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MattheWoolhead/r/askTRP12/05/17 08:15 PM
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MattheWoolhead/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:49 PM
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Just curious, how does one counter the "damsel in distress" act? Just by refusing?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 09:05 AM
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ah okay I now get what she meant
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 09:01 AM
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Yeah I've seen a lot of those. But those guys aren't nice when they should be. My question is when shouldn't guys be nice?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 07:17 AM
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Just curious, when shouldn't a guy be nice?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 06:58 AM
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That's already 300€+ here, that's not something my poor student ass can afford easily
/r/askTRP16/05/17 10:21 PM
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First date in 1.5 years https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6bjxic/first_date_in_15_years/
/r/askTRP16/05/17 08:13 PM
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Thanks man, I'll do it. I'll get back to you with results if you'd like that.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:24 PM
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How does one maintain his frame while voicing discontent? I am having a hard time understanding how to keep frame.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 07:30 AM
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What we all mean is how can one agree and amplify or pressure flip when you're just being called by your full name? For example: John Frederick Brown I am totally that person (a&a example or nah?) See I can't do much with that stuff. How would you bring it into practice?
/r/askTRP16/05/17 07:20 AM
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They buy YOU gifts? Fuck I need to step up my game. Teach me master
/r/askTRP16/05/17 07:10 AM
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Damn man, you make me wish I was rich lol
/r/askTRP16/05/17 07:05 AM
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Get roaccutane for the acne. Nice to hear you're doing well
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:58 AM
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God you must be a 9gagger
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:53 AM
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NEVER back pedal.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:45 PM
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NEVER back pedal.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:45 PM
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This is a plain bluepill post. Read the sidebar, it tells you all you need to know to come to the conclusion you tell the girl what the hell is wrong with her and dump the bitch
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:27 PM
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It's fucking great. More feminists need to see it. Unfortunately nobody cares, the world caters to women and women only, so better just abuse the system rather than trying to overthrow it.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:40 AM
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Bullshit. White men with red hair and blue eyes are a real thing here. I can know because I am one
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:36 AM
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pfff sounds like you need to grind through that existential crisis. Go to the gym, lift and do cardio, watch your calorie intake. Keep an ironclad schedule and you'll get through that phase.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:03 AM
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Wait, you're supposed to do isolation forms alongside the 5x5 programme? How do I know which ones I need to do which day?
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:49 AM
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HxH? What's that?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:05 PM
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And I hope you can move out as soon as possible
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:07 PM
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Yes it is! I see you're a man of culture as well
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:07 PM
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A very open minded liberal person all it took were a few words and she turned into an ugly person You just described the whole leftwing movement.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 11:08 AM
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Wait, it worked? Dafuq...
/r/askTRP14/05/17 10:56 AM
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I mistyped it a little, since she said 'I don't know' I haven't said anything. Should I say something or just wait for her to start talking?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:52 AM
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Did you really first nuke her and then try to hit on her?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:02 AM
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post the video online, get it on a channel like 'rekt feminist videos' and show the world what feminism looks like
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:40 AM
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Work out, put that negative energy in lifting. Start going out again with friends, even if you don't feel like it.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:34 AM
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Get evidence, take it to the police, get a foster family or live alone under supervision of one of those instances. Visit a site for child abuse or domestic violence for more tips/info on how it all works. You need to stop them, since they poison your mind with this parental display of bad behaviour and the submissiveness they try to instill in you, otherwise you'll always be brought down by them. Please keep me updated.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:23 PM
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Read the book 'how to make friends and gain influence'
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:17 PM
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If the boss is wasting money, and if there's a good chance she'll fuck up the big project then perhaps he'll like to hear what you have to say
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:15 PM
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Why can't you go to your boss with this?
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:06 PM
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Certainly you shouldn't force anal without consent. I can't offer advice on the other stuff.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 03:59 PM
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No, she wants him but only when he doesn't want her. Watch what will happen once he doesn't give her attention anymore.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 03:55 PM
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That's not an aura, that's your unconscious mind noticing someone's body language and intonation and coming to conclusions about how that person is feeling at that moment. As a salesman I have to work on that constantly in order to create good vibes with the people I talk to.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 07:38 AM
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And being indifferent isn't flirting, and that 'flirting' scene wasn't indifferent Also, you can swear here, just say 'shit test'
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:20 PM
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I wouldn't call that flirting
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:19 PM
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How did you disregarded her feelings there? So she says 'ouch that hurt', what did you say in response?
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:15 PM
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I am talking this way because I'm accounting for my possible confirmation bias that sees friendliness as IOI's.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 08:55 PM
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And how do you show that you won't put up with their shit or letting them boss you around?
/r/askTRP12/05/17 07:50 PM
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I hate it when my car paws at an injured mouse when I'm driving...
/r/askTRP12/05/17 08:19 AM
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Start ASAP, include a dermatologist for expert advice.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:58 PM
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Brown and black is the same in leftist eyes. Only asians are not being pedestalled by lefties, and those are accepted by all people anyway because they never complain
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:53 PM
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No, I mean that after ejaculation I get an anxiety attack where I think 'wtf am I doing here' and I get an urge to withdraw and cancel all contact with the girl in question.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:51 PM
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Perhaps you should start meditating then, or do something else that gets your mind off of it while simultaneously being good for you.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:44 PM
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Doubt it. The media is leftist af, so people should be extra good towards POC's in those two states. It's also where the most leftists are.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:42 PM
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Holy shit, I want to get to that point where women buy me shit just to get my attention
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:40 PM
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Fap.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:38 PM
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I already view morals correctly now. It's just hard to go against my own parents view and the view I've had ever since I was old enough to understand my parents. And thanks, I'm currently reading 'games people play' by Eric Berne and I absolutely love it. I may read some other redpill books soon.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:36 PM
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I second the roaccutane. I had awesome results with it. I wish I did it earlier because I got some scars now
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:34 PM
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What is an L-bomb?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:29 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:22 PM
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I'm new, so I'm working on it. I'm 19, so still gathering my shit and improving myself with a lot of work ahead. Due to the nature of my side job I can now open women fairly easy, however I still need to work on how to take it further from there, how to handle stuff the alpha way and how to improve the rest of my life. Just started lifting too.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:21 PM
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True Btw what else do you use relationships for except for sex? I want to get the most advantage out of it as possibke
/r/askTRP11/05/17 09:08 PM
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Yes, and because the only constant factor is ejaculation.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:56 PM
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Alright. I will push myself through.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:55 PM
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Please read my post again, I got the same feeling when I got a handjob from a girl. I'll have the same feeling after having sex with one.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:41 PM
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I'm not a death grip luckily, but a girl once rode me with clothes on and she had her orgasm way quicker than I did (she had to finish me off with her hand) so I think premature ejaculation won't be a problem, but thrusting is not something I've done ever
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:52 PM
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who gives a shit Fair point. Anyway, what would be the redpill way to have sex? How is one dominant during sex? I want to be good in bed, and to already do it well on my first try would boost my confidence a lot.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:11 PM
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But yeah I agree, but how do I display abundance in person?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:18 PM
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I actually was gaming a few awesome girls, but I was at work so couldn't turn it into something (with one girl I would've just did it anyway, but I forgot about asking for her number lol (which is why she stood there so sheepishly when I said bye hahaha)
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:17 PM
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Thanks! I really appreciate your advice!
/r/askTRP10/05/17 09:50 PM
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Thanks. I've already read some psychological books and I'm planning on reading a few more to really become a social mastermind. However what I really want to make money with is becoming a lawyer (will take 5+ years), but I could also make money with gaming and streaming in the near future. But surely I can also derive confidence from things I already have, right? Character traits and looks etc?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 09:38 PM
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How did you gain confidence and found out what value you could offer? What is value?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 09:11 PM
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For some reason your comment didn't show up at first, so I created a new post with a different title because I was ignoring the girl meanwhile and had to get answers asap. I discovered only afterwards that you commented already (didn't get a notification of that!) :p you were of great help though. So to further clarify, I need to be alpha through my actions and not my words? Or also words, but not in such a overly expressive 'look I'm so alpha' way?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:45 PM
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Lifting cannot increase your height as far as I know.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:26 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:21 PM
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Be careful with the lifting. You are still growing, and your joints can become damaged due to heavy lifting during this time. Take it slow, or be prepared to go through life as a midget with swollen wrists. In high school your social skills matter the most.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:17 PM
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ever caught lying before? This ^ Also, that she spends extra time with OP is a sign she either wants to reassure you, or because she's feeling guilty. If she feels guilty she'll seek for your approval again, while when she gives out reassurance, she'll compliment you a lot, but she won't ask for your approval (such as 'do you love me?' 'say that you love me') etc.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:12 PM
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She likely now thinks I'm ignoring her... Can someone just respond please?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:06 PM
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Hard next, she's not socially competent enough to subtely demand returning investments. Also you likely gave her too much, which she's now used to. It's too hard to change that attitude, that's why the hard next as well. You can also warn her 'if you're not giving me what I need I will get it from another girl, you're not special', or something with the same meaning, perhaps a tad more socially acceptable, but be firm and don't lose your ground. (and be prepared to hard next her if she doesn't g…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:05 PM
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Get into a mindset that you're confident you'll defend your thesis perfectly. They'll feel that confidence.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:01 PM
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Seems like some psychological issue, I'd see a psychologist if I were you.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:46 PM
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I'm in the same spot, it's likely grinding through. You can look at it just like in the Matrix. Neo accepted the red pill, but still didn't really believe he could do all those awesome things, even though he took it for truth. The reason for this is that we all have to not only accept it as truth, but to also become comfortable with that mindset. Humans have to get used to change. I'll see how long it takes until I feel deserving of it all, let's make it a contest :p
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:38 PM
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What is he getting from you? There's always a social transaction taking place. Since you apparently don't offer him any value, while he teaches you how to pick up, there is no apparent transaction. However, the real transaction here is that he likely feeds off your discomfort. Each social interaction is a social transaction, and you need to find something you can offer him (not in monetary terms) to make him stop disrespecting you. Source: 'games people play' Eric Berne
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6aeuzy/quick_question_regarding_pushpull_and_other_stuff/
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:28 PM
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Unfortunately the judicial system is biased af, so he'll need recorded evidence that he's being abused. (and that it wasn't mutual abuse!!!) You need witnesses too, so every time you'd be abused, go outdoors, have a talk to the neighbour and show him your wounds. This is vital for your case.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:28 PM
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You envision a coin in your head, you then flip it with your imagination and try to imagine what side it'd fall. It'll become clear to you what you really want.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:25 PM
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I don't need your upvotes, I need your help on a question I posted 15 minutes ago :)
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:24 PM
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I can't comment on approaching the matter, but concerning the feminist bullshit she has; surprisingly, the feminists are most submissive in bed. The reason why that is like that, is cause they want to be independent so much to the outer world, that when she's intimate she drops this mask(for it is a heavy burden) and is her true self. Don't know how receptive she'd be in the outer world to domination though...All feminists are doing is virtue signaling, it's not their true nature.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:23 PM
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This is a question of how comfortable you feel doing it. Do a mental coinflip and you'll know what you want.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:18 PM
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I guess you're living up to your name ^^
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:14 PM
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This^ Considering OP has lots of years to live (hopefully) it'd be more helpful to be 6'1 and slightly later muscular than permanently being 5'6 and being muscular at 18.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:08 PM
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Why not bring up the fact that you know? Perhaps she can learn from it? I'm a newbie though
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:41 PM
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I'm a newbie, and I cannot help you much with this advanced stuff. She seems untrustworthy though, so a hard next would be good imo too. Btw what does 'entering her frame' mean? That you engage in a discussion or that you're empathising with her? Lots of people here talk about frames but couldn't find any info on the sidebars about that yet.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:30 PM
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If you live in the Netherlands we could team up and try game on women together, I'm also just learning the ropes
/r/askTRP09/05/17 09:14 PM
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Apparently I can't get the links on my phone, but if you look at the sidebar you can see under the headline 'references' the threads 'shit tests 101' and 'everything you need to know about shit tests'. I haven't found an article about asserting dominance yet, so if you manage to find one please leave a link. I'm new as well. :)
/r/askTRP09/05/17 11:42 AM
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Asserting yourself you mean? I think there's an article about that in the sidebar on the main reddit of redpill
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:11 AM
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Still though, that's good enough either way
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:10 AM
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You don't have any friends in Amsterdam? Also btw college dorms etc. could cheapen it up perhaps? I don't have any other solutions, other then sex on the toilet in a club lol And thanks!
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:27 PM
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Upon further examination, perhaps the reason they called her a bitch is because she was drawing from whiteknight power to make those statements. If it was a guy who said that he'd likely be in a fight, but due to double standards and the white Knight brigade, she is allowed to say that.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:20 PM
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Hey there, I'll translate the redpill talk for you; The people here either did not calculate in what the guys said to her, or they think women are not supposed to talk like that under any circumstance. I think the former is the most likely. Anyway, what to do to appear strong? With drunk people like that you should laugh with them. It's utter ridiculous that a guy wants to light your ciggy while it's already lit. You could laugh about it and have a fun convo with the lad. If some random guy want…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:18 PM
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Either you can explain the situation to your uncle and ask him to spend the day at his buddies, small chance of success there, though he's been young too. Or you could rent a room for a day and bring her there, if it's really worth it to you. Can't help you on the rest I'm afraid. Btw, can you link me to the tinder advice stuff? I'm trying to get matches because apparently I'm very attractive but somehow my description or something fails
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:58 PM
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Anyway, what you need to figure out first is what you want with the girl. At least you know what she wants: she wants your dick. She tries to engage you into justifying yourself to her, making you want to have sex with her in order to prove yourself. You can't give in on her terms, that'd be beta. You have to somehow turn this around to have her begging for you. I'm sure one of the people here knows how to do that and will tell you the steps
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:53 PM
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It was a shit test. You could agree and amplify, pressure flip, or ignore, but with ignoring you can't bone her anymore probably, so if you want a 3some with her and her friend you have to choose one of the other tactics. Don't take my advice for a solid one, I woke up just a few days ago
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:51 PM
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ah thanks
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:20 PM
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He can give value openly only out of abundance, without expectation. He is best off doing this mostly as a reward for value already given. You can be an abundant person and not a bitch, the key is to start small and calibrate based on reciprocation. You wouldn't invest in a business that just took your money and did nothing, right? They don't stroke with each other because you aren't expecting anything in return. Another way of saying this is you have decided your reaction (boundary) ahead of ti…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:03 PM
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oh darn lol
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:39 PM
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What does that mean? It's not in the glossary of Redpill terms
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:35 PM
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Not in that way. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/69ft88/the_balance_between_not_being_a_beta_cuck_and_a/dh7tmzl/
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/69ft88/the_balance_between_not_being_a_beta_cuck_and_a/dh7tmzl/
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:24 PM
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Bro, you just gotta go for it. You remember when you had to present in class, you were nervous, your palms were sweaty, knees weak, arms heavy? You still did it, why? Because you HAD to. This is the same thing, if you ever want to have that experience, you HAVE to do it. I had my first kiss at 18, and she led me, I was just doing random shit for the first 5 seconds until I realised how it worked and we kissed for like 10 minutes long. Just go for it bro, you already got her wet with your muscles…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:00 PM
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Meh, if he has a good looking face and muscular af it'd be even better.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:55 PM
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I have a hard time gaining weight, as I'm skinny af and can't eat much without throwing up from it, so just forcing it down won't work that well. Also, I have no idea what hobbies/activities can put me around other people, since I like to game and watch series, which you usually don't really do together in a physical form. I could just hang out with people, but without activities that'd get boring fairly quick.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:52 PM
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"Seems like your lucky day because I wasn't joking" could work out? I am new here, so idk if that'd pass the shittest or not.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:42 PM
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Where can I read more about increasing my smv?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:35 AM
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Thank you man! Wonderfully explained! Also, with what do I reciprocate? With my time and emotional support?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:39 PM
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Doesn't giving value out in abundance without expecting anything in return (what does that look like btw) and doing it only as a reward for given value stroke with each other? Also, if a girl does those IOD'S, how do I 'punish' her for that? I have trouble with understanding how I should act in those cases. Do I just walk away without saying anything? Do I say 'I don't like that you're on your phone so much, put it away'?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:03 PM
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I think it's mixed. How is it possible we all have the notion that women are often manipulative? It has to come from something, like all stereotypes. While this sub thinks all women are like that, I don't think it's all the same. And their notion that no girl will ever love you as much as you love them seems untruthful. It can't be that men are that much more noble, moral and better basically, than women, right? They do give really good advice though, with the shit tests for example, and stop be…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:21 AM
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A what now? Long story, it's something of the Alt-right. It has to do with pepe, kek, meme magic and anti-feminism. It's a running joke. OK, you're weak I got it Why is it weak to want to give back, and not just take? Learn how to get what YOU want Solid advice, but I don't know how to get it. Can you tell me? I'd love to learn that skill.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:12 AM
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Some things don't though. These people think all women are like that, but I've met some that really did anything for their boyfriends. They were so awesome. This thread acts like those gems don't exist, and I'm afraid that if I follow all this advice, I may turn into a person that won't attract those gems...
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:04 AM
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Thanks bro, will do. It's so much info holy shit
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 10:21 PM
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What does AWALT mean? And thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 07:37 PM
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Thanks! I'll scour through these threads!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 05:33 PM
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Sorry, what is LTR and MRP? Also, I read about the shit tests but I find it hard to understand what the actual responses can be. I understand the general meaning, but I'm not getting a clear view on how it would be in an actual situation. Thanks for the other tips:)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 05:10 PM
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