I've been seeing a new girl for about a month now.

I fuck her well, and see her about once a week. I met her on Tinder.

The thing is, I know that she is spinning me as I spin her. I've accepted the fact that all attractive women who are not in relationships (and even those who are, AWALT) will be sleeping with several different guys. Is it safe to assume you are ever the only one?

Because of this, I can't help but question how well I've swallowed the pill and how she views me (AF or BB?) - The fact that I care isn't a reflection on how SHE feels about me, it's on how I've progressed and where my weaknesses are / game adjustments.

When I ask her how her week looks, she always responds with several days she's available. To me, this is a positive sign.

Questions

Can you still be alpha without having your plates asking for commitment?