiness you need then you don't need to prove yourself to anyone.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 06:05 PM
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Good point at the end there. The only thing you can control is that you continue to exhibit a high SMV. She - in theory - should be less likely to do anything that would damage your relationship if she perceives you as the catch.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:08 PM
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Got into a convo with my GF about relationships and friendships a while back. Explained how I can absolutely drop someone regardless of their place/position depending on what's happened. She was kind of taken aback by this - "Could you do that to me?" Absolutely. If you do something to fuck up badly enough, you'd get the boot just like anyone else. I've done it to friends, girlfriends - it's all the same.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:49 PM
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I started dating this girl back in February, and around that time we both booked flights for trips to Europe - I'm going with my boy to Amsterdam, Paris, London and Brussels in November, she's going to Spain with her sister and best friend in October. I'm confident enough that I'm literally the best person she has dated in every possible measurement, and she definitely lets me know just how much she appreciates me. If we are still together 6 months from now, we both know how much she would be th…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:38 PM
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I'd rather live at home at 27 than be struggling to get my head above water at 30. And you can always spin it - Your lease was up but a friend you want to live with still has a few months. Decided to save money over the summer. You won't be bringing many girls home but you can still be social - and you could always crash at her place. Just have a plan to get back on your feet in x months - and stop spending so much when you go out.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 03:01 PM
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Her: That's Mother's Day weekend! You: Well I am daughter tested, mother approved. She won't mind you being away.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 02:28 AM
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You kept it real. You don't want a relationship and she is making it seem like she doesn't want to continue without being in one. She gave up her bargaining power and you're keeping yours. You want to change the game now? Bye. Indifference is exactly the way to play it - because based on your personal policy that's who you are. Keep gaming other chicks. She will either come around or she wont, but it won't matter much to you either way.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 02:22 AM
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Walk up to her locker so you're standing behind the open door. She can't see you're there, but notices you when she closes it. "SNEAK ATTACK!!" You proclaim as you start tickling her mercilessly. You finally bring an end to your 10-fingered underarm assault and she catches her breath, cursing you for your silly games. You've been doing that for years. You say, "My mom said I could take the Santa Fe tonight, I'll pick you up at 8 to get some froyo." She giggles, and says that sounds nice. She nee…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:18 PM
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I would certainly ask for more than you hope to make. I was interviewing with my current company and they had asked what I hoped to make for salary as part of the application process. It was my first career-type job out of college, and while I had a good idea of the salary range for this position I didn't want to come in too high - so I was right in the middle. I was offered the job at the salary I asked for, so I immediately had some remorse for not being a little more greedy. While on the othe…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 12:45 PM
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Are you more satisfied with your life since making the change and losing this person? If yes, then it was the right call.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:45 PM
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It doesn't so much sound like you cut him out because he was toxic, but you had a shift in priorities because you weren't satisfied with your direction in life. Losing his friendship was just a byproduct of that shift. Secondly, his comment came as a response to this shift - if he was even serious about it at all. You make it sound like you cut him out as a result of him calling you a faggot.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:13 PM
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You're going to break up in a month anyways. Use this last month to change/improve yourself in as many ways possible before you start this next chapter of your life. For starters, hamstering about your 'great' relationship when she wasn't upset about you ending it.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:40 PM
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TRP probably isn't full of computer hackers, hence the link to that sub. They might help you find the tools and means to do it yourself. Since what you're asking is illegal I doubt you'll find someone who is just waiting around to hack an account upon request. This link provides in great detail the potential punishments if she were to take this to the authorities.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:39 PM
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Maybe try r/hacking or research keyloggers and figure out how to do it yourself. You could out your wife's indiscretions and learn a new skill. At least the bettering yourself part fits into TRP's agenda.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:36 PM
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Who cares what her angle is. Plate Kim and push for her to invite Candace in town for a weekend to have a threesome.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:34 PM
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I just went to the Apple app store to search for this - I found ATracker. Just downloaded it so I have no idea if this is the one u/refusewool uses, but it looks promising. No idea if it's for Android too.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 07:06 PM
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I think a big thing is if you're stuck in the 'planning' phase, you just need to choose something and do it. Take the leap. If making a difference in society is important (and I'm reading that as maybe volunteering or something), decide what cause or organization you most align with and find out how you can contribute. Commit to a time and go do it.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 06:09 PM
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I see your points - and many people don't plan on saving beyond their retirement accounts, if at all. I recently read an article which said that by the age of 30 if you've reached $50,000 in your 401k, that will turn into $1m by the time you retire. Compounded interest and a stable rate of return are pretty incredible over a long period of time. All I'm saying is you absolutely can have your cake and eat it too, but you need to be smart about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:03 PM
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What's money for if not to spend? Work to live, don't live to work. I appreciate the idea of being fiscally responsible, but it is possible to have your money in check and also have fun and experience things. I enjoy traveling - even just a weekend trip - and going to concerts, dinners, events, etc. I honestly don't even think about the money I've spent on stuff like this because I'm happy and I have good memories. Would it be nice to have an extra 10k in the bank? Sure - but the shine on whatev…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:41 PM
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It could be expensive - or they could be adept at planning travel around flight deals and working it into their planned expenses. I'm flying to Europe for a week later this year on a $440 roundtrip ticket.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:23 PM
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I almost did, but I decided to save that discussion for another time lol.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:58 PM
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I was semi-successful at doing this exact thing, but after a while I got to the point where I asked myself "Why am I still fucking her?" I broke up with my LTR of 2 years. She seriously disrespected me in front of our friends and while I initially tried to just punish her for being a bitch, I realized that 1. it would happen again and 2. I could find someone else who wouldn't do that. We went almost a month without speaking, then she reached out to me. I pretty quickly turned things sexual and i…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:05 PM
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I've never really encountered 'bad' sex, save for my first ex. She was just a lame duck. I think my measure of what's considered 'good' is essentially how much of a whore she's willing to be in my bed. I think you really just need to find someone who feels right at home with your balls against her chin.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:57 PM
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I don't plan on ever having a discussion about TRP. Over the weekend my GF came back to my place after brunch with her best friend, wanted her to meet me. We're showing her around the place and we're in my room. Her friend sees my small collection of books on my desk and she asks "What's The Rational Male?" "It's a book."
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:04 PM
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I'm creative enough to write something off the cuff that made people laugh and also pointed to the fact that the answers he seeks are literally right in front of him. Even OP laughed. I'm the kind of man who does this as a mental break from writing for work, while at work.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:40 PM
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You first look down at your feet, you're a little bit shy to even broach the subject with her. You muster up the courage and slowly bring your eyes to meet her's. You say "hey plate, there's something I want to talk to you about." She hushes you with her index finger over your mouth, looks you in the eyes and says "Read the fucking sidebar."
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:57 PM
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Dude, you're really trying too hard here. This is the point where I begin to echo the same sentiments of everyone else in this sub. Your current mindset: Trying to understand her actions and why she would do this behind your back Trying to save your relationship - is it actually worth saving? What you need to be focused on: You are the prize - she should never do something like this for fear of losing you You should never fear losing her because you have other options, or at least the means to o…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:05 PM
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In my opinion, if she's literally never mentioned you then she's leaving the door open for him.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:52 PM
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What would she think if you were texting a girl in secret and setting up a meet? If she read the exact same texts on your phone? Maybe she's mentioned you in person - but do you think she's really talking to this guy about what you and her do?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:07 PM
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Is she actually doing work at that time of night? Are they on a project together? Do any of her actions logically make sense? Meets guy in class, sets up a meet outside of class, doesn't mention it to you at all, texts him at all hours, doesn't mention you to him in their conversation but mentions other friends. Seems you're the odd man out.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:32 PM
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You know about it going down. She doesn't know that you know. You can either take all of this advice you've already been given and ghost her or you can give her a chance to mention the meet after the fact. I think you know what you should do, but you're waiting for us to reason with you and support what you want to hear. she has the perfect cover for what this actually is She can say it's a study meet since they're in class together. Only thing is that you know that's not true and it doesn't tak…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:21 PM
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I see it two ways: Stay with her and continue to get laid. Potentially have definitive evidence of friend cheating on your boy while on the trip. Leave her now, citing that conversation if you feel like giving her a reason, still tell your boy what you heard.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:00 PM
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u/mackland and I did a study abroad together, along with about 30 other students. We were out of the US for maybe 2 weeks and there were hookups on our trip. Granted, I don't recall anyone who was in a relationship cheating at any point in time. She already planned the trip before you got into the picture, so I wouldn't expect her to change her plans because of you. There's certain deposits that have to be met weeks, if not months in advance of the trip so it would be incredibly unlikely for her…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:46 PM
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What was her reason for being late? I only ask because I was seeing my now GF on a second date a few months ago and she let me know she was running late because of work (maybe 15 minutes). It wasn't a big deal and she was really quick to let me know, so I grabbed a table and had a beer while I waited. 15 minutes turned into 30 minutes, which turned into 45 minutes. I was seriously about to leave, but in my head I was like "we had a great time before, this doesn't really seem like her style". She…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:18 PM
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More than likely, yes. I like the idea of raising my kid(s), being able to pass on life lessons and be witness to their success. I don't have a very high n count, so if I found someone with as many as me it would not be an issue. I'm sure my GF has slept with more people than I have, but I've never asked her and she's never told me even a ballpark. I feel like I understand enough about her past to understand the kind of person she is today, but no matter the case it was their turn before and it'…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:17 PM
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Did you act appropriately? Not waiting for her - yes. Continuing to spend time trying to get a girl who repeatedly denies you - no.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:02 PM
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So when she comes over uninvited and waits outside, do you eventually come out and talk or open the door for her? Literally ignore her completely. Invite a buddle over while she's waiting outside and have him just walk right past her without acknowledging her. Also, a restraining order. She sounds crazy.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:00 PM
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Always off. Only time I turned them on was when my ex texted me some backhanded BS not long ago. I turned them on for that specific text conversation and never replied. 'Read' Bye bih
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:23 PM
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Stuff it with firecrackers and blow it up. Duh.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:19 PM
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I used to skateboard and I currently snowboard. Each deck is its own work of art, so I've mounted my boards for display and continue to purchase new decks to add. It's something incredibly unique and each one can be a conversation piece. My next deck will be blank and I'll cover it in stickers from different places I visit.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:38 PM
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Well your news source is pretty terrible. And this quote makes it sound like something from The Onion: "Dan Rochkind used to date swimsuit models, but he’s happier now that he’s engaged to a merely beautiful woman, Carly Spindel."
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:09 PM
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I would look for a way to upend this process and be strategic. It sounds like you only place orders for things when your boss realizes it's absolutely needed. Find out how to anticipate these needs (forecasting) and send your invoices to the purchasing department in advance - knowing they sit on the orders for weeks anyways. Also, follow up after 1-2 days and CC your boss on everything. Who cares if people get pissed off being CC'd on emails. It's called CYA. Find a way to get ahead of orders an…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:36 PM
1

I see it going down like this: Acquin finds a nice watering hole around the corner and posts up at the bar with his Blue Moon. Some real lookers come in and sit a few seats down. Over the next 15 minutes Acquin tries his best to eye fuck them before they get a weird vibe and leave.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:40 PM
1

Sell them
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:14 PM
1

Tell her "that's cute, now this dick isn't going to suck itself."
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:13 PM
1

Your prognosis does not look good. You're going to be comfortable for the rest of your life. Sry.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:46 PM
43

It's a girl's night out, why would you be invited? The correct response would've been to let her go and call up some buddies to go do your own thing. Don't contact her at all throughout the night and wait for her to reach out to you.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:42 PM
1

Whatever your heart desires.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:35 PM
2

You'd spot them much sooner than she would and cross before she realizes why. Make up something about wanting to look at a store or you think you know someone across the street. If you're confident enough in what you say and you're leading her, she won't think twice.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:26 AM
1

Not really - he put himself in the situation by even being on the same side of the street as these people. Sure, shooting one of them might make the rest back up and run but if they all came at him there's a good chance he's overtaken. I think it's kind of obvious that the majority of the gun comments are being made in jest in this thread.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:51 PM
-3

Part of protecting yourself and your girl is not putting yourself in dangerous/no-win situations. No shit, Sherlock.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:02 PM
2

Yeah that was a really dumb decision. I think 80% of the problems originated with other kids and her parents, but the issue with Clay and then the party at Bryce's were straight up on her.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:52 PM
1

And she was only acting that way around men - Clay and then later with the counselor as she walked out of his office. No wonder she was disappointed in their reactions - they acted off of what she was saying. Women don't say what they mean.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:11 PM
3

Put your hand on your sidearm and tell them to back the fuck up.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:58 PM
1

Oh for sure - and that photographer kid is about to go off if there's a second season. For someone caught up in his feelings, it would suck to be called out as a reason why the girl he liked killed herself. She was also a headcase though. Multiple times pushing people away, only to wait around for them to do the exact opposite of what she said.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:56 PM
3

Having just binge-watched this, I thought it was really well produced. I never had to deal with interactions like that when I was in high school, but I can certainly see some of it being true to life.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:34 PM
1

Had a girl tell me she fell asleep after I drove about 30 mins to get to her apartment in the city. Gave her another chance - the day before we were supposed to meet she moved it to the day of, then when we planned to get together she claimed she agreed to work late because she didn't hear from me for 3 hours ... after we confirmed our plans. I just nexted her after that. Make plans with her one more time but have a backup. If it falls through again, next.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:50 PM
7

Skip the entire game and just tell her - don't ask - that you want to grab a drink. It could be that she woke up next to you after a drunken hotel party and was like "aw damn I did it again" and quickly left. Maybe she perceived her own SMV higher than yours and ultimately isn't that attracted to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:34 PM
15

Your life is going to be awful sooner rather than later. You're temporarily going to be on cloud nine after banging the coworker, followed by your wife finding out and divorce raping you. Then you will have a falling out with the coworker, turning your workplace to shit. How about if you're going to cheat, find any one of a billion other women to do it with.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:02 PM
2

Regardless of gender or who wronged the other, my initial reaction is to end the relationship. Having a child complicates things, but you have to also consider your own happiness and your husband's propensity to repeat. He's an idiot - an idiot for cheating, an idiot for failing to snag someone on Tinder, and an idiot for paying a hooker (especially when he was already financially in a bad spot).
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:03 PM
3

I'm trying to convince my dad to get me a Mercedes Dude, be humble and gracious for what you have. You're going to school for free to start a career that will set you up. Who cares what other people think of you? I actually find this funny, because after I graduated with my bachelor's I was looking into taking the LSAT. I did a lot of research on schools, programs, etc. and they all said that if you're getting a J.D. you aren't even allowed to work more than 20 hours per week due to the rigors o…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:09 PM
3

Just like finding clothes that fit and you feel good wearing, you should look for glasses that check the same boxes. I recently got a pair of glasses after not wearing my last pair for a good 7-8 years. I just didn't like them anymore and could see decently fine without them. I went online to Warby Parker. They have a try-on program where you pick 5 frames, they mail them to you to try on, and you mail them back - all for free. It depends on what look you're going for. If you just want to look l…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:55 PM
3

Do you have any of these communications with John in writing? Via text, email, etc? I would compile all of this information and present it to your professor, proving that you did in fact participate up until John cancelled everything and went AWOL on you. I would also consider lodging a formal complaint against the professor, and John if you can. In those complaints I would speak to the numerous peer reviews of John over the last two years supporting your disdain for this individual's work ethic…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:49 PM
8

Your logic is pretty stupid. Just break up with her and go no contact. She can't contact you if you block her.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:41 PM
2

Look at what skills that degree will give you. You might not care much about international relations, but if it will make you a better negotiator, give you the ability to work on your executive presence and other boardroom skills then maybe you could translate that to consulting work. Having a degree in a certain field isn't so cut and dry. You can mold it to give you certain advantages over others.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:46 PM
9

Would've fired off a quick text while laying in bed next to her, wait for a reply, then get up and leave. If she asks where you're going, just say you're gonna leave to go see a friend and you'll see her some other time. Betty fucked up, and you gave her the impression you're going to get laid (whether you actually texted another plate or just someone in your contacts who you knew would reply quickly).
/r/askTRP25/03/17 12:29 PM
2

Always a bad idea. Just steer clear, man. Don't put your livelihood at risk.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:19 PM
1

Simple - just never communicate with this wildebeest ever again. Happened to me once, and I should've seen it coming. Girl's tinder profile was nothing but sexual; her bio literally said something like "I'll make you dessert and if you don't like it I'll just give you head." We matched, texted for a while trying to set up plans. She had zero face pics in her profile and she claimed it was because she's a teacher and wants to be super cautious due to the nature of her content. Through text she se…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:14 PM
1

She's not yours, it's just your turn. Maybe it's his turn now. Yours is over, so it shouldn't really matter.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 07:19 PM
1

Atlanta is an awesome city. Growing up here I was determined to move away, but then I took the time to actually explore the city and learn about it. I found all kinds of things to do and there's a ridiculous amount of women. They city is continuously growing and jobs aren't exactly tough to come by. If you can deal with the traffic (2nd worst in the US, 8th worst in the world) then you'll enjoy it.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 07:12 PM
1

I'm thinking you need to come at him with a ridiculous salary request, while also looking at other options because while you love your current job you're never going to grow there.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 07:08 PM
1

Arguably my best friend was made from a study abroad trip. Didn't know the guy before the trip, we step off a plane in a country where few people speak English and we bonded pretty quickly. This was about 7 years ago and we're still tight.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:14 PM
3

Don't take it seriously, make a joke, etc. My LTR after getting a FB message from some guy - "Ohh wow I haven't heard from him in so long. He took me on a super romantic date to this garden." Me - "Let me guess.. then you guys couldn't decide on where to eat" - cue popular Notebook meme/gif about her making a decision LTR - laughs, gets in the shower with me
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:08 PM
1

Bring home one of your younger coworkers and fuck her senseless while your wife kneels at the foot of the bed. Then piss on your wife to assert dominance and hard next.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 12:55 PM
1

Lol dude I'm taking what you said in your post at face value - because the internet. If you don't mean what you say, then don't say it. Blissful ignorance? It's about being able to squash shit and resolve differences. You stopped talking to your brother because your turn ended and he's the one who showed you that truth.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:43 PM
0

Having boundaries and frame is not a negative and nothing I said conveys that. My point being, you're mad your brother exposed your chick. I'm not excusing what he did - just saying he got it out of the way before you wasted more time with her. A woman is never worth holding a grudge over. If you want to be caught up in your feels and pretend you're showing him how much of a man you are by not talking to him then be my guest. I'm just saying over time you're going to look back and regret acting …
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:34 PM
0

I'm really not sure who you're replying to - my comment was directed towards you, not the OP. Your post to the OP can be turned right back around on you - think real hard about what you're willing to sacrifice because of finding out you had some cheap pussy.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:13 PM
2

You should also consider getting over what your brother did to you. If this was the only reason you're not talking to him, that's a pretty shitty reason to just excommunicate your brother from your life. He's your brother. Don't waste the time.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:51 PM
2

After she broke down crying on the phone and professed her love for me, I felt a little bad that I absolutely didn't share those feelings. She was a plate and I was only keeping her around for the sex. Then 2 days later I saw her back on bumble/tinder. I stopped, chuckled, and went back to swiping.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 12:46 PM
1

I don't see an issue doing it on occasion, but don't let the food dictate when you see her. Already have plans in place so it's more of a "since you're coming over, want to bring food too?" situation. It's also fine to tell her you already ate and you're not bringing her food. I will say I had one plate who would regularly bring me Chipotle. I got it to become routine, where if she was coming over she already knew my order and would bring it without really asking.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:16 PM
1

I don't know what's in the water out there in Texas, but as a non-married non-Texas resident I'm a fan.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:24 PM
2

I know the company she works for and I do know her job is not insurance related.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:02 PM
1

It sounds like you attend BYU and you're not Mormon. Maybe go to one of a million other schools in the US instead and do whatever you want without people looking at you crazy.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:38 PM
1

Look at who you know and see if they're able to help place you or get you in conversations with people who are in the position to hire. I would also consider looking at your school for career placement help, look at career fairs held at your school, etc.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 08:17 PM
6

Lmao I was like ESKIMO BROTHERS both on TRP!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:21 PM
5

I'm not Marcus, but she is a white brunette. She's from Texas, not sure of her exact profession. I know who she works for and some of her other cities but I'm not trying to out her on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:54 PM
5

This is a really great and thorough guide but like you said - it's a minefield. Is navigating this minefield worth the potential misstep which could lead to your termination? That, to me, is the biggest question you have to ask yourself. It's not so much wracking your brain to figure out if she's into you or anything on that level. It's whether you have a backup plan to earning an income if shit hits the fan.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:20 PM
1

My company has many inclusionary practices, including that of the advancement of women. We have a Professional Women's Network which focuses on that and we have a number of women in incredibly high places doing a great job of running their ships. I attended an event today celebrating International Women's Day (which was last week) and a common theme coming from both the men and women leaders on the panel was the importance of male sponsorship. We fully recognize that programs and ideologies whic…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:59 PM
14

I slept with a married woman whose man still has no idea. She travels for work and has a different guy in the cities she travels to most regularly. I would be kidding myself if I thought I was her only one even in my own city. They're on a path to divorce because she loathes how little of a man he truly is, but he still believes she's been faithful - outside of the time he found her in bed with her friend (another woman). This woman is a freak. She sounds a lot like the girl you almost wife'd.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:41 PM
1

The girl I'm seeing plays this game where she's like "tell me 3 things you like about me" or something similar. I might tell her one, but then I tell her I can't let her head get too big and slap her ass. She gets a little bit of the validation she's seeking but I keep it in check.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 02:13 PM
1

Spend some time outside in nature. Seriously, there have been studies suggesting it's good for your health to just be out there taking it all in.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:37 AM
3

Game other women - it's the easiest way to just completely forget you viewed this one differently than the rest Don't shit where you eat - seriously, never approach her for as long as you work together
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:57 PM
3

Do what makes you happy, and if a 21-year-old 8 or 9 isn't it then change it up. But from this one solidary post it sounds like she's pretty dope.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:24 PM
1

Yeah if it's only his place his witness needs to be a cop/sheriff.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:32 PM
2

/thread
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:58 PM
1

you have a serious case of resting bitch face
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:36 PM
1

Well that blows then. The power of networking and building relationships cannot be understated. If you have anyone you could call on to help with something like this you should do it.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:24 PM
1

This might sound extreme, but hear me out. When I was heading into my final semester of school I got a notice I was no longer eligible for financial aid without a waiver. It required me to write in great detail all this information to appeal and I was required to get letters of recommendation. I had one professor who I came to respect a great deal and the respect was mutual. He was an adjunct professor so teaching was just kind of a side thing for him. His real job carried some serious clout. He…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:08 PM
2

I think if there's any possibility of you setting up a meeting with the people who will make the decision you absolutely must do it. To stand before them and explain your actions - whether it just be admitting immaturity and asking for a second chance now that you understand the full consequences or something else - SHOULD go a long way in swaying their decision. Like Mudpielol said, take responsibility for your actions. If you can show the powers that be that you want to do this, rather than yo…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 01:57 PM
9

Become a battle rapper. Everyone knows that your cred in high school is molded by the bars you spit in the lunchroom. Get your best friend to back you up with the beat. Two No. 2's should do the trick. Good luck, and Godspeed.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:14 PM
1

$200 on dinner/drinks - you're doing this shit without getting laid. You're clearly not introducing the correct kind of dread. You've said everything you do she is oblivious to. Stop spending money on her. And fix your shit. Like this other guy said, you're blowing money.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 06:59 PM
1

I can respect your demeanor but something that will come with age and experience is understanding how to navigate workplace politics. I think you should absolutely look for another job, but also consider that better paying jobs sometimes require you to be at least 18 years old. So don't get something and become complacent. Always keep your eyes open to something offering more money or better skill development.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 06:42 PM
3

The very first week your hours were reduced you should've considered a new job. Here's how you can gauge whether you're valued there - are they giving other people in your position the same number of hours or are they getting more?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:49 PM
2

If you're always escalating there's only so many dates you can go on before escalating either leads to sex or her shutting you down. Seems to me like 3 is a pretty good indicator. Met girl out for dinner/drinks on my way to a party. Offered for her to join me but she declined. Kissed. Met girl out for dinner, she was late and paid for everything. Not close to either of our places and it was late on a weeknight. Made out in her car. Invited girl over to my place on a Friday night. Dinner, Netflix…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:33 PM
1

I'm in my late twenties and just graduated with a communications/PR degree. I thought I knew what I wanted to do out of high school but I ended up changing my mind many, many times. I even tried to join the Marines and couldn't do that due to a pre-existing injury. Basically, my early twenties was a big "What the fuck am I doing with my life" stage. I landed a job this year at a Big Four accounting firm handling their internal communications for our region. The job is great, the company is great…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:44 PM
2

I mean I basically do this for work but it can easily apply to personal life. I find writing things down helps me to organize my thoughts and definitely prioritize things. Cheers, man - and good luck with everything.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:58 PM
2

The one thing I don't understand with guys is the idea of gaming a girl in a relationship and thinking she will leave that for you. Are you so conceited that you can't identify the fatal flaw here? If she's willing to go behind her LTR's back to mess with you, she will be willing to go behind your back in time as well. But by all means, keep trying. I'm sure in a few more months time she'll finally branch swing.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:11 PM
3

I'm also fucking my hairdresser. Fucked her first, now free haircuts.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:07 PM
2

Make SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, timely) and hold yourself to them. Goal 1 would probably be applying for jobs - but it can't be that vague. Goal: Apply for 20 jobs (be specific) in X field/industry by the end of March. It's specific because you're telling yourself you want to apply for a certain type of job, it's measurable because you're able to quantify how many jobs you're applying for, it's attainable because you can find 20 jobs to apply for, it's realistic be…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 04:54 PM
1

Just tell her to come over and escalate if she shows up. If she can't and offers no alternative date - next. If she can't but offers an alternative date/time, see if she follows through. If she doesn't follow through - next.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:51 PM
1

It's your fault for being able to game the girl that he's had his eye on? Don't bring it up to anyone. Your housemates should stay out of it and the only person who should say anything if it's an issue is the other guy. If he's too much of a pussy to talk to you then carry on. He's also been on one date with her, so it's not like there should be any expectation of you backing down.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:47 PM
6

I've had days where I just straight up crash after work. I'll get home, change and lay down for a second, only to wake up 4 hours later. I mean three times in one year doesn't sound that terrible to me. What does she do for work? Does she work long hours, it is an exhausting job? All things to consider. I'd probably just let her know I don't appreciate it. If it's something that you deem awful enough to downgrade, then just do it - but it hardly seems like this is a habitual problem. You said th…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:18 PM
1

This is one of the dumbest threads I've ever read on here. Regardless of the age of consent - your reasoning is that girls your age are slutty. She's going to turn out just like them. AWALT. I really hope this is a troll post, otherwise you're an idiot. The age difference isn't the issue - I'm dating someone almost 6 years younger than myself, but at least she's 24. It's the fact you think she's different and somehow plan on maintaining a relationship with someone this young. Prepare to get burn…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:31 PM
6

"If that's what gets my balls in your mouth."
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:58 PM
1

I think the younger you are, the easier it is to take a "higher risk, high reward" type of job. The main thing would be to ensure you're capable of living off your base salary. Anything else is not guaranteed even though they say "everyone is making 3x this amount". Do what you can to negotiate that base upwards. I have a friend who was leaving a pretty secure job to get into a completely different industry. Her base would've been 10k lower than what she was making, but she negotiated and the co…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:59 PM
1

I did p90x and noticed a difference. Waist size dropped some, I could tell I was more toned, and I felt better. I know for sure I became more flexible and my core was stronger. At the beginning I couldn't get through the yoga session but I was finally able to beat it. Also the ab work was initially a struggle. If anything, it will increase your level of fitness and endurance while working out. If you're unsure about going into a gym, do this at home for 90 days first, build up some confidence an…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:38 PM
5

Team lift to prevent injuries.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:50 PM
3

Because she's a strong, independent woman who don't need no man.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:47 PM
3

Also offer to let her move in immediately.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:42 PM
2

It just sounds like you have no solid direction or concept of your purpose. Start with thinking about what you want to do, then identify the steps needed to make that happen. You need to have a vision and set up goals on how you're going to achieve it. Ensure you make SMART goals (Google it). This doesn't have to be an all-encompassing concept. It could be that your goal is to get back on track in school and graduate by X date with X GPA. Ideally you'll already know which major you're working to…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:39 PM
2

What's been seen cannot be unseen, definitely spared your ass.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:21 PM
2

Good point - in the moment she seemed devastated. Three days later she found me on bumble - an app that wasn't in her phone while we were doing our thing. Forgot to mention that.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:57 PM
1

How long has this been going on? At some point you need to cut your losses, stop wasting your time and put that energy into someone else who will follow through. There was a girl I was talking to for about 2 weeks. Conversation was very sexually driven, basically just sexting at this point. She was always busy - I think I offered to meet about three times in two weeks. We finally met for a drink and she was almost nothing like her photos. I was pissed at how much time I had wasted and knew two t…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:34 PM
2

Man this sounds so much like the last plate I just dropped. Had her for about 4-5 months, she wasn't seeing anyone else while I was still doing my thing. We had "the talk" twice and each time I let her know I wasn't looking for commitment. I could tell it was coming to an end soon, and one night a few weeks ago she confronted me over the phone about how little effort I'm putting in. She confessed her love for me, she was balling, and I was just silent. I already knew it, but in that moment I was…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:09 PM
2

I love watching sports and going nuts when my teams win a big game - but I'm not going to sulk when they lose. I used to watch football religiously and it would take up most of my weekends but I've cut it back considerably. If I'm around when my teams play then I'll watch. I've made a handful of friends just through my football affiliation and maybe 1-2 times we'll get together for a game at a bar. But If the matchup isn't great then I'm fine with checking the score and seeing highlights.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:21 PM
3

Nah man the yelling is no way normal. If that's normal, you've not set the record straight early enough with a girl. My last ex would occasionally start to raise her voice and all I would have to do is look at her a certain way and she would stop. If she was being ridiculous, radio silence. There is nothing acceptable about this at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:13 PM
2

I get emails from Mark Manson and today he wrote about finding your purpose. Also, read up on Simon Sinek. Finding your purpose is more about finding what moves/motivates you, what you're passionate about, what gets you out of bed in the morning. It's something that some people might know from an early age, and for others it might take a number of experiences to derive your purpose. It's about perspective too - like InfiniteAscent said - it's in the journey. Don't view each success, promotion, e…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:56 PM
3

Nope. My ex-wife is already remarried and having a child while I'm killing it in business. Two totally different life paths. If those are her goals right now, then that's great. Wasted energy to worry about what people think - especially your ex.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:28 PM
1

Yeah man, let her bring it up if she wants to talk and read the sidebar so you can anticipate what you want to say. And never discuss it with her friend.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:05 PM
2

Shut the fuck up - do you want to have the talk or does she? Read the sidebar - there is literally a link for this exact topic
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:41 PM
1

Those relationships did not end up being what she wanted - your own words She doesn't want to make the same mistake again - your own words She feels like you're a red flag - based on your own words of what she wants to avoid and what you plan on doing It doesn't show her obedience. It shows she either has nothing to hide or she uses other messaging platforms to talk to people she doesn't want you to see.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 06:33 PM
1

So you think this girl is going to commit to you - a guy from the internet who has openly told her he will be seeing other women even though she doesn't want a man who will do that - a guy whom she has never seen in person - a guy so insecure and controlling that he demands to have access to her messages - a guy with such tunnel vision that he can't even see how many other ways she could continue talking to men and actually having physical contact with them to "relieve her stress"
/r/askTRP28/02/17 05:57 PM
1

She either will contact you back or she wont. In the meantime game other women.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:12 PM
6

You're talking about commitment and a relationship with someone whom you've never actually met in person. Don't you think that's a little much?
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:07 PM
3

Bring your own headphones and use the ride to read or meditate.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:02 PM
4

Sounds like you're just coming here to have us confirm what you're already thinking. The baby is a deal breaker for you but you feel bad about it. You're 25 and not looking to provide for a single mom. Step up your game and avoid that segment of the population entirely.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:00 PM
3

If you try to help him see the light, be prepared to lose his friendship. I'm of the belief that your job as a good/close friend is to speak up for what's best and be that squeaky wheel. He probably won't listen to you and he will probably get angered but that comes with the territory.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:48 PM
3

Until he removes his blue tinted glasses, your friend will inherently be defensive and upset with you when you try to reason with him. Case in point - a pretty close friend of mine never had a girlfriend, and was still a virgin. We're 29, and he was getting incredibly frustrated. He was, and still is, super blue pill. He finally found a girl who was into him, but she was dating someone else at the time. They fooled around - she's cheating on her boyfriend for my friend at this point - so I told …
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:11 PM
5

She's still entertaining him - even if she's saying no - she's still thinking about what could have been What was your reaction to her message telling him he was the one that got away? She's not over him - "This has sucked for 6 months" She might tell you that she absolutely isn't considering getting back with him, but it looks to me like if he got his shit together and showed up she would easily swayed.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:43 PM
5

I second this. Next.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:23 PM
3

Talks all the time Made plans for consecutive nights and then tried to get a 3rd in the same week Says I love you after 3 weeks Yeah, I'd ignore him too.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:45 PM
1

Within the first week of college you're going to be dumbfounded by the sheer volume of drunk girls around you. Your girlfriend will be one of them at her college. This is really all that needs to be said.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:18 PM
1

Some girls are there for the validation, some girls are there to get free meals, and some are there to actually get out and do shit. I'm trying to get a phone number in less than 10 total messages if I can and then making plans. I had one girl try to ask a million questions over text and I'm like hold up, I'm not trying to read your autobiography. Let's meet up Saturday at X place at Y time and have a drink. Just be direct about what you want and they'll more times than not follow your lead. The…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:54 PM
1

She says "I'm fat", you say "Then do something about it" or take another approach and suggest to go hiking or something like that. Ignoring her comments doesn't fix it for you, so make her a little butthurt. Seems like you won't be too upset if she gets pissed and you guys split up.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:45 PM
1

Go back over to RPW and read the stuff in the Introduction area of their sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:07 PM
1

If you're on PC, repurpose it to start up a new hobby. You're likely going to have something with pretty good graphics capabilities, so look into graphic design. You can get an Adobe CreativeCloud account for like $20/month with a .edu email address. Much cheaper than buying the program. Or you could start writing and create a blog. Write about your passions, experiences, just whatever comes to mind. I built a PC to make graphic design a potential side hustle after taking some classes to fill ou…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:05 PM
1

Maintain a small social media presence - this will help you later in life and you can spin it now as being different (you're above all that, you're a forward thinker). Of your 900 FB friends, how many do you actually interact with? It's all bullshit, man. I will sometimes go through and remove friends. I'm down to 500 I think and there's still people I haven't talked to in over a decade. Your concern about your parents setting you up for success, yet hindering your growth is really unwarranted. …
/r/askTRP23/02/17 08:16 PM
2

Maybe read their sidebar?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 08:02 PM
1

I guess it depends on the seriousness of the convo/her question? But I can see where you would make that connection. Just trying to offer something a little different from the typical response. It's got to fit with your approach though. I don't tend to say much, but when I do it's thought out. I had a similar question posed recently and that's kind of how I worded it. She complained I didn't have time except for when it's convenient for me - she asked me to go to an event and I said no because I…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:59 PM
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I try to make time for you as I can - and between advancing my career and constantly trying to be the best version of myself that I can be, there's going to be limitations.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:38 PM
1

Just DO IT
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:32 PM
4

Don't do it. No guarantee that you'll actually get your money back. It's not like you can claim fraud as you're the one initiating the transfer of funds from your own account.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:25 PM
3

One girl I'm seeing asked me what's something that is completely intolerable for a girl to do - and I immediately went back to the transgression that led me to break up with my last LTR. I explained that blatant disrespect and/or flirting in front of me, especially in company, is immediate grounds for losing any trust that had been built and likely never hearing from me. It makes me look weak if I don't take immediate countermeasures, and makes her look like a whore. I'm not going to be pissed o…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:21 PM
1

A good beer. I was talking with my roommate last night about a work function I went to, and I kind of complained about having to drink a Corona. He was like you're such a fucking snob! And it's true. Just like some people prefer a good whiskey I prefer a good beer.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:09 PM
1

I'm of the belief that you need to have a solid foundation, and in the real world more times than not a piece of paper is a requirement. So you could either abandon school and essentially self-teach entrepreneurism, because you're not going to be hired at any place of distinction going this route - or you can do school and have that to fall back on. I think your floor is much higher if you finish school, but no one can tell you what your greatest achievement will be or how high your ceiling is i…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:07 PM
1

Spending months overthinking what on earth my ex-wife wanted me to do in our relationship - so I did more laundry, mopped the floors, basically stopped seeing my friends all in an attempt to make her happy. When she hit me with "I want a divorce" you cannot imagine the amount of absolute rage that built up inside me. It was all wasted effort. I feel like I've come a long way from that time. I'm in much more control and I will always maintain the mindset that I can walk away and be balls deep in …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:02 PM
1

Traditional - yes Normal - that's your own opinion Get over it and pursue something you want. That's how it works. Rejection is far less worse than regret.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:37 PM
3

So rather than wait for someone to approach you - which you said basically never happens - go approach someone on your own. You don't have to wait for a guy to offer you a drink or strike up a conversation. As a white guy who has dated just about every race/ethnicity, I'm not deterred by the color of someone's skin. I don't care what other people may think, it's about what I want. With that said, not everyone is like that. I was a little unsure about going on a date with a black girl for the fir…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:56 PM
1

You said you pull all-nighters - how often do you do this? Are you eating regularly? If you were once on the ball and you've noticed a lack of performance, I would first look at other secondary factors. Maybe it's not the material, but rather how you're taking care of yourself.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 09:20 PM
1

I broke up with my LTR of two years in September - went a few weeks without talking at all and then we hooked up. Kind of repeated this pattern through January. Incredibly similar circumstances. Sex was always great. Since her, I've had always great sex with everyone else I've slept with. I can either deduce that I'm good, or I've gotten incredibly lucky to find awesome lays every single time. And that's what helped me to really break it off with her. I use her for great sex, but I get great sex…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:39 PM
1

Certainly not the case. She was only seeing me in the months I plated her and no one else. She just grew attached and got caught in her feelings.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:55 AM
1

Just check on the vehicle restrictions if you check out Uber. I was a semester away from graduating and the company I worked for refused to work with my school schedule for the 4 months of that semester..So I looked at how many part time jobs I could get and I quit. I signed up to drive with Uber but ended up never having to. I got two jobs and started bar tending for a brewery a few nights a week on a volunteer basis. Made tips and drank for free there. Took 7 classes and graduated. Now I'm mak…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:05 AM
1

I know absolutely nothing on the subject, but like any other industry you'd probably want to gravitate towards the companies/manufacturers which would tend to pay more and look for what's necessary to get in there. You might have to take a step back to take two forward. How do you become ASE certified? Is it worth it? If college isn't your thing, find how you can differentiate yourself in the field you enjoy. That's where I would start. If you like driving look into Uber/Lyft or driving for Amaz…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:41 AM
1

I went out with a STEM girl - chemical engineer to be exact - and we hit it off pretty well. We had some good conversation, a mixture of both intellectual and menial topics. But I apparently didn't do enough. She left for a 3 week work trip and I failed to seal the deal beforehand. Sucks because she was nerdy hot. All I've ever gotten are teachers, hair stylists, etc. and this was the first legitimate change-up from that trend. Thanks for the report. I was really unsure of how to approach simply…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:10 PM
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Anytime man.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:27 PM
2

I do feel a little bad for how it ended, and I sent her a text to just clear the air and wish her well. No hard feelings, she said her feelings get in the way too often and end up leading her to getting hurt. I had been swiping on Bumble a few months ago when I came across her. We were already a thing so I swiped on her for shits and giggles. She knew I was still playing the game but I never told her if/when I was seeing anyone else. The phone notifications told enough of a story. Well last nigh…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:56 PM
1

I want to be able to enjoy doing activities with them, and not be too old. At 35, my career is established and as they grow older I'll only be building more wealth. My parents had me when my dad was 24 and my mom was 21. I played sports growing up and my dad was always actively involved - whether it be coaching the team or in the backyard running drills, playing catch, etc. One of my closest friends has parents who are much older, and his dad was never able to do much of anything like that with …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:46 PM
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Strung along a plate with absolutely bare minimum contact for the last 1-2 months. She would text good morning, how's your day kind of stuff. I'd reply a while later and then silence again. She confronted me about it, saying she knows my phone is always with me. She doesn't appreciate being ignored, etc. I would not apologize, but just tell her I'm busy and can't always reply. I'd read the message but since the notification went away I would sometimes forget. Our routine became that she would co…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:15 PM
1

No offense taken. Why do you think that's the case?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:27 PM
1

She has put in a lot of work to prove her worthiness without me even asking her, so she's giving the impression that this is just normal behavior for her and she will do what she needs to take care of a/her man. Very traditional in that regard. I need to revisit the conversation and have more pointed questions for her to try to understand where her head is at, where it was at, etc. I think it was more stupidity when this happened. I'm one that honestly would rather not know how many sexual partn…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:26 PM
1

I think I need to decide what I actually want in life - do I actually want kids? I've kind of made up my mind that I don't want to have one after 35, so that leaves me about 6 years to find the mother of my potential children. If I decide against it, then that's really not something I'll have to be concerned with and a woman with a career will be exactly what I need. I've got a bit of thinking to do, and everyone here has provided me with some wisdom and food for thought.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:02 PM
1

Very interesting perspective and that second to last point you made is what kind of terrifies me. She's said she doesn't want a "project". She's still seeing me which would logically mean I am not a project. She says she does want children someday. All I can deduce is that if I'm close enough to what her vision is of the father of her children I would be on the hook like you.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:29 AM
1

So you're saying it's a ruse to attract a worthy partner - one which works because she's "different" than the rest. I can dig it. I see where you're coming from with that.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:19 AM
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You make a lot of good points. I don't have a strong opinion on the matter, I guess it's more of the recklessness of the situation that I wonder about. I appreciate that she told me as I can imagine it's not something she just opens up about to everyone, so I'm viewing that conversation as a trust building exercise. We both shared some heavy stuff and it turned into a good conversation about how we've grown since then. But damn, your point about the father being so beta - so unworthy in her eyes…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:02 AM
1

Care to explain? I believe there are women who do have a different mindset, or approach, to dating and what their role is in a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:43 PM
1

I see your point. I don't think you can make the connection of rationalizing an abortion to rationalizing acting poorly towards a partner. While both (bearing a child or maintaining a poor relationship) would have an adverse affect on the person's perceived quality of life - or that which they're trying to achieve - we're talking about two completely different things. Many women make poor relationship decisions or act out against their partners. I'm not justifying it, but I don't think we can ma…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:39 PM
1

Maybe she's done a complete 180, but I just don't see her life being like some Jerry Springer show with total losers. I'm thinking projects like they were still young and in school, it was something fun but not the kind of guy she wanted to be with longterm, etc. I obviously can't go back and ask that dude his side, so all I have to go off of is her story and paying close attention to details over time to see if there's discrepancies. I'm also not trying to play detective and I'm not some insecu…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:31 PM
1

I guess that's why I'm posing this to the sub, because I'm finding myself looking at it in terms of scoring the pros and cons. There's tons of pros to this girl. The only cons I've identified thus far are the abortion and her propensity to smoke cigarettes when out drinking with her friends. I never would have known she smokes had I not gone out with them last weekend. She asked me first if it was OK and I said it's fine, so she smoked maybe 2-3 cigs while we all drank on a patio for a while. It…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:21 PM
2

From my position I don't have all of the details - just enough for me to form a decent opinion for myself. With that said I completely appreciate your position. To answer a few of your questions, I don't know if she was in fact on birth control at the time this happened. She said after this incident she went on some crazy strong birth control that fucked up her hormones and so she went to a more normal version a little while later. From her description of past boyfriends being "projects" I gathe…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:39 PM
1

Good point. Granted, if she were I would not be talking to her at all.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:20 PM
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Seeing a girl with a fat ass. Slap it often. Leave it red. She enjoys it.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 06:10 PM
1

The only thing I would offer up is to eventually tell her you're tired of hearing her complain about this guy. You don't bring your problems to her, time for her to fall in line. Then she can just go back to complaining to her girlfriends about him.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:38 PM
2

Blue suit and brown shoes/belt are my go to when I've got to dress up a bit. It just cannot be beat. Blue/red socks, red tie and white textured shirt. Game over. This list is great for anyone, especially out of college. I'm 29 and looking at this like yep, that's me. Except I iron everything.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:50 PM
1

Don't go too far to be something you're not - they'll see through it. You have to be believable.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:31 PM
1

The term "unicorn" was coined because they don't exist. It's only been 6 months and you've seen her at convenient times (i.e. you're not currently living together). I can absolutely guarantee your outlook will change some if/when you sign the lease.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:26 PM
1

Lose your ex's number and block her entirely on all social media platforms.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:24 PM
2

This - I went through 8 interviews to get my position.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:49 PM
2

I'm on the same page about complete omission - I would want to know too. Don't need a lot of details, but let me know it happened. I think the completely non-serious nature of my recent "relationships", if you will, has me being more calculated with her. I've gone from spinning plates to saying "hmm, this one has many qualities I'm looking for. I actually like her." So I'm wanting to use this as a way to build trust by letting her in, not break it by waiting too long.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:29 PM
1

I'll remember that next time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:23 PM
2

Thanks! It's something that I feel is important to mention and obviously that's something she would want to know as well. I don't talk down about my ex - are there things that rubbed me the wrong way? Sure there are. But I've grown from it. I think the biggest thing is just having that conversation and being able to show that I'm not resentful, not hung up on it and I don't have some terrible baggage from it. I agree - finding a good "in" will make it an easier admission.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:22 PM
1

Thanks for the response man. I mean yeah, that's ultimately how I will explain it because that's the truth - we were dating for a while, got married pretty young and we realized after a short while that we had very different goals, ambitions, etc. First date seems so soon, I just don't even know how you weave that into a conversation lol. We're past the whole first/second date thing - she will stay over on a work night, starting to introduce to each other's friends, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 04:13 PM
1

How many times are you going to ask essentially the same question?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:53 PM
5

Savage.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:53 PM
1

I've been hooking up with my ex kind of on and off again for the past few months, and almost weekly since moving into my new place. It was fine for a while, but since moving I've found myself having more time with a shorter commute and able to meet more women. She's now getting in the way - calling at 2 am when I'm laid up with someone else. I'd rather not be quizzed on why that call is coming in, so I told her yesterday that it has to stop and that was it. I've known all along that getting back…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:27 PM
2

It's useful to at least be up on current events or know what the headlines are. There are email services which will shoot you a list of stories for you to read based on interests, industries, etc. You could sign up for that and at a minimum read the headlines to know a little bit of what's going on without actually reading the full articles. You can do this on the go, walking into your office in the morning, etc.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:13 PM
2

Nope, come see it in person. If she's engaging you in some hot convo, then escalate it to getting together and acting upon it.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:38 PM
1

I think the others are missing the point that you've been going to college for some time now (at least that's what you said). I have two pieces of advice based on my own experiences in this same matter. Have a plan either way - if you continue school, figure out your end game and give everything you have to getting there and graduating. If you want to stop, have a plan for how you're going to support yourself. Your parents are likely wanting you to continue school because it's been proven to inc…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:31 PM
1

There is absolutely nothing for you to gain at this point by leaking information, and your satisfaction will be temporary. Focus on your new job and make that opportunity the best you can. Same goes for if this was a woman - she wasn't putting out enough so you dropped her and found a younger, sexier one who gives you all the sex you want. Would you spend your time talking shit about her or would you be too busy being balls deep in the new one?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:27 PM
1

It could start a paper trail, or if it was big enough I would imagine there's an opportunity for you to just bite the dust. Maintaining trust is one of the biggest things you can do. If you lose someone's trust, they wont go to you for new ideas, new work, etc. They'll find someone else to rely on. Just do your job, meet deadlines and if you can't, be completely transparent as to why, do it early enough so the team can adjust, and set a deadline for when you do expect to complete it. Depending o…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 07:22 PM
1

It's absolutely recognized by upper levels. I work directly with some of the most influential people in our region simply because I've made them look good in the past. People hear about this success and begin to put a face with the name and the work. So it's a bit of both, but just casually walking down the hall and having a quick chat with a service line leader or managing partner turns heads. People ask how you built that relationship and it's inherently clear that there's a bit of jealousy.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 07:18 PM
1

It really depends on what your work entails. I work for a Big 4, full of Type A's and we're constantly go, go, go. If you miss something and fall behind, it could ultimately affect the bigger picture (you miss a deliverable to a client, the partner isn't prepared, your brand takes a hit in the client's eyes). Let's say you're working to win the client's business and you miss something - it could keep you from winning business worth thousands/millions in revenue. Don't be that guy. 2 and 3 will d…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 07:11 PM
1

What degree are you pursuing which requires you to participate in such witchcraft? I would've looked at taking the other two degree requirements - tuition for one additional class can't be more than a few hundred bucks.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:57 PM
3

The onus was on me to complete the assignment and I dropped the ball. Missing one thing could be a big deal on a project in your work environment, and that's the mindset I carried all semester. It's business, but part of business is building relationships. I did that, enabling me an opportunity to turn in this assignment late, but I still didn't deliver. I see your point, but at the same time I wouldn't expect to be rated highly in my year-end review if I was not completing work or missing deadl…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:48 PM
2

I guess it depends on the type of classroom environment, but I really didn't witness this at all. In my senior capstone I was the project manager for my group of 5. I was the one meeting the deadlines for group assignments, I was the one in constant communication with our professor, and I was the one keeping everyone on track - because I signed up for it from the beginning. The only way our professor knew the rest of our group did jack shit was from peer reviews, but she always saw me as the one…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:09 PM
2

I actually told my plate at the beginning I wasn't looking for just sex. Over the last few months I've engaged in conversation with her less, we've gone out less, and it's become very much about sex and nothing else. She wants more, but knows I'm not looking to commit at all. She has just simply accepted our current state for the time being.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:32 PM
1

I'm on reddit, one of my best friends is also on reddit. We would talk about women/relationships and he mentioned TRP. I looked it up, found a lot of things I was already starting to see for myself and now it's just part of the conversations we have. I think it obviously takes someone unplugged and someone at least semi-unplugged for the conversation to evolve like that. We've both had the same convo with a 3rd party who is ultra-blue pill and it goes in one ear and out the other, to the point w…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:41 PM
1

My great-grandfather lifted by stuffing books into luggage. You don't need weights to get around lifting. Find other exercises which rely more on body weight, or save a little bit each day/week to pick up some free weights over time.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:05 PM
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after posting this I then read the bottom She wants to cook and clean for you, yet she doesn't want to do that now. She has been making some improvements, but it isn't where you'd like it to be. You've been together 3 years, and she has yet to provide some substantial value to your relationship. She never wanted to give you more than 50% but now she's expecting you to give 100% to support the two of you. Sounds like you need to make the move solo. I really don't see what she is actually bringing…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:50 PM
1

Just ghost her. Block her number, delete/block her from social media if she's on there. You don't have to communicate the things you don't like or that you want to stop seeing her, just stop.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:38 PM
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Why don't you get him to chat about this over a beer. You're pretty close with him, so just ask about what their plans are. Where do they see themselves in a few years, have they talked about her plans - is she going to school, going to stay at home, get a job, etc. You should be able to get some info from him without immediately just raising red flags. Once you get him talking about these things, THEN you could dig deeper. If they don't have long term plans, I would immediately bring that up. I…
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:33 PM
1

True story, should I tag our other Reddit friend who is still the poster child for blue pill life?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:02 AM
2

Man, that's one long as fuck sentence. I never claimed it to be a feat. I actually even said the post isn't really about the act, but what I learned. I'm in total agreement there's more to life than getting pussy, but there's also more to it than money, investments (really the same thing), and overall health. Preaching about a cheater always being a cheater is like saying the sky is blue. I don't really see your point, unless you think I'm trying to actually lock her down which would just be dow…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:15 AM
1

I definitely get what you're saying, but: I don't feel great about it because I once owned the lack of perspective her husband has - I'm doing everything I can, things are good .. right? While she's out not giving a fuck. Not saying my ex did this, also not saying she didn't In no way do I feel like my turn is the reason for her wanting a divorce. She has slept with a woman before we hooked up, and I'm sure other guys. She deleted Tinder when she flew back home so it sat on 5 miles away from me …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:48 PM
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Is it not plausible that when he created his account 2 months ago he found TRP, has been reading up on some things and after having an "aha" moment decided to make his first post? This is not unlike a number of other posts from people who have been around the sub for a while. Let the man speak.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:50 PM
1

Is it going to be a question as to whether or not you, personally, should quit playing? - asktrp Or is it going to be a piece explaining why not playing video games is a good idea? - trp
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:32 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:25 PM
4

Don't mention your lack of experience. Incorporate their kinks into your conversation, get them worked up by talking about what they like and you can learn from that.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:22 PM
1

I will wear gym clothes to the grocery store, but that's if it's late at night or I've come from/going to an activity which requires it. You're not going to find me dressed like that at 1pm on a Sunday.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:15 PM
1

Go for it. If you're worried about backlash, don't dress it up as a "date" but rather just ask if she wants to grab a drink or go do something. You were already going to go do that something, you're just asking her to tag along and escalate from there. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. There are also plenty of other women to game if she doesn't take kindly to your advances. Now if she worked with you, I would say no. Since she doesn't, all systems go.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:00 PM
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It's going to fuck with your dating game because you're going to go out with one thing in the back of your mind - "well if it doesn't work out I can always go back and still get laid pretty easily." Trust me man, you're doing yourself a disservice. I was married for two years, we split and I never spoke to her again outside of occasional texts to follow up and get her to follow through with her shit from our agreement. I'm occasionally fucking my most recent ex-LTR and while it's great, I do hav…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 11:54 PM
12

She left you once for something that wasn't even real, and she will do it again. She realized she screwed up, saw you rising and took advantage of your kindness with her vagina - to the point where you let her move in? Now she's killing everything you've done to better yourself. You do realize she is completely using you until she finds the next one, right? What everyone is saying holds merit. It's like she's branch swinging (meets new guy), goes to grab the next branch (divorce), it breaks and …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 09:00 PM
3

I guess you could say that I have in a sense. Broke it off with my LTR of 2 years. Over the last few months we've gone from no contact to FWB to no contact to FWB again. I can't really say that I've honestly done anything extraordinary to make this happen. I held frame in dealing with her transgressions and letting her know why I broke up with her. I was the one initiating the radio silence periods when she would get out of line or say something retarded. We are both out dating others and gettin…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:24 PM
9

TIL that being alpha means you are too cheap to pay bus fare.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 08:26 PM
2

Thanks man. I learned a lot from that train wreck but we had nothing so it was the easiest divorce ever (literally no kids, no house, no wealth to divide - we split up some furniture and went 50/50 on our wedding gifts). It's been over 2 years since that divorce and I've just recently come across TRP, but in that time I was still starting to question things before a buddy introduced me here. Good luck to you and see it through to the end. Everything else will fall in place.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 11:43 PM
1

I graduated at 28. I changed my major multiple times, stopped going so I wasn't wasting money while I tried to figure things out, and worked a full-time potential career starting job. I got married young and supported us while she finished school, she ended up getting a BS job making under 20k so our plan was never reciprocated and we eventually divorced. I used my job's tuition reimbursement benefits to finish school and ultimately get a job 10x better once I got my degree. Stop focusing on wom…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 09:27 PM
2

A good game plan would be to treat her like any other person. My first plate since leaving an LTR a few months ago happens to be black. I was actually expecting very different reactions from a lot of people, especially if we went out to grab some food or whatever. Not once have I encountered someone making a remark about race and it threw me off. I was expecting the worst from people but it's changed my perspective on strangers a bit.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:32 PM
24

This guy is either completely full of shit, an asshole, or both.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 08:07 PM
5

I might, depending on how interested I am. But in this case she lied to me and had to know I was in a position to find out the truth. Maybe other men would let that slide, but I have some self respect.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:08 PM
6

I made plans to go out of town this past weekend with 3 other friends, one being a girl I was mildly interested in. We made plans for a few days prior to go out just the two of us. She cancels on me a few hours before we were supposed to go out, citing being sick. We have mutual friends and I heard from 1-2 people she wasn't really sick, so that was it for me. No other chances. She called me 3 days later to see if I wanted to grab a drink after work. Nope, I'm busy but you have fun. Paid her zer…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 08:39 PM
2

I have to completely disagree with your logic. It might simply be that my corporate job is different based solely on company values, but I've found the exact opposite to be true. I'm in a non-client facing position at a big-4 accounting firm. It's pretty fucking sweet. I put in my 40-50 hours each week, absolutely bust my ass while I'm there and do whatever I want outside of work. Occasionally I take my work home, sometimes I'll wake up and dedicate a few hours on a Sunday morning, but nothing o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:24 PM
2

Making my way there now..
/r/askTRP08/12/16 09:51 PM
1

Went home to see some family for a weekend once, matched a girl on tinder so we went out for drinks the night before I was flying back. Had a few beers, went back to her place, scored. She started talking about how she's adopted, was addicted to cocaine for a while..whole life story. She starts trying to make plans to come visit me and go on vacations...I'm like woah girl slow your roll here... She's a hairdresser. Hot-Crazy Matrix is totally spot on.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 09:50 PM
3

In the very early going I told her I'm not looking for anything serious and had just recently left a relationship. For the most part she has accepted this, but occasionally will mention escalating things. I deflect it and up until now it was never anything. Whatever was said this past Saturday at that party set this in motion. And for the most part I have been honest in anything I do or say. I know it would've been an issue had I told her I had a date on Saturday. I originally was moving furnitu…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:32 AM
2

Always keep your firearm aimed downrange. Go ahead and brush up on range rules/general firearm safety before you go.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 10:01 PM
1

That interval of time is a great point. She said I'm a really great guy and she doesn't want to ruin a good thing by being pushy, understanding that I need time to do what I want to do. She opened up a bit and mentioned some things about her past relationships that gave me pause (one boyfriend admitted he stayed with her for a while because he felt bad for breaking up; another one was emotionally abusive; she has been on anti-depressants in the past). Everyone has baggage, some people carry thei…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:22 PM
1

My ex would try this and I took a completely different stance compared to the top rated comment. She would suggest it and I would very bluntly say something along the lines of "Well who is that ultimately going to hurt? Sex is pretty much what you're bringing to the table in this relationship, so if you're going to withhold it why would we remain together?" To me that's kind of a dread tactic in that no matter how she feels about my game with other women, I'm saying to her face that I am willing…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:28 PM
3

And that's kind of the direction I took - while being direct about not wanting it now. I told her it sounds like we're just at different stages right now (she's been out of a relationship for about 2 years; me for about 3-4 months). I tried to frame it as "I need more time before I consider that with you, or anyone for that matter." She started talking about being compared to other women and I'm like no, that's not what I'm doing. I'm not using any one person as a stopgap until I find something …
/r/askTRP07/12/16 04:29 PM
4

thx bby
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:48 PM
7

If you don't like how you feel, or how you're viewed when around those people then why continue to hang out with them? You don't have to remain friends with everyone you've ever known. I have very few friends remaining from grade school and high school because I simply don't run in the same social circles they do and I chose to do other things with my life. I have maybe 3 close college friends remaining, but we are as tight as it gets. Personally, I think it's easier to handpick only those who y…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:37 PM
3

You should probably do something to get out that pent up aggression. I don't really understand why you'd expect to hear from her after you went off on her like that. You went on two coffee dates and you wanted to LTR her?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:48 PM
6

I fucked my ex last month and she complained that it was too good, literally saying I'm ruining her because she won't find someone else who does her like I do. Fast forward to yesterday and we were chatting. A picture from a trip we took 2 years ago came up on her timehop and she commented how we were so wild. We went to a football game and fucked in my car while people were tailgating around us. She was like I don't know if I've got that in me anymore I'd be too paranoid. I asked "did you ever …
/r/askTRP23/11/16 12:36 PM
1

Your work goals and life goals are not compatible. Fuck all the rest of whatever you said. You have a generic associates degree You have no work experience to set you apart from anyone with an actual bachelor's degree You want a job which will support you yet you don't want to worry about it once you clock out (not salaried) Your income goal of 30-40k is easily achieved without a degree of any kind Smoke weed, play video games - sure you can do that Travel - no, you won't really be able to do th…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 07:18 PM
1

I have one girl who hasn't straight up asked, but she's seen my phone when I text someone and there's a handful on women's names in there. She's seen the Tinder/Bumble match/message notifications. We'll be talking casually about our week when we usually figure out when the next time will be that we hang out. She consistently says "well you're the social one who's always busy so it's all up to your schedule." It's only half true, I'm not out all the time but I do only see her once or twice a week…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 08:34 PM
1

How did she even get the position to begin with? If she's that incompetent, you'd think some of that would have come out in the interviews, or maybe you all need to reevaluate your interview process while you're at it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 09:24 PM
2

I'd be happy to shoot you an email with the template. I've had a few others show interest and I'll mention it here like I've told them - without Adobe InDesign it'll pretty much be useless to you. I can convert it to a PDF and if you have a PDF editor (not just a reader) then you might be able to make it work, but you won't have all of the same fonts and design elements at your disposal. I think the cool thing about the infographic is being able to tell a story or share information without words…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:41 PM
1

Ummm, yep you pretty much nailed it.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:12 AM
2

It started with taking a digital publication design class as an elective for my PR degree. I knew working in the digital space is important in the field, so not taking a class like that was going to be limiting. I learned InDesign and Photoshop - which are the programs I used to create mine. I took inspiration from this resume specifically, but made some changes. A few things I specifically wanted to incorporate included: 2 to 3 different fonts rather than relying on standard, bold, and italics …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 04:25 PM
1

Lmao there's one girl he claims was snap chatting him and trying to get him to come through. He pussied out to hang with this other girl I mentioned. I'm like dude, give me her number I'll come through for her 😂
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:26 AM
2

I experienced the cheating you mentioned first hand, and it played out exactly like you said. I actually wrote about it here not long ago. She told me she was married as I was leaving. I thought long about it, but I really don't have remorse for my part in that. Karma can come back to bite me, it's alright. It was short lived (she was only here on business twice and isn't slated to ever come back, so that's done). But thank you for validating my point to him. He's unable to look that far in adva…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 06:47 PM
6

Come up with a story and who cares if it's 100% accurate. If it makes sense and shows you're putting in work to plan your next move then you're set. I moved home last year to finish my degree more quickly. I left my decent paying job, knowing I would do better. Not only did I do better, I doubled my previous salary and work downtown in a high profile area. I plan things closer to where these women live/area where they want to go, man up and drive. They don't want to come back to my side of town …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:47 PM
5

Came here to say this. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:30 PM
1

I appreciate it! Really just starting to dive in and kind of start a new life here in the last few months. Sharing experiences is less about gloating and more about being thankful for affirmation and openly accepting those who challenge my train of thought. I'll certainly have more to come.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:24 AM
2

You validated my point, but also called it bullshit. Doesn't really make sense. Let him re-evaluate his options, but he shouldn't be mad at her for trying to respect her parents' home and their religion.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:32 PM
1

Wrong sub You should be able to last 21 days without sex. You're being selfish and you should learn how to respect your girlfriend on issues that are important to her. It's not the end of the world or a relationship altering situation.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:10 PM
2

Not saying it's impossible to have an abundance mentality in a LTR. It's still possible to flirt with women, even in front of your LTR, and it be acceptable. Your actions suggest, especially to your LTR, that you're not committed to the LTR - not that you're not interested. Everyone knows what Tinder is for, and your messages to these women confirm you are also aware.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:45 PM
2

That's a good point about keeping a separate wallet. I have a few, so I could easily do this. She was actually pretty cautious as well the first time we met. A gay coworker was with her at the bar when I arrived. I introduced myself to him first, then her. I ensured to hold a conversation with this guy and show him I am a normal dude lol. We all drank a beer, ordered another round and he left after that one.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:40 PM
1

You're doing that on your own by committing to someone in a LTR. What don't you understand about that? Unless it's understood that you're going to still chat up other women, she's going to expect you're not. Sounds like you don't want to be in this relationship.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:56 PM
1

Seriously, I thought that was pretty funny. Not only that, but I doubt I'll ever see her again as her training/work in my city is done so she won't be coming back.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 03:06 PM
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This is my biggest issue. Half of the people in this equation who are supposed to be supporting him are taking her side, and for what reason other than she's an emotional wreck?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 02:23 PM
3

A) A beer dinner is typically a prix fixe menu at a restaurant where a brewery supplies certain beers to be paired with the meal. In this case, it was a four course meal with four beers to compliment the dishes. It was dope. B) In this specific case I used it as a way to tell her I'm actually pretty busy. We were establishing pretty quickly that this wasn't a typical date with her first comment about needing to meet up, so I went with the angle of "why should I spend my time with you when I alre…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:28 PM
2

I agree with you on that. I took it as he does all of these things because he's always trying so hard to make her happy, when all she wants is for a man to tell her to do it instead. Those are just things she specifically named when explaining why she's unhappy at home.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 02:16 PM
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Just to entertain you, how would you suggest I go about informing him? Create a fake facebook account and tell him there? I'm not interested in outing my own identity to the guy, so I'm not going to casually message him about his wife sleeping around.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 12:48 PM
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That's not my place. While it would be really easy for me to do so and verify my claims of her cheating, that's not for me to do. It may very well come out from her sister or friends and those are the people who should speak up, if anyone is to do it. They're actively living in her lie, I was just a way for her to get off while she was out of town. I'm not interested in getting dragged into that.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:55 AM
3

I feel like I'm fairly good looking, and I think she is otherwise I wouldn't have swiped on her. She's a few months older than myself, 29 and 28 respectively.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:15 AM
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My first thoughts as well. I actually left my cards and cash, only bringing my lowest balance card and ID. I brought my knife I carry daily, and also informed a buddy of my whereabouts and what was going down. I told him if he didn't hear from my by X time that something was wrong. It felt weird at first, but after a bit of talking I felt better about it. I was still pretty cautious though.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:13 AM
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Maybe there's a bit of misconception from my story, but my involvement in this was definitely because I just wanted to. I didn't know she was married to begin with, so once she told me I had a choice to make. It had already happened once, and like you said she was going to do it regardless. My comments about her husband are simply from the conversation we had. To me it sounded like things had changed over time. People change, relationships change, and not always for the better. She wasn't "in lo…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:10 AM
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Honestly all of this is really part of my personality, it's who i am. I analyze things, I think before I speak and generally don't just jump right into something I could certainly regret or that could hurt my image. It worked out nicely here and it feels great.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 03:58 AM
1

My ex's music taste was awful. She's commented that multiple guys think it's cool because she knows of artist xyz. See also: fantasy football, cool restaurants/bars, craft beer.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:23 PM
2

You're welcome to give it a go, lmao. I suppose you're right, I've just never encountered one so I didn't really consider that.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:05 PM
2

Yeah I so wanted to lay it all out there, but I wasn't going to volunteer it. I wanted for her mom to engage and ask for it. I'm not the type to go all out and make a situation even more fucked, and I stayed in the position of releasing minimal detail. You're right, she doesn't deserve any of that. I really wanted to make it clear that irreparable harm has been caused by her comments while remaining tactful and honest. That's been my stance over the last few days with anyone I've spoken with. Ju…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:53 PM
3

I was super beta, married young to the first girl I ever dated and we divorced less than two years in. That relationship left me angry, determined that I wouldn't let another woman literally control my life. Shortly thereafter I jumped into another LTR but it was different. I didn't take shit from her and she understood her place within the relationship. I broke it off as I did not see it panning out, and now I'm close to two months single. In this time I started reading into TRP thanks to a fri…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:12 PM
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From a financial aspect here's what happens to you - you move in with her to a place you can both afford together. Her new man comes through and she bounces, leaving you with double the rent you anticipated. Never rely on a woman to rent share with you. Have your own place secured and let her move in if you really want that. Reduce your financial risk, don't do this OP.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:29 PM
0

The main point I gather from this is your need to value self-worth through the happiness and contentment of another person, who in your many examples has never met you half way.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 04:03 PM
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