EnterDiscourse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
498	Time Passed is the Asset of the Better Man	Red Pill Theory	EnterDiscourse	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/17 02:01 PM
165	The Gold Coin of the Male Sexual Marketplace	Red Pill Theory	EnterDiscourse	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 04:47 PM

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1	To text or not to text I don't really see anything you did wrong, per se. From your post, she may have gotten flakey from your "drink out part 2" comment, or she could be shit testing how you respond to her turn down. Or she could be coming up on her period. Who knows. Regardless, it doesn't matter. You play this out the same. Agree, amplify, and diffuse her last text so she gets the it's-no-big-deal vibe, then hit her back up in like 2 weeks with a specific new date offer ("local park is putting on this free event at…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 12:32 PM
11	How to tell the difference between a shit test and a real no? I hear all these "always act like it's a shit test" things which will obviously backfire sometimes... With women, it's very difficult to tell what game, if any, they're playing at when demonstrating petty or bitchy behavior. All plus, who wants to devote all that energy and effort into determining their motives? The simple solution: don't change how you act or carry yourself based on her, ever. Make your responses - or more specifically your mindset - the same irregardless if you get a "yes" or a "no". When you get decidedly lukewarm responses from her, respond back in an unphased, no-big-deal m…	/r/askTRP	19/08/17 05:25 PM
5	I say hi to a new girl at work and she instantly tries to beta zone me, WTF? Girls size guys up instinctively. They want to see how you'll respond. They want to see if you're cool and confident enough to be unfazed by a shitty attitude, bitchy behavior, or nagging request. They want you to brush it off and continue being awesome like she doesn't matter. It shows you're not the needy type. Sounds like you failed her mild shit test.	/r/askTRP	18/08/17 01:55 PM
4	Older and more seasoned men of askTRP, impart your relationship advice. I found my now-LTR. It's been a week The fact that you've willingly jumped into exclusivity and are considering a week-long relationship "long term" indicates a lack of (perceived) options to we readers.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 06:19 PM
2	Is being Alpha worth it?? You're confused on what Alpha is. Alpha isn't clothes, a beard, or even a rugged masculine dude. Instead, it's the mindset putting your self and interests first, and not supplicating your actions to a female just because, well, she has a vagina. Not that style, good hygiene, and lifting aren't key attraction points. They just aren't the base that attracts women, which is a light-hearted, fun, confident, self-focused dude. If the external changes haven't had a positive effect on your interactions…	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 12:53 PM
6	Do women subconsciously always want men with money? It depends on what phase of her life a particular woman is in. The 20 yr old sorostitute will value material means much less (and physique much more) than the post-wall single soccer mom. Since you're in an LTR, I'd imagine money (or lack there of) and provision is going to be on her spectrum of wants from you (or the next guy's she's with), with the severity depending on what stage of life she's at. It's stupid, but I've seen girls leave buddies of mine who are working hard to build a business …	/r/askTRP	08/08/17 07:41 PM
12	Plate saw me hitting up other girl at a pub. Shes mad now. Best way to deal with it? The correct play was not to engage in the long ass debate. You needed to let her hamster wheel work for you, not against you (as it is now). If you had been ignored her message until the following day and responded with a brief, playful note that disregarded her allegations, she'd think for days about what you're doing and if she was on your mind. That being said, the above sentiment still holds true now. Don't engage if it's about you and other women, give her some space for a week or two, then…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 02:32 PM
13	Can't get over that one plate Yes. It's unreasonable not to compare the women you've been with. Some experiences / chemistry / sex is just plain better than others. The biggest mistake I think guys make is assuming the early stages of platehood is how it would remain if they moved to an LTR. Even though we know that familiarity breeds contempt, our male hamster wheel tries to deceive us that somehow she is different. Better. A missed long-term chance. So the best place to leave fond plate memories is exactly where they are: …	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 10:06 PM
2	is this a flirty line or bad When interacting with women, your goal is to be fun, not funny. I need something flirty and funny because I cant bring myself just to say it This (lack of self-confidence) is the biggest issue for any lack of success with women you're having. Talk with her (literally by just being a human being and saying "Hey ____, it's wartorle... you missed a great time the other day, you should have been there."), be fun (not funny), and ask for her number at the end of the convo. A couple days later text fo…	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 03:20 PM
7	Broken up with LTR. I never, ever want to get jealous over a woman. How do I do that? You're human. We're biologically engineered to want to preserve and protect our women. So yes, you will feel "jealous" or some other pining feeling for this women, at some point in time. The key is to keep busy, but most importantly to ramp up the number of prospective other women. It's amazing how much less you care and think about an Ex after you've replaced her. Most Ex pining comes from limited options. Also, this is another great reason to implement plate theory. If instead of an LTR, this …	/r/askTRP	17/07/17 08:34 PM
2	Gaming Christian girls? Agreed. Also, there is a Blue Pill steeped myth that Christian girls make better LTR and marriage prospects. This isn't true. As Maxwell pointed out, they're well-versed (pun intended) in manipulative behavior. There's an inherent "waiting for sex" that's amuck in the Church. And if she can manipulate you with sex before locking you down, imagine how she'll use it once your options are more limited. Not worth your time. For an even better analysis, read Rollo's post titled "Chasing Amy"	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 06:02 PM
1	How soon after first date should I contact a girl? If you'd like to see her again, then yes, you contact her again. Morning after it's always a good idea to send the "I had a good time" text. If all went well, I like to wait ~4 days before reengaging. Keep texts minimal and geared towards solidifying the next plan. It's okay to joke a slight bit, but it's easy to seem like you need it too much if you get to chatty. I also like using Monday - Wednesday for date setting. Thursday - Sundays are for the actual dates. Invite with specifics in hand (y…	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 08:31 PM
1	What would you do? Then asked over text that we should go to the movies. Movies are bad. Go for action dates. One important thing you didn't specify (so I'll infer) is how you asked. "Hey we should go to the movies sometimes" will get a flaky response 95% of the time. First change what you're doing, and then change how you ask. "There is this cool festival next Saturday I'm going to. Come with, should be a good time." This way you've taken the initiative and have a concrete plan. You're already going to go (in her…	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 02:18 PM
6	Going to Vegas at the end of next month. Need some advice on fashion, women and the game. One takeaway I noticed in Vegas, particularly, was that women aren't necessarily optimizing for the ultimate Chad. They're filtering for a guy that meets their threshold of looks, confidence, fun, etc., and will quickly leave with the first guy that meets that criteria.	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 02:04 PM
3	I have oneitis. I know I shouldn't and its really doing my head in. What do? I felt closer to her afterwards and messaged her a few days later saying we should hang out but she just blew me off. You realize you caused her to ghost you, correct? This is fundamental to having success with women in the future. Girls don't want cuddling and talking. And they don't even want great sex. What girls want is to be with a confident man. Look at the details of your interactions. She did this. She did that. What did you DO with this girl? Sounds like you just reacted. Work to become…	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 12:40 PM
1	To Ghost, or not to ghost First off, not a plate unless you've fucked. That being said, I like the two strike rule. I give prospects and plates plenty of "room" when they go radio silent. Definitely don't text back for 1-3 weeks and do other things, meet / see other girls. I don't hard next necessarily. Sometimes they reengage, sometimes they don't. After a couple weeks, I may invite them once more for an outing. If it's again limited or no response, then a hard next.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 09:22 PM
6	Girl is afraid of getting attached, You don't. You're about to enter a stage of your life where you have more easy options than ever before. Don't labor to - as some say - "take sand to the beach." Instead, hit the gym. Hard. Get into trouble with your guy friends. Bang that other one high school hottie you always wanted to but never approached. Guaranteed 10 year from now those things will be how you wished you spent your last summer rather than patching things up with an LTR that's on the ropes.	/r/askTRP	09/06/17 01:09 AM
1	Women Are Awesome. The single most awesome aspect about women is that there are so many others just like them. One in particular becomes not worth your time? Drop her and start again. One not into you? Shrug and chat-up the cutie at the other end of the bar. And ironically, internalizing that there are a multitude of options has the byproduct of making any specific one more attracted to you. Women are attracted to men that (they perceive) other women want to fuck.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/17 01:03 AM
1	Personal strategy question. I could really use some opinions please. schrodinger's bitch Fucking hilarious. Great analogy.	/r/askTRP	31/05/17 05:50 PM
5	Rejection or shit test? Shit test. The bigger problem, though, was that your text was validation seeking. You straight up asked her to reaffirm you and her. Correct play would have been not to send in the first place - you'd already know you're the best thing this woman has going on at the moment. And so what - she played back a flirty neg? Don't let it get to you, joke back, and then get off the phone and move interactions to in person. Sounds like - to me - she subconsciously smelled a Beta move and responded with sh…	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 01:38 PM
3	How do I be confident/cocky but not be arrogant by talking like I'm getting a lot of girls Here's the difference: arrogance people talk about themselves a lot to convince you they are confident, awesome, cool, etc. Confident people don't have to because they're, well, confident. The difference, then, is changing the focal point of the interaction from yourself to the person you're talking to. Plus, when people talk about themselves, it feels good and they project those good feelings on you, even if you barely said much at all.	/r/askTRP	13/04/17 07:00 PM
31	Modern Women - The Real Mans Truth Great points. To add on, once a man does something "nice" or "thoughtful" or "sweet" for a woman - because she insists this is what "turns her on" - those gestures / gifts / words then become the new norm. You lift her briefly out of her self-made misery, which then she quickly reacclimates to, absorbing your niceties as the new baseline. Thus men must constantly re-up their gestures to make her "haaaappy", if only for a time. It's why you see so many dutiful men in relationships doing all the c…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/17 04:06 PM
7	18 with dick problems A couple areas that could be fucking with your dick health (in order of most likely, IMO): 1) performance anxiety - fight or flight response isn't conducive for fucking. It's mental and compounds on itself. Best way to resolve is through gained experience and realizing fucking isn't a big deal. 2) casual porn observance - do you still peruse porn, even though you aren't wanking? Basically trains your body not to get hard even when exposed to hardcore stimuli. 3) cardio health - you lift and eat …	/r/askTRP	11/04/17 01:14 PM
5	I have a situation I don't quite understand Beta isn't inherently bad, its just IMO what causes the "pushes" that you referenced. There's no shame in going for an LTR vs. plates. Just important to make sure mentally you're okay with it ending at some point - because 99.99% of them do. And ONEitis doesn't help matters. My advice would be to take the self-analysis you've already done and increase what's worked and decrease what hasn't. I'd remove any explicit conversations of the two of you (and what you are or aren't) completely from your …	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 02:28 PM
17	I have a situation I don't quite understand I mentioned it a day later, attempted to backpeddle on this by saying she meant "as a friend" I said I could never be just friends with her after everything, and that if I felt something for her I'd have to respect that because I don't do orbiting. Because you are making thing oh so heavy. What you did - probably subconsciously - is put her in a corner to explicitly validate you. Will you just tell me one more time that you love me? I doubt those are the words you said, but undoubtedly what she …	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 01:51 PM
3	"Be yourself" - one of the best advices, but often misunderstood You can do the most alpha shit, if you don't seem authentic, it doesn't work. Agreed. Girls can smell out a phony before he can utter his first word to them. They're basically trained from a young age to be phony-male detectors. We may be largely in agreement, but it's my opinion that Red Pill sequencing works best when: Blue Pill > learn and emulate "Alpha" traits > tailor to you vs. Blue Pill > find your inherent "Alpha" traits > up the Alpha I'm just skeptical that most guys have enough inher…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/17 01:17 PM
5	"Be yourself" - one of the best advices, but often misunderstood You don't have to become another person, no. You have to become YOU again. I get what you're trying to say: that we all have an awesome panty-soaking inner persona that we just need to reconnect with in order to be more successful sexually. We were taught to be Beta, and had to unlearn confident, Alpha characteristics. The problem, though, is that 99.99% of guys are not Natural Alphas. Yes, society does groom us to be good, Beta providers. But a confident, Alpha frame is forged, not innate. It t…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/17 12:54 PM
5	First time she texted me "i had a fun time last night!", I think i responded poorly ? Don't get fooled into thinking that 100% alpha-Rambo all the time is the correct play. Listen, you're analyzing your plate management, which is much better than most can claim. Was your text "beta"? Kinda. Will that fuck up your plate-relationship? No. Women lose interest with repeat beta behavior - she actually has to see you as being a Beta, not just a singleton act of comfort behavior. In fact, for long-term plates and FWBs, its difficult to keep them around for more than a few bangs without …	/r/askTRP	28/03/17 03:18 PM
1	More work advice Here is the Red Pill response. Be damn good at your job. Get in early and do your work in such a way that you're proud of it. Now when it comes to this fat fuck, best way to handle offensive dipshits is with smiles and amused mastery. "Why do they hire all these kids!?" (smiling) Someone has to teach you vets how to use a computer. Honestly, this guy is the equivalent of a school yard bully. Deep down, he's lonely and insecure. The actual winning strategy is to befriend him, if he'll let you.	/r/askTRP	24/03/17 02:16 PM
4	How can I get over the fact that it was MY fault for ending a good thing This is a more thoughtful post than most. At least you realize and admit your ONEitis. Focusing on workouts, school, etc. is great and definitely keep pursuing those, but the only way to move on quickly - from your state - is to find a few other girls to start escalating/fucking. Keep them all casual and non-exclusive.	/r/askTRP	23/03/17 02:17 PM
6	Need advice on how to handle LTR with trust issues You can comment "NEXT" or "Get a plate" but for other circumstances I can't do that right now. And she knows this. And, ultimately, this is why your "dread" can and will never work - because its not true Dread. She doesn't actually have to fear you leaving her. Beyond this, women are good at intuitively reading body language and intentions. I guarantee if she's not responding sexually positive, then she (accurately) understands that your dread isn't about how naturally great of a catch you are, …	/r/askTRP	23/03/17 01:01 PM
1	Late for Date Could her excuse be true? Maybe. But its not your job to concern yourself over it. I'd be frustrated if someone 20 minutes before pseudo-flaked. Sounds like you handled it fine - the last thing I'd do is wait around for her for an hour. She'd interpret that as low value. Move on to other plates and, if you want, reach out to her in 2 weeks to see if she wants to do something low key. No dinners out - she'll need to "earn" that. Tell her to come to your place and she makes dinner (you will "help"…	/r/askTRP	22/03/17 02:44 PM
10	Basic "Approaching" Psychology It's better to know reality than live in a fantasy land, especially an unpleasant one. This is a great, practical post. The biggest obstacle in initial approach is, ironically, ourselves. Will all approaches result in lays, dates, or even pleasant conversation? Fuck no. But the most negative real results - from my experience - aren't near as severe as the pent-up, anxiety-driven fantasies your own mind fabricates. Besides, the most "negative" approaches usually give you a great story to tell you…	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/17 02:19 PM
5	The Foundations of Frame Self-hate only amplifies these bad habits and creates a negative cycle. True, a negative mindset can create a negative cycle (depression), but the Anger Phase is a necessary step for most Red Pill guys. Most beta-bred guys need that anger-phase kick in the ass of their girlfriend cheating on them (or the like) to begin the process of real self improvement. It prompts them to go to the gym, lift hard, improve their social acumen, push for that raise at work, read-up on plate theory, and the like.…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/17 10:16 PM
-1	Please do your part to stop TRP from devolving into a little boy’s club. is about reforming YOU. This is what The Red Pill is about. Which leads to, amongst other things... BETTER THEIR GAME	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/17 01:10 PM
8	Just ordered TRM vol 1 and 2, and No More Mister Nice Guy, does it matter which book I read first? My recommendation: NMMNG TRM vol 1 (Rollo's stuff is dense. Switch it up by reading Models by Manson in between) TRM vol 2	/r/askTRP	15/03/17 05:16 PM
3	Will my sex drive stop as the I grow older? I am 19 If you're hooked on porn, just wait until you do manage to get a girl back to your place with expectations to fuck, only to have one of the following happen: you can't get it up you can't finish (due to deathgrip) you can't last 1 minute you don't enjoy it because you couldn't resist fapping earlier that day Inexperienced guys are often in for an ego-check, once they realize a good fuck experience isn't unrelated to bad habits and sucky mental health.	/r/askTRP	15/03/17 05:13 PM
1	I feel like I know what to do but.... You're thinking about this backwards. You text to set plans to go out, and then go out to push for a "spark" (aka mutual interest in fucking). Her interest is cultivated in person, so use texting as merely a means to get there.	/r/askTRP	14/03/17 10:45 PM
–	50 Shades of Red (Part 4) Women have to work hard to be likeable, men have to work hard to be fuckable. Intersexual dynamics in a nutshell. What's interesting is the inverse is also very true. Most guys - including our Blue Pill brethren - are generally very likable. We're born that way. Its why you hear so many girls lament "girls are too much drama, most of my friends are guys." It's the reason for Beta Orbiters. Guys - innately - are much better friends. We're so damn NICE, you see, which is very easy to (yawn) "like.…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 03:12 PM
1	Got her number, what now Conversing is fine, but that's what women are used to and good at. In order to build a connection, you have to get her out of her comfort zone, if just a little bit. Things like grabbing a coffee and then drinking it while walking through the nearby park. Maybe after grabbing a beer and changing venues. Anything that involves moving and ideally, nonsexual contact. Aim for 2 to 3 spots to hit to move around a bit. Again, it'll build rapport better than just sitting in one spot.	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 06:49 PM
13	The Gold Coin of the Male Sexual Marketplace if a guy is hot, rich, high-status, whence cometh loserdom? If I saw a hot, rich, high-status guy, I'd assume he was not a loser. This guy sounds like the real deal - odds are he has sound, innate confidence based upon his external success (or contributing to, as you mentioned in your very apt "feedback loop" example). It takes a man focused on bettering himself, typically, to attain all these. My original thought was referencing any of these qualities independent of the others. One good trait c…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 05:29 PM
1	Got her number, what now Fuck what she prefers. Social media is a woman's realm - she rules there. I'd stick to texting, but only for logistics. Also, you don't need to establish a date "real quick." Moreover, if she senses you do, it will seem needy and may turn her off. When it comes to non-face-to-face interactions (aka texting), less is more. The general rule of thumb I follow is wait three days, then text her a hello and that you liked meeting her the other day, followed with an action date idea.	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 03:11 PM
5	How to proceed with girlfriend.. Beta orbiters are there - for women - to be a quick fix confidence boost. Women will engage them briefly, but then forget them for long stretches of time while she's fucking her man. This guy doesn't sound like a Beta orbiter, but one of her girlfriends, a different category entirely. Girls know how to act correctly. In fact, this whole situation smells strongly of a major shit test of hers. She's trying to see how you react to another guy being around. She knows her friend would like to fuck he…	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 02:38 PM
2	Male flaws Men are biologically bent to spread our seed as far and wide as possible. Know that I-want-to-fuck feeing you have whenever you see a hot girl? That's your answer to hypergamy. It's you wanting to impregnate a physically primed woman - and by that I mean any physically primed woman - who will have you. And your biology isn't to stick around for this being you've created. It's to go find another girl to make another one.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 03:26 AM
3	22 and bald. Will this drastically affect my dating life? The way you are now will drastically affect your dating life. Balding holds little value to your SMV. 60 lbs, though, will greatly inhibit you. Know the fucked up thing though? I can guarantee you the most jacked up thing with you isn't physically, it's the mindset you carry between your ears.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 03:19 AM
0	How much texting is beta? You already fucked up. There is a four day rule. Wait four days, then on the next non prime time day (not Friday or Saturday), you set up plans again. You jumped the gun. You came early. This may not - and most likely isn't - salvageable. But if it is, you do not make contact again until after she has. And equally as long after.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 03:12 AM
9	Message before date You've handled this well. I had a similar experience with a plate I had last year. She let me know beforehand, in a low key way, she was on her period. And low and behold, she was. We fucked anyways. If, however, this bitch isn't and gives you the run around, you know what to do. Forget her like your Yahoo! login password.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 03:06 AM
27	The only question that matters: Is she fucking you, or not? And unfortunately for most inquiring, their answer will be that she is not, in fact, fucking them. But we use our male hamsters to explain to ourselves why. Bad luck, poor circumstance, miscommunication, and the like. The hardest thing to accept is that she wasn't or isn't into you. So why do that!? Surely she likes me and I'm just reading her wrong, right guys?? The short answer is that it doesn't matter why she isn't fucking you, she isn't and it's not worth your time or energy to analyze furt…	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/17 11:10 PM
6	Serious with a taken bird made her build strong feelings towards me I think after our talks last week I really made her realize/open up This is where you've fucked up. It's subtle, but very important. It's the reason she "turned stone cold." She was looking to branch swing. She was testing the waters with you. She was looking to she if you have an abundant, confident, fun & lighthearted mindset. You may have passed the first two, but the gravity of the situation is why she dried up. From your statements above, you're car…	/r/askTRP	06/03/17 03:09 PM
1	Advice needed on an idea I have. First off, any girl is going to see through whatever line you say into your mindset and frame. If you are needy or put too much weight & seriousness on a situation, it won't work. There's nothing that will dry a girl up and turn her away more than heavy, serious conversation. Think light, playful, slightly sarcastic, and mostly indifferent. That's how The Confident Man play it. All of this is way too direct. Walking up to a girl and introducing yourself lets her know you think she's attractive.	/r/askTRP	03/03/17 02:08 PM
3	How to turn things sexual quickly with someone you met without that intent? Girls - in large - are social media whores. That's their playing field. You can't compete, so don't engage in this fashion. Want to know how a confident man correctly shows intent and turns himself into a sexual being? After you've met this girl, exchanged some light banter, found both of you smiling, ask for her number. Don't make a date, don't make a promise - just tell her you'll get in touch sometime. Then - 2 to 4 days later - follow through and call/text her to see if she was to get ice cr…	/r/askTRP	02/03/17 03:02 PM
2	How do you passively create attraction in the blink of an eye? “Charm is treating women like little girls.” -Pook I think my biggest weakness is I think to much and I can seem uncertain to people because of that. I'd bet that it's less about girls being uncertain about you, and more about your thinking leading to inaction. We're moving beyond initial attraction, but the most important thing when engaging a girl (or anyone really) is always defaulting to ACTION! Positive thoughts are necessary, yes, but they don't - in and of themselves - produce results. So…	/r/askTRP	28/02/17 06:59 PM
167	Hypergamy and AWALT - she's thinking of a name. Here's the trick: to most women you can become her name. Your posts points to the fact that a quality man is much more rare than a fuckable woman. Cute girls are everywhere. Their prerequisite for being sexy is simple: have a slim physique and be sexually available. That's it. On the other hand, guys are generally a bunch of losers. Think about what we preach: lift, eat right, develop game, create a good career, become interesting to talk to, etc. Time and effort, time and effort. The hurdles ar…	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/17 03:16 PM
2	Should i hit on her? If you have to ask these questions, you've already lost. Once a girl "out of [your] league," so she is. Girls want the guy that brazenly comes over without thinking of his ego or insecurities, and makes fun, light banter with them. They want this guy because he's confident and initiative (btw he also has to be hot). Women will never approach first - they're wired to respond and filter. Develop yourself into this confident, hot, fun guy, then make it a practice to approach girls without hesitatio…	/r/askTRP	28/02/17 02:26 PM
8	How do you passively create attraction in the blink of an eye? It's a common trope that women know whether or not they'll sleep with a guy within a minute of meeting him. Though I don't quite agree with this statement, the theory holds true: there are instant attraction hurdles men must pass to have a chance with a woman. Equally as important as lifting is your diet. The first attraction point to both men and women is physique. Maintaining a clean, low calorie, high nutrient diet while lifting will be the biggest boon to your physique, and therefor initial …	/r/askTRP	27/02/17 04:47 PM
1	Gf wants breakup. How do I prepare myself? Consider this breakup one of the best things that's happened to you your entire life. Many different traditions, customs, and religions try and force old marriage ideals into the current feminized, broken system. Your parents may not understand. Hers sure as hell won't. But that shouldn't be any of your concern. There's always a desire from recovering Betas to want revenge post breakup. They want the last word. The last laugh. Understand that you will always be the bad guy to her and her family.…	/r/askTRP	27/02/17 03:00 PM
3	First date question I always recommend men begin dating a girl by going Dutch. She pays half(ish), and you pay half(ish). So if you get the tickets, joke that she's buying the first round at the bar after (and actually follow through with it). By withdrawing yourself as a monetary free-roll for her, it helps you screen her sexual interest in you.	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 05:41 PM
2	How do you maintain frame/ redpilled beliefs after you "fall" for a girl? Honestly, most of us are here because we've been burned. Sure, we'd like it if intersexual relationships worked as you describe them above, but they don't. We've all tried Blue Pill game, only to have our "love" riding another guy that hasn't (yet) exhibited those behaviors a few months later. The Red Pill teaches how things actually work, not how they should work. Once you see time and time again that "buy[ing] her shit and compliment[ing] her" only drives her away, you'll frustratingly WANT to…	/r/askTRP	24/02/17 08:42 PM
1	What should you talk with a girl? At the risk of sounding like an ass, you actually have to be more interesting. Sounds like you already know this girl and find yourselves together (be it in groups or just the two of you), so you must default to ACTION! dates. This will naturally take pressure off you to be an excellent conversationalist, which is what we men are inherently bad at. Go on a hike, drive to a cool place, find a beach volleyball court... anything that involves fun ACTION! that you would like. While with her, comment…	/r/askTRP	24/02/17 04:26 PM
13	How do you have abundance mentality in regards to women if you have none? First off, your average guy - including most TRP subscribers - does not get laid left and right. A senior member recently posted data that showed the vast majority of men - at best - might have sex with one or two new girls a year. Very few TRP members are actually Chad, though many like to claim they are. Second, abundance mentality is just that - a mentality. You don't have to have actual abundance to exude the mentality that draws women in. Abundance mentality basically points to portraying y…	/r/askTRP	24/02/17 04:05 PM