Serious with a taken bird

Gogo4u · 2017-03-06T15:15:49+00:00

I'm new to TRP

I'm a natural Machiavellian

way beyond that of an average alpha. I don't lift

We've been seeing each other for couple of months now, I haven't fucked her but we've made out couple of times

but today for some reason she has turned stone cold.

I think after our talks last week I really made her realize/open up

while I'm as serious as I've ever been

Delusional. You have oneitis for a taken girl and you're head is too far up your own ass to see it. You've been 'seeing her' for months and she's still not with you? There's a reason for it. Do some honest, objective introspection and see what you find.

RedSkeller · 2017-03-06T14:43:25+00:00

So you have a monkey trying to branch swing and you want it in your tree, hoping it won't do the exact same thing to you? With that being said, I'm curious as to how subtle you made it that you were seeing other women, because if you did it in a way that sounded insecure - which often times it does, women will notice this and run off in the other direction. However, I don't think that is what happened here. It sounds like she is trying to branch swing but there was talk about emotions and it became more than a 'oops I fell on his cock' sort of situation so she grew distant. I suggest you do the same, and when she comes back this time, you need to fuck her otherwise you are wasting your time. I mean the last time you should've gotten this invested over a few make out shesh's is in middle school.

EnterDiscourse · 2017-03-06T15:09:35+00:00

made her build strong feelings towards me

I think after our talks last week I really made her realize/open up

This is where you've fucked up. It's subtle, but very important. It's the reason she "turned stone cold."

She was looking to branch swing. She was testing the waters with you. She was looking to she if you have an abundant, confident, fun & lighthearted mindset. You may have passed the first two, but the gravity of the situation is why she dried up.

From your statements above, you're carrying a monogamy-as-goal mindset. As you've stated, you "want to take her away for good." The pressure is there from your side and things turned oh so serious. And you know who pick up on that seriousness very, very quickly? Women.

Girls just want to have fun. Despite the bullshit they all say about wanting a guy who cares, and wanting a man who get's them, they don't really. They want a guy who makes them laugh, has a great time with them, but ultimately doesn't need or make any indication he's pushing for "more." The want the guy who's so awesome, he doesn't need to take anyone away, because he has plenty of girls (presumably) lining up to suck his dick.

You can never "make" a girl do anything. What you can control is your own mindset and expectations from yourself. Monogamy should never be the goal. "This one girl..." thoughts should never persist in your mind. Be the guy that has a great and fun life and would fight to keep his independence and non-exclusivity.

Because this is the guy girls leave their boyfriends for anyways.

topapito · 2017-03-06T16:14:44+00:00

Lots of red flags here:

I think my confidence is way beyond that of an average alpha

Yes, also unfounded

We've been seeing each other for couple of months now, I haven't fucked her but we've made out couple of times

This is anything but the work of an alpha

while I'm as serious as I've ever been

You sure you're alpha?

she still has feelings for her bf, but I can get in between that I'm a natural Machiavellian

Man, you've got a lot of sidebar reading to do. Part of the problem in thinking that you know everything is the fact that you cease to learn. You've already declared yourself an alpha, so now you don't think you have anything else to learn.

Your whole post is an indication that you are a masked blue piller. You haven't even looked at the sidebar.

There is no redpill answer to your question. First, two months and haven't fucked. She's not into you and you are orbiting her. In your delusion, you think you're going to take her away from her boyfriend but you haven't been able to fuck her yet?

You want this branch swinger to be your LTR? Really? Yup, you probably deserve her more than her boyfriend who is absolutely clueless. Hit the sidebar man, for your own good.

281threethreeoh8004 · 2017-03-06T18:11:29+00:00

The one thing I don't understand with guys is the idea of gaming a girl in a relationship and thinking she will leave that for you. Are you so conceited that you can't identify the fatal flaw here?

If she's willing to go behind her LTR's back to mess with you, she will be willing to go behind your back in time as well. But by all means, keep trying. I'm sure in a few more months time she'll finally branch swing.

[deleted] · 2017-03-06T14:47:17+00:00

Ghost the stupid bitch, delete and block her on everything. Join a local fascist organization. Read everything you can about Enrico Corradini, Julius Evola, and Corneliu Codreanu.

Title	Serious with a taken bird
Author	ParlayTheHard8
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	March 6, 2017 2:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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