A girl i liked in the past who then fell out with me filed a false charge at an educational club we attended and i was suspended for six months from the club. I tried to defend myself that those messages were sent last year but the feminist majority club did not care. I defended myself quite poorly too, and the board did not accept anyone to argue on my behalf either. Although it is not legal case and merely a complaint at the club, i associate romance and adventure in life with this bitter experience. I can hardly pursue women with same pleasant feeling again. Will i ever get over this?