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She's still sexually active, right? Let her talk to that guy.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:12 AM
1

Her body, her choice, her fucking responsibility. Tell her whatever it takes to get rid of it or make it clear she'll be a single mother. Women need to take responsibility for their agency or not have it.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:01 AM
1

You haven't read his rules, because more drama earns a longer soft next or a hard next.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:56 AM
1

It's actually very easy. Snap your fingers and it's done. Your exclusivity and commitment is an asset, and can be withdrawn at anytime without an explanation. If you tell her you're non exclusive, it's not cheating, because she has no expectation of monogamy from now on. Remember that, and don't let anyone set the frame differently. No promises = no cheating.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:53 AM
1

Fuck no. Insecurity has nothing to do with it. Your LTR kisses you, not other men. Don't LTR models or actresses. They think it's perfectly acceptable.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:24 PM
4

Why didn't you have your phone on you recording this incident of domestic violence? Always record, always call the cops, and dump this bitch.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:56 PM
1

Forget dating, you can buy a girl in any village for a sack of potatoes.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:23 PM
1

Absolutely any non-ho can be turned into a personal ho by a high valued man.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:19 PM
1

Dump that bitch. Only a virgin should have an expectation of not having sex before marriage. Her past hookups make her ineligible for that expectation. Your choices are to fuck her like she was being fucked by her past hookups, or find a girl that didn't have hookups. What you're doing is trying to hammer a square peg into a round hole. Ho into a housewife, etc.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:39 AM
1

Neoteny. Men naturally go for it. Humans are more neotonous than most mammals. Asians are the most neotonous of humans. Whites in the middle. Blacks are least neotonous. And that's not racism, that's just a fact of life.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:26 AM
1

The theory I've heard about European women being the worldwide standard of beauty is sexual selection being man driven in cold climates, and woman driven in tropical climates. In cold climates, a man's support is essential for a woman to reproduce and survive. Men did the choosing, and ugly women starved and froze to death. Men who chose hot wives had hot daughters for other men to choose and make hot daughters with. In tropical climates, men didn't drive sexual selection, because they were only…
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:16 AM
1

Don't discuss anything, and tell them "none of your business" to every question. It's a fucking church, not even a school or a job. Fuck them and fuck Mormonism.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:49 AM
3

You should tell her not to break up with her boyfriend. You'll provide the sex, the boyfriend everything else. If she dumps the boyfriend, everything else will fall on you. And that's when she'll find someone else for sex again. Don't get caught in the cycle.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 02:04 PM
1

Record everything. Don't worry about court admissibility. If you have been publicly and wrongly accused, you have a right to clear your name in the same manner. Release your evidence publicly. (use judgment, don't release videos when audio will do, don't release audio when texts will do, etc)
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:40 AM
-1

You didn't vet her long enough. While you shouldn't expect plates to be exclusive when you aren't, you also shouldn't LTR plates who aren't exclusive (She needs to dress for the job she wants). You assumed she was fucking him, but you LTR'd her anyway. This is nobody's fault but your own and you have no reason to be upset over it. If it bothers you, dump her. But don't make it official with somebody you already suspected of sleeping around.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:28 AM
4

She WILL use your child to guilt you into supporting her. Take your kid off the ship and let it sink. Don't do it. Don't give her a dollar. Cancel any utilities and services that aren't essential to your child. Get your child what he needs directly. Get a DNA test. You have a right to know. Don't tell her. She doesn't have a right to know about you wanting to know. Get a lawyer and follow his advice. If you prove the mother isn't fit to have custody while proving your own care of the child, you …
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:10 AM
9

Hostage. Use the kid to force the father to support the mother.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 10:08 AM
1

Should have fucked her and ignored him. She's going to fuck somebody, might as well be you. Your "friend" doesn't own his niece's pussy, and it's not for him to decide what dudes she fucks. It's uncomfortable for him, now that she's an adult and not the little girl sitting on his lap 15 years ago. Every girl is somebody's X, Y, or Z. Don't let that stop her from having a good time with you. "Hang out and take her on a date?" This guy is a fucking fag. He has no idea what things his niece is doin…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:29 PM
1

Have you considered reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:25 PM
1

Yes, it's too late. I would make a last attempt at escalation. If rejected, I would just tell her I'm attracted and friends only isn't going to work. Fuck or ghost.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:06 PM
1

No response to the messages. Text only for logistics. See her in person only and escalate. Make her make a decision about you. To fuck or walk. Provocative pics means not a good girl. She should be fucking you or sending those pics to somebody else.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:57 AM
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You're an orbiter. Girls disobey their parents even in conservative countries. If you were Chad, she would at least suck you off or let you finger her ass. Escalate and get something or walk. She already had something with an older guy. She'll do it again, just maybe not with you. She needs to make with the pussy or lose your attention.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:52 AM
6

Yes. He's an old friend, and she's cheating on him. Or if they aren't exclusive yet, he has a right to know for vetting purposes. Anonymously to avoid drama.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:47 AM
1

Dump her. As a man, that is your only option. You can get in trouble for defending yourself against a woman. Zero tolerance for violence from women.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:00 AM
1

Wrong. It's your place to say it loudly to everyone that your mom is dating a convict.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:31 AM
2

That's why you release the tape to the entire world and vindicate yourself publicly before the jury selection even starts.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:09 AM
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Fuck any and all consent laws when you're the victim. Distribute first and apologize later. Upload it and send to all media companies and YouTube. First Amendment, tell it to the jury. Court of public opinion is a valid weapon when you possess the evidence in your favor but the court of law refuses to admit it as "illegal". As far as I'm concerned, no such thing as illegal defence in court for someone accused of a crime.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:06 AM
1

Fuck this shit. Tell the sister you won't be seen dead around her daughter.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 12:49 PM
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You must be pretty stupid to ask this question. The way you put a man in jail is by a woman calling the cops and filing a report. All women already know this. The lack of evidence doesn't matter. You're being played for a place to crash and therapy sessions.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 11:11 AM
2

High school sweethearts
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:55 AM
4

Don't ignore, but treat her ignoring like a shit test. Flirt, kino, (no affection, treat her like a man does his plate) create a conversation where you do both parts and offer to suck your dick in her voice and accept in yours. Most importantly have fun and demonstrate zero effect of her ignoring you. You're the oak. Her silence or ignorance of you has no effect on you.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:44 AM
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Silent treatment and ignoring is not dread, because you're not removing your presence. Do something that removes your presence, don't just give her the silent treatment while you stay there. When you're there, she's your roommate, not your GF. Zero affection until she flies right. That's why you don't move in with them. Think of all the drama you could avoid just by not seeing her, which you can't do because she lives with you.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:15 AM
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Not LTR or marriage material. How would you like her to move out 3 months after marriage? That's what will happen if you let women move in and out of your relationship on a whim. Plate material only.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:46 AM
0

Take it back from them. I know you have to live by their rules in their house, but your property is YOUR property, and the only recourse they have is to evict you through the courts. In summary take back everything that is yours. If they steal from you, call the cops. If they kick you out without a formal eviction, call the cops.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:37 AM
1

I don't see how employment without a contract is illegal. If you got paid, I don't see a cause of action related to an absence of an employment contract. Maybe your friend is referring to intern regulations, and what you can make interns do. But you don't need a contract to turn an intern into an employee, the job can just say "your internship is over, now we want to hire you for $X per hour"
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:22 AM
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Fuck this "crush" BS and the notion that it gives you dibs on someone. This loser thinks she's special, fuck her and tell him.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 04:51 PM
2

Fuck what people think. If your name ever comes up as a culprit, always point to the responsible person. Don't confront your coworkers. Reveal the culprit in private. If your name isn't brought into it, stay out of it.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:53 AM
1

I absolutely endorse men testing their alleged children. After a certain point, you can't contest it. You don't have to do it secretly. Do it openly, tell her it's about the government forcing child support, that it's not about her. Tell her men have a right to know the way women "know". Make it an equal rights issue. Bring it up only after you bought the DNA test kit available at most pharmacies. No room for discussion. Do it, send it in.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:37 PM
1

The problem isn't that your GF is a hookup girl. It's that you made a hookup girl your GF. You knew she was broken. You should have suspected her a risk for a relationship, and you are too young to get into one anyway. There's nothing wrong with feeling disgusted, your future girlfriend who strings you along and puts up a front is hooking up with people she doesn't "like". Either put up with it until she gets your seed, or dump her. You should have been doing what the other guys were doing. They…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:26 PM
1

You don't, she already knows the adage about locks and keys. They want a man with experience, no matter what. That stuff she's telling you is a shit test. Women know experienced men are a turn on. Above all, don't take it seriously. Be the best man she can be with.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:38 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with your wants, don't let anybody tell you differently. It's not hypocracy to sleep around and marry a virgin, because you're only adjusting to market conditions. Some women will give it up to everyone, and some only to their husband. I'll fuck the first one and marry the second. No hypocracy.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:56 AM
1

In half the states in the US, you can marry your first cousin. Second cousins aren't even cousins as it concerns the US laws. And if you didn't grow up with her and don't see her as a sister, than what's the problem?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:45 AM
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In some way it's good. It means that the woman will lead in the absence of a man with leadership. If you're a man worthy for a woman to follow, she'll forget all that matriarchal BS.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:42 AM
2

She's just not attracted to you. You tried escalating, she's not having it, move on. She's trying to keep a beta orbiter. Do you think she would tell Chad "We chill and talk, what more is there to do?". You were on the right track with the soft next, but you keep breaking it to tell her some nonsense. Totally ignore EVERYTHING she says unless it's sexual in nature. Reply ONLY to say something sex related. Totally break the non-sexual frame she put you in. Edit: but you're going too slow and are …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:32 AM
2

There's a good chance she at least sucked him off when she was 15 on vacation. She kept up contact, never told him about you, and didn't immediately shut down a request to meet. You got a ho. Plate now or regret being cheated on later.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:41 PM
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Never let a bitch shame you over a text / voicemail dumping. I always advocate a one way dump. Dumping isn't a conversation, it doesn't require a face to face meeting or the ability to respond from somebody you don't want to hear back from.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 01:32 PM
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I don't think any of that was hate and are all valid points.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 01:27 PM
1

I recall the dalits had a wooden bowl under their mouth so their spit wouldn't dirty the ground. Attach a colostomy bag to her ass, or have her walk around with a bucket attached to her ass.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 10:07 AM
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I can't wait for the day when an angry mob breaks into a false accuser's house and hangs her.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:16 PM
2

She can do what she wants, but I want a healthy partner. That means not giving away your vital organs. I want a wife with two kidneys, a heart, liver, pancreas, vagina, uterus and ovaries.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:41 PM
1

Stop splitting hairs. Most labor doesn't get to choose their coworkers. Those porn stars fuck who they're told to fuck or they don't get paid.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:07 PM
4

So you're also Captain Save a Hoe in addition to being an orbiter?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:56 AM
1

If she was just as smart as me, chances are SHE would want to be with a smarter man because women are much less likely to date "down" than men. That also goes for rich and powerful women. THEY want to be with their betters.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:31 PM
1

Why spend money on whores who don't put out? Any half decent girlfriend will give you lap dances for free. If I was your GF, I would be pissed that you give money to strangers to do what your GF does for free. She was right to tell her mom about it to get some advice.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:01 PM
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They don't work to keep what they don't want. She didn't really want your commitment, she was just testing your resolve. You caved in immediately. She bailed.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:56 PM
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"Become better and quit bitching about it".
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:49 PM
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Key word "settle down". A woman who has solo travel plans or a generally single lifestyle isn't fit to settle down with.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:25 AM
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I will never believe a woman who drinks (as a minor especially) is a virgin. Have you inspected her hymen? No. You just saw her underwear. You're the BF she brings home to meet her parents. They wouldn't meet the guy whose dick she sucks after a night of drinking. Not girlfriend material. Virgins don't drink. Real virgins, the kind who don't suck dick or get ass fucked. Treat her like a plate and let her go. Make sure you get sucked off before she leaves for all the blue balls you've been tolera…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:21 AM
3

"Everything except oral and sex" is nothing, unless you've been inside her ass. Massages are nothing. She wasn't attracted and let you down easy.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:05 PM
0

Women are master manipulators. That's why I'm a proponent of dumping girls by text message. Make it a one way statement with no possibility of reply. Block, move on, save the drama.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:57 PM
1

How's her money / work situation? Can you get her declared mentally incompetent? Besides moving out and forgetting her, I see courts as the only other option.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:33 AM
2

This is plate material. The woman you need to be considering for a long term relationship needs to understand that charity begins at home. The time and money spent is better used to improve your own situation. Also, women take the shape of their container. If her alpha tells her charity is a waste of time and money, she'll go along with it. Every dollar of your potentially future joint income that she gives to "charity" is a dollar you can't spend on your own future. Stay away from girls with sa…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:16 AM
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Don't text all that bitch shit. Don't chase her. LDR's are not real relationships. Downgrade her in your mind, have sex with others and her. And don't make committments to any woman who isn't going to be there. I see all these posts about the guy's GF going to another country for a month or a semester. Value yourself. A woman makes a choice not to be where you are. That's not GF material, whatever the reason may be. You're the special kind of stupid that starts off a relationship as an LDR.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:17 PM
2

Chick friends are useless. She's banging somebody, and that's not you. Women use "male friends" to do things for them that would otherwise have to be done by her BF/sex partner. He gets something out of it, why shouldn't you? No platonic female friends. If she's fucking you, she can call it friends. Otherwise, move on.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:49 AM
1

Even when I was in middle school, I was shocked to see how well developed some girls were. Looks don't tell you much. Just stay legal.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:51 AM
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Why is she your GF? You could have plates and game this virgin for whatever she's willing to give you without commitment. Waste of time. Downgrade. Tell her you're not ready for a non sexual relationship.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:44 AM
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What you propose isn't cheating. Cheating is a violation of monogamy. You have a right to withdraw your monogamy and commitment at any time (like women do with sex). After you have withdrawn your monogamy and she knows it, nothing you do is cheating, because you're not violating any promises of exclusivity.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:12 PM
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Obviously we don't mean them. By any name, a man who shares a woman he provides for is a cuck. I was making an example that a cuck would call his cuckng a polygamous relationship.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:40 AM
2

Why aren't you ignoring her? And if you are, just keep ignoring.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:03 PM
1

That's just dread. Women will never do anything without a push. Pettyness and guilt is how they see it when you expect them to pull their end in a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:55 AM
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Exactly, most of these polygamous relationships the man wouldn't be able to keep if he didn't agree to share his GF/wife.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:28 AM
1

If you're stupid enough to cheat and get caught, be a man and end the relationship. She will hold it over you forever and cheat in return. Or better yet, don't promise exclusivity if you can't provide it. It saves a lot of drama later on. Dump her. You cheated for a reason.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:26 PM
2

No, no, no. No Hangouts with another guy, no Hangouts at Ikea. Tell her to ditch her friend and meet you somewhere. There is no reason to be with a girl in a place you can't escalate and where there will be another man and she told you straight out no kissing. He's not the third wheel, you are. Test it by going there and greeting her with a big long kiss. In your other reply you demonstrated some scarcity mentality with your fear that this will be the only chance to see her and if she's interest…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:26 PM
1

In professional situations, not a bad idea. Also good to have the office door always open and camera auto recording when door is closed.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:00 PM
1

She's not "uprooting" her life just to be with you, she's trying to lock down a provider at the beginning of a new and exciting chapter in your life. Living together is as good as being married, and it never happens just for a couple of months as they claim. Even if she moves out on her own or with roommates, she will always blame and guilt you for everything wrong in her life because "I moved out here for yooooouuuuu!!". You will almost certainly be improving your lifestyle, and if she's there …
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:22 PM
1

To add to what the other people said, get a PO box and have ALL personal correspondence sent there. He sounds like the type to sabotage your plans by keeping and destroying your mail. This advice applies to all controlling parents. Don't tell them what you're going to do, do it and tell them.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:03 PM
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Fuck if it's illegal, and fuck if you can't use it as defense in court. The court of public opinion is a valid weapon. And if you "prejudice" all the potential jury with the facts they received before the trial, it will be imposible for them to "disregard" what really happened when the bitch starts lying to their face.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:00 PM
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Luckily, that's out of your hands and the decision is 100% hers.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:45 AM
6

Your GF is right. She's an independent woman with a possible career on the horizon and she doesn't want your babies messing up her education and career potential. She's going to have the abortion and finish school, and I wholeheartedly support her in this decision. Edit: is she taking out loans for college? Is she going to work for 50 years to pay them off? If she has babies and doesn't work, that will be on you. So what I'm saying is, if you date a college girl, don't plan for a family unless y…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:37 AM
1

You always miss the point. I only control myself. Somebody who isn't there for me to be intimate with can't expect exclusivity as a GF. Plates can do anything they want.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:16 PM
1

Not nearly as fucked up as having an exclusive girlfriend that removes herself from your vicinity for extended periods of time.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:43 PM
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She's telling you she wants other dick and feels upset and offended that you won't accept breaks, open relationships or just friends. It's over. She just disqualified herself as your GF. Plate or dump. Tell her you don't want her to be trapped, but you don't share girlfriends, and you don't do "just friends". She's welcome to keep fucking you, though.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:14 PM
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Both of you were wrong. You weren't wrong to just talk with a girl, but you were wrong to tell her about it. She was wrong to tell you not to talk to other girls, and wrong for kicking you out without eviction. Move on and be a man next time. Dump or downgrade if unhappy. Edit: she wants to talk about what SHE wants to do? Fuck that shit, she already dumped you. Contact the girl you were talking to and fuck her. Your relationship is over.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:10 AM
1

Women who want to keep your commitment (and worry about other women taking her place) don't leave their boyfriends/husbands for weeks or months at a time. I get that she has family in another country. But that's not GF material for me. Someone who needs to leave the area (who is also 100% of my pussy supply) regularly isn't someone I want to have for a GF. She'd make a fine plate, though.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:45 AM
2

Women, girls, chicks, broads... These are just different names for the same thing.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:26 PM
1

It's a good idea to be careful with minors, even as a minor yourself. The mom can easily call cops on you and report you for statuatory rape and let them figure it out.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:19 PM
5

The 1700 looks great and you can furnish it to your style. The 2500 may look more stylish now, but you'll regret it once you get to know your roommates and their habits. Not to mention, you'll lack privacy to bring a girl over. And it's the frame that makes the man, not the rent of his apartment.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:05 PM
2

Call their bluff. If they actually kick you out, hard next and cut contact (I'm serious). Kicking you out for spite has consequences.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:44 PM
2

You shouldn't even discuss LTR until she's been sexing you up for at least a year. Use that time to make some friends like a man. And you won't have anything to explain, which you still shouldn't. Your frame matters. You talk about what you want to talk about, and nobody will nag you into talking about things you don't want to talk about. Change subjects and move on.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:17 PM
3

Bro, use your head. Girls travel to get dick, period. A proper GF would at least get a hotel room. But fucking hostels and couch surfing? That's not girlfriend activity. She's a young girl still exploring her sexuality at the height of it's value. Your value will peak in about 15 years, you shouldn't be committing to anybody at this point. A 4 month LTR is nothing to be upseting over. Use this as a valuable opportunity to exit the relationship. Explore your options without pulling the trigger in…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:11 PM
4

She didn't even fuck you yet, and plates don't get to see friends anyway. So no worries there. Edit: don't explain. Set up one on one Hangouts. No group stuff. You're trying to fuck her, not become a friend.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 12:51 PM
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I'm talking about situations where it could conceivably go both ways. At a party with men and alcohol, things can happen. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Call it mate guarding or controlling, but if a woman can't take TOTAL responsibility for her agency (to the point of shooting or stabbing to prevent unwanted penetration, and not being put in the position of being disarmed by a drug), she shouldn't be out without a male chaperone. Definitely shouldn't be walking to work. I own …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:51 PM
3

Move things slower is a shit test. She either finds you attractive or she doesn't. Absolutely escalate. She doesn't have to fuck you that night, but there should be some ACTION not WORDS that she likes you. Bj, fingering, you know what I mean. Edit: Look at her words. She talks about emotional connections, but she doesn't say she doesn't want a physical one. She talks about moving slow due to her busy life, but fucking has nothing to do with her life outside of time you spend together.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:56 PM
1

Yes, dump her. You have a right to your insecurities, however irrational they may be. You have a right to end relationships for any or no reason. If N counts are a concern for you, just keep plating and not committing to these hookup girls, while you get older and wealthier. When you're ready to settle down, there will be a fresh crop of fertile 18-22 year olds looking for a stable man in the family way. In a small southern town, some may even be virigns.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:45 PM
2

This should now be a low effort prospect. Don't plan outside dates. Only inside at your house. If she complains, tell her she's a flake and she can come to you. Stop giving away attention and no more chit chat, try for a date and time and end the convo. On tinder equals not a virgin.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:38 PM
2

You ignore the silent treatment. She thinks it's a form of dread where you'll come back crawling because you need her so much. You don't need her in your life, and you don't need her services around the house. Remove your presence and do something else if she isn't pleasant to be around.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:30 PM
3

I wouldn't leave only in that specific scenario, but the wife would have to accept plates until her sexuality with me returns to normal. No kids, I split. Young kid and she was already on thin ice, I split. Problem is, "rape" is oftentimes used as a cover up for inappropriate activities. She goes for drinks with a man, and goes up to his hotel room. She calls it rape. Her BF probably doesn't. Also, actions must reflect words. Physical injury not consistent even with rough sex, police called and …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:23 PM
7

In my opinion, your frame regarding rings should be: only when married. It absolutely sends the message that you're taken. However, wedding rings can be a turn on for women on the prowl. If you agree to a ring, wear a simple gold band. None of these fruity thin rings you melt.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:08 PM
1

Yeah, your GF ain't behaving like a proper GF (for you). She should know to politely decline hanging out with another man, even if her friend would be there (it still lead to one on one). She doesn't think highly enough of you and your commitment to behave like a taken woman in front other men. Would you want people who know you to see your GF/wife behaving like a single woman?
/r/askMRP25/10/17 02:13 PM
1

You have to be high SMV. I can't find the post, but the gist of it is that you should dump your GF. If she really wants you in her life, she'll have you as a FWB Remember, she would rather share a successful man than have a faithful loser all to herself.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:47 PM
3

This is very simple. This is a plate, so what she does with anybody else is her business. However, she claims to want exclusivity, but admits to being in contact with exes, which disqualifies her from exclusivity. Ignore and keep smashing. Don't get exclusive. Don't explain why (because she's in contact with her exes). If it gets too much, walk. In the future, actions over words. She claims not to be sleeping with other people, but she does stay in contact with her exes. Does that sound like exc…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:34 PM
2

Just get rid of her and save yourself the trouble. Her professed profession makes her unsuitable for relationships. Insecurity has nothing to do with it. Your GF, wife, or mother of your children lives with you, not in a men's dormitory.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:21 PM
1

You care too much for what she thinks and says, and it sounds like it's not in person, but over text? Just ignore her and continue normal conversation with your friends. Ignore your friends' comments and questions about it. Your frame should be: this bitch doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:41 AM
1

"No thanks, sex isn't something I save" Don't inquire about blowjobs, place your dick to her mouth. She should want to take it instinctively.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:18 PM
1

If you're in your (almost) last year, might as well finish. I really can't think of any scenario where it would be better to walk away from a degree that you almost have. If you let extracurricular activities on campus distract you, I'm not sure switching to trade school will solve everything. Can you transfer credits to another major? Some common subjects between most majors.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:10 PM
5

Pretty bad security allowing something like that to be controlled client side and not on the server.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:05 PM
5

While he was doing stuff for her, he pretended to be her friend instead of escalating. Obviously, she knows his real intentions, but she was happy to accept free stuff. And now that he made his intentions known, the girl can pretend to be clueless and want to "get to know you better", but in reality keep the gravy train coming while she gets to know him, and still not fuck him.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 06:52 PM
18

He BANNED you? Put him on an information diet. Don't tell him anything that isn't his business. Keep going to the gym. Don't open any Bank accounts with him on it. Even as a minor, find a way to cash your payroll checks without him involved.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 06:42 PM
6

Briffault's Law. She already received a benefit from her association with you. She doesn't need you now. File for divorce, and don't go easy on her. If you make a lot of reasonable demands (50% of her income for 10 years due to having supported her), you may be able to "settle" and walk away with everything that's yours with no alimony.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:17 PM
10

You asked the question, this is the only answer. What she does to herself isn't on your hands. As long as you keep thinking this way, people will keep taking advantage of you.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:03 AM
1

You fucking moron. I already told you the last time to stop talking to her about this "debt", which it isn't. By asking her for a receipt, you could have very well aknowledged the existence of this "debt" and your responsibility to pay it. Stop talking to her. Stupid. Prepare to pay for anything you admitted to owing.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:21 PM
1

You NEVER treat the discarding of your commitment as a shit test. You always take it seriously and move on to other women. A commitment is something a woman must work for. When she already has it and doesn't want it, you need to take it away and move on.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:03 PM
1

You should have never backed away, but know when you're not wanted. And when they talk about other men, or why they don't want to get physical with you, YOU'RE NOT WANTED.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:27 PM
2

They're always seeing multiple guys. Proceed normally, like she didn't tell you. Fuck or walk. There's nothing to "win".
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:19 PM
3

If there's no lease, have the brother give a 30 day notice to the landlord to move out. Have him move out. After that, if he has no further legal obligations to the landlord, the ex becomes the landlord's problem. Edit: can't do ANYTHING regarding locks and property until legally evicted. Also, you're responsible for her property until you hand it to her. You can't just leave it outside and text her to get it. (You can, but it can disappear, and you'll be liable)
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:48 PM
1

Always carry a recorder around her. This is the type of person who starts a conversation with you then reports you because she didn't like the way it went.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:12 PM
2

It adds up. She's getting something from her relationship with you, and what you can't give her, she gets from somebody else on the side, while letting you think she's a perfect angel. Family and marriage from you. Fun times with Chad. That's the female dualistic mating strategy.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:58 PM
5

"Please don't say stuff like that" She's trying to shame your sexuality, set the frame of your relationship, and blame you for being aroused by her sending provocative dressed pics to you. Double down. That shit she told you was plain unacceptable. Dread and withdraw attention also works. Seriously, that's the kind of shit a bitch says to her orbiter to get him back into his beta box when he gets enough nerve to try getting sexual.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:29 PM
8

If she has a sex bucket list, she did a lot more than just black guys. Also consider that it may have been trickle truth, and what she really meant was a Mandingo gangbang. The black thing isn't the problem, it's what else she's been doing on her bucket list and not telling you about. But it's no use worrying. Dump or downgrade.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:18 PM
51

Laugh in her face. Everyone knows she's a failure. Defending yourself makes you look guilty. Laugh it off if anyone else brings it up and say your work speaks for itself. Don't allow yourself to get into arguments. However, talk to your boss or HR if she's creating a hostile workplace. Document all instances of inappropriate speech and behavior, or rumor spreading towards you. Report her before she reports you.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:30 PM
1

I think all ongoing discussions need to be finished before agreeing to get married. You're probably going to get guilted now for not agreeing to her terms so close to the wedding.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:21 PM
1

These standards are for commitment and resources sharing. No standard is required to get your dick wet.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:47 PM
1

She may not have the 30K, but you should demand she return the rings. Also, lawyer.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:46 PM
3

That's millions of years of evolution telling you not to waste your resources and commitment on an oldie. The looks will dwindle. No matter how hot she may look now, she's already post wall, and when you're 40 with a 50 year old wife, you'll be looking with regret at the younger women you could still get.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:03 PM
1

All the consequences are self imposed. Your issue is lack of frame. You just had sex with other women. It's only cheating if YOU say it's cheating, because only you can judge yourself as a man. With a high enough SMV, your LTR would pimp out her friends to you with a smile.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 04:56 PM
6

None of this is relevant. Get phone numbers, not social media usernames. Don't have women for friends. Friends don't get laid. Don't waste time discussing her friends, or what any of them thinks about you. Get together alone and escalate. There are no substitutes for this.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:33 PM
2

Don't make it a two way conversation. This way she can't cry into your ear. Just send her a dump text and block and ignore everywhere. Let her cry and complain to somebody else.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:38 PM
1

It means she wanted to fuck and you didn't take the lead. When a woman tells you she's horny does it mean "Come over I wanna fuck", or "I want you to keep texting that you're horny too"?
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:47 AM
14

Only thing to do is cease contact, get a lawyer and do everything he says.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:44 PM
1

It's not punishment, you had nothing to do with it. It's not punishment for you to leave her, she wasn't entitled to anything of yours to begin with. Maybe it's God punishing her for being a cheating whore. She got caught sexting, what else happened that wasn't caught by you?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:50 PM
1

Love is just an emotion. It shouldn't influence your actions. ANY and ALL reasons you may want to dump a woman are legitimate. Love or any other emotion shouldn't enter the decision.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:43 PM
6

A break is a break up. Stop hamstering. Either do the relationship or don't. But don't call it a break.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:38 PM
2

Over the wall, much older then you, cheater, with a terminal condition. Leave now and find someone more suitable for a relationship. If you don't, it's scarcity, not love.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:33 PM
1

It's definitely not wrong. Remember Nancy Reagan? Not that pretty as a movie star, she had to give daily blowjobs to studio executives to land roles. People want sausage, they just don't like to see it get made. Every industry that runs on star power and personalities has this going on backstage. Weinstein just picked the wrong broads to "harass".
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:15 PM
2

Still, don't go. She and her therapist will manipulate you into thinking cheating should be tolerated by high value men like yourself. Demonstrate your value and dump the cheater. The next one you'll meet will be younger, hotter and not a cheater.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:57 PM
4

Therapy for women exists solely to absolve them of their actions and blame it on you. Nothing else in your post is relevant except the fact she CHEATED. Don't go to therapy, don't pay for it, don't waste your time, don't listen to their explanations. Just walk away.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:47 PM
1

You can try to get over this by smashing her face into pulp. No less than a false accuser deserves.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:40 PM
1

Make sure to create a trail of her refusing to communicate about the project and present it to your professor and demand a change of partner or a solo project. Take it above his head if he refuses, all the way up to the dean.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:34 PM
5

Never tell. It's always non exclusive until YOU give YOUR WORD. If she asks you tell the truth, but not so wordy. And don't use the words "open relationship". In the beta real world it means she gets the GF treatment but doesn't give sexual exclusivity in return.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:03 PM
1

Successful manipulation requires a willing victim. Stop being a victim and ignore them permanently. They can't manipulate you if they're dead to you. Call local police to warn them about your parents thinking you're dead and trying to check up on you.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:23 AM
9

The issue isn't your trust, it's her inappropriate communication with other men. You did the right thing ghosting, but the wrong thing coming back and believing her hamster. Now she knows she has you and all it takes is some crying and beta bait and you're back in while she tests out the latest branch. Don't bother talking more. Just walk away. Not wife/GF/ baby mama material.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:07 AM
2

You're still making excuses. She was an adult who made all those decisions. We all face problems in our lives and we have different ways of dealing with it. She had a partying and alcohol "phase", like most women, only she had some life issues she could blame for it and have it not count. She chose to do all the things she did. She's always at risk for doing it again, and she already lied about her past, she could be lying about her present and still be in contact with her previous hookups. And …
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:19 PM
1

With all the guys coming up to girls, they know how to use "No" and not feel rude about it. All of them want their dick sucked. Does she feel rude for saying "no" to all of them? Learn to say "No" when saying yes won't benefit you and who cares if she thinks it's rude? She's not fucking you, so her opinion is worth exactly zero.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:46 PM
9

Be blunt with established plates. You meet to fuck. She can talk with somebody else.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:37 PM
2

The bitch threw you a bait and switch and you fell for it. You're not exclusively dating, so get that shit out of your head right now. If you want to be ballsy, tell her you're rolling back the relationship to what it was 2 weeks ago. And from now on, make bitches REALLY work for your exclusivity, don't just agree when they bring it up, otherwise you'll keep getting into these situations.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:28 AM
1

You have a point, and he shouldn't be pushy or imply she needs to find another boyfriend. But if she's not 100% on this, he should dump her. This is a LDR and requires special consideration from the GF, which he's not getting.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:39 PM
1

Yes, start recording and keep recording before she even starts undressing. What possible angle could she use to paint herself as the victim with a camera in her face and recording of the conversation discussing the use of the camera? Edit: That's called Agency. Women have it but don't know what it is.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:25 PM
1

Why would he get expelled if a girl decides to get naked and fuck in front of a running camera?
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:01 PM
4

It's almost a LDR. Pics and videos are a bare minimum for me to stay in this. Next time you see her, take out the camera and tell her you want to record it because you barely see her and you want to have something when you don't see her. Start recording and keep recording. She can give in or find a boyfriend she can see more often.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:23 AM
7

Proceed normally, as if she didn't have a boyfriend, because she doesn't. She has an imaginary boyfriend. That's what LDRs are. Don't let her imaginary boyfriend cockblock you.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:05 AM
1

It's not hate. It's a dualistic mating strategy. Women sleep around while young and look for a provider when older. We kinda have the same thing. We date but not commit while we get older and better (women are the opposite when it comes to aging). But when we commit at 40, it won't be to a 40 year old. So a single woman of any age will need to compete with 18 year olds to have a chance of getting a successful man (wedding, not bedding).
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:11 PM
6

Fucking or not fucking is the ultimate test of attraction. Which one are you?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 12:57 PM
3

You want to stop spinning plates and have a relationship with somebody you fucked 10 minutes after meeting who had a breakdown? All it takes is an argument with you, before she's on another guy's dick 10 minutes after meeting him.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 12:42 PM
3

Don't offer to take girls you haven't fucked yet to food or concerts. There is SO much wrong with your post, I'll let someone else set you straight.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 12:35 PM
3

Absolutely NO activities with plates that isn't preceded with sex. You're not "friends", and you don't want to enter that frame. This isn't a comfort test. She either wants an orbiter or a relationship. You're neither. You already allowed that plate to drop and you picked it up again with no problems. Do it like you did last time and she'll be happily fucking you a month later. Edit: Men don't "go shopping". We know what we want to buy when we enter the store, and there's no reason you should be…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 12:01 PM
7

Too much written. It doesn't matter what she thinks or sends you after you dump her. Just dump her by text, and block and ignore forever. The only way to get rid of her is to ignore her permanently.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 11:52 AM
4

Of course her friend isn't going to tell you she sleeps around. She's trying to get her a boyfriend, not a hookup. If your prospect has a functional vagina, chances are she's having sex with somebody or several somebodies, and that's not you. Make it you or walk away. Her house is trashed? She wouldn't use this excuse on Chad. Use your head. If she was attracted, it doesn't matter how trashy her place was. She'd want you in there and in her.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:51 PM
2

No, women shouldn't be respected automatically, nor any other group. It's earned on an individual basis. And women's definition of respect is give them the world and don't expect anything for it. And the uncomfortable truth about the downfall of your relationship and the disappearance of sex and your wife's depression has a lot less to do with Uncle Good Touch and more to do with you not being the man and leading the relationship and your wife.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:33 PM
1

Why are you in an LDR? Forget texting and FaceTime and see girls in person. And she has no right to complain when you prioritize a friend who's there over a girlfriend who isn't. You think she isn't talking to other guys when she's not in your city? Edit: dump the bitch already. That rudeness I wouldn't stand for a second, especially from someone who isn't there and can't service me.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:08 PM
1

After reading your replies, you REALLY fucked up in not treating it as YOUR project from the start, and now that she's about to make it big, she doesn't need you. You may still correct it. Let the band know how things are and sign them to YOUR band. Then sign her to YOUR band. If you get shit from any of them, dump and replace. Stop seeing yourself as replaceable, you have major experience in the industry, and you should be owning the band. You may have to reinvest all that hard work, but you'll…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:09 PM
3

Can you line up another songwriter easily? It may not be a bad idea to just tell her off privately. Who needs whom here? Don't forget to tell her it's your project, and she can be replaced if she starts the diva act with you.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:05 PM
5

Don't judge on one factor out of context, but on all factors in context. What concerns me is 10 years of being single and hooking up leaves her close to the wall and unaccustomed to a steady sex partner in a relationship. Don't try to get in a relationship with someone like that, that's hookup material only.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:59 PM
2

It doesn't sound like you're facing any trouble and as long as you don't mislead them in your income you should be fine. Reply quickly to all requests for information. Don't have more in your PayPal than necessary for business expenses, withdraw the rest with their debit card, this way it bypasses your bank account (asset wise), but you should still report all net income correctly. Find a disability lawyer in your area and get a free consultation. Try to work out any problems with SSDI as they a…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:33 PM
1

Ouch. She won't even get naked with you? Not looking good.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:31 PM
4

Hard next. You're nothing but a friend and after a whole year of knowing and not escalating, it's not happening now, either. You can try one last time. Soft next until she reaches out, tell her to come over for a hookup, be explicit, you have nothing to lose. If she doesn't agree, hard next. She wasted enough of your time.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:17 PM
1

Tell her you're not going, and you expect better than that from a girlfriend (contacting and going to see a guy that wants to hook up).
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:35 AM
1

No. She wants to use you as a hotel and I doubt you're getting laid on her busiest days. It could also be a backdoor move in. Today it's only 2 nights, tomorrow it's "I need a place to stay because I gave up my lease and bla bla bla..."
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:30 AM
25

In a clear trespassing situation, it would be better if you confronted him with an implement, and not allow him to get close enough to attack you. In a private house full of witnesses and a potentially violent trespasser, you get some leeway in being allowed to attack first. So basically, don't try to grapple with an attacker when you can just wrench him in the head. (and get away with it legally)
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:33 PM
5

Sadder is having a girlfriend who tells you all the things she won't do for all the reasons she won't do them.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:47 PM
2

She should have kept it to herself. If she ever uses it as an excuse to do or not do anything, dump her.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:27 PM
4

Maybe her standards are too high. Maybe she liked to fuck losers who weren't marriage material and now she wants to settle down with you. Don't bother asking, just observe her behavior.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:19 PM
9

This may be a hookup girl unsuitable for long term relationships. Proceed carefully and don't commit for a long time. Whatever you're missing now will become apparent later.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:09 PM
2

The lesson here is don't be friends first with girls, it becomes that much difficult to fuck them later.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:05 PM
2

This bitch doesn't deserve a face to face breakup. Dump her by text and block permanently and never reply to anything, regardless of what she says, or how she reframes it. Dead peoples' opinions are worthless. And you owe her $0. So don't even think of paying anything. Don't even discuss it. She would have to sue you in small claims, and she will lose.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:56 AM
1

Fix it quickly. Tell her that the ring idea was an overreaction, but your wife will have your name, end of story. Put your money where your mouth is.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 01:40 PM
1

"I'm 5'11, how much do you weigh?"
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:52 PM
22

How did she become your GF? If she really had to work for it, I doubt she would be allowing people to molest her in front of you. PS: it's the girl, not the friend.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:11 PM
1

If she wanted to stay, she would defend you at the scene. Right now, it sounds like she wants you to stay to hold it over you forever. She will bring it up to you and all her friends. There's no salvaging this. Dump her. It may all be a ploy between her and her friends to get you feeling guilty when nothing happened, using your drunkenness to doubt your own reality and what happened.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:37 PM
5

No such thing as a real number. Even if she knows it, she won't tell it. If she was drunk, it didn't count. If she decided it was rape after the fact, it didn't count. If it was only anal, it didn't count. She was in a different zip code, it didn't count, and so on and so forth.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:55 PM
1

Don't throw away good money after bad. Art career is a waste of time and money. Tell her to quit that shit and get a normal job. Reply to every help request by saying "I can take a look at your income and expenses, and recommend cuts and better alternatives, and help you make a budget". Your family either has an income problem or a spending problem. Neither of those justify your money being spent on them. Your mother had at least 2 chances to find a provider, and she fucked up. I feel bad for yo…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:39 PM
1

When she tells you to your face she doesn't do blowjobs, that's when you tell her to her face she's just a fuckbuddy.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:13 PM
1

Dump the bitch. She should have backed you up to the nosy bitch snitch. Instead she started arguing with you. Any woman you're committed to needs to live in your reality. And that means defending you to complete strangers who make assumptions and get security involved. Stop drinking if you can't control it.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:04 PM
0

Wrong. She'll fuck the right guy the first time out. Be the right guy.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 01:34 PM
2

Didn't you call us racist the last time around?
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:16 PM
1

Bring her to casual chain restaurants. Use coupons. It's good to manage their expectations by not taking them to expensive places to begin with. Fast food is OK too. It's your company she's after, not the food.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:13 PM
0

Be more agressive sexually. Take out your dick and guide it into her mouth. Don't even think of confronting her about this. It's not her job to do anything. It's your job to make sex at a woman. Don't leave her with any ambivalence. Even during periods, escalate orally or anally. No excuses.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:10 PM
1

She wasn't too tired for a fancy dinner or a two night anniversary celebration. Stop making her feel special. Don't plan any anniversaries for a GF. Anniversaries are for wives.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:19 PM
1

She wasn't too tired for a fancy dinner or a two night anniversary celebration. Stop making her feel special. Don't plan any fancy anniversaries for a GF. Anniversaries are for wives.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:13 PM
1

She wasn't too tired for a fancy dinner or a two night anniversary celebration. Stop making her feel special. Don't plan any anniversaries for a GF. Anniversaries are for wives.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:13 PM
1

She wasn't too tired for a fancy dinner or a two night anniversary celebration. Stop making her feel special. Don't plan any anniversaries for a GF. Anniversaries are for wives.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:12 PM
1

She wasn't too tired for a fancy dinner or a two night anniversary celebration. Stop making her feel special. Don't plan any anniversaries for a GF. Anniversaries are for wives.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:12 PM
2

It's OK to be blunt with an established plate. Tell her you wanna fuck. If it's not happening, there's no reason to keep responding to her conversation attempts.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:40 PM
1

Once she's in your room (or hers), stop asking and start doing. Don't ask her for a blowjob or ask if she wants to see your dick or if she ever saw one. Just whip it out and she can make her own decision, which includes leaving, or asking you to leave. Being non sexual with a girl in private in not an option.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 01:54 PM
1

She's fucking somebody. That somebody is not you. But you still buy her dinners. And you want meaningful intimacy with somebody like that?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:25 PM
155

She's telling you she's a slut. Take her somewhere private and escalate. If rejected, hard next.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:12 PM
10

Hikes and brunches make you a friend.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:32 AM
7

This was a test which you failed by responding every time she started some stupid convo which led nowhere. You knew she'd be back in another week. Why not try to set up a meet? How many chances did you have? What did you talk about if it wasn't logistics when she comes back? It looks like you didn't take control.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:16 PM
8

Some people may call it cowardly, but don't ruin her and her parents' day, let her have her fantasy, and you can let her down gently from Japan without any drama. Edit: just don't make any promises for what happens after you leave. Stop having sex with her. It's the perfect opportunity to become a serviceman's baby mama.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:15 PM
2

Even if she did show the numbers, why would you even consider not leaving a cheater? You did the right thing. Never take back a cheater under any circumstances. Whatever you may think of the circumstances of her cheating, taking her back in her mind will only reinforce that cheating is OK and forgivable.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:35 PM
11

Was there more sex before you became exclusive? If so, she entered the relationship in bad faith. Feel free to dump, downgrade or open up the relationship on your end only. Own your decision and tell her.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:31 PM
1

This isn't about him. SHE asked you for a break. SHE will fuck other men and keep you on the back burner.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:25 PM
3

There's about 3 different times in that convo you asked her out. Twice for dinner, one for hangout. She's just not into you. Don't be her orbiter or meal ticket. And don't offer dinners, offer drinks instead. Drinks are harder to confuse for a friend's hangout.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:20 PM
1

The guy is irrelevant. She asked you for a break. Women ask for breaks to fuck other guys and keep you as a backup. After she said that, you should have agreed and cut contact. What or who she does after that is her business. You shouldn't even be talking to her at this point. Manipulative guy isn't a pussy. He's a player who's going to fuck your ex, and you'll take her back.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:05 PM
1

Post it in raisedbynarcissists from another account. Omit any references to TRP or mysoginy, or exes or relationships. Focus on the abuse from immediate family. There's plenty there to get a good response.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:04 PM
1

How's your sex life? If she wants to take pole lessons, and she's not giving up the ass or mouth or being already kinky in bed, it's probably for another guy.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:17 PM
0

Read the sidebar. Saving the relationship isn't the point. It's saving you and being the prize. Worrying about "jeopardizing" a relationship shows you're in her frame and lacking abundance. Also, you can get laid elsewhere during a soft next. You're the prize. She's the one who has to decide if she's OK with it. (Hint: if your SMV is high enough, she'll be OK with it)
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:34 PM
1

I reported you as "not a request for personal advice".
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:04 AM
52

This was planned from the beginning. It's his circle attending, she only knows him there, it's a perfect cover for an entire night of cheating. And she lied about staying with a friend, so you'd let her go. If she could stay with a friend, she wouldn't bring up sleeping over. The right thing is to always let her go and dump her after. It's inappropriate for her to go to another guy's party, sleep over or not.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:01 AM
1

Thing is, if she was going to fuck you eventually, she'll be less likely to if you stay orbiting, and more likely to if you cut contact and make her work for your attention.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:14 AM
1

What's the point in talking more? She has you already pegged as an orbiter. Give it a last shot and tell her to come over. Escalate hardcore until she fucks or rejects you. Walk away. No more talking. She needs to offer up that pussy or you move on.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:06 AM
2

If she's not refusing his touch, you need to dump her.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:42 PM
3

Withholding attention and affection is OK, as long as you direct it into something useful (take a walk or go to gym, don't watch TV on the couch). But you have to improve, and you have to consider leaving if she doesn't snap in line. Ability to walk away is your biggest power in the relationship, and legal marriage makes it difficult to do so, and she knows it. Get the ball rolling on a legal separation. You don't have to go through a divorce if you don't want to, but it will let her know you ha…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:28 PM
5

How new? You can try for an annulment. No divorce. Check the laws in your state and see a lawyer. You're too young to get committed, and she has problems she needs to deal with. You can improve and find a much better woman, one who isn't brainwashed or have vaginismus or some other "medical" reason not to fuck you or use it to shame you for wanting your wife/GF. I don't know if you're going to lose half of your pre-marriage savings. That's why it's important to see a lawyer. Even if you can't an…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:02 PM
2

Don't take her to Paris, Texas on your way to Paris, France to see Paris Hilton. She wants you to get a 2 bedroom house, so she can move in and have her own room.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:14 PM
3

There are plenty of independent 37 year old college educated post wall women right here in the US. If you want to go through the trouble of international dating, find an 18 year old. Why go for an oldie corrupted by college and two decades of single life?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 10:52 PM
1

I believe the author has a science degree of some type. It's been a long time since I read it.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 08:23 PM
-1

Retard should have taken photos of the damage and called the cops.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:41 PM
1

Read the online book "Erectus Walks Amongst Us". Eye opening, but politically incorrect.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:40 PM
6

What's the point of your post? This girl fucked you once and then friendzoned you, because you were busy being her friend, instead of her fucker. There is no situation here, and TRP fully describes and understands it. Your problem is that you took what a woman said at face value.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:20 AM
3

I think she'll ditch you after dinner to go see her "friend".
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:45 PM
2

If someone refused to take a pregnancy test for me, I wouldn't be doing anything with her today, or ever. She's looking for drama. Hard next and hope it's his.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 09:12 PM
2

She has nothing to tell you after dumping you. Block her.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 05:50 PM
1

There's nothing to talk about. When she told you she wants to taste other cock, that was the breakup. Don't waste any more time on her, or give her space in your head. IF you wanna try to make it a plate, tell her friendship with benefits only.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:23 PM
3

You already got that pussy, and the bitch dumped you herself, so time to move on and don't get involved with virgins anymore.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:15 PM
2

By not having girls as no-sex friends in the first place. If you were fucking her, you could joke and say she should accept. That other thing you said just didn't sound right.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:07 PM
7

Still sounds fishy that she changed the day and the venue. You set the day and the venue.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:05 PM
15

That's not a date. That's her wanting to go to a boat festival and having no ride, or she's going to ditch you there for Chad.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:01 PM
1

You failed by crawling back to her, when she should have been the one crawling. Save your dignity and dump her. Why would you even entertain it? Meeting her Chad?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:00 PM
2

She wants to set the frame by not talking to you for a week. One up her and ghost forever.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:56 PM
5

What are you trying to do? If you want to fuck, tell her to come over. If not, block everywhere and forget.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:10 PM
1

The guy is a freak, pure and simple. Who knows what he's been doing with his daughters all those years.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:15 PM
11

Dump or downgrade. There are no breaks. You had a break up. She fucked more than one guy all those months. Getting back with her was a mistake. You will never see her in the same light again, and some people could say it's an evolutionary instinct to avoid getting cucked from your woman's recent sex partner. Don't let people convince you it's wrong.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:11 PM
-15

Tomorrow things need to go back to normal. It's a dog, not a person. Plus someone fucked up when that dog was hit anyway, and if it's her, you should temper your comfort with a little lecture about unleashed or unattended dogs.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:12 PM
2

No you're not. Tell him you were smoking her out and you had to get flirty, but it's OK because she contacted you first, and you got her to invite you over.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:58 PM
4

What kind of a useful discussion can you hope to have about other men fucking your wife/GF.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:55 PM
4

Bro, cuckolding is when another guy fucks your wife/GF. MMF is a gangbang. FFM is a threesome. Get your terminology right and don't be a cuck under the guise of threesomes or swinging. When any man fucks YOUR woman, that's a cucking.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:51 PM
4

Could be beta bait. (When she gives you a sob story to see if you melt and become her best friend or ignore and fuck hard) Ignore and fuck and split. Edit: if he was already her BF and she forgave him, chances are it wasn't rape.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 01:05 PM
2

The only thing you have to say it's a forum for men. That's it. There's nothing more to talk about. If she starts about misogyny, interrupt her and tell her it isn't. Interrupt and shush, belittle her opinion. Don't even let her finish saying anything disrespectful. Tell her to keep her mouth shut or get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:49 PM
0

I've never changed a diaper and I don't see myself doing it ever. That's just something you'll have to tell every potential mother of your child and have her take it or leave it. Changing diapers is housework, which is her work if you bring home the money.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:19 PM
2

Her own lawyer is absolutely required. A divorce is a court proceeding, and even if a divorce is agreed to outside of court, it still has to be approved by the court. That requires both sides' interests to be represented independently without conflicts. An example: a sleazy husband takes his wife to his lawyer who had her sign a waiver of conflict, and signs on to take his debt, or something.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:50 AM
1

The OP thinks she ditched him to go to another bar with another drinking buddy.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:42 AM
2

The husband must have his own divorce lawyer, and your mother must have one of her own. Chances are cheating won't matter in many states. A lawyer can tell you. You don't need to hate your dad, but you and your mom need to cut him off financially, and you shouldn't feel forced to communicate with him or have him in any part of your life. And stop funding his trips to India, which is a shit place to live for your disabled sister. See if you can bring her here. Some people are irreparable. Just de…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:28 AM
6

You never ask about her current situation. Always assume attraction. Escalate until you get rejected. Then walk.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:49 PM
11

Cut all contact and block her on everything. She's still manipulating you, and it's working perfectly. The only way to make it stop is to stop caring about her and start fucking other women. Edit: "Therefore destroying my ex?" Stop being a pussy and taking her word at face value. She's had her holes filled with cock every night since you dumped her, and here you are worrying about destroying her.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 01:10 PM
60

Never consider staying with a cheating whore to heal a relationship. The relationship failed when she fucked around, not when you finally dumped her. There's nothing to wait for and decide. Either you will tolerate the cheating and stay, or not tolerate it and leave.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 01:06 PM
3

They're gonna say whatever society expects them to say. Yes, they'd fuck a 16 year old, a 14 year old and a 12 year old in the same bed if nobody was around to judge them.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:16 PM
1

Fucking ignore him and pretend he never talked to you. He said, he said. You take orders from higher ups, not peers. Dig in your heels, maybe he can even get fired for not doing the work assigned to him. Edit: file a corporate complaint against him and the manager. Banks should have an anonymous report line.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:42 AM
1

Take some money and go to a poor village.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:36 PM
1

Soft next is a reasonable response to bitchy behavior, especially if no sex.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:24 PM
1

Don't feel bad, she's an adult who made the decision to leave you. This isn't like the old days when the woman was near the man by default. This is the natural end of the relationship. Like an independent adult, she'll just have to deal with getting her own place when she comes back from training. You already moved on. Edit: remove all of her stuff from your house, send it to her or her parents, reject all mail that comes in her name and return to sender, but write her new address on it. And any…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:08 PM
1

Is she on the lease? Paying rent? She needs to be out of your home for good, and not have the idea that she can "drop by" on the weekends, or come back to live with you once the training is over.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:38 PM
1

Maybe the fact that you have nothing to do on the weekends and hang out with a girl group is why she's not fucking you?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 02:32 PM
3

If you never had "the talk", she's not your GF. No talking required, just treat her like a plate. She'll get it. Don't "lead her on", but it sounds like she led herself on. And you have all this distance. Use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 01:46 PM
3

Stop being a bitch and cut the other bitch out of your life. Absence will make her grow fonder. She has an unnatural obsession with your life and you need to deal with it by removing yourself completely from her life, cold turkey. She needs a therapist, not emotional incest.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:27 AM
1

This bitch must be stupid if she turns you down but asks you a personal question and expects a response. Ignore. Let her try again without a rejection.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:20 PM
3

Only a dishonest person would believe something like that and pay for it. Still wrong, but the victim's greed is also wrong.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:54 AM
15

Have your feet ever stunk? Have you ever considered amputating them for hygiene reasons?
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:29 AM
1

"You can't cheat an honest man"
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:27 AM
1

If you have to stay there, get up in the morning and leave until dinner. She gets no attention.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 08:24 PM
2

Put your foot down and say you aren't meeting her parents, because she's been really shitty almost every day and she's this close to getting dumped, so meeting her parents isn't in the cards right now.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 05:29 PM
7

You don't. She's not going to fuck you, that's why the friend is there. All that stuff you wrote doesn't matter. She just wants the attention.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 03:46 PM
1

Tell her parents she's coming back, set a date to move out, tell her and offer to pay for the moving costs. If she gives you any shit, inform her that you will be recording your surroundings (as you take out your phone and start recording), and getting her formally evicted. Follow through. Stop having sex. Pregnancy is really the only way she can keep you and your house.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 02:46 PM
2

I can't say I condone it, but I can't say I condemn it.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:11 PM
2

I will keep giving this example to every insecurity question. I won't bother looking it up, but it's there. There was a short guy who was insecure about it, and the wife knew it. One night in bed, she proposed getting a sperm donor to have kids. The guy had to pretend to be asleep. She goes "Honey?". Insecurities are for your therapist, not your woman.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 03:59 PM
5

Tell him if he's going to meet Asian women online and go there, go for an 18 year old. Whatever I think of him going there, the fact that he's going for a 36 year old is the problem. A little ripe for for a desirable American bachelor.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 02:52 PM
1

Tell her you'll have a threesome with her, or without her.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 12:04 PM
2

Virgins still have boyfriends. Oral (sometimes anal) is what they must do to keep a boyfriend. She may be "saving" herself for marriage, but she's had boyfriends and has done things, and there are aspects of her life that a modern virgin probably wouldn't share with you to keep a certain image in your head and discourage any ideas. You started off as friends, so friends you'll be. The guy who didn't pretend to be her friend invited her to his place and did everything short of busting her cherry.…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:18 PM
2

Get her alone and try to get your dick sucked. She's not a virgin in THAT way.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:11 PM
2

Sleeping over even once and not escalating is enough to call you beta. That stuff about your texting making her friends think you're together. The truth is they know you're beta by all the texting you do with a girl you haven't fucked. Their own boyfriends probably don't text them much. But all that is irrelevant. Do you think you're getting something out of all the time you put it with her? Also do you think some of the activities you do with her should be done by the boyfriend?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:09 PM
2

She tells her friends what a nice beta orbiter you are. You will get absolutely nothing from her friends. Hard next all women who won't fuck you.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:31 PM
2

Yes, a plate is OK. But LDR means exclusivity. So as long as you don't commit, and don't pay for her move, it's OK to plate her when she comes to Germany. But she wants a relationship anyway for making the move, and she will probably be disappointed when it isn't coming.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:26 PM
6

Army girls are whores. Downgrade before you both leave. She WILL fuck around.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:23 PM
1

Oneitis. A chick wants to get something off her chest and YOU FLY TO HER to get a fucking relationship pitch. Pressuring for an answer? Here's a fucking answer. "I live here. You live there. Talking relationships is pointless." You could have shut that shit down over the phone. Tell her a relationship isn't happening and move on if that's a problem for her.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:17 PM
4

Same as always. Escalate and get laid or get rejected and soft next. Rinse and repeat until you get laid or hard next.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:05 PM
1

All the costs and disadvantages of (1/3) home ownership with no privacy, or maintenance free living with privacy. Rent and save your money.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:26 PM
-1

Don't show insecurity, and let her go, but . .. That doesn't sound like GF material. If you only waited 2 more months, you could have just kept her as a plate. Now you have to decide to be OK with it or downgrade.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:24 PM
7

Cancel the damn sushi and make it drinks. Sushi comes after anal.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:18 PM
2

If she's not fucking you, it's not a mixed message. If you escalate and get shut down AND THREATENED WITH EVICTION or sexual harassment, it's not a mixed message. Women aren't for living with as roommates. Get your own place or male roommates. Edit: she could really be documenting your "sexual harrassment", without documenting her flirting or IOIs. I would take it as a serious threat.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:38 AM
5

She obviously wants European citizenship. She let you fuck her, and you go away for 6 months. Of course she's still open for business if another European citizen comes along. She won't sit out for half a year. Edit: what was she before being a born again Christian? Anal or oral plate?
/r/askTRP13/08/17 07:56 PM
2

That threat deserves a physical response. Garden hose combined with recordings of false threats.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:31 PM
1

Occasional dinner is OK. 99, Friendly, Applebee's. Basically anything with entrees under 10$. No Olive garden, no steak houses, no lobsters.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:19 PM
1

Excommunication is a good thing. Brainwashed friends and family not talking to you is a good thing. I don't see the problem.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:17 PM
0

Open relationship by her standards would make her your girlfriend, not plate. So you already fucked up by agreeing to any "relationship". Regardless of how she sees this open relationship, you must never call her your GF, or convey other relationship benefits onto a plate. She thinks this open relationship gives her the right to act out and be jealous. Soft next is good. No relationship for her, not even an "open" one.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 02:39 PM
4

If your destined partner gets hit by a bus and dies, what then? Will god deliver another destined partner especially for you? Or will you be alone for the rest of your life because your destined partner died and you don't want to settle for a non destined partner? I stole this bit from Tom Leykis.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:33 AM
7

Send a copy of the texts to anyone she may have told she was abused.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:24 AM
6

At two weeks, it's time to cut your losses. Tell her you're on a break until she's ready to engage in a physical relationship.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:44 PM
2

Pussy is what you should be expecting from her, instead of asking what she's expecting from you, or giving her options A B C. Get her alone, escalate on her, get rejected, leave and block on everything. And it doesn't fucking matter how your friendship transformed her, or how long she expects to have it, she gives up the pussy or you split.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:05 PM
1

Now I feel stupid. You're the one on the right?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:48 AM
1

"just friends hanging out" You won't actually take a day off work to watch a tattoo slut get her "sleeve" finished?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:42 AM
1

If she's an adult, she's fair game for the BF. Probably wants a mom daughter threesome, or just using the mom to get to the daughter.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:29 AM
1

You turned her off by OFFERING your commitment in exchange for her not talking to this guy. When you're "talking about exclusivity" and she tells you about the other guy(s) she's seeing, the exclusivity talk stops.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:34 PM
8

Just keep using her for free food and ignore all validation communication. Try to set up meetings when you get your free food, otherwise ignore.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:35 PM
2

Let her do her thing separately with her friend, then you see her later. Also a bad idea to set up the next date for the next day. Comes across as needy and not having enough things to occupy your week with.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:10 PM
3

Yes, you bail. She wants to bring a cock blocker to the drinks. Didn't need one for lunch, but she thinks you might be trying to smash with the drinks tonight. Cancel tonight and try again later.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:04 PM
10

You're both too young to be in a relationship anyway. She's behaving like a single girl, so start treating her as a plate. Don't dump her and don't confront her, just pull back and see other girls. Let the relationship end without you ending it.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:52 PM
1

You committed to a hookup girl you met on a hookup site, who wouldn't even fuck you without commitment. A hookup girl with college experience (CC) and loans for a useless degree. And now she's dropping marriage hints, because of a useful degree and rich family. Good going. Watch out for that birth control.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:35 PM
11

What her ex did doesn't matter. You're the man in her life now. And she needs to deal with her problems if she wants to maintain a healthy relationship. "My ex assaulted me, so I don't suck dick anymore. And you're not important enough for me to deal with it"
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:17 AM
1

Is she into keeping her boyfriends? When the door's closed, the window better be open, no ifs ands or buts.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:16 AM
1

Tom Leykis general tips on prenups: Don't do any action towards your marriage until the prenup is signed. (No proposal, no date set, no announcement or invitations, nothing booked). Have her own lawyer review it. He will attempt to convince her to demand more, and you'll see before marriage how greedy she is or not. Videotape the signing presided by a retired judge who will ask her questions to make sure she knows what she's signing. Prenups aren't the place for custody of children or child supp…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 02:16 PM
1

She never had a boyfriend because she's a slut with nothing more to offer to the guys she fucked. And they never committed. That's what it literally means. All the guys she fucked escalated with her. None of them texted her for months. Edit: hehe hehe hehe hehe hehe
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:53 PM
1

Canada isn't really foreign. Tom Leykis used to get those calls all the time. If you marry her, you agree to support her for 10 years, even if she dumps you the moment she gets her citizenship. She was able to manage somehow before you came into the picture. Don't get yourself involved in her problems.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:44 PM
3

Call police? No. Have your friends give witness statements to catch the predator? No. Scream "rape" at the top of your lungs? No. Have a random guy come up and start assaulting you and your friends and any other men there don't care? Probably not a random guy, but the guy she was cheating with doing an activity that seemed perfectly normal to everyone there. Go to a hookup Paradise in Greece with single friends? Yes yes yes.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 02:40 PM
5

What you are essentially proposing is having a "girlfriend" that fucks other guys and comes back to cry on your shoulder. You already have an open relationship, the way men ought to define it.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 08:15 PM
17

Dust off your resume means update it and send it to everyone. Don't tell them you will be quitting, they didn't earn the courtesy. Tell the new job you're on vacation and can start immediately. After arriving to your new job, submit your resignation by email. Make sure to mention being defrauded out of a raise.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:00 PM
1

That's it. Next date takes place at your place or hers, otherwise there is no date. Let her say whatever she wants about trusting you, end the convo. Try again later, rinse and repeat. All conversations end when she doesn't accept coming to your place or hers.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:01 PM
28

The bouncer probably fucked her, too.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:48 PM
1

What if they weren't rumors and she's really a slut? And it is your friends' place to comment on your GF and your relationship. In your place, I would keep the friends and get a new GF.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:09 PM
1

Put your fucking foot down. "I will keep seeing my friends and there will be no further discussion about it"
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:02 AM
5

Yes. She went with you. Midway she changed her mind and went with him. Nothing to do but leave. He can give her a ride back.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 11:06 PM
3

Investment of time and money, and you want to do an actual activity, so she can see how awesome you are. Billiards or swimming are good active inexpensive dates. Coffee is a low time low money investment. Dinner is just uggggh, and for a first date has no purpose but beta tradition or dinner whore, takes up time and money, and you're sitting there watching her eat.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:56 PM
4

Don't call it a date, don't get meals with chicks you haven't fucked.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:35 PM
1

This isn't necessarily about cheating, but wouldn't you rather have a girlfriend that didn't want to leave you for months at a time? She knows if she isn't there for a high value man, someone else may be. So she's probably not that concerned about losing her spot, which means she doesn't really value your commitment or your value. She makes her decision, you make yours. While she's gone, you're single. Don't put your life on hold for her. If you're still available when she comes back, you may ge…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:52 PM
1

Don't be a stupid, lazy fuck. You came to ask for fucking scientific studies on fucking and attraction, you got many useful answers. Try googling something first before you come here asking for studies. "Nice guys finish last" has been backed by mainstream science. And don't ask for sources. Fucking Google. Scientific studies and anecdotes shouldn't be taken blindly, they should only serve as a basis for comparison with your own personal results.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:21 PM
8

Ignore. If she doesn't actually reside there, you're assisting her in defrauding an institution (state?)
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:09 PM
1

Google reproducibility or replication crisis. Edit: sometimes the same data produce different results.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:00 PM
1

A scientific study isn't necessarily more reliable than anecdotal evidence. Have you read about the huge percentage of scientific studies whose results can't be reproduced?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:41 PM
3

You invested into a complete stranger. You give value to people in your life who give you value. It's OK to give answers to a girl who blows and cooks for you, for example.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:30 PM
2

Why not just reach into your wallet if you want to give out value to almost strangers?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:02 PM
0

The "alternative" is to downgrade her after you leave. Her reaction disqualified her from any further discussion on the matter.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:17 PM
3

Delete the goddamn spy app from your phone, then come back for more advice.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:43 PM
6

It represents the sun, and has for thousands of years. What a political party did with it 70 years ago has no bearing on my right to display it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:47 AM
2

Why would your LTR need a group invitation to the reunion? If she wanted to go to the reunion, she'd go. I don't get the group thing, unless the reunion is the perfect cover for catching up with old flames without increasing n count.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:12 PM
1

Fuck the dance and dump the psycho. Block her everywhere and inform parents of any suicide threats.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 03:07 PM
3

Don't catch emotions. She gets the comfort from her cuck, and the sex from you. You get the best deal. Never become the BF to a woman like that, however.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 02:16 PM
1

You buried in the middle of the story the fact that she's over the wall at 34 AND fat. Too much shit to tolerate from an oldie fatty. Dump her.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 02:13 PM
7

Fuck other women to get this whore out of your head.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:41 PM
1

Why don't you offer for her to come to your house and do your laundry?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:27 PM
2

That would ENCOURAGE me to get closer and to move her skirt back out of the way. That's escalation. What you're allowing her to do is just sit comfortably on the couch with no further risk of escalation. Being inoffensive is the kiss of death. You have to polarize her. You have to make it clear with your actions that she will fuck you tonight or leave in 20 minutes. Sitting on the couch and being friendly is not an option.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:20 PM
1

There are no genuinely shy girls who need a slow approach. That's a front for the betas, as you learned with that cheating revelation. Women will fuck you if they're attracted to you, and if you make the move. Stop dinners and long walks outside. Get her to your place for drinks and escalate. Spending the entire day together was stupid, because you think it shows her you care, but it shows her you have no other options to be walking in parks all day long with a girl you haven't fucked.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:09 PM
2

If you take this whore back, you deserve to get cheated on and sent to jail on a lie every day for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:02 AM
3

Not your girlfriend, just a girl who won't bang. Find girls who bang, make one of them your girlfriend. Soft next this one for a couple of weeks, and no more attention for no sex. Edit: when she was talking about jilling off, you should have escalated. Never let a woman TALK sex without you at least ATTEMPTING it.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:38 PM
3

That always happens when you hang and don't bang. No matter how you justify it, you're an orbiter. Fade out of her life. She has no purpose to you.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 04:25 PM
2

There are no contradictions here. You state your standards, she's free to fuck or walk. She can have standards of her own, but you can refuse them and she can choose to fuck or walk. (usually they don't walk)
/r/askTRP28/04/17 09:57 PM
-1

Tell her to come over and fuck you or cut contact permanently and stop wondering what she wants or what her motivations are.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:57 PM
6

Don't offer dinners, movies or anything else. Drinks only at night. There's no confusing that.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:19 PM
8

"Dark" meant whites who got a tan from working outside.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 06:50 PM
5

If you let her choose you over her family, she will ultimately blame you for it when the relationship ends.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 06:26 PM
2

The best thing about Reddit is the ability to create unlimited self contained worlds with their own rules. That means there will be subreddits with whose opinions you will disagree, faggot. You are free to start your own subreddit and set your own rules in your own universe.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 06:23 PM
1

Yeah, I bet she's real exstatic about your new investment banking job and salary. People moving apart is the natural end of the relationship. The fact that she helped you someway in the past is irrelevant to this basic fact of exclusive sexual relationships. Dump her.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 12:53 AM
2

Text her that she's a fuck buddy now and can do whatever she wants.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 12:43 AM
1

The only way to deal with it is to stop caring. Anything else depends on the other person.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 10:40 PM
1

Maybe start with an independent chicken place and then franchise it?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 12:16 PM
2

"I love you but I'm not in love with you" There is absolutely no reason for your LTR to tell you what's going on in her head regarding other men. Dump or downgrade.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 10:28 PM
6

If your GF didn't raise a storm over it, you're dating a whore and you need to downgrade.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:41 PM
1

What I'm saying is that women meet men to fuck them, except for your special unicorn who only meets men for mudding.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:15 PM
1

Have fun, cuck.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:10 PM
1

You're acting on accusations, instead of acting on behavior. Your girlfriend's behavior was inappropriate, accusation or not.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:09 PM
1

It's the behavior that's the problem, not the accusation. Two men met two women to have sex.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:06 PM
2

Too late, you should have dumped her then. What she had was a perfect situation for two girls to cheat, and they both did. You believed her words over her actions.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:53 PM
2

Open relationships are for cucks. Either plate or monogamy. You can already fuck other women anyway, why would you need a "girlfriend" who fucks other men and then comes home to cry on your shoulder? Edit: to us, the term "open relationship" means plate, not a girlfriend who fucks other men.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:58 AM
5

Your dad came into your mom's asshole, but you still came out. can anyone explain?
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:12 PM
1

She's already getting sexual attention (what you can't provide) from other men. She will have to get most of her emotional support from other men as well. To reframe the relationship, send her a short text along the lines of "You can't do a traditional relationship with the distance involved but you want to keep seeing her when she comes to town." After that reduce attention to the bare minimum required to fuck her once a month. And don't worry about her feelings. She made a decision for her fut…
/r/askTRP22/04/17 02:37 PM
7

Go for it, she just wants to fuck so escalate unless it's clear she isn't into you. Do degrading things for experience and don't get emotional. See her sporadically and don't let her get attached. Know when to cut it off.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 01:55 PM
15

It's a fucking LDR, which means find women in your area you can fuck. And no more phone convos. You are just so incredibly busy talking with other women that you can only text her once in a while, and only in response.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 01:31 PM
2

Yes. She's only here because she's your GF, and she's been taking it for granted. If the visa says she has it because she's your GF, you're OBLIGATED to report it if her visa is tied to your relationship.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:08 AM
1

Your mission with this bitch should be 100% sexual. You're currently being a nice guy who doesn't wanna offend. What you need to do is POLARIZE. Either make her want to fuck you or make her leave offended at your groping and flirting. You don't want her thinking that friendship is an option by the way you act. Ditch the fucking app and call her on her phone for one on one and don't mix friendship with ass.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:58 PM
19

She needs to be a plate and you need your own place. At the very least, you need to withdraw exclusivity immediately. She pissed all over it. Now let her be one of many.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:36 PM
3

You got ultimatum'd into a LTR, pal. Should have let her go if she wanted out. And you believed her hamster and the BS about negativity in her life having to do with being your plate. Tell her you changed your mind and if she wants out, that's OK with you.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:28 PM
3

It may not matter now, but if this one went for the long haul, when you're 40 she'll be 42, 50_52, 55_57. If you were thinking long term, wouldn't it make more sense when you're 40 for your future wife to be 28 instead of 42? Edit: solution is spin plates or get into short term LTRs until you're old enough to find a young wife, if you insist on getting married.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:51 PM
2

It's not a test. Women don't fear losing your monogamy, they fear losing your support and commitment. So as long as she's not in danger of losing it, you can get side pieces. That doesn't work the other way, however. She fucks you and only you to keep the support and commitment coming. Edit: never mind, you signed away all rights and soul under UCMJ.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:02 PM
1

The engagement ring is a conditional gift and goes back to the giver, regardless of who broke off the arrangement. Make her return the ring AND pay half of the remaining rent on the lease. You can sue her for BOTH AND WIN. Edit: bargain down to her paying full rent and her keeping the ring. If it has a diamond, it's almost worthless.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:11 PM
1

Put the paper in front of her and tell her that your wife won't stand in the way of her husband's 2A rights. Mean it.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 12:19 PM
4

If your GF isn't swatting away other mens' attention, she's a slut and not worthy of LTR. She already told you she won't do anything about it. Dump her.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:49 AM
1

Gaslight her. You didn't do anything to her, and she's welcome to stop speaking to you if she brings it up again.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:12 AM
2

If you didn't get involved, she'd have to find someone else to take care of her. This is not your responsibility. Period. Let someone else take the burden, like you already have.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:05 PM
3

Get rid of her and the extra mouth. Her parents are a place to go, not a no place to go.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 05:33 PM
1

And who determines what is sexual immorality if not you? A pedophile priest?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:03 PM
-2

What the hell is a devout Christian? You make Christianity in your image. People who disagree aren't your type of Christian.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:56 PM
1

Ordinarily, yes. Unless she ghosts you first, which possibly happened. Did you try to fuck her when she stayed over?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:52 PM
2

What game? If she isn't interested, you'll find someone who is. Stop worrying about what she thinks and start respecting yourself and not wasting your time.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:41 PM
3

She wasn't bothered to reply earlier. If she isn't bothered to get back to you by the day of the date, there is no date.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:39 PM
3

Don't cancel, and don't go unless she confirms herself.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:30 PM
2

Stop being a fucking retard. It's between the cuck and his GF. He accepted the situation, he needs to solve it without your input.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:09 PM
4

Tell these Mormons to suck on Joseph Smith's dick and live your life the way you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:35 PM
1

You were dancing by yourself at a club? Maybe they just didn't want you to be lonely on the dance floor.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:12 PM
5

Exactly. She already dumped you to fuck someone else and is trying to keep you around in case he doesn't commit. Plate only if you even want to continue.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:05 AM
5

Still her fuck up Edit: she already ended it. You won't be the bad guy.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:00 AM
1

If you're "about" to get married, "thinking" about a prenup is way too late. Have you told this "desperate fiancee" that you absolutely won't get married without one?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 10:55 AM
16

You didn't fuck up. She did. It's done. Women who are into you don't need to rethink relationships. Move on. She got fucked, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 10:37 AM
3

Who's paying the rent and when does the lease expire? Why did you let them move in? If you can support yourself, kick them out. If they refuse to leave, you find a new apartment when the lease expires and leave them there.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 10:34 AM
7

That's what you get for having a 1 year LTR so ingrained into your life. Just pull off the band-aid, she's basically begging you to dump her to absolve her of any responsibility for ending this dead end relationship.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:02 PM
19

No sex for weeks at a time? You're fucking 20! Dump her and let her deal with her issues.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:17 PM
18

If you have texts from her, keep them. Those could be useful if she tells her BF she was raped.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:26 PM
1

Playground.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 11:26 AM
1

Whip out your dick.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 11:15 AM
2

You failed twice: Trying hard to offend her after she told you to try hard to offend her, and collapsing immediately after she called you out on what she TOLD you to do. Do you escalate or just tell jokes?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:38 AM
5

Being yourself is how you become just friends, if you haven't discovered TRP. She may be attracted, but your lack of action puts you in the friend box.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:30 AM
5

The "OK" was the breakup. I guarantee you she was single this past week. You should be too.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:24 AM
8

I don't see a problem here. Your platonic female friend feels offended by your jokes you've been telling over the past several months.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:17 AM
5

She already said she's not going to let other people determine what she posts. Confrontations only prove your low value. Don't bring it up and keep fucking her and others, but your girlfriend she ain't.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:05 PM
19

Have you tried a permanent fast? Water only until you die of malnutrition.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:18 PM
2

Did she accept moving out or did you assume that because of the lease? She can make that difficult for you.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:24 PM
8

She already has a shoulder to cry on, so worry about yourself for now. Find a place immediately and move out.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:28 PM
11

No relationships with prostitutes. The presence of cameras doesn't make them not whores.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:57 AM
28

You don't know shit, except that she used to fuck you, and now she doesn't. Find girls who want to fuck you, instead of pining over girls who dump you.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:18 PM
5

Tell her charity doesn't count as work, since it doesn't bring in money or benefit the household. Put your foot down, because it doesn't matter what she wants. House work is women's work. If she doesn't like it, let her find a new husband.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:14 PM
1

Edit: I misread a part of your post. Tell her that you work and she does housework. Then go to work, and don't do housework. How much money does her charity work bring in? Less then your future employment? She'll have to cut back her hours there to make room for housework.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:05 PM
30

You never, ever, ever take back a girl who dumped you or took a break. Period, no exceptions unless you like tasting other mens' cum on her tongue.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:01 PM
3

She snuck off to suck off, and now wants to know if doing it openly is OK with you. Go with your gut and downgrade to plate. Call it an open relationship and remove all emotion and exclusivity.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:28 PM
3

There's nothing to deal with, because she's a plate. What she said she wouldn't do doesn't matter, because you shouldn't care what plates do. Don't tell her you looked through her phone, and don't tell her anything, but treat her like a plate and not a GF. You found out what she's good for. THAT MEANS NO MORE DINNERS!
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:20 PM
2

It's very likely she's just looking for an orbiter and someone to help her with homework. See her at night only, don't "go out" or make an event for her, don't go for meals when drinks will do, don't have college conversations or help her with work, DO take her somewhere private and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:41 PM
10

Mind your own business. This wasn't the first time she was being a slut, and not the first time her Grandpa called her one.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:55 PM
2

Dump her. If she's not fucking you, she's fucking someone else, and a two week break is enough to test another branch. Porn is just an excuse to take a break.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:15 PM
6

You need to dump the fat bitch so she can get fit for the next sucker.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 09:16 PM
1

Pull out all the stops and go 100% filthy sex talk. Force her to make a decision to see you or cut contact herself.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:24 PM
2

The time to think if it was the right decision was before the breakup. After it's done, it's not open to rethinking.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:22 PM
51

Don't tell the guy to stop, he's not doing anything wrong. Dump or downgrade her. Make up something about exploring life or following dreams. You can avoid turmoil by not sactually saying the reason you're dumping her, ie she's a whore. She ended the relationship when she started eye-fucking him.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:05 PM
-5

Women shouldn't look behind the curtain. Dump her if she gives you any shit. Don't explain the Red Pill, just point at the door.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:34 AM
2

Inform someone in the company that a vindictive ex threatened to get you fired and show them the "evidence" and the threat text.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:45 AM
22

Never contact her. Keep all communications, especially if she threatens your job. If she contacts your job, file a police report. If you get fired, EXTREME EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:38 AM
1

Are you the same guy from the other day? If she gave a fuck, she'd be at the doctor's yesterday. Dump this bitch! Edit: vaginismus is likely psychological, and the reason some other guy will fuck her like you can't is because he turns her on.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:52 AM
2

You'll have to search this specifically for your state, and specifically what arrangement constitutes common law marriage. If you have a full wedding ceremony without a marriage license, but present yourself as husband and wife, the state can label your arrangement as a "marriage", which is why it's important to see a lawyer because considering anything.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:48 AM
3

If she agrees to see you, she wants to fuck. If you escalate and she doesn't stop you, she wants to fuck. Ignore talk that contradicts actions.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:36 PM
3

Proposing is beta, and ceremonial marriage means as much in divorce court as a legal marriage. You can slowly release your opinions over a time, commenting on various stories such as cost of marriage or the diamond industry scam. You shouldn't even mention marriage or your views on it until you've already been balls in. EDIT: You don't "propose" to get married, you "agree" to get married if the deal is right. Getting on your knees and proposing is wrong. Convincing you to marry her is right.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:31 PM
2

Google free file. Depending on your income, you can get free file for both fed and state taxes.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:03 PM
6

Tell your friend not to let her in, and show him the 40 texts. If she actually is there, refuse to discuss anything. Rely on your friends to kick her out if she gives you any shit.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:01 PM
1

Stop fucking her right now. When it's obvious she's not pregnant, dump her.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:56 PM
1

You're not required to wear your heart on your sleeve. Sometimes it's better not to say things, or phrase it in a better way. But if you said it, stand by it. Women want an oak, not a pussy willow. OD'ing IS natural selection, but you're not required to let everyone know that.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:30 PM
9

She lost respect because you apologized. Never apologize, always double down. Women are fucked up like that.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:41 AM
16

When you put it out it becomes trash to you, regardless of what it was before you put it out.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 09:50 PM
1

Dump her. If you were Brad Pitt, she'd run to the doctor with her "vagidontwannafuckyousmus", and offer up her younger sister as a replacement in the meantime. Edit: Does she have "assinismus" or "mouthinismus"?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 09:41 PM
54

When you set out the trash on your curb do you get angry if a homeless guy grabs something he likes?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:19 PM
1

"Naw baby, the dick comes with the package. Lemme know if you change your mind."
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:47 PM
1

Did she have the current physique when you started dating her? If she did she may not appreciate or care being told about it.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:12 PM
1

Living together is as good as being married in women's​ minds. She expects the wife treatment. Don't have a live in GF.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:55 PM
2

Tell her to keep the friends' opinions to herself. Don't discuss her friends, or the fight that happened, or whether or not she wants to keep seeing you.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:51 PM
1

It's not a either/or choice for a LTR. You can plate them both until something better comes along.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:14 PM
2

Seconded. Not defending her BF is bad enough, but to bring the gossip home is unacceptable. Not the mother of your future kids.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:11 PM
1

"My dad cheated on my mom a long time ago, so I can't fuck you anymore, but I want to be just friends" Should have laughed her out of the room, pussy.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:06 PM
1

When a girl you already fucked wants to meet, you meet her where you can fuck, but your dumb ass agreed to recreate your first date. If you want to plate her, stop acting like you want to date her. She already has a boyfriend for that. You're just supposed to reap the sex. Bring her to your place and fuck. No coffee shops or doing boyfriend activities.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:48 AM
6

Deny everything. Blame everyone else. Dump her if she gives you any shit.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:39 AM
10

Who the fuck cares?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:36 AM
3

No, dump her. You both poisoned the relationship. Your cheating will always be brought up. Start fresh and dump, don't cheat after being cheated on.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 10:43 PM
2

What's in her mind is in her mind. But TELLING you (or anyone) about it is next/downgrade worthy.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:47 PM
2

Silence speaks volumes, too bad you're worried about alienating a girl who's not fucking you anyway.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:19 PM
1

There's no fucking take here. She got into some drama and now wants to bring a mutual friend into her dispute. Tell her to show the pic to her mom and ask for her advice. The only advice you can give is to leave him or enjoy getting more.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:52 PM
1

Ignore it totally. Let someone else deal with it.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:45 PM
3

Ignore it and tell your friend not to be an idiot. Any communication you have is with your friend, not his GF.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:43 PM
2

You got into this relationship knowing it wasn't going to be exclusive, then emotionally blackmailed him into lying about giving up other women. But he never intended to give them up, and he didn't. Accept the relationship on its original terms, or leave.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 04:17 PM
2

That's just who she is. You should have been more choosy with your commitment. You shouldn't be jealous, but on her part this is inappropriate behavior and puts her in a negative light. This kind of girl would also have no problem getting drinks with an ex, or any number of things that single girls do that you would be expected to tolerate in a relationship. I think it's fair to say that YOUR girlfriend would have declined to accept a somewhat intimate (why not a jacket or a hat?) item of clothi…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:35 PM
2

Stop talking about wanting sex and open up the relationship on your side only. Say you're doing it for her and the relationship. She can fuck you just enough to keep you coming back, or enough to not go anywhere else. Guess which one she's doing right now?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:45 AM
0

Older women are for plating, not relationships. Don't take her complaints seriously. She will take what you give her or try her luck somewhere else. At her age, the faster you get rid of her, the better. Oops, preggers.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 11:46 PM
1

I don't suggest dumping her right now, but seeing ex BFs is for plates, not GFs. Don't spend any money for her birthday. Just get her skittles.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:37 PM
1

What she SAYS is you don't do enough. What she DOES is stay with a rough cheater. You can safely ignore what she says and keep doing what brought you to the dance.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 05:22 PM
6

Read the sidebar. Men want pussy. Women want commitment. High value men get all the pussy with no commitment, and some men like you give up commitment for no pussy.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:54 PM
7

Chicks who drink aren't virgins. Only guys who would LTR without sex, or believe what the GF says would think that. She's a born again slut, putting on a religious front for her community. How happy could she be to find a nice young beta who wouldn't pressure her for sex until marriage.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:47 PM
13

She's not your LTR until you fuck, regardless of reasons. Find women who will fuck you, and get rid of this one. She can still come back as a plate later. Edit: what the fuck do you mean she didn't tell you until after you LTR'd her? Making it official without sex is low value on you, and she knows this and this religious excuse for no fucking is the ultimate shit test to your fucking face. Dumping her is the only way of passing it.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:40 PM
1

Tell her the truth. You don't believe in marriage. You rode for free, now you have to buy a ticket. So get off.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:37 PM
4

1)I don't want to leave someone I'm in a relationship with. 2)If someone leaves me like that, the exclusive relationship is over. My life isn't on hold, I can meet someone new in that month and may want to keep pursuing it after she comes back. 3)Men and women are different, and two women in LTR traveling abroad together is a double red flag.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:41 PM
30

We don't complain about it. We just know their value doesn't extend past plating.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:48 AM
10

Tell her to have fun, and dump her when she's on the plane. Women who want to be your GF don't leave you to travel alone with a friend.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:43 AM
2

By not having a GF with close male friends. What's irrational is keeping her after reading your post.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 05:20 PM
1

Her reaction is enough excuse to dump her. If you want to be with damaged women, plate only. If you want a GF, find an undamaged woman.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 04:42 PM
1

I had to make another post regarding open relationships: For women, open relationship means she has a BF, maybe lives with him and has him pay her expenses (you're moving in when?), and comes home to cry on his shoulder with Pablo's cum still leaking out. For men, regardless of nomenclature, plating should be the standard (non exclusive sex with minimal investment), and that's what "open relationship" should really mean to us. In other words, while there's nothing wrong with having "an open rela…
/r/askTRP01/04/17 02:39 PM
2

Stop being a bitch and stop defending her or this lie of a relationship. Everything you said in your post is enough to downgrade or dump her and NOT to move in. She already had a guy planned, and your break you just gave her is enough to fuck him. Edit: my bad, you took the break. Be happy you found out now, this whore ended the relationship for you when she took " a break". Dump or downgrade, don't move in.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 01:32 PM
1

We're not really disagreeing on anything here. She says she's a virgin, but sucks you off right after meeting you. Is she LTR material for not giving up the pussy, or is she not LTR material for sucking you off so quickly after meeting you?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:28 PM
0

Giving mouth but not pussy is what disqualifies her from LTR. Virgin or not makes little difference with her dick sucking skills.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:06 PM
1

It means she's not your GF anymore. It means you try dating several women to see which one you like best. Waiting an entire year to fuck is not normal.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:00 PM
2

Downgrade. That's what you get for waiting an entire year to fuck. She has no respect for you. You gave away your commitment, so take it back and try things casually. No more sexting. Real life fucking only. When you get turned down for sex, don't accept sexting as a consolation prize. That's the same as being just friends with a girl who won't fuck you.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:51 AM
2

That's good, but also stop talking about sex and start escalating. She already had your dick in her mouth, what she SAYS she doesn't do doesn't matter much right now. She may call herself a virgin, but there's no woman on Earth that never stuck something up there.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:23 AM
3

I'm saying girls are too stupid to keep their personal photos and videos from getting stolen and leaked. Also it shows bad judgment to allow a temporary relationship to film her performing sex acts.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:19 AM
0

She's a well experienced woman stringing him along. Her mouth isn't virginal, no reason to suppose anything else is virginal, too.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:16 AM
0

She's a pro at giving head, and she doesn't need to have a BF to suck dick and take it up the ass. Get all you can out of her and move on. Don't worry about the pussy, the mouth and ass is enough. Not GF material. Unless you've seen her hymen, chances are she's just a liar.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:06 AM
3

You're the crazy bitch. You fucked her. So call her again and fuck her. Why were you chatting online and acting like a beta orbiter?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:03 AM
1

Be happy you found out now. Have fun with her, but no long term plans. Don't be like the Indian finding his virginal wife's porn on the internets. She's not very smart or doesn't really care about her RMV to be filming herself giving blowjobs that will invariably find their way online.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:56 AM
3

Don't "reach out" to this whore. She knew your interest was sexual and she tricked you into a friend's hangout. Next time she "reaches out", get her to your place and fuck her. It may be too late, because you stayed there. If you left immediately, she might still have some respect for you.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:45 PM
2

"In our 30's, you'll be too old. "
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:19 AM
1

Dump or downgrade. You told her what your girl does. She shat all over it. If you say she loves you, she should have no problem restarting as a plate until she learns respect for her BF to be.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:00 AM
5

"Fine, I've been around the block." She's already fucking you, who cares if she doesn't want to be "with" you.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 03:18 PM
7

It's her pussy you need, not her texting.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:13 PM
1

Do you think she would be less eager to leave home if she knew you wouldn't be hanging around the phone but doing your own thing instead?
/r/askMRP27/03/17 12:08 PM
2

Congrats on slickly moving the bitch out! Would not be possible in the US.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 11:57 AM
0

Why not dump or downgrade her? Someone living with you should be living with you. If she likes to travel alone, she should get her own place.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 11:52 AM
-1

Tell her to come to your place. She either does or doesn't. No conversation or interaction goes further than "Come to my place". Be a broken record. No texting or phoning, or hanging out. Come to my place. Come to my place. Come to my place.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:26 AM
2

It doesn't fucking matter what she wants or what she said to your mother. Don't take back trash you put out.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:11 PM
1

During the assessment, tell him everything that's wrong with his department and quit on the spot.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 12:28 AM
2

What I'm getting from your post is that you took a woman on two eating dates in a row and didn't get laid.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:49 PM
1

Cancel the Saturday friend date. You're busy (fucking). There's no fucking contract here. It doesn't matter what she asked or what you agreed to. Escalate and get laid or move on.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:18 PM
1

Nothing. She will get it in by tomorrow.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:10 PM
2

If you're going to abstain until marriage, nothing less than a virgin will do. Go to some small southern church town and see the pastor about marriageable girls in the congregation right about to hit 18. The kind of girl you want goes directly from her parents' house to her husband's house without college or career to corrupt her.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 09:12 PM
1

People get to know each other for sex by having drinks together one on one, not in a loud group of buddies. Try to get drinks in a few weeks, and if she states or implies a group setting, move on.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:28 PM
6

Don't see her parents, it can only cause you drama. They will be over you like flies on shit asking when you'll marry her. Tell her you might see her parents when you return. Stop having sex with her. Your leaving and her age make it very likely for her to get pregnant or lie about it to keep you fucking her and get her pregnant.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 11:13 AM
14

Not only is that beta, it's also gay. A man is a man forever.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 02:37 AM
2

Tell your parents everything your brother does to you, you will do to your father.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 02:21 AM
2

Arrogance isn't bad, and if someone WANTS to give you something, it's not entitlement.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 02:18 AM
1

Strippers are so screwed up, the only way to make it work is to be the daddy fucking his daughter.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:59 AM
1

I prefer good morning and good night blowjobs instead.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:52 AM
2

That's a rejection. You proposed drinks alone next week, she offered drinks with friends at some point in the future. Not interested.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:48 AM
2

Nothing. Replying isn't ghosting.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 10:44 PM
3

A girl being fucked by two guys is a gangbang, not a threesome.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 05:19 PM
2

There are no mixed signals here. Make a last ditch attempt to get her alone and get your dick sucked, otherwise replace her with other women.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:40 PM
1

It's all in the mind. Would you hang around a girl who's not fucking you? No. The friend zone isn't real to you or us. It exists only in the minds of those men who are in it.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:29 PM
2

Because secure women are old and ugly.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:24 PM
85

Don't go to the fucking movies with this bitch and don't have any talks either. The relationship ended when she started texting her ex.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:24 PM
2

Always involve the cops when you're the victim. You could have had him out of your hair permanently, but you didn't wanna snitch.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:01 PM
1

You're right on all three. We know that women would rather share an alpha than have a beta's commitment. These men aren't be able to get these women exclusive, and have to exchange providership for occasional sex with no exclusivity. As it applies to men, "open relationship" means a plate. She's not to be treated like a girlfriend in any way. Women take it to mean girlfriend \ wife treatment while sleeping around.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:07 PM
1

Keep walking, ignoring her and friend. She should know better.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:10 AM
2

For long term, I may like her more than somebody who slept around of the same age, but I would take a younger one over both of them. They can both claim to have slept with only 1 man, and they can both lie.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:13 PM
1

A woman used by a hundred men will hold less value to us than a woman used by one man long-term. No piano and no painting will change that basic fact of nature.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:11 PM
1

One long term owner vs a hundred hookups.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 12:50 PM
–

Tell that fat bitch to stay downstairs until she loses some weight. You will not be selling the house. Say it once and mean it. She has more to lose in a divorce, so there's that.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:44 PM
1

I would say that a prenup should be signed before you even agree to get married, set a date, or start calling her a fiancée.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 10:28 PM
1

Leave with no notice. Notice is a privilege they didn't earn.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:14 PM
1

Girls go over to your place to fuck, not drink coffee. That was probably the reason.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:52 PM
1

I would love to go back in time and play the knockout game with those white feather whores.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 11:29 AM
16

Is every girl a guy goes on a single date with and has a crush on but doesn't do anything about it off limits?
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:02 PM
8

Ignore the friend, first come first serve. Tell the girl the truth and cut contact if she gives you any shit. The housemates are dead to you. They already lied about you, so carry a recorder and tell them why you're carrying it.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 12:55 PM
1

Fuck the girl and mug back at him.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:55 PM
16

It doesn't hurt to cancel the night before or the day of. Just say that you won't be able to make it. The unsaid assumption is you got a better offer than dinner. This tinder slut is fucking the alphas and dinner whoring the betas. Which one are you going to be?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 01:23 PM
10

This. No meals for no put outs. Less silence, though.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:57 PM
1

Too late. You didn't escalate from the start, now you're a friend.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:34 AM
6

Why do you keep asking her OUT when she wants to be asked IN and fucked?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 02:41 AM
1

Soft next for a few days at least until she comes to her senses. That means no contact whatsoever.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:07 PM
1

One time is too much. Don't downgrade if you don't want, but would your job tolerate 3 no call no shows in 1 year, after YOU asked for the shifts? Edit: how late was it 1am or 10pm? Private house or apartment building. If private house and it's not too late, ring the bell or knock until she wakes up. Make her keep her appointment.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 12:49 PM
2

After the first time, you should have made her come to you. You actually allowed her to do this to you three times! Stop putting ANY effort into her, period. If she wants you, she needs to make the effort. I would just downgrade.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 12:19 PM
2

Fuck explanations, tell her to come to your place. If she likes you, she will. If not, hard next. When she says meetups, you take it as sex at your place, not pointless meetings in public spaces.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:36 AM
1

When you look for a girl for marriage, you find a whore dressed up like a wife.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:28 AM
3

Fuck her after they return.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 08:36 PM
2

Tell him you're going to fuck her on her 18th birthday.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 02:14 PM
4

"No, I don't get pussy. Plz relieve my thirst." What compelled you to actually say that? Frame cracked, broken and collapsed.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 01:59 PM
4

My GF wouldn't be getting naked like that. There's nothing to even talk over.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:58 AM
4

There's nothing to dump, just stop "dating" her.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:54 AM
1

Tell them to find you an 18 year old.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 01:00 PM
7

Don't bring up your hands to meet her drink, and look at her like she's a retard.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 02:04 AM
1

Say you like traveling together.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:48 PM
4

Pussy cuck mangina. Print out a list of shelters and hand it to her on the way out. The street is where she would already be if you didn't take her in. You took her problem as your own, now you're feeling guilty. Ignore the guilt and pass the problem onto somebody else.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:34 PM
1

You can ask the judge to dismiss the case if it's BS and isn't supported by current law.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:06 PM
1

Whatever you decide, don't be anyone's "just friends". Fuck them both if you can. No LTR for either.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:54 PM
5

Only married for 2 years. Tell her you won't see her dad, period. She can take it or leave it. Or just divorce. I have no desire to have molester grandpa for my kids.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:44 PM
4

Your mom is a fucking retard. Make a fucking poster? Buy a fucking gift? Don't do proms with girls you haven't fucked. Prom is a date. We don't "date" before fucking.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 11:58 AM
2

Both. Stop listening to what she says. Fuck her or move on. No LTR.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 11:10 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with her, she's just using you for all you're worth. If you're not married, dump her and get your own place. English degree should have been your first red flag. I said this yesterday, but if she had her own place, she would already be working and not looking, probably not in her career choice.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 11:05 AM
6

Tell her to come over. Escalate. Hard next if rejected. She's moving soon, so who cares? For the future, you can become friends with the women you're fucking. Don't be just friends with women.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 10:51 AM
1

A certain woman wrestler got molested by her gramps, got fucked and chucked by all the male wrestlers, then got knocked up at 35 and married a younger British wrestler. Be a Cena, don't be a Magnus.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 10:12 AM
2

YOU'RE fucking her though, right?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 09:59 AM
1

No, they lose interest after commitment.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:36 AM
1

Straight from Leykis. She lied about being pregnant so you can fuck her risk free thinking she's already pregnant, and then she gets pregnant.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:33 AM
5

She's on tinder for hookups. They all are. Proceed normally with plating. No LTR with tinder girls.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 04:50 PM
1

Vuclan death grip
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:02 PM
2

Your choices are to put up with it or get your own place. All your problems with this post result from cohabitation.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:32 PM
1

She's "looking" for a job because she lives with you and you support her. If she had her own apartment, she would already be working.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:22 PM
1

Tell her when and where to meet you. If she doesn't agree or offer to reschedule, hard next. You've spent too much time on her. If she doesn't want to meet you by now, she's not into you, regardless of what she says.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:16 PM
2

The only dib I recognize is a wedding ring.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:41 AM
1

Give up religion for Lent for good.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:35 AM
1

In this context, it means a non-girlfriend, non-exclusive, sex-only partner.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:27 AM
3

How did this LTR start? If she was begging you for your commitment for an entire year while being your plate, chances are she wouldn't be doing this 4 days later.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 08:25 PM
2

LTR quality women wouldn't even think of spending so much time away from you. The ride is over, time to change trains.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 05:45 PM
5

You don't discuss ending the rental agreement with her, or creating a new one for her sister. You go to the landlord, and inform him you're not renewing the lease. After that, it's their problem. Call her parents, tell them you've been shacking up and she just dumped you after cheating on you. Anything she tells them about you after that is irrelevant, because in their eyes their daughter is a slut.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:59 PM
2

You're being a moron. Escalate and move on if rejected.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:43 PM
1

Non sexual hangouts spark non sexual interest. If she was interested, she'd be riding you.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:53 PM
34

Downgrade, she just told you she doesn't want you for LTR. That's plate behavior, so make her one. She'll suck your dick just to see you.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:44 PM
2

Everything you did is wrong. Your thinking is wrong. Introducing her to friends is wrong. Hanging out non sexually is wrong. Wanting to treat them respectfully is wrong. Take a break from women and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:41 PM
3

She wasn't betrayed. She spread her legs and got pumped and dumped. That's what you do to her, because that's the kind of woman she is based on her actions, not words.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:28 PM
2

Good, now you can fuck her easier.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:10 AM
1

The easiest pain free way is to move out into your own apartment, then dump her. If you need a roommate, get a real roommate. Otherwise get your own place.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:37 PM
1

She won't be more stable and worth more. She will only get older and increase her partner count. Cut your loses now and don't leave the door open. You can find a hotter, younger woman who isn't fucked up. Stop your obsession with wifing up this ho.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 07:16 PM
4

Wrong question. Rephrased: If a girl has sex with you on the first date, is she relationship material? No You having sex on the first date makes you a stud. Her having sex on the first date makes her a slut. They won't move on, because for them the chase is the relationship, and not sex.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:55 PM
3

Right. So you decided to keep her as a plate. Then what happened? You felt bad because she fell in love with her Capn Save a Ho, so you had to make her your girlfriend? Why did her feelings affect your reality?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:44 PM
1

The story isn't very clear, but the best way to proceed is the brother returning to where he was before the mom interfered and flew him away from his current situation that he seemed to be content with.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:30 PM
6

Used up whore wants to settle down with Mr Moneybags. Dump her and find yourself a barely legal cutie. There's something wrong with your last paragraph. Chads' throwaways aren't worthy of being the mother of your children, are they? Or do you hate yourself that much?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:22 PM
48

AFTER he leaves, you will tell them both that he's not returning. There won't be a discussion or an argument. How was your mom able to give him a room in your house in the first place? If she had keys, she just lost the privilege. Change the locks, and don't give her the new keys. Inform your dad, if he wants to deal with it he will.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 02:40 PM
19

Not one single word she said matters. She just says what she thinks she's supposed to say. Saying she wouldn't be your GF if she knew this doesn't matter, you are the prize, not her. In fact, I would downgrade over that comment.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 12:00 PM
4

Texting, then hanging out with another man is a downgradable or nextable offense. Quality girlfriends don't do that. Kick her out or get your own place, and living together is only when you've decided to marry her, which we don't recommend here.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:48 PM
1

That's not a friend. Next him.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 01:11 PM
2

2-4 times a month is LDR. What are you getting from this relationship in exchange for your attention and exclusivity? Phone calls and text messages? I think this whole thing will be easier for you if she's just a plate. This way she knows her standing and doesn't expect BF investment from what is essentially a penpal.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 01:09 PM
6

Tell her a single mother of 3 will have it harder than a single mother of 2. You won't get into a relationship with her, or take care of her previous leftovers. Tell her the kid will be a retard entirely due to her drinking, and you wont be seen in public with this junkie and her damaged offspring.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:57 PM
3

Simple. You don't let her get to drink 2 or 3 or 4. Get the check and prepare to leave. She can follow you home or start buying her own drinks.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:48 PM
2

Dread her and start hanging out with other girls. Don't plan on anything long term with her, high quality girlfriends aren't seen in bars alone catching up with ex coworkers. It wasn't enough to catch up when everyone else was there?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:37 PM
13

Should have taken her number and go do something productive with your time, and call her later when you have a plan. Hanging out aimlessly to whittle away time reduces your value to her. Talking won't help here.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 11:23 AM
-1

All permanent defacement of skin is a red flag. I don't give out free passes for religion.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:17 AM
2

Your choices are LTR with a low value man, or a plate to a higher value man who won't commit. Face reality. Its not TRP that tells us to like younger women. It's nature.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:13 AM
1

Are you sure you weren't chosen as a godparent because you would be expected to pay for this and that throughout his life?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 09:56 AM
6

You need to be able to control what you display, and her feelings for you mean shit coming from a slut. Every guy she fucked, she told him she has feelings for.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:17 PM
13

It doesn't matter if she fucked 20, because 21 (you) won't be the last and you'll let 22 worry about it. Her age and count make her a slut. Let her talk and don't confront it, but know who you're dealing with and what she's good for and not.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:11 PM
1

If you never had the talk, she's not the GF. Her ghosting you gives you the chance to "reset" the relationship back to plate if she comes crawling back. For the future, don't treat women like GFs if they're just plates, so they don't get Valentine's expectations. For now, forget her and see other women.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 10:15 AM
6

Delete dinner dates from your brain.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 10:03 AM
1

Break up with her gently, one month is plate territory, and you're too young and immature to be in a relationship. Enjoy it guilt free.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:09 PM
7

She fucks guys she just met in cars, don't even think of slowing down on this one!
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:37 AM
0

Ghost this bitch and start fucking girls in your area. You can still fuck her if she comes visits you You didn't hurt her. She told you this to control you.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 12:06 PM
1

Instead of agreeing, she talked back. Dump or downgrade.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:56 AM
2

Social media is for orbiters. Hard next if no phone number. The BF is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 01:25 PM
1

Don't argue, just say OK and do something without her. With the next one, because this one is NEXT.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 11:58 AM
2

When she moves away, you cut contact. Fuck what she insists. She made her choice and it ain't you.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 11:52 AM
2

And the only thing it cost you is the complete lack of privacy.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:52 AM
1

She may be trying to redirect dates to get you to spend money. She liked the dinner, I guess.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:35 AM
28

The problem is that you got into an LTR. She's perfect to be a plate, and that's how you should have kept it. Screen better next time and don't give out commitment without them earning it.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:15 AM
1

It's OK, I'll get a second girlfriend to split the load.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:08 AM
2

Let her go. When you're older and more successful, and have decided for sure what you want to do at age 30-35, you'll be easily able to find another 20 year old just at that time when you'll be actually ready for a family. Men, unless independently wealthy, shouldn't be planning to have families with women their own age.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:03 AM
0

Dump her and send her back home. Or send her home on a vacation to see her mommy, then tell her to stay there while you ship out her stuff. If she refuses, tell her you're through and she's only a roommate now. If there's only 1 bedroom, put a lock on it. Always carry a recorder and make sure she knows there's nothing between you. Plan your exit when the lease expires. Get a garden hose and practice no mark self defense.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:46 AM
1

The relationship ended because she ended it. Stop being a retard.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:26 PM
5

You've been hanging, but have you been escalating? That's how you know if she's attracted. Figure that part out before committing to a concert because you have nothing better to do. And you gave the bitch money.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:47 PM
5

You're not a man if you can't even control the networking equipment in your home.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 12:08 PM
2

You don't ask women what they're on Tinder for. They're on Tinder to fuck.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:37 AM
1

Tell her you're getting an anal plate.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:31 AM
-1

What she reads doesn't matter. What she knows YOU read, and discussing it with her, or her "calling you out" on it is a problem.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:12 AM
4

She broke up with you. She can come back only as a plate, and you should make it clear if you even want to pursuit it. Obviously, no valentines shit.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:26 AM
1

Don't be stupid. See her the day after and don't do anything special.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:23 AM
91

The only attention of hers that matters is her pussy, and she's not giving it to you. Block her and move on, and don't stick around girls who won't fuck you.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:53 AM
5

Tell her to take off her pants/ skirt.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:52 AM
2

Do you usually talk about trips with women you haven't even met, let alone fucked? That may be part of the problem.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:59 PM
3

Sure, but with somebody younger.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:55 PM
2

Take screenshots. They could be useful later on in establishing a pattern of harassment if you need it.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:04 AM
1

If she contacts you: "you wanna come over and fuck?". Don't be a friend, always be sexual and she can walk if she doesn't like it. No explanation, no nothing. Women know what we want.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:48 AM
1

Tell her you wanna fuck. If she gives you any shit, hard next and don't be friends with the next one.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:08 PM
2

You realized that you have something else to do that night, and have it be true. It can be working out, watching TV, or doing one of your many hobbies and improvements. The point is a quality man always has something to occupy his time with, and group hangouts with a girl you haven't fucked don't figure into it. Going back on your RSVP can only increase attraction in her eyes. You're always busy, you don't do group dates, don't say it but do it.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:21 PM
2

Meeting the parents is for a serious GF, this was a shit test you failed. To pass the test, turn down group meetings and reschedule the solo date. Don't meet her friends or family until she learns to service you properly. Surely she has some beta orbiter to bring along.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:04 PM
1

Dump her. If you did it, you would be charged with kidnapping. That's why you don't live together.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:06 PM
1

Women don't want you to improve, because either she will be forced to improve herself, or lose you to a better woman.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:50 AM
1

Snapchats and social media are for orbiters. Always go for the phone number. If rejected, hard next.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:48 AM
6

Go back to your place and cut contact until she apologizes. This would be impossible if you lived together.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:39 AM
1

"The sex is awful and I will not commit, but I enjoy spending time together"
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:29 AM
1

Women are not men. When you act like a friend, you become a friend. That's what you do with men, not women. Next time you see her, kiss her and hard next if LJBF.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:08 AM
1

Instead of buying things waiting for dinner, buy nothing while not waiting to get drinks.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:08 PM
1

Never take out to dinner a girl you haven't fucked, period. The principle is minimal investment of time and money for prospects which excludes dinner. Fast food or all you can eat buffet is OK.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:03 PM
1

Let her go then downgrade her. Not shutting him down immediately is a nextable offense. It's not mate guarding, it's about not looking like a slut.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:28 PM
1

You said LTR. Are you actually calling her your GF? Stop that now, let her know you're just friends for now. FYI, you don't call her a GF until you've explored her every orifice to your satisfaction. Forget about her for a week and see if she's more receptive later, but after that long if you haven't even seen her tits, there's not much hope.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:06 PM
3

Do a FFM threesome and downgrade to plate. At her age, not much upside.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:59 PM
2

This is the natural end of the relationship. At her age, she needs to find a provider in her new area. And you need to find someone not about to hit the wall.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:54 PM
2

Dump her just because she's old.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:21 PM
1

What's the most nasty thing you can think of doing with her. Tell her that will be your birthday gift.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:14 PM
2

If you just started dating, and you're already spending decent money on her birthday instead of giving her Skittles, it's only going to get worse from here. Its very convenient to have a birthday so close to Valentines Day. Get a single chump to pay for both, then ghost him.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:41 PM
1

You already failed by dumping and taking her back. Correct the mistake and dump her for good.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:41 AM
2

You're probably using lobotomy incorrectly. Do you mean to cut out or sever a part of your brain? Those make you a drooling moron, not alpha.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:39 AM
1

Anything inside alone. Movie at your place is always good.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 03:55 PM
1

She already knows, but hanging out in a cafe talking is a bad way to make that happen.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:40 PM
1

Do you have a plan for flirting, kino, and taking her somewhere private? Or just hangout and talk in a cafe with other people present? Why would she take it as anything other than friends?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:58 PM
11

Do you love me? Not enough to pay for new tits. I'd divorce any bitch that got cosmetic surgery without telling me while having my name. The only comeback to something like that is telling her if you wanted a wife with big tits, you'd get one.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:41 PM
1

Aliens have no right of entry to the US. The courts generally have no jurisdiction in these matters. It's called consular nonreviewability.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:49 AM
1

Is there a room with a lock you can call your own? Dump her and keep living there until you finish training. I don't know who the landlord is, but you still have a right to keep living there until legally evicted. Once you have a job, move out at a moment's notice if you're not on the lease and have no obligation to the landlord. Stop having sex with her, she'll get pregnant if she senses you leaving.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 12:49 PM
5

Cheap enough for McDonald's.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 06:03 PM
9

Ignore her. She started with a friends text, you invited her over, and she started parsing your words. She's not into you. Move on. And yes, you do tell a girl you used to have feelings for to come over... to fuck. With that text, she placed you firmly in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:55 PM
1

Instead of thinking about it, when she was trying to get physical with you, you should have taken her dancing and groped her all over. Always assume attraction. Always escalate. If she's talking to you, she wants your dick, regardless of what she told you.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:42 PM
1

You already failed. Improve yourself so that all women will be attracted to you, not to change any one woman's mind about you.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:09 PM
1

The answer must be in actions, not in words.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:04 PM
1

It's too late. You wasted two months being her friend, when Chad would escalate and get laid or get rejected and leave by end of week 2.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:50 PM
1

You don't escalate in public, stupid, especially with girls who put on a front, like she does. She was shocked because her beta orbiter put his hand on her shoulder in public, in presence of another "female friend" who doesn't find you attractive. Take it inside, escalate, get rejected by actions not words, and move on. Any further questions?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:30 PM
2

Don't give me that attempt shit. Did you ESCALATE, and did you get REJECTED (in actions, not words?) There is your answer. Everything else is hamster on your part.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:05 PM
5

No. This kind of post is brought up occasionally. LTR quality women know not to room with guys, or must accept plate status. And you shouldn't have a GF in college, either. Just open up the relationship (say that but make her a plate), and enjoy your life and stop caring about a college exGF rooming with guys. If she can't find a girls only apartment, she's not looking hard enough. May be a ploy for you two to move in together.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:58 PM
3

Stop being a bitch. Block her on everything, don't see her alone under any circumstances, and report the suicide threat to her parents.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:52 PM
2

No, women who threaten to kill themselves are using emotional manipulation, should be blocked immediately, and the threat reported to her parents.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:51 PM
1

Oneitis and friend zone. Do nothing regarding her. Talk to and escalate with other women. You've known her for a couple of months, and make no mistake about it, Chad wouldn't waste that much time socializing and not escalating.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:44 PM
1

If they're doing something illegal, you should report it officially to the authorities.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:08 AM
1

Unless you can actually see/feel the hymen, it's probably a lie. She sucked off most of those guys or took it in the ass. Get the same before any commitment.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:08 AM
1

Block her and move on. Force her to contact other orbiters.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:02 AM
2

It's a lot more than what she told you, but your attitude regarding these women should be: I'll be the next one, not the last one. Your last one should be the best you can possibly get, which usually would be much younger, with fewer experiences and no social media presence. Which involves trawling small church towns.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:38 PM
3

To her, you're not a friend, but orbiter. How often do you see her in real life? Block on all media and move on. Or tell her you want to fuck her and she has 30 minutes to get here. Hard next if rejected.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 10:31 AM
3

Fuck what she wants. Either fuck her or move on. It's only a mixed signal if you escalated and got rejected. What she says or how she looks at you is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 10:23 AM
1

Daddy issue girls don't have sex with only 2 men, both in relationships. Don't be serious. Just be the next one.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 10:18 AM
1

Forget it and put your energy into kinking her out in bed even more.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:39 AM
1

If the two of you present a United front to the boss, he may appoint one of you as the lead.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:29 AM
1

How often do you see her in person alone in private and escalate?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:58 PM
2

You're a bitch. If your wife didn't tell the cops the name of your assailant, you should have dumped her on the spot and not be around her without a recording device. Your wife betrayed you by not revealing your attacker. And you pleaded guilty without a trial to get out of jail. Double stupid. By a public defender. Triple stupid.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:43 PM
6

In the Soviet Union, dissidents were called psychotic and put in mental hospitals.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 12:26 PM
4

Get rid of the "partly to blame" for not helping mindset. People WILL take advantage of that. Inaction of a third party is never to blame for somebody else's fuckups. Your college probably has free tutoring already. If he's not using any campus resources, he doesn't care. Is he paying the 9 grand out of pocket? Money he earned?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:25 PM
1

And how will that result in getting you laid quicker?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:53 PM
1

If you don't have a place to isolate and escalate, you will have problems dating.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:36 PM
2

Don't tell them what you will do, and then do it. Lie if you have to. Your fitness is none of their business, but if you're living under their roof, you have to put them on an information diet.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:22 PM
1

Men make plans. You had nowhere to take her to fuck, why did you meet her?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:18 PM
1

You're not overreacting. She was disrespectful on purpose. Calls you to tell about an ex (sexmate, not classmate), goes to talk to him while on the phone with you, then hangs up. Major dread or downgrade.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:17 PM
3

No, She wants a study buddy. Try to redirect to your place or hers, or reject. Don't meet her in public, and don't actually do any work for her.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:05 PM
2

Don't reply, oneitis nice guy wants to build chemistry and talk about sex with woman who wants to fuck... le sigh.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 11:57 AM
4

She's a whore. This time I don't mean it negatively, but that's what she is. Keep it going, but don't get attached.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:24 AM
2

Date raped and woke up at a hospital? Sounds like she got drunk at a party and fucked a stranger behind a dumpster to the point of passing out.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:28 AM
85

The bitch is lying through her teeth. He's a former fuck buddy. If she sees him, dump her.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:24 AM
8

Irrelevant question. Do you want to have a girlfriend that spends every other week away from you?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:49 PM
7

She dumped you, and you took her back. Dump her. She probably had better luck in those 5 hours than you did. YOU are the one who should have trust issues, not her.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:08 PM
11

Because you care too much Go fuck ten other women
/r/askTRP24/01/17 01:01 PM
140

Total disrespect. Tell her she's a fuck buddy now and she can do anything she wants.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 12:58 PM
1

When were you planning on getting her alone inside and fucking her?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 09:55 AM
2

There she goes again with the "only" stuff.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:02 PM
5

Saying sex isn't the only thing misses the point that it's sex you're refusing, and not the other things.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:46 PM
2

Is she sucking your dick on the regular? No? Then who the fuck cares what she says or thinks? Find more things to do and women to escalate with. You're missing abundance if you care so much for any one girl's opinions.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:57 AM
1

Demand a retroactive raise or you walk on the spot.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:34 AM
19

Downgrade to plate. Girlfriend material should know better.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:13 PM
1

Why did you make a girlfriend out of someone who can't fuck you regularly? Did she tell you about her problem? And did you ask her if her mouth and ass also had a problem? Grab a pillow to put in front of you and order her on her knees. If you don't hear happy sucking sounds within 30 seconds, dump her.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:13 AM
7

Tell your family and friends that she's a whore and if they respect you, they will leave it alone. Stop any further talks about it. The bitch is dead to you. Move on.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:04 AM
33

NEVER Not a great girl and not a great relationship. You've been blinded.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:54 AM
11

Why would you even consider contacting someone who makes things up about you? Save all screenshots and keep all evidence of any contact she makes. If she escalates her craziness, you'll be able to call the cops with all the evidence. If you call her, you're only opening yourself up to new claims.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:18 AM
10

You messed up by replying to anything that wasn't an agreement or an offer to reschedule.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:27 AM
5

You tried to fuck her by being her friend, instead of fucking her by fucking. You'd get the same result every time, religious or not. PS: The guys she fucks don't meet her parents.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:18 AM
1

Don't fight. Let her yell and scream, and AFTER she takes the children, CALL THE COPS, every time.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:14 AM
1

No. Whip out your dick at any request to see your phone. No is a complete sentence. It doesn't require an explanation.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:31 PM
2

NO NO NO Your previous relationship is none of their business. Mormons are crazy, don't get serious.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:30 PM
2

Fucking another man while attempting an LTR with you, and trying to text an ex while in an LTR with you are nextable offenses. I don't know how old she is or difference between your ages, but are you sure you can't do better? If she was 28, dump her and get a 22.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:29 PM
1

With that question, always be truthful. No man should ever lie about his sexual needs to spare a woman's feelings. "Not enough into you to be exclusive". You could have come up with a better rejection than that, Maybe one having to do with your lifestyle, instead of how much into her you are.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 12:11 PM
7

If there's ANY place hair is missing on your head, go bald totally. Hair and bald spots don't mix, even if short.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 01:16 PM
29

Never style to hide, always shave. Grow out the beard. Gym, if not already.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 01:07 PM
1

Made conversation, got her number, invited her for drinks or to your place and escalated and got REJECTED? What's the question?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:47 AM
0

Paying for flights for a bitch you haven't fucked is beta as fuck. She won't fuck you, because women know scarcity when they see it, and so do we. To save any dignity, cancel the flights, and tell her you'll see her when she's in the area again. Plenty of pussy around you already.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:39 AM
2

Hard next her and cut contact permanently without a word of explanation. If friends give you any shit, get new friends.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:30 AM
1

"What relationship? "
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:17 AM
6

How about meeting her in person and fucking?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:01 AM
5

When women tell you what they did with other guys, it's either an invitation or disrespect. Make her swallow or dump her, or make her provide a replacement for the swallowing.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:51 AM
2

You're not fucking because you're not escalating. Dating has very little to do with fucking. If you haven't fucked her, she's not a plate. And after two months, it's probably too late. There's no dibs in life and I'm rooting for your friend.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:41 AM
4

Never give her yours. That's tantamount to moving in together.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 10:39 PM
3

This sounds suspect to me. You fucked her once after no contact, and now she's pregnant. She got knocked up by someone else, then reached out to fuck you to pin the blame on you. Be supportive and push for abortion, but also make sure you tell her... You won't be a father, won't get into a relationship, won't get married, won't pay child support. (You have no control over the last one) Let her make her choice and live with it.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:54 PM
2

It's worth a try. Escalate and if rejected, hard next. No more free attention.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 02:05 PM
1

I got news for you, pal. 13 and 16 count every bit, even if her parents should be ashamed very much. She was adult enough to know what goes where and to find older men to fuck. Not excusing statutory rape, but that's the only kind of "rape" this is.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 01:57 PM
1

No. Never second guess a breakup. Forget her. A lot of things going for her means shit to you. What do you have going for you?
/r/askTRP16/01/17 01:47 PM
2

Exactly. Let nothing about your behavior say BOYFRIEND.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 01:04 PM
9

Let your actions do the talking. If you only call her once a week to set up a meet and go fuck her and leave, It's pretty self explanatory she's not a GF.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:41 PM
13

What she SAID was I respect men who wait. What she DID is have sex since 13 with anyone and everyone.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:37 PM
1

If anyone asks you about it, tell them You dumped her because she got fat and refused to do anything about it. Don't say you called her fat. People who take her side aren't your friends. Get some new ones. Fix your mindset. Telling a fat GF that she's fat isn't a wound.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:14 PM
2

Did you escalate and were shut down? No? Then there are no mixed signals. One more text to set up a meet where you escalate until she fucks you or leaves. Cut contact then.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:02 PM
1

Have her text you what she wants to do, and you send her a link to a help forum.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 12:02 PM
3

No, if your GF is behaving good, there is no problem. Ignore the sister. Don't ask her to tell anything to your face. She's trying to create drama through your GF. You said it was her problem, not yours. She said those things to shame you, to make you "man up" and take care of her problems. It doesn't fucking matter what your sister thinks regarding your balls or lack thereof, so stop acting like it does.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:56 AM
3

Ignore the sister. If the girlfriend asks you about balls, grab and fuck her hard. Do not treat anything they say seriously.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:29 AM
2

Ignore them totally. Orbiters' opinions don't matter, she wouldn't fuck them anyway.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:52 AM
11

No, she's just fishing for commitment, and reacting to your IDGAF. Keep fucking her hard and let the "someone" cuddle her.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 01:37 AM
1

I'll be the third to confirm that you do not in any way take womens' advice on anything, especially women. It's possible that by not escalating again, she put you in the beta box.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 01:28 AM
7

Should have played a little with her, make her guess, get her number. Don't just spill wherever info they ask for.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 01:20 AM
1

Bitches who deny you sex aren't girlfriends. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:35 AM
3

Breaking up and getting back together is womens' strategy for cheating without "cheating". Don't get back together again.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:12 AM
2

Having broken up with her, if you take her back as a GF now, she will lose respect for you. However, dumping girlfriends to have them come back as plates (non exclusive sex only) is a valid strategy employed by men.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:47 AM
1

Do you want to respond? I think it's easier to divorce and start over. Her image of you is set in stone, that's why she thinks she can talk to you this way. But you have a lot to improve on. It may be easier to do this without a wife. Don't discuss ships and captains with the wife. Keep improving.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:32 AM
3

Too much of a mind fuck. At your early age, women are for fucking. Only once you've internalized this, and are totally drowning in plates, you can try for female friends.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 01:39 PM
2

Shouldn't have married her. If she respected you enough, she would have politely denied mom without telling you. And mamma should have had a boy or two. Family name goes with the man. Tell her to deal with it if she tries to foist hyphenation on your children.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:32 AM
4

Tell this bitch she's back to friends with benefits. She got your exclusivity in bad faith, time to take it away. If you want to, give her one last chance. No coffee or lunches, just fucking.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:29 PM
5

Talking about not being on the same page means she wants to betafy you. Approach from the point of view that she needs to turn to your page, and not vice versa. That kind of talk isn't for eating out. Postpone sushi for some other time and talk at home.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 07:56 PM
1

What did you think was going to happen mixing business with personal? Why would you trust a coworker not to blab about you on the record? If it's corporate email, it can be subpoenaed, and she can be sued by your wife in civil court. Scare some sense into her.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:35 PM
4

Too late for rules. She will go behind your back, or not and blame you for giving up her best friend. It's her attitude that's the problem. Asking permission to see an ex or wanting to set rules on how often she can see him ignores the fact she shouldn't be alone with former sex partners. You allowed it for so long, it will always continue. You just have to tell her you are no longer in an exclusive relationship. She does what she does, and that's not the girlfriend for you. You don't have to gi…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 02:33 PM
1

Stop going out or hanging out anywhere you can't fuck. That means setting up every date at her place. If she refuses, end the conversation. DO NOT SEE HER AGAIN UNLESS THE DATE BEGINS AT HER PLACE.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 01:10 PM
6

It's not irrational, but it's something that shouldn't be explained to them. They already know it's wrong to do this, and if she respected you she wouldn't. Not girlfriend material.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 01:04 PM
3

You talk about plating and exclusivity and discussing the future, but from what your post reads you haven't even fucked her yet? Ignore her words and keep escalating according to her actions. Don't entertain any exclusivity talks until you've explored her every orifice. BTW: a plate is an ONGOING non-exclusive non-relationship sex partner. What you have so far is a girl you're trying to fuck.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:28 AM
2

May be your parents will support you in something you like to do? You can make some money working in the outback, get some perspective and time to think and get away from your parents for a while.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:11 AM
1

Devout Catholic means super brainwashed. Ignore her religious delusions, and maybe call her out on them.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:03 AM
2

Ignore and fuck her harder. Also escalate a lot, so she knows that's what acting like a couple is. Make the most of it while it's your turn.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:48 AM
2

You don't have to next her. Just tell her to get her own place. This way when she has a disagreement, she can go home, not leave it.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:17 AM
2

Ghost permanently or invite to fuck. Shit or get off the pot.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:42 AM
2

Is it the same guy making new usernames about some guy fucking his wife hard and him not liking it? Call it wife sharing if you want, we just call you a cuck. Once you let her fuck other men, all bets are off, even if you agreed beforehand. Either close the relationship or put up with it.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:39 AM
4

Start by getting your own place. If she's going to leave on a whim, she shouldn't be living with you, and should not be welcomed back.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:30 AM
2

You don't become friends after failing to get laid. You move on to the next one. Tell her that slobbering on your dick will improve your reputation. Redirect all attention to other women.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:22 AM
1

Yes, up to 4%. Which isn't a bad thing. Neanderthals had a complex culture and probably imparted some cultural development on the modern man they interbred with.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:15 AM
1

African (nigerian) genetic distance is closer to chimps than to Europeans.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:52 PM
5

He's probably thinking: She's 7 years older than me. I'm not going to marry her. But maybe I can have my fun. Young men generally aren't looking to get into relationships or get married to older women. Aim your sights older, or accept being a plate for the younger man.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 11:42 AM
4

Have you tried fucking him? That usually brings men around. Not the answer you were looking for? Don't ask men.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:58 AM
3

Never talk to or see her again. Don't talk to police without a lawyer present.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 11:50 PM
1

You being her first BF makes her unsuitable for a long term thing. Just like you wouldn't marry a high school sweetheart, this is the equivalent for her. You may be wrong trying to girlfriend a FWB type of girl.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 11:29 PM
11

It didn't "come up". You asked and she lied. No woman fucked only 2 on tinder.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 11:15 PM
1

If my GF wasn't fucking me, I could care less about what she felt or who she hated.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:21 AM
4

Sounds like a scam to take out a business loan and leave one of the "partners" on the hook for it. 40% of nothing is nothing. Don't sign any corporate documents. The two partners can incorporate by themselves, then give you a share. No reason you should be getting involved with the creation of the corporation.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:40 AM
1

Fuck what she insists. Go with friends and have fun.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:27 AM
2

Never spend the night after a sex denial.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:25 AM
1

Don't use words when body language will do. Uninterested, bored, etc. "Not feeling it" is OK to say. Just check out and stop giving a fuck, she already did. Leave if she gets annoyed or behaves inappropriately. Your presence is valuable, take it away.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:20 AM
1

Spend much less time with her and ignore most messages.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:47 PM
1

Keep improving yourself, but check out from the relationship. Let her realize what you bring to her life by not bringing it anymore.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:31 PM
1

You talked a lot about him in your post, but nothing about what your sister wants in regards to staying or leaving. You thinking she regrets marrying him doesn't mean she's willing to get divorced. Don't talk to the husband, It's not your place to tell another adult to act like an adult. It's all on your sister to leave if she wants a better life.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:28 PM
4

For dinner, take her to McDonald's. Don't forget the coupons.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:46 PM
5

Proceed as normal, but disqualify from future LTR. Bringing this up doesn't benefit you in any way.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 02:43 PM
3

You're a convenient source of validation when she doesn't have to look you in the face. Ignore her and set up a meeting if she contacts you. If she refuses, next. Transition to seeing her in person from texting. That's how you know she likes you and not just fishing for attention when she's bored.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 02:40 PM
3

Double down on it. Reacting badly to passing a shit test is a shit test in itself. If she ignores you, stop paying any attention to her. Give her 1 week to get back to you, then downgrade silently.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 01:02 PM
4

Ignore it totally. She's dead to you, and so is everyone else that buys into her shit.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:53 PM
4

He's a loser that never tried getting laid and picked up a buzzword instead.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:13 AM
2

Typical beta guilt shaming. She'd be eagerly swallowing Chad's cum without complaint. The relationship is over, but she can come back as a plate if she swallows.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 06:24 PM
5

No sex indefinitely until an arbitrary time point makes her a plate, not a GF. Find something else to do tonight, and no more group hangouts. One on one for sex only. Also, saying no sex isn't the same as having no sex. Escalate until you get a hard no, then leave.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 06:15 PM
2

It's not a fault. It's a man's decision made in his best interests.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:00 PM
2

They don't know what they want. Keep doing what you're doing. It worked so far.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:30 AM
1

Of course they believe everyone's doing equal work, because their work gets done by you, but they take the credit. Let their shit pile up so they can remove their equal work delusion from their brains. Simply refuse any work that isn't yours and didn't come from a supervisor. Ignore them. Only your bosses matter. Keep a running log every time somebody asks you for help and present it to your boss as proof of incompetence. Also, space out your assigned work so it takes the whole day.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:11 AM
13

Call her bluff and make her choose on the spot. Dump or downgrade either way.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:00 AM
1

For women who are attracted to you, escalation is never a turnoff. She may not give you everything you want, but a turnoff it will never be.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:53 PM
1

There's a high risk if her coming back pregnant. Stop sex now and don't resume until it's clear she didn't get knocked up there. But she shouldn't be your GF anyway, LDR is not a thing. Of course she posted it for all her friends to see, so now it's set in stone.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:26 AM
1

That means, according to her, your SMV is too low for her to care if you're dreading her. Dump that bitch.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:31 PM
2

There is nothing women won't do to convince you of their sainthood. Actions over words. Even keeping a special Facebook account to show betas what a good girl she is.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:13 PM
3

What I'm getting from your post is she likes to travel and "host" guys, but only fucked 6. Does this sound true to you?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:05 PM
1

I loved the part where he fucked the widow and stapled her son's forehead, then fucked the Asian Secretary.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 02:55 PM
5

You're already screwed. Staying longer will only cost you more. Accept it as a loss and a valuable lesson about being Captain Save a Hoe.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:23 PM
5

Dump her. Everything in your post points to this advice. Do it by text, she doesn't deserve more. Cut contact permanently. Delete calls and texts unread, in case there is a suicide threat inside.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:13 PM
1

I wouldn't even try to fix her. Surprise her with divorce papers in a gift box with a bow on it.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:55 PM
0

Archaeology is a hobby. Finance is a career.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:19 PM
2

Feelings don't matter. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:59 PM
0

Even better. Go over his head and tell Daddy what a fuck up his son is. Tell him you'll be on vacation the next two weekends and will be available to work after that.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 11:54 AM
2

Does he have a boss? Tell him your boss is incapable of scheduling his employees. Go to both trips and cut contact during them.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:57 AM
6

Gifted or not, it's still the same. Go together, or not my GF. And who gifted it? The guy who'll show up there on the same day? And why would she even accept it? "No thanks, I'm in a LTR, no solo trips." She's been in this for 8 years. Anybody who would give her a solo trip wants her to cheat. It's sabotage, nothing more.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:00 AM
2

Even better. Tell him you're done and cut contact.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 11:07 AM
2

Bail and sell back the equity. Don't make businesses with family of a temporary relationship. Recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:55 AM
2

Not a real friend, just a girl who won't fuck.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 11:07 AM
3

Woman who won't ever fuck you wants a free place to crash. Tell her there's absolutely no space in your place. And that shit about a hotel room is probably a lie. You're her first choice because you won't escalate, and the Chad will. If you're hanging and not banging, you're already the gay best friend. Move on.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 11:00 AM
1

With only 6 months in, divorce is the best thing you can do, maybe even an anullment. You will only regret not leaving later, and you can still work things out with her without the collar and leash of a marriage license.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:10 AM
8

There's nothing to believe. You will tell her you didn't cheat and that's the last time you'll be talking about it. Next time she brings it up, hang up, leave, or stop texting.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 01:39 AM
15

Your so called anniversary isn't special enough for your GF to fuck you and brazenly tell you this ahead of time. That's not messed? Learn this rule: cuddling comes after sex, not instead of it.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 11:01 PM
8

Given her recent sex refusals, telling you ahead of time sex isn't happening is grounds for cancelling the meeting. Text her now saying you already made plans to hang out with friends and will reschedule for later. One problem is you tolerated less sex. The first time she did this you should have iced her for at least a week. Sudden removal of attention will work wonders for "just not in the mood for that".
/r/askTRP02/01/17 10:03 PM
7

If you can get hard looking at her, go for it. Your first and most uncomfortable time should be thrown away easily at the first chance given. Use this casual lay to get comfortable and practice game so you'll be more ready for a GF.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:39 PM
1

Drink less?
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:32 PM
-17

If I were the parents, he would already be kicked out. Let him find an apartment with roommates on his housekeeping check. And his freeloading GF, too.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:20 PM
7

If he can hold down a job, he might not be disabled in SSI's opinion, and may not be able to get back on it. Also consider how it will affect your parents' household finances. His SSI isn't income, and he's eligible for other benefits. Having an income may endanger the benefits he can get, leaving WHO? to make up the difference. It's good that he wants to play adult, but bigger issues are at stake if he's part of your parents' household.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:05 PM
4

Arrive late, leave early, come by yourself, don't bring a gift. (Skittles ok)
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:01 PM
3

Your questions have to do with her. Get her out of your mind. Move on. She dumped you, she can only come back as a plate. Regardless of your feelings for her, if you take her back as LTR, she'll be able to do this anytime she wants. And those mistakes she said are unforgivable that she brings up every time you fight, well she forgave you just to keep bringing it up every time you fight. Have you read the sidebar? Fights and arguments are a big NO. Men don't do that.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:53 PM
1

When you're focusing on work and lift, leaving a GF is always a good move.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:15 PM
16

Totally appropriate. That's why you do drinks instead of dinner, too much investment for a prospect.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:14 PM
5

What he said. Fuck him or cut him loose.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:27 PM
1

Tell her that her behavior is unacceptable and dump her. That's the only way she'll learn, if she comes crawling back. If she doesn't, she wasn't really into you.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:26 PM
1

When talking with women, you don't say you don't "want" an LDR, because in her mind that opens you to changing your mind. Say you "won't do" an LDR. That's much more final. Don't bring it up until she does. She should have no expectation of a sexless long distance exclusive relationship.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:20 PM
3

That's why girls shouldn't be your platonic friends. Once you're the friend, that's who you stay. Fuck them or not, but don't play friend.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:14 PM
1

That behavior is the reason to suspect cheating, and is inappropriate for women in LTR. Dump or downgrade. I would never believe a woman met a guy at a party, got drunk, went to his place and didn't fuck him. How gullible can you be?
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:05 PM
1

I'm not a cuck, so I wouldn't find myself in this position, but you'll simply have to put your foot down, and tell her how it's going to be. No fights, no arguments. If I don't hear heartfelt agreement, divorce.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 06:21 PM
0

Her reaction to you telling was proof you shouldn't have told. Block that bitch on everything and put her out of your mind. Don't upgrade the girl to LTR. You're probably just a phase for her, rebelling with an older man her mom doesn't approve of. Have your fun with her, but don't get serious. Her mom won't let go, and will only cause problems.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 06:15 PM
2

This is a personal issue. I think majority of us are uncomfortable with coal burners for LTR, even if we don't talk about it.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:49 PM
1

Dump or downgrade. She told you to your face she will keep in contact with him after you told her what he wants.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:07 PM
5

Yes. If she would have turned you down for drinks, she's not into you. You're on the path to friendship.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:50 PM
1

As long as you tell her how it is, you can do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 11:31 AM
3

It's not giving up, it's reallocating resources to more viable candidates. Giving up is when you stop seeing all women, not just one.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 11:23 AM
5

"OK" Don't waste time arguing.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 11:21 AM
1

You still don't get it. Your mindset of wanting to be taken back as a boyfriend is a display of low value. We can't help you with this, but r/relationships probably can.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:59 PM
2

You're wasting your time long distance. He's probably practicing red pill or PUA techniques on you risk free.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:53 PM
3

Getting laid is strong behavior, wanting commitment or giving it away easily is weak behavior. It's the woman's job to convince you to be her boyfriend. If that's news to you, you have to learn the basics at the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:51 PM
6

That is weak behaviour and kills attraction.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:24 PM
2

She doesn't tell you what you need. Tell her she needs to suck your dick.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:21 PM
3

No, every woman who's unattached is fair game, regardless of who she's friends with, ex or not.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:17 PM
4

Who cares, at 38 and 14 years older, she's too old to be the mother of your children or a wife. Enjoy it while it lasts but go younger if you want healthy children and a hot wife.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 04:33 PM
3

If she's into you, it doesn't matter when you see her. Ghost her until next week. Spend NYE on a sure thing, or with friends.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 02:35 PM
2

Say OK, but be non committal. Get her out for drinks but don't agree to any firm date for the ball. Get laid first, then agree to go if you like her.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 01:36 PM
1

Next time you contact her, set up a meeting. If she declines, end the contact. Don't explain not wanting to be her online friend, just redirect every conversation to a meeting. Cut contact if she doesn't want to meet. Don't explain, she knows she wants orbiters. PS: it's not needy to push for a meet up. That's the point of intersex relations, to get laid. You've been brainwashed into thinking normal relations is chatting online. PPS: it should never "get" to a point where you want to meet her, b…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 01:20 PM
1

Dump the girlfriend by phone while fucking her friend. You might get two plates.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 12:19 PM
2

No such thing as low libido. Only low attraction. Tell her you're getting a second girlfriend, and do it. She can shape up or ship out.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:00 AM
1

There's a reason for feeling the way you do, besides oneitis. You gave away your commitment to a girl who was hooking up with her friends. What does that tell you about the value of your commitment and her sexuality? You should have been one of the hookups. The way to deal with this one is to dump her or open it up. I see no reason why you should stay in a relationship with a hookup girl.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:57 AM
1

"You always have to be right" is usually a shit test, because women are usually wrong. The only answer to that is "That's because I'm always right"
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:49 AM
1

There are only two options for New Years Eve: get laid or hang out with friends, or both. Don't see a plate at a hen party. Hang out with the guys, then see the plate after the hens go home.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:16 PM
1

Stop caring. Women are emotional and all your mom sees is you yelling profanely at your helpless younger sister. Don't interfere between them, and put a good front to your sister in front of the mom.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:08 PM
0

Moving in isn't normal progression in an LTR. Move in only if you already decided to marry her, because women see moving in as defacto marriage, and it is. You will lose all privacy, and having total access to your residence, landline and mailbox gives her big time comfort, which is how you get months of no sex. Definitely leave when the lease is over. If you have her move out, change all locks, mailbox keys, and passwords everywhere. If you have accounts where she works, close them and find a n…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:56 PM
2

First, fix your mindset. Cheating is a violation of monogamy. You didn't have a monogamous relationship with your GF, therefore no cheating took place. Don't admit cheating (because you didn't), and don't apologize for being able to get laid. There's no dibs in life. If she's not jumping on it, someone else is. This relationship was over when you two stopped having sex. The death is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:44 PM
1

It all depends on the terms of your relationship. If you say you'll be seeing other women, it's not cheating.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:25 PM
1

A break means she fucked someone else who won't commit, and now wants you back.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:11 PM
1

Send her mom a final text wishing her daughter the best, but make it clear that you moved on, and you don't want her back in your life.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:38 PM
1

Women who discard your commitment never get it back.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:31 PM
1

Instead of asking to take her out, you need to invite yourself to her place with a bottle of wine and a movie, and do major escalation. If your dick isn't the next one she sucks that night, you need to leave and soft next her. She thinks you're a beta she can use for some free validation, and you need to demonstrate the importance of your time in action. Don't accept signs of affection as a substitute for sexuality.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 01:21 PM
1

Start taping his outbursts. Anonymously send them to every executive and manager there is. Threaten to release publicly and send to competitors.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:35 PM
1

Women who go after servicemen for their benefits are the worst predators out there. Military wives are the biggest whores on the planet. Don't marry until you're out.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:27 PM
2

You've been orbiting and "dating" but not fucking. There's no LTR without sex, and she's not attracted to you, regardless of what she says. Attraction=sex, period. You don't have to "dump" but tell her that your relationship by definition is just friends and you're OK to continue like this. The unsaid part is you'll soft next her and start hooking up.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:21 PM
1

This girl was hooking up with guys her mom didn't know about it. She's putting on a virginal act for her mom. When being set up by parents, the expectation is marriage, not hooking up. Decline and develop game on your own, and you'll have your pick of women younger than you (who won't put on an act, because you will have learned all about it here).
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:53 AM
1

Cut the bitch out if your life for a while. Absense makes the heart grow fonder. There's no problem between you to fix.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:45 PM
1

You can be blunt with her. She's your fuck buddy or fuck off.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:40 PM
1

The answer is NO. The bitch didn't even ask, she told you. Interrupt any argument with a "NO". No means no.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:36 PM
1

Educate her with a garden hose. Educate her again. Violence is generally wrong, but for some people exceptions can be made.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:12 PM
1

She's not your GF, fool. She's just a plate. Women who discard your commitment don't get it back. Next time she gives you any shit, make it clear to her that she's not your GF and shouldn't expect to be treated like one.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:58 PM
1

You own the baby, since you leased her uterus by paying her to have sex.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:42 PM
1

Plate only.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:37 PM
-5

Make it comfortable for her, but don't get hung up on her after she dies. You're still here, you still have your life to live. Could be a ploy to get you to marry her before she dies (insert woman logic here), and then MIRACLE, cancer goes into remission.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:13 PM
2

Start by dumping her. Come back for more advice after dumping her.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:08 PM
13

If you're not entitled to his monogamy, it doesn't matter who he's fucking. The woman's treatment of her husband is what justifies monogamy, not just being called your husband. The "grow up" shaming doesn't work here. There are practical reasons for staying in a bad marriage and getting it on the side. Just ask anyone who's been divorce raped.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:35 PM
13

Common fucking sense for a woman. Keep your husband happy or don't have a husband, and don't pitch a bitch fit when he goes somewhere he's appreciated.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:15 PM
8

Go home. Refuse to leave. Refuse to argue. Wear a recording device. Call the cops if she starts yelling (that's domestic violence) or acting violently, or if she locked you out. You had a plate for a reason, so tell your wife the reason and tell her to shape up or ship out. You have no assets, so nuking the wife won't cost you a lot.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 11:31 AM
1

If you're starting a business, a girlfriend is the WORST thing to have. I ought to start posting old Leykis episodes here. He's done a few on this. Women don't want you to improve, because you'll find a better woman. They want you right where you are. She could also potentially have a claim to a share of your business. Not being married doesn't matter, she can claim you two started it together as a couple. Now you're starting a business, and she's already guilt tripping you with "monophobia". Yo…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 08:11 PM
1

Don't tell HER (the freeloading whore that dumped you) to do anything, what's in it for her? Call them back and DEMAND they inform her themselves. Escalate to every supervisor there is. She's not required to call anyone and you're not required to provide free services. You can also inform her by text and fax the screenshots to the companies and demand action within 48 hours. Threaten to call the oversight agencies if they won't assist you in removing a no longer authorized party from your accoun…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:32 PM
3

Get her off your phone plan and insurance immediately. That's something you can do by yourself without her consent. If she's on the lease, she's responsible for her share of payment. Suing is not petty, because she has contractual responsibilities to both her roommates, not just you, and dumping you doesn't absolve her of them. If you have texts or emails confirming her owing the $700, sue for that too. Stop being Capt. Save a hoe.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:22 PM
1

She won't agree to not get married after you proposed. Dump her, or just flat out say you won't marry a fatty with debt. Don't propose next time. Disney brainwashing at play. It's her job to convince you to make every little commitment in the relationship, including marriage.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:30 AM
3

One on one dates only, there's no safety concerns in a public place. It's more likely she wants free entertainment for the whole group.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:21 AM
2

"No, but you can come over and blow me on Black Friday."
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:17 AM
1

Don't tell them anything important. If they start shit, say "OK" and do what you were going to do anyway. You let them into your life, that's why they can control it. Kick them out of it as much as you can while being dependant on them.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:09 AM
2

The point is to shame him publicly and expose him as a violent individual incapable of rational thought. I know that's legal in the US (truth is an absolute defense), but UK has weird libel laws.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 12:49 PM
3

Start by forwarding those messages to his parents, grandparents and any relatives you can find. Maybe if he's a member of any civic organization, they should also receive those messages. Give these messages to the police. Don't provide irrelevant information, like drug use.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 12:25 PM
3

Did anyone actually threaten you or are you assuming? Filing a police report and restraining order creates facts in your favor if later you have to take action to defend yourself.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 12:00 PM
-1

SEX WILL HAPPEN. Try for oral or anal. If neither, leave. She doesn't deserve your time.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 11:54 AM
2

Propose marriage with a big diamond ring. If that won't open her legs, I don't know what will.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 11:10 AM
3

No sex, no relationship. You can't save this, because you already allowed three months without fucking in an "exclusive relationship" that SHE wanted. She lost all respect for you at that point. Cancel the fucking meeting, talking about you being a loser won't help anything. You must be a special kind of beta to give up active plates and be exclusive with a girl who won't fuck you.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:44 AM
4

You have major problems if you are hurt by a girl withdrawing commitment. The only thing left between you two is sex. No emotions, no love, no money, no soul emptying conversations, nothing to let her think she's anything to you but three holes.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:34 AM
1

It's an invitation to fuck. Accept unless there's reason not to.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:13 PM
51

The lesson you should be teaching is to your GF by dumping her. So this guy grabbed her ass, and instead of screaming and slapping him, she told him she had a BF. Not GF material.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:40 PM
2

Divorce. Counseling is a waste of YOUR money. Your wife and her sister are wastes of YOUR money. Tell the useless whores to hit the fucking road.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:28 PM
1

Decline. Tell him you know this is a green card marriage, and you will get into a lot of trouble for witnessing it. Don't listen to his excuses. It IS a green card marriage, and you shouldn't be involved in it. If he agrees to support her when signing the immigration papers, that takes precedence over the prenup.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:40 PM
3

Never talk about sex or why you're not having it. Actions only. If she don't fuck, you walk and do something better with your time. Roomates? Plate only. Why would you consider commitment with someone who can't even fuck you in her own home? If you dump her, she will suddenly become more interested in sex. Guaranteed. You want to know what she likes? Throw her on the bed and fuck her brains out. That's what she likes. Don't discuss it. She pretty blatantly told you she's not interested in sex. M…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 01:17 PM
2

There is no friendship, but there's no need to tell her. Cut contact, and make everything sexual when she contacts you. Through actions, not words you will let her know you wanna grab that pussy.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 01:30 PM
4

Your value isn't high enough, otherwise she wouldn't be bitching. If you dump her and have plates, your value would go up instantly, and you wouldn't have to wine and dine your only sexual source to get laid. You don't live together do you? Familiarity breeds contempt. If you were spinning several plates this wouldn't be a problem, because it would be her trying to get your commitment. Saltintake is right. Her prudish attitude towards sex is inappropriate. Subvert her and get her dirty. A good s…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 01:21 PM
2

Plate only, but let her vent as price of admission. Get the most you can out of her, but don't get emotional.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 01:16 PM
1

Inform her parents and transer her care to them. Go no contact with her. Save all texts and voicemails.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 02:27 PM
2

Cut the bitch off until she unfucks herself. Family means shit if she's a cunt.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:08 PM
1

Fuck speeches. This is a family thing, not a convention. Just speak from the heart, and don't go too long.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:47 PM
2

If she's going for an upgrade, GAINING weight isn't how to get it done.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:44 PM
2

"Don't cry sweetie, you can always move to Canada."
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:41 AM
2

"A girl I'm into" means you're not fucking. Your whole post is irrelevant. Find some one to fuck first.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:39 AM
3

Coffee twice in a row is lame. Sitting across is even lamer. You won't get anywhere in a crowded public space. Invite her to your place and work from there. If she's into you she'll be there, otherwise she's looking for someone to entertain her.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:33 AM
2

You have a mental illness through no fault of your own as a result of abuse. Men are men, and women are women. Social brainwashing is responsible for the ridiculous idea that girls can be trapped in boy's bodies and vice versa. You will not find a decent guy. No matter how you self identify, men see you as a man on a biological level, and you will likely up killing yourself after you realize how you mutilated your body to fit a warped mental image of yourself. That's why post-op "T's" kill thems…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:22 AM
1

Maybe you looked at her a little too intensely? South Asians can do that.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 03:09 AM
1

Demote to plate for the "sexist" comment. She'll probably cook for you then. Or not. Whatever. Flat viewing? Don't tell me you want to move in together. She just pissed it all away. She's already trying to manage your expectations. Sex is next.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 03:03 AM
9

They'd be fucking you, not dating. Someone who says this in an LTR is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:21 PM
2

It's not a double standard, it's your standard. And you don't explain. Guys' trips aren't girls' trips. If she values your SMV, she'll have faith in the relationship. And high value men can sleep around anyway, since it's your resources and commitment that matter, and not exclusivity, which most women know is impractical anyway among such men. And if she calls you hypocritical or unfair, ignore such manipulation.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:59 PM
1

Text or email her the next time she blocks your egress you will have her car towed at her own expense. Loggable communication only. Consider notifying the landlord/owner, or eviction.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:38 PM
11

She issued a take it or leave it ultimatum. Hard next and cut contact. She ended the relationship. She doesn't get to talk at you anymore. Shush her and don't let her finish the sentence. It's done. The sex IS the relationship. Never let anyone dispute you on this.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:14 PM
3

The answer is always the same. You. She wants to get laid, but you're treating her like a Catholic schoolgirl, and those are the biggest sluts on the planet. Ignore her claims of inexperience. Near virgin is not virgin, don't even use that term here.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:48 PM
2

They worship the sun / Lucifer the light bearer. "Devil" has Zoroastrian roots as in good vs evil and is a meaningless term. Look online for episodes of "A View from space" Gary Bell the Spaceman. Toronto AM640. Jewish yarmulkes, monks shaving the tops of heads in a circle, and halos are all solar symbols.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:30 PM
1

Don't sugarcoat the family. Just start telling them to fuck off. The GF can make her own choice.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:09 PM
3

You get divorced where you live, not where you got married. Be very careful about moving countries.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:05 PM
1

You should know by now that long distance is not a relationship. Cut contact immediately, she's dead to you. Ignore all calls and texts. Don't give her the closure. If she's not here, she's irrelevant.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:03 PM
2

Telling her not to do it again can very likely lead to you losing your job because she felt "intimidated" by the way you spoke to her.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:58 AM
4

Hard next and no contact is good because it deprives her of the ability to change the narrative and subject you to more gum flapping, and waste tour time. Make the decision. Inform her. Remove her from your life.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:53 AM
4

You just need to accept that relationships and familiarity kill attraction, and the ex is attractive to her in a way that you aren't.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:38 AM
4

Don't spill your guts. Tell her you know she lied and hard next. Don't even think of acting like a bitch and pouring your feelings out.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:27 AM
4

You can be "that guy" if you get divorced and fuck women without commitment, like they are doing.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:24 AM
2

Men with options who value their time don't spend an entire month chatting online before even meeting in person. You are insecure about your height, and wanted to "build a rapport" before seeing her. You talked too much after fucking her and killed all mystery by entering her frame and spilling the beans when she started quizzing you on your bed activities. Don't talk, do. And women never lack options for dick.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:47 AM
2

When this kind of guy used to call Tom Leykis, I knew what he would say just by the way he talked in that wimpy cucky forlorn way. "But Tom, don't you want to care for somebody and leave a legacy... You can't take it with you... Don't you want somebody to love... The father put us here to procreate... Feel emptiness." I always felt sorry for these callers.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:12 AM
1

Combination of chatting for a whole month, and next day, you saw her again and not another woman. She's sensing lack of options.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:02 AM
8

Because you're a pussy with no self respect. Stop asking questions and get a divorce. How old are you two? If both 30? She's hitting the wall, and you have a good 20 years left. Don't waste them on this whore.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:19 AM
6

Tell her no contact with this guy, and threesome only with other women. If she responds with anything other than an enthusiastic agreement, stop talking, see a lawyer and file for divorce, this one's done. She wanted HIS approval and not YOURS? That's the only thing you needed to hear.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:55 AM
14

About to hit the wall and claimed to be a virgin, didn't give you commitment and you're worried about "cheating"? You don't have a relationship. Start reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 03:14 PM
8

Any childhood genital mutilation is a savage, barbaric blood ritual that must be eliminated immediately, and anyone who supports this savagery needs to have his/her entire dick/clit removed.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 12:40 PM
1

Dump her now. Women finding religion equals trouble.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 10:24 PM
1

Maybe you just don't care if you like putting your naked wife online. That's something you do with a plate, not a wife. So she acts like a plate by sending her pics to other men.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:19 PM
1

Irrelevant. The action is what's unacceptable, not the explanation she gives you, or the actual reason. She doesn't deserve your commitment. Open up marriage on your side only or divorce.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:12 PM
3

Cut contact forever and get a girlfriend you can actually fuck.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 09:23 AM
1

Your wife was sending nude pics to another guy and you're still with that whore? You deserve everything that's coming.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 09:20 AM
1

Soft next. Get laid next time she contacts you or hard next. No "break ups", she's not your GF.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:38 PM
5

Tell her you like anal and if she doesn't want to continue being exclusive, that's OK. But she shouldn't be your GF in the first place if she's unable to satisfy you sexually.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:11 PM
2

Bla Bla Bla. While you were fantasizing and orbiting, your friend was seizing the day. There's no dibs in life. Who cares you liked her first? Be more like him.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:56 AM
2

When you're 32, she'll be 40. When you're 40, she'll be 48. Think long term and find somebody younger.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:50 AM
3

I think it has more to do with your SMV. If it's high, she would always look her best for you, regardless of any external factors.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:15 PM
6

You don't stay in the room long enough for her to bring it up when she starts an argument. Your presence is a privilege, and you will remove it if she doesn't respect it. We don't do arguments, so whatever she brings up from the past is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 12:11 PM
24

The only response when she contacts you is to invite her for Netflix and chill. Don't initiate contact, cut contact when she refuses to see you.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 12:05 PM
1

Tell her to snap out of it or get some help. You're not a coping mechanism. A high value man wouldn't tolerate it, and she wouldn't act this way around him.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:32 AM
0

Reducing sex due to not having a place for it sounds like a ploy for you two to move in together. Downgrade to plate. If she cared about your commitment, nothing would get in the way of you fucking, especially her "comfort".
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:11 AM
1

Why, do you intend to be arguing with a feminist about this? Gender wage gap is a "fact" with numerous studies "supporting" it. This study is nothing new. Just say OK and move on if someone tells you women make less because women.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 10:49 AM
1

You didn't escalate at a time she needed some action and excitement, and the role got quickly filled by someone else and she gave you the standard relationship BS, blocked you and moved on. Don't message her unless you're willing to stop talking about sex and relationships and start escalating. Yes, she's hooking up with someone and it's not you. Banter and chemistry mean shit if you're not fucking or even making an attempt.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 10:34 AM
1

No need to read, but gaps attributed to gender are almost always caused by education, career and lifestyle choices.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 08:19 AM
1

After she made clear she doesn't want sex, you make it clear that she's not allowed inside your residence. She has friends, let her stay there. You're not a friend, you're an ex.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 08:16 AM
1

She is taking advantage, and she is a whore. And your analogy is incorrect. This wasn't a friend who you decided to kick out for no reason. This is a former relationship who ended the relationship but stays squatting in your house. Tell her you'll be getting laid daily by whosoever is living in your house.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 08:10 AM
1

He didn't go about it the right way, but he had the right gist. Men don't need female friends. We'd rather be friends with the girls we bang.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 08:02 AM
2

Bitch, I don't pay for pussy.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:22 PM
1

Tell her a threesome with you and two girls is happening. Whether she wants to be a part of it is up to her. But you should dump her for wanting to be with other guys.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:15 PM
2

What's there to bust through? She said she's not interested. You can try more bluntly this time. Tell her you want to hook up and no one's getting emotional. If she doesn't agree to see you, hard next.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:13 PM
14

Girls who go to drinking parties without her man are not LTR material. She should know better. If she goes, downgrade to plate.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:07 PM
1

With a tinder girl, drinks or straight to your/her place.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:05 PM
1

Maybe he's just a creep.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:30 AM
1

(She said she was talking with some guys when we met but hasn't since. I basically say since we're going to be exclusive then I'm calling you my gf.) That's all it took to give up your commitment. Is it any wonder she tells you not to fuck up and withdraws sex over something she knew about before you agreed to be exclusive? Send her a short text saying "exclusivity is a mistake and I'm taking it back. If that's a problem for you, that's OK."
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:35 AM
1

The more stuff you have on tape, the more money you can get.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:12 AM
3

She doesn't have to choose, because you choose to dump her ass.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 08:16 PM
1

It's a fact that marrying your cousin is legal in about 25 states, and not where you'd think. Banging your cousin outside of marriage is legal in some states, too.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 08:12 PM
2

If she's not fucking you, you shouldn't be talking to her anyway.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 08:09 PM
2

If she was afraid of losing you, she wouldn't be running her mouth. Less talking, more doing. Escalate ruthlessly every time you see her. Shut down any abstinence talk with a "NO" before she even finishes the sentence. Shush her, put your finger over her mouth, whatever it takes to show disdain and dismissal. Abstinence is not valid topic of discussion in an LTR. EDIT: make her prove her claims biblically, and show her the passages of man's dominion over women. Easy to find online.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:12 AM
1

It's just words. Women like actions by high SMV men, whatever those actions are.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:07 AM
1

Plate them both, but LTR neither. Don't do a relationship until you're 30 with a 20 year old.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:04 AM
3

Dinner is for girls you date who put out, not girls you just met who don't put out.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:01 AM
1

Every woman is somebody's friend. Just approach one you want to fuck and cut out the middleman.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:35 PM
4

How does a cheating GF pouring a drink on a guy she cheated with prove her loyalty? It doesn't. That's why you don't talk after the dump. You made your decision, now stick to it. Talking about it gives her the opportunity to mind fuck you, like proving her loyalty by pouring a drink. Tell her you don't care what she does with that guy, but you're not in a relationship anymore.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:07 PM
1

Somebody else is going to have to set you straight.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 09:53 AM
1

Stop talking, start doing. If rejected, hard next. Most of your post is unneeded.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 09:35 AM
1

Refuse to talk about it and vote for Trump anyway. I'm planning to.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 08:47 AM
3

Soft next, until she contacts you. Ask for the number right away. No number, hard next.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 08:44 AM
1

Give her a full list of your own "you should's" for her.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 01:52 AM
3

Never use the term open relationship with women. It's code for you treating her like a GF, but her sleeping around.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:19 AM
2

She's a born again Muslim. Fucked other guys at the drop of the hat, but plays the virgin with you, and still parties. Either fuck her or find a bona fide virgin. Or both. But not LTR material anyway.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 12:30 PM
3

Strict Muslim who parties until 2, you spend the night and don't get laid. At least 2 problems here.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:33 AM
2

No sex equals no comfort. Dread this bitch to the extreme.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 10:48 AM
1

"Bitch, I'm not a provider. You wanna fuck or not?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:02 PM
1

What is she doing for you? Daily blowjobs? Brushes her teeth with your cum? Tell her to shut up and suck your dick.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 12:10 PM
1

Yes, just because she has low value beta orbiters, doesn't mean that you are one. Give it a shot anyway.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 12:02 PM
3

Fuck M. Pros: new experience, possible new plate. Con: possibly lose old plate. Pros win.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 01:55 PM
1

He's right. Be the kind of man women want to be with. Right now, that's not you. Chasing girls and telling them you like them is friend zone cringe.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:01 AM
1

Hold her head and pinch her nose closed while gently and firmly telling her to swallow.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:57 AM
1

What's the question here? She wants an orbiter. Tell your friends she's a waste of time and to hold their opinions to themselves. Herbalife is a scam. Ignore any talk related to her. The only way to win with women is to ignore them.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:50 AM
1

You're insane for even considering it. She can slutty with you AND others. Tell her hookups are part of the deal. If not, cut contact. Don't be the chump who's just friends with the bitch that dumped him to slut around. If she wants to come back later as a plate only, that's OK. She doesn't fear losing you. If she did, she wouldn't be dumping you. You actually believed her words over her actions. She only wants what you can provide.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:53 AM
2

It takes two to consensually treat someone in any way.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:42 AM
1

Tell her you're not looking for commitment or love, you just wanna hook up. Any unsatisfactory answer - hard next.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 10:32 AM
1

It doesn't matter where you marry, but you divorce where you live. If you move to US, you get divorced by US laws. Even with a prenup, I can't imagine a US court would agree to give up jurisdiction and force the woman to get divorced in Saudi Arabia.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 10:19 AM
3

You don't state intentions, you do them.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:12 PM
1

No, fuck a woman who doesn't know you as a complete gutless loser beta. PS: You friendzoned yourself by not moving on. That's what successful men do when they get rejected.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:12 PM
73

Something happened at the party and she feels guilty.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 01:03 PM
1

Two consenting adults. Let this moron run his mouth, he will only embarrass himself and his daughter.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:28 AM
2

Sounds fishy. If she was into you, she'd make time. She's looking for a study buddy. Don't study together if she's not receptive to your advances. Leave to do something else. Be a stud, not a study buddy.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:18 AM
1

She just ended the relationship. She rejected your commitment, so she doesn't get it in the future. Plate only.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:11 AM
8

Fuck it. Go scorched earth. Publish the texts. Accuse her of creating drama. Accuse her of falsely accusing you to save face with her BF. Accuse her for ruining your reputation. Accuse the social chair of impropriety. Inform the college that you will fully exercise your 1st amendment rights to publicize and shame your accuser, as she has done to you. EDIT: Try your judicial board. Seriously, get their names, and hold a public trial in the quad, with effigies for effect. Convict them in absentia.…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:12 AM
3

Lots of books say lots of things. If you want to live your life by the book called bible, then you accept everything it says. I chose not to live life according to a book, and I'd tell anybody to fuck off who told me what Jesus would and wouldn't approve of. EDIT: If you really are a Christian, the only words in the bible that matter are Jesus', and the rest is irrelevant. I don't think Jesus had an opinion on premarital sex.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:08 PM
1

If you're not interested in improving yourself, go for older women. They won't respect you or stay faithful, but the beta provisioning will get you laid occasionally.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:21 PM
1

Don't you have a fucking lock on your apartment door? How can she show up "at" your house? Or do you mean "outside" your house like any other stranger that walks down the street? Why do you even aknowledge her presence?
/r/askTRP22/10/16 12:56 PM
0

Don't be insecure, don't date older chicks, don't argue, don't be afraid of "losing" any one woman, don't give up on idea of sex just because she said no sex, don't feel lucky to be with any one woman. NEVER leave your bed that's inside your bedroom inside your home. She can sleep on the couch if she wants. NEVER hug, kiss, cuddle or give out any emotional support after a sex denial. Don't talk about it either. Condition her with actions, not words. Your mindset of being lucky to be with her is …
/r/askTRP20/10/16 11:00 AM
1

Change the locks and get the rest of her stuff to your cousin's. You have serious value issues to tolerate this from a woman. Total next.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:42 AM
1

She didn't want exciting, she wanted expensive. You didn't get the hint.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:33 AM
2

Tell her next time she brings up celibacy, she's single. She obviously doesn't value your commitment. Plate only.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:11 PM
2

These savages need to adapt or go back to Sandia.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:56 PM
1

Call non emergency cop number and tell them to ignore calls from your mother or you'll file a complaint with the city. Against the cops, not the mother. They should know better.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 11:31 AM
4

Because you're acting like a friend, and not like someone who gets laid. Chicks want what's in demand and what they can't have. Spending so much time around one girl shows her you don't have options but have oneitis. Women want men that act like men. Dominant, assertive, confident, knowing their value. But your entry level question requires serious sidebar reading.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:40 AM
1

When you next someone, leave. Don't stay so she can waste more of your time with useless words that totally confuse you. If she was infatuated and into you, she'd fuck. Chicks don't fuck study buddies. Your affiliation is over. If she wants to offer the pussy, you'll think about it. No contact until then.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:24 AM
4

Downgrade or dump. Not LTR material.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:18 AM
10

Why would she want to fuck you when you've been acting like such a good friend and spending so much time with her and giving her validation?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:14 AM
2

Good on you for ending it. Ignore the tears, it's manipulation.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:30 PM
12

Mate guarding refers to advances from other males. It's on your GF to shut them down immediately. If she doesn't, plate only. Gf's staying in contact with exes in unacceptable to begin with. If she has pictures of exes on her wall, you shouldn't have made her GF. The point is your GF needs to demonstrate a certain level of investment to get a relationship, and I'm not seeing it from what you posted.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:24 PM
1

Everyone I know are my partners in life. Just one woman shouldn't be THE partner in your life.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:39 PM
71

At 29, if she senses her 200K$ beta leaving she WILL get pregnant. Stop sex immediately, and hard next her after the period. Find women 10 years younger, and dont marry until you're 40 to a woman half your age. But don't marry at all.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:22 AM
5

You sound like a bitch. I would ignore it and keep fucking.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:18 PM
3

Probably young, so tell him to downgrade to plate. This is the only way he can have less sex with her without having less sex.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:42 PM
3

I'm not a biologist, but with many things in life on a scale, blacks and Asians are on opposite sides with whites in the middle.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:39 PM
12

You can sleep with other women without calling any one of them your girlfriend, or investing in them emotionally and financially as if they were. We call it plating, no need to call it a relationship.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:12 PM
1

When bitches tape you, the only thing you do is tape them back. Returning to confront them creates a nice story for the cops.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:08 PM
1

Get the abuse on tape several times, try to seek help, then beat the shit out of him. Extreme emotional disturbance / self defense, not guilty.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:06 AM
3

Dead bedroom, she wants to have kids, and is annoyed with you, and she's approaching the WALL. Get laid at this resort, then dump her.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:51 PM
1

This one is a liability and I wouldn't tie myself to her. Dump.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:27 PM
2

It's simple. She's not your GF if you never fucked her (the only way that counts). Tell her you're looking for a sexual relationship. It's your fault you let her think she was your GF with no PiV sex. And you shouldn't be breaching topics. Just go for it every time you escalate. She can give it up or find a more passive BF.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:23 PM
1

You should genuinely want to have guy friends. Girls are for fucking, not friending.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:18 PM
15

If she didn't tell HIM to stop, she's interested.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:37 PM
3

All the fun in the world without fucking you can have with your guy friends. Drop this orbiter mentality. If she's not DTF, she has no use to you. You should always escalate until she fucks you or leaves. Not following this policy is how you end with chicks using you for a place to crash.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:57 AM
1

Leaving out not escalating changes this post entirely. You failed in your duty as a man to fuck and she exited gracefully.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:11 AM
1

You don't have a relationship anymore. When she's in town, she's a plate and nothing more. You're not "together" ever again with her. Treat her like a plate only, and never refer to her as a GF or a LTR. She dumped you, you can only move forward, not back.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 10:04 AM
2

If she's not fucking you, what value is she bringing into your life that can't be provided by guy friends? If you spent your time with women who were into you, this wouldn't be a problem.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 09:58 AM
0

No matter the cause, women who live with guys are not relationship material. The fact that your GF wouldn't go out of her way to pay the extra 20$ a week or drive extra 10 mins a day to not live with other guys tells us what we need to know about you and this relationship. Getting her out of your place is the best thing to happen to you since she moved in. Call it a day and start seeing other women.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 09:52 AM
3

There's nothing to want. If she's a plate, she's already a sexual partner. Do what you always do and ignore what she says she wants.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 09:43 AM
2

Who gives a fuck what those thieves find out? Tell it to their face.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 09:40 AM
1

She won't get the abortion, and the receipt is fake.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:35 AM
1

Month to Month means there's no contract. Drop his phone from your plan if you can, cancel the entire plan if you can't. If he ever had access to your account, better to go to another company. Do it immediately without warning him.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:30 AM
1

He said it much better than what I was trying to say.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:32 PM
1

Dump or downgrade. LTR worthy plates give commitment before they receive it, and she fucked an ex and lied about it while dating you. OK for plating, not for LTR. She needs to try again with someone else and not fuck up.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:31 PM
1

Toning down the asshole act was the mistake. Dump, dread or downgrade. Sounds like too much bother.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:20 PM
1

Either get witnesses or a recorder. Play the tape to GM. State your raise demand or get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:52 AM
2

And will you give away other pieces of property to other girls you date because it's been in your family for a while? Don't give away family heirlooms just because.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:20 AM
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