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do you consider what "victim's claims" should be considered as direct evidence of something? In the simplest sense, no. By legal definition it is considered evidence. Not to be confused with proof mind you. Hearsay and single witness testimony is evidence. It may hot hold weight or be relevant to a trial or investigation however. In the sense that you're implying - that it's proof of guilt - absolutely it is not and should never be. Is it enough to warrant an investigation if there is corroborat…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 04:38 PM
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I'm not disputing ANY of that. Read what I wrote. Blanket statements like what was described harms our arguments and credibility in trying to bring justice to people who make false allegations. Also, the "Vagina Expertise" is something you just made up. Outside of a medically trained doctor who can identify scar tissue or other more recent damage (or.. you know, a rape kit), there's no such thing as a magic voodoo man or woman who can use "expertise" to identify a rape victim. Your statement sou…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 06:11 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you. Yall need to chill out. I'm saying that it's patently dangerous and wrong to flately state that "Without a rape kit, there was no rape". Saying such things only lends credence to that shit that feminists spout about victim blaming and what not. If you take it too far one way, we end up being no better than those that would see us assume everyone is guilty until proven innocent. You're suggesting we assume everyrone is a liar unless presented with physical evidence. …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 08:51 PM
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That's a bit extreme. There certainly shouldn't be any charges pressed without some kind of evidence though (you know... the presumption of innocence until proven guilty). It's a bit of an overstep to say that no rape or assault took place at all, in every single case, unless that one specific test was administered. "Your car wasn't stolen unless you can show me the damage to the ignition" "The car is gone, I can't show you. They STOLE it." "Well, then it wasn't stolen was it?"
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:45 PM
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Plus I make friends at the gym too, you can make it social if you're friendly with the regulars.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 07:42 PM
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Dance is quite a commitment. It'll take you a year or so to get good enough not to be embarrassingly bad with other women. If you have a girl you can take with you to learn at the same time together, then I'd recommend that. Don't go if you're just doing it to meet women. Only go if you have a genuine interest in learning dance. I don't mean to sound like a gate-keeper, it's important to try new things and see if you like it, but just make sure you're being honest with your motivations. I had a …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 07:42 PM
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there's no shadowban, it's just he algorithm realizing you're not desireable. ps most chicks dont send back more than 1 message if even This is how it can tell. The solution is to only match girls around slightly better than your SMV. We all want to swipe on that 9, but if you swipe you're knocking yourself down a peg. If you match (like a billion other guys who swiped) it means nothing. If she won't talk to you, the app knows you're not interesting / desirable after a few samples of this. Alway…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:05 PM
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You're confusing respect with validation. Men should demand respect. But you damn well better have earned it or the ability to justify that.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 05:58 PM
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The government of Canada want's two things: 1) More people (they do this through encouraging the birthrate and bringing in immigrants) to ensure the system continues growing. 2) Men (and women) to work hard and contribute to society (taxes) to ensure the system keeps on growing. Men are checking out of the system. Women are doing what they've always done. The birth rate is dropping and bringing in immigrants isn't as effective as spawning kids of your own economically. What are they to do? There…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 05:49 PM
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We are privileged to be men. Yeah, so fucking privileged to be disposable, value based only on our achievements or external worth, to have to fight tooth and nail to the bone to achieve anything of note. Don't get me wrong... that's what makes great men great - but it's a far fucking cry to say we're privileged. Men have to work extremely hard for every ounce of respect in their life.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 08:42 PM
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It seems the correct answer is not to ask the question at all!
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:39 PM
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Yeah, for one night stands thats fine... but you're gonna have a hard time spinning plates like that... any decent ones anyway.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:44 AM
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https://www.theapricity.com/forum/showthread.php?148995-Are-hunter-eyes-essential-to-male-sex-appeal
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:12 PM
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Or are these type of women insecure or find that a man that doesn't chase is attractive? Most women are hugely insecure. Women only find men attractive when they don't chase if they display some kind of SMV or modicum of interest in them. Without that you're just some random guy like all the others who are too scared to say hi like a normal, well adjusted person.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 09:48 PM
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Don't be daft. Honor among men still makes a good man great... just don't misplace it or attribute it to things involving "soul mates" and "unconditional love" type shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:42 PM
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if you want to play the game now, you have to do everything in your power to set yourself apart from other men. I can't speak for anywhere else, but the issue you just described is starting to reflect a trend in men where I live. There's a growing portion of men hitting the gym hard, eating right, and trying to make something of themselves. That in itself is a great thing for our society, but as someone who's in the same game, competing for an already scarce resource.... Things just got 10 times…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:37 PM
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People might not agree with me here on this, but arguably birth control had a bigger impact in enabling hypergamy. Women used to have to make sure the guys they slept with were at least somewhat long term provider material. They had to find a balance between a chad and beta bob. Too much chad genes and he would be likely to skip town. There were less social services for single women back then as well I believe. Social media is part of the problem to be sure. It's just another form of false valid…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:33 PM
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end up with the some of the most beta guys around. Out of convenience or personal gain most likely. They're not actually attracted to those guys on that level. Every relationship has a dominant and submissive role player. Sometimes the men and women swap spots - sometimes women are more comfortable in that role. It happens, but I'd suggest it's pretty rare for women to actually enjoy that role on a deep level. You're right though, any man worth their salt would recognize it's more trouble than i…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:40 PM
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History will always have the advantage. Women seem to remember in extremes. Really bad, or really good (fond) things. Anything in between isn't generally memorable (which is why being average is being invisible). She's got hangups and either OP has to deal with it, or tell her he's not comfortable with her attachment to her ex and see where it goes from there. OP isn't happy, OP isn't doing anything to remedy that and is looking to the internet for a magic bullet solution that won't require him …
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:05 PM
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He's also short. So there's no excuses for you to not see the same results.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:29 PM
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This is covered in The Rational male which I suggest you read. There is no value in having a "Wing Woman". As per your previous comment, You're just looking for the social proof, not an active "wing woman".
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:49 PM
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My buddy has been absolutely slaying on Tinder after changing all the pictures to him on his harley in a tight fitting white shirt. Every girl he slept with said it was primarily the bike that made them match at first. Seems to be an unspoken contract that he's going to take them for a ride and then they will fuck once or twice and never talk again - both parties are okay with this.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:30 PM
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This sub is flush with new readers (and thus commentators) over the last 6 - 12 months. Individually they're all interested in dipping their toes in. As a group they'll all subconsciously seek to confirm their existing biases - which in this case is beta blue pill bullshit and magic bullet solutions.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 11:09 PM
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Red flags for an LTR, no doubt. But that doesn't really address the question of how to verbally deal with these kinds of comments in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 06:51 PM
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Couple questions, red flags? Plate asked me if I'd ever go to a sex club. I said no, because that's honestly how I feel about it. I prefer to have a strong connection and a sense of ownership over girls I sleep with. I also wouldn't want to be involved in a woman that's into going to sex clubs on any regular basis. It may have been an innocent question out of curiosity, but wtf? She mentions how we're going to be friends in the future - now I never expected this to last, but this weirds me out f…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 06:31 PM
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Ignore nutrition and all the other bullshit for the first 2 months at least. Newbies are already overwhelmed by a lot of information. Telling someone their first day at the gym how to mange their macro's is a pretty good way to scare them away for good. Outside of counting calories, nutrition won't have an appreciable impact on a newbie for the first month or two anyway. Unless you're 4yo or retarded. Solid debate skills, champ.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:27 PM
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Fucking solid post. Someone gild this guy. Anyone who comes here and isn't looking for examples of pre-teen internet chat room admin abuse is lying to themselves. Outstanding work.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:45 PM
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Great linear progression program. Get's all the big lifts and isn't a crazy high volume so you won't hurt yourself. You still need a PT or someone experienced to thoroughly check your form periodically though. There's a few things people take for granted that they don't typically explain - for me I wasn't engaging more core properly and lots of people just do it naturally so they don't look for it or talk about it. SL5x5 is good because it doesn't neglect the back either. For proper balance you …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:10 PM
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Starting Strength or Strong Lifts 5x5 (what I used 1.5 years ago). Start with the bar and check your form with a video recording of yourself - or if you can, get a personal trainer to show you proper form with weekly checkups for a month. Ignore nutrition and all the other bullshit for the first 2 months at least. Your number one goal is learning HOW to move so you don't hurt yourself later. If you're really keen on taking in more info, get a grip on what level of mobility you currently have VS …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:05 PM
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I can't see myself wanting to be the dominant one in bed at the moment. I think you're going to want to get to the bottom of that problem ASAP anyway. You're a MAN, you should have an innate desire to be dominant and in control of your surroundings. Women will be repelled by submissive men (there are dominant women, but fuck opening that can of worms unless you're paying them for it). Everyone has their kinks of course, but things like cuckholdry and submission have no place in a healthy male ro…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 06:27 PM
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A) This should be on AskTRP B) Don't fucking shit where you eat. C) Read the side bar. In addition, any suggestions on how to snag this girl? You aren't snagging shit. She's approaching the wall and likely won't leave her boyfriend for someone with less resources, experience, and money. At best you'll get a lay or two out of her at the risk of losing your job or getting your ass beat. Use her as social proof or something, but don't pursue her in any regard unless she's literally throwing pussy a…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 05:55 PM
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Drop a tab of acid (or some mush) and think on it. You won't find a magical answer (here or with drugs), but you'll get a whiff of something that leads to things that might get you the answers you seek. I don't think I've ever met anyone under the age of 25 who actually knew what the fuck they actually wanted from their life - never mind the fact that it frequently changes for men. Focus on being good at being a man for now. You're likely to discover your purpose once you're mentally in a good s…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:06 PM
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Anyone who doesn't see this is lying to themselves. You cannot plate and ex. You cannot reverse course on a relationship. Ex's know who you are and even if you change, the natural balance that the relationship was founded on will creep its way back in. If you want to stagnate and stop improving, by all means, "plate" an ex. She almost certainly has you figured out though and nothing productive or good will come from it.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:39 PM
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If that's all it takes to make you feel shitty, how are you going to cope with rejection, flakey girls, getting dumped, etc etc? Starting with the bar is anything but bad. You're getting your weak ass muscles used to moving in the right way. You're training your mind and muscles to work together... it was only two months.. I know people that injured themselves and couldn't properly do anything but resistance bands for 6 months! Form over weight is what builds true strength and will keep you in t…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:21 PM
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None of the tried methods are geared towards gaming flaky, immature, socially awkward 15 year old girls. What exactly are you looking for?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:26 PM
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You're 16, just go fuck around and try to learn from it. No amount of books, videos, or guides will teach you what you can learn in 30 minutes of failing while not giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:23 PM
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"No More Mr Nice Guy" is heavily centered on this topic as well - plus some other generally useful concepts men should instill within their own minds.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 03:40 PM
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I don't love you anymore". I tried to stay cool but I felt betrayed and extremely sad to hear that It get's parotted here a lot, but it's something everyman has to come to terms with via personal experience. women will not, and cannot love you the same way you love them. Their love is fleeting and without attachment. It can be there one moment and gone the next. sometimes I think I just wasted 4 years and question myself. If you walk away from it with nothing, no lessons learned, and nothing but…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:30 PM
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This is closer to reality. They simply disregard failed attempts and people that didn't meet their standards. It's the same reason you constantly hear women say "there's no good men" or that they can't find a boyfriend. We hear it at face value and apply it literally (as men tend to do). When she says she's never been approached. She's saying 'I've never been approached by anyone that was memorable or peaked my interest enough to bother interrupting my routine". She's probably had what she think…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:57 PM
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Put another way: Women have terrible rational thinking and judgement when they are attracted to someone. I know guys who regularly pass off as 6'0 when they are 5'10 because the women are into them and just believe it (so long as they are shorter). It's also possible she's fucking with OP and fishing for something with these comments (particularly with the junk comment)
/r/askTRP25/05/17 10:49 PM
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I've been in a relationship for 10 years with my high school sweetheart This isn't a selling feature for you. Everything in our relationship is amazing except for the sex. This cannot possibly be true. You're either lying to yourself or oblivious. I love her with all my heart There's a problem. You need to read the entire sidebar friend. I'll summarize by paraphrasing Patrice Oneal. "I can only love with 90% of me... As a man I'm obligated to save that last 10% for when she decides to blow every…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 10:40 PM
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I know they say not to have sex with your ex because you will catch feelings. That's not why. I honestly don't think im catching any feelings I actually remembered my sexless ltr and the bad sex we used to have while she was laying next to me. Good. Think on that, thank her for that lesson and move on. You're now a little bit wiser and know a little bit more about what you're looking for in an LTR / Plate. What do you guys think I should do? Move on, stop talking to her Did I fuck up? No, you de…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:34 PM
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She wants to remain "best friends" since we have an excellent understanding and get along well. If she was a dude or fat, would you still want to be her friend? 95% of the time the answer to this is no, but because she has a pussy you're accustomed to fucking easily, you trick yourself into thinking yes. Almost nothing good can come from lingering ex's - at least ones you've put any kind of investment into. Best to cut ties unless it's the rare situation where she's actually a cool person who ca…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:26 PM
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Since I found TRP I realised the importance of looks but it's driving me crazy because I feel like there will always be a huge slew of guys way better in that department. This is life in general. You have to learn to be proud of what YOU have accomplished and look forward to achieving your next set of goals. There will always be someone better looking, better skilled, better at everything you do - it's just a fact of life. It shouldn't make you feel inferior though, it should be a source of insp…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:06 PM
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Status is king, sure... but you don't get that overnight and without discipline. Lifting is the foundation from which you learn discipline, healthy choices, routine, and a sense of pride and accomplishment. Is it the only way to build these things? Surely not. Is it the easiest and most universally applicable to everyone who reads this sub? I would say yes.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:58 AM
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Consider early retirement in South American or Asia? I'm only 5'10 and felt huge when I went to Colombia. Plus the girls there fucking loved older white guys.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:56 AM
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You're presenting yourself in the terms that YOU find men attractive on. Money, brains, fitness... These are nice-to-haves for women from a mans perspective, but not explicitly what we place priority on. Feminine energy, submissiveness, seductiveness, engaging / playful body language, and your physical appearance (again in relation to how feminine you appear) Are the primary motivators. These things can be overlooked for the sake of availability, but when you're asking about a "Alpha male", they…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:37 PM
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Isn't this just a really long winded way of saying the usual "Enjoy the decline"? You're accepting her for who she is without putting fantasy based blue pill ideals or covert contracts into your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:15 PM
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This might be the most cringe worth analogy I've ever read on TRP.... but fuck me sideways if it doesn't fit better than most. Well done OP, there's some gems in this and given the recent influx of newbies and younglings, it's probably a very relate-able way to get these points across.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 05:32 PM
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Not to mention the time she spent being monogamous with you is gone. That portion of her youth is now "wasted". Time/youth is currency for women.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 05:31 PM
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She hasn't responded so far and it's been a few hours already. She might be staying silent to put pressure on you to see how you react. It's the same strategy guys should be employing in conversations when girls say something awkward. Don't mention it, put it out of your head and carry on. Making mistakes is normal - just accept that you did, don't mention it or bring attention to it, and move on like it never happened. Don't fucking backpeddle or apologize for being a sexual guy. You were just …
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:00 PM
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you need to be legitimately busy enough to warrant ignoring the texts. Since nobody is actually that busy in reality, you also need to put those texts on a low priority. As per the sidebar, texting is for logistics, not conversations. If she's asking you if you're free or whatever, wait a bit and reply. If she's just looking to talk, ignore the fuck out of that shit. If she knows you live in a car and you've already banged and she's still reaching out to you, you're fucking in dude. No need to s…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 08:17 PM
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/Fitness/comments/37ylk5/a_linear_progression_based_ppl_program_for/ I skip day 6 leg days in favor of hiking or running. (edit: had to break the link for the automod, just add /r in front.)
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:47 PM
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this place is reading more and more like the relationships sub. Lots of people writing what they FEEL like should be the right answer with clearly no real life experience.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 01:18 AM
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while not "fat", I went from 195 to 165 in a year. Not an amazing feat, but i'm still proud. It wasn't until I was below 170 ( I'm 5'10) that I started to notice people complimenting or noticing me. After a year of chronic fuck-around-itis in the gym doing some half assed Strong Lift 5x5 3 days a week schedule, I starting doing the reddit 6 day a week PPL linear progression program and doubled my gains in 5 months. Once My traps and triceps started to become visible I noticed a lot more attentio…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 12:44 AM
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typically only makes me more negative... plus even if it was a miracle cure, it's terrible for me and fucks my diet up.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 12:14 AM
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3) They do some called "covert contracts" which is talked about in No More Mr. Nice Guy. Essentially, I would offer dinner and we'd hang out. The thing is that my intentions were different than hers. And then they get angry when things don't go their way. This book was fucking eye opening for me. Every guy should read this book at least twice - and DO the exercises. Covert Contracts will fuck you up and women can smell them a mile away (even if you can't and you think you're being genuine). It's…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 06:33 PM
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If OP has the energy for it, I think that's pretty productive. You get to build your social skills, network like mad, and make extra money.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 06:18 PM
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not much experience myself, but I'd caution that you're at a pretty big disadvantage if you're not shredded or obviously leading a large social circle around.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 06:08 PM
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no straight guy ever in the history of planet earth has gotten hard from being raped. It's okay if you're gay or bi dude, but no straight guy is getting hard from another guy sucking his dick. The fact you're asking this here seems to indicate you're not exactly sure about your own sexual orientation. I don't think this is the best place to find the answers your're seeking either.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:53 PM
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If you took it, you wouldn't be straight would you? How would you get hard, let alone stay hard if you weren't already attracted to men?
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:29 PM
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assume attraction, act with intent and be bold. Basic Side bar stuff.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:24 PM
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Solid TRP advice there bud. "Watch some TV so you're in on some bullshit american pop culture reference."
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:20 PM
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How would you "challenge" another male for attention without it being painfully obvious or try hard? You can still pull women without being the most outstanding in the room. There will ALWAYS be someone better than you. Some people here say to befriend them, but I think that would immediately put you in a weird supplicating frame. Just do you normally and accept that someone else is beating you at your game. Try to learn from it and appreciate that you've got qualities that make you more appeali…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:23 PM
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Started doing this in January. Freed up so much time in the rest of the week for Dance lessons, kickboxing, visiting friends, making nice dinners. I can't go back now. Also stepped it up to 5 days a week from 3 (SL5x5). Making massive gains in just 5 months compared to all year on sl5x5.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 10:09 PM
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Porn is the real enemy to your sexual function, not fapping Exactly this. Go no fap if that's your jam, but the the worst of the issues are tied into porn use.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 07:58 PM
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I don't see anything overtly wrong based on what's written. Women are just flakes and fickle. It doesn't matter how badly you'd like to spin that plate, if it's taking up a lot of time and mental resources, it's probably not worth it. She might have other guys on the go or just has the attention span of a 2 year old. She might also be intentionally waiting to reply to just to fuck with you. Give it a day or two at least before starting to fret.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:38 PM
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Also, don't draw more attention to the fact that you fucked up (OP). If she noticed it just makes you look like an apologetic loser. And if she didn't really notice, now she does... See Point 1.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:33 PM
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Pay for it then. Having spent the last year improving myself and finally seeing some progress with girls, it was like a light switched for me and I was like 'OK im ready, lets do this".... but it's been worse for me than ever. I'm THIRSTY as fuck and girls sense it a mile away. Still got laid twice in two months, which is better than nothing from the year and a half prior.... but now I feel like a failure because I set my expectations too high. Chasing pussy cannot be the goal or you'll sabotage…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:29 PM
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My thoughts: I'm curious what your motivation is for posting this - I'm actually more curious about this than any of the reasoning behind shitting where you eat. Care to elaborate for us?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:15 PM
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Now heres the thing, something is still drawing me back to her as weird as it sounds Yeah, you're not getting pussy anywhere else and she's your best chance. her Facebook pictures always call out to me That might be the lamest thing I've read here all day Im ready to swipe right but I don't really know what to say. Yeah most of the guys I know who are successful with women stress over this stuff too. Some of them can't sleep for days over if they should swipe or not. /s If you've got previous hi…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:11 PM
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It's a restaurant, you can deal with sitting across from a creep for an hour. Women have 50 other things more appealing than this available to them. It's fine for you to feel that way about dinner dates. The problems is how women feel about it - not even how they should or shouldn't feel, but how they've learned to feel after countless blue pills try to use boring dinner dates as a way to exchange time and money for a shot at sex. Eating in front of other people is generally unattractive anyway.…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 10:24 PM
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This is exactly why I stopped wearing condoms! .. ok but seriously, this can be more accurately rephrased as David Deida already eloquently wrote: "Lean just beyond your edge" Not just embracing risk, but embracing discomfort and challenge are what will make you better.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 10:03 PM
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Lastly. This was absolutely zero work at all. Some women just want it. Who knows maybe she's sex starved, living alone, bored, without any Alpha fucks. I'm glad you're excited about this, but this (long) post doesn't carry much value other than a basic message of "Be optimistic and don't give up". Offering back rubs to girls without any reciprocity or previous investment on their part isn't what "Alpha fucks" do. It's Beta bux territory. She did approximately nothing at all to deserve that shit …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 09:52 PM
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Who said it wasn't? I think you guys are projecting some shit onto what I said, that I didn't say here. All I'm saying is that if a girl sleeps with two people from her social circle, and that makes her a village bicycle, then 99% of women (probably all) are a village bicycle. Nowhere am I denying that it's not common or that it's not slutty. Society is fucked man. I'd love to hear guys pipe up and tell me about a 20+ year old woman who hasn't done this... I wouldn't believe them, but it might m…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:25 PM
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It shows that her pussy isn't worth the price tag you paid for it I didn't pay for shit. I'm not the OP. I'm not saying she's not a whore, I'm saying by the standard given, literally every single girl over the age of 16 now is a "village bicycle".
/r/askTRP08/05/17 10:23 PM
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Dating is centered around entertaining women. "hanging out" is a social activity you do for your own entertainment that often results in mutual entertainment. Not much else to say. Would you take your friends for dates?
/r/askTRP05/05/17 10:07 PM
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She is not a women of good value anyway because she had ONS with at least two How many women do you know that haven't had at least two ONS's?
/r/askTRP05/05/17 09:51 PM
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I've got some unfortunate news for you if you think two one night stands qualifies as "the village bicycle".
/r/askTRP05/05/17 09:50 PM
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It's the same as the difference between being a good man and being good at being a man. Figure out how to do that and you're golden. Figure out how to articulate it into writing and you're rich.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:26 PM
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so any criticism or feedback, but I know I need to increase my SMV and get my shit straight now after seeing my options. Haha yep. That was a homely looking bunch in that list. How are you escalating from the phone after?
/r/askTRP05/05/17 08:45 PM
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asking girls out to dinner is a sure fire way to meet women who want free dinners as well.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 03:38 PM
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Yeah that's more preferrable. If you wanted to by picky and autistic about it, avoiding the question "want to come?" and saying "I'd like you to join us/me" or "come out!" is better. The idea is you're not concerned if she wants to come. You must assume she does and expect that she would cancel plans to do so if she had to. That's not always the reality, but that's the mindset / frame you should have.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 03:37 PM
1

If you have any advice on me continually running into her, what would it be? You do you and let her worry about her boyfriend. Don't change how you act because of that shit.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 10:55 PM
1

Probably because she was making advances on you (sitting near you, asking you to coffee) and you're playing hard to get. At the very least she's seeking validation here. Better to just assume attraction though. Text her something silly and light every few weeks. Or just ghost her completely and move on if you're bothered by her dual personality. Girls with long term boyfriends are pain to fuck anyway. So much god damn LMR and the logistics have to be just so.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 10:27 PM
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It seemed like she was trying to run into me for some reason. By what's up with pretending like we don't know eachother when the bf is around vs when he's not? She wants your dick.... she doesn't want to give up the security of her relationship. If you're comfortable with using her for sex (what she wants here), then go for it. If you're not comfortable with the situation, then just keep her on the back burner until she fucks up her current relationship.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:35 PM
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5 - 10 messages is too many. You're talking too much over text / message. Get their number in less than 5 if at all possible. Most successful guys aim for 3. They already are interested in you if they matched, if they reply, you've ruled out that they're just seeking topical validation and are either seeking entertainment or actually like you. In my experience asking if someone is available or what they are doing is a weak way to invite someone. It puts an obligation on them to respond in a way …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:09 PM
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Exactly. This forces both people into an uncomfortable situation. Also, almost all women are flirty on the dance floor. It STAYS on the dancefloor though. It's literally part of the dance. If she's giving IOI's and shit off the floor, then maybe.. but even then, dude is starting out in a subordinate role (student) and it will jeopordize the quality of the lessons going forward regardless of the outcome. Ask me how I know? Been taking dance lessons for 3 months with a 23yo cutie and the tension c…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:55 PM
3

Within the context of courtship, this is the most effective mindset. Perhaps it needs to be clarified for the aspies that the reality is not the mindset. You still have to leave room for social norms and calibration. The reverse of this mindset is not only counterproductive, but highly unattractive and weak. It's better to err on the side of misogyny than go out of your way to avoid it. Women simply are not attracted to men who treat them like glass and special little snowflakes. Be bold until y…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:06 PM
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Since when is TRP and it's topics aimed at people who want to be in LTR's?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:00 PM
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Obligatory: Lift 3x week, keep a top-tier haircut, wear good clothes (if you have no idea where to start, just go to H&M and Urban Outfitters). Lifting 3 times a week was insufficient for me (SL5x5). I'm in my early 30's and had to bump it up to 5 times a week using a generic Reddit PPL program (I skip day 6 leg day in favor of hiking and other hobbies). My traps, chest and biceps got noticeably larger in the first 2 months and I actually fill out my shirts now. Exceptional results require excep…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:54 PM
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This thread has been an overwhelming example of how terrible and worthless the non contributor comments have been lately. There's been a large influx (which is great) of opinionated blue / purple pillers who feel entitled to share their opinions on things that they've been doing their whole life with no real success (which is not great). The people in this thread talking sense are being downvoted into the negatives, while people pushing the very thing you describe are being upvoted. I'm not sure…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:48 PM
2

1) Girlfriend of 7 years cheated on my with one of my close friends. Didn't find out until about 2 after and well into TRP. Confirming what I've read and learned. 2) Slept with a girl that's 2/3rds my age who appeared to be the most innocent, well mannered girl... turned out to be a whore in the most cold and calculated way possible - seriously into some depraved shit. She sucked dick like it was her fucking day job... Still trying to wrap my head around this one. Women are crafty as fuck.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 11:36 PM
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I felt more as if I was raising a teenage daughter than being in a romantic relationship yet the pain I felt was so great I did and still sometimes go into random and sporadic crying spells. Read the sidebar... you've got a long way to go man. Your expectations for a romantic relationship are unrealistic and impossible. Anything resembling that is almost certainly just a woman capulating for her own reasons. Men are romantic and hopelessly so by nature - women are not and you cannot expect them …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:08 PM
1

For example, people with severe grief can be helped by writing and reading an apology note that is fake. They know its fake, but it still works This is not analogous to what OP described. You're describing the research of coping with emotional trauma or related issues. OP is saying that if you wake up and someone says "oh hey, you're a pro basketball player" that you'll walk into an NBA game and compete at that level. Believing you can do something is not the same as knowing you can do it. Is it…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 08:52 PM
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I don't believe that is a saying, and I'm certain that's not true. You cannot will yourself into confidence. Confidence is the sum of your struggles and successes. Believing you can do something is different than knowing you can and have done it. It's bound to be a very humbling experience in the near future. People can tell you you're a navy seal or whatever you want, but unless there is some kind of evidence, a history of experience, or tangible proof that you did that - you won't truly believ…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 08:34 PM
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Rating men on a scale of 1 - 10 is a bit silly. You're either an 8+ or your invisible. Follow the suggestions given already and you'll do well for yourself. You've got decent facial symmetry, a good skin tone, and you don't look short in this picture.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:26 PM
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I appreciate the thought here, but this advice is the same as telling blue pills to "just be themselves" or "just be attractive". There's no substance.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:13 PM
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And what you didn't say is: women evolved to be prey animals that want to get fucked by (a certain select group of) men. from an anthropological perspective, the kind of men they don't want to fuck them should either be dead or have extremely limited access to them in the first place. It might be overly simplified, but the more I read here, the more analogous things get to cave man / hunter gatherer culture. I find it entertaining and insightful to compare most interactions with women with what …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:38 AM
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What's a good way to get your feet wet cold-approaching women? I'm in my early 30's and never learned how. Lost most of my game and social skills being in an LTR for 7 years - slowing getting more beta as time went on till I lost control of it and the relationship imploded. (the usual story). Where the fuck do I even start? I tend to enjoy deep conversations and gravitate towards serious topics naturally... obviously not conducive to meeting girls. Where does someone my age go to learn how the f…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:31 PM
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Seriously. Your home has to be your sanctuary. You CANNOT live a healthy lifestyle when you obviously loath the people you share that space with.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:26 PM
3

yet in our society, it is frowned upon to date more than one. Frowned upon for the average joe - not the 20%.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 11:22 PM
2

How old are you? I'm in my early 30's and I joined Kick boxing in addition to the gym 3 days a week. I found it was having a negative impact on my endurance in the gym. I was losing strength. That's a crazy volume of exercise if you're doing almost 12 hours of gym a week and then an additional 2 - 4 hours of mma a week. I can't see how that's sustainable without roids or something.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:18 PM
2

Delete this comment man, this is the kind of carrot dangling that encourages people to post half-assed or fabricated content on here in hopes of getting noticed.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:11 PM
1

It's because it's easy and the progression is fast/tangible. Most body building routines are a pain in the fucking ass just to sort out which exercises to do on which day. 5x5 gets you in the gym, keeps it simple, and gets you results (though not the exact results we're seeking).
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:46 PM
1

32 and balding, can't grow a beard to save my life. Interested in how you look after the buzz. A year ago I had similar facial features (read: Fatty). After a year of dieting and gym action (190lbs to 165 - not unreasonably difficult for anyone at all), I've got a strong jaw line and no double chin even with a full tuck.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:58 PM
4

Bi women (and maybe most women) will likely think the female 7 more attractive than the male 7, as far as them trying to be an objective judge. Women (gay, bi or otherwise) are inherently more valuable than men so this theory would hold true.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:18 AM
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For me it was MUCH earlier By the end of high school I'm 6'2", athletic and I start getting girls based on looks alone. Still no game. I get that there's always room for improvement, but I don't really care what you're background is, if you're over 6 foot tall and athletic, you're literally retarded if you're not getting girls. No... you can be actually retarded and still get girls I bet. I'm not saying that anyone who isn't 6'2 is doomed, but anyone who fits that mold just doesn't get it - ever…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:46 PM
1

ITT: People who haven't even fucking tried scottish or cold showers on a regular basis (more than a few times) and find it easier to be divisive than appreciate another viewpoint. I do it because it wakes me up and it's a challenge I get to face every morning. I don't give a shit if people think its' RP or blue pill or whatever the fuck they want to say. The fact is that it's about discipline and challenging yourself. How far can you take it? I spent 95 seconds submerged in a freezing lake yeste…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:48 PM
1

I certainly have no disrespect for them or their cause. If that's what works for them, that's great! I just wanted to point out that it's not a black and white topic where anyone who isn't no-fap is just lying to themselves because they're addicted to fapping (which i'm sure does exist). Likewise, it's not totally untrue either, fapping all the time to climax isn't generally a positive for everyone either (again, exceptions exist). What matters is that you're assessing yourself, exploring those …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:20 AM
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No-fap is stupid. You're going to have nocturnal emissions anyway - they never talk about that though. I think there's a wide spectrum of what "works" for different people. For some people it might be full on cold turkey no-fap. Some people might not be negatively impacted by wanking it every single day. I take the approach that blowing a load more than once or twice a week is draining on me - I lose motivation. Masturbation can be done without climax and then becomes a productive exercise in di…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:41 PM
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You can be part of as many social hobbies as you want, but if you lack the fundamental understanding of building rapport, friendship, or displaying value, you're still not going to build your social circle. Your comment is a prime example of just how this topic gets overlooked here.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:32 PM
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That's a great achievement and you should be proud... but a word of warning. While there is zero debate to be had about the benefits of cutting out porn 100%, I personally ran into issues when cutting out masturbation. If you're not sleeping with anyone at the time (FWB's, LTR's etc etc), you're setting yourself up for failure. After a lengthy dry spell and no masturbation, I managed to finally get my dick wet, only to last a grand total of 5 minutes. I was out of practice and unfamiliar with my…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:20 PM
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how are you managing this as well as lifting at the gym?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:26 AM
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Sadly, one of the issues that is very rarely talked about here at a basic or systematic level.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:19 AM
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absolutely a combo of A,B, and C. But I didn't know any better. No permanent damage thankfully, but it did mean taking a month or two off from the gym and some expensive phyiso sessions.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:11 PM
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the squats demolished my spinal erectors and SI joints from bad form. If you can afford it, get a kinesiologist or a personal trainer session to spot you. There's a big difference between "proper form" and "Proper form for your body". Everyone is different. For me that meant using a wide out turn on my feet which is traditionally considered "bad form", but it's the best way to do the movement for my body.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:10 PM
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Been using it for over a year so I feel very confident saying the following: Don't start lifting heavy until you're generally fit. That means do body weight exercises often with moderate stretching. If Yoga is your thing, do that for at LEAST 2 months before you start moving more than 100 lbs in the gym. Try swimming, or doing balance exercises. Rock Climbing... anything that really works out those stabilizer muscles that actually protect you. I have to babysit my hips, lower back, and left shou…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:21 AM
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Seriously, this whole post is fucking weird: We got chatting and I was charming but not a pussy. She could see that I embraced my masculine power. okay..... I kept making out in such a way that her pussy moistened, thus making sure that she was a lock in for the day 2. Who talks like that? Ok I use RSVP.com on the advice of a 56yo painter I know who is killing it; he has a constant income stream of new women from it so I gave it a try Income stream of women eh?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:17 PM
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They're also far more likely to pull the victim card for the attention and support of their friends. That means a higher chance of false rape claims, more drama, and more general craziness. This is anecdotal, but of my highschool grad class from many years past, The fatties were always the ones to "accidentally" have kids in much higher numbers.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 10:26 PM
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fat chick - fuck anyone Bullshit. The landwhales and uggo's are nowhere near a guarantee. If you're at a level where your SMV allows you to guarantee a lay with fatties, you're already eligible to sleep with 6's and 7's with the same amount of effort. Fat girls don't behave drastically different from other women, they just have more baggage and resentment.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:17 PM
1

That could be the case, but might not necessarily be true. She's certainly putting herself in the position to be available for such a thing though - consciously or not. Definitely a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 05:54 PM
6

What's the argument here then? It's not worth your time?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:39 PM
9

, being able to withstand dry spells without indulgence in lower quality women Indulging in lower quality women? When was this originally written? The game is rigged now. 60-80% of single men are getting zero or next to zero sex. They have zero options or next to zero prospects. Low quality women don't have to settle for anything less than top 20 - 30% men.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:27 PM
1

And how are you meeting women and other people doing this?
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:59 PM
1

I don't have a good response. I don't pretend to know what the fuck I'm talking about and unless you're saying that shit in real life (Which I doubt you ever have), you shouldn't be telling people that it's an appropriate response. You want to improve it? Don't sound like a butt hurt kid that just had his status challenged.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:39 PM
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it's a shit test, so respond how you normally would a shit test, like "what does it matter? And maybe even amplify "I fuck girls like you for a living" that is the most insecure sounding shit I've ever heard.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:22 PM
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I wanted to avoid names, but yea - that's specifically who I was thinking of.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:30 PM
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Pretty much anything worth reading is in the Sidebar. I wish there was a way to entirely restrict main posts to approved posters or have it go to a mod queue for approval. There's a lot of new people here and that's great... but like every other sub on reddit that grows to a point, the quality content gets washed away with the generic garbage that everyone wants to contribute because they suddenly have a voice and an opinion. Either the mods need to start getting way more strict about content, o…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:25 PM
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we sacked him because he's a dick. Doesn't matter. You cannot get fired for that unless you've been written up or warned before. ...Then again this is likely in the states and you guys have next to no workers rights.. so who really knows from that perspective.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:28 PM
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Because increasing the rate of low quality women having illegitimate children benefits society how? That's quite the assumption to make; That more women having kids equals more nuclear families.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 04:46 PM
1

Beef jerky is one of my go tos for calorie counting The salt content makes me horde water. Do you get yours from a local butcher?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:37 PM
13

There is a worldly difference between how PUA define "approaching" and how normal guys define "approaching". Well, how are you pulling all these women then? What are you bringing the table? Your post has done nothing except say "don't do this, don't do that, This is bad, and that's bad". It's all negative "don't do's" and nothing of real value. You're projecting what you think is bad and telling the readers they should think it's bad also. Your examples are lacking and generally vague and you're…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:42 PM
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There's always something to be learned. There's no question some of these guys are very successful with women. There's no question that they seek to profit off that by potentially misleading their subscribers and clients. Somewhere in the middle is something to be learned. Something of value for you. I think you're doing yourself a disservice to completely write off everything they have to offer. TRP is no different. It's a tool box that you take what you need and leave the rest. These same kind…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:45 PM
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Old thread now but thought i'd correct this comment chain a bit. I'm not saying there was any negative side effects of never doing it again. I'm saying that in my personal experience, after more than a week without release I start to lose some drive and feel my body settle into a lower "frequency" or sexual drive mode. I gone 3+ weeks without an issue a few times before. After 1 week I notice that my body "gives up" and - for me anyway - my sex drive actually reduces. As such, it was healthier f…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 09:36 PM
1

Have a link to the whole article? All I can ever find is select quotes that hold up one side of the argument or the other. Invariably the discussion ends up being about how rape cases are handled in court and not about the actual case.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 09:27 PM
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Beyond a week or so and it's mostly just in your head. Your body starts to recycle your "mojo" at this point. semi-regular release is healthy and will still maintain your libido - if not, you can edge yourself a few days a week to maintain that. The benefits come from not using fapping as a vice to distract or appease you (like cigarettes and other addictions). I would argue that EVERYONE would benefit from cutting out porn entirely - but that should not be confused with no-fap. I would argue th…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:27 PM
3

Having guaranteed sex lined up (escort or another girl) is better in almost every way. You keep your mojo, you DGAF, and you till get laid no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:21 PM
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If you go out after a week of not cumming, women will look at you from across the room with hopeful and begging eyes. They will say things to you and not know why. This is true... I can attest to that with some recent success (just ended a 8+ month dry spell...) It's a catch 22 though. You jerk off, you lack the drive or mojo to make it happen. You don't jerk off and you nut in less than 5 minutes with anyone that isn't a hampig. I recognize the benefits of no porn and limited fapping - it's imp…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:14 PM
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You know how when you look at porn you want to get off really bad? You really want the excitement of that porn... man that's a good feeling. Who doesn't like that feeling? You know how you feel after you get off and there's 15 tabs of porn open... It's kind of like that..
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:04 PM
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My day is going just fine. I'm just sad to see the state of affairs here as of late. Low effort, low quality posts the likes of which you'd typically see on any of the default subs - they're becoming more and more abundant here and few people are saying shit about it. Worse yet, they're being upvoted by people who come here for reading entertainment, validation seeking, and confirmation bias... rather than a cold hard dose of reality and self improvement. You're welcome to shitpost all you want.…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 08:16 PM
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Fucking solid post dude. Really great example of the quality discussions going on in this sub. A+
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:06 PM
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These comments don't strike you as a bit circle-jerky? We're not here to cheer each other on for the tiniest fucking achievements. It's clear there's been an influx of new subscribers over the last few months because this kind of bullshit is getting more common. He's not shitting on the guy, he's telling him that bragging about (or worse, seeking validation) some little wins is not worthy of a post here. Good for him getting on the TRP band wagon, but everyone else in here cheering him on for su…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 10:56 PM
1

want basic fitness before you go too hard on lifting. It's okay to lift without doing anything else first, but PROGRESS SLOWLY!. I started doing Strong Lift 5x5 with just the bar last december. My squats got up to 180 pretty quickly But my form was off. The main muscle groups were strong enough to compensate, but I injured my shoulder in a semi unrelated sports injury - The injury was minor but it caused a serious injury when I tried to continue going to the gym with shitty form. I injured my ro…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 02:30 AM
2

To add to this, in the long-term Women will neither respect nor appreciate any sacrifices you make for them. In fact, they will harbor resentment! ~spoken from personal experience. Sometimes the decisions women want you to make, the ones they will respect, would actually end the relationship. This is why the IDGAF attitude and abundance mentality are such strong tools - they project your willingness to make these decisions without you ever needing to be in a position that you'd have to face the …
/r/askTRP14/06/16 01:44 AM
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you're almost 30 and all you've done is "tried" programming? What else did you do in your 20's? Be honest with yourself: Are you a motivated worker? Are you a self starter? Can you work long days without whining? Or do you lack discipline and initiative? These points are more important than "what career can I do with no education?". Most people fall somewhere in the middle. Successful people have the former while people who wonder why their life isn't very good fall into the later. Find where yo…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 12:37 AM
1

lets not forget how they butchered the ending to "The Martian" for the big screen. The silly little boy wanted to be iron man and the strong female commander had to save the day - and ending that's entirely different from the book one in a movie that followed the book almost to a tee the entire time.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:04 AM
2

This is horrible advice since I work in IT and I've never done the following (yet) but..: Find a job that rewards you for your work and then work your fucking ass off. Alternatively you could start a side business that lets you reward yourself as you build it. What is your current skillset / background?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:31 PM
2

Try other positions. There's a good one for everyone - finding it is the hard part. Its possible that either of your just are not a good fit for each other, not too much you can do about it.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:27 PM
11

almost as bad as relationships sub
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:26 PM
2

It's important to note that the stimulation is still good for your sex drive. The part you want to cut out is the instant gratification (orgasms) caused by jerking off whenever you feel like it - or as a replacement for another shitty feeling (rejection, boredom, failure, etc) After a few weeks without much excitement my sex drive takes a hard nose dive. I didn't honestly notice it until I had a makeout session with an ex (i know...) and my Sex drive went nuts for the next two weeks. I've since …
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:24 PM
2

You never need to do anything before you can start working out... Just be sure you've got the mobility and support muscle strength to properly work out. If not, you workout is now mostly mobility and support muscle training - which calisthenics are really great for anyway. I fucked my shoulder by jumping into 5x5 without proper form and some tightness issues I didn't know I was compensating for. Took me 3 months to heal up enough to get back at it full time - I still did other workouts, but no h…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:23 PM
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It's like they want men to commit to women that sleep around. To that I say, no thanks. its not like that. It is exactly that. They want to be able to "explore their youth" until they hit the wall - with none of the consequences of doing so. Lots of women (people in general really) FEEL entitled to the fairy tale ending but don't want to give up the instant gratification lifestyle that prevents that.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:59 PM
2

There are a lot of people here who view TRP as a movement of some kind. Some might even view it as a sort of club or community. When TRP gets persecuted for this or that, these people have attached a piece of their identity to TRP and feel as if it's an attack on them. A) Other people attack my choice to follow TRP, which is an attack on me. I feel I made a good choice and I'm willing to stand up for that decision - I'm not wrong! B) We need to convince other people to see the light of truth and…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 09:32 PM
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MGTOW isn't too far off either. Mostly just anti-feminism and misogyny posts. MAYBE 1 in 10 posts are legitimately about MGTOW principals and not some frustrated guys reaffirming their decision to be celibate.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 11:08 PM
6

I'd avoid reciprocating the question. Why should you care?
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:50 PM
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Here's a recap from my own experiences. Whether you're having ED issues or not (I wasn't) It's good to take a good long break from porn. Go ham and beat your meat as much as you desire, just do it without visual stimulation. Having instant access to titties and women that are out of your league tricks you into thinking you're good enough. Your brain says "fuck yea, we did it!" and you lose a big part of the drive you NEED to improve yourself and your life. I've been on and off porn a few time si…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:42 PM
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Even the MGTOW sub is almost certainly coopted. A large portion of their posts are nearly content-less hate speach against women. I'm not against outlining examples and having a dialog about it, but just posting a single image that says "Women are total shit and only sever as cum dumpsters" is fucking odd for a sub that's not even supposed to be about women at all. Next to none of the content is about going your own way or improving your life anymore. In fact, the vast majority of posts are focu…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 05:06 AM
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Just don't ask on a Friday or saturday night... you don't exactly get the cream of the crop answering.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 05:05 AM
1

What are you doing for FUN? What's your go to "Fuck everything else, I'm doing this because I actually enjoy doing it" activity? It sounds like you're burned out man.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:19 PM
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This makes a lot of sense now that I think about it. I've been subbed here for a few months and the content used to be more about Men going their own way, not a blatent focus on how evil and bad women are. I mean, absolute shit tier posts that basically just say "ALL WOMEN ARE FAT AND UGLY USELESS PEICES OF SHIT WHO'S ONLY PURPOSE IS TO BE CUM DUMPSTERS"... which in and of itself isn't even MGTOW related in least. I'm not saying there's no reason to be upset with the way things are these days, b…
/r/MGTOW09/05/16 04:07 PM
2

Very early 30's. Pretty socially awkward, still packing a bit of a belly (176 @ 5'10) but it's coming off steady and I can start hitting the gym hard again once my shoulder heals from my paragliding accident.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:00 AM
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Those are all fair points. yet you basically say you're not interested in developing Hobbies or going out places. I didn't think it sounded like that when I proofed it, that surely wasn't the intent. I have hobbies, I have a desire to invest and develop my social skills. My hobbies are interesting to me (dirt biking, paragliding, hiking, Motorcycle trips, etc) and they have a social element, but for some reason I'm not breaking through. In my twenties I was very much into the PUA thing. Mystery …
/r/askTRP23/04/16 07:42 AM
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so you want to meet people while remaining in the comfort of your own home and not actually meeting anyone because it feels "forced and awkward" who said anything about not wanting to leave my house? Are you projecting this or something? That wasn't meant to sound like a cop out or excuse. It was an indication of my starting point. If I were to go to a bar or a the gym and try to make friends it comes off pretty awkward and people get weirded out. This is not the case when I'm around people I fe…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 06:53 AM
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Once you are willing to get over that and go out more then you will find her. I don't give a shit about "her". I'm in this for ME. Why would I ever force myself to go to place I don't like just because of the women? This does nothing at all to offer advice regarding the issue outlined in the OP. Fuck bars & clubs.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 06:31 AM
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No More Mr Niceguy was an invaluable book for me.
/r/MGTOW28/03/16 09:37 PM
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I just got back from a Paragliding trip in Colombia. The cities are loaded with women like this, but you really have to watch yourself around the local men. They'll range from cock-blocking to death threats. The smaller towns are amazing and there are so many cute and innocent looking women there. Also, if you're in your late 20's and early 30's their culture is very open to young women dating older men. It wasn't uncommon to see 25 year old men with 16 year old girl friends or 35 year old men w…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 10:45 PM
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Glue some feathers and shit to your back. Walk around like a bird and peck at the ground. Guaranteed success.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 06:13 PM
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I was going to say, this reads like a summary of "Way of the Superior Man".
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 06:28 PM
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Because that's the image women teach their sons.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:02 AM
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Those videos are about overcoming approach anxiety and that guy (from what little of it I have seen) is purposely telling guys to do whacky and stupid shit to get over their fears. It's fair to say a lot of it is fucking retarded and creepy though. I can see some of the value in it, but I think the guy doing the parody here is a bit lost on the fact that it's not intended to be used as pick up technique.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:39 AM
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I guess. I'm just trying to help people. One at a time. Don't. It's a waste of your time. You neither know these people nor have the ability to truly help them. You may want to start asking yourself what you're actually getting out of trying to "help" these people with whom you owe nothing to and will never personally know.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:45 AM
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What is your motivation for pointing people here? 95% of Beta's DO NOT WANT to know the truth. Showing them TRP will NOT help them if they are not ready. If they are, they will find TRP on their own. So ask yourself... what is your motivation for sharing TRP with people? What are you getting out of it personally that makes it worth your time to do that? This shit is getting real. Nothing has changed... TRP is not a social movement or revolution. It's best if you realize that now.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:12 AM
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This is awesome! I had no idea this sub existed. Thanks!
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:12 PM
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If she wanted to know if she was just an FWB and wanted a direct answer (which women typically don't). She would just ask that. Asking what the intentions are is an open ended question that aims to beget a logical answer. Presume you answer logically with the honest to god truth of "I just want to pursue a casual sexual relationship with you". If the women is honestly attracted to this man, that answer will mean next to nothing. Women have a difficult time internalizing logical concepts and tran…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:40 AM
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Sounds good. I've completed activity #3 above. Looking forward to continuing this book and hearing any feedback you or other ex-Nice Guys might have.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:26 AM
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Getting rid of covert contracts in your mind is an important step, how are you doing in this area? I'm having troubles figuring out what the contracts / motives are first. Posting this here so others can read and relate maybe I most closely relate to the story about Jason with his "leave it to beaver" family. I had a pretty good middle class upbringing but had social issues in elementary school. One standout thing was in Kindergarten there was a bully who would pick on me - knock over my block t…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:42 AM
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