Got this tinder girl's number and started texting her a few days ago, we won't be able to actually meet for the next few weeks since at least one of us will be out of town until then.

I've tried keeping texting just down to logistics with another girl, but more scheduling conflicts delayed our initial meet until weeks after I got her number. Initially, she seemed like she really wanted to meet up, but by the time we finally could, it seemed like the spark had died and she texted me flaking a few hours before we were going to meet (was this because I didn't get her to invest enough emotionally?). On another note, should I reach out to her for one last try before nexting?

So for this current girl, I tried to build basic rapport, joking, teasing, and answering some basic questions to break the ice (nothing bb related like where I work or how much I make). Today, we were texting back and forth with 5-20 minutes in between texts. I sent a response that feels like I escalated sexually way too fast and way too soon. This was semi-inadvertant, as I was trying to flirt a bit, but after rereading the text, it could have seemed like I took the innuendo too far. She hasn't responded so far and it's been a few hours already. I get abundance mentality and that I shouldn't obsess over her but I am also trying to learn from this even if I turned out that I fucked it completely. I am also learning the hard way about keeping texting to a minimum and rule 2: don't be unattractive.

Should I back pedal jokingly and say that I didn't realize it was going to come off that way (which is true) or should I hold frame and next her if she doesn't respond?