I haven't gotten any sex yet, but I am trying to not be a pushover dude that I used to be, but I can't tell if I fucked up. I met this girl in the gym and got her number the next day and was trying to get her to hang out. She canceled the first plans we had, and I suggested new ones with board games that she agreed to. She said the walk to my dorm was too far and asked me to walk to her dorm's common room instead. I said no. I didn't want to walk all the way across campus, but at the same time I felt it was rude to ask me to do something she had no inclination of doing. On here people say when a girl is attracted she will make it easy to be around them and willingly do things to make a guy they like feel comfortable.

My friend said I should have gone and I missed an opportunity. He gets laid but he also is 6'3 and regarded as very attractive. Girls throw themselves at him daily and he doesn't put in any effort to do what they want. They come to his dorm room and sleep over etc. Complement him on his clothing to initiate conversation, hold conversation etc. I don't think he understands our different situations. With that said I'm working my ass off to become a better person daily.